To My Sisters

This week, we're taking a look at the comparison trap that's louder than ever in 2025. We see everyone's highlight reels—but how do we keep our feet grounded when the pressure to “win” feels constant? Together, we explore tools to protect our peace, embrace our unique journeys, and remind ourselves that true success is personal, not a competition. Let's break free from social media's illusions and build roots that hold strong.

The sisters are pulling back the curtain this week

On this week's episode, the sisters are diving into the rise of women who are choosing themselves, delaying motherhood, or opting out of parenthood altogether. Whether it's to pursue purpose, protect peace, or simply honour personal choice, we explore the societal pressures, unspoken judgments, and growing freedom to define womanhood on our own terms.

Sisters, it's time for a life detox!

In this episode, we catch you up on life lately, and ask the provocative question: Do Men Hate Women? We unpack the deeper truths behind settling, attraction, and preferences in modern relationships. We explore the complex tension between societal standards and personal desires and we also confront the uncomfortable reality of Christian women giving God bad PR when marriage is presented as a life of suffering rather than partnership. With honesty and care, we discuss how fear, pressure, and romanticised ideals can lead women to settle for less than they deserve, and whether God can genuinely shift our desires, including how we view physical attraction.

We've never been more ‘connected'—so why do so many of us still feel lonely?

Sisters, why do we feel so guilty for saying NO?

You worked hard, hit your goals, and achieved the success you dreamed of—but why do you still feel unfulfilled? In this episode, we unpack the hidden cost of ambition, why external wins won't fix deep insecurities, and how to prioritize peace over validation.

Hustle culture wasn't built for women. From societal pressures to biological differences, we explore why women work differently, the impact of cycle-syncing, and whether we should be ‘leaning in' or redefining success on our own terms.

Weddings are beautiful—but is the pressure to have a ‘perfect' day costing us too much? From family expectations to social media-fueled wedding inflation, we're breaking down why so many couples overspend and how to plan a wedding that aligns with your values and long-term financial goals.

Sisters, it's time to take back our power! Society often teaches women to prioritize romantic relationships above all else—but what happens when we decenter men and focus on our own joy, ambition, and purpose? In this episode, we're unpacking the subconscious ways we seek male validation and how shifting the focus back to ourselves impacts friendships, careers, and self-worth.

Be that girl, they said. Glow up, level up, do more, be more. But what's the real cost of self-improvement culture? In this episode, the ladies are breaking down the hidden struggles behind the ‘that girl' persona—from burnout and hyper-productivity to the pressure of perfection. Let's get honest about balancing ambition with grace, building a life that's sustainable, and letting go of the illusion of having it all together

For too long, Black women have been told to be strong—but where's the space for softness? In this conversation, the ladies challenge the myth that gentleness equals weakness and explores how we can embrace both strength and softness in our faith, friendships, and self-love. We're unpacking the real meaning of being a ‘strong Black woman' and how we can create spaces where softness isn't just allowed, but celebrated.

In this heartfelt episode of To My Sisters, we're joined by the amazing Juiceee whose story is as moving as it is inspiring.

We love our families, but let's be real - some of us are fighting battles that didn't start with us. In this episode, the sisters get vulnerable about the weight of childhood wounds, the pressure of hustle culture, and the emotional toll of being the ‘strong Black woman.' But sis, we're not meant to just survive - we're meant to thrive. It's time to heal, rewrite your family's story, and build a future free from cycles that no longer serve you.

From curated devotionals to aesthetic Bible journaling, Christianity has become a look online. But is faith something to be ‘performed'? The sisters deep dive into the rise of ‘trendy Christianity' and the fine line between inspiration and superficiality. Let's talk about cultural Christianity vs. real discipleship, why private devotion matters more than public expression, and how to keep faith authentic in a social media-driven world.

In today's To My Sisters episode, we're joined by the powerhouse Tiwalola Ogunlesi who's here to share her journey of unapologetic confidence and faith-driven success. Author, Speaker & Founder of Confident & Killing It, Tiwalola gets real about what it means to kill it in life - owning your confidence, chasing your dreams without hesitation, and truly walking in alignment with your purpose. But it's not just about the hustle but the heart behind the journey. She opens up about how renewing her relationship with God has been the key to her growth, giving her the strength to move boldly forward.

Friendship breakups can hit even harder than romantic ones. Whether you've drifted apart, had a major fallout, or realized you've been in a one-sided friendship—knowing whether to fight for the relationship or walk away is never easy. In this episode, your resident online sisters unpack the different types of friendship breakups, how to navigate them with grace, and the signs that it's time to move on. Plus, we're getting real about the heartbreak of losing a sisterhood and how to heal.

In today's episode of To My Sisters, we're diving deep into 10 Red Flags in Female Friendships. From communication and gossip to manipulation and conflict resolution, we discuss it all.

In this inspiring episode of To My Sisters, we're joined by the incredible Nellie - an incredible woman who has influenced thousands as a makeup guru and cancer survivor.Nellie opens up about her journey through surviving cancer, her unwavering faith in God, and how she's used her love for makeup and beauty to empower herself and others. From finding strength in life's toughest battles to building a platform that celebrates resilience and creativity, Nellie's story is a testament to the power of hope, faith, and purpose.This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration to overcome challenges, live boldly in their calling, and embrace their unique light. ✨Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay connected to the sisterhood!

This week on To My Sisters, we're honored to sit down with the powerhouse that is Ray Blk for a conversation that's as raw as it is inspiring.

In this episode of To My Sisters, we're joined by none other than Megan Ashley for a deep and transformative conversation. Together, we explore the power of discipline, strengthening your faith in God, and starting afresh in alignment with His purpose.

In our first episode of 2025 over at To My Sisters, we're stepping into a new chapter as we discuss embracing the fresh beginnings that 2025 brings. From navigating the realities of adulting and growing up to learning how to thrive in the ever-changing seasons of life, we're here to help you reflect, reset, and take on this year with grace.

In today's episode of To My Sisters, we're diving deep into the evolving nature of female friendships over the last year, as we journey through life. Join us as we explore how to maintain deep, meaningful connections amidst milestones, how to embrace the change and the power of sisterhood in navigating life's transitions.We also have some very big ANNOUNCEMENTS in this episode, so make sure you watch through to the end!

In this weeks episode, your favourite online sisters discuss how to become a confident woman in a world that seems to be intimidated by confident women. From the cultural realities of imposter syndrome in the workplace and at school, to overcoming perfectionism and leaning on your community, they discuss it all with the hope of equipping you as you overcome an of your own insecurities. 00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis 02:15 Let's Catch Up & Housekeeping Announcements 05:14 Confidence vs. Pride17:01 Fighting Perfectionism & Low Self-esteem 27:57 Dealing with Imposter Syndrome 41:50 Glowing & Growing Together ✈️ Come with us to Ghana: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters/84

In today's episode, the sisters get real about their experiences with explicit adult content, and its dangers for women and broader society. Inspired by a recent BBC News documentary, they talk about everything from the objectification of women to overcoming shame and why it can be so hard to end the cycle of consuming adult content. 00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis 01:48 Housekeeping Announcements 05:30 Our Experiences with Explicit Adult Content17:06 The Objectification of Women 29:37 The Dangerous Effects on Women42:15 'Trad-wife' vs Sex Workers57:55 Overcoming Shame✈️ Come with us to Ghana: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters/84

In this heartfelt episode of TMS, we dive deep into the "Winter Arc" of life—a season marked by waiting, uncertainty, and challenges. How do we remain faithful when the light seems far away? How can we find joy and contentment in these dark and difficult times? Join us as we share practical tips, and faith-filled insights to help you embrace the beauty of growth in the waiting season. Whether you're navigating a tough time or supporting someone who is, this episode will inspire you to hold on, find purpose, and thrive in your winter arc.

Building on last week's amazing Live from Layfield conversation, this week's episode takes you to the heart of our Live in London special with your favourite homegirls, Courtney and Renee. Together, they explore the seasons of life—from embracing the chill and challenges of your “winter” season to thriving and living abundantly in your “summer” season. Expect plenty of wisdom, laughter, and unfiltered truths as the girls drop gem after gem to inspire and uplift you!✈️ Come with us to Ghana: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters/84

The sisters are still buzzing from the AMAZING TMS Live in London show—and by popular demand, we've captured the magic for you!

In this episode, we're joined by the incredible financial wellness educator, author, and entrepreneur Bola Sol. We dive deep into her journey of mastering money, building financial confidence, and staying true to yourself in the process. Bola shares her insights on navigating personal finance, wellness, and authenticity in a

As two best friends who run a business together and live together, your two favourite online sisters dive into how they make their friendship and business partnership work despite the pressure, cultural narratives and statistical data that shows most co-founder relationships end up failing. They discuss how they navigate communication, conflict, comparison and so much more. ✈️ Come with us to Ghana: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters/84

What does it really take to build a business while staying true to yourself? In this episode, we're joined by Ama, the powerhouse co-founder of Plantmade, to dive deep into the realities of being a woman founder. Ama opens up about the highs and lows of working with family, balancing personal life with business, and what people don't see behind the scenes. From navigating entrepreneurship to the personal growth it demands, this episode is a candid look at the real Ama and the journey to building a brand with heart and resilience.

In today's episode the sisters get very real and transparent about what's been happening behind the scenes. From experiencing anxiety and burnout, to locking in and pivoting. Grab your tea (or some wine) as it's set to be a real one. ✈️ Come with us to Ghana: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters/84

In a world that constantly demands more of us, how do we protect our peace while staying true to who we are? Beyond self-care routines and social media detoxes, what does it really mean to set healthy boundaries, nurture your growth, prioritise friendship and remain authentic in a world of comparisons? We're joined by the amazing content creator and advocate for intentional living, UnJaded Jade, to unpack the challenges of balancing personal growth with external expectations. From navigating pressures online to cultivating a life that aligns with your true self, this episode is filled with practical tips and deep insights.This conversation is for every woman looking to protect her energy and thrive in her own lane—so make sure to share this with the sisters in your life who need to hear it!

In this episode, we sit down with Vidette, our dear friend and founder of Sorted Chale, to talk about her bold leap from corporate life to following her passion for travel. Vidette shares the challenges of navigating a business breakup, the lessons she learned along the way, and how she's embraced her most authentic self throughout the journey. From turning setbacks into opportunities to building a thriving travel business rooted in purpose, Vidette's story is one of resilience, courage, and staying true to your vision.

In this third and final part of the mentorship conversation with Emmanuelle Faith Zoe, Courtney & Renee go deep into why sisterhood is a secret weapon for the woman who's about to give up on herself, and her journey. They share how female friendships (when done well) provide a safe nurturing environment for you to grow and heal. Get ready for a powerful and moving episode.

Today Courtney & Renee are in the hot seat and they are going deep into the topic of self-awareness. Their little sis/mentee Emmanuelle asks what does it look like to be productively self-aware without being self-condemning? How do you learn to love your imperfections whilst pursuing the vision of the woman you want to be? This episode is for the sisters who need to be encouraged on their personal development journey

In today's episode, your resident online sisters are featuring as guests...on their own podcast! We're joined by our little sister and mentee, none other than Emanuelle Faith Zoe, to represent the pressing questions that you may have for us. Part of a three-part series dropping over the next few days

Your favourite online besties are back, and in true TMS Hot Takes fashion, we're delivering some honesty, social commentary, and light-hearted best-friend banter. We dive into the reality of burnout, the Cam Newton debacle, and our thoughts on birthday dinners, splitting the bill and dealing with an undercover hater. Grab some tea or wine sis, because you're in for a good one.

In today's episode, the sisters weigh in on the reality of being a woman physically. From bodily changes to hormonal imbalances, what does it mean to be taking care of our bodies inside and outside? Find out all of this and more in today's TMS episode!

In today's episode, the sisters are joined by Leanne Pero MBE, a social entrepreneur, author and breast cancer survivor. We dive deep into Leanne's own personal experience, the necessity of bringing awareness of breast cancer amongst young people and BAME communities, and how she found comfort, healing and purpose amidst her experience. The disease awareness material has been funded by Novartis Pharmaceutical UK Limited and created by 'To My Sisters' with direct input from Novartis and participating breast cancer patient, whose knowledge and insights have informed the content and direction for this podcast episode. UK || FA-11231911 || July, 2024

Navigating the questions of finances in any relationship, whether it be romantic or platonic, isn't always easy. Not to mention the rise of materialism, the reality of comparison and the very real cost of living crisis we are seeing rippling across the world. In today's episode, the sisters spill the tea on the challenges of financial modesty, the taboo of transparency in finances with your partner, and what are some of the key signs to look out for when Mr Wrong enters at the ‘right' time.

Beyond who pays on the first date and finding a ‘provider', what does it ACTUALLY look like to run a healthy financial household with your spouse? Is it truly possible to achieve financial freedom and financial joy with your beloved? What does long term planning look like in marriage - and what are the red flags around money that we as women should look out for, and avoid displaying, when it comes to our money? We're joined by our friends, dynamic duo and joint entrepreneurs, the Humble Penny, to answer all the burning questions that our ‘generational wealth builders have…and more.

In today's podcast episode, the sisters weigh in on the uncomfortable truth about levelling up and leaving your friends behind. From unequally yoked friendships, bad behaviour and jealous friends, to self-awareness when YOU are the problem, the ladies dive into the hot tea on the truth of navigating these tense relationships!

In today's episode of TMS Hot Takes, your favorite online sisters discuss the riots currently taking place in various cities in the UK and how a colonial history, institutional racism, and xenophobia are exposing that the UK isn't as 'tolerant' as it brands itself to be.☀️

We're joined by the renowned international speaker, entrepreneur, and multi-hyphenate Hayley Mulenda Record, to talk candidly about her evolution as a woman. From processing identity shifts in marriage, maintaining friendships through tough seasons, to going full throttle with ministry - you're in for a treat in today's episode of the To My Sisters podcast!

Sit back, relax, and get ready to laugh with your favourite online sisters as they answer a juicy dilemma, discuss dating non-negotiables and whether you should be a 'pick me' for your man.TIMESTAMPS: 02:12 Ding Ding Dilemma: "I Threatened My Boyfriend and I Think He's Ending It..."15:29 Is there wisdom in being a 'pick me' for your man?28:30 Embracing your inner lover girl!☀️

As a community of ambitious women embarking on our ‘glowing & growing' journeys, an important thing for us all to embrace is the fact that transformation happens in seasons. In this episode, your favourite online sisters discuss 5 lessons that will help you embrace the season you're in and overcome comparison, insecurity and any fear you may have towards the future. 00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis01:24 Housekeeping announcements02:47 Ding Ding Dilemma: 'My family doesn't believe I'm single and happy!'16:02 Lesson 1: Some things take longer than expected26:08 Lesson 2: Come back to reality32:58 Lesson 3: Understand the root of your insecurities41:54 Lesson 4: Reclaim your attention52:34 Lesson 5: Look at the evidence ☀️

In this episode, your favourite online sisters dive into navigating the rising cost of having ‘community' around you, the madness that is gossip blogs, the dark side of mukbang content, and President Joe Biden dropping out of the US election. Grab your tea or a glass of wine, because it's a juicy one. Timestamps:00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis01:42 Community costs money...?! 21:26 The madness of gossip blogs32:00 The dark side of mukbang content41:59 Biden dropped out!☀️

In today's episode, the sisters are joined by Shani Akilah, renowned author of her debut book, ‘For Such a Time As This'. From the reality of cultivating friendships as an adult and wading through the dusty dating streets of London, to the reality of health issues afflicting the Black community, tune in for a heartwarming and wholesome conversation

In this week's unserious episode of #TMSHotTakes, your favourite online sisters dive into, whether it's okay to have a work wife or husband, their thoughts on Netflix's newest hit - Supacell, and whether we should be crying on the internet. As well as answering one of your dilemmas!Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis01:04 Crying on the internet 08:34 Supacell 23:51 'Wig Blindness?'31:24 Navigating friendships with the opposite sex when in a relationship38:12 Work wife?!53:18 Ding ding dilemma: Dating for 6 months and I'm not attracted to him...☀️