Counselor Chat Podcast

In this episode of Counselor Chat, we're exploring one of the most important (and exciting!) aspects of school counseling: promoting self-discovery. Forget the "find yourself in a forest" narrative — we're talking about real, practical strategies to help students uncover who they are, what they're great at, and how to channel that into meaningful goals.What You'll Learn:Fun and effective ways to help students spot their strengthsActivities to ignite passions and tap into hidden interestsHow to turn discovery into direction with goal setting that sticksWhy embracing the "messy middle" of self-exploration matters more than you thinkQuick wins like strengths scavenger hunts, compliment tag, perfect day activities, and counselor mini coaching sessionsFavorite Moment: "Your job isn't to hand students a roadmap — it's to give them the tools to explore, reflect, and dream big."Resources Mentioned:Values Auction5th Grade Career LessonGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this heartfelt episode of Counselor Chat, we're diving into something every school counselor faces: when a student you once saw regularly suddenly fades from view. Whether it's due to schedules, emotions, or avoidance, reconnection is possible—and often starts with something small.

In this episode, we're cracking open the (possibly chaotic) game closet to help you survive and thrive this spring with low-prep, high-impact games.

It's that time of year again. The sun is trying to shine, test season is in full swing, and your to-do list just grew its own to-do list. Before the end-of-year whirlwind sweeps you away, it's time for some spring cleaning—but not just for your desk.In this episode, we're talking about:

Feeling like May and June are just a chaotic blur of testing, field trips, and students who've forgotten how to sit in chairs? Same. But believe it or not, it's actually the perfect time to run small groups—and in this episode, I'm sharing exactly why.✨ In this episode, you'll learn:Why spring is secretly the best time for small groups3 small group themes that make a big impact fastQuick ideas for activities that keep students engaged (and sane!)How to keep your groups manageable, meaningful, and even funScheduling tips and tricks that actually workHow to make the most of the time you've got (spoiler: short-term groups = big wins!)Plus, I'll share why Ritz crackers might just be your group's MVP.

In this episode of Counselor Chat, we're doing a mid-year check-in to reflect, reassess, and reframe our approach so we can make the rest of the school year impactful and fulfilling.What We Cover:Reflecting on Goals: What were your original goals, and how are they holding up?Celebrating Your Wins: Why it's essential to recognize small victories and how to celebrate them.Addressing What's Not Working: Practical tips to clean up your calendar, data tracking, and counseling load without the guilt.Creating an Actionable Game Plan: How to make small, meaningful changes that actually stick.Mindset Shift: Understanding that adjusting your goals isn't failure—it's feedback.Remember Counseling Friends:“I am making a difference even when I don't see it. My work matters and I am enough.”Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

March is Self-Harm Awareness Month, and as school counselors, we need to be prepared. In this episode, we cover how to recognize the warning signs, approach students with care, and provide them with real, effective coping strategies.This is a heavy topic—but you are not alone. By the end of this episode, you'll have practical steps to confidently support students who self-harm, without feeling overwhelmed.What You'll Learn:✔️ The real reason students self-harm (it's not for attention)✔️ How to identify warning signs—even when students try to hide it✔️ The best way to start the conversation without making them shut down✔️ Healthy alternatives to self-harm (spoiler: red markers & ice cubes work wonders)✔️ Why involving parents can be tricky—and how to do it right✔️ How to create a safety plan that actually helps✔️ Self-care for you—because this is heavy workGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

Want to make your lessons fun and engaging without feeling like a stand-up comedian? The energy you bring into your classroom can make or break student engagement. In this episode, we dive into simple ways to bring enthusiasm, structure, and interaction to your lessons—without adding extra work to your plate.What You'll Learn:✔️ Why your energy sets the tone for engagement✔️ The easiest way to instantly shift a classroom's atmosphere✔️ How movement, tone, and facial expressions keep students engaged✔️ Simple, no-prep activities to make learning interactive✔️ Managing your own energy so you don't feel drainedResources Mentioned:Kindergarten Career Lessons Community Helpers and ToolsGrade 1 Career Lesson Community Helpers and Their SkillsGrade 2 Career Lesson Careers and Training NeededGrade 3 Career Lessons Multiple IntelligencesGrade 4 Career Lessons Careers and WorkspacesGrade 5 Career Lessons Career Interest Inventory and ResearchGrade 6 Career Lessons Career ResearchThe next time you walk into a lesson, be intentional about your energy. Walk in with a smile, bring a little enthusiasm, and make it interactive. The difference? It's huge!Until next time, keep bringing the good vibes—you're making a difference!

Crisis situations in schools are unpredictable—but your response doesn't have to be. In this episode of Counselor Chat, we're diving into Crisis Management 101: what to do before, during, and after a crisis to ensure the best possible support for your students, staff, and yourself.From grief and loss to natural disasters and mental health emergencies, we'll cover the key steps to handling crises with confidence.

What if making your counseling program more effective didn't require a total overhaul? In this episode of Counselor Chat, we're talking about small, strategic changes that can create major improvements—without adding more to your plate.From simple check-in boards to five-minute classroom visits, these easy tweaks will help you better connect with students, streamline your work, and make a lasting impact.

Self-care has been marketed to us as bubble baths, spa days, and green juices—but let's be real, school counselors don't always have that kind of time. In this episode, we're breaking down what self-care really looks like when you're juggling a full caseload, endless emails, and back-to-back student crises.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The truth about self-care that no one talks aboutWhy saying no is just as important as saying yesHow to build micro moments of care into your daily routineThe underestimated power of a snack drawer and hydrationHow to set emotional boundaries to protect your energyA simple daily practice to find joy in the ordinaryLet's embrace real self-care—because you can't pour from an empty cup.

Happy National School Counseling Week! While we've already talked about ways to celebrate (check out Episode 94 if you missed it), today we're taking it one step further—by creating a vision board for your school counseling program.A vision board isn't just a fun craft project; it's a powerful tool for goal setting, advocacy, and intentionality in your counseling program. Whether you're focusing on student engagement, SEL initiatives, or data-driven success, having a visual roadmap can help keep you motivated and on track throughout the year.

Welcome back to Counselor Chat! In this episode, we're diving into the often-overlooked but incredibly powerful tool of small talk. Whether you're working with a shy first-grader or a skeptical high schooler, small talk is more than just casual chitchat—it's a bridge to building trust, setting the tone, and paving the way for meaningful conversations.Here's what we'll cover:Episode Highlights:

National School Counseling Week is just around the corner, and this episode of Counselor Chat is all about helping you make it memorable! Whether you're a first-timer or a seasoned pro, I'm sharing creative ideas, advocacy tips, and time-saving strategies to celebrate your work, engage your school community, and amplify your impact.From fun activities like counselor coffee chats and student shout-out walls to leveraging social media with themed posts and hashtags, there's something for every school counselor looking to shine. What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why National School Counseling Week is vital for advocacy and education.Creative celebration ideas like scavenger hunts, mindfulness moments, and career day collaborations.Simple ways to engage your school community and spread awareness.Social media strategies to maximize your reach and visibility.Tips for incorporating pre-made resources to save time and reduce stress.Resources Mentioned in This Episode:ASCA NSCW MaterialsGet the free posters I talked about here.NSCW Activities For KidsGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

New Year, new resolutions to get organized! In this episode of Counselor Chat, I'm tackling one of the biggest challenges we face as school counselors — time management. Between unexpected crises, back-to-back meetings, and never-ending to-do lists, it's easy to feel like there aren't enough hours in the day. But guess what? Time management isn't about squeezing more into your schedule — it's about focusing on what truly matters.I'll share practical tips to help you:✅ Prioritize your most important tasks✅ Batch your work to save time✅ Set boundaries to protect your schedule✅ Use tools and strategies to make your life easierI'm also giving a heartfelt shoutout to my co-counselor Ashley, who recently transitioned to a new role. While I'm holding down the fort solo for now, these time-saving strategies are helping me stay sane — and they can help you too!What You'll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why time management feels so hard for school counselors✔️ The truth about multitasking (spoiler: it's not helping!)✔️ How to use the Eisenhower Matrix to prioritize your tasks✔️ Tips for batching, setting boundaries, and building lasting habits✔️ Tools and strategies to simplify your workflowResources MentionedAtomic HabitsGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook Group

Are you constantly saying "yes" to everything and feeling overwhelmed? In this episode of Counselor Chat, we're tackling a topic that hits home for many school counselors: overcommitment. As natural helpers, we often feel the urge to take on more, but saying yes to everything can quickly lead to burnout.What You'll Learn in This Episode:

Today, we're diving deep into the power of mentorship in school counseling. Whether you're a seasoned professional ready to share your expertise or a newbie looking for guidance, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you thrive.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The Emotional Phases of Counseling: From the excitement of starting out to the rejuvenation and reflection phases, learn how mentorship can help navigate the ups and downs of this career.7 Steps to Mentorship Success: Practical tips to foster trust, provide resources, celebrate milestones, and empower growth for both mentors and mentees.Pro Tips from Seasoned Mentors: Hear valuable advice from experienced counselors who've supported new professionals in the field.Using ASCA Standards: Discover how these guidelines can elevate mentorship and strengthen school counseling programs.Key Takeaways:Mentorship isn't just about giving advice—it's about listening, validating, and helping others find their way.Supporting new counselors can make a profound difference, both in their confidence and in the impact they make on students.Experienced counselors: Take the leap to guide someone new.New counselors: Don't be afraid to ask for help—you're not alone in this journey!Mentorship is more than guidance—it's about shaping future leaders and ensuring the longevity of our profession. Whether you're a mentor or a mentee, your role matters. Together, we can make a difference!www.summercounselorconference.comASCA School Counselor CompetenciesGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

Welcome to a special holiday episode of Counselor Chat Podcast! As we head into the festive season, it's important to remember that the holidays aren't joyful for everyone.In this episode, we're exploring how to foster gratitude, recognize the value of every gift, and support our students and colleagues during this emotionally charged time of year.What You'll Learn in This Episode:A Meaningful Activity to Share: Discover an engaging group exercise using everyday items to teach the power of perspective and gratitude.The Power of the Giver's Eyes: Hear a personal story from me that sheds light on why the intention behind a gift matters more than the gift itself.Holiday Stress Awareness: Understand how the holidays can affect students and staff differently and how to provide support during this time.Practical Takeaways: Ideas for implementing gratitude-focused activities in your school or team meetings.Key Takeaways:Value is in the eye of the giver—take a moment to appreciate the intention behind every gesture, big or small.The holiday season is a time to foster connection, gratitude, and reflection, even in the midst of stress.Small, thoughtful activities can spark meaningful discussions and help your team or students approach the season with empathy and perspective.Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode of Counselor Chat, I'm joined by Dr. Cayce Batts, Social Work Educator and former K-12 School Social Worker in Kentucky, to explore the power of collaboration between school counselors and social workers. If you've ever wondered how these roles can work together seamlessly to better serve students, this conversation is for you!Cayce and I dive into the unique strengths and focus areas of each profession, the importance of setting boundaries while remaining flexible, and how building strong partnerships can lead to a bigger impact. Whether you're a school counselor or social worker—or just curious about how to strengthen teamwork in your school—you'll walk away with actionable tips to enhance collaboration and improve outcomes for students.What You'll Learn in This Episode:How school counselors and social workers complement each other's roles.The differences between the clinical lens of a social worker and the academic focus of a school counselor.Ways to identify your strengths and share responsibilities effectively.Why communication and regular meetings are key to successful teamwork.Tips for fostering partnerships, setting boundaries, and celebrating wins.Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode of the Counselor Chat Podcast, I sit down with Sarah Altman, a seasoned elementary school counselor with 20 years of experience at Sycamore Elementary in Indiana. Sarah gives us an inspiring and detailed look at what it's like to manage the daily ups and downs of school counseling while building meaningful relationships with students, staff, and families.From her creative lesson plans to balancing unexpected challenges, Sarah shares practical strategies, tips, and wisdom that every school counselor—no matter their experience level—can learn from.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Behind the Scenes of Elementary School CounselingSarah takes us through a "typical" day in her role, showing how she balances proactive planning with the unexpected.Creative Lesson Ideas for K-4 StudentsSarah's go-to lessons include fun, hands-on activities with “little spot” books, growth mindset escape rooms, and even using a colander to teach social filters!The Value of LongevityLearn how staying at the same school for 20 years has helped Sarah connect deeply with her school community.Proactive Programs That WorkDiscover Sarah's unique peer mentoring program and how she integrates social and academic skills into everyday interactions.Career Readiness for Elementary StudentsSarah's innovative approach to career development includes resume writing, mock interviews, and job exploration tailored for fourth graders.Balancing Duties and GraceFrom morning drop-off to lunch duty, Sarah explains how counselors can use these moments to connect with students and identify areas of need.Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

Welcome back to another episode of Counselor Chat! Today, I'm thrilled to share a conversation with the one and only Julia Cook. Julia is a former counselor and celebrated author whose books like My Mouth Is a Volcano and Tattle Tongue are staples on school counseling shelves across the nation. In this episode, Julia shares her journey from writing her first book to creating a collection that's been translated into nine languages and used in schools worldwide.We explore:Julia's creative process and her shift from SEL to teaching "Great People Skills (GPS)."How her books evolve with student needs, ensuring inclusivity and relevance.Practical, hands-on strategies for engaging students and teaching essential life skills.The launch of Julia's new platform, Cookie Bites, offering videos, activities, and resources for counselors and educators.Julia's new book, I Am Vape, addressing vaping prevention for younger students.This episode is packed with actionable tips, inspiration, and a giveaway you won't want to miss!What You'll Learn in This Episode:The Evolution of Julia's Books: How feedback from counselors helps her refine her stories to fit the needs of today's students.Concrete Teaching Strategies: Learn how visuals and metaphors, like root beer floats and racetracks, help kids grasp challenging concepts like test anxiety and self-regulation.The Power of Adaptation: Why it's essential for educators and resources to grow alongside the ever-changing needs of students.Practical Tools with Cookie Bites: Discover a treasure trove of resources, from grab-and-go activities to videos, designed to make your counseling life easier.Giveaway Details:Want to win a signed copy of Julia's new book I Am Vape? Here's how:Forward this episode to five colleagues and CC Carol (carol@counselingessentials.org).The first five listeners to send their emails will win!Resources Mentioned in the Episode:Cookie Bites by Julia Cook: Cookie Bites WebsiteCounseling Essentials Resources: Counseling EssentialsJulia's New Book, I Am Vape: Learn more about vaping prevention for young students.School Visits and Workshops with Julia Cook: Email Julia at julia@juliacookonline.com.Stay Connected:Follow Carol on Instagram and Facebook: @CounselingEssentialsVisit the Counselor Chat podcast page: Counseling Essentials PodcastFinal Thoughts:Julia reminds us of the importance of laughter, adaptability, and connection in school counseling. Whether it's a poopy day or a cookie day, stay focused on the impact you make in students' lives. You're doing amazing work, counselor rock stars!Be sure to subscribe and leave a review if you enjoyed this episode. Until next time, keep spreading joy and making a difference!Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks...

In this episode of Counselor Chat, I'm thrilled to be joined by two inspiring elementary school counselors, Allie and Elizabeth from North Carolina. These two bring such incredible passion to their work, and today they're giving us an inside look into the joys, challenges, and creative solutions they use to support their students.We dive into what a “typical” day (if there even is one!) looks like for them, and they share everything from classroom lessons on empathy to creative attendance initiatives that keep students excited about coming to school. Their teamwork, problem-solving, and dedication to creating a welcoming environment are truly inspiring.Here's what you'll hear about in this episode:Life as a School Counselor: Allie and Elizabeth discuss the highs, the lows, and the endless surprises in their day-to-day.Favorite Lessons & Activities: Discover their go-to activities like the toothpaste empathy lesson and teamwork-building with balloon activities.Small Group Success: Hear about the impact of small groups in building friendship skills, social competencies, and academic support.Creative Attendance Initiatives: Allie and Elizabeth reveal their unique approach to tackling chronic absenteeism with glow parties and personalized attendance goals.The Importance of Teamwork: Learn how having a supportive team makes all the difference and how they balance workloads to avoid burnout.Advice for New Counselors: Allie and Elizabeth share valuable insights on asking questions, taking risks, and working closely with admin to create lasting change.If you're looking for fresh ideas or just need a little inspiration to keep going, this episode is for you. Plus, it's a reminder of why we all got into this field: to make a positive difference, one student at a time.After you listen, I'd love to hear your thoughts or stories of impact! Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this heartfelt episode of Counselor Chat, I'm diving deep into one of the core challenges many school counselors face: feeling like the effort you're putting in doesn't always lead to visible results. Inspired by a powerful anonymous post from a fellow counselor, Through real-life stories and insights, I share how just being present for a student, offering a kind word, or modeling integrity can have a lasting impact. This episode is all about recognizing and valuing the subtle yet profound influence you have every day in the lives of your students and colleagues.Episode Highlights:Feeling Overwhelmed or Unnoticed?How to address those moments when it feels like your work isn't making a difference.Introducing "The Power of One"Why focusing on small, meaningful actions can be transformative in a school setting.Real-Life Stories of Lasting ImpactThe Ripple Effect of KindnessHow even a single positive interaction can spark a chain of compassion and connection within the school community.Mindset Shift for Long-Term ImpactSimple shifts to help you remember that you're making a difference, even if you don't see it right away.Mentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this special Halloween-themed episode of Counselor Chat, we're diving into how we can use our leftover Halloween candy in our school counseling program!In This Episode, You'll Learn:Candy Introductions – Use M&Ms or Skittles as a fun icebreaker. Each color represents a different question for students to answer, encouraging them to share something about themselves.Candy Tower Challenge – Build towers with mini marshmallows and toothpicks. Great for discussing teamwork, growth mindset, and creative problem-solving skills.Candy Bar Connection – Match students with candy bars like Snickers and Twix that represent different personality traits, helping them explore their strengths and similarities with others.Guess the Candy Flavor – Blindfolded students rely on their team to describe candy flavors without saying the names, building trust and honing communication skills.Candy Trivia Relay – Set up a trivia relay for some friendly competition! Students race to answer questions on topics you're covering and win candy prizes for correct answers.Yes or No Candy Game – Encourage kids to converse and win candy by getting their partners to say “yes” in conversation, improving social skills and interaction.Candy Sort Challenge – A sorting game with candy corn and M&Ms using only straws. This activity promotes teamwork, planning, and focus.Why You'll Love This Episode:Get ready for actionable, easy-to-implement ideas that make good use of Halloween leftovers and add a playful touch to your counseling sessions. Whether it's using candy to spark introductions, teamwork, or just a bit of fun competition, these activities are sure to keep students engaged and learning.Have your own ideas of how to use your extra Halloween candies that you want to share? I'd love to hear them!Join our groups:High School Counselor ConnectionCaught In The Middle School CounselorsElementary School Counselor ExchangeMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode of Counselor Chat, we're diving into an economic concept that might not seem like it applies to school counseling—but trust me, it does! We're talking about the Law of Diminishing Returns and how it affects your time, energy, and impact as a school counselor.Ever feel like the more you give, the less you're able to accomplish? That's because constantly responding to crises can lead to burnout and prevent you from making the systemic changes that truly benefit all students. In this episode, I'll walk you through how to recognize when you're stuck in the “crisis trap” and offer actionable steps to break free.Key Takeaways:The Law of Diminishing Returns: What it is and why it matters in school counseling.The Crisis Trap: How focusing solely on crises can prevent long-term growth in your counseling program.Prioritizing Prevention: Why classroom lessons, small groups, and empowering teachers can help reduce the number of crises you face.Using Data to Advocate for Change: How to track your time and outcomes to show administrators why shifting focus to prevention can benefit the entire school.Collaborating with Teachers: Tips on building stronger relationships with teachers so they can handle smaller crises before they escalate to your office.Let's Keep the Conversation Going! Do you feel stuck in crisis mode? Have a strategy that's worked for you? I'd love to hear about it! Send me a message, and let's chat about how you can focus on what really matters—making a lasting impact on all your students.Resources Mentioned:Time TrackerGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this special Halloween-themed episode of Counselor Chat, we're diving into the “school counselor scaries”—those fears and worries that often haunt us in our role as school counselors. From serious concerns like student safety and mental health to the lighter worries like navigating school politics or surviving Monday mornings, we're covering it all!Key Takeaways:Active Shooter Drills: A fear mentioned by many counselors, but remember, preparation is key to managing the anxiety and ensuring student safety.Student Mental Health Concerns: Missing a red flag from a student can weigh heavily, but you're trained, supported, and part of a team. Trust your instincts!Imposter Syndrome: That creeping feeling of self-doubt affects us all, but the truth is, if you care enough to worry, you're doing better than you think.Graduation Anxiety: Whether it's missed credits or the fear of a student not graduating, systems and accountability can help ease this fear. Remember, it's a team effort.Toxic Work Environments & Unsupportive Admins: These are real-life workplace spooks, but setting boundaries and finding your “marigolds” (supportive colleagues) can help keep the fear at bay.School Politics & Monday Mornings: Navigating these feels like a haunted house, but with humor and a strong support system, you can survive the twists and turns.Have your own “school counselor scaries” you want to share? I'd love to hear them!Links Mentioned:High School Counselor ConnectionCaught In The Middle School CounselorsElementary School Counselor ExchangeGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode, we're tackling one of the most challenging aspects of being a school counselor: navigating difficult conversations with parents. From discussing mental health concerns to addressing student safety, these conversations can be emotional, unpredictable, and downright tough. But with the right approach, you can turn even the most uncomfortable moments into opportunities for meaningful connection and positive change.In this episode, you'll learn:How to create a safe and supportive environment for these sensitive discussions.The power of empathy and active listening when talking with parents and students.Why asking open-ended questions can encourage deeper, more honest communication.Age-appropriate language to use when addressing mental health topics with students.The “sandwich approach” to frame difficult conversations with positive feedback.What to do when parents react defensively or refuse to take action.How to protect your own well-being and manage emotional boundaries after tough days.Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

Welcome to another episode of Counselor Chat! Today, we're diving into a topic that's crucial for every school: fostering an anti-bullying culture. While October is National Bullying Prevention Month, building a supportive, bully-free environment is something we should be doing year-round. In this episode, we explore practical strategies and activities to help you create a culture of kindness and respect at your school.Key Takeaways:Proactive and Holistic Approach: Learn why building an anti-bullying culture requires a school-wide commitment from administrators, teachers, parents, and students.Clear Policies and Procedures: We discuss how transparent and consistent policies help manage and resolve bullying incidents effectively.School-Wide Activities for Awareness: Discover impactful activities like kindness walks, Unity Day, and anti-bullying pledges that promote a supportive environment.Classroom Integration: Tips on integrating anti-bullying messages into your SEL curriculum through role-play scenarios, class meetings, and literature connections.Tier Two Interventions: Explore ideas for small group interventions, like “secret kindness agents” and friendship groups, to support students needing extra help with social skills.Community Partnerships: Learn how to engage parents and the local community in your anti-bullying efforts for additional support and awareness.Links Mentioned: Where Oliver Fits BookWhere Oliver Fits LessonThe Potato Chip Champ BookThe Potato Chip Champ LessonThe Juice Box Bully BookThe Juice Box Bully LessonMix it Up Day ActivityK-2 Recognizing Bullying Lesson3-6 Recognizing Bullying Lesson5-8 CyberBullying LessonTop Secret Kindness Group

In today's episode, I'm diving into something that I know so many of us struggle with—how to fit everything into our school counseling program. With all the different awareness months, SEL lessons, and building needs, it can feel like we're being pulled in a million different directions. And let's be honest, sometimes it just feels like too much.Key Takeaways:It's okay to not cover everything: You don't need to feel pressured to address every awareness month. Focus on what's most relevant to your school community.Prioritize what matters most: Identify your building's needs and let that guide your focus—whether it's SEL lessons, attendance goals, or conflict resolution.Get creative with incorporating awareness topics: Bulletin boards, morning announcements, and collaborating with other staff can help weave these themes into your program without overwhelming you.Collaborate with others: You don't have to do it all alone! Engage your principal, teachers, and other staff to help carry out school-wide initiatives.Set realistic goals: Use your calendar to map out non-negotiables and figure out where you have space to introduce additional topics or activities.I'd love to hear how you're prioritizing your program! If you have questions or want to share your strategies, feel free to reach out. Don't forget—you're making a difference, one student at a time.Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode, I'm diving into one of the most important topics we face as school counselors—suicide prevention. As someone who has experienced the heartbreaking reality of losing students to suicide, this topic is very personal for me. But it's also a call to action for all of us.Here's what you can expect from today's episode:I share my own experiences as a school counselor and how suicide has impacted the schools I've worked in.We'll talk about how September is Suicide Prevention Month and why it's the perfect time to raise awareness with your students.I walk you through simple, effective strategies like classroom presentations, partnering with teachers, and creating safe spaces for students to talk about mental health.You'll hear about real ways to make a difference with events like mental health fairs, anonymous drop boxes, and even role-playing scenarios to teach kids how to support their peers.Plus, I'm sharing a freebie! Download your 988 posters to hang up in your schools to help promote the suicide prevention hotline in a student-friendly way.Grades 6-7 Suicide Prevention LessonGrades 8+ Suicide Prevention LessonFree 988 School PostersGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode of Counselor Chat, we're diving into a fun and insightful activity that can be a game-changer for your next faculty meeting or even for use with students—The Leadership Compass. This activity helps individuals identify their leadership style based on four compass directions: North, South, East, and West. Whether you're a “take charge” North, a “big picture” East, a “detail-oriented” West, or a “relationship-building” South, this exercise fosters a deeper understanding of how each style contributes to effective teamwork.You'll learn how to use this tool to boost collaboration, appreciate the diversity of leadership approaches, and build stronger connections with your colleagues. Key Takeaways:The Fable of the Blind Men and the Elephant: A powerful story to illustrate the importance of understanding different perspectives.Leadership Compass Breakdown:North: Action-oriented, loves to get things done.East: Big picture thinkers who work with the end in mind.West: Detail-focused and question everything to ensure clarity.South: Relationship-focused and ensure everyone's voice is heard.How to Use the Leadership Compass: Tips for facilitating the activity with faculty and students, including creating a visual compass in your room.The Power of Diverse Leadership Styles: Why you need all four directions on your team for true collaboration and success.Links Mentioned:The Leadership Compass ActivityGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode, I'm sharing my top ten strategies for school counselors to start the school year successfully. Whether you're returning to a familiar school or stepping into a new one, these tips will help you build strong relationships, organize your counseling program, and set up a solid foundation for the year.Episode Highlights:Build Relationships: Start the year by connecting with both returning and new staff and students. Building strong relationships is the key to effective counseling and creating a supportive school environment.Review and Update Your Counseling Program: Take time to review your counseling program to ensure it meets current student needs and aligns with school goals. This includes setting measurable goals, such as improving attendance.Set Up Your Office: Make your office a welcoming and organized space where students feel comfortable. Clear out old materials, refresh your resources, and create an environment that's inviting but not overwhelming.Create an Organized Counseling Schedule: Develop a flexible yet structured schedule for your counseling sessions, including classroom lessons, small groups, and individual sessions. Remember to leave some white space for unexpected issues that may arise.Communicate Your Role: It's crucial to educate staff, students, and parents about your role as a school counselor. Use brochures and open house events to explain what services you offer and how to access them.Plan Your SEL Curriculum: Outline your SEL topics for each month, aligning them with school-wide events and goals, like bullying prevention week, to provide consistent and relevant support to students.Participate in Professional Development: Stay on top of the latest counseling techniques and practices by engaging in ongoing professional development. This helps you keep up with the evolving needs of your students.Links Mentioned:Counseling Brochures BundleGet a Year of Perks for 25% off! Mentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

As school counselors, we often rely on data to prove our effectiveness.But here's the reality: not everything we do can be measured. Some of the most impactful moments we create with students are those that can't be quantified, yet they leave a lasting impression.In this episode, we dive into:The Importance of Counselor Habits: Discover why the small, daily actions we take can have a big impact on our students and our school community.Creating Lollipop Moments: Learn about the profound, unmeasurable effects we have through simple acts of kindness and being present for our students.And more...If you haven't tuned in to the earlier episodes in our back-to-school series, I highly encourage you to start from the beginning. Each episode builds on the last, offering insights and tips that are especially valuable as we prepare for a new school year.Let's band together to make this school year one filled with meaningful connections and unforgettable moments.Thank you for being a part of this journey with me. I can't wait to hear your thoughts on this episode!Links Mentioned:Lolipop Moments YouTube VideoGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode of Counselor Chat, we explore leadership through the lens of the "Leadership from a Dancing Guy" video. This simple yet powerful video can be a tool for school counselors to ignite movements within their school communities. By embracing the role of a leader, even when it feels like dancing alone, school counselors can inspire students, teachers, and parents to create a positive, inclusive environment.Key Takeaways:Leadership from a Lone Nut: The "Leadership from a Dancing Guy" video illustrates how one person's actions can inspire a movement.Creating Momentum: As school counselors, it's essential to be that first dancer, leading by example and encouraging others to join in.Inspiring Positive Change: Your consistent and courageous actions as a counselor can have a lasting impact on your school community.Call to Action:Reflect on new ideas or initiatives you want to introduce this school year.Think about how you can be the first dancer in your school community, inspiring others to take part in creating positive change.Links Mentioned:Leadership From A Dancing Guy YouTube VideoBlog Post: Are You A Lone Nut? A Lesson To Develop LeadershipMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this second episode of our Back to School series, I'm diving into a topic that's incredibly important for us as school counselors—how to make sure the vital work we do doesn't go unnoticed. Too often, despite the significant impact we have, our efforts can go unseen by those around us. In this episode, I emphasize the importance of:Advocating for Our Role: Ensuring that the value of our work is communicated so it doesn't get overlooked.Sharing Successes: Highlighting the progress of our students with colleagues and administrators to build awareness and appreciation for the counseling role.Collaboration is Key: Being seen as integral members of the school team by actively participating in and contributing to the broader educational environment.Impactful Interventions: Recognizing the power of empathy and understanding in counseling.Building a Supportive Environment: Advocating for ourselves to help create a school culture where our contributions are respected and supported.Join me as we explore how to ensure our work is visible, valued, and celebrated as we head into what I hope will be our best school year yet!Mentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

Episode Summary:This episode kicks off a special series dedicated to sharing valuable lessons and advice to help school counselors have their best year ever. Drawing inspiration from James Clear's book Atomic Habits, Carol discusses the profound impact of habits on personal identity and professional effectiveness. She shares practical strategies for habit formation, such as habit stacking and the two-minute rule, and emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in developing habits that support wellness and work-life balance.Key Points:Introduction to the Atomic Habits book by James Clear.The concept of habits reflecting identity.Practical examples of habit formation in personal and professional life.Strategies like habit stacking and the two-minute rule.Importance of self-awareness in habit development.Actionable Tips:Identify and reflect on your current habits.Use habit stacking to create new routines.Implement the two-minute rule to gradually build new habits.Foster habits that support your wellness and work-life balance.Resources Mentioned:Atomic Habits by James ClearGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

Key Points Covered:The Role of Data in School Counseling:Data as a tool for informed decision-making.The significance of proactive interventions in student support.Types of Data School Counselors Can Collect:Academic performance data (grades, test scores, attendance).Behavioral data (disciplinary incidents, attendance patterns, social-emotional skills).Surveys and assessments (career interests, mental health, school climate).Using Data to Create Responsive Programs: Importance of analyzing data to identify trends and underlying issues.Communicating Data Findings to StakeholdersStrategies for sharing data effectively: Data dashboards.Presentations.Written reports.Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks MembershipPerks Membership

Today's episode we talk about 10 creative ways to use a plain piece of paper as a powerful school counseling toolCreative Paper Activities:1. Mind Mapping: - Visual representation of thoughts and feelings - Great for brainstorming and organizing ideas2. Goal Setting: - Fold paper into sections for short-term and long-term goals - Create a roadmap to visualize progress3. Art Therapy: - Encourage self-expression and emotional articulation - Activities like "I am" statements with watercolors4. Scribble Drawing: - Eyes-closed scribbling turned into a masterpiece - Promotes creativity and finding beauty in the unexpected5. What If Scenarios: - List and analyze "what if" thoughts - Differentiate realistic concerns from exaggerated fears6. Journaling Prompts: - Use prompts or quotes for reflection and emotional processing - Option to draw responses7. Collage Creation: - Reflect interests, values, and aspirations with cut-out images - Enhances self-awareness and pride8. Origami: - Therapeutic activity promoting mindfulness and relaxation - Simple projects like paper boats and cootie catchers9. Letter Writing: - Write letters to themselves to express thoughts and hopes - Revisit letters to track personal growth10. Timelines: - Chart significant life events or future goals - Explore identity and experiencesSubscribe and stay tuned for more episodes of Counselor ChatFeel free to reach out with any questions or feedback. Happy counseling!Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

Join me today as we talk all about how to use mind mapping as a school counselor to enhance your school counseling program.Mind Mapping is a visual technique to organize thoughts, information, and ideas. The benefits of using mind mapping is that it enhances creativity, helps with critical thinking, and eases problem-solving skills.Steps to Create a Mind Map:1. Start with a blank paper or whiteboard2. Place the central thought in the middle3. Branch out with related ideas and subtopics4. Avoid judging ideas initially, just brainstorm freely5. Link and structure thoughts to create a cohesive mapBenefits for School Counseling:Program Development: Outline goals, strategies, and evaluation methodsExample: Planning a career fair using mind mapping to brainstorm contacts, logistics, and activitiesStudent Support: Identify needs and design targeted interventionsCategorize support services: academic assistance, mental health resources, career guidanceEffective Mind Mapping Tips:Begin with a clear central theme or objectiveUse keywords or images for ideasKeep it simple and conciseEmbrace creativity and unconventional connectionsKeep and revisit the mind map for ongoing revisionsContact Information:Subscribe and stay tuned for more episodes of Counselor ChatEmail me at Carol@CounselingEssentials.orgFeel free to reach out with any questions or feedback. Happy mind mapping!Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

Tips for Attending the ASCA Conference & Exciting Updates!Join Brandy Thompson as she takes over the Counselor Chat podcast for this episode! Brandy shares valuable tips for making the most of your ASCA conference experience. Get ready for essential packing advice, networking strategies, and must-see sessions. **Key Points:**ASCA Conference Tips: - Wear comfortable shoes and pack light. - Bring a sweater for cold conference rooms. - Download the conference app for updates and schedules. - Don't miss the exhibit hall for networking and discovering new resources. - Participate in social events and mixers to meet fellow counselors. - Utilize social media and follow the hashtag #ASCA24 for real-time updates.Exploring Kansas City: - Visit the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art, National WWI Museum, Kansas City Zoo, and more. - Enjoy local BBQ at Joe's Kansas City Bar-B-Que or Arthur Bryant's.Booth 506: Visit Carol and Brandi at the exhibit hall for the Perks Counseling Content Club. Get exclusive swag and learn about their comprehensive counseling resources.Links and Resources:- 2024 Summer Counselor Conference Registration Follow Brandy at:The Counseling Teacher The Counseling Teacher Brandy on TpTPerks Content ClubSubscribe & Review:- Follow us on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others find the show!Thanks for tuning in! Until next time, enjoy your ASCA conference and happy conferencing!---Feel free to make adjustments to fit your style and specific needs!Resources Mentioned:Summer Counselor ConferenceMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode: I am thrilled to have my friend Leslie from Informed Decisions join us. Leslie is a fantastic social worker based in Brooklyn, New York, with a wealth of experience working with diverse groups, including court-involved youth, LGBTQ+ individuals, teen mothers, special needs populations, and fellow educators. Leslie shares her invaluable insights on advisories and SEL (Social Emotional Learning) programs, providing practical advice and real-world examples to help school counselors effectively engage their students and create impactful programs.Key Highlights:Leslie's Background: Get to know Leslie and her extensive experience working with various populations and settings.Starting from Scratch: Leslie offers actionable tips for counselors who are new to advisories and SEL programs or need to start from scratch.Importance of Space and Resources: Learn how understanding your space and available resources can significantly impact the success of your programs.Using Existing Resources: Discover the value of connecting with existing programs and curriculums to avoid reinventing the wheel and save time.Collecting and Using Data: Leslie emphasizes the importance of data collection in demonstrating the impact of your programs to administration and stakeholders.Favorite Groups and Programs: Leslie shares her favorite types of groups and programs to run, and why advisory programs hold a special place in her heart.Practical Tips: From over-planning to the magic of lamination, Leslie and I share our top tips for staying organized and prepared.Special Mention: Leslie will also be one of our esteemed presenters at the 2024 Summer Counselor Conference! Don't miss the opportunity to learn from her extensive experience and practical advice.Connect with Leslie:Informed DecisionsTpTIGLinks Leslie mentioned:Youth to Youth- This is the program that models alternatives to using drugs and/or alcohol Social Emotional Learning and Advisory Survey -This resources allows students to provide their input. Which helps you form connections and see what topics they are interested in discussing. The resource includes both a handout and digital survey10 simple Tips for Forming Connections in an Advisory or SEL Class - Getting student buy-in9 easy ways of getting principal buy-in for anadvisory and sel programResources Mentioned:Summer Counselor ConferenceLaminatorGrab the Show Notes:...

In this episode of Counselor Chat, I'm diving into the importance of establishing a balanced summer routine for school counselors.I should forewarn you—this episode might stir some debate about summer routines for school counselors, but it's important to talk about.Key Takeaways:Rest and Relaxation:Importance of taking time to rest and rejuvenateEnjoying quality moments with family and friendsReflect and Plan:Reflecting on the past school yearSetting goals for the upcoming school yearProfessional Development:Engaging in workshops and online coursesHighlights of the Summer Counselor ConferenceOrganization:Tips for decluttering and organizing personal and professional spacesConnect and Collaborate:Building and maintaining a professional networkSelf-Care:Focusing on overall wellness, including physical and mental healthResources Mentioned:Summer Counselor ConferenceGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode of Counselor Chat, I sit down with Jenice Lee. a youth development consultant and the voice behind the podcast School After Hours. Jenice shares her extensive experience and insights on the importance of after-school programs, their benefits, and how school counselors can effectively collaborate with these programs to create a cohesive and supportive school culture.Topics Discussed:The 2024 Summer Counselor Conference details and how to registerBenefits of after-school programs for student growth and engagementStrategies for building successful after-school programsThe role of school counselors in supporting and partnering with after-school programsTips for starting your own after-school sessions, including research and community partnershipsExamples of successful after-school programs and their impact on studentsHow to secure funding and resources for long-term program sustainabilityConnect With Jenice:Website: https://www.schoolafterhours.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/schoolafterhoursInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/schoolafterhours/Join the conference: https://carol-miller-counseling-essentials.mykajabi.com/a/2147845963/ND9oBmLWGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode of Counselor Chat, we dive into:An inspiring conversation with Jordan Tatom, a high school counselor from Tennessee, who shares his unique journey from K-8 to high school counseling.Insights into the challenges and rewards of transitioning between different educational levels.Practical advice for school counselors considering a change in their career paths.The differences in responsibilities and interactions when working with elementary, middle, and high school students.Details about the 2024 Summer Counselor ConferenceHighlights of Jordan's session at the upcoming conference, where he will dive deeper into the differences between educational levels and what to expect when transitioning.Tune in to learn more about navigating these changes and enhancing your impact on student growth and success.Links Mentioned:Meet Jordan: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselortatom/ Join the 2024 Summer Counselor Conference: https://carol-miller-counseling-essentials.mykajabi.com/a/2147845963/2aGE2efT

In this episode, we have a special guest, John Burnett, a middle school counselor from Houston, Texas. John's journey into education is nothing short of inspiring and serves as a great reminder that our paths can be as unique as the students we serve.Episode Highlights:John Burnett's Journey: Discover how John transitioned from being a bank teller to a middle school Spanish teacher and ultimately found his passion in school counseling.Real-Life Experience: John shares the humorous and unexpected start to his teaching career and how it shaped his approach to education.Counseling Transition: Learn about John's move from teaching to counseling and the experiences that influenced his decision.Middle School Focus: Insights into why John loves working with middle school students and the unique challenges and rewards of this age group.Professional Development: John discusses his session at the upcoming Summer Counselor Conference, focusing on nurturing resilience and supporting middle school mental health.Key Takeaways:Unconventional Paths: Embrace the unique and sometimes unexpected journeys that lead us to our passions.Student Engagement: Strategies for maintaining effective classroom management and lesson planning.Supporting Mental Health: The importance of understanding and addressing trauma, anxiety, and other mental health issues in students.Continuous Learning: The value of professional development and staying current with new strategies and ideas in school counseling.Connect with John:Website: https://counselingwithmrb.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselingwithmrb/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCihZmtjPKVmN88g6j45Ew0wTwitter: https://twitter.com/mrbcounseling7Join the 2024 Summer Counselor Conference: https://carol-miller-counseling-essentials.mykajabi.com/a/2147845963/GKCowpvTMentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode, I dive into the unpredictable nature of school counseling and share strategies to navigate the daily chaos effectively. I'm thrilled to be joined by my good friend Laura Filtness from Positive School Counselor, an experienced elementary school counselor from Tennessee.Episode Highlights:Introduction to Laura Filtness: Learn about Laura's background, her journey in school counseling, and her unique approach to integrating therapy dogs into her program.Navigating Unpredictability: Practical tips and strategies for managing the ever-changing and chaotic nature of a school counselor's day.Mindfulness in Counseling: Insights into how mindfulness can help school counselors stay responsive rather than reactive.School Year Chaos: Discussing the challenges of planning and executing programs amidst the unpredictability of the school year.Parent Workshops & Community Engagement: Effective ways to engage parents and the community in your school counseling program.Professional Development: The importance of attending conferences like ASCA and the Summer Counselor Conference for ongoing learning and inspiration.Key Takeaways:The importance of flexibility and adaptability in school counseling.How to implement mindfulness practices to enhance your effectiveness.Strategies to stay organized and prioritize tasks amidst a busy schedule.Engaging parents and the community to support your counseling initiatives.The value of professional development and continuous learning.Until next time, keep making a positive impact!Resources Mentioned:Meet Laura:Website: https://pawsitiveschoolcounselor.com/TpT Store: https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Store/Pawsitive-School-CounselorFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/pawsitiveschoolcounselorInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/pawsitiveschoolcounselor/Join the 2024 Summer Counselor Conference: https://carol-miller-counseling-essentials.mykajabi.com/a/2147845963/QP9uoz93Mentioned in this episode:Perks Membership

In this episode of Counselor Chat: We dive into the transformative technique of mind mapping and how it can elevate your school counseling programs. Whether you're familiar with mind mapping or it's a new concept for you, this episode will provide practical insights and tips to help you harness its full potential. Here's what we cover:Introduction to Mind MappingExplanation of mind mapping as a powerful visual techniqueHow it helps organize thoughts, ideas, and informationPersonal experiences using mind mapping with students and in program developmentBenefits of Mind MappingEnhances creativity and critical thinking skillsPromotes holistic thinking and problem-solvingEncourages brainstorming without judgmentPractical Applications in School CounselingProgram Development:Outlining program goals, strategies, and evaluation methodsCareer Fair Planning:Steps from initial brainstorming to detailed organizationExamples from our career fair planning processStudent Support Services:Identifying student needs and designing targeted interventionsCategorizing support services and available resourcesUpcoming EventDetails about the 2024 Summer Counselor ConferenceDates: July 26-28Over 40 sessions covering a variety of relevant topicsPre-recorded sessions are available until June 2025Opportunities to earn three graduate credits through the University of the PacificRegister HereI hope this episode inspires you to incorporate mind mapping into your counseling practice. The possibilities are endless, and it's a fantastic tool to help structure and enhance your programs.Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook GroupCaught In The Middle School Counselors Facebook GroupHigh School Counselor Connection Facebook GroupMentioned in this episode:Perks...

In this episode of Counselor Chat, I dive into your questions about navigating some of the common challenges we face as school counselors. Whether you're preparing for an upcoming interview or trying to optimize your time with students, I've got some tips and stories to help you through. Here's what we covered:Episode Highlights:Interview Preparation: I share essential advice on how to prepare for job interviews in the educational sector. From choosing the right outfit to preparing answers for typical interview questions, these tips are designed to help you enter your next interview with confidence.Managing Specials Rotation: Many of you have asked how to manage counseling duties when you're part of a specials rotation. I discuss strategies for fitting small group sessions into a packed schedule and ensuring you can provide meaningful support to your students.Participation in IEP Meetings: I tackle the often controversial topic of school counselors' involvement in IEP meetings, offering both legal insights and practical advice to navigate these responsibilities effectively.Engaging Games for Lunch Bunch: Discover fun and engaging games to play during lunch bunch sessions that not only entertain but also facilitate important discussions. From Uno to Apples to Apples, these games help reinforce social skills and build camaraderie among students.Counselor Planner: I also talk about the benefits of using a specialized counselor planner to stay organized and effective throughout the school year.Thank you for tuning in and being a part of our counseling community. Your feedback and participation make our conversation richer and more impactful. I look forward to tackling more of your questions in our next episode!Links Mentioned:Pick A Card Bundle Question PromptsCreate Your Own Counseling GameCoping Skills Card GamePerfect Counselor PlannerSummer Counselor ConferenceGrab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT Store

In this episode of Counselor Chat, we tackle the often-dreaded state testing season with a fresh perspective and effective strategies to support our students. We dive into practical tips and creative ideas designed to alleviate testing anxiety and foster a supportive atmosphere in our schools.Highlights of this episode:Understanding State Testing: We discuss how to frame state tests as mere snapshots in time, helping students understand that these assessments do not define their worth or capabilities.Stress Management Techniques: Learn how to implement workshops that teach students stress-relieving techniques such as mindfulness, deep breathing, and positive visualization.Creating a Comforting Environment: Ideas for motivational posters and calming activities in the classroom to boost student morale and confidence.Physical Preparations for Test Day: Tips on encouraging students to wear comfortable clothing, have a good breakfast, and other essentials to ease test day stress.Empowering Students with Confidence: Strategies like assuming a 'superhero' posture to enhance self-esteem right before the test.Fun Interventions: From rainbow exercises to motivational pencil flags, discover little touches that can make a big difference.Celebrating Effort: How to create celebratory events that recognize the efforts of both students and teachers during the testing period.Check out the humorous yet insightful video by Jerry Brooks on state testing misconceptions.

In this episode of the Counselor Chat podcast, we explore the various ways school counselors can step into leadership roles within their schools and communities. I discuss the differences between vertical and horizontal leadership and share examples of how these leadership styles can make a significant impact on student success and school culture. Whether you're a new counselor or a seasoned professional, this episode offers valuable insights into embracing leadership to better support students and advocate for our profession.Key Topics Covered:Types of Leadership: I break down vertical and horizontal leadership and explain how they apply to school counselors.Vertical leadership focuses on leading from the top down, including roles like department head or lead counselor, advocating for students, and supervising counseling programs.Horizontal leadership involves collaboration, teamwork, and community engagement to support students in a more collective manner.Examples of Vertical Leadership:Administrative roles such as department head or lead counselor.Advocacy leadership, where school counselors participate in school leadership meetings and propose policy changes that benefit students.Instructional leadership, focusing on designing and implementing guidance curriculums and conducting teacher training on social-emotional learning.Examples of Horizontal Leadership:Collaboration with teachers, school psychologists, and social workers to develop support plans for students.Community engagement, organizing parent workshops, or partnering with local organizations for volunteer programs.Peer leadership, including mentoring newer counselors and participating in Professional Learning Communities (PLCs).The Value of Leadership:Leadership roles help school counselors advocate for students and positively influence school culture.Participation in professional associations, such as state or local counselor associations, is crucial for personal and professional growth.Volunteering for committees, attending conferences, and engaging with other counselors enhances the counseling community and strengthens the profession.Get on the waitlist to be notified whenregistration for the 2024 virtual Summer Counselor Conference opens!Grab the Show Notes: Counselingessentials.org/podcastJoin Perks Counseling Club Membership and get the lessons, small group and individual counseling materials you need. Join now and get your first month free when you sign up for 3 months!Connect with Carol:TpT StoreCounseling Essentials WebsiteInstagramFacebookElementary School Counselor Exchange Facebook...