The Impulsive Thinker

You already know the world doesn't get you, and it never will. ADHD isn't the problem — the world has a problem with your brain. This episode is confirmation you're not doing it wrong.   In This Episode: Why ADHD entrepreneurs get stuck chasing chaos (and how it's actually safety) The cost of measuring yourself on society's measuring stick Building out-of-the-book businesses as an ADHD Entrepreneur   What You'll Take Away: ADHD isn't your whole identity — it's just one part, and it's not the issue Chaotic systems feel like "home" for ADHD brains, even when they're burning you out People-pleasing + urgency can destroy your schedule (and energy) You can't outgrind burnout — boundaries win, guilt or not You're only failing on society's measuring stick, not yours   GUEST BIONicole Solitar is a program advisor and team coach at Strategic Coach. She kicked The Impulsive Thinker® podcast into existence and returns to call out what matters for ADHD Entrepreneurs.   Nicole Solitar appears courtesy of Strategic Coach®. Strategic Coach® is a registered trademarks of The Strategic Coach Inc. All rights reserved.   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® blows up the lie that you need to fix your ADHD to succeed as an entrepreneur. The Impulsive Thinker® and Nicole Solitar rip into why boredom, chaos, and two-week time horizons shred neurodivergent businesses. You'll hear why the ADHD brain is wired for interest, not importance — and why that wrecks you when you measure progress by society's standards. The real talk covers time blindness, chaos as a "safe" place, and the burnout that comes from chronic people-pleasing. Listen if you're tired of pretending you're the problem. You're not. Hit play if you're done measuring yourself by a system that was never built for you. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

You're not creative because you have an ADHD brain. You're creative because friction forced you to be. The Impulsive Thinker® tears down the myths about ADHD and Entrepreneur creativity.   In This Episode: Why friction—not your ADHD diagnosis—creates real creative skills The traps of too much and too little friction for ADHD entrepreneurs Growth mindset versus victim mindset in the face of business resistance   What You'll Take Away: Your creative drive wasn't handed to you by your brain—it was built through scars and pushback Repetition under pressure is where skills get made, not boredom-breaking Too much friction burns you out, not up Being bored isn't a flaw; it's fuel for finding new angles You, not your wiring, are responsible for what you make out of resistance   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This solo episode of The Impulsive Thinker® challenges the lie that ADHD brains are default creative machines. The Impulsive Thinker® dives into friction, growth mindset, and what really forges Entrepreneur creativity. You'll hear why standard business advice fails ADHD entrepreneurs and why workarounds became your standard. Grind, burnout, and "follow the money"—The Impulsive Thinker® breaks down how the wrong kind of friction eats your drive. If the world keeps telling you to stick to their plan, but you keep building your own—this episode is built for you. Hit play.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

You didn't get innovative because you were born with ADHD. You got there because you survived the friction. The world wants friction-free — but ADHD Entrepreneurs are forged through resistance, not by default.   In This Episode: Friction: how real growth happens for ADHD Entrepreneurs Why life experience — not just brain wiring — shapes creativity When to quit, when to persist, and why resilience is earned   What You'll Take Away: ADHD does not guarantee problem-solving or creativity — life makes you build it Too much friction leads to burnout. Too little? Stagnation. Your workarounds and adaptability are proof of lived experience, not wiring Failure is not a flaw. Mistakes are the step before mastery. Quitting what drains you is a strategic decision, not a weakness   Guest: Dr. J. Russell Ramsay is a psychologist specializing in the assessment and psychosocial treatment of adult ADHD. He recently launched a solo virtual telepsychology practice, which can be found at www.cbt4adhd.com. Dr. Ramsay is recognized for his contributions to the field of adult ADHD and is a repeat guest on The Impulsive Thinker™ podcast.   www.cbt4adhd.com   Books by Dr. Russell Ramsay: The Adult ADHD and Anxiety Workbook: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Skills to Manage Stress, Find Focus, and Reclaim Your Life The Adult ADHD Tool Kit   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® dives straight into the ADHD Entrepreneur's real source of growth: friction and failure. The Impulsive Thinker® sits down with Dr. J. Russell Ramsay to expose why lived experience — not just ADHD brain wiring — drives creativity and resilience.   Key themes include how friction shapes adaptability, why most ADHD strengths are forged through struggle, and what happens when Entrepreneurs face too much or too little resistance. The episode tears down the myth that an ADHD brain comes with guaranteed success or innovation. It's about life scars, hard-won workarounds, and facing those uncomfortable moments that most people run from. The conversation breaks down how comparison, external benchmarks, and the pressure for friction-free achievement hold ADHD Entrepreneurs back. Real growth comes from earned scars — not from labels or hype.   If you're tired of one-size-fits-all advice and want to see how real ADHD operating systems build business muscle, this one's for you. Listen in and redefine what success looks like on your own terms.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

Disaster always hits before a breakthrough. If you're rebuilding your business after chaos, you're not alone. The Impulsive Thinker® explains why ADHD entrepreneurs never get a smooth path forward — and why that's the real sign of progress.   In This Episode: Why every big leap in business comes right after everything blows up How old habits come back — even when you know better Setting boundaries to keep your business built around you, not everyone else   What You'll Take Away: Your worst business disaster is the price of actual progress, not a sign you failed When pressure hits, survival habits come back fast — know how to catch them Building your business for yourself first is the only way it will work long-term You know what needs to change — stop negotiating with yourself and start moving Respect for your boundaries is non-negotiable, no matter who's pushing back   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® confronts the fallout and rebuild after an ADHD entrepreneur's business falls apart. The Impulsive Thinker® dishes the real ADHD experience — disaster, forced lessons, and why you can't build back the old way. It hits the hard truths about boundaries, saying no, and how even your best habits get tested when survival mode kicks in. This one's for ADHD entrepreneurs sick of serving everyone but themselves and tired of apologizing for how their brain works. If you're done pretending burnout is normal and want your business to serve you — hit play.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.   GUEST BIODr. Brandie Keates is a neurodivergent entrepreneur and founder of Bloom Sanctuary. She built and sold one of the largest chiropractic practices in her state and now creates practical support for women in pain.   Follow Dr. Brandie YouTube Facebook Instagram Website DrBrandie.com  

You didn't burn out. You got bored, and your brain did the rest. André Brisson, The Impulsive Thinker®, breaks down what actually happens when ADHD entrepreneurs walk away — or get forced out. It's not about losing. It's about refusing to do it on someone else's terms.   In This Episode: Why "putting yourself first" is non-negotiable for ADHD Entrepreneurs Setting boundaries and learning which clients and team members still respect you Regulating your batteries before your brain and business crash   What You'll Take Away: Running your own company doesn't mean anyone else gets a say Survival mode isn't strategy — it's your ADHD brain in panic spinning its wheels Doing work that makes you angry or bored is a signal, not a moral failing You can drop 75% of your revenue and still come out ahead — if your boundaries are right If you're burned out and overwhelmed, it's time to quit validating your decisions with outside opinions   GUEST BIODr. Brandie Keates is a neurodivergent entrepreneur and founder of Bloom Sanctuary. She built and sold one of the largest chiropractic practices in her state and now creates practical support for women in pain.   Follow Dr. Brandie YouTube Facebook Instagram Website DrBrandie.com   ABOUT THIS EPISODE The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Brandy Keats get brutally honest about business breakups, burnout, and why ADHD brains refuse the slow death of "steady" growth. They talk about why boundary-setting is everything for ADHD Entrepreneurs and what really happens when you decide to put yourself first. This conversation digs into overwhelm, the real cost of bad-fit teams and clients, and the guilt that comes from doing less but getting more. It's a direct look at neurological regulation, dropping work that kills your batteries, and how to build a business that survives the ADHD cycle. If you've ever felt the urge to burn it all down or start over, this episode is your permission slip. Hit play if you're ready to stop apologizing and actually run things your way. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

Anger isn't the problem. It's what happens when the world ignores it. The Impulsive Thinker® tears apart the lie that ADHD entrepreneurs have "anger issues" — and calls out why nobody ever asks why.   In This Episode: Anger versus aggression — the difference nobody sees Why ignoring anger creates bigger messes for ADHD entrepreneurs How shame and gaslighting feed emotional blowups   What You'll Take Away: Anger is a signal, not a character flaw — aggression is what happens when it's ignored Shame keeps ADHD entrepreneurs from even feeling anger "Anger problems" are often society's refusal to listen, not yours ADHD, RSD, and other labels get weaponized to silence you The right question isn't "why are you angry" — it's "what boundary got crossed?"   ABOUT THIS EPISODE The Impulsive Thinker® takes on anger and emotional dysregulation in ADHD entrepreneurship. Why are ADHD entrepreneurs labelled angry when nobody asks what's happened to trigger it? This episode drills into anger as a signal, not a failing, and why mixing it up with aggression misses the real point.   Shame, dismissal, and gaslighting push ADHD entrepreneurs to a breaking point. Ignoring anger never solves it. The Impulsive Thinker® unpacks how aggression happens when signals keep getting suppressed and why asking "why" matters. This episode calls out how society uses labels like RSD and ADHD as excuses to ignore or blame. Real-world business situations — from customer service to team dynamics — get broken down for neurodivergent Entrepreneurs. You'll see why your blowups have a root cause nobody's asking about.   If you've ever heard "you're too much," "too angry," or been written off for getting upset in business, this episode is for you. Hit play if you're done being dismissed — and ready to hear what nobody says about anger and ADHD.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.   GUEST BIOPatrick Murphy is a former Wall Street Journal executive turned mental health coach for high-performing Entrepreneurs. He built his startup after somatic work finally addressed the anxiety therapy never touched.   www.murph.live https://www.instagram.com/murph.live https://open.spotify.com/show/3gkHa4yj8Ts8f6WczFRiGz?si=6986fc41cc704ded  

You're not angry. You're activated. And the world keeps confusing anger with aggression—at your expense. The Impulsive Thinker® and Patrick Murphy break down what no one tells ADHD Entrepreneurs about emotional fire. In This Episode: Anger vs. aggression—actual difference and why it matters Emotional regulation, "activation," and dysregulation in ADHD Entrepreneurs Using anger as a boundary and value detector What You'll Take Away: Suppressed anger is what turns into rage or sideways aggression—not the feeling itself "Activated" isn't the same as dysregulated—know the line Anger points to violated boundaries, values, or dignity; it's not always destructive Sitting with anger teaches you what really matters to you Communicating anger isn't the problem; suppressing it is GUEST BIOPatrick Murphy is a former Wall Street Journal executive turned mental health coach for high-performing Entrepreneurs. He built his startup after somatic work finally addressed the anxiety therapy never touched. www.murph.live https://www.instagram.com/murph.live https://open.spotify.com/show/3gkHa4yj8Ts8f6WczFRiGz?si=6986fc41cc704ded   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® dives into the misunderstood world of anger in ADHD Entrepreneurs. The Impulsive Thinker® questions why anger feels "illegal" and why people confuse it with aggression, especially in business. Patrick Murphy breaks down the links between shame, suppressed anger, and emotional dysregulation for neurodivergent founders. Real talk on how anger flags boundary violations, not just "bad behaviour." Essential listening for Entrepreneurs who suppress their anger to keep the peace, but end up exploding or self-sabotaging instead. If your anger is running under the surface, it's time to hear this. Hit play now. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.

You don't just lose a business. You get erased from the thing you built, and nobody talks about that. The Impulsive Thinker® pulls the curtain back on what actually happens when an ADHD Entrepreneur walks away.   In This Episode: Surviving vs. building as an ADHD Entrepreneur Why quitting feels like failure even when it's not Who you're really proving yourself to (and why it matters)   What You'll Take Away: Walking away hits harder when your company erases you Survival mode sacrifices go unnoticed by everyone — including you Staying too long often has nothing to do with business Chasing money and pleasing others never works for ADHD Entrepreneurs Your company has to serve you first — or you'll break   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® goes straight at what happens when your company kicks you out. ADHD Entrepreneur André Brisson talks about erasure, not just failure. No sugar-coating. He tackles survival mode, broken mental health, and building for others at your own cost. ADHD, entrepreneurship, and the raw reality of losing what you started — it's all in here. You'll hear hard truths about people pleasing, toxic validation, and what happens when you stop building for yourself. There's no inspirational curveball. Just scars and the real business impact for ADHD Entrepreneurs. This episode matters because nobody else will say it out loud. If you've ever stayed too long, got erased, or wondered if this is just you — it's not. Hit play.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.   GUEST BIODr. Brandie Keates is a neurodivergent entrepreneur and founder of Bloom Sanctuary. She built and sold one of the largest chiropractic practices in her state and now creates practical support for women in pain.   Follow Dr. Brandie YouTube Facebook Instagram Website DrBrandie.com  

You didn't burn out — your ADHD brain set your business on fire the second it got bored. Nobody talks about what it really costs to walk away from the company you built. The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Brandie Keates drag it into the light.   In This Episode: Walking away from your own business as an ADHD Entrepreneur Boredom, burnout, and why success feels like a slow death The fallout when your brain blows things up just to feel again   What You'll Take Away: Running your company on empty will cost you your health and your identity Your team thinks you're quitting — you know you're saving your life Success measured by society's standards is a lie for ADHD Entrepreneurs Boredom isn't laziness. It's your brain forcing a pivot — or a blowup You can't people-please your way to self-respect. Boundaries break things, including you   GUEST BIODr. Brandie Keates is a neurodivergent entrepreneur and founder of Bloom Sanctuary. She built and sold one of the largest chiropractic practices in her state and now creates practical support for women in pain.   Follow Dr. Brandie YouTube Facebook Instagram Website DrBrandie.com   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® tackles the reality of walking away from the business you built. The Impulsive Thinker® André Brisson and Dr. Brandy Keats break down why ADHD Entrepreneurs hit the wall and what happens when your brain hits eject. ADHD, entrepreneurship, neurodivergence, boredom, and burnout get put on the table. This isn't a conversation about scaling or hustle — it's about the mental and physical cost of running your business on someone else's measuring stick. You don't just lose a company; you lose the story you told yourself about who you were. If being the black sheep meant never fitting into the "right" path — this is your episode. If you've ever felt erased or lost after walking away, listen now. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.    

Stuck in "fight or flight" and don't know why? Your triggers aren't flaws — they're old programs nobody asked about. The Impulsive Thinker® breaks the silence on trauma's real business cost.   In This Episode: Why past trauma, not ADHD, drives most Entrepreneur triggers How your nervous system sabotages you without warning Why asking "why" beats slapping on another label   What You'll Take Away: Trauma gets missed — even after years of therapy ADHD isn't the cause of constant fires and emotional resets Your labelled "issues" might be survival patterns from childhood No one asks what shaped your nervous system — and that's the actual problem You never learned to feel safe, so "safe" feels wrong   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode is about the link between trauma, ADHD, and business chaos for neurodivergent Entrepreneurs. The Impulsive Thinker® reflects on his recent conversation with Patrick Murphy to confront what traditional therapy misses. He tackles trauma-driven patterns and nervous system triggers — not just "ADHD symptoms." You'll hear why being labelled isn't fixing anything and how nobody asks the only question that matters. This is a hard look at why staying "on edge" can ruin your business and your relationships. If you're tired of being told you're "too much" but never heard, you need this episode.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.   GUEST BIOPatrick Murphy is a former Wall Street Journal executive turned mental health coach for high-performing Entrepreneurs. He built his startup after somatic work finally addressed the anxiety therapy never touched.   www.murph.live https://www.instagram.com/murph.live https://open.spotify.com/show/3gkHa4yj8Ts8f6WczFRiGz?si=6986fc41cc704ded  

You look successful. But inside, you're scrambling to hold it together. Trauma isn't just a history—it's shaping how your ADHD Entrepreneur brain fires today.   In This Episode: Complex trauma's hidden impact on high-performing ADHD Entrepreneurs Nervous system reactions, meltdown triggers, and "masking" adulthood ADHD, trauma, and the myth of emotional dysregulation   What You'll Take Away: Looking put together often means you're suffering in private Emotional meltdowns aren't ADHD — they're your nervous system on overload Trauma is rarely one event — it's the drip, drip, drip of never measuring up Most clinicians miss the trauma-ADHD overlap — you pay the price Change starts with understanding your real triggers, not shaming your brain   GUEST BIOPatrick Murphy is a former Wall Street Journal executive turned mental health coach for high-performing Entrepreneurs. He built his startup after somatic work finally addressed the anxiety therapy never touched.   www.murph.live https://www.instagram.com/murph.live https://open.spotify.com/show/3gkHa4yj8Ts8f6WczFRiGz?si=6986fc41cc704ded     ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® drills into how trauma shapes your ADHD Entrepreneur brain. Patrick Murphy joins The Impulsive Thinker® to rip apart "being put together" and the emotional cost underneath. They unpack nervous system triggers, childhood wiring, and why most experts miss the real overlap between trauma and ADHD. If you're grinding through perfectionism, anxiety, or emotional blowups others can't see — this is your playbook. Built for every ADHD Entrepreneur who feels like the black sheep. Stop blaming yourself — press play if you're done with shame and ready to see the difference. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.    

You didn't burn out. You just finally called your own bluff. The diagnosis isn't the story — what you do after it is.   In This Episode: Why the ADHD diagnosis is just a moment — the real story starts after Owning your triggers before things go nuclear in business and life Why awareness without action is useless for ADHD Entrepreneurs   What You'll Take Away: Labeling yourself isn't progress — changing your actions is Spotting the small triggers stops the big explosions ADHD isn't your personality — it's wiring, not a headline No system or diagnosis fixes you unless you use it The world won't change for your brain. You work with it, or you drown   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode The Impulsive Thinker® breaks down what really happens after getting an ADHD diagnosis as an Entrepreneur. The Impulsive Thinker® shares why knowing you have ADHD isn't enough — it's what you do next that matters. Triggers, ownership, emotional outbursts, and responsibility land hard. Raw details show how easy it is to hide behind the label, or to use awareness as an excuse not to act. This hits every ADHD Entrepreneur fed up with empty talk and ready for something real. Still using society's measuring stick? Hit play — this is for you.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

You never fit in — and you're tired of pretending. The Impulsive Thinker® and Cassandra Morari rip into what really changes, and what doesn't, after an ADHD diagnosis. No sugarcoating. Just truth.   In This Episode: What actually shifts for ADHD Entrepreneurs after diagnosis The difference between explaining your needs and hiding behind labels Building real systems versus fake "fitting in"   What You'll Take Away: ADHD is not the problem — society's measuring stick is Constant communication isn't just customer service, it's survival Emotional blowups come from old triggers, not your wiring Being direct isn't rude, it's efficient (and saves your business) Fit in by owning how your brain really works — not by advertising your label   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode is about what changes after an ADHD diagnosis — and what doesn't. The Impulsive Thinker® and Cassandra Morari take apart the diagnosis moment, the real emotional aftermath, and the hard-won systems that actually work for ADHD Entrepreneurs. You'll hear raw conversations about emotional regulation, ditching fake labels, setting up processes that are honest for how your brain functions, and why "fitting in" is the wrong goal. The Impulsive Thinker® spells out how self-awareness, clear communication, and refusing to waste time on acceptance are edge strategies for neurodiverse entrepreneurs. If you're tired of being told to work harder or fit a broken mold — you need to press play.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.   GUEST BIOCassandra Morari is an ADHD brain and COO at The Rack, a Saskatchewan family ag-business. She knows small town. She knows family business. And she's been masking her brain for years. www.therackonline.com  

You don't need a therapist or a coach. You probably need both — just not at the same time. If your head feels like a storm, this episode will make it clear what gets you out and what keeps you stuck.   In This Episode: The raw difference between ADHD therapy and ADHD coaching Why healing has to come before executing for ADHD Entrepreneurs What makes therapy and coaching legit — or dangerous   What You'll Take Away: Therapy is about healing the past and stabilizing your present. Coaching is about taking action for the future. ADHD Entrepreneurs can't coach their way out of a storm they haven't calmed. A legit coach or therapist wants you to need them less — not more. Coaching programs are training, not regulated education. If the storm is still raging, coaching isn't what you need.   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® breaks down the real difference between ADHD therapy and ADHD coaching. The Impulsive Thinker® asks exactly when each one matters — and what happens when coaches act like therapists and vice versa. Licensing. Ethics. Training. ADHD, entrepreneurship, and neurodivergent brains get pulled apart with real-world stakes. The conversation hits what coaching can — and cannot — fix. If you're stuck processing the past, coaching won't get you out. Therapy is for the storm. Coaching is for calm seas and future action. Every ADHD Entrepreneur gets this question wrong — until everything blows up.   This one's for the ADHD Entrepreneur frustrated by stalled progress. If you're ready to see why action isn't always the answer, smash play.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference. www.northstartcc.com   Books by Mariah The DBT Skills Workbook for Adult ADHD, with Scott Spradlin (2026, New Harbinger) https://a.co/d/0enSKylP   You might also be interested in:

You don't need healing. You need results. Therapy and coaching aren't the same for ADHD Entrepreneurs — and most people are still getting it wrong.   In This Episode: The real differences between ADHD coaching and therapy Why therapy tackles the past and coaching builds execution When coaching won't work — and why therapy comes first   What You'll Take Away: Coaching isn't for everyone, especially if depression or past trauma is in play ADHD therapy is about stabilizing, not fixing a "broken" brain Licensing matters — coaches can't diagnose, therapists can Both paths can work together, but the order matters Bad coaching ignores emotional paralysis — that's therapy territory   GUEST BIO Mariah Spradlin is an ADHD therapist, coach, and co-author of the Dialectical Behavioral Therapy Skills Workbook for Adult ADHD. She gets the ADHD Entrepreneur struggle — because she lives it herself. www.northstartcc.com   Books by Mariah The DBT Skills Workbook for Adult ADHD, with Scott Spradlin (2026, New Harbinger) https://a.co/d/0enSKylP   You might also be interested in:

You've always been called the troublemaker. Turns out, you were the only one asking the real questions. The Impulsive Thinker® finally rips open his own pre-diagnosis story — raw, unfiltered, and loud.   In This Episode: Why questioning the rules gets you labelled a problem — at home, school, and in business The real difference between ADHD brains and society's expectations What a late ADHD diagnosis actually feels like for an entrepreneur   What You'll Take Away: Trouble doesn't always mean troublemaker — sometimes it means you're the only one paying attention Most of your childhood "problems" were social — not intellectual or behavioural ADHD is not the deficit — it's how everyone else reacts to your brain Getting a diagnosis isn't relief at first — it means rewriting everything you believed about yourself Questioning authority as an ADHD Entrepreneur isn't defiance — it's survival   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® is a raw look at the ADHD Entrepreneur experience before diagnosis. The Impulsive Thinker® shares how persistent questioning and nonconformity make life harder — not because of the brain, but because of society's measuring stick. The conversation covers social rejection, manufactured chaos, and why neurodivergent Entrepreneurs get punished for needing clarity. Hear what it's really like to go from believing you're broken to realizing ADHD is just a different operating system. This one's for every ADHD Entrepreneur who's ever been told to sit down and shut up. This episode will remind you: the problem isn't your brain — it's theirs.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

You didn't burn your business down. You got bored — and nobody told you why. The Impulsive Thinker® finally digs into his own ADHD story. If you never fit in, this episode is for you.   In This Episode: Why masking and not fitting in hits hardest for ADHD Entrepreneurs How boredom and conformity kill the drive to build and create What happens when you mistake ADHD for being a "bad person"   What You'll Take Away: Not fitting in is the baseline for ADHD Entrepreneurs — not a problem to fix Masking starts young and scars deep, but doesn't erase who you are Boredom triggers chaos — your brain blows things up to feel something ADHD isn't the problem. It's the world's refusal to bend that breaks you. Diagnosing ADHD late means years of thinking you're the issue   GUEST BIOCassandra Morari is an ADHD brain and COO at The Rock, a Saskatchewan family ag-business. She knows small town. She knows family business. And she's been masking her brain for years. www.therackonline.com   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® tears the mask off the host's own ADHD Entrepreneur experience. No fluff. Cassandra Morari asks the questions nobody's put to The Impulsive Thinker® before — what did pre-diagnosis really look like? From growing up the oddball in a rural Catholic town to blowing up career moves out of boredom, The Impulsive Thinker® walks through decades of fitting everywhere but belonging nowhere. They hit on real ADHD challenges — masking, rejection, internalized blame, and how boredom and novelty drive business decisions. The Impulsive Thinker® explains that ADHD isn't the enemy. The problem is being forced to run on "society's measuring stick" instead of your own operating system. The worst damage isn't business chaos — it's the belief that your brain is broken. This episode is built for ADHD Entrepreneurs who know being different isn't a marketing slogan. If you're sick of pretending to fit in, hit play now.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

She thought she was losing her mind. Turns out menopause crashed her systems and ADHD was under it all. The world doesn't care—it just calls you unreliable.   In This Episode: What happens when menopause wipes out the ADHD coping strategies you didn't know you had Society's double standard for women with ADHD in the workplace Judgment, masking, and why the world still won't adapt even when you do   What You'll Take Away: Fumbling at work wasn't dementia—it was hormonal change unmasking ADHD Discipline and willpower were just a side effect of estrogen, not character Getting an ADHD diagnosis delivers knowledge, not instant relief No one told women what menopause would really do—least of all to ADHD brains Judgment from others doesn't stop just because you know what's going on   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® hits hard on what happens when menopause throws ADHD Entrepreneurs off their game. Vicki Noels-Cornish's lived experience forces a real look at hormonal shifts, lost coping strategies, and brutal workplace consequences. ADHD, entrepreneurship, and menopause—the hidden connections get called out. Forget the standard clinical talk. The Impulsive Thinker® lays out the raw realities for neurodivergent women in business. It's a "blame the woman" world—ADHD burnout, masking, and societal expectations come into sharp focus. Loss of self, job risks, and the weight of judgment aren't just talking points here—they're lived experience. Menopause and ADHD collide, and nobody warned you what that wreck would look like. This is for ADHD Entrepreneurs running the show on fumes, blamed for every crack in the facade, and tired of pretending. If your brain's dropped the ball and the world called you broken, hit play.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.   Follow Vicki Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheCompanyYOU Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecompanyyou_vicki X: https://x.com/thecompanyYOU  

You kept all the balls in the air for decades. Then menopause hit. Now your ADHD brain drops every one — and everyone around you thinks you just stopped caring. This episode is that conversation nobody has in public.   In This Episode: Why menopause pushes ADHD symptoms into crisis mode The stigma ADHD Entrepreneur women face — from their own heads and everyone else Judgement, masking, and why "having it all together" is a lie   What You'll Take Away: Menopause can expose every workaround an ADHD Entrepreneur built Forgetfulness, brain fog, and spiral thinking aren't failures — they're neurology and biology at war Stigma sticks hardest when you look like you "had it all together" until now Most women think they're the only ones falling apart — they aren't High achiever wiring compounds judgement — internally and externally   GUEST BIOVicki Noels-Cornish is the founder of The Company U. She's an ADHD brain, people development consultant, and Colby-certified advisor advocating for new ways to work, especially for women who don't fit society's measuring stick.   Follow Vicki Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheCompanyYOU Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecompanyyou_vicki X: https://x.com/thecompanyYOU   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® rips the lid off menopause and ADHD inside the Entrepreneur world. Vicki Noels-Cornish walks through exactly what happens when your old playbook stops working. ADHD, entrepreneurship, masking, and menopause collide in raw detail. The Impulsive Thinker® doesn't let go until all the ugly stigma, judgement, and self-doubt are out in the open. The discussion breaks apart why ADHD Entrepreneur women get blindsided by menopause and a lifetime of high achiever masking. Forget the clinical stuff — this one's about the real-life meltdowns nobody's talking about. This matters because you're not losing your edge — your biology and neurology just hit a new level of chaos. Every system you built to survive the grind won't save you here. If you've ever lost track of reality, felt judged for being "too much," or got told you dropped the ball after years of keeping it all together — listen now. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.    

You didn't fail at being "a good girl." The standard was impossible from the start. ADHD women spend their whole lives playing a game they can't win—then get blamed for losing.   In This Episode: The real history and weight of ADHD stigma for women and girls How perfectionism and impossible standards mask real ADHD needs Why internalized shame hits harder than ignorance or bias from others   What You'll Take Away: Society doesn't just misunderstand ADHD in women. It makes girls punish themselves for it. Perfectionism is a survival tool when the rules were never built for you. Masking breaks down—often right when life gets hardest. The ADHD entrepreneur brain isn't flawed. It just doesn't fit society's measuring stick. Owning your difference is survival, not selfishness.   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® cuts into ADHD stigma for women in entrepreneurship to expose where internalized shame does the most damage. The episode drills into expectations of perfection, masking, and why so many ADHD Entrepreneur women feel broken before they even get a diagnosis. Social norms demand women do everything effortlessly—plus mask every ADHD trait. That pressure erases real identities. André rips into how these standards lead to losing track of who you are. Perfection, masking, and chasing what others want cost ADHD entrepreneurs time, confidence, and mental health. If you're sick of being told you're failing someone else's test, this one's for you. Listen close—because no one wins by playing by rules made to keep you out.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.   Books by Dr. Hinshaw The Triple Bind: Saving Our Teenage Girls from Today's Pressures and Conflicting Expectations - https://www.amazon.ca/Triple-Bind-Pressures-Conflicting-Expectations/dp/0345504003 The ADHD Explosion: Myths, Medication, Money, and Today's Push for Performance - https://www.amazon.ca/ADHD-Explosion-Medication-Todays-Performance/dp/0199790558/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0  

What did being a "good girl" cost you? Stigma isn't a buzzword — it keeps ADHD women silent, unseen, untreated. The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Stephen Hinshaw rip into why society still isn't catching ADHD in girls — and what it's costing all of us.   In This Episode: Why stigma around ADHD is more than social — it's internalized and impacts diagnosis for women How impossible "good girl" expectations push masking, burnout, and depression The role of social media in both exposing and worsening ADHD stigma   What You'll Take Away: Increased awareness doesn't erase stigma. It just teaches stereotypes. ADHD women are forced to mask and self-stigmatize to survive Societal expectations for women still demand compassion, competition, and perfection — all at once ADHD is misread as laziness or bad behaviour unless you fit the male stereotype TikTok and algorithm trends are fuelling misinformation and overdiagnosis   GUEST BIO Dr. Stephen Hinshaw is a psychology professor at UC Berkeley and UC San Francisco. He led the largest long-term study of girls with ADHD, rewriting what we know about women's ADHD and why it matters right now. www.hinshawlab.berkeley.edu   Books by Dr. Hinshaw The Triple Bind: Saving Our Teenage Girls from Today's Pressures and Conflicting Expectations - https://www.amazon.ca/Triple-Bind-Pressures-Conflicting-Expectations/dp/0345504003 The ADHD Explosion: Myths, Medication, Money, and Today's Push for Performance - https://www.amazon.ca/ADHD-Explosion-Medication-Todays-Performance/dp/0199790558/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® exposes how stigma trains girls and women with ADHD to hide — not seek help. The Impulsive Thinker® talks with Dr. Stephen Hinshaw, a leading ADHD and stigma researcher. They break down the triple bind: perfection, nurturing, achievement. ADHD women can't win, so they mask harder and break sooner. The cost? Crushed self-worth, missed diagnoses, and internalized shame. This isn't about awareness — it's about how false expectations get under your skin and block your growth as an ADHD Entrepreneur. Social media plays both sides: validation and a tidal wave of noise. Real stakes, real impact. If you feel like you're faking it to "pass" and burning out anyway — you need this episode. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

You keep your head down, play nice, and still get steamrolled by everyone else's expectations. ADHD isn't the problem — it's the world that ignores how you operate. The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Stephen Hinshaw call out what everyone else misses about masking, silence, and the cost of being invisible.   In This Episode: ADHD in women and girls — what masking really costs The hidden dangers of suffering in silence Research-backed risks that follow when nobody notices   What You'll Take Away: Masking is survival, but it comes at a brutal personal cost For women and girls with ADHD, problems snowball until they're unavoidable Suffering in silence leads to real-world risks — including mental health and relationships Negative outcomes aren't fate when the right support shows up One or two people who "get it" can turn everything around   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® puts a spotlight on ADHD in women and girls, breaking down the silent damage masking causes. The Impulsive Thinker® pushes the conversation past clichés to show how suffering in silence compounds over years. Real data, not empty reassurance — everything discussed has lived experience and research behind it. If you've been told you're not trying hard enough, or if hiding has become your norm, this is why it matters in your business and life. Built for ADHD entrepreneurs tired of invisible struggles. Hit play and hear what nobody else is saying.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.   Books by Dr. Hinshaw The Triple Bind: Saving Our Teenage Girls from Today's Pressures and Conflicting Expectations - https://www.amazon.ca/Triple-Bind-Pressures-Conflicting-Expectations/dp/0345504003 The ADHD Explosion: Myths, Medication, Money, and Today's Push for Performance - https://www.amazon.ca/ADHD-Explosion-Medication-Todays-Performance/dp/0199790558/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0  

What if your "train wreck" 20s and 30s weren't failure at all — just everyone missing your ADHD diagnosis? The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Stephen Hinshaw destroy the old stereotypes on women, masking, and why success leaves so many suffering in silence.   In This Episode: What decades-long studies of girls with ADHD actually reveal How masking, missed signs, and stigma sabotage real ADHD Entrepreneur strengths Why negative outcomes are high risk — but not destiny   What You'll Take Away: ADHD in women is missed, not rare — the classic "boy" symptoms don't fit Depression, self-injury, and unplanned chaos spike when diagnosis and support come late Masking isn't resilience — it's losing yourself because fitting in means survival Early signs in girls are spacey, scattered, "lazy," not loud or disruptive Real friends and strategic support matter more than popularity or the perfect image   GUEST BIO Dr. Stephen Hinshaw is a psychology professor at UC Berkeley and UC San Francisco. He led the largest long-term study of girls with ADHD, rewriting what we know about women's ADHD and why it matters right now. www.hinshawlab.berkeley.edu   Books by Dr. Hinshaw The Triple Bind: Saving Our Teenage Girls from Today's Pressures and Conflicting Expectations - https://www.amazon.ca/Triple-Bind-Pressures-Conflicting-Expectations/dp/0345504003 The ADHD Explosion: Myths, Medication, Money, and Today's Push for Performance - https://www.amazon.ca/ADHD-Explosion-Medication-Todays-Performance/dp/0199790558/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0   ABOUT THIS EPISODE The Impulsive Thinker® sits down with Dr. Stephen Hinshaw to break down the real ADHD experience for neurodivergent women and Entrepreneurs. Hear why most research ignored girls and what that cost in missed diagnoses, shame, and chaos. The episode digs into masking, self-injury, unplanned life consequences, and why classic ADHD stereotypes hurt more than help. Resilience, masking, and entrepreneurial strengths are redefined — no fluff, just blunt reality. This is for ADHD Entrepreneurs sick of society's measuring stick and shallow advice. If your chaos was survival, not failure — hit play. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

You don't have to obey every urge your ADHD brain throws at you. Most therapy wasn't built for your wiring. The Impulsive Thinker® breaks down DBT for ADHD Entrepreneurs — and why the system doesn't fit until the neurobiology lines up.   In This Episode: Why standard DBT misses the mark for ADHD brains The power of not obeying your impulses in real time How a self-applied DBT workbook tackles emotional dysregulation   What You'll Take Away: DBT isn't broken — the system just ignores ADHD neurobiology Clinicians not trained in ADHD cause real gaps in support You don't need permission to start working on yourself now Emotional urgency feels urgent — but you can pause before reacting True results require hard, honest work and owning the black-and-white thinking   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This solo episode of The Impulsive Thinker® breaks down Scott Spradlin's approach to DBT for ADHD Entrepreneurs. The real question: What does it take to make therapy work for a brain that rejects most systems? The Impulsive Thinker® digs into DBT's structure and why clinicians miss the mark without ADHD-specific training. He calls out the giant gap — nobody answers, "Is it me or my ADHD?" and most systems ignore real neurobiology. Key takeaways include why you don't have to obey every impulse, how crisis pressure tricks your brain, and what genuine self-directed work looks like for ADHD adults. No waiting for the right therapist, group, or diagnosis — start with the workbook now. If you've been told to "just do the work," but nobody talks about the real pain behind it, this episode pulls no punches. ADHD Entrepreneurs ready to stop obeying every urge — this is your episode.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

Standard DBT isn't built for your ADHD brain. Structure, shame, and overwhelm — sound familiar? The Impulsive Thinker® and Scott Spradlin call out where therapy misses neurodivergent entrepreneurs.   In This Episode: Where traditional DBT gets ADHD completely wrong Why shame and guilt dominate the ADHD Entrepreneur experience How DBT can finally work when tailored to your actual brain   What You'll Take Away: Regimen isn't the answer — acceptance and flexibility matter more ADHD Entrepreneurs fail therapy when therapy fails them "You don't have to obey your urges" — that one line changes everything Radical acceptance feels impossible when your brain's invalidated daily Structure must serve you, not the system   GUEST BIO Scott Spradlin is a Kansas-based licensed counsellor and co-director at North Star TCC. He's co-authoring the first DBT Skills Workbook built for adult ADHD brains. www.wisemindwiselife.com www.northstartcc.com   Books by Scott The DBT Skills Workbook for Adult ADHD, with Mariah Spradlin (2026, New Harbinger) Don't Let Your Emotions Run Your Life (2003, New Harbinger).   Follow Scott Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dbt4adhd X: https://x.com/wisemindlife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wisemindwiselife/   You might also be interested in:

You keep doing everything yourself and wonder why nothing gets finished. ADHD isn't the problem—being measured by society's stick is. The Impulsive Thinker® gets real about why visionary brains stall and what's missing.   In This Episode: The ADHD debate around medication and side effects Why every visionary needs a finisher — and what happens without one How belief from someone else actually changes outcomes   What You'll Take Away: Medication isn't one-size-fits-all—try it, then decide for yourself Being both the idea generator and finisher is unsustainable for ADHD Entrepreneurs Hiring finishers isn't a luxury—it's how your business gets built You need people who see you and actually have faith in you Society's measuring stick doesn't fit your brain—stop chasing it   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This solo episode of The Impulsive Thinker® tackles ADHD Entrepreneur realities most won't admit. André Brisson challenges medication myths and the lost value of proper support in business. From medication attempts to building personal systems, ADHD entrepreneurs hear why staying unmedicated isn't always about stubbornness—it's about impact and brain wiring. Visionary thinking gets examined: The Impulsive Thinker® explains why execution fails when you don't have the right finisher beside you. The grind, the lost steam, and the missed outcomes are real. André gets blunt about hiring and why society's measuring stick screws with your sense of progress. If you never had someone who saw you—and believed you—the episode speaks straight to you. Built for ADHD Entrepreneurs fed up with the "do it all yourself" lie. Press play if you're done being measured by standards that aren't yours.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.   This conversation was based on my Substack article: Still Putting Lipstick On A Pig - have a read!   You might also like:

You can't fake being neurotypical. Meds might help, but systems matter more. If you're tired of hearing "just try harder," this is your episode.   In This Episode: ADHD thought overwhelm and why "importance" gets you nowhere Personal systems vs. medication for managing ADHD distractions Why neurotypical standards set you up to fail   What You'll Take Away: ADHD distraction isn't external — it's five conversations in your head at once Medication can help, but it's never one-size-fits-all Consistency only matters by your measuring stick, not society's Every ADHD Entrepreneur needs a "finisher" — vision alone doesn't build a business The mismatch is with society, not your brain   ABOUT THIS EPISODE The Impulsive Thinker® questions the world's measuring stick for ADHD Entrepreneurs. Dr. Bill Dodson confronts what systems and medication actually can — and can't — do for the ADHD brain in business. They rip open "importance" and expose why urgency moves you — not to-do lists or neurotypical pressure. Partnership, awareness, and owning your difference run through every minute. This isn't a pep talk. It's a breakdown of what works, what never will, and why you need to toss out everyone else's templates. The rules are different, and pretending otherwise keeps you stuck. If playing by their rules is burning you out, hit play now.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.   This conversation was based on my Substack article: Still Putting Lipstick On A Pig - have a read!   You might also like:

ADHD isn't a superpower. It's not a deficit. The world is coded for the wrong operating system — and you're paying the price every day as an ADHD Entrepreneur.   In This Episode: Smashed myths about superpower and deficit labels in ADHD Why interest — not importance — drives ADHD Entrepreneurs Society's measuring stick and how it warps your self-perception   What You'll Take Away: ADHD is a brain wiring difference — not your identity School and business systems measure you against the wrong standards Interest is a requirement for action, not a preference Success depends on setting up your own measuring stick The system isn't changing, so you build your own environment   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This solo episode of The Impulsive Thinker® tears down the "ADHD is a superpower" myth and sets the record straight. The Impulsive Thinker® exposes why labeling ADHD as better or worse misses the reality for neurodivergent Entrepreneurs. The episode covers how society's measuring stick punishes difference — and why interest, not importance, controls your motivation. André Brisson explains the impact on business, education, and personal identity for ADHD brains. These topics matter because the system isn't built for you, and you need tools to build your own way. If you're ready to stop apologizing — this episode tells you how.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.   This conversation was based on my Substack article: Still Putting Lipstick On A Pig - have a read!   You might also like:

Tired of "ADHD is a superpower" platitudes? So is The Impulsive Thinker®. This episode tears the mask off what holds ADHD Entrepreneurs back — and what drives them forward when the world has a problem with difference.   In This Episode: ADHD strengths that matter in business (and why nobody talks about the cost) The myth of fitting into the neurotypical system — at school and at work What truly motivates and burns out ADHD Entrepreneurs   What You'll Take Away: Lipstick-on-a-pig affirmations don't help ADHD Entrepreneurs — seeing the difference does The world runs on importance; your brain runs on interest, challenge, novelty, urgency, and passion Consistency isn't a character problem — it's a measure from outside your operating system Schools and workplaces punish difference, then beg for it during a crisis Masking for conformity crushes confidence and fuels burnout   This conversation was based on my Substack article: Still Putting Lipstick On A Pig - have a read!   You might also like:

Shame isn't your problem. Toxic shame is. The Impulsive Thinker® cuts straight through what most ADHD Entrepreneur podcasts never talk about.   In This Episode: The real difference between shame, toxic shame, and guilt Why self-sabotage is just self-protection for the ADHD brain How a shame-bound identity quietly shapes your work and relationships   What You'll Take Away: Shame is a social correction tool — but toxic shame attacks your identity Your brain never got the memo that you're safe now ADHD Entrepreneurs react to toxic shame, not regular shame Self-sabotage is just another name for trying to survive — not thrive Complaints hit like verdicts when toxic shame rewires your system   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® rips into the difference between regular shame and the toxic stuff that rewires your brain. The Impulsive Thinker® breaks down Dr. Shawn's blunt take on shame, guilt, and why your brain keeps you stuck. Forget the motivational nonsense — this is about ADHD, Entrepreneurs, and how toxic shame runs on automatic even when your world is safe. Identity, behaviour, and self-sabotage are unmasked for what they are. Shame is a tool — until it turns toxic. Self-sabotage isn't weakness, it's your nervous system overcorrecting after years of running defence. Real ADHD Entrepreneur talk without easy answers or stock fixes. If you're an ADHD Entrepreneur who feels like complaints always land like final judgement — you need this episode. Hit play and see the problem for what it actually is. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

Shame isn't a quirk — it's a weapon. If you're sick of feeling like the problem, this episode puts the truth on the table. The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Shawn Horn demolish what you think you know about shame. In This Episode: The difference between shame, toxic shame, and guilt How shame-bound identity hijacks your decisions Why ADHD brains get stuck in people pleasing, perfectionism, and self-protection What You'll Take Away: Shame is a social emotion — it starts outside, then you absorb it Toxic shame attacks your identity, not your actions ADHD Entrepreneurs are experts at hiding, not because they want to, but as self-protection The self-sabotage you feel is a defence against rejection Healthy shame corrects behaviour — toxic shame cripples growth   GUEST BIODr. Shawn Horn is a licensed clinical psychologist, TEDx speaker, author, and host of Inspired Living Podcast. She helps neurodiverse entrepreneurs crush toxic shame and build real self-acceptance. Check out her book Thrive Socially with Adult ADHD. ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® goes hard at shame with Dr. Shawn Horn, breaking down why ADHD Entrepreneurs can't just "think positive" when the world is hell-bent on making them feel defective. The Impulsive Thinker® sharpens the line between guilt and shame — and why most people get it dead wrong. Expect talk about toxic shame, identity condemnation, and why society's measuring stick is always pointed at you. Dr. Shawn Horn explains how shame is installed in childhood, why it sticks, and how it keeps you hustling for worth. This isn't theory — it's neuroscience and lived reality. You'll hear how healthy shame sparks change, but toxic shame becomes the filter you see the world through. People pleasing, workaholism, over-functioning — they're all rooted in this shame-bound identity. Real talk about what that costs you as an ADHD Entrepreneur. If you're done with being told you're the problem, you need this episode. High-achieving, neurodivergent, black sheep — get ready to hear the truth. Hit play now. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

You aren't dysregulated — your nervous system is. Your body calls the shots before your brain even shows up. The Impulsive Thinker® breaks down polyvagal theory and why old advice never fit ADHD Entrepreneurs. In This Episode: The three polyvagal zones: green, yellow, and red, and how they control your reactions Emotional vs. nervous system dysregulation — why it's not about you Hacks to retrain your nervous system and stop sabotaging yourself What You'll Take Away: 80% of communication is body to brain, not the other way around ADHD brains hit red zone fast — and it's not a self-control issue Nervous system triggers are wired, not willed Retraining your environment starts with catching triggers early Getting out of red isn't failing — it's training reps for green ABOUT THIS EPISODE This solo episode of The Impulsive Thinker® puts the polyvagal theory under the ADHD Entrepreneur lens. The Impulsive Thinker® explains why your nervous system acts first and your brain justifies after. ADHD isn't a personal flaw — it's a hardwired difference that shows up in business and stress. Key themes include nervous system dysregulation, green/yellow/red reaction zones, and practical tools for catching triggers early. André Brisson covers why retraining your nervous system (not just your brain) actually shifts your baseline. This episode drops the old "emotional regulation" myth and names the real challenge. If you've ever asked "what's wrong with me," this is your episode. Stop blaming discipline. Listen for brutal honesty — and practical steps no one else is talking about. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

You think you control your reactions. You don't. Your nervous system does. Dr. Shawn Horn and The Impulsive Thinker® break down why that's not your fault — and why every ADHD Entrepreneur needs to stop fighting it.   In This Episode: The basics of polyvagal theory and why it matters for ADHD Entrepreneurs How your nervous system triggers automatic shutdown, fight, or social engagement Why most solutions miss the mark — it's not emotional, it's biological   What You'll Take Away: Emotional dysregulation is nervous system dysregulation — stop blaming your brain 80% of your reactions are body-driven, not thoughts Digital meetings stress your nervous system more than you think Crying isn't weakness — it's proof you're finally coming out of shutdown You can't outthink a spun-up nervous system. Body first, brain second.   GUEST BIODr. Shawn Horn is a psychologist, TEDx speaker, author, and creator of the Inspired Living Podcast. She brings decades of mental health insight — without the therapy buzzwords.  drshawnhorn.com    ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® drills into polyvagal theory and what drives your behaviour as an ADHD Entrepreneur. The Impulsive Thinker® talks with Dr. Shawn Horn about why your nervous system calls the shots and how that's shaping your business and relationships — not your mindset. They cover the real drivers behind anxiety, shutdown, and social misreads. The focus is on how your body auto-selects your response to stress, and why traditional thinking-based approaches fail most ADHD Entrepreneurs. You'll get the unfiltered truth on why most emotional "hacks" don't work when your system is already fired up or shut down. Dr. Horn explains how digital interactions hijack your state, and why face-to-face is non-negotiable for real regulation. If you're tired of experts blaming your "emotional" side or telling you to just think your way through, this conversation is built for you. It's raw, specific, and rejects every simplistic label you've been handed. Hit play — you need this. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

Your biggest failure wasn't a surprise. You saw every warning sign and ignored them. The Impulsive Thinker® lays out why ADHD Entrepreneurs always pay the price for pretending not to see what's coming.   In This Episode: Why ignoring your gut always ends with a sledgehammer moment Victim, growth, and transformation — choosing your mindset as an ADHD Entrepreneur Turning pain into purpose instead of just suffering   What You'll Take Away: The longer you ignore the signs, the harder you get hit — and you knew it was coming "Gut feel" isn't woo-woo — it's your early warning system for business and life Victim mode is comfortable but keeps you stuck Growth mode can turn into a trap if you stop pushing Pain without purpose is just suffering — transformation happens when you act   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This solo episode of The Impulsive Thinker® is raw on self-sabotage and the cost of ignoring what your ADHD brain keeps telling you. The Impulsive Thinker® pushes beyond surface-level advice — it's about gut signals, painful wake-ups, and how those sledgehammer moments force change. Key themes for ADHD Entrepreneurs: the cost of ignoring instincts, the energy of unaddressed problems, and why every "blindside" is usually obvious in hindsight. This episode is straight about victim thinking, why growth gets too comfortable, and how transformation happens when pain gets used. If you've ever watched disaster coming and denied it, this is your episode. It strips back the comfort and forces you to audit what you're ignoring today. For ADHD Entrepreneurs dead tired of punishment cycles and ready for change. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

You're not getting punished by life. You're getting handed the raw materials for your next transformation. The Impulsive Thinker® and Krista Clive-Smith show what happens when you finally stop fighting and start listening. In This Episode: The "3 phases of living" for ADHD Entrepreneurs: victim, growth, and transformation How pain and setbacks become fuel for business innovation Why ignoring the signs guarantees a bigger wake-up call  What You'll Take Away: Resilience isn't learned — it's earned from every hard hit you take in business Turning obstacles into purpose and profit isn't optional — it's mandatory for ADHD Entrepreneurs Stopping to listen beats fighting against change or symptoms every time Raw internal reflection beats band-aid solutions — brutal honesty is the only way through The longer you ignore the signs, the harder the universe hits  GUEST BIO Krista Clive-Smith is a serial entrepreneur and branding expert helping visionaries turn painful lessons into world-class brands. She's built companies, authored "Get Noticed, Be Remembered", and creates systems for neurodiverse entrepreneurs who refuse to settle.  ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® is for ADHD Entrepreneurs who are tired of blaming themselves for setbacks. The Impulsive Thinker® and Krista Clive-Smith break down how every painful lesson is a sign — and a tool for growth. If you don't listen, you're going to get hit harder. You'll hear why rebuilding from the concrete foundation beats chasing easy wins. The conversation covers what happens when you ignore the obvious — and how those bigger "2x4 wake-ups" are invitations to transform your business and your life. This episode isn't about feeling good. It's about getting raw, honest, and real with what's driving your decisions. ADHD, entrepreneurship, self-management, pain, and personal branding all show up here. It's a call to rethink how you deal with adversity for actual results.  If you're a neurodiverse entrepreneur who's always felt out of place — this episode makes it clear. You either stop fighting and start listening, or life keeps handing you bigger lessons. Hit play if you're ready to build something from your scars. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.

André, The Impulsive Thinker®, digs into a powerful lesson from Terry Tucker's book, Four Truths and a Lie: Ancient Wisdom for Living Your Modern Purpose. Society teaches us to chase status and possessions, but real worth isn't measured by what you have or the title you hold—it's about what you give and how you serve others, especially when there's nothing in it for you. André reflects on his own experiences as an ADHD Entrepreneur, facing adversity and building real resilience through discomfort. This episode is a must-listen for growth mindset Entrepreneurs looking to break the cycle of external validation and embrace true self-worth.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker®, sits down with Terry Tucker, author of Four Truths and a Lie: Ancient Wisdom for Living Your Modern Purpose, for a raw talk about what really determines our worth as ADHD Entrepreneurs. Forget the old script of measuring yourself by what you own or your job title—Terry breaks down the biggest lie and offers a mindset reset: we're born full, not empty. Together, André and Terry dig into dealing with pain, building deep connections, and choosing values like integrity and hard work over material gain. If you're tired of chasing status, this episode offers a powerful reframing for your ADHD Entrepreneur journey.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker®, gets real about hitting a business plateau and why relying only on referrals is holding ADHD Entrepreneurs back. After a deep conversation with seasoned marketing expert Christine Tolton, André learned that true growth comes from strategic marketing—not just posting online or waiting for word-of-mouth. He reflects on the need for clear messaging, having a ready team, and guiding prospects from awareness to action. If you feel stuck and are thinking about hiring a marketing firm, this episode is for you. Hear André's honest take on building systems and preparing your company for real demand.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker®, sits down with Christine Tolton, CEO of Red Cat Marketing, to unravel what hiring a marketing firm means for ADHD Entrepreneurs. Together, they get past the industry jargon to dig into the real goals of marketing: building trust, making measurable connections, and setting up for sustained business growth—not just chasing trends. Christine shares why referrals alone won't cut it and how a strategic, ongoing approach brings clarity and results. If marketing feels fuzzy or overwhelming, this episode offers straight talk and clear steps for Entrepreneurs ready to turn their marketing from hope into action.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker®, reflects on his conversation with Krista Clive-Smith about personal branding for the ADHD Entrepreneur. Forget vanity metrics or follower counts—personal branding is already happening every day, whether you realize it or not. André breaks down how perception works, the real meaning behind authenticity, and why consistency matters most when building trust. Hear why being a little polarizing can set you apart and attract the right people to your brand. If you're looking to get intentional with your reputation and values, this episode delivers practical tips while keeping it real for the ADHD Entrepreneur seeking growth.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker®, sits down with personal branding expert Krista Clive-Smith to break down what personal branding really means for ADHD Entrepreneurs today. Forget the influencer noise—this honest conversation gets to the roots of brand and reputation, focusing on values, authenticity, and staying true to yourself. Whether you're aiming for global influence or a solid career path, personal branding isn't just about being seen—it's about living in alignment with who you are. If you're ready to strengthen your Entrepreneur journey, tune in for actionable insights and fresh perspective on building your brand the meaningful way.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker®, breaks down a powerful truth in this ADHD Entrepreneur business reflection—your creativity isn't magic, it's a survival skill you built to thrive in a world not set up for your brain. Inspired by a discussion with Dr. Russell Ramsay, André digs into why typical Entrepreneur advice can fall flat for ADHD brains, and how scaffolding, structure, and tiny wins keep you moving forward. Learn how breaking goals down, avoiding the chaos trap, and mapping out your own workarounds can help everyone in your company—not just you. Tap into practical routines and make your ADHD journey your own.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker™, sits down with ADHD specialist Dr. J. Russell Ramsay for a straight-shooting talk about the realities of ADHD & Business. Drawing from clinical know-how and real Entrepreneur experience, they break down the struggles: time blindness, emotional regulation, self-motivation, and the challenge of delayed rewards. But it's not all friction—there's also talk on how creativity and personal innovation shaped by ADHD drive, unique problem-solving and business success. If you're an ADHD Entrepreneur navigating chaos and craving structure, this episode is loaded with insights to help you own your strengths and manage the roadblocks.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker®, explores why psychological safety in therapy is a must-have for ADHD Entrepreneurs. Inspired by a conversation with Christina Crowe, André breaks down why therapy isn't about comfort—it's about feeling safe enough to be honest, even when things get tough. He shares his own frustrations, what actually works for neurodivergent brains, and why finding a therapist who adapts to you is key. Learn how guided questions, interviewing your therapist, and trusting your gut can make a real difference in your self-awareness and business growth. This episode is your quick-start guide to finding the right therapeutic fit.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker™, welcomes back registered psychotherapist Christina Crowe to dig deep into the real reasons ADHD Entrepreneurs struggle to open up in therapy. This episode tackles the concept of psychological safety, why traditional therapy methods can leave neurodivergent brains feeling stuck, and how adapting approaches can help. You'll hear how therapy isn't always supposed to feel good and why finding the right therapist—one who understands ADHD and neurodivergence—is key to meaningful change. If you've ever felt shut down or confused in therapy, this conversation offers honest insights and practical advice tailor-made for your entrepreneurial journey.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker®, reflects on this week's conversation with AuDHD specialist Rachel Feldman to unpack what it really means to live with both autism and ADHD as an Entrepreneur. Forget the myths—it's not about flipping switches between the two, but about two systems clashing and collaborating at the same time. André shares his personal insights on how ADHD drives action while autism craves predictability, and how understanding this overlap can prevent burnout and help you work with your brain, not against it. Tune in and get straight talk on masking, identity, communication, and redefining productivity as an ADHD Entrepreneur.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker®, sits down with neuro-affirming psychotherapist Rachel Feldman to dig into the reality of living and thriving with AuDHD—where autism and ADHD overlap. This episode is all about ditching black-and-white thinking and understanding how ADHD and autism show up uniquely and together in Entrepreneurs. We talk fidgeting, stimming, masking, and why it matters to tailor strategies to your actual brain, not just a label. If you want to boost your self-awareness, communicate better, and stop measuring your worth by your production, this conversation is for you. Listen in for practical takeaways to support your growth mindset.  

Ever wonder why small changes can throw off your entire day as an ADHD Entrepreneur? André, The Impulsive Thinker®, unpacks this question in a quick reflection inspired by his talk with Dr. Kenny Handelman about autism and the nuance of energy management, rigidity, and routines. He breaks down the difference between ADHD fidgeting and autistic stimming, and why social communication can feel like a second language when you're wired differently. This episode is all about getting clear on your brain's unique pattern, so you can better manage your energy, emotions, and connections as a growth-minded ADHD Entrepreneur.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker®, sits down with autism expert Dr. Kenny Handelman for a direct look at how autism traits overlap—and differ—from ADHD, especially for the growth-minded ADHD Entrepreneur. In this episode, we cut through internet myths about autism and dig into what the DSM-5 really says, how "stimming" and fidgeting work, and what rigidity means for entrepreneurial routines and relationships. If you've ever wondered about the social challenges and unique wiring behind an autistic brain, this conversation will help clarify the differences, bust stereotypes, and give you practical insights for clearer self-understanding as an ADHD Entrepreneur.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker™, reflects solo this week after an eye-opening conversation with Dr. Russell Ramsay, diving into his late realization of high functioning alcoholism. This honest episode unpacks how ADHD Entrepreneurs often use substances or habits like alcohol, food, or even doom scrolling not out of weakness, but as tools for emotional regulation and masking. André gets real about why simply "cutting back" rarely helps ADHD brains and why recovery starts with understanding your thinking habits, not just your actions. Get practical insights on building better regulation strategies and replace those old coping methods for lasting personal growth.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker™, sits down with psychologist Dr. J. Russell Ramsay for an honest conversation about addiction, masking ADHD, and the entrepreneurial journey. Together, they unpack what "high functioning alcoholic" really means and how undiagnosed ADHD can drive Entrepreneurs to use alcohol or other substances as a solution—or a way to hide struggles. Personal stories intertwine with strategies for recognizing unhealthy patterns, talking about the importance of support, and the reality of facing a thinking problem rather than just a drinking problem. This episode offers relatable insights for any ADHD Entrepreneur navigating substance use and self-understanding.