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What does true friendship mean to you? How do you know when it's time to let go of a friendship? Friend, I LOVE you! And I know that friendship is so important in our lives. That's why my BFF Lauren and I dive deep into the intricacies of friendship. We explore how to nurture, grow, and gracefully let go of relationships as we journey through life's different stages.  We share personal insights on the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when it's time to let go of friendships that no longer serve us.  Some key takeaways are: Intentionality is key: Friendship requires effort and conscious nurturing to thrive. Vulnerability is essential: Sharing our true selves with others deepens our connections. Friendships evolve: As we grow and change, our relationships may naturally shift or end. It's okay to let go: Sometimes, holding onto friendships that are no longer fulfilling can be detrimental to our well-being. Losing a friendship can be emotionally challenging, and it's important to allow ourselves to grieve. Share the dynamics of your relationships by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-Host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/  Watch the video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/SfVNmRE0cd4 Resources Podcast Episode with Lysa Terkeurst Ep 100: Setting Clear Boundaries, Communicating Our Needs To Others and A Million Little Funerals with Lysa TerKeurst https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-100-setting-clear-boundaries-communicating-our-needs/id1529509063?i=1000586081202  Book by Lysa Terkeurst Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are https://www.p31bookstore.com/collections/lysa-terkeurst-books-and-bible-studies  Takeaways Intentionality is key in maintaining friendships. Vulnerability allows for deeper connections between friends. It's important to evaluate friendships regularly. Friendship requires risk and investment. Not everyone is meant to stay in your life forever. A friend audit can help clarify relationship dynamics. I stay too long in relationships. Friendships can be categorized as weeds, flowers, or trees. Seasonal friendships are valid and should be honored. Adaptability is crucial in friendships. Friendship is a choice, not an obligation. Boundaries are essential in protecting relationships. Mourning the end of a friendship is a necessary process. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW?si=sgf1iKWzQg6QzjEMEvuW2A ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/ ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Description:We don't get to choose the families we are born into, yet we are deeply affected by our family of origin. Whether you're currently working through difficult conversations with your children, trying to figure out how to honor your parents, or wondering how to break unhealthy patterns that have trickled down from past generations, Therapy & Theology is here to help!This episode is a part of the newest season of Therapy & Theology: "You Asked ... We're Answering." Through podcast reviews, direct messages on social media, and more, Lysa TerKeurst; Licensed Professional Counselor Jim Cress; and Proverbs 31 Ministries' Director of Theological Research, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, collected your most asked questions. Now they're spending an entire season answering!Related Resources:Download the free Listener Guide for this episode here! Complete with statements to hold on to and scriptures to call to mind, this guide will help you apply what you learned in this conversation. How do we talk about hard things in a safe and loving way? Lysa TerKeurst and Licensed Professional Counselor Jim Cress created a FREE resource with 12 guidelines that will help provide a healthier environment for challenging discussions. Download "A Healthy Way To Have Hard Conversations" today! Stop navigating difficult relationships alone, and utilize the biblical and therapeutic wisdom inside Lysa TerKeurst's book Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are. Order your copy today! We'd like to thank Compassion International for partnering with us again to make this season of Therapy & Theology possible. Compassion brings real solutions to the poverty that so many children in today's world are facing … all in Jesus' name and through the generosity of sponsors. Take your next step, and sponsor a child today here!Stay connected with Lysa TerKeurst, Jim Cress and Dr. Joel Muddamalle on Instagram.Proverbs 31 Ministries reaches women in the middle of their busy days through free devotions; podcasts; speaking events; conferences; resources; Bible studies; and training in the call to write, speak and lead others. Learn more by visiting our website!Click here to download the transcript for this episode.We want to hear about how this podcast has impacted you! Share your story with us here.

Whether you've gone through it personally or been deeply affected by it, divorce is heartbreaking. It can also be so challenging to navigate conversations and dynamics with kids, friends, and others as you walk through the changes that come from the death of a marriage.This episode is a part of the newest season of Therapy & Theology: "You Asked ... We're Answering." Through podcast reviews, direct messages on social media, and more, Lysa TerKeurst; Licensed Professional Counselor Jim Cress; and Proverbs 31 Ministries' Director of Theological Research, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, collected your most asked questions. Now they're spending an entire season answering!Related Resources:- Download the free Listener Guide for this episode here! Complete with statements to hold on to and scriptures to call to mind, this guide will help you apply what you learned in this conversation.- Stop navigating difficult relationships alone, and utilize the biblical and therapeutic wisdom inside Lysa TerKeurst's book Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are. Order your copy today!- We'd like to thank Compassion International for partnering with us again to make this season of Therapy & Theology possible. Compassion brings real solutions to the poverty that so many children in today's world are facing … all in Jesus' name and through the generosity of sponsors. Take your next step, and sponsor a child today here!- Stay connected with Lysa TerKeurst, Jim Cress and Dr. Joel Muddamalle on Instagram.- Proverbs 31 Ministries reaches women in the middle of their busy days through free devotions; podcasts; speaking events; conferences; resources; Bible studies; and training in the call to write, speak and lead others. Learn more by visiting our website!- Click here to download the transcript for this episode.We want to hear about how this podcast has impacted you! Share your story with us here.

Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary? Are Christians ever called to walk away from a relationship that's no longer safe or sustainable? Lysa TerKeurst deeply understands these hard questions in the midst of relational struggles. Show Notes and Resources Purchase Lysa's book Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are on our shop. Receive 52 Weeks in The Word by giving a donation. and your donation will be matched Connect with Lysa by visiting her site at lysaterkeurst.com Learn more about Lysa's Ministry, Proverbs 31 Ministries Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Do you struggle with saying 'no'? You're not alone. Join Bestselling Author Lysa TerKeurst in a compelling conversation about setting healthy boundaries in relationships. True identity, biblical wisdom to navigate chaos and insights on self-care. If you're seeking to enhance relationships and emotional well-being, this episode is a must-listen. Show Notes and Resources Purchase Lysa's book Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are on our shop. Receive 52 Weeks in The Word by giving a donation. and your donation will be matched Connect with Lysa by visiting her site at lysaterkeurst.com Learn more about Lysa's Ministry, Proverbs 31 Ministries Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

A self-proclaimed “accidental author”, Carole Holiday was living a very full life as a wife, mother, and nana, until one day, everything fell apart. Her marriage to her childhood sweetheart of over 35 years ended, followed by losing her job and ultimately filing for bankruptcy. Then she developed heart issues because of all the stress, and a continued windfall of loss, and grief in losing close loved ones, until it felt like there was absolutely nothing recognizable about the life she had known.    In her book I Don't Know Who I Am Anymore, Carole shares her story, but it is such a unique book that weaves honest reflections, practical applications of how to minister to those in grief,  beautiful applications from scripture, and recipes to share with others or to comfort your own heart.  She asks powerful questions about what we build our lives on, and find our identity in. These can be good things like relationships, careers, and even our health, but they are ultimately temporal. Christ alone is the cornerstone that can keep a life on a firm foundation.    This is an episode for my friends who are asking God, “What do I do now?” when a dream has died. This is an episode for my single friends, my divorced friends, and my widowed friends who may feel unseen in their communities. This is an episode for those who have known any amount of grief or loss and need to know they are not going to disappear or drown in this season. There is hope for you, we can testify to it.  As long as you're breathing, there is more for your story. You matter and your story matters.    Connecting with Carole:  Book Facebook Instagram Website   Please consider joining our Patreon community. If you have enjoyed what you have heard on the podcast today or from other episodes, we would so appreciate your support to keep the Simply Stories Podcast going. You can sign up for as little as $3 a month and each tier offers gifts that I hope will bless you in return. If you cannot financially commit at this time, please consider leaving us a star rating and/or review on Apple Podcasts.  My family and I are so grateful for each of you and how you are part of our story.  Scripture References: 1 Timothy 4:12-Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young  Psalm 95:6-, Matthew 16:24,  James 4:7- We lay it down before the Lord  Matthew 17:19-21-The mustard seed of faith Galatians 5:22-23-Produce fruit in me  Ecclesiastes 3:1-8-There's a time to tear down and to build   Psalm 118:22, Matthew 21:42, Acts 4:11-Jesus is the cornerstone that the builders rejected Matthew 7:24-27-Building on the sand or the rock  Luke 22:31-Being shifted like wheat Luke 7:36-50-The woman who washes Jesus' feet with her tears Luke 7:11-16-The widow whose son had died Mark 12:41-44-The woman with her small offering  John 11-Mary and Martha at Lazarus' tomb Romans 8:22-29-Creation groans and longs to be restored Romans 8:26 -The Holy Spirit speaks a language of lament John 14:26-The Holy Spirit is our advocate Habakkuk 1:2-4-How long Lord will you make me look at injustice and violence? Jeremiah 17:9; Mark 7:21–23-The heart is deceitful above all else Psalm 6:6-David flooded his bed with tears 2 Samuel 12:1-25-When Nathan spoke to David, he  hit his face to the ground Psalm 56:8-God gathers our tears in bottles Matthew 21:12-17, John 2:13-25-Jesus goes charging into the Temple angry John 2:15-17-Jesus sat and created a whip  Philippians 1:6-God is not finished with your story  Psalm 107:2-Let the redeemed of the Lord tell their story    References: -Dr. Paul Conti's book Trauma: The Invisible Epidemic  -Seeing Beautiful Again- Lysa Terkeurst -The women's movement of the 60's  -Holocaust - hear the survivor's stories  -Celebrate Recovery  -A.E. Graham's episode where she shared about being in George W's White House, and practicing scrutiny -Bonnie Lewis- wrote a translation of the Bible called Timshel -“Operation no more tears”- Sally Lloyd Jones -Lament in the Bible  -A “thin space”  -Patricia Raybon's episode  -Jim Crow -Julia Child -Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You are- Lysa Terkeurst - “Daniel Tiger”- “The Mixed Feelings” song - “Bluey”  - Life of the Beloved - Henri Nouwen   Connecting with Emily and Simply Stories Podcast: Instagram (Em life // Podcast Life) Facebook Twitter Blog 

Setting relationship boundaries can feel difficult, but with God's support, it is possible to set boundaries without guilt! Listen in as I share how setting boundaries is not selfish, examples of where boundaries are needed in relationships, and 3 questions to ask yourself when you feel that a boundary is needed. We are all called to love each other and sometimes the most loving thing we can do is set a boundary.If you want support in figuring out what is underneath your struggles to set boundaries, check out the Christian Mindset Makeover where we use proven brain science tools and truths of the Bible to rewire these patterns. And if the phrase “new year new you” seems daunting, make sure to join me in the virtual Goal Planning Workshop so you can have support in stepping into the dreams that God has planned for you!WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[02:05] Which Relationships Are Calling For Your Attention?[03:56] Is Setting Boundaries Within Relationships Selfish?[06:36] Leaning on God to Help Us Set Boundaries[10:23] Instances and Examples Where Boundaries Are Needed[15:00] How Can We Best Love Each Other?[17:04] The Importance of Making Allowances For Each Other's Imperfections[20:21] 3 Questions to Ask Yourself When You Sense That You Need to Set a Boundary[23:20] Asking God For Strength in Relationships[25:21] Resources That Will Help With Boundaries RESOURCES:Christian Mindset MakeoverFREE Christian Mindset WorkshopCoaching with Alicia MichelleGood Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are OTHER RELATED EPISODES:232: Renew Your Mind: Establish Truth-Filled Boundaries to Stop Racing Thoughts + Make Better DecisionsLive Goal Setting Workshop: What if goal setting allowed you to honor your life, celebrate God's blessings, and renew your perspective on what's possible? This is how goal planning was meant to be. I want to help you become more energized and joyful in the coming year, help you create a specific plan for change, and celebrate your wins. Join us in this Goal Setting Workshop and let's discover a healing, Gospel-based approach to asking God to direct our next steps.I can't wait to help you find clarity, renewal, and a new passion to love God and enjoy your life!

How can I know if my boundaries are healthy? Is it okay to have boundaries in the first place? I know I need boundaries, but where and how do I start?  Do these questions sound familiar?  As women, we have so many questions about boundaries- what they are, how we put them in place, and if it is selfish to have them- and this episode is here to help!  Today's show features some of the best advice I've ever received from experts on boundaries. I wanted to share it all with you, all in one place.  Boundaries are there to help you (and the people you love!) thrive, and by the end of this show, you'll see how they do just that! Join us as we learn about:  Why boundaries are more than a good idea (because they're God's idea!) with Lysa TerKeurst  The difference between being approachable and being accessible with Sasha Shillcutt How to spot toxicity in others (and in our ourselves) with Gary Thomas Favorite quotes: “Boundaries are not just a good idea. They are God's idea. He established the foundations of the world using boundaries. ” “Where there is chaos there is usually a lack of boundaries and a need for more intentional boundaries or healthy boundaries to be put in place.” “A boundary without a consequence is nothing but a bad suggestion.”  “If you don't have boundaries in your life, someone will have them for you.” “We want to be women who are approachable. It doesn't mean we have to be women who are always accessible.” “I walk away from toxic people not to go binge Netflix. I walk away to invest with reliable people. I walk from toxic relationships into healthy relationships.” Coaching this week:  Assume Positive Intent  (33:40) Links to great things we discussed:  Lysa TerKeurst Website Lysa TerKeurst Instagram Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are Sasha Shillcutt Website Sasha Shillcutt Instagram Gary Thomas Website Gary Thomas Instagram When to Walk Away: Finding Freedom from Toxic People A Haunting in Venice Only Murders in the Building A1A - Jimmy Buffett Beaded Stretch Bracelet Set 5pc - Universal Thread™ Gold Remaining You While Raising Them Alli's Internship Order your copy of Remaining You While Raising Them here. Hope you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :) xo, Alli https://www.alliworthington.com/podcast

Doing the hard work of setting boundaries in your relationships will sometimes leave you discouraged, questioning if you're doing the right thing. While you will experience some grief, you will also experience true love, healing and intimacy.In the final episode of our miniseries titled "Boundaries Boot Camp," counselor Jim will send you off with some final encouragement for why the hard work of setting boundaries is worth it. Save this episode for a day you need to remember what's true!Related Resources: Download Lysa TerKeurst's free resource "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships." Stop tiptoeing around dysfunctions that are robbing you of inner peace, and learn the difference between a destructive pattern and a difficult season. Continue your personal journey to setting better boundaries that lead to better relationships with the help of Lysa TerKeurst's book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are. Purchase your copy today! Ready to take the next step in finding your own personal Christian counselor? The American Association of Christian Counselors is a great place to find the right fit for you and your circumstances. Start your journey here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. We want to hear about how this podcast has impacted you! Share your story with us here.

What if instead of avoiding grief, you could see grief as your friend?In the sixth episode of our miniseries titled "Boundaries Boot Camp," counselor Jim Cress will teach you to recognize signs of codependency so you can adjust your own expectations and work toward seeing progress in your relationships.Related Resources: Download Lysa TerKeurst's free resource "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships." Stop tiptoeing around dysfunctions that are robbing you of inner peace, and learn the difference between a destructive pattern and a difficult season. Continue your personal journey to setting better boundaries that lead to better relationships with the help of Lysa TerKeurst's book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are. Purchase your copy today! Ready to take the next step in finding your own personal Christian counselor? The American Association of Christian Counselors is a great place to find the right fit for you and your circumstances. Start your journey here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. We want to hear about how this podcast has impacted you! Share your story with us here.

Codependency is one of those "buzzwords" that can often be weaponized or overused. What does it really mean, and how can we recognize it?In the fifth episode of our miniseries titled "Boundaries Boot Camp," counselor Jim Cress will teach you to recognize signs of codependency so you can adjust your own expectations and work toward seeing progress with your relationships.Related Resources: Download Lysa TerKeurst's free resource "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships." Stop tiptoeing around dysfunctions that are robbing you of inner peace, and learn the difference between a destructive pattern and a difficult season. Continue your personal journey to setting better boundaries that lead to better relationships with the help of Lysa TerKeurst's book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are. Purchase your copy today! Ready to take the next step in finding your own personal Christian counselor? The American Association of Christian Counselors is a great place to find the right fit for you and your circumstances. Start your journey here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. We want to hear about how this podcast has impacted you! Share your story with us here.

Walk through your past; don't wallow in it. Deal with your past; don't dwell on it.In the fourth episode of our miniseries titled "Boundaries Boot Camp," counselor Jim Cress will walk through simple steps to help you look back at your own story so you can better understand yourself and start your journey toward healing today.Related Resources: Download Lysa TerKeurst's free resource "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships." Stop tiptoeing around dysfunctions that are robbing you of inner peace, and learn the difference between a destructive pattern and a difficult season. Continue your personal journey to setting better boundaries that lead to better relationships with the help of Lysa TerKeurst's book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are. Purchase your copy today! Ready to take the next step in finding your own personal Christian counselor? The American Association of Christian Counselors is a great place to find the right fit for you and your circumstances. Start your journey here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. We want to hear about how this podcast has impacted you! Share your story with us here.

How can we best prepare ourselves for communicating boundaries so that we can honor ourselves and the other person?In the third episode of our miniseries titled "Boundaries Boot Camp," counselor Jim Cress gives you practical steps to talk about your boundaries with others. Learn how to say what you mean, mean what you say, and how to not say it in a mean way.Related Resources: Download Lysa TerKeurst's free resource "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships." Stop tiptoeing around dysfunctions that are robbing you of inner peace, and learn the difference between a destructive pattern and a difficult season. Continue your personal journey to setting better boundaries that lead to better relationships with the help of Lysa TerKeurst's book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are. Purchase your copy today! Ready to take the next step in finding your own personal Christian counselor? The American Association of Christian Counselors is a great place to find the right fit for you and your circumstances. Start your journey here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. We want to hear about how this podcast has impacted you! Share your story with us here.

Welcome to this episode of "Ask a House Cleaner" where we tackle the topic of cleaning services and sexual harassment. Host and cleanfluencer Angela Brown is joined by special guest Amy Worthy, an expert in boundaries to discuss a crucial topic that's often swept under the rug: sexual harassment in the cleaning industry. Have you ever experienced inappropriate behavior or advances from clients? As a professional cleaner, you deserve respect. But sexual harassment can happen even if you've done nothing to encourage it. Discover how to identify and address uncomfortable situations, establish clear boundaries, and navigate the delicate issue of sexual harassment with confidence. This eye-opening discussion will not only shed light on a serious issue but equip you with the knowledge and tools needed to protect yourself and your cleaning business. You'll walk away better prepared to handle inappropriate behavior professionally while prioritizing your dignity and well-being. Cleaning Services and Sexual Harassment: What To Do Chapters: 00:00 Dealing with a promiscuous customer making inappropriate comments  00:41 Creating boundaries and setting expectations for future business interactions  02:10 The importance of addressing and responding to suggestive comments RESOURCES ------------------ Essential Guide to Handling Workplace Harassment & Discrimination - https://amzn.to/3RyZM4z Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are - https://amzn.to/3sELiW6 The Bully at Work: What You Can Do to Stop the Hurt and Reclaim Your Dignity on the Job - https://amzn.to/3sVJYOH When Your Mind Screams: Finding Peace and Confidence in the Midst of Anxiety - https://amzn.to/463sz53 Balanced Accountability: Create a Culture of Ownership - https://amzn.to/3RepsD9 (When available, we use affiliate links and as Amazon Associates we earn a commission on qualifying purchases.) *** RATE THIS PODCAST ***  https://ratethispodcast.com/askahousecleaner  *** TRAINING & CLEANING CERTIFICATION*** https://savvycleaner.com/join *** MOST REQUESTED LIST OF CLEANING STUFF I USE *** https://www.Amazon.com/shop/AngelaBrown  SOCIAL MEDIA --------------- *** CONNECT WITH AMY ON SOCIAL MEDIA ***  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amy.worthy.1 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/amyworthy URL: https://nextlevelwealthcoach.com/ *** CONNECT WITH ANGELA ON SOCIAL MEDIA ***  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AskAngelaBrown Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/AskAngelaBrown Twitter: https://Twitter.com/AskAngelaBrown Instagram: https://instagram.com/AskAngelaBrown Pinterest: https://Pinterest.com/AskAngelaBrown Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/AskAngelaBrown TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@askangelabrown Store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/AngelaBrown URL: https://AngelaBrown.com NEED MORE CLEANING HELP? ------------- *** GOT A QUESTION FOR A SHOW? *** Please email it to Angela[at]AskaHouseCleaner.com Voice Mail: Click on the blue button at https://askahousecleaner.com  *** PROFESSIONAL HOUSE CLEANERS PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP *** https://www.facebook.com/groups/ProfessionalHouseCleaners/ *** VRBO AIRBNB CLEANING FACEBOOK GROUP *** https://www.facebook.com/groups/VRBO.Airbnb.Cleaning/ *** LOOKING FOR A WAY TO GET MORE CLEANING LEADS *** https://housecleaning360.com SPONSORSHIPS & BRANDS ------------------- Today's #AskaHouseCleaner sponsor is #SavvyCleaner training and certification for house cleaners and maids. (https://savvycleaner.com/join) And your host today is #AngelaBrown - https://g.page/r/CbMI6YFuLU2GEBI/review *** ADVERTISE WITH US ***  We do work with sponsors and brands. If you are interested in working with us and you have a product or service that makes sense for the cleaning industry here's how to work with us -https://savvycleaner.com/brand-deals *** SAVVY CLEANER BRANDS ***  SAVVY CLEANER - House Cleaner Training and Certification – https://savvycleaner.com/join VRBO AIRBNB CLEANING – Cleaning tips and strategies for your short-term rental  https://TurnoverCleaningTips.com  FUNNY CLEANING SHIRTS – Incentive and thank-you gifts for house cleaners and maids. https://FunnyCleaningShirts.com  HOARDING WORLD - Helping you change your relationship with stuff https://HoardingWorld.com REALTY SUCCESS HUB - Helping you sell your home fast https://realtysuccesshub.com CREDITS -------------------------- Show Produced by: Savvy Cleaner: https://savvycleaner.com Show Host: Angela Brown Show Editors: Anna Nikitchuk Show Producer: Anna Nikitchuk

Sometimes the hardest part of setting boundaries is communicating them. What do we do when someone disregards or disrespects our parameters?In the second episode of our miniseries titled "Boundaries Boot Camp," counselor Jim Cress will help you know how to respond when someone challenges your boundaries.Related Resources: Download Lysa TerKeurst's free resource "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing In Your Relationships." Stop tiptoeing around dysfunctions that are robbing you of inner peace, and learn the difference between a destructive pattern and a difficult season. Continue your personal journey to setting better boundaries that lead to better relationships with the help of Lysa TerKeurst's book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are. Purchase your copy today! Ready to take the next step in finding your own personal Christian counselor? The American Association of Christian Counselors is a great place to find the right fit for you and your circumstances. Start your journey here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. We want to hear about how this podcast has impacted you! Share your story with us here.

Tune in to this empowering episode of "Ask a House Cleaner" on fears of setting boundaries, in which boundaries expert Amy Worthy joins host Angela Brown to uncover where our fears around boundary setting originate. Angela and Amy discuss common boundary struggles business owners face with clients, team members, and partners so you can reflect on where you may need to establish clearer limits. You'll walk away with proven strategies to set healthy boundaries that allow you to operate with more freedom, joy, and success as a business owner. Do you struggle with setting clear boundaries in your business and personal relationships? Do you often feel drained and resentful because people take advantage of your time and energy? If so, join us for this insightful episode to gain clarity on where your boundary fears come from and start rewriting your self-limiting narratives! Where Do Fears of Setting Boundaries Come From Chapters: 00:00 Assisting Families with Boundary Issues  00:16 Fear as a Barrier to Setting Boundaries  00:50 The Importance of Clear Consequences for Boundaries  01:32 Devastating Consequences and the Importance of Self-Worth  02:08 Balancing Difficult Consequences with Self-Respect  02:46 Setting Boundaries Based on Self-Worth  RESOURCES ------------------ Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are - https://amzn.to/3sELiW6 When Your Mind Screams: Finding Peace and Confidence in the Midst of Anxiety - https://amzn.to/463sz53 Boundaries Workbook: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life - https://amzn.to/3sOd1Uv Balanced Accountability: Create a Culture of Ownership - https://amzn.to/3RepsD9 Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life - https://amzn.to/3PhRPyW (When available, we use affiliate links and as Amazon Associates we earn a commission on qualifying purchases.) *** RATE THIS PODCAST ***  https://ratethispodcast.com/askahousecleaner  *** TRAINING & CLEANING CERTIFICATION*** https://savvycleaner.com/join *** MOST REQUESTED LIST OF CLEANING STUFF I USE *** https://www.Amazon.com/shop/AngelaBrown  SOCIAL MEDIA --------------- *** CONNECT WITH AMY ON SOCIAL MEDIA ***  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amy.worthy.1 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/amyworthy URL: https://nextlevelwealthcoach.com/ *** CONNECT WITH ANGELA ON SOCIAL MEDIA ***  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AskAngelaBrown Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/AskAngelaBrown Twitter: https://Twitter.com/AskAngelaBrown Instagram: https://instagram.com/AskAngelaBrown Pinterest: https://Pinterest.com/AskAngelaBrown Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/AskAngelaBrown TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@askangelabrown Store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/AngelaBrown URL: https://AngelaBrown.com NEED MORE CLEANING HELP? ------------- *** GOT A QUESTION FOR A SHOW? *** Please email it to Angela[at]AskaHouseCleaner.com Voice Mail: Click on the blue button at https://askahousecleaner.com  *** PROFESSIONAL HOUSE CLEANERS PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP *** https://www.facebook.com/groups/ProfessionalHouseCleaners/ *** VRBO AIRBNB CLEANING FACEBOOK GROUP *** https://www.facebook.com/groups/VRBO.Airbnb.Cleaning/ *** LOOKING FOR A WAY TO GET MORE CLEANING LEADS *** https://housecleaning360.com SPONSORSHIPS & BRANDS ------------------- Today's #AskaHouseCleaner sponsor is #SavvyCleaner training and certification for house cleaners and maids. (https://savvycleaner.com/join) And your host today is #AngelaBrown - https://g.page/r/CbMI6YFuLU2GEBI/review *** ADVERTISE WITH US ***  We do work with sponsors and brands. If you are interested in working with us and you have a product or service that makes sense for the cleaning industry here's how to work with us -https://savvycleaner.com/brand-deals *** SAVVY CLEANER BRANDS ***  SAVVY CLEANER - House Cleaner Training and Certification – https://savvycleaner.com/join VRBO AIRBNB CLEANING – Cleaning tips and strategies for your short-term rental  https://TurnoverCleaningTips.com  FUNNY CLEANING SHIRTS – Incentive and thank-you gifts for house cleaners and maids. https://FunnyCleaningShirts.com  HOARDING WORLD - Helping you change your relationship with stuff https://HoardingWorld.com REALTY SUCCESS HUB - Helping you sell your home fast https://realtysuccesshub.com CREDITS -------------------------- Show Produced by: Savvy Cleaner: https://savvycleaner.com Show Host: Angela Brown Show Editors: Anna Nikitchuk Show Producer: Anna Nikitchuk

Is it even biblical for Christians to draw boundaries in their relationships?In the first episode of our miniseries titled "Boundaries Boot Camp," counselor Jim Cress uses Scripture to give you a clearer picture and definition of boundaries to set you up for more personal peace and better relationships.Related Resources: Download Lysa TerKeurst's free resource "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships." Stop tiptoeing around dysfunctions that are robbing you of inner peace, and learn the difference between a destructive pattern and a difficult season. Continue your personal journey to setting better boundaries that lead to better relationships with the help of Lysa TerKeurst's book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are. Purchase your copy today! Ready to take the next step in finding your own personal Christian counselor? The American Association of Christian Counselors is a great place to find the right fit for you and your circumstances. Start your journey here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. We want to hear about how this podcast has impacted you! Share your story with us here.

Join us for the new episode of "Ask a House Cleaner" on the boundary challenges of house cleaners. Are you a house cleaner looking to maintain a respectful and professional atmosphere while tackling your cleaning tasks? Host and cleanfluencer Angela Brown and boundaries expert Amy Worthy are here to reveal the secrets of enforcing boundaries in the house cleaning industry. Learn how to handle personal space, open up effective lines of communication, and gracefully navigate tricky client situations. With expert advice at your fingertips, you'll be well-prepared to keep your cleaning business running smoothly. Your clients will be thrilled with the results, and you'll have the tools you need to ensure both your professional and personal boundaries are respected. Don't miss this enlightening conversation and don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe! The Boundary Challenges of House Cleaners Chapters: 00:00 Setting Boundaries with Chatty Clients  01:33 Exiting the Conversation Gracefully  02:20 Managing Time and Setting Expectations  04:53 Elder Customers: Loneliness and Building Connections  05:25 Building Friendships Beyond Business Relationships  RESOURCES ------------------ How to Start Your Own House Cleaning Company - https://amzn.to/3PnW1Nw Communication Skills Training: A Practical Guide to Improving Your Social Intelligence - https://amzn.to/3syaw8y How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships - https://amzn.to/3ReErNg Setting Boundaries Will Set You Free - https://amzn.to/3PhBo4H Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are - https://amzn.to/3OXeZcr (When available, we use affiliate links and as Amazon Associates we earn a commission on qualifying purchases.) *** RATE THIS PODCAST ***  https://ratethispodcast.com/askahousecleaner  *** TRAINING & CLEANING CERTIFICATION*** https://savvycleaner.com/join *** MOST REQUESTED LIST OF CLEANING STUFF I USE *** https://www.Amazon.com/shop/AngelaBrown  SOCIAL MEDIA --------------- *** CONNECT WITH AMY ON SOCIAL MEDIA ***  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amy.worthy.1 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/amyworthy URL: https://nextlevelwealthcoach.com/ *** CONNECT WITH ANGELA ON SOCIAL MEDIA ***  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AskAngelaBrown Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/AskAngelaBrown Twitter: https://Twitter.com/AskAngelaBrown Instagram: https://instagram.com/AskAngelaBrown Pinterest: https://Pinterest.com/AskAngelaBrown Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/AskAngelaBrown TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@askangelabrown Store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/AngelaBrown URL: https://AngelaBrown.com NEED MORE CLEANING HELP? ------------- *** GOT A QUESTION FOR A SHOW? *** Please email it to Angela[at]AskaHouseCleaner.com Voice Mail: Click on the blue button at https://askahousecleaner.com  *** PROFESSIONAL HOUSE CLEANERS PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP *** https://www.facebook.com/groups/ProfessionalHouseCleaners/ *** VRBO AIRBNB CLEANING FACEBOOK GROUP *** https://www.facebook.com/groups/VRBO.Airbnb.Cleaning/ *** LOOKING FOR A WAY TO GET MORE CLEANING LEADS *** https://housecleaning360.com SPONSORSHIPS & BRANDS ------------------- Today's #AskaHouseCleaner sponsor is #SavvyCleaner training and certification for house cleaners and maids. (https://savvycleaner.com/join) And your host today is #AngelaBrown - https://g.page/r/CbMI6YFuLU2GEBI/review *** ADVERTISE WITH US ***  We do work with sponsors and brands. If you are interested in working with us and you have a product or service that makes sense for the cleaning industry here's how to work with us -https://savvycleaner.com/brand-deals *** SAVVY CLEANER BRANDS ***  SAVVY CLEANER - House Cleaner Training and Certification – https://savvycleaner.com/join VRBO AIRBNB CLEANING – Cleaning tips and strategies for your short-term rental  https://TurnoverCleaningTips.com  FUNNY CLEANING SHIRTS – Incentive and thank-you gifts for house cleaners and maids. https://FunnyCleaningShirts.com  HOARDING WORLD - Helping you change your relationship with stuff https://HoardingWorld.com REALTY SUCCESS HUB - Helping you sell your home fast https://realtysuccesshub.com CREDITS -------------------------- Show Produced by: Savvy Cleaner: https://savvycleaner.com Show Host: Angela Brown Show Editors: Anna Nikitchuk Show Producer: Anna Nikitchuk

Tune in for this insightful episode of the "ask a House Cleaner" on setting limits at workplace as host Angela Brown and boundaries expert Amy Worthy discuss how to establish healthy boundaries at work when demands and expectations seem endless. Discover why it's an uphill battle and gain valuable strategies on how to conquer it like a pro. Learn about the real-life scenarios that make enforcing boundaries a complicated issue and gain practical insights on how to navigate it with finesse. Don't miss this dynamic conversation that's both engaging and beneficial! Setting Limits at Workplace: Why It's So Hard and How to Do It Chapters: 00:00 The Struggle with Setting Boundaries and Tolerating Discomfort  00:51 Practice as the Answer to Setting Boundaries  02:05 Setting Boundaries with Emotional Connections and Establishing Workplace Culture RESOURCES ------------------ The 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace: Empowering Organizations by Encouraging People - https://amzn.to/3P6qyOS Anxiety at Work: 8 Strategies to Help Teams Build Resilience, Handle Uncertainty, and Get Stuff Done - https://amzn.to/45vDgO4 Setting Boundaries Will Set You Free - https://amzn.to/3PhBo4H Read People Like a Book: How to Analyze, Understand, and Predict People's Emotions - https://amzn.to/47XsJwq Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are - https://amzn.to/3OXeZcr (When available, we use affiliate links and as Amazon Associates we earn a commission on qualifying purchases.) *** RATE THIS PODCAST ***  https://ratethispodcast.com/askahousecleaner  *** TRAINING & CLEANING CERTIFICATION*** https://savvycleaner.com/join *** MOST REQUESTED LIST OF CLEANING STUFF I USE *** https://www.Amazon.com/shop/AngelaBrown  SOCIAL MEDIA --------------- *** CONNECT WITH AMY ON SOCIAL MEDIA ***  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amy.worthy.1 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/amyworthy URL: https://nextlevelwealthcoach.com/ *** CONNECT WITH ANGELA ON SOCIAL MEDIA ***  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AskAngelaBrown Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/AskAngelaBrown Twitter: https://Twitter.com/AskAngelaBrown Instagram: https://instagram.com/AskAngelaBrown Pinterest: https://Pinterest.com/AskAngelaBrown Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/AskAngelaBrown TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@askangelabrown Store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/AngelaBrown URL: https://AngelaBrown.com NEED MORE CLEANING HELP? ------------- *** GOT A QUESTION FOR A SHOW? *** Please email it to Angela[at]AskaHouseCleaner.com Voice Mail: Click on the blue button at https://askahousecleaner.com  *** PROFESSIONAL HOUSE CLEANERS PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP *** https://www.facebook.com/groups/ProfessionalHouseCleaners/ *** VRBO AIRBNB CLEANING FACEBOOK GROUP *** https://www.facebook.com/groups/VRBO.Airbnb.Cleaning/ *** LOOKING FOR A WAY TO GET MORE CLEANING LEADS *** https://housecleaning360.com SPONSORSHIPS & BRANDS ------------------- Today's #AskaHouseCleaner sponsor is #SavvyCleaner training and certification for house cleaners and maids. (https://savvycleaner.com/join) And your host today is #AngelaBrown - https://g.page/r/CbMI6YFuLU2GEBI/review *** ADVERTISE WITH US ***  We do work with sponsors and brands. If you are interested in working with us and you have a product or service that makes sense for the cleaning industry here's how to work with us -https://savvycleaner.com/brand-deals *** SAVVY CLEANER BRANDS ***  SAVVY CLEANER - House Cleaner Training and Certification – https://savvycleaner.com/join VRBO AIRBNB CLEANING – Cleaning tips and strategies for your short-term rental  https://TurnoverCleaningTips.com  FUNNY CLEANING SHIRTS – Incentive and thank-you gifts for house cleaners and maids. https://FunnyCleaningShirts.com  HOARDING WORLD - Helping you change your relationship with stuff https://HoardingWorld.com REALTY SUCCESS HUB - Helping you sell your home fast https://realtysuccesshub.com CREDITS -------------------------- Show Produced by: Savvy Cleaner: https://savvycleaner.com Show Host: Angela Brown Show Editors: Anna Nikitchuk Show Producer: Anna Nikitchuk

We're talking confident Christian communication today! In this episode you'll learn 10 actionable steps & mindset focuses to communicate better in every scenario. This includes marriage, at work, with your kids, with your grown parents, neighbors, friends, anyone and anywhere- these tips work! If this is an area you know you would grow in with coaching then check out my new openings for trying out life coaching at www.awkwardlyanna.com Book mentioned in this episode: Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are by Lysa TerKeurst Want to support The Awkwardly Anna Podcast financially? Donate here: paypal.me/AnnaEBarr --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/anna-elyse-barr/message

Award-winning author and founder of EquippingGodlyWomen.com, Brittany Ann, teaches on how to know God's will and hear the call to love God and others. Matthew 22:40 (NIV)“All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” https://livesteadyon.com/Email Angie at: steadyonpodcast@gmail.comFacebook: @livesteadyonInstagram: @angiebaughman421 Looking for something not listed? It's probably here: https://linktr.ee/livesteadyon https://equippinggodlywomen.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/equippinggodlywomenPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/equipgodlywomen/Twitter: https://twitter.com/equipGodlyWomen/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/equippinggodlywomen Brittany's most recent book is “Follow God's Will: Biblical Guidelines for Everyday Life”You can download the first chapter here: https://equippinggodlywomen.com/christian-printable-bible-verses-bookmarks/ Brittany mentioned:When to Walk Away: Finding Freedom from Toxic People by Gary ThomasGood Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are by Lysa TerKeurst Theme music:Heartwarming by Kevin MacLeodLink: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3864-heartwarmingLicense: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Lysa TerKeurst reflects on the death of her marriage and how she had to place boundaries in her life to protect her own mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. She offers insight, biblical wisdom, and encouragement to those needing to establish boundaries with others (Part 2 of 2). Book by guest: Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are.

Lysa TerKeurst reflects on the death of her marriage and how she had to place boundaries in her life to protect her own mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. She offers insight, biblical wisdom, and encouragement to those needing to establish boundaries with others (Part 1 of 2). Book by guest: Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are.

Sometimes Black girls show up as superwomen, but this can look different for each of us. You might people-please, while I make myself small so others will have space. Or maybe you show up perfectly, unable to tolerate imperfection. Whichever it is, Ms. Perfect, Bendy Girl, or the Invisible Woman, let's explore how our superwoman persona may be impacting us negatively and creating friction in our relationships.Book ResourcesBoundaries: When to Say Yes, When to Say NO, To Take Control of Your LifeDr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John TownsendGood Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You AreLysa Turkeurst and Jim CressThe Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You AreBrene BrownIf you need a therapist and you are located in Maryland, I can help. Find me at...lovewellfamilytherapy.comInstagramFacebookCoursesTherapy in Maryland

No matter what your professed faith is, it has to be lived out through relationships. It's unavoidable. Faith without interaction with other image bearers will inevitably be weak. But it's in our most intimate and close relationships that we are tested and tried to our very limits. And the most intimate bond we have here on earth is marriage. But what happens when the person you promised to be with till death, reneges on so many of the assurances he or she vowed on that altar? When is divorce the only alternative? Best-selling Chrisitan author Lysa TerKeurst has bared her soul in her books, that bring to light our greatest wants and our greatest needs. She's been frank and open about her divorce from the man who just a few years ago, she renewed vows with after the union of two decades went sour. TerKeurst learns from experience, which is why she is a valuable spiritual guide for both men and women. On this episode of Lighthouse Faith podcast, TerKeurst talks about her book, "Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are". Love is complicated. It's the one lesson any spouse or parent learns, oftentimes, the hard way. And loving someone in a godly way is the most difficult. It's also potentially the most painful. But it can also bring us closer to understanding who we are, while strengthening and loving who we are meant to be. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Boundaries can feel impossible sometimes, especially if you have lived your life without them. How do you begin to draw the line when it comes to what you are willing to accept in a relationship? How do you know when it is beyond the point of healing and time to let go of a toxic relationship? Author, speaker and Bible teacher Lysa TerKeurst never dreamed that her life would look the way it does now. After finding out about her husband's infidelity, Lysa was committed to healing and restoration of her marriage. But as time went by, Lysa endured the most difficult season of her life and had to face the most difficult decision. Ultimately, her marriage ended and she was left to pick up the pieces. As she has walked the journey of healing, she has begun to see how her own inability to set boundaries contributed to the chaos in her relationship. In this episode, Lysa talks to Aubrey about how boundaries are not just a good thing but also a God thing, how to determine the amount of access someone should have in our lives and why boundaries can keep the best of who we are front and center. If you find yourself putting clear boundaries up, especially in relationships that need them most, this conversation will give you the courage to live in a way that will help you and those you love flourish. Website: https://lysaterkeurst.com/about-lysa/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/lysaterkeurst Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OfficialLysa Twitter: https://twitter.com/proverbs31org/ Book: Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are Life is difficult and pain is real. Join Davey as he helps you move through your pain and on to a life of purpose and meaning in a LIVE Zoom call. www.nothingiswasted.com/starthere Are you ready to see holistic healing in your church family? Is trauma and tragedy keeping so many within your congregation from living fully into their purpose? Let Nothing is Wasted show you how the Pain to Purpose course can change lives in your church: www.nothingiswasted.com/churches Need some hope right now in your valley? Or have a friend who could use some encouragement through suffering? The Pain to Purpose 42-Day Devotional is the perfect companion in your pain. Get your copy and gift one to a friend who needs it: www.nothingiswasted.com/store/pain-to-purpose-devotional

Boundaries can feel impossible sometimes, especially if you have lived your life without them. How do you begin to draw the line when it comes to what you are willing to accept in a relationship? How do you know when it is beyond the point of healing and time to let go of a toxic relationship? Author, speaker and Bible teacher Lysa TerKeurst never dreamed that her life would look the way it does now. After finding out about her husband's infidelity, Lysa was committed to healing and restoration of her marriage. But as time went by, Lysa endured the most difficult season of her life and had to face the most difficult decision. Ultimately, her marriage ended and she was left to pick up the pieces. As she has walked the journey of healing, she has begun to see how her own inability to set boundaries contributed to the chaos in her relationship. In this episode, Lysa talks to Aubrey about how boundaries are not just a good thing but also a God thing, how to determine the amount of access someone should have in our lives and why boundaries can keep the best of who we are front and center. If you find yourself putting clear boundaries up, especially in relationships that need them most, this conversation will give you the courage to live in a way that will help you and those you love flourish.   Website: https://lysaterkeurst.com/about-lysa/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/lysaterkeurst Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OfficialLysa Twitter: https://twitter.com/proverbs31org/ Book: Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are https://a.co/d/hqfDV7u Life is difficult and pain is real. Join Davey as he helps you move through your pain and on to a life of purpose and meaning in a LIVE Zoom call. www.nothingiswasted.com/starthere Are you ready to see holistic healing in your church family? Is trauma and tragedy keeping so many within your congregation from living fully into their purpose? Let Nothing is Wasted show you how the Pain to Purpose course can change lives in your church: www.nothingiswasted.com/churches Need some hope right now in your valley? Or have a friend who could use some encouragement through suffering? The Pain to Purpose 42-Day Devotional is the perfect companion in your pain. Get your copy and gift one to a friend who needs it: www.nothingiswasted.com/store/pain-to-purpose-devotional

Lysa Terkeurst talks about her latest book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are, including why Christians often view boundaries as un-Christlike, the emotional access we grant to people, establishing healthy boundaries in our relationships, and why closure is so important when processing the grief of a relationship that ends.

Lysa TerKeurst reflects on the death of her marriage and how she had to place boundaries in her life to protect her own mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. She offers insight, biblical wisdom, and encouragement to those needing to establish boundaries with others (Part 2 of 2). Book by guest: Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are.

Lysa TerKeurst reflects on the death of her marriage and how she had to place boundaries in her life to protect her own mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. She offers insight, biblical wisdom, and encouragement to those needing to establish boundaries with others (Part 1 of 2). Book by guest: Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are.

What a joy to have my friend, Lysa TerKeurst in the studio today! This conversation about healthy relationships, loving those who struggle with addiction, and, of course, our mutual love for Jim Cress... GAH, isn't she the best?! Be sure to grab a copy of Lysa's new book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are. It's been a hot commodity here at the office, so I know y'all are going to love it! HERE is my conversation with Jim Cress that we talk about! Also, check out our previous episodes with Lysa. Episode 262 about forgiveness and Episode 126 about disappointment. . . . . Join us as we celebrate Advent together. Go to anniefdowns.com/advent to get started! . . . . Sign up to receive the AFD Week In Review email and ask questions to future guests! #thatsoundsfunpodcast . . . . . Thank you to our partners! Awana: Try one month of Talk About for FREE with special promo code TSF. Start today at talkaboutdiscipleship.com. Thrive Market: Join Thrive Market today to get 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift! Go to https://ThriveMarket.com/THATSOUNDSFUN. Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at shopify.com/soundsfun. Nutrafol: You can grow thicker, healthier hair AND support our show by going to Nutrafol.com and entering the promo code TSF to save $15 OFF your first month's subscription, plus FREE shipping on EVERY order -- this is their best offer ANYWHERE and it is only available to US customers for a limited time. The Chosen: For more information, visit TheChosenTickets.com. . . . . . NYTimes bestselling Christian author, speaker, and host of the That Sounds Fun Podcast, Annie F. Downs shares with you some of her favorite things: new books, faith conversations, entertainers not to miss, and interviews with friends.

“Good fences make good neighbors” is a line from Robert Frost's Mending Wall, but the poem goes on to say, “Before I built a wall I'd ask to know / What I was walling in or walling out”  So often in our lives we feel the unrest of chaos or dysfunction in our relationships, but we don't know exactly what we need to wall out or wall in. My guest this week, Lysa TerKeurst faced a new season of life and wanted to enter it with wisdom and strength - caring for others and herself in each of her relationships. Her personal journey led to her newest book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes, a guide for each of us as we navigate relationships, practice setting healthy boundaries and even sometimes need to say goodbye.  Connect with Lysa TerKeurst:  Website:  https://lysaterkeurst.com  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OfficialLysa  Instagram:  @lysaterkeurst  Links Mentioned:   Good Boundaries and Goodbyes : Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are by Lysa TerKeurst    Setting Healthy Boundaries with Family :: Dr. John Townsend [Ep 250] Leslie Vernick and Difficult v Destructive Relationships - https://leslievernick.com  Therapy and Theology Podcast  Related Episodes: Setting Healthy Boundaries with Family :: Dr. John Townsend [Ep 250] Forgiving What You Can't Forget :: Lysa TerKeurst [Ep 304] 5 Schedule Sappers and How to Stop Them :: Lysa TerKeurst [Ep 45] Uninvited :: Lysa TerKeurst, Kay Wyma and Courtney DeFeo [Ep 131] Featured Sponsors:  Find links to this week's sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors.

Welcome to the show! Today I welcome my dear friend, author, and fan-favorite, Lysa TerKeurst, for a very insightful (and much-needed) conversation about boundaries - how to make them and keep them. Be sure to listen in as Lysa honestly shares how we can stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships by showing us biblical ways to set boundaries without losing the best of who we are. At some point, Lysa realized she had many questions about boundaries and relationships. Lysa used these questions to dig deeper into God's Word to discover the many Scriptures that demonstrate that boundaries are not just a good idea but God's idea. So much wisdom is found in my time with Lysa today…. I promise you don't want to miss out on this eye-opening conversation! Lysa TerKeurst is president of Proverbs 31 Ministries and the author of more than twenty-five books, including Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are, It's Not Supposed to Be This Way and the #1 New York Times bestsellers Forgiving What You Can't Forget and Uninvited. As a mother of five and Gigi to three, Lysa writes from her family's farm table and lives in North Carolina. Listen in to learn more about: Lysa's definition of boundaries includes these three words - Access. Responsibility & Consequences. Signs of a healthy relationship vs. an unhealthy relationship + some scripts we can use to communicate necessary boundaries in our lives. How boundaries are not about leaving people but about loving people with the best of who you are. Favorite quotes: ~Boundaries are not just a good idea, they are a God idea. He established the foundations of the world with boundaries. ~When we need someone to lift up their area of responsibility, if they don't have the desire within themself to change their level of responsibility and match the level of access you have given them, no amount of external pressure will create lasting changes in them. ~A boundary without a consequence is nothing but a bad suggestion.  ~The purpose of a boundary is not to shove people away.  The purpose of a boundary is to love others really well without losing the best of who we are. ~Anytime you feel like you have to minimize the best of who you are to help make excuses or cover up for the worst of who someone else is, that's not just a red flat that is a full on fire! Links to great things we discussed:  Free Coaching With Alli AWS Internship Program Application: Become an intern on Alli's team Lysa TerKeurst | Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing Adele - Easy On Me (Official Lyric Video) - YouTube Music The Chosen (TV Series 2017– ) - IMDb Dual Transformation: How to Reposition Today's Business While … Lessons in Chemistry: A Novel: Garmus, Bonnie - Amazon.com Mad Men (TV Series 2007–2015) - IMDb The Crown (TV Series 2016 - IMDb Yellowstone (TV Series 2018– ) - IMDb Join the Confident Motherhood Community here. Hope you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :) xo, Alli 

What do we do when things are broken and we aren't sure how to respond? Sometimes showing up is the hard thing. Even if you “failed” in the hard thing, you showed up for it. Hard things don't equal immediate success. Brokenness doesn't just become healed over night. The daily grind of showing up, acknowledging the broken, and THEN choosing health and healing is an awful lot to do.  So what do you do when you don't know how to fix it?  We talk about all of this and so much more!   Jen Simpson journals  "Broken things are everywhere and we don't want to be afraid of them." "I see you. I understand. I believe in you. I'm sorry that happened to you." The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind & Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk     Ask for generous wisdom & then count on Him to provide it!  James 1:5 "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God who gives generously to all without finding fault" Abide in Him! Apart from Him we cannot do the supernatural. (John 15:5)  Auburn Community Church - Miles Fidell sermon on Luke: The Aftermath of the Cross Jesus did not allow the climate around him to deter his focus. Is my life dictated by the pressure and voices around me? or is there peace and connection and union with God that defines how I live my life each day fully submitted to the Lord. I have a choice each day.  I can choose to carry the energy of htre world around me OR I can become a purifier and an air filter transforming the lost world around me. Jesus drew strength for Calvary in Gethsemane.  What the Lord speaks to you in private will become your peace in public.  Getting alone with God is beholding his eye on me.  Lysa Terkeurst new podcast Therapy & Theology & her new book Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You are  The Lord is My Courage: Stepping Through the Shadows of Fear Toward the Voice of Love by K.J. Ramsey 48 Laws of Spiritual Power: Uncommon Wisdom for Greater Ministry Impact by Frank Viola Love Does (Discover a Secretly Incredible Life in an Ordinary World) by Bob Goff You can also watch this week's episode on our YouTube Channel!  Proverbs 16:24: "Kind words are like honey— sweet to the soul and healthy for the body." We LOVE connecting with you!    Join our Facebook group   • Follow us on Instagram • Follow us on TikTok   • Follow us on Pinterest

Boundaries should help us avoid extremes and live closer to the kind of love God intended for relationships.After struggling with boundaries for years, Lysa TerKeurst wondered if they really worked or were even biblical. But what she discovered after countless hours of in-depth counseling and theological research is that healthy boundaries aren't just a good idea — they're God's idea. In her new book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes, she shows us what good boundaries are supposed to look like, how to place them on ourselves instead of trying to change other people, and how to find healthier ways to have hard conversations around needed boundaries.This episode is taken from the introduction of Lysa's newest book: Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of You Are.Related Resources:- What if all the emotional energy spent on saying "yes" to everyone else, walking on eggshells around people we love and trying to manage delicate relational dynamics is bankrupting us of our capacity for living in obedience to who God has asked us to be? If you're ready to gain the biblical wisdom and confidence to finally set boundaries you can keep, let Lysa TerKeurst's new book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes, be your new go-to guide. Start reading the first few chapters today when you preorder here.- If you liked this episode, check out the new Therapy & Theology podcast with Lysa TerKeurst. Lysa has teamed up with her personal, licensed professional counselor, Jim Cress, and the Director of Theological Research at Proverbs 31 Ministries, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, to bring you a podcast to help you work through what you've walked through. Start listening today!Click here to read the transcript for this episode.

Today's guest is someone who has been on the show before and in one of my most popular episodes, so when the opportunity came up to have her back on the show one more time, I jumped on it, especially when I saw the title of her new book, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are!Lysa TerKeurst discusses where she gets her ideas for her books, primarily her struggles and what they show her she needs to improve and work on. She also elaborates upon what the word boundaries means to her and how she has learned what boundaries are from the Bible, the difference between being selfish and demonstrating self-control, how boundaries help prevent unpleasant extremes and what to do if those extremes take place anyway, and so much more.I am so appreciative of Lysa for her friendship, for being on the show, and for having written this new book. If you are someone who struggles with setting boundaries with people and/or feel like you're being selfish if and when you do, then I strongly recommend that you pick up a copy! In This Episode[00:35] - I am so honored to have a repeat guest today, Lysa TerKeurst![01:19] - Lysa reminds us of who she is.[03:45] - What do boundaries mean to Lysa?[06:28] - Lysa shares how to implement responsibility.[07:56] - How does Lysa determine someone's responsibility level?[10:48] - Lysa reveals what can happen as a result of no boundaries.[13:41] - How do we set boundaries while still wanting to serve and help others?[14:34] - Lysa points out the difference between selfishness and self-control.[18:00] - How do we set boundaries without walking away from people we love?[20:15] - How do we set boundaries with people who are living with us?[22:52] - What if you set a boundary with someone and they respond negatively?[25:27] - Lysa argues that trying to control someone leads to us feeling trapped.[27:09] - I make a case for what the main idea of Lysa's book is.[30:43] - Lysa's insight applies to all of the relationships in our lives.[33:12] - Good health spreads.Links & ResourcesCrystal PaineThe Crystal Paine Show: 103. Forgiving What You Can't Forget (with Lysa TerKeurst)BooksGood Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are by Lysa TerKeurstSocial MediaCrystal Paine on InstagramCrystal Paine on TwitterCrystal Paine on GoodreadsMoney Saving MomMoney Saving Mom on FacebookMoney Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook groupcrystal@moneysavingmom.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands