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As parents, educators, and advocates for neurodivergent kids, it's crucial to recognize that traditional tests and assessments don't always paint the full picture of a child's abilities. In the newest episode of the podcast, we dive into why performance anxiety can create barriers—and how we can scaffold authentic, strengths-based ways for children to show what they truly know. Key Takeaways: Performance Anxiety ≠ Knowledge Gap If a child can demonstrate understanding in low-pressure settings but "freezes" or melts down when assessed, it's not a lack of knowledge—it's the context and perceived safety that need adjusting. Accommodations Are Powerful, Not Coddling Thoughtful adaptations—like adjusting the environment, pacing, or method of response—help reveal rather than hide skills. These accommodations build confidence and resilience for future challenges. Celebrate Wins & Prioritize Safety Progress isn't always linear. Celebrate small victories and focus more on helping children feel safe and seen. Creating a foundation of trust leads to more voluntary engagement and authentic learning. If you're educating or supporting a neurodivergent or twice-exceptional child, remember: The goal isn't to recreate school, but to foster an environment where kids can thrive in ways that make sense for them. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Thank you to our sponsors: CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family! Curiosity Post – A Snail Mail Club for kids – Real mail; Real life! The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling gifted/2e & neurodivergent kiddos! The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family The Anxiety Toolkit Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids Sensory Struggles and Clothes: How to Help Your Child Dress Without Tears Navigating Sensory Overload: Actionable Strategies for Kids in Loud Environments Building a Sensory Diet Toolbox for Neurodivergent Kids at Home Playful Sensory Learning at Home: Five Senses Spinner What Exactly is Deschooling.. and Do I Need to Do It? Falling Unexpectedly in Love With Homeschooling My Gifted Child Self-Care and Co-Regulation | Balancing Parenting and Sensory Needs When School Refusal Turns Into a Healing Journey Picky Eating | Sensory Struggles and Real Solutions for Homeschooling Families Movement on Bad Weather Days: Meeting Sensory Needs at Home Loop Ear Plugs Ear Protection Disposable Ear Plugs Digital Voice Recorder Guided Reading Strips Colored Overlays for Reading Angled Footrest Colleen's Favorite White Noise Machine
If you've ever felt frustrated when your child resists even enjoyable activities, you're not alone. In this week's episode, we dive deep into demand avoidance—why neurodivergent kiddos sometimes just can't do what we ask (even when it's fun!)—and share a toolkit of practical strategies you can start using today. Whether you're homeschooling a differently wired kiddo or navigating daily learning resistance, this episode is packed with actionable tips, real-life examples, and mindset shifts to help your child build skills in a low-pressure way. Key Takeaways: Lowering the Demand Doesn't Mean Lowering Expectations: There are ways to keep skill-building alive by focusing on autonomy, shared activities, and embedding learning into interest-driven projects—think Minecraft math or Pokemon writing prompts! Frameworks That Work: Use the ABC method—Autonomy, Boundaries, and Co-regulation—along with the REI model (Reduce, Invite, Embed) to create a safer, more engaging learning environment for your demand-avoidant child. Small Wins & Language Swaps: Celebrate tiny, finishable tasks and swap "You need to…" for invitations or curiosity-based questions, making participation more appealing and less threatening to your child's autonomy. From stealth learning strategies and flexible routines to troubleshooting meltdowns and perfectionism, these insights are a breath of fresh air for parents and educators alike. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Thank you to our sponsors: CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family! Curiosity Post – A Snail Mail Club for kids – Real mail; Real life! The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling gifted/2e & neurodivergent kiddos! The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family The Anxiety Toolkit Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids Sensory Struggles and Clothes: How to Help Your Child Dress Without Tears Navigating Sensory Overload: Actionable Strategies for Kids in Loud Environments Building a Sensory Diet Toolbox for Neurodivergent Kids at Home Playful Sensory Learning at Home: Five Senses Spinner What Exactly is Deschooling.. and Do I Need to Do It? Falling Unexpectedly in Love With Homeschooling My Gifted Child Self-Care and Co-Regulation | Balancing Parenting and Sensory Needs When School Refusal Turns Into a Healing Journey Picky Eating | Sensory Struggles and Real Solutions for Homeschooling Families Movement on Bad Weather Days: Meeting Sensory Needs at Home
The Real Reason You’re Overwhelmed I got an email from a homeschool mom in her seventh year. Three kids. She’s read the books, listened to the podcasts, and been to all the conferences. And today I want to share the real reason you’re overwhelmed. And she said: “I can’t do it all and be it all anymore. I feel like we’re all bored and sick of each other.” If you’ve ever felt that way—like you’re drowning even though you know what you’re doing—this episode is for you. Because the real reason you’re overwhelmed? It’s not what you think. What You’ll Discover in This Episode Three Real Stories That Reveal the Truth: The new homeschooler who loves everything about her life… except she feels completely alone The seven-year veteran who’s trying to be everything to everyone (and burning out) The mom who used to have dreams and vision, but now feels like a blank slate The Real Reason You’re Overwhelmed: Why isolation and overwhelm are connected The difference between symptoms and root causes What happens when you lose your vision (and how to find it again) The Four R’s Framework to Reset: Reclaim your vision Release the roles Rebuild your boundaries Reconnect with your village “Overwhelm isn’t always about having too much to do. Sometimes it’s about having no one to do it with.” Join the Homeschool Reset Workshop When: Friday, January 30th at 12:30 PM PacificWhat: A 2-hour live workshop to help you reset your homeschool and reclaim your sanity What We’ll Cover: Hour 1: Get Clear on What’s Actually Wrong Reconnect with your original vision for homeschooling Identify the roles and expectations you’re carrying that don’t belong to you Recognize where you need boundaries Name the isolation that’s making everything harder Hour 2: Build Your Personalized Reset Plan How to reclaim your vision and start leading from intention again How to release the roles that are draining you How to rebuild boundaries that protect your energy How to reconnect with your village—starting with the moms in this workshop You’ll Walk Away With: ✓ A clear 30-day reset plan tailored to YOUR life✓ Immediate tools you can use right away✓ Clarity about what’s really causing your overwhelm✓ Your village—moms who truly understand✓ The confidence that you’re not failing Can’t make it live? You’ll get the recording. Ready to stop doing this alone? “Every day you stay stuck in overwhelm is another day you’re operating from exhaustion instead of intention.” Mentioned in This Episode The Four R’s Framework Client story: Renee (restored relationship with teenage daughter) Client story: Trina (“I find myself hearing Teresa’s voice saying—You ARE doing it”) Resources Want more support? Join the Confident Homeschool Mom community Read: Homeschool Mama Self-Care: Nurturing the Nurturer Listen: Previous episodes on setting boundaries Connect with Teresa Instagram: @homeschoollifecoach Website: https://capturingthecharmedlife.com Email: teresawiedrick@outlook.com Share This Episode Know a homeschool mom who’s overwhelmed and doing it alone? Send her this episode. Sometimes just knowing we’re not alone makes all the difference. You’re not failing. You’re not alone. And you’re doing a great job. Listen Now Ready to release homeschool pressure and start creating a homeschool life that aligns with your values? Press play on this episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast and discover how small shifts can help you move from homeschool pressure to presence and transform your homeschool journey. 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A former public school teacher never planned to homeschool — until COVID forced a hard reset. In this episode, Cheryl talks with Janae Daniels from the School to Homeschool Podcast about the moment everything changed: the “magical” 2020 shutdown, the surprising nudge to homeschool, and the first day that completely fell apart… until a piano tuner accidentally delivered the best real-life science lesson her kids had ever experienced.Janae shares what deschooling actually looks like (and why it's harder for parents than kids), how she stopped trying to replicate school at home, and what happened when her children finally had room for boredom, curiosity, and real learning: guitar skills built through YouTube lessons, reading for meaning (not grades), embroidery that turned into paid work, early jobs, business books, conferences, and a senior year centered on debate, confidence, and entrepreneurship.If you're thinking, “I'm not smart enough,” “My kids will fight me,” or “Is it too late to start homeschooling — especially for middle and high school?” this conversation will give you clarity, encouragement, and a new definition of education.Connect with Janae:InstagramFacebookYouTubeWebsiteFollow the show, leave a review, and share this episode with a parent who needs reassurance today.Mentioned in today's episode:
In this week's episode of the podcast, we dive deep into the signs, strategies, and real-life tips for helping your differently wired kids (and yourself!) navigate emotional storms. Key Takeaways: Practical tools to spot the early cues of meltdowns vs. shutdowns Simple, effective co-regulation ideas you can use right now—no fancy equipment needed How to repair, reflect, and reset after those tough moments, and so much more Perfect for homeschool families, parents of neurodivergent kiddos, or anyone wanting to better understand and support big feelings at home. Save this episode and share with a friend who might need these strategies, too! Links and Resources from Today's Episode Thank you to our sponsors: CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family! Curiosity Post – A Snail Mail Club for kids – Real mail; Real life! The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling gifted/2e & neurodivergent kiddos! The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family The Anxiety Toolkit Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids Sensory Struggles and Clothes: How to Help Your Child Dress Without Tears Navigating Sensory Overload: Actionable Strategies for Kids in Loud Environments Building a Sensory Diet Toolbox for Neurodivergent Kids at Home Playful Sensory Learning at Home: Five Senses Spinner What Exactly is Deschooling.. and Do I Need to Do It? Falling Unexpectedly in Love With Homeschooling My Gifted Child Self-Care and Co-Regulation | Balancing Parenting and Sensory Needs When School Refusal Turns Into a Healing Journey Picky Eating | Sensory Struggles and Real Solutions for Homeschooling Families Movement on Bad Weather Days: Meeting Sensory Needs at Home
Today, my homeschooler gets accepted to university—his preferred program for the fall, engineering at the University of Victoria. That sentence should read like pure celebration. And it is. But the truth? This moment arrived carrying far more than simple joy. What Even Are These Feelings? From a woman who transacts in emotions, who holds other women’s emotions, who speaks on emotional regulation every day—I’m not sure what these feelings even are. Elation. Anticipation. Excitement. Pride. Gratefulness. Sadness that this day has finally arrived. He’s my baby. My youngest. My last. All the feels wrapped up in tears and hugs and the quiet ache of knowing that a long season of life is shifting once more. Sometimes the most honest thing we can say isn’t “I feel happy” or “I feel sad.” Sometimes it’s simply: This is a lot. And I’m letting myself feel all of it. This is the work I do with women every day—helping them listen inward, honour what’s real, and trust their emotional experience rather than trying to tidy it up into something more presentable. Today, I’m practicing what I teach. When a Homeschooler Gets Accepted to University Once upon a time, I saw my son play with Legos for a decade. I watched him tinker with small machines. Build furniture. Try to understand why things weren’t working, then unbuild blenders and computers to figure them out. Then learn how to build a computer himself. I watched him understand the strategy behind chess and play—and win—against others decades older than him. Watched him crack the code behind all sorts of games. And I watched him fall in love with physics. From Usborne books when he was seven, to university-level physics and math classes when he was fifteen. When I asked him if the workload of those classes was just too much—because they really are exceptionally a lot—he acknowledged that yes, they are. But he really loves learning these things. The proof? He’s self-motivated. And he keeps trying to capture my raptured fascination with his stories from math and physics classes. Today, that same child was accepted into engineering at the University of Victoria. And in just a few months, he’ll have a hefty ride to class every day for the next five years—because the university is ten hours away. (And of course, he can’t leave home to do that;) The Long Arc of Homeschool Motherhood If I’m honest, there were moments I could have marked a calendar and begun a private countdown to this season—the season where the last child begins to leave. Culturally, we talk about this as a milestone. The “empty nest.” The transition. Or just a rite of passage. But for me, this isn’t about cultural narratives. This is about the truth that I always wanted to be a mother. Not just a mother, but a present one. An engaged one. A mother who chose to build a life that allowed me to be with my children fully—especially through homeschooling. A mother who wanted to savour the days, even the hard ones. Homeschooling has never been easy. It has been meaningful, beautiful, stretching, exhausting, sacred work. There are days when you question everything: Am I doing enough? Am I missing something important? Perhaps I am failing my kids without realising it? Why does this feel so hard when I care so deeply? If you’ve homeschooled—or even deeply parented—you know this interior dialogue well. When Motherhood Becomes More Than Motherhood In my work with homeschool moms, I see another layer often present beneath the surface. Many women I walk alongside did not experience secure, emotionally safe childhoods. They grew up unsure of whether they were truly seen, heard, understood, or emotionally prioritized. Other people’s emotions took up most of the space in their homes. Their own needs were minimized, dismissed, or simply overlooked. Then they become mothers. And suddenly, motherhood becomes not just a role—but a mission. A redemption story. A chance to finally do it differently. To create the childhood they themselves needed. To pour in everything they never received. That depth of investment can be profoundly beautiful. It can also be incredibly heavy. You carry the invisible weight of wanting to get it right. You want your children to feel safe, known, cherished. And of course, you want to protect them from harm. And you want to give them every opportunity. You want to ensure that your love translates into their lifelong well-being. So when people casually suggest, “You should get a hobby for when your kids leave,” it often misses the point entirely. This was never just a phase of life. This was your life. When Your Homeschooler Gets Accepted to University — and Actually Leaves You hear it all along: They grow up so fast. One day they’ll leave. You nod. You know it intellectually. But then the first one leaves. And it’s not theoretical anymore. Then the second. Then the third. And suddenly you find yourself here, watching your homeschooler get accepted to university and prepare to take his next steps away from home. All those years of homeschooling, of conversations, of car rides, of frustration and laughter and connection and doubt and persistence—they weren’t wasted. They were forming something. All those years of allowing him to follow his curiosity—from Legos to blenders to computers to physics—weren’t indulgent. They were equipping a human being to live his life on purpose. My husband said it beautifully today: Today we celebrate. We celebrate his effort, his capacities, the interests he pursued, the time we gave him to develop them, and the ways we were able to support him to get here. And I would add this: We celebrate with gratitude for the life entrusted to us. For the child we were given. For the journey we were allowed to walk together. Yesterday, We Brought Home a Healthy Baby There is another layer to this story that makes today feel even more sacred. When Zachary was born, he was rushed into the NICU. His colour wasn’t right. Tests were run. We waited, we watched, and we prayed. For several days, uncertainty was ours—until finally the echocardiogram confirmed that nothing was wrong with his heart. Nothing was wrong with his heart. I still hold the weight of that sentence. When he was permitted, my husband held him skin to skin for hours—this tiny, vulnerable, beautiful baby: 22 inches long, 8 pounds 7 ounces of brand-new life. We drove home three days later than expected. But we drove home with our healthy baby. Our fourth child. Our first son. My husband had suggested the name Zachary years before—even before we were engaged. He’d always loved that name. And when we anticipated our fourth child, we hoped we would be able to raise a son. We were given a little boy. And we named him Zachary. “God has remembered.” It feels like yesterday we brought him home. And now—in what feels like the very next day—we are planning to drive him to university. That same child, now standing over six feet tall, solid and capable, preparing to move ten hours away to study engineering. The name we gave him carries weight I couldn’t have fully understood then. The Truth Beneath the Success Story It would be easy to turn this into a polished success narrative: “Look, homeschooling works. Look at the outcome.” But that’s not the real story. The real story is this: We didn’t homeschool perfectly. I doubted myself often. We adjusted constantly and made mistakes. We learned alongside our kids. However, we learned to prioritize connection over performance. Also, we allowed space for interests to emerge rather than forcing rigid paths. We let him play with Legos for a decade—even when well-meaning voices suggested it was time to move on to “more serious” pursuits. And we let him take apart blenders and computers—even when it meant occasionally having broken appliances scattered across the dining room table. We supported him taking university-level courses at fifteen—even when the workload seemed overwhelming—because he loved it. Because he kept coming home eager to share what he’d learned. And somehow, through all of that imperfect, earnest, committed living—we arrived here. Not with children who followed identical paths, but with young adults who know themselves, who can think critically, who are willing to take responsibility for their lives. That matters more to me than any transcript ever could. For the Mom Who Is Still in the Thick of It If you’re reading this while surrounded by math worksheets, sibling tension, unfinished laundry, and self-doubt, I want you to hear this gently: You are not failing because this is hard, and you are not doing it wrong because you feel overwhelmed, and you are not behind because your journey looks different. The work you’re doing is slow, invisible, relational work. It doesn’t produce instant metrics. It shapes hearts, minds, resilience, identity, and belonging—over time. When your child spends hours on something that seems frivolous—Legos, Minecraft, taking things apart—you’re not wasting their education. You may be nurturing the very curiosity that will one day lead them to their calling. When they want to dive deep into subjects that feel advanced or “too much”—and you worry about the workload—trust their intrinsic motivation. If they love it, if they’re self-driven, you’re witnessing passion, not pressure. And one day, often much faster than you expect, you may find yourself watching your homeschooler get accepted to university, looking back in awe at the human beings who emerged from your care. You may feel joy, and grief, and pride. You may feel disoriented. And you may feel everything all at once. That would be normal. Why I Continue This Work This is why I continue to walk alongside homeschool moms. Not because I believe homeschooling is a panacea — it’s not. Home education can not promise you flawless outcomes. But because I believe in supporting women as whole humans while they raise whole humans. Because motherhood deserves more than survival mode. Homeschool families deserve emotional support, not just academic strategy. Because women deserve space to explore their identity beyond holding their homes, their families, their worlds together — that invisible load of motherhood. And because sometimes, the greatest evidence that your work mattered isn’t found in awards or accolades—but in the momentous realization that your child is ready to live their own life. Even if that life is ten hours away. Today, I celebrate Zachary. And I honour every mother who has poured herself into the sacred, exhausting, beautiful work of raising humans who will one day leave. And when they tell you that they are going to grow up, when they tell you they want to apply to university, say the words that only you will know are exactly the right words for that moment: just say NO. (Oh, I mean, celebrate with them, celebrate yourself too, all that you’ve done!) Congratulations, Zach. We are so very proud of you. You Might Also Want to Read about the High School Transition: If you’re navigating the high school years with your homeschooler—or approaching them with a mixture of anticipation and uncertainty—you don’t have to figure it all out alone. 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If you’re ready for personalized support as you navigate life after your homeschoolers graduate, I’d love to walk alongside you. As the Homeschool Life Coach, I work with women who are standing at this threshold—celebrating their children’s readiness while also feeling the weight of what comes next. Together, we’ll explore what this transition means for you, clarify what you want moving forward, and create a path that honors both who you’ve been and who you’re becoming. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just need to take the next step. Let’s determine your next steps together. Book your free Aligned Homeschool Reset Session I help homeschool moms trust themselves, edit expectations, and make intentional choices that create a more confident, connected, and present homeschool life. 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Text Sue what you think!Feeling lost about teaching is common when you step away from school. Sue Patterson explores why the urge to teach more keeps showing up — and why learning doesn't depend on parents doing more teaching, but on staying focused on the learner.__________________“I want to do more to teach, but I feel lost.”If that thought has crossed your mind, you're not the only one. That feeling often shows up when you step away from school-based learning and realize you're still carrying old ideas about what teaching is supposed to look like.Let's talk about why parents feel lost when they start on the unschooling path, how we've been conditioned to believe learning only happens when someone is teaching, and what to focus on instead when your days don't look like school. This is a calm, reassuring conversation for parents who are doing something unconventional — and want steadier footing without more pressure.Additional Unschooling Support:If you'd like more examples and a little support, you'll find related resources here: Blogpost: "I Want to Do More to Teach" — Why that feels so confusingDeschooling Toolkit (for that 365 Days of Deschooling guide) Creating Confidence membershipSupport the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
https://capturingthecharmedlife.com/feed/podcast/ Welcome to the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast! In this episode, host, graduated homeschool mom, and Certified Life Coach, Teresa Wiedrick, sits down with homeschool mom and coach Christina Slayback for an honest conversation about homeschool pressure—recognizing when it’s taken over and what to do instead. Through Christina’s personal journey from overwhelm and resentment to intentional, peaceful homeschooling, you’ll discover how to release homeschool pressure and start living from presence instead. Prefer to read? Scroll down for the full episode summary and timeline. What You’ll Learn in This Episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast Teresa and Christina explore the physical and emotional signs that homeschool pressure is controlling your days. From tension in the house to feeling resentful of the very thing you chose to do, you’ll recognize when pressure has taken over. If you’re struggling with comparison, curriculum overwhelm, or the gap between your expectations and reality, this episode is for you. You’ll discover how Christina moved from homeschool pressure to presence by asking one powerful question: “How can I let this be easy?” Releasing homeschool pressure doesn’t require a complete overhaul. It starts with meeting your kids exactly where they are and redefining what really matters. How Small Shifts Help You Release Homeschool Pressure Instead of striving for someone else’s version of homeschool success, Christina shows you how to identify your core desired feelings and use them as a compass for decisions. In this episode, you’ll explore: ➤ Understanding resistance from kids as a signal, not a failure➤ Finding yourself again after losing your identity in motherhood➤ Creating margins instead of falling into the “if I just had more time” trap➤ Setting boundaries with extracurriculars without mom guilt➤ Making incremental changes that lead to genuine confidence and peace Releasing homeschool pressure becomes possible when you stop trying to follow someone else’s formula and start creating one that aligns with how you actually want to feel. Ready to Go Deeper? Work With Teresa Book your free Aligned Homeschool Reset Session I help homeschool moms release homeschool pressure, edit expectations, and make small, intentional shifts that lead to a more confident and connected homeschool life. Book a Free Aligned Homeschool Reset Join the Confident Homeschool Mom Community You’ll also learn about resources available to support you, including the Confident Homeschool Mom Collective to create a community where you can grow alongside other homeschool moms on the same journey toward greater confidence and freedom from homeschool pressure. Episode Outline [00:00] Christina’s accidental homeschooling journey[03:00] Spotting the physical signs of homeschool pressure[08:00] Understanding resistance from kids as a signal[13:00] Maintaining influence without control in the preteen years[15:00] Learning to regulate emotions alongside your children[21:00] Finding yourself again after losing your identity in motherhood[28:00] Why “if I just had more time” is a trap[31:00] Using core desired feelings as your decision-making compass[35:00] Giving yourself permission to adjust and experiment[40:00] Being spacious in the moment instead of rushing[45:00] Why there’s no perfect curriculum[50:00] Setting boundaries with extracurriculars without mom guilt[55:00] If you’re feeling guilty, you’re already doing more than you think Listen Now Ready to release homeschool pressure and start creating a homeschool life that aligns with your values? Press play on this episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast and discover how small shifts can help you move from homeschool pressure to presence and transform your homeschool journey. Resources Mentioned in This Episode “Hold On to Your Kids” by Gordon NeufeldBrené Brown’s TEDx TalkClear and On Purpose Podcast with Christina SlaybackChristina’s Website: christinaslayback.comFollow Christina: @christinaslayback on Instagram & Facebook Episodes on the Confident Homeschool Mom Life Stop Asking These 6 Homeschool Questions (That Sabotage Your Life) 5 Simple Habit Stacking Ideas for Homeschool Moms to Reduce Stress and Gain Control A Homeschool Mom's Guide to Purposeful Living Less Pressure, More Presence About Me, Teresa Wiedrick Unlearning People-Pleasing as a Homeschool Mom How to Incorporate Ten Self-Care Tips for Homeschool Moms Customized Homeschool Help for Parents that Can Transform your Life Latest episodes you might also enjoy: Facebook Instagram Pinterest Linkedin YouTube I’m Need a Homeschool Reset! Latest episodes you might also enjoy: How to Stop Being a Hostage to Homeschool Pressure (& What to Do Instead) January 19, 2026 The Truth About Finding Your Homeschool Rhythm January 13, 2026 The Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast: Introducing the 1% Pivot January 6, 2026 Purpose-Driven Homeschool Planning for 2026: How to Recalibrate the Year with Clarity December 23, 2025 1% Shift to a Calm Homeschool Life December 23, 2025 12 Things I've Learned About Homeschool Moms: Self-Care Tips for Overwhelmed Homeschool Moms December 10, 2025 12-Day Homeschool Mom Self-Care Challenge to Come Back to Yourself December 2, 2025 What is the Reimagine Your Homeschool Group Coaching? November 18, 2025 Not Just a Homeschool Mom — Why You’re Disappearing (And How to Come Back) November 11, 2025 Teaching World War to a Homeschooled Eight Year Old November 10, 2025 Reimagine Your Homeschool: Feel Free, Inspire Curiosity and Do What Works November 5, 2025 the role of imagination in a home education November 4, 2025 Helping Our Kids Live Their Lives on Purpose: A Practical Guide for Homeschool Moms October 28, 2025 Human Development for Homeschool Moms: Realistic High School Expectations October 20, 2025 How to Build Homeschool Routines that Support YOU October 14, 2025 Why Deschooling? To Feel Confident, Certain & Good Enough October 7, 2025 The Ultimate Guide to Building Boundaries and Healthy Relationships for Homeschool Moms September 23, 2025 Ultimate Homeschool Overwhelm Quiz That Reveals Your Hidden Stress Triggers in 5 Minutes September 15, 2025 Start Homeschooling in British Columbia: How to Decide September 9, 2025 How to Create an Effective Homeschool Routine that Works for You September 2, 2025 Interest-Led Homeschool for Confident Moms: An Enneagram 8 Mom's Story of Growth August 28, 2025 How Do I Unschool My Child? 5 Simple Steps to Spark Natural Learning August 19, 2025 9 Mistakes That Make Your 1st Homeschool Year Stressful (& How to Avoid Them) August 13, 2025 Top Tips for New Homeschool Moms in Season 3 August 11, 2025 5 Challenges Working Homeschool Moms Face—And How to Overcome Them August 5, 2025 How to Manage Overstimulation as a Homeschool Mom July 30, 2025 Reclaim You: Rediscover Life Beyond the Homeschool Mom Role July 22, 2025 A Summer Reset for Homeschool Moms: The Secret to a More Peaceful Year Ahead July 15, 2025 How to Help Reluctant Writers: Julie Bogart on Homeschool Writing July 7, 2025 7 Ways Brené Rescued Me from One of those Homeschool Days June 30, 2025 Morning Affirmations for Homeschool Mama: A Simple Practice for You to Parent with Intention June 24, 2025 5 Overlooked Mistakes That Are Stressing You Out as a Homeschool Mom (& How to Fix Them) June 18, 2025 The Soul School Way: Books as Mirrors, Windows, and Voices for Homeschool Families June 3, 2025 Sibling Bickering in Homeschool Families: What's Normal & How to Handle It May 27, 2025 Homeschool Mom Boundaries: 6 Truths That Will Set You Free May 20, 2025 How the Mother Wound Affects Homeschool Moms—and How to Break Free May 12, 2025 Homeschool Mom Boundary Issues? You’re Not Doing This… May 6, 2025 How to Deschool as a Homeschool Mom and Rediscover Your Identity April 30, 2025 How my story of deschooling brought more freedom & purpose April 22, 2025 How to Know if Deschooling is Right for You: 7 Signs you Need to Deschool April 13, 2025 Why Do You Want to Deschool? Understanding Why it Matters April 11, 2025 Is My Homeschooler Behind? The Truth About Learning at Their Own Pace April 1, 2025 A Homeschool Mom’s Guide to Purposeful Living March 25, 2025 10 Simple Steps to the Homeschool Life (& Live it on Purpose) March 17, 2025 The Three Lies Homeschool Moms Tell Themselves March 11, 2025 The Myth of the Perfect Homeschool: 3 Common Challenges March 5, 2025 Tired of Homeschool Sibling Fights? Try These 3 Simple Strategies! 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In this week's episode of the podcast, we talk candidly about what school refusal really means for children and their families, and how homeschooling can offer a path toward healing, connection, and growth. Whether you're considering pulling your child out of school or you're already homeschooling but feeling stuck after a tough season, this conversation is for you. Here are three key takeaways for parents facing this challenge: School refusal is communication, not a character flaw. When a child can't attend school, it's their nervous system asking for safety, not a sign of failure. Healing comes before academics. Focus on rebuilding connection, trust, and emotional safety—academics can (and will) follow once these foundations are strong. Small, intentional changes add up. Shifting your daily routine, setting gentle non-negotiables, and celebrating even the smallest progress can move families from burnout to breakthrough. You are the best teacher and advocate for your child. If you need more support, resources, or simply community, know you're not alone on this path. Let's keep learning and growing—together. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Thank you to our sponsors: CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family! Curiosity Post – A Snail Mail Club for kids – Real mail; Real life! The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling gifted/2e & neurodivergent kiddos! The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family The Anxiety Toolkit Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids Sensory Struggles and Clothes: How to Help Your Child Dress Without Tears Navigating Sensory Overload: Actionable Strategies for Kids in Loud Environments Building a Sensory Diet Toolbox for Neurodivergent Kids at Home Playful Sensory Learning at Home: Five Senses Spinner What Exactly is Deschooling.. and Do I Need to Do It? Falling Unexpectedly in Love With Homeschooling My Gifted Child
You've heard it a thousand times: “But what about socialization?” “What if my kid falls behind?” “What if they only want screens?” In this episode, I'm joined by Courtney (former teacher + school psychologist, now a private evaluator/advocate) to break down what unschooling actually is — and what it looks like in real life.We talk about the fear parents carry when they step outside the school system, and why so many families need to deschool themselves first. Courtney shares what she's seen from inside education and why forcing kids to meet grade-level standards can backfire — especially when kids develop at different rates.We also get into:What unschooling really means (and why it's not “kids watching TV all day”)Why school “socialization” can be toxic and what healthy socialization looks likeHow to handle screen time without power struggles (and why curiosity matters)The link between anxiety, nervous system regulation, and learningWhy many kids are labeled too early — and what parents can do insteadHow to spark learning naturally through real life, nature, conversation, and connectionA fascinating look at Human Design as a tool for understanding how your child learnsIf you're a parent who's trying to homeschool without recreating school at home — and you want your child to grow in confidence, curiosity, and love of learning — this episode will help you breathe again.
Text Sue what you think!How do kids really learn without curriculum?What if learning is hiding in the things we almost dismiss as “just for fun”?Let's use Appreciate a Dragon Day as a real-life example of how learning shows up naturally — through curiosity, imagination, conversation, and play — without planning lessons or following a curriculum.Parents exploring unschooling or questioning traditional homeschooling can learning how to notice learning instead of trying to engineer it.You'll hear about:How everyday interests connect to real learningWhy play, storytelling, and imagination matterWhat learning without curriculum actually looks likeHow to see subjects woven into ordinary momentsFor more ideas and specific ways to weave multiple subjects into a day, check out the blogpost with 10 creative ways unschooling shows up through dragons here:https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/what-do-dragons-and-homeschooling-have-in-commonYou can read the transcript at this link too.
Text Sue what you think!Many parents expect deschooling to work like a big reset button — pull kids out of school, give it a little time, and everything will fall into place.But when kids seem to be “vegging out,” parents often panic: Is this really how it's supposed to work?In this episode, I unpack what's actually happening in those moments — and why that panic makes sense.Leaving school doesn't automatically erase the habits we learned growing up. Even when unschooling feels right, school-shaped ideas about productivity, pace, comparison, and structure can quietly shape how we interpret learning at home.We'll talk about:Why deschooling isn't instant — and why that's normalWhat kids are actually doing when it looks like “nothing”Why deschooling is active parent work, not passive waitingHow connection, partnership, and shared life replace school-based frameworksWhy successful deschooling doesn't lead kids back to school thinking — it helps school fade into the background entirelyDeschooling isn't about rejecting learning. It's about letting go of patterns that belonged to a system built for sameness — not real families.Read Transcript at the Bloghttps://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/why-deschooling-is-really-for-parents____________________________DESCHOOLING TOOLKIT - for kids and parents!The practical support resource for parents who find themselves in that in-between space — where unschooling makes sense, but school-shaped thinking keeps creeping back in.The Deschooling Toolkit is a collection of parent supports designed to walk alongside you as you step away from system-focused ideas and sort through what actually supports your family's learning now. It includes:365 Days of Deschooling — gentle, real-life prompts for kids and familiesA Parent Deschooling Guide — to help you recognize school-conditioned habits and rethink them intentionallyDeschooling Affirmation Cards — steady reminders for moments when doubt or outside pressure shows upThere's no schedule to follow and nothing to “complete.” You can return to it whenever old patterns surface.Support the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
Welcome to the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast! In this episode, host, graduated homeschool mom, and Certified Life Coach, Teresa Wiedrick, tackles one of the most common struggles homeschool moms face: finding your homeschool rhythm when consistency feels impossible. Through a powerful real-life coaching session with a mom named Audrey, Teresa reveals how our preconceived notions of what consistency “should” look like—and the weight of external pressures—can actually sabotage your efforts at finding your homeschool rhythm. Prefer to read? Scroll down for the full episode summary and timeline. What You’ll Learn in This Episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast Teresa walks you through Audrey’s authentic journey of feeling overwhelmed, stuck in comparison, and frustrated by the gap between her ideals and reality. If you’re struggling with finding your homeschool rhythm, you’ll discover how Audrey moved from self-judgment to self-trust by redefining consistency in a way that actually fits her unique family circumstances. This episode demonstrates that finding your homeschool rhythm doesn’t come from massive overhauls—it comes from small, personalized shifts that honour where you are right now. How Small Changes Help You Master Finding Your Homeschool Rhythm Instead of striving for picture-perfect routines that work for someone else, Teresa shows you how to identify what rhythm and consistency truly mean for your family. By exploring Audrey’s emotional and relational struggles—including the importance of boundaries and releasing unrealistic expectations—you’ll learn practical ways to make incremental changes that lead to genuine confidence and peace. Finding your homeschool rhythm becomes possible when you stop trying to follow someone else’s formula and start creating one that fits your life. Ready to Go Deeper? Work With Teresa Book your free Aligned Homeschool Reset Session I help homeschool moms release pressure, edit expectations, and make small, intentional shifts that lead to a more confident and connected homeschool life. Book a Free Aligned Homeschool Reset Join the Confident Homeschool Mom Community You’ll also learn about resources available to support you, including the Confident Homeschool Mom Collective to create a community where you can grow alongside other homeschool moms on the same journey toward greater confidence and finding your homeschool rhythm. Episode Timeline 00:00 Introduction: The Struggle with Consistency and Finding Your Homeschool Rhythm 00:34 Understanding the Real Problem Behind Your Rhythm 00:49 Audrey’s Story: A Real-Life Example of Finding Your Homeschool Rhythm 05:53 Exploring Common Homeschooling Challenges 08:50 Audrey’s Emotional and Relational Struggles 12:07 The Importance of Boundaries in Finding Your Homeschool Rhythm 14:21 Shifting Perspectives: Small Steps to Your Perfect Rhythm 18:20 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Listen Now Ready to stop struggling and start finding your homeschool rhythm that actually works? Press play on this episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast and discover how small shifts can help you create a sustainable rhythm and transform your homeschool journey. Resources Mentioned in This Episode Confident Homeschool Mom Collective Self-Leadership Toolkit for Homeschool Moms Episodes on the Confident Homeschool Mom Life 6 Challenges Every Struggling Homeschool Mom Faces — and How to Transform Them Homeschool Routine Isn't Working? 3 Hidden Mistakes (And the Fixes You Need) How to Homeschool Middle School with Confidence The Helpful Homeschool Mom's Guide To Intentional Living How to Be a Sane Working Homeschool Mom (Without Burning Out) How to Build Homeschool Routines that Support YOU Can I Homeschool My Child? 9 Simple Steps to Confidently Start the Journey 9 Steps to Thrive: Confident Homeschool Mom in Year 1 Facebook Instagram Pinterest Linkedin YouTube Latest episodes you might also enjoy: The Truth About Finding Your Homeschool Rhythm January 13, 2026 The Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast: Introducing the 1% Pivot January 6, 2026 Purpose-Driven Homeschool Planning for 2026: How to Recalibrate the Year with Clarity December 23, 2025 1% Shift to a Calm Homeschool Life December 23, 2025 12 Things I've Learned About Homeschool Moms: Self-Care Tips for Overwhelmed Homeschool Moms December 10, 2025 12-Day Homeschool Mom Self-Care Challenge to Come Back to Yourself December 2, 2025 What is the Reimagine Your Homeschool Group Coaching? November 18, 2025 Not Just a Homeschool Mom — Why You’re Disappearing (And How to Come Back) November 11, 2025 Teaching World War to a Homeschooled Eight Year Old November 10, 2025 Reimagine Your Homeschool: Feel Free, Inspire Curiosity and Do What Works November 5, 2025 the role of imagination in a home education November 4, 2025 Helping Our Kids Live Their Lives on Purpose: A Practical Guide for Homeschool Moms October 28, 2025 Human Development for Homeschool Moms: Realistic High School Expectations October 20, 2025 How to Build Homeschool Routines that Support YOU October 14, 2025 Why Deschooling? To Feel Confident, Certain & Good Enough October 7, 2025 The Ultimate Guide to Building Boundaries and Healthy Relationships for Homeschool Moms September 23, 2025 Ultimate Homeschool Overwhelm Quiz That Reveals Your Hidden Stress Triggers in 5 Minutes September 15, 2025 Start Homeschooling in British Columbia: How to Decide September 9, 2025 How to Create an Effective Homeschool Routine that Works for You September 2, 2025 Interest-Led Homeschool for Confident Moms: An Enneagram 8 Mom's Story of Growth August 28, 2025 How Do I Unschool My Child? 5 Simple Steps to Spark Natural Learning August 19, 2025 9 Mistakes That Make Your 1st Homeschool Year Stressful (& How to Avoid Them) August 13, 2025 Top Tips for New Homeschool Moms in Season 3 August 11, 2025 5 Challenges Working Homeschool Moms Face—And How to Overcome Them August 5, 2025 How to Manage Overstimulation as a Homeschool Mom July 30, 2025 Reclaim You: Rediscover Life Beyond the Homeschool Mom Role July 22, 2025 A Summer Reset for Homeschool Moms: The Secret to a More Peaceful Year Ahead July 15, 2025 How to Help Reluctant Writers: Julie Bogart on Homeschool Writing July 7, 2025 7 Ways Brené Rescued Me from One of those Homeschool Days June 30, 2025 Morning Affirmations for Homeschool Mama: A Simple Practice for You to Parent with Intention June 24, 2025 5 Overlooked Mistakes That Are Stressing You Out as a Homeschool Mom (& How to Fix Them) June 18, 2025 The Soul School Way: Books as Mirrors, Windows, and Voices for Homeschool Families June 3, 2025 Sibling Bickering in Homeschool Families: What's Normal & How to Handle It May 27, 2025 Homeschool Mom Boundaries: 6 Truths That Will Set You Free May 20, 2025 How the Mother Wound Affects Homeschool Moms—and How to Break Free May 12, 2025 Homeschool Mom Boundary Issues? You’re Not Doing This… May 6, 2025 How to Deschool as a Homeschool Mom and Rediscover Your Identity April 30, 2025 How my story of deschooling brought more freedom & purpose April 22, 2025 How to Know if Deschooling is Right for You: 7 Signs you Need to Deschool April 13, 2025 Why Do You Want to Deschool? Understanding Why it Matters April 11, 2025 Is My Homeschooler Behind? The Truth About Learning at Their Own Pace April 1, 2025 A Homeschool Mom’s Guide to Purposeful Living March 25, 2025 10 Simple Steps to the Homeschool Life (& Live it on Purpose) March 17, 2025 The Three Lies Homeschool Moms Tell Themselves March 11, 2025 The Myth of the Perfect Homeschool: 3 Common Challenges March 5, 2025 Tired of Homeschool Sibling Fights? Try These 3 Simple Strategies! March 4, 2025 11 Powerful Affirmations Every Homeschool Mom Needs to Hear February 25, 2025 6 Homeschool Burnout Signs that Suggest You Need to Try Something New February 18, 2025 7 Red Flags That Say You Need Homeschool Wellness Coaching—Before Burnout Hits February 12, 2025 How to Motivate Your Homeschool Child toward Curiosity & Independence February 4, 2025 Subscribe to the Homeschool Mama Self-Care podcast YouTube Apple Audible Spotify (function(m,a,i,l,e,r){ m['MailerLiteObject']=e;function f(){ var c={ a:arguments,q:[]};var r=this.push(c);return "number"!=typeof r?r:f.bind(c.q);} f.q=f.q||[];m[e]=m[e]||f.bind(f.q);m[e].q=m[e].q||f.q;r=a.createElement(i); var _=a.getElementsByTagName(i)[0];r.async=1;r.src=l+'?v'+(~~(new Date().getTime()/1000000)); _.parentNode.insertBefore(r,_);})(window, document, 'script', 'https://static.mailerlite.com/js/universal.js', 'ml'); var ml_account = ml('accounts', '1815912', 'p9n9c0c7s5', 'load');
Text Sue what you think!When traditional homeschooling stops working, there's nothing wrong with exploring your options. The Unschooling 101 mini-course can help. Let's talk about what's going on together.-> Unschooling 101-> Creating Confidence Membership (Unschooling 101 is included)___________________________If you've been homeschooling for a while — especially in a more traditional or school-at-home way — there often comes a point when it just doesn't feel like it's working anymore.Not because you're doing something wrong.Not because your kids are failing.But because the structure you started doesn't fit your family.In this episode, Sue Patterson talks through what it really means when traditional homeschooling stops working. She explores why so many families reach this place, why it often shows up midyear, and why unschooling frequently enters the conversation at this stage.You'll hear about the difference between homeschooling and unschooling, what “deschooling” actually looks like in real life, and why questioning your current approach is a thoughtful, responsible response — not a failure. This episode is especially helpful if you're searching for alternatives to traditional homeschooling or trying to understand whether unschooling might be a better fit for your family.Rather than offering quick fixes or rigid plans, this conversation focuses on clarity, reassurance, and next steps you can take without panic or pressure. If homeschooling isn't working the way you expected and you're wondering what comes next, this episode will help you slow down, make sense of what you're noticing, and feel less alone as you explore your options.Sue also shares how the Unschooling 101 mini-course can support parents who want a practical, grounded introduction to unschooling — especially those transitioning away from school-at-home methods and looking for a clearer understanding of what unschooling actually looks like day to day.Read the Transcript at the blogSupport the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
Welcome to the newly renamed Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast! In this foundational episode, host, graduated homeschool mom, and Certified Life Coach, Teresa Wiedrick, introduces a transformative concept that will guide the entire year ahead: the 1% pivot—a simple approach to building lasting confidence in your homeschool journey. Prefer to read? Scroll down for the full episode summary and timeline. What You’ll Learn in This Episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast Teresa opens up about her personal journey from overwhelm, perfectionism, and the weight of societal expectations to discovering peace and presence through small, intentional shifts. She explains how these “1% pivots”—tiny, doable changes—can help you build genuine confidence, release unnecessary pressure, and create a life that feels aligned and fulfilling. How Small Changes Create Big Results for Homeschool Moms This episode sets the stage for a year-long journey of monthly themes, each designed to help you make incremental changes that compound into significant transformation. Teresa invites you to reflect on your own challenges and commit to one small pivot each month, proving that sustainable change doesn’t require perfection—just consistency. Ready to Go Deeper? Work With Teresa Book your free Aligned Homeschool Reset Session I help homeschool moms release pressure, edit expectations, and make small, intentional shifts that lead to a more confident and connected homeschool life. Book a Free Aligned Homeschool Reset Join the Confident Homeschool Mom Community You’ll also learn about resources available to support you, including the Confident Homeschool Mom Collective and the book club newsletter, creating a community where you can grow alongside other homeschool moms on the same journey toward greater confidence. Episode Timeline 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Rebranding 00:38 The Journey to Confidence 02:33 Teresa’s Homeschooling Experience 03:29 The Power of 1% Pivots 05:47 Common Challenges for Homeschool Moms 09:40 Monthly Focus and Practical Shifts 18:22 Invitation to Join the Community 19:42 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Listen Now Ready to make your first 1% pivot? Press play on this episode of the Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast and let’s begin this journey together. Resources Mentioned in This Episode Confident Homeschool Mom Collective Book Club Newsletter Episodes on the Confident Homeschool Mom Life How to Homeschool Middle School with Confidence The Helpful Homeschool Mom's Guide To Intentional Living Can I Homeschool My Child? 9 Simple Steps to Confidently Start the Journey 9 Steps to Thrive: Confident Homeschool Mom in Year 1 Top Tips for New Homeschool Moms in Season 3 Facebook Instagram Pinterest Linkedin YouTube Latest episodes you might also enjoy: The Confident Homeschool Mom Podcast: Introducing the 1% Pivot January 6, 2026 Purpose-Driven Homeschool Planning for 2026: How to Recalibrate the Year with Clarity December 23, 2025 1% Shift to a Calm Homeschool Life December 23, 2025 12 Things I've Learned About Homeschool Moms: Self-Care Tips for Overwhelmed Homeschool Moms December 10, 2025 12-Day Homeschool Mom Self-Care Challenge to Come Back to Yourself December 2, 2025 What is the Reimagine Your Homeschool Group Coaching? 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To Feel Confident, Certain & Good Enough October 7, 2025 The Ultimate Guide to Building Boundaries and Healthy Relationships for Homeschool Moms September 23, 2025 Ultimate Homeschool Overwhelm Quiz That Reveals Your Hidden Stress Triggers in 5 Minutes September 15, 2025 Start Homeschooling in British Columbia: How to Decide September 9, 2025 How to Create an Effective Homeschool Routine that Works for You September 2, 2025 Interest-Led Homeschool for Confident Moms: An Enneagram 8 Mom's Story of Growth August 28, 2025 How Do I Unschool My Child? 5 Simple Steps to Spark Natural Learning August 19, 2025 9 Mistakes That Make Your 1st Homeschool Year Stressful (& How to Avoid Them) August 13, 2025 Top Tips for New Homeschool Moms in Season 3 August 11, 2025 5 Challenges Working Homeschool Moms Face—And How to Overcome Them August 5, 2025 How to Manage Overstimulation as a Homeschool Mom July 30, 2025 Reclaim You: Rediscover Life Beyond the Homeschool Mom Role July 22, 2025 A Summer Reset for Homeschool Moms: The Secret to a More Peaceful Year Ahead July 15, 2025 How to Help Reluctant Writers: Julie Bogart on Homeschool Writing July 7, 2025 7 Ways Brené Rescued Me from One of those Homeschool Days June 30, 2025 Morning Affirmations for Homeschool Mama: A Simple Practice for You to Parent with Intention June 24, 2025 5 Overlooked Mistakes That Are Stressing You Out as a Homeschool Mom (& How to Fix Them) June 18, 2025 The Soul School Way: Books as Mirrors, Windows, and Voices for Homeschool Families June 3, 2025 Sibling Bickering in Homeschool Families: What's Normal & How to Handle It May 27, 2025 Homeschool Mom Boundaries: 6 Truths That Will Set You Free May 20, 2025 How the Mother Wound Affects Homeschool Moms—and How to Break Free May 12, 2025 Homeschool Mom Boundary Issues? You’re Not Doing This… May 6, 2025 How to Deschool as a Homeschool Mom and Rediscover Your Identity April 30, 2025 How my story of deschooling brought more freedom & purpose April 22, 2025 How to Know if Deschooling is Right for You: 7 Signs you Need to Deschool April 13, 2025 Why Do You Want to Deschool? Understanding Why it Matters April 11, 2025 Is My Homeschooler Behind? The Truth About Learning at Their Own Pace April 1, 2025 A Homeschool Mom’s Guide to Purposeful Living March 25, 2025 10 Simple Steps to the Homeschool Life (& Live it on Purpose) March 17, 2025 The Three Lies Homeschool Moms Tell Themselves March 11, 2025 The Myth of the Perfect Homeschool: 3 Common Challenges March 5, 2025 Tired of Homeschool Sibling Fights? Try These 3 Simple Strategies! March 4, 2025 11 Powerful Affirmations Every Homeschool Mom Needs to Hear February 25, 2025 6 Homeschool Burnout Signs that Suggest You Need to Try Something New February 18, 2025 7 Red Flags That Say You Need Homeschool Wellness Coaching—Before Burnout Hits February 12, 2025 How to Motivate Your Homeschool Child toward Curiosity & Independence February 4, 2025 How I Learned to Build Healthy Relationships in My Homeschool Family (And How You Can Too) January 27, 2025 Subscribe to the Homeschool Mama Self-Care podcast YouTube Apple Audible Spotify (function(m,a,i,l,e,r){ m['MailerLiteObject']=e;function f(){ var c={ a:arguments,q:[]};var r=this.push(c);return "number"!=typeof r?r:f.bind(c.q);} f.q=f.q||[];m[e]=m[e]||f.bind(f.q);m[e].q=m[e].q||f.q;r=a.createElement(i); var _=a.getElementsByTagName(i)[0];r.async=1;r.src=l+'?v'+(~~(new Date().getTime()/1000000)); _.parentNode.insertBefore(r,_);})(window, document, 'script', 'https://static.mailerlite.com/js/universal.js', 'ml'); var ml_account = ml('accounts', '1815912', 'p9n9c0c7s5', 'load');
Text Sue what you think!This post-holiday stretch can make even confident homeschooling and unschooling parents second-guess everything. But winter isn't the time to push harder — even though everything around us insists we need to ‘get back on track.So what if we took a different approach?If the last semester felt less than stellar, it may not need a complete overhaul. It often just means real life showed up — and winter is asking for something different. This episode invites you to slow down, reflect clearly, and notice what's actually true beneath the fear, guilt, and January noise.We talk about:why winter has never been a season of pushinghow stress and fear can distort how we remember “how things went”why reflection gives us better information than rushing to fixhow learning often looks quieter in winter — and why that still countsThis is not about planning or starting over. It's about letting winter be winter — and giving yourself permission to pause.Read TranscriptIf you'd like a little more support right now, here are a few gentle options:• New Year's Bundle (Guides + Kids' Video Interviews)
Re-Envision Your Homeschool: Purpose-Driven Homeschool Planning for 2026 By my eighth year of homeschooling, something really began to shift for me. Every year between Christmas and New Year's, I would set aside a few days for purpose-driven homeschool planning for 2026—reflecting on what worked, what didn't, and what actually mattered. I was paying more attention to the atmosphere, the relationships, and each person's unique strengths and interests. Over time, I was asking better questions, and that reflection became less about overhauling our homeschool and more about recalibrating it. I began to approach our homeschool as a purpose-driven homeschool—not something to perfect, but something that could be adjusted thoughtfully, one small shift at a time. I learned to focus on what mattered and let go of what didn't. At the same time, I was letting go of who I thought I was supposed to be as a homeschool mom and growing into who I actually was. That combination—reflection, self-trust, and permission to be imperfect—was the most life-changing personal work. It's not a coincidence that around year eight, my confidence began to soar. Confidence didn't come from getting it all right. It came from trusting myself, aligning our homeschool with our values, and allowing both my kids and myself to evolve. That's also why, for the past five years, I've offered a re-envisioning and planning workshop for homeschool moms. Because we need to pause long enough to realign our intentions for ourselves, our kids, our relationships, and our life vision. Re-Envision My Homeschool for 2026 Why Purpose-Driven Homeschool Planning Matters Every year, I talk to homeschool moms who say the same thing at this year: “I need to shake things up.” Not because last year was all bad—but because what once felt like the right approach doesn't quite fit anymore. Sometimes what moms really want is to recalibrate and figure out what truly matters. They wonder if they need a new curriculum, when often the real question isn't the curriculum itself. It's how it's being used, whether it still fits this season, or whether everyone simply needs a break. Sometimes the recalibration is about assessing whether the environment you've created is actually conducive to engagement. Every mom wants a motivated child, and every mom will eventually have at least one child who isn't motivated at all. Motivation is tricky. We're all unmotivated at times—that's just being human. But sometimes a small environmental shift can make learning feel more supportive and energized. Often, we don't need to overhaul everything. We just need to recalibrate. How to Reflect and Recalibrate Your Homeschool for 2026 In this episode, I walk through the kind of reflection we'll do together inside the Re-Envision 2026 workshop. We'll look at: What went well this past year What actually worked for your kids Where engagement was high Where it wasn't What you're genuinely looking forward to What drained you This reflection gives you information—about your kids, your homeschool environment, your energy, your needs, and your relationships. When you understand what worked and what didn't, you stop guessing and begin planning with intention. Creating a “You” Plan for a Purpose-Driven Homeschool One of the core ideas of this workshop is simple: You are the most important element in your purpose-driven homeschool. If you want a calm, confident, present homeschool mom at the center of your home, your wellness cannot be optional. During the workshop, we will: Clarify what wellness strategies you need in the upcoming season Create a personalized burnout prevention plan Identify what support actually helps you stay regulated, focused, and present This is about creating a sustainable homeschool life—especially as we move into the post-Christmas slump season. Child-Inspired Learning & Engagement in a Purpose-Driven Homeschool We'll also explore: How your kids engaged this past year Where resistance showed up How to lean more fully into child-inspired learning How to enable a more motivated, calm, engaged environment This isn't about forcing motivation. It's about noticing patterns and responding intentionally with the next right step for each of your kids. Tools and Assessments to Support Your Purpose-Driven Homeschool During the workshop, you'll work through: A self-awareness assessment A homeschool assessment A wellness assessment You'll also receive: The Homeschool Mom Vision Planner The Wellness Journal for Homeschool Mamas These tools are designed to help you stay connected, be more present, and revisit your vision throughout the year—not just during one workshop. 2026 Homeschool Mom Vision Planner Start your homeschool year with clarity and confidence using the 2026 Homeschool Mom Vision Planner. This thoughtfully designed planner includes reflective prompts, practical tools, and space to align your homeschooling journey with your personal growth and family goals. Plan with purpose and create a year filled with joy and intention! $14.99 Original price was: $14.99.$12.99Current price is: $12.99. Shop now Join the Re-Envision 2026 Workshop Re-Envision 2026: Recalibrate Your Homeschool
If you're a homeschool mom, you've likely discovered that overwhelm doesn't arrive all at once. It accumulates — quietly, subtly — through pressure, self-doubt, unmet needs, and the belief that you're supposed to carry it all without complaint. In this episode, I'm sharing Days 7–12 of the twelve things I've learned about homeschool moms — insights shaped by my own journey and by years of walking alongside women who are longing for a more calm homeschool life while doing this brave, demanding, deeply meaningful work. You probably won't relate to every single one of these. But I'm willing to bet you'll recognize at least two or three — possibly more. You don't need a total overhaul to create a calm homeschool life. All you need are 1% shifts — small, compassionate adjustments that bring you back into alignment with yourself. Let's walk through them. Join the 12-Day Self-Care Challenge for Homeschool Moms What a Calm Homeschool Life Really Requires (Lessons from Days 7–12) These days explore what happens when overwhelm becomes internalized — when exhaustion, self-doubt, and constant carrying begin to feel like personal failure instead of a signal that something needs care and support. Day 7: “I don't have boundaries — because it feels mean or selfish to have them.” Many homeschool moms are deeply generous, relationally attuned, and willing to sacrifice — sometimes at the expense of their own well-being. But a calm homeschool life cannot exist without boundaries. Boundaries aren't walls; they're containers. They protect your energy, your attention, and your emotional availability. When you begin to notice where you're overriding your limits, you create space for more presence — not less. Every one of these six things isn't a sign that you're doing homeschooling wrong—they're signs that you're human and have been carrying more than anyone was meant to carry alone. Day 8: “I feel like I'm failing… even though I'm trying so hard.” This belief shows up when effort isn't matched with sustainability. Overwhelm often masquerades as failure, but it's usually a signal — not a verdict. It tells us something needs to be adjusted, not abandoned. A calm homeschool life doesn't come from doing more. It comes from releasing unrealistic expectations and redefining what “enough” actually means. https://youtu.be/yWbXNQfbnUk The Inner Work Behind a Calm Homeschool Life These days invite you to slow down decisions made from pressure and urgency, and to remember that a calm homeschool life includes room for discernment, desire, and your own seat at the table. Day 9: “I make decisions from pressure, not peace.” Curriculum choices. Schedules. Social expectations. Outside opinions. When decisions are driven by urgency or fear, calm becomes impossible. But when you pause — even briefly — and ask, “What aligns with us right now?”, you begin making choices that feel grounded instead of reactive. Peace doesn't require certainty–It requires permission to slow down. Day 10: “I don't let myself want anything. There's no room for me.” Many homeschool moms quietly silence their own desires — believing that wanting something for themselves is selfish or impractical. But here's the truth: A calm homeschool life includes you. Your interests, creativity, curiosity, and growth don't compete with your children's needs — they enrich the entire ecosystem of your home. A purposeful mom models what it looks like to live with intention, not resentment. There is room at the table for you. 1% Shifts That Move You Toward a Calm Homeschool Life These days focus on rebuilding self-trust and naming the quiet longing for change — the moment many homeschool moms realize they need a calmer, more supportive way forward. Day 11: “I don't trust myself… I wait for someone else to tell me what to do.” When you've been taught to defer — to experts, authority, or external approval — it's easy to lose touch with your own inner knowing. But homeschooling asks you to lead from wisdom, not permission. A calm homeschool life emerges when you begin trusting yourself — your discernment, your lived experience, your values — and making choices from integrity rather than fear of getting it wrong. Day 12: “I can't keep living like this — but I don't know how to change it.” It's the point where something in you knows there must be another way — a way home to yourself, to clarity, to sustainability. You don't need to solve everything at once. You need support, perspective, and small practices that build resilience over time. You need a 1% shift. That's how calm is cultivated — gently, consistently, compassionately. Creating a Calm Homeschool Life Through 1% Shifts A calm homeschool life isn't about eliminating challenges; it's about changing how you meet them. Days 7–12 invite you to notice where pressure, self-doubt, and self-abandonment show up — and to respond with curiosity instead of criticism. If as you listen you find yourself thinking, “I need help making those 1% shifts — but I don't know where to start,” that's exactly why I created the 12-Day Self-Care Challenge. It's gentle, doable support for homeschool moms whose plates are already full — designed to help you move away from overwhelm and toward a homeschool life that actually feels good from the inside out. Join the 12-Day Homeschool Mom Self-Care Challenge This is exactly why I created the 12-Day Homeschool Mom Self-Care Challenge. It's not another checklist or performance-based challenge. Instead, it's twelve small, doable shifts designed to help you come back to yourself with compassion, not pressure. Daily Letters – Thoughtful reflections to help you see your needs clearly. Gentle Reflection Prompts – Uncover the stories you've been carrying. Tiny, Doable Practices – Small actions to create real emotional space. As one mom said: “Your work has ripple effects because you're nurturing the nurturers.” You deserve that same nurture too. Click here to join the 12-Day Self-Care Challenge and start making your own 1% shifts away from overwhelm and toward a homeschool life that feels good from the inside out. Join the 12-Day Self-Care Challenge for Homeschool Moms To the Woman Reading This… If any part of this resonates — if you recognize your own patterns of over-functioning, self-forgetting, or carrying too much — please know you don't have to walk this alone. Maybe safety felt conditional, or you learned to earn love by meeting everyone else's needs.Or maybe you're carrying grief or stories that were never yours to carry. I've walked this path too — from losing myself to returning to myself. If you're ready to step into who you truly are, I'd be honoured to walk beside you. ➤ Learn more about coaching with Teresa here. 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In this episode, we're sharing a conversation that Pam had with Lucy AitkenRead in 2017. At the time, Lucy unschools her two children and blogs at Lulastic and the Hippyshake. Pam and Lucy talked about her family's move to unschooling, the hardest parts of her journey, the most surprising bits, as well her husband's journey […]
Let's be honest, public school wasn't designed for kids with ADHD. Too often, these kids are labeled, misunderstood, and pushed into systems that don't fit how their brains learn best. But what if the problem isn't your child, but the system itself? In this episode of The Soaring Child Podcast, host Dana Kay, ADHD health practitioner and founder of the ADHD Thrive Method for Kids speaks with Leslie Dernberger, founder of Aspire Education, mom of four, and one of the nation's leading experts in K–12 education for neurodiverse learners. Drawing on her legal background and over a decade of experience helping families, Leslie unpacks why traditional schooling often fails ADHD kids and what parents can do about it. From understanding homeschool laws and navigating deschooling, to structuring the day and busting common misconceptions, this episode is filled with practical guidance and encouragement. Whether you're curious about homeschooling, exploring hybrid options, or just want to better support your child's learning, this conversation will give you hope and actionable tools. Links Mentioned in the Show:▶ Aspire Education: https://www.aspireeducation.us/ ▶ Homeschool Legal Defense Association (HSLDA): https://hslda.org Key Takeaways: [00:00] Public school isn't built for many ADHD learners andwhy fit-the-mold systems backfire. [02:37] Meet Leslie Dirnberger (Aspire Education): mom of four, homeschool veteran, legal background, supports thousands of families. [04:23] The "catalyst event": what finally pushes parents to seek alternatives. [06:03] Spotting the signal: "the spark is gone" and nothing at school is fixing it. [07:16] First steps legally: understand your state's rules; public vs. private education; where homeschooling fits. [10:05] Deschooling 101: reset the parent first; museum/nature learning to reconnect. [13:38] Foundation step: define "a good education" as a family; ask kids what learning should look like. [15:24] Myth-busting socialization: why homeschoolers often get better real-world social practice. [18:30] Colleges love homeschoolers: time management, self-advocacy, executive function. [26:27] Standardized tests miss the mark, especially for ADHD, focus on mastery instead. Memorable Moments: "The truth is, your child doesn't need to be fixed. They need an education that actually fits their brain." "There is a catalyst event that has occurred that creates a situation that the parents go, wait a second, let's take a step back here." "The spark has gone out, the light has gone out of their eyes and the parents know something's wrong." "The hardest part of homeschooling? Looking myself in the mirror and challenging my own beliefs." "What does a good education look like for your family and for your children?" "Nothing could be further from the truth — homeschoolers are often better socialized." "Colleges love homeschoolers because they know how to manage their time and advocate for themselves." "Accreditation is a game. It is absolutely garbage. It doesn't mean a thing." "Everything is geared towards standardized testing in government schools. And that's why they're in a box and they ram it through, which is terrible for ADHD kids." "Your children can own their own education and advocate for themselves at school." Dana Kay Resources:
If you've ever felt stretched too thin, this episode is for you. In Part 1 of my series, 12 Things I've Learned About Homeschool Moms, I share the first six insights I've gathered over my years as a homeschool mom, coach, and guide for women just like you. These self-care tips for overwhelmed homeschool moms aren't rules or prescriptions—they're real-life reflections from someone who's walked this path, experienced the overwhelm, and learned how to reclaim herself without abandoning her homeschool dreams. Join the 12-Day Self-Care Challenge for Homeschool Moms What You'll Learn: Self-Care Tips for Overwhelmed Homeschool Moms Every homeschool mom faces invisible challenges, even when things look “perfect” from the outside. In this episode, I dive into the first six things I've learned about the homeschool mom experience: You feel like you never get a moment to yourself – The constant “on” mode can leave you disconnected from your own body and needs. No one sees everything you do – From teaching to caregiving to emotional labor, the invisible load is real. You say yes because it feels easier than dealing with disappointment – Learning to say no is a radical act of self-care. You're emotionally depleted – The overwhelm is rarely about homeschooling itself—it's about carrying too much without space to reset. You feel guilty resting – Rest isn't optional; it's essential for your health, your energy, and your presence in your family. You don't even know who you are anymore outside motherhood – Reconnecting with yourself is foundational to leading a confident, aligned homeschool life. Every one of these six things isn't a sign that you're doing homeschooling wrong—they're signs that you're human and have been carrying more than anyone was meant to carry alone. Why These Self-Care Tips for Overwhelmed Homeschool Moms Matter If any part of this episode made you exhale or think, “oh… that's me,” consider this your gentle invitation to start tending to yourself with the same care you offer everyone else in your home. Emotional overfunctioning and people-pleasing can follow you into homeschooling, and slowly, you lose not just your energy, but your sense of self. Reclaiming yourself isn't selfish—it's foundational. Your kids feel safest when you feel safe. Join the 12-Day Homeschool Mom Self-Care Challenge This is exactly why I created the 12-Day Homeschool Mom Self-Care Challenge. It's not another checklist or performance-based challenge. Instead, it's twelve small, doable shifts designed to help you come back to yourself with compassion, not pressure. Daily Letters – Thoughtful reflections to help you see your needs clearly. Gentle Reflection Prompts – Uncover the stories you've been carrying. Tiny, Doable Practices – Small actions to create real emotional space. As one mom said: “Your work has ripple effects because you're nurturing the nurturers.” You deserve that same nurture too. Click here to join the 12-Day Self-Care Challenge and start making your own 1% shifts away from overwhelm and toward a homeschool life that feels good from the inside out. What's Next for Overwhelmed Homeschool Moms Next week, we'll continue with Part 2 of this series, where I share six more things I've learned about homeschool moms. They go even deeper, and I think you'll feel just as held, understood, and equipped to make your homeschool life feel lighter and more aligned. Until then, take one moment today just for you—not because it's earned, but because you need it and you deserve it. Join the 12-Day Self-Care Challenge for Homeschool Moms To the Woman Reading This… If any part of this resonates — if you recognize your own patterns of over-functioning, self-forgetting, or carrying too much — please know you don't have to walk this alone. Maybe safety felt conditional, or you learned to earn love by meeting everyone else's needs.Or maybe you're carrying grief or stories that were never yours to carry. I've walked this path too — from losing myself to returning to myself. If you're ready to step into who you truly are, I'd be honoured to walk beside you. ➤ Learn more about coaching with Teresa here. Bolster Boundaries at the Holidays for Homeschool MomsIntroducing the ultimate guide for homeschool moms navigating the holiday whirlwind: the ‘Boundary Bolstering Journaling Workbook.’ Crafted to help you thrive amidst unique seasonal challenges, this 31-page gem offers strategies and thought-provoking journal prompts. 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Have you heard the term deschooling and wondered what it really means? In this episode, you'll discover the origins of deschooling, why it's such an important part of transitioning from traditional schooling to homeschooling, and practical ways to make the process smoother for both you and your kids. Whether you're brand new to homeschooling or looking to reset your current routine, this conversation will help you understand the mindset shift that makes all the difference. Want to go deeper? Watch helpful videos and explore more resources: Discover deschooling videos & resources Sign up for a free homeschool consultation Learn more about life coaching for parents Click here to join our newsletter © 2018–2026 HomeSchool ThinkTank, LLC. All Rights Reserved.
Text Sue what you think!If you're having doubts or feeling overwhelmed, I have some options for you!You're not the only parent who enters December feeling confused about their homeschooling or unschooling choices. Sue Patterson shares nearly 30 years of experience here, offering reassurance and perspective. And even if you do need to pivot, you don't have to figure it out alone.Unschooling is a practice — one small, brave decision at a time — and you don't have to walk it alone.Links mentioned: • Discounted December Coaching Calls: http://www.suepatterson.as.me/december • Ask Sue Page: Tell me your Biggest Fear. Seriously. I'll answer • Transcript Blogpost: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/unschooling-doubts-and-fearsSupport the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
Join Me for the 12-Day Homeschool Mom Self-Care Challenge A homeschool mom self-care challenge that honours you. Homeschool mama, I see you. December is here, and it feels like an avalanche of ALL the things.Every month as a homeschool mom is full, but December? It's a whole new level. You're trying to finish things up, or you’re moving into a unit study on Christmas, you’re purchasing, prepping, planning, and playing—and you just added a part time-job to your full-time job. But as a homeschool mama, when December rolls around, mama ain’t looking after herself, she’s looking, after ALL the things. And though ALL the things are a whole lot of things EVERY other month, December’s ALL the things is an exponential set of things. Though you’re trying to do all the things, fulfill the expectations, and make it magical for your kids, you can’t do a little bit more if you didn’t already incorporate an approach to maintain margins and pursue purposeful living. That's why I'm inviting you to join me for the 12-Day Self-Care Challenge for Homeschool Moms. This isn't another TO DO list. It's a TO GIVE list—a way to give back to yourself. Join the 12 Day Self-Care Challenge Why Self-Care Matters As homeschool moms, we have a unique calling. We're deeply present with our kids, invested in their well-being, and working hard to create meaningful memories and learning experiences. We savor moments of: Watching our kids harmoniously play together (sometimes). Cheering them on as they tackle new challenges. Seeing their excitement as they pursue new interests. Building lifelong memories as a family. But there's another side to this season: The constant stream of emotions (theirs and ours). Sibling squabbles. Complaints and meltdowns. And, of course, the never-ending mundane tasks—laundry, dishes, meals, and errands. Even when we handle these challenges with grace, the emotional and mental investment is enormous. Add the holidays to the mix, and it's no wonder we feel stretched thin. The Secret Ingredient to a (more) Peaceful Holiday Season Here's the thing: you matter too. Your well-being is not just an afterthought—it's the foundation of a happy family life and a peaceful holiday season. Self-care: Refills your energy so you can approach the holidays with calm and joy. Models healthy balance and boundaries for your children. Helps you manage stress and let go of perfection. Strengthens your emotional resilience to handle challenges with patience and grace. Creates space for joy and presence, helping you savor the small, magical moments. When you care for yourself, you're giving your family the best gift of all—a peaceful, grounded, and joyful mama. What You'll Get in the 12-Day Challenge In just fifteen minutes a day—maybe even five—you'll explore simple, practical self-care strategies that fit into your busy December. These strategies aren't just for the holidays; they're tools to carry into the new year, helping you nurture yourself and your family with greater ease and satisfaction. By the end of these 12 days, you'll feel: More energized. More connected to yourself. And more at peace as you move through this beautiful, busy season. And so we must take care of ourselves. Join the 12 Days of Homeschool Mom Self-Care Challenge Join Me—You Deserve This So, homeschool mama, this is your invitation to take a breath, step back, and remember that you are worth nurturing. Let's do this together. This December, give yourself the gift of care, calm, and connection. Join the 12-Day Self-Care Challenge for Homeschool Moms and rediscover the joy of the season—not just for your family, but for you too. Just fifteen minutes a day. You've got this. 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Text Sue what you think!Does unschooling feel like a roller coaster — some days confident, other days full of doubt? You're not alone. This episode explores why the early stages feel so shaky and what actually helps parents feel steady again.We'll talk about: • why deschooling feels so emotional and up-and-down • the hidden pressures that make you second-guess yourself • why doing this alone feels so much harder • what real, judgment-free support does for your confidence • stories from parents who finally stopped spiraling • why the holiday season magnifies everything — good and hardIf you're tired of the internal wobble or wishing someone could walk with you through this stage, this conversation will help you breathe again.⭐ Black Friday Membership SaleIf you've been wanting support, this is the easiest week of the year to join the Unschooling Mom2Mom Membership. The discounted Black Friday price makes it simple to get the grounding, clarity, and community that make unschooling feel lighter.Monthly - 20% off!Annual - 56% off!!!Join here: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/black-fridaySupport the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
Text Sue what you think!The holidays can bring up all kinds of emotions — especially when you're the unschooling parent walking into a room where everyone has an opinion. And even if people mean well, their questions can still hit tender spots or stir up old schooling fears.In today's episode, we'll talk about how to stay grounded when family members question your unschooling choices. I'll walk you through five simple, steadying tips you can lean on during awkward moments — the same ones I share with parents inside my membership when this season rolls around.You'll learn: • why these conversations feel so intense • how to keep your calm without going into defense mode • what to remember when someone still doesn't “get it” • ways to reconnect with your child and yourself afterward • how to stay confident even when the room feels tenseIf you want to go deeper and make this whole season feel lighter, here are a few helpful resources:
Text Sue what you think!Ever wonder if you're doing enough when your child just wants to play all day — Legos, trampolines, video games — and you're trying to trust unschooling? In this episode, Sue Patterson from Unschooling Mom2Mom answers a real email from a worried parent and explains: Why this “all play” phase is normal during deschooling, What's actually happening in your child's brain, How to shift from panic to partnership. How play builds real learning, Why motivation returns naturallyHow to support your child without slipping into passivity or overcontrol.BLACK FRIDAY SALE!Creating Confidence Membership - Only $39/month with no sign-up feeAnnual Membership - $299! - 76% off!Courses 50% off with Discount Code: BF2025All Unschooling Guides - only $99!! with Discount Code: BF2025___________________________Read the Transcript here: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/is-play-enough-what-legos-trampolines-video-games-teach-us-about-learningSupport the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
Could small changes at home make a big difference in your child's education? In this week's episode of Complicated Kids, I talk with Chris Linder, a hybrid homeschooling advocate and founder of Homeschool Remix, about what hybrid homeschooling really looks like—how it bridges the gap between traditional school and home learning, why it's a powerful option for neurodivergent kids, and how parents can get started without burning out. We explore what hybrid homeschooling is (and isn't), why parents are more qualified than they think, the realities of state requirements, and how to avoid the overwhelm that often comes with taking a more active role in learning at home. Chris shares simple, realistic strategies that help parents supplement school in meaningful ways, nurture their child's interests, and create learning environments that actually fit their kids. If you've been curious about homeschooling or wondering how to support your child beyond traditional school hours, this conversation is full of clarity and encouragement. Key Takeaways Parents are their child's first and most natural teacher. Hybrid homeschooling blends school structure with home-based flexibility. It's especially supportive for neurodivergent kids and kids with strong interests. You can start small—one subject or a few hours a week. Homeschooling doesn't have to be expensive. "Deschooling" helps prevent burnout and resets routines. Teaching critical thinking is more important than memorizing curriculum. Both secular and religious homeschooling options exist. Community makes a big difference—no one has to do this alone. Many parents say they wish they had started sooner. About Chris Linder Chris Linder is the founder of Homeschool Remix, where he helps families design hybrid homeschool systems that honor their values, their child's needs, and their real-life schedules. He works closely with parents, educators, and co-ops to make flexible, personalized education accessible to all families. About Your Host, Gabriele Nicolet I'm Gabriele Nicolet, toddler whisperer, speech therapist, parenting life coach, and host of Complicated Kids. Each week, I share practical, relationship-based strategies for raising kids with big feelings, big needs, and beautifully different brains. My goal is to help families move from surviving to thriving by building connection, confidence, and clarity at home. Complicated Kids Resources and Links
Text Sue what you think!Feeling stretched thin — or wondering if you're doing enough? You're not alone.But I have something simple you can try:Let's look at Gratitude through and unschooling lens!In this episode, Sue Patterson from Unschooling Mom2Mom shares how shifting toward gratitude can calm the chaos and help you see how much is already working in your unschooling life.She has created an Unschooling and Gratitude Hub over at the website. You'll find so many tips and resources for bringing gratitude into your homes. You'll learn how to spot real learning in everyday moments, model gratitude for your kids, and rebuild calm and connection at home — without adding another “to-do.”
Text Sue what you think!Thinking about unschooling but wondering if you have to “try everything else first”? You don't.
Send us a textChange doesn't wait for the perfect schedule, and neither do big feelings. We sit down after a long day to unpack a week where a 30-minute hydrotherapy session brought relief, the weather kept us indoors, and Oakland leaned hard into the comfort of screens and familiar routines. Rather than fight it, we explore why control, predictability, and co-regulation can be smart strategies when a child's world is filled with packed boxes and looming travel plans.We get personal about the daily school run for Lacey and the meltdowns that come with transitions: the countdowns that sometimes help, the moments that don't, and the practical safety steps that keep everyone secure. Paige breaks down why static visuals and tabletop tasks trigger Oakland, offering a different lens for therapists and educators—lighten language, reduce direct demands, and protect autonomy wherever you can. We also talk about weekends, nature, and why water usually eases his nervous system, while staying honest about the days it doesn't.Amid family recalibration, Paige reveals The Inclusion Collective—an accessible, privately funded membership for carers seeking practical training and genuine connection. Expect live group education on NDIS reviews and school systems, clarity connection calls for questions and body doubling, masterclasses from diverse voices, and an active chat that doesn't expect perfection. It's built to meet real carers where they are and make support feel possible.https://inclusiveoak.com.au/ danabaltutis.com, mytherapyhouse.com.au, https://mytherapyhouse.com.au/your-childs-therapy-journey/ https://www.danabaltutis.com/services
Text Sue what you think!Unschooling + Halloween = real learning.
Welcome to our deschooling episode! I'm joined by Helen Royston to talk about:why it's important to deschoolwhat it looks likehow long it lasts (spoiler: longer than you think!)how to do itwhat to avoidDid you go through a deschooling process? How did you find it? Let us know in the comments ...Links referenced in this episode:picturebookexplorers.co.ukinstagram.com/HomeEducationMatters
Text Sue what you think!Watch Video Version HereStill searching for a checklist to prove you're “doing it right”?In this episode, Sue Patterson breaks down why unschooling doesn't come with boxes to check — and why that's both scary and freeing. Join a coaching-call-inspired conversation about the brain's habit of seeking structure, why we feel compelled to “perform” as parents, and how we can shift from tracking tasks to checking connection. If you're a parent moving away from school-style validation toward real life learning, this episode will help you reframe success, reconnect with your child, and trust your own rhythm.Keywords: unschooling, deschooling, homeschooling, checklist mentality, parenting without curriculum, connection over structure, unschooling parents, free-range learning, trusting your rhythmYou'll learn:Why our obsession with checklists comes from a school-brain still wired for “right answers”How unschooling challenges that structure — and what to do insteadA simple daily question to replace “Did I finish the list?” with “Did we connect today?”Why “progress” looks different in unschooling — and how to see what's realResources mentioned:365 Days of DeschoolingSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarCreating Confidence Unschooling Membership (community & coaching)Tune in to reset your checklist culture and rediscover freedom, curiosity, and trust in learning together.Listen now on all major podcast platforms.Read the transcript here at the Unschooling Mom2Mom Blog.Support the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
Has the light gone out of your child's eyes? As a former middle school teacher turned homeschool mom of six, I've seen firsthand how traditional schooling can leave kids anxious, confused, disconnected, and frankly, traumatized. In this episode, we'll explore how to help your child--particularly you middle schoolers, heal from school-related stress, strengthen family relationships, and reignite your child's love for learning. Episode on Reclaiming Their Hearts Workshop on Nurturing the Relationship Episodes for new homeschoolers: Homeschooling 101 Part 1: Laws on YouTube Homeschooling 101 Part 2: Deschooling on YouTube Homeschooling 101 Part 3: Creating a Vision on YouTube Homeschooling 101 Part 4: Philosophies on YouTube Homeschooling 101 Part 5: Finding Community & Friends on YouTube SCHOOL TO HOMESCHOOL RESOURCES: FREE MONTHLY WEDNESDAY WORKSHOP: CLICK HERE Sign Up for the School to Homeschool Newsletter Private Mentoring with Janae: Schedule a Free Discovery Call School to Homeschool YouTube Channel Etsy Store: Shop for Homeschooling Swag *Please note that some of the links included in this article are Amazon affiliate links. CONNECT with US Join the Private Facebook Group NEW Instagram Learn more about School to Homeschool Contact Janae: schooltohomeschool1@gmail.com
Text Sue what you think!Autonomy doesn't grow from obedience — it grows from real life experience.In this episode, Sue Patterson shares how unschooled kids learn to weigh pros and cons, think through choices, and develop real decision-making confidence. You'll explore what cost/benefit thinking looks like in everyday life — from messy art projects to sports teams and video games — and why stepping back as a parent creates space for growth. Learn how unschooling gives kids the practice they need to trust themselves, one choice at a time.MORE ABOUT THE MEMBERSHIPSupport the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
Deschooling helps us (& our kids) to focus on the most important elements of education for our kids AND to live our lives on purpose. The post Why Deschooling? To Feel Confident, Certain & Good Enough appeared first on Capturing the Charmed Life.
Text Sue what you think!Shaky start with homeschooling? You're not failing—the plan is. Sue Patterson shares how to pivot from “school at home” to unschooling with confidence, reframe the “basics,” and calm the September wobble. + Q&A and resources to help right now.___________________________LAST DAY SALEUnschooling Mom2Mom Parent Toolkit: ALL 25 guides = $99
Text Sue what you think!Worried you're not doing enough as an unschooling parent? In this episode, Sue Patterson tackles common doubts about reading, math, technology, and “falling behind.” Learn how to reframe fears, spot real learning, and build confidence — plus hear about the Unschooling Parent Toolkit - with 25 Guides - to help you every step of the way.Are you lying awake at night wondering: Am I doing enough for my kids? You're not alone. Let's dive into the doubts that creep in when families move away from traditional homeschooling and into unschooling - and find some SOLUTIONS!You'll hear why worries about reading, math, technology, and “falling behind” show up for nearly every parent — and how to reframe them so you can see the real learning that's happening in your home. Sue shares practical examples from everyday life, mindset shifts that help you shake off school conditioning, and encouragement from her 30+ years of unschooling experience.
In this episode, we're sharing a conversation that Pam had with Iris Chen in 2018. At the time, Iris was new to unschooling her two sons in China and was writing blog posts about her experience at her website, Untigering. Pam and Iris talked about why she and her husband decided to move to China, […]
In this bonus solo episode, Kelly Rigg discusses the mindset shifts necessary for families considering home education. She shares her personal journey into home education, emphasizing the importance of de-schooling and understanding the practical steps involved in deregistering a child from school. The conversation highlights the empowerment of families to make educational choices that suit their unique needs and the importance of questioning traditional educational norms. This is part of a series 'Get your head straight to home ed!' that will be posted throughout the summer, look out for the accompanying workbook at www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/workwithme to help your family make this decision feeling supported and empowered. Takeaways There is a huge amount of work that goes into mentally shifting from traditional education. Many people feel disillusioned with the traditional education system. Home education can provide a more fulfilling and engaging learning experience for children. De-schooling is essential to move away from traditional educational expectations. Families should focus on their unique values and goals in education. The deregistration process is straightforward but requires careful consideration. Home education allows for a more child-led and flexible approach to learning. It's important to recognize and address fears and uncertainties about home education. Support systems, such as coaching, can be beneficial for families transitioning to home education. Establishing connection with children is crucial for a successful home education experience.
Text Sue what you think!If unschooling feels harder than you expected, you're not alone. In this episode, Sue Patterson walks you through 10 of the most common struggles parents face when they start unschooling — from doubting your instincts to feeling overwhelmed by outside pressure.We'll explore why these challenges come up, how to reframe them, and what practical steps you can take to move from fear to confidence. Whether you're brand new to unschooling or just having a tough week, this episode will help you feel seen, supported, and ready to move forward.
Text Sue what you think!Don't Miss: Free End-of-Year Celebration Checklist!What if the school year didn't go as planned?It's ok to call it "Done!"Sue Patterson shares supportive, real-world advice for homeschoolers and unschoolers who feel like they fell short this year. You'll learn how to let go of guilt, reframe “unfinished” learning, and even throw a meaningful end-of-year celebration — whether your child is 8 or 18.Plus, Sue walks you through how to spot real learning in your everyday life and use it to create progress reports, transcripts, or just reassurance for yourself.Whether you're transitioning to unschooling or wrapping up your final homeschooling year, this episode will help you end the year with confidence and clarity.
Text Sue what you think!What Is Deschooling? 5 Reasons to Make It a PriorityDeschooling isn't a one-time break—it's an essential shift that helps unschooling thrive. In this episode, Sue Patterson shares 5 quick reasons to actually prioritize deschooling and what happens when we don't.
This is my story of deschooling so you can be a fly on my wall, but how you deschool will look different based on you and your kids. The post How my story of deschooling brought more freedom & purpose appeared first on Capturing the Charmed Life.
Text Sue what you think!You might not think so—especially if your own experience with Shakespeare involved interpreting metaphors, writing sonnets, or slogging through line-by-line analysis.But unschoolers?They get to explore Shakespeare in ways that feel natural, creative, and even fun.Especially this week on Talk Like Shakespeare Day (April 23rd)In this Unschooling Mom2Mom Podcast episode, I'll share how families bring Shakespeare into their lives without schoolifying it. We'll talk about:The real subjects kids are tapping into (language, history, psychology, and more)Where Shakespeare still shows up in our movies, memes, and everyday phrasesHow unschoolers connect with timeless characters and stories—without tests or textbooksYou'll also hear about some of the more playful ways kids engage with Shakespeare: emoji matching games, Elizabethan Translator tools, and crafting insults that would make the Bard himself chuckle. I truly think Shakespeare would've loved this unschooling approach!All the links are at the blogpost: Unschoolers Learn Shakespeare Without Curriculum_______________________________________
Text Sue what you think!FREE PDF BELOW!Worried your child might not be learning without traditional schoolwork or curriculum? You're not alone—and this episode is for you.Whether you're new to unschooling or just hitting a moment of doubt, I'm sharing 5 real-life ways to know your child is learning—without needing tests, worksheets, or a structured curriculum.These simple, practical tips will help you spot learning as it naturally unfolds through ConversationsCuriosityCreativityReal-world experiencesYou'll learn how to shift your perspective and recognize the learning that's already happening all around you.✨ Don't miss the free printable worksheet I created to go with this episode! Use it to reflect on what learning looks like in your home—month by month.
Text Sue what you think!Unschooling by Subjects? Spring Reveals the Learning You Didn't Expect!Are you a homeschooling parent wondering how unschoolers cover subjects like language arts, math, science, social studies, and fine arts—without a curriculum?Or maybe you're unschooling but you're not sure you're doing enough.You're not alone! In this episode, we're diving into real-life examples of how traditional school subjects show up naturally during the spring season.If you've ever asked:"What about the core subjects?""How will my child learn math or writing without a curriculum?""Can we still cover what they 'need' in an unschooling lifestyle?"…this episode is for you.We'll explore: ✅ How springtime activities naturally invite learning ✅ Subject-by-subject ideas for language arts, math, science, social studies, and the arts ✅ How to recognize real learning in everyday moments ✅ Why letting go of rigid schooling structures opens up more meaningful educationPLUS: I'll tell you how to grab the brand-new Spring Unschooling Guide, filled with ideas sorted by subject, spring holidays, links, games, and journaling pages to help you document the learning unfolding in your home.✨ Whether you're new to unschooling or trying to trust the process more deeply, this episode will reassure you that YES—your kids are learning. Right now. All around you.
Are you ready to pull your teens and kids from public school to start homeschooling, but don't know where to start!? This mini-series is the place. In this episode, we discuss finding community, for your family! This is the 5 episode of 5 in this mini-series. For a deeper dive into the homeschooling transition, check out Episode 1: Beginning the Journey of this podcast. Homeschooling 101 Part 1: Laws on YouTube Homeschooling 101 Part 2: Deschooling on YouTube Homeschooling 101 Part 3: Creating a Vision on YouTube Homeschooling 101 Part 4: Philosophies on YouTube Homeschooling 101 Part 5: Finding Community & Friends on YouTube Sign Up for the School to Homeschool Newsletter School to Homeschool YouTube Channel Private Mentoring with Janae: Schedule a Free Discovery Call Etsy Store: Shop for Homeschooling Swag *Please note that some of the links included in this article are Amazon affiliate links. CONNECT with US Join the Private Facebook Group Connect and follow along with Janae's Journey on Instagram @janae.daniels Learn more about School to Homeschool Contact Janae: schooltohomeschool1@gmail.com
In this week's flashback episode, we're sharing an interview that Pam had in 2016 with Lauren Seaver about deschooling. At the time of the interview, Lauren Seaver was an unschooling mom to 9-year-old River. She first considered the possibility of homeschooling way back when she was in college to become a teacher. Life took some […]