Podcast appearances and mentions of Amanda Hess

We've all been warned not to consult Dr. Google, but when you're pregnant online advice is all too available. Amanda Hess, critic at large for The New York Times, joins guest host Courtney Collins to discuss the hazards of birthing and raising children in a digital world with both helpful and harmful information at our fingertips, and how parents can cut through the online chatter. Her book is “Second Life: Having a Child in the Digital Age.”  Learn about your ad choices: dovetail.prx.org/ad-choices

Are we surveilling our children too much? Do we need fancy gadgets to track their sleep? Should we be taking so many pictures of them? Longtime New York Times culture critic Amanda Hess joins Offline to discuss why the optimization of childhood may just be another empty promise of the information age. Amanda's new book, Second Life, follows her digital identity crisis as she grapples with her newborn baby's rare genetic disorder, traversing the Facebook groups, Reddit threads, spy cams and momfluencers she and other parents use as a 21st century substitute for a proverbial village.For a closed-captioned version of this episode, click here. For a transcript of this episode, please email transcripts@crooked.com and include the name of the podcast.  

When New York Times culture critic Amanda Hess was pregnant with her first child, she found herself sucked into the internet, comparing her experience to those of other moms online. Her new memoir, Second Life: Having a Child in the Digital Age, explores the challenges of becoming a parent at this moment. Hess discusses the book, and parents call in to talk about their own relationship with the internet.

In this episode, meet award-winning journalists Amy Larocca, Karen Hao, and Amanda Hess. Each of these seasoned reporters have taken deep dives into major new developments in the worlds of culture and technology, and their audiobooks are nothing short of illuminating. Hear Amy Larocca on how the wellness trend has eclipsed fashion as the “it” commodity, Karen Hao on what's missing from the public discussion of AI, and Amanda Hess on having a child in the digital age, and what was most “confrontational” about recording her audiobook. How to Be Well by Amy Larocca https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/599403/how-to-be-well-by-amy-larocca/9798217013388/ Empire of AI by Karen Hao https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/743569/empire-of-ai-by-karen-hao/9798217072453/ Second Life by Amanda Hess https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/721361/second-life-by-amanda-hess/9798217066155/

Professors and educators are now turning to A.I. to prepare lessons, teach, and even grade students' work. We talk with New York Times tech reporter Kashmir Hill about the ongoing debate in higher-ed about A.I.. TV critic David Bianculli reviews One to One, a new documentary about John Lennon and Yoko Ono.Also, writer Amanda Hess talks about motherhood in the digital age, navigating a world where apps, surveillance tech, and a relentless stream of algorithmic advice have become part of pregnancy and parenting. Her book is Second Life.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

Professors and educators are now turning to A.I. to prepare lessons, teach, and even grade students' work. We talk with New York Times tech reporter Kashmir Hill about the ongoing debate in higher-ed about A.I.. TV critic David Bianculli reviews One to One, a new documentary about John Lennon and Yoko Ono.Also, writer Amanda Hess talks about motherhood in the digital age, navigating a world where apps, surveillance tech, and a relentless stream of algorithmic advice have become part of pregnancy and parenting. Her book is Second Life.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

When New York Times critic Amanda Hess was told her baby had a rare genetic condition, her first instinct was to “Google [her] way out of it.” But instead of comfort, she found anxiety – a feeling that would come to define her journey into parenthood. We talk to Hess about how technology, including fertility apps and high-end gadgets, are reshaping parenthood. Her new book is “Second Life: Having a Child in the Digital Age.” Guests: Amanda Hess, culture critic covering the internet and pop culture, New York Times Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you an emotionally intense woman who's ever felt like you're just too much—or maybe not enough? On this podcast, I help you break free from shame, overwhelm, and the pressure to fit into someone else's boxes.  I'm Amanda Hess, trauma-informed life coach, and each week we dive into building self-trust, setting authentic boundaries, and embracing who you truly are beyond labels. It's time to create emotional safety and reclaim your identity—without trying to fix yourself. Follow now, and learn how to start loving yourself, no matter what! Interested in working with me? Sign up for a discovery call: https://amandahess.caWant to join the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership For Free? Join here: amanda-hess.mykajabi.com/loveyourselfCome find me on TT and IG: @theamandahess

May is supposed to be the calm before June's opinion storm in SCOTUS-land, but not in Trump's America. Melissa, Kate, and Leah kick off the show with the latest news, including Stephen Miller's habeas suspension fantasies and the president's blatant disregard of the emoluments clause when it comes to free jumbo jets. Then, the hosts are joined by professor Elora Mukherjee of Columbia Law School to break down last week's oral arguments in the Court's blockbuster birthright citizenship case. Hosts' favorite things:Kate: Second Life: Having a Child in the Digital Age, Amanda Hess; Harvard Paid $27 for a Copy of Magna Carta. Surprise! It's an Original, Stephen Castle (NYT)Leah: My Friends, Fredrik Backman; Senator Sheldon Whitehouse on All Rise News; Melissa: Weight Watchers Got One Thing Very Right, Jennifer Rubin (NYT); This Is Big: How the Founder of Weight Watchers Changed the World -- And Me, Marisa Meltzer; Forever (Netflix) Get tickets for STRICT SCRUTINY LIVE – The Bad Decisions Tour 2025! 5/31 – Washington DC6/12 – NYC10/4 – ChicagoLearn more: http://crooked.com/eventsOrder your copy of Leah's book, Lawless: How the Supreme Court Runs on Conservative Grievance, Fringe Theories, and Bad Vibes Follow us on Instagram, Threads, and Bluesky

Internet culture writer Amanda Hess shares how her first pregnancy magnified her relationship with technology.

Internet culture writer Amanda Hess shares how her first pregnancy magnified her relationship with technology.

Send us a textIn this week's episode of NeoNews, the team reflects on a quiet Mother's Day before diving into a full slate of stories touching the emotional and political corners of neonatal care. First up: parenting in the digital age. The crew unpacks a gripping New York Times essay by Amanda Hess, whose prenatal diagnosis of Beckwith-Wiedemann syndrome led her down the rabbit hole of medical Googling, Facebook support groups, and the complicated power of online communities for medically complex families.Then, we turn to formula safety and the Biden administration's new “Operation Stork Speed.” The team discusses the implications for NICU care, parental anxiety, and advocacy in the wake of increased scrutiny over heavy metals and contaminants in infant formula. From there, we navigate the ripple effects of tariffs on medical supplies, pharmacy deserts, and drug shortages—all of which directly impact the NICU.Rounding out the show: U.S. birth rates now favor parents over 40 versus teens, RSV vaccines show impressive real-world results, and new research questions everything we thought we knew about preemie blood pressures.Packed with insight, outrage, and a few Dumbo references, this episode covers the headlines shaping neonatal care and the families we serve. As always, feel free to send us questions, comments, or suggestions to our email: nicupodcast@gmail.com. You can also contact the show through Instagram or Twitter, @nicupodcast. Or contact Ben and Daphna directly via their Twitter profiles: @drnicu and @doctordaphnamd. The papers discussed in today's episode are listed and timestamped on the webpage linked below. Enjoy!

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Doree and Elise speak with New York Times journalist Amanda Hess about her new book Second Life: Having a Child in the Digital Age, how online surveillance has permeated every aspect of womanhood and motherhood, and why community care is so crucial to being a good parent. To leave a voicemail or text for a future episode, reach Doree & Elise at 781-591-0390. You can also email the podcast at forever35podcast@gmail.com.Visit forever35podcast.com for links to everything they mention on the show or visit shopmyshelf.us/forever35.Follow the podcast on Instagram (@Forever35Podcast) and sign up for the newsletter at forever35podcast.com/newsletter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Host Piya Chattopadhyay speaks with Vatican journalist Charles Collins about the path ahead for Pope Leo XIV, Financial Times journalist Patrick McGee gets to the core of Apple and China's symbiotic relationship, journalists Shannon Proudfoot, Rob Benzie and Jason Markusoff explore how Prime Minister Mark Carney might approach competing provincial priorities, and New York Times culture critic Amanda Hess delves into how tech culture is shaping modern parenting.Find more at at https://www.cbc.ca/sunday

When NYT critic-at-large Amanda Hess learned her unborn child had an abnormality, she turned to the internet — but didn't find reassurance. "My relationship with technology became so much more intense," she says. She talks with Tonya Mosley about pregnancy apps, online forums, and baby gadgets. Her new book is Second Life: Having A Child In The Digital Age. Also, Maureen Corrigan reviews Daniel Kehlmann's new novel, The Director. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

Welcome to the How to Love Yourself No Matter What podcast with Amanda Hess. In this episode, Amanda dives deep into a topic so many of us struggle with: feeling responsible for everyone around us. If you're the person everyone relies on, the peacekeeper holding it all together, or someone who's secretly exhausted but scared to stop, this episode is for you.Drawing from her personal experiences and work as a certified life coach, Amanda unpacks why so many women feel trapped by the belief that they must be the strong one, and how this thinking leads to burnout, resentment, and the loss of self. She explores both societal and personal conditioning that teaches women to prioritize everyone else's needs above their own and gets candid about the physical, emotional, and mental toll this takes.But Amanda doesn't stop there—she offers practical strategies for breaking this cycle, including the power of tiny acts of self-care, regulating your nervous system, emotional processing, and the radical act of putting yourself at the top of your own list. If you're ready to set healthier boundaries, stop overfunctioning, and reclaim your sense of self, tune in and join Amanda as she shares the tools and mindset shifts you need to let go of what was never yours to carry.Let's get started on the path to freedom, fulfillment, and self-love—one small shift at a time.Timestamps:00:00 "The Burden of Being Strong"03:48 "Conditioned to Prioritize Others' Needs"07:04 Balancing Parenthood, Career, and Life12:13 The Anxiety of Unwarranted Responsibility15:34 Fear of Setting Boundaries19:21 Begin Processing Personal Emotions24:09 "Prioritize Personal Boundaries, Self-Care"25:08 "Embrace Change for Personal Fulfillment"30:03 "Free Week: Let Go & Transform"Get 1 week absolutely FREE in the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership.  Go HERE: joinamanda.ca Interested in working with Amanda? Sign up for a discovery call: https://amandahess.caWant to join the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership For Free? Join here: https://amanda-hess.mykajabi.com/loveyourself?preview_theme_id=2160502340Come find me on TT and IG: @theamandahess

When NYT critic-at-large Amanda Hess learned her unborn child had an abnormality, she turned to the internet — but didn't find reassurance. "My relationship with technology became so much more intense," she says. She talks with Tonya Mosley about pregnancy apps, online forums, and baby gadgets. Her new book is Second Life: Having A Child In The Digital Age. Also, Maureen Corrigan reviews Daniel Kehlmann's new novel, The Director. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

Beth Golay recently spoke with Amanda Hess, who works as a critic-at-large for the New York Times, where she writes about culture and the internet about her book, "Second Life: Having a Child in the Digital Age."

If you've ever felt like you just can't handle rejection, this episode is for you. Amanda Hess dives deep into rejection sensitivity—what it is, where it comes from, and how it affects the way we think and feel, especially for those who are neurodivergent or have experienced trauma.Key Takeaways:What is rejection sensitivity?Amanda discusses how rejection sensitivity is the tendency to feel real or perceived rejection more intensely than others, leading to heightened emotions, misreading social cues, and sometimes overreacting to neutral interactions.Why are some people more sensitive?Neurodivergence, trauma, and constant invalidation can train us to expect rejection, often resulting in masking behaviors and self-doubt.How does it show up?Rejection sensitivity can ebb and flow depending on emotional capacity—think stress levels, sleep, confidence, and life events. When we're vulnerable, small rejections can feel overwhelming and lead to negative thought spirals.Recognizing emotional bias:Amanda explains the difference between “clean pain” (the immediate feeling) and “dirty pain” (the stories we tell ourselves about what rejection means), and how the latter keeps us stuck.Regulating your response:Instead of trying to avoid or tolerate rejection, Amanda encourages listeners to grow their capacity for it. This means grounding yourself, breathing, and reminding yourself that rejection is just a feeling, not a confirmation of unworthiness.A personal example:Amanda shares a story about navigating tense conversations in her son's basketball team group chat and how perspective can change emotional reactions.Practical advice:If rejection sensitivity is getting in your way, try to pause, notice your thought patterns, and ask yourself what else could be true. Focus on expanding your tolerance rather than avoiding difficult feelings.Join the conversation:Amanda offers support through her coaching membership, with live coaching calls, daily written coaching, and a private podcast. If you need more personalized help, you can book a free consultation.Connect:Join the membership: joinamanda.caBook a free call: amandahess.ca/bookacallIf you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review—it helps the podcast grow and reach more women like you! Interested in working with Amanda? Sign up for a discovery call: https://amandahess.caWant to join the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership For Free? Join here: https://amanda-hess.mykajabi.com/loveyourself?preview_theme_id=2160502340Come find me on TT and IG: @theamandahess

New York Times critic at large Amanda Hess joins us to talk about the convergence of parenthood and technology. We dig in to everything from freebirthers to prenatal testing, and from “complicated” pregnancies to the many anxieties (and joys, too) of raising a child in a world where a $1600 Snoo has become a newborn must-have and corporations know about our pregnancies before our immediate families do. Hess's much anticipated memoir, Second Life: Having A Child In The Digital Age (which we both LOVED), is out May 6th. Links: * Prenatal Testing Offers Pregnant Women More Information Than Ever — But No Support To Deal With It (Romper) * Unfit Parent by Jessica Slice* Girl on Girl by Sophie Gilbert* Happiest Baby On The BlockIf you love the work we do on Mother Of It All, please consider becoming a paid subscriber, which you can do at motherofitall.substack.com. Paid subscribers get access to everything behind the paywall, like subscriber-only episodes and if you subscribe at the founding member level, we'll send you one of our awesome tote bags. If you can't become a paid subscriber, that's OK! It's always free and helpful to follow, share, rate and review our show here and everywhere else you listen to podcasts you love. Thank you!* Visit our Bookshop storefront to find all the books we've mentioned here and in previous episodes. When you shop there, we get a small affiliate fee (yay, thank you!). * Visit motherofitall.com to send us ideas for a future episode or learn more about the show.* Follow the podcast on Instagram (@themotherofitall) or Bluesky (@motherofitallpod.bsky.social) This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit motherofitall.substack.com/subscribe

One of The Cut's parenting columnists and official friend-of-the-pod, Amil Niazi, joins us to talk about her recent essay on weaning her kids off YouTube. We've covered screen time, but this time we're talking about algorithmic content. Is the algorithm as unavoidable as it feels to many of us? Or is it worth it for parents to push back — even when it makes for some awkward moments with other families — and try to hold out as long as they can? If your kids are already hooked on YouTube, like Amil's were, is there a way to reign it in without a dreaded, endless household meltdown? And if you do manage to kick the algo out of your home, and come out as a non-YouTube family, is the grass really greener? Plus, Sarah and Miranda on “life's hack” (life's ONE hack), the very corporeal fascinations of switching to menstrual cups, first periods, and what it feels like to finally be deeply learning about our menstrual cycles in our 40s. * My Family's YouTube Ban by Amil Niazi (The Cut) * The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt* If Books Could Kill review of The Anxious Generation* The Fun Cup* My Son's Favorite Toy Is A Tampon by Sarah (Scary Mommy)* Babeland * Period: The Real Story of Menstruation by Kate Clancy* 28-ish Days Later BBC Podcast * Second Life by Amanda Hess (episode coming soon!) * Teens, Social Media and Technology 2023 (Pew Research Report). “Roughly nine-in-ten teens say they use YouTube, making it the most widely used platform measured in our survey.”* Meta (Facebook & Instagram & WhatsApp parent company) is not going to moderate content anymore. If you like the work that we do here on Mother Of It All, please consider becoming a paid subscriber. You support this work (thank you!) and will get access to super special content like subscriber-only episodes and even very awesome tote bags for founding members. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit motherofitall.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, I dive into the challenges of meeting your emotional needs as a sensitive or neurodivergent woman. If you've ever felt unseen, misunderstood, or emotionally drained from constantly giving without receiving, this conversation is for you. I share my own journey with masking, people-pleasing, and emotional exhaustion—and why so many of us struggle to get our needs met. You'll learn how to recognize, advocate for, and meet your own emotional needs in a way that fosters emotional empowerment rather than resentment. This episode is about stepping into self-acceptance, setting boundaries, and creating the emotional safety you deserve.If you're ready for deeper support, join my Love Yourself No Matter What membership for weekly coaching, a private daily podcast, and community support at Amanda-Hess.myKajabi.com/loveyourself . And if you need personalized coaching, book a free consult at amandahess.ca/bookacall.Detailed Episode Breakdown:[0:00 - 2:30] Introduction & Why This MattersWhy so many sensitive and neurodivergent women struggle to have their emotional needs met.If you feel like you're constantly giving without receiving, you are not alone.[2:30 - 7:45] Why Emotional Needs Often Go UnmetThe impact of masking and people-pleasing.How ignoring your needs leads to exhaustion, resentment, and disconnection.My personal experiences with discovering my own emotional needs and the consequences of suppressing them.[7:45 - 12:30] The Root Causes of Emotional StrugglesMasking & People-Pleasing: Why saying yes when you mean no makes it harder for people to meet your needs.Emotional Intensity & Deep Processing: The stress response cycle (fight, flight, freeze, fawn) and how it impacts emotional regulation.Sensory Overload: How our modern world bombards us with too much information, leading to burnout.[12:30 - 16:45] Identifying Your Core Emotional NeedsThe difference between emotional wants and emotional needs (and why understanding this is so important).The four core emotional needs:Feeling seen and understood (not just tolerated).Deep and meaningful connections.Emotional safety and acceptance.Balancing predictability with freedom and spontaneity.Reflection prompts to help you identify where your emotional needs are not being met.[16:45 - 22:00] How to Start Meeting Your Own Emotional NeedsThe first step: Grounding yourself and regulating your nervous system.Sensory-friendly self-care strategies to help you reset and feel safe in your body.How I plan to create emotional safety for myself while on my upcoming family trip to Hawaii.[22:00 - 27:15] The Importance of Finding the Right CommunityIf you feel misunderstood, it may be time to expand your social circle rather than expecting others to change.How to find like-minded people online and in-person.Why deep conversations are essential for emotional fulfillment.[27:15 - 31:00] Asking for Help & Setting Boundaries Without GuiltOvercoming the fear of being a burden.How to approach conversations about your needs without resentment.Scripts for clearly communicating your needs in a way that invites support rather than resistance.[31:00 - 34:00] How to Set Healthy Boundaries & Accept SupportBoundaries aren't about controlling others—they're about protecting yourself.Learning to accept support from the right people instead of assuming no one wants to help.How to tolerate the discomfort of disappointing others when necessary.[34:00 - 36:00] Final Thoughts & Next StepsJournaling prompt: What emotional needs have I been neglecting, and what's one small way I can meet them this week?CTA #1: Join the Love Yourself No Matter What membership for weekly coaching, daily written coaching, and access to my private podcast at Amanda-Hess.myKajabi.com/loveyourself CTA #2: If you need personalized support, book a free consult at amandahess.ca/bookacall so we can create a plan to help you feel more emotionally fulfilled.

In part 2, Amanda Hess, an Advisory Board Member of the Association for Blood Donor Professionals, returns to discuss barriers that prevent people from donating blood and share strategies to address common misconceptions.  Let us know what you thought of this week's episode on Twitter: @physicianswkly Want to share your medical expertise, research, or unique experience in medicine on the PW podcast? Email us at editorial@physweekly.com! Thanks for listening!

Imagine working not just while you're pregnant, but actually in labor! That's exactly what happened to Dr. Amanda Hess.She was at the hospital, ready to give birth herself, when she heard that another mom was having a tough time in labor because the doctor wasn't there yet. Without thinking twice, Dr. Hess left her own room to help. She successfully delivered the baby, ensuring both mom and newborn were okay, then went back and soon after, gave birth to her own child. She was truly an angel in that delivery room!

Amanda Hess, an Advisory Board Member of the Association for Blood Donor Professionals, offers a resource that clinicians can share with patients to help increase blood donation participation. Let us know what you thought of this week's episode on Twitter: @physicianswkly Want to share your medical expertise, research, or unique experience in medicine on the PW podcast? Email us at editorial@physweekly.com! Thanks for listening!

Hallmark Christmas movies are corny, predictable and just what our critic needed to embrace the holiday spirit.The story of how a big-city culture critic, Amanda Hess, found love where she least expected it — in the monotony of Hallmark's Christmas movies.Guest: Amanda Hess, a critic at large for the Culture section of The New York TimesBackground reading: One December morning, a millennial critic awoke to discover that she had been begrudgingly charmed by an onslaught of Hallmark and Netflix holiday films.For more information on today's episode, visit nytimes.com/thedaily. Transcripts of each episode will be made available by the next workday.  Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

In this Christmasy Christman Christmas of a Christmas Holiday Episode, we Christmas the Christmas all over the Christmas with the 1999 Christmas film, Christmas Classics Series: O'Christmas Tree, directed by Bert Ring and starring Ed Asner.   A Tubi Christmas is often a twister that not only rivals but TOWERS OVER the Hallmark traditions. It is the truth. It simply is. No god-fearing member of the New York Times Cultural Critics Cabal will understand. But they will. You hear me Amanda Hess? You will.

In this episode, Amanda Hess, a certified life and success coach specializing in guiding neurodivergent women, shares her journey and insights into emotional and nervous system regulation. Amanda discusses her personal experiences, the challenges of societal expectations, and how practicing self-love and resilience can transform one's life. She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's emotions, breaking down labels, and finding simple practices to improve mental well-being. Tune in for a deep dive into how neurodivergent individuals can navigate an overwhelming world and embrace their true selves.00:00 Welcome to The Deep Life Podcast00:02 Meet Amanda Hess: Neurodivergent Life Coach00:50 Amanda's Journey to Life Coaching04:09 Understanding Neurodivergence04:49 Sensory Processing and Social Challenges09:02 Emotional Regulation and Self-Discovery14:11 The Power of Sensory Experiences16:55 Embracing Emotions and Human Touch24:15 Society's Impact on Emotional Expression30:12 Understanding Emotional Regulation31:50 The Power of Labels and Language34:02 Navigating Anxiety and Depression35:59 The Importance of Rest and Self-Care38:10 The Practice of Self-Improvement41:38 Coaching and Personal Growth53:39 Conclusion and Contact InformationYou can connect w/ Amanda here:Website: https://amandahess.ca/IG: https://www.instagram.com/theamandahess/Podcast: https://amandahess.ca/podcasts/If you'd like to connect with Dan & EliseYou can find The DEEP Life at LivingTheDEEPLife.comOr on social mediaInstagram: https://bit.ly/3TTuUfWYouTube: https://bit.ly/3ScoOWSTikTok: https://bit.ly/3TOX0sUIf you'd like to connect with Dan:You can find him at MomentumStrengthWellness.comwhere he provides virtual fitness & holistic lifestyle coachingOr throughIG @MomentumStrengthWellnessYouTube @MomentumStrengthWellnessFacebook @MomentumStrengthWellness

This week Offline Móvie Clúb takes on “Tár,” the 2022 film about a music conductor whose narcissism and abuses of power bring about her very public downfall. Max is joined by New York Times critic at large, Amanda Hess, and Offline critic at large, Jon Favreau, to examine the movie's takes on cancel culture, identity construction and the limits of control—especially online. Should we feel pity for cancelled celebrities? To what extent is social media real life? And is “Tár” secretly a comedy?

Amanda Hess, Caxton Community Legal Managing Senior Lawyer, joined Peter Gleeson on 4BC Drive to explain the major shake-up looming for Buy Now, Pay Later platforms in Australia geared at protecting consumers' finances.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Amanda Hess was born and raised in Calgary Canada. She learned in her childhood that she struggled with emotion. As Amanda puts it: ” I had a life that everyone else would agree looked pretty perfect. I was married, had 2 kids, a dog, a house and a professional career. It's just nobody really knew what […]

n this podcast episode, I'm thrilled to announce a new training program that's dedicated to helping individuals with neurodivergent brains effectively handle and manage anxiety. We understand that this can be especially challenging for those who have experienced trauma or received a mental illness diagnosis. The best part? This training is entirely free. All you need to do is sign up on our waitlist at joinamanda.ca, and it will be ready for you soon.Now, let's dive into the heart of this episode.First and foremost, let's talk about building emotional capacity. Emotional capacity is an essential aspect of our emotional well-being, and it's something I want to delve into today. It's all about our ability to feel both negative and positive emotions in a manageable way. I know that for those of us who struggle with our emotions, especially the negative ones, it can be a real challenge to experience joy or pleasure. That's why we're going to explore the importance of creating space for our emotions without being overwhelmed.The primary tool we're going to focus on for building emotional capacity is something I like to call "silence." Now, it's important to note that silence doesn't mean absolute absence of sound. It's about finding moments of stillness where you can pay attention to your body, your breath, and your senses. In fact, during this episode, I'll guide you through a brief exercise where we'll take a few moments to focus on our breath.Now, many of us with neurodivergent brains often grapple with the feeling that we're "doing it wrong." Society's expectations and standards can make us feel like we're not measuring up, and that can be paralyzing. What's crucial to remember is that there is no one-size-fits-all approach. You have the power to create a practice that works for you, one that respects your unique needs and strengths.As we wrap up this episode, I want to extend a warm invitation to connect with me on Instagram. My handle has recently changed to "the Amanda Hess." I would love to engage with you, hear your thoughts on the practices we've discussed, and learn about your experiences in implementing them in your life.To sum it up, this episode has provided an introduction to the concept of building emotional capacity, with a specific focus on using silence as a valuable tool. It encourages self-reflection, self-acceptance, and offers insights that are particularly relevant to those with neurodivergent brains. Thanks for joining me, and I look forward to sharing more with you in the future.

What does it feel like to watch football at an NFL head coach's house? Should you really be posting photos of your kid? And... all praise to the scammers? Also: ghost takes, flying slices of cheese, swampa$$ as a resting state, and what happens to the food on reality shows. PTFO-approved reading: If I Embarrass My Baby on TikTok, Will He Stay My Baby Forever? (Amanda Hess) https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/25/arts/babies-cheese-eggs-tiktok.html Gen Z Falls for Online Scams More Than Their Boomer Grandparents Do (A.W. Ohlheiser) https://www.vox.com/technology/23882304/gen-z-vs-boomers-scams-hacks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it feel like to watch football at an NFL head coach's house? Should you really be posting photos of your kid? And... all praise to the scammers? Also: ghost takes, flying slices of cheese, swampa$$ as a resting state, and what happens to the food on reality shows. PTFO-approved reading: If I Embarrass My Baby on TikTok, Will He Stay My Baby Forever? (Amanda Hess) https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/25/arts/babies-cheese-eggs-tiktok.html Gen Z Falls for Online Scams More Than Their Boomer Grandparents Do (A.W. Ohlheiser) https://www.vox.com/technology/23882304/gen-z-vs-boomers-scams-hacks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The one on one conversation with Amanda Hess, a Certified Life & Success Coach for Neurodivergent Women, was very informative and helpful to women who are going through difficult times. We spoke about mental health and so much more. Amanda is a CERTIFIED LIFE COACH AND SHE KNOWS A FEW THINGS ABOUT HAVING A BRAIN THAT DOESN'T ACT LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE'S. Amanda spent years of her life and multiple thousands of dollars trying to "fix" what was "wrong with herself" until she realized that there actually was "NOTHING" wrong with her. When she started working WITH her own brain, everything else in her life just fell into place. Not only did she feel way less stress & anxiety, but she also began purposefully creating results that she WANTED in her life. So Amanda started to work on “fixing” herself. THIS IS HOW IT STARTS: Amanda started with drinking to try and cover up who she was. Amanda was a lot of fun in her 20's. Until she wasn't because she don't tend to be “less” emotional when you were wasted. In Amanda's 30s, she turned to the medical profession for help. Amanda was diagnosed with Postpartum Depression, prescribed SSRI's with a handful of therapy sessions, and lived like a zombie for an entire year. But when she was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, she knew that things were as bad as they could possibly get. Amanda had uncontrollable anger, and she didn't know what to do. Amanda tried all the therapy, podcasts, and books, and ultimately, nothing seemed to help. Until she learned that she didn't actually have to hate herself. It turned out her brain was working exactly the way it was supposed to. She learned how to understand her anger and give herself what she needed instead of lashing out at others. (WHILE EVERYONE ELSE THOUGHT EVERYTHING WAS COMPLETELY FINE) Amanda found a coach who loved her unconditionally and taught her to do the same for herself. And now that's what she is going to teach to others. She considers herself to be a neurodivergent, mental illness survivor. Amanda used to live her life trying to desperately figure out what the fuck was wrong with her. Because she didn't really fit in. Because everything just seemed a little harder for Amanda. She was a little too loud. A little too excited. A little too genuine. A little too abrasive. She had a life that everyone else would agree looked pretty perfect. She was married, had 2 kids, a dog, a house, and a professional career. It's just that nobody really knew what happened behind closed doors. Now, Amanda helps hundreds of other women do the same. Amanda loves helping driven women to stop letting "disordered" or "different" block them from living a "HELL YES" life. You can follow Amanda Hess on her website at https://amandahess.ca/ or her social media (Instagram - @theneurodivergentceo) - (Facebook - Amanda Hess Coaching) - (LinkedIn - Amanda Hess) Thank you for listening to and supporting the podcast. If you want to be heard, email mscaramellucas@gmail.com or follow me on Instagram @mscaramellucas - TikTok @caramellucas - Facebook - Caramel Lucas --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/caramel-lucas/message

it turns out that in order to really enact impactful self-care, you are going to need to decide you matter.  In fact, you are going to need to decide you matter the most.  If that sounds daunting that's because it's the opposite of what we are taught.  In today's episode I am going show you why self-care is important, how what you have been taught so far is all wrong, and how to do it in a way that actually helps you.If you want some help putting this in action, I am inviting you to my FREE Workshop on Friday, August 18 at 10am Pacific / 1pm Eastern.  The Neurodivergent Self-Love MethodREGISTER HEREDiscover the power of transforming your emotional well-being through a unique approach to self-care with Amanda Hess, a certified life and success coach. Are you tired of feeling emotionally overwhelmed and out of control? Amanda's proven method will guide you toward feeling fulfilled and ready to tackle life's challenges.

A conversation about her unlikely pop fame, complex relationship to stardom and powerful, signature music. Guests: Alfred Soto and Amanda Hess.

Introducing Amanda Hess, your Neurodivergent Guru! Put simply, Amanda helps people who are hard on themselves. Amanda's Nugget of Hope: "We all think we have something wrong with us. There is nothing "Broken" about you." As a Certified Trauma Aware Life & Success Coach, Amanda is here to revolutionize the world of CEO women, leaders, and entrepreneurs. She's not your average coach—she's a force of nature, igniting sparks of transformation wherever she goes! With her personal experience and professional expertise, Amanda guides women on an exhilarating journey of self-discovery, unlocking the incredible potential of their unique minds. She's a master at harnessing the power of the "problem brain" and transforming it into an unstoppable force, propelling both business and personal success to unprecedented heights. By leveraging her proven process, Amanda equips her clients with the tools and strategies necessary to thrive in their professional endeavors while experiencing profound personal growth. She's like a superpower ally and mentor, helping you navigate the challenges of the business world with confidence and grace. But Amanda's not just about work—she's all about creating a well-rounded life of fulfillment and joy. She understands that success is not limited to the boardroom, but extends to every aspect of your existence. With her guidance, you'll achieve a harmonious blend of professional triumphs and personal fulfillment. Listen to Amanda's podcast: The Neurodivergent CEO Podcast Follow Amanda on Instagram: @theneurodivergentceo@theneurodivergentceo Check out Amanda's website: amandahess.ca Learn more about your Host, Kim Lengling at www.kimlenglingauthor.com Kim's Books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/author/kimlengling Let Fear Bounce Podcast:  https://anchor.fm/kim-lengling1 Apple:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/let-fear-bounce/id1541906455 Buy Me A Coffee:    https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Letfearbouncet Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/letfearbouncepodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lenglingauthor/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/KimLengling --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/letfearbouncepodcast/message

Self-Care is more than just bubble baths and cups of tea.  In fact, self-care is the number one thing you should be prioritizing if you feel emotionally unstable, anxious, stressed out or depressed.  Today I have Diane Schroeder, MA, EFO, is a national speaker, writer, and podcast host focusing on helping leaders understand and appreciate the value of self-care.As a leader in the male-dominated fire service for 24 years, Diane knows that practicing self-care enables leaders to find their authentic style, have a work-life balance, and increase productivity. Authentic leaders create healthy, inclusive, and diverse work cultures of belonging.Diane and i share an honest and frank conversation about what self-care is, why it matters and how to make sure you prioritize it in your life.  More about Diane:Diane Schroeder, MA, EFO, is a national speaker, writer, and podcast host focusing on helping leaders understand and appreciate the value of self-care. As a leader in the male-dominated fire service for 24 years, Diane knows that practicing self-care enables leaders to find their authentic style, have a work-life balance, and increase productivity. Authentic leaders create healthy, inclusive, and diverse work cultures of belonging.With a Master's degree in organizational leadership, Diane combines her wisdom with data to guide leaders down the self-care path. She shares her knowledge with her community through email and her weekly podcast, The Fire Inside Her.Diane speaks around the country, is a TEDx speaker, and is currently working on a book about leadership.Website: thefireinsideher.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealfireinher/About Amanda:Amanda Hess is an accomplished Certified Life & Success Coach, and the visionary Founder and CEO of Amanda Hess Coaching. With a passion for helping driven women who have been diagnosed or identify with having a Psychological Illness or Disorder, Amanda empowers them to break free from the stigma and create a life they truly desire - a "hell yes" life.Amanda's extensive experience in coaching and mentoring has enabled her to help countless women overcome their mental health challenges and achieve success in both their personal and professional lives. Her compassionate and holistic approach, combined with her expertise in coaching, allows her to provide tailored solutions that address each client's unique needs.Through Amanda Hess Coaching, Amanda is committed to providing a safe and supportive space for women to explore their potential and embrace their authenticity. Her unwavering dedication to helping women thrive has earned her a reputation as a trusted and sought-after coach in her field.If you're ready to break free from the limitations of your psychological illness or disorder and create a life that's truly fulfilling, Amanda Hess is the coach you've been looking for.Podcast: Fuck Your Disorder (How To Love Yourself No Matter What) - soon to become Break Up With Your Disorder: https://amandahess.ca/blog/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakupwithyourdisorder/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/amandahesscoachingLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amanda-hess-81581387/

This week, David Plotz, Emily Bazelon, and John Dickerson discuss GOP's speakership debacle; George Santos; and improving access to medication abortion. Here are some notes and references from this week's show: Emily Bazelon for The New York Times: “The Dawn of the Post-Clinic Abortion” Emily Bazelon for The New York Times: “Risking Everything to Offer Abortions Across State Lines” Mark Oppenheimer for The New York Times: “Why Did George Santos Lie About Being Jewish?” Here are this week's chatters: John: Winesburg, Ohio, by Sherwood Anderson Emily: The Furrows, by Namwali Serpell; Tár ; Zadie Smith for The New York Review of Books: “The Instrumentalist”; Amanda Hess for The New York Times: “Breaking Out of the #MeToo Movie Formula”; Dan Kois for Slate: “Tár Is the Most-Talked-About Movie of the Year. So Why Is Everyone Talking About It All Wrong?” David: Gastrodiplomacy  Listener chatter from Nathan Kamps: Miles Klee for Rolling Stone: “‘A Celebrity in the Land of Celebrities': Remembering P-22, L.A.'s Favorite Mountain Lion” For this week's Slate Plus bonus segment Emily, David, and John discuss the ethics of watching football in light of Damar Hamlin's life threatening injury.   Tweet us your questions and chatters @SlateGabfest or email us at gabfest@slate.com. (Messages may be quoted by name unless the writer stipulates otherwise.) Podcast production by Cheyna Roth. Research by Bridgette Dunlap. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, David Plotz, Emily Bazelon, and John Dickerson discuss GOP's speakership debacle; George Santos; and improving access to medication abortion. Here are some notes and references from this week's show: Emily Bazelon for The New York Times: “The Dawn of the Post-Clinic Abortion” Emily Bazelon for The New York Times: “Risking Everything to Offer Abortions Across State Lines” Mark Oppenheimer for The New York Times: “Why Did George Santos Lie About Being Jewish?” Here are this week's chatters: John: Winesburg, Ohio, by Sherwood Anderson Emily: The Furrows, by Namwali Serpell; Tár ; Zadie Smith for The New York Review of Books: “The Instrumentalist”; Amanda Hess for The New York Times: “Breaking Out of the #MeToo Movie Formula”; Dan Kois for Slate: “Tár Is the Most-Talked-About Movie of the Year. So Why Is Everyone Talking About It All Wrong?” David: Gastrodiplomacy  Listener chatter from Nathan Kamps: Miles Klee for Rolling Stone: “‘A Celebrity in the Land of Celebrities': Remembering P-22, L.A.'s Favorite Mountain Lion” For this week's Slate Plus bonus segment Emily, David, and John discuss the ethics of watching football in light of Damar Hamlin's life threatening injury.   Tweet us your questions and chatters @SlateGabfest or email us at gabfest@slate.com. (Messages may be quoted by name unless the writer stipulates otherwise.) Podcast production by Cheyna Roth. Research by Bridgette Dunlap. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, David Plotz, Emily Bazelon, and John Dickerson discuss GOP's speakership debacle; George Santos; and improving access to medication abortion. Here are some notes and references from this week's show: Emily Bazelon for The New York Times: “The Dawn of the Post-Clinic Abortion” Emily Bazelon for The New York Times: “Risking Everything to Offer Abortions Across State Lines” Mark Oppenheimer for The New York Times: “Why Did George Santos Lie About Being Jewish?” Here are this week's chatters: John: Winesburg, Ohio, by Sherwood Anderson Emily: The Furrows, by Namwali Serpell; Tár ; Zadie Smith for The New York Review of Books: “The Instrumentalist”; Amanda Hess for The New York Times: “Breaking Out of the #MeToo Movie Formula”; Dan Kois for Slate: “Tár Is the Most-Talked-About Movie of the Year. So Why Is Everyone Talking About It All Wrong?” David: Gastrodiplomacy  Listener chatter from Nathan Kamps: Miles Klee for Rolling Stone: “‘A Celebrity in the Land of Celebrities': Remembering P-22, L.A.'s Favorite Mountain Lion” For this week's Slate Plus bonus segment Emily, David, and John discuss the ethics of watching football in light of Damar Hamlin's life threatening injury.   Tweet us your questions and chatters @SlateGabfest or email us at gabfest@slate.com. (Messages may be quoted by name unless the writer stipulates otherwise.) Podcast production by Cheyna Roth. Research by Bridgette Dunlap. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode, Haley teamed up with Kai of @Rotten_Treasure for one of the kinkiest episodes of the entire show. Sometimes it's difficult to find a partner into the same things, in the same general geographic area--before Grindr, Craigslist, or  KinkD, there were personal ads in the local LGBTQ magazine. Listen as we match with voyeurs, foot worshippers,  Gumdrop Danglers, and more! (Personal ads begin around 1 hour and 2 minutes.) We mentioned: Amanda Hess, “The Foot Fetish Brain Map,” Washington City Paper, 13 April 2010. Justin Lehmiller, “Rats With Jacket Fetishes? What Animal Sex Studies Reveal About The Origin Of Unusual Sexual Interests,” Sex and Psychology, 16 January 2015. Gayle Rubin, “South of Market Gay Leather History: A Short History and Walking Tour,” San Francisco Frontiers, 20 September 2001. Kelsey Borresen, “The Difference Between A Fetish And Kink, According To Sex Experts,” Huffington Post, 25 July 2018. “English Rockers in Leather” Gay Leather Fetish History, "Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, and Practice" by Caroll Truscott. JP Larocque, “A brief history of BDSM: From Sparta to Weimar Germany, kink has always been part of our sexuality” 13 November 2014. Cameron Glover, “It's Time to Recenter Kink and BDSM as Part of Radical Queer History” Slate, 7 November 2018.J Raúl Cornier, Hanky Panky: An Abridged History of the Hanky Code, 23 April 2019.Palmer Haasch and Canela López, “The debate over 'kink at Pride' divides the internet, but the kink community has been part of queer protest and celebration since Stonewall” Insider, 7 June 2021.We read: Drummer extras,  “Tough Customers 4” published  c. 1990s. The Washington Blade (Washington, DC) , 27 November 1998. OUT FRONT (Denver, CO) 15 February 1991Outweek (NYC) 11 July 1990Outweek (NYC) 8 Sep 1990Southern voice (Atlanta, GA) February 17 and 23, 1994 The Body politic (Toronto, Canada), March 1984 The San Francisco Bay times. (California), Sep 1989Support the show

Do you know the moment when you feel as if you don't understand something, and then something just clicks? What do you do when the thing you are confused about is dating? Is it possible to help coach someone who hasn't had a lot of success at dating to get something as complex as flirting to "click"? That's exactly what Shreye Saxena wanted to figure out when he went to a dating coach recently. Her class was appealing to the specific niche of cis-het men trying to figure out how to date women, and she has a question on her FAQ page relating to whether her method works for Indian men specifically because Indian men tend to perform worse than other demographics on dating apps. Does Shreye think it was worth the money? All you have to do is listen to the intro of this episode to find out. We discuss how "coachable" we think a lot of the soft skills of dating are, what flirting even is, and whether there are actually similarities in philosophy behind polyamory and arranged marriages. Links: 36 Questions that Lead to Love from the New York Times that Shreye mentions: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/09/style/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html A Youtube video from the New York Times by Amanda Hess on Zyzz: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0fYmwhyqmYg Note: In the episode, Isabel talks about how Zyzz worked out to death/until his heart gave out, but upon rewatching this video, it turns out he actually just had a pre-existing heart condition. Shreye's previous episodes: 113. The Bo Burnham Episode 71. The Mental Health Stigma Episode 47. The Financial Inclusion Episode Music is The Beauty of Maths by Meydän. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/im-the-villain/support

'I'm Radioactive': Journalist Jonathan Kaiman is one of the least famous, least powerful men to be brought down by the #MeToo movement. A year later, the fallout continues, Emily Yoffe (Reason)The Shiv in the Hand of Kindness, Nancy Rommelmann (Arc Digital) Felicia Sonmez Is Suing the Washington Post for Gender Discrimination,  Claire Lampen (The Cut) The Sublime Spectacle of Yoko Ono Disrupting the Beatles, Amanda Hess (New York Times)

What exactly are we doing when we're spending time online? Who profits from our presence there? And how has being on the internet changed the experience of being human?   Two high-profile writers who cover internet culture meditate on the experience of being human in the internet age. Social media has presented new phenomena—such as [...]Read More...

A year into the Trump Administration, thousands continue to take to the streets but has the press lost interest? This week we look at the nature of protest in an era of never-ending distraction. We also take a deep dive into the world of right-wing conspiracies, as well as meme culture as a whole. Plus, we remember Ursula Le Guin, the monumental science fiction author who passed away earlier this week.  1. Will Sommer [@willsommer], author of of the Right Richter newsletter and editor at The Hill, on the latest right-wing conspiracies.  2. Amanda Hess [@amandahess], internet critic at the New York Times, on the dynamics and politics of meme culture. 3. Zeynep Tufekci [@zeynep], professor at the University of North Carolina, on coverage of protest movements like the Women's March. 4. David S. Meyer [@davidsmeyer1], sociology professor at the University of California at Irvine, on tropes and faults to look out for in coverage of protests.  5. Julie Phillips [@jcfphillips], biographer and critic, on the life and writings of author Ursula K. Le Guin.  Songs: Fallen Leaves by Marcos Ciscar Berotim by John Zorn Uluwati by John Zorn Tilliboyo by Kronos Quartet Love Theme from Spartacus by Yusef Lateef On the Media is supported by listeners like you. Support OTM by donating today (https://pledge.wnyc.org/support/otm). Follow our show on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook @onthemedia, and share your thoughts with us by emailing onthemedia@wnyc.org.

Amanda Hess is one of our favorite social critics. She writes for Slate and lately, well always, she's thinking about the depiction of women in mass media, including a statistical disparity between the performances of men and women on Jeopardy. Support the show: http://www.wnpr.org/donateSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.