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Send us a textEver wonder why your son isn't in the starting lineup? The truth might surprise you. Baseball isn't just about who can hit the ball farthest or throw the fastest pitch. High school coaches make tough decisions every single day about who plays and who sits – decisions that go far beyond raw talent. From academic performance and classroom behavior to practice effort and being a supportive teammate, the factors that determine playing time are complex and often invisible to parents watching from the stands.I'll never forget the parent who approached me during a team cookout at IMG Academy in Florida to boldly declare that I was "what's keeping us from winning a state championship." That uncomfortable moment sparked an important reflection on the relationship between coaches, players, and parents. While that particular season ended in a heartbreaking 1-0 loss in the 10th inning of the district finals, the lessons remain relevant for baseball families everywhere.Here's the uncomfortable truth many parents don't want to hear: sometimes the best way to support your child isn't by fighting their battles, but by stepping back. When parents rush to protect their sons from difficulty – whether it's limited playing time, batting lower in the lineup, or facing criticism – they rob them of the opportunity to develop resilience. In baseball, a game where even elite hitters fail seven out of ten times, learning from setbacks isn't just helpful; it's essential.Whether you're a coach navigating lineup decisions or a parent supporting a player through ups and downs, remember that success in baseball and in life is earned through facing challenges head-on. The players who become leaders are those who learn to handle adversity without breaking. Trust the process, back the coaching staff, and let failure be the powerful teacher it's meant to be.Ready to transform how you think about baseball development? Subscribe now for weekly insights that will change your approach to the game, whether you're in the dugout or the bleachers.Join the Baseball Coaches Unplugged podcast where an experienced baseball coach delves into the world of high school and travel baseball, offering insights on high school baseball coaching, leadership skills, hitting skills, pitching strategy, defensive skills, and overall baseball strategy, while also covering high school and college baseball, recruiting tips, youth and travel baseball, and fostering a winning mentality and attitude in baseball players through strong baseball leadership and mentality.Support the show Follow: Twitter | Instagram @Athlete1Podcast https://www.athlete1.net Sponsor: The Netting Professionals https://www.nettingpros.com
Hi Everyone,Today we are talking about birthdays and dealing with the realities of life, one of which are failures. I don't think I ever learnt that it was a part of life to experience failure?What do you think? Enjoy listeningConnect with the podcast;Instagram: @DatOneLadyEmail: datonelady@gmail.com
In this episode of "Push to Be More," host Matt Edmundson engages with Arshad Hisham, a dynamic entrepreneur and CEO of inGen Dynamics. Arshad shares his journey from overcoming a catastrophic business failure to building a successful company with an $80 million revenue pipeline. The conversation explores the rapid evolution of AI and robotics, highlighting both the exciting potential and the societal challenges they present. Arshad discusses the importance of resilience, risk-taking, and reframing failure as a learning opportunity. He also emphasises the value of gratitude and introspection in maintaining contentment and purpose. This insightful dialogue offers a blend of personal anecdotes and professional insights, making it a must-listen for aspiring entrepreneurs and tech enthusiasts.Key Takeaways:1. Embrace Failure as a Learning Opportunity: Arshad highlights the importance of viewing failures not as personal shortcomings but as character-building experiences. He stresses that setbacks are often due to external factors beyond one's control and advises detaching oneself from the failure to learn and grow from it. This perspective helps in maintaining resilience and continuing to pursue one's goals despite challenges.2. Cultivate Mental Resilience and Adaptability: Arshad discusses the significance of mental exercises, such as meditation and introspection, to build resilience. He suggests that just as physical exercise is essential for the body, mental exercises are crucial for the mind. This includes reframing situations positively and understanding that personal growth often comes from overcoming adversity.3. Live with Gratitude and Without Expectations: Arshad advocates for starting each day with gratitude, acknowledging the positive aspects of life rather than focusing on what is lacking. He also advises against having expectations from others, as this can lead to disappointment and negative emotions. By doing so, one can maintain a sense of freedom and contentment, focusing on personal growth and contribution rather than external validation.If this episode of Push to be More piqued your interest make sure to keep up to date with everything we do here on the Push to be More Podcast.
Jayden and Eric talk through some of their previous failures and discuss how to cope with shortcomings in medical education. Want to learn more? Shoot us a text at 415-855-4435 or email us at podcast@jackwestin.com!
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Welcome back to the Wildly Wealthy Woman podcast! In this episode, we dive into the important topic of raising kids and dealing with failure. This conversation was sparked by a recent call from Jackie's daughter, who sought extra help in math after failing a test. Jackie shares insights from their conversation and offers valuable mindset shifts to help both parents and kids navigate challenges. Key Takeaways: Acknowledge Feelings: The first step in dealing with failure is to acknowledge feelings. Jackie encourages listeners to create a safe space for their children (and themselves) to express their emotions. Shift Your Perspective: Instead of letting failure define them, it's crucial to ask, "What am I making this moment mean?" This question helps reframe the narrative around setbacks. Proactive Solutions: Jackie emphasizes the importance of problem-solving. Her daughter approached the situation with a proactive mindset, seeking help instead of succumbing to defeat. Mindset Shifts: Changing the inner dialogue from “I'm not good at this” to “I'm getting better every day” is key to fostering resilience and growth. Bridging Belief Technique: Jackie introduces the concept of “Bridging Belief,” a technique taught in Tapping School that helps rewire subconscious beliefs to create a new self-image. Support and Consistency: Encouraging children (and ourselves) to practice consistently in areas where they struggle is essential for long-term improvement. Celebrating Resilience: Celebrating small wins and the courage to face challenges builds confidence and reinforces a growth mindset. Call to Action for the Make It Happen Mini-Course:Jackie introduces her upcoming Make It Happen mini-course, a three-day training designed to empower participants to overcome challenges and manifest their dreams. Make It Happen Mindset & Tapping Mini Series Dates: October 29th, 30th, and 31st. Day 1: Unshakable Self-Trust & Align with SpiritThe higher you go, the more you need to deepen your trust in yourself. High performers like you don't need external validation—you need to anchor into your own voice and ideas. On Day 1, we'll focus on building unshakable self-trust and reconnecting to the flow of Spirit/God in your life. Jackie will walk you through her Daily 5 Non-Negotiables, the exact framework that keeps her consistent, resilient, and always moving toward the next level—even when things get messy. Tangible Takeaway: You'll walk away with a clear framework to stay in alignment with your vision and take consistent action—even when things feel chaotic. This level of self-trust leads to quicker decision-making, fewer doubts, and more momentum. Day 2: Unapologetically UnrelatableWhen you're playing big, not everyone will understand your vision—and that's a good thing. Day 2 is all about owning your uniqueness and becoming unapologetically unrelatable. We'll tap through any doubts that are holding you back and turn being misunderstood into your superpower. You'll also learn how to break your big goals down into actionable, aligned steps so that your vision becomes reality. Tangible Takeaway: You'll walk away with the confidence to own your unique brilliance, a strategic roadmap for bringing your vision to life, and the ability to attract clients who value your creativity and are willing to invest at a higher level. Day 3: Magnetize Clients with Million-Dollar ContentBig dreams need big visibility, and Day 3 is all about combining mindset with practical action. You'll learn how to magnetize your dream clients using content that resonates and converts. Jackie will guide you on creating high-level content that attracts the right people—those ready to invest in you. Tangible Takeaway: You'll leave with a content creation plan designed to attract high-level, premium clients who align with your vision. This strategic, top-of-funnel approach will ensure that your message reaches the people who are ready to invest in your genius. This isn't about playing small—this is about playing even bigger. You've already built your brand—now it's time to take it to the next level. Connect with Jackie:If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend and leave a review on Apple or Spotify. For more information about the Make It Happen mini-course or to reach out, connect with Jackie on Instagram @thejackiemcdonald or email support@jackiemcdonald.ca. Tune In Next Time:Join Jackie for more empowering discussions aimed at helping you embrace your journey and achieve your dreams.
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Life is a journey filled with both failures and successes. Join us as we discuss how to navigate failure and the strategies to overcome it, paving the way for greater success in your life. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/discovergrace/support
Failure as a change leader is mortifying, disheartening, and frightening. When you're tasked, like Greg Merrill, with leading large-scale changes at Nike, it can feel like a Herculean task to get it right, every single time. Learn from Greg and Nellie's conversation about bouncing back from failure, shifting away from panic, and having an overarching corporate purpose to rely on when failures occur.Connect with:Nellie WartoftCEO of TigerhallChair of the Executive Council for Leading Change (ECLC)nellie@tigerhall.comhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/nelliewartoft/ www.tigerhall.com Music:Breathe by RYGO | https://soundcloud.com/francesco-rigolonANTI-HERO - Violin Cover by Caio Ferraz, Instrumental VersionMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution 3.0 Unported License (CC BY 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/deed.en_US Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
If you're participate in hunting events long enough with your bird dog, "failure" is inevitable – meaning, not passing a test, earning a placement, or failing to meet your expectations. In this episode, I talk about some failures I've experienced and how I dealt with them. Realizing how to learn from failure and using it to make you and your dog better is important. Hopefully this episode will provide some useful tips for the next time you're dealing with some disappointment after competing with your dog. The Accidental Bird Dog Podcast is sponsored by OnX Hunt and Boss Shotshells. We are part of the HerUpland Podcast Network.
Send us a Text Message.Ever felt like life just keeps throwing curveballs your way? Join us on this episode of Mindset Cafe as we unpack the complex emotions tied to disappointment and setbacks. From the crushing feeling of unmet expectations to the frustration of plans falling apart, Nick and I shine a light on how these experiences are universal and not the end of your world. We'll share personal stories and expert insights on how resilience and a positive outlook can transform these challenges into stepping stones for future success.Shift your mindset and unlock new potential as we discuss powerful strategies for navigating through adversity. We explore how changing your perspective on negative outcomes can boost your emotional intelligence, making you more adaptable and prepared for future challenges. Whether it's handling external criticism constructively or using setbacks as fuel for greater achievements, you'll gain valuable tools to turn life's lemons into lemonade. Our conversation also delves into the importance of a supportive community and how external motivators can keep you pushing forward when times get tough.Finally, get ready to be inspired by real-life examples of persistence and growth. Hear about Geraldine's incredible fitness journey and how overcoming initial hurdles led to transformative success. We'll talk about the significance of breaking down long-term goals into manageable steps and the power of taking action despite obstacles. With heartfelt anecdotes and motivational reminders, this episode is your guide to embracing progress, celebrating hard-earned success, and staying focused on your journey to achieving your goals. Tune in, and let's turn setbacks into comebacks together!Thanks for listening & being part of the Mindset Cafe Community.----------------------------------------------Connect With Devanhttps://www.instagram.com/devan.gonzalez/Let me know what topics or questions you want covered so we can help you achieve your goals faster.https://www.devangonzalez.com/connect----------------------------------------------P.S. If you're not already a part of the The Mindset Cafe Community Page I would love to have you be a part of the community, and spread your amazing knowledge. The page is to connect and network with other like minded people networking and furthering each other on our journeys!https://www.facebook.com/groups/themindsetcafe/
Follow Us On All Our Social Media @GenZHoops! Tune In On Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Youtube, And All Major Platforms!! Riley Sager, Rising Sophomore At USC And Aspiring Journalist, Joins Ashton Khoorchand On Gen Z Hoops To Discuss Being A Young Journalist, College Life And Developing A Winning Mentality!!! (0:13) - Welcoming Riley To Gen Z Hoops! (0:42) - Falling In Love With Basketball (1:56) - Role Models Growing Up (2:36) - Pursuing A Career In Journalism (3:37) - Shifting Your Perspective (4:25) - Choosing USC (6:11) - USC Rivalries (7:07) - Hosting The SBC Podcast (8:42) - Chasing The Passion Of Journalism At Summer League (10:01) - Dealing With Mental Fatigue (10:44) - Legalization Of Sports Betting (13:29) - Favorite Interview (14:45) - Steph Curry Interview (15:08) - Standout Prospects At Summer League (17:07) - Favorite Summer League Interview (17:40) - Life Can Alter Quickly And Every Decision Matter (18:48) - Plans For The Remainder Of The Summer (19:36) - Team USA Assembling “The Avengers” For The Olympics (20:28) - “If You Don't Have Haters, You're Not Doing Something Right” (20:47) - Hobbies Outside Of Basketball And Journalism (21:23) - Enjoying Reading (22:29) - “I LOVE MY QUOTES” - Riley (24:09) - David Goggins Quote (24:44) - Dealing With Failure (25:34) - Future Aspirations (26:32) - Finding A Balance In Your Routine Thank You For Listening!!!
JPMorgan Chase CEO Jamie Dimon takes part in our rapid fire Q&A, sharing the habits that keep him productive, such as turning notifications off and keeping track of his day with a simple sheet of paper. Dimon offers unique career advice, including why you shouldn't rely on a mentor or set your sights on a CEO role. He also speaks candidly about what he learned getting fired from Citigroup and why he went back to his former boss, legendary financier Sanford “Sandy” Weil, to discuss it. Have questions you want to hear on This is Quick? Share a post or comment on LinkedIn using the hashtag #ThisisWorking. Follow Jamie Dimon , JPMorgan Chase , Dan Roth, and LinkedIn News on LinkedIn.
In this episode, we're going to talk about five steps for dealing with failure when you start something new. I love this topic because failure is a given for entrepreneurs, and starting new things is essential for our success. If we cannot handle failure properly and if we don't start new things, entrepreneurship will be unsuccessful. I've been an entrepreneur for 14 years, and I can say that most of the reason I've found success is because I've picked myself up again and again after many failures over the years. I'll share two of my biggest failures with you, so you never feel bad or stupid or worthless after failing. Failure is proof that you're trying, doing your best, and taking action. We don't learn anything when we succeed; we learn and grow when we fail. Action Plan: 1 - Face the fear of failing: Sit with your fears and understand that failure is a growth tool. 2 - Go down the outcome rabbit hole: Explore the worst-case and best-case scenarios of failure to put it in perspective. 3 - Evaluate past failures: Reflect on previous failures and identify the valuable lessons and skills you gained. 4 - Make a plan: Set a goal and create guideposts to stay accountable and overcome your fears. 5 - Take action: Don't let fear paralyze you - take the first small step to move forward. Get in touch with Megan if there is a specific mindset and self-care topics you'd like her to cover. Go down the outcome rabbit holes. Explore the worst-case and best-case scenarios of failure to put it in perspective. Website | Instagram Resources Ghostwriter – Terrence Roche (terrence@plantpowercouple.com) Promote your food blogging services Megan's recommended books and resources
In this episode, we discuss dealing with failure as a creative.Mentioned in this episode:Mindset: https://the-right-brain-cafe.captivate.fmGet Regina's book > Buy CarniAbout This Podcast:From the Office of Demonology & Regina's Haunted Library, Book Worms Horror Zine editors Regina Saint Claire and James DeFeo offer tips on creativity.Contact Us:Email (not for submissions): bookwormshorrorzine@gmail.comSubmit your short story (up to 1500 words) to:La Regina Studio, Grundy Commons, 925 Canal Street, Bristol, PA 19007Join us on social to chat Book Worms HorrorFollow our Instagram for behind-the-scenes of the show and to interact with us every single day.Regina's Haunted Library YouTube ChannelDr. J's The Office of Demonology YouTube Channel (James' Channel)The Real Demons of Pop Culture PodcastJames on TikTok
In this episode, I'm celebrating a huge milestone in my business and want to share how I reached this place of feeling secure and at peace with following my dreams. I'll reflect on the setbacks I've faced over the years and share what I've learned about trusting your timing.If you've been feeling defeated, rejected, or behind, this episode is for you.Too Collective:Too Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Hey friends, If you're finding yourself dealing with failed garden dreams, know you aren't alone! Whether you never even got started on that gardening project or you got started only to have the crop die or get overtaken by pests, how we handle these moments of defeat is SO important. Today I want to share with you some of my own garden failures from this year and what I am learning from it as I move forward. I hope this episode is encouraging to you! Ashley
Dealing With Failure ~ I'm having trouble recovering from my lost health, job, wife, and happiness. Listen to caller's personal dramas four times each week as Dr. Kenner takes your calls and questions on parenting, romance, love, family, marriage, divorce, hobbies, career, mental health - any personal issue! Call anytime, toll free 877-Dr-Kenner. Visit www.drkenner.com for more information about the show.
Welcome to Declutter The Mind's Guided Meditation for Dealing with Failure. In this 15-minute, voice-only session, we invite you to explore a gentle pathway to understanding and coping with the complex feelings that come with experiencing failure. Through mindful reflection and soothing guidance, you'll learn to release harsh self-judgments, embrace your experiences as opportunities for growth, and cultivate a resilient mindset. Whether you're facing challenges in your personal life, career, or any other aspect of your journey, this meditation offers a safe space to find peace and clarity. No background music or distractions, just pure, calming guidance to help you navigate through and rise above the feelings of failure. Let's begin this journey together towards healing and inner strength. #guidedmeditation #meditation #mindfulness This guided meditation practice is from our app, Declutter The Mind. You can see our full library on our web app or download it for iOS and Android for free. Declutter The Mind ▶ https://declutterthemind.com/ Web app ▶ https://app.declutterthemind.com/ iOS app ▶ https://apps.apple.com/us/app/declutter-the-mind/id1465713447?ls=1 Android app ▶ https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.MindDeclutter Consider joining Declutter The Mind Plus on YouTube for $5/mo and support the channel, get access to guided meditation courses, and more. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2ZvMgbK5X8j-nCY5CR06xw/join
Welcome back! We're talking about signs that you're wearing too many hats. We have a discussion about the lessons of failure. At the end of the show, Jodie tests Glenn's eclipse knowledge. Thanks for listening!
Welcome to The Underdog Podcast where we talk about how to get more customers, impact clients at the highest level, and build great products that change the world. Daniel Francis shares his journey on the best up to date strategies to build great profitable coaching businesses. Get ready to learn & be inspired. I think we've all felt failure at some point. This podcast breaks down a conversation I had with my team and how best to solve it. Check out my webinar: How I Built an Online Coaching Business Through Community Building ⬇️ http://masteryourcoachingsecrets.com Fill out an application for a free 1-on-1 strategy session to see how we can audit your business & provide you an immediate angle to generate high quality clients ⬇️ https://calendly.com/callwithdan/myc Join our Free Facebook Community For Coaches: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mycbusiness FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheOfficialD... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ceodanielfr... TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@danielfrancishq Website: https://officialdanielfrancis.com
Pam Marvin and Megan Silas navigate feelings of disappointment and perceived failure in our Lenten commitments and broader spiritual lives. As these two insightful women share their vibrant conversations, they invite listeners into a space of understanding and compassion, encouraging the cultivation of deep, edifying friendships that mirror their own bond. In a discussion rich with personal anecdotes and practical advice, Pam and Megan explore how to manage the common struggle of feeling like we've fallen short in our aspirations for holiness. From reflections on Lenten commitments to the healing power of silence and prudence, they offer a roadmap for realigning with God's grace and embracing our journey with patience and trust. Their conversation also touches on the significance of religious art in personal devotion, suggesting a contemplative approach to the Stations of the Cross through art, fostering a deeper connection with the Lord's Passion. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own feelings of failure and the difference between self-imposed expectations versus God's desires for us. Pam and Megan emphasize the importance of discernment, repentance, and the continuous seeking of God's grace to overcome these challenges. This episode is not only a testament to the strength found in faithful friendship but also a guide to navigating the ups and downs of spiritual growth with grace and perseverance. Whether you're grappling with personal development, striving for growth in your relationship with God, or simply seeking the comfort of relatable voices in your spiritual journey, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement. Let Pam and Megan accompany you shoulder to shoulder as you navigate the complexities of faith, life, and the quest for holiness. For those seeking to deepen their faith, understand their spiritual struggles, and find solace in shared experiences, tune into this enriching episode. It's a heartfelt invitation to all to grow in love of the Lord and each other. Check out our YouTube page to see great RED-C Apostolate content! Visit redcradio.org or download our RED-C Radio App to access our live radio, listen to all of our podcasts, and find additional information and resources related to our Catholic faith. And if you want to support The RED-C Apostolate and all that we do, please consider making a recurring or one-time donation (https://redcradio.org/donate). You can also subscribe to our email list at https://redcradio.org/subscribe. May God bless you and all your loved ones!
In this episode, Mike Kaeding, CEO of Norhart, shares his experiences of growing his company, emphasizing the importance of hiring the right people and adjusting roles to employees' strengths. He discusses the implementation of standard operating procedures, strategies for reducing construction costs, and handling scaling production challenges. Additionally, he shares insights on raising capital, managing multiple businesses, and the crucial role of mindset in achieving success.
DEALING WITH FAILURE - Jordan Peterson
After reading her name at least a dozen times when reviewing podiums during quick news last year, we finally had Cassandra Gill on the show! She is fairly new to the sport but has found some pretty great success in the sport lately which led to her making the top 5 of Jack Bauer's post highlighting the leaderboard of elite Spartan Race podiums across 2023. She is also both an animal, and a serious ice cream lover so she is one of our people! We discuss her athletic background, how she found obstacle course racing, support from fellow athletes, getting through some failures, some of her favorite race memories in 2023, big plans for 2024 and more! 0:00 – 3:42 – Intro 3:42 – 8:32 – Quick News 8:32 – 9:05 – Content Preface 9:05 - 58:41 - Cassandra Gill Interview 58:41 - End – Outro Next episode is planned to be part 1 of our Boston Run Show coverage! ____ News Stories: Join us at The Run Show in Boston and use code: lastchance Northeast Ultra Cup Faye Stenning Baby Miranda Kielpinski and Michael Suazo's New Dogs: Lyka and Aspen Kaci Monroe's New Dog Merlin Savage Race's 2024 Medal Reveal Deka 2024 Rulebook Updates MudGear Hannibal Race ProTeam Additions: Vivien Tran, Kevin Thompson, Sarah Grippi Snyder, Josh Fiore, and Noel Medina Fake Game Secret Link Musical Chairs Secret Link Early Celebration Secret Link Dead Hikers Secret Link Content Warning Secret Link ____ Related Episodes: 342. Spartan Poconos 3K Audio and Interviews with Elites! 343. Rachel Watters on Hannibal Race, Lionhearts 100, Savage Race Chicago, Mental Health, and More! 347. Lisa Musacchio on Racing Happy, Music, and Her Spartan Race Winning Streak! ____ The OCR Report Patreon Supporters: Jason Dupree, Kim DeVoss, Samantha Thompson, Matt Puntin, Dave Claxton, Brad Kiehl, Charlotte Engelman, Erin Grindstaff, Hank Stefano, Arlene Stefano, Laura Ritter, Steven Ritter, Sofia Harnedy, Kenny West, Ryan Maisano, Cheryl Goodwin, Jessica Johnson, Scott "The Fayne" Knowles, Anna Landry, Christopher Hoover, Kevin Gregory Jr., Ryan Hart, Ashley Reis, Brent George, Justin Manning, Kevin Praytor, Wendell Lagosh, Brett "The T-Rex" Milks, Logan Nagle, Patrick Brown, Angela Bowers, Asa Coddington, Thomas Petersen, Seth Rinderknecht and Bonnie Wilson. Sponsored Athletes: Javier Escobar, Kelly Sullivan, Ryan Brizzolara, and Joshua Reid! Support us on Patreon for exclusive content and access to our Facebook group Check out our Threadless Shop Use coupon code "adventure" for 15% off MudGear products Use coupon code "ocrreport20" for 20% off Caterpy products Like us on Facebook: Obstacle Running Adventures Follow our podcast on Instagram: @ObstacleRunningAdventures Write us an email: obstaclerunningadventures@gmail.com Subscribe on Youtube: Obstacle Running Adventures Intro music - "Streaker" by: Straight Up Outro music - "Iron Paw" by: Dubbest
We can't talk about FinTech, startups, and entrepreneurship without talking about failure, the tough times, mistakes and all the difficult things in life. Today's episode is a compilation episode for one of my favourite mindset questionsThank you for all our wonderful guests who have been in the Purpose Driven FinTech pod throughout 2023
The boys caught up with @JamesCantyIII while in Toronto, and had a deep dive look into Canty's life as a chess professional. We talked about his upbringing in Detroit, finding chess at an early age, and being able to turn his passion into a full time job. Enjoy!
Today's episode features clips from some of the best interviews in 2023. Ryan talks to reality TV personality, and former professional skateboarder Rob Dyrdek, along with record executive and co-founder of Def Jam Records Rick Rubin about the value of experimenting with new methods and building a routine that fits you. Ryan also talks with Alexander Ludwig, and Whitney Cummings over trusting the process and continuing to be disciplined during the hard times. Lastly, he speaks with Nate Boyer and Arnold Schwarzenegger about creating the skill of powering through and knowing how to stop yourself from quitting. That having a clear vision of what you want is what should drive you to keep going. If you want to spend time with more dedicated Stoics, if you want to join a culture full of people rising together, we invite you to join the 2024 Daily Stoic New Year New You Challenge. We did the first New Year New You Challenge in 2018, and year after year, we've realized more and more that one of the core benefits of the challenge is the community dynamic. Change and improvement comes fastest through culture, results through accountability, and wisdom through exposure to new people and new ideas.If you're ready to join our own version of the Scipionic Circle, if you want to surround yourself with like-minded individuals and people who will push you, sign up to join this year's group of Stoics taking on the New Year New You Challenge!Participants will receive:✓ 21 Custom Challenges Delivered Daily (Over 30,000 words of all-new original content)✓ Three live Q&A sessions✓ Printable 21-Day Calendar With custom daily illustrations to track progress✓ Access to a Private Community PlatformThese aren't pie-in-the-sky, theoretical discussions but clear, immediate exercises and methods you can begin right now to spark the reinvention you've been trying for. We'll tell you what to do, how to do it, and why it works. And when adversity inevitably comes around, you'll be ready.Rob Dyrdek - YoutubeRick Rubin - The Creative ACT: A Way of BeingAlexander Ludwig - InstagramWhitney Cummings - Instagram Nate Boyer - TwitterArnold Schwarzenegger - Be Useful: Seven Tools for Life✉️ Sign up for the Daily Stoic email: https://dailystoic.com/dailyemail
Michael Kohan Elevate Life Project: Mindfulness | Spirituality | Success | Personal Growth Podcast: A 7-Step Process for Dealing With Failure and Other Setbacks What's your true purpose? Free Quiz by visiting https://elevatelifeproject.com/purpose If you liked this Podcast, please subscribe and write us a review. This is what helps us stand out, so more people can find this show. To Write us a Review please open up this Podcast in the your app on your computer and search for Living Life on Purpose https://elevatelifeproject.com/podcast
In this episode, Hamza speaks about what school doesn't teach you about dealing with failure. Don't just listen, take action, and become an ALPHA WOLF! All necessary links: https://linktr.ee/alphawolfpack Join the Wolfpack: https://plus.acast.com/s/wolfpack. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Why is it so crucial for you to think like an OWNER if you want to see career success? It's easy to point out problems but very few people are actually able to develop solutions and that's what we need more of in the business world. In today's discussion I sit down with Liz Etling, Forbes' Richest Self-Made Woman to unpack what having an owner mindset is all about and how to develop it. We'll explore how you as an employee can create the most impact, how to focus on innovation, the difference between skills and attitude, and how to disagree in the right way. __________________ Start your day with the world's top leaders by joining thousands of others at Great Leadership on Substack. Just enter your email: https://greatleadership.substack.com/
In part one, Fran had started her week off very poorly. Fran is a single mom, having been widowed at a very early age when her husband was killed in an accident. She is raising her two school-age children alone and at the same time holding down a busy job in marketing. In telling these stories, you'll notice that Jesus speaks to Fran. Now, we know that Jesus does not speak to us in audible words, as in these stories, but I use this to illustrate that Jesus is with us at all times because his Spirit dwells with every truly born-again person, and he does speak to us through his Word and his Spirit. So, when you hear dialog spoken by Jesus, be assured it is all true to principles in Scripture, and it is used to help us learn how to practice the presence of Jesus in our everyday lives. On this particular Monday morning, Fran felt very unmotivated and started her day late. Then she had heated words with her children in getting them off. As Jesus rode with her to the job, she was very uncomfortable having him there because his presence convicted her of her harsh tongue. And then Jesus asked her about her argument with her mother the previous evening. Fran's mother was unhappy because Fran was beginning to date a man who was not a believer. Fran had accused her of meddling and hung up rather abruptly. Then upon arriving at work, she had very harsh words with a co-worker who phoned to say he couldn't make a deadline. And this was a co-worker she had been talking with lately and sharing her faith in Jesus. After all this, Fran breaks into tears, shuts her office door, and admits she has blown it. She asks Jesus to please forgive her. And of course, he does. She shakes her head. "You always forgive me so readily, and it seems I have to ask for forgiveness a lot. I've hurt you; I know I have. I really am sorry. Please forgive me." "No need to ask again; you're forgiven," Jesus replies. "But it might be helpful to trace the root cause of all these angry outbursts and ask yourself how it happened. Can you remember when they began?" "They began a couple of weeks ago, I think, about the time I started seeing...” The truth comes out slowly and painfully for Fran. "I knew it wasn't a good idea for me to date Bob. He's not a Christian; I know that, and yet he's very sophisticated and successful. I guess I was just flattered by his attention, and it felt good to be treated so nicely," Fran explains. "But you knew in your spirit that I was not pleased with this relationship, is that right, Fran?" Jesus probes further. "Yes, I knew. But I tried to ignore it; stay busy; rationalize it away. That's why I was so angry at mother; she forced me to face it," Fran explains to Jesus. "Disobedience is so insidious, Fran. It affects everything else, like a cancer that spreads lightning fast. Do you see what this one area of disobedience has done, even in two short weeks? Your fellowship with me has been broken, and you've hurt quite a few people as well.” Jesus spells it out for her. "Yeah, I know," Fran says. "The thing is, although I was doing what I wanted to do, I was pretty miserable on the inside. I was determined to do it, but it didn't really bring me any happiness or great thrill like I thought it would.” "Well," Jesus replies, "that's because you have an enemy who is a great liar, and he will always lead you to believe that doing it your way will make you happy and doing it my way will make you miserable. He handed you one of his most common lies, and you fell for it. Lots of people have. It's okay; you're forgiven," Jesus reassures her. "I know you forgive me, but how do I undo all this damage I've done to others?" Fran asks with alarm. "I've really blown it. I mean, the way I talked to Al just now—and just last week I was sharing something about the Lord with him. He'll never listen to me again. I've ruined my testimony," Fran panics as she thinks about it. "Well,
Jesus often taught with parables—stories that illustrated his message. It's a very effective teaching method, and so this on-going story of Fran will hopefully help us see a biblical truth more clearly. Also, we need to learn how to practice the presence of Jesus on a daily basis. We know that the Spirit of God is with us continually when we're born from above, but too many Christians don't seem to be truly aware of his presence and the power available to them because he is right there beside us. I hope these stories help us learn to practice the presence of Jesus all the time. We know that Jesus doesn't speak to us in audible words, but his Spirit within us can definitely give us clear guidance, which is always based on the truth of Scripture. So, the words of Jesus which I've written in this dramatic setting are all true to Scripture. Fran has had quite a few struggles on her job, but each time God has made a way and helped her do the right thing. This Monday morning, as she wakes to face another day, Fran is totally unmotivated. Nothing in her wants to get up and get going. So, she waits until the last minute, then gets up in a rush. Getting her two kids ready to go to school turns out to be a bigger chore than usual and she ends up raising her voice and arguing with them as she hurries them to get going. It's not a good start for her week. As she maneuvers through the bumper-to-bumper commute, she remembers that Jesus is there beside her, going to work with her again. "Good morning," he says cheerily. "Morning," Fran replies, hoping there won't be any conversation. She's not in the mood. "Not a great Monday start, huh Fran?" Jesus asks. She forces a smile but still keeps quiet. She had intended, as usual, to spend some quiet time with Jesus early in her day, but she missed it today. Well, that happens sometimes, and Jesus will just have to understand. Fran thinks to herself. "You seem a little angry this morning, Fran," Jesus comments. "Do you know why?" "No. I'm not angry; just tired. Guess I'm not in the mood to talk much," she answers. "Could it be the argument you had on the phone last night with your mother? There were some pretty strong words between you.” Jesus keeps pushing Fran to talk to him. Now she is visibly angry. The last thing she wants to think about is the fight she had with her mother last night. But she tries to cover up her feelings and says, "Well, we just don't see eye-to-eye on everything and sometimes Mom tries to tell me what to do. I'm a grown woman and I don't like to be told what to do," and even as she says the words, she's knows how bad they sound. "Do you think you treated her with respect, since she is your mother?" Jesus probes. Fran doesn't like it when Jesus starts asking these kinds of questions. She squirms a little as she weaves in and out through traffic, trying to be preoccupied with her driving and ignore Jesus. But he won't let her do that. "I'm sure you don't always agree, but were those harsh words necessary, Fran?" "Okay, okay, Jesus. I'll call her today and apologize. It's my fault; it's always my fault!" Fran responds in frustration. "I don't think an apology will do much good with that attitude, Fran," Jesus replies, as they turn into the parking lot at the office. Fran is relieved they are there because she really doesn't want to talk about this anymore. She said she'd apologize; what more does Jesus want? As they walk into the office, Fran finds a notice on her desk that a prospect has cancelled an appointment with her today. "Oh, good grief," Fran exclaims. "I've waited two weeks for this appointment, got everything ready, and now he cancels.” She slams her attaché on her desk and turns to take off her coat. "Oh, I'm sorry, Lord, I forgot...” her voice trails off. "You forgot I was here? That's okay, Fran. But I am here, even when you forget," Jesus says to her calmly. Fran feels very ashamed, but what can she say?
Embracing Failure: A Stepping Stone to SuccessThroughout the pulsating throes of your entrepreneurial journey, failure is not merely a possibility; it's an inevitable station en route to success. This week's episode emphasizes a paradigm shift, suggesting we perceive failure not as a cataclysmic end but a precious learning opportunity. Failure, intricately entwined with fear, often paralyzes potential and stifles the courage to stride into the unknown, especially in business landscapes. However, therein lies the conundrum - success resides precisely on the other side of this fear."Everything you want is on the other side of fear," asserts Jack Canfield, signaling the quintessential need to step out of comfort zones and brave the treacherous waters of risk and uncertainty. The message is unmistakable - to reach your zenith, confronting and understanding failure isn't optional; it's mandatory.Business failures, from financial flops to strategic missteps, aren't merely misfortunes. They are invaluable lessons, offering unique insights into what works and what doesn't, refining strategies while honing leadership and management skills. Embedding resilience in your venture and adopting a realistic, transparent approach towards setbacks can write your redemption story, propelling you from failure to success. Therefore, as we navigate our journey, let's recreate our perception of failure from an abyss of despair to an oasis of growth and newfound potential.
In this episode international award winning Life-Coach, author and wellness educator Yvette Ratshikhopha (Yvette Aloe) speaks about how you can learn from failure and strategies on how you can heal from it. As a South African lifecoach and key - note speaker Yvette covers some of her experiences with failure and how she moved on from them. @yvette_aloe on social media. Visit Yvette's website www.yvettealoe.co.za Bookings hello@yvettealoe.co.za
How do we make sense of things when we put our hearts into something, take a leap of faith, and feel like we failed? Join Dr. BethAnne in today's episode as we dive into perspective and support for those times in life when it doesn't work out. Key concepts include:Understanding why failure is subjective and how to find a higher perspectiveLearning to discern between the heart's intention and the mind's expectationTools for working through grief and how to move from pain to growthUplifting wisdom from the Akashic Records on the topicTune in next week for a new episode, Embodying The High Priestess, where we'll be continuing our exploration of the Archetypes of The Tarot series and looking at the archetype of The High Priestess and how we can empower the alchemy and knowledge of her mysterious gifts in our lives.--Dr. BethAnne Kapansky Wright is a Licensed Psychologist, Spiritual Coach and Educator, and Akashic Records Reader. She is the author of the Award-Winning Lamentations of the Sea, its sequels, and several books of poetry. A psychologist with a mystic mind, she weaves perspectives from both worlds to offer holistic wisdom.If you'd like to explore what your Akashic Records have to share with you to guide you on your path at this time, you can find more about Akashic Magic Sessions HERE or Creative Soul Coaching HERE. Alternatively, sign up for the monthly newsletter Akashic Magic. Each month offers a unique perspective on the current energies along with intuitive writing prompts! Members enjoy a free gift— a complimentary copy of Dr. BethAnne's book, Cranberry Dusk— upon signing up. FIND DR. BETHANNE ONLINE:BOOKS- www.bethannekw.com/books FACEBOOK - www.facebook.com/drbethannekw INSTAGRAM - www.instagram.com/dr.bethannekw WEBSITE - www.bethannekw.com CONTACT FORM - www.bethannekw.com/contact
Failure in the Air Force Special Warfare pipelines is inevitable. How you deal with those failures are going to lead to success... or they're going to pile up and kill your dreams. What you do with those failures and how you approach them is entirely up to you. Peaches, Trent, and dumb comment guy dive deep into everything from assumptions to personal failure to dealing with failure on your team. This week, drop a comment and let us know a time you failed and what tools you used to avoid that failure in the future!00:00 Peaches stealing the intro is the best 01:00 Assuming things will lead to failure, dumb powerpoints05:20 What are candidates assuming? Aaron drops a couple sayings he didn't come up with09:10 Momentum, orienting to a different way to communicate16:00 Assumption about people, units, teams, and building your own culture 21:30 Trent's Failure, a novella 29:10 Are parents too protective? How do you let someone fail?43:30 What is the best way to fail, discipline vs freedom, 50:46 Trent's hilarious joke51:30 Check out our partners below! Collabs:18A Fitness - Promo Code: 1ReadyAlpha Brew Coffee Company - Promo Code: ONESREADYATAC Fitness - Promo Code: ONESREADY10CardoMax - Promo Code: ONESREADYEberlestock - Promo Code: OR10Hoist - Promo Code: ONESREADYStrike Force Energy - Promo Code: ONESREADYTrench Coffee Company - Promo Code: ONESREADYGrey Man Gear - Promo Code: ONESREADY The content provided is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. The host, guests, and affiliated entities do not guarantee the accuracy or completeness of the information provided. The use of this podcast does not create an attorney-client relationship, and the podcast is not liable for any damages resulting from its use. Any mention of products or individuals does not constitute an endorsement. All content is protected by intellectual property laws. By accessing or using this you agree to these terms and conditions.
What do you do when it feels like everyone's life is going great…but you're feeling left behind? Whether it be the job, the money, the relationship, the opportunity, somehow these days it seems like someone is always doing better than you. In today's episode, the sisters delve deep into their own personal struggles with stagnancy, the tea behind life timelines and the snare of comparison. ☀️ Help Us Build The Bright Future Academy in Tamale Ghana: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate
Welcome to our interview podcast with Michael and Willemina! In this episode, we dive deep into a lost listing and debrief on what we did well and what we can improve. Join us as we explore the emotions, challenges, and lessons learned from this experience. We kick off the episode by setting the stage for our discussion. We delve into the backstory behind the lost listing, providing valuable context for our analysis. One of the key topics we explore is the cost of an overpriced listing for an agent. We also explore the sting by shedding light on the disappointment and frustration accompanying missed opportunities. Listening to the market is a skill every agent should cultivate. We reflect on our attempts to understand and adapt to its demands. The challenges of having a home on the market for an extended period are explored as we empathize with the frustrations of both homeowners and agents involved. Valuations can be a stumbling block for many agents. We share valuable tips for overcoming this hurdle and accurately pricing properties. Additionally, we examine the idea that a home is an extension of the person residing within it, emphasizing the importance of understanding this connection in the sales process. Finally, we wrap up the episode by evaluating our performance in handling the lost listing. We analyze what we did well and identify areas for improvement, providing valuable insights and takeaways for agents and industry professionals. 0:00 Intro 1:32 Backstory 5:50 What does an overpriced listing cost an agent? 7:43 The sting of loss 9:20 Being aware of your internal feelings coming through 10:20 Don't go against your judgement 15:21 The market speaks - we try to listen 18:31 Having a home on the market for a long time is not a fun process 20:18 Needle in the haystack buyer 27:28 Struggling with valuations tips 28:50 The home is an extension of the person 35:03 The time you get back when you don't get the listing 40:35 What did we do well and what can be improved Agent 15-Day Free Challenge: https://courses.revrealestateschool.com/ Social Media: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@revrealestateschool Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revrealestateschool/ Rev Real Estate School is here to teach real estate agents how to become successful in their careers and scale anywhere from 0-100 transactions while working 5 days per week by working your SOI. The real estate agent tips and tricks will benefit beginner agents and growing REALTORs® with marketing ideas, database marketing, social media, scripts, dialogues, habits, mindset, networking, skills, and negotiation.
Investories Season 2: Solid Gold Business, Investing and Mindset. At investories, we love a story. But why do we start at the start? Why would we need to know about a person's formative years when the meat, the real gold is in the detail. How did you feel? What did that look like? How did you scale? Were you scared? We're busting through our own format to bring you solid gold investing, business and life advice to get you to the next level. This is Investories Season 2 - Solid Gold Business, Investing and Mindset. Travis Baucom is the founder and CEO of Balcomie Capital. He is the director of the overall investment strategy, asset acquisitions, and business development activities for BC. Mr. Baucom personally selects all key investment markets and asset classes in order to meet the goals of his investors. He brings to the company over 10 years of investing experience and asset development. He started his journey in the private markets in August 2012 and has been directly involved in the acquisition or development, repositioning, disposition, asset management, and strategic planning with over $55million in AUM. Prior to Balcomie Capital, Travis was CEO of the largest privately owned distressed house buying company in the State of Texas, Texas Trust Home Buyers. Buying over 400 single family homes within a 5 year period. He developed and implemented the company's strategy along with directing the asset acquisition and management of those assets. Travis and his wife, Kristina, founded a private school focused on entrepreneurship, emotional awareness, and a strong emphasis on STEAM curriculum. Travis is part of the fightin' Texas Aggie class of ‘07, enjoys the outdoors with his 4 kids, and is a large supporter and advocate of the foster system of Texas. Investories: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@investoriespodcast7744 Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@investoriespod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/investoriespod/ Email: investoriespodcast@gmail.com Travis Baucom Website: https://balcomiecapital.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/travisbaucom Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/travis_baucom/ Kyle: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourmultifamilymentor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/your_multifamily_mentor/?hl=en John: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hoopeezy/?hl=en Airbnb: https://airbnb.com/h/ponderosapinehaus
Josh Kalinowski is former professional baseball player and is currently a motivational speaker and life coach. Josh shares the lessons he learned when finding his purpose after his baseball career and explains how he didn't allow his past to define his present. Josh then dives into how he's dealt with failure and learned to forgive himself. Josh Kalinowski Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshuadkalinowski/ Josh Kalinowski website: https://www.joshkalinowski.com/
In this episode, we answer your questions spanning a wide variety of topics. We talk about failure, TUF 31, negativity, and more. This episode was cut short because of the unfortunate events at the Covenant School, so I take the end of this podcast to address some of my thoughts. If you would like me to answer your question, email it to podcast@michaelchandler.com
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How can you break the habit of eating sweets? Should you sacrifice sleep to workout? Why haven't I started taking steroids? Is training 6 days per week too much? What's my business motivation and how would I deal with a huge financial failure? All of that and more in this Q&A podcast. Over on Instagram, I've started doing weekly Q&As in the stories, and it occurred to me that many podcast listeners might enjoy hearing these questions and my short answers. So, instead of talking about one thing in an episode, I'm going to cover a variety of questions. And keep in mind some of these questions are just for fun. :) So if you want to ask me questions in my Instagram stories, follow me on Instagram (@muscleforlifefitness), and if I answer your question there, it might just make it onto an episode of the podcast! If you like this type of episode, let me know. Send me an email (mike@muscleforlife.com) or direct message me on Instagram. And if you don't like it, let me know that too or how you think it could be better. --- Timestamps: 0:00 - My free quiz to answer all your diet questions: www.muscleforlife.show/dietquiz 3:35 - What would you do if all of your money went into a project you worked on and failed? 15:05 - Is there anything in Thinner Leaner Stronger that you feel differently about now? 18:15 - How should I schedule my workouts as a beginner? 21:19 - What are your thoughts on upper and lower workouts six days a week? 23:33 - Can we consume creatine when not working out for a week? 25:39 - What are your thoughts on a post lifting 10 minute cardio finisher, 3 times per week? 26:48 - Who do you think will win, Russia or Ukraine? 27:10 - Who shot first, Han or Greedo? 28:21 - Besides your business, how do you invest your money? 31:48 - Should you reduce volume and weight during your sets by 20% to preserve strength in a cut? 34:07 - Why haven't you used steroids if you have reached your peak strength? 38:13 - What is some advice to stop eating sweets? 38:55 - As a mom, is it better to sacrifice sleep to workout? 40:29 - Why don't your calves grow despite your training? 42:46 - Besides your family, what is your motivation in business? --- Mentioned on the Show: Take this free quiz to get science-based answers to all of your diet questions: www.muscleforlife.show/dietquiz
Failure is an inevitable part of the business. But what do you do when things go really wrong? Here are five simple ways to shift your perspective on failure so that it can become the greatest thing to happen in your business and not the worst. So, if you feel like a failure or don't know how to deal with failure in life then this episode is for you.
I was on a bit of a two week jaunt, running around, getting a lot of things done in my life, and I took a little step away from the podcast, which full disclosure I had a ton of judgment about because I felt like something was wrong with me for not being able to pull it all together and keep it all going. But that is why the power of coaching is so amazing. I paid attention to the thoughts that I was thinking and the way that it was making me feel, and I realized that it was not. Useful for me to think that I was disappointing you because I knew that you had 69 other episodes beyond this one to listen to. And so here I am, episode 70, a new episode where we are gonna talk about why it is so scary to fail when you are infertile. So this is a general statement that I'm gonna say. It's not if you're a student of mine, this is not a circumstance. This is a thought that one of the most scary feelings humans feel is failure. and generally humans do not like to fail. And yes, this is not a fact, but it is my thought and probably a thought that is adopted by most. People have a fear of failure, especially after fertility treatments finish and you did not become a mom because you probably spent an extraordinary amount of time hearing the word fail and failure and failed All be used to describe us and our fertility journey. All this to say. It's no wonder that those of us who have been classified as failed fertility patients have this extraordinary relationship with failing something. We've been accustomed to hearing the outcomes of cycles, embryo transfers and all of that being associated with the word failure. If you've been done with your fertility treatments for a while and you notice that you are shying away from opportunities or shying away from circumstances, that might be a little bit risky. . Ben, let me just tell you first, you are normal and I would say that the majority of the women that I work with have had this sort of reservation about life and trying new things, and it's something that we work on quite a bit and thrive after infertility, and we try to understand why does failures scare us so much? How it creates a paralysis of the state we're in when we finish fertility treatments and we're not a mom because the way we come out of it is thinking that there's absolutely no more room in our life to fail at anything else. . If we feel that becoming a mom, we sure as hell better not find ourselves in a predicament, where we are failing elsewhere. Something that I've noticed, and you may relate to this too, you may feel like, I really, really wanna feel better, but what if I try to, and it doesn't work, this preservation you are giving yourself. What if it's one more thing that you try to do that doesn't turn out the way that you hoped, so your action or inaction is not going out and seeking the tools, like coaching or working with your therapist or working on some pointed things after a job. Dating, working on your relationship. Whatever it is, it is normal. And I just want to tell you that there's nothing wrong with you if you have found yourself shying away from doing those types of things. Maybe you're thinking I'm just. ready to figure out how to get out of this sense of heaviness. You might be desiring this sense of lightness and this feeling like you're thriving and feeling fulfilled again, but you are telling yourself that it's not possible for you. And what if it doesn't work out for me, then I'm really screwed because this is your last hope in your mind. I know I was there. You're telling yourself, what if I don't have this special power? . What if I'm one of these people that just doesn't have an in 'em to feel better, or maybe my story is just too sad? And the people that I hear doing well after fertility treatments fail and they've done work on themselves and they come to the other side of things. They're just special people. And I just don't have that in my dna. . So you avoid putting yourself in circumstances or in a situation to try something because not working out the way that you wanted it to When it comes to feeling better is just sort of the end all. Be all of your hope. I know I did that. I did a lot of that. I would say the majority of students that I've worked with have had some sort of version of that in their past that runs through their brain, which impacts the actions that they did not take in their lives. So they continue not to seek opportunities to feel better out of the fear that they won't do it right and that it won't work for them. and they just didn't have this superhuman power that you need to feel better. Maybe you think that people that have this much growth and change happen in their life are just an anomaly. So instead you stay there in your warm fuzzies with your blanket around you on the sofa, and you dream of a day that you'll feel better. but you just never actually go out and try to achieve it for yourself. When I decided that I wanted to have a new definition of failure, and I wanted to work on failure. Not being something that scares the hell out of me doesn't mean I'm not scared of failure. Doesn't mean that I don't judge myself if something doesn't go the way that I had planned. But I've been working on creating a relationship with failure. I was going to invite it in. This is something we do in my coaching practice. You say failure. I know you're here. I see you. I feel you. You're really, really prominent right now. But I wanna try something different today. Failure and you're gonna tell failure. Let's go on this ride together. I know you're gonna be there. But I'm gonna just maybe put you in the back seat instead of the front seat. It doesn't mean that I'm not gonna pay attention to you, but I just, I don't want you to be right there on the side of me. I just want you to be behind me a little bit and I'm just gonna try something new today. Fear of failure, for many of us it might stem back a very long time. , you know that it's gonna be there. And so when it's there and it pops up and it shows you that it's there and you get this nervousness that you might not do something right, or you try something and you stumble a little bit, you say, okay, I know I plan for you. I know you're here. We planned for this. I knew you were gonna come with me on this ride. I knew you were gonna be sitting in the backseat failure. But listen, I'm trying. . I'm trying my best. I am. I wanna make a difference in my life. Failure, and I just, I don't wanna be scared of you anymore. Okay? So if you're listening to this and you think it sounds kooky to talk to a feeling, welcome to my world. Let me tell you, this is where the difference happens. This is where you realize a feeling is just a reaction in your body. Failure might make you get pricklies on your neck. Maybe your cheeks might get flushed, but fear is just a reaction to a feeling, and it doesn't last forever. But if you just bring it along for the ride and tell it, you're, tell it that you're welcoming it with you and that, you know, it's there. It just becomes less prominent. So if you find yourself wanting to go after things and are worried about what will happen if they don't work out the way that you had planned, let me challenge you to pick something that you've been wanting to try and just write it down on paper. You do not have to commit. I will not follow up with you and ask you how it's going or what you've done or what the outcome is. It could be maybe more than one thing. So for me, my big thing was my career. , and we talked about this in one of the previous episodes, how I wasn't sure what I wanted to do with my corporate life, because I just thought I was gonna become a mom. I thought that I'd have my beautiful babies, and I might go part-time at work. I might stop working altogether. I might go back to work after the kids are in school. So when it came to my career, I didn't know what I wanted to do. I didn't think that far ahead. . And so I challenged myself to say, knowing who I am now and knowing what I've been through, knowing where my desires lie, I wanna put together a development plan for myself. I wanna figure out what interests me, what am I good at? What are the things that make me feel like I'm alive and thriving again? So for. . I started that work with my corporate job, and it's amazing when I just allowed myself to lean into the fact that I was just exploring something and asking questions and connecting with others, things just got to be less scary for me. For me, it was my career. Maybe for you, it's something else, but if you tell yourself that it is. Okay. to try something and maybe not know the answers right away and maybe interview for a job. That's my reality right now. I'm interviewing for the first time in 14 years for a job, like I'm super rusty, y'all, but you know what? I know. I have decided ahead of time that if I don't get this. , it doesn't mean that I'm not qualified. It doesn't mean that I'm not good at what I do. It doesn't mean that I will never find another job that I want to interview for. It just means that either my timing wasn't right. Or maybe there's somebody who's been working on this job longer than I have and has put feelers out greater than mine are, and I'm not gonna make it mean anything about me because failure is just a little physical reaction in my body. And because I have the power to decide what it is, I make failure mean to me. I've decided what I want failure to mean that I am trying and that if I were good at everything and I never put myself in a predicament where I had the opportunity to learn and stretch and grow myself, I'd be really freaking bored because that was not the Lana before my infertility diagnosis. So I love you and know. , even though you've heard the word failure to describe attempts at motherhood, know that failure does not have to define you, and you can create your own definition in your own relationship with failure. So I love you. You've got this, and remember, It is never too late to discover your meeting. I'll talk to you next week.
Let's say you want to go for a promotion at your work, but your inner voice keeps telling you that you're an imposter. Who are you to go for this job? Or maybe you are thinking of starting your own business, but you know you're lacking some serious confidence. Don't you have to be super confident right off the bat to do something like that? Or maybe you tried going back to school but you failed your first test so you threw in the towel and haven't been back since. When we talk about personal development topics like confidence, imposter complex, or navigating failure, we often think there is one specific trick or tool that will magically imbue us with all the confidence we desire, get rid of all our self-doubt, or make us immune to hardship. You know… just shittin' glitter over here. Sadly, that isn't the case. This week on the show I chat with my pal, Jane Atkinson, who shares a 5-part Thought Work Model which can help you bust through self-doubt, conjure some serious confidence, and contend with failure like a badass. If you have a hard time getting into an empowering mindset or tend to go down negative rabbit holes on tv or social media, you will definitely want to pull up an ear for this one. This pod explores: Jane's two-prong approach to conjuring confidence… and how you've already proven to yourself that you can be courageous Jane's 24-hour “wallow rule” and how it can help you process your feelings around failure The 5-step Thought Work Model Jane uses to keep her mindset in the right place Understanding imposter complex and what to do about it _____ WANNA HANG WITH ME IN MEXICO? OF COURSE, YOU DO! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN FOR MY MEXICO RETREAT! Let's go to Mexico, Baby!! Wanna hang out in real life? And learn how to establish boundaries and believe in your own worthiness? And connect with like-minded badasses who are dying to be in your corner? And eat amazing food in a #gorge paradise? Of course, you do! APPLICATIONS NOW OPEN for my all-inclusive, IN-PERSON retreat held at a luxe, boutique resort in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico! But, act fast because space is extremely limited! [I'M] ENOUGH ALREADY Retreat will teach you everything you need to know to finally feel ‘enough', let go of your past (hello, forgiveness!), and gain some super-human self-confidence! This retreat will rapidly sell out, so JUMP IN while you can! Go HERE or click that fancy image to secure your spot in paradise! Can't wait to hug you #IRL! ___________________ PERKS FOR THE POD-IENCE This podcast is sponsored by LetsGetChecked and The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast listeners get a whoppin' 30% off their first test kit of choice at tryglc.com/boldtruth or simply enter code boldtruth at checkout. Hello!! Getting necessary medical testing can be simple, safe, and easily done in the privacy of your own home. Check out this killer offer from LetsGetChecked and save 30% on your first test kit! Check it out ~> _____ THIS WEEK'S ‘DIAL AN EXPERT' GUESTIE Jane Atkinson has been helping speakers catapult their careers for more than 30 years. She is the author of The Wealthy Speaker 3.0 (out this Fall), The Epic Keynote, The Wealthy Speaker Daily Success Planner and Journal, and Scaling Your Speaking Business. Prior to coaching, Jane worked as an agent for several speakers whose careers skyrocketed. She also served as Vice President of a Speakers Bureau in Dallas where she represented several celebrities, best-selling authors and business experts. Jane is the Founder of The Wealthy Speaker School which helps speakers build the businesses of their dreams through their course, community, masterminds and coaching. Connect with Jane on LinkedIn, Facebook, or Instagram. _____ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: POD #384: [COACHING SESSION] Working with Rachel on Imposter Complex POD #385: [DIAL AN EXPERT] Tanya Geisler on Imposter Complex POD #386: [AMY SAYS] 5 Ways to Stop Feeling Like a Fraud POD #387: [TOOL] Hypnosis Session to Heal the Imposter Complex POD #466: 7 Ways to Amp Up Your Self-Confidence Amy Cuddy Ted Talk on body language affecting how we feel about ourselves Lisa Steadman ___ HOW TO LEAVE APPLE PODCASTS REVIEWS: Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes ______ WANT TO SUBMIT A SHOW TOPIC? Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!