Podcasts about Bowlby

„Du weißt genau, dass du ihr nicht nochmal schreiben solltest. Du weißt, dass du dich zurücknehmen solltest. Und trotzdem tust du es. Jedes Mal." Wenn du diesen Moment kennst — dieses Gefühl, gegen dein eigenes Wissen zu handeln — dann ist diese Folge für dich. Wir erklären, warum deine Beziehungsmuster nicht aus deiner letzten Beziehung kommen — sondern aus deiner Kindheit. In dieser Episode von „Zurück ins Beziehungsglück" erklären Ralf Hofmann und Felix Heller, wie frühe Bindungserfahrungen sich buchstäblich in deinen Körper einschreiben — und warum die gute Nachricht ist: Diese Einschreibungen sind reversibel.

Stili di attaccamento: come capire il tuo, riconoscere quello del partner e smettere di ripetere gli stessi pattern relazionali.In questa diretta esploriamo i 4 stili — sicuro, ansioso, evitante, disorganizzato — partendo dalla teoria di Bowlby e dalla Strange Situation di Mary Ainsworth, fino alla buona notizia: si può cambiare.Ti sei mai chiesto perché nelle relazioni continui a fare gli stessi errori? Perché ti aggrappi quando l'altro si allontana, o al contrario perché scappi quando qualcuno si avvicina davvero?Lo stile di attaccamento è la mappa invisibile dell'amore che hai costruito da bambino — prima ancora di saper dire la parola "amore". Oggi, da adulto, continui a usarla. Anche quando non funziona.In questa diretta vediamo:→ Cos'è uno stile di attaccamento e come si forma nei primi 18 mesi di vita→ La Strange Situation di Mary Ainsworth: l'esperimento che ha cambiato la psicologia delle relazioni→ I 4 stili — sicuro, ansioso, evitante, disorganizzato — con le caratteristiche per riconoscersi→ Come gli stili interagiscono nella coppia (e perché certe combinazioni "esplodono")→ Si può cambiare? La earned security, neuroplasticità e cosa dice davvero la ricercaNon è solo psicologia accademica. È la bussola per capire come ami e come vieni amato e per smettere di sentirti rotto quando una relazione finisce sempre nello stesso modo.Diventa un supporter di questo podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relazioniamoci-di-antonio-quaglietta--3209964/support.

Today we have put together a heater of a squad, a group that could be argued as having some of the most wakeskate knowledge of any. Keaton Bowlby, Nick Taylor, Tad Matthews, and T.J. Giesey dive into wakeskate history, as well as announce that wakeskating and wakeboarding will be a feature at the X-Games this summer in Sacramento. Hear us dive deep into winching, history, spot stories, and so much more in Episode 13 of Shop Talk!Follow Keaton: https://www.instagram.com/keatonbowlby/Follow Nick: https://www.instagram.com/nicktaylor941/Follow Tad: https://www.instagram.com/madtathews/Follow TJ: https://www.instagram.com/tjgiesey/Thanks for the guest question Andrew: https://www.instagram.com/andrewpastura/Thank you to this shows sponsors! Liquid Force: https://www.liquidforce.com/ Slingshot: https://slingshotsports.com/Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/GrabMattersPodcast00:00 - 9:00 Intro9:20 X Games20:00 Checking in w/the group30:00 Guest question: Andrew Pastura 38:00 Biggest moment in wakeskate history1:00:00 LF'n Hot Seat1:11:00 Fav/Least Fav Spots1:28:50 Slings Hot Takes2:20:00 First wakeskates2:41:00 Quirks2:50:00 Winching3:07:00 IG QuestionsThe Wakeskate Archive: https://www.youtube.com/@thewakeskatearchive5051Shoot us a text!Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GrabMattersPodcastWebsite: https://www.grabmatters.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@grabmatters/videosInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/grabmatters/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@grabmatterspodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/grabmatters

How do we approach claims of extreme abuse that are both deeply personal and highly controversial? In this serious and thought-provoking episode, Dr. Linda Bowlby discusses the subject of alleged satanic abuse, exploring the psychological, emotional, and societal dimensions surrounding such claims. Drawing from her professional perspective, Dr. Bowlby examines how trauma, memory, and belief can intersect in complex ways. She discusses the importance of supporting individuals who report traumatic experiences, while also recognizing the challenges involved in investigating and understanding claims that are often difficult to verify. This episode addresses the broader issues of trauma, recovery, and the role of mental health professionals in helping individuals process deeply distressing experiences. How can we provide care and compassion while maintaining a balanced and evidence-based approach? And what responsibilities do practitioners and society have when navigating such sensitive and complex topics? Join us for a careful and respectful conversation that emphasizes understanding, support, and critical thinking—encouraging listeners to approach difficult subjects with both empathy and thoughtful consideration.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-x-zone-radio-tv-show--1078348/support.Please note that all XZBN radio and/or television shows are Copyright © REL-MAR McConnell Meda Company, Niagara, Ontario, Canada – www.rel-mar.com. For more Episodes of this show and all shows produced, broadcasted and syndicated from REL-MAR McConell Media Company and The 'X' Zone Broadcast Network and the 'X' Zone TV Channell, visit www.xzbn.net. For programming, distribution, and syndication inquiries, email programming@xzbn.net.We are proud to announce the we have launched TWATNews.com, launched in August 2025.TWATNews.com is an independent online news platform dedicated to uncovering the truth about Donald Trump and his ongoing influence in politics, business, and society. Unlike mainstream outlets that often sanitize, soften, or ignore stories that challenge Trump and his allies, TWATNews digs deeper to deliver hard-hitting articles, investigative features, and sharp commentary that mainstream media won't touch.These are stories and articles that you will not read anywhere else.Our mission is simple: to expose corruption, lies, and authoritarian tendencies while giving voice to the perspectives and evidence that are often marginalized or buried by corporate-controlled media

Emniyetli bağ, en önemli şey Dr. Dan Siegel 00:00 - Giriş ve Pandemi Dönemi 02:33 - Erken Bağların Önemi (Dan Siegel) 05:30 - Bowlby ve Bağlanma Teorisi 07:51 - Mary Ainsworth Deneyi 10:02 - Mindfulness ve Duyarlı Tepki 14:17 - Yabancı Durum Deneyi 18:33 - Emniyetsiz Bağlanma 21:35 - Bağın Sonradan Onarılması 24:53 - Uzun Vadeli Araştırmalar 29:47 - Bağların Hayata Etkisi 31:28 - Meditasyon Pratiği Erken çocuklukta kurulan bağların insanın duygusal ve ilişkisel gelişimini derinden etkilediğini anlatan bu bölümde, Bowlby ve Ainsworth'un bağlanma araştırmaları ele alınıyor. “Duyarlı tepki” (attunement) kavramının çocukta güvenli bağ geliştirmedeki rolü açıklanırken, mindfulness pratiğinin bu duyarlılığı geliştirmeye yardımcı olabileceği vurgulanıyor. Güvensiz bağların yaşam boyu ilişkileri etkileyebildiği, ancak farkındalık, terapi ve pratiklerle bu bağların sonradan onarılabileceği de kişisel deneyimle birlikte aktarılıyor. Zeynep Aksoy, saygın bir yoga eğitmeni ve Reset platformunun kurucusudur. Web sitesi üzerinden canlı ve kayıttan izlenebilen dersler, üyelik programları ve profesyonel eğitimler sunmaktadır. Online Stüdyo üyeliği ile günlük çevrim içi derslere, geniş bir arşive ve topluluk desteğine erişim imkânı sağlar. Ayrıca Zeynep, katılımcıların hareket, anatomi ve farkındalık konularında bilgilerini derinleştirmelerine yardımcı olmak için yenilikçi Fasyal Yoga Uzmanlık Programı'nı yürütmektedir. Daha fazla bilgi almak ve sertifikalı eğitimlere katılmak için: www.zeynepaksoyreset.com

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15th Congressional District candidate Judy Bowlby joins Patrick to discuss her primary campaign against Congresswoman Mary Miller (R-Hindsboro).See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Todd van der Kruik and Christina Bowlby, founder of Neutral Haus and senior director of design for Bentley Mills, respectively, and Kemp Harr discuss how the two designers are collaborating on differentiating new products that will be launched at NeoCon/Design Days this June in Chicago.

The types of attachment were theorized by British psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s. They are widely used to help us understand how we react to situations in our relationships, whether it be with romantic partners, friends or family members.   Bowlby relied on research on the impact of early separations between infants and their mothers, and emphasized the importance of attachment relationships in the social and emotional development of children, as well as their long-term mental health. What exactly is an attachment style? And what about the other two types? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions ! To listen to the latest episodes, click here: ⁠⁠Why are we obsessed with presenteeism?⁠⁠ ⁠⁠What is the snowball method of paying back debt?⁠⁠ ⁠⁠What is PimEyes, the powerful tool ending online anonymity?⁠⁠ A Bababam Originals podcast written and realised by Joseph Chance. First Broadcast: 28/5/2023 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Recibe tu curso gratis aquí: https://www.hombrealfa.top/curso-gratis/ Únete a los miles de hombres que forman parte de mi comunidad de email para acceder a promociones exclusivas y enterarte de la apertura de mis formaciones. Estar suscrito tiene premio y es la única manera de estar al día de las novedades del proyecto. Al suscribirte con tu email, recibes el curso gratis de «Cómo ser un hombre más atractivo e interesante para las mujeres en la era de las apps y las redes sociales». Es un curso de siete lecciones por escrito (no vídeo, no audio) que puedes personalizar en función del momento que estés viviendo en tus relaciones. Para unirte a mi comunidad y recibir el curso, deja tu email en el enlace: https://www.hombrealfa.top/curso-gratis/ *¿Qué aprenderás en este episodio?: 1) Por qué culpar al apego o al narcisismo es el nuevo ""tengo metabolismo lento"". 2) La verdadera historia de la teoría del apego y lo que de verdad intentaba explicar. 3) Por qué las etiquetas de Instagram NO explican tu fracaso relacional (aunque suenen bonito). 4) El gran error de pensar que tu estilo de apego determina tu atracción o éxito con las mujeres. 5) La razón por la que te aferras a relaciones mediocres… y la biología que lo explica mejor que cualquier test de apego. En el Episodio de hoy desmontamos la creencia más extendida (y equivocada) de la psicología pop moderna: que tu estilo de apego determina por qué tus relaciones fracasan. Analizamos su origen clínico real, lo que Bowlby y Ainsworth realmente investigaban y cómo se ha pervertido el mensaje original para justificar dinámicas desequilibradas Además, veremos por qué pensar que “soy ansioso” o “ella es evitativa” es una anestesia narrativa que te aleja de ver la raíz real del problema: una dinámica de poder, valor y escasez en la que la biología tiene mucho más que decir que cualquier etiqueta emocional. PD. Recibe tu curso gratis aquí: https://www.hombrealfa.top/curso-gratis/

Aujourd'hui, j'avais envie de te parler de ce moment si particulier qu'est l'accueil du bébé.Parce que non, ce n'est pas “juste un bébé”.Et non, ce n'est pas “juste une naissance réussie techniquement” qui suffit à dire que tout va bien.Dans cet épisode, je te partage des réflexions très ancrées dans ma pratique : sur ce qu'on transmet, ce qu'on oublie parfois, ce qu'on ne voit plus quand on est trop dans la technique.Je parle du regard qu'on pose sur le bébé, sur la maman, sur ce qu'ils vivent au moment de la naissance.Je te raconte comment même une césarienne urgente peut être un moment d'accueil puissant quand on laisse de la place au lien, à la parole, à la reconnaissance du vécu.Je te parle aussi de la naissance de ma fille Catherine, et de cette phrase qu'on m'a dite :“Mais ton bébé va bien, c'est l'essentiel.”Sauf que non. Ce n'est pas l'essentiel. C'est une partie. Mais ça ne suffit pas.Je t'invite à changer de regard sur le tout-petit :À voir la personne qui existe déjà, avec une conscience, une mémoire, des sensations, un vécu.À comprendre que le bébé ressent, reconnaît, s'oriente. Et que notre manière de l'accueillir, de le toucher, de lui parler, de le regarder… c'est sa première empreinte du monde.Je partage aussi plusieurs témoignages, de mères et de couples, qui m'ont confié combien un accueil respectueux change tout.Même après une naissance difficile. Même après une urgence.Quand on reconnaît ce qui a été vécu, quand on le nomme, quand on en parle… alors ça s'ancre différemment.Dans cet épisode, je te parle aussi de ce que nous disent les neurosciences affectives, les travaux de Bowlby, de Winnicott, et de tout ce qu'on sait aujourd'hui sur l'attachement, la mémoire sensorielle, la neuroception.Ce n'est pas de la poésie. C'est du soin. C'est de l'éthique.Et si toi aussi tu veux approfondir cette question du rôle des sages-femmes authentiques, je t'invite à écouter l'épisode dans lequel je parle de la naissance de Catherine et de pourquoi on a besoin de sages-femmes ancrées, partout :

We talk with therapist and author Marc Cameron about how childhood bonds shape adult love and how anyone can “earn” secure attachment through story, skills, and practice. Practical tools like boundaries that invite connection and the Comfort Circle help couples move from reactivity to responsiveness.• what avoidant, pleaser, vacillator, and disorganized styles look like in childhood and adulthood• how a coherent narrative links emotions to needs• why empathy, validation, and clear language reduce conflict• boundaries as doors back into connection• style-specific growth goals and daily practice• co‑soothing before self‑soothing and nervous system regulation• the Comfort Circle listener-speaker tool• research roots from Bowlby, Ainsworth, and Main• resources from How We Love and Marc's new bookMarc Cameron's Resources and Links:Free How We Love Attachment Style Quiz:https://understandingyourattachmentstyle.com/How We Love: https://howwelove.com/Marc's Social Media:https://m.facebook.com/marc.cameron.mft/https://www.instagram.com/marc.cameron.mft/How We Love Social Media:https://www.facebook.com/howwelovebook?mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfrhttps://www.instagram.com/howwelovebook?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrhttps://www.tiktok.com/@how.we.love.tiktohttps://www.youtube.com/@HowWeLoveVisit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org Podcast.stongermarriage.org YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StrongerMarriageLife TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@strongermarriagelife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/ Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.com http://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/

Send us a textWhat if the fastest way to help a client change is to make safety unmistakable? We take you from Bowlby's core ideas to concrete moves you can use tomorrow, showing how early bonds shape adult relationships, emotion regulation, and the choices people make under stress. Instead of memorizing terms for the licensure exam, we connect secure base behavior—proximity seeking, separation distress, and exploration—to what you can see and name in session.We walk through the major attachment styles—secure, anxious preoccupied, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant—and translate them into lived clinical patterns like protest, withdrawal, and deactivation. Then we map the treatment arc inside attachment‑based therapy and ABFT: build a strong alliance, explore injuries individually, invite caregivers into structured enactments, and consolidate gains across daily contexts. Along the way, we show how corrective emotional experiences, emotion labeling, mindfulness, and reflective functioning create new relational memories that hold under pressure.Assessment matters for both practice and exams, so we cover the Adult Attachment Interview, Experiences in Close Relationships, the Relationship Scales Questionnaire, and how Strange Situation findings inform work with children. We also share pragmatic progress markers—more direct bids for support, quicker recovery after ruptures, and increased capacity to set boundaries without distancing. The throughline is simple and powerful: when clients experience dependable attunement, they risk new ways of relating, and resilience grows.If this helped you connect the dots between theory and practice, follow the show, share it with a study buddy, and leave a quick review. Tell us which attachment‑based technique you'll try this week—we'd love to hear what changes in the room.If you need to study for your national licensing exam, try the free samplers at: LicensureExamsThis podcast is not associated with the NBCC, AMFTRB, ASW, ANCC, NASP, NAADAC, CCMC, NCPG, CRCC, or any state or governmental agency responsible for licensure.

Pour devenir Ambassadeur du bonheur et m'aider à propulser le lancement de mon nouveau livre sur Amazon. Inscrivez-vous !Que signifie être une base de sécurité pour ceux qu'on aime ? Comment écouter sans interrompre ? Comment voir au-delà des comportements pour comprendre les besoins cachés ? Comment nos mots, nos silences et nos gestes peuvent-ils apaiser et renforcer le lien ? À travers les clés de la psychologie de l'attachement, les apports de Bowlby et les enseignements des épisodes précédents, découvrez comment l'écoute, la bienveillance et la stabilité émotionnelle peuvent transformer nos relations en espaces de confiance, de douceur et de croissance mutuelle. **********Retrouvez le texte de l'épisode sur notre blog.En vous abonnant sur Itunes pour recevoir les notifications et en nous laissant un avis, vous nous envoyez des bulles de bonheur !En suivant notre actu sur FB @2minutesdebonheur et sur insta @2minutesdebonheur, vous profiterez gratuitement de pleins de trucs, d'astuces et de mises en pratique liés au podcast de la semaine.Inscrivez-vous à la newsletter, vous serez ainsi notifié de nos nouveaux épisodes et vous recevrez un bon de réduction de 5% sur notre site.Et surtout, partagez nos épisodes à tous ceux qui veulent prendre le temps d'être heureux !Hébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Neste episódio da série Os medos que vivem em nós, aprofundamos o medo da rejeição — suas raízes na teoria do apego e seu impacto na vida emocional feminina. Inspiradas na sabedoria de Mulheres que Correm com os Lobos, exploramos como o medo da rejeição tenta silenciar nossa autenticidade e a coragem necessária para sermos vistas e amadas em nossa verdade. Um convite para você se reconhecer, se amar e se libertar.Fontes utilizadasAmerican Psychiatric Association. (2013). Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (5ª ed.).Bowlby, J. (1988). Apego e perda.Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology (2015). Fear of Rejection and Social Anxiety: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2015-44102-001Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Mulheres que Correm com os Lobos

A veces ese temor no se dice en voz alta, pero se siente muy dentro, como una punzada que intentas ignorar. Para taparlo, puedes acabar complaciendo, callando lo que te duele, aguantando más de lo que deberías… o controlando para sentir que nada se escapa. En este episodio hablamos de: ✅ Por qué nace el miedo a ser abandonado (apego, heridas pasadas, rupturas que dejaron huella). ✅ Cómo ese miedo se disfraza de comportamientos que te desgastan sin protegerte. ✅ Qué puedes empezar a hacer para recuperar tu seguridad y amar sin vivir en alerta. Con ejemplos reales y el respaldo de la psicología del apego (Bowlby, Ainsworth, Shaver y Mikulincer) y la neurociencia (Helen Fisher). 🔹 Si sientes que este miedo ocupa demasiado espacio y te roba tranquilidad, puedes reservar una consulta gratuita en emocioteca.com/contacto Escucha el episodio completo en la app de iVoox, o descubre todo el catálogo de iVoox Originals

Neste episódio da série Os Medos que Vivem em Nós, mergulhamos no medo do abandono, explorando suas raízes na teoria do apego, seus impactos emocionais e caminhos de cura através do amor-próprio e da conexão interna. Uma conversa acolhedora para que você se reconheça, se fortaleça e encontre segurança dentro de si. Fontes utilizadasAmerican Psychiatric Association. (2013). Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (5ª ed.).Bowlby, J. (1988). Apego e perda.Journal of Clinical Psychology (2017). Fear of Abandonment and Mental Health: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/jclp.22429Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Mulheres que Correm com os Lobos

La théorie de l'attachement est née des travaux de John Bowlby, dans le contexte de l'après-guerre, et a bouleversé notre compréhension des relations humaines. Inspiré par les recherches de Konrad Lorenz sur l'empreinte des oisons et d'Harry Harlow sur le besoin de contact des bébés singes, Bowlby a démontré que le besoin de sécurité affective est aussi vital que manger ou respirer. Ses observations sur les enfants séparés de leurs parents ont montré combien l'absence de soins affectifs pouvait freiner le développement social, émotionnel et cognitif. Ses travaux ont été confirmés et enrichis par Mary Ainsworth, qui a mis en évidence les trois premiers styles d'attachement grâce à son expérience de la “Strange Situation”, et par Mary Main, qui a identifié l'attachement désorganisé et créé l'Adult Attachment Interview.Aujourd'hui, ces découvertes nous rappellent que l'attachement n'est pas figé : il se construit et se répare tout au long de la vie, dans chaque relation significative.**********Retrouvez le texte de l'épisode sur notre blog.En vous abonnant sur Itunes pour recevoir les notifications et en nous laissant un avis, vous nous envoyez des bulles de bonheur !En suivant notre actu sur FB @2minutesdebonheur et sur insta @2minutesdebonheur, vous profiterez gratuitement de pleins de trucs, d'astuces et de mises en pratique liés au podcast de la semaine.Inscrivez-vous à la newsletter, vous serez ainsi notifié de nos nouveaux épisodes et vous recevrez un bon de réduction de 5% sur notre site.Et surtout, partagez nos épisodes à tous ceux qui veulent prendre le temps d'être heureux !Hébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Erziehung wirkt nur, wenn sie auf einer stabilen Beziehung steht – und diese Beziehung entsteht durch Bindung. In dieser Folge erfährst du, wie sichere Bindung entsteht, warum sie für alle Lebensbereiche deines Kindes wichtig ist, und wie du sie im Alltag stärken kannst – auch in stressigen Phasen.Du erfährst:- was die Bindungstheorie nach Bowlby und Ainsworth sagt,- welche Bindungsmuster es gibt – ohne Angst und Etiketten,- wie du als Elternteil Sicherheit und Geborgenheit geben kannst,- und wie Bindung in schwierigen Situationen trägt – bei Trennungen, Wutanfällen oder Schlafproblemen.Diese Folge ist für dich, wenn du dein Kind nicht nur erziehen und begleiten, sondern fundamental verstehen willst und erleben möchtest, wie Bindung eure Beziehung trägt, auch wenn es mal stürmisch wird.---familienort-App:https://www.familienort.com/app/Podcastfolge Temperamente:https://open.spotify.com/episode/6mO6rSQXUw5nocrswD1P5g?si=454cb174c5444097Bowlby: https://www.orellfuessli.ch/shop/home/artikeldetails/A1071792687?ProvID=15323994&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=17336376195&gbraid=0AAAAADpVXc65noPY67PfhqkyUZ9gtk0sE&gclid=Cj0KCQjw-4XFBhCBARIsAAdNOkuBqM9CPqs8YQrImIdcJRbBcxAYntd4croBuGzqbjyMT11Vv1zK3voaAqLaEALw_wcBAinsworth: https://www.orellfuessli.ch/shop/home/artikeldetails/A1032479998?ProvID=15323994&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=17335729839&gbraid=0AAAAADpVXc4N1f3OsIbzvcpWheNnKg89j&gclid=Cj0KCQjw-4XFBhCBARIsAAdNOkvaPUgjLGzjH8e_M866d03XLli-j3ydE3tPv5EqKKANFwAkAxbK_MAaAtCHEALw_wcBBindung:https://www.orellfuessli.ch/shop/home/artikeldetails/A1067062341?ProvID=15323997&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=17420263822&gbraid=0AAAAADpVXc55D8Pf3BS7J0cBx4VxT6_Jx&gclid=Cj0KCQjw-4XFBhCBARIsAAdNOktPGvgdmtsPRncFTXtmuxthPeJL8lDUf_FIitKFTVvNQ1yxjvUoSeoaAtltEALw_wcB

durée : 00:30:39 - Être et savoir - par : Louise Tourret - Si on n'élève pas nos enfants comme nos grands-parents, c'est parce que des médecins, des pédagogues, des enseignants ont révolutionné le regard sur l'enfance et les pratiques des parents et des professionnels. Leurs idées continuent de nous nourrir aujourd'hui, comme la théorie de l'attachement. - réalisation : Peire Legras - invités : Antoine Guedeney Pédopsychiatre et psychanalyste à l'hôpital Bichat à Paris

In this uplifting solo episode of the SuperLife podcast, Darin Olien dives into the science and soul of happiness—what it really is, why we've misunderstood it, and how we can rewire ourselves for true contentment. Backed by decades of research (including the 85-year Harvard study on happiness), Darin explores the power of relationships, gratitude, movement, nature, and intention-setting as daily tools for thriving. Whether you're feeling disconnected or just looking for new ways to deepen your joy and resilience, this episode is packed with actionable steps, mindset shifts, and real talk to help you reconnect with what truly matters.     What You'll Learn: 00:02:15 – The true art and science of happiness in a chaotic world 00:03:45 – How to build resilience by stepping outside the “matrix” 00:04:21 – The #1 predictor of long-term health and happiness 00:06:35 – Harvard's 85-year study on relationships and longevity 00:08:12 – How close connections protect your brain and body 00:09:48 – Why “social fitness” is just as important as physical fitness 00:11:16 – The surprising benefits of aging: boundaries & positivity 00:12:32 – Meaningful goals vs. meaningless ambition 00:14:10 – Darin's mindfulness and breathing routines for mental clarity 00:15:46 – Why sleep is the ultimate superpower (and how he gets 8.5 hours) 00:16:13 – Micro-habits that reset your mood instantly 00:17:56 – The ripple effect of small acts of kindness 00:18:16 – Using nature and awe as powerful antidepressants 00:19:46 – Smiling as a nervous system hack 00:20:04 – Reframing negative thoughts and using them for insight 00:21:42 – The power of deliberately scheduling positivity 00:22:25 – Why writing out your “perfect day” can transform your life 00:24:39 – How contentment is your default state (and how to return to it) 00:25:23 – Darin's upcoming Patreon and the future of SuperLife content     Thank You to Our Sponsor: Therasage: Go to www.therasage.com and use code DARIN at checkout for 15% off     Get More From Darin Olien: Website: www.darinolien.com Instagram: @darinolien Podcast: SuperLife Book: Fatal Conveniences     Key Takeaway: "The science is clear—happiness isn't something you chase. It's something you build. One small choice at a time."     Bibliography of Key Studies on Happiness, Contentment, and Positive Outlook: Positive Relationships and Happiness · Harvard Study of Adult Development: An ongoing 85-year longitudinal study identifying strong, positive relationships as the single strongest predictor of long-term health and happiness. https://www.adultdevelopmentstudy.org · Larson, R., Mannell, R., & Zuzanek, J. (1986). “Daily experiences of mood: A study of the relationships between social activities and happiness”. · Baumeister, R. & Leary, M. (1995); Bowlby, J. (1969); Deci, E. & Ryan, R. (2000): Theories and empirical work on subjective well-being and close relationships. · Argyle, M. (2001); Dolan, P., Peasgood, T., & White, M. (2008): Links between quality relationships and happiness. Mindfulness and Mental Health · Keng, S.-L., Smoski, M.J., & Robins, C.J. (2011). “Effects of Mindfulness on Psychological Health: A Review of Empirical Studies.” Clinical Psychology Review, 31(6), 1041–1056. Review of empirical research on mindfulness interventions. · Systematic review and meta-analysis (Frontiers in Public Health, 2023): Effects of mindfulness-based interventions on depression, anxiety, stress, and sleep. · American Psychological Association (APA): Review of over 200 studies showing mindfulness meditation reduces stress, anxiety, and negative affect. Gratitude and Well-Being · Emmons, R.A. & McCullough, M.E. (2003). “Counting blessings versus burdens: An experimental investigation of gratitude and subjective well-being in daily life.”. · Dickerhoof, R. (2007); Froh, J.J. et al. (2008, 2011); Wood, A.M. et al. (2010): Multiple studies examining gratitude journaling and life satisfaction. · Wood, A.M. et al. (2010–2016): Research into how gratitude predicts sleep quality, personality, and subjective well-being. · Systematic review and meta-analysis (2023): Gratitude interventions linked to increases in life satisfaction, mental health, and reduced anxiety. · Harvard Health (2024): Overview of gratitude's effects on health, sleep, and happiness. Growth Mindset and Happiness · Berg, J. M., Wrzesniewski, A., Grant, A. M., Kurkoski, J., & Welle, B. (2022). “Getting unstuck: The effects of growth mindsets about the self and job on happiness at work.” Journal of Applied Psychology. · Yang, Y., et al. (2022). “The Influence of Growth Mindset on the Mental Health and Life Perception of College Students.” Frontiers in Psychology. · MindVue Profile Study: Correlations between mindset factors and happiness, highlighting impacts of growth mindset. Kindness, Acts of Kindness, and Well-Being · Otake, K. et al. (2006). “Happy people become happier through kindness: A counting kindnesses intervention”. · University of Ohio study (2023): Compared acts of kindness, social activity, and cognitive therapy—finding acts of kindness improve life satisfaction and social connection. · Uprise Health: Report on neurochemical and well-being benefits of performing and receiving acts of kindness.

Teorie dello sviluppo del bambino: teorie dell'apprendimento linguistico, socialità, teoria dell'attaccamento di Bowlby, il linguaggio come sistema di simboli, cognitivismo.

The types of attachment were theorized by British psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s. They are widely used to help us understand how we react to situations in our relationships, whether it be with romantic partners, friends or family members.   Bowlby relied on research on the impact of early separations between infants and their mothers, and emphasized the importance of attachment relationships in the social and emotional development of children, as well as their long-term mental health. What exactly is an attachment style? And what about the other two types? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions ! To listen to the latest episodes, click here: ⁠Why are we obsessed with presenteeism?⁠ ⁠What is the snowball method of paying back debt?⁠ ⁠What is PimEyes, the powerful tool ending online anonymity?⁠ A Bababam Originals podcast written and realised by Joseph Chance. First Broadcast: 28/5/2023 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dans cet extrait, Gabrielle Douieb revient sur les origines fascinantes de la théorie de l'attachement, un pilier en psychologie du développement. Elle nous emmène sur les traces de John Bowlby, psychiatre et psychanalyste anglais, qui a étudié l'impact des séparations précoces chez les enfants après la Seconde Guerre mondiale. Gabrielle explique comment Bowlby a démontré l'importance fondamentale du lien affectif pour le développement du jeune enfant, posant les bases de la théorie de l'attachement : ce besoin primaire de proximité, de protection et de réconfort auprès de figures spécifiques. Elle détaille comment les premiers liens influencent la construction des relations futures et la manière dont l'enfant explore le monde. Un passage essentiel pour comprendre pourquoi l'attachement modélise la personnalité sur le long terme.Gabrielle Douieb est docteure en psychologie et psychologue clinicienne au Centre régional des psychotraumatismes chez l'enfant. Dans l'épisode intégral elle nous éclaire sur :❇️ La différence entre tempérament et caractère❇️ Ce qui relève de l'inné ou de l'acquis❇️ Comment la théorie de l'attachement façonne la relation parent-enfant❇️ Des outils concrets et des explications claires sur la sécurité affective et les différents styles d'attachement❇️ L'importance d'être un « parent suffisamment bon » et non parfait, la gestion des erreurs parentales ainsi que l'impact des traumatismes dans le développement global de l'enfantL'épisode intégral est à retrouver sur toutes les plateformes d'écoutes de podcast le 08/05/2025.

John Bowlby var den som formulerade anknytningsteorin, nåt som en terapeut har örnkoll på. Philip berättar varför anknytningsteorin fascinerar. Och Sara berättar om bondbönan, som inte är en egentlig böna, och dessutom kommit att bli lite okänd för massorna av trädgårdsodlare. Finns det några gemensamma nämnare för Bowlby och bondbönor? Jomen det gör det nog! Av och med Philip Bäckmo och Sara Bäckmo - www.sarabackmo.se och www.philipbackmo.se. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abby and Patrick are joined by writer and artist Lily Scherlis for a provocative reflection on the ideological subtexts, historical contexts, and real-world value of some of our moment's most bandied-about concepts and terms. Beginning with her 2023 essay for Parapraxis, “Boundary Issues: How Boundaries became the Rule for Mental Health – and Everything Else,” the interview spotlights Scherlis's nuanced yet relentless interrogation of how the vocabularies of research psychology have proliferated across popular culture and have become ubiquitous in the workplace, in bestsellers, on social media, and in our most intimate interactions. What exactly are “boundaries,” when did having (or not having) them become such an issue, and how does their invocation function? Touching on themes and topics across Scherlis's body of work, from CBT and DBT to the legacy of Dale Carnegie and beyond, the conversation builds to a consideration of the case of attachment theory. Unpacking the history, key concepts, and findings of this interdisciplinary field of study, Abby, Patrick, and Lily explore how its terms and categories have become so central to a cottage industry of online quizzes and therapeutic interventions. How do ideas of self-improvement and self-help relate to economic shifts in modes of production, material realities of employment precarity, and our felt sense of being together – and being alienated? What work do these terms do in the abstract, and what work are we as subjects expected to do in learning and using them? And how can we square our skepticism vis-à-vis such models and vocabularies with the traction they can give us when it comes to understanding ourselves, tolerating distress, navigating a difficult world, potentially changing our circumstances, and connecting with one another?Selected texts cited:Lily Scherlis, “Boundary Issues: How Boundaries became the Rule for Mental Health – and Everything Else”Lily Scherlis, “Skill Issues: Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and Its Discontents”Lily Scherlis, “Going Soft: Future Proofing the American Worker”Danielle Carr, “Don't Be So Attached to Attachment Theory”Robert Karen, Becoming Attached: First Relationships and How They Shape Our Ability to LoveHeidi Keller. The Myth of Attachment Theory A Critical Understanding for Multicultural SocietiesRuth O'Shaughnessy, Rudi Dallos, Katherine Berry, and Karen Bateson. Attachment Theory: The BasicsA podcast about psychoanalysis, politics, pop culture, and the ways we suffer now. New episodes on Saturdays. Follow us on social media:  Linktree: https://linktr.ee/OrdinaryUnhappiness Twitter: @UnhappinessPod Instagram: @OrdinaryUnhappiness Patreon: patreon.com/OrdinaryUnhappiness Theme song: Formal Chicken - Gnossienne No. 1 Provided by Fruits Music

This episode is sponsored by Mini Minds Matter. Find out more here: https://www.minimindsmatter.org.uk/ Neuroscience plays such a crucial role in understanding child development, principally in regard to brain growth, mental health, and emotional wellbeing. As children navigate their formative years, knowledge of brain function and neuroplasticity can inform practices that promote healthy development. In the article and podcast episode we explore these aspects, including the roles of key brain areas, and their implications for early years settings, along with mindfulness practices that can enhance children's development. Read Mandy's article here: https://thevoiceofearlychildhood.com/understanding-neuroscience-in-early-childhood/ If you enjoyed this episode you might also want to listen to and read: ‘It's not time out, it's time in' for both of us: Co- and self-regulation, by Julie Robinson and Charlotte Hannah: https://thevoiceofearlychildhood.com/its-not-time-out-its-time-in-for-both-of-us/ Self-regulation, co-regulation and mental health, by Dr Mine Conkbayir: https://thevoiceofearlychildhood.com/self-regulation-co-regulation-and-mental-health/ Should we punish and reward children's behaviour? By Samantha Dholakia: https://thevoiceofearlychildhood.com/should-we-punish-and-reward-childrens-behaviour/ Episode break down: 00:00 – Introduction 06:00 – Creating a neuroscientific approach for young children 08:00 – Three parts of the brain linked to dinosaurs 08:30 – ‘Calmasaurus': Pre-frontal cortex 09:30 – ‘Activeasaurus': Amygdala 10:30 – ‘Helpfulasaurus': Hippocampus 11:00 – Bringing knowledge and disciplines together 13:00 – ‘Mini mindful moments' 14:30 – Nappy time as a neurological ‘Mini mindful moment' 16:00 – Regular caring touch building strong neural pathways 18:00 – Calm touch movements 20:00 – Being more mindful in every day routines and activities 21:00 – Aromatherapy and play-dough 23:00 – Slowing down and not filling every minute of every day 26:00 – Involving parents in ‘Mini mindful moments' 28:30 – Forming secure attachments For more episodes and articles visit The Voice of Early Childhood website: https://www.thevoiceofearlychildhood.com

En este episodio exploramos la psicología de los celos, analizando teorías de Freud, Bowlby, Buss, y Ekman. Descubrimos cómo los celos se originan en la infancia, su relación con el apego y la evolución, y cómo manejar esta emoción. Además, te invito a conocer más en mi libro Los Cuentos Malditos.

Today we're joined by the co-founder of the ridiculously successful Indian inspired restaurant group Kricket in Will Bowlby to hear about his incredible journey that's taken him from learning his craft under the legendary Rowley Leigh at Le Café Anglais to being given an incredible opportunity to go move to Mumbai to set up a European restaurant and all the ridiculous unforeseen challenges which came with that including; nearly being killed by a stalker outside his flat, having to constantly change his menu to meet the needs of the locals and the joys of fighting off a deadly parasite. However it was in India where he fell in love with the local food and so upon returning back to London 2 years later he went and did an apprenticeship under Vivek Singh at The Cinamon Kitchen and learnt the basics of Indian cooking. 6 months later he set up the first Kricket restaurant in a 15 cover shipping container in Pop Brixton and after stunning reviews from the likes of Jay Rayner, Will now oversees 6 individual restaurants and 2 Bar's in London and today he shares with us his secrets to such success. ----- Download The Appetite app now and track your fav spots or places that you're dying to check out and book them easily all through the app - download it now. https://shorturl.at/yFXyK

The types of attachment were theorized by British psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s. They are widely used to help us understand how we react to situations in our relationships, whether it be with romantic partners, friends or family members.   Bowlby relied on research on the impact of early separations between infants and their mothers, and emphasized the importance of attachment relationships in the social and emotional development of children, as well as their long-term mental health. What exactly is an attachment style? And what about the other two types? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions ! To listen to the latest episodes, click here: Why are we obsessed with presenteeism? What is the snowball method of paying back debt? What is PimEyes, the powerful tool ending online anonymity? A Bababam Originals podcast written and realised by Joseph Chance. First Broadcast: 28/5/2023 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Eddie and Justin discuss attachment theory and explain how early childhood bonds shape the rest of our lives. Whether you are curious about your own attachment style, interested in psychology, or seeking to strengthen your own relationships, this episode offers insights from professionals to build stronger connections. 

Me loves me's a-bitta Kricket.A raucous rollercoaster of Mumbai-melting, Bombay-bouncing, spice-slapping flavourBowls you over.Smacks tastebuds for 6.Often, with my brother, we roll up, hunker down, nestle in, zonk out at their Brixton site: unadulterated gluttony erupts.And, the name, Kricket - I think - maybe - is one the greatest brand names of all time.Cricket, the sport, played in England and India.Marries the two countries.Kricket, the restaurant, combining British Ingredients with the flavours and aromas of India.And, the “K” is so iconic.to me it representsdoing things differentlyquestioning everything. ♨️Still bloody HUNGRY? Course ya are. Each week I spend 15 hours writing my newsletter. It'll take you 5 mins to read. Full of wisdom from the biggest names in food and drink. Subscribe here

La sesión de Hablando de prioridades del 3 de julio del 2024 John Bowlby (1907 – 1990) fue un psicoanalista británico.  Nació en 1907 en Londres.  Fue quien formuló la teoría del apego en los sesenta, mediante la cual expuso que los problemas de salud mental y de comportamiento podrían atribuirse a la infancia temprana. Bowlby pertenecía a la clase alta inglesa, por lo que fue criado por nanas como se solía hacer en esta clase en el siglo veinte.  En pocas ocasiones veía a sus padres. La niñera fue despedida cuando tenía 4 años , lo cual Bowlby describió como algo trágico. Habla de ello en su libro “Separación, ira y ansiedad”  . A los siete fue enviado a un internado que detestaba. Estudió psicología en Cambrige y se dedicó a estudiar a los niños mal adaptados. Después continuó estudiando medicina . Fue consultor de la OMS. Publicó el informe “La atención materna y la salud mental”, para la Organización Mundial de la Salud, lo que impulsó reformas en cuanto a la crianza de los niños.  También, inició su formación como psicoanalista en la Asociación Psicoanalítica Británica, con Joan Riviere como analista y Melanie Klein como supervisora. Tenía diferencias con su analista, Klein, quien enfatizaba la importancia de las fantasías infantiles hacia la madre, mientras Bolwby elaboraba su teoría, la cual ponía el énfasis en la historia de la relación entre el niño y su madre.  Su teoría postula que el bebe nace con una tendencia natural a buscar lazos emocionales cercanos con las personas que lo rodean, con el fin de sobrevivir. Plantea que la necesidad de vínculos estables se expresa tempranamente a través de distintos modos de conducta que permiten establecer mecanismos de regulación del alejamiento / cercanía de sus figuras de cuidado. Pone el enfoque en el vínculo primario que en general es el lazo con la madre. 

01:00 Jews vs blacks on whether or not Joe Biden should step down 03:20 Media pretend to be shocked by Joe Biden's cognitive decline 06:00 Liberals Were Blinded To Biden's Senility By Their Own Speech Codes, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=156125 17:20 John Ellis says Joe Biden should step down, https://substack.com/@newsitems 18:00 Megan Kelly interviews John Ellis (former head of the Fox News Decision Desk), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Voi9GlhM544 24:45 Hunter Biden is now Joe Biden's gatekeeper, https://slate.com/life/2024/07/joe-biden-hunter-news-trump-trial-guilty-white-house.html 28:40 In his 1988 publication A Secure Base, Bowlby wrote that “life is best organized as a series of daring ventures from a secure base.” https://www.navigatethechaos.com/post/how-often-are-you-engaging-in-daring-ventures-from-a-secure-base 36:00 Jill Biden apparently has her own ‘Hail to the Chief'-style entrance theme, courtesy of the Marine Corps band, https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/2126277/jill-biden-apparently-has-her-own-hail-to-the-chief-style-entrance-theme-courtesy-of-the-marine-corps-band/ 46:20 Elliott Blatt joins to discuss Access Hollywood tape vs Joe Biden's debate disaster, https://www.bbc.com/news/election-us-2016-37595321 50:00 Politico: Evangelicals Hate Stormy Daniels But Love Trump. Here's Why., https://www.politico.com/news/magazine/2024/05/07/stormy-daniels-donald-trump-evangelical-appeal-00156488 1:02:00 How the Hawk Tuah girl was embraced by the right, https://slate.com/life/2024/07/hawk-tuah-girl-video-what-is-hailey-welch-meaning.html 1:06:00 Are Sydney Sweeney's breasts double-D harbingers of the death of woke?, https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/mar/09/sydney-sweeney-snl-republican-misogyny 1:19:45 Why the media covered for Biden, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTME2IJ53Ok https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2024/07/09/biden-give-it-all-election-satire/ 1:27:00 Why Kamala Harris should never be president 1:29:50 Dennis Prager: Why the Democrats Need To Get Rid of Biden 1:32:10 What's Really Behind the Corporate Media Focusing on Biden Instead of Trump? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vKayoSr8zuA 1:38:00 Failin' Joe Biden 1:41:30 Every single Democrat I've talked to off the record has said Biden should step away: Jake Sherman, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvsKUbcpW3A Democrats care more about their jobs than telling the truth, https://nymag.com/intelligencer/article/do-democrats-care-more-about-their-jobs-than-beating-trump.html https://www.nytimes.com/2024/07/07/opinion/joe-biden-goodest.html Biden leverages his black support against critics, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Voi9GlhM544 https://www.bbc.com/news/election-us-2016-37595321 Ross Douthat, So, You Think the Republican Party No Longer Represents the People, https://www.nytimes.com/2022/02/02/opinion/liberals-conservatives-democracy.html Biden debate worse than Trump's Access Hollywood tape? https://nymag.com/intelligencer/article/biden-survive-trump-access-hollywood.html https://www.nytimes.com/2024/07/08/us/politics/biden-trump-strategy.html

Join me as I explore the transformative power of building deep, meaningful connections in our lives, especially poignant in an age where superficial online interactions are often mistaken for genuine relationships. I reflect on Erik Newton's heartfelt Twitter story about the profound love he shared with his late wife, revealing the timeless truth that at life's end, it's the depth of our relationships that truly matters. This touching narrative serves as a profound reminder of the importance of fostering and nurturing our most significant relationships, and how they shape the legacy of love we leave behind. I also discuss the insights of early psychologists and the groundbreaking work of British psychiatrist John Bowlby, who pioneered the concept of attachment theory. The historical journey from the 18th century to Bowlby's 20th-century research, including the Strange Situation experiment and Harry Harlow's primate studies, illuminates the critical need for emotional connections in our development. This conversation underscores the essential nature of these bonds for our psychological well-being, urging us to prioritize and deepen our connections with those who are important to us. Join my weekly newsletter. Learn more about my books and courses. Join The Essentialism Academy. Follow me on LinkedIn, Instagram, X, Facebook, and YouTube. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let's Review! Attachment is a Major Key for Better RelationshipsYour Attachment Style helps you understand how you relate to others, what your triggers and blindspots are (and why), and gives you a map to what you Need to feel safe and happy.Everyone has either an Insecure style or a Secure style.Insecure Attachers struggle with maintaining healthy relationships due to excessive anxiety and/or avoidance.The goal is to Shift to Secure attachment where you can have solid, lasting relationships. First and foremost, your relationship with yourself will improve as you get a better grasp on your emotions and thoughts. Then, you're able to engage with others in new, healthier ways.Pioneers of Attachment Theory: Mary Ainsworth and John BowlbyVolume 1 of Bowlby's Attachment Trilogy: https://www.amazon.com/Attachment-Loss-Vol-John-Bowlby/dp/0712674713Thank you for your support!1-on-1: Interest FormQuestions and Topic Requests: Submit Here$taychand PayPal Venmo Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandlerThreads: @iamtaylorchandler

This week, Zak and Aaron chat with Josh Bowlby, a UI/UX designer (user interface and user experience, for the neophytes out there) who has experience at companies like Virtuix and Wayfinder developer Airship Syndicate, among others.Not only was he kind enough to speak on some of his experiences in that space, but also his active role in the Austin, TX, game development community. From tips on networking to thoughts on how to get through a rough layoff, Josh proved to be a font of wisdom and good advice.Please, enjoy.Listen to Beach Girl on SpotifyCheck out edouggieart on EtsyCheck out even more edouggieart on Instagram

Hey everybody - Travis here - today I am excited to dive into a foundational concept in psychology that's pivotal for personal growth and relationships - Attachment Theory! While we don't have a guest on today's episode, I will guide you through this enriching topic.In this episode, we're going to explore some fundamental areas:1. **Origins and Founders of Attachment Theory**: We delve into the mid-20th century work of British psychologist John Bowlby, often regarded as the father of attachment theory. Bowlby focused on the bond between the child and caregiver and how these early relationships impact emotional and psychological development throughout one's life. Plus, we'll discuss how Mary Ainsworth expanded on Bowlby's work with her famous Strange Situation experiment, which classified different attachment styles.2. **Types of Attachment Styles**: Understanding the four primary attachment styles - Secure, Anxious-Preoccupied, Dismissive-Avoidant, and Fearful-Avoidant (Disorganized) - and how each style manifests in relationships and personal behavior. We'll also touch on how these styles influence conflict resolution and mental well-being.3. **Impact on Relationships and Mental Health**: How your attachment style affects your interactions, conflict management, and overall mental health. Securely attached individuals tend to have better stress management and healthier conflict resolution, while those with insecure attachment styles may struggle more in relationships and mental health scenarios.Challenge Question: Reflecting on your personal relationships, can you identify any patterns that point to a specific attachment style you may have? How do these patterns influence your interactions and conflict resolutions with loved ones?So grab a notebook, because you're going to want to take notes as we navigate this complex yet crucial aspect of personal development. And remember, understanding your attachment style can be the first step towards healing, growth, and more fulfilling relationships.SUPPORT THE SHOW:CLICK HERE!JOIN THE MAILING LIST & GET INVOLVED!CLICK HERE: MAILING LISTWATCH ON YOUTUBE:WATCH HEREConnect and Support Travis:YouTube: Travis GoodmanInstagram: @integratedmanprojectCheck out the Website: TBD

Does spending a weekend in a haunted house conducting paranormal investigations with a bunch of other spooky weirdos sound preferable to spending it with your codependent family members? Yes? Then pack your bags, sister. We're heading to Hill House to talk about The Haunting (1968) and its portrayal of caregiver burnout. Mental Health is Horrifying is hosted by Candis Green, Registered Psychotherapist and owner of Many Moons Therapy...............................................................Sources:Hey final girls — I'd like to take you on a transcendent journey into your psyche through — you guessed — horror movies! More specifically, horror movie monsters and villains. Join me on a very special dark moon/solar eclipse this April 8 for the Final Girls Club where we'll be exploring How Monsters Show Us Our Guts. Informed by Jungian exploration of myths and fairy tales as portraits of psychic terrain, in this workshop, we will explore how we project our unconscious shadows onto our favourite horror monsters and villains, and imagine the creation of our own monsters as an act of emotional catharsis and reclamation of self. Register HERE. Order The Horror Concierge: A Mental Health and Horror Tarot Readings + Film Reco. Order yours HERE. Podcast artwork by Chloe Hurst at Contempomint. West ML, Keller AE. Parentification of the child: a case study of Bowlby's compulsive care-giving attachment pattern. Am J Psychother. 1991 Jul;45(3):425-31. doi: 10.1176/appi.psychotherapy.1991.45.3.425. PMID: 1951790. The Haunted Mind of Shirley Jackson by Zoë Heller Shirley Jackson: A Rather Haunted Life by Ruth Franklin The Archetypes and the Collective Unconscious by Carl Jung Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski 

the CDC recognizes anxiety in children as occurring when children do not outgrow the fears and worries that are typical in young children, or when there are so many fears and worries that they interfere with school, home, or play activities. In this episode, I discuss how to avoid raising a n anxious child.Episode written by Dr. Matmon HarrellConnect → https://drmatmonharrell.bio.link/Music "Water Lilly" provided by PodcastleDiamond, G. S., Diamond, G. M., & Levy, S. A. (2014). Attachment-based family therapy for depressed adolescents. American Psychological Association. https://doi.org/10.1037/14296-000Johnson, S. M. (2019). The Practice of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (3rd ed.). Taylor & Francis.Main, P. 2023. Bowlby's attachment theory. Structural Learning. https://www.structural-learning.com/post/bowlbys-attachment-theory#:~:text=This%20theory%20proposes%20that%20the,serves%20as%20a%20survival%20strategy.  Become a member at https://plus.acast.com/s/themindfulpharmd. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Dr. Ettensohn draws heavily on his own research concerning pathological narcissism and attachment patterns, using attachment theory as a lens to focus explanatory power onto the often confusing dynamics of NPD. Beginning with a general overview of Bartholomew's four-prototype model of adult attachment, Dr. Ettensohn identifies the most common attachment patterns of individuals with NPD. He describes the relevant research on the development of these patterns and draws parallels with descriptions of early care deficits thought to cause pathological narcissism. Purchase Unmasking Narcissism: A Guide to Understanding the Narcissist in Your Life here: https://amzn.to/3nG9FgH SUBSCRIBE HERE: https://rb.gy/kbhusf LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS: https://rb.gy/cklpum LISTEN ON GOOGLE PODCASTS: https://rb.gy/fotpca LISTEN ON AMAZON MUSIC: https://rb.gy/g4yzh8 VISIT THE WEBSITE: https://www.healnpd.org Cited References: Bartholomew, K. (1990). Avoidance of intimacy: An attachment perspective. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 7(2), 147-178. Bartholomew. K., & Horowitz, L. M. (1991). Attachment styles among young adults: A test of a four-category model. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 61(2), 226-244. Bennett, C. S. (2006). Attachment theory and research applied to the conceptualization and treatment of pathological narcissism. Clinical Social Work Journal, 34(1), 45-60. Blatt, S. J., & Levy, K. N. (2003). Attachment theory, psychoanalysis, personality development, and psychopathology. Psychoanalytic Inquiry, 23, 104-152. Bowlby, J. (1973). Attachment and loss: Volume 2: Separation. New York: Basic Books. Connors, M. E. (1997). The renunciation of love: Dismissive attachment and its treatment. Psychoanalytic Psychology, 14, 475-493. Dickinson, K. A., & Pincus, A. L. (2003). Interpersonal analysis of grandiose and vulnerable narcissism. Journal of Personality Disorders, 17(3), 188-207. Ettensohn, M.D. (2011). The relational roots of narcissism: Exploring relationships between attachment style, acceptance by parents and peers, and measures of grandiose and vulnerable narcissism. (Doctoral dissertation). Retrieved from Dissertations and Theses: Full Text. (Publicaiton No. AAT 3515488). Gabbard, G.O. (1989). Two subtypes of narcissistic personality disorder. Bulletin of the Menninger Clinic, 53, 527-532. Holdren, M. (2004). Causal attributions among overt and covert narcissism subtypes for hypothetical, retrospective, and prospective events. (Doctoral dissertation). Retrieved from Dissertations & Theses: Full Text. (Publication No. AAT 3146467). Kernberg, O. F. (1970). Factors in the psychoanalytic treatment of narcissistic personalities. Journal of the American Psychoanalytic Association, 18, 51-85. Kobak, R. R., & Sceery, A. (1988). Attachment in late adolescence: Working models, affect regulation, and representations of self and others. Child Development, 59, 135-146. Main, M., & Stadtman, J. (1981). Infant response to rejection of physical contact by the mother. Journal of the American Academy of child Psychiatry, 20, 292-307. Otway, L.J., Vignoles, V.L. (2006). Narcissism and childhood recollections: A quantitative test of psychoanalytic predictions. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 32(1), 104-1116. Pistole, C. M. (1995). Adult attachment style and narcissistic vulnerability. Psychoanalytic Psychology, 12(1), 115-126. Scroufe, L. A., Waters, E. (1977). Heart rate as a convergent measure in clinical and developmental research. Merrill Palmer Quarterly, 23, 3-25. Smolewska, K., & Dion, K. L. (2005). Narcissism and adult attachment: A multivariate approach. Self and Identity, 4, 59-68.

Join me as I explore the transformative power of building deep, meaningful connections in our lives, especially poignant in an age where superficial online interactions are often mistaken for genuine relationships. I reflect on Eric Newton's heartfelt Twitter story about the profound love he shared with his late wife, revealing the timeless truth that at life's end, it's the depth of our relationships that truly matters. This touching narrative serves as a profound reminder of the importance of fostering and nurturing our most significant relationships, and how they shape the legacy of love we leave behind. I also discuss the insights of early psychologists and the groundbreaking work of British psychiatrist John Bowlby, who pioneered the concept of attachment theory. The historical journey from the 18th century to Bowlby's 20th-century research, including the Strange Situation experiment and Harry Harlow's primate studies, illuminates the critical need for emotional connections in our development. This conversation underscores the essential nature of these bonds for our psychological well-being, urging us to prioritize and deepen our connections with those who are important to us. Join my weekly newsletter. Learn more about my books and courses. Join The Essentialism Academy. Follow me on LinkedIn, Instagram, X, Facebook, and YouTube.

Our last episode introduced the brain as a social organ, and how this topic relates to the neurobiology of relationships. Today, we dive deeper into how the brain develops through social interactions, why social connection is a survival need, and what happens in the body when we experience connection with other people.   Matt Bush is joining Jennifer and Elisabeth to discuss the impact of trauma on the brain's functioning, and therefore, our relationships, expression, sense of safety, and overall health. They talk about what happens when you're not primed for connection in childhood, how the brain is wired to be part of the social structure in relationships, what part of the brain guides us toward dysregulation and protective outputs, and lots more.   If any of this sounds confusing, be sure to listen for Matt's definitions of attachment schema and C-PTSD from a neurosomatic perspective, which make it easier to understand how these systems and inputs come together for integration.   You'll also finally learn why complex trauma is an attachment would, and most importantly, that change is possible and how you can get started NOW. Tune in for all this and more!   Topics discussed in this episode:   The impact of attachment patterns on brain function How the brain develops through social interactions The role of the insular cortex John Bowlby's attachment theory How a mother's nervous system impacts a child's The resiliency of our nervous system Attachment styles and Bowlby's experiment Matt's neurosomatic definition of attachment schema and C-PTSD How we can rewire attachment   Sign up for the free Holiday Self-Care NSI Workshop on December 15th: https://neurosomaticintelligence.com/holidayselfcare   Learn more about the Neuro-Somatic Intelligence Coaching program and sign up for the spring cohort now! https://www.neurosomaticintelligence.com/?utm_medium=aff-traumarewired&utm_content&utm_source   Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer on the Brain Based Membership site: https://www.rewiretrial.com   Connect with us on social media: @trauma.rewired   Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846 FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired   Connect with Matt Bush at Next Level Neuro  https://www.nextlevelneuro.com/a/2147666262/2U4AvzLR   This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com  

On October 12, 2023 (the day of this episode's release), the final six episodes of the DC Comics/MAX series Doom Patrol will premiere. Two of the show's stars are in this episode. Jovian Wade plays Victor Stone/Cyborg and April Bowlby plays Rita Farr/Elasti-Woman. They both appeared at the Garden State Comics Fest on June 24, 2023. This episode was recorded there. Wade is a British Actor who has been on the BBC shows Big School and EastEnders, before landing the role of Cyborg. Bowlby is from California and was on Two and a Half Men and Drop Dead Diva before landing the role of Rita. Doom Patrol premiered in 2019 on the now-defunct DC Universe app. In Season 2, it moved to HBO Max. The final 6 episodes are premiering on MAX, the third streaming app to air the show. The show is based on the comic book series of the same name and also stars Brendan Fraser as Cliff Steele/Robotman, Diane Guerrero as Crazy Jane, and Matt Bomer as Larry Trainor/Negative Man among the cast.

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Erin Bowlby has been in the education world for 13 years, but she started her school principalship journey a year ago. She knew she needed help and support as she navigated school leadership for the first time, and she's rewinding her experience all the way back to the beginning to offer some nuggets of wisdom she's discovered along the way.   If you're an aspiring leader like Erin, navigating the waters of school leadership for the first time, listen in. Erin is sharing her journey of embracing being new, the value of modeling vulnerability as a school leader, some of the challenges and wins she's experienced, and how our coaching together helped bring the spark back to principalship.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://angelakellycoaching.com/293

Wanting to learn more about attachment? This is the episode for you! This is a follow-up to our previous episode on recognizing secure states of mind. If you're a regular listener, you know we talk a lot about attachment - but what is it exactly? This episode is a refresher course where we break down what it is, what it isn't, attachment spectrums, embodied stories, and much more. Whether you're more advanced in your knowledge of the topic or starting fresh - this is a great place to connect and better understand how attachment plays a role in our lives. "We are social beings, but we have to be social beings. This isn't a choice, it isn't an option. And our incredibly intuitive pre-programmed body knows that from in utero on - it's in our wiring." - Dr. Ann Kelley Time Stamps for Attachment Basics 1:17 - What is attachment? 4:29 - Why you should care about attachment 6:07 - Early attachment and its effect on our development 7:46 - Attachment is not the same thing as love 10:16 - Why we want to avoid attachment "categories" 15:29 - Example of embodied stories 20:48 - Understanding the protection system and connection system 26:22 - Utilizing curiosity to build secure attachment 28:01 - What is a coherent narrative? 39:10 - Recognizing patterns in your nervous system behaviors Resources for Attachment Basics  The Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation in the United States - Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy Calls for Action to Address Public Health Crisis John Bowlby's Attachment theory - A summary of Bowlby's theory Mary Ainsworth Strange Situation - A summary of Ainsworth's theory & experiment If you enjoyed this one you'll love these:  https://therapistuncensored.com/episodes/secure-attachment/ https://therapistuncensored.com/episodes/tu151-secure-parenting-dan-siegel-tina-payne-bryson-replay/ https://therapistuncensored.com/episodes/secure-relating-not-the-same-as-secure-attachment-with-ann-sue-190/ https://therapistuncensored.com/episodes/tu-149-modern-attachment-regulation-spectrum-an-integrated-model-of-change/ https://therapistuncensored.com/episodes/tu126-modern-attachment/ https://therapistuncensored.com/episodes/attachment-through-the-lifespan-alan-sroufe/ Click here to view today's episode transcripts!! Please consider giving to Mental Health Liberation   We support mental health access to those traditionally left out of mainstream healthcare and use a portion of the income we receive from corporate sponsors to do just that!  We can only do that with the help of our Patrons – joining as a TU Neuronerd Podsquad premium subscriber, you support this mission and get a dedicated ad-free feed plus occasional very cool and unique study opportunities, reading groups, and unique surprises!  We invite you to join our community. Click here to join!      Support the show by supporting our partners and the sponsors of today's episode!  AG1 is Ann and Sue's go-to once-a-day drink that delivers all the basics of important vitamins, minerals, and probiotics. Go to www.athleticgreens.com/therapistuncensored or CLICK HERE.   For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30-day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/TU   Go to MUDWTR.com/TU to support the show and use code TU for 15% off Go to Zocdoc.com/TU and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today.

  Our last episode introduced the brain as a social organ, and how this topic relates to the neurobiology of relationships. Today, we dive deeper into how the brain develops through social interactions, why social connection is a survival need, and what happens in the body when we experience connection with other people.   Matt Bush of Next Level Neuro is joining Jennifer and Elisabeth to discuss the impact of trauma on the brain's functioning, and therefore, our relationships, expression, sense of safety, and overall health. They talk about what happens when you're not primed for connection in childhood, how the brain is wired to be part of the social structure in relationships, what part of the brain guides us toward dysregulation and protective outputs, and lots more.   If any of this sounds confusing, be sure to listen for Matt's definitions of attachment schema and C-PTSD from a neurosomatic perspective, which make it easier to understand how these systems and inputs come together for integration.   You'll also finally learn why complex trauma is an attachment would, and most importantly, that change is possible and how you can get started NOW. Tune in for all this and more!   Topics discussed in this episode:   The impact of attachment patterns on brain function How the brain develops through social interactions The role of the insular cortex John Bowlby's attachment theory How a mother's nervous system impacts a child's The resiliency of our nervous system Attachment styles and Bowlby's experiment Matt's neurosomatic definition of attachment schema and C-PTSD How we can rewire attachment   Want to learn more about neurosomatic intelligence, and how it can help you and your clients? Join our free workshop with Matt Bush and Melanie Weller on July 27th! https://neurosomaticintelligence.com/   Get started training your nervous system with our FREE 2-week offer: https://www.rewiretrial.com   Connect with us on social media: @trauma.rewired   Join the Trauma Rewired Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/761101225132846   Head to https://calendly.com/traumarewired/consultation for a consultation to identify trauma responses in your own life and learn how to train your nervous system to move out of behaviors that aren't serving you!   FREE 1 Year Supply of Vitamin D + 5 Travel Packs from Athletic Greens when you use my exclusive offer: https://www.drinkag1.com/rewired   Connect with Matt Bush: https://www.nextlevelneuro.com/ matt@nextlevelneuro.com This episode was produced by Podcast Boutique https://www.podcastboutique.com

For the transcript for this episode, visit the website at http://www.overcomecompulsivehoarding.co.uk Subscribe to the podcastSupport the showOn this episode, I dive into why hoarders are so fixated on stuff. Joining me is Dr Jan Eppingstall, who looks into the theory of transitional objects developed by Winnicott and how they shape our attachment styles. We explore how these objects serve as a source of comfort and self-soothing, representing our primary caregiver. Jan discusses how uncertainty can lead to people-pleasing and masking of emotions. We also learn about the impact of insecure attachment on hoarding behaviours and the role of belongings in forging connections and fulfilling our emotional needs. We also discuss the complex interaction between genetics and environment in hoarding tendencies. Tune in for a deep dive into the psychological factors behind our attachment to our possessions.- Transitional object theory by Winnicott- The role of transitional objects in comforting children, representing the primary caregiver- How transitional objects help children become independent and manage separation anxiety- Uncertainty and people-pleasing behaviours- Excessive attachment to belongings stemming from childhood experiences- Attachment styles and secure and insecure attachment- Using possessions to gain power, impress others, make connections- Attachment theory and its impact on hoarding behaviours- The use of possessions to forge connections - Possessions as non-confrontational and not disappointing compared to people- Attachment insecurity linked to negative thoughts about self-worth, shame, and unstable identity- Growing up in a hoard leading to disorganised attachment and attachment trauma- Understanding why people attach meaning to possessions- Possessions reflecting aspects of personality, intelligence, or past achievements- Ambivalent sense of self in hoarding and its relation to identity struggles- Common themes for hoarding: avoiding negative emotions, holding onto past happiness, validating past pain- Factors contributing to hoarding: instinctual nature of stockpiling and inability to avoid engaging with possessions- Coping mechanisms, their classifications as acceptable or unacceptable, and the tipping point to excessive behaviours- John Bowlby's attachment theory and its focus on distress and anxiety in babies when separated from primary caregiver- Influence of early separation on psychological well-being, based on experimental studies during the Blitz- The role of transitional object attachment - Mary Ainsworth's extension of Bowlby's research through the Strange Situation experiments- Identification of secure attachment and three types of insecure attachment: anxious, avoidant, and disorganised- Hoarding tendencies being more common among first degree relatives- Chromosome regions associated with hoarding, but no clear susceptibility genes identified- Limited support for a genetic predisposition to hoarding- Disproven hypotheses about hoarding and scarcity or deprivation- The interaction between nature (genetics) and nurture (environment) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today I talked to Michaela Chamberlain, author of Misogyny in Psychoanalysis (Phoenix Publishing House, 2022) Chamberlain's book is a product of “cumulative trauma” whose original starting point was an interest in in menstruation where, in psychoanalytic literature filled with papers on “micturition and feces”, there is a “startling lack of writing on the monthly passing of menstrual blood.” Chamberlain realized that this absence was a symptom of something bigger. That something is misogyny. Working with a definition attributed to Kate Manne[1] misogyny is seen as “the law enforcement branch of sexism” and Chamberlain argues that we really have “to grapple with the law enforcement of the male gaze. The minute you free yourself from this or at least know what you're fighting it means you can think all sorts of things. The more we straightjacket ourselves with the laws of Freud the more we are lessening the possibilities for creativity, which surely has to be the point of psychoanalysis.” “We need to take on the trauma that's been caused by past analytic gods and really examine the continued use of psychoanalytic terms owned by a man to apply a man-made theory to women” and a discipline that has historically had “no trust in women to adequately understand their own experience.” Chamberlain references her training where the phrase “Bowlby said” was a way to remind her “to pay respect to her male elders and keep to my place. The analyst expected me to swallow the comment as truth in much the same was as Freud quotes are given to remind everyone of the rules of play.” After reviewing the foundations of psychoanalysis and the continued reification of the clearly misogynistic Oedipus complex, Chamberlain turns her focus to how this misogyny gets played out in the clinical setting. Chapter 4 “The misogynistic introject – a case study” is a painful story of a mother whose insight into the struggles of her child are rapidly dismissed “because she is the mother”. In this interview, recorded in May of 2023, Chamberlain observes that psychoanalytic institutes have yet to engage with the public protests around misogyny, the Women's Safety Movement, #MeToo, and #ReclaimTheseStreets. Whereas the Black Lives Matter movement has finally entered psychoanalytic institutes in the form of trainings, conferences, supervisions, and groups aimed at confronting legacies of racism in psychoanalysis no such movement has occurred with regards to misogyny following the horrific murder of Sarah Everard at the hands of a police officer in 2021 when the Mayor of London, Sadiq Khan, stated that “London streets are not safe for women or girls” and 50% of UK women reported they did not feel safe leaving their homes after dark. Misogyny in Psychoanalysis argues that women's experience in psychoanalysis has been “negatively hallucinated” and that “What is needed for psychoanalysis to take the brave first step of putting itself on the couch to grapple fully with its unconscious fantasies about women and begin coping with what it working hard not to see.” [1] Manne, K. (2018). Down Girl: The Logic of Misogyny. United Kingdom: Oxford University Press. Christopher Russell, LP is a psychoanalyst in Chelsea, Manhattan. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychoanalysis