Dating After Divorce

In this heart-to-heart conversation, I sat down with Heidi Freeman, successful attorney and author of "Love Lessons: 104 Dates and the Stories That Led Me to True Love." Heidi shares how turning 40 sparked her quest to understand what true love looks like by interviewing couples in strong relationships. What began as research turned into 11 core themes about authentic connection. With refreshing honesty, Heidi opens up about her 104-date journey, complete with hilarious mishaps, surprising insights, and the beautiful moment when she finally met her husband Will.This episode cuts through the anxiety about modern dating to remind us that love requires resilience - and is worth 100 disappointing dates.Key MomentsTurning 40: Heidi realized she didn't know what true love looked like or felt like and decided to interview couples in solid partnershipsResearch: Heidi interviewed 50+ couples separately to find themesMutual reciprocity: The most impactful insight was how partners take turns supporting each other through life's wavesThe myth of love at first sight: No one Heidi interviewed mentioned this - instead they talked about initial connection and safetyD04 dates: Heidi shares both hilarious dating disasters and meaningful lessons learnedFinding Will: How she met her husband through yoga connections and recognized the difference in how she feltDating in the wild vs. apps: The benefits of meeting people through activities vs. onlineQuotes"I had to put on my big girl underwear and go back out there." - Heidi on persevering after dating disappointments"I think it's not us. This is the way we are socialized...to value relationships, which is awesome. But then we're also socialized to put our own personal value in relationships, and that's what's harmful." - Sade Curry"Mutual reciprocity and safety... even if you didn't have all the other sprinkles in a relationship, but you had these, you could make a good relationship out of that." - Sade Curry"What if the next date is him? I would constantly say that to myself when I didn't want to go." - Heidi on staying hopefulAbout Heidi:Heidi Freeman (formerly Goldstein, born Eisman) is a successful attorney and partner at a large law firm specializing in environmental law and social and environmental governance-based counseling. She's written her first book, "Love Lessons," chronicling her dating journey and the relationship insights she gained. Heidi has previously written for Bloomberg Law, 360, and other professional publications. She lives in Cleveland Heights, Ohio with her husband Will and their blended family - two children of her own and two bonus children with Will.Connect With Heidihttps://heidifriedman.comhttp://www.instagram.com/lovelessons104Podcast: "I Love You More" with her 22-year-old son Zach (available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts)Book: "Love Lessons: 104 Dates and the Stories That Led Me to True Love" (Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Goodreads)Ready to Transform Your Dating Life?If this episode resonated with you, I'd love to help you apply these insights to your own dating journey. Book a complimentary dating consultation call with me at sadecurry.com/info and discover how you can build the confidence, clarity, and connection skills to find your perfect match.

In this episode, I dive into why asking questions is both an art and a crucial skill on your dating journey after divorce. Most women I work with struggle not because they lack intelligence or communication skills, but because the drama attached to dating turns question-asking into self-sabotage.You might think asking questions is straightforward, but are you using them to protect yourself or to people-please? Both approaches block authentic connection and prevent you from gathering the information you need to make wise decisions about potential partners.Key InsightsCuriosity is your superpower: Approach dating with curiosity—not just about your date but about yourself. Your reactions hold valuable information about your patterns.The protection trap: Going into dates with a rigid checklist of questions turns dating into an interview. You miss crucial nuance and context when you're focused on checking boxes rather than truly connecting.The people-pleasing pitfall: When you avoid asking important questions because "you don't want to be nosy" or "you don't want to chase him away," you sacrifice your needs for a stranger's comfort.Reclaim your authority: Dating involves meeting a stranger, knowing them for months, and potentially committing to them for life. This requires active participation, not passive acceptance.Your dating rights: You have the right to know about people who want access to you. You deserve to have potential partners earn your trust through honesty and transparency.Practical TakeawaysStart with broader questions about lifestyle, career goals, and weekend activities before diving into deeper topicsDesign questions based on your core values rather than using generic listsPay attention to how someone responds—defensiveness, vagueness, or dismissal tells you something importantRecognize when you falter in asking important questions and get curious about what's happening within youRemember timing matters—questions should match the relationship phase you're inDating After Divorce WisdomThink about it: we've known our siblings, cousins, and best friends our whole lives. Yet romantic relationships expect us to meet someone, know them for months, and commit to them forever. That's wild! Since this is our collective social agreement, we need to approach it with intention and courage.Your Next StepIf you don't know what questions to ask, that's a sign you need clarity on your core values and relationship vision. This isn't just about having a list of questions; it's about knowing which answers matter specifically to you.Ready to transform your dating experience? Book a consultation call with me where we'll discuss how working through your core values and dating patterns can help you find clarity and confidence. Stop outsourcing your safety to a checklist and start leading your own journey to love.Schedule your Dating Consultation Call with Sade The Dating After Divorce Podcast with Sade Curry helps smart, accomplished women navigate dating with confidence after divorce. New episodes every Tuesday.

Work with Sade: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointmentContact Dr. ToyinGet the book: https://www.tfalandchi.com/authored-book10 Minutes with TFal: https://www.tfalandchi.com/10mins-with-tmfalWebsite: https://www.tfalandchi.com/Shownotes:In this episode of the Dating After Divorce podcast, Sade Curry interviews Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor, affectionately known as T-Fal, who shares her journey of writing her book 'The Decade After' and her experiences navigating life after divorce. Dr. T-Fal emphasizes the importance of self-care, support systems, and personal growth during the challenging process of divorce. The conversation explores the unique experiences of divorced women, the impact of divorce on relationships, and the significance of how we use time in the healing process. Dr. T-Fal provides insights on how to empower oneself and support children through the transition, highlighting the need for understanding and compassion in the journey of healing. In this conversation, Dr. Toyin discusses the complexities of divorce, emphasizing the importance of understanding statistics in relation to individual experiences. She highlights the critical role of parenting in mitigating the negative impacts of divorce on children and stresses the need for a supportive network during such transitions. The discussion also touches on the challenges of navigating singleness and dating post-divorce, advocating for self-awareness and personal growth throughout the process. In this engaging conversation, Dr. Toyin and Sade Curry explore the complexities of dating and relationships after divorce. They discuss the importance of being honest with oneself about intentions in dating, the journey of reconnecting with past partners, and the significance of transparency in new relationships. Dr. Toyin shares her personal experiences of navigating love and companionship after divorce, emphasizing the need for intentionality and self-discovery. The discussion culminates in reflections on the future and the possibilities that lie ahead, highlighting the importance of embracing change and growth.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor02:37 The Journey of Writing 'The Decade After'06:34 Navigating Divorce: Unique Experiences and Resources11:50 The Impact of Divorce on Relationships14:04 Time Heals: The Importance of How We Use It19:15 Healing Beyond Divorce: Childhood and Personal Growth22:58 Understanding Divorce Statistics and Individual Outcomes27:04 The Role of Parenting in Divorce32:39 Building a Support System During Divorce44:32 Navigating Singleness and Dating After Divorce45:53 Navigating Post-Divorce Relationships49:09 Intentional Dating and Reconnection52:59 The Journey to Remarriage56:34 The Importance of Honesty and Transparency01:00:14 Embracing Change and Future PossibilitiesKeywordsdivorce, healing, personal growth, co-parenting, self-care, relationships, support system, women's empowerment, emotional well-being, navigating divorce, divorce, parenting, support system, statistics, relationships, healing, self-care, single life, emotional health, co-parenting, divorce, remarriage, dating, relationships, honesty, transparency, self-discovery, intentionality, personal growth, empowerment

Masterclass - "Beyond the Spark: The 10 Elements of Chemistry & Attraction"Register for live event or replay: sadecurry.com/masterclassMarch 30, 2025 (4pm ET/3pm CT)You will learn:The science behind attraction patternsHow brain chemistry influences choicesTechniques to reduce attraction to toxic partnersDefining your needed level of attraction for sustainabilityAbout the Episode:Shift Your Attraction from Toxic Men to Safe, Healthy Men (Kim's Story)Before Kim worked with me on her business, she told her journey to love on the Dating after Divorce podcast (Episode 152)After a toxic marriage, Kim had a revelation: "No one was coming to save me. If I wanted a different life, it was all on me"At 35, living with her parents, Kim decided to date against her usual "type."When her dog died, she approached her neighbors' son—a "good boy" completely unlike her typical "bad boys"—and invited him on walks.The walks were uncomfortable because she felt unworthy next to someone without baggage or poor life choices.But they fell in love, because Kim redefined attraction.With previous relationships, she described feelings as "exciting" but chaotic.Coming from a chaotic family, she had mistaken intensity for love.Her previous relationships were "exciting" but destructive.With her current husband, attraction feels different: "It's a partnership. Very calm, not emotionally charged all the time"Biologically, women are drawn to the strongest "buck"—evolutionarily sensible for survival instead of choosing based on companionship and values.You might initially find this "boring."But Kim questioned: What's boring about peace?What's exciting about fighting over a parking space and being too angry to enjoy the concert?Her most profound insight: "Part of why I dated bad boys was because I got to feel better about myself. At least I wasn't on drugs."With her husband, she couldn't feel superior—and that's what made her uncomfortable.In the end, Kim chose calm over chaos, partnership over drama, growth over stagnation. And it changed everything.Kim's journey from toxic relationships to healthy love exemplifies the work I do with women.If her story resonates, join my masterclass: "Beyond the Spark: The 10 Elements of Chemistry & Attraction"March 30, 2025 (4pm ET/3pm CT)You will learn:The science behind attraction patternsHow brain chemistry influences choicesTechniques to reduce attraction to toxic partnersDefining your needed level of attraction for sustainabilityRegister for live event or replay: sadecurry.com/masterclass

Client Success: How Ashley Went from a "Painful Divorce" to "Healed and In Love"Work with Sade: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointmentConnect with Ashley: https://calendly.com/ashleykingcoaching/30minEpisode SummaryIn this episode, Sade and Ashley King discuss Ashley's transformative journey after divorce, focusing on healing from trauma, recognizing readiness for dating, and navigating the challenges of finding love again. They explore the importance of core values, honesty in dating, and the significance of self-discovery in building healthy relationships. Ashley shares her experiences with various dating apps, her connection with Michael, and the ongoing growth in their relationship, emphasizing the importance of communication and negotiation in love.Key TakeawaysAshley began her journey of healing before her divorce was finalized.The importance of self-care and addressing trauma during the healing process.Recognizing when one is ready to start dating again is crucial.Anticipating challenges in dating can help prepare for the journey ahead.Honesty in communication is vital for a successful dating experience.Core values play a significant role in shaping dating profiles and experiences.Dating can be an adventure filled with fun and learning.Building a connection with someone requires time and openness.Falling in love involves recognizing and embracing vulnerability.Ongoing growth and communication are essential in nurturing a relationship.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Ashley's Journey02:49 Healing from Divorce and Trauma05:41 Recognizing Readiness for Dating08:44 Anticipating Challenges in Dating11:40 Guidelines for a Healthy Dating Experience14:00 Core Values and Personal Growth17:17 The Dating Experience Begins20:09 Navigating Early Dates22:59 The Importance of Abundance Mindset25:55 Finding the Right Match29:16 The Love Story of Ashley and Michael34:06 Navigating Modern Dating Dynamics38:52 Choosing Between Connections42:46 The Importance of Relationship Negotiation47:00 Introducing Kids into Relationships48:24 Falling in Love: The Journey50:18 Conflict Resolution in Relationships53:58 Healing Through Relationships59:51 The Work Behind the Fairy Tale01:04:10 Emotional Clutter and Personal Growth

In this episode, I dive deep into a breakthrough moment from our recent Dating After Divorce Collective coaching call. Here's what we unpack:Key Insights:Why shame triggers show up in your dating journey and how societal narratives impact your dating confidenceThe real reason dating feels hard (hint: it's not because "all the good ones are taken")How fear of wasting time leads to either dismissing potential partners too quickly or staying too long with the wrong onesWhy perfectionism and the need to "get it right" keeps you stuckPersonal Growth Takeaways:Recognize that everyone is "winging it" - even those who seem to have it all figured outTransform your relationship with making mistakes in datingBuild unshakeable self-compassion as your foundation for dating successPractical Dating Tips:Release the pressure to make perfect decisionsGive yourself permission to be in the learning processOwn your dating choices without defaulting to blaming othersReady to Reinvent Your Dating Life?

Tired of dating feeling like Groundhog Day? In today's episode I share the proven framework that helps my clients break free from dating frustration and create real results. If you've hit a wall with dating apps, feel stuck in negative patterns, or wonder why nothing seems to work - this episode is for you.Episode Highlights:

Let's talk about a pattern I see in many divorced women - the reluctance to fight for the relationship they want. Through the lens of "learned helplessness," I explore why capable, strong women who fought for their first marriages often hold back in their post-divorce dating journey.Key Insights:The difference between fighting for a specific person versus fighting for your desired relationship outcomeHow past relationship trauma creates false beliefs about our dating optionsWhy validating dating struggles with friends can keep you stuckThe truth about effort: dating takes more work than we expect (just like everything worthwhile)Ask yourself: "Why am I not fighting for this relationship goal with the same determination I bring to other areas of my life?" Your answer reveals where to focus your energy.Book Reference: "Learned Optimism" by Martin Seligman - A foundational text for understanding how we can break free from learned helplessness patternsReady to break free from dating paralysis? Schedule your 1:1 consultation at sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment. Let's create your personalized strategy for finding love after divorce.

Ready to Work with Sade? Click Here to Schedule Your Consultation CallIn this deep-dive episode, I explore our complex relationship with time in dating after divorce, challenging the common belief that dating is a "waste of time." As part of my three-episode series about time, we examine how this mindset affects your dating journey and what to do about it.Key Concepts Explored:What Actually Wastes Time in Dating:- Dating without a strong "why" or due to external pressure- Pursuing someone who clearly stated they don't want what you want- Trying to convince uninterested people to date you- Fantasy relationships and passive dating- Repeating the same dating patterns without learning or growthCommon Questions Addressed:- What if I'm truly too busy to date?- How do I know if I'm investing time wisely in dating?- When is it okay to stop seeing someone to "save time"?- How can I date efficiently without compromising on what matters?- What's the difference between being selective and over-filtering?Ready to Transform Your Dating Journey?If you're ready to shift your relationship with time and dating, let's talk. Book a consultation call to explore:- Your unique dating patterns and time-related concerns- How to create an efficient, values-aligned dating strategy- Whether working together could help you find love in 2025- Specific steps to move from passive to intentional dating

Are you limiting your dating pool based on age? In this episode, I challenge the common assumptions about dating older men and reveal why your dating filters might be holding you back from finding true connection.Key Insights:The truth behind the "nurse with a purse" stereotype and why it shouldn't dictate your dating choicesWhy age filters often mask deeper fears about dating and settlingHow to shift from fear-based dating to confidence-based choicesThe power of staying neutral when meeting new peoplePractical strategies for evaluating potential partners beyond their ageQuotable Moment: "Don't use being open about age against yourself. The choice of who you end up with is always yours."Action Steps:Examine your current age filters and identify the real reasons behind themPractice curiosity instead of judgment when meeting new peopleFocus on lifestyle compatibility rather than age-based assumptionsTrust your ability to say "no" when someone isn't right for youReady to Transform Your Dating Experience? Book a private consultation call with me to develop your personalized dating strategy. Visit http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment  to find a time that works for you.

Send Sade Curry a Text MessageIs your age holding you back in dating? I hear this concern from so many women in our community. Today, let's unpack what's really going on when we let age become a barrier to love.Key Insights:Age anxiety peaks when dating because we've internalized limiting societal messages about women and agingThese beliefs impact not just how we date, but how boldly we live our entire livesYour age is just a number - what matters is the life you choose to live at any ageHere's the truth: The "age problem" in dating isn't about the number. It's about the stories we tell ourselves. I see clients in their 40s saying men their age are "too old," while my clients in their 50s and 60s express the same concern. What's fascinating? The issue isn't age - it's about energy alignment and lifestyle compatibility.Ready to transform your approach to dating after divorce? Let's work together to move past age anxiety and create authentic connections. Schedule your consultation call at http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment to explore private coaching or join our Dating After Divorce Collective.Remember: The person who's right for you isn't looking for a number - they're looking for YOU.Share this episode with another divorced woman who needs this message. Leave a review if these insights resonated with you.Next episode: We'll explore how age filters and preferences impact our dating choices - you won't want to miss it!

Send Sade Curry a Text MessageDoes the thought of attending an event alone feel awful? In this episode, Sade Curry discusses the stigma and shame associated with attending social events alone, particularly after divorce or being single. She shares her personal experience of attending events alone and contrasts it with her clients' feelings of inadequacy and exposure. Sade emphasizes that societal conditioning and internalized beliefs contribute to this shame, urging individuals to challenge these thoughts through coaching and self-examination. She advises identifying and addressing subconscious blocks, processing emotions, and redefining the meaning of being alone at events. By changing internal narratives, individuals can overcome the fear of judgment and enjoy social experiences more fully.You will learn how to:Examine your own thoughts and feelings about attending events alone. Identify any underlying beliefs or conditioning that may be contributing to feelings of shame or anxiety.Slow down and reflect on the reasons why you may be avoiding or procrastinating on attending social events alone. Explore whether these reasons are based on societal conditioning or your own chosen beliefs.Process any emotions, such as grief, anxiety, or shame, that come up when considering attending events alone. Allow these emotions to move through your body and create an openness to change your beliefs.Develop tools and strategies to handle any discomfort or awkwardness that may arise when attending events alone, focusing on redefining the meaning you associate with being alone in these situations.

Send Sade Curry a Text MessageIn today's episode, we dive into the digital dating arena and tackle a common struggle: managing the overwhelm that comes with using dating apps. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned swiper, the avalanche of notifications, messages, and profiles can quickly turn an exciting journey into a stressful experience.Join Sade Curry to explore the emotional and psychological impact of dating after divorce in this modern dating landscape, and discover practical strategies to reclaim control and find balance. From setting boundaries to optimizing your profile, this episode is packed with tips to help you navigate the world of online dating with confidence and clarity.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Understanding the Overwhelm: Why dating apps can feel like a full-time job and how they impact your mental well-being.Emotional Responses: How the constant barrage of messages and profiles triggers anxiety and frustration, and why our brains are not wired for this kind of interaction.Cognitive Overload: The impact of too many choices and how it leads to snap judgments and stress.Reclaiming Control: Strategies for setting boundaries, managing notifications, and staying mindful in your dating journey.Practical Tips: How to make dating apps work for you by optimizing your profile, managing your time, and filtering out the noise to focus on what truly matters.Quotes:"Imagine walking into a stadium filled with thousands of people, all shouting your name—this is what online dating can feel like.""Remember, not every connection needs to be explored—it's okay to swipe left on anything that doesn't feel right.""You are in control of your dating experience, not the other way around."Resources Mentioned:Free Dating After Divorce Course – Get started on your dating journey with our free course designed specifically for divorced professional women.Join the Dating After Divorce Academy – If you're ready to stop wasting time and start finding the right partner, schedule your consultation today.Call to Action: If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share this episode with a friend who might be feeling overwhelmed by dating apps, and let's help each other find balance in the digital dating world.

Send Sade Curry a Text MessageDo you keep thinking a man is the one only to get blindsided yet again?Ever get discouraged and think you'll never figure out how to see a man's true character?In this insightful episode, Natasha Moore share's her story of finally understanding how to choose the man who was right for her after a divorce and an annulment. We share our personal stories, offering candid reflections on our journeys to healing, self-discovery, and finding love again. From the challenges of long-distance relationships to the importance of setting boundaries, this episode is packed with valuable lessons for anyone navigating the dating world after a difficult past.Key Takeaways:Long-Distance Dating Challenges:Natasha shares her experience with long-distance relationships, highlighting the difficulties of truly getting to know someone without face-to-face interaction. She reflects on the importance of understanding the full picture before committing.Dating after Multiple Divorces:Natasha opens up about her first two marriages, including an abusive relationship and a second marriage where her husband was already married to someone else. Her experiences underscore the importance of recognizing red flags and valuing oneself.Setting Boundaries:We explore the necessity of setting boundaries in relationships, especially after experiencing toxic dynamics in the past. Natasha shares how establishing clear limits helped her protect her emotional well-being.How High-Achieving Women Attract Toxic Men:We discuss how high-achieving women can become targets for exploitative partners. They call for more education and awareness to help women protect themselves and make empowered choices in relationships.FEATURED ON THE SHOW:Learn more about the Dating After Divorce AcademyJoin Sade's  free live event, Core Values Dating LiveFREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipAbout Natasha Moore:Natasha Moore is professional nerd and classroom social justice activist serving as a Professor of English at Southwestern Illinois College. Outside of the classroom, she enjoys eating, baking, cycling, traveling with her loved ones, and running her short-term rentals.Contact Natasha:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SistahTashaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/sistahtasha/Website: Www.sitbackstays.com

Send Sade Curry a Text MessageIf you're struggling with dating after divorce and need personalized guidance, schedule a complimentary coaching consultation with Sade Curry. Click here to schedule your session.Dating After Divorce Episode 215: When Are You Ready to Date?In this Sade Curry delves into the concept of "readiness" for dating after a divorce. She explores the often undefined notion of being "ready" to date and its potential consequences on one's dating journey. Sade discusses the subtle yet powerful belief that many women hold—that they are not ready to date—and how this mindset can keep them stuck.Episode Highlights:Challenging Gender Roles: Discover how societal expectations and internal biases can influence women's perceptions of their readiness to date and how to challenge these narratives.Defining Readiness: Sade Curry explains the importance of defining what "ready to date" means for each individual, rather than relying on a vague or universal concept.Personal Readiness: Explore factors like finances, schedules, and children in determining your personal readiness for dating after a divorce.Empowered vs. Fake Readiness: Understand the difference between empowered readiness, which involves taking responsibility and working towards growth, and fake readiness, which is marked by self-pity and blame.Self-Leadership: Sade emphasizes the importance of self-leadership in rebuilding your life and dating journey, highlighting that there is no one-size-fits-all formulaEmpowered Decision-Making: Sade encourages listeners to define their own readiness and make empowered decisions about dating, rather than seeking validation from others.Key Takeaways:Define Your Own Readiness: Take the time to understand what being ready to date means for you personally, considering all aspects of your life.Challenge Negative Self-Talk: Identify and overcome the mental barriers that may be holding you back from feeling ready to date.Embrace Self-Leadership: Lead your own journey in dating and life, recognizing that there is no universal formula for readiness.Develop Self-Approval: Focus on self-approval and personal growth rather than seeking validation from others.Resources Mentioned:Follow Sade Curry on Instagram: @sadecurry Book a Coaching Consultation: Click here to schedule your session.Listener Feedback: We love hearing from our listeners! Share your thoughts on this episode and your own experiences with dating after a major life change. Leave us a review  and share this episode with other women dating after divorceSubscribe: Don't miss an episode! Subscribe to our podcast on all podcast platforms and stay updated on new episodes and exclusive content.

Send Sade Curry a Text MessageIf you frequently feel hurt, sad, anxious or angry when you are dating, then this episode is for you.Join Sade Curry as she breaks down the concept of Personalization, a cognitive distortion that creates a ton of negative emotions in life and in relationships.Want to find a loving partner after divorce? Click here to sign up for the Core Values Dating Blueprint today.WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER:How to heal and prepare to be successful at dating after divorceHow to find the motivation to try online datingHow to reframe fear as an opportunityHow to overcome fear of online dating by embracing vulnerability and setting boundaries.FEATURED ON THE SHOW:Learn more about the Dating After Divorce AcademyFREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipJoin Sade Curry on social media: Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn

Do you find yourself focusing way too much on other people when dating?In this episode, Sade Curry emphasizes the importance of prioritizing self-discovery in the dating process, as women who have not healed from codependency and people pleasing may struggle with centering their desires and actions on their own wants and needs. Sade offers strategies for retraining intuition, reconnecting with core values, and saying no in a way that resonates with oneself. She also discusses how societal expectations and conditioning can limit women's autonomy and self-expression, leading to a lack of alignment with their own values and aspirations. By examining these dynamics, Sade teaches women to break free from these constraints and make decisions that truly align with their own values and aspirations.Schedule a consult call with Sade Curry: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment

Healing from infidelity can be a difficult journey. When you have experienced a betrayal, it can rock your whole world and require deep recovery and healing.My guest this week has gone through that healing journey.Gia Huff was blindsided by her ex-husband's affair and created a beautiful life for herself after divorce - one that includes a new loving partner.Tune in this week to hear Gia's inspiring story of deep healing and growth that helped her meet her partner in only a few days on the dating apps.As Gia says, “The only reason I wouldn't date would be because my mind is afraid. I very much wanted a partner and connection. So I thought, “What if it could be really easy to find someone online? What if it's not as hard or scary as everyone says?”Gia shares how she used a sustained practice of self-reflection and practical steps to open up her world, get unstuck and find the love she wanted.Want to find a loving partner after divorce? Click here to sign up for the Core Values Dating Blueprint today.WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER:How to heal and prepare to be successful at dating after divorceHow to find the motivation to try online datingHow to reframe fear as an opportunityHow to overcome fear of online dating by embracing vulnerability and setting boundaries.FEATURED ON THE SHOW:Learn more about the Dating After Divorce AcademyJoin Sade's  free live event, Core Values Dating LiveFREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipJoin Sade Curry on social media: Instagram | Facebook | LinkedInGia Huff: Website | Instagram | Facebook | Free Video

Special Announcement: Join me for my live event, Core Values Dating Live! Click here for details Episode Show notes:My guest today is the woman from whom I first learned that codependency was a thing. Elisabeth Klein has been a writer and mentor for Christian women for decades. In this episode, Elisabeth shares her story of a 20-year marriage that ended in divorce due to hidden drinking,  emotional abuse, controlling behavior, and lying.Despite initially vowing to never remarry, Elisabeth's friends urged her otherwise and she met her second husband, Buzz on a dating app. They have now been married 9 years.Featured on the Show:Elisabeth Klein lives with her husband in Illinois. They are parents of nine and grandparents to four. She provides resources to women in difficult relationships and transition through her podcast, courses, books, blog, speaking events, webcasts, private Facebook groups and one-on-one coaching. Connect with Elisabeth: Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/elisabeth-kleinWebsite: https://elisabethklein.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elisabethkleincoach/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elisabethkleincoach/Twitter: https://twitter.com/_elisabethklein

Shame is a painful emotional experience that can stem from childhood experiences and societal conditioning, especially for women. In this episode, I had Karen C. L. Anderson on for her second guest appearance on the podcast. We talked about her new book, You Are Not Your Mother: Releasing Generational Trauma and Shame about generational trauma and shame between mothers and daughters from a personal perspective.Key Takeaways:- Recognizing shame involves paying attention to underlying thoughts and beliefs, like "I'm bad" or "I'm unworthy." Drilling down to the core beliefs helps address shame.- Healing from shame involves developing self-compassion, recognizing triggers, and cultivating moments of joy. Connecting to one's inner child can help treat oneself with kindness.- Shame is passed down intergenerationally but can be "unlearned" through awareness, understanding one's experiences, and self-care over time with tools like coachingFeatured on the Show:Karen is a master-certified life coach and author of several books including You Are Not Your Mother: Releasing Generational Trauma and Shame. Karen works mostly with adult daughters who want to take care of themselves in the relationship they have with their mothers...AND has a special place in her practice for mothers who want to do the brave work of unshaming so they can repair the relationship they have with their adult daughters.Website/Podcast: www.kclanderson.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/KCLAnderson/Listen to Karen's 1st appearance on the Dating After Divorce Podcast:  Dating and Healing Childhood Trauma

Have you ever wondered what dating looks like from the good guys' side?My guest this week on the Dating after Divorce podcast is Sandy Wiener, a dating coach who works with both men and women.Sandy shares the what her male clients experience on the apps on their journey to find love and commitment, and what women who date men can do to connect with them. Key episode takeaways:- Dating after divorce can be challenging but there are good people out there on both sides. It takes work to find the right match.- Both men and women experience similar struggles with online dating like unclear profiles, lack of photos, negativity etc.- Shared values, communication and willingness to do personal growth work are important for building lasting relationships later in life.- Meeting people through shared interests and passions in addition to apps can enhance chances of finding that special someone.- Having an open mindset without assumptions and looking at each person as an individual are important for dating success.Featured on the Show: Sandy WienerSandy Weiner is the Chief Love Officer at Last First Date. She's an internationally known TEDx speaker, dating and relationship coach, author, and podcast host. Her approach to coaching is holistic, encompassing  a hybrid mix of life coaching, Neurolinguistic Programming, and Non-Violent Communication. She's the author of "Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love", and "Choice Points in Dating; Empowering Women to Make Healthier Decisions in Love". She's also the host of two popular podcasts, Last First Date Radio and The Woman of Value Podcast, and she believes it's never too late to have the life and love you want!Connect with Sandy:Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate/Website: http://lastfirstdate.com/Podcast: Last First Date Radio https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/last-first-date-radio/id586220219?mt=2Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandyweiner1YouTube Last First Date https://youtube.com/@LastfirstdateWork with Sade:Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On: Dating AppsText Messages and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match YouDating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)Click Here to Sign Up

In this episode, Jamie Milam shares her journey through divorce, offering wisdom for those navigating the entangled paths of real estate, mental health, and the exhilarating leap back into dating post-divorce. My conversation with Jamie dives into the intricacies of post-trauma dating. We share stories of moving cities and life transitions, underpinning the theme that change, although challenging, can be the catalyst for profound self-discovery. We explore the essence of modern relationships – communication and boundaries. With my own dating experiences on the table, we discuss the dance of articulating and respecting needs and expectations, whether in fleeting romances or the pursuit of lasting companionship. Jamie and I lay bare the continuous journey of emotional resilience and the transformative power of open dialogue, providing a relatable narrative for anyone striving to forge meaningful connections in the wake of divorce.Featured on the Show: Jamie MilamOn her own since the age of 15, overcoming drug addiction when she learned she'd become a mother at 19, rebuilding her life from a single storage tote, to now running 3 businesses, Jamie Milam's superpower is determination through awareness. Jamie is also divorcee, Realtor, podcast host of Divorced & Determined AF and founder of the P.E.A.C.E. of Mind initiative, all with the mission to empower women to embrace internal and external awareness to make peacefully aligned decisions so they can live the life they desire and deserve.Jamie's WebsiteP.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative Divorced & Determined AFJamie's LinkedIn 

Happy New Year! I'm excited to bring you the first podcast episode for the year with my client, Lee. Lee shares her real experiences of dating after divorce.  She had been on hundreds of dates before working with me. Just a few shifts made all the difference for her to meet the partner she wanted. They have young children the same age, have the same spiritual and political values and he gets along amazingly with her family. Plus, he was the exact level of attractiveness Lee wanted. Enjoy the episode!Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On: Dating AppsText Messages and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match YouDating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)Click Here to Sign UpThe Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you ❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who isCREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who's right for you❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisionsPUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating processGet Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

Welcome back to another episode, where I'm joined by Becca Maxwell, and our conversation is both relatable and insightful.Starting off, Becca opens up about her journey to finding love after her divorce. She emphasizes the importance of self-focus during tough times and shares how her corporate background in relationship management has influenced her role as a divorce coach.We then shift gears to explore the challenges of dating as an expat in Asia. Against the odds, Becca found her husband on Tinder, offering practical insights as a single mother. She highlights the significance of clear intentions, setting boundaries, and trusting one's intuition in the dating process.We discuss the complexities of blended families, offering tips on introducing children to a new partner and managing relationships with ex-partners. We also touch on maintaining a positive outlook in high-conflict divorces and the importance of preserving children's emotional well-being.Wrapping up, Becca and I share our own journeys of finding fulfillment post-divorce. This episode is a valuable resource for anyone dealing with the challenges of divorce and navigating the path to love and fulfillment afterward. Tune in for a down-to-earth conversation blending personal stories with practical advice for life after divorce.Featured on the Show: Becca MaxwellBecca is a relational intelligence consultant and divorce coach with a beautiful story of finding love post-divorce, despite 3x near-misses across 3 different countries!  Becca's WebsiteBecca's PodcastBecca's InstagramDiscover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On: Dating AppsText Messages and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match YouDating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)Click Here to Sign UpThe Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who's right for you❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisionsPUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match youGet Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

Welcome back to my podcast, "Dating After Divorce." It's been a while since I've done a solo episode, and I'm thrilled to dive back into sharing practical, hands-on advice to propel your dating journey forward. Today, I'm focusing on a crucial aspect of modern dating: succeeding on dating apps in 2024.As a seasoned coach and someone who has navigated these waters personally (I met my husband on Bumble six years ago!), I understand the mixed feelings towards dating apps. They can seem daunting, frustrating, or even cringe-worthy, but I'm here to help shift that perspective. Dating apps are tools, and like any tool, it's all about how you use them.In this episode, we'll explore common misunderstandings about dating apps and why they may feel overwhelming. I'll debunk the myths and offer insights into why dating apps work for some and not for others. We'll also discuss the unique advantages of dating apps, especially if you've lost a significant part of your social circle during a divorce or live in a small community.One of the key points I want to highlight is the importance of how you approach dating apps. It's not about hoping to find Prince Charming instantly; it's about understanding the apps as a tool to connect with potential partners. We'll delve into the significance of crafting a well-thought-out profile, learning the art of swiping, and setting clear boundaries.Additionally, I'll share my personal journey and the lessons learned from using dating apps. You'll hear about my initial challenges, how I tweaked my approach, and the transformation in my dating experiences. This journey led me to meet my wonderful husband, and it's a testament to the effectiveness of dating apps when used correctly.To provide you with actionable tips, I've outlined seven key strategies to help you succeed on dating apps in 2024. These include getting a realistic view of what the apps can and cannot do, experimenting and learning from your experiences, and being willing to go on a journey filled with learning curves.Remember, success on dating apps isn't just about finding your partner; it's about connecting with good people and enjoying the process. So, whether you've had negative experiences in the past or are new to the app dating scene, this episode is packed with insights and advice to set you up for success in 2024.If you're ready to change your dating game and want more personalized guidance, I invite you to join my coaching program. Together, we can tailor a dating strategy that works uniquely for you. Visit https://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment to schedule a consultation call with me.Thank you for joining me today, and I look forward to helping you thrive in your dating journey in 2024 and beyond!

On today's episode, I'm joined by the incredible life coach, Dr. Manuela Powell. She focuses on women over 40 and illuminates the challenges these women face, oftentimes shadowed by societal norms and patriarchal structures.We get candid about motherhood expectations, societal norms, and personal identity. I share my own story of feeling subservient to my children and others, despite my independence and success and how I uncovered my true self, shedding the weight of these expectations. Dr. Manuela Powell shares how she successfully maintains a long-distance relationship and offers insights into establishing boundaries, communication, and defining relationship terms.We discuss the beauty of long-distance relationships and the sense of independence they foster. We also touch upon the idea of ethical non-monogamy, challenging societal pressures and norms,  the importance of authenticity and personal growth within relationships. It's a packed episode that will speak volumes to you. Featured on the Show: Dr. Manuela PowellDr. Manuela Powell is a life coach for 40+ women who are ready to start living the sparkliest, loudest, most outrageously real years of their lives. After finally getting the memo that she was queer at the tender age of 47, she realized most women could use some help to come out of whichever bullshit closet they've been stuck in forever, so she took upon herself to be their soul fluffer. For almost 20 years, Manuela was a breast cancer surgeon, but after having her second child she decided she wanted to free herself from endless work hours, toxic work environments, and unflattering scrubs. She put away her scalpel to, instead, dissect women's minds and help them excise the “shoulds”, "musts",  and “not-good-enoughs” from their brains forever, so they can stop people-pleasing and learn to fully trust themselves, to the horror of the patriarchy police. She's a native of Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, and after living in NYC, Washington, DC, and Hawai'i, she currently calls Austin, Texas her home, as a single mama to her 2 sons. She dances every day, curses like a sailor who stubbed his toe, and doesn't give a single shit to people who think she should start behaving her age.Dr. Manuela's WebsiteDr. Manuela's FacebookDr. Manuela's InstagramDr. Manuela's TikTokDiscover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On: Dating AppsText Messages and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match YouClick Here to Sign UpThe Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationshipCREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who's right for youPUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you areGet Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

Are you brave enough to pivot and redefine yourself post a life-altering event like divorce? My guest on today's episode, Erica Bennett, has lived through it and emerged stronger than ever. A global training guru, empowerment coach, and host of the Crazy X Wives Club podcast, Erica takes us on the journey of her healing and self-discovery after divorce. From the raw emotions and trying times of her two-year separation period to finding acceptance and the courage to let go, Erica's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.Pull up a chair as Erica shares about her post-divorce life and how she navigated through the process of healing, both physically and emotionally. She speaks of her audacious venture of redefining her identity and consciously using dating apps to connect with the person she envisioned. Erica's experiences of navigating relationships without the elusive "spark" and manifesting love again, might just change the way you perceive your own relationships. In the final leg of our conversation, we delve into Erica's approach towards commitment and future planning in relationships post-divorce. From harboring a "we'll see how it goes" attitude to adopting a more intentional approach, Erica emphasizes living in the moment and learning to enjoy the journey. Listen in, as Erica's narrative unfolds, offering valuable insights for those on their own healing journeys, proving it's never too late for transformation and self-discovery.Featured on the Show: Erica BennettGlobal training guru, empowerment coach, and a woman obsessed with helping you rewire the fear that is holding you back, Erica specializes in helping divorced women navigate the healing journey. With over 20 years of training and coaching experience, Erica brings her blend of “woo and do” to help you line up with your desires and take action for your success.Erica's WebsiteErica's InstagramErica's FacebookErica's TikTokDiscover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On: Dating AppsText Messages and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match YouDating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)Click Here to Sign UpThe Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationshipCREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who's right for you❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisionsPUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversationsGet Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

Picture this. You've been single for a while, and you're on the hunt for the perfect partner. But instead of finding your Prince Charming, you're constantly dealing with toads. Sounds familiar? If so, then this episode is for you. My guest, Christal Allen-Harrahill, a certified life and marriage coach, unpacks her journey of love and relationships. Christal isn't shy about sharing her own experiences, from her first marriage, which ended in divorce, to her blissful life now with her second husband.She shares her story of missed red flags, learned lessons, and ultimately, self-discovery. She advises women to stay true to themselves when dating and make decisions with the future in mind. She also underscores the importance of communication in relationships, and shares the red flags that she wished she knew when she was dating.So, whether you're single, dating or married, tune in. Christal's candid discussion and valuable insights may just be what you need to navigate through the journey of love and partnership. This is a conversation you won't want to miss.Featured on the Show: Christal Allen-HarrahillChristal Allen-Harrahill is a mom, wife, and certified Life & Marriage Coach. She helps professional women who want to stop having the same fight with their partner and create better communication in their marriage.Christal is relatable with a down-to-earth vibe that makes you feel seen, safe, and cared for. She believes women are change makers, and that families and generations are forever changed when women engage in their own unique transformation.When she is not spending time with family and friends, or helping clients, she is learning something new, enjoying the outdoors, drinking tea, or reading a new book (right now it's Be Your Future Self Now by Benjamin Hardy).Christal's WebsiteChristal's InstagramChristal's YouTubeGet your free mini-course on how to communicate betterDiscover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On: Dating AppsText Messages and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match YouDating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)Click Here to Sign UpThe Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationshipCREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who's right for you❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisionsPUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversationsGet Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

Today's Episode is from my conversation with Jamie Lee Jamie Lee on the Negotiate Your Career Growth Podcast.I talk about my immigration to the US from Nigeria and my journey of ascending the corporate ladder, starting from a customer service role and tenaciously working her way up to higher positions.I share my personal growth story post-divorce and how I transitioned from the corporate world to life coaching, focusing on helping divorced women over 40 navigate the dating scene.Having encountered my fair share of scrutiny in the workplace, which fostered a heightened sense of hypervigilance, I share on how I managed this anxiety with the help of cognitive behavior theory and emotional freedom techniques and the importance and impact of cultivating positive connections. Featured on the Show: Jamie LeeJamie Lee is a certified executive coach who helps smart women who hate office politics get promoted and better paid without throwing anyone under the bus. In her practice, she blends the best of negotiation strategies with practical neuroscience techniques, so her clients lead and negotiate with confidence and ease. Jamie's Website Jamie's PodcastJamie's LinkedIn Jamie's Instagram Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On: Dating AppsText Messages and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match YouDating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)Click Here to Sign UpThe Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you ❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who isCREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who's right for you❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisionsPUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating processGet Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

What if you could hit the reset button after personal heartbreak and discover a whole new world of self-discovery, resilience, and love? On this episode, my inspiring guest, Armony Mangin takes us through her incredible journey - from surviving a 7.2 earthquake in Haiti and crossing hostile checkpoints, to combating depression, parental burnout, and the emotional fallout of divorce. While going through divorce, Armony promised herself one thing: she would not let a non functioning relationship define her next romantic relationships. Armony shares on how she got on social media for the first time 1 year after divorce, after having spent 9 months working on her relationship with herself, not having any dating life at all. 2 months in, she found her incredible man and went exclusive with him after about 2 months. Armony shares some of the tools she used in this journey (including Sade's 5 day webinar, the 50 green flag checklist episodes from the Dating After Divorce Podcast) to intentionally design her own dating with intention plan.  Through the process, Armony continually reminded herself that it was fun and was the best opportunity to learn more about herself and what she valued and wanted in her life.Featured on the Show: Armony MarginArmony's WebsiteArmony's LinktreeDiscover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On: Dating AppsText Messages and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match YouDating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)Click Here to Sign UpThe Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you ❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who isCREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who's right for you❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisionsPUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating processGet Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now

Kelly Bonanno is a Wellness Coach and Life Coach for Divorced People. She shares her journey through the emotional and logistical turmoil of getting divorced after 26 years. Kelly shares her experiences of starting over, dating post-divorce, and finding love again. We delve into the complex world of love, infatuation, and dating after divorce. Kelly offers valuable insights on how to differentiate fleeting infatuation from enduring love, and the importance of a calm and logical approach to dating. Get details on how to work with Sade Curry  to achieve all your post divorce goals - including meeting your ideal romantic partner: Click here to sign up.Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipFeatured on the Show: Kelly BonannoKelly Bonanno is a Wellness & Life Coach, speaker, mom to 2 teenage boys and creator of the Loving Life After Divorce Method. With over a decade as a wellness educator, she helps people navigate divorce with confidence and become the best versions of themselves inside and out. Whether they've lost themselves in their marriage, are fearful of the future, want to get in better shape or find lasting love, Kelly empowers them to move through the process with courage and powerfully transition to their new life. She also helps business owners retain employees, reduce sick days and burnout while increasing productivity, focus, and morale with her innovative wellness programs and workshops.Kelly's WebsiteKelly's InstagramKelly's FacebookKelly's PodcastSign up for the Loving Life After Divorce Summit

In this episode, Coco Madari talks about their history of navigating through relationships filled with control, abuse, and gaslighting, and how self-help and therapy became their lifeline in such circumstances. This episode isn't just about relationships; it's about the high stakes that we invest in them, the addictive nature of these bonds, and how to handle them when they become overwhelming. Coco Madari shares their tale of self-doubt birthed from harmful romantic and familial relationships and we delve into the intricate human psyche, the havoc created by autopilot coping mechanisms, and the impact on highly sensitive individuals. Register for the Core Values Dating Blueprint: Click Here Featured on the Show: Coco MadariCoco Madari (they/them) is BIPOC queer multi-talented artist, performer, singer/songwriter, and double-certified coach who helps HSPs juggle multiple creative endeavours at once.Coco's FacebookCoco's InstagramCoco's Linktree

My guest on the podcast today is Caitlin Liz Fisher, a creativity coach. She shares the story of her first two marriages - the first marked by imbalance and settling, the second by non-monogamy, gaslighting, and abuse. Caitlin's story is one of resilience, strength, and the power of self-love. She takes us through her inspiring transformation and how she moved from chaotic relationships to a healthy, loving bond with her current partner. Her "Yikes Rule", a gauge for determining the potential success of a relationship, is a fascinating take-away. Get details on how to work with Sade Curry  to achieve all your post divorce goals - including meeting your ideal romantic partner: Click here to sign up.Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipFeatured on the Show: Caitlin Liz FisherCaitlin Liz Fisher is an author and creativity coach who turned their gifted kid burnout into a way to help neurodivergent, disabled, and queer creatives get their passions back on the priority list. Every challenge they've overcome — abuse, parental estrangement, toxic jobs, and even crappy breakups — has helped them learn to say yes to their deep-down dreams and no to the status quo. They are now living their absolute weirdest, abnormal life and advocating for others to do the same by subverting capitalism and embracing a world where we can finally stop hustling.Caitlin's WebsiteCaitlin's InstagramCaitlin's Podcast

On this episode of the podcast, I unravel the cycle of fear, shame, and the expectation of failure in dating and how it holds women back from experiencing true success in relationships. Feelings of despair, resignation, and avoidance can hinder your dating progress. This is why it's important to channel your feelings to make wiser decisions. It's time to stop comparing ourselves to others and confront emotional barriers that keep you from taking the confident steps you should be taking in your dating journey.Whether it's about understanding your emotions during the dating process, observing your reactions, or dealing with the fear of staying single, this episode has got you covered.Register for the Core Values Dating Blueprint: Click Here

If you have ever found yourself questioning the societal framework of marriage and divorce or are curious about how to navigate the complex world of relationships post-divorce, you'll find this episode insightful. I'm joined on the Podcast by Tonya Carter, an accomplished marriage and relationship exit strategist. This episode shines a spotlight on mental and emotional resilience, recognizing it as the greatest challenge that accompanies this journey.We take a look into the post-divorce dating world, where Tonya talks on using personal experiences and values to guide your choices. We also discuss the importance of taking a hiatus from dating, embracing singleness positively, and the imperative need for discernment and trust in oneself while navigating new relationships. Tonya also emphasizes the power of having clear criteria when entering into relationships.Get details on how to work with Sade Curry  to achieve all your post divorce goals - including meeting your ideal romantic partner: Click here to sign up.Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipFeatured on the Show: Tonya CarterTonya is a Marriage/Relationship Exit Strategist. She uses her knowledge, personal experience, and expertise to help women‎ navigate through the process of uncoupling by providing support, advice, resources and tools ‎that will help mitigate interruptions in their business, work performance and household obligations. ‎She's the author of “Divorce Your Story: A Woman's Guide to Heal & Thrive after Divorce” and ‎she also facilitates her signature program “T.H.R.I.V.E” - a 12 week program to gain the strategies and tools to exit out of a relationship properly, heal intelligently, and enter & evolve into a life of freedom and fulfillment.She also hosts a podcast called “ The Purposely Thriving Podcast” and she's a graduate of DeVry & Central Michigan University.She is from Atlanta where she resides with her two children.Tonya's WebsiteTonya's Instagram Tonya's FacebookTonya's YouTubeTonya's Podcast

If you have ever felt overwhelmed by a cluttered space, or judged yourself harshly for a lack of tidiness you'll find this episode insightful as I am joined by Amelia Pleasant Kennedy, a Certified Life Coach, Professional Organizer, Fair Play Facilitator, and the CEO of A Pleasant Solution. Amelia shares insight on the complexities of detaching our thoughts from our physical spaces and discusses the significance of recognizing green flags and positive signs of progress in our productivity journey. We look into the emotional art of letting go, the profound process of reclaiming space in our homes and our minds. At the end of this episode, you'll have the confidence to create your roadmap to reclaim your space and inner peace.Get details on how to work with Sade Curry  to achieve all your post divorce goals - including meeting your ideal romantic partner: Click here to sign up.Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipFeatured on the Show: Amelia Pleasant KennedyAmelia Pleasant Kennedy is a Certified Life Coach, Professional Organizer, Fair Play Facilitator, and the CEO of A Pleasant Solution. As a Clutter Coach, she helps folks who are frazzled, busy, and overworked uncover the root cause of the clutter in their lives. With a keen ability to listen for what goes unsaid, Amelia coaches from a space of total curiosity and non-judgment so that clients build a deep sense of self-trust. Amelia is a caregiver for her mother, who's living with dementia, a mother of 3 (including an elite athlete), a podcast host, and a lover of visual art, nature, books, and meaningful conversations.Amelia is also the Chair of the Awards + Recognition Committee for the National Assoc. of Productivity & Organizing Professionals (NAPO). She holds Advanced Certification in Deep Dive Coaching and Feminist Coaching, and is an active member of the Institute for Challenging Disorganization (ICD), Black Girls Who Organize (BGWO), and the National Assoc. of Black Professional Organizers (NABPO). Her podcast A Pleasant Solution: Embracing an Organized Life talks about why a clutter-free mindset is essential to an aligned + sustainable lifestyle.Amelia's WebsiteAmelia's FacebookAmelia's InstagramAmelia's LinkedInAmelia's Podcast

Today, I am joined by a very special guest, Vikki Louise Yaffe, a feminist time coach. If you have ever wondered how to redefine your relationship with time, not just in your day-to-day activities, but also in managing your relationships, you'll find this episode insightful as Vikki shares an intriguing perspective on time management and its impact on our lives. We delve deep into how to handle the challenge of accelerated decision-making in relationships, a concept that seeks to break free from the fear of failure and welcomes the potential for growth.Finally, Vikki shares her personal story of dating without boundaries, an experiment that highlights the delicate balance between vulnerability and self-preservation. We discuss the paradox of barriers - the safety they offer and the opportunities they could potentially block.  Join us in this enlightening conversation, whether you're trying to navigate a relationship, wrestling with time management, or simply interested in a fresh perspective.Get details on how to work with Sade Curry  to achieve all your post divorce goals - including meeting your ideal romantic partner: Click here to sign up.Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipFeatured on the Show: Vikki Louise YaffeVikki is a Time & Productivity expert and the host of the Hack Your Time podcast. She calls herself a reformed hustler and used to work 80 hours weeks, doing all things. Now Vikki works 15 hours, achieves more, earns more, and helps other people do the same through her signature program, Time Hackers.In Time Hackers, busy overachievers learn to achieve more in less time, with ease. Time Hackers accelerate into their future by doing less today.Want to become a Time Hacker? https://www.vikkilouise.com/time-hackers Schedule coaching with a Time Hacker Coach: https://bit.ly/timehackercoaching Apply to Become a Timer Hacker Coach (next round opens Oct 2023): https://www.vikkilouise.com/bathc Listening at a later date? Get on Vikki's list for program announcements: https://www.vikkilouise.com/guide Vikki's Website Vikki's PodcastVikki's InstagramVikki's FacebookVikki's LinkedInBending Time & Space Podcast Conversation with Vikki Louise and Sade Curry

As a high-achiever, you may find dating more challenging than it ought to be. This episode is a must-listen for all ambitious individuals who often find themselves in the quest for quick results, even in their love lives. I take a candid look into the world of dating, deciphering why it often seems more difficult than it should be. I talk about the importance of patience and perseverance when navigating the dating landscape and look into the impacts of instant gratification, and how it eventually makes the dating journey tougher. I also discuss why it's essential to stop beating yourself up for wanting things to be easier and faster, and instead focus on cherishing your individual dating journeys. Get details on how to work with Sade Curry  to achieve all your post divorce goals - including meeting your ideal romantic partner: Click here to sign up.Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy Relationship

Ever feel like you're on a wild goose chase in your dating life, constantly second-guessing yourself? In this episode, I discuss about the importance of self-discovery and core value identification for a successful dating journey. I also talk about the importance of really listening to your inner voice in order to understand your wants, needs, and fears. This episode is a call to action for women to put themselves first and avoid the pitfall of self-doubt in the dating arena.You'll learn how to unlock the power of your core values in making successful dating decisions and how to discern what's vital for your well-being by identifying your ideal relationship type and recognizing potential partners who resonate with your core values. This isn't just about finding a partner; it's about finding yourself.Get details on how to work with Sade Curry  to achieve all your post divorce goals - including meeting your ideal romantic partner: Click here to sign up.Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy Relationship

Today's guest, Wendy Slonaker, is a grief and emergence coach. In this episode, she shares her transformative journey through the end of her marriages and her paths to her authentic identity.Wendy talks about how she used Al-Anon, a 12-step program, to uncover her codependency issues and how she learned to love herself enough to enter a healthy relationship with her wife, Jennifer. Wendy offers her take on using dating apps for self-discovery and personal growth. We dive into the importance of being intentional when dating and the lessons we learn from the people we connect with. Get details on how to work with Sade Curry  to achieve all your post divorce goals - including meeting your ideal romantic partner: Click here to sign up.Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipFeatured on the Show: Wendy SlonekerWendy Sloneker is an Emergence Channel and Coach.Wendy works with innovators, early adopters, and high achievers who are navigating any combination of the 40+ life events that can bring about grief, loss, heartbreak, resentment, or otherwise shadow seasons.Wendy's WebsiteWendy's PodcastWendy's Instagram 

Ready to conquer social anxiety and make genuine connections in your dating life without relying on apps? Discover how to embrace your authentic self and meet potential romantic partners at social events without any awkwardness. Whether you're a divorcee re-entering the dating scene or someone plagued with social anxiety, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you thrive in any situation.We dive deep into the root causes of social anxiety and how our innate desire to fit in can hold us back from making meaningful connections. Learn how to reframe these anxieties and make talking to others more comfortable, as well as how to navigate social events without staying invisible or getting trapped in tedious conversations. Plus, we explore the importance of authenticity and connection in dating, and how showing up as your true self can attract your best match.Don't let social anxiety prevent you from finding the love of your life! Tune in and uncover how to conquer your fears, genuinely connect with others, and ultimately discover the romantic partner you've been searching for. Whether you're meeting people in person or through dating apps, the key lies in being true to yourself and embracing the energy of human connection. Let's kick-start your journey to love and happiness – without any awkwardness!"Be Your Own Matchmaker" Dating Course: https://pages.datingafterdivorceacademy.com/offers/Zqa2yQXV Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy Relationship

Are you struggling with relationship anxiety? In this episode, I share my insights on how anxiety can cause a fluctuating sense of self when we're around people and why it can be hard to pinpoint the root of the issue. Listen in as we explore how relationship anxiety can manifest as fear, anger, or annoyance and how it can lead to jumping into relationships too quickly or putting up barriers to avoid vulnerability. We also discuss how to evaluate for compatibility and character without putting the other person through hoops.Additionally, we explore the cultural messaging and conditioning that can cause anxiety around relationships for women. Join me as we discuss how this affects our sense of worthiness and can lead to feelings of not being enough. I challenge you to look at how this messaging is impacting your own life and consider ways that relationship anxiety might be manifesting. Don't miss the opportunity to learn more about navigating relationship anxiety and finding the love you deserve."Be Your Own Matchmaker" Dating Course: https://pages.datingafterdivorceacademy.com/offers/Zqa2yQXV Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy Relationship

Ever wondered how the connection between money, relationships, and personal growth can impact your life? Join us for an insightful conversation with Mariko Gordon, a mentor for women who want to start a business, better manage their finances, or work through a tricky patch in life or business. Discover how Mariko founded a $2.5 billion money management firm from scratch and how our relationship with ourselves is reflected in our relationship with money.Navigating finances in second relationships can be quite challenging, but Mariko shares valuable insights in this episode. Learn how to avoid common financial mistakes, the importance of financial preparation for the future, and the need for non-earning spouses to invest in themselves to better manage their finances. We also explore open dialogue about money, taking into account your partner's financial genealogy, and considering the potential implications of a large disparity in wealth between partners.Lastly, let's examine the power dynamics of transactional and personal relationships and how hyper independence and control can affect our ability to ask for help. Mariko shares her experience of being a mentor for women, and we discuss how financial conversations can reveal underlying assumptions and values. Tune in to learn how creating space for each partner to feel safe and comfortable is crucial for a healthy relationship!"Be Your Own Matchmaker" Dating Course: https://pages.datingafterdivorceacademy.com/offers/Zqa2yQXV Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipFeatured on the Show: Mariko GordonMariko Gordon built a $2.5B money management firm from scratch, flying her freak flag high. It had a weird name, a non-Wall Street culture, and a quirky communicationstyle. In 1995, when Mariko founded Daruma, only a handful of women of color owned their firms. She had to noodle out how to run a business while daily duking it out with Mr. Market and raising a family. Today she mentors women who want to start a business, turn their side hustle into their living, better manage their finances, or work through a tricky patch in life or business. She is also a poet, hypnotist, life coach, hula dancer, and Treasurer on the Board of the Asian American Writers' Workshop.Mariko's WebsiteMariko's LinkedInMariko's FacebookMariko's TwitterMariko's InstagramMariko's Medium

Have you ever felt like you were living a life that wasn't yours? Like you were just going through the motions, trying to please everyone else but yourself? My friend and fellow life coach, Brig Johnson, knows that feeling all too well. In this powerful conversation, Brig shares her inspiring journey of finding her true self in the midst of a crumbling marriage and forging a new identity that led her to become a multiple six-figure life coach.We dive deep into the mental load that women carry, making it difficult for them to pursue their dreams and achieve greatness. Brig opens up about her experience with societal expectations and how she bravely embraced her spontaneous nature to overcome these obstacles. From people-pleasing wife to unstoppable force, Brigg's transformation is nothing short of awe-inspiring.Join us as we explore the power of self-coaching and how it played a pivotal role in Brig's journey to rewrite her story. Find out how taking ownership of her life and letting go of perfectionism set her free and empowered her to make the changes she needed. This conversation is a testament to the importance of fighting for yourself and staying determined in your pursuits. Don't miss this incredible episode!"Be Your Own Matchmaker" Dating Course: https://pages.datingafterdivorceacademy.com/offers/Zqa2yQXV Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipFeatured on the Show: Brig JohnsonBrig Johnson helps HIGH ACHIEVING WOMEN BECOME UN-F*CKWITHABLE! Coming from a background as an Advanced Practice health care provider, Brig has built a successful 6-figure life business. Her brash, direct style helps clients see themselves with clarity, her compassion keeps them coming back. Her business motto is “better business through sufficiency.” The more we accept and connect with ourselves, the better we connect with our clients and customers and their dreams.Brig's WebsiteBrig's Instagram 

Have you ever noticed how challenging it can be to find a partner who truly complements your lifestyle, especially when juggling work and social commitments? My personal experience with this overlooked aspect of dating led me to explore the importance of considering factors like career, business, brand, and professional sphere of influence when searching for a life partner. Join me in this episode as I discuss customizing your dating journey to find someone who fits seamlessly into your social circle. Learn how to assess potential partners in different social settings and create opportunities to meet people who share your interests. From introducing potential partners to your friends and family to attending events together, discover how to gauge their compatibility with your social life. And remember, even if you don't find the perfect match, you always have the option to change your mind and end the relationship. Tune in for valuable insights and tips on finding a partner who truly enhances your social life."Be Your Own Matchmaker" Dating Course: https://pages.datingafterdivorceacademy.com/offers/Zqa2yQXV Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy Relationship

What if you could take control of your dating life and create opportunities for finding love? Join us in this eye-opening conversation with Sarah Arnold Hall, a high-performance coach from Wellington, New Zealand. Sarah shares her incredible journey of dating after deciding she wanted a romantic relationship where she felt safe, loved, and cherished. We discuss how taking action and believing in yourself can lead to finding the right partner, rather than leaving matters to chance. Together, we dive into the challenges of dating and identify the five main emotions that often hold us back: confusion, overwhelm, self-doubt, fear, and apathy. Sarah shares her strategies for managing these emotions and emphasizes the importance of planning and setting expectations in our dating lives. We also explore the impact of identity on dating, particularly for women, and discuss how our beliefs shape our reality.Our conversation takes us through Sarah's experience of entering the dating world in midlife and the surprises she encountered along the way. We discuss societal expectations, rejection, and the importance of staying open to life's surprises. This episode is a treasure trove of valuable insights and advice on dating, overcoming obstacles, and navigating expectations. So, tune in and get ready to transform your dating life!"Be Your Own Matchmaker" Dating Course: https://pages.datingafterdivorceacademy.com/offers/Zqa2yQXV Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipFeatured on the Show: Sarah Arnold-HallSarah Arnold-Hall is a High Performance Coach who helps people overcome procrastination and take action on their biggest goals. She currently lives in Wellington, New Zealand.Sarah's WebsiteSarah's InstagramSarah's LinkedInSarah's FacebookSarah's Podcast