Swinger University Podcast

Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comFeeling like the lifestyle doesn't light you up anymore? You're not alone—and this episode is for you.In this powerful conversation, Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University sit down with Kel from Expansive Connection to talk about what it really means when your desires evolve and swinging starts to feel... different.

Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comHave you ever had a night that changed everything?

Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comAre you curious about the swinger lifestyle but don't know where to start? This video is for you! We'll take you on a journey to unlock the secrets of this exciting and often misunderstood world, no experience required. From understanding what happens at parties to navigating the rules and etiquette, we'll cover it all. Whether you're a seasoned explorer or just curious about what goes on behind closed doors, this video will give you the confidence to take the first step into the swinger lifestyle. So, sit back, relax, and let's dive in! Support the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links:

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comWith the current political climate taking aim at diversity, equity, and inclusion... Is the swinger lifestyle in the crosshairs? Are decisions being made that will affect our community? In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Brett Chamberlain, Executive Director at OPEN—a nonprofit dedicated to advocating for polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and legal rights for non-monogamous individuals and families.Brett shares how OPEN is working to end stigma, change laws, and support non-monogamous communities through workplace advocacy, municipal protections, and visibility efforts. Learn about the challenges facing swingers, polyamorous individuals, and other ethically non-monogamous (ENM) people—and how you can get involved to make a difference.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comYou're in the moment—the music is sexy, the lighting is perfect, and your partner is ready. But suddenly… nothing happens. Your mind races, and the pressure builds. Sound familiar? You're not alone!In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction (ED) in the swinging lifestyle. We discuss the psychological and physiological causes of ED, the pressure to perform, and how new situations, alcohol, and sensory overload can contribute.More importantly, we share real solutions—from mindset shifts and relaxation techniques to pharmaceutical options and lifestyle changes—to help you stay confident and present in the moment. Whether you're new to swinging or a seasoned pro, this episode is packed with practical tips to overcome ED and enhance your playtime experience.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Alex Liu, the writer, director, and star of "A Sexplanation", a groundbreaking documentary that dives into sexual stigma, shame, and the lack of comprehensive sex education. Alex shares his journey from molecular biology to filmmaking, tackling taboos around sex, drugs, and identity. We explore how better conversations about consent, sexuality, and pleasure can reshape our understanding of intimacy. Episode Links:A Sexplanation Trailer: https://tr.ee/y1QeX_KNhMA Sexplanation Film: https://tr.ee/muGR_SxEepAlex's Links: https://linktr.ee/asexplanationHera Productions: https://www.herraproductions.com/aboutA Sexplanation Wiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Sexplanation Support the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links:

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, Phoebe and Ed dive into the surprising connection between alcohol, swinging, and health risks. Explore how the social and uninhibited nature of alcohol impacts swingers, from parties to resorts and cruises, and why it's everywhere in the lifestyle. Learn about alcohol's lesser-known classification as a carcinogen, its effects on health (like cancer risks and hormone disruptions), and how it can influence consent and decision-making in intimate situations. Discover tips for navigating swinger events sober, building confidence, and enhancing experiences without alcohol. Whether you're curious about cutting back or just exploring a healthier lifestyle within swinging, this episode is packed with insights, humor, and actionable advice to keep you informed and empowered. Support the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links:

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this episode of Swinger University, we take a deep dive into our first full-swap experience and address insightful listener questions about the psychological and emotional dynamics that come with breaking traditional boundaries. From the thrill of connection to the surprising emotions that emerged, we explore how our feelings evolved and the lessons we learned along the way. Whether you're curious about the lifestyle or reflecting on your own journey, this candid discussion will inspire and entertain. Tune in for honest conversations, personal growth, and a touch of humor!#SwingerUniversity #SwingingLifestyle #FullSwap #OpenRelationships #LifestyleJourney #EmotionalGrowth #SwingingCouples #Relationships #LifestylePodcast #Communication #PersonalGrowth onesmallchange Support the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links:

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comNavigate New Relationship Energy (NRE) – Without Breaking Your Marriage! | Swinger UniversityCan New Relationship Energy (NRE) bring excitement and passion to your life, or is it a risky road for your marriage? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore the highs and lows of NRE, offering science-backed insights and practical advice to help you enjoy the thrill of new connections without compromising your relationship.✨ What you'll learn:What NRE is and how it impacts your emotions and decisions.The hormonal chemistry behind NRE and its addictive allure.How to reintroduce novelty and passion into long-term relationships.Tips to navigate NRE safely while preserving trust and communication in your marriage.Discover how swinging can amplify connection, spark curiosity, and keep your relationship thriving—without crossing the line.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comDiscover the secrets to becoming the lover everyone dreams of with Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator and certified sexologist. In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe explore transformative topics like mindfulness in intimacy, the role of cannabis in enhancing connection, consent, STI prevention (including the dreaded HSV/Herpes), and expert tips for elevating your sex life. Whether you're looking to ignite passion in your relationships or expand your understanding of intimacy, this episode is packed with practical insights and advice. Tune in to this must-listen conversation and unlock your best sex life with guidance from a true expert!

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comHave you ever been confused about a couple's interest after a party or dinner? Well no more, you'll be masters at approaching, connecting & sealing the deal. In this episode, we dive into the art of reading signals and confidently navigating how to close the deal with new partners. Whether you're new or seasoned, you'll learn how to interpret subtle cues, handle ambiguous situations, and ensure you're always prepared for exciting possibilities. If you have ever struggled approaching a prospective date, you won't want to miss this episode!☝️Remember to: like, subscribe, comment, and share your thoughts!✏️This post contains affiliate links.#SwingerTips #LifestyleConfidence #RelationshipAdvice #SwingerPodcast #OpenRelationships #AdultEducation #SwingerUniversity Support the showOur Links:

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comAre terms like "DTF" or "friends with benefits" shaping the swinger lifestyle, or are they masking deeper dynamics? Are swinger just hiding behind the safety of the "friends" label? In this video, we explore the complexities of forming friendships within the lifestyle, discuss the challenges and stigmas tied to "DTF" and "FWB," and uncover how labels impact relationships. Whether you're navigating ENM, curious about swinging, or just seeking insight, this episode has something for everyone.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive into the nuances of "kissing and telling" within the swinger lifestyle. Explore the origins of this concept and how it contrasts between "vanilla" and lifestyle communities. We discuss social expectations, double standards, and when sharing experiences might actually serve a purpose—like building trust, creating safety, and helping others find compatible partners.Discover the fine line between healthy disclosure and TMI, and learn why "kissing and telling" in the swinger community is often more than gossip. Join us as we tackle questions like:Why might it be essential to share some details with trusted friends?How does sharing sexy stories strengthen bonds in the lifestyle?When should you stay silent to avoid unintended harm?Highlights:Origins & Social Standards: Why "kissing and telling" has been taboo since 1695.Swinger vs. Vanilla Perspectives: How relationship dynamics shape our views on privacy and openness.When to Share: Tips for safely navigating disclosure in tight-knit communities.Public Service Announcements: When sharing can prevent harm or protect others.Tune in to hear real-life examples and valuable advice to make informed choices in your relationships.Hashtags#SwingerLifestyle #KissAndTell #EthicalNonMonogamy #Swingers #RelationshipAdvice #SexPositive #SwingerPodcast #SwingerUniversityHighlight SummaryIntro to "Kissing and Telling" - Ed and Phoebe discuss how "kissing and telling" impacts social dynamics in both the vanilla and swinger worlds.History and Double Standards - An exploration of how society's double standards affect men and women differently.Boundaries in Sharing - Understanding when it's okay to share details and when it's best to keep things private.Why Sharing Matters in the Lifestyle - Reasons why sharing can help create safety, trust, and better experiences within the swinger community.Public Safety Concerns - Examples of when sharing information serves the greater good.Practical Tips for Disclosure - Best practices for ensuring your "kissing and telling" remains respectful and purposeful. Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comEver wondered what happens when swingers take their first big leap? In this episode, we dive into our unforgettable night at an Alice-in-Wonderland-themed swinger party hosted on a sprawling ranch, complete with a private theater, hot tub, and intimate encounters. Join us as we share the highs, the awkward moments, and the valuable lessons we learned about boundaries, trust, and safer sex practices in the lifestyle.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this powerful episode, we tackle a pressing issue: how segments of society attempt to impose their moral beliefs on others, particularly around the swinger lifestyle. From outdated adultery laws to neighborhood outcries over private parties, we explore the various ways sexual freedom is policed and judged by those who feel they must control others' choices. We also reflect on how societal repression impacts adult freedoms, and why swinging continues to spark controversy in communities. Whether you're in the lifestyle or just curious, this episode uncovers the root of societal judgment and the fight for personal freedom.Key topics discussed:How societal beliefs shape perceptions of swingingThe legal and moral judgments that impact swingersWhy people feel the need to control others' sexual behaviorAn outrageous story about a neighborhood's reaction to a private "Crock-Pot Party"How swingers deal with public scrutiny and judgmentIf you believe in personal freedom and the right to make your own adult choices, this episode is for you!Crockpot party:https://kdvr.com/news/local/sex-clubs-more-common-than-people-think-woman-in-the-lifestyle-says/amphttps://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2651270/amp/Swingers-party-ends-BRAWL-police-officers-wives.htmlhttps://www.denverpost.com/2014/01/03/colorado-swingers-spice-up-sex-life-at-squirrel-creek-lodge/ampAdultery laws: https://www.newsweek.com/map-shows-16-states-where-its-illegal-cheat-your-wife-1887307 Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into the unspoken truths about casual sex in the swinger community.

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, hosts Ed and Phoebe tackle the provocative idea that swingers are "rule breakers" in society's eyes. They explore how the swinger lifestyle challenges traditional norms around relationships and sexuality, pushing boundaries while maintaining a foundation of consent and respect. Listen in as they discuss the complexities of ethical non-monogamy, the misconceptions about the lifestyle (including other podcaster's opinions), and the evolving dynamics as non-swingers enter the scene. Whether you're experienced in the lifestyle or just curious, this episode offers valuable insights into what it truly means to live outside the box.Enjoyed the discussion? Give us a thumbs up, subscribe to Swinger University for more deep dives into the world of ethical non-monogamy, and hit the notification bell to stay updated with our latest episodes. Share this video to spread awareness and understanding of the swinger lifestyle!#SwingerLifestyle #EthicalNonMonogamy #RelationshipGoals #ConsentCulture #OpenRelationships #Swingers #NonMonogamy #SwingerUniversity Support the Show.Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy

Send us a text message. We can't reply to fan mail, but if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comMaximize Your Fun at Swinger Events with These 5 Essential Tips!

Send us a Text Message.Join Phoebe and Ed as they escape to the mountains for a candid discussion on the impact of social media on both regular and Swinger lives. This episode explores the addictive nature of social media, its effects on mental health, and how it shapes our self-esteem and body image. They also share personal stories and practical tips for a healthier balance, including alternatives for a more fulfilling swinging experience.Key Topics:The addictive nature of social media and dopamine releaseAnxiety, depression, and physical health issues linked to social mediaThe role of social media in the Swinger communitySeeking validation and its impact on self-esteemThe FOMO phenomenon and its effects on social interactionsReal-life connections vs. social media interactionsPractical tips for reducing social media usageNotable Moments:[00:45] Introduction by Phoebe and Ed[03:20] Effects of social media on mental health[07:10] Dopamine and addiction in social media[12:30] Validation and self-esteem issues[18:00] Personal anecdotes on body image[22:50] The downside of FOMO[27:30] Alternatives for better swinging experiencesSupport the Show.Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy

Join us in this exciting episode as we recount our mesmerizing catamaran cruise experience at Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica!

It's not all fun and games in paradise. Phoebe and I discuss the challenges of pool time when trying to connect and flirt when both partners aren't right next to each other... We try out the Italian restaurant, hit the spa, and dance our butts off at a glow party. We also discuss the challenges of how desire is fluid, so matching up with others can be tricky.00:00 - Start02:36 - Spa Services04:23 - Pool Time Issues06:50 - Italian Food07:48 - Glow Party!10:50 - How Desire ChangesSupport the Show.Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy

Continuing our in-depth review during our week in Hedonism 2 in Negril Jamaica. Phoebe and I dig into some of the excursions (some of them are free too!). We take a trip on a glass bottom boat looking for Nemo and his friends. We all take a dance class to learn some local Jamaican dances. Spend more time at the pool. We even give you a little comparison with the Bliss Cruises. Did you know you can take a plane from the airport and skip the bus ride to the resort? (Neither did I...)00:00 - Start01:46 - Glass Bottom Boat03:34 - Dance Class04:15 - Pool Time05:07 - Jamaica Night06:17 - Mini Hedo vs Cruise09:00 - Entertainment09:38 - The Two Hour Drive09:47 - The Plane?Support the Show.Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy

Welcome to another exciting episode reviewing Hedonism in Jamaica! Join us as we dive into our second day at the beautiful Hedo Beach resort. This episode is packed with unforgettable moments, including a fun-filled jungle photoshoot, lively poolside parties, and unique evening entertainment. Whether you're looking for a relaxing getaway or an adventurous escape, Hedonism has something for everyone. Don't miss out on our insider tips and experiences!Key Topics Covered:Jungle photoshoot opportunities at Hedo BeachPoolside entertainment and partiesEvening shows and themed eventsGuest interactions and unique experiencesTips for making the most of your stay at Hedo Beach00:00 - Start00:17 - Photo Opportunities01:40 - Pool Entertainment03:19 - Go with a Group?04:28 - Themes06:15 - Hedo Fund06:58 - Chocolate Bunnies07:53 - Entertainment Was HOT!08:32 - Bring Earplugs09:25 - Dance Party11:01 - The EXTRA Show12:03 - Nude Pool After HoursSupport the Show.Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy

Welcome to Jamaica! Join us for an in-depth look at our first visit to the infamous Hedo II resort. From the moment we arrived, we were captivated by the vibrant atmosphere, the welcoming crowd, and the array of activities that make this place truly unique. In this episode, we share our initial thoughts and tips for making the most of your stay, from travel logistics to packing advice. Whether you're curious about the food, the entertainment, or the overall vibe, we've got you covered. Don't miss out on our first-hand experiences and insider tips to help you plan your own adventure to Hedo II.Summary of Highlights:Travel Tips: Best ways to get to Hedo II from various locations, including pro tips for arrival and check-in.Resort Overview: First impressions of the resort's atmosphere, facilities, and maintenance.Food and Drink: Insights into the culinary offerings and the benefits of the all-inclusive alcohol service.Entertainment: A look at the nightly shows, live bands, and themed events.Insider Tips: Essential advice for first-time visitors to maximize their experience.Timestamps:0:00 - Intro and Welcome to Hedo II1:15 - Travel and Arrival Tips3:40 - First Impressions of the Resort5:20 - Food and Dining Options8:00 - All-Inclusive Drink Service10:15 - Nightly Entertainment and Shows12:30 - Final Thoughts and Insider TipsSupport the Show.Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy

Welcome to Swinger University with Ed and Phoebe! In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the often unspoken pitfalls of the swinging lifestyle. From dealing with the regrets and letdowns to navigating the complexities of consent under the influence of drugs and alcohol, we cover it all with honesty and humor.Discover why it's crucial to understand the darker aspects of ethical non-monogamy, and learn from our personal experiences to make better choices in your own journey. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights that you won't want to miss.Key Topics:- The reality of swinging beyond the glamour- The impact of drugs and alcohol on consent and experiences- The challenges of social dynamics in swinging parties- Strategies for safer and more enjoyable encounters- Personal stories and lessons learnedTimestamps:0:00 - Introduction2:15 - The unspoken challenges of swinging5:45 - Drugs, alcohol, and consent issues12:30 - Social pressures and personal regrets18:45 - The importance of moderation and awareness25:10 - Navigating social dynamics and dating in the lifestyle32:00 - The impact of environment and party settings39:20 - Personal stories and lessons learned Support the Show.Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy

Do you love your community and want more events?  Well, your beloved promoters may not be the event hosts you think they are.  We reveal the dirty secrets of the swinging business and how some think it's a zero-sum game. We discuss how some swinging businesses hurt swingers and our community because the drive for money takes priority over doing what's best for the community. Support the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy

Phoebe and I have a love-hate relationship with chat rooms. Sometimes chat groups suck! Listen in as we break down all the things we hate about swinger community chats and forums, and some of the reasons why we think you might like them. If you're in swinger chat groups, or want to be, you may want to check this episode out.Be sure to join our growing Patreon community, and gain access to behind-the-scenes, and extra-sexy content. https://patreon.com/SwingerUniversity Support the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy

If you've never been on a swinger cruise, adults-only cruise, or only been to resorts... you owe it to yourselves to go on a lifestyle cruise! What makes Bliss Cruises one of the best adult vacations you can experience? Tune in and find out!Interested in Booking Your Own Sexy Adventure at Sea?Choose from any of the cruises we have listed here to start your own sexy high-seas adventure. Enjoy all the amenities of a vanilla cruise with as much or as little swinger sparkles on top! Do as much or as little as you want, or whoever you can connect with (assuming consent of course!

It's been a while since you've heard from us... We've been producing our Patreon episodes this whole time, but not our regular episodes. https://patreon.com/swingeruniversityWonder what happened? Where we've been? What the future holds? Then you definitely want to listen to this episode. Support the Show.Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events: Promo Code *: SwingerU at checkoutMiami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024Senses - October 11-14, 2024Our Links: Patreon - Support us and get extra sexy content SwingLinks.club - Our Spicy

Welcome to Swinger University! In this episode, hosts Ed and Phoebe dive into the world of vulvas, challenging societal norms and embracing the diversity of colors and shapes. As vulvas gain more visibility, the Ed & Phoebe discuss the influence of media, including porn and social media, on shaping unrealistic standards. Join the conversation as they explore the reasons behind the pink vulva stereotype and the impact it has on individuals' confidence and self-perception.Discover the variety of colors that vulvas come in and the factors, from genetics to hormones, influencing their appearance. Ed, a seasoned swinger, shares insights on the diversity he has encountered in the lifestyle. The hosts address common concerns and insecurities, providing information on why labia may appear darker and the potential risks associated with attempting to alter their natural color.Uncover the truth about beauty standards and learn to love your body as it is. Ed and Phoebe discuss the importance of embracing uniqueness, challenging societal expectations, and appreciating the beauty of all vulvas, regardless of color or shape.Highlights:The Pink Standard: Explore the origins of the pink vulva standard and its prevalence in media, from porn to magazines.Diversity in the Lifestyle: Ed shares his experiences as a swinger, highlighting the range of vulva colors and shapes he has encountered.Factors Influencing Color: Learn about the various factors, including genetics, hormones, and age, that contribute to the coloration of the vulva.Insecurities and Social Media: Discuss the impact of social media on body image and the pressure to conform to unrealistic standards.Risks of Altering Appearance: Delve into the potential risks and dangers associated with using creams, chemicals, and surgeries to change vulva appearance.Natural Solutions: Explore safer alternatives, such as lifestyle changes and laser treatments, for those who wish to address concerns about vulva color.Self-Love and Acceptance: Emphasize the importance of loving and accepting your body as it is, challenging societal norms, and celebrating the uniqueness of every vulva. #LoveYourVulva #BodyPositivity #SwingerUniversity #EmbraceDiversity #SelfLove #swingerpodcast #Podcast #SexualHealth #EthicalNonMonogamy Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

Dive into the complexities of the swinging lifestyle as we explore the controversial topic of "Taking one for the team". How do you solve the four-way connection problem? In this eye-opening episode, we share personal experiences and survey insights from a wide spectrum of lifestylers, unraveling the intricacies of consent, boundaries, and the art of saying 'no' or 'yes' in the swinging community. Key Topics:Team 'No': Unyielding standards, the evolution of preferences, and the power of saying 'no' confidently.Team 'Yes': Embracing enthusiastic and lukewarm yeses, the beauty of diverse experiences, and the flexibility of boundaries.Keeping Score: The controversial practice of tallying encounters, the potential pitfalls, and ways to navigate this delicate territory.IOUs and Obligations: Exploring the thin line between consent and obligation, the impact on relationships, and the importance of open communication.Respect and Guilt: Unpacking feelings of resentment, guilt, and the role of respect in the self, relationships, and with play partners. Call-to-Action:Explore the nuances of the swinging lifestyle with us! Like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below. What are your experiences with Team 'No' and Team 'Yes'? Let's continue this conversation and build a community where open communication and respect thrive. #SwingingLifestyle #ConsentInSwinging #OpenCommunication #RelationshipAgreements #PodcastDiscussionSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

There's a less than glamorous side of the Swinger lifestyle. We explore 10 common challenges Swingers face, from juggling everyday life to dealing with rude people. Discover practical solutions to enhance your Swinger journey and ensure a smoother, more enjoyable experience.Highlights: Balancing "vanilla life" with Swinger adventures.Coping with career demands and unconventional work schedules.Managing hormonal fluctuations and periods in the Swinger world.Unprogramming social conditioning to embrace non-monogamous relationships.Adapting to changing desires and boundaries in your Swinger journey.Escaping the endless cycle of online profiles and connecting in real life.Handling disrespectful behavior and setting boundaries during play.Recognizing when it's time to take a break and reassess your Swinger journey. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode to spread the knowledge and join our Patreon community for exclusive content. For questions or comments, leave us a voicemail at 916-538-0482 or visit our website at SwingerUniversity.com to connect with us. Explore the world of ethical non-monogamy with Swinger University and get ready to conquer the challenges of the Swinger lifestyle!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

Welcome to our latest podcast episode where we delve into the intriguing world of Locktober, a unique and captivating chastity challenge! In this episode, we discuss this self-initiated kink with Mr. Red an author of erotic stories, and an active participant in Locktober. We discuss its fascinating impact on his relationship and his personal experiences. Join us as we explore the following topics: How Mr. Red got started in chastity and swingingStories from some of his experiences with the challengeThe mental and emotional aspects of chastityThe effect on intimacy and relationshipsExpert insights into the world of Locktober Whether you're a seasoned Locktober participant or merely curious about the concept, this episode promises to provide valuable insights and ignite engaging conversations. Our special guest, Mr. Red, shares his own experiences and valuable perspective on the Locktober challenge. If you're looking to gain a deeper understanding of this captivating journey or simply interested in hearing some intriguing tales, don't miss this episode of Swinger University! Like, subscribe, and hit that notification bell to stay updated with our latest content. Join us on this enlightening and exciting exploration of Locktober and discover what it truly means to embrace the challenge. Your key to unlocking this unique episode is just a click away!Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

Join Ed and Phoebe in this enlightening episode as they delve into the intriguing world of ethical non-monogamy, exploring the depths of gossip in the swinger lifestyle. Learn about the nuances of good and bad gossip, how to handle negativity and bullying, and discover the power of effective communication within the community.

As we've matured our body chemistry has changed. Do men need testosterone replacement therapy? Phoebe discussed some women's issues in a previous episode about hormone replacement for Women. Gentlemen, today it's your turn to get the low down on low Testosterone. OUTLINE:   I. Reasons:   I. Symptoms/Benefits:    I. Libido, body fat, muscle, mood, energy, bone density, and quality of erections   II. Testosterone's purpose    I. Hypogonadism    II. Less indication for "healthy" men    III. "May" prevent issues as we get older     II. Methods:   I. Pellets - painful, less fat, scars   II. Injections - less painful    I. 2 weeks - big dose, taper off over time, intramuscular    II. 1 week - less highs/lows, easier to remember, traditionally intramuscular    III. Daily - It's a routine, less painful, subcutaneous  III. Testing   I. If you have symptoms   II. Before for baseline   III. After a month or so to see your levels   IV. Annual testing once the dose is sorted out   V. It's complicated…  IV. Side effects   I. Acne, hair growth, sleep apnea   II. Increased risk of Heart attacks, stroke   III. Reduced sperm production   IV. Estrogen,     I. 0.3% converted    II. resulting in breast tissue, and prostate enlargement    III. Testing for estrogen    IV. Estrogen blocker - aromatase inhibitors (some doctors disagree with this approach)  V. Cautions   I. No long term testing - benefits / Risks   II. "For those who have low testosterone levels but no symptoms, treatment isn't recommended. It's also not recommended for those whose levels are low because of aging."Sources:https://youtu.be/GNCpG1fkMBA?t=5514 Testosterone calculator https://www.issam.ch/freetesto.htm  https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/sexual-health/in-depth/testosterone-therapy/art-20045728  https://www.webmd.com/men/guide/testosterone-replacement-therapy-is-it-right-for-youSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

In recent years, testosterone therapy for women has gained popularity, fueled by self-styled menopause specialists on social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram, as well as celebrity endorsements. The claims associated with this therapy are numerous, ranging from transforming libido to reducing brain fog, improving energy and mood, staving off dementia, enhancing bone strength, and maintaining muscle mass. However, it is essential to scrutinize these claims and evaluate the available scientific studies before considering testosterone therapy for women. OUTLINE: Media DominanceBenefit Claims: fog, mood, energy, dementia, bones, muscle Medical Studies on Claims  Women Exploited? Risks & Side Effects Testosterone Over A Woman's Lifespan  Where does Testosterone Come from? - Conversion Ovary Function - Menopause Reasons to Prescribe Clinical Trial Results 'T' Levels Don't Always Correlate With SymptomsReasons To Promote - Profit FOMO All our links: https://SwingLinks.club SOURCES:Full sources are available on our website...Is the Male Sex Hormone Putting Mid-Life Women at Risk?Testosterone for peri- and postmenopausal womenYen & Jaffe's Reproductive Endocrinology - Physiology, Pathophysiology, and Clinical ManagementAndrogen levels in adult females: changes with age, menopause, and oophorectomyGlobal Consensus Position Statement on the Use of Testosterone Therapy for WomenInternational Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health Clinical Practice Guideline for the Use of Systemic Testosterone for Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder in WomenSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

Menopause is a phase in a woman's life that brings about hormonal changes with potential effects on various aspects of health. These changes can impact skin tone, muscle mass, fat distribution, libido, mood swings, cholesterol levels, and the risk of heart disease. However, the historical narrative surrounding Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) has created misconceptions and fear, largely influenced by the miscommunication of the findings from the WHI study in 2002, which reported an increased risk of breast cancer among HRT users. This misrepresentation has persisted, limiting women's access to potentially beneficial treatment options. It is important to be cautious of false narratives propagated through social media and celebrities, seeking reliable information sources instead. Consulting healthcare professionals specializing in menopause, such as endocrinologists, is crucial when considering relief options. Additionally, careful research should be conducted before using vitamins and supplements marketed for menopause management. Hormone therapy is not a quick fix, requiring patience and informed guidance from knowledgeable healthcare providers. By navigating menopause with the right information and support, women can improve their overall well-being.ALL OUR LINKS: https://SwingLinks.club SOURCES:Check SwingerUniversity.com for all the links and sources.Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

Have you ever been playing with a new sexual partner and the condom slips off?  How was it communicated to you?  What was your reaction?  Can you come back from this?Instead of brushing it off as no big deal, we are going to reveal my process and outline it in our blog so it may help you address a similar situation or any situation that involves consent and violations of consent.  We are proof that you can preserve the relationship and friendship if you so desire.OUTLINE: What do you do when the condom slips off during play? Brush it off? Address it? Ghost the person?Who is at fault?User?Recipient?How does it happen?Dark roomSex positionOur story: Type of friendshipLength of friendshipThe situationLack of disclosureHow to have the conversation:Tell them what happened ahead of timeDon't blindside themExpress you aren't ready to talk about itSet a dateGives them time to process also Use the Consent Academy Process when Consent is BrokenSupport the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

We discovered some surprising reactions to the "NO Kissing" Rule from Swingers. Since kissing can make or break a swinging encounter find out how the "NO Kissing" rule is a hot-button in the swinger lifestyle.To shed light on the matter, we combed through a survey involving 386 individuals, and the results were nothing short of intriguing. We discovered a wide range of opinions, showcasing both the positive and negative aspects of kissing. So, if you'd like to understand more and have an inclusive attitude towards swingers who have this rule, we take you through the psychology, biology, cultural influences, and personal experiences surrounding kissing. Whether you're a passionate pucker-upper or someone who prefers to express affection through alternative means, join us on this hilarious and informative journey as we navigate the world of kissing with compassion, understanding, and a healthy dose of humor.Warning: Listening to this podcast may cause an irresistible urge to lock lips with someone nearby….or NOT! Kiss responsibly!"NO Kissing" Rule:Reasons and perspectives.Psychological factors, personal experiences, and misconceptions.Balancing boundaries and intimacy.The Impact of Kissing on Emotional Connection and Relationship Satisfaction:Emotional bonding and attachment.Oxytocin and neurochemical effects.Correlation and communication.Navigating Diverse Preferences and Negotiating Consent:Personal Boundaries and PreferencesNegotiating ConsentRespecting Others' Choices:Non-judgmental attitude and empathy.Conclusion Embracing Diversity and Personal FreedomNo universal approach.Respecting desires and choices.Nurturing Healthy Connections:Consent, communication, and respect.Emotional satisfaction.Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

It's the final days of this amazing trip. We wish you all could have joined us.Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

Chocolate, pool time fun, and midnight rendezvous. Just a few of the things that happened on the the fourth day. Come have a listen, and be sure to check out our Patreon episode for the really juicy details about our late night activities.Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

Day three of our Costa Rica takeover in Jaco, Costa Rica. Filming today in the central garden of the property. Pool games, pasties, and toy demos!Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

Pool day, with a side of bull riding, and Cocal Girls. It was a great start of a fun week with a bunch of lifestylers in the Costa Rican jungle.Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

Swinger University podcast resort takeover Day 1 Kick Off! We're here in Jaco Costa Rica, and about to get an entire week of fun, frolicking and fu... Well you get the idea.  #swingerpodcast #resorttakeover #swingervacation #costaricaSupport the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

In my 20's I was nervous about getting tattoos so I decided to get piercings instead. At the time getting a Prince Albert Piercing sounded like it would feel really good, so I went for it! Do I still stand by my decision?OUTLINE: What is a Prince Alert or PA?Genital piercingsDescribe the PAOrigin - Urban legends (chastity, hygiene) Most popular originBenefitsStimulation for both partnersCertain position work betterReverse PA for other positionsMileage may varyVisually appealing, if your into itRings and bent barbells for interesting looksWands - for sounding! Party trick - Happy to showPhoebe's experienceHealingPretty quick 2-4 weeks Sometimes longer (6-8)No sex while healingClean and care - talk to piercerI started with a 10 gauge, stretched to a 6 gaugeThicker jewelry usually migrates lessDownsidesSome partners don't even notice, or worse, it annoys themTeeth and jewelry painfulPainful to getNerve damageIncreased risk of infectionsCondom breakageIrritation of urethra and piercing siteUTIsRejectionJewelry collisions (ouch) and entanglementsEd's #1 - peeing is weirdAsk Your PiercerInterview them how long in businessReputation onlineShop conditions - cleanlinessGet their run down on CostHealingAfter careSize of jewelry to start withRecommended final sizeREFERENCES: How Does A Prince Albert Work?Prince Albert PiercingsSupport the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

We explore two intriguing topics: why the heck "cunt" is so controversial, and why women feel the need to shave their pubic hair to look like children down there!  So get ready for a deep dive as we shed some light on their history and cultural significance. SOURCESA Brief History Of The C-WordCultural History of Pubic HairHow Hair Removal Becam A Beauty StandardHistory of Sex & SexualityWhat's So Bad About the C-Word?When Did Women Start Shaving?The History of Female Hair RemovalSupport the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

In this episode, we explore the benefits of moaning during sex and foreplay. Moaning is a natural sound that can create a sense of intimacy and vulnerability between partners, transport us to a place of heightened sensory pleasure, and drop us into our core sexual energy. It's also a form of communication that tells your partner what feels good and what doesn't, resulting in a more pleasurable experience for both partners. However, faking a moan can set up miscommunication in the bedroom, so it's essential to own your moans and express your pleasure authentically. If you're feeling self-conscious about moaning, we provide some tips to help you gain confidence in your self-expression, including starting off with some mood lighting, talking to your partner ahead of time, incorporating different elements during foreplay, and practicing in front of the mirror. Tune in to discover how moaning can create a more pleasurable experience for both you and your partner.Sound = Important Role in LifeForm of communicationFaking = wrong road map!Tips for those feeling self-consciousSupport the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

Do you want to know how to turn your sex life around in 10 days?!  We talk to our very sexy guest, Layla London, from The Curious Girl Diaries who invites you as a voyeur into her diary of sexual encounters.  Layla also opens up about her past experiences with crappy encounters and offers valuable insights on how to turn things around and create great sexual experiences through a vetting process. You will also want to hear how we discuss shame in the lifestyle and the importance of addressing it a social setting.  Be sure to check out the time stamps below:Layla's Sex Party Experience [0:32:37]Phoebe Fingered it Out with a Woman [1:03:03]How to Address Being Shamed in a Social Setting [0:44:34] TAGS (Episode):  sexualfreedom sexpositive saynotoshame sexualconfidence swingeruniversity curiousdiaries sexualpotential normalizingsexuality enm cnm openrelationship GUEST LINKS:https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.comhttps://www.instagram.com/the_curiousgirldiaries/https://www.facebook.com/TheCuriousGirlLaylahttps://www.tumblr.com/blog/thecuriousgirl1https://twitter.com/thecurious_girl Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones

Compersion is learning to grow through other feelings, in order to get to that one. Join us as we speak with the actors and play writes from "Compersion". Nik and Mik use their autobiographical stories to create an intimate and steamy theatrical experience. "Compersion" is an adult-only play that celebrates a healthy lifestyle in ethical nonmonogamy, where the characters explore real-life scenarios and participate in erotic intimacy scenes. The guests get to enjoy a meet and greet with the cast and crew, and the  opportunity to participate in the play, making it a truly interactive and immersive experience. For those who are curious about swinging, "Compersion" provides a real-life look into what one might expect in a swinger event or encounter. GUEST BIO:Nikki began her performing career with a dance-in-education company touring Australia before further training at Broadway Dance Studios, New York. On her return she ran the company for another 10 years whilst appearing in theatre, film and television. She works as a youth theatre director, specializing in disability arts and ASD, and is a social advocate for cultural diversity and recidivism projects with theatre companies and local government organizations. Mik is a Doctor of cultural anthropology, an actor, award-winning director, published playwright, and has toured in the UK, USA and Australia. In 2016 he broadcast the first ‘livestream performance' from an Adelaide Fringe, based on his MPhil about an autistic theatre company for which he has presented findings at the Royal Anthropological Institute (UK). He is a freelance Creative Director for governments, commercial enterprises, and arts festivals, creating large-scale immersive art events.SHOW NOTES: About The Play The Concept - How it Began20 year Marriage - Getting Started - ExperiencesDeciding on ContentReal Sex? - Yes!Audience Participation/EngagementReciting Lines from the PlayTour DatesHow to Support - Patreon LINKS:Website:  www.steamyromantics.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SteamyRomanticsIG: @steamyromantics  https://www.instagram.com/steamyromantics/TW: @steamyromantics  https://twitter.com/steamyromantics Support the showOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones