Podcasts about narcissister

This week Dorothy Dubrule catches up with Dana Bassett and Duncan, about “Being Work” her new book of essays on the performer's experience performing art. Essays written by effie bowen, Casey Brown, Dorothy Dubrule, Jessica Emmanuel, Paul Hamilton, Allie Hankins, Kestrel Farin Leah, and Mireya Lucio. Brilliant Illustrations by Eileen Wolf Echikson. Dorothy Dubrule is a choreographer and performer based in Los Angeles. Her choreography is often made in collaboration with people who do not identify as dancers and has been performed in theaters as well as bars, clubs, galleries, sound stages and sports arenas. She has performed in the work of artists, choreographers and directors such as alexx shilling, Alison D'Amato, Lea Anderson, Melinda Ring, Milka Djordjevich, Narcissister, Tino Sehgal and Zoe Aja Moore. Dorothy received an MFA from UCLA's Department of World Arts and Cultures/Dance and has been the director of Pieter Performance Space since 2017. Prior to moving to LA, she danced with DIY performance collective Club Lyfestile and comedy fly-girl crew Body Dreamz in Philadelphia. A board member of Grex, the West Coast Affiliate of the AK Rice Institute for the Study of Social Systems, Dorothy organizes workshops and writes about issues of social identity and power as they arise in art contexts. Following the publication of her essay, "What I'm Doing When I'm Selling Out," on SF MoMA's Open Space, she is currently working with 53rd State Press to edit a collection of writing by performers who have been contracted by visual arts institutions to work in live exhibitions. https://cargocollective.com/dorothydubrule https://insert.press/products/being-work https://apnews.com/article/moma-marina-abramovic-nude-imponderabilia-b3443d3706d2a46bdd02b4f08895e1d5 https://eileenechikson.com/about Artwork by Eileen Wolf Echikson

Molly berättar om sin uppväxt med båda sina föräldrar som är narcissister. Hon blev utsatt för både psykisk och fysisk misshandel. Bland annat tvingade mamman hennes pappa att slå henne.— Mamma tvingade också tandläkaren att dra ut tänderna på mig när jag var liten och hon gömde knark i min väska som jag tvingades att smuggla som barn, berättar hon.Hela säsong nio finns att lyssna på Podplay eller på podplay.se. Följ också @alskadepsykopat på instagram.

Vad är en kvinnlig narcissist? Varför kan de vara svåra att upptäcka? Hur skiljer sig den kvinnliga från den manliga narcissisten? Relationsexperten Michael Larsen förklarar.Hela säsong nio finns att lyssna på Podplay eller på podplay.se. Följ också @alskadepsykopat på Instagram.

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Program 85 Hvordan lever man med Psykopater/Narcissister og findes ADHD OG ADD? Der er mange labels vi kaster rundt om os i disse tider. Vi kalder i flæng nogen for Psykopater og mange af os har enten ADHD eller ADD. Hvad ligger der bag disse labels og indeholder vi alle dele af disse egenskaber? Hvad gør man hvis man er i relation med en, som er meget Psykopatisk og hvor meget betyder stråling og dårlig mad for ens “lidelser”? Hvor meget tid giver du dig selv til fritænkning, har du modet til ikke at være en del af fællesskabet, vidste du at fluortandpasta gør dig dummere, hvorfor er det ikke ok at sørge længe hvis ens nærmeste dør, ved du hvad du skal bruge din anderledeshed til og måske er morgenmad ikke det vigtigste måltid på dagen. Få større indsigt i disse livsvigtige spørgsmål i dette afsnit af “Guddommelig Sex”…fordi en sund sexualitet er lig med et sundt liv, hvor du tør tænke for dig selv!Hvis du vil i kontakt med os:Ønsker du kære lytter at få belyst et emne så skriv dine spørgsmål på denne e-mail feedback@guddommeligsex.dk og vi vil tage det med i en af programmerneHjemmeside: https://guddommeligsex.dkSom nævnt i podcasten kan du skrive dig på listen, så du også kan modtage de ekstra gode rabatter. Det gør du lige her:https://www.dennissoendergaard.dk/signup/Dennis SøndergaardForededrag, privatsessioner og 2-3 dages intenseforløbtelefon: 29 16 44 55Hjemmeside: https://dennissoendergaard.dk Privat session 1:1 https://trancemedium-dennis-soendergaard.planway.comUddannelse: https://open2channeling.dkUddannelse: https://pastlives.dkRobert Lubarski:Foredrag og privatsessioner omkring shamanisme, bevidsthed, parforhold og sexualitet Hjemmeside: robertlubarski.com telefon: 29 84 08 44Hvis du vil ha os ud live, så både “Merlin” og Robert Lubarski kan besvarer spørgsmål om kærlighed og sex, så kontakt os.#dennissøndergaard #robertlubarski #guddommeligsex #podcast

Säsong 6 - nytt avsnitt VARANNAN vecka  I säsongsstarten har jag bjudit in Sofie som driver  kontot "narcissism_manipulation_trauma" på Instagram och flera stödkonton på Facebook. Vi har båda erfarenheter av både dold och öppen narcissism och andra manipulativ människor. Men vårt mission idag är att få dig att förstå att det viktigaste efter en destruktiv relation är att skifta fokus och se vad du behöver läka för att inte hamna där igen.  Vi pratar även om vänskap, hur ska en vän bete sig om du är fast i en traumabindning? För att gå med i hennes stödgrupper på FB: ❤️ Stödgrupperna heter ”Narcissister och andra manipulativa stöd till anhöriga och utsatta” ”Greyrock stödgrupp för MÄN som utsatts för narcissism & manipulation” ”Föräldrar till (vuxna) barn med manipulativ/narcissistisk personlighet” Samt en hemlig grupp för kvinnor där samtliga måste styrka sin identitet (ett beslut gruppen gemensamt tog 2017) Kvinnor kan bli inbjudna och få namn på gruppen av admin från de grupper ovan. Mina instagramtexter finns även på fB ”Narcissister och andra manipulativa, om emotionellt våld och trauma”

Författaren, ledarskapscoachen och föreläsaren Thomas Erikson har minst sagt gjort succé med sina ”Omgiven av”-böcker. Mest känd har han nog blivit för ”Omgiven av Idioter”, men även ”Omgiven av psykopater”, ”Omgiven av dåliga chefer” och ”Omgiven av narcissister” har sålt multum. Och det är just hur narcissister fungerar som vi pratar om i det här avsnittet. Varför är vissa människor narcissister och hur agerar dem? Vad ska man själv göra om man har att göra med en narcissist, kanske till och med lever tillsammans med en? Hur påverkas barn av att ha en narcissist till förälder? Allt det här hinner vi ge svar på och Thomas delar generöst med sig av både fascinerade, galna och stundtals hemska berättelser från verkligheten av människor som hamnat på fel sida hos en narcissist. Tusen tack för att du lyssnar!Ta del av våra kurser på Framgångsakademin.Beställ "Mitt Framgångsår".Följ Alexander Pärleros på Instagram.Följ Alexander Pärleros på Tiktok.Bästa tipsen från avsnittet i Nyhetsbrevet.I samarbete med Convendum.Thomas Erikson - Omgiven av narcissister: så hanterar du självälskare Besök Thomas hemsida.Kontakta Thomas på info@surroundedbyidiots.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Författaren, ledarskapscoachen och föreläsaren Thomas Erikson har minst sagt gjort succé med sina ”Omgiven av”-böcker. Mest känd har han nog blivit för ”Omgiven av Idioter”, men även ”Omgiven av psykopater”, ”Omgiven av dåliga chefer” och ”Omgiven av narcissister” har sålt multum. Och det är just hur narcissister fungerar som vi pratar om i det här avsnittet. Varför är vissa människor narcissister och hur agerar dem? Vad ska man själv göra om man har att göra med en narcissist, kanske till och med lever tillsammans med en? Hur påverkas barn av att ha en narcissist till förälder? Allt det här hinner vi ge svar på och Thomas delar generöst med sig av både fascinerade, galna och stundtals hemska berättelser från verkligheten av människor som hamnat på fel sida hos en narcissist. Tusen tack för att du lyssnar!Ta del av våra kurser på Framgångsakademin.Beställ "Mitt Framgångsår".Följ Alexander Pärleros på Instagram.Följ Alexander Pärleros på Tiktok.Bästa tipsen från avsnittet i Nyhetsbrevet.I samarbete med Convendum.Thomas Erikson - Omgiven av narcissister: så hanterar du självälskare Besök Thomas hemsida.Kontakta Thomas på info@surroundedbyidiots.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hur kartlägger man narcissism och psykopati inom människans beteende? Komplex fråga, men rättspsykiatern, forskare kring psykopati och poddaren Katarina Howner svarar på era frågor om ämnet. Psykopati och narcissism, finns det en koppling mellan dem? Födds man till det eller blir man det? Är begreppet narcissism överanvänt? Programledare: David Druid, Linnea Wikblad och Kodjo Akolor.

Det här avsnittet är ett utav de mest lyssnade på Öppet sinne. Favorit i reprisNi vet den där relationen där allt är så pass perfekt och rätt att man är redo att göra vad som helst. När passionen är som en eld och man känner sig redo att kasta sig ut i det djupa klarblå havet. Men väl i vattnet byts det klarblå ut mot ett mörker. Och personen du föll för drar dig sakta men säkert djupare ned i det svarta havet. Yvonne Fuchs jobbar som terapeut och en av hennes inriktningar är narcissistisk personlighetsstörning. Missa inte min andra podd Dagens citat https://open.spotify.com/show/3UouhPb4NyE3HnNielcqli?si=54ee83b8a1d54d85Swish: 12 33 76 18 06Stötta Öppet sinne på Patreon https://www.patreon.com/oppetsinneInstagram https://www.instagram.com/pauldelvalle/?hl=svYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAQXDkNpHStIp_AWv--DoLA Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Vi pratar såklart om helgen. Liveshowen! Det sjukaste som hänt oss alla tre?! Ja! Elsa undrar - görs det inte hits längre? Det tar oss in i ett samtal om dagens ungdomar som bara rakt av kopierar vår gamla tonårsstil. Jajemen. Nadia är pisstrött på people pleasers! Och så diskuterar vi självkärlek och narcissism. Var går gränsen? Ärr alla influencers narcissister? Ja? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Relationsexperten Eva Rusz gästar Förövarepodden. Hon är legitimerad psykolog, kognitiv psykoterapeut och författare, och hon pratar med Martina och Sabina om vad som kännetecknar narcissister och psykopater. Eva berättar bland annat om att svår anknytningsstörning är en möjlig förklaring till varför psykopater skapas och problematiken med att diagnosticera och forska på psykopater och narcissister. Vi får även ta del av olika tips för hur vi ska tänka för att kunna gå vidare och lämna en destruktiv relation med någon som vi tror är en psykopat eller narcissist. Tack Eva för ett härligt möte, vi ses igen!Tack för att du lyssnar! Vill du stötta oss ekonomiskt i vårt arbete med att sprida budskapet om förövare och misshandel? Bli vår sponsor på patreon.com/forovarepodden Prenumerera gärna på podden, gilla oss på sociala medier, betygsätt oss med stjärnor och hör av dig till oss med frågor: forovarepodden@gmail.comFölj Förövare på InstagramFölj Förövare på FacebookFör mer info www.forovare.se Martinas bok "Genomskåda narcissisten"Stötta oss genom ett ekonomiskt bidrag på PatreonMer om Eva RuszProducerat av Silverdrake FörlagRedaktör: Marcus Blomgrenmarcus@silverdrakeforlag.sewww.silverdrakeförlag.se See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

I veckans bonusavsnitt kommer del två av vår inspelning med Elaine Eksvärd! Hon svarar på frågor ni lyssnare har skickat in till podden. Bland annat ger hon sitt bästa tips för att verka mera självsäker när man pratar inför folk, hur man hanterar narcister och hur man blir en mästare på att kallprata. Elaine är en författare och en expert på retorik, hon har bland annat skrivit boken “Härskarteknik: den fula vägen till makt” Länk till avsnittet om löneförhandling från Elaines podd Snacka Snyggt: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5KMhoXzin4c2bSwd8fu4tT?si=6da6a8d2d73c4599 Följ henne på Instagram: @elaineeksvard Följ oss på instagram @dianamoseni @anty och poddens instagram @antyochdiana Artist och låt: Imenella ”Aah shit” Du kan lyssna på henne här: https://open.spotify.com/artist/6IuS73qKuYfrYqA5g5iq0h?si=X1OEyMjOQdSl-1QVANBLRg

Narcissisten är ett samtalsämne i tiden, men också ett populärt skällsord. Vad innebär det egentligen att vara – eller att möta – en narcissist? Hör DN:s Catia Hultqvist om narcissistiska personlighetsdrag och hur det påverkar relationer. Programledare: Ülkü Holago. Producent: Sabina Marmullakaj. Ljudtekniker: Patrik Miesenberger. Tekniker: Jonas Lindskov, Bauer Media.

Jon Jones, Luis Peña, Chuck Liddell vad händer ? Karl Albrektsson går match i Bellator imorgon. Lyssnarfrågor besvaras mm. Öppet sinne ang Narcissister https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0YfwBr2uNTY&lc=UgwxZbEIz9P8X6eBgwF4AaABAg Stötta podden på patreon https://www.patreon.com/mmapoddenHar du ett företag och vill höras i mmapodden? Maila oss på mmapodden@gmail.comInstagram: @mmapodden @Pauldelvalletwitter: @pauldelvalleFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/Mma-podden-100561462221892Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJWqD3yENLqSDDxsce0jQOg

Yvonne Fuchs besöker Öppet sinne för tredje gången. Vi pratar om narcissister inom kärleksrelationer, hur det är att vara vän med en narcissist, hur det är att arbeta med en. Vilka varningsflaggor man ska se upp för. Vi pratar även om hur en relation mellan två narcissister kan vara. Och hur ett barn till en narcissist kan påverkas under sin uppväxt. Yvonne Fuchs https://www.facebook.com/groups/317973918260880 https://www.yvonnefuchs.se Stötta Öppet sinne på Patreon https://www.patreon.com/oppetsinneInstagram https://www.instagram.com/pauldelvalle/?hl=svYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAQXDkNpHStIp_AWv--DoLA

I den andra delen om narcissism i familjen, utforskar Mia Makila hur den giftiga familjedynamiken påverkar vuxna barn till narcissister. Den gemensamma nämnaren för alla barn till narcissistiska föräldrar är ett psykologiskt medberoende -  som i vuxen ålder leder till olika former av dysfunktionella anknytningsmönster, psykisk ohälsa och djupa, komplexa själasår.  Epilogen Podcast är en innerlig, ljudboks-liknande kvalitetspodd och är skriven, framförd och producerad av konstnären Mia Makila (miamakila.com). Podden är illustrerad med musik och ljudeffekter. Musik: Blue Dot Sessions - Floretin / River Lapse / Stock Still, Chad Crouch - Peanut Shells, Dee Yan-Key - Angel of Light, Gotama - Piano Dreams 1, Purple Planet Music (www.purple-planet.com), Vox Àltera Ensemble - Omnes amici mei Ljudeffekter från freesound.org: Debsound, drotzruhn, YleArkisto, Owl

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, we're joined by Rebecca Zung to discuss the topic of How to Negotiate With a Narcissist. Here's an overview of Rebecca's experience:   Rebecca is a narcissism negotiation expert, and one of the top 1% of attorneys in the nation, having been recognized by U.S. News & World Report as a “Best Lawyer in America”, as “Legal Elite” by Trend Magazine. She is the author of two bestselling books: Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The SureFire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword by Robert Shapiro) and Breaking Free: A Step-by-Step Divorce Guide for Achieving Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Freedom.   Her perspectives are in high demand by television and print outlets, and she's been featured in or on Extra, Forbes, Huffington Post, Newspeak Time, Dr. Drew, NPR Talk Radio, Good Day New York and CBS Los Angeles among others. Now, based in Los Angeles, she is continuing to serve through her very popular YouTube channel, media appearances, podcasts, articles, and on-demand programs such as S-L-A-Y, S.L.A.Y. Your Negotiation With a Narcissist and Breaking Free Divorce Masterclasses.   Hosts, Karen, and Catherine sit down with Rebecca Zung to discuss How to Negotiate With a Narcissist. Learn More >>https://www.rebeccazung.com/  Connect with Rebecca on LinkedIn >> @Rebecca Zung   ----more---- The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever.  Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST ----more----   Karen: Welcome to We Chat Divorce, Catherine and I are honored today to welcome attorney Rebecca Zung to our podcast. In this episode, we're going to discuss how to negotiate with a narcissist. But first, let me take a couple of minutes to introduce Rebecca. Rebecca is a narcissism negotiation expert, and one of the top 1% of attorneys in the nation. Having been recognized by US News and World Report as the best lawyer in America, she is the author of two bestselling books. Her perspectives are in high demand by television and print outlets, and she's been featured in or on Extra, Forbes, Huffington Post, Newspeak Time, Dr. Drew, NPR Talk Radio, Good Day New York and CBS Los Angeles among others. That's amazing. Now, based in Los Angeles, she is continuing to serve through her very popular YouTube channel, media appearances, podcasts, articles, and on demand programs such as S-L-A-Y, S.L.A.Y. Your Negotiation With a Narcissist and Breaking Free Divorce Masterclasses. Welcome, Rebecca. Rebecca Zung: Thank you both. Catherine: I don't know if you're listening, if you're feeling like me that your stomach is filled with butterflies, you're either really excited to talk about this narcissistic viewpoint or you're really nervous listening to this. Either way, how did you come into focusing on negotiating with narcissists? Rebecca Zung: Well, it's like everything you've ever done prepares you for this one moment. And I feel that way with me. I had been a divorce lawyer for a long time. I did high net worth divorce in Naples, Florida, which is an affluent community. So I represented billionaires and celebrities and all that. And obviously, there was a Narcissister too in there. And so I represented narcissists. I had been on the other side of them. I have had them as opposing counsel or even judges sometimes. And I had been focusing on learning how to negotiate for a really long time. Oh, back when I first started my own practice, I was looking for a way to develop my practice and get more clients and so I developed a talk on how to negotiate period, not with narcissists, just how to negotiate. Rebecca Zung: And I gave that talk to every rotary between Tampa and Marco island, every single women's group. I mean, I've given that talk a thousand times, I've even done it as the keynote speaker for the American Bar Association. I wrote a book on negotiation. Robert Shapiro wrote the forward. So I was really thinking I was going to focus more on teaching people how to negotiate in general. I was looking for something else to do other than the day-to-day grind of practicing law. And I just thought that that was going to be my thing. Well, come to find out that I was dealing with two narcissists in my personal life. One was in my business life, in a little business that I had started with someone, which didn't go anywhere, thank God. But the person was around and in my space long enough to wreak havoc and cause lots of drama, trauma and chaos. Rebecca Zung: And then I had a family member who was a narcissist. And so somebody had pointed it out to me and recommended that I read a book on it and I was reading this book on the airplane with my husband and I was literally like, oh my God. Oh my God. Oh my God. Every page was blowing my mind that this was what I was dealing with these two people. And so I started reading everything I could get my hands on, hundreds of books, which, behind me, you can see some of them. I mean, literally got my practical Ph.D. or whatever you want to call it, I just basically read everything I possibly could on it. And that's when I started to realize that I could actually apply my knowledge of negotiation to what I was learning about the personality of a narcissist. Rebecca Zung: And I actually started to see movement and I started to see actual things happening for people in negotiations. So that's how I came about it. I started doing it on YouTube. I now have, I don't know, close to 9 million views and close to 150,000 subscribers in just over a year, so. Catherine: That's awesome. I mean, you can imagine in divorce when an individual who may have the narcissistic traits feels like they're losing control when we empower the other spouse with some financial clarity, we see this all the time. So it's almost in every divorce case where when financial clarity is upon somebody else, there's a lot of nervousness on the other side. Why? I don't know, but I know that probably every one of our clients or almost everyone would love to follow your channel. Rebecca Zung: Yeah. They can find me, if they put in to negotiate with a narcissist, I'll be popping right up. Karen: Yeah. And I feel most, not, I guess, most people when they're entering divorce, one spouse or the other fully believes that they are divorcing a narcissist. So how did you break that down with, like you had told us before we hopped on this show that there is actually a diagnosis, but there's also tendencies and behaviors? So how does someone break that down and understand it a little bit more? I know we only have half an hour here, but can you touch on that a little bit? Rebecca Zung: Yeah. So, I mean, reasonable people want to come to a resolution. They don't want to spend lots and lots of money on lawyers. They want to be able to have peace in their lives. They want to be able to move on. Yes, they want to get an outcome that's fair, but they're interested in having a conversation on how to come to a resolution. You'll know right away if you're dealing with a narcissistic type of a person because instead of trying to figure out how to come to a resolution, they are ratcheting it up. They're filing motions all the time. They're refusing to provide financial disclosure. They are using the court system as a sword. They're lying in pleadings, they are offering settlements and then as soon as you say yes to it, they change it and they blame it on you. And it goes on and on and on. And it's like five years and $400,000 later, you're still doing this. That's when you're dealing with a narcissist. Karen: That's incredible. Catherine: So how do you equip yourself in that scenario? Rebecca Zung: Wow, that's a really big question. It seems like a simple question, but it's actually a big question because that's all part of what I teach in S.L.A.Y, which is to build strategy, create leverage, anticipate what they're going to do and be two steps ahead of them and focus on you, your case and your position. That's what S.L.A.Y stands for. And so in the program, I teach people actually how to do documentation the proper way. I mean, a lot of people say document, document document, which I agree with, but there are certain things you want to make sure you're focusing on. There's a way to organize it. There's a way to find, look for patterns and then all of that becomes your leverage so that you could potentially motivate them and incentivize them to want to come to the table. Rebecca Zung: You have to understand that narcissists are driven by one thing and that's narcissistic supply, that's it. And so settling the case doesn't give them narcissistic supply, they get supply from jerking you around and intimidating you and moving the goalposts and thinking it's a big game. So they have no incentive to want to resolve it unless you give them another incentive to want to resolve it. Catherine: Yeah. I always say whenever we do the portrait with our couples or individuals, if they come by themselves, when you know all your options and you know the components to all those options, you're able to make a compromise, but you're able to make a compromise, knowing that either position will be acceptable to you but you left the other side too, they're narcissist because they always want to win. So when you have financial clarity, you can say, I'll be okay with either of these scenarios. So you put it back in their hands and just let them pick one because you're okay with either side. Rebecca Zung: Yeah, I mean that's one way you could go about it. But if you're dealing with a really malignant narcissist, they're going to say neither. And because neither is, I mean really just because they just want to screw you. But they'll come up with some reason why neither works and, or they'll pick the parts that they like and keep those like, oh yes, I'll definitely take this, this and this, the parts that you're offering that are good for them, but the parts that you want, they don't want to do. And then they'll try to hold you to the part that you were offering, even though they didn't want it, I see Karen nodding her head. Karen: That's so true. We see that all the time. So what are some ways that people can disarm a narcissist? Rebecca Zung: Well, I think there's a couple of different ways that you have to look at it. I mean, there's a way to disarm them when you're just having a conversation with them and you're just trying to communicate with them on a day-to-day basis. And then there are ways to disarm them in the actual negotiation process too. So I think it depends on what it is that you're dealing with, but just from a communication point of view, I think there's a number of different ways. All of them require though that you learn how to at least control your emotions while you're in that interaction. So that's why it's really important to either be super brief or have strong boundaries. And then when you are interacting with them, you are not taking the bait because they constantly are trying to trigger you. They want you to say something or do something that they can turn around and use against you. As soon as you say, oh, whatever, like there you go, there's a potential trial exhibit for them. Rebecca Zung: So you got to be really careful about how you respond and so I advise people to be very brief in their interactions. And so like you can have a tactical response to an email, for example, like if there's a really long email about what a deadbeat you are, and you're a horrible person and whatever it is that their diatribe of the day. And there's maybe one line in there that you actually need to respond to, like about what time to pick up the kids or something like that. You can just say, "Thank you for your email. I am in responsive it. I deny your allegations and you can pick up Susie at three o'clock on Wednesday." So you've denied it, you don't need to go point by point, are you kidding me, I'm a wonderful mother, I'm this, that, and the other thing. Never try to justify, explain, or overshare, just, "I've received this, I deny it. Here's the only thing I need to respond to." And that can be so empowering when you know that you don't need to respond to every single thing. Catherine: So true. And it's so important to try it for the first time. It's really difficult if you're trained in a long-term relationship and you're so used to that type of toxic interaction, to actually do that the first time is empowering, but it's scary. So if you're out there and you're listening, it is scary, but do it, less is more in a lot of these situations and you will feel really good about that because they won't know how to respond to you. Karen: I agree. That's great. So take that same communication style and if you're in person or you're with them, and you're having to talk to them on the phone or the exchange of the children or whatever, what can you do to disarm in a live setting? Some tips, obviously there's probably a million. Rebecca Zung: Yeah, in my course, I have 50 key phrases to destroy a narcissist. But you just remember wherever you can almost become an observer, almost like you're reporting the news. Like, I can see that you are upset or you are entitled to that opinion. I'm sorry that that is your opinion or I'm sorry that that's how you feel or something like that. I mean, you can even use words like I agree, even though... There's a trick that I tell people to use, which is, I agree that that is your opinion, so you're agreeing with them and they hear, I agree, but you're not saying anything really. I hear what you're saying and that's it. And it's almost like there's this invisible shield where you're not getting emotional. Rebecca Zung: So one of the other things I tell people to do is maybe sometimes if you know you're going to have a conversation set an agenda ahead of time. Like we will talk, and this is what we will talk about. We're not talking about this, this and this, we're going to talk about that. And maybe figure out a way to get in and out of that conversation, by setting a time limit ahead of time or saying, you have to leave for work or you have to go take a shower or whatever. Whatever you need to do to feel like you're in control of that conversation ahead of time that just psychologically can help too. Catherine: Yeah. And writing things down and having it right in front of you is also very comforting because you can always resort back to reading it off your paper, and learning to walk away, walk away when you have to. So that's really big too, again, another scary thing to do. Karen: But it sounds like what you do in your courses and in your teachings is empowering them with boundaries so that they can just start to enclose themselves in a safe place of sorts when they're engaging with a narcissist who doesn't have their best interests at heart. Rebecca Zung: Yeah. I mean, that's just part of the whole strategy for communication. I mean, I also teach how to do the research, create the strategy, figure out your diagnosis, your guiding vision, your guiding policy, your action plan, all of that, but around the communication piece of it, for sure. I mean, it's all about reducing your exposure to that toxicity because they work on your neuronal patterns, on your brainwaves and things. And so it's almost like deprogramming yourself in order to try to heal from it. And so getting out of that is so important because if you get sucked back in, it almost slides you back as far as you're healing from that trauma. Catherine: Yeah. And it doesn't happen overnight. When you walk away, like you just said, you have to retrain your own mind. I mean, I'm talking personally here now. So when you walk out of that situation, a lot of times people who do not heal, end up in another relationship with someone similar to that same pattern. It took me two and a half years to get through my process of healing. And thankfully I met my current husband after that time period, but it really is that you're so easily triggered to go back to a pattern. So you really need to give yourself that time and that process, allow that process. Rebecca Zung: Yeah, and I do want to mention that part of the reason why you become so trauma bonded to them is because of that cycle of love bombing, devaluing, and discarding, they throw in those strategically placed love bombs and every time they do that, you get a dopamine hit in your brain. There's actually a study with, Robert Sapolsky had done a study on monkeys. And if you gave them a treat every single time, their dopamine levels in their brains did nothing, but intermittently giving them a treat or a reward, just the anticipation of getting it had the dopamine levels in their brain rise to a level of cocaine. And so actually, you become physiologically addicted to this person because of that, it's way more toxic than somebody who's just toxic all the time. Catherine: That's so interesting. Karen: It's incredible. So tell me this, are people born with narcissistic behavior or is it a learned trait? Rebecca Zung: I do say I'm not a psychologist, but from what I read and what I have studied and learned, and I've interviewed a bunch of psychologists, my understanding is that they are not born that way, that they are created. And so it's nurture, not nature, that it happens at some point during their formation as a child where they came to a conclusion that the world is a scary place, that they're not good enough, that they have to be in survival at all times in order to live. And so they psychologically live there and I think it's very subconscious, but it's either that they were traumatized in some way as a child, or I've also heard that extreme overindulgence can cause it as well because children actually want boundaries. They want their parents to care. And by extremely overindulging them, they don't feel like they were worth anything. So I think it's both. Catherine: Yeah. So I hope my kids are glad that I was so strict. Rebecca Zung: Mine too. Catherine: Well, I have a curious question, have you gone up against other attorneys for a case that are narcissists and how did you handle that? Rebecca Zung: Part of the reason I'm glad I don't practice on a full-on basis anymore because I couldn't stand them. I mean, there are certain opposing counsel that I would have to tell my clients, well, they hired so-and-so, so it's going to be twice as expensive because she's going to fight every single thing. There are certain ones that I just could not stand because of that. Yeah. Karen: Yeah. And it's to the client and the family's detriment, it's to everyone's detriment. Rebecca Zung: Yeah. But I have to say, I always, half-jokingly, but not really jokingly, that people are like dogs and their dog owners, they always seem to find the lawyer that's just like them. Karen: Wow. Catherine: Yeah. That's so true. Or they find one that's like their partner, because they're actually, like you said, addicted to that type of personality. So they almost feel like that person will put up with their spouse, so they're being bullied. I mean, I see clients being bullied by their own attorney, it's because it's the relationship they had with their spouse. So they're used to that. They don't see it being wrong. Yeah. It's unfortunate, but that is the way it is. Yeah. It's so interesting. It's really very interesting. Karen: So on that note, can you really get a narcissist to negotiate successfully? Rebecca Zung: I've had done it many thousands of times actually. And they're actually the simplest people to understand. I mean, they're heinous to deal with, but they're actually very easy to understand. I mean, they're only motivated and incentivized by one thing, and that's narcissistic supply. Regular people are motivated by lots of different things, it might be time with your children or it might be a flexible schedule or whatever, but with them, it's not, it's always that one thing, that's the thing they keep coming back to. And then just understanding that there's a hierarchy of narcissistic supply. So there's like, their diamond level grade A, source of supply, which is their image and how they look and the outside looking in like, what are people thinking of them. And especially people that they respect. Rebecca Zung: So in the court system, it will be definitely the judge or the lawyers or maybe the mediator or something like that. They want to make sure that they look good and the other person looks like the bad one. And with narcissists, it's all black and white, you're either for them or against them, or you're either the best or you're the worst. And so that's the grade eight A, level. And then the Core level, which I call Core level, which is like the... It burns and it gives them energy, but it's not as good as the diamond level. And that is like jerking you around, degrading you, devaluing you, making you squirm, scaring you, all those sorts of things. They get supply from that as well. So the key is to create a leverage situation that ethically manipulates the manipulator by threatening a source of narcissistic supply that means more to them to keep than the supply that they get from jerking you around. Karen: Wow. Catherine: Love that. That's so good. Yeah. Well, we apply that to our financial portrait, giving people the courage to request the information and to understand the information financially, really empowers them to stand stronger and let their attorneys that they have to do their job of being aggressive, because they're understanding what their rights are. And they're understanding what the financial outcome will be. And nobody expects somebody who's married to a narcissist to have that courage or to be able to state what they want, because they don't understand financially what they've ever had. So I love applying all of that to the financial clarity that everybody needs before they get divorced. Rebecca Zung: Totally. Karen: So another question that we have here is what kind of tricks do they play and how can you identify a trick that a narcissist would like to pull on someone else or on your spouse or on you during a divorce? Rebecca Zung: During the divorce? Karen: Yeah. Rebecca Zung: Yeah. They manipulate text messages, they lie about things, even things that are readily verifiable and even things that are things they don't necessarily need to lie about, but they just do because that's just their way of being. So I had a case where the wife, who I think is more than just a narcissist, I think she might've had borderline or some other issues. But in the middle of the night, one o'clock in the morning, she gets into this fight with her 15-year-old son. She throws him out of the house with all of his stuff. It was 30° outside. It was in the Northeast part of the country in winter. And so the kid calls his dad and says, come get me. I'm outside on the curb with all my stuff. Dad goes over there in the middle of the night, gets him, brings him back to the house. The next morning gets an email from the mother saying, this is probably for the best you should call the bus and let them know to pick them up over there by you for a while. So he does that. Rebecca Zung: And a couple of weeks later, she files a motion in court, sworn testimony saying that he kidnapped the child, refuses to return the child and it's just like a flat-out lie. And she even sent an email saying, we'll change the bus. I mean, but that's the kind of thing that they do. And it's maddening because it costs you money. Karen: Yeah. And anybody can make a claim about anything and you have to defend that in court if that's where it's taken up. And I think a lot of people don't understand that, but at the end of the day, that's your only choice is defending that claim. That's incredible. Catherine: Well, it's terrible too, because the child's sitting there saying what the hell's going on here. And so they're growing up realizing, how am I dealing with this? Who am I dealing with? And it's unfortunate. Rebecca Zung: Horrible, because then a lot of times, those are the parents that refuse to allow counseling for the child, too. Catherine: Exactly. We talk about that a lot with even custodian plans, 529 plans, you might have that spouse who's the custodian on that account, so years later they're using that account to manipulate your child. So it wasn't talked about before, because it was never identified that they had this trait. So it's something that people should consider, who's going to be the custodian if something like that happens because now the kid again is being manipulated instead of the spouse because the spouse is no longer married to them. Rebecca Zung: Yeah. It's tough. Catherine: Yeah. It's a hard thing. Karen: Yeah. So it sounds like your programs really take people through the breadth and width of understanding it, identifying and responding to it. So where can people learn more about your programs and what they offer? Rebecca Zung: Well, I have a free gift for everyone and they can get a free, crush my negotiation prep worksheet, which is 15 pages. It's basically an ebook. It's actually a really nice free gift and they can get that at winmynegotiation.com. So I made a nice, easy URL so people can remember, winmynegotiation.com. And so I would start there definitely check out my YouTube channel, totally free obviously as well. Rebecca Zung ESQ is the, it's youtube.com/rebeccazungesq or just put in negotiating with a narcissist, you'll find me right there for sure. Catherine: Yes, for sure. That's awesome. Rebecca Zung: Yeah. And Instagram is Rebecca Zung. My books, whatever. I mean, I would start with the YouTube channel as well as the free worksheet. Karen: That's fantastic. That's really great. I had something I was going to say, and it went right out of my head. Oh, I know what I was going to say. All of this will be in the show notes below the podcast. So don't feel like you have to remember that, we'll have that all laid out when we're promoting so that you can easily click through, to learn more about Rebecca's programs. So this concludes our episode on negotiating or communicating with a narcissist. Thank you so much, Rebecca, for being with us today and having this great conversation. Rebecca Zung: Thank you for having me. Catherine: Yeah. Thank you. It's been great.

I första avsnittet om narcissism gick Lina och Björn igenom vilka personlighetsdrag som utmärker en narcissist och varför denna personlighetstyp fascinerar så mycket. Men hur påverkar dessa uppblåsta egon sin omgivning? Och hur går man tillväga för att äga en narcissist? Det går Lina och Björn igenom i detta avsnitt.Klipp och musik:Timbaland - The Way I AreStarship - Nothing's Gonna Stop Us Now G-Eazy & Bebe Rexha - Me, Myself & I Donald TrumpThe Office USPetra Mede och Måns Zelmerlöw, Eurovision 2016Lesley Gore - You Don't Own Memail: dummamanniskor@gmail.comproducent: Clara Wallin See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Vi dissikerar ett mail angående ett kärleksäventyr som varade 2,5 vecka och mailskrivaren är förkrossad då hon trodde att detta kanske var han med stort H. Vad hände? Vart gick det fel? Vill du stötta oss? Gör det på: www.patreon.com/singelpodden

Trots att endast en procent av världens befolkning skulle kunna diagnostiseras som kliniska narcissister så är det ett ämne som väcker otroligt mycket intresse. Varför är det så? Och kan det till och med vara bra att ha lite narcissistiska drag? Lina och Björn rätar ut frågetecknen i det här första avsnittet av två om narcissister där de går på djupet i denna självupptagna och lättkränkta personlighetstyp.Klipp och musik:An Echo Of NarcissusZlatan på Jimmy Kimmel LiveEddie Meduza - Jag är bara bästThe Warning - NarcisistaMedCircleMalou efter tioSigns that he's a narcissist!Justin Bieber - SorryAnchormanmail: dummamanniskor@gmail.comproducent: Clara Wallin See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Brooklyn based performance artist Narcissister is infamous around the world for her shocking and transgressive performances, which the New York Times dubbed "avant porn".  Growing up as a mixed-race child in La Jolla, the artist experienced hate crimes and discrimination first hand.  Feeling like the ultimate outsider, she began to look inward and recontextualize the world around her.  With her identity shrouded behind a plastic mask, Narcissister currently creates work that confronts oppression, tackles taboo subjects and challenges cultural notions of race, gender, and sexuality.  She's accomplished this across multiple platforms -- from museums and galleries to nightclubs and experimental art spaces.  She's even appeared on America's Got Talent.

Mail: likaolikapodden@gmail.com Nextory: https://www.nextory.se/kampanjkod 21 frågor om din partner: https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/in-practice/201607/21-questions-test-how-well-you-really-know-your-partner

Brainstorm har magt på hjernen.I disse uger forberedes der i USA en magtoverdragelse mellem to magtfulde (og aldrende) mænd, og særligt den afgående præsident, Donald Trump, fremstår som en mand, der svælger i sin egen magt.Men hvorfor foretrækker nogle vælgere narcissistiske 'stærkmands-typer?Det spørgsmål besvarer Katrine Zeuthen og Lasse Laustsen, der begge forsker i psykologi, i denne episode, hvor du også kan høre, hvorfor angst og kriser påvirker, hvor vi sætter vores kryds på stemmesedlen. Derudover bliver der også plads til en snak om Mel Gibson, Asbjørns opdragelse af sin søn og Jais' (potentielle) magtsyge. Til aller sidst får du som altid nyeste lektion i Albert Gjeddes Hjerneskole.Brainstorm er støttet af Lundbeckfonden. Medvirkende: Katrine Zeuthen, lektor ved Institut for Psykologi på Københavns Universitet Lasse Laustsen, lektor ved Institut for Statskundskab på Aarhus Universitet Brainstorm er på Instagram! Find Memes, highlight og andet godt Redaktion: Jais Baggestrøm Koch, Asbjørn Mølgaard Sørensen, Jeppe Øvig og Anette Lilleøre

Medverkande: Claes Andersson, Frida Fagerlund & Bojan Djordjic Jotafeber i studion efter hans hattrick mot Atalanta "Han har slagit sig in i topptrion". Ny förlust för Manchester United "Trött på mini-runs", Solskjaers toppar och dalar, dags att sparka honom? Mikael Lustig berättar om varför han rankar Brendan Rodgers så högt efter sina tre år med honom i Celtic. Intervju med "Premier Leagues bästa 9:a". Otrolig historia kring Kolo Tourés provträning med Arsenal, där allt inte gick som planerat. "Det kan ju inte vara sant!?" "Narcissister hela bunten", Frida om tränare i stort. Temperaturen stiger när även Claes blir kallad för narcissist. Sparka igång ett nytt avsnitt av Viaplay Fotboll Podcast.

Avsnitt 12. Vad är kärlek?, Att placera sin kärlek hos rätt eller fel person, Att känna sig uppfylld av kärlek, Toxic kärlek, Hälsosam kärlek, Att vara tom kärlek, Nej din toxic relation är inte unik, Att älska sig själv, När kärleken kommer till en, Att vara mer attraktiv för andra när man är i förhållande, När folk du snackat med gifter sig och får barn, När Egot blir touchat, Polygamiska förhållanden, Att vara kär i flera samtidigt, Otrohet utomlands, Lojalitetskontraktet, Kärlek är den dyrbaraste valutan, Narcissister och kärlek, Att visa kärlek till vänner, Majlott + mycket mer See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Avsnitt 10. En känd artist blev för någon vecka sedan anklagad för en rad problematiska handlingar och beteenden - vi pratar om det, Att approacha yngre tjejer, Cancel-culture, Artister/Influencers/Kändisar = Narcissister, Män som utnyttjar sin maktposition, Folk som skriker på twitter vill bara vara en del av cancel culture, Sluta ratea kändisar, Den fysiska världen & Den virtuella världen, Den sociala hierarkin i den virtuella världen, Paradise Hotel, Ex on the beach, Att PH deltagare har podcasts, Vi snackar om poddar som trendar, Lojsan, En blatte skulle aldrig komma undan med en podd om bajs, När instagram bara var en förlängning av verkligheten, Att logga ut ur sociala medier + mycket mer (varning mycket skrik från Nikis håll pga frustration) See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Hej alla #drivkrafter! Idag möter vi Malin Henriksson Pratt som driver ICT-Instant Change Therapy och har över 20 års erfarenhet av att arbeta med förändringsprocesser. Just nu utbildar hon andra terapeuter och området vi fördjupar oss i idag är narcissism. Malin tycker det är viktigt att lyfta medberoende-aspekten när vi pratar om narcissism och varför vissa personer "råkar" dras till narcissister. Lösningen finns sällan i den andra personens beteenden, hur mycket du än läser på. Lösningen finns inom dig. Malin pratar om skillnaderna mellan att vara empatisk och att vara medberoende. Empater känner med andra och förstår men sätter sig själva först och fyller på sin egen energi först, personer som är medberoende sätter alltid sig själva i andra hand och känner att de måste finnas till för andra. Narcissisten kräver av dig och du som medberoende vill känna dig behövd på grund av dina oläkta inre sår, inte svårt att förstår hur detta kan vara början på en destruktiv relation.  Malin pratar idag om vad som gör att narcissister och personer som är medberoende dras till varandra. Vilka varningssignaler finns för att uppmärksamma detta? Vad kan man göra själv för att undvika att bli sårad eller lurad, om det så gäller i en privat relation eller i arbetsrelaterade sammanhang? Gör du allt för alla andra, men känner dig ensam inuti? Dras du till destruktiva relationer gång på gång? Vill du fri och finna riktig vänskap och kärlek? Känner du ofta att livet drabbar just dig? Känns det som att dåliga upplevelser upprepar sig gång på gång i livet för dig? Då är detta ett avsnitt för dig! Välkommen!

Psykopater och narcissister. Ord vi alla generöst slänger ur oss utan vidare reflektion men vad är egentligen en psykopat? Och hur känner man igen en narcissist? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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Berith Siegumfeldt er vokset op med en narcissistisk far, der ødelagde hendes barndom, og hvis tilstedeværelse kostede hendes mor og bror livet. I dag rådgiver hun os andre om 'de røde lamper' og hjælper os med at takle narcissisten. Skriv til programmet: anders@radionordjyske.dk

Coco Dolle is a French-American artist and curator whose work explores themes of the body, identity and feminism. She is the founder of the "Legacy Fatale" performance art project and the curator of “TRANS-Ville” series at Catinca Tabacaru Gallery. An avant-guard curator within the feminist conversations in New York, Miss Dolle has presented numerous concept exhibitions including at the SPRING/BREAK Art Show, The National Arts Club and The Untitled Space, while working with pioneer artists such as Betty Tompkins, Kembra Pfahler, Narcissister and the Guerrilla Girls. Her performance works have been presented widely including at The Queens Museum, Czech Center (NYC), Miami Art Basel,  Deitch Projects and Manchester Art Gallery (UK). © Photo of Legacy Fatale performance art by Kim Doan Quoc, 2018 Music for this episode is generously provided by Leigh Celent and Castle Black. Check them out on www.castleblackmusic.com Coco will host an upcoming performance happening with her troupe Legacy Fatale that includes workshops and immersive performance happening in Rosekill, NY on Saturday, May 25. You are welcome to bring your tent and camp overnight and enjoy Sunday by the lake. PANATHENAIA FESTIVAL FB event PANATHENAIA TICKETS 

Hola people! Vi är tillbaka med ett filosofiskt avsnitt med Kanye som huvudämne... surprise surprise! Men han får oss att prata om Egot, vart går gränsen när det kommer till Narcissister och what's up med having the God complex? Vi pratar även lite om Blondinbella och att ha skollov hehe!   Enjoy!

Host Paul Booth reviews this 2018 Official Selection to SXSW.  Synopsis:  American performance artist Narcissister takes a smart, sassy, spectacle-rich approach to exploring the kinds of sexual fetishism that notoriously fix racial and gender stereotypes. She combines unabashed eroticism, humor, and poignancy to stretch viewers' sensibilities and achieve surprising psychic effects. Narcissister Organ Player is originally a Bessie Awards–nominated performance that takes place in a metaphorical restaurant where Narcissister, unsated by a few spinach leaves, tries to eat the restaurant furniture and ends up “consuming herself” by entering and traveling through her own body, represented by an enormous onstage puppet. As the performance plays out on stage, in real life, her mother's long-term illness brings on a decline that ends in death. The artist's loss provokes an exploration of how her own complex, interracial family history has compelled her to create the masked, erotic performance character Narcissister. Enriched by Martha Colburn's original animation, Narcissister Organ Player is a hybrid personal documentary/performance film that is a vibrant portrait of a family, a radical artistic practice, and an exploration of how ancestral data is stored in our bodies, impacting the lives we lead.

Ordet narcissism dyker upp överallt. Det har blivit en favoritdiagnos på ex-partnern, chefen, politikern men även en hel kultur där alla jagar efter bekräftelse i sociala medier. Enligt studier så har narcissisterna blivit fler och det pratas om en narcissistisk epidemi. Men samtidigt finns det forskare som menar att människor som lider av den faktiska personlighetsstörningen så som den definieras i den amerikanska diagnosmanualen DSM-5 inte har blivit fler.  Hur kommer det sig att ett psykiatriskt begrepp blivit namnet på en kultur, ett tillstånd i samhället? Och vad är det egentligen för skillnad mellan patologisk narcissism, ett sunt självförtroende och vårt behov av bekräftelse? I studion medverkar Carl Cederström, forskare i företagsekonomi och Jonas Mosskin, psykolog.  Programledare: Karin Andersson.

Ceci n'est pas une podcast! This week Kyle, Matthew and Natalie sit down with comedian Kevin Macias to talk about Art History, as they discuss their favorite time periods and artists through the ages. Natalie likes cave paintings and ancient art, Kevin and Kyle share their mutual love of fascist artwork, and Matthew phones a friend (Laura) to learn why Greek/Roman nudes weren't "packing heat." They also talk graffiti, performance art and give a lot of great recommendations for contemporary artists you should totally check out!  Weekly Rads:  Our new website thisisradpodcast.com, The Limestone Comedy Festival and radsters in Bloomington, Indiana; Teen Witch Fan Club, David Cook aka Bonethrower, Octopus Pie by Meredith Gran, Bernie Wrightson's The Amazing Spider-Man Hooky, Slowdive, Day of the Dead Raddendums: Nat Geo WILD, Cave of Forgotten Dreams, Picasso, Rothko, Mondrian, Yves Klein, Keith Haring, Robert Arneson, Cindy Sherman, Pecker, De Chirico, Neo Rauch, Cake/Cake 87, The Artist Is Present, Narcissister, Basic Instinct, Frida Kahlo, Destino, Basquiat, Blank City, Yue Minjun, Bosch, Goya, Koontz, Ed Ruscha, Damien Hirst, Richard Serra, Walter De Maria, James Turrell, Oskar Kokoschka, Geoff McFetridge, Pettibone, Patrick Martinez, Banksy

On this week’s episode, TS (@tsdcx) joins me Lisa (@JMOESandBFFs) to talk about professional podcaster, Travis McElroy and The Really RosieThursday Gang show! We discuss such topics as Lisa’s Narcissister, Positivity, Controversial Brazil Nuts, Creepy Kids Authors and MUCH MORE!  

On this week's episode, TS (@tsdcx) joins me Lisa (@JMOESandBFFs) to talk about professional podcaster, Travis McElroy and The Really RosieThursday Gang show! We discuss such topics as Lisa's Narcissister, Positivity, Controversial Brazil Nuts, Creepy Kids Authors and MUCH MORE!  

On this week's episode, TS (@tsdcx) joins me Lisa (@JMOESandBFFs) to talk about professional podcaster, Travis McElroy and The Really Rosie Thursday Gang show! We discuss such topics as Lisa's Narcissister, Positivity, Controversial Brazil Nuts, Creepy Kids Authors and MUCH MORE!

This week: Live from NADA, okay not live now, but live at the time, why do you care, oh, wait, you don't sorry. Amanda and Richard on the radio broadcasting from 89.0 "The Shack" at  NADA 2011. We interview the seriously fascinating Narcissister! Narcissister is a Brooklyn-based artist and performer. Her formative dance training took place at the Alvin Ailey American Dance Center. Among her professional highlights was being selected to perform with the Alvin Ailey Company in Memoria, one of Ailey's seminal pieces, touring Europe as a dancer in a German rock-opera and performing in industrial work for Mercedes Benz. In addition to her performance work, Narcissister works in many other creative media including contemporary quilting, collage, sculpture, printmaking and photography. She has participated in studio residencies including The Whitney Museum Independent Study Program and the Art in General Eastern European Residency Program. In addition, her work has been included in group shows and media publications. Narcissister has also worked extensively as a commercial artist, designing window displays and working as a stylist and art director. The Narcissister performance project integrates her prior experience as a professional dancer with her current visual and commercial art practices. Narcissister has been receiving much recognition as an outstanding artist and performer through the written word, invitations, and awards. Her art film "The Self-Gratifier" won an award for "Best Use of a Sex Toy" at The 2008 Good Vibrations Erotic Film Festival. In April 2009 she was awarded a Backstage Magazine "Bistro Award" for Outstanding Vaudeville/Burlesque Performance, a category created especially to honor Narcissister's performance work. In addition being a featured performer at The Box NYC, Narcissister has presented live work at Deitch Projects, Joe's Pub, Dixon Place, and Anna Kustera Gallery, and has starred in and curated performance shows at Santos Party House and The Zipper Factory. Her art videos have been included in gallery shows and film festivals worldwide. In Spring 2009, Narcissister co-starred in "All Made Up: Fauxnique/Monique Jenkinson and Narcissister," a performance art show at The New Museum in New York. In Spring 2010, she workshopped "This Masquerade," an evening-length piece at The Kitchen. She remounted "This Masquerade" at Abrons Art Center in Winter 2011. Narcissister was a re-performer of Marina Abramovic's Luminosity piece as part of the groundbreaking retrospective "The Artist is Present" at MoMA. Narcissister is also developing an international following. In Spring 2009 she was invited to present an evening length solo show as part of the Music Biennale in Zagreb, Croatia. She has presented work at Chicks on Speed's Girl Monster Festival in Hamburg, Germany, at the Edgy Women Festival in Montreal, and at "The Festival of Women" in Ljubljana, Slovania. She also presented work at Warehouse 09, Copenhagen's first live art festival, and at "Bordel Des Arts," a performance series at Lucas Carrieri gallery in Berlin.