Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens

In this episode, Destiny unpacks the difference between reading Scripture and receiving it — and how that small shift in posture can lead to deep transformation. If your devotional time has felt flat or disconnected lately, this conversation will help you slow down, invite the Holy Spirit in, and approach the Word with fresh expectancy. Because it's not about checking a box , it's about encountering the voice of God.Scripture Mentioned:John 15:7Bonus Announcement:This episode sets the stage for our powerful new 6-episode summer series:Belonged All Along: Stories of Women Who Became Unexpected Vessels of PurposeEach week, we'll explore the lives of women in Scripture who didn't “fit the mold” and yet were powerfully used by God. Their stories will stir your faith and remind you: you've always belonged in His story.Send us a textSupport the show

Have you ever felt emotionally tired or mentally overwhelmed by all the possible directions your life could take?Maybe you're standing at a crossroads—full of options but unsure which way to go. In this powerful episode, Destiny shares how clarity often begins not with a plan, but with your voice.Join Destiny as she unpacks why speaking out your thoughts, emotions, and prayers can illuminate the path God is preparing for you. Whether you're feeling restless, tired, or just uncertain, this episode will encourage you to get honest, get vocal, and get aligned with God's purpose.

In a world that glorifies hustle, God invites us into something deeper—holy rhythms of rest, purpose, and peace. If you've ever felt like your to-do list is running your life or wondered why obedience feels so overwhelming, this episode is for you.In today's heartfelt conversation, Destiny shares powerful mindset shifts, biblical encouragement, and practical tools to help you manage your time with intention, stay focused on what matters most, and work in harmony, not stress. You'll learn how to align your energy with your God-given assignment and step into your calling without burning out.Scripture References:Psalm 127:2 – “God gives rest to His loved ones.”Luke 5:16 – “But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.”Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “There is a time for everything...”2 Corinthians 12:9 – “My grace is sufficient for you...”Proverbs 16:3 – “Commit to the Lord whatever you do…”Send us a textSupport the show

Are you feeling stretched thin trying to do it all? In this empowering episode of Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens, we explore how to build routines that reflect your current season of life. Whether you're juggling family, career, or ministry—or all three—this episode offers practical steps and spiritual encouragement to help you embrace grace over grind.You'll learn how to:Identify the season you're in and why that mattersAlign your daily rhythms with what God is calling you to nowAvoid burnout by designing flexible, life-giving routinesShift your mindset from hustle to holy restWith biblical truths, mindset coaching, and real-life examples, Destiny walks alongside you to help you release the pressure and walk in peace.Scripture References:Ecclesiastes 3:1Proverbs 3:5-6Luke 5:16Matthew 11:28-30Send us a textSupport the show

Have you ever felt like rejection left a permanent mark on your identity?In this episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, Destiny gets real and raw about the wounds of rejection and the silent battle with self-doubt so many women face.Through biblical encouragement, personal testimony, and practical mindset tools, you'll learn how to:Acknowledge and confront emotional woundsReplace lies with the truth of God's WordAllow God to redefine your identitySpeak life over yourself (even when you don't feel it)Take bold steps forward despite fearThis is more than an episode—it's an invitation to heal.Whether you've faced rejection from people, missed opportunities, or painful seasons that made you question your worth, this message will remind you:

Have you ever carried a dream that feels deeply connected to your purpose, yet you're stuck between inspiration and implementation? You're not alone — and you're not behind. In this episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, Destiny breaks down what it looks like to move from dreaming to doing, and how to take that first step with confidence, clarity, and faith.This is more than motivation — it's a call to action.You'll learn:The difference between passion, gifting, and assignmentHow to recognize when a dream is actually a divine invitationPractical mindset shifts to overcome fear and procrastinationBiblical encouragement that will strengthen your courage to moveSimple, actionable steps to begin stewarding the vision God placed on your heartWhether your dream is to write a book, launch a business, step into leadership, or finally move forward on that idea you've been sitting on — this episode is the nudge your spirit has been waiting for.Scriptures Referenced:Psalm 37:4James 2:172 Timothy 1:7Ephesians 3:20

Have you ever prayed, “God, I just want to hear You clearly… is that really You speaking?” Maybe you're facing a big decision, or simply craving clarity for your next step. In this episode, Destiny walks you through five practical, biblical keys to discerning God's voice with confidence.You'll learn how to:Tune into God's guidance through stillness and scriptureRecognize when He's leading you by peaceOvercome doubt and second-guessingBuild spiritual confidence through prompt obedienceAlign your decisions with the truth of His WordIf you've ever questioned whether it's God or just your own thoughts—you're not alone. This episode will empower you to quiet the noise, press in with faith, and follow His lead with boldness.5 Keys to Hearing God's Voice:Create Space to ListenKnow His WordFollow the PeaceSeek Wise CounselObey PromptlyScriptures Referenced: John 10:27“My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.”Matthew 6:6“But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.”2 Timothy 3:16“All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness.”2 Timothy 1:7“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”Proverbs 15:22“Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.”

Have you ever felt stuck wondering, “What is my purpose?” or “What gifts has God truly given me?” In this powerful and heart-to-heart episode, Destiny Pickens helps you silence the noise of confusion and comparison so you can step confidently into the calling God designed just for you.Through biblical encouragement, mindset-shifting truths, and relatable stories, you'll uncover how to identify your spiritual gifts, walk boldly in your unique design, and trust God's timing every step of the way.Whether you're in a season of discovery or needing a fresh reminder of your worth, this episode will leave you feeling seen, spiritually grounded, and ready to take action in your calling.

Are you stuck in a swirl of overthinking, waiting for the "perfect" time or a crystal-clear sign from God before you make a move? You're not alone—and today's episode is here to help you break free!In this episode, we're diving deep into how to overcome indecision and confidently make bold, God-aligned choices—even when you're unsure. Whether you're navigating a big career shift, starting a ministry, or simply trying to take the next right step, this is your invitation to get unstuck and move forward in faith.You'll learn:Why we get trapped in cycles of indecision (hint: fear, perfectionism, and lack of trust)Biblical truth that will anchor your decision-making5 practical, faith-based steps to make confident choicesA real-life story of breakthrough from one of my coaching clientsA simple weekly exercise to help you take action right away

Do you ever feel like your mind is constantly buzzing with to-do lists, worries, and distractions? If so, you're not alone. In this episode of Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens, Destiny explores how mental clutter can rob us of peace, clarity, and the ability to hear from God. She offers practical, biblically grounded strategies to help you create mental space and emotional balance.Destiny shares four transformative steps that support a decluttered and spiritually centered mind. First, she emphasizes the importance of mindful surrender, encouraging listeners to give their worries to God through intentional prayer, as described in Philippians 4:6-7. Next, she introduces the concept of decluttering your thought life with tools like a “brain dump” and the “Philippians 4:8 Test” to help filter thoughts through a biblical lens.She also highlights the power of stillness and reflection, referencing Psalm 46:10, and encourages daily moments of quiet to better connect with God. Lastly, Destiny discusses how simplifying commitments can significantly reduce mental stress, helping you align your time and energy with what truly matters.Throughout the episode, listeners are reminded that Jesus modeled the importance of rest and solitude, often withdrawing to pray and reflect, as seen in Luke 5:16. By following His example, we too can cultivate emotional clarity and make wiser decisions.Destiny challenges her audience to reflect on whether they are reacting out of stress or responding with wisdom. She encourages everyone to choose one strategy from the episode and implement it throughout the week as a step toward greater peace and purpose.

Have you ever felt overwhelmed because you said yes to something you really didn't want to do? If so, you're not alone! In this episode of Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens, we're diving into The Art of Saying No—why it's essential, how it protects your purpose, and how to do it with confidence and grace.Saying no isn't about being selfish; it's about being intentional. Every time we say yes to something outside of our purpose, we are saying no to something God truly wants for us. Today, we'll uncover biblical wisdom on boundaries, learn how Jesus modeled saying no, and go through practical steps to help you set healthy boundaries—without guilt.By the end of this episode, you'll walk away with:✅ A biblical foundation for setting boundaries✅ Practical phrases to say no with grace✅ Strategies to release guilt and protect your time✅ A challenge to start implementing boundaries this weekAre you ready to take back control of your time, energy, and peace? Let's dive in!

Do you struggle with procrastination? Do you find yourself putting off important tasks, delaying your dreams, or feeling stuck when it comes to pursuing your God-given calling? If so, you are not alone. Procrastination is more than just a time management issue—it's a mindset barrier that can keep you from stepping into the purpose God has for your life.In this episode of Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens, we dive deep into the root causes of procrastination, including fear, overwhelm, and perfectionism. You'll gain biblical insights and practical strategies to break free from hesitation and start making steady progress in your personal growth journey.If you are ready to move from procrastination to productivity and start walking boldly in your calling, this episode is for you.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The real reasons why we procrastinate (and how to overcome them)How fear, self-doubt, and perfectionism keep you stuckBiblical principles to help you take action with confidenceSimple, effective steps to stop delaying and start progressingHow to shift your mindset from hesitation to momentumBible Verses Mentioned:Proverbs 13:4 – "The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied."2 Timothy 1:7 – "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."Proverbs 16:9 – "The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps."Ecclesiastes 4:9 – "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor."Philippians 1:6 – "He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion."Subscribe to the podcast and never miss an episodeStay Connected:Follow me on Instagram: @destinypickensVisit my website for more faith-based personal development content: www.destinypickens.comLeave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps more Christian women find this encouragementSend us a textSupport the show

Have you ever responded to a situation in the heat of the moment, only to regret it later? Do you feel like your emotions, fears, or self-doubt often dictate your decisions? In this episode of Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens, we're diving deep into the power of mindful thought—how becoming aware of your mental habits can help you break free from reactive cycles and make more intentional, faith-filled choices.Join me as we explore the difference between reacting and thinking, the role mindfulness plays in rewiring our thought patterns, and the biblical principles that support intentional living. Plus, I'll be sharing practical steps you can take to slow down, reflect, and align your responses with God's truth. If you're an emerging Christian woman leader who's ready to overcome mindset blocks and step boldly into your God-given calling, this episode is for you!What You'll Learn in This Episode:The key differences between reacting and intentional thinkingHow Christian mindfulness helps you take control of your thoughtsA powerful case study on the impact of mindful awarenessBiblical wisdom on renewing your mind and making wise choicesPractical steps to cultivate mindful thought in your daily lifeKey Bible Verses Mentioned:Proverbs 14:29 – "Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly."Romans 12:2 – "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind."Philippians 4:8 – "Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”Resources & Next Steps: ✅ Subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode!✅ Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today.✅ Connect with me on Instagram @DestinyPickens and let me know how you're applying mindful thought in your life!✅ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more faith-driven women find this content.Send us a textSupport the show

In this episode of the Uniquely You podcast, host Destiny Pickens dives deep into the fascinating connection between your thoughts, your brain, and the reality you experience. Have you ever noticed how a single negative thought can derail your whole day? It turns out, your thoughts have the power to physically change your brain.Destiny breaks down the neuroscience behind belief, explaining how neuroplasticity works and how your brain rewires itself based on the thoughts you focus on. But it doesn't stop there—she also shares practical, Biblically-grounded strategies to help you replace limiting thoughts with the truth of God's Word, creating lasting transformation in your mind and your life.If you're ready to take control of your mindset and align your beliefs with God's truth, this episode is for you!Key Takeaways:The neuroscience of neuroplasticity and how thoughts physically rewire the brain.How your beliefs shape the way you experience the world.The power of God's truth in transforming your mindset.Practical steps to start rewiring your brain for success and peace, based on Biblical principles.Scripture References:Proverbs 23:7 – "For as he thinks in his heart, so is he."Romans 12:2 – "Do not be conformed to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind."Psalm 139:14 – "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made."Hebrews 11:1 – "Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see."Connect with Destiny:Instagram: @MsdestinypickensWebsite: www.Destinypickens.comIf you're ready to transform your mindset and live a life of purpose, let's connect! Visit my website or follow me on Instagram for more resources and coaching opportunities. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode!Send us a textSupport the show

In this third and final installment of our "Growth Goals Series," host Destiny Pickens explores the importance of professional growth goals for Christians. Building on the foundation laid in the previous episodes on personal and spiritual growth, this episode delves into how believers can approach career development with a Christ-centered mindset.The Story of JosephDestiny begins by examining the story of Joseph from the book of Genesis, highlighting key principles for professional growth:Trust in God's plan, even when your career path seems uncertainExcel in your current position, regardless of its prestige or alignment with long-term goalsMaintain integrity and faith in all circumstancesRecognize that success ultimately comes from God, not just personal effortsPractical Applications1. Align Your Career with God's PurposeExercise: Write down three ways your current or desired profession can be used to serve God and others.2. Identify Your God-Given Talents and StrengthsExercise: List five of your strengths and pray for guidance on how to develop and use them in your professional life.3. Set SMART Goals Grounded in Biblical PrinciplesExercise: Create three professional goals for the next 12 months. For each goal, find a supporting Bible verse. Recite both the goal and scripture aloud each morning.Work with Destiny: https://elevateinnercirclecoaching.com/main-pageSend us a textSupport the show

As we embark on a new year, it's the perfect time to reflect on our faith journey and set intentional goals for spiritual growth. In this second installment of our three-part "Growth Goals Series," we explore how to align our aspirations with God's plan for our lives.The Importance of Spiritual GoalsSetting spiritual goals goes beyond personal improvement—it's about drawing closer to God and living out His purpose for us. By creating spiritual goals, we make a conscious commitment to prioritize God in all aspects of our lives. This intentional focus helps us:Strengthen our relationship with GodDevelop a more consistent prayer lifeIncrease our understanding of ScriptureApply biblical principles to our daily livesCultivate spiritual disciplinesUltimately, it's about transforming our entire way of living to align with God's will.Steps to Set Effective Spiritual GoalsPray and Reflect: Before setting any goals, dedicate time to prayer and seek God's guidance. Ask Him to reveal areas where He wants you to grow, ensuring that your goals align with His will.Be Specific and Measurable: Instead of vague goals like "read the Bible more," opt for specific objectives.Make Goals Achievable: Set goals that challenge you but remain within reach. Remember, growth is a process, not a race. Start with small, attainable goals and gradually increase their complexity as you progress.Align with Biblical Values: Ensure your goals are grounded in Scripture and align with God's teachings. Review and Adjust Regularly: Set aside time periodically to review your progress and adjust your goals as needed. This flexibility allows you to respond to God's leading and changes in your life circumstances.Send us a textSupport the show

Today on Uniquely You, we're diving into part one of The Growth Goals Series, Destiny's blueprint designed to help you break free from stagnation and step into the most powerful version of yourself—a version that is not just surviving, but truly thriving.Key Topics Discussed:Self-Awareness: Understanding your thoughts and emotions as a foundation for personal growth.The "Who Are You?" Exercise: A practical exercise to enhance self-awareness by repeatedly asking yourself "Who are you?" for three minutes without overthinking or repeating answers.Emotional Intelligence (EI): The importance of EI in navigating social situations, building relationships, and making balanced decisions.Physical Health: The necessity of prioritizing physical well-being through exercise, nutrition, and rest.Joy in Growth: Recognizing joy as an essential component of personal development and rediscovering what brings you happiness.Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.comSend us a textSupport the show

In this episode of “Uniquely You,” host Destiny Pickens explores the concept of distractions that come into our lives disguised as good opportunities. Drawing from biblical stories and personal reflections, Destiny helps listeners identify these distractions and provides practical strategies to stay focused on their true calling.Work with DestinyJoin The Elevate Community Send us a textSupport the show

In this episode, Destiny dives into the concept of Power Thinking, a transformative mindset practice that helps individuals reshape their thoughts to foster confidence and overcome self-doubt.Key Topics DiscussedWhat is Power Thinking?Power thinking involves creating supportive narratives and recognizing that thoughts can be shaped to benefit us.Benefits of Power Thinking:Overcoming Limitations: Encourages action and creativity, breaking free from fears and self-limiting beliefs.Enhancing Emotional Well-being: Promotes mental toughness, resilience, and better decision-making.Facilitating Behavioral Change: Empowering thoughts lead to positive changes in behavior and attitudes.Steps to Practice Power ThinkingSelf-awareness: Observe and categorize your thoughts as empowering or disempowering.Thought Reframing: Replace disempowering thoughts with supportive narratives.Make it a Habit: Regularly practice these techniques to develop constructive thought patterns.Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com Send us a textSupport the show

Have you ever felt like your biggest dreams have been tucked away, gathering dust on a shelf? In this powerful episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, host Destiny Pickens challenges listeners to revisit those audacious goals and visions that once ignited their passion.Embracing God's Immeasurable PlansWe kick off by exploring Ephesians 3:20, reminding us that God "is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine." This sets the stage for a deep dive into how our lives often take unexpected turns, aligning us with a higher purpose we may not have initially envisionedCommon Roadblocks to Pursuing DreamsDestiny addresses two major obstacles that often prevent us from chasing our dreams:Fear of Failure: We're reminded that our ability isn't the deciding factor – it's God's power working through us, as stated in Philippians 4:13.Overwhelm: The sheer magnitude of our dreams can paralyze us. Destiny offers practical advice on breaking down big goals into manageable stepsRekindling the VisionAs we dust off our shelved dreams, Destiny encourages listeners to:Approach their vision with fresh eyes and an open heartReconnect with the initial spark that ignited their passionEmbrace any evolution or new dimensions of their dreamConnect On the Gram: www.instagram.com/msdestinypickensWork With Destiny: www.Destinypickens.comSend us a textSupport the show

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In this episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, host Destiny Pickens explores the transformative power of self-reflection in leadership. Drawing insights from interviews with top corporate leaders, Destiny emphasizes how self-reflection can enhance leadership skills and foster a deeper connection with teams. Key Points DiscussedDefinition of Self-Reflection:   - Self-reflection involves pausing to examine thoughts, actions, and experiences, akin to holding a mirror to one's leadership style. Benefits of Self-Reflection: Self-Awareness Continuous Improvement Better Decision-Making Emotional Intelligence IntegrityAdaptabilityBig Picture FocusDestiny concludes the episode with a reminder that self-reflection is not about self-criticism but about growth and alignment with God's purpose. She encourages listeners to embrace their unique gifts and continue their journey of reflection and leadership.---Connect with Destiny On Social:- Instagram: [@MsDestinyPickens](https://www.instagram.com/MsDestinyPickens)- Facebook: [facebook.com/coachdestinypickens](https://www.facebook.com/coachdestinypickens)

In this episode, we explore three powerful habits that high-performing individuals use to live out their faith effectively: Consistent Prayer Start each day with intentional prayer to center your mind and strengthen your spiritual foundation The Prayer of Jabez (1 Chronicles 4:10) is highlighted as an example of bold, purposeful prayer Diligent Planning and Goal-Setting Break down God-given visions into actionable steps Set deadlines and stay accountable View planning as partnering with God to bring His vision to life Embracing Challenges as Growth Opportunities See failures and obstacles as stepping stones to success Understand that God can use every experience for good Allow challenges to refine your character and skills Work with Destiny ⁠ ⁠Connect with Destiny on Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support

Today we're tackling a topic that plagues so many of us - procrastination. We've all been there, putting things off until the last minute, letting tasks pile up, and then feeling stressed and overwhelmed. But do you know the real root cause behind why You procrastinate? In todays episode we will dive into that plus Destiny shares some practical tips for overcoming this productivity-killing habit once and for all. Procrastination is often rooted in deeper fears, such as the fear of failure, fear of not being good enough, or even fear of success. When we avoid a task, we don't have to face those fears head-on. Procrastination gives us a false sense of security and control. To overcome procrastination, we need to: Identify the root fear causing the procrastination Ask yourself: "What am I afraid of regarding this task or goal?" Journal about your thoughts and analyze if they hold any truth or align with your values and vision. Pray and give that fear over to God Fear is a natural human emotion, but it should not be the driving force behind our decisions and actions. Break the task down into manageable steps Visualize the task as a staircase, and focus on taking one step at a time. Confront your fears with resilience and determination Recognize that the potential rewards of facing challenges outweigh the temporary discomfort. Work with Destiny Connect with Destiny on Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support

In this episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, host Destiny Pickens delves into the topic of stress, exploring its effects on our mindset and discussing actionable strategies to prevent it. Stress is an inevitable part of life, but it doesn't have to control us. Destiny shares three proactive steps to combat stress and achieve success in various aspects of life, including business, ministry, and personal relationships. Proactive Steps to Combat Stress: Prayer: Bringing our burdens to God through prayer can provide peace and clarity. No issue is too big or small to bring to Him. Prioritizing Wellbeing: Taking care of our bodies by staying hydrated, eating clean, moving, stretching, and getting enough sleep is essential to prevent unnecessary stress and burnout. Trusting God and Living in the Moment: Focusing on the present and trusting that God is in control helps reduce stress about future uncertainties. Connect with Destiny: www.DestinyPickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support

We've all been there - caught in the endless cycle of striving, hustling, and proving our worth through sheer effort and busyness. Whether it's at work, in our relationships, or even in our spiritual lives, the pressure to perform and accomplish through our own strength can be overwhelming. But what if I told you there was a better way? A path to true peace, joy and freedom that doesn't depend on your self-effort? In this episode Destiny shares four practical steps that have helped her move from striving to grace: Identify striving patterns and triggers Practice being still and present Surrender plans/tasks to God's strength Extend grace to yourself Work with Destiny⁠ ⁠Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support

Title: Prioritizing Mental Health as a Kingdom Entrepreneur May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and today we're diving into a crucial topic: the importance of prioritizing mental health as a Kingdom Entrepreneur. As Christian entrepreneurs, our faith serves as the cornerstone of our work, but it's also essential to take care of our mental well-being amidst the challenges of entrepreneurship. Breaking the stigma surrounding mental health is vital, especially in the context of building a thriving business. In today's episode, we explore practical strategies and insights to help nurture your well-being while pursuing your business goals. Join us as we delve into the significance of mental health in entrepreneurship from a Christian perspective. Learn how to integrate faith in your work while also prioritizing your mental health for a balanced and successful entrepreneurial journey. Work with Destiny Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support

Today we are talking about how we can focus on enjoying the moment instead of worrying about the future or dwelling on the past. We are constantly living in one of three states, the past, the present, or the future. And unfortunately, a lot of us spend most of our time living in either the past or the future. We either dwell on past mistakes or hurt, or we worry about what's to come. So how can we change this? How can we learn to focus on the present and enjoy the moment? Here are a 5 tips: Pay attention to your thoughts and watch for negative patterns. Make a conscious effort to focus on the present moment. Acknowledge and accept your feelings, but don't dwell on them. Find things to appreciate in the present moment, no matter how small. Enjoy the journey of Gods plan for you. Work with Destiny: ⁠www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support

Each of us possesses unique abilities and strengths that, when utilized in harmony with our passions and aspirations, can lead to a sense of fulfillment and success. Join me on today's episode as I share three ways to actively align your passions to your purpose.  Self- Reflection The connection between your interests, talents, and greater purpose lies in finding the intersection point where they all align. This is why self reflection is crucial to identifying what that looks like for you. Set a clear goal  Focus on this goal and then break it don into smaller task. Write all the things you need to do in order to achieve this goal. Take Action It's important to give yourself deadlines because it keeps you focused and accountable to yourself. When we align our talents and skills with our purpose, we are stepping into the unique calling and mission that God has prepared for us. Ephesians 2:10 & 1 Peter 4:10 Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support

Hey there, Join me on todays episode as we discuss a topic that often makes many of us uncomfortable – and that's failure. Failure, a word that carries a heavy weight in our society. We're taught from a young age to avoid failure at all costs, to strive for perfection, to never settle for anything less than success. But what if I told you that failure is not the end of the road, but rather a stepping stone to growth and self-discovery? Scriptures Mentioned: Psalm 73:26 & Romans 8:28 Support The Show: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/uniquelyyoupodcast Work With Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support

Join me on todays episode as we take a moment to pause, reflect, and ponder the deeper meanings of Good Friday. Good Friday serves as a powerful reminder that through our faith in Christ, we are blessed with resilience - the inner strength to withstand trials, grow from our experiences, and emerge with a renewed sense of purpose and conviction. Today, as we take a moment to pause, I invite you to reflect with me on two introspective questions. Question #1: What lessons can I learn from Christ's unwavering faith and courage in the face of suffering and betrayal? Question #2: How can I embody the spirit of sacrifice, forgiveness, and love demonstrated by Jesus on the cross in my daily life? Support the Podcast: ⁠https://www.buymeacoffee.com/uniquelyyoupodcast⁠ Work with Destiny: ⁠www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support

In this episode, Destiny Pickens explores the concept of imposter syndrome and how it can be turned into a catalyst for personal growth and self-discovery. She shares practical advice on how to use imposter syndrome as fuel for growth and reflects on biblical examples of overcoming self-doubt. Scriptures Mentioned: Exodus 3:11, Exodus 4:10  Support the Podcast: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/uniquelyyoupodcast Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support

In today's episode, I talk about the importance of embracing your God-given talents and overcoming doubts and insecurities that may hinder your ability to recognize and utilize the gifts that have been given to you. As human beings, it's natural to question our own worth and capabilities. However, it's important to remember that each of us has been uniquely designed by God with a specific set of gifts and talents that are meant to be utilized in fulfilling our purpose in His grand plan. Key Take-Aways: - Acknowledging Moments of Doubt: It is common for individuals to experience periods of self-doubt and insecurity when it comes to their gifts and talents. - Divine Design: It is essential to remind ourselves that God has intricately created each of us with a unique set of gifts and talents specifically tailored to fulfill our purpose within His divine plan. - Shifting Perspective: By shifting our focus to a higher perspective, we can appreciate that we are individually designed by God with a distinct purpose and a unique set of gifts ideally suited for fulfilling that purpose. Scripture Mentioned: Ephesians 2:10 Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com Support the Podcast: www.buymeacoffee.com/uniquelyyoupodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support

Today marks our 100th episode on the show, making it a special day for us. It has been an incredible journey. On today's episode, we will be taking a trip down memory lane, revisiting the top five most downloaded episodes as chosen by our amazing listeners. Episodes Mentioned: #82: Permission to Stop People Pleasing // LISTEN HERE #41: Choosing faith Over Fear // LISTEN HERE #83: Breaking the Stigma: Let's Talk Mental Health with Dr. Sheri // LISTEN HERE #1: 3 Powerful Ways to Deal with Stress // LISTEN HERE #67: How to give yourself grace when you feel like you are falling short // LISTEN HERE SUPPORT THE SHOW BY VISITING WWW.BUYMEACOFFEE.COM/UNIQUELYYOUPODCAST JOIN OUR FACEBOOK COMMUNITY GROUP HERE OPENING FRIDAY, MARCH 15TH 2024 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/uniquelyyou/support

As a believer, embodying your identity in Christ is crucial as it serves as the foundation for shaping your core beliefs, values, and actions. It is not enough to simply believe in Him; you must actively demonstrate His love, grace, and teachings in everything you do. To help you authentically reflect your faith in your daily life, here are four key ways in which you can embody your identity in Christ: 1. Love: Show love and compassion to others, just as Jesus did during His time on earth. 2. Integrity: Ensure your actions align with your beliefs, and let your character reflect the values of Christ. 3. Service: Serve others selflessly and with a spirit of humility, mirroring Christ's servant leadership. 4. Joy: Find happiness and contentment in your relationship with Christ, allowing His joy to be evident in your life. By embodying these qualities in your identity as a follower of Christ, you are not only living out your faith but also inspiring others to see the light of Christ shining through you. Embrace these practices, and let them guide you towards a purposeful and fulfilling life in Christ. Scriptures Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

In this episode, Destiny reveals 3 powerful methods for proactively building resilience. 1. Anchor yourself in God's Word. 2. Cultivate a mindset of gratitude. 3. Embrace opportunities for growth to strengthen your resilience. Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

Love is an extraordinary force that possesses the ability to change lives and bring about meaningful transformations in the world. It goes beyond being just an emotion; it is a conscious choice and a powerful action. In this episode Destiny emphasizes that by embracing love, we can experience profound personal growth and contribute positively to our communities. Loving God: The first pillar of love is loving God. This foundation is rooted in the belief that connecting with a higher power and experiencing divine love can bring immense purpose and fulfillment to our lives. By nurturing our relationship with God, we can tap into a limitless source of love and draw strength from it in our daily lives. Loving Yourself: The second pillar focuses on the importance of loving yourself. Self-love is not selfish but rather a vital aspect of personal growth. It encourages readers to embrace their unique qualities, appreciate their strengths, and forgive their flaws. By practicing self-compassion, we become better equipped to extend love and kindness to others. Loving Others: The third pillar the significance of extending love to those around us. By fostering genuine connections and acts of kindness, we can create a ripple effect of love that positively impacts our communities and the world. By embracing the three pillars of love - loving God, loving oneself, and loving others - we can unlock the transformative power of love that resides within each of us. Let Connect: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

In this episode of the Uniquely You Podcast, host Destiny Pickens delves deep into the concept of unconditional love and how it can be embraced in our daily lives. While unconditional love may seem elusive in a world filled with conditions and expectations, Destiny explores how we can experience God's perfect acceptance and love without boundaries. Three practical ways to embrace God's unconditional love: 1. Acceptance: It is crucial to accept ourselves just as we are, recognizing that we are loved and accepted by God unconditionally. By understanding our inherent worth, we can let go of self-doubt and embrace the truth that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. 2. Self-Love: Showing ourselves the love we deserve is essential. This includes taking care of our spiritual needs, physical health, and emotional well-being. By prioritizing self-care, we can nurture our relationship with God and experience His unconditional love in a more profound way. 3. Forgiveness: Letting go of grudges, resentments, and past failures is vital to fully experience God's unconditional love. By forgiving ourselves and others, we release the burdens that hinder our ability to embrace love freely. Forgiveness opens the door to healing and allows us to move forward in God's love. Scriptures Mentioned: John 9:1-38; Romans 8:38-39 Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

Join Destiny on today's episode as she shares practical tools to help you identify the source of your negative thoughts and how to combat them.  The first step in overcoming negative thoughts is to recognize their source.  The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:12, "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms." We must understand that negative thoughts often stem from the enemy's attempts to discourage and distract us from God's truth. Once we recognize the source of these negative thoughts, we can combat them with the power of God's Word.  In 2 Corinthians 10:5, we are instructed to "take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." This means that we have the authority to reject negative thoughts and replace them with God's promises and truth. The practice of speaking biblically rooted affirmations is a powerful tool for overcoming negative thoughts and cultivating a healthy mindset.  By consistently speaking affirmations, we can train our minds to focus on God's truth and overcome negative thinking patterns. Scriptures Mentioned: Ephesians 6:12, 2 Corinthians 10:5, Romans 8:37, Psalm 16:11 Work with Destiny: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

Core beliefs serve as a compass, guiding us in making decisions and setting goals that are in line with our values. Living in alignment with these beliefs provides clarity and helps us stay focused on what truly matters to us. How can we ensure that we are living in alignment with our core beliefs? The first step in evaluating our values is self-reflection.  Once we have identified our values, the next step is to align our actions with them. Third is to remember that discovering our values is an ongoing process. As we grow and evolve, our values may shift and change. It's important to regularly reassess and reevaluate our values to ensure that we are still living in alignment with our core beliefs.  Scriptures Mentioned: Proverbs 3:5-6  Let's connect! Visit www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

 One popular practice that has gained traction in recent years is choosing a word to guide you throughout the upcoming year. This word serves as a focal point, a reminder, and a source of inspiration as you navigate the challenges and opportunities that lie ahead. On today's episode Destiny shares three questions for you to answer to help you select your word. Question #1 What areas of my life do I want to focus on and grow in this year? Question #2 What character traits or qualities do I want to develop or embody? Question #3 What themes or intentions align with God's purpose for my life? Once you have chosen our word, you can incorporate it into your daily life. This word can serve as a reminder of our intentions and a source of encouragement throughout the year. Let's Connect: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

The holiday season can be a whirlwind of activities, obligations, and social gatherings. It's easy to get caught up in the busyness and spiral into overwhelm. On today's episode I share a proven strategy to creating and maintaining a healthy mindset:•Take time to reflect How can we seek moments of reflection during the holiday season?1. Carve out intentional time for solitude.2. Write or journal.3. Be present. Scriptures Mentioned:2 Corinthians 13:5 Mark 6:311 Kings 19:11-13Links:Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

In this episode Destiny interviews special guest, Melissa Holy. As a former CEO and owner of a California-based staffing and recruitment firm, Melissa Holy is dedicated to empowering women to leverage their profound self-influenceand amplify success across their careers, businesses, ministries, and lives. Melissa's passion lies in pioneering innovative, faith-infused strategies designed to strengthen self-leadership, drive transformation, and blaze a trail of positive change. Through the principles in her best-selling book, "Signature Self-Talk: Master the Art of Influencing Yourself," impactful speaking engagements, and specialized consulting services, Melissa equips women to reach their aspirations with unwavering confidence and purpose. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

The Uniquely You Podcast is celebrating two years of being on air! I am so incredibly grateful to each of you that tune in every week.  On todays episode we will rewind time and I will share 5 of my all time favorite episodes. Episode #72: How to Overcome Anxiety Using God's Word Episode #67: How to give yourself grace when you feel like you are falling short Episode #83: Breaking the Stigma on Mental health With Dr.Sheri Episode #70: Breaking free from All-or-Nothing Thinking  Episode #82: Permission to stop people pleasing   Thank you for being a listener of the Uniquely You Podcast! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

Happy thanksgiving from the Uniquely You Podcast Team --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

You see, when we rely solely on ourselves for confidence, we are limited by our own abilities, experiences, and perceptions. We become vulnerable to the opinions and judgments of others, and our confidence becomes fragile.  Question: How can we build our confidence upon God's Word? First, we must understand that God's Word is the ultimate truth. Second, we need to align our thoughts with God's thoughts.  Third, we must surrender our insecurities and weaknesses to God. Scriptures mentioned: 2 Timothy 3:16-17  Romans 12:2 Psalm 139:14 Proverbs 3:5-6 Links: WORK WITH ME INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

Pivoting And Embracing Change Links: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

A wilderness season in one's spiritual walk with God can be seen as a blessing in disguise. It is a period of time where one feels isolated, disconnected, and uncertain about their faith journey. However, this season can also be a time of immense growth, transformation, and deepening of one's relationship with God. In the wilderness, one is stripped of the distractions and comforts of everyday life. It is a place of solitude, where the noise of the world fades away, and one is left alone with their thoughts and emotions. This solitude allows for introspection, self-reflection, and a deeper understanding of oneself. Moreover, the wilderness season is a time of testing and refining. Just as Jesus was led into the wilderness to be tempted, we too face trials and challenges that test our faith and character. These trials can be painful and uncomfortable, but they also provide an opportunity for growth and refinement. It is in the wilderness that our faith is tested, our weaknesses are exposed, and our reliance on God is strengthened. Furthermore, the wilderness season is a time of dependence on God. When we are stripped of our usual sources of security and comfort, we are forced to rely solely on God's provision and guidance. In the wilderness, we learn to trust in God's faithfulness, to seek His wisdom, and to surrender our own plans and desires. It is in this surrender that we experience the true power and presence of God in our lives. The wilderness season is a time of preparation. Just as the Israelites wandered in the wilderness for forty years before entering the Promised Land, our wilderness season prepares us for the next chapter of our spiritual journey. It is a time of pruning, refining, and equipping for the tasks and challenges that lie ahead. In the wilderness, we learn valuable lessons, develop resilience, and acquire the spiritual tools necessary to fulfill our purpose. Scriptures Mentioned: Deuteronomy 8:2 2 Corinthians 4:18 Lamentations 3:22-23 Links: www.Destinypickens.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

The significance of mindset lies in its power to shape our thoughts, beliefs, and attitudes, which in turn affect our behaviors, emotions, and overall mental well-being.  Our mindset not only influences how we perceive and respond to external circumstances, but it also shapes our internal dialogue and self-talk.  How to cultivate a Christ-centered Mindset: It first starts with challenging negative thought patterns. From a Christian perspective, the role of self-talk and negative thought patterns in shaping our mental well-being is significant. The Bible emphasizes the power of our thoughts and the importance of renewing our minds.  Scriptures Mentioned: Proverbs 23:7  Romans 12:2  Links: YouVersion Bible App Work with Destiny Instagram Facebook --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

We all encounter difficult people in our lives – those who challenge us, push our buttons, or seem impossible to get along with. But as followers of Christ, we are called to respond to difficult people in a way that reflects God's love and wisdom. The first key principle: Pray for those who persecute you The Second key principle: Respond with kindness The Third key principle: Set Healthy Boundaries The fourth key principle: Forgive Them Scriptures Mentioned: Matthew 5:44 Proverbs 15:1 James 1:5 Matthew 10:14 Ephesians 4:32 Links Website Instagram Facebook Audio Engineering by ⁠Chris Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support

Mental health is a vital aspect of our overall well-being that influences how we think, feel, and act. It encompasses our emotional, psychological, and social well-being, affecting our daily functioning, relationships, and ability to cope with life's challenges. However, despite its significance, mental health remains stigmatized and often overlooked in society, especially in the Christian community. Understanding and addressing mental health is crucial not only for individuals but also for promoting healthier communities and societies. Dr. Sherri Yoder is an Author, Coach, Founder, and Executive Director of Thriving Thoughts Global. She refers to herself as a seeker of God's wisdom and the sharer of that wisdom. In this episode, we talked about her journey to becoming a coach and helping women operate from the place of a renewed mind after quitting her job as a clinical psychologist. We also discussed mental health extensively;  Common misconceptions The role faith plays How to protect your mental health. Scripture mentioned Roman 8:28 Links  If you are inspired by this episode and wish to support the show, please click here To learn more about mental health and about Dr. Sherri's non-profit, visit Thriving Thoughts Global  Connect with Dr. Sherri on: Facebook: Dr. Sherri  Instagram: Dr. Sherri speaks Connect with Destiny Pickens on: Facebook: Destiny Pickens Instagram: Destiny Pickens Subscribe and share this episode and don't forget to leave a review. Audio Engineering by Chris Pickens --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/destiny-pickens7/support