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Tabletop roleplaying games offer everyone a chance to become someone else, just for a little while. And for trans folks, that can lead to some of our earliest experimentation with gender. Comic writer Zoe Tunnell returns to discuss seducing the dragon and dirtbag lesbian chic! ZOE TUNNELL Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/zoewithasword.bsky.social Website: http://www.zoetunnell.com TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/05/27/trans-tabletop-roleplaying-games/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Implicit Queerphobia, Gender Dysphoria, Gender Euphoria, 2022 Trans Representation in Media, 2023 Trans Representation in Media, 2024 Trans Representation in Media REFERENCE MATERIAL Visibility An RPG Magazine from the Trans Community - https://www.drivethrurpg.com/en/product/516656/visibility-an-rpg-magazine-from-the-trans-community-issue-1 Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Body hair! Love it or hate it, it's something nearly every human has to deal with. And for those of us who hate it, whose dysphoria it makes worse, that can mean a whole intensive process to get rid of it. So let's talk about what all that entails, and why we'd go through it just to have to do it all over again. And again. And again. Comic writer Zoe Tunnell joins us to discuss feeling better in yourself and going buckwild in comics! Space horse! ZOE TUNNELL Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/zoewithasword.bsky.social Website: http://www.zoetunnell.com TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2024/08/20/body-hair/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) This is Not for You (Trans Day of Visibility, Yes You Are Trans Enough), Gender Dysphoria, Gender Euphoria, Hormone Replacement Therapy, Privilege (Time and Money), Internalized Transphobia, Parents Who Will Never Know the Real You (aka My Dad) Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Have you ever gotten an apology that left you feeling… worse? In this powerful episode of The Mama Shrink Podcast, Dr. Cynthia Edwards-Hawver breaks down the subtle art of the toxic apology. If you've ever felt confused, blamed, or dismissed after someone said “sorry,” this one's for you. You'll learn how to spot the difference between a real apology and manipulative gaslighting. Whether you're co-parenting with a narcissist, recovering from emotional abuse, or simply trying to model healthy behavior for your kids, this episode will help you reclaim your clarity and power. Dr. Cynthia explains: The 3 elements of a genuine, healing apology Why “I'm sorry you feel that way” is not an apology How toxic apologies impact your mental health and contribute to burnout How to set boundaries and stop blaming yourself This episode is essential listening for high-functioning moms navigating emotional manipulation, parallel parenting, and the exhausting cycle of narcissistic burnout.
There's a phenomena that happens a lot in the trans and queer community that's hard to define, but when you're so used to having to fight for every single little thing you deserve, it's too easy to sometimes go too far and end up hurting people. Let's go through some examples and talk about how to spot it and why we need to stop it. The 4400 and Clean Slate writer Shomari Kirkwood returns to discuss the joy of building yourself. Tired of working your core? Blow glass! SHOMARI KIRKWOOD Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/mxoberon.bsky.social TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/05/13/pushback-overkill/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Trans Trauma 2: Societal Gaslighting, Gendered Childhoods, The False Dichotomy, Trans Day of Visibility (you are trans enough), Transmedicalism (and WPATH version 1), Bad Representation 2: Emilia Perez, Trans Intersectionality, Hormone Replacement Therapy REFERENCE MATERIAL Polyamory in the United States - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory_in_the_United_States Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
For many trans folks, hormone replacement therapy is a vital part of our transition. Let's talk about why that is, what it does and doesn't do, and a little thing we call... patience. The 4400 and Clean Slate writer Shomari Kirkwood joins us to discuss being part of the world and ewwphoria! The sun is in Aries and the moon is blue. SHOMARI KIRKWOOD Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/mxoberon.bsky.social TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2024/08/08/hormone-replacement-therapy/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Body Hair, Trans Voices 1-3, Gender Dysphoria, Trans Kids and the Intake Exam, Four Years Out and on HRT Check-in, Transition Setbacks, Anecdotal Trans Healthcare, Body Hacking, Gender Euphoria, Trans Trauma 2: Societal Gaslighting, Transmedicalism (and WPATH version 1), Cis People Get Gender Affirming Healthcare Too REFERENCE MATERIAL The effects of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) on the human eye - https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11944225/ Overview of feminizing hormone therapy - https://web.archive.org/web/20250427214738/https://transcare.ucsf.edu/guidelines/feminizing-hormone-therapy Estrogen Levels - https://transfemscience.org/articles/hormone-levels-female-puberty/#estrogen-levels Estrogen HRT Labs at FOLX - https://www.folxhealth.com/library/estrogen-hrt-labs Medical Association Statements in Support of Health Care for Transgender People and Youth - https://glaad.org/medical-association-statements-supporting-trans-youth-healthcare-and-against-discriminatory/ Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Hey frands! Happy Mental Health Awareness Month! Who knew that the month of my birth would be dedicated to something that would plague me for my whole life?!? Who knew Hitler's birthday would be the International Day of Pot Smoking? Isn't the world wonderful? This week I talk about finding a good therapist, and I address some things from last week that didn't go over well with all of my listeners. Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe. Your support makes this podcast possible. You can email sexy stories, questions and comments to makesexwithmepodcast@gmail.com and check out the new https://linktr.ee/druemichael for all the socials!
The past can be difficult for those of us who transition as adults, so much so this is our fifth episode exploring it. But sometimes something surprises you, and gives you a little piece of the childhood you missed. Localization producer and comic creator Liam Coballes returns to discuss having a relationship with yourself, and how artists don't make money. Be jealous of my pony! LIAM COBALLES Insta: https://www.instagram.com/natural_nin/ Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/naturalnin.bsky.social https://bsky.app/profile/shifter-komiks.bsky.social TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/04/29/the-past-5-aka-the-new-past4-recovering-trans-childhoods/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) The Past and Why it Haunts Us, The Past 2: The New Past, The Past 3/The New Past 2/Trans Grief 1, The Past 4/The New Past 3/Trans Grief 2, Trans Birthdays, Gender Dysphoria, Unexpected Bonuses of Transition, Heavily Gendered Childhoods, The False Dichotomy, Searching for Meaning (when you're trans and don't know it) Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Join health and science journalist Danielle Elliot as she investigates the rise of women recently diagnosed with ADHD. Listen to Climbing the Walls now.In this episode of In It, hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek welcome Christina Cipriano, PhD, MEd. Dr. Chris is a psychologist, and an associate professor at the Yale University Child Study Center. She is also the author of Be Unapologetically Impatient, which comes out this summer.Dr. Chris has four children, including a daughter who has ADHD and sensory challenges and a son with a rare, regressive disease. She has given a lot of thought to the idea of apologizing when you have nothing to be sorry for. What can we say instead of “I'm sorry”? And what do we do when others say they're sorry to us, just because something in our lives is a challenge? Dr. Chris has helpful tips for many of these scenarios. Related resourcesWhat families wish you knew about learning disabilitiesTips from an ADHD coach: Saying sorry too muchWhy I stopped saying “sorry” as a mom (and started saying “no”)What to write in an email to your child's teacherNeed help advocating for your kid at school? We talk to a proWhat is self-advocacy? Timestamps(1:43) The problem with the words “I'm sorry”(7:35) What is a deficit frame?(11:42) Alternatives to “I'm sorry”(19:54) More alternatives for apologizing(21:11) Teaching our kids to be unapologetic(23:42) Starting with “thank you”(24:46) The science of it allFor a transcript of this episode and more resources, visit the episode page on Understood.org.We love hearing from our listeners. Email us at init@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give
Hey bartendery types! On this episode of Drinks At Work, we're doing things a little differently. Host Sam Bygrave is joined by Sebastian Cosmo Soto to unpack the last few weeks in bars in Australia, talking about the Maybe Cocktail Festival, the benefit of takeovers, Sorry Not Sorry, and new wine and cocktail joint, Bar Demo, before putting together a list of iconic bars you must visit — whether or not they make good drinks today.
The angriest and hottest takes yet. Nobody is safe this week as Yasmine and Sophie fire shots at influencers, self righteous do gooders online and people getting triggered. It gets brutal. It's the things we all think but nobody dare say out loud.Follow us:IG/Twitter: @wewearblackpod Email: wewearblackpod@gmail.com SophieIG/X: @iamsophiek Tiktok: @iamsophiekx YasmineIG: @yasminesumman X/TikTok: @yasminesummanx Special thanks to:Nova Twins for the intro/outro musicWargasm for the screams Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
It's time to talk about an topic that's literally uncomfortable! Tucking and binding can be awful but also amazing, so let's talk about what they are and why we do (or don't) utilize them. Localization producer and comic creator Liam Coballes joins us to discuss the cosplay community and how rocks are cool. Math is hard! LIAM COBALLES Insta: https://www.instagram.com/natural_nin/ Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/naturalnin.bsky.social https://bsky.app/profile/shifter-komiks.bsky.social TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2024/08/10/tucking-and-binding/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Transmedicalism (and WPATH version 1), Gender Dysphoria, Trans Freedom, Cis People Get Gender Affirming Healthcare Too, Misgendering and Passing, Boymode and Girlmode, Gender Euphoria, Privilege (time and money), Heavily Gendered Clothes and Trans People REFERENCE MATERIAL Inguinal canal - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inguinal_canal Chest Binding: A Physician's Guide - https://www.prideinpractice.org/articles/chest-binding-physician-guide/ Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Join me as I interview creators Alex L. Combs and Andrew Eakett about their new graphic novel, Trans History: From Ancient Times to the Present Day. We discuss their research process and all the love that went into this book about trans and nonbinary folks through history, and how important it is to get that information out into the world. Hey transphobes, have you tried not sucking? ALEX L. COMBS Website: https://alexlcombs.com/ Insta: https://www.instagram.com/alexlcombs/ Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/alexlcombs.bsky.social TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/04/01/trans-history-3-interview-with-alex-l-combs-and-andrew-eakett/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Trans History 1: How and Why We Name Trans People in History, Trans History 2: Examples of Trans People in History REFERENCE MATERIAL Trans History: From Ancient Times to the Present Day - https://bookshop.org/p/books/trans-history-a-graphic-novel-from-ancient-times-to-the-present-day-alex-l-combs/21746915 Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Elliot Jay O'Neill & BT Calloway are joined by Diana Green to review; S.30 E.2 “Heartbreak Hotel” S.32 E.9 “Sorry Not Sorry” This is a Side Quest Studios Production Huge THANK YOU to our Heroes over at Patreon Grant Prusi // 16_oz_mouse // Philip Wolf // Timothy Burleson // Stephanie // Chris Tar // AlmightyK // Kaleb982 // nickibis // Teresa // David James Young You too can become a Hero by supporting us on our Patreon page and you'll unlock a bonus podcast EVERY WEEK plus access to our back catalogue of over 200 exclusive podcasts! http://www.patreon.com/sidequeststudios STARRING SPRINGFIELD is our new podcast where we review movies that star the cast of The Simpsons Check it out here -- https://pod.link/1773418376 PLUGS Check out Diana's YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Freezer94 Pulp Fury Radio; our fiction anthology podcast. http://www.pulpfuryradio.com put this in your web and series it! http://www.daveplusone.com We reviewed Game of Thrones in reverse order at “Thrones Of Game” https://thronesofgame.podbean.com All the links to our socials are here Threads Bluesky Facebook Instagram
We wrap up our REAL GENIUS trans allegory discussion with the importance of community, and changing the system so others don't go through the pain we had to, and see the beautiful ways that trans joy can change the world. Kestrel Clayton returns to discuss how you're stronger than you imagine you can be. It's getting queer around here! Smell our hot, buttery transness. KESTREL CLAYTON Fediverse/Mastodon: https://tech.lgbt/@sphinx TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2024/08/21/the-intentional-trans-allegory-of-real-geniusrg-part-4/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Misgendering and Passing, Transmedicalism (and WPATH version 1), Trans History 1: How and Why We Name Trans People in History, Trans Representation in Media 2024 REFERENCE MATERIAL Begin Transmission: The Trans Allegories of The Matrix - https://www.amazon.com/Begin-Transmission-trans-allegories-Matrix/dp/B0BYPFFBGH/ Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
The intentional trans allegory of REAL GENIUS rolls on with part 3! We're going to talk about lyrics, gender-nonconforming women, pools, parties, and possibly having to pretend to be something we're not just to get what we need out of the system. Kestrel Clayton returns to discuss genuine support and gender envy! I love to be an Amazon. KESTREL CLAYTON Fediverse/Mastodon: https://tech.lgbt/@sphinx TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2024/08/21/the-intentional-trans-allegory-of-real-genius-part-3/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Sexuality is Not Gender, Transmedicalism (and WPATH version 1), Photos and Reflections, Trans Intersectionality, The False Dichotomy, Trans History 1, Trans Kids and the Intake Exam, The Trans Allegory of I Saw the TV Glow, Gender Dysphoria, Interview with Author Maya Deane REFERENCE MATERIAL Begin Transmission: The Trans Allegories of The Matrix - https://www.amazon.com/Begin-Transmission-trans-allegories-Matrix/dp/B0BYPFFBGH/ Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Tune in as we sit down with acclaimed Australian bartenders Rocky Hair and Jenna Hemsworth to discuss their groundbreaking initiative, the Sorry Not Sorry Collective. In this candid interview, they open up about tackling systemic issues in the hospitality industry, from wage disparities and toxic work cultures to the lack of support for marginalized voices. Hair and Hemsworth share how their project aims to create safer, more equitable spaces while fostering creativity and collaboration among bartenders. They also reflect on their personal experiences and the urgent need for change in an industry they deeply love. Learn More: http://sorrynotsorrycollective.com Sorry Not Sorry Takeover 2025 Tour Dates Sunday 23 March: with Caretaker's Cottage at The Lincoln, Carlton, VIC Sunday 30 March: Savile Row, Fortitude Valley, QLD Tuesday 1 April: Hanky Panky Lounge, Darwin, NT Sunday 6 April: Edward & Ida's, Northbridge, WA Tuesday 8 April: Maybe Mae, Adelaide, SA Sunday 13 April: venue TBA, Sydney, NSW ____________________________________ Join us every Monday as acclaimed bartender, Erick Castro, interviews some of the bar industry's top talents from around the world, including bartenders, distillers & authors. If you love cocktails & spirits then this award-winning podcast is just for you. SUPPORT US ON PATREON: Get early access to episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, special content and more: https://www.patreon.com/BartenderAtLarge WATCH OUR VIDEOS ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/bartenderatlarge FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: Erick Castro: www.instagram.com/HungryBartender Bartender at Large: www.instagram.com/BartenderAtLarge FOLLOW US ON TIKTOK: Erick Castro: https://www.tiktok.com/@hungrybartender?_t=ZT-8uBekAKOGwU&_r=1 Bartender at Large: www.tiktok.com/BartenderAtLarge FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: Erick Castro: www.twitter.com/HungryBartender Bartender at Large: www.twitter.com/BartendAtLargeTalking Tequila w the founder of Lalo | Bartender at Large ep 438
A quick update that early registration is now open for Thom's upcoming annual retreat in Sedona, Arizona, this Memorial Day weekend from May 22nd to 26.This is Thom's first retreat in the United States since the epic Maha Kumbha Mela held earlier this year in Prayagraj, India, so Thom has many fascinating new stories to share. The Sedona Rounding Retreat is also your opportunity to gift yourself profound rest and industrial-strength meditation through the daily rounding program. This is your chance to transcend uncertainty in the ever-changing world and celebrate spring surrounded by nature, supported by community, and immersed in wisdom with Thom. Early registration discounts expire on March 17th, and you can find out more at thomknoles.com/sedona.Jai Guru Deva.Words matter. The way in which we speak, and the words we use, reflect a great deal about how we perceive ourselves and how we perceive our place in the world. In this unapologetically short episode, Thom invites us to consider whether or not we might be overusing the word sorry in our day-to-day interactions with one another. Considering the connection between sorry and sorrow, the alternatives Thom proposes may be more impactful than you might first think.Episode Highlights[00:45] A Life of Constant Sorrow[02:34] Sarcasm and Narcissism[04:41] You Deserve the Best[06:47] Mea Culpa[08:34] A Willingness to Take Responsibility for What We're ExperiencingUseful Linksinfo@thomknoles.com https://thomknoles.com/https://www.instagram.com/thethomknoleshttps://www.facebook.com/thethomknoleshttps://www.youtube.com/c/thomknoleshttps://thomknoles.com/ask-thom-anything/
The intentional trans allegory of REAL GENIUS continues, and this week we talk about characters, names, and dive in by timestamps! Would you believe this movie has a chaser? It's true. Kestrel Clayton returns to discuss using your spotlight, and how intentions are not magic! Now say more about my great, beautiful face. KESTREL CLAYTON Fediverse/Mastodon: https://tech.lgbt/@sphinx TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2024/08/21/the-intentional-trans-allegory-of-real-genius-part-2/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) The Trans Allegory of Barbie, The Trans Allegory of I Saw the TV Glow, The False Dichotomy, Gender Dysphoria, Trans Trauma 2: Societal Gaslighting, Chasers and the Fetishization of Trans Women, Heavily Gendered Clothes and Trans People, Body Hacking, Gender Euphoria REFERENCE MATERIAL Begin Transmission: The Trans Allegories of The Matrix - https://www.amazon.com/Begin-Transmission-trans-allegories-Matrix/dp/B0BYPFFBGH/ Conversion therapy - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conversion_therapy Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Sorry folks, we took an impromptu early Spring Break. If you're in Texas, you can understand the Spring Break love that is here. If you're not, well then you're not. We talk some Sours recency and watch us slide into a purgatory or sorts as the interim coaching staff invokes Jeff's Anger Bot and then We get into Aaron Rodgers hate, too. :-). Enjoy
Send us a textAfter a 3-month hiatus, Chief, Bell and Prentice jump right back into therapeutic conversations. This episode tackles the process of apologizing. How difficult is it for you? Is it about the act or the impact? Do you need to hear the words "I'm Sorry" or is acknowledgment of the offense enough? The conversation goes in several different directions and the fellas are yet again enlightened by their deep dive into what it takes to apologize. Support the showhttps://www.abmnt.com
Join Clyde and Javier as we discuss the year 2024 Please check out our linktree to keep up with us on social media https://linktr.ee/movieinapod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Tillyvision's back as we dive into REAL GENIUS, a classic comedy from the 1980s that's so very incredibly trans... because it was written by a trans woman! We begin our four-part series by talking about its writer, PJ Torokvei, and the context of the time she wrote this in. Kestrel Clayton joins us to discuss bootleg tapes and art as a lifeline. It's a love fest! KESTREL CLAYTON Fediverse/Mastodon: https://tech.lgbt/@sphinx TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2024/08/21/the-intentional-trans-allegory-of-real-genius-part-1/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Trans History 1, The Trans Allegory of Barbie, The Trans Allegory of I Saw the TV Glow, The Trans Allegory of The Twilight Zone's Nervous Man in a Four Dollar Room, Transmedicalism (and WPATH version 1) REFERENCE MATERIAL Begin Transmission: The Trans Allegories of The Matrix - https://www.amazon.com/Begin-Transmission-trans-allegories-Matrix/dp/B0BYPFFBGH/ Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Ask Tilly Anything concludes! This time we talk how to support someone you think is trans, how to tell if you're chaser, where crossdressers fall under the trans umbrella, my creative dreams, my fitness regimen, my hottest Star Trek takes, getting over transphobia, advice for people whose spouses just came out, and every installment so far of Tilly's Progesterone Dream Theater! (my brain's wild, y'all) TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/02/25/ask-tilly-anything-part-5/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Chasers and the Fetishization of Trans Women, Freeing Up My Brain (lunch with Tilly), Parents Who Will Never Know the Real You (my dad), Body Hacking, Four Years Out and On HRT Retrospective, Internalized Transphobia, Implicit Queerphobia, 2024 Trans Representation in Media 1-3, Bad Representation: Emilia Perez, Cis Spousal and Partner Support, Cis Grief Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Ask Tilly Anything rolls on! In this episode: P!nk, writing with a partner, horror movies, my egg-cracking story, screenwriting tips, whether I'd like to carry and give birth to a kid, Matrix tattoos, and duck-sized transphobes! It's a horror show, and you're the star. TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/02/18/ask-tilly-anything-part-4/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) The Trans Allegory of I Saw the TV Glow, Trans Trauma 2: Societal Gaslighting, Hormone Replacement Therapy, Finding Our Own Representation (P!nk), A Trans Re-wedding, The Signs Were Always There (that we're trans), Gender Dysphoria, Body Hacking, Trans Politics 2: You Must Vote to Protect Us, Trans Parents (and Mother's Day), Bodily Autonomy (and my tattoo) REFERENCE MATERIAL John Rogers on Bluesky - https://bsky.app/profile/johnrogers.bsky.social Begin Transmission: The Trans Allegories of The Matrix - https://www.amazon.com/Begin-Transmission-trans-allegories-Matrix/dp/B0BYPFFBGH/ Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
"I'm sorry, but you didn't like octopus," is among the more ridiculous apologies a cheater has given for being unfaithful. In this episode, Tracy and Sarah react to your submissions for lamest non-apology apologies you received. The sad sausages for whom this hurts them too, more really. Those whose only crime was wanting happiness, and how can you fault happiness? To the clueless ones who didn't realize cheating would hurt you. That wasn't their intention! So sorry (not sorry)!
Happy 100 episodes to this show! To celebrate, I did an AMA and you overloaded me with questions... and I'm gonna answer 'em all! In this episode: selfies as resistance, underrated films, cis reactions when we come out, my earliest indications I was trans, celebrity crushes, getting into the writing groove, my fave Star Trek characters, choosing our names, voice training, and how we find the way to carry on given the state of the world. Don't be with garbage people! Grumble and then do it. TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/02/11/ask-tilly-anything-part-3/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Ask Tilly Anything parts 1 and 2, The Trans Allegory of I Saw the TV Glow, Photos and Reflections, Photos 2: The Selfie Apocalypse, Photos 3: Tilly's Guide to Selfies, Trans Trauma 2: Societal Gaslighting, The 2024 Election Results: Where Do We Go From Here?, Trans Politics 2: You Must Vote to Protect us, Trans Politics 1: Stop Tolerating Transphobia, The Signs Were Always There (that we're trans), Trans Representation in 2022 Media, Trans Representation in 2023 Media, Trans Representation in 2024 Media, Gender Dysphoria, Names and Pronouns, Trans Voices 1 - 3, Gender Euphoria, Trans Intersectionality REFERENCE MATERIAL Begin Transmission: The Trans Allegories of The Matrix - https://www.amazon.com/Begin-Transmission-trans-allegories-Matrix/dp/B0BYPFFBGH/ Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
We wrap up our discussion of 2024 trans rep in television, and look at the total numbers in terms of trans and nonbinary actors, characters, and jokes about us. And then we compare it to last year, and... uh oh. Includes in-depth discussions on Only Murders in the Building, Quantum Leap, Shrinking, Silo, Slow Horses, Somebody Somewhere, Star Treks, We Are Lady Parts, What We Do in the Shadows, and more! Jessie Earl returns to discuss giving yourself grace and being weirdo dorks! Did one of *your* favorite shows hit a transphobic hat trick? JESSIE EARL YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JessieGender1 Bluesky: @jessiegender.bsky.social Identiteaze on Nebula: https://nebula.tv/videos/jessiegender-identiteaze Jumpgate podcast: https://councilofgeeks.libsyn.com TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/02/04/trans-representation-in-2024-media-part-3-tv-part-2/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com)2024 Trans Rep in Media part 1: Movies, 2024 Trans Rep in Media part 2: TV part 1, 2022 Trans Rep in Media, 2023 Trans Rep in Media parts 1-3, Interview with Shakina, The Unintentional Trans Allegory of Silo Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Our trans rep in media report for 2024 continues on as we dive into complete seasons of television I saw last year, and the amount of stealth transphobic jokes might surprise you (or it might not). Includes in-depth discussions on Agatha All Along, Delicious in Dungeon, Hacks, Heartstopper, Kaos, Loot, Monster High, and more! JESSIE EARL YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JessieGender1 Bluesky: @jessiegender.bsky.social Identiteaze on Nebula: https://nebula.tv/videos/jessiegender-identiteaze Jumpgate podcast: https://councilofgeeks.libsyn.com TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/01/28/trans-representation-in-2024-media-part-2-tv-part-1/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) The Intentional Trans Allegory of I Saw the TV Glow, 2024 Trans Rep in Media part 1: Movies REFERENCE MATERIAL Agatha All Along: Joe Locke addresses Marvel series' pro-trans message - https://www.gaytimes.com/television/agatha-all-along-joe-locke-addresses-marvel-series-pro-trans-message/ Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
In this episode of Unleashed, Leah takes on the reflexive apologies that have become second nature for so many women—apologies that shrink us, undermine our authority, and chip away at our confidence. She unpacks why we've been conditioned to say “sorry” for simply existing, speaking up, or taking space, and challenges us to break the habit. This is your reminder to pause, reclaim your voice, and stop apologizing for who you are—because you belong exactly where you are, unapologetically.With podcast microphone Love what you're hearing? Don't forget to subscribe to Unleashed and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. Let's rewrite the rules together—one bold conversation at a time.
BWA returns by starting off recapping all 11 hours of the TikTok ban and our history losing apps in the past. Then we get right into Joey Bada$$'s "Sorry Not Sorry" and some of the West Coast responses we've gotten in our reviews. We briefly covered Drake's most recent submission of a defamation case and what it could mean for rap beef, Lord Jamar vs. Professor Dave on the flat Earth debate, and protecting legacy acts. Next, we gave a quick review of Severance SPOILER ALERT! Lastly, we got into our gaming segment by discussing updates to the new simulation game Inzoi, GTA 6 rumored leaks and the Nintendo Switch 2 announcement. Wicked Radio: Dame: Jay Royale x Napoloen Da Legend - Priceless Cutlery Had: Larry June: Bad Choices (feat. 2 Chainz & The Alchemist) Tren: Mac Miller - Here We Go Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/becausewearepodcast , for access to bonus episodes, new exclusive segments from us and full videos of the podcast. Follow us @BecauseWeArePodcast on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok!
SaVon gets right to it by asking Alex what podcasts he's been listening to lately before the gang makes sense of the recent TikTok (un)ban and what it means for our privacy. Later, they recap Snoop Dogg, Nelly, and Soulja Boy performing ahead of Donald Trump's inauguration, the inauguration ceremonies, and Trump's first actions in office. They also discuss what their first executive orders would be if they were President, the one thing they know they will do no matter what, how actors and actresses pull off sex scenes, Joey Bada$$ taking shots at J. Cole on his latest song “Sorry Not Sorry,” updates on Drake's lawsuit against UMG, Wendy Williams' appearance on The Breakfast Club, Dave Chapelle and GloRilla's appearance on Saturday Night Live, their burner account names, and much more! Book your next podcast recording at Need to Know Studios TODAY - https://needtoknowstudios.com/ If you're new here and enjoy this episode, join us over on Patreon where we release episodes EVERY MONDAY don't hold ANYTHING back - www.patreon.com/NeedToKnowPodcast Join our Twitter/X Community to chop it up with us about all things Need to Know -https://twitter.com/i/communities/1777442897001910433 The Need To Know Podcast https://www.instagram.com/needtoknowpod/ https://twitter.com/NeedToKnowPod https://www.tiktok.com/needtoknowpod SaVon https://www.instagram.com/savonslvter/ https://twitter.com/SavonSlvter Alex https://www.instagram.com/balltillwefall/ https://twitter.com/balltillwefall Regi https://www.instagram.com/regi_nacho/ https://twitter.com/regi_nacho
A day removed from the 2025 Presidential inauguration, the JBP starts the latest episode with a look at the changes Donald Trump is already making (25:40) as well as the backlash towards Snoop Dogg for performing at a pre-inauguration crypto event (35:20). TikTok's ban has seemingly been delayed despite it being removed from the app store (1:09:52), Dave Chappelle's appearance on Saturday Night Live leads the room to discuss their favorite comedians of all-time (1:18:20), and Joey Bada$$ returns with another record titled ‘Sorry Not Sorry' (1:31:00). Also, Marc Lamont Hill says the Hovengers came after him for his Beanie Sigel take (1:40:37), the room unpacks a pair of Part of the Show questions (2:06:44), and much more! Become a Patron of The Joe Budden Podcast for additional bonus episodes and visual content for all things JBP! Join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/joebudden Sleeper Picks: Joe | PnB Rock & DJ L Nasty - “High” Ice | Ryan Witherspoon - “First Quarter” Parks | Mac Miller - “Rick's Piano” Ish | ELENA - “Golden” Melyssa | greek - “RIPCORD”
Rory is still terrifying the hoes, but this time they scared him back when they informed him of his ‘Unc' status (2:09). Somehow, this leads us to learn an unfortunate fact about Mal - he's cool with kissing his play cousin as long as she's bad enough, and totally okay with Rory fucking after his funeral (26:08). But let's get to it - Dave Chappelle brought us into the Trump era with some jokes (47:19). Nelly & Soulja Boy are under fire for their performances at inauguration weekend, but we don't think they should be cancelled for it (51:50). We take a second to check in on Demaris' parents while she doubles down on her take (1:10:53), before getting into TikTok's temporary ban and how our President had a hand in it (1:19:39). Liangelo Ball is under fire for his first performance, and it forces the team to give Mal his flowers (1:48:27). While we're recording Joey Bada$$ drops his new song, ‘Sorry Not Sorry', and we give our live reaction, while debating where his shots were aimed (1:54:24). We also discuss Mac Miller's posthumous album making Rory cry (2:11:34), Method Man (allegedly) putting hands on his daughter's ex (2:35:14), our Superbowl predictions (2:39:38), + more!For MORE Rory & Mal, make sure you subscribe to our Patreon community, for exclusive episodes, first access to tickets and merch sales, private live chats with the team, + more! https://www.patreon.com/newrorynmalFollow Rory: @ThisIsRoryFollow MAL: @MAL_ByTheWayFollow Demaris: https://linktr.ee/demarisg To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://bit.ly/NewRoryAndMALYouTube Don't forget to follow the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: https://bit.ly/NewRoryAndMAL Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Rory is still terrifying the hoes, but this time they scared him back when they informed him of his ‘Unc' status. Somehow, this leads us to learn an unfortunate fact about Mal - he's cool with semi-incest as long as she's bad enough, and totally okay with Rory fucking after his funeral (). But let's get to it - Dave Chappelle brought us into the Trump era with some jokes. Nelly & Soulja Boy are under fire for their performances at inauguration weekend, but we don't think they should be cancelled for it. We take a second to check in on Demaris' parents while she doubles down on her take, before getting into TikTok's temporary ban and how our President had a hand in it. Liangelo Ball is under fire for his first performance, and it forces the team to give Mal his flowers. While we're recording Joey Bada$$ drops his new song, ‘Sorry Not Sorry', and we give our live reaction, while debating where his shots were aimed. We also discuss Mac Miller's posthumous album making Rory cry, Method Man (allegedly) putting hands on his daughter's ex, our Superbowl predictions, + more! For MORE Rory & Mal, make sure you subscribe to our Patreon community, for exclusive episodes, first access to tickets and merch sales, private live chats with the team, + more! https://www.patreon.com/newrorynmal Follow Rory: @ThisIsRory Follow MAL: @MAL_ByTheWay Follow Demaris on YT: https://www.youtube.com/@DemarisG To watch the podcast on YouTube: https://bit.ly/NewRoryAndMALYouTube Don't forget to follow the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: https://bit.ly/NewRoryAndMAL Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
It's time for my annual report on trans rep in movies and television! I dive into all recent media I saw in 2024 and cover the good, the bad, and the oh god not again. Features discussion of Ghostbusters Afterlife, I Saw the TV Glow, Lisa Frankenstein, Monkey Man, Next Goal Wins, The People's Joker, The Substance, Transformers One, and more! Writer, journalist, and filmmaker Jessie Earl returns to discuss Brent Spiner and taking care of yourself! If a trans falls in the woods... JESSIE EARL YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JessieGender1 Bluesky: @jessiegender.bsky.social Identiteaze on Nebula: https://nebula.tv/videos/jessiegender-identiteaze Jumpgate podcast: https://councilofgeeks.libsyn.com TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/01/21/trans-representation-in-2024-media-part-1-movies/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Implicit Queerphobia, Bad Representation: Lovecraft Country, Bad Representation: Emilia Peréz, Transmedicalism REFERENCE MATERIAL ‘Monkey Man' Star Vipin Sharma on Playing a Trans Role in Dev Patel's Directorial Debut - https://variety.com/2024/film/news/monkey-man-vipin-sharma-trans-dev-patel-1235964874/ How Legendary Trans Soccer Player Jaiyah Saelua Made FIFA History - https://www.them.us/story/jaiyah-saelua-last-goal-wins-taika-waititi-film Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Emilia Pérez is out there tearing up the awards circuit, and though it stars a trans woman, it contains one of the most damaging portrayals of trans women in recent movies. We're gonna dive into all the reasons why, because this is what happens when cis people steal our voices and our stories. They'll pat themselves on the back for being "such good allies" to us, while perpetuating all the lies bigots tell about us and actively making our lives harder. It's gotta stop. Writer, journalist, and filmmaker Jessie Earl joins us to discuss the joy of the mundane and trans Trekkies! JESSIE EARL YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JessieGender1 Bluesky: @jessiegender.bsky.social Identiteaze on Nebula: https://nebula.tv/videos/jessiegender-identiteaze Jumpgate podcast: https://councilofgeeks.libsyn.com TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/01/14/bad-representation-emilia-perez/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Bad Representation (Lovecraft Country), Trans Roles and Stories, Trans Rep in Media 2023, Transmedicalism (and WPATH version 1), Trans Panic, Gender Euphoria, This is Not for You (aka Trans Day of Visibility aka Gatekeeping aka Yes You Are Trans Enough) REFERENCE MATERIAL Begin Transmission: The Trans Allegories of The Matrix - https://www.amazon.com/Begin-Transmission-trans-allegories-Matrix-ebook/dp/B0C2MPVH9C Emilia Pérez on wikipedia - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emilia_P%C3%A9rez UCLA Hollywood Diversity Report - https://socialsciences.ucla.edu/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/UCLA-HDR-Presents_Streaming-Television-in-2023-12-17-24.pdf 'Emilia Pérez' Hates México - https://butwhytho.net/2024/11/emilia-perez-review-netflix/ Emilia Pérez is a regressive movie that thinks it's woke - https://www.vox.com/culture/390998/emilia-perez-selena-gomez-oscars-green-book-crash-transgender-musical "Emilia Pérez" is Not Good Trans Representation - https://glaad.org/emilia-perez-is-not-good-trans-representation/ Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Marcel Zeelenberg (Tilburg University) vertelt in deze podcastaflevering waarom spijt zo'n pijnlijke emotie is, maar vooral ook wat we eraan hebben. En dat is meer dan je misschien zou denken.Zie het privacybeleid op https://art19.com/privacy en de privacyverklaring van Californië op https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
We first released this episode almost two years ago. But women are still apologizing for their existence and saying sorry way too often. We are still people pleasing and putting ourselves down when we make a mistake. So we thought you should hear this again. Apologizing is a learned behavior and being able to recognize it is the first step towards improving your self confidence. If you feel the need to make other people more comfortable, listen to some things to say instead of sorry. Because you deserve to take up space. In this episode, we help you identify when and why you are unnecessarily apologetic and help you decide if it was truly worthy of an apology. Your brain is listening. So no more harmful language about yourself. Let's stop being sorry together. (00:00:00) Welcome and the woolly mammoth (00:07:40) What is all this apologizing doing to us? (00:11:10) Statistically women apologize more (00:12:00) What to say instead of sorry and the importance of recognition (00:16:40) Do you put yourself down when you make a mistake at work? (00:20:00) What throw-away comments do to your brain (00:25:15) Apologizing to make other people feel more comfortable (00:28:00) Self proclaimed people pleasers tend to over apologize (00:32:05) Followup statements to your accomplishments (00:36:20) A power pose to try Want to leave the TTSL Podcast a voicemail? We love your questions and adore hearing from you. https://www.speakpipe.com/TheThickThighsSaveLivesPodcast The CVG Nation app, for iPhone The CVG Nation app, for Android Our Fitness FB Group. Thick Thighs Save Lives Workout Programs Constantly Varied Gear's Workout Leggings The CVG 2025 Movement Calendar
No one was hotter than hotter than Hunter Johnson at the end of the 2024 season. He won three PPA titles in the second half of the year including a win at the PPA Finals. Hear Hunter explained the mindset change that helped him reach the top and his take on the state of paddles and where he hopes to land as one of the few top players without a paddle sponsor. Meet Mitopure® the only clinically validated, highly pure Urolithin A supplement. Use code DINK at checkout for 10% off your order. https://www.timeline.com/dink Use code DINK10 to save 10% off the CHUCK ball at https://www.gammasports.com/ Watch the biggest team pickleball event in history. It's The Dink Minor League Pickleball National Championship December 13-15. Watch it here: @TheDinkPickleball Pickleball's #1 subscription box is here https://www.thedink.shop/ Leave your voicemail for the PicklePod at (512) 200 - 4299 ------------------ Like the ep? Do us a favor: subscribe to our channel and leave a review on Apple or Spotify -Subscribe to our 'all things pickleball' *free e-newsletter* at https://www.thedink.beehiiv.com https://www.instagram.com/thedinkpickleball/ -Follow us on IG -Continue the convo in our private FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thedi... -For everything else we do, visit https://linktr.ee/dinkfam -Read more about Zane and subscribe to his newsletter at https://zanenavratilpickleball.com/ -Follow Zane on IG @zanenavratilpickleball ------------------ 0:00 I was hoping to win a car at the PPA Finals 4:25 Making things official with the PPA 8:50 Comparing the Vulcan ball to the Dura 11:06 What do you miss about the APP Tour? 13:00 Life as a paddle free agent 16:33 Are you competitive with twin brother Yates? 18:54 Thoughts on the Finals format 22:00 What contributes to Tyson McGuffin's longevity? 24:45 Paddles providing a 20% boost to some players 28:05 The difference with Paddletek's core 31:38 Power ranking the top 5 in men's singles 38:36 The role of Coach Hunter 40:21 The strategy to build a full pickleball career and crypto talk 44:05 The post-tournament routine with Parris and Yates 45:55 Do you put weight at the bottom of your paddle? 51:17 Weight distribution for singles and doubles 53:52 Hunter and Zane are going to play straight up 56:13 Throwing it back to Hilton Head with Altaf Merchant 58:45 Thomas Wilson's health update 1:04:04 SorryNotSorry unloading on Instagram 1:06:31 Look who beat Ben and Collin 69-0 1:08:54 Guess my DUPR powered by Mitopure Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Welcome to the season two finale! I dunno if you've realized, but all of society gaslights trans people about the very nature of our existence. It's bad actually! We're gonna talk about how exactly that happens, and the effect that can have on a person who's absorbed it for an entire lifetime. Social worker Charlie Hutchinson returns to discuss reconstructing oppression into joy and victory! Let's also talk about... the compulsory heterosexuality of dishwashing gloves?! CONTENT WARNING: this episode includes a frank discussion of trauma, including suicidal ideation and hate crimes. Trans Tuesdays will return in mid-January 2025! CHARLIE HUTCHINSON Instagram: @c_t_hutchinson Facebook: Charlie Hutchinson Bluesky: @charliehutch.bsky.social TEXT VERSION FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Trans Grief 1-2, Trans Intersectionality, Implicit Queerphobia, Internalized Transphobia, Gendered Childhoods, The False Dichotomy, Searching for Meaning (when you're trans and don't know it), Transmedicalism (and WPATH version 1), Sexuality is Not Gender, The Signs Were Always There (that we're trans), How Do You Know if You're Trans?, The Trans Allegory of Barbie, The Trans Allegory of I Saw the TV Glow, The Trans Allegory of s1 of Silo, The Past and Why it Haunts Us, The Past 2: The New Past, Gender Dysphoria, Trans Trauma 1, A Trans Re-wedding REFERENCE MATERIAL Begin Transmission: The Trans Allegories of The Matrix - https://www.amazon.com/Begin-Transmission-trans-allegories-Matrix-ebook/dp/B0C2MPVH9C Origin Of The Term Gaslighting - https://www.simplypsychology.org/origin-of-the-term-gaslighting.html Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
When you spend most of your life with gender dysphoria, even after it dissipates or disappears entirely, you can find it affecting your life in all kinds of little ways you never expected. We talk about how and why this happens, how it just might be PTSD, and how we can cope with it. Social worker Charlie Hutchinson joins us to discuss how our body remembers the score. CHARLIE HUTCHINSON Instagram: @c_t_hutchinson Facebook: Charlie Hutchinson Bluesky: @charliehutch.bsky.social TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2024/08/22/transphobia-is-always-with-us-that-old-dysphoric-feeling/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Trans Voices 1-3, Hormone Replacement Therapy, Photos 2: The Selfie Apocalypse, Confidence 2: Into the Unknown (aka What is Happening aka A Whole New World), Freeing Up My Brain (lunch with Tilly), Gender Dysphoria, Trans Birthdays Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
You asked for it, you demanded it, and that's really not fair for I am but a smol bean. Nevertheless, it's finally here... my tips for getting good selfies! We're gonna talk about cameras and lighting and lenses and angles and how cameras both lie and tell the truth at the exact same time. Maybe you'll get some fire selfies out of it! Artist and scholar Errata returns to discuss the importance of visibility and what we owe to those who come after. "Disregard the haters!" ERRATA Bluesky: @theythem.press TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2024/12/03/photos-3-tillys-guide-to-selfies/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Photos and Reflections, Photos 2: The Selfie Apocalypse, Body Hacking, Finding our Trans Style REFERENCE MATERIAL How Lord Of The Rings Made The Hobbits Look Small (With Almost No CGI) - https://screenrant.com/lord-rings-movie-hobbits-small-size-film-camera-how-no-cgi/ How to Make a Hobbit With Forced Perspective - https://www.wired.com/2012/12/how-to-make-a-hobbit-with-forced-perspective/ The Science Behind the Selfie (No, You Don't Really Look Like That) - https://oohstloustudios.com/the-science-of-the-selfie-no-you-dont-really-look-like-that Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
What's it like when you go your whole life never seeing yourself in photos... and suddenly that changes, and you see yourself? All the time? Follow along in real-time as it blows my mind and I try to figure out exactly what the heck is happening. Artist and scholar Errata returns to discuss offering yourself grace! I have a bumpy head. And every trans selfie is an act of resistance. ERRATA Bluesky: @theythem.press TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2024/08/09/photos-2-the-selfie-apocalypse/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Gender Dysphoria, Photos and Reflections, Gender Euphoria, Trans Politics 1 and 2, Hormone Replacement Therapy, Trans Voices 1-3, The Past and Why it Haunts Us, Trans Grief 1 and 2, The Trans Allegory of I Saw the TV Glow, One Year Out and on HRT Retrospective, Two Years Out and on HRT Retrospective, Three Years Out and on HRT Retrospective, Four Years Out and on HRT Retrospective, Sexuality is Not Gender REFERENCE MATERIAL Begin Transmission: The Trans Allegories of The Matrix - https://www.amazon.com/Begin-Transmission-trans-allegories-Matrix-ebook/dp/B0C2MPVH9C Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
This year, many of us are struggling to find gratitude. Perhaps we can find it in the story of Sara Josepha Hale, the women who made it her life's mission to make Thanksgiving a national holiday. She had to face a nation in civil war, a president in crisis, the passage of time, and the apathy of power. Nevertheless, she persisted. We too, shall persist. Our fights are not new, and they will not be won overnight. But they will be won. In what has become a Thanksgiving tradition at Sorry Not Sorry, we are revisiting this episode with Denise Kiernan, bestselling author of "We Gather Together."
Why are photos and reflections so hard for so many trans people? What do we see when we look at them? Join me as I clunkily try to explain! Artist and scholar Errata joins us to discuss performance filters and class switching! Bad recipes for candy meat ahoy! ERRATA Bluesky: @theythem.press TEXT VERSION https://www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2024/08/08/photos-and-reflections/ FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) Into the Unknown (What is Happening, A Whole New World), Freeing Up My Brain (Lunch with Tilly), Gender Dysphoria, Parents Who Will Never Know the Real You (my dad), A Trans Re-wedding, The Trans Allegory of Barbie, The Trans Allegory of Silo s1, The Trans Allegory of The Twilight Zone's "Nervous Man in a Four Dollar Room," The Trans Allegory of I Saw the TV Glow REFERENCE MATERIAL Begin Transmission: The Trans Allegories of The Matrix - https://www.amazon.com/Begin-Transmission-trans-allegories-Matrix-ebook/dp/B0C2MPVH9C Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions
Well shit. What the hell do we do now? We grieve, we rage, and we fight for each other. There's no fate but what we make. TEXT VERSION FURTHER READING (topics discussed with essays available at http://TillysTransTuesdays.com) What is Trans Tuesday?, Halloween and the Fear of Embracing Your True Self, P!nk (Finding Our Own Representation), Trans Intersectionality REFERENCE MATERIAL Tilly on BlueSky - https://bsky.app/profile/tillybridges.bsky.social The Tillyverse Discord Community - https://discord.gg/cSS5cjbuAZ Special thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music. Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane --Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!-- Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions