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As we kick off our summer break, we're re-releasing a few classic episodes that still hit home—like this one on email from way back in 2017. Yes, some of the tools we mention (hello, Evernote) have aged out of our workflows, but the core ideas about attention, overwhelm, and building ADHD-friendly systems are still spot-on. Think of this as a time capsule with a message that's still relevant today. Enjoy the listen, and come say hi in the Discord while we're on break!Billions of us send hundreds of billions of email messages every single day. Email is bigger than any other social platform around the world and thanks to the explosion in mobile Internet, we're doing more and more emailing every day in the palms of our hands. Is this how you want to live? Is your ADHD brain adopting to the always-open door to your life that is electronic mail? This week on the show, we're talking about changes in lifestyle, behavior, and technology you can make to impact your relationship with email for the better!Links & NotesGmailEdison MailAirmailMailbird (00:00) - A Message from the Future Past! (00:52) - Welcome to The ADHD Podcast (01:26) - Follow-up: ADDA Webinar Thanks! — Celebrating Mistakes (04:29) - Thanks for your support on Patreon! (07:56) - Follow-up: Where does the diagnosis start? (11:04) - Follow-up: Learning to love yourself (14:36) - Let's talk about Email and the ADHD Brain (18:44) - Challenging Email Behavior and Lifestyle (26:08) - Stop filing. Just stop it. Please, stop it. (28:50) - Workbox versus Inbox (37:04) - Switching Costs of Changing Behavior (40:15) - Revisiting "Inbox Zero" and ADHD (45:14) - Apps that make email better ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

André, The Impulsive Thinker™, digs into the realities of ADHD medication resistance and titration, reflecting on insights from Dr. Dodson's recent visit. As an ADHD Entrepreneur, you know there's no one-size-fits-all with meds—André shares his personal journey through medication trials, dosage adjustments, and the hunt for that elusive “right fit.” This quick-hit episode breaks down why ADHD medication isn't a fix-all, but a tool to level the neurological playing field. Listen in for practical strategies on working with your practitioner, setting targets, and owning your ADHD journey—because growth-minded Entrepreneurs deserve clarity, not shortcuts.   www.dodsonadhdtreatment.com

ADHD in women is often misunderstood, even by ourselves — and hormones are a big part of the story. This week, host Cate Osborn chats with psychiatrist and researcher Dr. Lotta Borg Skoglund about how hormone cycles affect ADHD in women. From PMS to perimenopause, we explore how shifting hormones can change how ADHD shows up — and how that impacts mood, focus, and relationships.Dr. Borg Skoglund shares what the research says, what often gets overlooked in diagnosis and treatment, and how understanding the patterns in your cycle can make everyday life a little easier.Related resourcesADHD Girls to Women by Dr. Lotta Borg SkoglundLotta's research group, GODDESS ADHDA guide to hormones and ADHDFrom the Climbing the Walls podcast: Are hormones the final frontier for women with ADHD?Timestamps(01:42) The changes in hormones during the menstrual cycle, and how they can affect ADHD symptoms(04:57) ADHD symptoms across hormonal life milestones like puberty, pregnancy, and menopause(10:21) The formation of Lotta's research group GODDESS ADHD(14:25) The importance of this overdue research, and the constant dismissal of women's hormonal challenges(17:12) Mapping your cycle to help understand your ADHD symptom fluctuations(21:10) How do we track these things if our cycles are non-traditional?(24:06) How do hormones connect to Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria?For a transcript and more resources, visit the Sorry, I Missed This show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

André, The Impulsive Thinker™, sits down with renowned adult ADHD psychiatrist Dr. William Dodson to tackle the confusing process of ADHD medication management for Entrepreneurs. Together, they break down why finding the right medication and dose is far from one-size-fits-all. Dr. Dodson reveals why targeting specific symptoms, understanding the blood-brain barrier, and personalized titration matter more than body weight or standard protocols. Discover what ADHD meds can—and cannot—actually do, how to think about “target symptoms,” and why collaboration with your prescriber matters. If you're an ADHD Entrepreneur struggling to dial in your meds, this episode is a must-listen.  

We all know the moment when we realize we've said “yes” too many times. Maybe it's a blinking cursor. Maybe it's a half-warm cup of coffee gone cold. Maybe it's your third attempt to open the same email. But in that moment, something tilts: the awareness that saying yes to one thing has meant saying no to something else… and no one told your brain.This week on The ADHD Podcast, Pete and Nikki crack open the economic principle of opportunity cost—not in the language of Wall Street, but in the tender, messy vocabulary of ADHD. What happens when our neurological defaults make the unseen costs of our choices invisible? When our brains are wired to chase novelty, to dodge rejection, and to overestimate time like it's a limitless currency?Pete revisits the metaphor of the “red line”—a hard truth learned from a boss long ago, now a framework for managing finite energy with zero-based budgeting. Nikki unpacks how ADHD minds experience the psychic toll of every task: the emotional bandwidth, the recovery periods we never account for, the cost of starting something after we finish something else. They offer not only the language for what's happening beneath the surface—but permission. Permission to stop measuring ourselves against neurotypical expectations. To say “I'm making space for this” instead of “I'm giving up on that.”If you've ever felt the heavy guilt of unmade choices, or the strange sorrow that follows a hard-earned win, you'll find resonance here. Because at the intersection of ADHD, opportunity, and peace, there's a small sign that reads: You can stop lying to yourself now. You're doing just fine.Links & Resources:Download the Opportunity Cost Planning WorksheetJoin the ADHD community on Discord: takecontroladhd.com/discordSupport the Show on PatreonDig into the podcast Shownotes Database (00:00) - Welcome to Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast (00:58) - Become a Patron at patreon.com/theadhdpodcast (01:58) - Opportunity Costs ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

This short solo episode, André, The Impulsive Thinker™, gets personal about why so many ADHD Entrepreneurs resist taking medication, drawing from a deep-dive discussion with Dr. Dodson. André shares his own initial doubts, the stigma around ADHD meds, fears about losing creativity, and the myth of the “miracle pill.” He also talks about the real risks of untreated ADHD, like higher accident rates and isolation, and explores why some parents hesitate to medicate their kids. Looking for hard facts, real-life perspective, and honest talk? This episode is for every growth-minded ADHD Entrepreneur weighing their options on medication.

Imagine a world where cancer isn't a death sentence but simply a cellular adaptation that can be reversed. Where Parkinson's disease isn't an inevitability but a toxic burden that can be lifted. Dr. Thomas Lodi invites you into this paradigm-shifting perspective where the language we use determines not just our psychological response to illness, but our physiological one as well.The conventional medical system has taught us to fear diagnoses and surrender our power to specialists wielding toxic treatments. But what if we recognized that these "diseases" are actually adaptive responses by our bodies facing environmental challenges? Dr. Lodi explains how changing our terminology from "cancer" to "chronically fermenting cells" transforms our understanding from fighting a mysterious enemy to supporting metabolic restoration.When treatment becomes necessary, approaches like insulin-potentiated therapy deliver chemotherapy with precision rather than destruction. By exploiting cancer cells' increased insulin receptors, treatments can target damaged cells like a dart hitting a bullseye rather than a grenade destroying everything in its path. Yet Dr. Lodi emphasizes that addressing the causes—removing toxicity and providing optimal nutrition—remains paramount.The modern environment bombards us with unprecedented electromagnetic frequencies, compromising our immune systems and triggering adaptive responses we label as disease. From pneumonia to parasites, from breast cancer to brain disorders, the fundamental approach remains consistent: restore balance rather than attack symptoms. Therapeutic protocols featuring vitamin C, glutathione support, detoxification, and nutrient optimization create conditions where the body no longer needs adaptive strategies.Join Dr. Lodi's healing community where psychotherapists, kinesioloSend us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

Laura Mears-Reynolds had reached a breaking point with anxiety and depression—until she realized something deeper was going on. She didn't feel safe in her own hands, and she knew she needed help. What she didn't know? ADHD was at the root of it all.The UK-based host of the ADHD AF podcast joins ADHD Aha! to share how understanding her brain finally helped her shed shame, find self-acceptance, and build a thriving community. Her message is clear: You're not broken—and you're definitely not alone.Related resourcesAmerican Foundation for Suicide PreventionLaura's podcast and community website, adhdasfemales.comADHD and depressionADHD and anxietyTimestamps(02:37) The most ADHD thing that's happened this week(03:29) Laura's ADHD diagnosis story, and crisis point(07:20) Identifying as naive and overly trusting(10:18) Laura's ADHD “aha” moments(13:02) A constant level of chaos, and assuming (what ended up being) ADHD symptoms were from partying a lot(15:18) The “little” ADHD things that add up and cause shame(17:27) Struggling with the “ADHD superpower” narrative(19:50) How would life have been different with an earlier diagnosis?(21:21) How Laura's life has changed since her diagnosis, and creating the ADHD AF podcastFor a transcript and more resources, visit the ADHD Aha! show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdaha@understood.org or record a message for us here.  Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

Have you ever been given an exciting opportunity, then found yourself feeling inadequate, underqualified, and undeserving after getting started? What did those feelings of doubt ultimately do to your mental health, work-life balance, and performance?This week on Tips from an ADHD Coach, Jaye explores why imposter syndrome is so common in ADHD brains, how it impacts your confidence, and what you can do to start believing in your own achievements.Related resourcesADHD and: Imposter syndromeFrom the ADHD Aha! podcast: Anxiety, imposter syndrome, and ADHD (Mallory's story)Imposter syndrome at work: How I stopped feeling like a fakeTimestamps(00:39) Anne's quote(02:42) How ADHD can make imposter syndrome more common(07:44) Imposter syndrome is lying to you(09:47) What can we do if we're feeling like an imposter?(14:29) RecapFor a transcript and more resources, visit the Tips from an ADHD Coach show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdcoachtips@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

What if everything you've been told about healing is backward? In this provocative and enlightening discussion, we explore the intelligence behind your body's natural healing processes and why conventional medicine often misses the mark.Your body isn't just a machine with parts that randomly break down—it's an exquisitely coordinated system designed for continuous renewal and adaptation. We begin by examining the miracle of digestion, where your body intelligently separates beneficial molecules from harmful ones without conscious effort. This same intelligence governs all healing processes, yet our medical system rarely acknowledges it.I challenge listeners to reconsider fundamental concepts like "healing" and "disease." Healing isn't something we do to our bodies; it's what our bodies naturally do when given the proper environment. What we call disease is often an adaptive response to conditions where our biological requirements aren't being met. High blood pressure, liver cysts, dry eyes—these aren't random malfunctions but signals that something in our environment needs changing.Through practical examples and case discussions, I demonstrate how conditions conventional medicine considers incurable often resolve when we support natural healing through proper nutrition, hydration, rest, movement, and freedom from toxins. We explore specific protocols for various health challenges, from parasitic infections to chronic inflammation, always returning to the fundamental principle: restore healthy physiology and the body will heal itself.This conversation will transform how you think about health and empower you to recognize your body's inherent wisdom. When we shift from fighting symptoms to supporting our innate healing capacities, we unlock a level of health and vitality that pharmaceutical approaches can never Send us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

André, The Impulsive Thinker™, sits down again with adult ADHD psychiatrist Dr. William Dodson for a straight-up conversation about resistance to ADHD medication. Together, they break down where fear and hesitation come from, tackling misinformation, family stigma, and unrealistic expectations around treatment. Dr. Dodson delivers research-backed truths on the safety and effectiveness of stimulant medications, the dangers of leaving ADHD untreated, and the real-life impact of labels and self-medicating. This episode is a must-listen for ADHD Entrepreneurs weighing their options, dealing with family judgment, or looking for clarity to take charge of their own ADHD treatment journey.  

If sex sometimes feels confusing, overstimulating, or just... a lot, you're not alone. ADHD and sensory issues can show up during sex and in our physical relationships.  This week, psychologist Dr. Lyne Piché joins us to discuss how ADHD and sensory challenges can shape our sex lives, and how to talk about it. From touch sensitivity to struggling to focus, we dive into why things might feel like “too much” one minute and “not enough” the next—and how to figure it all out.  Related resourcesDr. Piché's website, drlynepiche.comDr. Piché's ADHD and Sex workbookAn earlier Sorry, I Missed This episode: ADHD, sensory systems, and communicationTimestamps(2:07) What is a sensory issue? (05:16) How do we build awareness and language about our sensory issues in the bedroom? (09:45) How do we tell the difference between sensory overload and just not being in the mood for sex? (12:15) The importance of trust in your partner, and not “enduring” something just for someone else(15:22) How kink can help with sensory issues in sex(16:42) Letting go of the shame over not liking the things that you're “supposed” to like(19:07) How can we talk to our partners about our sensory needs if we're scared of hurting their feelings or disappointing them?(22:47) Building “yes” spaces and talking to our partners about our sexy sensory dos and don'ts—without feeling unsexy(27:44) Trying things out more than once to determine whether it's a sensory issue or a preferenceFor a transcript and more resources, visit the Sorry, I Missed This show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

André, The Impulsive Thinker™, reflects on his chat with Vivian Glyck, founder of Just Like My Child Foundation and creator of Project Grit, to tackle the tough realities of supporting adolescents through mental health struggles. In this episode, you'll hear about Vivian's honest experiences as a parent and caretaker — how overparenting can get in the way of growth, why boundaries matter, and the invisible toll mental health takes on families. They also challenge common misconceptions and building resilience in neurodivergent kids. If you're an ADHD Entrepreneur navigating mental health — yours or a loved one's — this episode's loaded with perspective and practical insight.  

If sex sometimes feels confusing, overstimulating, or just... a lot, you're not alone. ADHD and sensory issues can show up during sex and in our physical relationships. This week, psychologist Dr. Lyne Piché joins us to discuss how ADHD and sensory challenges can shape our sex lives, and how to talk about it. From touch sensitivity to struggling to focus, we dive into why things might feel like “too much” one minute and “not enough” the next—and how to figure it all out.Related resourcesDr. Piché's website, www.ADHDsex.comDr. Piché's ADHD and Sex workbookAn earlier Sorry, I Missed This episode: ADHD, sensory systems, and communicationTimestamps(2:07) What is a sensory issue? (05:16) How do we build awareness and language about our sensory issues in the bedroom? (09:45) How do we tell the difference between sensory overload and just not being in the mood for sex? (12:15) The importance of trust in your partner, and not “enduring” something just for someone else(15:22) How kink can help with sensory issues in sex(16:42) Letting go of the shame over not liking the things that you're “supposed” to like(19:07) How can we talk to our partners about our sensory needs if we're scared of hurting their feelings or disappointing them?(22:47) Building “yes” spaces and talking to our partners about our sexy sensory dos and don'ts—without feeling unsexy(27:44) Trying things out more than once to determine whether it's a sensory issue or a preferenceFor a transcript and more resources, visit the Sorry, I Missed This show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

André, The Impulsive Thinker™, sits down with Vivian Glyck, founder of the Just Like My Child Foundation, to talk about the tough realities of parenting and supporting loved ones with mental health struggles, especially for the ADHD Entrepreneur. Vivian reveals her personal journey, learning to let go, set boundaries, and focus on self-care—lessons that made a real difference in her family. Discover why over-involvement and constant “fixing” might hold everyone back, and how true resilience is built. This honest conversation gives Entrepreneurs real-life strategies to support the anxious generation, while making sure you don't burn out in the process.  

André, The Impulsive Thinker™, reflects on his recent talk with Dr. Norrine Russell about raising 2E (twice exceptional) kids—children identified as both gifted and neurodivergent, like those with ADHD. Drawing from his own parenting experiences and growth as an ADHD Entrepreneur, André pours out the real challenges: mismatched intellectual and emotional development, the myths around giftedness, and why letting kids be kids matters. This short episode unpacks the struggle with expectations and emotional regulation, giving ADHD Entrepreneurs and parents practical insights into supporting their gifted kids—without making them grow up too fast. Dive in for a fresh perspective on 2E parenting.  

What if everything you've been taught about disease is fundamentally wrong?Dr. Thomas Lodi takes us on a profound journey into a healing paradigm that reimagines how we understand health and recovery. Rather than viewing conditions as enemies to battle, he reveals why our symptoms are actually adaptive physiological responses—our body's intelligent attempt to maintain balance despite challenging circumstances.This eye-opening session demolishes conventional thinking about cancer treatment, parasites, and chronic conditions. Dr. Lodi explains why the "war on cancer" metaphor fails patients and how identifying the underlying causes of imbalance leads to true healing. He thoroughly addresses questions about schwannomas (neural sheath tumors), parasite protocols, blood in stool, and prostate conditions with practical, actionable guidance.One of the most illuminating segments tackles the relationship between cancer and glucose. Dr. Lodi clarifies why elimination strategies miss the point—every cell needs glucose, including healthy ones—and why balanced nutrition with healthy fats is critical for creating cell membranes that maintain the electrical charge necessary for health. This understanding turns conventional cancer nutritional advice on its head.Throughout the session, Dr. Lodi emphasizes patient empowerment: "This is your journey. The doctor can't walk it for you. I can be your guide, but you must walk it yourself." He details the importance of biological dentistry, lymphatic therapy, frequency treatments, and emotional healing as integral parts of a comprehensive approach.For anyone facing health challenges or seeking deeper understanding of how our bodies actually work, this conversation offers not just hope but a radically different framework for achieving lasting wellness. The path forward isn'tSend us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

Nikki Daye, a school psychologist and ADHD advocate, grew up in the foster care system. She was diagnosed with ADHD as a child, but her medical records were eventually lost. As she got older, her ADHD diagnosis wasn't considered. Instead, her symptoms were misdiagnosed as anxiety, PTSD, and bipolar disorder. While her ADHD diagnosis was “lost in translation,” Nikki spent a lot of time feeling misunderstood and unsupported. It wasn't until adulthood that she finally got the clarity she needed. Now, she's using her experience to advocate for kids with ADHD, including her own daughter.Related resources6 ways ADHD and PTSD can look alikeADHD and traumaTimestamps(01:18) Nikki's first ADHD diagnosis as a teenager(03:30) Nikki's experience with echolalia (05:27) ADHD treatment, speculating other diagnoses, and medical records being lost while in foster care(09:11) “Aging out” of her ADHD diagnosis, and coming back to it(15:08) Nikki's intersectional “aha” moments (20:33) Nikki's work helping kids like her, and her daughterFor a transcript and more resources, visit the ADHD Aha! show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdaha@understood.org or record a message for us here.  Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

André, The Impulsive Thinker™, sits down with Dr. Norrine Russell to break down the often misunderstood world of twice-exceptional (2e) kids—those who are both gifted and neurodiverse, like having ADHD or autism. If you're an ADHD Entrepreneur or parent who's puzzled by how intelligence and emotional challenges can clash, this episode's for you. André and Dr. Russell dig into what “gifted” really means, why intellect doesn't guarantee maturity, and how to better support 2e kids—and adults—at home or work. Get ready to rethink assumptions and learn why emotional growth doesn't always keep pace with sharp brains.    

Being a caregiver to a friend or loved one is hard—add ADHD to the mix, and it's a whole different challenge.Self-care and ADHD Coach Stephanie Antoine joins us to talk about what it's like caring for our loved ones while managing executive dysfunction, burnout, and more. She also offers a few mindfulness practices to help us recenter when the stress feels like too much. If you've ever struggled to care for someone else while trying to keep yourself afloat, this one's for you.Related resourcesStephanie's website, stephanieantoine.comDownload: Feeling stressed? Try the 5-4-3-2-1 mindfulness technique From the ADHD Aha! podcast, Jessica McCabe on motherhood, social anxiety, and ADHD medicationTimestamps(02:59) Why did Stephanie start helping others in caregiving roles?(04:52) Executive function and caregiving, and beating yourself up(07:51) How do we manage big feelings like frustration and resentment while caregiving?(12:33) Perfectionism and caregiving(17:14) The one thing Stephanie wants you to hear today(19:09) A short guided meditation exercise from StephanieFor a transcript and more resources, visit the Sorry, I Missed This show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

André, The Impulsive Thinker™, reflects on his discussion with Dr. Atul Khullar to tackle the unique leadership paradox faced by the ADHD Entrepreneur. He digs into why crisis mode feels like home for many ADHD brains, and how thriving on constant novelty can both build and burn a business. André gets personal, sharing his own struggles with routine tasks, delegation, and hiring for his weaknesses. This episode is packed with honest advice on building a strong team, creating clear systems, and managing mental energy for long-term success. If you want to lead better as an ADHD Entrepreneur, you don't want to miss this.  

When did medical terminology become a form of sorcery? In this profound exploration of healing, Dr. Thomas Lodi reveals how the language we use around disease—particularly cancer—shapes our recovery more powerfully than any treatment protocol. The "standard of scare" pervades modern medicine, transforming natural biological adaptations into terrifying "diagnoses" that trap patients in cycles of fear and dependency. Dr. Lodi dismantles this paradigm by unveiling a liberating truth: cancer isn't a collection of hundreds of different diseases, but one fundamental metabolic process (the Warburg effect) manifesting in different locations. This reframing transforms our understanding from helplessness to empowerment.Beyond cancer terminology, Dr. Lodi delivers game-changing insights about sleep that few discuss. While most focus on sleep duration, he explains why sleep timing is actually more critical—going to bed before 9:30pm activates the brain's glymphatic system during slow-wave sleep, removing neurotoxins that contribute to neurodegenerative conditions. This overlooked connection between sleep timing and brain health could transform your wellness journey overnight.His piercing critique of dietary trends, particularly the carnivore diet, reveals uncomfortable truths about human nutrition that challenge popular narratives. Meanwhile, his simple test for physical fitness—sitting on the floor and standing without using hands or furniture—provides a more accurate predictor of longevity than sophisticated medical screenings.Whether you're navigating a health challenge or seeking preventive strategies, this episode offers a radical reorientation toward healing that begins with language, continues with sleep, and flowers through proper nutrition and movement. By focusing on creating conditions for your body's innate heSend us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

Being a caregiver to a friend or loved one is hard—add ADHD to the mix, and it's a whole different challenge.Self-care and ADHD Coach Stephanie Antoine joins us to talk about what it's like caring for our loved ones while managing executive dysfunction, burnout, and more. She also offers a few mindfulness practices to help us recenter when the stress feels like too much. If you've ever struggled to care for someone else while trying to keep yourself afloat, this one's for you.Related resourcesStephanie's website, stephanieantoine.comDownload: Feeling stressed? Try the 5-4-3-2-1 mindfulness technique From the ADHD Aha! podcast, Jessica McCabe on motherhood, social anxiety, and ADHD medicationTimestamps(02:59) Why did Stephanie start helping others in caregiving roles?(04:52) Executive function and caregiving, and beating yourself up(07:51) How do we manage big feelings like frustration and resentment while caregiving?(12:33) Perfectionism and caregiving(17:14) The one thing Stephanie wants you to hear today(19:09) A short guided meditation exercise from StephanieFor a transcript and more resources, visit the Sorry, I Missed This show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

Language is the invisible prison that keeps us trapped in a medical paradigm designed to manage symptoms rather than restore health. When we adopt words like "diagnosis," "treatment," and "cure," we unwittingly submit to a worldview where health is impossible and disease inevitable.I've spent nearly four decades guiding people back to health by first liberating them from the constraints of medical terminology. The words you use about your body create biochemical realities – changing your language is the first step toward changing your biology. This isn't just philosophical; it's practical physiology.Consider what happens when tissue is damaged by radiation, creating pleural effusions that make breathing difficult. The conventional approach treats this as a "side effect" to be managed, but it's actually a direct consequence of cellular damage from ionizing radiation producing free radicals. The solution isn't more medication but abundant antioxidants to neutralize these reactive species, along with movement, proper sleep timing, and nutritional support to restore normal function.Even conditions like Alzheimer's, which medicine portrays as genetic destiny, are primarily responses to environmental toxicity and nutritional deficiencies. The APOE4 gene doesn't determine your fate; it simply affects how cholesterol is distributed – a process profoundly influenced by diet, dental health, and hormone balance. When patients restore these foundational elements, cognitive function often returns.The gateway to healing begins with recognizing that your body isn't harboring invaders called diseases – it's adapting as best it can to toxic burdens. Cleansing through juicing, biological dentistry, and targeted supplements creates the conditions for recovery, while practices like meditation provide an inner sanctuary from whichSend us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

Shane Thrapp always felt different. As an adult, he found out he has both ADHD and autism — two parts of his brain that sometimes work against each other. In this episode, Shane shares the weight of masking his symptoms, and how society's ideas about “real men” can make it even harder to speak up. Today, Shane is helping other men with ADHD as the Operations Director of the Men's ADHD Support Group. He's on a mission to show that being yourself shows more strength than pretending to be someone you're not.Related resourcesWhat is AuDHD?The Men's ADHD Support GroupTimestamps(01:19) Shane's ADHD and autism diagnoses story(05:48) The three-way battle between ADHD and autism(09:12) How is Shane as a boss? (10:21) Learning social cues, trying on identities, and societal expectations(15:04) The Men's ADHD Support Group, and building a community that supports each other in healthy ways(18:34) The biggest misconceptions about men with ADHD(21:38) Building a world that's better for his childrenFor a transcript and more resources, visit the ADHD Aha! Show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdaha@understood.org or record a message for us here.  Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

Have you had a bad experience talking about your ADHD with friends or family? Or, are you worried about sharing your ADHD diagnosis with friends and family, out of fear of how they would react? This week on Tips from an ADHD Coach, Jaye talks about sharing our ADHD diagnoses with the people we love and what we can do to make those conversations go better. Related resourcesWhat to do when someone doubts your ADHD diagnosisI'm letting go of the shame I felt about my ADHD and learning disabilitiesTimestamps(00:42) Kirby's quote(02:51) Unfortunately, it's common to have a bad experience when sharing that you have ADHD(05:36) Questions to ask yourself before having this conversation(06:59) Setting time aside for this conversation, or asking for their full attention, not just a passing chat(07:58) Front-loading our expectations for their response(12:06) Work through the raw emotions of a diagnosis before having these conversations by doing some practice runs(13:13) You don't have to share your ADHD with someone if you don't think they'll respond well(15:00) RecapFor a transcript and more resources, visit the Tips from an ADHD Coach show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdcoachtips@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

Join health and science journalist Danielle Elliot as she investigates the rise of women recently diagnosed with ADHD. Listen to Climbing the Walls now.ADHD and kink might seem like an unexpected pairing, but for a lot of people, they go hand in hand. From rituals that help with focus to play that taps into the need for stimulation, BDSM can be more than just fun — it can be a real tool for regulation and connection.In this episode, host Cate Osborn chats with author and forensic sexologist Stefani Goerlich about how BDSM can actually support ADHD brains by offering structure, sensory input, and clear communication. Related resourcesStefani's website, stefanigeorlich.comStefani's booksTimestamps(02:46) The broad umbrella of ‘kink'(04:16) Focusing on BDSM in particular, and breaking down the acronym(08:38) Kink is always relational, only sometimes sexual(09:48) Why might someone gravitate towards kink/BDSM?(12:30) Common kink myths(15:44) Power exchange, and consent as foreplay(16:32) The benefits of BDSM/kink(18:24) How kink can help with claiming agency(21:10) How negotiated arrangements can take some of the strain off executive function challenges(23:39) What to do when one partner is kinky, and one is not so muchFor a transcript and more resources, visit the Sorry, I Missed This show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

Sleep isn't just rest - it's your body's most extraordinary healing mechanism. Every night, regardless of what you've eaten or how you've treated your physical vessel during the day, your cells engage in a remarkable process of renewal and forgiveness. Unlike cars, phones, and other machines that deteriorate over time, we humans have this built-in reset button that allows us to wake up renewed and restored.This podcast delves deep into the contrast between pharmaceutical approaches to hormone-related conditions and nature's more balanced alternatives. Aromatase inhibitors like letrozole, commonly prescribed to postmenopausal women with hormone-sensitive cancers, come with a staggering array of side effects affecting joints, bones, cognition, and mood. Meanwhile, research from the Journal of Biological Chemistry shows that phytoestrogens from plants like soy selectively trigger beneficial estrogen receptor pathways while avoiding harmful ones - a level of sophisticated targeting that pharmaceutical options can't match.The discussion challenges numerous health misconceptions propagated by mainstream medicine. Did you know that Japanese people consuming traditional diets take in over 100 times more iodine than the FDA recommends, yet have lower cancer rates and longer lifespans? Or that wearing bras 24/7 restricts lymphatic flow and correlates with increased breast cancer risk? These inconvenient truths highlight how conventional medical wisdom often ignores or contradicts available research.Perhaps most powerful is the paradigm shift offered regarding chronic disease. Rather than viewing conditions like cancer as invaders to be bombed with aggressive treatments, we're encouraged to understand them as adaptive responses by cells to unfavorable conditions. The solution lies not in warfare but in restoration - creating an inSend us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

Dive into the fascinating world of the human microbiome and discover how these trillions of microscopic organisms aren't just passengers in your body—they're essential partners in your health journey. Dr. Lodi reveals the profound interconnectedness between our various microbiomes, from gut to vaginal to oral, and how disruption in one area creates ripple effects throughout your entire system.You'll learn why the conventional medical approach of "killing bad bacteria" with antibiotics often creates cycles of recurring infections and dysbiosis. Instead, Dr. Lodi presents a revolutionary perspective: these microorganisms respond directly to your dietary choices, stress levels, and overall lifestyle. By understanding how to create the right internal environment, you can cultivate beneficial microbial communities that naturally suppress harmful organisms without harsh interventions.The conversation takes unexpected turns into the mouth-body connection, where dental infections silently travel through meridian pathways to trigger problems in distant organs. You'll hear a remarkable case study of facial neuralgia resolving after proper tooth extraction, highlighting why biological dentistry matters for whole-body health. Dr. Lodi also shares cutting-edge approaches for cancer patients, explaining how intermittent fasting creates a metabolic advantage by leveraging the difference in insulin receptor density between healthy cells and cancer cells.Perhaps most powerfully, this episode challenges the fundamental Western perspective that sees humans as separate from nature. Instead, Dr. Lodi reminds us that we are part of an incredible, living ecosystem—and true healing comes from working with our body's innate intelligence rather than against it. Ready to transform your understanding of health and reclaim your natural vitality? ThSend us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

Danielle Elliot was considering breaking up with her partner...and then he broke up with her first. Danielle had a “big, out of character” reaction: By 4am that night she was packed and ready to leave. The whole experience left her feeling unsettled. Why had she reacted that way? That sparked a deep dive into rejection sensitivity and ADHD.Danielle is a health and science journalist who's now asking a bigger question: Why are so many women being diagnosed with ADHD — and why now?She explores this in Understood.org's new limited-series podcast, Climbing the Walls. Listen to Danielle's personal story here — then check out Climbing the Walls on your podcast platform of choice. Related resourcesListen to the Climbing the Walls podcastADHD and rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD)ADHD breakups: Impulsive texts and overthinking regrets, from Sorry, I Missed ThisTimestamps(01:26) Danielle's pandemic diagnosis after a strong reaction to a break up(08:26) Danielle's need to travel(12:15) Danielle's relationship with relationships, and rejection(16:02) Hosting Understood.org's Climbing the Walls podcastFor a transcript and more resources, visit the ADHD Aha! show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdaha@understood.org, or record a message for us here.  Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

Have you changed careers or academic interests multiple times in your life? Do you find yourself thinking this next job is going to be the one that sticks, only to discover that you're just as unhappy and unfulfilled in that role as all of the others before?This week on Tips from an ADHD Coach, Jaye talks about how ADHD can nudge many of us to jump from job to job, and career to career. Related resourcesADHD burnout5 ways ADHD can affect you at workTimestamps(00:42) Taylor's quote(02:45) Why ADHDers might have a long list of past college majors and jobs(05:57) The burnout to quitting cycle(08:58) What can we do about this?(12:57) RecapFor a transcript and more resources, visit the Tips from an ADHD Coach show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdcoachtips@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

The profound difference between fighting disease and restoring balance takes center stage in this eye-opening discussion. Dr. Thomas Lodi challenges our fundamental understanding of health by dismantling the conventional disease model that treats symptoms as invading entities rather than adaptive responses to environmental imbalances.With characteristic directness, Dr. Lodi addresses the rampant confusion about human nutrition. "I understand your confusion," he acknowledges to a listener struggling with contradictory dietary advice, before offering clarity through biological principles rather than trendy diets. He systematically debunks the carnivore diet trend, explaining that even if eating "nose to tail," humans miss critical plant compounds essential for longevity: polyphenols, flavonoids, glucosinolates, carotenoids, fiber, and insoluble silica. His evidence includes thriving plant-based individuals like Fred Bischi who, at 97 years old after 56 years of raw plant foods, demonstrates remarkable cognitive function and physical vitality.The discussion introduces "chronically fermenting cells" (CFCs) as a more accurate and less fear-inducing term than cancer, emphasizing that regardless of location, these cells share the same metabolic abnormality. This understanding leads to a unified approach centered on cleansing, balance restoration, and nourishment rather than location-specific treatments. Throughout the session, Dr. Lodi provides practical guidance on juice cleansing, parasite protocols, and transitioning to uncooked plant foods.Perhaps most powerful is his reframing of parasites not as enemies to eradicate but as potential commensals in a balanced system. "We never look at it differently than the way it really is," he insists, reminding listeners that health stems from providing cells what they need for regenerSend us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

Imagine your brain as a control room. On most days, the switches flick and the dials turn just as they should. But then something small—an unanswered text, a missed deadline, a critical glance—trips the wrong lever. Suddenly, that control room is submerged. The signals blur. The system floods.This week on Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast, Pete and Nikki sit down with two returning champions of clarity and compassion: Dr. Sharon Saline and Dr. Dodge Rea. Together, they unravel the hidden mechanics of emotional flooding—not as a character flaw, but as a neurological response shaped by fear, history, and a sometimes-overzealous amygdala.Through stories, science, and metaphor (including rogue trains and Wile E. Coyote's ill-fated cliff dives), they reveal what happens when the ADHD brain short-circuits under pressure—and what we can actually do about it. Along the way, you'll learn how shame disguises itself as control, how the body signals what the mind can't process, and why sometimes the most strategic thing you can do is… go to the bathroom.This is a conversation about reframing of the narrative so many ADHD adults carry with them: that being overwhelmed means being broken. It doesn't. It never did.Links & NotesLearn more about Dr. Sharon Saline: drsharonsaline.comLearn more about Dr. Dodge Rea: dodgerea.comSupport the Show on PatreonDig into the podcast Shownotes Database (00:00) - Welcome to The ADHD Podcast (00:57) - Support the Show: Become a Patron Today https://patreon.com/theadhdpodcast (02:38) - Emotional Flooding with Dr. Sharon Saline and Dr. Dodge Rea (21:35) - The Consequences (25:09) - Is Emotional Flooding a sort of Trance? (28:51) - The Regulation and Recovery Process (40:19) - The Five C's (44:49) - The g.r.a.c.e. Sequence ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

In this bonus episode, we're sharing the first episode of a new Understood.org podcast, Climbing the Walls. Climbing the Walls is an investigative limited-series podcast that explores why women were historically underdiagnosed with ADHD — and how the recent surge in diagnoses is reshaping our understanding of ADHD.In this episode, host Danielle Elliot finds herself among the many women diagnosed with ADHD during the pandemic, and she gets curious. Why women? And why now? This question takes her to northern Michigan, to meet a friend's mom.For more on this topic:Listen to Climbing the WallsADHD and rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD)Older women with ADHD: How the lost generation got foundFor a transcript and more resources, visit the Climbing the Walls show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdaha@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

Dr. Thomas Lodi delivers a paradigm-shifting examination of health that challenges everything we've been taught about disease. Instead of viewing illnesses as external entities attacking our bodies, he reveals how what we call "diseases" are actually our bodies' adaptations to improper biological conditions. This perspective transforms health from fighting against symptoms to creating the optimal environment for natural healing.At the heart of Dr. Lodi's message is a powerful truth: your body was designed to function optimally. When all biological requirements are met, health emerges naturally. It's only when these requirements aren't satisfied that adaptations occur – adaptations we've labeled as diseases. This applies to everything from chronic conditions to cancer, which Dr. Lodi explains as cells that have switched to permanent fermentation due to damaged mitochondria.The conversation delves into practical applications of this philosophy, addressing gut dysbiosis underlying conditions like autism and IBS, proper removal of mercury fillings, and effective treatments for parasites. Dr. Lodi emphasizes that restoration of balance through proper nutrition, elimination of toxins, and psychological wellbeing creates an internal environment where chronic conditions cannot thrive.Most compelling is Dr. Lodi's reminder of the miracle already working within us – our bodies conducting 37 sextillion chemical reactions every second. We're not static beings but dynamic processes constantly renewing themselves. When we support rather than suppress this incredible system, true healing becomes possible.Ready to transform your understanding of health? Join Dr. Lodi's health communities to continue this conversation and learn practical steps toward restoring your body's natural balance. Because health isn't about fighting diSend us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

Join health and science journalist Danielle Elliot as she investigates the rise of women recently diagnosed with ADHD. Listen to Climbing the Walls now.Emilia McGuckin was surprised when a teacher suggested her son might have ADHD. As a teacher herself, she thought she would have spotted the signs. But after diving into the research, an even bigger surprise hit her: Could she have ADHD too?Emilia, a high school and college teacher, was hesitant to pursue an ADHD evaluation. She'd felt dismissed by medical providers in the past, an experience all too common for many women. But when she finally got diagnosed, everything started to make sense. What she once saw as “character flaws” or “personal failings” turned out to be overlooked symptoms of ADHD.Related resourcesIs ADHD hereditary? ADHD icebergTimestamps(01:10) Emilia's son's ADHD diagnosis(04:42) Hyperfocusing on ADHD to help her son, and realizing she has symptoms too(06:49) Apprehension about seeking an ADHD evaluation, after not being believed by doctors in the past(09:20) Feelings and coping after diagnosis(11:56) An “avalanche of ADHD” in the family(17:02) How Emilia and her son's diagnoses changed how she teaches(20:29) Busting ADHD mythsFor a transcript and more resources, visit the episode page on Understood.We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdaha@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

Join health and science journalist Danielle Elliot as she investigates the rise of women recently diagnosed with ADHD. Listen to Climbing the Walls now.Many people with ADHD, especially women, consider themselves people pleasers. It can become a habit to start putting others first without thinking, even when it goes against what we really want. This can lead to some resentment down the line. This week on Tips from an ADHD Coach, Jaye talks about how pleasing others all the time can turn from selfless into self-serving. Listen for tips on what to do if we've spent our whole lives trying to please others at a cost to ourselves. Related resourcesADHD and rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD)Setting boundaries in relationships with ADHDCore values exerciseTimestamps(00:39) Laura's quote(03:08) ADHD and people pleasing(07:49) When people pleasing changes from selfless to self-serving(10:37) What can we do?(13:25) Recap For a transcript and more resources, visit the Tips from an ADHD Coach show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdcoachtips@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

Have you ever wondered why medical labels and conventional treatments often leave you feeling caught in an endless cycle of symptoms? In this thought-provoking session of Sunday Night Live, Dr. Thomas Lodi challenges the medical establishment's approach to chronic disease and offers empowering alternatives rooted in natural physiology.Dr. Lodi takes us on a journey through the fundamentals of health restoration, explaining why terms like "triple negative" cancer or "bacterial infection" often miss the deeper truth about what's happening in our bodies. With refreshing clarity, he demonstrates how conventional medicine focuses on comparing different treatments to each other rather than studying the outcomes of those who choose lifestyle-based approaches instead.At the heart of Dr. Lodi's message is a profound truth: our bodies know how to heal when given the right conditions. Whether addressing pregnancy-related UTIs, chronic inflammatory conditions, or cancer diagnoses, the path forward involves similar principles – cleansing the body of toxins, addressing dental issues that compromise immunity, providing optimal nutrition through uncooked plant foods, and supporting natural detoxification pathways.The session reveals fascinating research showing how raw vegan diets dramatically reduce inflammation markers to undetectable levels and how parasitic infections may play a significant role in chronic disease. Dr. Lodi also shares insights about cutting-edge treatments like Valasta, which targets chronically fermenting cells by utilizing their increased glucose uptake against them.Perhaps most compelling is Dr. Lodi's challenge to conventional thinking about immunity. By questioning our dependence on vaccines and pharmaceutical interventions, he reminds us that humanity built great civilizations long before modern meSend us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

Shame is a formidable force—an emotional wildfire that can either illuminate our path to growth or consume us in cycles of self-blame. For individuals with ADHD, this complex emotion is often amplified, lingering far beyond its utility as a corrective signal. But why? And more importantly, how do we break free?This week on The ADHD Podcast, hosts Pete Wright and Nikki Kinzer embark on an exploration of shame spirals with two powerhouse guests: James Ochoa, LPC, renowned ADHD pathfinder and author of Focused Forward: Navigating the Storms of Adult ADHD, and Dr. Nachi Felt, an ADHD specialist and professor at Columbia University where he teaches Psychopathology and helps direct the Cognition and Neuroscience Research Lab.Together, they dissect the neurobiology of shame, its insidious tendency to hijack our presence of mind, and the ways in which ADHD uniquely intensifies its grip. James and Nachi offer profound insights into the role of self-awareness, self-acceptance, and the often-overlooked power of resourcing—the practice of cultivating internal and external tools to navigate emotional turbulence.From the interplay of trauma and shame to the game-changing realization that the same agency that allows us to sit in shame also allows us to stand up and move forward, this conversation is both a course in emotional resilience and a rallying cry for self-compassion.With humor, wisdom, and a touch of Brooklyn-style candor, this episode invites you to challenge your inner narratives, embrace the possibility of rewriting your personal stories, and ultimately, reclaim your incredible sense of self-worth.Resources & Links:Take Control ADHD Discord CommunitySupport the Podcast on PatreonJames Ochoa's Work & BooksDr. Nachi Felt's ADHD ResourcesDig into the podcast Shownotes Database (00:00) - Welcome to Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast (01:09) - Support the Show! (03:37) - The Nature of Shame Spirals ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Are ADHD and cheating related? What about weaponized incompetence and ADHD? These are a few questions that surround the ADHD community.Producer Margie visits the podcast for another round of ‘Reddit reactions' with more posts from the ADHD women subreddit. Listen for host Cate Osborn's reactions on a few different scenarios related to cheating and weaponized incompetence.Related resourcesThe National Domestic Violence HotlineThe ADHD Women subredditADHD support for Women by Understood.org's Facebook groupTimestamps(02:00) Post #1 “ADHD and cheating/Adrenaline and dopamine”(09:24) Post #2 “Narcissist cheater and ADHD”(15:30) Post #3 “Does anyone else sometimes identify with those ‘weaponized incompetence' guys you hear about?”(21:22) Post #4 “I'm so tired of trying to compensate for myself AND my partner”(27:51) ADHD can be challenging, and you're not aloneFor a transcript and more resources, visit the Sorry, I Missed This page on Understood.We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

There's an inflection point when technology shifts from novelty to necessity. The printing press. The telephone. The internet. And now, artificial intelligence. For those with ADHD, the rise of AI presents an especially tantalizing paradox: a tool that promises to sharpen focus and streamline tasks, yet one that, if wielded carelessly, could just as easily become another source of distraction.In this episode of The ADHD Podcast, Pete Wright and Nikki Kinzer take us into the heart of the paradox. They begin with a simple but profound question: How do we make AI work for us, rather than the other way around?It starts with a refresher on prompt engineering—the art of structuring AI queries with precision. It's not unlike training a dog. Give vague instructions, and you'll get unpredictable results. But with the right prompts, AI can become an invaluable assistant, distilling complex information, organizing thoughts, and even generating study guides.But then comes the tension. The unease. The creeping realization that AI—like all powerful tools—has a darker side. What of the Paperclip Problem, a thought experiment that suggests AI, if left unchecked, could optimize itself into oblivion, consuming all available resources (including us) in its relentless pursuit of efficiency. Far out? There are those who argue not so far as you think.The conversation then shifts to the Goldilocks Zone—that elusive middle ground where AI enhances productivity without eroding autonomy. Pete shares his meticulously curated AI toolkit: Perplexity AI for research, Grammarly for writing, TextExpander for automation, and Adobe Voice Enhancer for audio clarity. Each tool, when used correctly, reduces cognitive load. But over-reliance? That's where the danger lies.By the end of the discussion, one thing becomes clear: AI is neither savior nor saboteur. It is a mirror, reflecting back the habits and intentions of its user. The question isn't whether AI will replace us—it won't. The real question is: Will we use AI to become more of who we are, or will we let it decide that for us?Links & NotesPerplexity AI – AI-powered research assistantPoe.com – Multi-model AI chat platformGrammarly – AI-enhanced writing assistantAdobe Voice Enhancer – AI-driven audio clarity toolCoda.io – AI-integrated database managementJoin our Discord communitySupport the Show on PatreonDig into the podcast Shownotes Database (00:00) - Welcome to Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast (02:22) - Prompt Engineering (12:08) - The Problem with AI (18:25) - The Goldilocks Zone (22:16) - Some Tools (25:19) - Gell-Mann Amnesia ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

What if the key to optimal health isn't found in complex medical interventions, but in returning to the foundational patterns of natural living? In this enlightening discussion, Dr. Thomas Lodi presents a paradigm-shifting perspective on health restoration alongside his newest team members, health educators Darren and Vanessa.The conversation challenges conventional thinking about disease, particularly around parasites and microorganisms. Rather than viewing these as invaders to be attacked, Dr. Lodi explains how we might better understand them as indicators of imbalance – nature's cleaning crew addressing underlying issues. This perspective moves us away from warfare-style treatment approaches toward restoration of biological balance through proper nutrition, movement, and environmental connection.Darren, a kinesiologist with expertise in natural movement, shares compelling research showing that just 120 minutes weekly in natural environments significantly improves health outcomes. This "nature prescription" can be fulfilled through simple practices like morning sunshine exposure or post-dinner walks. Meanwhile, Vanessa brings her knowledge of nutrition, yoga, and meditation to help listeners understand how to incorporate these practices meaningfully into daily life.The discussion introduces the "School of Life" – a framework for learning fundamental aspects of healthy living typically neglected in modern education. This includes understanding proper nutrition, movement patterns, sleep hygiene, and stress management – essentially relearning how to live in alignment with our biological design rather than against it.Perhaps most powerfully, Dr. Lodi distills his philosophy into a simple mantra: "Clean, balance, move, and sleep." These four principles address virtually all chronic health conditions by restoring Send us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

We're running a survey to see how podcasts help women with ADHD learn about mental health and health-related topics. Make your voice heard today.A lot of adults with a late ADHD diagnosis can look back on their childhood and see clear signs that they had ADHD. But, it just didn't get noticed at the time. It can be painful to think about where we would be if we'd had the diagnosis earlier.This week on Tips from an ADHD Coach, Jaye talks about how it can be common for late-diagnosed adults, especially women, to feel overlooked, misunderstood, and somewhat cheated out of the life they could have had. Listen for some tips to help you through this grief.  Related resourcesHow do I emotionally prepare for ADHD diagnosis?ADHD in girlsThe 3 types of ADHDTimestamps(00:35) Alexis' quote(03:06) Why do women so often have their ADHD missed in childhood?(07:15) What about the people whose siblings were diagnosed in childhood, but they were not?(10:44) What can we do?(14:01) RecapFor a transcript and more resources, visit the MissUnderstood page on Understood.Have a challenge you'd like Jaye to talk about in an episode? Email or send a voice memo to us at adhdcoachtips@understood.org. Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

In this illuminating Sunday Night Live session, Dr. Thomas Lodi delivers a paradigm-shifting perspective on healing chronic diseases by addressing their root causes rather than simply treating symptoms. He begins by clarifying that he maintains only three official groups—health and healing, parasite guidance, and CFC (chronically fermenting cells)—and warns against imposters using his name.The conversation takes a fascinating turn as Dr. Lodi dissects conventional treatments like Selective Internal Radiation Therapy (SIRT) for liver tumors. While acknowledging their occasional necessity, he explains why these approaches often fall short: "Even if you eliminate this tumor, there are literally thousands of microscopic tumors you can't see. Taking off one isn't going to change the whole process—you've got to cut off the supply."Dr. Lodi explores the remarkable multi-faceted benefits of anti-parasitic medications like ivermectin and fenbendazole beyond their known uses. He details how ivermectin activates glutamate-gated chloride channels, changes tumor microenvironments, functions as an epigenetic regulator, induces autophagy, activates tumor suppressor genes, and inhibits metastasis pathways—all while sparing healthy cells.Perhaps most powerfully, he addresses the mind-body connection, stating unequivocally that "nothing is more powerful in either allowing healing to happen or blocking healing from happening" than our psychological state. He urges listeners to abandon limiting medical terminologies and remember their true identity as "dynamic human beings making 37 million new cells per second."For those with hormone-positive breast cancer, Dr. Lodi offers a sophisticated alternative to conventional hormone blockers by explaining how to restore natural hormone balance using bioidentical hormones and phytoestrogeSend us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

In this inspiring episode, Tara McGillicuddy and Lynne Edris explore Tara's deeply personal new initiative—The ADHD Coaching Project. Tara discusses her journey to openly share authentic ADHD group coaching sessions, breaking through perfectionism and embracing vulnerability. Discover why the group dynamic is so powerful for adults with ADHD and how genuine connection fosters profound growth. Tune in for practical insights, motivation, and relatable experiences that empower you to embrace authenticity and overcome your own barriers. Links & Resources:

What if everything we've been taught about chronic disease is fundamentally flawed? In this provocative, no-holds-barred conversation, we challenge the very language that shapes our understanding of health and healing.The words we use aren't just descriptive—they're prescriptive. When someone receives a diagnosis of "cancer," they're often unwittingly enrolled in a paradigm of warfare, victimhood, and surrender to external authority. By contrast, understanding the same condition as "chronically fermenting cells" (CFCs) provides clarity about what's actually happening biologically: cells that have adapted to a toxic environment by shifting into fermentation metabolism.This isn't merely semantic wordplay—it's a fundamental rethinking of disease that returns agency to the individual. Your body isn't being attacked; it's adapting intelligently to its circumstances. Change those circumstances by addressing root causes like dental infections, environmental toxins, and parasitic burdens, and the need for adaptation disappears.We explore practical protocols for healing CFCs naturally, including the critical importance of biological dentistry, extended juice fasting, and targeted interventions with repurposed medications like fenbendazole, ivermectin, and niclosamide. These approaches work synergistically to eliminate toxicity, wake up the immune system, and selectively target chronically fermenting cells without harming healthy tissue.Beyond physical interventions, we delve into the profound connection betweenSend us a text Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. The C-Section ExperienceThe C-Section Experience podcast is your guide to navigating c-section births with...Listen on: Apple Podcasts Support the showThis episode features answers to health and cancer-related questions from Dr. Lodi's social media livestream on Jan. 19th, 2025Join Dr. Lodi's FREE Q&A livestreams every Sunday on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok (@drthomaslodi) and listen to the replays here.Submit your question for next Sunday's Q&A Livestream here:https://drlodi.com/live/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/DrThomasLodi/Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/drthomaslodi/ Join Dr. Lodi's Inner Circle membership and unlock exclusive access to webinars, healthy recipes, e-books, educational videos, live Zoom Q&A sessions with Dr. Lodi, plus fresh content every month. Elevate your healing journey today by visiting drlodi.com and use the coupon code podcast (all lowercase: P-O-D-C-A-S-T) for 30% off your first month on any membership option. Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast Welcome to the Learn to Thrive with ADHD Podcast. This is the show for you if you're... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Join Dr. Lodi's informative FREE Livestreams...

We're running a survey to see how podcasts help women with ADHD learn about mental health and health-related topics. Make your voice heard today.Steve Wesley makes videos about ADHD to create a legacy for his family. As a single dad with ADHD, he worries he's not doing enough to support his two sons, who also have ADHD. He hopes the videos will serve as proof one day that he really was trying.Steve's late wife was “the calendar” of the family. She kept everything on track. When she passed away, it was up to Steve to manage everything and teach his sons the executive function skills that he struggles with so much himself.Join this emotional conversation between Steve and host Laura Key about parenting and coping with death with ADHD.Related resourcesCheck out Steve's YouTube channel, Steve with ADHDADHD and coping with grief: 8 ways to help your childADHD and emotionsTimestamps(01:00) Steve's “aha” moment, and accepting his diagnosis(05:03) ADHD, emotions, and grieving the loss of his wife(10:57) Adjusting to being a single parent as a widower(13:48) Why did Steve start his YouTube channel for his family?(18:38) ADHD: Superpower or curse?(23:27) What would Steve's wife be proud of him for today?For a transcript and more resources, visit the ADHD Aha! page on Understood.Want to share your “aha” moment? We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at ADHDAha@understood.org. Understood is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give

What if the very quality that makes those early, intoxicating moments of romance so vibrant—the spontaneous weekend getaway, the surprise bouquet of flowers—later becomes the source of relationship friction? The human brain, particularly one wired with ADHD, contains multitudes of contradictions, and nowhere is this more evident than in how impulsivity shapes our intimate partnerships.This week on the show, relationship expert Melissa Orlov peels back the layers of impulsive behavior in ADHD relationships with Pete Wright and Nikki Kinzer. Pete's personal confession—renting a convertible for a romantic coastal drive during courtship, then later purchasing an entire car during what should have been a routine oil change—illuminates the Jekyll-and-Hyde nature of impulsivity that Melissa has observed in thousands of couples."It came from somewhere," Melissa notes of impulsive words and actions that wound our partners. But where? The answer lies in a neurological tightrope walk between present-moment reward and long-term relationship consequences. The ADHD partner experiences the euphoria of now, while their significant other bears witness to the aftermath, creating an asymmetrical emotional experience that compounds over time.What of verbal impulsivity—those cutting remarks that can never be unsaid? Melissa offers a revelation that ADHD partners are "blessed with the ability to move on quickly," while non-ADHD partners ruminate, creating relationship dissonance long after the moment has passed.Let us take our cues from Melissa's "verbal cues," pattern interrupters in relationship conflict. The deliberate absurdity of an agreed-upon word like "hamburger" or "aardvark" serves as a circuit breaker during emotional escalation—a linguistic tool that transcends the heat of argument to preserve relationship integrity. It's a Safe Word, but for your ADHD.This is an invitation to understand how neurological differences fundamentally shape our perception of time, commitment, and connection—and how awareness of these differences might just be the greatest relationship skill we can develop.Links & NotesADHD MarriageIntent to Action Membership ProgramThe ADHD Effect on MarriageThe Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHDSupport the Show on PatreonDig into the podcast Shownotes Database (00:00) - Welcome to The ADHD Podcast (00:39) - Support the Show! Become a Patron! (01:40) - Introducing Melissa Orlov (06:58) - Auto-Impulsivity (09:32) - Impulsivity is Not a Monolith (12:38) - How We Fight (15:22) - Trust & Boundaries (19:10) - Fidelity (20:43) - Breaking out of Impulsive Patterns in Relationships (25:16) - Collaborating with the Non-Impulsive Partner (31:19) - Transparency (34:24) - Emotional Dysregulation & Verbal Cues (41:30) - Learn more about Melissa's work ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Imagine two people standing on opposite sides of a canyon. One, tethered to the rhythms of neurotypical expectation—cause and effect, action and consequence—a world in which forgotten keys are just that: forgotten keys. The other, moving through a landscape of impulsivity, of fractured attention, of a thousand micro-failures that feel, at times, like an existential indictment. They love each other. They try to reach across the chasm. But the bridge they need is invisible.This week on The ADHD Podcast, Pete Wright and Nikki Kinzer embark on a three-part exploration into ADHD and relationships. Their guide this first week: Jonathan Hassall, an ADHD and executive function coach with a background in psychiatric nursing and ADHD research. Jonathan has spent years decoding the paradoxes that arise when ADHD meets the relentless machinery of relationships.Why do partners of those with ADHD feel unheard? Why does an innocuous comment about condiments over lunch spiral into a silent war? Why do people with ADHD sometimes feel like perpetual disappointments in the eyes of those they love? And is there a way—a real, tangible way—to undo the corrosive misunderstandings that accumulate over years, even decades?Jonathan argues that the real problem isn't ADHD itself. It's adaptation—or rather, the failure to adapt. The rules of engagement in relationships often assume a kind of neurological symmetry that simply doesn't exist when one or both partners have ADHD. And when partners misinterpret behavior—when forgetfulness looks like indifference, when emotional reactivity looks like hostility—the result is a slow erosion of trust.But what if there were another way? A way to recalibrate, to assume goodwill, to dismantle the myths and rebuild a foundation not on correction, but on understanding? From the science of emotional regulation to the power of a single moment of grace, Pete, Nikki, and Jonathan dissect the anatomy of ADHD relationships and ask the most fundamental question of all: What does it take to be truly seen?Links & Resources:Jonathan's book: Decoding DoingLearn more about Jonathan Hassall's work at ConnectADHD CoachingJoin the ADHD community on Discord: TakeControlADHD.com/discordSupport the Show on PatreonDig into the podcast Shownotes Database (00:00) - Welcome to The ADHD Podcast (01:00) - Support the Show on Discord, Socials and Patreon! (01:58) - Introducing Jonathan Hassall (02:54) - ADHD & Relationships ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

In this raw and personal episode, I open up about my journey with alcohol dependency—how I struggled with moderation, what finally pushed me toward sobriety, and the surprising ways it transformed my ADHD experience. If you've ever wondered about the connection between ADHD and alcohol use, this is a conversation you won't want to miss.I also dive deep into Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)—what it is, how it shows up in kids (and adults!), and why traditional parenting strategies often backfire. I share what I've learned from my own experiences and offer a fresh perspective on supporting kids with PDA by understanding their nervous system and need for autonomy.Plus, we're tackling some big, often-ignored topics: