Podcasts about parenting scripts

Welcome Back , Wellness Warrior!    We have a Special guest today on the podcast!!  Amber Lia is born and raised in CA and lives with 4 sons and husband. She is an author, coach, speaker on gentle parenting, thriving in marital relationships, and how to live a healthy lifestyle — all with practical and biblical truth!  Her most cherished moments are when she is reading and praying in her  hammock, sipping sparkling water, while talking on the phone with a close friend, or spending long slow days at the beach with her family to rest and rejuvenate. Her  passion is writing and coaching. She has said, “If God can use my journey to bless and encourage others, then I'll feel like I'm fulfilling my purpose.”   Amber Lia is the co-author to Triggers and Parenting Scripts with Wendy Speake. We also talked with Wendy about these books on Episode 40.    If you are  a mom, or a parent,  this is a great conversation today! I Know you will be wanting to grab these books, as well, so you can find those links below.   Also, share this episode with all your mom friends!! It takes a village right ??! If you hear something that you know a friend needs to hear (which I know you will) Share it!!  Simply copy the link and SHARE.

Welcome Back, Wellness Warrior!  “I never knew I was angry until I became a mom.”  I heard this quite years ago, from someone that seemed so sweet and gentle in nature and I thought, “wow, she gets angry too?!” I felt seen and it felt comforting! THEN I quickly purchased this author's book (Triggers) and learned what to do about these triggers that set me off.  Today, I had the immense honor to have a conversation with one of the authors of this book!  Whether on the stage or on the page, Wendy ministers to women's hearts through storytelling and Biblical life application. With a background in Hollywood as a trained actress, she couples the power of God's Word with personal testimony. Known for the uncanny way she meets women in their most common struggles, from sugar-addiction to mommy-anger, Wendy uses every opportunity to point readers to the transforming power of God's Word and the faithful nearness of His Holy Spirit. Wendy Speake is the author of multiple books, including The 40-Day Sugar Fast, The 40-Day Social Media Fast,  and The 40-Day Feast. She's also co-author of the popular parenting books Triggers, Parenting Scripts, and Life Creative.  We talk about how much we love our kids and she challenged us to write 1 Corinthians 13 every morning and post it different places around our houses. Choose the version that you like best, this is AMP.  4 Love endures with patience and serenity, love is kind and thoughtful, and is not jealous or envious; love does not brag and is not proud or arrogant. 5 It is not rude; it is not self-seeking, it is not provoked [nor overly sensitive and easily angered]; it does not take into account a wrong endured. 6 It does not rejoice at injustice, but rejoices with the truth [when right and truth prevail]. 7 Love bears all things [regardless of what comes], believes all things [looking for the best in each one], hopes all things [remaining steadfast during difficult times], endures all things [without weakening]. 8 Love never fails [it never fades nor ends]. Let's go to battle and accept this challenge!!! Post a picture of your written 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8 in the Facebook group! bit.ly/holistichacks  Share a screenshot of the episode in your Instagram stories, tag me, and I'll gift you a FREE coffee! ☕

Episode Summary: Have you ever fasted from sugar? In this podcast replay, Wendy Speake and I talk about the benefits of a sugar fast. Wendy is the author of The 40-Day Sugar Fast: Where Physical Detox Meets Spiritual Transformation. You won't want to miss the insights Wendy shares on breaking free from sugar addiction for lasting spiritual transformation. Some of the benefits may surprise you! Mark your calendar: Wendy is hosting an online 40-day sugar fast beginning 1-2-2024.   Quotables from the Episode: Unfortunately, no sugar fix can fix you. When we stop going from sugar high to sugar high, we turn to the Most High. The goal of fasting is always to lay down that which is temporary and pick up that which is eternal. Let every hunger pain act like church bells calling you to pray. Fasting from anything reminds us of what we want to hunger for. When we run to things to satisfy, they hold us back from His strong hold on us. Trust God to do what he's going to do before he does it. Shout the victory in advance, obey, and watch what God does with your submission. Take out the temptation before tempted. The first step, before fasting, seek first the kingdom of God. He will change our health with a diet, but our life with a fast. Our desire is to find Christ as the only option. When we turn to Him to be our joy and peace, we don't need the sugar. Fasting is about turning away from anything that gets between our relationship with God, and turning back to Him. Sometimes you need to go fast in order to slow down. The power of fasting is stopping and watching God deliver us. Fasting opens the door for the supernatural work of God. Keep in mind, with fasting, this is going to hurt before it feels better. Fasting isn't easy—this is just the brand of your hard in this season. As you seek Him first, He'll transform other areas of your life as well, bringing renewed hope. Scripture References: Psalm 34:8-10 NIV “Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in Him. Fear the Lord, you his holy people, for those who fear him lack nothing. The Lions may grow weak and hungry, but those who see the Lord lack no good thing.” Jonah 2:8 “Those who cling to worthless idols turn away from God's love for them.” Matthew 6:33 “These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs.” Joel 2:12 “That is why the Lord says, ‘Turn to me now, while there is time. Give me your hearts. Come with fasting, weeping, and mourning.'” Jeremiah 15:16 “Your words were found, and I ate them, and your words became to me a joy and the delight of my heart.”   Recommended Resources:  The 40-Day Feast: Taste and See the Goodness of God's Word by Wendy Speake The 40-Day Social Media Fast: Exchange Your Online Distraction for Real-Life Devotion By Wendy Speake The 40-Day Sugar Fast: Where Physical Detox Meets Spiritual Transformation by Wendy Speake The 40-Day Fast Journal: A Journey to Spiritual Transformation by Wendy Speake Triggers: Exchanging Parents' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses by Wendy Speake Parenting Scripts: When What You're Saying Isn't Working, Say Something New by Wendy Speake A New Year's Revolution: The 40 Day Sugar Fast It's Time for a Social Media Fast Benefits of Taking a Break from Social Media – Episode 85 The Hem of His Garment: Reaching Out to God When Pain Overwhelms by Dr. Michelle Bengtson YouVersion 5-Day Devotional Reaching Out To God When Pain Overwhelms   Today is Going to be a Good Day: 90 Promises to Start Your Day Off Right by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the AWSA 2023 Inspirational Gift Book of the Year Award, the Christian Literary Awards Reader's Choice Award in four categories, and the Christian Literary Awards Henri Award for Devotionals YouVersion 7-Day Devotional, Today is Going to be a Good Day YouVersion 7-Day Devotional, Today is Going to be Another Good Day Breaking Anxiety's Grip: How to Reclaim the Peace God Promises by Dr. Michelle Bengtson Breaking Anxiety's Grip Free Study Guide Free 7-Day YouVersion Bible Reading Plan for Breaking Anxiety's Grip Hope Prevails: Insights from a Doctor's Personal Journey Through Depression by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the Christian Literary Award Reader's Choice Award Hope Prevails Bible Study by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the Christian Literary Award Reader's Choice Award Trusting God Through Cancer 1 Trusting God Through Cancer 2 Revive & Thrive Women's Conference Subdue Stress and Anxiety: Fifteen Experts Offer Comprehensive Tools in Ten Minutes a Day. Use my link plus discount code BENG99 to save $90 on course (course will be $99.) Free Download: How To Fight Fearful/Anxious Thoughts and Win   Social Media Links for Host and Guest: Connect with Wendy Speake: Website / Feast Book / Facebook / Instagram Order  Book Today is Going to be a Good Day / Order Book Breaking Anxiety's Grip / Order Book Hope Prevails  /  Website  /  Blog  /  Facebook / Twitter (@DrMBengtson)  /  LinkedIn  /  Instagram / Pinterest / YouTube   Guest: Wendy Speake is author and host of The 40-Day Sugar Fast, The 40-Day Social Media Fast, along with the companion resource, The 40-Day Fast Journal. Her newest book, The 40-Day Feast, invites readers to get hungry for God's Word then equips them to taste and see how good it is. Wendy is also co-author of the popular parenting books, Triggers: Exchanging Parents' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses and Parenting Scripts.   Hosted By: Dr. Michelle Bengtson Audio Technical Support: Bryce Bengtson    

Ever find your feelings constantly triggered by your kids, leading to regrettable anger and hurtful actions? If so, today's episode is a must-listen. Wendy Speake joins us to discuss exchanging angry reactions for gentle Biblical responses.In this episode, you will learn:The importance of relying on God in your parenting journey, rather than trying to do it all on your own strength.Navigating conviction vs. shame and moving past parenting mistakes.What to do when you have no time to connect with GodIdentifying the biggest trigger for moms today.Wendy Speake, author and host of the 40-day sugar fast, 40-day social media fast, and 40-day feast, as well as co-author of "Triggers" and "Parenting Scripts," shares insights through storytelling and Biblical life applications. Triggers BookParenting scripts BookFollow Wendy on InstagramWendyspeake.com  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Next Steps: 1. Watch FREE TRAINING: 5 Steps to Break free from Mom Rage Shame ⬇️2. Learn about Calm Christian Mom Coaching Program ⬇️3. Book a Call if you are want support in overcoming damaging anger patterns. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Website: emotionallyhealthylegacy.comContact: hello@emotionallyhealthylegacy.comSubmit a Question to be answered on the showLeave me a voice memo with a question/comment“I love this Podcast so much! I don't feel alone anymore!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me support more Christian mamas, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!

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What do you eat when you feel stressed? Maybe it's cookies, burritos, cake, or my personal favorite, chocolate. What if we turned to God instead to find He has a feast prepared for us? Author Wendy Speake is back with her new book, The 40 Day Feast. We'll learn how to savor the Bible and the feast for the soul inside of Scripture. In today's conversation, you'll learn: 2:31 What do I turn to on hard days? The pantry? Coffee? My phone? 3:50 We are feasting on what will really satisfy our deepest needs 4:20 Are we truly believing AND reading the Word of God? 5:40 Pinpointing what we are turning to instead of God, recognizing distractions 6:30 The honking big Bible you got from your dad 9:23 Let your kids see you reading the Bible 13:40 When your baby ate the Bible - literally! 15:41 The powerful legacy of Grandparents 18:25 The power of prayer for our kids Wendy Speake is the author of The 40 Day Feast, The 40 Day Sugar Fast, and The 40 Day Social Media Fast. Wendy is also the co-author of Triggers and Parenting Scripts. She has three teen sons. You can learn more about Wendy and her books here wendyspeake.com/40-day-feast Need help with screen time? Read my book Screen Kids (co-authored with Gary Chapman) arlenepellicane.com and/or take my Screen Kids online course at happyhomeuniversity.com More Resources for Your Family: Arlene's Free Marriage Webinar -- Get Unstuck in Your Marriage. If you feel stuck in a rut or you've just lost that lovin' feeling, register for Arlene's free marriage webinar at happyhomeuniversity.com/registration Subscribe to Arlene's free email list for a monthly resource to help your home at happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe Watch a VIDEO clip from the podcast on Arlene's new Happy Home YouTube Channel @arlenehappyhome

Today, Amber shares her journey of overcoming anger and frustration in parenting, as well as her experiences with health and marriage challenges. As she shares about her struggles, you will see the amazing transformation that God has done in her life. We're also talking about the importance of using biblical principles in parenting and the impact of our actions on our children and supporting one another on this parenting journey. It's such an inspiring story! I met Amber on Write That Book (affiliate link) Look for Amber's books Triggers, Food Triggers, Marriage Triggers, and Parenting Scripts (affiliate links) Facebook group Gentle Parenting with Amber and Wendy Amber's website and socials AmberLia.com ; AmberandWendy.com Lose Weight and Love your Life Instagram @therealamberlia ; Facebook @AmberLia For another episode on Anger- check out Episode #114 No Longer an Angry Mom with Natalie Hixon #faithandfamily #parentingwidom #christianparenting #angrymoms #toolsforparenting #practicalhelpformoms #healthcoach #godhasaplan #newhabits #triggers #foodtriggers

The last few episodes I've shared how I had 3 angry responses to my wife in the same week. I was shocked that I had done this once, much less 3 times in the same week! I was searching Audible for a new book and Audible suggested "Marriage Triggers". What a cool God Wink. So I downloaded the book and asked the author to join us on the podcast! Excited to share my conversation with Amber Lia, author of Marriage Triggers, Parenting Scripts, Food Triggers and Triggers: Exhanging Parents Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses. Some highlights from this episode: -"Holy Pauses" -"What are you making an Idol in Your Life?" -H.A.L.T. -"Overwhelm is a choice" -"Is it Worth it?" -"Lovingly tell me something that you would like to see improved." And there is a GREAT CHALLENGE at the end or this one! Check out Amber's Website HERE Join our FREE group The Journey of a Christian Dad HERE Check out my wife's kid's books and journals HERE Looking for Christian Homeschool Resources? Our sponsor, Classical Conversations can help! CLICK HERE to get more info. If you want to help this podcast grow, please Rate and Review us HERE 

Episode Summary:  Most Bible-believers are not Bible-readers. Many Christians believe that the Bible is the Word of God, but never actually read it. Or they may read bits and pieces, one verse or passage at a time but struggle to apply it to their lives. There are so many reasons why this is true, but it is possible to start today. Even if a person has never read a complete chapter for themselves, God's Word is readable and do-able. Join me with Wendy Speake for how to love God's word.   Quotables from the episode: Most Bible-believers are not Bible-readers. There are so many reasons why this is true, but it is possible to start today. Even if a person has never read a complete chapter for themselves, God's Word is readable and do-able. Culture offers up quick fixes that leave us unsatisfied and still hungry for fulfillment. God's word fills us up, but creates a thirst for more of Him. Don't mistake reading God's Word for Studying God's Word. They are not the same. As you begin your quiet time each day, do you come hungry to hear from the Lord? God is not confusing or far off — He is near and abiding. And His Word is living and active… and applicable too! Most of us spend our days shoving food and other fillers into the hurts and holes of our lives. But nothing works to make us whole (or holy) other than our Bibles. Pinpointing what it is we are turning to, in lieu of turning to God in the pages of His Word, can help us to lay that thing down for a short season and turn instead to the only thing that can satisfy and sanctify us! Pinpointing and laying down all of the false-fillers is a lot like laying down false-idols. And once the throne is vacant it is a JOY to invite the rightful King to take His place. I've also become aware that all the scrolling and eating and movie watching and shopping can all fall under the umbrella of consuming… ingesting… gobbling… eating. And I know that the more I ingest things that won't ever satisfy the less I turn to God's Word — the only thing that can! I want to hunger and thirst for God and His righteousness and His Word more than anything else! First and foremost every day! But the other stuff gets in the way. No book has ever been written, nor ever will be, that holds the power to sway a human heart toward the Word of God more than the Bible itself. Pinpoint what it is you turn to when you are worn out or overwhelmed, then lay it down and pick up your Bible. In Matthew 11:28 Jesus extended this invitation, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” When we stop pushing all the stuff into our lives and bring Him back into the center of our lives… he gives us His rest and His joy and a very real sense of His loving nearness! “We are not powerless to change when we hold a Bible in our hands, for that Bible holds the power to change us.” The book will come to an end, but the Word of God never ends. It is the only thing able to satisfy hungry hearts.   Scripture References: Psalm 34:8 Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in him.  Psalm 119:103 How sweet are Your words to my taste, sweeter than honey to my mouth! Matthew 11:28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”   Recommended Resources: 7-Day Today is Going to be a Good Day Challenge Help for When You're Feeling Blue (FREE) Webinar New Year Online Hope Prevails Bible Study Wendy will be leading an online community through The 40 Day Feast during Lent 2023, which starts on February 22nd. You can find out more and sign up at wendyspeake.com/feast  The 40-Day Feast: Taste and See the Goodness of God's Word by Wendy Speake  The 40-Day Sugar Fast by Wendy Speake The 40-Day Social Media Fast by Wendy Speake Triggers: Exchanging Parents' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses by Wendy Speake Trusting God Through Cancer 1 Trusting God Through Cancer 2 Revive & Thrive Women's Conference Subdue Stress and Anxiety: Fifteen Experts Offer Comprehensive Tools in Ten Minutes a Day. Use my link plus discount code BENG99 to save $90 on course (course will be $99.) Free Download: How To Fight Fearful/Anxious Thoughts and Win Today is Going to be a Good Day: 90 Promises to Start Your Day Off Right by Dr. Michelle Bengtson YouVersion 7-Day Devotional, Today is Going to be a Good Day YouVersion 7-Day Devotional, Today is Going to be Another Good Day Breaking Anxiety's Grip: How to Reclaim the Peace God Promises by Dr. Michelle Bengtson Breaking Anxiety's Grip Free Study Guide  Free 7-Day YouVersion Bible Reading Plan for Breaking Anxiety's Grip Hope Prevails: Insights from a Doctor's Personal Journey Through Depression by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the Christian Literary Award Reader's Choice Award Hope Prevails Bible Study by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the Christian Literary Award Reader's Choice Award   Social Media Links for Host and Guest: Connect with Wendy Speake: Website / Feast Book / Facebook / Instagram Order  Book Today is Going to be a Good Day / Order Book Breaking Anxiety's Grip / Order Book Hope Prevails  /  Website  /  Blog  /  Facebook / Twitter (@DrMBengtson)  /  LinkedIn  /  Instagram / Pinterest / YouTube   Guest: Wendy Speake is author and host of The 40-Day Sugar Fast, The 40-Day Social Media Fast, along with the companion resource, The 40-Day Fast Journal. Her newest book, The 40-Day Feast, invites readers to get hungry for God's Word then equips them to taste and see how good it is. Wendy is also co-author of the popular parenting books, Triggers: Exchanging Parents' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses and Parenting Scripts.  Hosted By: Dr. Michelle Bengtson Audio Technical Support: Bryce Bengtson

What a way to end Season 8 and start off 2023!!  Today's conversation with Wendy Speake is such a rich, inviting conversation about how to ingest and digest God's Word. She talks about how she understood salvation at a young age and then how God used different areas of her life to love and lead people. I love how passionate she is about "setting down something temporary and ordinary and feasting on the One who is eternal and extraordinary." The 40 day Sugar fast she leads starts on January 9th, immediately followed by a 40 day Social Media fast, which I think most of us need! Listen to this episode, leave a comment and share with all of your people so we can all start this year focusing on the right person, God. Bio: Wendy Speake is author and host of The 40-Day Sugar Fast, The 40-Day Social Media Fast, along with the companion resource, The 40-Day Fast Journal. Her newest book, The 40-Day Feast, releases January 17, 2023. Wendy is also co-author of the popular parenting books, Triggers: Exchanging Parents' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses and Parenting Scripts. As a trained actress and heartfelt Bible teacher, Wendy ministers to women's hearts through storytelling and Biblical life applications. She utilizes drama, poetry, and the study of God's word. During her career in Hollywood, Wendy longed to tell stories that would edify and encourage women. Today she does just that - writing books and speaking to live audiences, always looking for opportunities to move audiences closer to Jesus!  Anchor Verse: Psalm 73: 25-26 Connect with Wendy: Website: WendySpeake.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WendyJSpeake/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wendy_speake/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/Wendy_Speake You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcQzNpckPkPoeeZUqRLDvEg 40 Day Sugar Fast starts January 9th: https://instagram.com/40daysugarfast ****This podcast is a proud member of the Spark Network! It is a network of Christian podcasts that cover so many different topics!  Head over to: https://www.sparkmedia.ventures/spark-network#/ to find more amazing podcasts!!****

Science has shown that the best way to help our kids become independent, confident, kind, empathetic, and happy is by talking with them. But while we may know that what we say to our children matters, we may not know exactly how to get started or what to do to encourage honest, open and thoughtful communication.   Here to help parents learn the secrets of effective communication is speech pathologist, Rebecca Rolland.   This episode will help you to understand just how powerful language can be and teach you to actionable techniques for fostering authentic and natural conversations with your children, no matter their age, that can lead to the development of a strong and secure attachment bond.     Want to get more from Dr. Sarah Bren?  ✨ Follow Dr. Sarah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsarahbren/ ✨ Subscribe to the weekly newsletter: https://drsarahbren.com/join-newsletter ✨ And check out her website for more free parenting resources: https://drsarahbren.com/resources

Wendy Speake, long-time friend of the Podcast, (she's my most frequent, and probably most-requested guest!) is back with us for another great Mom-to-Mom chat this week.  Wendy and I are talking about a topic from one of the books she has co-authored with Amber Lia, “Parenting Scripts.” I think you would agree that a universal parenting challenge is that of finding yourself in a moment of frustration, with the need to correct or discipline, but the “right words” simply don't come. In moments like these we often tend to say the wrong thing…something we later regret. Wendy and I talk about how differently things go when we think ahead, consider our words or actions, and get intentional about our response! That's the heart of Parenting Scripts and it is a game changer. I think this episode will be a big encouragement, and hopefully springboard you into some parenting scripts of your own! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-161 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast   * Be sure to check out the Character Training Course's SUMMER SALE beginning June 15th (doors will be open for one week only!) Whether you have toddlers or teenagers, the self-paced video lessons, downloads and interviews (including two with Wendy!) will equip and encourage you to raise kids of character. Find out more here!

This weekend, we revisit our recent Daily Broadcast “Saying the Right Thing When Your Child Misbehaves." Amber Lia and Wendy Speake offer parents practical suggestions for responding with patience and wisdom to their children's misbehavior. Receive the book "Parenting Scripts" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2022-05-09?refcd=1355602 Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/saying-the-right-thing-when-your-child-misbehaves-part-1-of-2/#featured-resource-cta If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Amber Lia and Wendy Speake offer parents practical suggestions for responding with patience and wisdom to their children's misbehavior. The discussion is based on our guests' recent book, Parenting Scripts: When What You're Saying Isn't Working, Say Something New. (Part 2 of 2) Receive the book "Parenting Scripts" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2022-05-09?refcd=1355604 Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/saying-the-right-thing-when-your-child-misbehaves-part-2-of-2/#featured-resource-cta If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Amber Lia and Wendy Speake offer parents practical suggestions for responding with patience and wisdom to their children's misbehavior. The discussion is based on our guests' recent book, Parenting Scripts: When What You're Saying Isn't Working, Say Something New. (Part 1 of 2) Receive the book "Parenting Scripts" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2022-05-09?refcd=1355604 Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/saying-the-right-thing-when-your-child-misbehaves-part-1-of-2/#featured-resource-cta If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Parenting is a responsibility that is difficult while also being incredibly rewarding. Today we attempt to simplify the task of parenting by introducing and discussing six truths about parenting. This discussion is aimed at giving a practical way to become a parent that is aligned to truth, taking the complexity out of the task of being a great parent. We referenced the following podcast episodes during today's conversation: Episode 18. On Mission In Motherhood With Jen Rowlen [Part 1] Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/18-on-mission-in-motherhood-with-jen-rowlen-part-1/id1544635214?i=1000518803864 YouTube: https://youtu.be/NmkqpN7axcw Episode 19. On Mission In Motherhood With Jen Rowlen [Part 2] Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/19-on-mission-in-motherhood-with-jen-rowlen-part-2/id1544635214?i=1000520019029 YouTube: https://youtu.be/_VQ6BquJg4Q Episode 8. Choosing To Be Response-Able Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/8-choosing-to-be-response-able/id1544635214?i=1000509231231 YouTube: https://youtu.be/0SaWtly_89U Episode 11. Training For Godliness With Pastor Mike Plummer [Part 1] Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/11-training-for-godliness-with-pastor-mike-plummer-part-1/id1544635214?i=1000512218860 YouTube: https://youtu.be/WZS0WUGWAhE Episode 12. Training For Godliness With Pastor Mike Plummer [Part 2] Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/12-training-for-godliness-with-pastor-mike-plummer-part-2/id1544635214?i=1000513223720 YouTube: https://youtu.be/_Ulfmrgnn0A Episode 26. Getting To Know God Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/26-getting-to-know-god/id1544635214?i=1000526375554 YouTube: https://youtu.be/ZL5ZmdIuGJA We also referenced the book “Parenting Scripts” by Amber Lia and Wendy Speake.

This week, Greg hosts co-author and minister of women, Wendy Speake. Listen in as Wendy shares how her early career as a Hollywood actress and exploring her God-given gifts revealed what she should be sharing and teaching to women entering or journeying through parenthood and family life. She is a champion of encouraging women and families to seek the word of God to work through the triggers that come with parenting and finding the biblical response to deal with anger.   Books and more about Wendy Speake:   Triggers: Exchanging Parents' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses https://amzn.to/3qTRQua   Triggers Study Guide  https://amzn.to/37Ken5m   https://www.facebook.com/groups/gentleparentingwithamberandwendy/ - Gentle Parenting with Amber and Wendy – Facebook   https://www.instagram.com/lifecreative/ - @lifecreative - Faith-based community of creative moms, fitting our passions into the practical places of family. Buy the book, Life Creative!   https://www.wendyspeake.com/books - The 40-Day Social Media Fast, The 40-Day Sugar Fast, Triggers, Triggers Study Guide, Parenting Scripts, Life Creative   Wendy is also the host of the annual 40 Day Sugar Fast, find out more at 40daysugarfast.com

Today I will be sharing part 2 of my 3 part series on parenting.  Remember, these are not just for parents.  I will be sharing about how the book Triggers: Exchanging Parents' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses changed me and how I parent my children. Here is the link to purchase the book: https://www.amazon.com/Triggers-Exchanging-Reactions-Biblical-Responses/dp/0692620753/ref=as_li_ss_tl?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1503464673&sr=1-1&keywords=triggers&linkCode=sl1&tag=wendspea0d-20&linkId=4bd7ca1ef7d8de2155ab340b3a6be9b7 Here is the link for Parenting Scripts: https://www.amazon.com/Parenting-Scripts-Saying-Working-Something/dp/0692972552/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=parenting+scripts&qid=1602548028&s=books&sr=1-1

This week on Real Talk with Rachael we’re talking with Wendy Speake about her new book, The 40-Day Sugar Fast: Where Physical Detox Meets Spiritual Transformation. As a trained actress and heartfelt Bible teacher, Wendy ministers to women's hearts through storytelling and Biblical life applications. Co-author of the popular parenting books Triggers and Parenting Scripts, and host of the annual 40 Day Sugar Fast. Wendy lives in Southern California with her husband Matt and their 3 sons, where she blogs about faith and family at WendySpeake.com. We're talking about: “We know that God says come to me, and yet we go to our phones and our pantries…” We know how sugar crashes affect our kids, it affects us in the same way. It’s not just a food fast but a Word feast. Doing the fast together, especially as mothers and daughters, can be a big benefit. Rather than doing it to lose a few pounds, seek God and his righteousness first. Even if your reasons for fasting aren’t perfect, God can still use it. “My sugar fast broke my addiction to sugar, but my Social Media fast broke my addiction to the sugar of affirmation.” The 40-Day Social Media Fast is available for Pre-Order now. God wants the whole day with you, not just 15 minutes in the morning. Let’s turn to God instead of turning to everything else. Don’t forget to text the phrase “RealTalkGiveaway” to the number 44222 to be entered to win giveaways from show guests and sponsors! Connect with Wendy on her website, Instagram, or Facebook Connect with Rachael Gilbert on her website, Instagram, or Facebook

Clinical psychologist and co-developer of Emotion-Focused Family Therapy (EFFT), Dr. Adele Lafrance, talks about her new book, What to Say to Kids When Nothing Seems to Work, a practical guide for parents and caregivers. For more info, visit: www.tiltparenting.com/session

One of the most difficult issues to talk about in motherhood is anger. It is a bigger issue for some than others of course but we all struggle with our own "big emotions" at times of stress and frustration. Yelling and harsh words cause more damage than good and we often feel we are failing the minute we lose control of our emotions. The coronavirus quarantine that we all currently face is giving mothers many more opportunities to face the triggers that bring out an angry response! My guest today is Wendy Speake. She is a wife and mom to 3 boys. She is the co-author of several books including Triggers, Parenting Scripts and the 40 Day Sugar Fast! She is a speaker and podcast host and I know you're going to love this conversation today on learning our triggers and taking control of our angry responses. There is so much to take away from this episode so make sure to grab a pen and take some notes! Connect with Wendy! www.wendyspeake.com Instagram: @wendy_speake RESOURCES Books by Wendy Speake and Amber Lia Triggers: Exchanging Parents’ Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses The Triggers Study Guide Parenting Scripts: When What You're Saying Isn't Working, Say Something New! Connect with KM! Website coming soon! INSTAGRAM: @knowingmotherhoodpodcast FACEBOOK: @knowingmotherhood Email/ inquiries: lynnelle@knowingmotherhood.com

Amber reminds us that our legacy can change with different seasons, as well as the surprising twists and turns of life, but one thing remains constant: the more we act like Jesus, the better our legacy will be. We can ask ourselves each morning: "What does the Lord want from me today?" How we treat just one person, in kindness and love, not surrendering to the normal "triggers" that are our natural bent, is how we show the love and grace of Christ on a daily basis.Get this book for yourself and for a friend: Marriage Triggers: Exchanging Spouses' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses Release date 1/28/20http://bit.ly/MarriageTriggersBookPreorderA former high school English teacher, Amber is a work-at-home mom of four little boys ranging from 3 to 13. She is the best-selling co-author of Triggers: Exchanging Parents’ Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses and Parenting Scripts: When What You’re Saying Isn’t Working, say Something New. She and her husband Guy own Storehouse Media Group, a faith-friendly and family-friendly TV and Film production company in Los Angeles, CA. Their book, Marriage Triggers, will be available in February 2020. When she’s not building sandcastles with her boys on the beach, or searching for Nerf darts all over her house, you can find Amber writing to encourage families on her blog at Mother of Knights (www.motherofknights.com).You can find Amber in all these places--Blog:http://www.motherofknights.com/Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/MotherOfKnights/Video Resources for Triggers and Parenting Scripts:https://amberandwendy.com/Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/motherofknights/ Crockpot French DipCrockpot Beef Dips!1 eye of round roast1 can of cream of chicken and mushroom soup1 cup of beef brothPlace roast in crockpot and season with salt and pepper as desired.Mix together the soup and broth. Pour over the top.Cook on high in crockpot for 6 hours or low for 8. :::::::::::How to invest in what matters beyond ourselves. We have one life - let’s make the most of it for God, others, and eternity.Subscribe:Choose one of these popular free listening services, and subscribe there:      

Wendy Speake is co-author of the popular parenting book Triggers: Exchanging Parents’ Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses with Amber Lia, and the two have teamed up again for a follow-up book titled, Parenting Scripts: When What You’re Saying Isn’t Working, Say Something New.  Today, she joins Heidi to talk about our need for self-control and how to let God be the LORD of every area of our lives.  Sugar Fast Info Wendy Speake and Amber Lia co-authored the popular parenting book Triggers: Exchanging Parents’ Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses in 2016, followed by the Triggers Study Guide later that year. Most recently the two released their follow-up book, Parenting Scripts. Join their private Facebook group for more encouragement. Or find Wendy at WendySpeake.com, where you can sign up to receive free seasonal GENTLE PARENTING PRINTS. Each winter, spring, summer and fall, you’ll receive a scripture, a lyric to a hymn, and a quote. This fall they’re featuring a quote from Parenting Scripts, Isaiah 40:11, and a line from the hymn, What a Friend We Have in Jesus. You can also follow along on Facebook or Instagram. Join them in their private Facebook group for moms as well. Wendy has been a favorite podcast guest before. Last time we talked about mom anger, because some of our friends had a problem.  Ha!  Just kidding… because we both know WE are guilty! But Wendy has a great resource for anyone who admits it’s an issue.  Part 1 & Part 2 Register to Vote Here! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/heidistjohn/support

Are you raising an entitled child? How can you be sure? Listen today as Amber Lia discusses her book Parenting Scripts  and reveals what she believes are the key triggers to raising entitled children. Amber Lia is a former high school English teacher who earned her BA in English Literature from and her Master’s Degree in Leadership and Educational Administration. She is a girly-girl to the core, and finds a lot of humor in the fact that she has a “TESTOSTER-HOME”! Amber and her husband Guy own a production company called Storehouse Media Group,   and have been married eleven years.  They parent 4 boys who they are raising to be knights.

Have you ever known what your child needs you to do to help them learn a lesson but been afraid of following through because you were worried about what other parents, teachers, or friends might think of you? Today Amber Lia discusses her book Parenting Scripts  and she shares with us how being a consistent and effective parent takes some very thick skin. Amber Lia is a former high school English teacher who earned her BA in English Literature from and her Master’s Degree in Leadership and Educational Administration. She is a girly-girl to the core, and finds a lot of humor in the fact that she has a “TESTOSTER-HOME”! Amber and her husband Guy own a production company called Storehouse Media Group,   and have been married eleven years.  They parent 4 boys who they are raising to be knights.

Do you ever strugle to find the best way to confront your children?  Do you ever leave a confrontation wishing you could have said something better or different?  Today Amber Lia discusses her book Parenting Scripts  which gives us a plan on how to confront our children with common issues.  This is a super practical conversation (and book) which you can apply to your parenting journey.  Amber Lia is a former high school English teacher who earned her BA in English Literature from and her Master’s Degree in Leadership and Educational Administration. She is a girly-girl to the core, and finds a lot of humor in the fact that she has a “TESTOSTER-HOME”! Amber and her husband Guy own a production company called Storehouse Media Group,   and have been married eleven years.  They parent 4 boys who they are raising to be knights.

Episode #057 Wendy Speake & Amber Lia -- Parenting Scripts: Words for When You Don't Know What to Say   * Head to SimplyJoyfulPodcast.com or KristiClover.com/057 to see all the Show Notes & Awesome Quotes that we collected for you!   * OUR SEASON 5 SPONSOR: Skill Trek!  — A special thanks to our wonderful sponsor this season!! — Teaching basic life skills to your kids and teens has never been easier! — Get 15% off annual memberships when using coupon code CLOVER15 (Coupon expires on June 30).     * LAST FEW DAYS TO SIGN-UP FOR OUR GIVEAWAY! — Be sure to sign-up for the Season 4 Giveaway we have going on until Sunday, May 13th at 8pm PST!! Lots of great books from our Season 4 guests! — Sign up at KristiClover.com/giveaway   *CHECK OUT OUR NEW “SIMPLY JOYFUL TV!” It’s the video edition of the podcast! I had the honor of interviewing Jon Erwin, the director of the new movie I Can Only Imagine and Moms Night Out. You can watch it HERE! There are more video interviews coming soon! …Just released: An interview with Pam Barnhill! Find it at KristiClover.tv   BOOKS & POSTS MENTIONED… Parenting Scripts Triggers Triggers: Study Guide Life Creative   LINKS TO OTHER THINGS MENTIONED… (See more details on the SHOW NOTES!) Join my mailing list and get weekly encouragement -- and get my Sanity Savers for Moms book FREE! The Simply Joyful Membership Site!! — We have lots of great ways to get bonuses! Thanks for your support of the podcast! Join our Facebook Community, too! Your question might just be used in the podcast. I didn’t mention that I have a weight loss program that I love called Optavia! I’m a health coach with them. If you are interested in learning more about that and my special coaching program, just head HERE for more info. Listening to Audio Books with Audible! The Simply Joyful Podcast mug Subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss the next encouraging episode! iTunes & Stitcher & now GooglePlay   I hope you enjoyed this week's podcast! My prayer is always that you will be blessed and encouraged by each episode. Live Simply. Be Joyful.   LET’S CONNECT!… I'd love to connect with you more online! Be sure to follow me on social media and see what we're up to.  My Website | Facebook  | Instagram | YouTube | Pinterest | Twitter   CONNECT WITH WENDY… As a trained actress and heartfelt Bible teacher, Wendy Speake ministers to women’s hearts through storytelling, both on page and stage. She utilizes drama, comedy, poetry, and the study of God’s Word. During her career in Hollywood, on shows such as JAG, Melrose Place, Star Trek Voyager, and Roswell, Wendy found herself longing to tell stories that edify and encourage women! She now writes stories that move readers closer to Jesus. Wendy Speake blogs about faith and family, motherhood and marriage, at WendySpeake.com. She resides in sunny San Diego with her handsome husband and their three ruddy boys. You can check out Wendy's books HERE on Amazon! Be sure to visit his site as well at www.WendySpeake.com.   CONNECT WITH AMBER… A former high school English teacher, Amber Lia is a work-at-home mom of four little boys under the age of ten. She and her husband, Guy, own Storehouse Media Group, a faith and family-friendly TV and Film production company in Los Angeles, CA. When she's not building sand castles with her boys on the beach, or searching for Nerf darts all over her house, you can find Amber writing to encourage families on her blog at Mother of Knights (www.motherofknights.com). You can check out Amber's books HERE on Amazon! Be sure to visit his site as well at www.motherofknights.com.     **This post may contain a few affiliate links, both Amazon & others. Please see my disclosure page if you have any questions.

Amber Lia joins me for Episode 106. She is a mom to 4 boys as well as an author and owner of a production company in Los Angeles. Amber and Wendy Speaks have released a new book together called Parenting Scripts: When What Your Saying Isn’t Working Say Something New. I don’t know about you, but parenting has been the hardest job of my life. I am always trying to hit a moving target. And what worked yesterday doesn’t always work today. Many times, I find myself in a situation where I just don’t know what to say. And that is exactly why they wrote this book.  So I give her a few different scenarios from her book and ask her to help us know what to say. We talk about how to motivate your kids to do what they need to do; what to say when your kid argues and talks back; what to say when your kid faces disappointment; and what what to do if you and your partner are on different parenting pages. What did you enjoy about this episode? What was your takeaway. You can read all my takeaways online here. Let's continue the conversation on Instagram or Twitter or you can send me an email here.  Thank you for following along life with me. I love being apart of your day. And as always, I hope this show helps you survive a little easier.

My friend Wendy Brunner is back to talk about re-writing your parenting conversations. If you have something you’re saying and it’s not working, say something else! Right? It’s not as hard as it seems, especially with all Wendy’s wisdom here. Join us! Wendy Speake and Amber Lia co-authored the popular parenting book Triggers: Exchanging Parents’ Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses in 2016, followed by the Triggers Study Guide later that year. Most recently the two released their follow-up book, Parenting Scripts. Join their private Facebook group for more encouragement. Or find Wendy at WendySpeake.com, where you can sign up to receive free seasonal GENTLE PARENTING PRINTS. Each winter, spring, summer and fall, you’ll receive a scripture, a lyric to a hymn, and a quote. This fall they’re featuring a quote from Parenting Scripts, Isaiah 40:11, and a line from the hymn, What a Friend We Have in Jesus. You can also follow along on Facebook or Instagram. Join them in their private Facebook group for moms as well. Wendy has been a favorite podcast guest before. Last time we talked about mom anger, because some of our friends had a problem.  Ha!  Just kidding… because we both know WE are guilty! But Wendy has a great resource for anyone who admits it’s an issue.  Part 1 & Part 2 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/heidistjohn/support

Heidi is visiting with Wendy Brunner today about Parenting Scripts, a helpful book that will help you plan ahead and learn to react with more self-control when you’re tempted to blow up. Wendy Speake and Amber Lia co-authored the popular parenting book Triggers: Exchanging Parents’ Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses in 2016, followed by the Triggers Study Guide later that year. Most recently the two released their follow-up book, Parenting Scripts. Join their private Facebook group for more encouragement. Or find Wendy at WendySpeake.com, where you can sign up to receive free seasonal GENTLE PARENTING PRINTS. Each winter, spring, summer and fall, you’ll receive a scripture, a lyric to a hymn, and a quote. This fall they’re featuring a quote from Parenting Scripts, Isaiah 40:11, and a line from the hymn, What a Friend We Have in Jesus. You can also follow along on Facebook or Instagram. Join them in their private Facebook group for moms as well. Wendy has been a favorite podcast guest before. Last time we talked about mom anger, because some of our friends had a problem.  Ha!  Just kidding… because we both know WE are guilty! But Wendy has a great resource for anyone who admits it’s an issue.  Part 1 & Part 2 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/heidistjohn/support