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Married A.F. (As Followers) takes a real and fun approach about all relationships from the viewpoint of a follower of Jesus. We will discuss all relationships, marriage, dating, friends, family, work, etc. There is no conversation that is off the table.

Matthew & Monica Powers


    • Jun 3, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    Real Questions, Real Talk: Honest Answers About Sex, Boundaries & Faith in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2025 33:30 Transcription Available


    Send us a textIn this eye-opening Q&A episode of The Married AF Podcast, we tackle the real problems married couples face behind closed doors straight from the hearts of our small group community. From intimacy challenges to emotional disconnect, we offer honest, faith-centered answers that speak to the soul of every marriage.Join us as we dive into authentic questions about sex, boundaries, and balancing love with life's chaos, including:✔️ What to do when one spouse seems flirty but claims it's harmless✔️ How to set physical boundaries without losing emotional connection✔️ Can intimacy between spouses ever cross a spiritual line?✔️ How to prioritize your spouse when kids take over your world✔️ Why authenticity, honesty, and God's power are crucial for a happy marriageThis is marriage coaching meets real-life storytelling, with practical advice, biblical insight, and genuine conversation led by relationship experts who aren't afraid to talk about the hard stuff. Whether you're seeking growth in your married life, struggling with marital issues, or just craving deeper romance and friendship with your spouse, this episode is for you.

    When She Leads By Herself: Rebalancing Spiritual Leadership in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2025 36:29 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWhat happens when spiritual leadership in a marriage falls on just one person, usually the wife? In this expert-led episode of Married AF, we dive into the growing challenge of one-sided spiritual responsibility in relationships. Many women are exhausted from carrying the faith load alone, while their husbands remain distant or passive.With powerful statistics and real questions from our community, we explore why spiritual leadership matters and how it shapes the direction of your family. You'll get practical marriage help and relationship advice for encouraging your spouse's faith journey without nagging, pressure, or guilt.From praying together (even awkwardly), to setting boundaries with in-laws, to finding community through service, this episode is packed with expert insight on leading with grace and unity. Whether you're struggling or just seeking stronger spiritual connection, this faith-centered episode offers real tools for a thriving marriage.Looking for relationship advice from people who've weathered serious storms and emerged stronger? This episode delivers honest, experience based guidance for couples at any stage of their journey. Subscribe now to continue receiving practical wisdom for building a marriage that thrives through life's challenges.

    Breaking The Silence: What Men Never Tell Their Wives

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 34:25 Transcription Available


    Send us a textThe conventional wisdom about why men leave marriages often misses the mark. Forget the stereotype of men simply wanting "another piece" – the truth is far more nuanced and surprisingly similar to why women initiate divorce.Emotional disconnection tops the list of reasons men walk away from marriages. Just like women, men deeply crave meaningful connection with their partners and suffer when they feel like mere roommates in a stagnant relationship. When men feel unheard and neglected, they typically respond differently than women – they withdraw, swallow their feelings, and gradually disconnect without communicating their pain. This silent suffering creates a destructive cycle that erodes the foundation of even seemingly stable marriages.Feeling unappreciated ranks second among reasons men leave. When daily interactions revolve solely around logistics and to-do lists, men begin to feel their efforts go unnoticed. The simple act of acknowledging contributions – "Thanks for filling my car with gas" – creates powerful moments of recognition that satisfy a fundamental human need. These small expressions of gratitude don't require grand gestures or financial investment; they just require mindfulness about your partner's contributions.Loss of intimacy, both emotional and physical, completes the top three reasons. For men, physical intimacy isn't just about pleasure – it's a primary way they express and receive emotional connection. When this aspect of marriage diminishes, men experience profound feelings of rejection and loneliness while still in the relationship. The warning signs are clear: withdrawal from meaningful conversation, increased irritability, and reluctance to plan for the future together. These behaviors signal he's already mentally checking out.Want to prevent disconnection before it leads to divorce? Start with open, honest communication about feelings. Show appreciation regularly through simple acknowledgments. Prioritize both emotional and physical intimacy, finding creative ways to connect despite busy schedules. These straightforward strategies can help couples navigate the natural peaks and valleys of marriage before small issues become irreparable rifts.The Cross pt. 2Welcome to Ask Me Anything, the podcast where we give you biblical answers to...Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

    Is Your Marriage Silently Falling Apart?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 37:32 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWhat's driving the surprising trend of women initiating 70% of divorces in 2024? We're tackling this eye-opening statistic and diving deep into the reasons behind this significant shift in marriage dynamics.The data challenges our traditional assumptions about who ends marriages and why. Through honest conversation, we unpack three primary reasons women cite for leaving: emotional disconnection, lack of support, and differences in personal growth trajectories. Each represents a fundamental breakdown in what makes marriages thrive – meaningful communication, equal partnership, and mutual support through life's evolutions.Beyond identifying problems, we explore clear warning signs that your marriage might be heading toward trouble. From withdrawal from meaningful conversations to avoidance of physical intimacy and preferring time apart, these indicators serve as early alert systems for relationships in distress. Most importantly, we offer practical prevention strategies that any couple can implement to strengthen their bond before it reaches a breaking point.Our discussion takes an unexpected turn as we share personal stories about sacrificing individual dreams for our partnership. From turning down a WWE contract to reluctantly starting this podcast, we've learned firsthand that the "we before me" mindset builds resilience in marriage. This isn't about martyrdom – it's about finding joy in growing together rather than apart.Marriage isn't "work" – it's intentional connection with your best friend. When you control what you can – your effort and attitude – your relationship can reach heights you never imagined possible. Whether you're struggling or thriving, this episode offers valuable perspective on building a marriage that stands the test of time. Share your thoughts with us – we especially love hearing success stories of couples who've overcome these challenges!The Balance of GrayGod, doubt, and proof walk into a podcast... it goes better than you'd expect!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

    Roommates or Soulmates? How to Know You're Drifting and What to Do About It!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2025 35:50 Transcription Available


    Send us a textMarriage can feel like living with a stranger when we drift from soulmates to roommates. The signs are subtle but unmistakable: conversations become purely logistical about schedules and responsibilities; physical touch feels obligatory rather than passionate; and shared laughter—that vital connection point—becomes rare.This shift happens when life drowns out our relationship with its constant demands. We give our careers, children, and social obligations our best energy while our spouse gets whatever scraps remain. The mental and emotional distance grows until one day we realize we're just two people sharing space, bills, and maybe children—but not truly sharing our lives.Moving back from roommates to soulmates begins with honest communication. Not accusatory "you don't" statements, but vulnerable expressions of what you miss and need. Creating a truly non-judgmental space for these conversations is crucial; the moment judgment enters, trust evaporates and doors slam shut.Three practical steps can reignite your connection: prioritize intentional time together (even simple couch cuddles with phones away count); establish safe communication where both partners feel heard; and rekindle physical touch that feels authentic and meaningful. Even small gestures like hand-holding or meaningful eye contact can begin rebuilding that essential bridge between you.The most hopeful truth? Every couple experiences this drift at some point. Recognizing it doesn't mean you're broken or doomed—it means you're normal and now have the opportunity to intentionally rebuild what matters most. By turning down life's volume and turning up your focus on each other, you can rediscover the person who once made your heart race just by entering the room.The Balance of GrayGod, doubt, and proof walk into a podcast... it goes better than you'd expect!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

    I Suck in Bed!!! What Can I Do??!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 34:53 Transcription Available


    Send us a textEver found yourself wondering if you're falling short in the bedroom? You're not alone. In this refreshingly honest episode, Matthew and Monica Powers break down the taboo topic of sexual inadequacy with their trademark blend of humor, wisdom, and practical advice.The conversation dives deep into recognizing the warning signs that your intimate life might need attention—from avoiding conversations about sex to treating intimacy as just another item on your to-do list. With characteristic candor, the hosts identify common issues like rushing through foreplay, focusing solely on your own pleasure, and sticking to predictable routines that leave both partners unfulfilled.What makes this episode particularly valuable is the actionable advice Matthew and Monica provide. They emphasize that improving your sex life starts with communication outside the bedroom, building emotional connection, and understanding your partner's needs. Their "test kitchen" approach encourages couples to explore new experiences together without judgment, while their insights on how spontaneity and taking control can transform your intimate relationship offer immediate ways to create positive change.The Powers don't shy away from addressing physical challenges either, particularly those facing men as they age. Their compassionate approach reminds listeners that seeking help for these issues isn't just about personal satisfaction—it's an investment in your relationship.Whether you're newlyweds still finding your rhythm or long-time partners looking to reignite the spark, this episode offers wisdom that could transform your connection. Because as Matthew and Monica remind us, a fulfilling intimate life doesn't just improve your marriage—it positively impacts every aspect of your well-being, from your productivity at work to your effectiveness as a parent.Ready to build more confidence, deepen your connection, and create a more satisfying intimate life with your spouse? This conversation might be exactly what you've been waiting for.Ashley T Lee PodcastAshley T. Lee Podcast will cover many life issues such as overcoming stress, anxiety...Listen on: Apple Podcasts

    Are We Kissing Enough?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 31:14 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWhen was the last time you really kissed your spouse? Not a quick peck as you rush out the door, but a genuine, meaningful connection? Matthew and Monica Powers tackle this deceptively simple question that reveals volumes about modern marriages.The statistics might shock you – 16% of married couples kiss just once daily, while a staggering 10% kiss only once or twice weekly. These numbers correlate directly with relationship satisfaction, with couples who kiss less frequently reporting dramatically higher divorce rates. But why aren't people kissing their spouses? "We're too busy" tops the list of excuses, though the same individuals likely find time for social media scrolling and Netflix binges.Science backs up what our hearts already know: kissing matters. Each kiss releases powerful chemicals like oxytocin and dopamine that reduce stress, boost immunity, and create feelings of connection. One fascinating study from the 1960s even found that men who kissed their wives before leaving for work lived an average of five years longer than those who didn't.For couples wanting more physical affection, communication is key. Using "I statements" like "I miss feeling close to you" instead of accusatory "You never kiss me" language opens the door for honest conversation without triggering defensiveness. The podcast offers practical tips for better kissing – from the importance of oral hygiene to experimenting with different kissing styles – and suggests six seconds as the scientific "sweet spot" for a meaningful kiss.Ask your spouse today: "Are we kissing enough?" Their answer might reveal more about your relationship than you realize – and could be the first step toward rekindling physical connection in your marriage.

    Where Have We Been? Life Updates and Tornado Tales

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 23:22 Transcription Available


    Send us a textAfter a nearly two-month hiatus, we're back to update you on our whirlwind of recent life events including house hunting heartbreaks, tornado cleanup, and busy sports seasons. Our unexpected break wasn't planned, but we've been amazed to see podcast downloads continue at record levels even during our absence.• Spring sports season hit us hard with Monica coaching high school softball and our son starting baseball• Put our house on the market and had our hearts broken during a complicated house hunting journey• Made the difficult decision to walk away from what seemed like our perfect home due to major inspection issues• Survived a scary tornado that hit just 2.5 miles from our home and participated in community cleanup• Focused on our church small group ministry that's helping couples strengthen their marriages• Thrilled to see our global audience growing with listeners from Amsterdam joining our top 10 locationsWe'll be back with brand new weekly episodes starting April 8th! Submit your questions at themarriedafpodcast.com or through our social media channels. Please rate and review us on your podcast platform to help others find the show.

    8 Kinds of S*X ALL Married Couples Need!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 29:28 Transcription Available


    Send us a textCan maintaining a robust sex life within marriage truly be the secret to a healthier heart? Join us as we explore this possibility, revealing the intriguing statistic that men who have sex more than 103 times a year may enjoy significantly lower risks of heart disease. We're Matthew and Monica Powers, and in this episode, we navigate the fascinating links between marital intimacy, sexual health, and modern relationship trends. As we share personal stories, including a humorous debate over lipstick and mustache grooming, we also tackle the shifting perceptions of marriage among young adults who view it as increasingly outdated.From discussing the health benefits of an active sex life to questioning whether marriage still holds its traditional value amidst changing relationship norms, we cover a lot of ground. With divorce rates soaring and the allure of multiple partners, these topics couldn't be more relevant. We promise to keep the conversation lively and engaging, peppered with laughter and personal anecdotes. And as we wrap up, we tease upcoming episodes inspired by recent articles, ensuring our listeners have plenty of thought-provoking content to look forward to. So, sit back, relax, and enjoy a candid discussion that's both entertaining and enlightening.

    What I Learned from Navigating Life's Journey with LOVE

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2025 35:41 Transcription Available


    Send us a textJoin us as we unpack provocative questions and explore the complex relationships between personal faith, self-worth, and overcoming life's hurdles. We kick off with a touch of humor inspired by Wayne's World, setting the stage for a lively discussion about the power of asking the right questions in relationships. Get ready to discover ten insightful questions that can deepen your connection with your partner and foster enduring love.Our journey continues as we reflect on the timeless story of Joseph from the Book of Genesis. We draw inspiration from his resilience and unwavering faith, even in the face of betrayal and hardship, and how this mirrors our own paths in life's unpredictable journey. One of us shares a deeply personal moment of committing to follow Jesus, a decision that marked a pivotal turning point akin to Joseph's ultimate redemption. This chapter is a heartfelt reminder of the transformative power of faith and perseverance, offering encouragement to those seeking spiritual strength.Parenting challenges and dreams of financial freedom paint the final strokes of our conversation. We share the joys of watching our children thrive and the unexpected delight of seeing them succeed in roles like public speaking. As we dream about owning the Boston Red Sox and living a life of generosity, we reflect on the shift from personal indulgence to community impact. Closing with a heartfelt prayer for success, we express our gratitude for the opportunity to share our journey, hoping our message inspires and uplifts in equal measure.Visit our friends at Kingdom and Will. Go to www.kingdomandwill.com and use promo code MARRIEDAF for 15% off all orders. Eye-Opening Moments PodcastEye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

    How To Detect Absence In Your Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2025 32:19 Transcription Available


    Send us a textMarriage is under scrutiny, with many young adults questioning its relevance today. Does this age-old institution still hold value in our modern lives? Our latest episode of the Married AF podcast tackles this provocative question head-on, using a shocking story about a partner who vanished for five weeks without a trace, leaving their spouse in distress. Through this narrative, we shine a light on the critical signs of emotional detachment and the importance of open, honest communication in relationships. We explore how recognizing early warnings, like a lack of shared communication or growing indifference, can prevent such heart-wrenching situations.Do you know how to spot the signs of relationship strain before it's too late? We take you through crucial red flags that could indicate a disconnection between partners, including indifference during conflicts and a diminishing interest in intimacy. Addressing these issues with empathy and support is essential for healing and strengthening bonds. We also share insights on how to rekindle intimacy, even when past traumas or body image concerns come into play. There's a lot to unpack, from the subtlety of secretive behavior to the power of mutual concern in resolving conflicts.To keep your relationship vibrant and fulfilling, engaging in activities that build trust and intimacy is vital. We offer practical advice on expressing gratitude, creating shared experiences, and even the art of timing when sharing personal news. Emphasizing the value of humor and shared memories, like that unforgettable Applebee's date, we also discuss the spiritual dimension of gratitude and trust. Join us as we navigate these complex themes, ensuring you have the tools to nurture a healthy, connected partnership.Eye-Opening Moments PodcastEye-Opening Moments are stories of adversity, encounters, and perspectives. They are...Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

    Two Fatal Errors Holding You Back

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2025 32:44 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWe explore how certain timeless mistakes continue to unravel relationships, particularly when it comes to understanding and validating our partner's feelings. Our conversation is interwoven with heartfelt stories, such as the unforgettable moment at a Three Doors Down concert where lead singer Brad Arnold's open declaration of faith left an indelible mark on us, reminding us of the surprising ways faith can manifest in public life.Brad Arnold's transformative journey of faith captured our attention, sparking a desire to have him and his wife share their story with us. We examine the profound impact faith can have on relationships, noting how it can visibly alter one's outlook on life. Through personal anecdotes and testimonies, we dive into the often-overlooked importance of prioritizing the emotions and emergencies of our loved ones. We explore how empathy and understanding can change not just personal dynamics but also the way we interact with the world, as beautifully illustrated by a young girl named Elke during a youth sports event.The power of small groups in nurturing spiritual growth and deepening relationships is a theme that resonates throughout our discussion. We reflect on the unique presence of God in intimate gatherings and the transformative effects these interactions can have. With anticipation, we look forward to resuming our "Married AF" small group, ready to embrace the blessings of community and shared wisdom. Through candid conversations, we aim to inspire a renewed appreciation for empathy, understanding, and the invaluable connections that enrich our lives. Join us for a heartfelt journey into the intricate dynamics of relationships and the unexpected sources of strength and guidance.Deepcozy Nasal IrrigatorStruggle to breathe during sleep or every day life? Deepcozy helps you Breathe Easier

    How To Increase Intimacy and Connection in 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 27:44 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWe open up about prioritizing our partnership by placing God and each other first, setting a strong foundation for a vibrant marriage that defies societal myths of dullness.Amidst the distractions of modern life, discover how quality time can transform your relationship. We humorously tackle the social media habits that siphon away your attention and suggest practical ways to shift focus from "me time" to "we time." By dedicating weekends to bonding and using creative tools like conversation cards, we explore how these small changes can lead to unexpectedly deep connections with your spouse.Navigating the complexities of intimacy, we delve into defining cheating, the necessity of transparency, and the importance of understanding love languages. Our discussion highlights how mutual support and effort can lead to a resilient partnership, emphasizing grace and communication as cornerstones. As we look to 2025 with hope and gratitude, we invite you to renew your commitment to marriage, drawing strength from faith and community, fostering a lasting bond that inspires others.KINGDOM COME WITH ANDREW NKOYOYOLearn how to experience Holy Spirit's power, healing, miracles. Subscribe/follow now belowListen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

    Am I Doing Enough?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2024 28:50 Transcription Available


    Send us a textJoin us on the Married AF Podcast as we share our personal revelations, backed by insights from our listeners in Los Angeles and New York City. We reflect on Isaiah 40, which challenges us to prepare a way for the Lord, and this revelation leads us to ponder whether we're living authentically or simply adhering to societal expectations.As we transition to spiritual introspection, explore the profound impact of prophetic, priestly, and kingly worship. These forms of worship, especially when exemplified by inspiring figures like Angela Schaefer, guide us toward a deeper connection with God, revealing untouched areas in our lives for divine connection. As 2024 draws to a close, we look forward to 2025 with a renewed trust in God's plan, hoping our discussions inspire you to enrich your relationships and spiritual journey. Through gratitude and prayer, we express thankfulness for the opportunity to share God's word and for the blessings that guide us all.

    A Whoop and A Poop Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2024 29:34 Transcription Available


    Send us a textJoin us as we share our personal journey in exploring the shifting perceptions of marriage and the challenges of representing Christianity with empathy and kindness. We highlight the power of leading by example, especially when it comes to influencing the younger generation and being a source of support in a world filled with conflicting messages.We also reflect on the missed opportunities for spiritual mentorship with Gen Z, a generation searching for purpose amidst the chaos of modern distractions. The conversation is enriched with stories from mission trips to Juarez, Mexico, where we witnessed the power of faith and resilience firsthand. Here, we explore how prayer, guidance, and community can help nurture the hopes and dreams of those who face adversity daily. We challenge previous generations to step up and support the youth, helping them recognize the opportunities God presents and encouraging them to walk by faith.Lastly, we shine a light on the remarkable work of Hunger House International, an organization committed to making a difference by following divine guidance. We share our gratitude for the opportunities to spread hope and emphasize the importance of supporting such impactful causes. By trusting in God's provision and embracing the power of community, we invite you to join us in fostering positive change and being "hope dealers" in a world that desperately needs light and transformation.https://hungerhouseministries.com/

    A Whoop and A Poop Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2024 28:47 Transcription Available


    Send us a textMonica brings a unique perspective from her transformative journey to Juarez, Mexico, with Hunger House International, where she witnessed firsthand the power of hope and kindness in communities in need. We connect her experiences to a larger discussion on finding hope in places beyond worldly offerings, especially during the holiday season, and reflect on a 1960s study about the effects of deferred hope on the human heart.We explore the true essence of gratitude and hope amid the hectic holiday season. The stark contrast between first-world expectations and the deep appreciation for small acts of kindness is brought to life through Monica's mission trip stories. We also share our own journey as walking billboards for Jesus, embracing the challenges of leading others to faith and highlighting the inspiring work of Hunger House International. Join us for this heartfelt exploration of hope, faith, and the enduring impact of seemingly simple gestures.Visit our friends at http://hungerhouseministries.com/

    Social Media, Threesomes, and Falling In Love Daily

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 33:40 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWe share an intriguing story about a couple who claim that a threesome saved their marriage, sparking a conversation on whether such unconventional solutions offer genuine, long-term benefits or merely temporary relief. Join us as we emphasize the importance of genuine connection and communication, urging couples to strengthen their bonds by considering the lasting implications of their choices.Social media has a profound impact on relationships, and we explore its complexities in our discussion. From emotional turmoil caused by liking a former flame's photos to the broader ramifications of online behavior, we highlight the delicate balance needed in the digital age. Our conversation brings to light the necessity of mindfulness when sharing personal images and interactions, especially concerning family and children. We delve into the nuanced challenges of maintaining healthy boundaries online, encouraging listeners to reflect on the intentions and perceptions surrounding their digital footprints.The power of affection and communication takes center stage as we celebrate their significance in marriage. Through personal anecdotes, we illustrate how prioritizing your spouse can set a positive example for children, helping them understand healthy relationship dynamics. Romantic gestures, expressions of admiration, and gratitude play crucial roles in strengthening marital bonds and inspiring future generations. Our heartfelt dialogue concludes with a prayer of thanks, hoping to inspire listeners to nurture open dialogues and deeper connections within their own relationships.

    Rapid Fire Q&A & High School Love Notes

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2024 39:07 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWe share a trip down memory lane, revealing keepsakes from our high school days that remind us of the thoughtful gestures and heartfelt moments that began our relationship. Amidst laughter and sentimentality, we uncover an old compatibility list, sparking both disbelief and humor, and ponder which superpower would suit us best—teleportation, invisibility, or flight.As we continue, we dive into the lighter side of relationships with an exploration of flirting, cheesy pickup lines, and the art of keeping the romance alive. From weekend getaways to tackling physical insecurities, we share tips for staying connected and intimate. The importance of open communication is at the heart of our conversation, as we examine what warning label our relationship might carry, settling on "truth" as a defining trait. We also touch upon the significance of having a supportive community, especially through marriage-focused small groups within the church.Our episode concludes with a heart full of gratitude. We express our appreciation for the divine guidance in our journey and the unwavering support from our listeners. With love and faith, we recognize the role of gratitude in our lives and encourage you to explore the amazing contributions of Kingdom and Will. Join us as we celebrate the essence of our path, filled with love, dedication, and a hopeful outlook on the future of relationships.

    3 Weeks Of Hell

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2024 39:23 Transcription Available


    Send us a textJoin us as we explore this provocative question against the backdrop of our own family's trials and triumphs. From the poignant moment our son Cash was mistakenly added to, then removed from, his middle school baseball team, to the heart-wrenching vigil at the hospital bedside of our beloved grandfather, these stories illuminate the pressures of modern family life and the resilience that binds us together. We share the emotional rollercoaster, the lessons learned, and the unexpected blessings that emerged from these challenges.As our family faced these tests, we found ourselves juggling the emotional fallout of Cash's disappointment and the logistical nightmare of a medical crisis. Our grandfather's battle with chronic kidney disease brought us to the brink, forcing us to confront hospital procedural missteps and the looming permanence of dialysis. Through it all, we balanced supporting Cash with preparing for the worst, discovering reserves of strength we didn't know we had. By sharing these raw, unvarnished experiences, we aim to shed light on the human journey through adversity and the bonds that sustain us.Faith and community became our refuge, offering a lifeline of hope and resilience. Witness how a miraculous turnaround in our father's health reaffirmed our belief in divine intervention, inspiring a renewed commitment to trust, prayer, and gratitude. This episode is a testament to the power of thoughtful decision-making, exemplified by Cash's mature choice to leave a sports team for his well-being. We hope these stories of faith, perseverance, and unity in the face of life's storms will provide comfort and encouragement, reminding everyone they aren't alone in their struggles.

    How To Go Deeper

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2024 32:40 Transcription Available


    Send us a textJoin us on the Married AF Podcast as we tackle these questions, sharing our personal insights and an adventurous story from our trip to Hawaii. We also introduce a card game that helps couples spark meaningful conversations, moving beyond the everyday chatter to explore deeper connections and laughter. Our candid reflections aim to challenge the notion of marriage being overrated and celebrate the beauty and complexity of long-term commitment.We celebrate the strengths of our relationship that have kept us thriving for 16 years—open communication, trust, and transparency. These values not only solidify our bond but also set a powerful example for our children. From small acts of love to shared victories, we discuss how being honest and true to ourselves enriches our family life. It's a journey that we're proud to share, hoping to inspire you to cherish the unique attributes of your own relationships.With stories of encouragement and support, we reflect on how these elements have fueled our personal growth over the years. Whether it's cheering each other on in life's challenges or reliving pivotal memories, like our son's middle school baseball tryouts, we emphasize the importance of pursuing passions and embracing new experiences. We wrap up with gratitude, and a heartfelt prayer—hoping to enrich your relationships and faith through the conversations we share.

    Late Night Q&A! What Could Go Wrong!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2024 37:04 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWe address a listener's heartfelt concern about regretting their marriage after just four months. With insights drawn from real-life scenarios, we'll offer practical advice on navigating early marital challenges while keeping the conversation light with some banter about Alabama football and chocolate.Ever wondered how kids react to their parents' PDA? We share amusing anecdotes from families, focusing on two kids, Cash and Elke, whose contrasting reactions provide a window into the complexities of parenting. We then shift to the everyday struggles of a stay-at-home mom who feels overwhelmed by the discipline and organization of her household. By contrasting her structured approach with her husband's laid-back style, we emphasize the need for flexibility and understanding in co-parenting, offering tips to harmonize differing parenting philosophies.Finally, we dive into the topic of spiritual leadership within the family, addressing a listener's feelings of inadequacy compared to his wife. Through practical advice, such as initiating joint Bible studies and engaging in fun spiritual activities, we aim to demystify spiritual leadership and promote mutual support. We also caution against the pitfalls of workplace romance, sharing a heartfelt plea to a daughter about the potential consequences of dating a coworker. Wrapping up with humor and heartfelt reflections, this episode is packed with advice aimed at fostering stronger relationships and personal growth.

    Is You Marriage Worth Saving?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 31:23 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWe argue that enduring joy—rather than fleeting happiness—is essential for a fulfilling relationship. Drawing wisdom from John, chapter four, we emphasize the need for lasting joy, much like an unending source of fulfillment rather than a temporary fix.We then transition into the vital role of self-reflection in rebuilding strained marriages. Often, individuals hastily blame their partners for marital dissatisfaction, overlooking their own contributions to the issues at hand. We stress that mutual effort and open communication are key in effective marriage counseling. Both partners must be committed to the process to see real change. Furthermore, we consider the broader impact of relationship problems, which extends beyond the couple to affect children, friends, family, and careers. Our message is one of hope—true reconciliation and stronger relationships are achievable with the right approach and a willingness to seek help.Finally, rational decision-making over emotional impulses can be a game-changer in relationships. Emotional reactions often lead to poor outcomes, and having friends who hold us accountable can make a significant difference. We emphasize honest communication, self-awareness, and collaborative problem-solving. Additionally, the misconception that ending a marriage will lead to greater happiness is critically examined, revealing that many regret such decisions. We close with a heartfelt message encouraging listeners to cherish their relationships, recognize their inherent worth, and appreciate the divine design for marriage and family. Tune in to find out why nurturing your current relationship may be the best decision you ever make.

    How Your Partner FEELS Love (Love Languages Explained)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2024 34:31 Transcription Available


    Send us a textLove languages are the secret sauce to a happy relationship, and we dive deep into their importance, backed by insights from a study at George Mason University. Discover how expressing your partner's preferred love language—whether it's words of affirmation, acts of service, quality time, gifts, or physical touch—can drastically improve relationship and sexual satisfaction. Through personal anecdotes and practical examples, we debunk misconceptions and illustrate just how transformative these simple acts can be.But it doesn't stop there. We get into the nitty-gritty of applying love languages in your relationship, emphasizing how small acts of service and quality time can make a big difference, even when your love languages don't align perfectly. From the soothing power of physical touch to the necessity of meaningful engagement, we offer practical advice to help you navigate these dynamics. We wrap up with a heartfelt prayer, reflecting our hope that this episode provides you with valuable tools to enrich your relationship.

    Why We Need To Break Free From Relationship Expectations

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2024 30:45 Transcription Available


    Send us a textFeeling overwhelmed by the glittering, unattainable ideals of modern marriage? You're not alone. We contrast the humble aspirations of past generations with today's extravagant, social-media-fueled fantasies. These sky-high expectations often lead to disappointment and resentment when reality falls short. Through our personal stories, we shed light on the importance of valuing meaningful moments and relationships over material wealth. By focusing on simpler, more achievable goals, we offer a refreshing perspective on how to enrich your life and relationships.Social media got you feeling like your marriage doesn't measure up? We get it. In our discussion, we highlight the pitfalls of comparing your life to others online, which can drain your happiness and create unrealistic expectations. Moving beyond these superficial comparisons, we champion authenticity and selflessness in marriages, stressing that genuine love and service should come from the heart, not a desire for reciprocation. We wrap up with a heartfelt prayer, emphasizing the importance of following God's design for marriage for a more fulfilling and harmonious life. Join us for practical advice, heartfelt insights, and a few laughs to help you strengthen your relationship.

    Communication: The Heartbeat of a Successful Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2024 31:36 Transcription Available


    Send us a textWe give a shoutout to our diverse listeners from bustling metropolises like New York, Los Angeles, and Chicago. We challenge you to tell us where you're tuning in from and to weigh in on the red flags couples therapists say indicate a marriage is on the rocks.Communication is the lifeblood of any successful marriage, and we dedicate a segment to exploring this essential theme. We discuss the importance of mutual support, transparency, and having those hard conversations about future goals. We draw a clear line between privacy and secrecy, emphasizing that while personal boundaries are healthy, hiding things can lead to a dangerous disconnect. Sharing our own story about a surprise trip to Hawaii won through a game show, we illustrate how unexpected joys can bring couples closer. Keeping a shared vision for the future is crucial, and we delve into why aligning your dreams with your partner's can make or break a relationship.After 16 years of marriage, we reflect on the highs, lows, and everything in between that has brought us to where we are today. Gratitude fills our hearts as we acknowledge the joy and fulfillment our journey has provided, and we extend thanks for the platform that lets us connect with you all. We touch on sensitive topics like jealousy, affection, and body image issues, offering support and reassurance to those who may be struggling. Ending on a spiritual note, we offer a heartfelt prayer for guidance and inspiration, hoping our experiences spark meaningful conversations among you, our listeners. Join us as we navigate the complexities of love, partnership, and the ever-evolving landscape of marriage.

    The Episode of Dumb!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 31:47 Transcription Available


    Send us a text We take a moment to celebrate our podcast's success, with 50,000 downloads and nearly 5,000 YouTube subscribers, and ponder whether it's time to shake up our seasonal format.Switching gears, we dive into a hilarious yet telling birthday dinner anecdote that highlights modern relationship dynamics. A boyfriend's sizzling fajita order at a Mexican restaurant leads to an unexpected spat with his girlfriend, who felt the attention-grabbing dish stole the spotlight on her special day. This amusing story opens up a broader discussion about self-absorption and narcissism in relationships, as we speculate about the couple's age and even consider some potential reality TV connections for added fun.Finally, we delve into the complex issue of trust in marriage, particularly when it comes to hiring an attractive nanny. Sharing personal experiences, we stress the importance of trust, commitment, and faith in maintaining a strong relationship, regardless of external skepticism. We then welcome you to our new recording space and share our excitement for this fresh start, expressing our deep gratitude for our partners and listeners. To close, we reflect on the purpose of our podcast and offer a heartfelt prayer, committing ourselves to continue delivering meaningful content for our wonderful audience.

    Your Burning Questions Answered: Q&A Time!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2024 36:22 Transcription Available


    Send us a textGet ready for everyone's ultimate favorite—it's Q&A Time!!! In this exciting and engaging episode, we're diving into your burning questions that you've been curious about and eager to have answered. From navigating the tricky waters of choosing between two Churches with your spouse, which can often lead to some challenging discussions and decisions, to the hilarious and unforgettable moment when your husband makes a surprise appearance in his birthday suit during your Zoom meeting, leaving everyone in stitches and creating a memory that will surely be talked about for years to come! Join us for a fun-filled time as we tackle these topics and more, providing insights, laughter, and perhaps even a little bit of wisdom along the way! Don't miss out on this lively conversation that promises to entertain and inform!

    Mistakes Women Make That Drive Men Crazy

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2024 35:28 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.We discuss the various things that women do that drive men absolutely crazy. From phones, to expectations, to social media interactions, to talking about past relationships, there is a whole spectrum of behaviors and actions that women are engaging in that men simply can't stand. Are you making some of these same mistakes, and if so, what can you do to recognize them and stop them? In this video, we delve deep into the specific behaviors that often lead to misunderstandings and frustration in relationships. We explore how certain habits can create tension and what you can do to foster better communication. Join us as we uncover these insights and provide you with practical tips to improve your relationship dynamics. You might be surprised to learn just how small changes can lead to a more harmonious connection with your partner!

    The Disturbing Case of Scott & Laci Peterson

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2024 34:45 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.In this gripping episode, we plunge into the shocking and widely publicized case of Laci and Scott Peterson. Discover the chaos of their tumultuous marriage, the tangled web of lies spun by Scott, and the affair that marked the beginning of their tragic downfall. This heart-wrenching tale of murder captivated the nation and left the media in a frenzy. We'll unravel the timeline of events leading to this devastating incident, the intense investigation that followed, and the crucial evidence revealed during the trial. There were a few takeaways we took from this and had to discuss!

    The Most Memorable Vow Renewal Ever

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2024 30:19 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.We retell the story of the greatest vow renewal that has even been given. Monica goes to the next level in giving Matthew the surprise of a lifetime. Watch as we tell the behind the scenes story of having our vows renewed on the field at Fenway Park!

    Divorce Is On The Mind

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 34:41 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.Prepare to be captivated as we delve into the intriguing world of "Roommate Marriages"! Are you headed to divorce? Discover the impact of excessive phone use on relationships and uncover practical tips for achieving the perfect work-life balance. Get ready for personal anecdotes on packing quirks, in-law encounters, and red flags signaling a marriage in trouble. Explore the dynamics of parenthood on couples, backed by eye-opening statistics. Uncover the hidden truths behind marriage motivations, from financial security to love. Join us for a humorous take on Adam and Eve's story and unravel the top reasons for divorce among childless couples. Brace yourself for a 30-day no phone challenge designed to reignite passion in relationships. Don't miss this heartfelt episode ending with a prayer for those navigating the complexities of modern relationships and technology.

    How We Got Here...Our Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2024 33:05 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.Picture this: You're hiding in a closet with your infant son, a gun, and a prayer, facing a life-threatening situation. This was the terrifying moment that served as a catalyst for our profound spiritual transformation. We recount the harrowing experience that led us to seek a deeper connection with Jesus, ultimately finding safety and stability. Through this deeply personal story, we illustrate how divine intervention can guide us through our darkest hours and lead us to a path of committed faith and renewal.Rediscovering faith wasn't easy, especially after facing past hurts and resistance to forming new relationships. Our unexpected reencounter with Cultivate Church became a turning point, fostering healing and hope through genuine community connections. We explore how aligning our desires with God's will has profoundly influenced our marriages, friendships, and overall outlook on life. Join us as we share heartfelt reflections, express our gratitude for our listeners, and offer a sincere prayer for guidance and reconciliation with God.

    All About Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 37:32 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.We break down society's perception of marriage as an outdated tradition and delve into why sex remains a taboo subject both socially and biblically. Through candid discussions, we'll challenge common misconceptions and emphasize the value of open communication to boost marital satisfaction and intimacy.Discover the extensive health benefits of a fulfilling sex life—from lowering blood pressure to enhancing your immune system—and learn the boundaries of a healthy sexual relationship. We'll warn against the pitfalls of polygamy and polyamory, stressing the importance of mutual respect and intimacy. Drawing from various biblical references, including the Song of Solomon, we advocate for sexual experimentation within marriage, aiming to make the marital bed a place of joy and connection.Our episode also dives into sustaining emotional intimacy after years of marriage with personal reflections and practical tips. Hear how, after 25 years together and 16 years of marriage, the passion remains vibrant. We'll share actionable advice on maintaining that spark, from giving compliments to showing physical affection. Wrap up the episode with a heartfelt prayer, expressing our hope that these insights help couples fortify their relationships and lead happier, healthier lives together.

    Fake It Til You Make It

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2024 30:49 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.We take a moment to celebrate our incredible milestone of 25,000 downloads from listeners across 38 countries and 722 cities, with special shout-outs to our top listener locations like Los Angeles, San Jose, New York City, and Miami. Your unexpected support continues to fuel our passion for sharing valuable insights, even as one of us navigates the podcasting world without being a social media aficionado.Navigating the emotional challenges of maintaining household morale when personal well-being is compromised, we dive deep into the necessity of self-care and genuine emotional health. From the strain of "faking it till you make it" to the impact of depression on family dynamics, our conversation underscores the importance of a balanced partnership. We also highlight the role of community and spiritual practices in refilling one's emotional cup, sharing a listener's story about recognizing personal contributions to marital issues and the benefits of mutual effort and introspection.With personal anecdotes and heartfelt reflections, we explore the dynamic nature of marriage, emphasizing the importance of living in the moment versus documenting every event. From balancing responsibilities to cherishing real-time experiences, we discuss how love, support, and understanding are critical to achieving both individual and shared goals. Finally, we delve into the profound impact of unconditional love, forgiveness, grace, and mercy, concluding with a heartfelt prayer for wisdom and insight in all relationships and expressing our deep gratitude for your continued support.

    Flat Earth Husband

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 30:02 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered if conspiracy theories could tear a marriage apart? We share a heartfelt story of a wife struggling with her husband's flat earth beliefs, which have only intensified during the COVID-19 pandemic. As we navigate the complexities of dealing with a spouse's extreme views, we examine whether such convictions are grounds for divorce from a biblical perspective. Plus, we lighten the mood with some nostalgic chatter about classic wrestling figures like Razor Ramon and Scott Hall, before diving back into the serious implications of obsessive beliefs on personal and familial well-being.Forgiveness and prayer hold transformative power in relationships, and we explore these themes with depth and sincerity. Discover the nuances between forgiveness and reconciliation, and learn how genuine actions and open communication can rebuild trust. We wrap up the episode by discussing the amazing effects of praying for your spouse's spiritual growth, emphasizing how small, thoughtful prayers can lead to profound positive changes in your marriage. Join us for a heartfelt prayer, entrusting everything to divine guidance as we aim to strengthen and uplift our listeners' relationships.

    Sex with Another Man

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 32:02 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.Ever found yourself haunted by past flames even while in a happy marriage? We dissect a real-life scenario where a newly married woman grapples with lingering emotions for a former friend with benefits, and how social media stirs the pot of jealousy and unresolved feelings. Should she come clean to her husband? We debate the pros and cons and give you actionable advice on fortifying your marital bond. Lastly, we stress the often overlooked yet crucial element of personal hygiene and self-care. From keeping up grooming habits to maintaining mutual respect, find out why a little attention to detail can go a long way in keeping the spark alive.

    Cussing Kids

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2024 34:36 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.Trust and boundaries in marriage can be incredibly complex, especially when business and personal lives intertwine. This episode uncovers the subtle but significant difference between friendly behavior and actions that might erode trust. We emphasize the importance of open communication and discuss the controversial approach of giving a taste of one's own medicine. As we debate the idea of more drastic measures like firing an employee to resolve marital tensions, we also confront the challenge of managing cussing around children, comparing different household norms and the influence of work environments and upbringing.In the final chapter, we tackle a common parental dilemma: handling children's use of bad language. We explore how parental behavior and external influences like YouTube and school buses contribute to this issue. As born-again Christians, we're committed to leading by example and maintaining a balanced perspective on language. We also delve into the importance of authenticity for pastor's wives, encouraging them to embrace their individuality and unique talents. We wrap up with a heartfelt prayer, expressing gratitude for our marriage and platform, and hoping our message reaches those in need. Tune in for an episode filled with personal stories, practical advice, and uplifting spiritual guidance.

    Seeking Advice

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 37:47 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.We share some thrilling news about our podcast's rapid growth—over 20,000 downloads and listeners spanning 36 countries and 713 cities! Can you guess which city has the highest number of our listeners?In our next segment, we dive deep into the heart of relationship struggles and communication issues. Listen to the powerful narrative of a husband feeling overwhelmed by household responsibilities and childcare, while his wife battles depression. We stress the critical importance of open communication, self-awareness, and addressing underlying issues rather than expecting external solutions to fix marital problems. We also dispel common misconceptions about depression and emphasize the crucial role of seeking professional help and counseling.Finally, we tackle a listener's dilemma about financial stress driving his wife to engage in online sexual interactions for money. This conversation unearths the emotional complexities and challenges of separating sex from emotional involvement. We also explore the concept of biblical submission in marriage, highlighting mutual respect and the necessity of joint decision-making on significant family matters. To close, we share a heartfelt prayer for our platform and its listeners, seeking blessings and guidance for those navigating their own struggles. Tune in for an episode packed with candid discussions, valuable insights, and a touch of humor.

    Are Men Useless?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2024 33:02 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.Are men becoming obsolete? This provocative question fuels our heated debate on gender roles and societal perceptions. Using a clip from “The View,” we dissect various opinions on the value of men and women in modern society. We examine how both genders excel in different ways, making each indispensable. Our conversation covers societal expectations, marital dynamics, and the indispensable role of community and friendships in sustaining long-term relationships. Imagine a world without men—what would happen? We explore this hypothetical scenario, assessing the impact on industries, population, and societal structures. Our discussion highlights the unsustainable nature of a male-less world, touching on declining birth rates and the role of AI and automation. Joy shares personal experiences with marriage, emphasizing the importance of mutual respect. We wrap up with a heartfelt prayer for strong, fulfilling relationships and a nod to our shared love for sports. Don't miss this blend of serious discussion, humor, and a sprinkle of Bible fun!

    Don't Do This...

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 25:51 Transcription Available


    Send us a Text Message.Have you ever sat across from someone and wondered, "Is this the pinnacle of togetherness, or are we just ticking societal checkboxes?" Well, buckle up, because Matthew and I are ripping the lid off the marriage box in this unfiltered episode. As young adults increasingly question the institution's relevance, we're tossing in our own stories—from our son's dreams on the baseball diamond to the everyday hilarity that keeps our partnership afloat. Prepare to navigate the twists and turns of modern matrimony, where societal norms collide with the raw truth of our lived experiences. From a tale that could be straight out of a crime drama, detailing deceit and the strength it takes to stand against domestic abuse, to a comically misinterpreted incident that nearly ended in false infidelity accusations, we're exposing it all. And yes, we're even addressing the jaw-dropping reason one couple cited for their divorce—you won't believe the flavor of this story! Join us as we offer a guiding light through the sometimes-dark, often-quirky, and always genuine journey of marriage. Whether you're single, married, or contemplating the 'I dos,' there's a nugget of wisdom (or a laugh) waiting for you here.

    Why Can't We Be Friends???!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2024 27:10 Transcription Available


    Buckle up as we mark our 51st flight through the podcasting universe, navigating through tumultuous debates on whether marriage has lost its sheen among millennials. With a dash of humor, we dissect the everyday oddities that bind us, like the dreaded post-meal teeth check or the silent gym selfie culture. We're peeling back layers of societal expectations, unearthing the roots of marital skepticism, and pondering if the promise of 'forever' is as enticing as it once was. So, pull up a chair, and let's have a real talk about love, commitment, and the digital-age conundrums that make us all human.Then, grab your metaphorical binoculars and let's observe the intriguing dance of male-female friendships—is it a ballet of platonic purity, or is there an unspoken tango of tension? We're serving up stories and dissecting cultural commentary, including a nod to Steve Harvey's famous take, to scrutinize the 'just friends' narrative. From the impact of these friendships on marriages to the enigmatic 'Power of the...,' we're not shying away from the awkward questions. Can a man really just be a friend without a hidden agenda? Whether we're unraveling the threads of a 'situationship' or offering up a prayer, you're invited to join the conversation and maybe even find clarity in the chaos.

    Why We Don't Get Married

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2024 33:07 Transcription Available


    As we peel back the layers of modern relationship dynamics, one man's tale of open marriage regret becomes our springboard into the deeper waters of love, attraction, and the unforeseen complexities they bring into our lives. We pour over your comments, deep-diving into the quagmire of workplace crushes and the steps we can take to fan the flames of attraction within our own marriages. Our personal stories serve as a beacon of understanding, guiding us through the murky depths of communication and compassion in partnerships.We're wrapping up with a chapter that's close to our hearts: Living life with a purposeful stride and making a meaningful impact along the way. The conversation we had in our church group resonated deeply, and we're eager to share insights about the crucial role relationships and communities play in our lives. Whether you're married, single, or somewhere in between, this episode is a heartfelt quest to uncover the joys and challenges of building connections that last a lifetime. So settle in, and let's embark on this journey together, lifting the veil on what it means to live and love with intention.

    Nurturing the Unique Passions of Our Children

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2024 32:48 Transcription Available


    With a blend of humor and heartfelt discussion, we share a snapshot of our own life as Monica mends from oral surgery, bravely battling the world of soft foods, while also rejoicing in Cody Rhodes's epic victory at WrestleMania. And for those of you who've ever scratched your heads at the frenzy over solar eclipses, we're right there with you, wondering why a few minutes of celestial shadow play seem to turn the world upside down.Ever witnessed the intense gaze of a parent at a little league game and felt the weight of their expectations on your own shoulders? We open up about navigating the fine line between encouragement and pressure with my son Cash's baseball endeavors. In the midst of discussing submarine market booms and sharing a fresh, Gen Z spin on a biblical miracle, we zero in on the vital importance of fostering our children's passions, not just the ones we wish they had. It's a candid confession session about the challenges and joys of supporting our kids in their unique journeys, even when it means stepping back from our own dreams for them.This episode culminates in an exploration of how we view ourselves and others—not as a sum of failures or parts but as complete beings. We contemplate the church's role in embracing the broken and discuss how seeing our children through a lens of wholeness can profoundly shape our approach to parenting. And as we conclude, we extend an invitation to join us in a prayer for perspective, seeking the grace to lead our lives with an understanding of our intrinsic worth, hoping this dialogue sparks a moment of introspection for you, too. Join us for a discussion that promises to enlighten, entertain, and inspire.

    My Spouse was on Tinder!!!???

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 35:41 Transcription Available


    Buckle up as we venture into the bedroom—where the heart meets the heat. We're candidly discussing the challenges that can arise after infidelity shakes the foundations of a relationship. With a mix of personal stories and listener contributions, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of maintaining intimacy, harmonizing mismatched desires, and—most importantly—the art of forgiveness. It's a fine balancing act between humor and depth, as we navigate the waters of sexual dynamics and the power of a heartfelt conversation to heal and invigorate the bonds we cherish.As the final chapter unfolds, we're exploring the nuances of giving and receiving feedback. Forget sugar-coating; we're talking about the crucial role of honest, constructive critique in personal growth and the preservation of love. Communication is our bread and butter here, and we're serving it up with a side of accountability. We wrap things up, hearts full, with a prayer of gratitude, underscoring the importance of faith and purpose in guiding us toward success in relationships. And, because we can't contain our excitement, a cheer for the Red Sox to take it all the way seals our heartfelt blend of sports, spirituality, and the ever-evolving dance of love and commitment.

    Jealous Much

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2024 38:36 Transcription Available


    Have we slapped an expiration date on the institution of marriage without even realizing it? Tackling the weighty question of matrimonial relevance, this episode wades into the perspectives of young adults who label marriage as passé and scrutinizes the significance of lifelong vows amidst the backdrop of soaring divorce rates. As your hosts, we don't shy away from the tough topics. We return from a week-long hiatus, a sabbatical spent nurturing our own marital bonds, only to find ourselves fueled by your compelling stories and geared up to dissect the green-eyed monster that haunts many a relationship: jealousy.What happens when ancient scripture gets a fresh coat of Gen Z lingo? We're spinning the biblical tale of Jairus and the woman with the issue of blood into a narrative that resonates with the emoji generation, unfolding it in a way that speaks to the contemporary soul. No stone is left unturned as we ponder Jesus's possible penchant for humor and the emotional turmoil of biblical characters thrust into modern-day scenarios. This isn't your traditional Sunday school lesson; it's a lively exchange designed to make ancient wisdom echo in the halls of the 21st century.Finally, we bear our souls on the infamous topic of jealousy in marriage. From the perceived threats posed by pornography to the thorny admission of attractions beyond the marital bed, we broach the conversations that many might shy away from. It's about laying the groundwork for trust and strengthening ties with your significant other, because at the end of the day, it's transparency that fortifies a partnership. With a closing prayer for all those navigating the stormy seas of marriage, we're here to remind you that even the most turbulent waters can lead to a harbor of togetherness and healing. Join us as we journey through these intimate confessions and collective experiences, seeking the light of understanding and the warmth of shared human connection. Amen.

    Money Troubles...Only Fans isn't the Answer

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2024 41:08 Transcription Available


    It's one thing to manage your money, but it's another to manage it together. Stick with us as we tackle the gritty, often avoided conversations about fiscal stress and how faith can shine a light in the darkest of times. We're not just talking dollars and cents. We're talking about what it means to be wealthy in love and life. Discover how our own journey through unexpected expenses, and the need to differentiate wants from needs, has strengthened our bond and our belief in a higher power. Learn how aligning with your partner on financial goals can lead to peace of mind and why teamwork in your fiscal journey might just be your saving grace.Wrapping up, we're laying it all on the table, from the allure of OnlyFans to the true price of easy money. Our candid conversation explores the complex relationship between money, faith, and the temptations that challenge our values. We're closing with a heartfelt prayer for all of you struggling with financial burdens or battling against the snares of addiction. Join us for an episode that's not afraid to go deep, question the status quo, and offer a helping hand to those looking to navigate the intersection of marriage, money, and faith. Let's revolutionize the way we think about our partnerships, one conversation at a time. Amen to growth, to love, and to financial wisdom wrapped in divine guidance.

    Bumpin' Uglies

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2024 32:22 Transcription Available


    Join us as we unpack new research pointing to a generational shift in mindset, and share our heartfelt thanks to you, our listeners, from every corner of the globe—from the buzzing streets of Los Angeles to the sun-kissed shores of Miami. Your voices and stories fuel our passion, and for that, we're eternally grateful.Let's strip back the layers of intimacy, peeling away the physical to reveal the beating heart of communication that defines it. We're here to trade practical tips on how to enhance this essential component of relationships because let's face it, without clear communication, we're just ships passing in the night. As we dissect the misconceptions surrounding intimacy and provide strategies for a closer bond with your partner, you'll find the tools to turn even the most mundane conversation into an opportunity for connection.But it's not all sweet talk and deep connections; respect and attention are the bread and butter of our daily interactions. Ever felt invisible while someone's thumbing through their phone, or battled with the cold, robotic arms of a self-checkout? We explore the frustrations of modern life that can chip away at our human connections. And when it comes to keeping that relationship spark alive, we've got some sage advice that's as timeless as love itself. Tune in, turn up the volume, and let's celebrate the art of staying connected in an often-disconnected world.

    Situationships & Body Counts

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2024 31:50 Transcription Available


    Amidst the bloom of bouquets and Valentine's Day blitz, we're stepping out to question if society's grand romantic gestures are overshadowing the true essence of lasting partnerships.As we navigate through the maze of modern dating, from the adrenaline rush of the first crush to the sobering moment of a breakup text, our discussion lays bare the humor and humanity of seeking connection in the digital age. Sharing our personal misadventures and triumphs, we uncover the truths of Gen Z's stance on love, challenging the stereotypes that paint them as romance skeptics. Their surprising openness to marriage and the refreshing value they place on qualities over looks are reshaping the landscape of love.But what about love that endures? We're baring our souls, revealing the deep, often messy layers of long-term relationships and the power of forgiveness that fuels them. This heart-to-heart isn't just about the fleeting 'situationships' but a celebration of the genuine, unconditional love that stands the test of time. Join us as we offer up stories, laughs, and maybe a few tears, all while holding hands with our better halves through the rollercoaster ride that is love, life, and everything in between. Amen and hallelujah indeed.

    Waiting Sucks, The Gen Z Bible, and Theo Epstein's Return

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2024 30:34 Transcription Available


     I can't contain my enthusiasm as we discuss the return of Theo Epstein to the Red Sox and the fresh hope he brings to our beloved team.The story of Joseph has always been a testament to patience and perseverance, but its relevance hits home as we draw parallels with our own relational sojourn. We muse over the enduring virtues that saw us through trials and tribulations, and the profound influence of these qualities on realizing our dreams. Our reflections extend an invitation to listeners to embrace their waiting seasons with faith, just as extraordinary outcomes often follow life's most challenging waits.Finally, we've got something special for Gen Z – a fresh take on the New Testament and Psalms that speaks their language. As the episode winds down, we share a snippet from Psalm 23, reimagined for the younger crowd, and express our heartfelt gratitude to all of you who've been riding along with us. Keep an ear out for our next episode, where we hope to guide someone back to spiritual fulfillment with our words and stories.

    Marriage Debates, YouTube Dreams, and the Art of Self-Care

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2024 35:15 Transcription Available


    Let's talk about the secret sauce to any robust relationship—taking care of yourself. We're getting real about the sweaty tales from the gym and the quirkiness of our mutual grooming sessions (nose hairs, be gone!). Discover how staying fit together isn't just about chiseled abs but forging an ironclad partnership that thrives through pandemics and life's curveballs. We're getting into the nitty-gritty of how a little discomfort during a workout or a skincare regimen can spell a lifetime of happiness and health.To cap it off, we're bearing our souls on the power of forgiveness and the importance of growth within our bonds. Reflect with us on how the teachings of Jesus on forgiveness play out in the real world, and let's navigate the tricky waters of communicating effectively to keep our relationships fresh and evolving. As we wrap up with a prayer for guidance, join us in this heartfelt journey, ensuring the messages we share fan the flames of love and inspire action in marriages everywhere.

    How Bad Has It Gotten

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 32:32 Transcription Available


    We take a raw and humorous look at the complexities of marriage, serving up our truths alongside a side of laughter, as we unpack what it means to be hitched in the modern age.Now, don't think we've skipped over the bread and butter of married life—the daily grind, the quirks of growing older together, and the surprises that life tosses your way like confetti. From entertaining tales of "fat eyelids" to the less giggly reality of communication breakdowns, we tackle the reasons marriages might be wobbling on their pedestals. And, because we're all about the real talk, we dive into how the digital world's distractions, like the tricky realm of pornography, can twist our expectations and intimacy, leaving us groping for connection in a sea of pixels and unrealistic fantasies.But, it's not all about the challenges; it's also about the triumphs and the journey to get there. In our final heart-to-heart, we wrap our arms around those of you struggling to keep the love boat afloat. We share the power of therapy and support, reminding each other that it's okay to hit a rough patch and that seeking help is a sign of strength, not defeat. With a collective prayer for healing and connection, we send out an invitation to join us in building a community where the highs and lows of married life are navigated with an open heart and a supportive hand.

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