Podcast appearances and mentions of chris tompkins

In this episode of Shaping Our World, Chris Tompkins sits down with leadership professor and Illuminaire Institute founder Karise Hutchinson to explore what it means to raise wise, resilient, young leaders in a world full of noise and uncertainty. Karise shares how character, courage and curiosity shape healthy leadership, both at home and in the workplace. Together, they discuss the impact of stories, social media, AI, family influence and intergenerational relationships on young people today. This thoughtful conversation offers practical insight for parents, educators and mentors who want to help youth grow in confidence, discernment and integrity.

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Did you get your eight hours last night? In this episode of Shaping Our World, Chris Tompkins talks with sleep expert Alanna McGinn about why sleep matters for the whole family. Alanna shares practical insight for parents, caregivers and youth leaders on teen sleep rhythms, stress, anxiety, technology and the daily habits that help young people rest well. From family sleep meetings to tech boundaries and morning routines, this conversation offers clear, supportive ways to help youth build healthier sleep patterns and grow with confidence.  

In this episode of the Shaping Our World podcast, Chris Tompkins speaks with inventor, writer and speaker Andini Makosinski about how creativity grows through curiosity, empathy and persistence. She shares the story behind the Hollow Flashlight and reflects on how failure can become helpful information for learning. Andini also encourages parents and leaders to create space for imagination so young people can grow confidence and begin shaping their world with purpose.  

Chris is an author and speaker, a California transplant, and a therapist that specializes in working with gay men around identity, masculinity, shame, and religious trauma. Our conversation wanders through what drew him to a career in therapy, navigating shame, the false feminine and the false masculine, and his next book. Website: www.aroadtriptolove.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christompkinslife/

Dr. Jean Clinton, clinical professor in the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioural Neurosciences at McMaster University and staff psychiatrist at McMaster Children's Hospital, joins Chris Tompkins for a practical conversation for parents. She explains how connection, emotional safety, repair, and everyday presence shape a child's brain. From the early years to adolescence, this episode offers clear, hopeful insight for families navigating stress, independence, phones, and healthy development.

Previously, we've discussed how growing up gay in a world that often misunderstood or rejected us can leave deep emotional scars. In adulthood, these wounds may show up as shame, fear of intimacy, self-doubt, or difficulty trusting both ourselves and others.In this episode, Chris Tompkins, founder of A Road Trip to Love, joins us to explore how gay men can recognize, nurture, and heal the wounded parts of their inner child to transforming past pain into self-acceptance.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 121. Unpack Your Gay Emotional Baggage (with Dr. Jason Durant)Listen to Episode 146. The Velvet RageAdditional Resources:Gay Men's Mental Health: Navigating Challenges and Finding Support through TherapyUnmasking Gay Shame: Identity, Trauma, and the Lessons of The Velvet RageLearn More About ChrisFollow Chris on InstagramFollow Chris on FacebookFollow Chris on TwitterRead Raising LGBTQ AlliesSupport the showGet Your Merch

Send us Fan MailI denne episoden møter vi Chris Tompkins, Vice President of Business Development i Rustici Software – selskapet bak SCORM Cloud e-læringsavspillerne i verden og en premissgiver for hvordan standarder utvikles og tas i bruk. Tompkins regnes som en internasjonal kapasitet innen læringsteknologi, med dyp ekspertise på standarder som SCORM og xAPI, og hvordan disse muliggjør samspill i et fragmentert L&D-økosystem.Sammen med host Jens Christian Bang går samtalen inn i hvordan e-læring faktisk fungerer under panseret, hvorfor standarder er avgjørende for skalering, og hvordan virksomheter kan ta bedre teknologivalg i anskaffelsesprosesser. Episoden tar også for seg hvordan AI er i ferd med å endre både produksjon, distribusjon og personalisering av læring – og hvilke muligheter og utfordringer dette skaper fremover.Dette er en episode for deg som vil forstå både fundamentet og fremtiden for digital læring.Se episoden og les mer om temaet på https://www.alonlearn.com/no/blogDigitaliseringspådden lages av Already On og CW.no. Besøk oss på digitaliseringspodden.alreadyon.com. Du finner Digitaliseringspådden på alle plattformer – lytt via Spotify, Apple Podcasts eller YouTube Podcasts. 

Season 6 of the Shaping Our World podcast is here! In this premiere, Chris Tompkins sits down with speaker, author — and professional juggler — Joel Hilchey to talk about leadership, joy and why fun belongs in meaningful work. Joel shares his journey from engineering to culture building and offers practical insight for parents, educators and leaders who want to help young people grow with confidence and purpose.    

Sex & Power: Chris Tompkins - The Truth About Shame: Chris Tompkins on Love, Liberation, and LGBTQ ResilienceChris Tompkins is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist who specializes in working with adult gay men. He is also the author of the APA award-winning book Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. Chris has a Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University, with a specialization in LGBTQ Affirmative Psychology. In addition to being a therapist, Chris is a writer and public speaker. His work has been featured on TEDx, NBC, HuffPost, Psychology Today, The Advocate, and more.Today, Chris shares his experiences growing up with non-affirming religion and the shame that it caused him as he recognized his same-sex attraction. From first romantic experiences to coming out to family, Chris candidly discusses his journey, highlighting the normalcy of curiosity and the power of self-compassion. FIND CHRIS:https://linktr.ee/aroadtriptolove?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=85ae724f-a9c8-49bf-9b08-78de90aa052eFIND JANICE:Janice Selbie's best-selling book, Divorcing Religion: A Memoir and Survival Handbook, is available here: https://amzn.to/4mnDxuoReligious Trauma Survivor Support Groups happen online Tuesdays and Thursdays at 5pm Pacific/8pm Eastern. Don't miss this opportunity to connect with others for support: https://www.divorcing-religion.com/servicesNeed help on your journey of healing from Religious Trauma? Book a free 20-minute consultation with Janice here: https://www.divorcing-religion.com/Follow Janice and Divorcing Religion on Social Media:https://linktr.ee/janiceselbieThe Sex & Power Podcast is for entertainment purposes only. If you need help with your mental health, please consult a qualified, secular mental health clinician. The views expressed by guests on the Sex & Power Podcast are not necessarily held by the host.Support the show

Loneliness is one of the most unspoken struggles among gay men, especially as we age, get sober, or outgrow old social circles. In this powerful conversation, licensed therapist Chris Tompkins unpacks why so many gay men feel disconnected even when surrounded by people, apps, and nightlife. This episode explores how sobriety, shame, dating apps, and societal expectations quietly fuel isolation, and what it actually takes to build authentic connection. From the “wounded healer” journey to embracing singleness, self-acceptance, and values-based living, this episode invites gay men to stop chasing validation and start creating lives rooted in truth, alignment, and meaningful connection. Three Key Takeaways Loneliness isn't a personal failure, it's often a byproduct of disconnection from self.Sobriety can reveal who and what is genuinely aligned in your life.Real connection begins when your values, actions, and identity are congruent. About Christopher Chris Tompkins is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist who specializes in working with adult gay men. He is also the author of the award-winning book Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. In addition to being a therapist, Chris is a writer and public speaker. His work has been featured on TEDx, NBC, HuffPost, Psychology Today, The Advocate, and more. Connect With Christopher Website Instagram LinkedIn Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you're going to do, but never do? Then it's time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies

In part two of our Generation Z series, Chris Tompkins sits down with researcher Jennifer Deal to unpack new Muskoka Woods findings on how young adults see leadership, work, purpose and well being. Jennifer shares what Gen Z is actually saying and how adults can support their growth with clarity, care and responsibility. This conversation offers a grounded look at what helps young people thrive today.

Dr. Tim Elmore is back! He joins Chris Tompkins to talk about what is shaping Gen Z and how adults can guide them with confidence. Tim shares what he is seeing in young people today and why understanding their world helps us lead them well. From rising anxiety to new expectations around work, Tim offers grounded insight that helps parents and leaders support growth and purpose. This conversation gives space for honest reflection and practical ideas that fit the pace of real life. Listen to Tim's first visit to the Shaping Our World podcast here.

This week, Chris Tompkins talks with Hillary Spiritos, founder of Bat Outta Hell and certified pathfinding coach, about helping young adults find clarity in a world full of noise. Drawing from her work with students at NYU and Northeastern University, Hillary shares how to build self-trust, redefine success, and move through fear and imposter syndrome with courage. Together, they explore why your 20s and 30s are the perfect time to embrace uncertainty, take risks, and shape a life aligned with your values. This conversation will leave you feeling hopeful about the next generation's confidence and creativity.  

In this episode of Shaping Our World, host Chris Tompkins sits down with Susan Bisaillon, CEO of Safehaven, a Toronto-based organization redefining inclusion for children, youth, and adults with complex medical needs. With more than 30 years of leadership across Canada's health care system, Susan shares how Safehaven creates community-based care that keeps kids out of hospitals and helps families thrive. Together, they explore how initiatives like Where Hope Lives—a board game helping families talk about disability and belonging—are changing how young people understand difference. Susan also opens up about her personal calling to this work, the power of visibility in inclusion, and what it means to lead with both innovation and compassion.  

Former CEO Leadership Program  participants Joel Krishnan and Joy Montemurro join Chris Tompkins to reflect on how Muskoka Woods shaped their growth as young leaders. From confidence-building lessons in the CEO Leadership Program to serving communities in the Dominican Republic, Joel and Joy share how faith, friendship, and hands-on experiences continue to guide them. Hear their honest take on what leadership, purpose, and community look like for today's teens—and why it matters.  

This episode of Shaping Our World features Curtis Carmichael, author, app developer, and future-of-education strategist. From growing up in Toronto Community Housing to creating the world's first augmented reality memoir, Butterflies in the Trenches: A Memoir of Struggle, Loss, and Triumph, Curtis shares how storytelling, technology, and community can transform the way we teach and inspire young people. He and host Chris Tompkins explore the future of education, the role of AI, and how parents and educators can guide youth in a rapidly changing world.

In this episode of Shaping Our World, Chris Tompkins sits down with Dr. Susan Chuang, professor, researcher, and family mediator whose work focuses on parenting, child development, and family dynamics across cultures. Drawing from her global research and years of hands-on community work, Susan shares stories and insights about the challenges families face today—from academic pressure and cultural expectations to navigating mental health and technology. She talks about the importance of open communication, building self-esteem in young people, and what it really means to support kids in ways that help them thrive. Susan also highlights her research on fatherhood and why boys' mental health needs special attention. Whether you're raising young kids or walking alongside teens, this episode offers perspective and encouragement for anyone who cares about the next generation.  

In this episode of Shaping Our World, Chris Tompkins sits down with author and Festival of Literary Diversity founder Jael Richardson. From her father's story as the CFL's first Black quarterback to her own journey as a writer and mother, Jael shares how faith, family, and storytelling shape identity. Together, they explore why representation matters, how stories build empathy, and what today's youth need most from the books and leaders in their lives.

What happens when a 16-year-old goes from having no friends in a new country to shaking hands with world leaders? In this episode of Shaping Our World, Chris Tompkins sits down with Steve Joneslee—youth advocate, nonprofit founder, and UN leader—to explore how agency, resilience, and fresh perspectives empower young people to shape a sustainable future. Discover practical ways families and communities can unleash the leadership potential in today's youth and inspire change right now.  

In this insightful episode, Dr. Eran Magen—Stanford-trained psychologist and founder of Parenting for Humans—joins Chris Tompkins to explore how parents can build strong, joyful, and collaborative relationships with their kids. From trauma-informed parenting to supporting children through divorce and emotional distress, Dr. Magen shares practical, science-backed strategies that every caregiver can use. Whether you're raising toddlers or teens, this conversation offers tools to foster trust, resilience, and connection in today's parenting journey.  

On this episode of the Shaping Our World podcast, Chris Tompkins sits down with award-winning author and mindfulness educator Jamie Lynn Tatera. With warmth and wisdom, Jamie Lynn shares playful, research-based tools to help families navigate tough emotions like anxiety and self-criticism. Discover how building mindful self-compassion can strengthen confidence, deepen connections, and support your child's emotional well-being—starting with you. Whether you're raising a preschooler or mentoring teens, this episode offers hope and practical insight for every caregiver.  

In this episode of Shaping Our World, Chris Tompkins talks with Jules Porter, Director of Programs at Jays Care Foundation, about how sport can be a powerful tool for growth and resilience in young people. Jules shares how Jays Care supports youth facing barriers—through innovative, inclusive programs across Canada—and highlights their partnership with Muskoka Woods. Together, they host a life-changing retreat for girls from First Nations communities west of James Bay, where participants build leadership skills, form friendships, and discover their potential. It's a conversation full of insight, inspiration, and a deep belief in the power of play to shape lives.

In this episode of Shaping Our World, host Chris Tompkins sits down with Dr. Tenelle Porter, a developmental psychologist and leading expert on intellectual humility. With humour and heart, Tenelle unpacks how embracing what we don't know can help teens thrive in today's complex, digital world. From growing curiosity to navigating disagreement, the conversation offers insight for parents, educators, and mentors who want to raise resilient, reflective young people. Tune in to explore how humility isn't weakness—it's a strength that shapes better relationships, stronger communities, and a deeper understanding of ourselves and others.  

In this episode of Shaping Our World, Dr. Karen Bluth joins host Chris Tompkins to explore how self-compassion can transform the lives of teens. A leading researcher and author, Dr. Bluth unpacks practical tools for managing anxiety, overcoming self-criticism, and navigating the challenges of adolescence. With heartfelt stories and research-backed insights, this episode offers encouragement and strategies for parents, educators, and anyone passionate about supporting young people on their journey to emotional well-being.

In this episode of Shaping Our World, Chris Tompkins is joined by teenage sisters Mercedes and Anastasia Korngut, co-founders of Small Bits of Happiness. Tune in to hear how their journey—from struggling with happiness to building a thriving business and podcast—empowers teens to build joyful habits, foster deeper connections with parents, and find meaning in everyday moments. Discover practical “happiness hacks” and inspiring insights that will resonate with youth, parents, and educators alike.  

Send us a textCatching up this week with return guest Dr. Michael Cohen, who just released a new edition of his book Modern Political Campaigns this month. He studied under iconic pollster Bill Hamilton as a student, worked in the trenches in Republican campaigns, spent time at Gallup, apprenticed under renowned GOP pollster Tony Fabrizio and worked with famed Dem strategist Mark Penn when Michael was an in-house pollster at Microsoft. Along the way, Michael started his own firm (Cohen Research Group), built the successful Congress in Your Pocket tech app, and wrote Modern Political Campaigns to bring the campaign literature up to speed with the ever-evolving political industry - including a new edition that includes a focus on the role AI is playing in political campaigns. This is a great nuts-and-bolts conversation on the political industry with a smart pollster, tech entrepreneur, and author.IN THIS EPISODE…The new edition of Modern Political Campaigns, including a focus on AI in campaigns...How political campaigns are (and are not) using AI at this point...What Michael knows about Gen Z from teaching courses at NYU and Johns Hopkins...Lessons he learned from a recent heart attack and recovery...Michael's formative years growing up on Long Island…The political switch flips for Michael in college…Michael crosses paths with famed Democratic pollster Bill Hamilton…Michael makes the jump to political polling under Tony Fabrizio…The bizarre story of how one of Michael's candidates was pilloried on the Colbert Report…Michael starts his own polling firm to move beyond partisan politics…Michael's stint as an in-house pollster at Microsoft with Mark Penn…Michael's compares working with legendary Dem pollster Mark Penn and iconic GOP pollster Tony Fabrizio…Michael creates the wildly successful Congress in Your Pocket app…Michael's 101 on how to create an app…The long journey behind Michael's new book Modern Political Campaigns…Michael's advice to those who want to write a book and get it published…Michael's take on what makes a good pollster…Michael weighs in on the question of a “polling crisis”…Michael's advice on the best books to understand how politics works…AND AAPOR, Michael Bender, Sidney Blumenthal, Stephen Colbert, Sean Cook, Bob Dole, enlargement ads, Ezra Cohen Corporation, Arthur Finkelstein, the Gallup Poll, Josh Gottheimer, Sasha Issenberg, Peter Jennings, Steve Jobs, Ed Koch, Celinda Lake, Massapequa mannerisms, mobilization vs. persuasion, Never Trump Republicans, Ronald Reagan, Rowman & Littlefield, Jake Rush, Karen Thurman, Chris Tompkins, Tevi Troy, vampire roleplaying, Ted Yoho, & more!

Chris Tompkins welcomes Dr. Robin Baweja — pediatrician, author, and founder of Dear Mommy — for a meaningful conversation on children's mental health. Drawing from her medical background and personal experience as a parent, Dr. Baweja shares how to recognize early signs of anxiety, depression, and emotional struggles in kids, along with tips for building resilience. They explore the impact of the pandemic, the importance of emotional literacy, and how parents and caregivers can support children at every stage of development.  

In this episode of Shaping Our World, host Chris Tompkins sits down with Fiona Goy and Poppy Go, two remarkable mothers who have dedicated their lives to advocating for children with exceptionalities. Fiona and Poppy share their personal journeys of raising sons on the autism spectrum, the life-changing decisions they made to support their development, and how sports, summer camps, and employment opportunities have empowered their children to thrive. Their inspiring stories offer encouragement, practical wisdom, and a powerful message about inclusion, resilience, and the limitless potential within every young person.

In this episode of Shaping Our World, host Chris Tompkins welcomes acclaimed author and creative director, Sara Furlong. With nearly 20 years of experience creating engaging content for kids and tweens, Sara shares insights on fostering empathy and understanding through literature. We dive into her award-winning book, Every Brain is Beautiful, which introduces neurodiversity to children, and explore her latest project, Storyay, a revolutionary approach to literacy. Join us for an inspiring conversation on storytelling, inclusivity, and how we can better support the young minds shaping our world.

In this interview, author, advocate, and therapist Chris Tompkins shares his personal journey of self-discovery as a gay man raised […] The post The Importance of Visibility An Interview with Chris Tompkins appeared first on Queer Theology.

In this episode of Shaping Our World, host Chris Tompkins talks with Dr. Mariana Brussoni, a developmental psychologist and professor at the University of British Columbia. Dr. Brussoni's research highlights the surprising benefits of risky outdoor play for children, from building resilience to fostering creativity and independence. They dive into why unstructured play is vital for development and how parents can overcome the fear of letting kids take healthy risks. Packed with practical advice and fresh perspectives, this conversation will leave you rethinking how play shapes young lives. Don't miss this fascinating and empowering discussion!  

Join host Chris Tompkins as he sits down with renowned child development expert Ellen Galinsky. Ellen, president of Families and Work Institute and acclaimed author, brings a wealth of insights on youth development. Known for her groundbreaking book, Mind in the Making, Ellen's latest release, The Breakthrough Years, dives into the complexities of adolescence with a fresh perspective. Her expertise in executive functioning, skill-building, and adolescent growth makes this episode a must-listen for anyone invested in understanding today's youth. This engaging conversation offers both practical advice and inspiration for parents, educators, and leaders. 

In this episode of Shaping Our World, host Chris Tompkins speaks with Dave Krocker, head of Rosseau Lake College. They explore the importance of outdoor experiential learning and its impact on youth development. Dave shares his passion for immersive nature experiences and how his school integrates these principles into education. The conversation covers key educational trends, like the rise of AI, and the importance of teaching ethical responsibility. Together, they offer practical advice for educators and parents, highlighting the vital role of balance, soft skills, and character development in shaping today's youth.  

In this episode of the Shaping Our World podcast, host Chris Tompkins welcomes back Dr. Karyn Gordon, CEO of DK Leadership, to explore how goal-setting and time management can shape youth leadership and impact mental health. With over 25 years of experience as a therapist, executive coach, and bestselling author, Dr. Karyn shares insights on her upcoming event, "Leadership 101: Youth Edition." Learn practical strategies to help young people set meaningful goals, manage their time effectively, and how these skills contribute to their overall well-being and success. Perfect for parents and caregivers looking to empower the next generation. As a bonus, Dr. Karyn is offering a FREE Parent Report Card to assist you on your parenting journey.

Every year Muskoka Woods leads over 400 Gen Z staff in hosting 25,000 guests. As they looked to lead these staff well, they conducted a study on the overall perspective their Gen Z staff has on life, employment, and what kind of lives they want to live. The insights are helpful to anyone who is mentoring, leading, or employing Gen Z.

Every year Muskoka Woods leads over 400 Gen Z staff in hosting 25,000 guests. As they looked to lead these staff well, they conducted a study on the overall perspective their Gen Z staff has on life, employment, and what kind of lives they want to live. The insights are helpful to anyone who is mentoring, leading, or employing Gen Z.

Join host Chris Tompkins as he delves into the world of youth development with Brad Griffin, Senior Director of Content and Research at the Fuller Youth Institute. With a rich background in spirituality, Christian faith, and youth ministry, Brad shares invaluable insights for parents and caregivers. Whether you're from a faith-based background or not, this episode offers thoughtful perspectives on raising confident, well-rounded kids in today's culture. Discover practical tips and inspiring advice to better understand and support the young people in your life. Tune in for an engaging and enlightening conversation!

In this episode of Shaping Our World, host Chris Tompkins has a heartfelt conversation with Brady Leavold, retired professional hockey player turned beacon of hope. Brady's journey is a testament to resilience and the power of redemption. From the highs of signing with the Tampa Bay Lightning to the depths of addiction and despair, Brady's story is one of transformation.  Discover how Brady's rediscovery of his love for the game sparked a journey of healing and purpose. Through his Puck Support Network and podcast, Hockey 2 Hell and Back, Brady is on a mission to support fellow athletes and anyone grappling with mental health and addiction challenges. Tune in for practical insights on supporting young people navigating mental health, understanding the unique pressures athletes face, and how childhood trauma shapes our futures. Brady's story will inspire you to believe in the possibility of second chances and the capacity for change.

LGBTQ-affirming therapist Chris Tompkins clearly remembers knowing by the age of six that he was gay. So when he was told that his six-year-old nephew was "not old enough" to understand that he had a gay uncle, it started Chris down a path that ultimately led to him a writing a book titled "Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground." Chris describes how his religious upbringing made him genuinely believe that if he put all his energy into becoming "the best Christian," he could eventually make himself straight (spoiler alert: he couldn't). A natural storyteller, Chris details several close calls he had during his study abroad in Italy ("I feel like I was trying to come out"), and shares the beautiful story of how he eventually met his first boyfriend through a series of random-but-fateful events. Plus, Chris's record-breaking tour where he came out to a whopping seven family members during a single visit home!Follow Chris on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook at @aroadtriptolove, and check out his website, aroadtriptolove.com, for info on his book, his work, and much more!

In this episode, we embark on a thoughtful exploration into the crucial topic of raising LGBTQIA+ allies with Chris Tompkins. Join us as we navigate the nuances of discussing LGBTQ issues with children, gaining insights into the right age to broach these conversations and foster understanding. Chris delves into the subconscious heteronormative norms ingrained in us from a young age and provides guidance on releasing them, paving the way for a more inclusive perspective. Our conversation extends to addressing the challenges posed by homophobic teachers, offering practical strategies to navigate these situations and ensure a supportive environment for all. We also delve into the proactive measures needed to prevent the adoption of homophobic and transphobic beliefs by new generations. Chris shares specific actions that parents, family members, and caregivers can take to initiate and navigate conversations that foster allyship and inclusivity. About Chris Tompkins Chris Tompkins is a therapist and educator based in Los Angeles, California. Chris specializes in helping gay men unburden past pain to wake up feeling a greater sense of purpose, self-acceptance, and belonging.In addition to being a therapist, Chris is a TEDx speaker and author of the best-selling book, Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. While his book aims to help families prevent homophobia, transphobia, and bullying before they begin, Raising LGBTQ Allies is a peace offering for members of the LGBTQ community to heal from the effects of trauma and toxic shame.The foundation of Chris' work is built on the belief that connecting with our spirituality, loving ourselves, and taking full responsibility for our lives and choices is where our strength lies at the deepest level.  Get Chris' book: https://www.amazon.com/Raising-LGBTQ-Allies-Changing-Playground/dp/1538136260/ Chris' website: https://www.aroadtriptolove.com/ Chris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aroadtriptolove/ About Me   I'm George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.   Yet, my gay dating life since hasn't always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can't Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/   Connect With Me   Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/ Website: https://georgelizos.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/   My Books   Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Secrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

Today we meet Chris Tompkins and we're talking about the book that saved Chris' life: The Velvet Rage by Alan Downs.Chris is an LGTBQ affirmative therapist and author of the new book Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground.In The Velvet Rage, psychologist Alan Downs draws on his own struggle with shame and anger, contemporary research, and stories from his patients to passionately describe the stages of a gay man's journey out of shame and offers practical and inspired strategies to stop the cycle of avoidance and self-defeating behavior.Connect with ChrisInstagram: @aroadtriptoloveTwitter: @aroadtriptoloveFacebook: facebook.com/aroadtriptoloveWebsite: aroadtriptolove.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/christompkinslifeBuy The Velvet Rage and Raising LGBTQ AlliesVisit our Bookshop for  new releases, current bestsellers, banned books, critically acclaimed LGBTQ books, or peruse the books featured on our podcasts:  bookshop.org/shop/thisqueerbook Buy The Velvet Rage directly: https://bookshop.org/a/82376/9781538136263Buy Raising LGBTQ Allies directly: https://bookshop.org/a/82376/9781538136263Become an Associate Producer!Become an Associate Producer of our podcast through a $20/month sponsorship on Patreon! A professionally recognized credit, you can gain access to Associate Producer meetings to help guide our podcast into the future! Get started today: patreon.com/thisqueerbookCreditsHost/Founder: J.P. Der BoghossianExecutive Producer: Jim PoundsAssociate Producers: Archie Arnold, Natalie Cruz, Jonathan Fried, Paul Kaefer, Nicole Olila, Joe Perazzo, Bill Shay, and Sean SmithPatreon Subscribers: Stephen D., Stephen Flamm, Thomas Michna, and Gary Nygaard.Permission to use the TEDx talk "What Children Learn From The Things They Aren't Told" provided by Chris Tompkins.Additional permissions provided by Chris Tompkins.Music and SFX credits: visit thiqueerbook.com/musicQuatrefoil LibraryQuatrefoil has created a curated lending library made up of the books featured on our podcast! If you can't buy these books, then borrow them! Link: https://libbyapp.com/library/quatrefoil/curated-1404336/page-1Support the show

#932 - Josh Kear The Josh Kear Interview is featured on The Paul Leslie Hour. Are you here? One of the things we like most about The Paul Leslie Hour is that we can uncover something that went out over the radio years ago and listen to it in the here… and now. People just like you listen to these interviews totally in the present. The present we're in. We're going to give this interview with Grammy award-winning songwriter Josh Kear a spin. Back in 2007, three songs co-written by Kear entered the country charts: “That's How They Do It in Dixie” by Hank Williams, Jr., “Before He Cheats” by Carrie Underwood and “Bama Breeze” by Jimmy Buffett. (Josh wrote the Buffett track with Chris Tompkins and Mark Irwin)  The same year “Before He Cheats” won the Single of the Year Award at the Country Music Association Awards. A few months later, it won the Grammy Award for Best Country Song. It's one of the longest-charting hits in Billboard history. Josh Kear did this interview with Paul Edward Leslie to talk about some of his famous songs and also about “Blue Pearl Paradise,” his somewhat underground album of original island songs. Josh is such a nice guy he sent us the demo of “Bama Breeze” to play and we'll all listen to that together. Before you forget, remember to subscribe to Paul Leslie's YouTube channel and also like this video and leave a comment. You won't want to miss any of our interviews or reviews so ring that bell. Now let's hear from our special guest Josh Kear. Whatdya say? It's time we listened. Together.

After traveling around the world, Chris Tompkins returned to the United States with a dream. He wanted to open a seafood-centric mobile raw bar in California. This would include world-famous oysters and lobster rolls topped with caviar and uni. They first started at the open-air market known as Smorgasburg in LA and quickly amassed a loyal following. So when they opened their first brick-and-mortar location in Malibu people flocked with excitement. It only took a day and a half after opening for Broad Street to sell all of its inventory. To say they were underprepared would be an understatement, but Chris and the team quickly adapted to the new volume. Now, this fan favorite continues to grow at a rapid pace and is soon to open its 5th and 6th locations in San Francisco and Huntington Beach. Today we chat with Chris, the founder of Broad Street Oyster about:

Chris Tompkins knew he was gay at age 6, but things weren't talked about openly in his home so he internalized the idea that it should remain a secret and he grew up ashamed, and hypervigilant. At 24, he came out and jumped into an LGBTQ community that used drugs and alcohol to deal with the internalized shame they'd felt in their own childhoods. Chris eventually moved to LA and he spent the next 11 years working at a gay bar in West Hollywood where the alcohol and drugs played an even bigger part of his life.In LA he began a search for a god that didn't hate him. Chris was deep into his spiritual journey when he found out he was HIV positive and was forced to come out once again into a world full of stigma and old ways of thinking. It was in a decisive moment, staring at himself in the mirror that he couldn't keep his spiritual self and his drug using self afloat any longer and made the choice to end his relationship with drugs and alcohol. Today, Chris is a Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, life coach, TEDx speaker, and author of the best-selling book, Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground, which aims to create a world where closets don't exist.Episode ResourcesA Roadtrip to Love | aroadtriptolove.comRaising LGBTQ Allies Book | Raising LGBTQ AlliesConnect with ChrisInstagram | @aroadtriptoloveConnect with The Courage to ChangePodcast Website | lionrock.life/couragetochangepodcastPodcast Instagram | @couragetochange_podcastYouTube | The Courage to Change PodcastTikTok | @ashleyloebblassingamePodcast Email | podcast@lionrock.lifePodcast Facebook | @thecouragetochangepodcastLionrock ResourcesLionrock Life Mobile App | lionrock.life/mobile-appSupport Group Meeting Schedule | lionrock.life/meetings

Doing a few episodes called “The Seeker” and don't know a better person than my buddy Chris Tompkins to chat with. We go back several years and talk about this stuff all the time. Hear a non denominational boy gets into Jewish mysticism and more! Subscribe to his newsletter at aroadtriptolove.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Chris Tomkins is uncle to five children, a TEDx speaker, spiritual life coach, and LGBTQ inner advocate. Chris has been staunched LGBTQ+ advocate for over 15 years working organizations like the gay and lesbian Alliance against defamation or GLAAD. What began as a letter, he wrote to his family to address a conversation that was not taking place, became an article, a TEDx talk, and is now a new book called Raising LGBTQ Allies. A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. It is the first parenting book to focus on the prevention of homophobia, transphobia, and bullying, before they even begin. He joins us today to shed light on on the deeper multifaceted layers of homophobia and his book that encourages families to have open and authentic conversations in a practical, timely, and inclusive way. 

Recently we read a book called Raising LGBTQ Allies by Chris Tompkins. One of the major concepts that stood out to us was the analogy of a universal playground that we have all experienced. The “playground” is a symbolic metaphor for our minds and the messages we receive reflect dominant societal world views. As children, we absorb conscious and unconscious messages that ultimately shape our beliefs and perspective on the society in which we live. Many adults experience apprehension and discomfort introducing complex concepts like heteronormativity, homophobia, transphobia, etc, to young children. What we often fail to realize is that children are introduced to these concepts whether we discuss them explicitly or choose to remain silent. We have discussed socialization on the podcast before, but Chris' book gives an in-depth explanation as it relates to the LGBTQ community in a thoughtful and digestible manner. Today Chris Tompkins joins us to help us discuss this topic further.Hosted by Malik Seelal, Steve Kramer and Sydney Pinn.Follow us @discriminology_podcast on Instagram, @discriminology3 on Facebook and Twitter.Discriminology is produced by Launchpad 516 Studios.Subscribe to Discriminology on Apple Podcasts and get notified of new episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/discriminology/id1521770510Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/discriminology/donations

When our kids are little, we don't know whether they will ultimately be gay, straight, or other. So how do we raise kids to feel loved and accepted no matter what their sexual orientation is? How do we raise confident, secure, emotionally healthy LGBTQ kids or LGBTQ allies? To get the answers, I talk to Chris Thompkins, author of Raising LGBTQ Allies. Watch this episode on the Mindful Mama Youtube channel! If you enjoyed this episode, and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @mindfulmamamentor. Have you left a review yet? All you have to do is go to  Apple Podcasts or  Stitcher (or wherever you listen), and thanks for your support of the show! Takeaways: Kids learn a lot from what we DON'T say We can build an atmosphere of inclusion in our home Great resources for every age Chris Tompkins is a teacher, speaker, and life coach. Chris is also author of the book, Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. Get Hunter's book, Raising Good Humans now! Click here to order and get book bonuses! ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is a mindful mama mentor. She coaches smart, thoughtful parents on how to create calm and cooperation in their daily lives. Hunter has over 20 years of experience in mindfulness practices. She has taught thousands worldwide. Be a part of the tribe—we're over 25 thousand strong! Join the Mindful Parenting membership. Take your learning further! Get my Top 2 Best Tools to Stop Yelling AND the Mindful Parenting Roadmap for FREE at: mindfulmamamentor.com/stopyelling/ Find more podcasts, blog posts, free resources, and how to work with Hunter at MindfulMamaMentor.com.

Chris joins us to answer the 4 questions below in 40 minutes…we talk a little longer, but the convo is sooo yummy those extra minutes are well worth the listen. This conversation offers an infinite amount of layers to ignite all kinds of magic sparks in our understanding of healing, through the lens of LGTBQ ally-ship, religion, faith, worthiness, and the unexpectedness of life….you know…through humaning. 1. What is your magic in the world? 2. What is the wound/shadow/trauma you are currently healing through? 3. What do you consider to be the wound/shadow/trauma of your lifetime? 4. What is currently coming up in your community, right now, and how are you holding space for it and/or supporting your community? Explore his offerings at ARoadTriptoLove Follow Chris on IG Connect with Chris on FB Follow Chris on Twitter Buy his book Raising LGTBQ Allies here! I cannot encourage you more to buy his book. It's a manual for good humaning. Watch his TedTalk Explore all Tandy's offerings at Unicorn Wellness Studio Follow and DM on IG @tandy_gutierrez Follow Tandy on Facebook @unicornwellnessstudio Join Tandy's Telegram group here Get Tandy's Newsletter here