Podcast appearances and mentions of chris tompkins

In this episode of Shaping Our World, Chris Tompkins is joined by teenage sisters Mercedes and Anastasia Korngut, co-founders of Small Bits of Happiness. Tune in to hear how their journey—from struggling with happiness to building a thriving business and podcast—empowers teens to build joyful habits, foster deeper connections with parents, and find meaning in everyday moments. Discover practical “happiness hacks” and inspiring insights that will resonate with youth, parents, and educators alike.  

Send us a textCatching up this week with return guest Dr. Michael Cohen, who just released a new edition of his book Modern Political Campaigns this month. He studied under iconic pollster Bill Hamilton as a student, worked in the trenches in Republican campaigns, spent time at Gallup, apprenticed under renowned GOP pollster Tony Fabrizio and worked with famed Dem strategist Mark Penn when Michael was an in-house pollster at Microsoft. Along the way, Michael started his own firm (Cohen Research Group), built the successful Congress in Your Pocket tech app, and wrote Modern Political Campaigns to bring the campaign literature up to speed with the ever-evolving political industry - including a new edition that includes a focus on the role AI is playing in political campaigns. This is a great nuts-and-bolts conversation on the political industry with a smart pollster, tech entrepreneur, and author.IN THIS EPISODE…The new edition of Modern Political Campaigns, including a focus on AI in campaigns...How political campaigns are (and are not) using AI at this point...What Michael knows about Gen Z from teaching courses at NYU and Johns Hopkins...Lessons he learned from a recent heart attack and recovery...Michael's formative years growing up on Long Island…The political switch flips for Michael in college…Michael crosses paths with famed Democratic pollster Bill Hamilton…Michael makes the jump to political polling under Tony Fabrizio…The bizarre story of how one of Michael's candidates was pilloried on the Colbert Report…Michael starts his own polling firm to move beyond partisan politics…Michael's stint as an in-house pollster at Microsoft with Mark Penn…Michael's compares working with legendary Dem pollster Mark Penn and iconic GOP pollster Tony Fabrizio…Michael creates the wildly successful Congress in Your Pocket app…Michael's 101 on how to create an app…The long journey behind Michael's new book Modern Political Campaigns…Michael's advice to those who want to write a book and get it published…Michael's take on what makes a good pollster…Michael weighs in on the question of a “polling crisis”…Michael's advice on the best books to understand how politics works…AND AAPOR, Michael Bender, Sidney Blumenthal, Stephen Colbert, Sean Cook, Bob Dole, enlargement ads, Ezra Cohen Corporation, Arthur Finkelstein, the Gallup Poll, Josh Gottheimer, Sasha Issenberg, Peter Jennings, Steve Jobs, Ed Koch, Celinda Lake, Massapequa mannerisms, mobilization vs. persuasion, Never Trump Republicans, Ronald Reagan, Rowman & Littlefield, Jake Rush, Karen Thurman, Chris Tompkins, Tevi Troy, vampire roleplaying, Ted Yoho, & more!

Chris Tompkins welcomes Dr. Robin Baweja — pediatrician, author, and founder of Dear Mommy — for a meaningful conversation on children's mental health. Drawing from her medical background and personal experience as a parent, Dr. Baweja shares how to recognize early signs of anxiety, depression, and emotional struggles in kids, along with tips for building resilience. They explore the impact of the pandemic, the importance of emotional literacy, and how parents and caregivers can support children at every stage of development.  

In this episode of Shaping Our World, host Chris Tompkins sits down with Fiona Goy and Poppy Go, two remarkable mothers who have dedicated their lives to advocating for children with exceptionalities. Fiona and Poppy share their personal journeys of raising sons on the autism spectrum, the life-changing decisions they made to support their development, and how sports, summer camps, and employment opportunities have empowered their children to thrive. Their inspiring stories offer encouragement, practical wisdom, and a powerful message about inclusion, resilience, and the limitless potential within every young person.

In this episode of Shaping Our World, host Chris Tompkins welcomes acclaimed author and creative director, Sara Furlong. With nearly 20 years of experience creating engaging content for kids and tweens, Sara shares insights on fostering empathy and understanding through literature. We dive into her award-winning book, Every Brain is Beautiful, which introduces neurodiversity to children, and explore her latest project, Storyay, a revolutionary approach to literacy. Join us for an inspiring conversation on storytelling, inclusivity, and how we can better support the young minds shaping our world.

In this interview, author, advocate, and therapist Chris Tompkins shares his personal journey of self-discovery as a gay man raised […] The post The Importance of Visibility An Interview with Chris Tompkins appeared first on Queer Theology.

In this episode of Shaping Our World, host Chris Tompkins talks with Dr. Mariana Brussoni, a developmental psychologist and professor at the University of British Columbia. Dr. Brussoni's research highlights the surprising benefits of risky outdoor play for children, from building resilience to fostering creativity and independence. They dive into why unstructured play is vital for development and how parents can overcome the fear of letting kids take healthy risks. Packed with practical advice and fresh perspectives, this conversation will leave you rethinking how play shapes young lives. Don't miss this fascinating and empowering discussion!  

Join host Chris Tompkins as he sits down with renowned child development expert Ellen Galinsky. Ellen, president of Families and Work Institute and acclaimed author, brings a wealth of insights on youth development. Known for her groundbreaking book, Mind in the Making, Ellen's latest release, The Breakthrough Years, dives into the complexities of adolescence with a fresh perspective. Her expertise in executive functioning, skill-building, and adolescent growth makes this episode a must-listen for anyone invested in understanding today's youth. This engaging conversation offers both practical advice and inspiration for parents, educators, and leaders. 

In this episode of Shaping Our World, host Chris Tompkins speaks with Dave Krocker, head of Rosseau Lake College. They explore the importance of outdoor experiential learning and its impact on youth development. Dave shares his passion for immersive nature experiences and how his school integrates these principles into education. The conversation covers key educational trends, like the rise of AI, and the importance of teaching ethical responsibility. Together, they offer practical advice for educators and parents, highlighting the vital role of balance, soft skills, and character development in shaping today's youth.  

In this episode of the Shaping Our World podcast, host Chris Tompkins welcomes back Dr. Karyn Gordon, CEO of DK Leadership, to explore how goal-setting and time management can shape youth leadership and impact mental health. With over 25 years of experience as a therapist, executive coach, and bestselling author, Dr. Karyn shares insights on her upcoming event, "Leadership 101: Youth Edition." Learn practical strategies to help young people set meaningful goals, manage their time effectively, and how these skills contribute to their overall well-being and success. Perfect for parents and caregivers looking to empower the next generation. As a bonus, Dr. Karyn is offering a FREE Parent Report Card to assist you on your parenting journey.

Every year Muskoka Woods leads over 400 Gen Z staff in hosting 25,000 guests. As they looked to lead these staff well, they conducted a study on the overall perspective their Gen Z staff has on life, employment, and what kind of lives they want to live. The insights are helpful to anyone who is mentoring, leading, or employing Gen Z.

Every year Muskoka Woods leads over 400 Gen Z staff in hosting 25,000 guests. As they looked to lead these staff well, they conducted a study on the overall perspective their Gen Z staff has on life, employment, and what kind of lives they want to live. The insights are helpful to anyone who is mentoring, leading, or employing Gen Z.

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Join host Chris Tompkins as he delves into the world of youth development with Brad Griffin, Senior Director of Content and Research at the Fuller Youth Institute. With a rich background in spirituality, Christian faith, and youth ministry, Brad shares invaluable insights for parents and caregivers. Whether you're from a faith-based background or not, this episode offers thoughtful perspectives on raising confident, well-rounded kids in today's culture. Discover practical tips and inspiring advice to better understand and support the young people in your life. Tune in for an engaging and enlightening conversation!

In this episode of Shaping Our World, host Chris Tompkins has a heartfelt conversation with Brady Leavold, retired professional hockey player turned beacon of hope. Brady's journey is a testament to resilience and the power of redemption. From the highs of signing with the Tampa Bay Lightning to the depths of addiction and despair, Brady's story is one of transformation.  Discover how Brady's rediscovery of his love for the game sparked a journey of healing and purpose. Through his Puck Support Network and podcast, Hockey 2 Hell and Back, Brady is on a mission to support fellow athletes and anyone grappling with mental health and addiction challenges. Tune in for practical insights on supporting young people navigating mental health, understanding the unique pressures athletes face, and how childhood trauma shapes our futures. Brady's story will inspire you to believe in the possibility of second chances and the capacity for change.

LGBTQ-affirming therapist Chris Tompkins clearly remembers knowing by the age of six that he was gay. So when he was told that his six-year-old nephew was "not old enough" to understand that he had a gay uncle, it started Chris down a path that ultimately led to him a writing a book titled "Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground." Chris describes how his religious upbringing made him genuinely believe that if he put all his energy into becoming "the best Christian," he could eventually make himself straight (spoiler alert: he couldn't). A natural storyteller, Chris details several close calls he had during his study abroad in Italy ("I feel like I was trying to come out"), and shares the beautiful story of how he eventually met his first boyfriend through a series of random-but-fateful events. Plus, Chris's record-breaking tour where he came out to a whopping seven family members during a single visit home!Follow Chris on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook at @aroadtriptolove, and check out his website, aroadtriptolove.com, for info on his book, his work, and much more!

In this episode, we embark on a thoughtful exploration into the crucial topic of raising LGBTQIA+ allies with Chris Tompkins. Join us as we navigate the nuances of discussing LGBTQ issues with children, gaining insights into the right age to broach these conversations and foster understanding. Chris delves into the subconscious heteronormative norms ingrained in us from a young age and provides guidance on releasing them, paving the way for a more inclusive perspective. Our conversation extends to addressing the challenges posed by homophobic teachers, offering practical strategies to navigate these situations and ensure a supportive environment for all. We also delve into the proactive measures needed to prevent the adoption of homophobic and transphobic beliefs by new generations. Chris shares specific actions that parents, family members, and caregivers can take to initiate and navigate conversations that foster allyship and inclusivity. About Chris Tompkins Chris Tompkins is a therapist and educator based in Los Angeles, California. Chris specializes in helping gay men unburden past pain to wake up feeling a greater sense of purpose, self-acceptance, and belonging.In addition to being a therapist, Chris is a TEDx speaker and author of the best-selling book, Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. While his book aims to help families prevent homophobia, transphobia, and bullying before they begin, Raising LGBTQ Allies is a peace offering for members of the LGBTQ community to heal from the effects of trauma and toxic shame.The foundation of Chris' work is built on the belief that connecting with our spirituality, loving ourselves, and taking full responsibility for our lives and choices is where our strength lies at the deepest level.  Get Chris' book: https://www.amazon.com/Raising-LGBTQ-Allies-Changing-Playground/dp/1538136260/ Chris' website: https://www.aroadtriptolove.com/ Chris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aroadtriptolove/ About Me   I'm George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.   Yet, my gay dating life since hasn't always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can't Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/   Connect With Me   Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/ Website: https://georgelizos.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/   My Books   Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

Today we meet Chris Tompkins and we're talking about the book that saved Chris' life: The Velvet Rage by Alan Downs.Chris is an LGTBQ affirmative therapist and author of the new book Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground.In The Velvet Rage, psychologist Alan Downs draws on his own struggle with shame and anger, contemporary research, and stories from his patients to passionately describe the stages of a gay man's journey out of shame and offers practical and inspired strategies to stop the cycle of avoidance and self-defeating behavior.Connect with ChrisInstagram: @aroadtriptoloveTwitter: @aroadtriptoloveFacebook: facebook.com/aroadtriptoloveWebsite: aroadtriptolove.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/christompkinslifeBuy The Velvet Rage and Raising LGBTQ AlliesVisit our Bookshop for  new releases, current bestsellers, banned books, critically acclaimed LGBTQ books, or peruse the books featured on our podcasts:  bookshop.org/shop/thisqueerbook Buy The Velvet Rage directly: https://bookshop.org/a/82376/9781538136263Buy Raising LGBTQ Allies directly: https://bookshop.org/a/82376/9781538136263Become an Associate Producer!Become an Associate Producer of our podcast through a $20/month sponsorship on Patreon! A professionally recognized credit, you can gain access to Associate Producer meetings to help guide our podcast into the future! Get started today: patreon.com/thisqueerbookCreditsHost/Founder: J.P. Der BoghossianExecutive Producer: Jim PoundsAssociate Producers: Archie Arnold, Natalie Cruz, Jonathan Fried, Paul Kaefer, Nicole Olila, Joe Perazzo, Bill Shay, and Sean SmithPatreon Subscribers: Stephen D., Stephen Flamm, Thomas Michna, and Gary Nygaard.Permission to use the TEDx talk "What Children Learn From The Things They Aren't Told" provided by Chris Tompkins.Additional permissions provided by Chris Tompkins.Music and SFX credits: visit thiqueerbook.com/musicQuatrefoil LibraryQuatrefoil has created a curated lending library made up of the books featured on our podcast! If you can't buy these books, then borrow them! Link: https://libbyapp.com/library/quatrefoil/curated-1404336/page-1Support the show

#932 - Josh Kear The Josh Kear Interview is featured on The Paul Leslie Hour. Are you here? One of the things we like most about The Paul Leslie Hour is that we can uncover something that went out over the radio years ago and listen to it in the here… and now. People just like you listen to these interviews totally in the present. The present we're in. We're going to give this interview with Grammy award-winning songwriter Josh Kear a spin. Back in 2007, three songs co-written by Kear entered the country charts: “That's How They Do It in Dixie” by Hank Williams, Jr., “Before He Cheats” by Carrie Underwood and “Bama Breeze” by Jimmy Buffett. (Josh wrote the Buffett track with Chris Tompkins and Mark Irwin)  The same year “Before He Cheats” won the Single of the Year Award at the Country Music Association Awards. A few months later, it won the Grammy Award for Best Country Song. It's one of the longest-charting hits in Billboard history. Josh Kear did this interview with Paul Edward Leslie to talk about some of his famous songs and also about “Blue Pearl Paradise,” his somewhat underground album of original island songs. Josh is such a nice guy he sent us the demo of “Bama Breeze” to play and we'll all listen to that together. Before you forget, remember to subscribe to Paul Leslie's YouTube channel and also like this video and leave a comment. You won't want to miss any of our interviews or reviews so ring that bell. Now let's hear from our special guest Josh Kear. Whatdya say? It's time we listened. Together.

After traveling around the world, Chris Tompkins returned to the United States with a dream. He wanted to open a seafood-centric mobile raw bar in California. This would include world-famous oysters and lobster rolls topped with caviar and uni. They first started at the open-air market known as Smorgasburg in LA and quickly amassed a loyal following. So when they opened their first brick-and-mortar location in Malibu people flocked with excitement. It only took a day and a half after opening for Broad Street to sell all of its inventory. To say they were underprepared would be an understatement, but Chris and the team quickly adapted to the new volume. Now, this fan favorite continues to grow at a rapid pace and is soon to open its 5th and 6th locations in San Francisco and Huntington Beach. Today we chat with Chris, the founder of Broad Street Oyster about:

Chris Tompkins knew he was gay at age 6, but things weren't talked about openly in his home so he internalized the idea that it should remain a secret and he grew up ashamed, and hypervigilant. At 24, he came out and jumped into an LGBTQ community that used drugs and alcohol to deal with the internalized shame they'd felt in their own childhoods. Chris eventually moved to LA and he spent the next 11 years working at a gay bar in West Hollywood where the alcohol and drugs played an even bigger part of his life.In LA he began a search for a god that didn't hate him. Chris was deep into his spiritual journey when he found out he was HIV positive and was forced to come out once again into a world full of stigma and old ways of thinking. It was in a decisive moment, staring at himself in the mirror that he couldn't keep his spiritual self and his drug using self afloat any longer and made the choice to end his relationship with drugs and alcohol. Today, Chris is a Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, life coach, TEDx speaker, and author of the best-selling book, Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground, which aims to create a world where closets don't exist.Episode ResourcesA Roadtrip to Love | aroadtriptolove.comRaising LGBTQ Allies Book | Raising LGBTQ AlliesConnect with ChrisInstagram | @aroadtriptoloveConnect with The Courage to ChangePodcast Website | lionrock.life/couragetochangepodcastPodcast Instagram | @couragetochange_podcastYouTube | The Courage to Change PodcastTikTok | @ashleyloebblassingamePodcast Email | podcast@lionrock.lifePodcast Facebook | @thecouragetochangepodcastLionrock ResourcesLionrock Life Mobile App | lionrock.life/mobile-appSupport Group Meeting Schedule | lionrock.life/meetings

Doing a few episodes called “The Seeker” and don't know a better person than my buddy Chris Tompkins to chat with. We go back several years and talk about this stuff all the time. Hear a non denominational boy gets into Jewish mysticism and more! Subscribe to his newsletter at aroadtriptolove.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground by Chris Tompkins No matter who we are or where we come from, we all play on the same playground. There are certain collective societal messages we hear growing up that we either consciously or subconsciously believe. As a result, we develop […] The post Chris Voss Podcast – Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground by Chris Tompkins appeared first on Chris Voss Official Website.

Chris Tomkins is uncle to five children, a TEDx speaker, spiritual life coach, and LGBTQ inner advocate. Chris has been staunched LGBTQ+ advocate for over 15 years working organizations like the gay and lesbian Alliance against defamation or GLAAD. What began as a letter, he wrote to his family to address a conversation that was not taking place, became an article, a TEDx talk, and is now a new book called Raising LGBTQ Allies. A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. It is the first parenting book to focus on the prevention of homophobia, transphobia, and bullying, before they even begin. He joins us today to shed light on on the deeper multifaceted layers of homophobia and his book that encourages families to have open and authentic conversations in a practical, timely, and inclusive way. 

What if we could transform people's lives from the playground through adulthood?Chris' book, RAISING LGBTQ ALLIES - A Parents Guide To Changing Messages From The Playground..transforms the conversation completely..What if you could be more understanding, acceptance, community and less pain in the world.. as a result of what we do NOW with our children (and ourselves)?ABOUT CHRIS TOMPKINSInstagram/Facebook/Twitter Handle @aroadtriptoloveAfter Chris Tompkins had been out of the closet for almost 15 years—and dedicated his life to LGBTQ advocacy work—his 6-year-old nephew, David, asked if the woman next to him at a family function was his girlfriend.Chris wondered, how could he not know that I was gay? So, in 2015, he wrote his family a letter to address a conversation he realized they weren't having.Raising LGBTQ Allies, started as this letter,  and that letter became an article first published on HuffPost titled “Messages From the Playground: Healing Homophobia Before it Begins and Preventing Bullying Before it Starts,” a TEDx talk, a workshop, and a presentation that led to Chris working at Los Angeles Central Juvenile Hall to help support LGBTQ incarcerated youth.No matter who we are or where we come from, we all play on the same playground. There are certain collective societal messages we hear growing up that we either consciously or subconsciously believe. As a result, we develop certain belief systems from which we operate our lives. Raising LGBTQ Allies sheds light on the deeper, multi-faceted layers of homophobia. It opens up a conversation with parents around the possibility they may have an LGBTQ child, and shows how heteronormativity can be harmful if not addressed clearly and early. Although not every parent will have an LGBTQ child, their child will jump rope or play tag with a child who is LGBTQ.By showing readers the importance of having open and authentic conversations with children at a young age, Chris Tompkins walks parents through the many ways they can prevent new generations from adopting homophobic and transphobic beliefs, while helping them explore their own subconscious biases. Offering specific actions parents, family members, and caregivers can take to help navigate conversations, address heteronormativity, and challenge societal beliefs, Raising LGBTQ Allies serves as a guide to help normalize being LGBTQ from a young age. Creating allies and a world where closets don't exist happens one child at a time. And it begins with each of us and what we say, as much as what we choose not to say._______________IP RESOURCES:*NEW OFFER:July 12th will be our 1st Midlife Fertility and Pregnancy Path Community and Coaching Session at 10AM Pacific.  If you'd like more information, Write: ariel@imperfectparenting.netFREE RESOURCES:1. Experienced pregnancy loss? I have  something for you.. Just write me at:ariel@imperfectparenting.net2. Looking to get pregnant over 40? I've got 7 steps to a healthy midlife pregnancy that worked for me and as well my clients?Write me at: ariel@imperfectparenting.netMidlife Fertility Pregnancy4.  FREE LIVE Q and A on youtube every Friday:This week..  @7/1/22 @9:00What do you really need?https://youtu.be/R-XIK0_2daUMidlife Fertility and pregnancy Instagram:@arielgreenandersson__________Imperfect Parenting Instagram@Ip_parentingImperfect Parenting Website:https://imperfectparenting.netIn Fall   Imperfect Parenting Community Opens!  Write me if you'd like to hear more.

Recently we read a book called Raising LGBTQ Allies by Chris Tompkins. One of the major concepts that stood out to us was the analogy of a universal playground that we have all experienced. The “playground” is a symbolic metaphor for our minds and the messages we receive reflect dominant societal world views. As children, we absorb conscious and unconscious messages that ultimately shape our beliefs and perspective on the society in which we live. Many adults experience apprehension and discomfort introducing complex concepts like heteronormativity, homophobia, transphobia, etc, to young children. What we often fail to realize is that children are introduced to these concepts whether we discuss them explicitly or choose to remain silent. We have discussed socialization on the podcast before, but Chris' book gives an in-depth explanation as it relates to the LGBTQ community in a thoughtful and digestible manner. Today Chris Tompkins joins us to help us discuss this topic further.Hosted by Malik Seelal, Steve Kramer and Sydney Pinn.Follow us @discriminology_podcast on Instagram, @discriminology3 on Facebook and Twitter.Discriminology is produced by Launchpad 516 Studios.Subscribe to Discriminology on Apple Podcasts and get notified of new episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/discriminology/id1521770510Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/discriminology/donations

Pride month is wrapping up and my friend Chris Tompkins returns! Chris is a bestselling author, motivational speaker, and more….including my friend! We talk pride, body image and more! Follow Chris on IG @aroadtriptolove --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

When our kids are little, we don't know whether they will ultimately be gay, straight, or other. So how do we raise kids to feel loved and accepted no matter what their sexual orientation is? How do we raise confident, secure, emotionally healthy LGBTQ kids or LGBTQ allies? To get the answers, I talk to Chris Thompkins, author of Raising LGBTQ Allies. Watch this episode on the Mindful Mama Youtube channel! If you enjoyed this episode, and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @mindfulmamamentor. Have you left a review yet? All you have to do is go to  Apple Podcasts or  Stitcher (or wherever you listen), and thanks for your support of the show! Takeaways: Kids learn a lot from what we DON'T say We can build an atmosphere of inclusion in our home Great resources for every age Chris Tompkins is a teacher, speaker, and life coach. Chris is also author of the book, Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. Get Hunter's book, Raising Good Humans now! Click here to order and get book bonuses! ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is a mindful mama mentor. She coaches smart, thoughtful parents on how to create calm and cooperation in their daily lives. Hunter has over 20 years of experience in mindfulness practices. She has taught thousands worldwide. Be a part of the tribe—we're over 25 thousand strong! Join the Mindful Parenting membership. Take your learning further! Get my Top 2 Best Tools to Stop Yelling AND the Mindful Parenting Roadmap for FREE at: mindfulmamamentor.com/stopyelling/ Find more podcasts, blog posts, free resources, and how to work with Hunter at MindfulMamaMentor.com.

Heather is joined by author, therapist, and TEDx speaker, Chris Tompkins to discuss the impact of heteronormativity in today's culture.  Listen as they unpack the differences between queerphobia and homophobia, how the language and words we use create nuances that stop us from talking to our children about being gay, and the steps that we can use to build a “New Playground” around our subconscious beliefs.  Do not miss these highlights: 04:01 - Chris' motivation for writing his book Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground 07:47 - Messages from the playground is an analogy to describe the subconscious beliefs that we all have about everything 12:14 - The purpose of breaking the book down into three sections; awareness, willingness and change 17:14 - Unpacking the heteronormative message and beliefs that impact our ability to talk to our children about things outside that scope 24:45 - Working in a juvenile hall where the LGBTQ youth were separated from others for safety however that just continues to perpetuate the root of the problem 35:21 - Shift the language from “it's complicated” to “it's complex” to be more inclined to talk 42:59 - The importance of teaching kids to love themselves, as they will make decisions thatare based on the lack of self-love 53:14 - “Don't let what you think is happening on the outside, determine what is going on in the inside.” 54:21 - A look at the steps to build a new playground About our Guest: Chris Tompkins is a therapist, spiritual life coach, TEDx speaker, and author of https://bookshop.org/books/raising-lgbtq-allies-a-parent-s-guide-to-changing-the-messages-from-the-playground/9781538136263 (Raising LGBTQ Allies): A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. Chris believes connecting with our spirituality, loving ourselves, and taking full responsibility for our lives is where our strength lies at the deepest level. He hosts workshops and presentations for universities, conferences, and organizations across the U.S. on anti-bullying, inner advocacy, how to prevent queerphobia, and the importance of changing the messages from the playground. https://www.aroadtriptolove.com/ (https://www.aroadtriptolove.com/)  Catch Chris' TEDx Talk at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0P2GGcuJl6w (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0P2GGcuJl6w) Get Chris' book at https://amzn.to/3O16ISY (https://amzn.to/3O16ISY) 

Chris joins us to answer the 4 questions below in 40 minutes…we talk a little longer, but the convo is sooo yummy those extra minutes are well worth the listen. This conversation offers an infinite amount of layers to ignite all kinds of magic sparks in our understanding of healing, through the lens of LGTBQ ally-ship, religion, faith, worthiness, and the unexpectedness of life….you know…through humaning. 1. What is your magic in the world? 2. What is the wound/shadow/trauma you are currently healing through? 3. What do you consider to be the wound/shadow/trauma of your lifetime? 4. What is currently coming up in your community, right now, and how are you holding space for it and/or supporting your community? Explore his offerings at ARoadTriptoLove Follow Chris on IG Connect with Chris on FB Follow Chris on Twitter Buy his book Raising LGTBQ Allies here! I cannot encourage you more to buy his book. It's a manual for good humaning. Watch his TedTalk Explore all Tandy's offerings at Unicorn Wellness Studio Follow and DM on IG @tandy_gutierrez Follow Tandy on Facebook @unicornwellnessstudio Join Tandy's Telegram group here Get Tandy's Newsletter here

This week, spiritual coach and LGBTQ advocate Chris Tomkins shares some practical tips, tools, exercises, and advice to help you teach your kids about inclusivity. We're uncovering the blind spots we may face as parents and caregivers, discussing the importance of educating our kids on bullying and queerphobia, and showing you how to talk to your children about LGBTQ+ people and matters.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://modernrenegades.com/04

This week, spiritual coach and LGBTQ advocate Chris Tomkins shares some practical tips, tools, exercises, and advice to help you teach your kids about inclusivity. We're uncovering the blind spots we may face as parents and caregivers, discussing the importance of educating our kids on bullying and queerphobia, and showing you how to talk to your children about LGBTQ+ people and matters.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://modernrenegades.com/04 This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit inmotherwords.substack.com/subscribe

How do we raise LBGTQ allies? We know boys are (still) subject to a lot of homophobia and transphobia. Our culture is full of messages that tell boys it's best to be straight and stereotypically masculine. And though many of us think we're raising our boys to tolerant, inclusive, and accepting, they may be getting a different message from what we don't say. Chris Tompkins, author of Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground, recognized the power of unspoken messages when his then 6-year-old nephew asked him -- an openly gay man -- if the female friend with him was his girlfriend. In that moment, Chris realized that his nephew didn't know he was gay. In conversations with adult family members the next day, Chris learned that most believed that his nephew wasn't "old enough to understand." Others said they didn't know how to discuss homosexuality and heterosexuality with their children. The reality, Chris says, is that there may be LGBTQ kids in our families right now. And when we don't acknowledge that -- by, for instance, not talking about homosexuality -- "we're contributing to the continuation of the closet, which is a hot bed for shame," Chris says. Most of us didn't have these conversations with our parents. We can do better for our kids. In this episode, Jen & Chris discuss: Heteronormativity How adults' lack of conversation about homosexuality perpetuates stigma and shame Talking to about sex & sexuality at  developmentally appropriate levels How seemingly innocuous questions & comments -- "Do you have a girlfriend yet?" "Wow, I bet all the girls are after you!" -- can contribute to shame and silence Subconscious beliefs we (and our kids) pick up from the dominant culture Repair & reconnection Validating kids' perceptions Links we mentioned (or should have) in this episode: Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground, by Chris Tompkins What Children Learn from the Things They Aren't Told -- Chris's TedX talk ARoadTripToLove.com -- Chris's website Why Inclusive Sex Ed is So Important -- article by Jen Need help with your boys? Subscribe to Jen's newsletter, Building Boys Bulletin Opt-in at Boys Alive! for your free guide: Boys & Big Emotions with Janet Sponsor Spotlight: NextGenMen Use the ON BOYS coupon code to save 15% on their Raising Next Gen Men e-course

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Do you validate other people's experiences? In this week's episode, Chris Tompkins (he/him) shares about being an LGBTQ inner advocate and practicing allyship toward himself. Learn how he found his way to sobriety while acknowledging that AA isn't for everyone. We also discuss the term "Guncle" and how being one was part of the inspiration for his book, Raising LGBTQ Allies. Have you ever heard of "machismo?" Chris talks about how it influences Latin American culture and what it meant for the messages he received as a young gay child. We also discuss what it's like sharing our stories on PFLAG panels, spirituality, and how heteronormativity is a lot like humidity...! Some self-reflection: 1. Do I make space for people in my life who are sober? 2. Are there many events near me that don't revolve around or include alcohol? 3. Do I attend any events called happy hour, whether or not anyone drinks? 4. Has someone ever applied silver lining to a hardship I was experiencing? How did it feel for me? 5. What messages did I receive on the playground? 6. Does where I live accurately portray the world around me? Or are there filters? Resources, references, and full transcripts for each episode are available at www.allyshipisaverb.com Host Chris Angel (they/them) has a background in LGBTQ+ education, community organizing, and social work. Guest episodes feature at least one allyship tip, including tailored questions given their unique intersecting identities. Please consider following where you listen to podcasts! Keep the conversation going on Instagram @GenderSexualityInfo --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/chris-angel-murphy/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/chris-angel-murphy/support

Chris Angel Murphy (they/them) is a queer, trans, and nonbinary LGBTQ+ educator and consultant living in Denver, CO, but is originally from Los Angeles, CA. They have a background in social work and LGBTQ+ community organizing. Chris Angel started LGBTQ+ community organizing as a freshman in high school back in 2001 and has been speaking and presenting on various topics ever since. They also have their own podcast, Allyship is a Verb, in which they interview LGBTQ+ community members from various lived experiences and backgrounds. In addition to all that, Chris Angel is just a great conversationalist, fearless when it comes to tackling difficult subjects with love and compassion. I loved this conversation with them, and fell wildly in love with their Best Book Ever, “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” by Stephen Chbosky. WHAT a book! Support the Best Book Ever Podcast on Patreon   Follow the Best Book Ever Podcast on Instagram or on the Best Book Ever Website   Do you have a book you want to tell me about? Go HERE to apply to be a guest on the Best Book Ever Podcast.   Host: Julie Strauss Website/Instagram     Guest: Chris Angel Murphy Instagram /Podcast/Etsy Store/Website/Gumroad   Discussed in this episode: The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky The Animorphs series The Goosebumps series by R.L. Stine Go Ask Alice by Anonymous Over the Top: A Raw Journey to Self Love by Jonathan Van Ness (Julie's note: JVN narrates the audiobook version of this book; if you aren't in love with them yet, you for sure will be after you listen to it!) The Perks of Being a Wallflower movie The Fault in Our Stars by John Green Sissy: A Coming of Gender Story by Jacob Tobia     Discussed in our Patreon Exclusive clip PFLAG Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parents' Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground by Chris Tompkins   (Note: Some of the above links are affiliate links, meaning I get a few bucks off your purchase at no extra expense to you. Anytime you shop for books, you can use my affiliate link on Bookshop, which also supports Indie Bookstores around the country. If you're shopping for everything else – clothes, office supplies, gluten-free pasta, couches – you can use my affiliate link for Amazon. Thank you for helping to keep the Best Book Ever Podcast in business!)

Raising kids who are allies to the LGBTQ+ community may seem like second-nature to gay parents, but everyone has their blind spots. And what about our straight family and friends? Although they may be allies themselves, many may not be aware of how their words, actions, and even gifts can influence how the kids in their lives understand LGBTQ+ people. This episode, GWK Executive Editor David Dodge talks to author, teacher, and speaker Chris Tompkins about his stocking-stuffer-perfect book "Raising LGBTQ+ Allies: A Parent's Guide To Changing The Messages From The Playground." Learn more about Chris at GaysWithKids.com, and follow GWK on social media @gayswithkids - Produced by Brit Smith.

Dr. Rob Meeder is a pediatrician with a practice focused on behaviour and mental health issues in children and youth. He visits the Shaping Our World podcast to chat with host Chris Tompkins about some of the common stressors facing children today, along with coping and communication strategies for parents and kids alike.

For 25 years, Plan to Protect has provided the highest standard of abuse prevention and protection for organizations serving children, youth and persons with disabilities. Melodie Bissell, president and CEO of Plan to Protect, stopped by the podcast to chat with host Chris Tompkins about the program's history, its methods, and the ways we can all do our part to safeguard the most vulnerable among us. Muskoka Woods is proud to be partnered with Plan to Protect — one of the many ways we make our summer camp a safe and fun experience for everyone.

Do you talk about gender and sexuality with your children? Do they know what it means to be LGBTQ? Do you ever wonder at what age it is most appropriate to have these conversations with your children?As parents, we have a lot on our plate. Navigating conversations like these ones may not be at the top of our list. But almost 6% of adults in the US identify as LGBTQ - and 5-10% of LGBTQ youth attempt suicide each year (roughly 1.5-3 times more than heterosexual youth). It's clear that we have some work to do. Because as my guest on the show today, Chris Tompkins says, the messages about this subject begin on the playground. And while you may not have a child who is LGBTQ, your child will almost certainly interact with someone who is, and we need to begin to change the societal beliefs around the subject.On today's show, we talk about two very important concepts: Heteronormativity, which is the concept of being assumed straight at birth, and Benign Neglect. Both of these societal standards are leading our LGBTQ youth and later, adults, to feel shame, and to live a life where they do not feel accepted for who they are. And that is unacceptable.Chris discusses his book,https://www.amazon.com/Raising-LGBTQ-Allies-Changing-Playground/dp/1538136260/ref=sr_1_5?crid=1N3JHDNCT1SPD&dchild=1&keywords=raising+lgbtq+children&qid=1633397157&sprefix=how+to+raise+kids+who+aren%27%2Caps%2C481&sr=8-5 We discuss at what age to talk to children about the LGBTQ community, why it's important that we must, among other things. This episode is a must for every parent.

Dr. Michael D. Cohen studied under iconic pollster Bill Hamilton as a student, worked in the trenches in Republican campaigns, spent time at Gallup, apprenticed under iconic GOP pollster Tony Fabrizio (most known recently as Donald Trump's pollster) and worked with famed Dem strategist Mark Penn when Michael was an in-house pollster at Microsoft. Along the way, Michael started his own firm (Cohen Research Group), built the booming political Congress in Your Pocket technology app, and recently wrote the book Modern Political Campaigns to bring the campaign literature up to speed with the ever-evolving political industry. This is a great nuts-and-bolts conversation on the political industry with a successful pollster, tech entrepreneur, and author.IN THIS EPISODE…Michael's formative years growing up on Long Island…The political switch flips for Michael in college…Michael crosses paths with famed Democratic pollster Bill Hamilton…Michael makes the jump to political polling under Tony Fabrizio…The bizarre story of how one of Michael's candidates was pilloried on the Colbert Report…Michael starts his own polling firm to move beyond partisan politics…Michael's stint as an in-house pollster at Microsoft with Mark Penn…Michael's compares working with legendary Dem pollster Mark Penn and iconic GOP pollster Tony Fabrizio…Michael creates the wildly successful Congress in Your Pocket app…Michael's 101 on how to create an app…The long journey behind Michael's new book Modern Political Campaigns…Michael's advice to those who want to write a book and get it published…Michael's take on what makes a good pollster…Michael weighs in on the question of a “polling crisis”…Michael's advice on the best books to understand how politics works…AND AAPOR, Michael Bender, Sidney Blumenthal, Stephen Colbert, Sean Cook, Bob Dole, enlargement ads, Ezra Cohen Corporation, Arthur Finkelstein, the Gallup Poll, Josh Gottheimer, Sasha Issenberg, Peter Jennings, Steve Jobs, Ed Koch, Celinda Lake, Massapequa mannerisms, mobilization vs. persuasion, Never Trump Republicans, Ronald Reagan, Rowman & Littlefield, Jake Rush, Karen Thurman, Chris Tompkins, Tevi Troy, vampire roleplaying, Ted Yoho, & more!

Today, I talk with Chris Tompkins. Chris recently published his book “Raising LGBTQ Allies”. We talk about words, representation, and being better people. Chris always inspires me to be a better person and I think you'll feel the same. Buy his book and visit his website: aroadtriptolove.com and on Instagram

Chris Tompkins is a teacher, TEDx speaker, life coach, and LGBTQ inner-advocate based in Los Angeles, CA. He just released the book, “Raising LGBTQ Allies”, which offers straightforward exercises for parents, family members, and caregivers to help navigate conversations, address heteronormativity, and challenge dominant societal beliefs. Find his best-selling book on Amazon and contact Chris at www.aroadtriptolove.comSupport the show (https://paypal.me/efficiencyB)

Author Chris Tompkins joins me to discuss his upcoming book, Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground.We also discuss the topic of internalized homophobia, and how heteronormative language creates harmful long-lasting subconscious messages.This episode isn't just for parents. It's for everyone who has been affected by the weight of internalized messages, believes in the power of words and intention, and wants to change the conversation! Pre-order Raising LGBTQ Allies here.  Instagram: @aroadtriptoloveTwitter: @ARoadTripToLove

Life Coach, Teacher, Speaker, Chris Tompkins, joins me to discuss his new bookRAISING LGBTQ ALLIES: A PARENT'S GUIDE TO CHANGING THE MESSAGES FROM THE PLAYGROUNDAvailable for pre-order: https://bit.ly/3kyMaSp.  Contact Chris at www.aroadtriptolove.com Support the show (https://paypal.me/efficiencyB)

You're a parent or maybe you work with young people in your job - but either way, you have a desire to inspire the young people in your life. Hi, my name is Chris Tompkins, a 20 plus years veteran of youth development. Both on the front lines and leading the youth development organization, Muskoka Woods. I'm also a dad.    Shaping Our World is a podcast that invites you into a conversation that will leave you more confident in inspiring and understanding the young people in your life.

Damon Ealey is a principal in the Greater Toronto Area and what he's seen in the ways different students have taken to online learning leads him to believe that remote learning and new ways of teaching will be here to stay.  Chris Tompkins and Damon discuss how the pandemic of 2020 and 2021 has impacted education and what it means for the future of learning. 

As the CEO of Growing Leaders, an organization specializing in youth leadership programs and skills training. His most recent book, The Pandemic Population: 8 Strategies to Help Generation Z Recognize Hope, seeks to help our youngest generation come out well from the COVID-19 pandemic.  On this episode, Tim and Chris Tompkins discuss learning and leading young people. 

Songwriter Chris Tompkins joins Tom to discuss the song he wrote "Before He Cheats" by Carrie Underwood

Most people are familiar with the seven chakra system, but is it the only one? Is the oldest? Where does the seven chakra system come from and does Patanjali's Yoga Sutra ever mention the word chakra? If you have been wanting to know more about the chakra system, this episode will answer many of your questions! Join us with scholar and yogi, Chris Tompkins, as we discuss the origins of the chakra system and how understanding its context and history can empower us to utilize this amazing system more effectively in our practice and lives.  Special Guest: Chris Tompkins www.shaivayoga.com www.yogavidhi.org www.indiegogo.com/projects/the-ancient-roots-of-sun-saluation-yoga-vinyasa-india#/ Host: Ashton Szabo www.anatomyofliving.com Sound Engineer: Zach Cooper Producer: Benn Mendelson www.sivanaspirit.com Enter to win our weekly contests at: www.sivanaspirit.com/contest/