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For many Christian parents, the message was simple: if you follow the biblical formula, your children will grow into faithful, flourishing adults. But what if those promises were never true? In this episode, Tim speaks with Marissa Burt, co-author of The Myth of Good Christian Parenting, about the rise of the evangelical parenting movement, the fears that fuelled it, and the hidden assumptions about authority, obedience and control that shaped generations of families.Drawing on historical research and the stories of both parents and adult children, Marissa explores how well-intentioned families were often let down by systems that offered certainty where none could be guaranteed. Together, they discuss the relationship between love and control, the impact of shame and spiritual authority, and what healthier, more hopeful approaches to parenting and faith might look like today.After the interview, Tim is joined by his wife Hannah to reflect on how the conversation resonated with their own experiences of growing up in evangelical families, and how it has shaped the way they're raising their son, Elliot. Together they explore themes of fear, control, corporal punishment, questioning authority, and what it means to pass on faith without trying to control the outcome.Interview starts at 16m 19sBooks, quotes, links →The creation of Nomad's thoughtful, ad-free content is entirely funded by our equally thoughtful and wonderful listeners. By supporting us, you gain access to Nomad's online spaces—like the Beloved Listener Lounge, Enneagram Lounge, and Book Club—as well as bonus episodes such as Nomad Contemplations, Homegrown Conversations, and Nomad Revisited.If you'd like to join our lovely community of supporters, head over to our Patreon page. You might even be rewarded with a Nomad pen or our coveted Beloved Listener mug!If a monthly commitment isn't possible right now, a one-off donation is always deeply appreciated—you can do that here.Looking to connect with others nearby? Check out the Listener Map or join our Nomad Gathering Facebook group.And if you're up for sharing your own story, we regularly post reflections from listeners on our blog—all with the hope of fostering deeper understanding, connection and supportive relationships. If you'd like to share your story on the blog, contact us for more information here.
Today's episode dives deep into the realities of the Christian dating scene, unpacking why quality men may feel scarce, exploring shifts in church attendance, and offering hope, challenge, and compassion to singles navigating modern relationships. Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true . . . . . A quick thank you to one of our friends! Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we'd love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Following Jesus was never meant to be a performance we perfect—it is a relationship we cultivate. The pressure to be a “good Christian” can leave us exhausted when we measure our faith by our accomplishments, routines, or ability to do everything right. But Jesus does not invite the weary to try harder; He invites them to come to Him and find rest. Spiritual growth is not about earning God’s approval through endless activity. God’s love is already given through Christ, and our obedience flows from that relationship rather than trying to achieve it. When faith becomes a checklist instead of a connection, we lose sight of the freedom and peace Jesus offers. Highlights: Following Jesus is about relationship, not religious performance God’s love and approval are not earned through productivity or perfection Jesus offers rest to those who feel burdened by expectations and pressure Spiritual disciplines are meant to draw us closer to God, not become a way to prove ourselves True growth happens as we remain connected to Christ and trust His work in us Join the Conversation Have you ever felt the pressure to be a “good Christian” by doing more or achieving more? What would it look like to simply come to Jesus today and rest in His presence? Continue the conversation with the Crosswalk community here: https://forums.crosswalk.com/ Do you want to listen ad-free? When you join Crosswalk Plus, you gain access to exclusive, in-depth Bible study guides, devotionals, sound biblical advice, and daily encouragement from trusted pastors and authors—resources designed to strengthen your faith and equip you to live it out boldly. PLUS ad free podcasts! Sign Up Today! Full Transcript Below: The Pressure to Be a “Good Christian” and Why You Can Let It GoBy Sarah Frazer Bible Reading:“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” - Matthew 11:28-30 (NIV) Never enough. It was something my heart repeated to itself on a regular basis. For so many years, I never felt good enough. I felt that if I did more, performed better, added to my to-do list, God would be pleased with me. During those years, I tried so hard to be a “good Christian.” I went to church, prayed, served, and said yes to every request. What does it mean to be a “good Christian”? I never bothered to ask that question until one day my life began to spiral into depression, uncertainty, and my faith was tested. One day, I realized that suffering and heartache would come whether I was doing life right or not. Whether I was a good Christian or not, pain still happened. What I needed during those months and, yes, years, of heartache, was not a routine but a relationship. Not until I was forced to reexamine my life did I see where I had misstepped. Somewhere along the way, following Jesus started to feel like something I need to manage instead of a relationship to cultivate. Without realizing it, I started measuring my faith by what I was doing instead of who I was becoming. Because of life’s circumstances, I didn’t have time to spend hours with God in the morning, or really anytime during my day. I would look at the perfect pictures of women online and how they didn’t seem to struggle. My faith seemed so small, and it was hard to believe God was happy with me. Because so much of my life depended on my service to God, having to step away or say no made me think, “Is God disappointed in me?” We may never say it out loud, but many of us carry a quiet belief: If I were a better Christian, I would be doing more. In Matthew 11:28-30, Jesus doesn’t add to our pressure—He relieves it: “Come to me… I will give you rest… My yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” As we look towards Jesus, we don’t see someone who wants the perfect person; we don’t come to Jesus having it all put together. The burdens we feel to be a good Christian are not from Him. Jesus says those who come to Him, who are welcome, are those who are weary, tired, and feel like they are crushed. The voice of Jesus calling us to come to Him is not a voice of pressure, but one offering peace. Our culture - even within the religious community - is one obsessed with productivity. Multitasking is a superpower. We love it if we can accomplish more than one thing at a time. This mindset has invaded the church. We have begun to misunderstand the spiritual disciplines as a way to perform, to gain God’s favor, and to win heaven. What started as a desire to grow can slowly turn into a need to prove. This is where we find ourselves weary. This is when we come to Jesus. Coming to Jesus is relational, not transactional. We come to Him, not to perform, but to be present with Him. As we walk with Jesus, we take His yoke, but the thing is - we share the weight. Growth is about connection. We learn from Him, and eventually we rest in Him. In John 15:5, Jesus said that we can only bear fruit if we abide in Him. Being a “good Christian” isn’t about being perfect in our actions or our feelings. We do not need to always feel close to God, nor do we need to spend hours studying His Word, praying, or serving him. Serving God comes from an overflow of His power, not in our own strength. Jesus invites us to be “good Christians” as we return again and again to Him. We trust Jesus with our weaknesses and stay connected to Him, even if it can seem imperfect. He is waiting. He is willing. Every day His mercies are new, and we are invited into a relationship with him. A relationship is not a to-do list. It isn’t something we can measure either. A “good Christian” isn’t someone who gets everything right—it’s someone who keeps coming back to Jesus. Intersecting Faith & Life: It’s easy to carry the pressure of performance into our faith without even realizing it. In a world that values productivity and visible results, we can begin to measure our relationship with God the same way—by what we do instead of simply being with Him. But spiritual growth isn’t always loud or measurable. Often, it happens quietly—in small moments of returning, trusting, and staying connected, even when it feels imperfect. What would it look like today, instead of trying to do more for God, you simply came to Him? How can you take one step closer to God? Further Reading:Psalm 103:13-14Luke 18:13-14John 15:5Galatians 1:10Romans 8:1 Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
From the beginning of this journey in 1981, how I was providentially led to my first solid Christian Books. My awakening and my early pilgrimage. How I went from reading Kenneth Hagin and Watchman Nee to within 6 months reading A. W. Pink and Martyn Lloyd-Jones, Spurgeon and Jonathan Edwards. Given in an autobiographical entertaining way.
Lots of people have lots of opinions about what it means to be a "good" Christian girl. But what is simply performance and what is actually based on your relationship with God? Julie Lyles Carr, AllMomDoes host, tackles this complex and layered topic in this episode of the AllMomDoes podcast.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4eDLqcJ
Why Christians Fail: Doing the Right Things in the Wrong WayWhy do sincere Christians keep repeating the same failures? In this episode of The FLOT Line, Rick Hughes explains the mechanics of the Christian life—why spirituality is impossible apart from the filling of the Holy Spirit and the application of God's Word. Learn the difference between the indwelling, sealing, and filling of the Holy Spirit, and why unconfessed sin shuts down spiritual growth.Key Takeaways:• What it means to be filled with the Holy Spirit • Why “doing good” is not enough in the Christian life • How rebound (1 John 1:9) restores fellowship with God • The difference between spirituality and religious ritual • Why the “dynamic duo” of Scripture and the Holy Spirit changes everything⬇Download Transcript: https://rhem.pub/1083-transcript
Have you ever wondered: “Am I actually being a good Christian?” In this Mini Encouragement episode (under 15 minutes), Donny and I answer a listener question about how to know if you're living as a faithful Christian and how to grow deeper in your relationship with Christ. First, it's important to remember something foundational: We are not Christians because we are good enough. We are Christians because we trust in Jesus as our Savior and Lord. The Christian life isn't about perfection—it's about seeking God, loving Him, repenting when we fall, and continuing to walk in His ways. In this episode we talk about: What it really means to walk faithfully with Christ Why the Christian life is often described as running a race The importance of repentance, obedience, and love for God Why following Jesus should never become just a spiritual checklist Encouragement if you feel like you're struggling in your faith We also share a few Christian books that can help strengthen your faith and deepen your understanding of God's character. Some of the books mentioned in this episode include:
Frank talks with Marissa Franks Burt and Kelsey Kramer McGinnis, authors of The Myth of Good Christian Parenting, about evangelical parenting, obedience, spanking, authority, and the long shadow of family values politics.This is a personal conversation about a world Frank knew from the inside, and about what happens when fear and control are called faith._____https://www.marissaburt.comhttps://www.kkramermcginnis.comThe Myth of Good Christian Parenting_____I have had the pleasure of talking to some of the leading authors, artists, activists, and change-makers of our time on this podcast, and I want to personally thank you for subscribing, listening, and sharing 100-plus episodes over 100,000 times.Please subscribe to this Podcast, In Conversation… with Frank Schaeffer, on your favorite platform, and to my Substack, It Has to Be Said. Thanks! Every subscription helps create, build, sustain and put voice to this movement for truth. Subscribe to It Has to Be Said. The Gospel of Zip will be released in print and on Amazon Kindle, and as a full video on YouTube and Substack that you can watch or listen to for free.Support the show_____In Conversation… with Frank Schaeffer is a production of the George Bailey Morality in Public Life Fellowship. It is hosted by Frank Schaeffer, author of The Gospel of Zip.Learn more at https://www.thegospelofzip.com/Follow Frank on Substack, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Threads, TikTok, and YouTube.https://frankschaeffer.substack.comhttps://www.facebook.com/frank.schaeffer.16https://twitter.com/Frank_Schaefferhttps://www.instagram.com/frank_schaeffer_arthttps://www.threads.net/@frank_schaeffer_arthttps://www.tiktok.com/@frank_schaefferhttps://www.youtube.com/c/FrankSchaefferYouTubeIn Conversation… with Frank Schaeffer Podcast
Do you ever feel like you're falling behind spiritually? In this episode, we explore how easily faith can turn into something we measure and perform—and why Jesus offers a different invitation. Looking at the story of Martha and Mary, we're reminded that faith was never meant to be something we prove to God, but a relationship we live inside of. If you've been feeling pressure to be a "better Christian," this episode offers a gentler way forward. RELATED EPISODES: · Episode 176: My Biggest Tip for Beating Perfectionism in Journaling · Episode 156: How to Spend the Day in Prayer · Episode 109: It's Getting Real: God's Invitation to Me for the Rest of Lent · Episode 56: How to Create a Personal Spiritual Retreat (And Reflections on My Own) ______ >> Imagine Devotional (Website | Amazon) >> Free Journaling Workshop: 3 ways to encounter God on the pages of your journal http://lovedoesthat.org/journalingworkshop >> Book Kari as a speaker for your next event: http://lovedoesthat.org/speaking
Can you grow up in church, know the Bible, and still not truly be saved?In this episode, Pastor David Mataya shares how his life went from outward “Christian” to a train wreck of sin, anger, and a broken marriage—and how God used it all to bring him to true repentance and faith in Christ.You'll hear about head knowledge vs. heart change, false assurance, and the life-changing power of the gospel.Follow us on Social Media: Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@ordinarypeoplepodcast/?sub_confirmation=1Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ordinarypeoplepodcast/Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ordinarypeoplewithextraordinarylives/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ordinarywith Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ordinarypeoplepodWebsite: http://ordinarypeoplewithextraordinarylives.orgFind us on the BAR Network: B.A.R. Network - The Art Of Worship B.A.R. Network - The Art Of Worship https://theartofworship.net/bar/Need help with audio? Reach out to Andrea Cline: https://andreaclineaudio.com To Support Our Podcast, visit the link below:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ordinarypeoplepodcastWant to share your testimony or have a question? Please email us: podcast@ordinarypeoplewithextraordinarylives.com
Lately I've been thinking about how easy it is to confuse intimacy with God for spiritual performance. You can be consistent, doing all the “right” things, showing up every day… and still feel exhausted in your faith.In this episode, I'm talking about spiritual burnout, over-performing for God, and the story of Mary and Martha because I think a lot of us are living like Martha without even realizing it. Trying harder isn't always the answer. Sometimes the Lord is simply calling us back to sit with Him again.If your faith has felt heavy, distant, or more like pressure than peace lately, this conversation is for you. Not from a place of perfection, just honesty.tagsspiritual burnout, christian podcast, christian youtube, faith podcast, christian girl talk, relationship with God, growing closer to God, intimacy with God, Mary and Martha bible story, Luke 10 Mary and Martha, christian encouragement, feeling distant from God, quiet time with God, devotional life, christian motivation, faith struggles, burnout in faith, how to grow in faith, Christian content creator, christian life advice, trusting God, spending time with God, Christian young adult, faith journey, Christian inspiration
In this episode, I talk with Cara Shine about her powerful journey from growing up Jewish with painful misconceptions about Christians to encountering the love of Jesus through the quiet faithfulness of two “good Christians” at her school. During the terrifying DC sniper attacks, one hallway prayer changed everything. Cara shares how kindness, presence, and Scripture softened her heart and opened the door to faith in Jesus. This conversation is a beautiful reminder that the way we represent Christ matters deeply. If you’ve ever wondered whether your quiet faithfulness makes a difference, this episode will encourage you more than you know. I’d love to have you join me at Encounter, a half-day retreat on Saturday, March 21st, at 9 AM at Crossline Church. It’s open to the public, and I would love the chance to meet you there. You can find all the details at crosslinechurch.com/events And remember, I'd love to connect more on Instagram, where you'll find me at @donnaajones. And don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss a single episode! Xo, Donna Key Takeaways[0:03:16] Jewish Girl on a Christian School Bus: Wounds That Last [0:06:00] From Terror to Trust: DC Snipers and a School Full of “Good Christians.” [0:14:12] The Hallway Prayer: One Moment, One Prayer, Total Peace [0:20:12] Walking into Church for the First Time: “Welcome Everyone” Changes Everything [0:31:39] “Here I Am” and What Good Christians Actually Do Donna’s Resources: Order a copy of my latest book - Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life: A Biblical Guide to Communicating Thoughts, Feelings, and Opinions with Grace, Truth, and Zero Regret. It is available anywhere books are sold– here is the link on Amazon. If you need a helpful resource for someone exploring faith and Christianity or simply want to strengthen your own knowledge, you’ll want a copy of my book, Seek: A Woman’s Guide to Meeting God. It’s a must for seekers, new believers, and those who want to deepen their confidence in their faith. Connect with Cara Shine Website: CaraShine.com Instagram: @carashineauthor You can order The Hallway Miracle on Amazon or through your favorite local bookstore.Be sure to sign up for her weekly emails too—they’re a beautiful source of encouragement and spiritual direction. Connect with Donna Instagram: @donnaajones Website: www.donnajones.org Donna’s speaking schedule: https://donnajones.org/events/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Dr. Jack Trieber preached a message entitled “A Good Christian" during the Sunday Evening service on March 8, 2026, at North Valley Baptist Church in Santa Clara, California. View Archived Services at nvbc.org.
In this episode, Susan Wise Bauer and Susanna Jarrett talk to Marissa Franks Burt and Kelsey Kramer McGinnis the authors of The Myth of Good Christian Parenting: How False Promises Betrayed a Generation of Evangelical Families. Find the book on AmazonOrder directly from BakerBookshop book link Audible linkInstagram: @mburtwrites | @kelseykmcginnisThreads: @mburtwrites | @kelseykmcginnisFacebook: @mburtwrites | @kelsey.kramermcginnisBluesky: @mburtwrites | @kkramermcginnisTikTok: @mburtwrites | @kelseykmcgSubstack: @mburtwrites | @kelseykramermcginnisYouTube: @mburtwrites Website: Marissa In the Church Library podcast Links to additional interviews with Marissa and KelseyMarissa's novels: Storybound, Story's End, A Sliver of Stardust, A Legend of Starfire, and The 12 Dares of Christa (00:00) - Introduction with Marissa and Kelsey (06:14) - Children are human beings (07:16) - How a certain kind of theology can impact parenting (19:59) - Break (20:58) - Talking about sin (36:45) - The myth of instilling a worldview in adults (43:13) - Things Christians need to rethink (45:53) - Impactful stories (53:26) - Evaluating resources (54:41) - Check out "The Myth of Good Christian Parenting" (56:10) - Outro
Jesus wept. ~John 11:35 It's the shortest verse in the Bible—the first scripture verse I memorized—and perhaps the most important one I'll ever remember. Jesus wept. When his friend Lazarus was sick, Jesus did not come right away. When he finally comes, he asks Martha an odd question. “Do you believe in resurrection?” Martha says she believes, but true to the Gospel of John training plan, she misunderstands. She believes in resurrection on the last day, but Lazarus has been dead in the tomb for four days. As the coroner in the Wizard of Oz says, “he's not only merely dead, he's really most sincerely dead.” But there is a part of this story that has always amazed me. It is verse 35, “Jesus wept.” At least that's what old King James says. Our translation says, “Jesus began to weep.” Either way, it is the shortest verse in the Bible. I have come to believe, over 40 plus years of ministry, that it is also one of the most important verses in the Bible. But why did Jesus weep when he knew that Lazarus would live again? I will suggest in my sermon on Sunday morning, borrowing a phrase from my friend, the Rev. Mary Luti, that Jesus knew if you don't learn to weep, you can't be a good Christian. And so, Jesus weeps, to show us how.
Ben Domenech dives into the high stakes of the Super Bowl, exploring the $2 billion gambling surge and the national security risks posed by unregulated prediction markets. He is joined by New York Post correspondent Lydia Moynihan to discuss the "quality of life" collapse in NYC under socialist policies, the tragic consequences of ending forced-shelter laws for the homeless, and the ongoing media battle over ICE operations in Minnesota. The conversation shifts to the culture war in cinema with film producer Dallas Sonnier, who breaks down the making of the Daily Wire's epic seriesThe Pendragon Cycle. Sonnier details why Hollywood's "ideological bankruptcy" has created a vacuum for conservative creators and explains his commitment to practical effects over "AI slop". Ben concludes with a sharp critique of the Washington Post following a massive wave of layoffs and the shuttering of its iconic sports section.
J. Warner Wallace is interviewed by Pastor David Fleming of Champion Forest Baptist Church and talks about the importance of becoming a good Christian Case Maker and a specific strategy for selecting those with whom we share what we believe. This excerpt is from a longer interview with apologist Mark Lanier.
Get 20 Extra Minutes with Jackie & Dunlap over at http://patreon.com/redstateupdate Jackie says that they's gonna be cussin on this one. Jackie and Dunlap on the ICE murder of Renee Good by Jonathan Ross. You gonna believe me or your lyin' ICE? Good Christian family man, 47-day training, whatever happened to bein mad at tyranny, Stephen Miller, JD Vance, Jesse Waters, Fox News, Facebook, nothin' is real, January 6 vs Minnesota, Mike Pence, amnesty Get 20 Extra Minutes with Jackie & Dunlap over at http://patreon.com/redstateupdate http://instagram.com/redstateupdate http://youtube.com/travisandjonathan http://facebook.com/redstateupdate
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This Postmodern Realities episode is a conversation with JOURNAL author Anne Kennedy about her article, “Is Good Christian Parenting a Myth? A Review of ‘The Myth of Good Christian Parenting: How False Promises Betrayed a Generation of Evangelical Families' by Marissa Franks Burt and Kelsey Kramer McGinnis" Coming Soon!This is also part of Anne's ongoing column, Theological Trends.One way you can support our online articles and podcasts is by leaving us a tip. A tip is just a small amount, like $3, $5, or $10, which is the cost of a latte, lunch out, or coffee drink. To leave a tip, click here.Related podcasts and articles by this author:Episode 470: Does the Bible Teach Complementarity? Does the Bible Teach Complementarity? Episode 461: Historian Diarmaid MacCulloch's Lens on Sex and Marriage: Summary Critique of ‘Lower Than The Angels: A History Of Sex and Christianity'Historian Diarmaid MacCulloch's Lens on Sex and Marriage: Summary Critique of ‘Lower Than The Angels: A History Of Sex and Christianity'”Episode 456: Christian Idolatry? Evaluating Bethel Church and Bill JohnsonChristian Idolatry? Evaluating Bethel Church and Bill Johnson Don't miss an episode; please subscribe to the Postmodern Realities podcast wherever you get your favorite podcasts. Please help spread the word about Postmodern Realities by giving us a rating and review when you subscribe to the podcast. The more ratings and reviews we have, the more new listeners can discover our content.
A 15-minute podcast of Bible teaching, Monday - Friday, by the President and Editor of the Sword of the Lord Publishers, Dr. Shelton Smith.
A 15-minute podcast of Bible teaching, Monday - Friday, by the President and Editor of the Sword of the Lord Publishers, Dr. Shelton Smith.
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What does it actually mean to be a good Christian friend beyond praying for people? In this relationship-focused episode of "You, Me, and Jesus," Keenya explores what authentic spiritual friendship looks like and shares her own journey of learning to be the friend she wanted to have.Discover the balance between spiritual support and practical love as Keenya unpacks the difference between performative Christian friendship and genuine connection. Learn how to show up for friends in crisis, celebrate their wins without comparison, and maintain healthy boundaries in spiritual friendships.In our "What Would Jesus Actually Do?" segment, we explore how Jesus might model friendship to someone struggling to connect authentically—demonstrating both presence and honesty in relationships rather than religious performance.Whether you want to be a better friend, you're learning to receive friendship well, or you're trying to navigate the unique dynamics of Christian friendships, this episode offers practical wisdom for building meaningful spiritual connections.If you felt empowered by this episode, take a screenshot for your stories and tag Keenya on Instagram @keenyakelly. I would be honored to hear your takeaways and re-post your share!Important Links from the show:Understanding your spiritual gifts is definitely one of the foundational things that every single Christian needs to know.If you'd like a quick and free spiritual quiz assessment to understand why and how God gifted you what you have in life click here https://keenyakelly.com/ministry/!Subscribe to our new YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@youmeandjesus Connect with Keenya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/keenyakelly/ Connect with Keenya on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@keenyakelly Connect with Keenya on Twitter: https://twitter.com/keenyakelly For more information on courses and resources: https://keenyakelly.com/Are you building a business and you want to know what God is saying to you about your business?Looking for strategy on what to do next with your business or market your business in a way that's Christ focused?Click the following link to book a creative consulting session to get a strategy together for your business that is faith focused: https://keenyakelly.com/creativeconsulting/
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What if the hardest thing about following Jesus isn't doing more—but learning to receive?In this episode, we sit down with author David Gregory to explore the mystery of grace and what it really means to live out of our union with Christ. David shares his journey from striving to be a “good Christian” to discovering the freedom of Christ living through him. Together, we unpack why receiving God's love can feel harder than earning it, how pride and control block our ability to trust, and why childlike faith is at the heart of the gospel.We also dive into how this message could transform the church today and the beauty of walking by faith instead of performance.If you've ever wondered why grace feels simple—but not easy—this conversation will meet you right where you are.Support the show
In this episode, we are diving into "The Theology We Sing! Discerning Good Christian Music." Not every song is created equal. Some proclaim Christ, others... well, not so much. And so, why do we sing, and how do we discern good Christian music from bad and shallow music? How do we analyze the true from the trendy? Does it matter what we put on our lips in worship? Watch Videos Online: www.3P1S.com
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What are some signs of a good Christian dating relationship? What are signs of a healthy relationship when dating? What qualities would you look for in the “right one” for you as a Christian single? Generally, the following list of signs should be present in your Christian dating partner if you are considering a lifelong commitment in marriage. Your dating interest (we assume he or she is a Christian) is growing more and more in love with Jesus. Just as […] The post Good Christian Dating Relationship Signs appeared first on Christian Singles Advice | Christian Dating Advice Tips. Related posts: 10 Signs of a Failing Relationship: A Guide for Christian Singles 10 Warning Signs of an Evil Woman in a Christian Dating Relationship Signs of a Bad Christian Dating Relationship Signs of a Healthy Relationship For Christian Boyfriends/Girlfriends The Top 5 Signs You're Rushing into a Dating Relationship
What happens when “biblical parenting” becomes more about control than compassion? In this episode, I talk with Kelsey McGinnis and Marissa Burt, authors of The Myth of Good Christian Parenting, about the rise of evangelical parenting culture, from James Dobson and Bill Gothard to today's influencer economy, and how these ideas have shaped generations of families. Together, we explore how fear and hierarchy took root in the church's imagination, why so many parents feel trapped by formulas and shame, and what it might look like to recover freedom, grace, and mutuality in our homes. This is a conversation about rethinking authority, rediscovering gentleness, and learning to see our children as people to love, not projects to manage.Marissa Franks Burt (MTh, Columbia International University) is a novelist, editor, teacher, and cohost of the At Home with the Lectionary podcast. She lives in a small town in Washington's Snoqualmie Valley with her husband, six children, and heaps of books.Kelsey Kramer McGinnis (PhD, University of Iowa) is a musicologist, educator, and correspondent for Christianity Today, writing on worship practices and Christian subculture. She is an adjunct professor at Grand View University in Des Moines and previously worked at the University of Iowa Center for Human Rights.Marissa & Kelsey's Book:The Myth of Good Christian ParentingKelsey's Recommendations:Celebrities for JesusMonstersMarissa's Recommendations:The Justice of JesusThe Thursday Murder ClubSubscribe to Our Substack: Shifting CultureConnect with Joshua: jjohnson@shiftingculturepodcast.comGo to www.shiftingculturepodcast.com to interact and donate. Every donation helps to produce more podcasts for you to enjoy.Follow on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Threads, Bluesky or YouTubeConsider Giving to the podcast and to the ministry that my wife and I do around the world. Just click on the support the show link below Contact me to advertise: jjohnson@shiftingculturepodcast.com Support the show
Christian parents want to raise godly children, but what happens when popular biblical parenting methods cause more harm than good? The Myth of Good Christian Parenting exposes how the Christian parenting industry has sold families false promises for five decades, leaving a trail of religious trauma, damaged relationships, and lost faith in its wake.
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Send us a textIt's The Great Sex Rescue--but for parenting!The Christian parenting industry has been feeding us garbage for decades, and Keith and I sat down with Marissa Burt and Kelsey Kramer McGinnis, authors of "The Myth of Good Christian Parenting," to talk about how we got here.THE MYTH OF GOOD CHRISTIAN PARENTINGPre-Order the book now--and claim your amazing pre-order bonuses!TO SUPPORT US: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Join our email list!LINKS MENTIONED:Instagram: @mburtwrites | @kelseykmcginnisThreads: @mburtwrites | @kelseykmcginnisFacebook: @mburtwrites | @kelsey.kramermcginnisBluesky: @mburtwrites | @kkramermcginnisTikTok: @mburtwrites | @kelseykmcgSubstack: @mburtwrites | @kelseykramermcginnisYouTube: @mburtwritesWebsite: Marissa My article on spanking and sexual arousalMy article on the research on spanking effectsThe article about those who hid Jews during the Holocaust Support the showJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
What is Truth? - Pt 5 - God's Word constantly warns us against false teaching infiltrating the local church. It's a drumbeat heard in every book in the New Testament. Those warnings are just as pertinent today as they were two thousand years ago. In this series, we'll address seven false beliefs I see creeping into the Body of Christ today. Today's lie: “Good Christians Will Be Healthy and Wealthy”.
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Pre-Order a copy of The Myth of Good Christian Parenting: How False Promises Betrayed a Generation of Evangelical Families: https://amzn.to/45wKDHn✖️✖️✖️Christian parents want to raise godly children, but what happens when popular biblical parenting methods cause more harm than good? The Myth of Good Christian Parenting exposes how the Christian parenting industry has sold families false promises for five decades, leaving a trail of religious trauma, damaged relationships, and lost faith in its wake. This groundbreaking analysis offers● historical analysis - traces the development of the Christian parenting industry and its influential figures who built parenting empires;● research-based insights - features survey data from adult children and parents affected by authoritarian parenting methods;● theological examination - analyzes how popular teachings on authority, compliance, corporal punishment, and control diverge from Jesus's teachings; and● encouragement for a better future - equips readers to pursue a new path of freedom and mutual respect within their families.Marissa Franks Burt and Kelsey Kramer McGinnis combine rigorous research with compelling storytelling to reveal how evangelical parenting culture has shaped--and often strained--families from the 1970s to today. Drawing on history, sociology, theology, and extensive survey responses from adult children and parents, they trace the rise of Christian parenting empires that idealize obedient children and perfect households while leaving real families feeling inadequate. They also examine the lasting damage caused by popular Christian parenting teachings--including loss of faith, estrangement, religious trauma, and deep regret for older parents--and provide hope for healing.Whether you're a Christian parent questioning traditional methods, an adult recovering from a strict religious upbringing, or a church leader seeking healthier family ministry approaches, this book equips you to pursue mutual respect, emotional safety, and authentic faith within your family relationships.✖️✖️✖️Support the Show: Patreon.com/PreacherBoys✖️✖️✖️If you or someone you know has experienced abuse, visit courage365.org/need-help✖️✖️✖️CONNECT WITH THE SHOW:preacherboyspodcast.comhttps://www.youtube.com/@PreacherBoyshttps://www.facebook.com/preacherboysdoc/https://twitter.com/preacherboysdochttps://www.instagram.com/preacherboyspodhttps://www.tiktok.com/@preacherboyspodTo connect with a community that shares the Preacher Boys Podcast's mission to expose abuse in the IFB, join the OFFICIAL Preacher Boys Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1403898676438188/✖️✖️✖️The content presented in this video is for informational and educational purposes only. All individuals and entities discussed are presumed innocent until proven guilty through due legal process. The views and opinions expressed are those of the speakers.This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/PreacherBoys and get on your way to being your best self.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/preacher-boys-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, you're just not a good christian? In this honest and deeply personal episode, we confront the exhausting weight of trying to feel like our lives are acceptable.From feelings of failure and condemnation to the lies that say our past disqualifies us, this conversation pulls no punches. We explore how God's promises aren't powered by our perfection, but by His love. God is not asking you to be enough—He is asking you to trust that He is.This episode is for the weary believer, the discouraged heart, and anyone who feels locked out of God's best. There is freedom in Christ, not through striving—but through surrender.You don't have to fight to prove your worth. You just have to come.
For so many women of faith, the desire to honor God in love and marriage runs deep—especially when the faith you hold so dear starts to feel at odds with the reality you're living.When unhealthy theology is taught in the name of God, it becomes hard to separate what's true from what's been twisted.You start to question:Is suffering a part of being faithful?Is silence really strength?Is staying—no matter the cost—what God actually wants?Does submission mean self-abandonment?Am I supposed to endure everything?The truth is, many of us weren't taught faith—we were taught fear, perfectionism, and performance... and told it was God.In this powerful episode, I sit down with licensed therapist and creator of Trauma Languages™, Vernique Esther, to talk about how faith and trauma can quietly collide—and how so many high-achieving women of faith have been left silently hurting under the weight of spiritual distortion.We dive into:What it really means to be hyper-religiousHow trauma hides behind performance and spiritual languageHow distorted theology has shaped the way women love, suffer, and stayThe seven ways trauma shows up in relationshipsAnd how to begin setting the atmosphere for the kind of relationship you truly desireFollow Vernique on Instagram: @verniqueestherVernique Website: https://www.verniqueesther.com/
Matt Slick Live (Live Broadcast of 05-09-2025) is a production of the Christian Apologetics Research Ministry (CARM). Matt answers questions on topics such as: The Bible, Apologetics, Theology, World Religions, Atheism, and other issues! You can also email questions to Matt using: info@carm.org, Put "Radio Show Question" in the Subject line! Answers will be discussed in a future show. Topics Include: Matt Discusses The Election of The New Roman Catholic Pope/ Should Christians Pray Over All Food, Including Snacks?/What Does it Mean to be a Good Christian?/Some Claim They No Longer Sin/ The Apostles' Creed Says That Jesus Descended into Hell—What Does That Mean?/A KJV Translation Deficiency/ Friday Email Readings- Jesus' Deity, Adding to Scripture/ Bible Reference Question- E.W. Bullinger, Matt Also Recommends Others/ Who Are The Lost Sheep of The House of Israel?—Why This Concept is Important For Proper Teaching Guidance to The Flock of God/ More Email Readings--The Irrationality of Deism, Eternal Security and Calvin, Would All of Us Have Sinned If we Were In The Garden of Eden?, Is it Fair that We All Fall Under Adam's Penalty?, Chosen Angels and People, Adult Children Living at Home Unmarried/ Can A Believer Justify Why He Doesn't Go To Church?/ May 9, 2025
Matt Slick Live (Live Broadcast of 05-09-2025) is a production of the Christian Apologetics Research Ministry (CARM). Matt answers questions on topics such as: The Bible, Apologetics, Theology, World Religions, Atheism, and other issues! You can also email questions to Matt using: info@carm.org, Put "Radio Show Question" in the Subject line! Answers will be discussed in a future show. Topics Include:Matt Discusses The Election of The New Roman Catholic Pope/ Should Christians Pray Over All Food, Including Snacks?/What Does it Mean to be a Good Christian?/Some Claim They No Longer Sin/ The Apostles' Creed Says That Jesus Descended into Hell—What Does That Mean?/A KJV Translation Deficiency/ Friday Email Readings- Jesus' Deity, Adding to Scripture/ Bible Reference Question- E.W. Bullinger, Matt Also Recommends Others/ Who Are The Lost Sheep of The House of Israel?—Why This Concept is Important For Proper Teaching Guidance to The Flock of God/ More Email Readings--The Irrationality of Deism, Eternal Security and Calvin, Would All of Us Have Sinned If we Were In The Garden of Eden?, Is it Fair that We All Fall Under Adam's Penalty?, Chosen Angels and People, Adult Children Living at Home Unmarried/ Can A Believer Justify Why He Doesn't Go To Church?/ May 9, 2025
Are you trying to be a "good" Christian? Are you obedient to God or Christian culture? How do you respond to conviction? In today's episode, Jensen shares how 1 Samuel 15 encourages us to submit and rely on God humbly. If you're listening on Spotify, comment below one takeaway from today's episode! Read the Bible with us in 2025! This year, we're exploring the Historical Books—Joshua, Judges, 1 & 2 Samuel, and 1 & 2 Kings. Download your reading plan now. Your support makes TMBT possible. Ten Minute Bible Talks is a crowd-funded project. Join the TMBTeam to reach more people with the Bible. Give now. Like this content? Make sure to leave us a rating and share it so that others can find it, too. Use #asktmbt to connect with us, ask questions, and suggest topics. We'd love to hear from you! To learn more, visit our website and follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter @TenMinuteBibleTalks. Don't forget to subscribe to the TMBT Newsletter here. Passages: 1 Samuel 15
CW: spiritual abuseToday, Aimee Byrd and I talk about finding the courage to admit we were wrong. Aimee (she/her) is an author, speaker, blogger, podcaster and former coffee shop owner. Aimee is the author of several books, including Saving Face, The Hope in Our Scars, Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood and Sexual Reformation. Her articles have appeared in First Things, Table Talk, Modern Reformation, By Faith, New Horizons, Ordained Servant, Harvest USA, and Credo Magazine, and she has been interviewed and quoted in Christianity Today and The Atlantic.As a heads up, we discuss Aimee's experience of spiritual abuse. If that's a tender topic for you, please take care while listening.NAMI Helpline: call 1-800-950-6264 or text "helpline" to 62640. Saving Face is available today wherever books are sold. Check out her Substack at byrdinyourbox.substack.com. Join the Found Family crew over on Substack and get the Found Family Cheat Sheet absolutely free! Support the show
In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, we dive into the complex relationship between faith and divorce. Our guest, Bree Sullivan-Howell, a family law attorney and author, shares her personal journey and professional insights on navigating divorce when your Christian faith conflicts with the decision to separate. From understanding the Biblical perspective on divorce to overcoming the shame and judgment that often accompanies faith-based divorces, Brie offers a compassionate and practical guide and practical steps tat you CANNOT miss.What you'll learn:The challenges of reconciling religious beliefs with the reality of divorce.How to handle cultural and religious pressures while considering divorce.Actionable steps to take before and during the divorce process, including creating a plan, gathering your documents, and preparing for shifts in your social circles.Insights on how to stay true to your faith while navigating divorce, with examples of how faith can strengthen rather than hinder the process.Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-courseOur Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuckFriends, slide into our dms, we love love love hearing from you. We are always here to listen and help in any way we can. You've got this and we've got you.Connect with Bree:bree@sullivan-firm.comInstagram: @hownotosuckatdivorceFollow Andrea: @theandrearappaportFollow Morgan: @divorceattorneychicago