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In this soul-stirring episode, Lora Cheadle reframes the pain of infidelity through the lens of one of the most iconic betrayal stories of all time: Jesus and Judas. Whether your betrayal came from a partner, your body, or society, this episode will show you how to transform it from tragedy into a catalyst for growth. Top Take-a-ways: Why betrayal is only the beginning of your story, not the end How revenge keeps you stuck—and how grace sets you free What crucifixion, resurrection, and spring rebirth all have in common with your healing A guided journaling practice to clarify who you are, what you deserve, and what you're here to create Free Resource: ✨ Download the Betrayal Recovery Guide – your first step to reclaiming your sparkle and re-choreographing your life.   About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic.   Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit: Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story Download your Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!    

You're Not Crazy! How to Reclaim Your Sanity After Betrayal Betrayal Recovery 101: What Every Woman Needs to Know – Part 4 Do you feel like you're losing your mind after discovering your partner's infidelity? Obsessive thoughts, emotional spirals, feeling unhinged—it's not you being “crazy,” it's your nervous system in trauma response. In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle unpacks why betrayal scrambles your brain, body, and spirit—and how to ground yourself again emotionally, somatically, spiritually, and legally. Through proven trauma recovery tools and her signature blend of deep wisdom and practical guidance, Lora shares how to interrupt obsessive thought loops, reclaim your clarity, and move from chaos to calm. Whether you're stuck in fix-it mode, frozen in fear, or spiraling into worthlessness, this episode is your step-by-step guide back to sanity and sovereignty. This isn't just about healing—it's about becoming the woman you were always meant to be. Top 3 Takeaways: You're Not Crazy—You're in Trauma. Betrayal activates your nervous system's survival mode: fight, flight, freeze, or fix. Your emotional overload is normal, but healing requires more than time—it requires intentional tools and support. Sanity Starts With Self-Connection. Use the 5-4-3-2-1 sensory method, deep pressure somatic grounding, and key journaling prompts to return to your body and truth. Ask yourself: What am I feeling? Whose voice is in my head? What do I know to be true? Legal & Spiritual Clarity Create Emotional Freedom. Practical steps like documenting information, understanding your legal rights, and avoiding reactionary decisions restore control. Spiritually, betrayal is an initiation—an invitation to rise, reclaim your worth, and live from your soul's truth. This is the last episode in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—be sure to subscribe so you can catch up on past episodes! Download your FREE Betrayal Recovery Guide now: betrayalrecoveryguide.com Subscribe, Rate & Review: If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend and leave a review—it helps other women find the support they need! Special Announcement! Don't miss Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

Do you feel like you're losing your mind after discovering your partner's infidelity? Obsessive thoughts, emotional spirals, feeling unhinged—it's not you being “crazy,” it's your nervous system in trauma response. In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle unpacks why betrayal scrambles your brain, body, and spirit—and how to ground yourself again emotionally, somatically, spiritually, and legally. Through proven trauma recovery tools and her signature blend of deep wisdom and practical guidance, Lora shares how to interrupt obsessive thought loops, reclaim your clarity, and move from chaos to calm. Whether you're stuck in fix-it mode, frozen in fear, or spiraling into worthlessness, this episode is your step-by-step guide back to sanity and sovereignty. This isn't just about healing—it's about becoming the woman you were always meant to be. Top 3 Takeaways: You're Not Crazy—You're in Trauma. Betrayal activates your nervous system's survival mode: fight, flight, freeze, or fix. Your emotional overload is normal, but healing requires more than time—it requires intentional tools and support. Sanity Starts With Self-Connection. Use the 5-4-3-2-1 sensory method, deep pressure somatic grounding, and key journaling prompts to return to your body and truth. Ask yourself: What am I feeling? Whose voice is in my head? What do I know to be true? Legal & Spiritual Clarity Create Emotional Freedom. Practical steps like documenting information, understanding your legal rights, and avoiding reactionary decisions restore control. Spiritually, betrayal is an initiation—an invitation to rise, reclaim your worth, and live from your soul's truth. This is the last episode in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—be sure to subscribe so you can catch up on past episodes!   Check out this FREE workshop on Overcoming Obsessive Thoughts: https://youtu.be/MwUjcDidWOU?feature=shared  

From Chaos to Clarity: The 5-Step Betrayal Recovery Roadmap Betrayal Recovery 101: What Every Woman Needs to Know – Part 3 Feeling lost after infidelity? In this powerful episode, betrayal recovery coach and attorney Lora Cheadle outlines a five-step roadmap to help women move from chaos to clarity after partner betrayal. Lora breaks down exactly why traditional healing methods often fail and shows you how to rebuild your life—your way. Learn to create a personalized healing plan that actually works, reclaim your identity, and ignite a future filled with joy, purpose, and power.  Top Takeaways: Sort Your Stuff: Betrayal isn't one wound—it's many. Categorize your pain to stop feeling “broken” and start healing strategically. Personalized Recovery Plan: One-size-fits-all programs don't work. You need a custom plan based on your unique history, values, and goals. Plan Your Work & Work Your Plan: Accountability and emotional preparedness are key—healing isn't linear, and derailments are normal. Reclaim What Was Lost: Infidelity often follows years of self-betrayal. Reconnect to your joy, power, and purpose. Fuel Your Future: Apply what you've learned and practiced so you can live fully, speak boldly, and trust yourself again. This is the third episode in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—be sure to subscribe so you don't miss Part 4 Download your FREE Betrayal Recovery Guide now: betrayalrecoveryguide.com Subscribe, Rate & Review: If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend and leave a review—it helps other women find the support they need! Special Announcement! Don't miss Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

Feeling lost after infidelity? In this powerful episode, betrayal recovery coach and attorney Lora Cheadle outlines a five-step roadmap to help women move from chaos to clarity after partner betrayal. Lora breaks down exactly why traditional healing methods often fail and shows you how to rebuild your life—your way. Learn to create a personalized healing plan that actually works, reclaim your identity, and ignite a future filled with joy, purpose, and power.

The Truth About Healing – Why Time Alone Won't Fix Betrayal Trauma Podcast Title: Betrayal Recovery 101: What Every Woman Needs to Know – Part 2 You've heard the saying, time heals all wounds—but when it comes to betrayal trauma, that couldn't be further from the truth. If you're waiting for time to magically fix the devastation, the triggers, and the self-doubt, you'll stay stuck. In this eye-opening episode, betrayal recovery coach Lora Cheadle exposes the myths about healing after infidelity and explains why waiting, numbing out, or ignoring the pain won't work. Instead, she shares the exact tools and strategies to take control of your recovery, rebuild your confidence, and step into your power NOW. Top Takeaways: Why betrayal is NOT a relationship crisis—it's a full-body trauma The biggest mistake most betrayed women make (and how to avoid it) Why traditional therapy often fails in betrayal recovery—and what to do instead The difference between coping and true healing (Hint: Most women get stuck in coping!) How to break the toxic cycle of waiting—for closure, for change, for him to wake up The 4 long-term recovery strategies to reclaim your identity and rebuild your self-worth This is the second episode in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—be sure to subscribe so you don't miss Part 3!  Download your FREE Betrayal Recovery Guide now: betrayalrecoveryguide.com  Subscribe, Rate & Review: If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend and leave a review—it helps other women find the support they need! Special Announcement! Don't miss Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

The First 30 Days: What to Do When You Discover Betrayal Podcast Series: Betrayal Recovery 101: What Every Woman Needs to Know – Part 1 The first 30 days after discovering infidelity feel like an emotional tsunami—shock, rage, grief, and an overwhelming sense of uncertainty. But what you do (and don't do) during this time can set the foundation for your healing journey. In this power-packed episode, betrayal recovery coach and advocate Lora Cheadle walks you through the critical dos and don'ts of the first month post-discovery. Learn how to stabilize your emotions, avoid common mistakes that keep women stuck, and reclaim your personal power—without waiting for closure, clarity, or your partner to change. Top Takeaways: What NOT to do in the first 30 days (including the #1 mistake most women make!) How to regulate your nervous system using somatic healing and hypnotic meditation Why legal and financial clarity is crucial—even if you don't plan on leaving How to reclaim your agency, set healthy boundaries, and start healing on your terms The powerful FLAUNT! framework to rediscover yourself beyond betrayal This episode is the first in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—so be sure to subscribe and tune in next week for Part 2! Download your FREE Betrayal Recovery Guide now: betrayalrecoveryguide.com Subscribe, Rate & Review: If this episode helped you, share it with a friend and leave a review! Your support helps other women find the strength and clarity they need. Ready to heal your body and mind after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today! Special Announcement! Don't miss Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

Betrayal Recovery 101: What Every Woman Needs to Know – Part 2 You've heard the saying, time heals all wounds—but when it comes to betrayal trauma, that couldn't be further from the truth. If you're waiting for time to magically fix the devastation, the triggers, and the self-doubt, you'll stay stuck. In this eye-opening episode, betrayal recovery coach Lora Cheadle exposes the myths about healing after infidelity and explains why waiting, numbing out, or ignoring the pain won't work. Instead, she shares the exact tools and strategies to take control of your recovery, rebuild your confidence, and step into your power NOW. Top Takeaways: Why betrayal is NOT a relationship crisis—it's a full-body trauma The biggest mistake most betrayed women make (and how to avoid it) Why traditional therapy often fails in betrayal recovery—and what to do instead The difference between coping and true healing (Hint: Most women get stuck in coping!) How to break the toxic cycle of waiting—for closure, for change, for him to wake up The 4 long-term recovery strategies to reclaim your identity and rebuild your self-worth This is the second episode in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—be sure to subscribe so you don't miss Part 3!

The first 30 days after discovering infidelity feel like an emotional tsunami—shock, rage, grief, and an overwhelming sense of uncertainty. But what you do (and don't do) during this time can set the foundation for your healing journey. In this power-packed episode, betrayal recovery coach and advocate Lora Cheadle walks you through the critical dos and don'ts of the first-month post-discovery. Learn how to stabilize your emotions, avoid common mistakes that keep women stuck, and reclaim your personal power—without waiting for closure, clarity, or your partner to change. Top Takeaways: What NOT to do in the first 30 days (including the #1 mistake most women make!) How to regulate your nervous system using somatic healing and hypnotic meditation Why legal and financial clarity is crucial—even if you don't plan on leaving How to reclaim your agency, set healthy boundaries, and start healing on your terms The powerful FLAUNT! framework to rediscover yourself beyond betrayal This episode is the first in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—so be sure to subscribe and tune in next week for Part 2! Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story Download your Betrayal Recovery Roadmap & Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!   Special Announcement!  Book Release Don't miss the release of Lora Cheadle's new book, “It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive,”. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. https://workplace-burnout.com/its-not-burnout-its-betrayal-5-tools-to-fuel-up-thrive/ Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com.   About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Let's connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week. Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love.   Special Offers from Our Sponsors! Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT   Are you ready to Rise, Reclaim, and Reign as the Queen of Your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it does not define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are more than capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy.   I'm here to walk beside you, giving you the perspective, permission, and proven tools to transform betrayal into your greatest awakening. Whether through one-on-one coaching or my on-demand Affair Recovery Programs, you'll gain the guidance and support to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter.   Your transformation starts now! Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com and visit www.LoraCheadle.com for even more resources and inspiration.   READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door!  Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!   International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help, 2021 Tattered Cover Bestseller, 2019 Have you spent your life playing by the rules, only to realize those rules weren't made for you? What if you could break free—from expectations, from betrayal, from the roles you were taught to play—and reclaim your true self? FLAUNT! is your guide to stripping away societal conditioning, healing from the heartbreak of betrayal, and rediscovering the fierce, confident woman you were born to be. With humor, wisdom, and powerful, actionable steps, Lora Cheadle empowers you to rise above the narratives that have confined you and boldly choreograph a life that is smart, sexy, spiritual, and uniquely your own. It's time to stop living for others and start living for you. Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold.   It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive  Burnout isn't just exhaustion—it's a betrayal of your time, energy, and trust. This essential guide redefines burnout, exposing its hidden roots and equipping individuals, teams, and leaders with five powerful tools to reclaim their passion, purpose, and well-being. If you're ready to break free from burnout and step into a life of clarity, confidence, and fulfillment, this book is your roadmap. Available now on Amazon. Download your free guide, BURNOUT UNCOVERED: Fostering Candid Conversations for Teams at www.ItsNotBurnoutItsBetrayal.com.   Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!  

From Burnout to Breakthrough: Emmy-Winner Natalie Tysdal on Reclaiming Health, Happiness & Purpose In this episode of Flaunt! Find Your Sparkle After Infidelity or Betrayal, Lora Cheadle interviews Emmy award-winning journalist and podcast host Natalie Tysdal about navigating life's biggest challenges, including career burnout, betrayal, and personal transformation. Natalie shares her journey of leaving a toxic career in television news to pursue meaningful work that aligns with her values. She discusses the importance of health—physical, emotional, and relational—and how women can prioritize their well-being while balancing life's demands. The conversation touches on the power of stillness, habits, and surrounding yourself with supportive, trustworthy people. Top 3 Takeaways: The Three-Question Test for Change If you're questioning whether to stay in a job, relationship, or situation, ask yourself: Am I happy? (Do I feel joy and fulfillment?) Am I proud of what I'm doing? (Does it align with my values?) Am I challenged in a healthy way? (Is it helping me grow?) If the answer to any of these is "no," it may be time for a change. Reframe Your Perspective with "I Get To" Instead of "I Have To" Shifting from "I have to exercise" to "I get to move my body" transforms obligations into privileges. This mindset shift fosters gratitude, joy, and motivation for self-care and personal growth. Create Stillness & Build Healthy Habits Through Habit Stacking Finding moments of stillness is essential for clarity and well-being, but it's challenging in a busy life. Use habit stacking to build new positive habits by pairing them with existing ones (e.g., stretch while waiting for coffee to brew, meditate while brushing your teeth). Small, consistent changes lead to transformation over time. Tune in weekly for insights, expert interviews, and real-world tools to help you rise, reign, and reclaim your worth. Ready to heal your body and mind after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today! Special Announcement! Don't miss Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

In this episode of Flaunt! Find Your Sparkle After Infidelity or Betrayal, Lora Cheadle interviews Emmy award-winning journalist and podcast host Natalie Tysdal about navigating life's biggest challenges, including career burnout, betrayal, and personal transformation. Natalie shares her journey of leaving a toxic career in television news to pursue meaningful work that aligns with her values. She discusses the importance of health—physical, emotional, and relational—and how women can prioritize their well-being while balancing life's demands. The conversation touches on the power of stillness, habits, and surrounding yourself with supportive, trustworthy people. Top 3 Takeaways: The Three-Question Test for Change If you're questioning whether to stay in a job, relationship, or situation, ask yourself: Am I happy? (Do I feel joy and fulfillment?) Am I proud of what I'm doing? (Does it align with my values?) Am I challenged in a healthy way? (Is it helping me grow?) If the answer to any of these is “no,” it may be time for a change. Reframe Your Perspective with “I Get To” Instead of “I Have To” Shifting from “I have to exercise” to “I get to move my body” transforms obligations into privileges. This mindset shift fosters gratitude, joy, and motivation for self-care and personal growth. Create Stillness & Build Healthy Habits Through Habit Stacking Finding moments of stillness is essential for clarity and well-being, but it's challenging in a busy life. Use habit stacking to build new positive habits by pairing them with existing ones (e.g., stretch while waiting for coffee to brew, meditate while brushing your teeth). Small, consistent changes lead to transformation over time. Tune in weekly for insights, expert interviews, and real-world tools to help you rise, reign, and reclaim your worth. Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story Download your Betrayal Recovery Roadmap & Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today! About Natalie Tysdal: Natalie Tysdal loves helping people find ways to improve their lives. Shew is an expert in getting to the truth and finding the right resources to help people become all they are meant to be. She is an Emmy Award-winning news anchor, producer, and reporter with a 28-year legacy in broadcast journalism. Known for her journalistic integrity and engaging storytelling, Natalie has built a trusted reputation as a dynamic voice in media. As a mom of three, Natalie blends her professional expertise with personal experience, making her relatable and inspiring to audiences. She is the host of The Natalie Tysdal Podcast, where she explores topics at the heart of everyday life—health, family, and faith. Through her media company, Natalie extends her passion for communication to support businesses with marketing strategies, crisis communications, and podcast coaching and development. Whether on-screen, behind the scenes, or working with brands, Natalie's mission is to create impactful connections and meaningful conversation. Special Announcement!  Book Release Don't miss the release of Lora Cheadle's new book, “It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive,”. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. https://workplace-burnout.com/its-not-burnout-its-betrayal-5-tools-to-fuel-up-thrive/ Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Let's connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week. Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love. Special Offers from Our Sponsors! Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT Are you ready to Rise, Reclaim, and Reign as the Queen of Your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it does not define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are more than capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy. I'm here to walk beside you, giving you the perspective, permission, and proven tools to transform betrayal into your greatest awakening. Whether through one-on-one coaching or my on-demand Affair Recovery Programs, you'll gain the guidance and support to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter. Your transformation starts now! Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com and visit www.LoraCheadle.com for even more resources and inspiration. READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door!  Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!  

Invest in Yourself: The Key to Thriving After Betrayal & Divorce With Tracy Coenen Women often put everyone else first—until betrayal forces them to rethink everything. In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle and forensic accountant Tracy Coenen break down why investing in yourself isn't just necessary—it's critical for financial security, emotional well-being, and reclaiming your power after infidelity or divorce. From finding hidden assets to making empowered financial choices, this episode is packed with insights to help you confidently navigate this transition. Top 3 Takeaways: You only get one shot at a fair divorce settlement – learn how to advocate for yourself and make informed decisions. Most women feel financially overwhelmed – but simple steps (like getting account statements) can empower you. Investing in expert support saves money & stress – discover why strategic financial and emotional investments pay off big time. Tune in weekly for insights, expert interviews, and real-world tools to help you rise, reign, and reclaim your worth. Ready to heal your body and mind after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today! About Tracy Coenen: TRACY'S MISSION IS TO HELP WOMEN GET BETTER FINANCIAL OUTCOMES IN THEIR DIVORCES Tracy Coenen is a nationally recognized CPA and forensic accountant. She focuses on finding hidden money in divorce cases and teaches women how to understand their finances so they can get better divorce settlements. Tracy's work has been featured on CNBC, CBS, FOX, ABC, and NBC, as well as in Forbes, The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and The Washington Post. Tracy shows you how to get the right financial information so you can be confident in your knowledge and fight for the money you deserve in your divorce. Download your FREE Divorce Money Guide at: https://divorcemoneyguide.com/ Special Announcement! Don't miss Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

Women often put everyone else first—until betrayal forces them to rethink everything. In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle and forensic accountant Tracy Coenen break down why investing in yourself isn't just necessary—it's critical for financial security, emotional well-being, and reclaiming your power after infidelity or divorce. From finding hidden assets to making empowered financial choices, this episode is packed with insights to help you confidently navigate this transition. Top 3 Takeaways: You only get one shot at a fair divorce settlement – learn how to advocate for yourself and make informed decisions. Most women feel financially overwhelmed – but simple steps (like getting account statements) can empower you. Investing in expert support saves money & stress – discover why strategic financial and emotional investments pay off big time. Tune in weekly for insights, expert interviews, and real-world tools to help you rise, reign, and reclaim your worth.  

From Betrayed to Connected: Reclaiming Your Voice, Power & Relationships With Terry Real After infidelity, you don't just want to survive, you want to reclaim yourself, maybe your relationship, and thrive. Join Lora Cheadle, infidelity recovery advocate, and believer that women do not need to stuck in the devastation of betrayal forever, alongside renowned relationship therapist Terry Real, as they challenge misconceptions, cut through the noise, and help you take back your power. In this episode, Terry Real breaks down why traditional therapy often fails betrayed partners, the difference between individual and relational empowerment, and how to advocate for yourself without getting stuck in blame or resentment. Whether you're staying or leaving, you'll learn to transform your pain into a catalyst for joy, confidence, and the life you truly deserve. Top 3 Takeaways: Infidelity is a trauma, not a failure. Your pain is real, and healing starts with acknowledging the depth of your experience. Healing is about transformation, not just survival. The goal isn't returning to what was—it's creating something better, whether with or without your partner. Empowerment is relational, not individual. True healing comes when you reclaim your voice, set boundaries, and cultivate relationships that support your growth. Tune in weekly for insights, expert interviews, and real-world tools to help you rise, reign, and reclaim your worth. Ready to heal your body and mind after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today! About Terry Real: The author of four books, including the recent New York Times bestseller Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship, Terry knows how to lead people on a step-by-step journey to greater intimacy and personal fulfillment.   His revolutionary approach to couples therapy, Relational Life Therapy, underpins all his books, courses, and teachings. RLT equips people with the powerful relational skills they need to make love work and cultivate authentic connections—to themselves, each other, and the planet as a whole. A former senior faculty member of the Family Institute of Cambridge in Massachusetts and a retired Clinical Fellow of the Meadows Institute in Arizona, Terry has worked with thousands of individuals, couples, and fellow therapists. His extraordinary ability to save couples on the brink of divorce garnered Terry the reputation of “the turnaround guy,” and demand from other therapists to learn his RLT method skyrocketed.   To bring the remarkable results of RLT to as many people as possible, Terry established his Relational Life Institute. To date, thousands of mental health practitioners have benefited from a whole new perspective on couples therapy that has transformed their clients, their practice, and their own relationships.  Perhaps you're looking for guidance on how to restore closeness in your relationship, or maybe you're currently single but looking to learn the skills to build healthier connections. Either way, you're in the right place. Here, you'll find a wealth of resources—from free resources to online courses, all designed to help you forge healthy, fulfilling relationships that last a lifetime.  Special Announcement! Don't miss Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

After infidelity, you don't just want to survive—you want to reclaim yourself, maybe your relationship, and thrive. Join Lora Cheadle, infidelity recovery advocate, and believer that women do not need to stuck in the devastation of betrayal forever, alongside renowned relationship therapist Terry Real, as they challenge misconceptions, cut through the noise, and help you take back your power. In this episode, Terry Real breaks down why traditional therapy often fails betrayed partners, the difference between individual and relational empowerment, and how to advocate for yourself without getting stuck in blame or resentment. Whether you're staying or leaving, you'll learn to transform your pain into a catalyst for joy, confidence, and the life you truly deserve. Top 3 Takeaways: Infidelity is a trauma, not a failure. Your pain is real, and healing starts with acknowledging the depth of your experience. Healing is about transformation, not just survival. The goal isn't returning to what was—it's creating something better, whether with or without your partner. Empowerment is relational, not individual. True healing comes when you reclaim your voice, set boundaries, and cultivate relationships that support your growth. Tune in weekly for insights, expert interviews, and real-world tools to help you rise, reign, and reclaim your worth.  

The Chemistry of Love: Healing Betrayal & Reigniting Desire with Dr. John Gray Can science explain the breakdown of relationships after betrayal—and the path to rebuilding love? In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle sits down with Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, to uncover the biological and emotional dynamics that shape relationships. Dr. Gray reveals the hidden role of hormones in attraction, trust, and intimacy, explaining why betrayal impacts men and women differently. He shares actionable biohacks to restore connection, reignite passion, and help couples move from survival to sovereignty in their relationships. Whether you're recovering from infidelity or simply looking to strengthen your partnership, this episode is packed with science-backed strategies to create lasting love. Top 3 Takeaways: Why men and women experience betrayal differently – and how hormonal imbalances fuel emotional disconnection. The surprising power of small acts – how daily, five-minute gestures can rebuild trust and intimacy. How to ‘biohack' your relationship – simple techniques to increase testosterone in men and estrogen in women for greater love and desire. Ready to heal your body and mind after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today! About John Gray: John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter century. In hardcover, it was the #1 bestselling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller. Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness and romance. His many books, blogs and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. An advocate of health and optimal brain function, he also provides natural solutions for overcoming depression, anxiety and stress to support increased energy, libido, hormonal balance and better sleep. He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters. John Gray lives in Northern California, where for 34 years he happily shared his life with his beautiful wife, Bonnie, until her passing in 2018. They have three grown daughters and four grandchildren. He is an avid follower of his own health and relationship advice. Special Announcement! Don't miss Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

Can science explain the breakdown of relationships after betrayal—and the path to rebuilding love? In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle sits down with Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, to uncover the biological and emotional dynamics that shape relationships. Dr. Gray reveals the hidden role of hormones in attraction, trust, and intimacy, explaining why betrayal impacts men and women differently. He shares actionable biohacks to restore connection, reignite passion, and help couples move from survival to sovereignty in their relationships. Whether you're recovering from infidelity or simply looking to strengthen your partnership, this episode is packed with science-backed strategies to create lasting love. Top 3 Takeaways:   Why men and women experience betrayal differently – and how hormonal imbalances fuel emotional disconnection. The surprising power of small acts – how daily, five-minute gestures can rebuild trust and intimacy. How to ‘biohack' your relationship – simple techniques to increase testosterone in men and estrogen in women for greater love and desire.  

How to Stop Self-Sabotage & Reclaim Your Power when Your Partner Won't Change -with Dr. Ray Doktor In this episode, Lora Cheadle welcomes Dr. Ray Doktor, a life and relationship coach, to explore the deep emotional work required to heal from betrayal. Together, they unpack why men often struggle to express emotions, how women can stop waiting for a partner's “potential,” and the self-sabotaging patterns that keep people stuck. Top 3 Takeaways: Healing Starts with You – Infidelity shakes your sense of self, but recovery begins by turning inward and rebuilding your relationship with yourself. Wishful Thinking vs. Reality – Many women hold onto their partner's “potential,” but true healing comes from accepting who they really are, not who you wish they could be. Men and Emotional Avoidance – Many men avoid deep emotional work, opting for quick-fix pleasure (cheating, drinking, distractions) over true healing. A thriving relationship requires both partners to grow together. Bio: Ray Doktor, Psy. D. works as a modern day relationship & rapid breakthrough coach. For the last 25 years, he's successfully helped over 6k clients breakthrough limited beliefs and challenges to have better relationships, improved family life, and more success! A pioneer in the field of bridging psychology and Eastern philosophies to technologies, science, and spirituality, Dr. Ray has conducted workshops in the United States, Netherlands, Brazil, and England. He shared the same stages with Marianne Williamson, Bruce Lipton, John Gray, and Eckhart Tolle. Dr. Ray received his doctoral degree in clinical psychology, earned a master's degree in counseling psychology, and an undergraduate degree in human behavior. Other advanced training includes: hypnotherapy, Gestalt therapy, guided imagery, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), qigong, PSYCH-K, meditation, sound healing, and somatic experience. His most profound mentorship involved traveling the world and assisting renowned psychologist Dr. Morris Netherton–a pioneer in his field and colleague of Fritz Perls, Carl Rogers, and Norm Shealy. And yes, his real last name is Doktor. Everyone gets a laugh about it, so he is used to it. Ready to heal your body and mind after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today! Special Announcement! Don't miss Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER?  Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

Betrayal recovery coach Lora Cheadle is back on the show! She's flipping the script on burnout and explains why “it's not just stress—it's betrayal.” When expectations break, whether in your career, marriage, or personal life, the real damage isn't just exhaustion—it's the hit to your sense of self and your self-worth. So, Lora breaks down why burnout happens when broken expectations rupture your view of yourself or the world—and how to shift out of it. She also walks us through her FUEL UP burnout recovery method, designed to rebuild from the inside out. From finding your why to managing expectations, uncovering root causes, and yes, even using laughter to reset your nervous system, Lora offers a different way forward. You'll also hear: How to recognize when burnout is actually betrayal (3:56) Why expectation management is the missing piece in burnout recovery (5:28) Lora shares five tools to help you FUEL UP & Thrive (15:28) Learn more about Lora Cheadle: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Resources & Links: Unbreakable – the Divorce Recovery Retreat, Sedona, AZ in April 2025 Submit your questions here for possible inclusion in future Q&A podcast episodes Focused Strategy Sessions with Kate  Phoenix Rising: A Divorce Empowerment Collective Lora's website BurnoutOrBetrayal.com Lora on LinkedIn Lora on YouTube Lora on Instagram Lora on Facebook ================== DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY, COACH, OR THERAPIST IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. Episode link: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-311-its-not-burnout-its-betrayal-with-lora-cheadle-jd-cht/

Betrayal recovery coach Lora Cheadle is back on the show! She's flipping the script on burnout and explains why “it's not just stress—it's betrayal.” When expectations break, whether in your career, marriage, or personal life, the real damage isn't just exhaustion—it's the hit to your sense of self and your self-worth. So, Lora breaks down why burnout happens when broken expectations rupture your view of yourself or the world—and how to shift out of it. She also walks us through her FUEL UP burnout recovery method, designed to rebuild from the inside out. From finding your why to managing expectations, uncovering root causes, and yes, even using laughter to reset your nervous system, Lora offers a different way forward. You'll also hear: How to recognize when burnout is actually betrayal (3:56) Why expectation management is the missing piece in burnout recovery (5:28) Lora shares five tools to help you FUEL UP & Thrive (15:28) Learn more about Lora Cheadle: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Resources & Links: Unbreakable – the Divorce Recovery Retreat, Sedona, AZ in April 2025 Submit your questions here for possible inclusion in future Q&A podcast episodes Focused Strategy Sessions with Kate  Phoenix Rising: A Divorce Empowerment Collective Lora's website BurnoutOrBetrayal.com Lora on LinkedIn Lora on YouTube Lora on Instagram Lora on Facebook ================== DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY, COACH, OR THERAPIST IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. Episode link: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-311-its-not-burnout-its-betrayal-with-lora-cheadle-jd-cht/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Lora Cheadle welcomes Dr. Ray Doktor, a life and relationship coach, to explore the deep emotional work required to heal from betrayal. Together, they unpack why men often struggle to express emotions, how women can stop waiting for a partner's “potential,” and the self-sabotaging patterns that keep people stuck. Top 3 Takeaways: Healing Starts with You – Infidelity shakes your sense of self, but recovery begins by turning inward and rebuilding your relationship with yourself. Wishful Thinking vs. Reality – Many women hold onto their partner's “potential,” but true healing comes from accepting who they really are, not who you wish they could be. Men and Emotional Avoidance – Many men avoid deep emotional work, opting for quick-fix pleasure (cheating, drinking, distractions) over true healing. A thriving relationship requires both partners to grow together.  

The Body's Response to Betrayal: Why You Can't Sleep, Eat, or Think Clearly with Filipa Bellette Infidelity doesn't just affect your heart—it impacts your body, mind, and energy in profound ways. In this episode, betrayal recovery coach and somatic attachment therapist Lora Cheadle sits down with functional medicine expert Filipa Bellette to explore the connection between burnout, betrayal trauma, and body-based healing. Learn why chronic stress, exhaustion, and even autoimmune issues often accompany betrayal—and discover practical, science-backed tools to help you reclaim your health, energy, and emotional stability. Top 3 Takeaways: Betrayal Trauma & Burnout Are Linked – Many women mistake betrayal trauma for burnout, but the emotional devastation of infidelity triggers deep physiological responses that deplete your energy, gut health, and mental clarity. Your Body Holds the Key to Healing – If you feel exhausted, anxious, or stuck in obsessive thought loops, your dopamine levels and nervous system regulation may be the root cause. Learn how nutrition, functional medicine, and somatic healing can restore balance. You Can't Heal in a Toxic Environment – Whether staying or leaving, true recovery requires a supportive environment. Learn how to identify hidden stressors, rebuild your nervous system, and protect your health as you navigate infidelity recovery.  Ready to heal your body and mind after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today! About Filipa: Filipa Bellette  is Co-Founder of multi award-winning health practice Chris & Filly Functional Medicine - and author of Ending Body Burnout. She is an accredited Clinical Nutritionist, Functional Medicine Practitioner, Coach & Trauma Therapist. She is also a PhD Scholar & regularly featured in the media, such as the Today Show, nine.com.au, Forbes and Body+Soul. Together with her husband Chris Bellette, Filipa has worked with over 2,500+ burned-out clients in the past combined 25+ years. Their practice is best known for ending body burnout (for good!) in “busy” people with energy, mood & gut issues, with their ROOT-root-cause approach. They were awarded as the Tasmanian State Winner & National Finalist for the Telstra Best of Business Awards 2022, as well as Winner for the Australian Women's Small Business Champion Awards 2022. Filipa's own passion for helping “busy” people have more energy, productivity and connection, came from her own personal experience of body burnout, after juggling the demands of business, family, and her failing health. Website - www.chrisandfilly.fm  FaceBook - https://www.facebook.com/chrisandfilly  Instagram - @chrisandfilly_fm   LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/filipa-bellette-73339019/  Special Announcement! Don't miss Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

This episode is for you if you or someone around you is going through infidelity or an affair, we are here to help you or your loved ones expedite the healing journey.  And for that exact reason the special guest expert today Lora Cheadle, Lora is a betrayal recovery coach, legal consultant, bestselling author, international speaker, Tedx Speaker and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a life you love after infidelity or betrayal.    Connect with Lucy: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mslucyliu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mslucyliu Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/mslucyliu LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mslucyliu TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mslucyliu YouTube: https://youtube.com/@mslucyliu Website: https://www.lucyliucoaching.com Podcast: https://www.lucyliucoaching.com/podcast   Wanna double your confidence in 30 seconds?  Get the ultimate secret here: http://www.confidentandepic.com   Connect with Lora Cheadle https://loracheadle.com

Narcissism, Epigenetics & Breaking Family Patterns with Johanna Lynn Explore the intersection of betrayal recovery, inherited family trauma, and self-discovery in this powerful conversation with Lora Cheadle and Johanna Lynn. Together, they unpack how understanding the roots of inherited patterns can guide you toward freedom, healing, and thriving relationships. Top Three Takeaways: Inherited Trauma: Learn how epigenetics influences behavior and how family patterns are unconsciously passed down through generations—and how to break free. Healing Narcissistic Dynamics: Understand the roots of narcissistic tendencies and discover how compassion and boundaries can coexist in relationships. Somatic Awareness: Discover the importance of staying embodied, how your body holds wisdom beyond your mind, and how tuning into sensations can transform emotional healing. Resources Mentioned: Johanna Lynn's Website: Learn more about her work and epigenetics. It Didn't Start With You by Mark Wolynn: Essential reading on inherited family trauma. Free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit: Download at betrayalrecoveryguide.com. About Johanna: Johanna Lynn, founder of The Family Imprint Institute supports you to break free from the invisible patterns holding you back in love. With 18 years of diving deep into family dynamics, she reveals why we repeat painful relationship cycles and how to finally heal. Johanna's unique approach reveals the deeper “why” behind recurring challenges and transforms betrayal into an opportunity for profound personal growth. Special Announcement! Don't miss Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

Infidelity doesn't just affect your heart—it impacts your body, mind, and energy in profound ways. In this episode, betrayal recovery coach and somatic attachment therapist Lora Cheadle sits down with functional medicine expert Filipa Bellette to explore the connection between burnout, betrayal trauma, and body-based healing. Learn why chronic stress, exhaustion, and even autoimmune issues often accompany betrayal—and discover practical, science-backed tools to help you reclaim your health, energy, and emotional stability.   Top 3 Takeaways: Betrayal Trauma & Burnout Are Linked – Many women mistake betrayal trauma for burnout, but the emotional devastation of infidelity triggers deep physiological responses that deplete your energy, gut health, and mental clarity. Your Body Holds the Key to Healing – If you feel exhausted, anxious, or stuck in obsessive thought loops, your dopamine levels and nervous system regulation may be the root cause. Learn how nutrition, functional medicine, and somatic healing can restore balance. You Can't Heal in a Toxic Environment – Whether staying or leaving, true recovery requires a supportive environment. Learn how to identify hidden stressors, rebuild your nervous system, and protect your health as you navigate infidelity recovery.  

Understanding Trickle Truth: Navigating the Path to Full Disclosure After Infidelity -With Lora's Husband Shawn What is "Trickle Truth," and why does it often make the pain of infidelity worse? In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle is joined by her husband, Shawn, to dive into the gradual, often reluctant disclosure of details about an affair. While trickle truth may stem from fear, shame, or the misguided belief that withholding details will minimize harm, it frequently prolongs pain, erodes trust, and re-traumatizes the betrayed partner. Together, Lora and Shawn unpack the difficult yet essential process of uncovering the full truth after infidelity. They share actionable strategies to help couples move beyond betrayal and rebuild their relationship on a foundation of honesty, authenticity, and mutual growth. Top Takeaways Creating Sacred Spaces for Difficult Conversations: Lora and Shawn stress the importance of "sacred conversations"—safe, dedicated environments where couples can openly and vulnerably discuss tough truths without distractions. These intentional spaces foster clarity, compassion, and deeper understanding. The Journey Towards Authenticity and Healing: Lora and Shawn stress the importance of "sacred conversations"—safe, dedicated environments where couples can openly and vulnerably discuss tough truths without distractions. These intentional spaces foster clarity, compassion, and deeper understanding. Sound Insight and Guidance for both the Betrayer and the Betrayed: Whether you are the betrayed or the betrayer, this episode offers practical tools and emotional guidance to help you heal and rebuild. Lora and Shawn's heartfelt discussion provides hope, clarity, and strategies to turn pain into purpose and restore trust. Infidelity recovery is a difficult journey, but with the right tools and mindset, it can lead to personal transformation and a stronger, more authentic relationship. Tune in to this episode for real-life insights and actionable advice that will empower you to move forward with courage, honesty, and hope. Tune in and take the first step toward healing and creating a life you love after infidelity or betrayal. Let's get started! Special Announcement! Upcoming Book Release Don't miss the release of Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," on January 21st. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora's expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

Explore the intersection of betrayal recovery, inherited family trauma, and self-discovery in this powerful conversation with Lora Cheadle and Johanna Lynn. Together, they unpack how understanding the roots of inherited patterns can guide you toward freedom, healing, and thriving relationships. Top Three Takeaways: Inherited Trauma: Learn how epigenetics influences behavior and how family patterns are unconsciously passed down through generations—and how to break free. Healing Narcissistic Dynamics: Understand the roots of narcissistic tendencies and discover how compassion and boundaries can coexist in relationships. Somatic Awareness: Discover the importance of staying embodied, how your body holds wisdom beyond your mind, and how tuning into sensations can transform emotional healing. Resources Mentioned: Johanna Lynn's Website: Learn more about her work and epigenetics. It Didn't Start With You by Mark Wolynn: Essential reading on inherited family trauma. Free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit: Download at betrayalrecoveryguide.com. About Johanna: Johanna Lynn, founder of The Family Imprint Institute supports you to break free from the invisible patterns holding you back in love. With 18 years of diving deep into family dynamics, she reveals why we repeat painful relationship cycles and how to finally heal. Johanna's unique approach reveals the deeper “why” behind recurring challenges and transforms betrayal into an opportunity for profound personal growth.   About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic.   Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit: Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story Download your Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!    

Rethinking Infidelity: Recovery for Those Who Never Thought This Would Happen to Them Your Love Story Was Different. So Is Your Healing Infidelity shatters not just trust, but identity—especially for those who never thought it would happen to them. In this episode, Lora Cheadle unpacks the biggest myths about betrayal, validates why your story is unique, and shows you how to find true relief on your path to healing. If you've been stuck in pain, comparison, or disbelief, this episode is your invitation to shift from heartbreak to empowerment. Top 3 Takeaways: The Myth of Infidelity Recovery – Society tells us betrayal happens for predictable reasons, but in reality, cheating is rarely about you or your relationship. Understanding this is the first step to reclaiming your power. Why Your Healing Will Be Different – Your relationship was special—but not because betrayal shouldn't have happened. It's special because your healing journey is uniquely yours, and comparison only holds you back. The Power of Relief – Before deep healing begins, your body and energy must feel safe. Relief isn't weakness; it's the first energetic shift that moves you from survival mode into possibility. Listen now and reclaim your story! Special Announcement! Upcoming Book Release Don't miss the release of Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," on January 21st. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora's expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

What is "Trickle Truth," and why does it often make the pain of infidelity worse? In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle is joined by her husband, Shawn, to dive into the gradual, often reluctant disclosure of details about an affair. While trickle truth may stem from fear, shame, or the misguided belief that withholding details will minimize harm, it frequently prolongs pain, erodes trust, and re-traumatizes the betrayed partner. Together, Lora and Shawn unpack the difficult yet essential process of uncovering the full truth after infidelity. They share actionable strategies to help couples move beyond betrayal and rebuild their relationship on a foundation of honesty, authenticity, and mutual growth. Top Takeaways Creating Sacred Spaces for Difficult Conversations: Lora and Shawn stress the importance of "sacred conversations"—safe, dedicated environments where couples can openly and vulnerably discuss tough truths without distractions. These intentional spaces foster clarity, compassion, and deeper understanding. The Journey Towards Authenticity and Healing: Lora and Shawn stress the importance of "sacred conversations"—safe, dedicated environments where couples can openly and vulnerably discuss tough truths without distractions. These intentional spaces foster clarity, compassion, and deeper understanding. Sound Insight and Guidance for both the Betrayer and the Betrayed: Whether you are the betrayed or the betrayer, this episode offers practical tools and emotional guidance to help you heal and rebuild. Lora and Shawn's heartfelt discussion provides hope, clarity, and strategies to turn pain into purpose and restore trust. Infidelity recovery is a difficult journey, but with the right tools and mindset, it can lead to personal transformation and a stronger, more authentic relationship. Tune in to this episode for real-life insights and actionable advice that will empower you to move forward with courage, honesty, and hope. Tune in and take the first step toward healing and creating a life you love after infidelity or betrayal. Let's get started! Tags: Infidelity Recovery, Trickle Truth, Betrayal Healing, Relationship Advice, Vulnerability, Rebuilding Trust, Marriage After Betrayal, Authentic Relationships, Podcast for Betrayal Recovery, Lora Cheadle  

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Rethinking Infidelity: Recovery for Those Who Never Thought This Would Happen to Them Your Love Story Was Different. So Is Your Healing   Infidelity shatters not just trust, but identity—especially for those who never thought it would happen to them. In this episode, Lora Cheadle unpacks the biggest myths about betrayal, validates why your story is unique, and shows you how to find true relief on your path to healing. If you've been stuck in pain, comparison, or disbelief, this episode is your invitation to shift from heartbreak to empowerment. Top 3 Takeaways: The Myth of Infidelity Recovery – Society tells us betrayal happens for predictable reasons, but in reality, cheating is rarely about you or your relationship. Understanding this is the first step to reclaiming your power. Why Your Healing Will Be Different – Your relationship was special—but not because betrayal shouldn't have happened. It's special because your healing journey is uniquely yours, and comparison only holds you back. The Power of Relief – Before deep healing begins, your body and energy must feel safe. Relief isn't weakness; it's the first energetic shift that moves you from survival mode into possibility.

Resolutions vs. Goals After Betrayal: How to Commit to Personal Change & Achieve Results You Love Do you know the difference between resolutions and goals? Make 2025 the year that everything shifts for you. Discover how to set meaningful intentions, show up differently, and break down goals into manageable steps that lead to real transformation. Top Takeaways: Resolutions What they are, how to set them, and why they're especially powerful after experiencing infidelity and betrayal. Explore the importance of aligning your resolutions with your deeper intentions. Ask yourself: What is my intention for 2025? Goal Setting Learn how to break your resolutions into specific, actionable steps that are measurable and achievable. Uncover strategies to stay consistent and create lasting change through the synergy of goals and resolutions. Who Do You Want to Become in 2025? The way you spend your days is the way you spend your life. Envision the person you want to be and consciously design your daily habits, mindset, and choices to reflect that vision. Want More? Join Lora for a FREE Vision Board Workshop in late January! This workshop is free when you purchase and review a copy of her upcoming book, It's Not Burnout; It's Betrayal: 5 Steps to FUEL UP and Thrive, Available for Pre-Order on Amazon. Special Announcement! Upcoming Book Release Don't miss the release of Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," on January 21st. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. Stay Connected: Subscribe, like, and hit the notification bell for more episodes packed with tools to nurture your spirit and maintain your well-being. Join us in creating a balanced, joyful life beyond the chaos of the holiday season. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora's expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

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How to Handle Holiday Burnout & Relationships Strain Are you burned out after the holidays? Is your relationship feeling strained rather than renewed? In this episode we will take a deep dive into holiday and relationship burnout, giving you strategies and techniques to manage stress and strain and come back home to yourself. Top Takeaways: Expression & Release through Somatic Movement: Learn the profound importance of physically expressing and releasing pent-up emotions, just like a toddler's tantrum, to maintain emotional balance. Use somatic practices like rolling on the floor, running, or engaging in vigorous physical exercises to release trapped energy. Stress Relief Tools: Explore a variety of tools including journaling, mindfulness, and meditation to alleviate stress and enhance resilience during stressful times. Managing Relationship Burnout: Uncover strategies to tackle both holiday and relationship burnout by understanding emotional states, setting boundaries, and avoiding codependency. Special Announcement! Upcoming Book Release Don't miss the release of Lora Cheadle's new book, "It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive," on January 21st. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. Stay Connected: Subscribe, like, and hit the notification bell for more episodes packed with tools to nurture your spirit and maintain your well-being. Join us in creating a balanced, joyful life beyond the chaos of the holiday season. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora's expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

Do you know the difference between resolutions and goals? Make 2025 the year that everything shifts for you. Discover how to set meaningful intentions, show up differently, and break down goals into manageable steps that lead to real transformation. Top Takeaways: Resolutions What they are, how to set them, and why they're especially powerful after experiencing infidelity and betrayal. Explore the importance of aligning your resolutions with your deeper intentions. Ask yourself: What is my intention for 2025? Goal Setting Learn how to break your resolutions into specific, actionable steps that are measurable and achievable. Uncover strategies to stay consistent and create lasting change through the synergy of goals and resolutions. Who Do You Want to Become in 2025? The way you spend your days is the way you spend your life. Envision the person you want to be and consciously design your daily habits, mindset, and choices to reflect that vision. Want More? Join Lora for a FREE Vision Board Workshop in late January! This workshop is free when you purchase and review a copy of her upcoming book, It's Not Burnout; It's Betrayal: 5 Steps to FUEL UP and Thrive, Available for Pre-Order on Amazon..  

Are you burned out after the holidays? Is your relationship feeling strained rather than renewed? In this episode we will take a deep dive into holiday and relationship burnout, giving you strategies and techniques to manage stress and strain and come back home to yourself. Top Takeaways: Expression & Release through Somatic Movement: Learn the profound importance of physically expressing and releasing pent-up emotions, just like a toddler's tantrum, to maintain emotional balance. Use somatic practices like rolling on the floor, running, or engaging in vigorous physical exercises to release trapped energy. Stress Relief Tools: Explore a variety of tools including journaling, mindfulness, and meditation to alleviate stress and enhance resilience during stressful times. Managing Relationship Burnout: Uncover strategies to tackle both holiday and relationship burnout by understanding emotional states, setting boundaries, and avoiding codependency.  

How to Know If Your Partner Has Truly Changed After Infidelity – And How You Can Heal Too How Your Cheating Partner Really Changed? Here are some key indicators of growth: How do you know your partner won't cheat again? In this episode, we dive into what causes infidelity, and how to determine if your partner has changed. Next, we take some time for a little coaching and self-reflection, moving into what's possible for you after infidelity. Through personal growth, embodying the best version of yourself, and recognizing your partner's strides in emotional maturity and self-awareness, together, you can navigate the tumultuous path of healing. Remember, it's about consistent, observable changes and supporting each other's self-care and emotional expressions. Top Three Takeaways: How to Identify Genuine Change in a Partner: Growth is seen in consistent, small shifts—like improved emotional regulation, self-reflection, and the adoption of healthier coping mechanisms. Keeping track of past behaviors versus current progress is vital. Preventing Repeat Betrayal: While there are no guarantees, fostering emotional awareness and equipping partners with effective tools like therapy, communication, and mindfulness reduces the likelihood of relapse into maladaptive behaviors. Empowering Personal Transformation: Healing from betrayal is not about blame but about leveraging the experience as a catalyst for personal growth. Reflecting on what you want to stop, start, and become helps you rise into the highest version of yourself, reclaiming your life with strength and clarity. Four Coaching Questions to Ask Yourself: (You must listen for more details on these questions!) What do I want to stop? What do I want to start? Who do I want to become? How do I want to feel and show up? This podcast explores the complex journey of healing and transformation following betrayal, focusing on both partners' roles in rebuilding trust and evolving into their best selves. Don't forget to subscribe and share "FLAUNT!" so we can continue empowering each other to build lives we love. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora's expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

Why Am I not Over the Infidelity Yet? (and three tips for moving on) How often have you wondered why you aren't getting over the infidelity, or worried that you are “taking to long” to feel better? You are not alone if you have, and contrary to what you might think, you are exactly where you are supposed to be! The Four Reasons Why You Aren't Over the Infidelity Yet: You don't have a new narrative that makes sense of it all: Humans are meaning-making machines. Until we make sense of what happened, and create a narrative that makes sense, we will stay stuck in the trauma and drama of the situation. Worse, we live in a society that doesn't talk about infidelities, and the narratives that are out there don't usually fit our situation, leaving us feeling lost and confused. You haven't decided what you want yet: Making decisions is scary! Whether it's fear of judgment, fear of failure, or fear of success, making decisions requires us to publicly put our stake in the ground and claim what we want for all to see. It makes us vulnerable. It exposes us to others. But unless we decide what we want, we keep ourselves in a state of indecision, where we can't heal, we can't move on, and we can't' get over it. Which ironically, sometimes feels safer than making a decision and moving on. You are unwilling to let it go: What if you let it go? What happens then? Does it mean the marriage didn't mean as much as you wanted it to? Does it mean you made a mistake? Does it mean you have to grow up/shift/change in a way that you aren't quite ready to do? Does it mean you have to take responsibility for something you're not ready to own or to see? Maybe you don't want to let HIM off the hook and move on “too quickly” because you don't want to make things too “easy” for him and you'd rather punish him by showing him how miserable you are. Greif takes time. Rebuilding yourself, you life, your identity, and grieving the loss of who you thought your partner was, takes time. We all grieve on our own schedules. New grief has a tendency to open old wounds that perhaps, weren't completely healed. Infidelity raises mother wounds, father wounds, abandonment wounds, safety wounds, fears of being alone, or too old or too ugly, wounds of not being enough, wounds of insecurity, self-worth, you name it. You aren't over it, because you aren't over it, because there is a lot to move through and process. Give yourself grace and space and time. How to Come to Terms with What Happened: Plan your work and work your plan: Recovery doesn't just happen. Time heals a lot, but it won't heal this. Infidelity is too big and impacts you on too many levels. Make a list of the things you need help with, whether it's legal, financial, educational, or spiritual. What are the steps you need to do to make progress in each of those areas? Using the 4 areas above, what are the steps you need to do to get through each area? Where do you need support? Who can you ask for help? What else do you need? Own your strengths and focus on you: You are the only person you can control. When you stop focusing on others, stop wishing things were different, and start owning and using your strengths, you feel stronger and “get better” fast! Remember to FLAUNT! Facing any kind of trauma or upset causes us to shrink to protect ourselves. That's fine for the short-run, but don't let this new, compressed state become your new normal. Remember, you deserve to open back up again, to connect to your heart, your beauty, and your divine soul. FLAUNT! in an acronym that reminds you of what to do. So, always remember to FLAUNT! Join us as we uncover the profound journey of forgiveness, offering tools and insights to create a life filled with love and authenticity after betrayal. Don't forget to subscribe and share "FLAUNT!" so we can continue empowering each other to build lives we love. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora's expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

How Your Cheating Partner Really Changed? Here are some key indicators of growth: How do you know your partner won't cheat again? In this episode, we dive into what causes infidelity, and how to determine if your partner has changed. Next, we take some time for a little coaching and self-reflection, moving into what's possible for you after infidelity. Through personal growth, embodying the best version of yourself, and recognizing your partner's strides in emotional maturity and self-awareness, together, you can navigate the tumultuous path of healing. Remember, it's about consistent, observable changes and supporting each other's self-care and emotional expressions. Top Three Takeaways: How to Identify Genuine Change in a Partner: Growth is seen in consistent, small shifts—like improved emotional regulation, self-reflection, and the adoption of healthier coping mechanisms. Keeping track of past behaviors versus current progress is vital. Preventing Repeat Betrayal: While there are no guarantees, fostering emotional awareness and equipping partners with effective tools like therapy, communication, and mindfulness reduces the likelihood of relapse into maladaptive behaviors. Empowering Personal Transformation: Healing from betrayal is not about blame but about leveraging the experience as a catalyst for personal growth. Reflecting on what you want to stop, start, and become helps you rise into the highest version of yourself, reclaiming your life with strength and clarity. Four Coaching Questions to Ask Yourself: (You must listen for more details on these questions!) What do I want to stop? What do I want to start? Who do I want to become? How do I want to feel and show up? This podcast explores the complex journey of healing and transformation following betrayal, focusing on both partners' roles in rebuilding trust and evolving into their best selves. #FLAUNT #BetrayalRecovery #HealingAfterInfidelity #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalAwareness #HealthyRelationships #SelfCare #AuthenticLiving   Don't forget to subscribe and share "FLAUNT!" so we can continue empowering each other to build lives we love.   Lora's mission is to facilitate deep healing on energetic, soul, and ancestral levels, enabling women to restore their sense of self-worth and sovereignty. She offers numerous methods for support, including guided meditation, past life regression, and personal sessions. You can work with her individually or through a variety of online programs. Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com     About Lora Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, soul, and ancestral level so they can rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity, self-trust, and self-worth, and reign as the sovereign queens of their own life. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to turn devastation into a powerful invitation and initiation for healing, freedom, and joy. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book.  

How often have you wondered why you aren't getting over the infidelity or worried that you are “taking too long” to feel better? You are not alone if you have; contrary to what you might think, you are exactly where you are supposed to be!   The Four Reasons Why You Aren't Over the Infidelity Yet: You don't have a new narrative that makes sense of it all: Humans are meaning-making machines. Until we make sense of what happened and create a narrative that makes sense, we will stay stuck in the trauma and drama of the situation. Worse, we live in a society that doesn't talk about infidelities, and the narratives that are out there don't usually fit our situation, leaving us feeling lost and confused. You haven't decided what you want yet: Making decisions is scary! Whether it's fear of judgment, fear of failure, or fear of success, making decisions requires us to publicly put our stake in the ground and claim what we want for all to see. It makes us vulnerable. It exposes us to others. But unless we decide what we want, we keep ourselves in a state of indecision where we can't heal, we can't move on, and we can't get over it. Ironically, this sometimes feels safer than making a decision and moving on. You are unwilling to let it go: What if you let it go? What happens then? Does it mean the marriage didn't mean as much as you wanted it to? Does it mean you made a mistake? Does it mean you have to grow up/shift/change in a way that you aren't quite ready to do? Does it mean you have to take responsibility for something you're not ready to own or to see? Maybe you don't want to let HIM off the hook and move on “too quickly” because you don't want to make things too “easy” for him, and you'd rather punish him by showing him how miserable you are. Greif takes time. Rebuilding yourself, you life, your identity, and grieving the loss of who you thought your partner was, takes time. We all grieve on our own schedules. New grief has a tendency to open old wounds that perhaps, weren't completely healed. Infidelity raises mother wounds, father wounds, abandonment wounds, safety wounds, fears of being alone, or too old or too ugly, wounds of not being enough, wounds of insecurity, self-worth, you name it. You aren't over it, because you aren't over it, because there is a lot to move through and process. Give yourself grace and space and time. How to Come to Terms with What Happened: Plan your work and work your plan: Recovery doesn't just happen. Time heals a lot, but it won't heal this. Infidelity is too big and impacts you on too many levels. Make a list of the things you need help with, whether it's legal, financial, educational, or spiritual. What are the steps you need to do to make progress in each of those areas? Using the 4 areas above, what are the steps you need to do to get through each area? Where do you need support? Who can you ask for help? What else do you need? Own your strengths and focus on you: You are the only person you can control. When you stop focusing on others, stop wishing things were different, and start owning and using your strengths, you feel stronger and “get better” fast! Remember to FLAUNT! Facing any kind of trauma or upset causes us to shrink to protect ourselves. That's fine for the short-run, but don't let this new, compressed state become your new normal. Remember, you deserve to open back up again, to connect to your heart, your beauty, and your divine soul. FLAUNT! in an acronym that reminds you of what to do. So, always remember to FLAUNT! Join us as we uncover the profound journey of forgiveness, offering tools and insights to create a life filled with love and authenticity after betrayal. Don't forget to subscribe and share "FLAUNT!" so we can continue empowering each other to build lives we love.   Lora's mission is to facilitate deep healing on energetic, soul, and ancestral levels, enabling women to restore their sense of self-worth and sovereignty. She offers numerous methods for support, including guided meditation, past life regression, and personal sessions. You can work with her individually or through a variety of online programs. Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com     About Lora Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, soul, and ancestral level so they can rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity, self-trust, and self-worth, and reign as the sovereign queens of their own life. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to turn devastation into a powerful invitation and initiation for healing, freedom, and joy. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book.  

Forgiving After Betrayal: Accessing Unconditional Love for True Healing With Dara McKinley What role does forgiveness play in healing from infidelity and betrayal? Today's guest, Dara McKinley, sheds light on the dynamic and multifaceted process of forgiveness. Dara differentiates between pardoning and true forgiveness, describing forgiveness as the ability to enlist unconditional love amidst life's most trying moments. She emphasizes that forgiveness is the concluding step in a deep emotional journey, rather than an immediate solution to betrayal. Through practical and empathetic approaches, Dara helps us understand how feeling seen and acknowledging our emotions can facilitate genuine healing. Join us as we delve into the essence of forgiveness and the power of unconditional love, offering profound insights for moving forward after betrayal. Top Takeaways: 1. Forgiveness Isn't Instant: Forgiveness is a multi-layered process that unfolds over time, particularly in long-term relationships or enduring challenges. It's not about a quick fix but a gradual journey of emotional and spiritual work. 2. Emotions Need Movement: To maintain emotional health, feelings need to circulate like any system in our body. Recognizing and releasing emotions helps prevent emotional congestion and allows us to experience unconditional love. 3. Practical Spirituality: Dara emphasizes that spirituality should be practical and beneficial, reducing suffering and enhancing life. Her structured approach to forgiveness begins with an embodied experience of unconditional love and involves using the right brain to prioritize and apply it effectively. Join us as we uncover the profound journey of forgiveness, offering tools and insights to create a life filled with love and authenticity after betrayal. Don't forget to subscribe and share "FLAUNT!" so we can continue empowering each other to build lives we love. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora's expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

Vulnerability & Rebirth After Betrayal: Episode #4 of Egyptian Odyssey Post-infidelity, both you and your partner are on heightened alert. You feel threatened and insecure, but so does he. After all, the house of cards he built has come crashing down around him too. Egypt with you. Here's how to use the medicine of ancient wisdom to move safely yet powerfully into a state of vulnerability with our without your partner, so you can heal fully after your partner's affair. Top Three Takeaways: 1. The Power of Vulnerability: Visiting the Dendera Temple, often called the temple of vulnerability, opened my heart to the power of softness and release in transformation. While we often want to “dig in” and “work harder” to transform, sometimes it's by softening and embracing our vulnerability that we become stronger and more resilient, shedding our layers of defense and stepping into new, empowered versions of ourselves. 2. Mystery Enhances Understanding: Egypt is filled with mysteries, from the underground tunnels of the Serapum to the enigmatic Sphinx, with rain erosion that suggests it may be older than believed. But not knowing or understanding everything about these ancient monuments only enhances our enjoyment of them! Just as in life, we don't always need to understand everything. Imperfection and unknowing add richness to life and embracing the unknown can lead to greater self-acceptance and joy. 3. Unity and Connection With All: Inside the King's Chamber of the Giza Pyramid, I was reminded that unity with self, others, and the universe, is what matters most. The past is in the past, and the life of the eternal soul is what matters most. No matter what hardships you face, let the idea of unity be a powerful reminder that you are never alone on your journey. Join me as I recount these experiences and invite you to reflect on your own journey of healing and personal transformation after betrayal. Don't forget to subscribe and share FLAUNT! with your friends, so we can continue to empower each other to create lives filled with love, connection, and self-embrace. Until next time, always remember to FLAUNT! exactly who you are, because who you are is always more than enough! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora's expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

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What role does forgiveness play in healing from infidelity and betrayal? Today's guest, Dara McKinley, sheds light on the dynamic and multifaceted process of forgiveness. Dara differentiates between pardoning and true forgiveness, describing forgiveness as the ability to enlist unconditional love amidst life's most trying moments. She emphasizes that forgiveness is the concluding step in a deep emotional journey, rather than an immediate solution to betrayal. Through practical and empathetic approaches, Dara helps us understand how feeling seen and acknowledging our emotions can facilitate genuine healing. Join us as we delve into the essence of forgiveness and the power of unconditional love, offering profound insights for moving forward after betrayal.   Top Takeaways: Forgiveness Isn't Instant: Forgiveness is a multi-layered process that unfolds over time, particularly in long-term relationships or enduring challenges. It's not about a quick fix but a gradual journey of emotional and spiritual work. Emotions Need Movement: To maintain emotional health, feelings need to circulate like any system in our body. Recognizing and releasing emotions helps prevent emotional congestion and allows us to experience unconditional love. Practical Spirituality: Dara emphasizes that spirituality should be practical and beneficial, reducing suffering and enhancing life. Her structured approach to forgiveness begins with an embodied experience of unconditional love and involves using the right brain to prioritize and apply it effectively. Join us as we uncover the profound journey of forgiveness, offering tools and insights to create a life filled with love and authenticity after betrayal. Don't forget to subscribe and share “FLAUNT!” so we can continue empowering each other to build lives we love. Are you ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways. Work individually with Lora or complete her online Rise Up & Reign Affair Recovery Program in the privacy of your own home. Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com   About Dara Dara McKinley has studied and worked in the realm of spirituality and health for over three decades. In 2012, difficult life circumstances pointed her to forgiveness where she realized that many spoke prolifically about why one should forgive but no one spoke of how. Her background enabled her to successfully create and follow a forgiveness path that worked, but in the years that followed, the experience made her see some significant themes. In particular, she saw how mainstream forgiveness understanding (pardoning, ceasing anger, having compassion, and letting go) was obscuring the forgiveness path. She also saw that people who identified as spiritual-but-not-religious required a forgiveness path that was clear, and logical. This inspired Dara to devote her professional life to understanding forgiveness' infrastructure and to making forgiveness the practical healing modality it was always meant to be.   About Lora: Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora's expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com   Get Relief Now! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!   Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT   Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!   READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door!  Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!       Purchase Lora's book, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self on Amazon, IndieBound or wherever books are sold. Take the Lead in the Dance of Life, Strip out of the Past, and Choreograph Your Future Today!      

From Darkness to Light, Resurrecting Yourself After Betrayal- Egypt #3 In this third episode based on Lora's journey through Ancient Egypt, we'll explore the profound wisdom unearthed through the ancient temples and myths of Egyptian lore. Be prepared for a journey that intertwines personal growth, spiritual awakening, and the deep-seated power of choosing your personal resurrection and joy over the burden of betrayal. Top Three Takeaways from Today's Episode: 1. Choosing Joy and Play: Discover how to choose joy and lean into playfulness even when you're being faced with life's greatest hardships, such as recovering from infidelity. 2. Cultivating Personal Resurrection: Learn to cocreating your own resurrection and come back to life again after betrayal, inspired by my powerful experiences in the Luxor and Abydos Temples, facilitated by the energy of the goddess Sekhmet. 3. Unlocking Your Potential: Dive into the rituals and meditations centered around seven keys and doorways within an ancient temple in Karnak. Be inspired to unlock your own potential and consciousness, despite life's most challenging circumstances. If you're ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.  Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora's expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT  READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA25 for 25% off your order!

Post-infidelity, both you and your partner are on heightened alert. You feel threatened and insecure, but so does he. After all, the house of cards he built has come crashing down around him too. Egypt with you. Here's how to use the medicine of ancient wisdom to move safely yet powerfully into a state of vulnerability with our without your partner, so you can heal fully after your partner's affair. Top Three Takeaways: The Power of Vulnerability: Visiting the Dendera Temple, often called the temple of vulnerability, opened my heart to the power of softness and release in transformation. While we often want to “dig in” and “work harder” to transform, sometimes it's by softening and embracing our vulnerability that we become stronger and more resilient, shedding our layers of defense and stepping into new, empowered versions of ourselves. Mystery Enhances Understanding: Egypt is filled with mysteries, from the underground tunnels of the Serapum to the enigmatic Sphinx, with rain erosion that suggests it may be older than believed. But not knowing or understanding everything about these ancient monuments only enhances our enjoyment of them! Just as in life, we don't always need to understand everything. Imperfection and unknowing add richness to life and embracing the unknown can lead to greater self-acceptance and joy. Unity and Connection With All: Inside the King's Chamber of the Giza Pyramid, I was reminded that unity with self, others, and the universe, is what matters most. The past is in the past, and the life of the eternal soul is what matters most. No matter what hardships you face, let the idea of unity be a powerful reminder that you are never alone on your journey. Join me as I recount these experiences and invite you to reflect on your own journey of healing and personal transformation after betrayal. Don't forget to subscribe and share FLAUNT! with your friends, so we can continue to empower each other to create lives filled with love, connection, and self-embrace. Until next time, always remember to FLAUNT! exactly who you are, because who you are is always more than enough!   Lora's mission is to facilitate deep healing on energetic, soul, and ancestral levels, enabling women to restore their sense of self-worth and sovereignty. She offers numerous methods for support, including guided meditation, past life regression, and personal sessions. You can work with her individually or through a variety of online programs. Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com     About Lora Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, soul, and ancestral level so they can rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity, self-trust, and self-worth, and reign as the sovereign queens of their own life. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to turn devastation into a powerful invitation and initiation for healing, freedom, and joy. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book.  

In this third episode based on Lora's journey through Ancient Egypt, we'll explore the profound wisdom unearthed through the ancient temples and myths of Egyptian lore. Be prepared for a journey that intertwines personal growth, spiritual awakening, and the deep-seated power of choosing your personal resurrection and joy over the burden of betrayal. Top Three Takeaways from Today's Episode: Choosing Joy and Play: Discover how to choose joy and lean into playfulness even when you're being faced with life's greatest hardships, such as recovering from infidelity. Cultivating Personal Resurrection: Learn to cocreating your own resurrection and come back to life again after betrayal, inspired by my powerful experiences in the Luxor and Abydos Temples, facilitated by the energy of the goddess Sekhmet. Unlocking Your Potential: Dive into the rituals and meditations centered around seven keys and doorways within an ancient temple in Karnak. Be inspired to unlock your own potential and consciousness, despite life's most challenging circumstances. Lora's mission is to facilitate deep healing on energetic, soul, and ancestral levels, enabling women to restore their sense of self-worth and sovereignty. She offers numerous methods for support, including guided meditation, past life regression, and personal sessions. You can work with her individually or through a variety of online programs. Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com     About Lora Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, soul, and ancestral level so they can rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity, self-trust, and self-worth, and reign as the sovereign queens of their own life. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to turn devastation into a powerful invitation and initiation for healing, freedom, and joy. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book.  

In this episode, we unpack the beauty within, that oftentimes gets covered up and hidden. From the Valley of the Kings to Queen Hatshepsut's temple, Egypt's vast landscape was a reminder that what we see on the surface does not represent what's underneath, and what we are experiencing in our life at the moment, does not represent who we are or what our life can become. Top Takeaways: Healing From Within: Discover how historical sites like the Valley of the Kings can teach us that wisdom and treasure lies just below the surface. Healing after betrayal is often about reclaiming and uncovering what's already within us. Feminine & Masculine Balance: Learn from Queen Hatshepsut's remarkable reign about integrating both masculine and feminine strengths to become whole, with our without a partner. Spiritual Reflections: Healing isn't just a mental journey. Trusting the body's innate ability to process and release emotions is paramount. Whether through intuitive movement, singing, or dancing, integrating these practices can be powerful. Self-Advocacy: The journey to reclaiming self-worth includes asking for what you need—whether it's emotional support, therapy, or personal time. Join Lora for an Energetic Healing Session on November 15th at 11 AM PST, noon MST, 1 PM CST, 2:00PM EST designed specifically to explore and heal the roots of betrayal via Zoom for only $7! Learn more and sign up at www.stopselfbetrayal.com Are you ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways. Work individually with Lora or complete her online Rise Up & Reign Affair Recovery Program in the privacy of your own home. Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com About Lora: Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora's expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com Get Relief Now! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!   Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT   Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!   READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door!  Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!       Purchase Lora's book, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self on Amazon, IndieBound or wherever books are sold. Take the Lead in the Dance of Life, Strip out of the Past, and Choreograph Your Future Today!

Lora's recent trip to Egypt serves as the backdrop for this episode, where she delves into the spiritual and energetic dimensions of healing. The journey was not only a physical expedition but also an inward voyage, as Lora explored sacred sites and sought to reconnect with ancestral wisdom. The dual-purpose trip aimed at both personal transformation and the creation of a documentary, promising to share these powerful experiences with a broader audience. A pivotal part of Lora's journey involved the exploration of ZepTepi, a concept signifying the origin point. By reflecting on ZepTepi, she encourages listeners to consider their own origin points in life and betrayal. This reflective practice allows for a deeper understanding of personal histories and the steps needed for healing. Top Takeaways The Temple of Isis: Unveiling the Feminine Archetypes A visit to the Temple of Isis provided rich reflections on womanhood and the Divine Feminine. Lora described the roles of maiden, mother, and crone, underscoring how societal pressures often confine women to nurturing roles. Such roles, while valuable, can become limiting if women are prevented from evolving into their full potential. Emphasizing the crone phase, Lora encourages women to step into their wisdom and power, breaking free from the confines of perpetual service. This transition marks a reclamation of sovereignty, allowing women to embody their full, multifaceted selves. A Newborn Puppy: A Reflection on Life and Death, Trust and Betrayal One of the most poignant segments in this episode is Lora's recounting of an experience involving a newborn puppy. Initially thought to be dead, the puppy was revived, prompting reflections on the balance of life and death. This incident served as a metaphor for the delicate negotiations of trust and betrayal. Rediscovering Trust and Healing Past Wounds During meditation, Lora revisited a past life memory or allegorical story, where betrayal played a central role. She envisioned herself as a young healer, entrusted with a precious vial containing life force. A man from her village, under the guise of assistance, betrayed her by taking the vial for personal gain. This experience of trust and subsequent betrayal mirrors many of the listeners' experiences and serves as a powerful illustration of vulnerability. Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies: Imbalances and Integration Lora's exploration of the temples in Egypt also brought forward the theme of balancing masculine and feminine energies. At the Kombo temple, known for its dual-sided design, she delved into the importance of integrating these energies for holistic healing. The interplay of divine masculine and feminine, as experienced in the symbology of the temples underscores the necessity for both balance and harmony in personal growth. Lora's reflections at Abu Simbel further highlight her observations of divine masculine energy characterized by compassion and support. By recognizing these qualities within herself, she underlines the significance of embracing both strength and nurturance. Embracing Authenticity and Self-Compassion Beyond the spiritual and symbolic, Lora shares personal insights on authenticity and acceptance. She reveals moments of vulnerability and the realization that appearance is not crucial for meaningful connection. This message resonates deeply with many women who may feel pressured to uphold certain facades. The Edfu Temple: Symbol of Balance and Immediate Healing Lora discusses her visit to the Edfu Temple, a symbol of complete balance and healing. Although time-constrained, the experience reinforced her realization that understanding and reclaiming one's power can propel immediate healing and harmony without dwelling in the past. This serves as a metaphor for listeners to cherish the present moment while embracing their deep-seated power. Conclusion: A Call to Rediscover and Heal Lora Cheadle's powerful recount of her Egyptian odyssey invites listeners to reflect on their personal journeys of healing, encouraging them to reclaim their power through self-awareness and energy work. By drawing from ancient wisdom and personal reflection, she provides a roadmap for women to reclaim their power and rediscover their sovereignty. Whether through guided meditations, energy healing sessions, or personal contemplations, Lora's insights offer valuable tools for transformation and growth. Join Lora for an Energetic Healing Session on November 15th at 11 AM PST, noon MST, 1 PM CST, 2:00PM EST designed specifically to explore and heal the roots of betrayal via Zoom for only $7! Learn more and sign up at www.stopselfbetrayal.com Are you ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let's talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways. Work individually with Lora or complete her online Rise Up & Reign Affair Recovery Program in the privacy of your own home. Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com About Lora: Lora Cheadle is an attorney, TEDx speaker, and betrayal recovery coach who helps women turn their devastation into an invitation to rise up and reign. Whether reclaiming what they let go of along the way, rebuilding their identity, or stepping into a stronger sense of self-trust and self-worth, Lora's expert guidance empowers women to uncover the truth™ of what they are capable of and deserve. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand the skills and strategies necessary to stop feeling broken and start living fully and freely. She is licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, is a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, advanced integrated energy practitioner, and is certified to teach yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal train. She is the author of the International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self and host of the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. She lives in Colorado and loves travel, adventure, and a good book. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com Get Relief Now! Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!   Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT   Untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and own your worth so you can create a future you love on your own terms. All with a wink and a smile! Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!   READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door!  Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!       Purchase Lora's book, FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self on Amazon, IndieBound or wherever books are sold.  

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