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What can 1998's How Stella Got Her Groove Back teach us about love, age gaps, and black romance? DB and beloved return guest Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons dive into the film's portrayal of intimacy, sisterhood, and the complexities of age-gap relationships. Plus: cringy accents, objectifying Taye Diggs, and the long-term cultural impact of this iconic rom-com. GUEST DETAILS Dr. Candice Nicole is an award-winning psychologist and associate professor at Emory University. She is author of Good Sex: Stories, Science, and Strategies for Sexual Liberation, debuting February 4. She can be found on IG and Threads, or at www.drcandicenicole.com. CONNECT WITH US Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbTwitter: @sexedwithdbThreads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB ROM-COM VOM SEASON 11 SPONSORS: Lion's Den, Uberlube, Magic Wand, + Arya. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our newsletter for behind-the-scenes content and answers to your sexual health questions! FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education—delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. SEASON 11 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) Producer: Sadie Lidji Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen Marketing Coordinator: Alex Bateman Logo Design: Evie Plumb (@cliterallythebest)
Where are all the cool people at? Event producer and spoken word musician Khari B. discusses his legendary twenty-year event, Thee Debauchery Ball, a kinky house music party in Chicago for melanated people. Karen and he discuss Black sexuality, creating safe spaces, and the documentary Thee Debauchery Ball. Filmmaker David Weathersby joins the conversation midway to discuss the making of the film and watching the party's evolution.In this episode:Khari B.--event maker and spoken word musician. IG: @theedebaucheryball Documentary filmmaker David Weathersby. Also on Instagram. Host, sex educator, and energy worker Karen Yates “Being Black and Kinky with David Weathersby” Wild & Sublime episodeThee Debauchery Ball infoWatch the documentary Thee Debauchery Ball on Amazon Prime or Tubi The main show sponsor of the October 2024 show was uberlübe, high-performance lubricant. Show sponsor was Rowan Tree Counseling, a therapy practice that is anti-racist | queer-allied | poly-affirming | sex-positive. Available in Illinois! Get Say It Better in Bed, Karen's free guide to upping your intimacy pleasure. Download here!The Afterglow, our Patreon membership group, brings you regular bonus content, early alerts, and goodies! Our newest $10/mo member benefit: 10% off all W&S merch! Or show your love for Wild & Sublime any time: Leave a tip!Be Wild & Sublime out in the world! Check out our new tees and accessories for maximum visibility. Peep our Limited Collection and let your inner relationship anarchist run free… Prefer to read the convo? Full episode transcripts are available on our website.Support the showSupport the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!
Today's History Story: Top Lies About Twerking We're wrapping up our incredible conversation with Reverend Dr. Courtney Alma Bryant about erotic defiance and body reclamation. Erotic defiance is a powerful form of resistance and self-expression. Those brave enough to reclaim their bodies from racist and sexist constraints reap the liberating rewards that come with celebrating their desires without apology and living authentically in a world that often tries to dictate what is acceptable. In Part One last week, we explored historical figures and contemporary voices who broke the mold. Now, we're ramping it up with a candid conversation that technically occurred after last week's interview. But since the mics were still hot, and the exchange was so damn good, we had to release this Part Two that dives a bit deeper and gets a bit more real. To learn more about Courtney's work, find her on Instagram @courtneyalmabryant. Black History Year (BHY) is produced by PushBlack, the nation's largest non-profit Black media company. PushBlack exists to amplify the stories of Black history you didn't learn in school and explore pathways to liberation with people who are leading the way. You make PushBlack happen with your contributions at BlackHistoryYear.com — most people donate $10 a month, but every dollar makes a difference. If this episode moved you, share it with your people! Thanks for supporting the work. Hosting BHY is Darren Wallace. The BHY production team includes Jareyah Bradley, Brooke Brown, and Amber Davis. Our producers are Cydney Smith and Len Webb for PushBlack, and Lance John with Gifted Sounds edits and engineers the show. BHY's executive producers are Julian Walker and Lilly Workneh. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today's History Story: The Jezebel Myth Many dehumanizing stereotypes have persisted from slavery and Jim Crow to our present day. One of the most insidious? The Jezebel. But who was Jezebel, and what does her story reveal about the West's deep-seated fear of Black bodies, sexuality, and the erotic? Today's guest has plenty to say about it. Reverend Dr. Courtney Alma Bryant is a dynamic thought leader and co-CEO of One Spirit Learning Alliance. Her debut book, “Erotic Defiance: Womanism, Freedom, and Resistance,” explores themes of embodiment, sexual-gender ethics, and justice within Black and Christian communities. There's potential for liberation in the erotic. Are you ready to embrace it? To learn more about Courtney's work, find her on Instagram @courtneyalmabryant. Black History Year (BHY) is produced by PushBlack, the nation's largest non-profit Black media company. PushBlack exists to amplify the stories of Black history you didn't learn in school and explore pathways to liberation with people who are leading the way. You make PushBlack happen with your contributions at BlackHistoryYear.com — most people donate $10 a month, but every dollar makes a difference. If this episode moved you, share it with your people! Thanks for supporting the work. Hosting BHY is Darren Wallace. The BHY production team includes Jareyah Bradley, Brooke Brown, and Amber Davis. Our producers are Cydney Smith and Len Webb for PushBlack, and Lance John with Gifted Sounds edits and engineers the show. BHY's executive producers are Julian Walker and Lilly Workneh. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
This week I talk with Fellow Podcaster, Porn Star and Business Women , Vanessa Smilez. We discuss blowjobs and the Art Of The Blowjob. Then for he ladies we discuss coochie eating. We discuss the porn business and we each tell our stories and experiences in the business and dealing with non porn people when we started Podcasting. Then we discuss Black Sexuality from Black porn to Black sexuality in the Black Community. Want More Content? 2 ways to get it 1. Subscribe my Savage Smoke Sessions on Spotify ( $4.99 a month) https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/smokethisova/subscribe 2. Become A Premium Smoker Subscribe to the Premium Smoke Room On Loyalfans https://www.loyalfans.com/PremiumSmokeRoom Want More Content. Become a Premium Smoker for 5 Premium Podcasts , 3 Tiers starting at $4.99 a month Sponsored By Hottest Adult Mag Online https://eroticismmagazine.com/ Hottest Adult Film Company blusherotica.com/videos Best Scented Candles On The Net thekinkycandleco.etsy.com Queen Of Law https://www.instagram.com/dividenqueen/ Porn/ Music/ Social Media https://allmylinks.com/pornrapstar Get The Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/s-t-o-merch-store/ Guest: Vanessa Smilez https://x.com/VeeSmilez VanessaSmilesXXX.com Youtube.com/Smilez69NetworkShow
Psychological health is a complex interaction of the mental, emotional, social, and spiritual dimensions of health. Possessing strength and resiliency in these dimensions can maintain your overall well-being and help you weather the storms of life.In sum, psychologically healthy people possess emotional, mental, social, and spiritual resiliency. Resilient individuals have the ability to overcome challenges from minor disappointments to major tragedies and the typical life obstacles we often face. They usually respond to challenges and frustrations in appropriate ways, despite occasional slips. When they do slip, they recognize it, are kind to themselves rather than engaging in endless self-recrimination, and take action to rectify the situation.About Our Guest:Dr. Gadsden is an applied psychologist who is currently the Associate Professor and the Psychology Department Chair at Hampton University. Dr. Gadsden brings over 20 years of clinical, teaching, training, consultation, and research experience. He received his MA in clinical psychology from Teachers College, Columbia University and his PhD in counseling psychology from Howard university with a focus in Black masculinity development. His research/writing/clinical expertise has been focused on the mental-emotional-cultural-spiritual health of minoritized populations, and Black males specifically. Dr. Gadsden's varied clinical/training experiences treating under-served populations from a relational-cultural psychoanalytic lens; commitment to both the integration of spirituality, social justice, community-action within a clinical and professional context; and scholarship and research agendas framed within both constructivist and decolonized lens has made his work both psychological, cultural, and political in scope. Currently, Dr. Gadsden is a part of the JustHealBro Tour where he and other Black men visit colleges and communities in various states/cities and start the conversation with Black males only around such topics as: trauma and masculinity development and its implication in various dimensions of their lives; all with the goal of reflexivity and healing. Dr. Gadsden recently served as co-editor for a special series within the Journal of Black Sexuality & Relationships exploring issues related to Black male trauma and identity from a multi-disciplinary perspective. Dr. Gadsden is working on a book manuscript entitled, "A Decolonized paradigm of Healing for Black Men: Expanding the Vision of Black Masculinities."Resources Mentioned:The Black Psychologist PodcastJust Heal BroA Black Theology of LiberationCommunity Healing DaysDr. Wade NoblesDr. Na'im AkbarConnect with Dr. Gadsden:InstagramThe hashtag for the podcast is #nourishyourflourish. You can also find our practice on the following social media outlets:Facebook: The Eudaimonia CenterInstagram: theeudaimoniacenterTwitter: eu_daimonismFor more reproductive medicine and women's health information and other valuable resources, make sure to visit our website.Have a question, comment, guest suggestion, or want to share your story? Email us at info@laurenawhite.com.Support the show
Today we're sharing a preview of a new podcast we're enjoying and we think you will too! On this episode of the Cultivating H.E.R. Space podcast, Dr. Dom and Terri have a deep conversation about the truth of gaslighting, red flags, and manipulation. Maybe you've heard these terms recently, but do you really know what they mean? Accessing the language around these pieces of the cycles of abuse can help you create a toolkit that can help you identify them earlier in your relationships. Knowing these terms can also help you identify when you have been the initiator of potentially harmful behavior. Listen to this episode with your journal and a ton of grace and self-compassion. Terri and Dr. Dom clearly lay out the signs so that you can see them early and make decisions from a centered place. Listen to Cultivating H.E.R. Space at https://herspacepodcast.com/ Enjoy!
Ashley Cobb is the millennial microphone for people of color seeking ultimate pleasure and sexual liberation. Ashley, “your favorite friend in filth” is dedicated to bringing the conversation of Black Sexuality to the forefront, and across generational lines. Ashley is a sexpert, blogger, and influencer known for her fun, down to earth and practical commentary that's been featured in top media outlets to include Huffington Post, Cosmopolitan, Self Magazine, Women's Health, Black Love Doc, Shape, and many more. She's also the sex advice columnist for Madame Noire. Ashley is the creator of the digital news platform, Gossip and Gasms, which has been coined "The Shade Room of Sex." She also co-hosts a sexuality-centered podcast, "Hoe And Tell" that features real-life sex stories from strangers. I ask Ashley: How did you get into blogging about sex? What is "normal?" What are some of the most common questions you get or common topics you cover? Let's talk about orgasms... How can we get more familiar with what we like and our own anatomy? How can we own our sexuality? How can we talk to our kids about sex? Where can we find you? www.sexwithashley.com IG: @sexwithashley
Sexuality and sexual expression have long been a taboo topic of discusssion in the black church yet we have a number of black clergy and laypersons who fall into sexual immorality. Where does sexuality in all of its expressions fit into the black religious experience and how should the church accurately and properly breach this area of faith and family? Duchess Cashmere, a grio and performer joins Dr. Neal to discuss this topic.
Author, sex therapist, and AASECT certified sexuality educator Dr. Lexx Brown-James joins us to discuss sexuality within the black community. Plus, we review the Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator.
It's 2022 and I have a list of resolutions for you! In this episode, I'm going to not only go into an ADHD tangent or two (when don't I? lol) but also give you a list of my Top 10 New Year's Resolutions aimed to level up your pleasure, expand your mind, improve your self-confidence, and boost self-love! As always, grab your favorite drink, and let's chill! Links for this episode: Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality Journal of Sex Research Journal of Marital and Sex Therapy Journal of Sexual Medicine American Journal of Sexuality Education Journal of Black Sexuality and Relationships Archives of Sexual Behavior National Coalition of Sexual Freedom _____________________ Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts Twitch with me! LIVE Resources: Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world! The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
Episode 18 features Reproductive Justice Advocate and Sex Educator Tia (she/her). Tia and host Ari discuss the effects of anti-abortion legislation like the Texas SB-8 bill or “heartbeat ban”, and how Tia centers Black Sexuality on her platform “Slipp3ry When Wet”. Tia answers Burning Questions; how to have nuanced conversations on abortion, the difference between Reproductive Justice and Reproductive Rights, and why she believes that no sexuality progress can be made unless all communities are involved. Follow our Guest, Tia (Slipp3ry When Wet): https://www.instagram.com/slipp3rywhenwet/ Follow host, Ari: https://www.instagram.com/sensuelle.education Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sensuellepodcast Sources & Show Notes: www.sensuellepodcast.com
As Black women, many of us can agree that we have a complex relationship with sex and understanding our sexuality. Religion and the purity culture that permeates our community make it almost impossible for us to have safe spaces to speak candidly about our sexual desires and ideas around sex. Now, ya'll know that I love speaking about sex, especially good sex and that is why I am so excited for you to meet today's guest, Ashley Cobb, also known as Sex with Ashley, a woman who has dedicated her life and work around one idea: to help black women have better sex.Join Ashley and I as we have a candid conversation on perceptions around sex within the black community, the impact of trauma on black women's sex lives, the importance of therapy, and why now more than ever, it's important for black women to have safe spaces. Listen in as Ashley dishes on her evolution from Ashley Cobb to Sex with Ashley and her journey to having it all.Meet Sex with Ashley (Ashley Cobb)Ashley Cobb is the millennial microphone that brings the conversation of Black Sexuality to the forefront, and across generational lines. Ashley is a sexpert, blogger, and influencer known for her fun, down to earth and practical commentary that's been featured in top media outlets to include Huffington Post, Cosmopolitan, Self Magazine, Women's Health, Black Love Doc, Shape, and many more. She's also the Sex Advice Columnist for the lifestyle publication Madame Noire. Ashley also is the creator of the digital news and entertainment platform, Gossip and Gasms, which has been coined "The Shade Room of Sex." In addition to that, she co-hosts a sexuality-centered podcast, "Hoe And Tell" that features real-life sex stories from strangers.Join Ashley and I as we discuss:What having it all means to her, her journey, and common misconceptions associated with having it allHer background within the church and breaking free of purity cultureThe importance of having conversations around sex within the black community The impact of Trauma on sexuality and the importance of therapyWalking in your purpose and how this can help you have it allI want to send a special thank you to Ashley for this honest conversation. Thank you for your wisdom, vulnerability, and sense of humor. A special thank you to you as well for listening to today's episode. I hope it starts a much-needed conversation within your own life and communities. Feel free to like, subscribe, and share this episode within your circle. Here's to having it all!Connect with Ashley:For Updates on her work, as well as her five favorite sexual wellness products, check out her website.Listen to her podcast Hoe and Tell.Check out Gossip and Gasms Find Ashley on Twitter and InstagramConnect with me:I would love to hear from you; send me an email at: cheri@leaderandloverpodcast.comWant to find out more about the show? you can do that at: www.leaderandloverpodcast.comFind Leader and Lover on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leaderandlover/?hl=enFind me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cheri_spigner/
Dr. Imani Woody is the founding director and CEO of Mary’s House for Older Adults, Inc. She has a Ph.D. in Human Services, specializing in non-profit management. Dr. Imani has been an advocate of women, people of color and LGBT/Same Gender Loving issues for more than 20 years. Dr. Woody is a member of the National LGBT Elder Housing Initiative, and presented on LGBT housing issues at the White House. She is currently the Executive Director of Mary’s House for Older Adults, an LGBTQ-SGL friendly organization creating welcoming environments throughout the US including its first residence providing safe and affordable communal housing for adults over 60 in Washington, DC. You can reach Dr. Woody here. During the episode, Dr. Jane Fleishman mentions a recent article that she co-authored with Dr. Imani Woody, Mandy Carter, and Miss Major Griffin-Gracy in the Journal of Black Sexuality and Relationships. Here is the citation for that piece: Carter, M., Fleishman, J. M., Griffin-Gracy, M. M., Woody Macko, I. (2021). Black LGBTQ/SGL elders: A black transwoman, an African-American same-gender loving woman, and a black lesbian talking about sex with a cisgender white lesbian sex researcher. Journal of Black Sexuality and Research, 7(1), 1-20. https://muse.jhu.edu/article/781704 And if you’d like to find more shows, visit our website and please subscribe! We love our listeners and welcome your feedback. You can find us on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter. Or you can write to us at this address. We can’t wait to hear your thoughts. As always, thanks for listening!
Ayyyeee... Good Morning Everyone. On this episode Dream Nicole speaks about Journalism & Chill and Black Sexuality in the morning.⛅☕
Discussing one’s sexuality within the Black community can be taboo. Of course, the man creeping with several women is often a topic of conversation but those who engage in infidelity or who may be LGBTQ can be taboo subjects. The Revs will explore an aspect of our culture that is often left unspoken.
Dr. Lexx James is a certified sex educator and therapist, and author of the children's book, “These are My Eyes, This is My Nose, This is My Vulva, These are My Toes”. In today's conversation, Dr. Lexx shares how she helps clients heal sexual shame and relationship conflict to build and maintain long-lasting intimacy. Dr. Lexx also shines light on the therapy stigmas POC face and the common challenges she helps individuals work through. This heart-felt show will help you lean into vulnerability and intimacy with yourself and partner!Today on That Sex Chick:Therapy stigmas for POC & common challengesNavigating shame to experience pleasureViewing conflict as an opportunity vs. threatLeaning into intimacy by communicating vulnerablyHealing obstacles for sexual liberationFollow Dr. Lexx:Instagram: @lexxsexdoc Website: lexxsexdoc.com Book: These are My Eyes, This is My Nose, This is My Vulva, These are My ToesConnect with Alexa:thatsexchick.com IG: @thatsexchick Click here to Own Your OrgasmClick here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you'll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! This show is produced by Soulfire Productions
Cesar sits down to talk to the host of the Bri the Black Sheep podcast, Briana Nunn. ------ Follow Cesar on Instagram @TheDoseOfCesar Follow Bri on Instgaram @brownskinbrii --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/cesar-jaquez8/message
Hi Creators! Today we try our best to get to the ROOT of Black Sexuality - particularly as it pertains to Black women. We discuss Dr. Donna's pursuit as a Nigerian-American Sex Therapist, the clinic she now owns dedicated to mental and sexual health, how colorism and texturism can play a subconscious role in how you engage in sex and how you show up in the world. Sexuality goes beyond the bedroom and this interview proves it!!We also play a fun game where we ask Dr. Donna all the steamy sex questions you asked us!This was such an enriching discussion and we're excited for you to listen.Keep up with us on social!@TheBlackCreatorsClub@AkilahFfriend@EboneChatman12And our guest@AnnodRightAny inquiries or interest in joining as a guest? Email us at theblackcreatorsclub@gmail.com
In this episode, we dig into black sexuality in the larger context of life. Nicole Goode, who is a sociologist and sexologist, deals in healthy and unhealthy relationships and so much more. The sociological concepts around society norms and biases play a large role in how many people live their lives every day. The health of the black family unit has been affected by years of cultural and socio-economic experiences. The daily realities of racism, inequality and constant barriers take their toll when trying to do the most basic of tasks and reach goals. Our own toxicities also tend to compound the issues we face when looking inwards at ourselves before we can even attempt to work on relationships with others in our lives. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Black Sexuality for all to see!
"There's no nuance, no subtlety in the ways that we talk about sex. That's what creates secrecy and people being harmed," explains Deesha Philyaw, author of the 2020 National Book Award Finalist The Secret Lives of Church Ladies. Deesha discusses how Black women can explore empowered sexuality, how fiction writing gives audiences a unique access to sexual exploration, ways that the Black church can better advocate for Black women, and personal reflections about The Secret Lives with Jeremiah and Julia.
INTERVIEW: Today I am joined in conversation with Penda N’diaye, a pleasure-educator and founder of Pro Hoe — a podcast & community centered around facilitating the cultivation of Black sexuality, wellness, liberation, and of course pleasure. Penda began her career as a professional dancer and accredits much of her confidence and body awareness to her craft. Nowadays, she’s encouraging people to discover their own ways of doing the same! On this episode, Penda shares how the deep history of American slavery impacts the autonomy of Black bodies, and its link to the pandemic, sexual isolation, and the power of pleasure.Keep up with Bedside:Instagram, The Resource Connect with Penda N’diaye:Instagram, Pro HoeBe sure to rate, review, and share this episode with a friend!
This episode we are looking at the over sexualised images of black people in the media and the damage caused by it
I am in dialogue with my dear friend and colleague Dr. James Wadley to speak about our relationship with our skin. Skin is what we hold the closest to us and for some of us it becomes the most confusing and conflict-ridden relationship. The most recent racially charged brutalities happened after the recording of this episode however since the systemic oppression towards the people of color and minorities is not a new concept, there are pearls of wisdom that could be taken away from our conversation to sooth pains and give us a vision for the future. James is a Professor and Chair of the Counseling and Human Services Master of Human Services department at Lincoln University, he is the author of multiple scholarly papers and books including Lost and Found and he is the founding member and executive editor of the journal of black sexuality and relationship which is a world-renowned resource for practitioners. We talk about James' personal journey as a black man which inspired his professional career to bridge distances and create harmony within various communities.
As week two of Quarantine continues the ladies talk about how the craziness of people dealing and are joined by special guest Jason Panda, founder of B Condoms(@bcondoms, @jasonkpanda-IG) !! Find out how the first Black Owned company came to be and the importance of Black Sexuality through safe sex!! As heard you can buy a pack of B Condoms using code 'B Safe' and get 20% off your order! https://www.bcondoms.com/ Want to own a pack of Offensive Crayons? Use code 'sapphire' for 10% off your order at offensivecrayons.com also use #EarplayOffensive on Instagram and follow @MsRadioSapphire @FitandDirty Get the sex education you’ve always wanted! Check out FuckUniversity.org and subscribe to F*ck University Presents: Office Hours! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sapphiresearplay/message
“No dirty dicks 2020...” Women come first, PERIODT ! The Carolina Hot Girls are not here for the corny porn story lines. Hot Girl Tipsy B is setting off the hot seat today. Hot Guest Jimmy Robinson joins to partake in the conversation about black sexuality. The On The Hotline letter leaves these hotties perplexed. Be sure to support feminine products owned by black women. SPICE LEVEL: FIREBALL
"I'm giving you free mozzarella sticks, ain't no coochie involved with that..." This episode is for all you nasty ass hoes jk . Hot Guest Chalet Jean Baptiste and The Hot Girls Podcast creator, Essence Sylvia Smith aka Hot Girl ESS join the DMV Hot Girls to discuss all things S-E-X. Apparently, sex with Ri is amazing, so Hot Girl LaMaya enters Ms. RiRi aka Rihanna into The Hot Girl Hall Of Fame. Today's hot topics are truly thought provoking and one thing the DMV hotties want to know is what are your thoughts on masturbation? Hot Girl Pink gets the hot seat on and pop'n this episode! Are live sex shows, sugar daddies/babies hot? You'll have to tune in to find out. Black women embrace your sexuality and your own body and love yourself first! SPICE LEVEL: HOT AF
“It's 2020 if you ain't eating booty, what is you doing?...” Hot Guest, King Plug is in the building and he is here to discuss ALL things S-E-X!! Listen while he and The Hot Girls discuss black sexuality. Keeping it in the Black Ink Crew Chicago family, it's only right that we induct Charmaine Johnise Walker Bey and the late Mama Glenda in The Hot Girl Hall Of Fame. Hot Girl PM sets the hot seat on fire with her questions. During Hot Topics the hotties are discussing sexual exploration: Pegging, threesomes, and more. The Hot listener on the hot line is asking for a friend. Ladies don't forget to put that Guac Guac 3,000 on you partner. A-MAN! SPICE LEVEL: THAI CHILI PEPPER
You read the title correctly, but those words did NOT come out of my mouth! This week your problematic faves D’andre (@ajayi_) & Charlton (@aircharltoniv) cause drama as we discuss what it means to be an “Uncle Tom.” Black people often disrespect, give up, or hide their own culture in order to be accepted by white people. Why do some black people crave white acceptance? Black identity is often grouped into one worldview. Black people can’t be Republicans & they can’t date white people without backlash from their community. Why is this? We get into this as well as Dwyane Wade supporting his trans son Zion “Zaya” Wade. What would you do if YOUR child was trans? Whew...this episode is problematic. In the News: Why should we have to tip? Would you marry someone with kids? Is there a “gay agenda?” In the News: (3:59)Main Topic: (52:35) Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justin_alzi/ Follow the Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polaroppositespod/ Follow D'Andre: https://www.instagram.com/ajayi_/ Follow Charlton: https://www.instagram.com/aircharltoniv/ https://twitter.com/aircharltoniv?lang=en SEND US QUESTIONS! If you would like a question answered on air, email us! We want to hear your feedback and offer advice on your situation! Ask away! polaropposites.pod@gmail.com Support the podcast on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=21710344
You read the title correctly, but those words did NOT come out of my mouth! This week your problematic faves D’andre Ajayi (@ajayi_) & Charlton Nwaefulu (@aircharltoniv) cause drama as we discuss what it means to be an “Uncle Tom.” Black people often disrespect, give up, or hide their own culture in order to be accepted by white people. Why do some black people crave white acceptance? Black identity is often grouped into one worldview. Black people can’t be Republicans & they can’t date white people without backlash from their community. Why is this? We get into this as well as Dwyane Wade supporting his trans son Zion “Zaya” Wade. What would you do if YOUR child was trans? Whew...this episode is problematic. In the News: Why should we have to tip? Would you marry someone with kids? Is there a “gay agenda?” In the News: (3:59)Main Topic: (52:35) Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justin_alzi/ Follow the Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polaroppositespod/ Follow D'Andre: https://www.instagram.com/ajayi_/ Follow Charlton: https://www.instagram.com/aircharltoniv/ https://twitter.com/aircharltoniv?lang=en SEND US QUESTIONS! If you would like a question answered on air, email us! We want to hear your feedback and offer advice on your situation! Ask away! polaropposites.pod@gmail.com Support the podcast on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/user?u=21710344
Intersecting Race and Sexual Diversity Our guest this week is Dr. James Wadley, Associate Professor and Director of the Master of Human Services program at The Lincoln University. He’s the founding editor of The Journal of Black Sexuality and Relationships and the founder of the Association of Black Sexologists and Clinicians. His most recent book, co-authored with Dr. Richard Siegel, The Art of Sex Therapy Supervision, won the AASECT Book Award for 2019. If you like our show or if you have questions, contact us here at our website. You can subscribe to our podcast by sending us your email or whatever way you subscribe to podcasts. We love our listeners and welcome your feedback. Please like us and rate us and find us on social media. And please write to us at this address.Thanks for listening!
In episode one of the Black Sexuality Podcast, Precious and Amina discuss black sexuality and the different factors that contributed to the formulation of their individual sexual identity. This podcast is an exploration of the ideas surrounding the black sexual expirience and black peoples conception of their sexuality in relation to the media. We discuss the media's portrayal of black women and men, and how the confines of that framing impact the black community more broadly.
In the Bleached Whale, Sharon P Holland states “Imagine a world wherein some bodies are accessible to others 24/7-open in a way that helped define, articulate and defend the category of the human. In this world, what would sexuality mean? What would be it’s practice? How would be recognize it?” How can Black Sexuality be studied and defined? Where in history can we find traces of Black Queerness? Join Alexis and Me as we discuss Black Queerness and try to connect it to the Harlem Renaissance. #Queerinwhileblk #QWB
SUMMARY: In the fifth episode of Birds and Black Girls, Minah and her classmate, Sofia discusses the black sexualities in music, history, and film. The episode goes into topics such as fetishization, whiteness, and the male gaze. Listeners should take the time to watch Losing Ground, and read works from authors like Patricia Collins and Audre Lorde if they're interested in black sexual feminism.
My guest this week believes black culture and sex and sexuality is a people issue, rather than a race issue. Dr. James Wadley, an Associate Professor and Chair of the Counseling and human Services Program at Lincoln University. He is also the founder and editor-In-chief of the Journal of Black Sexuality and Relationships. An expert on sexual...
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The session in which we talk to James Wadley, Phd, about unpacking racism and systemic oppression in practice. Dr. Wadley is an Associate Professor and Chair of the Counseling and Human Services department at Lincoln University. He is a scholar-practitioner and maintains a private practice in both PA and NJ as a Licensed Professional Counselor. He is also an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Supervisor and is the founding editor of the Journal of Black Sexuality and Relationships. Dr. Wadley is the founder and principal of the Association of Black Sexologists and Clinicians. www.drjameswadley.com
They/Them, She/Her, He/Him. Chelsea chats with Gabie about sexuality in the Black community, misgendering and the importance of acknowledging people for who they are. We also discussed “Us” theories—so, if that's not your thing, just skip to 18:20!
Sex and sexuality is a taboo topic to many. It can be an especially tricky topic to touch on in the Black community. Sapio magazine is here to help make those conversations easier. The bi-monthly publication highlights sexuality amongst Black and Brown people and the importance of controlling our sexuality. E.I.C and founder of Sapio managing Keisha Ann came by the show to discuss Sapio, why its hard to discuss sex in Black and Brown communities, the role weed plays in here sex life and more
Eboni and Eliza were joined by Dr. James Wadley to discuss how to start talking about sex in relationships and families. Google Dr. James Wadley to find out more about his work. Resources: The Journal of Black Sexuality and Relationships (https://muse.jhu.edu/journal/671) The Lost and Found Box: A Provocative Exploration about Rediscovering Happiness and the Real You!(https://amzn.to/2HlC4Vl) Would You Marry You? (https://amzn.to/2tMHAIo)
This short and sweet episodes is kept simple and sweet, with an emotionally charged discussion on crockpots and boundaries.Support the show (http://patreon.com/atltantra)
Listen to Milayo Negesti & King Heff as they give their unfiltered take on what black women are really up to sexually. Truth bombs galore are being dropped.
This episode of the fix your sex podcast is brought to you by Miss Indigo Blue’s Academy of Burlesque, where sexy is fun. Visit them at www.academyofburlesque.comOn today’s show, I o talk about Solo Pleasure Journeying, Reclaiming Sexual Language and Creating Sexual Communities. Support the show (http://patreon.com/atltantra)
This is my last episode of 2018!! I am so ready for some dope change in the new year. New year is always the most exciting time of the year for us Aquarius. I am talking about the Girl Who Cried Wolf, Licking Wounds with Lovers and Tantra in 2019 (in Atlanta and beyoooonnnnnddd!!)Brought to you by the Atlanta Tantra Festival in Charlotte, January 19 2019Support the show (http://patreon.com/atltantra)
Mostly recovered from Atlanta Tantra Festival, Amina returns from her hiatus to discuss the possibility of centering brownness in tantric sex education, policing brown sexuality online and finding your sexual voice. Support the show (http://patreon.com/atltantra)
Dr. James Wadley is on a mission to bring openness and community to those from all walks of life that may otherwise have shied away from stepping forward to get help for themselves or their families. He is an advocate and voice for healing across the world and is passionate about working with both those in the community and training the professional leaders that work with them. He is an Associate Professor and Director of the Master of Human Services program at The Lincoln University and licensed professional counselor in Pennsylvania and New Jersey. He is the founding editor of the scholarly, interdisciplinary journal, the Journal of Black Sexuality and Relationships (University of Nebraska Press). Dr. Wadley talks with Rob about his background in education and educational leadership, his program development to help African Americans know where to turn when seeking treatment, and ways to improve the current structure so everyone feels welcome and deserving to be part of whatever it is that will serve them towards their health. He and Rob also discuss the ways that African American communities are typically underserved when it comes to mental health and addiction programs, especially sexual addiction, how we can help minorities step out of the hidden secrets of addiction and into the light of healing and hope. TAKEAWAYS: [2:52] Dr. Wadley has worked with African Americans and minority groups for many decades, and still finds misconceptions, and mistrust around the community and medical and mental health professions. It is great for someone struggling to get initial support and advice from a member in the community or social group, but non-medical help can only go so far, and oftentimes their response comes from a pre existing belief, stereotype or myth. [5:06] Dr. Wadley and his colleagues actively try to work towards people having a “sex positive” approach towards sexuality. This means facing and dealing with the stigma and trauma of sexual expression in the African decent, whether it’s stereotypes surrounding the community, or the way they express their own sexual identity. [7:16] Rob and Dr. Wadley run into the same type of problems, but in different ways. Minority groups tend to not seek out professional help for their issue, and even when they do, the factor of access and finding a professional of a similar minority is usually of importance as well. [8:18] Although other cultures deal with sexual addiction just as much as the white culture, there are several factors that make up why they seek professional and 12-step treatment groups less. First, if they walk in and see that they are the only representative of their minority, they are less likely to open up and share, thus reducing the likelihood of ever returning again. [11:08] Dr. Wadley finds that spending time in the community is a way to at least open the conversation with people regarding their sexual behavior and help them get their guard down to see that there is no judgement or stigma around seeking help. [15:08] Dr. Wadley credits a lot of his success to the positive and inspirational people around him. [18:02] Although the communities may be different, the pain and shame of addiction is the same across the board no matter race or ethnicity. The top sexual issues among Rob’s young male clients are the same as Dr. Wadley’s - online porn, hookup apps, traditional affair / anonymous sex and prostitutes. Seeking out help online is better for anonymity, but individuals must be in the know that they are expected to share vulnerably everything they are dealing with. [21:22] Rob and Dr. Wadley discuss the difference of options when a couple has financial means and resources vs. when they need to stay together because divorce or separating just isn’t an option financially. [26:42] On a recent trip to Cuba, Dr. Wadley appreciated how he could fully experience the culture, as it is one of the few places that hasn’t been colonized. RESOURCES Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101 Dr. James Wadley The Journal of Black Sexuality and Relationships Association of Black Sexologists and Clinicians Lincoln University Dr. Wadley on Twitter phdjamesw@yahoo.com QUOTES: “While people in the community may be able to listen and give advice, they are not mental health professionals.” “My work is to try my best to empower not only those people who are indigenous to the community, but also to work with the folks who work with folks in those communities in having a level of acceptance and appreciation towards diversity.” “Minorities tend to want to keep their problems to themselves.” “I allow my spirit to lead me.” We as therapists and healers have to figure out how to provide access to those folks who probably can’t afford us.”
This week we're tackling black sexuality and sensuality. How it’s perceived, how it really is, seeing it on TV (and how awesome that is), and seeing black sensuality portrayed in the media sans actual sex. For more information, find us: www.tacklingtomfoolery.com www.facebook.com/tacklingtomfoolery twitter: @malikkarogers Instagram: @tacklingtomfool ©2018 Produced by Bren Inman for Evergreen Talent Collective 00000067 0000001C 00002513 0000070A 00346459 00346459 00007EBB 000036FC 0031DC97 0031DC97
It's been over a month since my last podcast, and after celebrating my birthday and an Eagles superbowl win a little hard in the paint my voice is almost back to normal. On this episode, learn how to tell your partner that their sex game needs to improve, the joy of uncircumcised cock and eye gazing. Forgive the heteronormative language, I have been having more hetero sex these days and it's messing with my language. Support the show (http://patreon.com/atltantra)
Sex expert Tyomi (America’s Next Top Model, Tosh.0) knows there aren’t a lot of sex-positive black voices in the sex education world. She would think to herself, “There isn’t anybody I can relate to. Well, I guess I’ll be that person!” The self-taught sex coach has taken YouTube by storm with viral videos such as Riding The North Face. Tyomi joins me to discuss black sexuality and our country’s lack of sex education. Don’t wanna end up with that Nebraska Gonorrhea! PLUS: celibacy, female orgasm, dick size, dirty rooms, low libido, and that EE p*ssy! PLEASE TAKE THIS SUPER QUICK SIMPLE EASY SURVEY! Check out the Glamazon Tyomi! Website Instagram YouTube Here are those folks that got shoutouts this episode: Jet Setting Jasmine Aunt Angel Eb the Celeb Here is the CDC’s webpage regarding HIV. Gain access to bonus episodes for as little as $1 by supporting me on Patreon. Click here to join the club! The Manwhore Podcast is sponsored by Pure. Download the Pure app today and have fun, casual sex tonight! Get $30 off your first licensed therapy session on Talkspace with promo code MANWHORE. Email your comments, questions, and boogie pictures to manwhorepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com
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Just home from a tour that covered 11 states in 16 days, Lee takes us on a journey through small town America and big events alike. From race and black women's body autonomy in Atlanta to BDSM and assault laws in Fargo, we dance through how language plays into sharing our truths with others. Let us look at our shared experiences, no matter our histories, building a shared humanity while learning some easy bondage techniques too. Passion And Soul Podcast:iTunes Subscription: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-soul-podcast-by-lee/id840372122RSS Feed: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/rssPast MP3 files: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.comPassionAndSoul Audio Page: http://passionandsoul.com/audioStitcher: http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/erotic-awakening-podcast/passion-and-soulErotic Awakening Network: http://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast Links, Events, People and Movies Mentioned: Alaska Center for Alternative Lifestyles (ACAL): https://www.facebook.com/TheAlaskaCenter Northern Exposure June 17-19 2016 (Anchorage, AK): https://fetlife.com/events/353862 Scotty: https://fetlife.com/users/63099 Podcast 23 - Earned Leather, Gifted Leather, Leather Identity (with Scott Thomson and Katie Fulcrum):http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/ps023-earned-leather-gifted-leather-leather-identity KinkFest March 25-27 2016 (Portland, OR): http://kinkfest.org/ People's Organic Café/Bar (Fargo, ND): http://peoplesorganic.com/ State-by-State Assault Laws: https://ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/consent-counts/consent-counts/item/673-state-by-state-assault-laws.html Barak: https://fetlife.com/users/53452 Winter Wickedness Feb 5-7, 2016 (Columbus, OH): http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/WICKED/index.html Good Earth Margaret Coop (Billings, MT): http://goodearthmarket.coop/ CiCi's diner is actually… Stella's Diner! (Billings, MT): http://www.yelp.com/biz/stellas-kitchen-and-bakery-billings-2 Pantheacon Feb 12-15 2016 (San Jose, CA): http://pantheacon.com/ Alucarda, Movie: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0075666/ Hecate: http://www.goddessgift.com/goddess-myths/greek_goddess_hecate.htm The Image, Movie: http://www.bdsmmoviereview.com/movie0002/movie127.htm FetLife Social Network for BDSM/Fetish Community: http://www.fetlife.com Iowa Leather Weekend (Des Moines, Iowa): https://www.facebook.com/iowaleatherweekend Zombie Burger (Des Monies, Iowa): http://zombieburgerdm.com/ Hanky Code: http://user.xmission.com/~trevin/hanky.html Kink and BDSM Glossary: http://passionandsoul.com/faq/kink-glossary Tibetan Tantra by Devi Ward: http://deviwardtantra.com/ Sex Down South: http://sexdownsouth.com/ Frenchie Davis, teacher from “Goddess Bodies, Mortal Minds: The Intersectionality of Black Sexuality and Respectability”: http://www.octavus.us/0000169/bio.html Slut Walk Movement: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SlutWalk Lee's Upcoming Events/Appearances:http://passionandsoul.com/appearances/ Lee Harrington Contact Information:http://www.PassionAndSoul.comhttp://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoulhttp://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoulhttps://www.facebook.com/lee.harringonhttps://www.facebook.com/passionandsoul
Join the Editorial Board, Staff and Friends as we discuss the paradox of Black Sexuality as it occurs in or is absent from Black Speculative Fiction.
We discuss film from the black female perspective.