The BIG Home Ed Conversations

Welcome back to The BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast with Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio. This week's topic: Feelings and journaling (real life edition) We recorded in the middle of a heatwave, so we're talking dysregulation, grumpy kids, and how hard it can be to “do the right thing” when everyone's overstimulated. What we actually found helpful: A feelings wheel (free printable) to help kids find more precise words than just “angry/sad” A simple empathy prompt: “How do you think your sibling feels?” Journaling alternatives for kids who hate writing: drawing feelings, scribble pages, talking, creativity, movement, baking A reminder that feelings aren't just cognitive — sometimes kids regulate best through safe physical outlets Schedule note: We're taking a short one-week break, then we'll be back with a general catch-up episode (summer plans and a bit of a chat). After that, we'll return to the topic challenge with protest and social change. Season 5 Sponsor: Strew (home education logging app) This week we're sharing a quick behind-the-scenes feature: Study Points settings. In the Study Points area you can choose an education style (child-led learning, Waldorf/Steiner, Charlotte Mason, unschooling/deschooling, or general home ed) which can change how the Study Points categories are shown. It's totally optional, but a handy way to get an at-a-glance view of what you've been logging over time. Use code 'bighomeed' if you try Strew. https://strew.app/ Thanks for listening — subscribe, leave a review, and share with a friend. Find us on Instagram and TikTok, and at www.bighomeedpodcast.com .

In this episode of The BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast, Kelly and Ashley continue their weekly home education UK “topic challenge” — choosing a theme and exploring it with their children through real-life learning, conversation, and curiosity-led activities. This week's topic: Town planning and street furniture — and it turns into a brilliant mix of project-based learning, local community awareness, and practical thinking about how towns work (and who decides what gets built). Whether you're home educating, (homeschooling for our US friends), this episode is packed with ideas you can adapt for your own family. What we cover in this episode: Town planning basics: how towns evolve, what problems they're trying to solve, and why infrastructure matters. Street furniture in everyday life: benches, lamp posts, traffic lights, junctions, road layouts — and the “why” behind them! A fun “run the town” council game (decision-making, teamwork, budgeting, environment, and community trust.) Learning through videos and visuals: what's underneath major cities (including hidden infrastructure) how cities change over time (including a London evolution-style video) how heating, water, and energy systems can work at city scale. Real-life community learning moments: conversations sparked by local elections and meeting a local candidate talking about leadership, values, and why voting matters (and why kids can't vote yet!) Hands-on play: building a town at home using toys (roads, emergency services, zoo, trains, role play and storytelling) So whether your home education journey is eclectic, unschooling, project led or otherwise - you can draw some great ideas from this episode and as usual - we would love to hear yours too! Share with us on Instagram or TikTok - @bighomeedpodcast or visit our new website - www.bighomeedpodcast.com This season is sponsored by Strew, a home education logging app created by a UK home educating mum and her brother. To try Strew, head to www.strew.app or Search “Strew Home Ed app” on your apple or android phone and use code: bighomeedpodcast

In this episode of The BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast, Kelly shares a powerful interview with Jenn Hodge, founder of Doing Education Differently. Jenn is a leading voice in neurodiversity and education reform, and has been at the forefront of challenging the Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill — which has now become the Act. Together, Kelly and Jenn talk through what's happening, why it matters, and what families should be paying attention to as the Act begins to come into effect. This conversation is especially relevant for: Home educating families in the UK Families navigating “children not okay at school” Neurodivergent families and those supporting SEND needs Anyone concerned about how policy changes could impact autonomy, rights, and day-to-day home education life What we cover: Who Jenn Hodge is and why her work matters in this space The shift from the Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill to the Act What the proposed changes mean in real life for families (not just in theory) Why neurodivergent children and families are often disproportionately affected by education policy The importance of staying informed, connected, and empowered (without spiralling into fear) How advocacy works behind the scenes — and why community voices matter What to watch for next as the Act is implemented, and how families can prepare Kelly's intention with this episode: This isn't about panic or pressure — it's about clarity, empowerment, and making sure families have access to grounded information as things change. This season is sponsored by Strew, a home education logging app created by a UK home educating mum and her brother. To try Strew: Search “Strew Home Ed app” (iOS + Android) and use code: BIGHOMEEDPODCAST

In this episode of The BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast, Kelly and Ashley explore this week's “topic from the hat” challenge: lesser known sports. They start by going down the rabbit hole of strange and wonderful sports from around the world (and even a few from right here in the UK), and it quickly opens up bigger conversations about creativity, culture, community, and what sport is actually for. We chat about: The weird and wonderful sports humans have invented (and why some of them are genuinely shocking) Chess boxing (yes, really): alternating rounds of chess and boxing, and what that says about “mental” vs “physical” sport The difference between a sport and a game (and using the dictionary to define it properly) How quickly a sport can grow once people actually see it (media, Olympics, exposure, and suddenly everyone wants to try it) Why “lesser known” doesn't mean “less valuable” — it might just mean it hasn't had the PR yet How sport can be about fun, community, identity, tradition, and entertainment (not just winning) Making space for movement in other areas of their education (especially for neurodivergent kids), and why physical activity supports mental health too How this topic can branch into loads of learning: history, geography, PE, science (heart rate/pulse), maths (scoring), literacy (writing rules), and even coding-style logic (if this happens, then what?) Kelly and Ashley also share some of the real-life ways this topic showed up in their week — from hobby horsing and play-based competitions, to watching Paralympic sport and noticing how many different bodies and abilities can be included in athleticism. If you're joining in with the weekly topic challenge, we'd love to hear what you did with it — and remember, this is never about pressure or “doing enough”. It's just a fun way to spark ideas, follow curiosity, and bring a bit of variety into your home ed rhythm. To try Strew (our Season 5 sponsor), head here: Strew home education logging app - on IOS and Android and use code: bighomeed Don't forget to subscribe, share an episode with a friend or drop us a rating - every one helps more people like you to find us!

Welcome back to another episode of the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast. Kelly and Ashley are continuing Season 5's “topic from a hat” home education challenge — where they pick a theme, explore it with their kids for the week (without telling each other what they're doing), then come back to compare notes, resources, and real-life learning. This week's topic: Food Around the World — and it takes them way beyond “trying new recipes”, into geography, history, climate, farming, food miles, hunger relief, and how food choices impact communities and the planet. Season 5 Sponsor: Strew (and the feature we're loving this week) This season is sponsored by Strew — a home education logging app developed by a UK home educating mum and her brother. They've given us access to the app and we're using it to track what we're doing and share what we're enjoying as we go. This week, Ashley has been focusing on the book tracking function: You can scan a book and log it as an activity (great for read-alouds and independent reading) Ashley created a “dummy child” called Library to track her home education book collection She tags books with keywords (country, geography, history, etc.) so she can quickly see what she already owns It helps prevent over-buying or borrowing loads from the library when you don't need to Kelly's also using Strew to support a reading challenge with her kids and to look back over time at: What they've read How their reading level and text complexity is developing You can download Strew on iOS and Android. https://strew.app/ Use code bighomeed when you subscribe (so it links back to where you found it). In this episode, we chat about: Why “Food Around the World” can go in a million directions (and why that's the magic of it) Food, travel, culture, and how communities grow/produce food differently How climate, geography, and environment shape what people eat How food connects to history (including Roman influences in Britain) Why this topic can be tricky with neurodivergent / selective eaters — but still totally doable Food miles, carbon impact, and the surprising footprint of an everyday breakfast Soil health, farming, and how modern agriculture affects nutrients, rivers, and habitats Hunger relief, food banks, and how food distribution works behind the scenes Local economy: where your food money goes (and why local matters) Listen to find out next weeks topic! Follow + connect Instagram + TikTok: @bighomeedpodcast Website + weekly blog/resources: bighomeedpodcast.com If you're joining in with our weekly topic challenge, come and tell us what you did — we'd love to hear your ideas and share them with the community.

Welcome back to the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast. In this episode, Kelly and Ashley share how they tackled a surprisingly big topic with their kids: capital allocation and investing — including spending vs saving, risk, impulse buying, and how money habits form early (for better or worse). In this episode, we chat about: Why this topic matters (and why most of us weren't taught it!) Helping kids understand spend / save / invest / give Kelly's “family token currency” experiment (spend pot, save pot, investment pot + family pot) How risk works (and why investing can go up or down) Monopoly as a not-so-surprisingly good money-learning tool Bank accounts, budgeting, and setting realistic goals Impulse buying (and a family challenge to reduce it) Why values matter: experiences vs “stuff” (and how everyone prioritises differently) Every week we will be picking a new topic from the hat that we wouldn't often choose to cover with our kids - we go away and give it a whirl, coming back to share what we did - bit like home ed topic speed dating! Listen to find out next week's topic! Resources mentioned:Finance With Kids Podcast (Episode 24: Practicing Smart Spending Habits and Avoiding Impulse Buying)FI for Kids podcast (Financial Independence for Kids)Teachers Pay Teachers: “Personal Financial Literacy” (3rd grade math unit)Usborne Lift-the-Flap Questions & Answers About MoneyKnow Nonsense Guide to Money: An Awesome Fun Guide to the World of FinanceInvesting for Kids: From Piggy Banks to PortfoliosWhy Money Matters (Deborah Meaden)Monopoly - any version Season 5's paid sponsor is Strew — a home education logging app developed by a UK home educating mum and her brother. They've given us access to play around with the app over the next few weeks, and we'll be reviewing it honestly as we go. So far, we're especially loving:The feed (a scrollable timeline of what you've been up to)Uploading photos and adding notes (so your memories don't just sit in your camera roll with no context)The ability to scan books (and other learning) into the appThe optional AI feature that can help categorise what you've logged (e.g., literacy, maths, etc.) and generate “study points” If you want to try Strew, use code 'bighomeed' when you subscribe. - Head to https://strew.app/ to download it now on IOS and Android. Follow + connectInstagram + TikTok: @bighomeedpodcast Website + weekly blog/resources: bighomeedpodcast.com If you're joining in with our weekly topic challenge, come and tell us what you did — we'd love to share your ideas with the community.

Welcome back to Season 5 of the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast. In this short “we're back!” episode, Kelly Rigg (home ed mum of two, qualified mindset + ADHD coach) and Ashley Vanerio (home ed mum of three, former primary teacher) share what's been happening behind the scenes, why we took a break, and what's coming up next. This season we're doing something a bit different: each week we'll pick a random topic out of a hat, go away and explore it with our kids (without telling each other what we're doing), then come back to compare notes. We'll share what worked, what flopped, what resources we found, what questions our kids asked, and what unexpected learning popped up along the way. We're also excited to share that Season 5 is sponsored by Strew — a UK-built home education app created by brother and sister duo, Kayley & Woody as fellow home educators - they really know what we need from a home ed app! We'll be trying out features across the season (photos, activity logging, book scanning and more) and reporting back honestly as we go. Take a listen to find out what we pulled from the hat first then come and join the conversation on social media, and tell us what you do with this week's topic. Season 5 is Sponsored by: Strew App - Download here: https://strew.app/ and use code: 'bighomeed' so they know where you found it! Follow Strew on Social media - @strewapp on Instagram and TikTok. Follow us: Instagram + TikTok: @bighomeedpodcast Website: bighomeedpodcast.com

It's the final episode of Season 4 of the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast, and we're keeping up our (now official!) yearly tradition: a relaxed, honest Year in Reflection. Kelly and Ashley look back on what's worked in their home education lives this year—what's felt joyful, what's been challenging, and what they want to carry forward into next year. Expect a cosy, chatty recap filled with real-life wins, lessons learned, and practical ideas you can borrow for your own home ed. In this episode, we talk about: Why travel (UK trips, camping, and overseas adventure) brings built-in novelty and learning—especially for neurodivergent families Using different modes of transport (ferries, trains) as learning opportunities and curiosity fuel The ongoing juggle of routines, energy and extracurriculars (pony share, forest school, climbing, online classes) How read-alouds, audiobooks and book studies have shaped learning, sparked big conversations, and supported reluctant readers Regulation tools, movement, and mixing up learning mediums (chalk pens, drawing on glass, sensory supports) Enterprise learning through craft fairs and kid-led projects What we're adjusting next year: social rhythms, responsibilities/chores, games, and finding a better balance We also share a huge thank you to everyone who's listened, reviewed, shared, and supported Season 4—and we'll be taking a short break before returning for Season 5 in the spring. Don't forget to subscribe and catch up on earlier episodes while you wait! Keywords: home education UK, home ed year in review, neurodivergent home education, unschooling, eclectic homeschooling, home ed travel, home education routines, read alouds, audiobooks for kids, home ed resources Stay connected: Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @bighomeedpodcast, and catch up on any episodes you've missed while we're on break. We'll also be dropping the occasional book review over the winter.

In this episode of the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast, Kelly and Ashley get real about adultism—the often-unquestioned power imbalance between adults and children. Inspired by fellow home educating mum and respected expert on Adultism, Eloise Rickman and her book 'It's Not Fair', they reflect on how even the most conscious parents can slip into controlling patterns, and what it means to truly respect kids as full people. They discuss: What adultism is, and how it shows up in everyday family life. The challenge of letting go of control as kids grow and assert themselves. Why children's rights and autonomy matter (and why most of us never learned about them.) The impact of language, discipline, and school structures on children's self-worth. Personal stories about food battles, bodily autonomy, and learning to find a balance between protection and control. How to balance safety, boundaries and respect—without losing your mind as a parent! Kelly and Ashley share honest moments of vulnerability, cringe from some seriously eye opening moments experienced whilst reading, and how important growth is in this area, as well as offering practical ways to shift from a power-over dynamic to a more collaborative, compassionate approach. They highlight the importance of compromise, self-reflection, and community support for parents doing this work. Take it further: Listen in for inspiration, solidarity, and practical ideas to help you rethink your own patterns and raise more empowered, respected kids. Join the conversation on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast, or via the blog www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/blog Don't forget to grab a copy of Eloise Rickman's book, 'It's Not Fair' to take your journey down this road further Keywords: adultism, respectful parenting, children's rights, home education UK, conscious parenting, autonomy for kids, power dynamics, BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast

In this episode of the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast, Kelly and Ashley sit down with Catherine Gladwell, founder and CEO of Refugee Education UK, to explore what education really looks like when your whole life has been uprooted. Catherine shares powerful stories from her work with refugee children and teenagers in the UK – many of whom have been out of school for years, arrived alone as unaccompanied minors, or are trying to learn in a new language while carrying trauma, grief and separation from family. Together they unpack: Why over half of the world's refugee children are currently out of school The hidden barriers refugee learners face in the UK (language, trauma, missing records, complex systems) How academic potential is misjudged when language and PTSD get mistaken for “low ability” Incredible resilience and self‑motivation – from teens fighting to sit GCSEs to those dreaming of rebuilding their home countries The emotional impact of prejudice, othering and hostile narratives about refugees How schools can better recognise prior learning (mother‑tongue GCSEs, accelerated learning, subject‑specific language support) What home‑educating families can do to talk about refugees, challenge stereotypes and raise more compassionate kids Kelly and Ashley also reflect on parallels with home education: worries about “translating” a non‑standard educational path into exams, further education and future opportunities – and how our current systems often measure the wrong things while missing character, resilience and lived experience. Resources mentioned: The Boy at the Back of the Class by Onjali Q. Raúf - Get it here. Refugee Education UK - https://www.reuk.org/donate Take it further: Use this episode as a springboard to talk with your children about refugees, displacement and shared humanity. Small acts of welcome – a smile, a hello, an invitation to play – can make a huge difference to a young person starting again in a new country. Keywords: refugee education UK, refugee children in school, asylum seekers and education, prejudice and refugees, inclusive education, trauma‑informed teaching, accelerated learning, home education UK, changing perspectives, empathy for refugees

In this powerful episode of the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast, Kelly and Ashley sit down with author, educator and neurodivergent advocate Helen Daniel to unpack ableism in the education system through the lens of SEND and neurodivergence. Drawing on Helen's experience as a teacher, academic and author of Neurosensory Divergence: Autistic Languages, they explore how a system built on standardisation often fails autistic and otherwise neurodivergent children – and what more equitable, sensory-aware education could look like, both in school and in home ed. Together they dive into: How curriculum changes and raised targets (times tables, Shakespeare, early formal writing) pushed more neurodivergent children “outside the norm.” Why standardisation is the enemy of equity – and why one-size-fits-all schooling doesn't work for diverse brains. EHCPs, SEND provision and why the system feels broken for so many families. Sensory profiles, overload and meltdowns: what's really going on beneath “behaviour.” Practical examples of small, powerful accommodations (movement, video learning, headphones, flexible seating.) How home ed groups can unintentionally replicate ableism – and how to design more inclusive spaces. Teaching all children (ND and NT) compassion, curiosity and respect for different needs. This is a validating, eye-opening listen for: Parents of autistic, ADHD, PDA or otherwise neurodivergent children. Home educating families navigating SEND needs. Teachers who feel the system is wrong but don't know how to change it. Any parent wanting to raise more compassionate, neuro-affirming kids. Guest Spotlight: Find Helen's book Neurosensory Divergence: Autistic Languages in all the usual places for a deeper dive into sensory processing, autistic communication and building truly equitable lives for autistic children. Find Helen at https://outsidetheboxsensory.com/ or on social media @otbsensory. (New website coming soon though!) Join the conversation: Has this episode resonated with your family's experience of SEND or neurodivergence? Share your stories or questions with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast, or head to the blog www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/blog for more resources and episode notes. Keywords: SEND and ableism, neurodivergent children, autism and education, EHCPs UK, sensory needs in school, home education UK, inclusive home ed, trauma-informed education, alternative education, autistic-friendly learning, neurosensory divergence

In this episode of the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast, Kelly and Ashley dive deep into the often-unspoken topic of prejudice within the home educating community. From unschooling vs. curriculum-based approaches, to faith, politics, socioeconomic status, and cultural backgrounds, they unpack the subtle (and not-so-subtle) biases that can create divides among home educators. With real-life stories, honest reflections, and a healthy dose of empathy, they explore: Why different home ed methods spark debate (unschooling, project-based, curriculum-led, eclectic) How faith, politics, and culture shape our perspectives—and how to honour differences Socioeconomic barriers, privilege, and the importance of compassion over comparison The risks of judgement and the power of community support Practical tips for recognising and challenging your own biases Whether you're a seasoned home edder or just starting out, this episode is a call to celebrate individuality, question assumptions, and create a more welcoming, diverse, and resilient home education community. Book Spotlight: This week, we're recommending Wonder by R.J. Palacio—a moving story about difference, kindness, and the courage to stand out. It's a brilliant way to open up conversations about prejudice, empathy, and the importance of welcoming everyone, no matter how different they may seem. Support the Podcast and the environment, get it from World of Books Now: https://tidd.ly/4i0oMg3. Join the conversation: Has this topic resonated with you? Share your experiences or questions with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast, or visit our blog for more resources and episode notes. Keywords: home education UK, home ed prejudice, unschooling vs curriculum, diversity in home education, home education community, challenging bias, inclusive homeschooling, home ed support, alternative education, neurodivergent families

In this powerful episode of the Big Home Ed Conversations Podcast, Kelly and Ashley sit down with Atlanta-based educator, tech specialist, and author Chris Linder—founder of Homeschool Remix—to dig deep into what real diversity and inclusion can look like in home education. Chris brings a wealth of lived experience, working with all families, but especially Black, Brown, Indigenous, and marginalized families to create flexible, hybrid homeschooling solutions that fit real life—not just the “ideal” often seen online. Together, we explore why representation in education matters, how to actively include all voices, and the practical barriers many families face in both the UK and US. This episode covers: Chris's unique journey from radio DJ to teacher, tech expert, and home education advocate. What “hybrid homeschooling” really means—and why it's a lifeline for diverse and working families. The invisible barriers and stigmas that keep home education feeling out of reach for many. Why representation and critical thinking are essential—at home and in the curriculum. The chilling reality of banned books, whitewashing, and whose stories get told in schools. How to start tough conversations about race, privilege, ableism, and identity with your kids. Practical, honest advice for making home education accessible (even on a tight budget). The “folding chair” philosophy: if there's no seat at the table, bring your own—and build community. Plus: Why critical thinking—not just travel—is the antidote to prejudice. Book recommendations for building empathy and perspective at home: Our recommendation this week is Ghost by Jason Reynolds - get it here from World of Books. We're recommending Ghost by Jason Reynolds to accompany this episode because it's a powerful, accessible novel that tackles themes of race, poverty, resilience, and belonging through the eyes of a young Black boy navigating life's challenges. Ghost's story offers a window into experiences often underrepresented in mainstream curricula, making it a brilliant conversation starter for families wanting to build empathy, discuss diversity, and see the world from a different perspective. It's an engaging, fast-paced read that encourages critical thinking, compassion, and honest conversations about what it means to find your place in the world—perfect for the heart of today's discussion. How to join Chris's “Seat Squad” community for ongoing support: Head to www.homeschoolremix.com to grab Chris's book, 'Homeschool Remix' and join his community. Listener invitation: We want your voices! Have you faced barriers, prejudice, or found creative ways to make home education work for your family? Share your story or question with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast, or visit our blog at offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/blog to join the conversation. We'd love to feature your lived experience in a future episode.

Welcome back to Season 4 of the Big Home Ed Conversations Podcast! In this new “Changing Perspectives” series, Kelly and Ashley dive into the big, sometimes uncomfortable, but always essential conversations about diversity, inclusion, and breaking out of our bubbles as home educating families. This season is all about stretching our thinking—beyond our own lived experiences, beliefs, and backgrounds—to raise kids who are compassionate, curious, and ready to thrive in a diverse world. We're opening the door to voices and stories we might not hear in our everyday circles, and asking the questions that really matter: Who isn't represented in our community? How can we make home education more welcoming and accessible? What does true belonging look like for all families? In this kickoff episode, you'll hear: Why we're making space for new perspectives and lived experiences in home ed. Honest reflections on privilege, accessibility, and the myths of home education. The importance of teaching our kids to step into someone else's shoes—whether it's about race, religion, disability, gender, family structure, or life circumstances. Our hopes for this series: More empathy, more critical thinking, and more real conversations at home. Book recommendations and practical ways to start these conversations with your own children. How YOU can get involved by sharing your stories, questions, or lived experiences (see below!) PLUS: Our honest review of Outschool after a summer of classes—what worked, what didn't, and a special discount code for listeners (details in the episode!). Listener Invitation: We want your voices and stories! Visit the blog at offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/blog for a list of upcoming topics, or message us directly on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast. If you have a personal experience, question, or comment about diversity, inclusion, or belonging in home education, send it our way—we'd love to read it on air (anonymously if you prefer). What's coming up: Throughout this season, expect open-hearted conversations with authors, experts, real voices and home educators from all walks of life. We'll tackle tough topics: prejudice and privilege, whitewashing in education, banned books, gender and sexuality, ableism, neurodiversity, and more. Each episode will include a book recommendation for you and your kids—perfect for expanding your family's bookshelf and worldview. Let's break the cycle of “fixed facts” and automatic assumptions, and raise kids who know that every voice matters—including their own.

In this special Book Club episode, Ashley Vanerio dives into The Four-Hour School Day—a practical, encouraging guide for new and seasoned home educators alike. Written by veteran homeschool mum of eight, Durenda Wilson, this book challenges the myth that learning at home needs to look like the 8am–4pm school grind. Ashley shares her honest first impressions (including a heads-up about the book's strong Christian perspective), and why this title is still packed with value for all home ed families—religious or not. From the realities of how little time home learning actually takes, to the importance of rhythm, consistency, and nurturing relationships, Ashley explores the book's most helpful themes: Why “less is more” in home education—and how you can get more done in less time The difference between “socialization” and “socializing” (and how to answer the dreaded question!) How to avoid comparison traps and build a home ed life that fits your unique family The power of following your child's passions and letting go of schoolish pressure Encouragement for parents: you don't need a teaching degree, just trust, time, and connection Ashley highlights her favourite chapters, shares honest reactions, and explains why this book makes a great confidence booster for new home educators—or a gentle resource to hand to sceptical family members. Ready to read? Grab it from Amazon or Waterstones or any other retailer! Have you read The Four-Hour School Day? Share your thoughts with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast, or let us know what you think of this review! Next up for Book Club: Hunt, Gather, Parent—what ancient cultures can teach us about raising happy, helpful kids. Stay tuned for more short, honest reviews and practical home ed inspiration. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave us a review or share with a friend! Follow us over on TikTok or Instagram @BIGHomeEdPodcast

This week, Ashley pops in solo to launch something new and fun for our community—the BIG Home Ed Book Club! Think bite-sized, practical reflections you can listen to on a walk, while folding laundry, or between activities. In this intro, Ashley: Shares why we're starting a book club now (hello accountability and actually finishing the gems on our shelves) Walks through the books on her current list and why they matter for home-educating families Explains how the series will work: short recaps, key takeaways, surprises, and who each book is best for—even if you don't read along! Books mentioned The Four-Hour School Day by Durenda Wilson — Next week's pick! The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt Untangled by Lisa Damour The Case for Make-Believe by Susan Linn Between by Sarah Ockwell-Smith Hold On to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté Hunt, Gather, Parent by Michaeleen Doucleff Peaceful Parent, Happy Siblings by Dr. Laura Markham The Read-Aloud Family by Sarah Mackenzie Let Them Be Kids by Jessica Smartt Raising Critical Thinkers by Julie Bogart What's next Read along: The Four-Hour School Day by Durenda Wilson Ashley will share a practical, no-fluff recap next week: big ideas, what surprised her, and how to apply it in real life Why this series will help Quick refreshers so the good stuff actually sticks Support for parents at different stages—from little years to tweens and teens Curated, relevant reads for UK home ed families (and beyond) Links Read-Aloud Revival: readaloudrevival.com (book lists, podcast, family book club) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram: @bighomeedpodcast Podcast page: www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/podcast If you're new here This is a bonus mini-episode. For our usual conversations, start with earlier episodes to get a feel for our style and mission! In the mean time don't forget to: Subscribe so you don't miss the first book club review! Share this episode with a home ed friend who loves a good book stack! Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help others find us!! Keywords: home education, homeschooling, book club, home ed resources, Durenda Wilson, The Four-Hour School Day, parenting books, tween parenting, read-alouds, Julie Bogart, UK home education

Newly deregistered or just beginning your home ed journey this September? You're in the right place. In the final episode of the “Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed” series, Kelly Rigg (home education mindset coach and co-host of the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast) shares a calm, practical 90‑day plan to help you find your feet without recreating school at home. Kelly's simple three-Rs framework: Regulate: Lower stress by meeting basic needs first—breath, water, food, sleep, movement, and sensory decompression. Expect dysregulation after leaving school; make space for it. Reconnect: Rebuild trust and joy with 10 minutes of undivided attention, low-pressure outings, and child-led choices. Get their buy-in before booking clubs to avoid resentment. Read the room (Observe): Light-touch notes on what lights them up, what frustrates them, and where you connect. Spot patterns and gently follow their rabbit holes—without overengineering and killing the spark. You'll learn: Why the early 'mess' is normal—and how to reduce overwhelm fast! How to balance your needs with theirs (boundaries and compromises that work.) What to do if your kids ask to go back to school (and why that feeling is common.) How much “education time” you actually need (hint: far less than a school day!) Permission slips: it's okay to pause, scrap a plan, or write off a day (or longer!) Focus on meeting those needs, reconnecting and noticing and you will lay the best foundations for your home ed journey. Helpful resources: Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed Workbook and the First 30 Days of Home Ed calendar (daily prompts to regulate, reconnect, and observe): www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/work-with-me What's up next: Ashley's Book Club mini-series kicks off next week! Your chance to find out what we have been loving reading lately! Season 4 (Fresh Perspectives) starts early October with inspiring guests and conversations that stretch curiosity and empathy towards individuals in our diverse communities who are seriously under-represented in education. Subscribe now to make sure you don't miss it! Join the conversation:Are you just starting out or still have questions? Share with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast. Keywords: home education UK, starting home education, first 90 days home ed, deschooling, home education mindset, deregistration UK, home ed routine, neurodivergent home education, gentle parenting, unschooling principles

Feeling the urge to buy new pens or lunchboxes—even though your kids aren't going “back to school”? You're not alone! In this heartfelt episode, Kelly and Ashley dive deep into the rituals and traditions that sneak into home education, and how social conditioning around “back-to-school” can trigger anxiety, guilt, or FOMO—even for seasoned home ed families. We unpack: Why back-to-school shopping and new routines tug at our emotions (even when we know we don't need them) The difference between meaningful family traditions and habits that are just social pressure in disguise How to create authentic, empowering rituals that suit your unique home ed lifestyle Letting go of external judgment, performance anxiety, and the need to “keep up” Practical ways to build core memories and intentional family traditions—without the overwhelm Plus, we share real-life stories, gentle mindset shifts, and plenty of laughs about muddy camping clothes, first impressions, and the power of saying “no” to unnecessary expectations. This summer, Outschool have offered us a sponsored opportunity to use—and honestly review—their learning platform right here on the podcast. Go listen to what we have to say! If you'd like to take advantage of the offer we mention, head to www.outschool.com/HOMEED and use code HOMEED35 to get $35 off your family's first month! Perfect for home educating parents in the UK (and beyond!) who want to break free from school-based conditioning, trust their instincts, and build a home ed life that feels good all year round. Let us know: What rituals or pressures are you letting go of this year? Drop us a message on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast!

Are you about to start home education and feeling overwhelmed by all the choices, routines, and expectations? You're not alone! In this episode of the Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed series, Kelly Rigg (home educating mum, mindset coach, and podcast co-founder) talks honestly about the realities of transitioning into home ed life—especially how to create a routine that actually works for your whole family, not just your kids. We explore: Why home education is a lifestyle shift, not just an education decision How to factor in YOUR needs, ambitions, and well-being (not just your child's) The truth about time, structure, and finding balance as a home ed parent Why “busy” isn't always better—and how to avoid hustle culture and burnout The power of intrinsic learning, curiosity, and letting go of school-based routines Practical tips for building a rhythm that feels good for everyone, including you You'll also hear about Kelly's own journey (and mistakes!), why it's okay to use the national curriculum as a starting point, and how to gently question what really matters most for your family. Plus, get reassurance that it's normal to feel unsteady—and that you're allowed to slow down, say no, and make space for your own growth and happiness. Mentioned in this episode: The “Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed” workbook (journaling prompts & self-reflection tools) The “First 30 Days of Home Ed” calendar (gentle daily prompts for a soft landing—grab it from the Offroading Motherhood website) Free 30-minute coaching chat with Kelly for parents who want extra support You can grab all of these from www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/work-with-me If you're struggling to balance everyone's needs or worried you'll lose yourself in the process, this episode will help you breathe, reset, and step into home ed with more confidence and clarity. Ready to build a home ed life that works for all of you? Share your thoughts, questions, or routines with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast—or book a free chat with Kelly today!

Thinking about home education but feeling overwhelmed by doubts, legal questions, or worries about what others will think? You're not alone! In this episode, Kelly and Ashley get real about the most common roadblocks families face when starting (or even just considering) their home ed journey—from legalities and partner hesitations to social pressure, money worries, and the myth that you need to replicate school at home. We discuss: Is home education really legal in the UK (and beyond)? How to get confident about the rules Navigating partner, family, and friend scepticism—especially when no one around you “gets it” The fear of “ruining” your child's education, missing out on socialisation, or not being “qualified” Why you don't need to replicate school at home (and how much time home ed actually takes) The realities of working, budgeting, and fitting in self-care as a home educating parent How to handle awkward questions from strangers and the pressure to justify your choices The importance of building a supportive community and trusting your instincts Plus, we share our own stories—honest moments of doubt, funny run-ins with “concerned” strangers, and what finally helped us move past the biggest mental and practical barriers. This summer, Outschool have offered us a sponsored opportunity to use—and honestly review—their learning platform right here on the podcast. Go listen to what we have to say! If you'd like to take advantage of the offer we mention, head to www.outschool.com/HOMEED and use code HOMEED35 to get $35 off your family's first month! Whether you're just researching, feeling stuck, or already on your home ed journey but hitting new hurdles, this episode will help you breathe, reframe your worries, and find practical ways forward. Remember: most “roadblocks” are just questions waiting for honest answers—and you're allowed to do things differently. Resources mentioned: Mindset coaching and support (with Kelly) - go to www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/work-with-me Real-life examples and encouragement from the home ed community What's the biggest roadblock on your mind right now? DM us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast and let's talk about it!

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley dive deep into the realities of planning as home educators. They share honest reflections on balancing structure with flexibility, the value of following children's interests, and how platforms like Outschool can support unique learning journeys. From curriculum choices to spontaneous learning moments, this conversation is packed with practical tips and relatable stories. This summer Outschool have offered us a sponsored opportunity to use, then offer our honest review of their learning platform on this podcast. Go listen to what we have to say! Then, if you would like to take advantage of the offer we mention - go grab it now - www.outschool.com/HOMEED using code HOMEED35 to get $35 off your family's first month!Vibe check before you dig in: “Not everything needs to be planned. If your plan goes out the window, that's okay.” “One project can cover five or six different learning goals all at once.” “The national curriculum is not the bar. What we're aiming for is a well-rounded, enthusiastic, loves-learning human.” If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe and leave a review! Got a topic you want us to cover? Send us a message over on Instagram or TikTok - @bighomeedpodcast or kelly@offroadingmotherhood.co.uk and help shape the next conversation.

Join Kelly Rigg, a mindset coach and co-host of the Big Home Ed Conversations, as she delves into the motivations behind choosing home education. In this episode, Kelly shares personal insights and addresses common fears and misconceptions about home education. Discover how to align your family's values with your educational choices and explore the philosophies that can guide your journey. Key Topics: The personal and philosophical reasons for choosing home education. Addressing common fears and societal myths about home education. The importance of aligning educational choices with family values. Influential thinkers and philosophies in home education. Keywords: Home Education, Mindset Coaching, Family Values, Educational Philosophy, Personal Growth Resources: Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed Workbook: www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/work-with-me Influential Books: "How Children Learn" by John Holt, "Home Education" by Charlotte Mason, "The Absorbent Mind" by Maria Montessori #HomeEducation #MindsetCoach #FamilyValues #EducationalPhilosophy Explore more about home education philosophies and connect with Kelly for a free 30-minute clarity call to get personalised 1:1 support on your home education journey.

In this episode of the Big Home Ed Conversations, hosts Kelly Rigg and Ashley Venario discuss the challenges of home education, particularly during life events that can lead to slumps that can make you feel like nothing is going right, or that you may never get your flow again. They emphasize the importance of self-compassion for parents and children, recognizing where you are still moving forward, and the need for huge flexibility in educational approaches when times get hard. The conversation highlights that learning continues in various forms, even when traditional structures are disrupted, and offers strategies for gradually reintroducing routines to help stabilise things again. Ultimately, the hosts encourage listeners to embrace the unique journey of home education and to find balance amidst the chaos. Keywords: home education, parenting, neurodivergent families, educational slumps, self-compassion, learning through life, flexibility in education, overcoming challenges, family dynamics, home schooling

In this bonus solo episode, Kelly Rigg discusses the mindset shifts necessary for families considering home education. She shares her personal journey into home education, emphasizing the importance of de-schooling and understanding the practical steps involved in deregistering a child from school. The conversation highlights the empowerment of families to make educational choices that suit their unique needs and the importance of questioning traditional educational norms. This is part of a series 'Get your head straight to home ed!' that will be posted throughout the summer, look out for the accompanying workbook at www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/workwithme to help your family make this decision feeling supported and empowered. Takeaways There is a huge amount of work that goes into mentally shifting from traditional education. Many people feel disillusioned with the traditional education system. Home education can provide a more fulfilling and engaging learning experience for children. De-schooling is essential to move away from traditional educational expectations. Families should focus on their unique values and goals in education. The deregistration process is straightforward but requires careful consideration. Home education allows for a more child-led and flexible approach to learning. It's important to recognize and address fears and uncertainties about home education. Support systems, such as coaching, can be beneficial for families transitioning to home education. Establishing connection with children is crucial for a successful home education experience.

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the importance of breaking from from the 'sit down' culture' in education and the need for movement in learning, the role of play, and the significance of mental well-being in the educational process. The conversation emphasizes breaking free from traditional education methods and the importance of routines, sensory engagement, and fostering curiosity in children. They also highlight the impact of environment on learning and the need for a more holistic approach to education that values individual needs and interests. Follow us @bighomeedpodcast on Tiktok and Instagram Don't miss our summer bonus episodes on Getting your head straight to home ed! Takeaways: Movement is essential for effective learning and engagement. Learning through play significantly improves retention and understanding. Establishing routines helps children feel secure and thrive. Engaging multiple senses in learning enhances retention and understanding. Mental well-being is crucial for both children and parents in education. Children learn better when they can move and engage physically with their environment. Curiosity should be nurtured to foster a love for learning. Rethinking traditional education methods can lead to more effective learning experiences. Creating a supportive and engaging learning environment is key to success.

In this episode of the Big Home Ed podcast, hosts Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio end up having a light debate about the evolving role of AI in home education. They explore how AI can streamline educational processes, enhance creativity, and provide support for parents but also addresses concerns about the impact of AI on critical thinking and the importance of balancing technology use with traditional learning methods. The hosts share personal anecdotes and practical applications of AI in their daily lives, emphasizing the need for intentional use of technology to enrich the home education experience. Keywords: home education, AI in education, parenting, creative storytelling, educational technology, homeschooling, personal development, critical thinking, generational perspectives, learning strategies, homeschool planning, home education planning, busy work, reducing overwhelm, parenting hacks

In this episode Kelly Rigg & Ashley Vanerio chat to Luna Flowerday, radical unschooler and worldschooler who is currently travelling the world with her husband and three children. Starting bus life during covid, pregnant with a toddler was a bold choice and one that has lead to years of joy, challenges for sure, but a whole other outlook on life and how it can be lived. In this episode we cover the truths about worldschooling, how little stuff you really need, how much less it costs to travel full time than to run a home and how achievable and possible this life truly is with some imagination and perseverance. So whether you are a home educator or not, if you ever dream about ditching the social constructs we see ourselves feeling trapped in today, take a listen and tell us what you think! Follow us over on TikTok or Instagram at @Bighomeedpodcasts and follow Luna too @lunaflowerday. If you want to learn more about how you can make this lifestyle become a reality then head to her store: https://stan.store/LunaFlowerday. See you next week for an impromptu debate between myself and Ashley about the use of AI in home education! Eeek! That was so much fun to record so looking forward to hearing your thoughts. Keywords: Worldschool, affording worldschooling, work from home ideas, home education, homeschooling, roadschooling, bus life, travelling with kids, travel tips for parents, parenting tips, places to travel with kids, real experience, real worldschooler

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley discuss the feelings and reflections that arise as the 'school year' comes to a close, as home educators we don't always adhere to the concepts of school years/grade levels and otherwise - but we do still have some hang ups that like to rear their ugly heads this time of year. In this episode, Kelly and Ashley reflect on how this time of year has made them feel, what it inspires us to do over the summer and how this can be turned into a positive, reflective and joyful time of year as easily as it could end up being stressful. The conversation emphasizes the significance of trusting the home education process, reducing anxiety, and recognizing the progress made throughout the year. Find us on Instagram and Tiktok @bighomeedpodcast - don't forget to rate if you loved this episode! Keywords: home education, school year, learning, flexibility, planning, summer break, school anxiety, parenting, education, reflections, end of term, summer holidays, unschooling, parenting, motherhood, reframing, mindset, limiting beliefs, deschooling, deregistering, changing mindsets around education

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss their journey in home education, reflecting on their podcast's evolution and the importance of individual learning paths. They share personal anecdotes about family dynamics, gratitude, and the challenges of parenting. The conversation emphasizes the significance of values in education and different learning styles, encouraging listeners to embrace their unique approaches to home education. In this conversation, they discuss the evolution of their educational methods, whether its a more school-like approach to unschooling to a more structured yet flexible approach that prioritizes child-led learning. The conversation also touches on the significance of fostering a positive parent-child relationship and the values that guide their educational philosophy. Additionally, they reflect on their podcast's growth and share plans for future episodes, highlighting the importance of community feedback. Follow us over on @bighomeedpodcast on instagram and tiktok! Let us know who you want to hear from in upcoming interviews and please do share the podcast with a friend!

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss their reactions and lasting feelings after the interview last week with Wendy Charles-Warner, Co-Chair of Education Otherwise. They emphasize the importance of community support, the need for a unified approach to advocacy, and the ongoing fight for home education rights. The hosts address stereotypes, government agendas, and the necessity for compassionate dialogue while highlighting the value of home education in promoting diversity and creativity in society. In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the implications of the Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill affecting home education, focusing on the burdensome reporting requirements for parents, the perceived overreach of government control, and the emotional toll on families. They critically examine the narrative that schools are inherently safer for children and advocate for parental rights and autonomy in education. The discussion emphasizes the importance of building relationships with children and the need for community advocacy to protect these rights. Share you thoughts and feedback with Kelly and Ashley on TikTok and Instagram @bighomeedpodcast Sign the petition mentioned in the podcast here: https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/716515?fbclid=IwY2xjawKv8GNleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBicmlkETFvNHVwTzZEVlMzWURiZmMxAR63S6Urz5MQUOqJZh9q4JoJIfNjHH81vVn18umW96KqfDCbkHgxbkwjulZnLg_aem_s4NWwDJ_dlbFAGa5FcX1Yw Keywords: home education, rights, community, legislation, misconceptions, government agenda, financial support, compassionate dialogue, education diversity, home educators, home education, parental rights, government overreach, children's safety, education policy, homeschooling, family values, safeguarding, education reform, community advocacy

In this episode, May 2025, Kelly Rigg and Wendy Charles-Warner discuss the ongoing Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill, its implications for home education, and the community's response. They explore the current status of the bill in Parliament, concerns regarding registration and data requirements, and the potential impact on families, particularly those under scrutiny from social services. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community activism, the role of media in advocacy, and the need for parents to overcome fear and take action to protect their rights. In this conversation, Wendy Charles-Warner and Kelly Rigg discuss the complexities and challenges surrounding home education, particularly in light of proposed government registration measures. They explore the limitations of government oversight, the need for funding and support for home educators, and the impact of draconian measures on relationships between parents and local authorities. The discussion emphasizes the importance of celebrating diversity in education and the ideological motivations behind current education policies. Ultimately, they advocate for parental rights and the need for a more supportive approach to home education. Share you thoughts and feedback with Kelly and Ashley on TikTok and Instagram @bighomeedpodcast Sign the petition mentioned in the podcast here: https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/716515?fbclid=IwY2xjawKv8GNleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBicmlkETFvNHVwTzZEVlMzWURiZmMxAR63S6Urz5MQUOqJZh9q4JoJIfNjHH81vVn18umW96KqfDCbkHgxbkwjulZnLg_aem_s4NWwDJ_dlbFAGa5FcX1Yw Keywords: Children's Wellbeing, Schools Bill, Home Education, Parental Rights, Social Services, Education Otherwise, Community Activism, Legislative Process, Family Rights, Education Policy, home education, registration, government oversight, funding, support, education policy, parental rights, diversity, advocacy

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the joys of home education, particularly focusing on the insane benefits of world schooling, learning through travel and experiences. They reflect on their own experiences with travel, how it serves as a powerful teacher for children, and the importance of contextual learning. The conversation emphasizes the value of creating relevant and engaging learning opportunities for children through real-world experiences, allowing children time to delve into their own child-led interests, and the benefits of embracing tangents in learning. The discussion emphasizes the joy of learning for its own sake and the importance of fostering a curious mindset in both children and adults and the benefit that brings us in life. Keywords: home education, experiential learning, travel, parenting, education, homeschooling, family, learning, nature, wildlife, homeschooling, learning, curiosity, education, ocean exploration, hands-on activities, flexibility in education, lifelong learning, parenting, experiential learning, worldschooling, travelling with kids.

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the evolution of home education, particularly in the UK, highlighting the significant growth of the community post-COVID. They explore the challenges and opportunities that arise from this expansion, emphasizing the importance of maintaining the core values of home education while adapting to new realities. The conversation also touches on the need for sustainability in community activities and the value of gratitude in parenting. In this conversation, Ashley Vanerio and Kelly Rigg discuss the importance of community engagement in home education, the need for support and resources for local educators, and the challenges of funding for home educators. They explore the concept of active inclusion in education, the evolving nature of the home education community, and the significance of building relationships and support networks among parents. Keywords: home education, community growth, sustainability, parenting, neurodivergent families, education evolution, gratitude, family activities, home ed community, mindset coaching, home education, community support, local resources, funding, active inclusion, homeschooling, parent relationships, educational resources, online learning, home educators

In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio explore the complexities of sensory sensitivities and not just through the eyes of neurodivergence, but the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for self-care in parenting as we work so hard to meet the needs of our children. They discuss how sensory overload affects family dynamics and the significance of engaging and understanding our sensory experience of the world. They discuss how overstimulation and under-stimulation - be it too much noise or being stuck at home for days, can affect focus, drive, satisfaction and emotional well-being, and emphasize the significance of recognizing personal limits and needs. Ultimately, they advocate for listening to one's body and respecting your needs as well as your children's, to foster a healthier family environment that is sustainable.

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio explore the challenges and joys of home education, the societal pressures to conform, and the importance of embracing individuality. They discuss the concept of being 'weird' as adults, the journey of stepping outside societal expectations, and the empowerment of children to embrace their uniqueness. The conversation highlights the value of play in childhood and the significance of self-care and personal growth in the context of parenting. In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio explore the complexities of modern parenting, particularly in relation to neurodiversity, the importance of outdoor play, and the shift in societal expectations of children. They discuss the significance of fostering a sense of belonging over fitting in, the challenges of instilling confidence in adolescents, and the journey towards body positivity and self-acceptance. The dialogue emphasizes the responsibility of parents to raise compassionate, critical thinkers who can navigate societal pressures and embrace their individuality.

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the theme of missing out in the context of home education. They reflect on their own school experiences, the importance of social interactions, and how home education can provide a supportive environment for children to grow and learn. The conversation emphasizes the value of relationships, boundaries, and the unique opportunities that home education offers, while also addressing common concerns parents have about their children missing out on traditional school experiences. Keywords: home education, parenting, social interactions, missing out, education experiences, boundaries, childhood memories, homeschooling, family dynamics, personal growth

Anyone who has been home educating a while will have had a conversation with someone that goes 'oh we home educate....' 'oh gosh, we did that during covid - never again!!' In this episode, Kelly Rigg & Ashley Vanerio discuss the stark differences between 2020 - a year of global fear, anxiety, trying to complete a full time job from home and suddenly schooling house bound, bored, under-stimulated kids...and what home education looks like when you get the lifestyle right. Check out Defensive to Determined series on the www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk website if you are sick of feeling defensive whenever you tell someone you home educate! Keywords: Home Education, Homeschooling, Education, Mental Health, Stigma, Judgement, Defensive, Parenting, Parenting Tools, Parenting Tricks, Primary, Secondary, Intrinsic Motivation.

Welcome back for Season 3 of The Big Home Ed Conversations. Kelly Rigg, Founder of Offroading Motherhood and Ashley Vanerio, fellow home educator and mum of 3 discuss the struggle that is trusting the process, believing all will come right in the end when we have spent our lives being told what success looks like and how many different ways we can 'fail'. Home education is an opportunity to love learning as a process, but we need to know when to tend to that learning and when to let it go wild. Keywords: Homeschooling, Home Education, Education Otherwise, Learning skills, Teaching, Development, Primary Education, Parenting, Parenting Young Children, Parenting Teens, Child Mental Health, Intrinsic Motivation, Extrinsic Motivation.

In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Wendy Charles-Warner are aiming to reassure you that whilst it is important not to panic about the implications of the Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill, it is important to take on an advocating role. They address the anxiety surrounding the bill, the misconceptions about home education, and the statistics that highlight the quality of education and safeguarding in both home-educated and school settings. The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to engage with their MPs and advocate for their rights and the well-being of their children. The discussion emphasizes the role of parents in teaching consent and critical thinking, the limitations of institutional safeguarding, and the bureaucratic challenges that come with home education. Ultimately, they encourage parents to empower themselves and engage with educational policy to ensure their children's well-being. Watch this space for more episodes about the bill as things develop! Keywords: Children's Wellbeing, Schools Bill, Home Education, Parental Rights, Advocacy, Education Quality, Safeguarding, Malicious Referrals, Regulations, Parental Involvement, home education, parental rights, safeguarding children, educational perspectives, consent education, advocacy, community support, educational policy 00:00 Introduction to the Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill 05:45 Challenging Misconceptions About Home Education 15:30 The Impact of Malicious Referrals 20:41 The Burden of New Regulations on Home Educators 25:51 The Importance of Parental Involvement 37:39 Exploring Unique Educational Approaches 43:30 Teaching Consent and Critical Thinking 49:08 Empowering Parents to Advocate for Their Children 56:35 The Importance of Community Support

In this conversation, Ashley Vanerio and Kelly Rigg discuss their experiences for 2024 and how they have inspired them and their kids to learn and grow, focusing on various educational outings and resources. They share insights on the benefits of memberships to educational venues, the importance of experiential learning, and how to engage children in history and culture through travel. The conversation highlights the value of planning ahead for educational trips and utilizing local resources to enhance learning experiences. In this conversation, Ashley Vanerio and Kelly Rigg discuss various engaging resources and innovative approaches to homeschooling. They explore platforms like Teachers Pay Teachers and Twinkl, emphasizing the importance of creative and interactive learning materials. The discussion also covers the use of AI tools like ChatGPT for educational purposes and highlights unique gift ideas for children that promote learning. The conversation wraps up with reflections on their experiences and plans for future discussions. keywords home education, experiential learning, family activities, educational resources, membership benefits, travel learning, local events, nature exploration, cultural education, STEM activities, homeschooling, educational resources, creative learning, unit studies, teaching tools, curriculum, online resources, interactive learning, ChatGPT, holiday gifts

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley reflect on their personal growth and experiences throughout the year, discussing the challenges and successes of home education. They share stories of their children's independence, the importance of understanding neurodiversity, and the need for balance in their lives. The conversation emphasizes the significance of creating supportive environments for both parents and children, while also exploring ways to reclaim their lives through home education. In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the importance of establishing boundaries for self-care, encouraging independence in children, and the growth that comes from facing adversity. They reflect on their experiences with home education, the challenges of parenting, and the significance of finding passion and purpose in their lives. The discussion emphasizes the need for self-reflection and gratitude as they wrap up the year, highlighting the transformative moments that have shaped their journey. Keywords: home education, personal growth, neurodiversity, parenting, independence, education challenges, balance, support, family life, reflections, self-care, boundaries, independence, parenting, home education, personal growth, adversity, reflection, family, passion

In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio explore the complexities of home education, focusing on the role of routines, the challenges of neurodiversity, and the balance between structure and flexibility. They share personal experiences and insights on how to navigate these themes while catering to the diverse needs of their children. The discussion emphasizes the importance of motivation, adaptability, and the need for a tailored approach to home education that respects each family's unique dynamics. In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio explore the themes of mindfulness in parenting, the importance of structure in learning, and the need for self-compassion in the face of educational pressures. They discuss the balance between providing guidance and allowing children to explore independently, emphasizing the privilege of choice in home education. The conversation highlights the significance of recognizing internal pressures and finding joy in the learning process, ultimately encouraging parents to cut themselves some slack and appreciate the journey of education. Keywords: home education, routines, neurodiversity, flexibility, motivation, learning, homeschooling, family dynamics, education strategies, parenting, mindfulness, parenting, education, structure, self-compassion, learning, balance, flexibility, gratitude, home education

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the challenges and realities of home education amidst life's chaos. They explore the importance of real-life learning experiences, the value of boredom and self-directed play, and the balance between parental involvement and children's independence. The conversation emphasizes that learning happens in various forms, not just through structured education, and highlights the significance of allowing children to engage with everyday life to develop essential life skills. In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the challenges and strategies of parenting, particularly focusing on managing household responsibilities, screen time, and fostering creative learning in children. They share personal experiences and insights on how to involve children in household tasks, set boundaries around screen time, and reflect on daily learning activities. The discussion emphasizes the importance of recognizing that learning occurs in various forms and that parents should embrace flexibility in their educational approaches. Don't forget to subscribe! Keywords: home education, real-life learning, chaos, self-directed play, independence, life skills, boredom, parenting, education, family life, parenting, screen time, household responsibilities, creative learning, education, family dynamics, homeschooling, daily reflections, curriculum planning, child involvement

Personal Note: Myself, Kelly, and Ashley have been going through an extremely busy and tough period and it has meant that we have both found that steady guilt creeping in - where you feel like you are missing out on time with your kids, you aren't handling things well, you are losing your patience quicker, you are forgetting things, prioritising the wrong things, feeling like you should be able to do it all, all the time. Our western culture glorifies the hustle. If you aren't driving 25 miles a day minimum, cooking your kids a perfectly well rounded diet, exercising, donating to charity, heading to an activity every day for your kids whilst also keeping up a full time job, cleaning a home, being perfectly calm and patient every second - you aren't 'doing enough' and so much of the time we forget that these expectations aren't actually OURS and nor are they actually real, achievable OR essential. So often we are doing all of it to please some external message about what 'enough' is and 'success' is. This episode is pretty from the heart, a little raw and vulnerable as we discuss our recent struggles with this fine balance and how important it is to find love for yourself in the chaos and maybe CHOOSE slower to reset your intentions, even if that means disappointing other people. Follow us on Instagram: @bighomeedpodcast and do make sure to take moment to rate us and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes! Keywords: slowing down, family connection, hustle culture, self-care, intentional living, seasonal changes, expectations, mindfulness, home education, personal growth, parenting, boundaries, self-care, expectations, mental health, work-life balance, modern parenting, family dynamics, personal growth, compassion

This conversation delves into the complexities of home education rights and duties, both as parents and for our children. Kelly and Ashley chat with special guest Wendy Charles-Warner about the role of local authorities, and the importance of mutual respect in these relationships as Education Otherwise work hard to support parents, train local authorities and advise government bodies to address the inconsistencies and trust issues that are at the heart of fearful dealings with LA education departments - especially when parents are already disillusioned. Wendy Charles-Warner shares her extensive experience in home education, highlighting historical changes in laws and the current landscape of home ed rights and duties. The discussion emphasizes the need for respectful communication, understanding your legal rights, and the importance of valuing individualized education for children. A fascinating discussion and one not to be missed, whether you are new to home ed or otherwise! Join the conversation by reaching out on Instagram @bighomeedpodcast and TikTok - @banish.home.ed.burnout. Are you becoming a fan?? Register for 'The Big Home Ed Conversations: Continued' to get extra resources, insights from us as your hosts and to find out first when new episodes drop! You can register for this on our website, www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/podcast/ 00:00 Introduction to Home Education Rights01:48 Wendy's Journey in Home Education04:43 Historical Context of Home Education Laws07:37 Navigating Local Authority Relationships10:42 The Importance of Respectful Communication14:05 Understanding Local Authority Requests18:23 The Role of Local Authorities in Home Education22:36 Inconsistencies in Local Authority Practices25:52 The Need for Standardized Training29:09 Building Mutual Respect and Trust32:34 The Impact of Parental Attitudes35:03 Understanding Human Rights in Home Education39:58 Qualified Rights and Responsibilities43:04 The Role of Education in Society46:12 The Importance of Individual Learning Styles49:07 The Balance of Rights and Responsibilities52:45 The Future of Home Education Home Education Rights, Local Authorities and Home Education, Legal Rights in Home Education, Home Education Laws, Trust in Education Systems, Standardized Training for Education Authorities, Human Rights in Education, Role of Education in Society, Personalized Learning Styles.

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley discuss the challenges of navigating difficult conversations surrounding home education. They share personal experiences, emphasizing the importance of building conviction, setting boundaries, and understanding family dynamics. The conversation highlights the need for reassurance from the right sources and the significance of community support in the home education journey. They also touch on the societal norms that often challenge home educators and the importance of compassion in conversations with others. Join the conversation by reaching out on Instagram @bighomeedpodcast and TikTok - @banish.home.ed.burnout. Are you becoming a fan?? Register for 'The Big Home Ed Conversations: Continued' to get extra resources, insights from us as your hosts and to find out first when new episodes drop! You can register for this on our website, www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/podcast/ 00:00 Navigating Difficult Conversations in Home Education03:03 Personal Experiences and Family Dynamics06:03 Understanding Family Concerns and Societal Norms09:47 Setting Boundaries in Conversations12:43 Building Conviction and Seeking Reassurance15:22 The Importance of Intent in Conversations18:12 Recognizing the Goal of Conversations21:56 Handling Defensive Reactions24:33 Compassion in Conversations27:39 Finding Your Community30:53 The Journey of Home Education34:30 Reassurance Through Community Support37:35 The Growth of Conviction Over Time40:21 Final Thoughts

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the importance of critical thinking in home education. They explore the challenges of fostering critical thinking in a world that often discourages it, share personal experiences, and emphasize the need for autonomy and self-trust in children. The conversation highlights the impact of generational beliefs and the importance of flexibility in educational approaches. Ultimately, they encourage parents to trust their instincts and make informed decisions that align with their family's values. Join the conversation by reaching out on Instagram @bighomeedpodcast and TikTok - @banish.home.ed.burnout. Are you becoming a fan?? Register for 'The Big Home Ed Conversations: Continued' to get extra resources, insights from us as your hosts and to find out first when new episodes drop! You can register for this on our website, www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/podcast/ 00:00 Introduction to Critical Thinking in Home Education 05:05 Defining Critical Thinking and Its Importance 09:57 Personal Experiences with Critical Thinking 15:05 Navigating External Opinions and Beliefs 19:58 The Role of Context in Decision Making 25:00 Encouraging Autonomy and Self-Trust in Children 30:07 The Impact of Generational Beliefs 34:57 Flexibility and Adaptability in Home Education 40:02 Building Confidence in Decision Making 45:11 Conclusion and Encouragement for Home Educators Keywords: critical thinking, home education, parenting, autonomy, self-trust, decision making, education philosophy, generational beliefs, flexibility, adaptability

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley discuss the concept of child-led learning in home education, emphasizing the importance of following children's interests and fostering their curiosity. They share personal experiences of how allowing children to explore their passions leads to deeper learning and engagement. The conversation also touches on the integration of current events into learning, the significance of special interests, and the joy of reclaiming education for both parents and children. Chapters 00:00 Embracing Child-Led Learning06:12 The Power of Interests in Education12:40 Incorporating Current Events18:27 The Importance of Curiosity25:30 Observing and Supporting Interests31:59 The Value of Special Interests38:52 Reclaiming Education Together Join the conversation by reaching out on Instagram @bighomeedpodcast and TikTok - @banish.home.ed.burnout. Are you becoming a fan?? Register for 'The Big Home Ed Conversations: Continued' to get extra resources, insights from us as your hosts and to find out first when new episodes drop! You can register for this on our website, www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/podcast/ Keywords: Child-led learning, Home education, Following children's interests, Fostering curiosity, Child-led education, Personal learning experiences, Exploring passions, Deeper learning engagement, Integrating current events, Importance of curiosity, Supporting children's interests, Special interests in education, Reclaiming education, Parental involvement in learning, Joy of learning.

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This is a BONUS episode, Hi, this is Kelly here - co-host of The Big Home Ed Conversations. I run this workshop live regularly on my TikTok account @Banish.Home.Ed.Burnout but if you want to listen on the go, you can listen now to this clean recording made just for you! Home Education is an incredible opportunity and one that can create so much freedom and easefulness for your family, but I know as well as anyone, that it can also be a recipe for burn out! Burn out tends to look like - becoming disengaged, lacking creativity, feeling frustrated or fed up, or numb. You may find yourself not enjoying being with your kids as much, or your other relationships. You may even start to feel like you have made a mistake. I am determined to be the person who stands in your way of throwing in the towel by boosting your self belief, confidence, trust or faith in yourself and the process, by helping you to increase your joy and potential, to set better boundaries, to prioritise you alongside your kids to ensure an incredible experience for the whole family. Reach out if you would like to learn more about working with me and if you want to get your hands on Banish Home Ed Burnout itself, click here.

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley discuss the benefits of traveling with kids and the value of hands-on experiences in education. They share personal stories of their recent travels and how it has enhanced their children's learning. They also express their frustration with schools cracking down on attendance and the lack of freedom for families to make their own choices. The conversation highlights the importance of curiosity, play, and learning alongside children. The conversation explores the idea of incorporating different subjects into homeschooling through real-world experiences and hands-on learning. It emphasizes the importance of taking learning outside of the traditional classroom setting and allowing children to explore and engage with the world around them. The conversation also discusses the limitations of the current education system and the need for a more holistic approach to learning. The hosts encourage parents to think creatively and find ways to make learning relevant and practical for their children. Keywords traveling with kids, hands-on experiences, education, school attendance, freedom, curiosity, play, learning alongside children, homeschooling, real-world experiences, hands-on learning, traditional classroom, education system, holistic approach, creativity, practical learning