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Most people are waiting to find their purpose. Adrian Starks says that's exactly why they're stuck. The podcaster, voice narrator, professional speaker, and entrepreneur behind Your Purposeful Life returns to the show to share with Lesley Logan about the real cost of perfectionism, the salmon's lesson on fighting your purpose, and the daily self-reflection practice that quietly rebuilds your direction. This one's for anyone in a rebuild season, ready to stop searching and start moving. If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast https://lesleylogan.co/podcast/. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co mailto:beit@lesleylogan.co. And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe https://lesleylogan.co/podcast/#follow-subscribe-free.In this episode you will learn about:Why saying "I don't know" is the most underrated leadership move.The three cycles every purposeful life moves through on repeat.What happens when you stop checking in with your own purposeThe two questions Adrian asks instead of just journaling his thoughts.The real difference between nice people and kind people in your life.Episode References/Links:Adrian Starks Website - https://adrianstarks.comYour Purposeful Life Podcast - https://beitpod.com/purposefullifeAdrian Starks on YouTube - https://beitpod.com/adrianyoutubeAdrian Starks LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/feed/?nis=trueAdrian Starks Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/adrian.starksEp 191. with Adrian Starks - https://beitpod.com/ep191The Last Black Unicorn by Tiffany Haddish - https://a.co/d/0iNbLUALAre You My Mother by P.D. 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It's going to evolve with time, and that's okay. Having self-doubt is okay; not knowing everything is okay.Lesley Logan 0:13  Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self-doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guest will bring bold, executable, intrinsic and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started. Lesley Logan 0:55  All right, Be It babe. I'm gonna keep this short and sweet, because you've got some gems, some nuggets, some magic coming at you. We have one of the best conversations I had at the beginning of this pod, episode 191. Our guest is Adrian Starks, and he is back, and he is back with so much. It's so fun how a difference of a few years can make when you're living your life and you're following your purpose and reflecting what you can do and what you learn about yourself that you can share with others. So here are so many amazing tips on helping you find your purposeful life. And if you love Adrian, go check out his podcast, Your Purposeful Life. Lesley Logan 1:29  All right, Be It Pod, we have a guest back. I think, honestly, this might be the biggest gap from the first episode to the next episode. So, Adrian Starks, we have a lot to talk about. We, one, probably have to reintroduce you to everybody, and then two, we have to hear what you've been up to, how you're being it till you see it. So, tell everyone who you are and what you're rocking at these days.Adrian Starks 1:48  Well, it is so great to be back, Lesley. Let me tell you. My name is Adrian Starks, of course. I'm a podcaster, voice narrator, speaker, entrepreneur, all the good stuff. But yeah, that's who I am.Lesley Logan 2:01  Are you reading books? Are you a narrator like that? Are commercials what we're doing with it? I mean, a great voice.Adrian Starks 2:06  We're reading books, we're narrating for commercials, we're doing a lot of things.Lesley Logan 2:11  Cool, that's so fun. How did... okay, we have to talk more about that. But first, so we had you on for episode 191, and I was on your pod, and we really had a great time because you had some really great "be it till you see it" moments. And I think maybe we can go back a little bit of the be it till you see it where we left off to here, because maybe I missed it, maybe I didn't get as excited, but I can't believe narrating commercials and stuff like that. That's got to be so fun using this amazing voice you have to do what you're doing. So take us back a little bit, so we can get to the present.Adrian Starks 2:48  Okay, so how did I get into that? Well, that's a good question. I started out as speaking, professional speaking, and then I just started making connections along the way, started auditioning for certain things. I did a lot of things on certain platforms, like reading for children's books, I did some audios for other people's books, and then one thing led to another. The next thing I know, I'm getting offered opportunities to do other things, like narrating, and it's fun for me. I enjoy it, and I love it. So that's where I'm at today, doing that, along with podcasting, along with just being it till you see it.Lesley Logan 3:20  Yeah, how has your podcast changed? It's been like almost 400 episodes since we've talked, so that's like at least two years.Adrian Starks 3:28  Yeah.Lesley Logan 3:30  Because when we start our podcast, we have an intention of what it is, and then we evolve. The podcast has to evolve. What have you kept the same, and what have you realized that as you've changed, you've changed?Adrian Starks 3:44  Wow, the podcast has evolved, and I've changed over time, in a way of not so polished like I was before. Before, I was very astute, and I had to talk about this, talk about that, and make sure all my answers are correct. Now I was like, you know what, there's some things I just don't know, and I'm gonna show certain sides of myself that no one's ever seen. So now people are seeing the comical side of me. I'm into comics, I'm into a lot of fun things, comic cards, comic books, superheroes, of course, reading. But the podcast has evolved in a sense of me now just... I'm not looking for the answer of purpose. I just want to understand what people's perspective of it is, and that has changed.Lesley Logan 4:30  Oh, I understand that. I get that, because it's called Your Purposeful Life. And I love that you're like, "I thought it has to be astute. Everything has to have an answer, because that's what everyone wants." Everyone wants an answer. I have these students in this mentorship program, and they asked a question, and I talked for seven minutes. My fathom is like that's like a monologue, and I was like, "I have fully answered your question, and I want to acknowledge that it doesn't sound like there's an answer in there because you want yes or no."Adrian Starks 5:01  That's the truth.Lesley Logan 5:01  But it's such a lot of questions about our life and the things that we do. There's nuances; there's things that might be too much purpose for you and not enough for someone else. And so it's complicated.Adrian Starks 5:14  It's very complicated. And I go by the philosophy of Socrates. He said that "I know that I know nothing," and that is something that is very courageous to do in this day and time. Yes, we want to be knowledgeable about things. Yes, we want to have things that we give to people that are correct, because, like in your case, when you're teaching people, you want the knowledge to be there for them. But there's a lot of cases where there's just some things we don't know, and that's okay. That's what learning is for, and being able to be a person in your field and be a leader, and say, "You know what, I don't know, but I would like to find that answer out with you, or find some type of solution to what this is." And that's where I feel like we're living now in this day and time; people are looking for solutions, but they're also looking for connection to that solution.Lesley Logan 6:06  Yeah, and I think there's a trust to be built there. There has to be something that there's an alignment. I actually remember when I first became a Pilates instructor, I think I had to know the answer to everything, and I have found that my clients and the students I teach, they might not love when I say, "I don't know. Let me think about it," but also I may never know. The person I studied under has passed, the person he studied under has passed, like there's just going to be some things we don't have an answer to. So I think it's very brave and courageous to be like, "I don't know the answer to that, but this is what I know, and I know enough of this to keep going in this direction." Being a recovering perfectionist and overachiever, I used to really need someone to tell me the right or left turn to take, and I've gotten better at going, "Oh, I'm going to take this left-hand turn, and based on the information I have, it should get me where I'm going, and if it doesn't, we'll get as far as we did, and we'll figure it out."Adrian Starks 7:05  That is the same way with me, too. You and I both share that common theme of being the perfectionist and wanting to have, we call these Type A personalities, they want certain things a certain way, and that's okay. But there are times where you have to just let things flow. I was thinking about this the other day. I had a day where everything seemed to be going against me, and I was trying my best, because I'm very stubborn, to make things go the way that I wanted them to. And the more I did that, I found that there was more resistance, something got delayed, something didn't happen, something fell through, and then I realized that, okay, I'm going against the nature of things. And when we go against the nature of things, when we try to make things perfect when they're not meant to be, that's going to be major resistance, because everything has to flow a certain way.Lesley Logan 7:57  Yeah.Adrian Starks 7:57  I'm all about looking at nature as a way of teaching, and if you look at the salmon, so I'm from the Pacific Northwest, here in Seattle, and the salmon, when they go upstream, that one last journey to lay their eggs then spawn, they go upstream. That's the last thing they do when they get there, is do that, and then they die. Now, the question remains: is it the exhaustion that gets them? Is it just that that was their purpose, like we're going to go back, we're going to give life, and then that's it? Well, there's a number of things going on, but the true essence is that that journey against the flow of the river, that's what exhausts them. So, by the time they get to the top and they do their thing, there is no energy left to go back.Lesley Logan 8:47  Yeah.Adrian Starks 8:47  And when I look at our days and our lives, and when we're going against the grain of what our purposes are, then that creates major resistance. It makes us feel like we're not worth it, makes us feel like we're not perfect. It makes us feel like we're incompetent, and the answer to that is that we're not. We're truly good at where we are. We can always be better, but we don't need to be perfect.Lesley Logan 9:11  Yeah, I interviewed someone about being 1% better every day, and eventually that just is too compounding for me. I've done math, and that's a lot, for the recovering overachiever. 1% better every day, and it's like some days you're gonna be 3% worse, because you made a mistake that you had to go learn and unravel and go back, and that requires... there's just things, it's a lot of pressure. But I do think that as long as your intention is to be a learner and to continue to put out what you feel your creative spirit is, then you're going to make mistakes, but you can recover from them and keep going, and you learn more, you have better muscle strength. Some days when you're having those resistances, you actually just build stronger resilience for what you're going to do, because the closer you get to the thing that you want, you'll have a lot of rejection along the way. People doubting that your idea is a good one, and you need to strengthen your resilience, so you can get to where you want to go. Because when you get there, there's going to still be some doubters; it's going to be even more, because now you're more known for it. And so now there are these people who are like, "Who do you think you are?" And it's like, I think I'm the person who's been working on this for 20 years. Where are you? You just got here.Adrian Starks 10:25  Exactly. That's what people see, they see the outcome, they see just that result. They don't see the build-up to it.Lesley Logan 10:31  Yeah.Adrian Starks 10:31  And it's like when you look at trees when they grow, you don't see the roots that are deep into the ground that have spent years getting its grounding so the tree can go upward and it can balance itself. You only see the blossoming of the tree, and we forget that there's a lot going on in the dark here, a lot that's causing this tree to be the way it is. And I love the fact that you said learning too, because that kind of rang a bell with me when I talk about purposeful living. There's three cycles, and one of them is learning. We have to be constant students of ourselves and our environments, learning what is actually going on in my environment, what am I not getting, what mistakes am I making, what can I improve, and then that learning process will trigger the second step. Once you realize that, that second step is growth.Lesley Logan 11:19  Yeah.Adrian Starks 11:20  We trust what we've learned. Right now, we're beginning to put it into action a little bit. We're starting to apply it, like, "Okay, this didn't work. Let me dial back here. Let me try this now. Let me try something different. Let me try a different road. Let me not go down this road anymore." And then, once you do that enough, that growth, then we move into the third part of the cycle, which is self-expression. That's the complete trust that now you've learned it, you put it into action, and now you know what works and what doesn't work for you. Now you're just going to have some fun with it. Then once you start having fun, the confidence builds up. Okay, now let's learn some more, let's grow some.Lesley Logan 11:58  Yeah.Adrian Starks 11:59  And you just keep doing that over and over through your lifespan here on the planet. And the beautiful thing is, like you were mentioning, you don't have to be perfect doing it, make a mess, and then clean it up as you go.Lesley Logan 12:10  Oh my god, I think the best things... I look at them in my office at the end of the day, and I'm like, "Yeah, we did some great work here." Maybe that's the ADHD that just puts things down instead of putting it away, but at the end of the day I look and go, "Oh yeah, if I thought I didn't do anything today, I was wrong." Clearly, I've been in every place in this room, I've done all these things, and I think that's a sign of a good day. It's interesting. I think another part of that growth process you're talking about is putting yourself around people who are the next step ahead, because if you end up doing all of that, and then you're just surrounded by people who haven't done that, it's really easy to either get a little full of yourself or to stop growing, or think that there's not another level. I've always had some great friends in my career that are about seven to 10 years ahead of me in age or in the profession, and I love it because they are always telling me what their complaints are, and I can go, "Oh, well, I don't have to experience that complaint. That sounds like a terrible thing, that sounds really exhausting." If I just change it now, I feel like I'm a little bit... not skipping ahead, but just having stronger guidance towards where I'm at and what I'm doing. So it's almost like the HOV lane on the freeway. I'm still going to be in a little bit of traffic, but it's a little less, less people.Adrian Starks 13:33  No, I agree with you. I love that, because it's so true. We do need to surround ourselves with people that uplift us, inspire us, and also show us what not to do. We can learn two ways: learn what to do and learn what not to do. A lot of times, learning what not to do is even bigger than learning what to do. It saves you time and energy. And we also have to be careful, too, with people that are around us that may be, not intentionally but unconsciously, pulling us away from that thing that we really want to do for ourselves, for our communities, for society. We get used to just being the person that's like, "Okay, we're good, we have a good time, and we get along." But is this person really, or this group, are they really challenging you to grow? Are they really allowing you to see things that you need to see in order to move forward? And it's hard. It's really hard to think about that consciously, because we get so used to just being in the group, and we can talk a lot about self-reliance, but we need each other.Lesley Logan 14:40  Yeah.Adrian Starks 14:41  You can never ascend alone; I believe that completely. Back in the day when I was doing my professional speaking on stages, I was in Canada, I was speaking, I thought it was all about me. I was like, "Hey, I got the answers, I'm teaching everybody." Then, boom, COVID hit. Humbleness, you know. It was like there was nobody around, because I was just by myself, and I was just doing my thing. I didn't have that group or those people to reassure me to say, "Hey, okay, you need to recalibrate here. We're doing this over here, you might want to take a look at what we're doing." I didn't have that group, and I'm glad that you said that, because there needs to be people that kind of challenge you. But at the same time, when you hit a pocket where it's like, "What do I do? How do I get better?" then you have that group to look to, or that person to look to, as an example.Lesley Logan 15:40  I agree. I think it's really easy, and I see it happening now, because it's almost like we forgot that there was a COVID. My schedule, even though as intentional as I've been, it's been very busy, and people are like, "Oh, when are you coming back?" And I'm like, "Probably not till 2028. I have not accepted any gigs for next year. I've not accepted any gigs." I've got an idea that I need to do, and that's gonna require me to be at home, and I've got another idea that won't happen unless I'm at home, so I gotta do that. And people just look at me like, "What?" And I'm like, "This is how busy I was pre-COVID." And then during COVID, it became very clear who my friends were because we were just at the same places at the same time, and who my friends were because they wanted to talk to me even when we weren't running into each other. So that really helped me go, "Okay, these are the people who care about me, no matter how they benefit, right?" And then these other people, they're not bad people if that's all they want to talk to me, but it's just that it's interesting to note who you want to share things with. But I think we have to realize that there was this beautiful time that helped us reflect on where we were going, and we got this reset, and how we used it hopefully was intentional. And then now we're back at it, and it's so easy to forget what that was. I'm seeing people fall back into the patterns of pre-COVID, and I'm like, I need to have intentional relationships. And speaking back to your podcast, my purpose is something that will probably change, will change as my life goes on, but if I'm not paying attention to it, I'm not gonna realize that; I'm gonna be doing five years ago's purpose.Adrian Starks 17:19  It's true. In the purpose thing, it's not what you find, it's what you do, and it's constantly evolving with you. We talked about in the beginning, you were asking me about what changed and what brought this about; it was just the changing of my purpose. I realized that there were things now that... okay, now I'm interested in this, or now this is moving into this direction because of these external situations that I can't control, so how do I adapt? Thomas Carlyle, he was a Scottish philosopher, and he said that a person without a purpose is like a ship without a rudder. What that means is that when you don't have a rudder in your ship, when something comes around unexpectedly, your ship just starts spinning and it goes off course. But when you have a rudder, meaning you have a purpose, something you're working with, no matter what's happening, you can navigate and be like, "Okay, let's make a little adjustment here. This may not work, but we're still going to go ahead with the plan." The plan is just altered a little bit, and that's what it is to be purposeful. It's just actively knowing that this year was different than three years ago, and so this year, what can we do that matches the frequency and energy and intensity of where we're at right now? And that's what I've come to realize, it's just you don't have to look back and say, "This is where I was, oh poor me." A lot of people felt this way, and I felt this way, like what happened to that spark, what happened to that person that was doing all these things over here? And I have to come to a reality check. Life... shit happens. Things happen, and we can't control them, but we also have the amazing ability as human beings to adapt and adjust.Lesley Logan 18:56  Yeah.Adrian Starks 18:56  We're the only species on the planet that can do that. All the other things of nature and animals, if there's a cliff, they just keep going because they know they got to get on the other side, migration-wise. But when it's us, we're like, "That shit ain't working. This is not working, we'll go over here." That's our ability to do that, and that's why I said the purpose, it's like you can guide it, it doesn't necessarily have to pull you, and that's where we get our true self-creative factors coming from and just making changes that we need to make in our lives.Lesley Logan 19:30  Yeah, so I want to go back to because you know what your podcast has become now. Brad and I have been making changes to our pod, and we were on our vacation in Europe, and we're listening to a podcast, and it started with like... I say we're gonna stop playing the music before the ads. Why are we doing that? Because if we want it to sound really produced, we have great producers, they're listening to this, you guys are amazing, love you, but they're great producers with or without that. And all these other podcasts I listen to, they don't have the music going into it, they just go into an ad. And that's kind of annoying, but you know what? How the podcast gets paid is for ads, so sorry, that's how it's paid for. These things cost a lot of money to do, so we're doing that. And it's like, "Well, what else?" And I'm like, "You know, I'm actually bored of this. I'm actually tired of that." And then you're like, "Oh my god, but my listeners are so used to it, people don't like change." But also it's like, "But this is my podcast, and I have to like doing it." So, what are some changes you've made, or decisions you've done? And then, did you think about how did you... did you tell the listeners, or you just did it? How did you do it?Adrian Starks 20:32  I have to say, to be honest and fully transparent, I did not tell my listeners I was going to take a hiatus off. I just did it. And what's interesting is that listeners... they begin to listen more because they missed that space. There's this saying that people don't miss you until you're gone.Lesley Logan 20:53  Yeah.Adrian Starks 20:54  When people don't hear from you, they get very curious. I always say this to people, I say, "I'm incubating." They're like... "I'm cooking up some stuff here, I'm working on some other things that I'm just incubating right now, but there's still things you can listen to." And I think that it would be nice to tell our listeners that, "Hey, I'm going to go on a five-month hiatus here, or six months, or seven months." But in all honesty, I don't think that would be... for me, that wouldn't be a good idea, because then they just stop listening. They'll just start moving on to something.Lesley Logan 21:23  Yeah because they know, "Okay, they'll be back in six months."Adrian Starks 21:25  So they're like, "Well, he's not gonna release anything new, so we're just gonna move on to the next person." And some people will do that, but I think that at the end of the day, we're human. If we're taking off and we're gone, we're gone. And when we come back, then we can explain, like, "Hey, I was gone for a minute. This is what's been going on." People want the real these days, and they want to know what is going on in your life.Lesley Logan 21:48  Yeah.Adrian Starks 21:49  Like I remember when professional speaking was so polished, everyone was on stage, they had suits and ties on, and I'll never forget I started out with a suit and tie. For some people, they can feel good; that makes them feel great. But I was like, "This is not me, I can't be this person." So I stopped wearing the suit and tie, I started being myself, wearing casual clothes. Then the podcasting industry kicked off, it boomed. It started back in 2018 is when it really began to take off, and at the podcasting stage, I was beginning to do the same thing: well-polished, all this stuff, and then I realized, no, not me. And the podcast over time has changed, it's evolved. You will see different perspectives of myself. There was one person asking me, "Do you think you should take down the episodes from the very beginning, because it's so not in alignment with what you're doing now?" And I said, "Absolutely not." I said, "This shows transparency, that I started with this idea, now we're moving on to these things, and it just shows the purpose, how it's constantly changing." And that's where we're at. But yeah, back to your question, I kind of went on a tangent there, but back to your question about whether you tell people or not: I think no. I think we do what comes natural, and yeah. In this day and time, everyone wants attention. I've noticed this on social media, I'm gonna have to say it, I'm gonna have to bring it up here, it's been on my mind a lot, everybody wants attention, everybody's doing podcasting right now. Lesley, you've been around for quite some time, you're a veteran in podcasting, but the people now... everybody, birds, cats, dogs, they all have podcasts now.Lesley Logan 23:26  I know everybody wants.Adrian Starks 23:27  To be on a podcast, and you know what? It's saturated the market. We're competing with people who don't really have a passion for what they do; they're just getting people on their show to talk to. I know some people will disagree with that, and that's okay, but this is my perspective because I've seen it. When we feel a certain way, like something doesn't resonate with us, it's okay to pull away. That shows we truly are in our essence. We're not doing this to impress, and we're not doing this hoping you stay with me and follow me. If you connect with me energetically and you really like what I do, then you'll go with the flow. I understand it's a business for us too, and we have to continue to do the things that bring business, but at the same time, it is what it is. You just have to know that if you're feeling a certain way, either do it or don't do it. I have this thing I do: if I'm not feeling an episode, I'm not going to get on a mic. I'm not going to talk if I'm having a shitty day, sorry for my language here, but if I'm having one of those days where I've encountered someone or done something in business and it's just not sitting right with me, then I'm not going to get on the mic. At that point, that energy is going to come across, my head will be somewhere else, and I'm not truly present. So, I think it's great for us to be able to take time off and just step away for a bit.Lesley Logan 24:49  I appreciate you saying that. There's this one podcast that Brad listened to, and the guy was like, "I'm taking off three months. Here's why I'm doing that, and here's what's going on." He was very honest. He said, "I'm having some burnout, I feel like I'm overworking, and I want to put some new systems in place." Then he said, "And here are the things I created for you." And I thought, Oh my god, why would you do that? You are tired. It was very thoughtful, but that was just extra work just to get to the finish line. And this other podcast I listened to, I realized, like, a couple, because he's a Friday podcast, it's True Crime of the Week, and so obviously it's very topical, it's very like time sensitive, and like after a couple weeks I was like, oh, that's interesting, I haven't heard from him in a bit, right, and then it kind of just went on, and the other day, two weeks ago, he came back, and I was like, oh, they're The True Crime of the Week, right, I was so excited to see it in my lineup, so I like hit it, and he goes, yeah, it was supposed to take a two week hiatus, and I took four months, and I apologize, it's been a while, but I really.. this is what I didn't know. There's a lot going on that just.. it felt like I didn't feel like I could talk about true crime with all the heaviness that's going on, and I didn't have the words to say what I was feeling, and so I just took time for myself, and I was like, you know what, I actually hold nothing against him, because I actually found that to be even more honest. It was like I needed time off, because I'm a big fan of, like, I'm not going to share anything with the world unless I fully processed it, because then, and I learned this from Tiffany Haddish, from her book, The Last Black Unicorn, she's like, if you have fully processed it, then no matter what people say, it's just going to bounce right off of you, right, but if you haven't fully processed it and you shared it, you're gonna take whatever they're saying personally, or you're gonna be offended by it, or you're gonna get frustrated, or you're gonna feel like you defend yourself again. And so I'm often late to some of the topics that are online, because it takes me a little bit to go, well, how do I feel? Does that bother me? Why does it bother me? What's going on? And then when I've processed it, then I'll, then I'll share it, and I find, like, I think it's better to be human, and social media is a problem. Podcasting, oh my god, there's so many. I'm proud to say this podcast in the top 1% of all podcasts in the world, even with all the crap that's out there. But, like, I find that sometimes I'm like, oh, I should have more followers or more likes on the posts that I have based on my career, but I won't do the click bait stuff. I refuse to do these three exercises, help you trim your waist. It's like, no, if you're perimenopausal, good fucking luck, and your hormones.. like, I'm sorry, there isn't, you know? My girlfriend was like, "Just say these three, and then, and then get them to click and go sorry, there is none. Go talk to your doctor." I'm like, that is just going to get people mad, like that would piss me off. I felt lied to, so it's not my style. So, I think, you have to stay true to yourself, and sometimes that means just honoring the pause. But also, Adrian, I feel like that requires self-reflection. So, what are you doing? Because it feels like you're quite knowledgeable about yourself. What do you do to make sure you're checking in with yourself? Do you journal? What do you do?Adrian Starks 27:41  So, I would say that the first thing I do is I ask myself questions. I know that a lot of people talk about journaling, and that's part of it, but in all honesty, I just ask myself, what's going on? You just gotta sit down somewhere and just say, okay, what's going on? What am I not happy about? What do I want? That's the big thing. What do I want? And then you start thinking in your head, and then thoughts start rolling. And as those thoughts start rolling, write some of them out or record them. Either way, document them somewhere. Then I ask myself, what do I want to do? Not like what do I want to do in five years, because that's just too much processing in a time where you're just likeLesley Logan 28:23  I agree. Just here to harm me, but I do know what I have told my team is I want to be retired in 10, but what I want to do in five is like a whole different story.Adrian Starks 28:34  It is, and we put time frames on ourselves, or we put this limit of like, I got to be here in five years, it's a good marker to get you going, but it's not necessarily something you need to be focused on, like that's what you, that's how it's going to end up, like it could be a number of things that happens between that point that brings that goal about, but like I said, there's, and I have to be careful the word goal, because the goal I feel is very saturated too, and I use it in a different term, I use goal as this, g o a l, get out and live, do something. Yeah, I use that as that's what I use for it. It just teaches me that when I said something, it forces me to get outside of my box and start living a little bit. Scare yourself a little bit. Say I'm gonna go over here, I'm gonna fly over here, I'm gonna spend time over here, or I'm gonna do this, do something that's just out of your comfort zone to get you out of that rut. And then that's what I do. So, once I'm out of the rut, then I'm like, okay, now let's sit down and let's look at creating a plan. But the first thing is, you got to get yourself out of the rut, you got to do something just to move, move your body, so to speak, right? You tell your clients this, move your body, you got to move, move, move your thoughts out of this head, and to put it somewhere else, but I do that, so I do a lot of self-reflection of asking myself, what do I want, what's going on, and then I also remind myself of what I've been doing. You've got to give yourself a pat on the back, because whatever you've been doing, it's been working.Lesley Logan 29:58  Yeah.Adrian Starks 29:59  And a lot of times we have high expectations for ourselves because we live in a world of comparisons, and it's very easy to do that now. Because when you go online, it's not just people who are very successful out there. You can see your friends, your family, and you're like, "Oh, hey, they flew over here and went to the Bahamas. I'm stuck here in this area over here, I can't even do this." And then you start down-talking yourself.Lesley Logan 30:25  Yeah.Adrian Starks 30:26  This happens with people in relationships and business and social environments, and so I think be careful with comparisons.Lesley Logan 30:32  Yeah.Adrian Starks 30:33  So I make sure I don't do that. That's why I get away from social media sometimes. I'll spend maybe a few days detoxing. I won't even look at social media, and then I'll just kind of sit in the dark a little bit, so to speak, away from technology, and just ask myself questions. I do reading a lot. Reading is a big part of my life. You mentioned a book before, and I love reading books. I don't necessarily read the whole book. I do what I call check-ins, so I will find something in the book that resonates with me, and then I will reflect on thatLesley Logan 31:07  Yeah.Adrian Starks 31:08  Along with my other things.Lesley Logan 31:09  Yeah, I like the talking to yourself, because journaling for me is really great, but it's really easy for it to become a to-do list. Like I could be, "Oh, don't forget that." But if I am out walking my dog, I mean, maybe it's because I have ADHD and I'm an Aquarius, so I live in my head, but I have these interesting thoughts pop in and I'm like, where's that coming from? Why am I thinking that? What have I been doing? And I love the pat yourself on the back with what you did do, because I do think most people, the reason they get into comparison is because they've forgotten what they did do. It's why this podcast has a Friday episode where people have to share their wins, because I really think people need to realize there's a lot of wins. And we had someone in one of our groups who was like, she had her best friend's mom die three months ago, and her best friend died two weeks ago, and she's like, "How do I still work on my goals during this time?" And I'm like, you don't. You're going through something. Loss is real, and we all grieve very differently. And maybe someone can work on their goals because they're not tackling the grief right now, it's not hitting them, and it hits them in five years. I don't know, there's different things, but I can't sit here with the life experience I've had and the business coaching I've done and go, "Yeah, just do one thing a day." No. Did you shower and sleep today? That's great. Did you actually eat some food? Are your kids still alive? You're nailing it, like you're going through something. I think people aren't realizing that the Bahamas trips are not the win. The win is, especially when you're in something, the win is that you got up and you tried again today, you know? And I think reflecting on that is really important. I do think asking yourself what I want, that is, because I often think people ask themselves that five years ago but forgot to ask themselves four and three and two and today. And so they forget why they're doing what they're doing, because that's not what they want anymore, but they never checked in.Adrian Starks 33:03  They never checked in. And here's the catch: the answer won't come to you right away, and it's not supposed to. You're asking something deeper inside yourself that hasn't been listened to with all the noise. So, once you put that there and you say, "What do I want?" then overnight, who knows? You may wake up in the morning and you've got an idea about something, so that's coming from that deep part of you. And there was a Howard Thurman, he was the mentor to Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and he said that the greatest and the longest and hardest journey ever is a journey inward. And we avoid that journey because we don't think there's anything there. The answer is inside of us. We just don't take out time to really probe and ask ourselves that question. We're very good about asking other people questions, but we don't want to ask ourselves questions, and that's something that has evolved with me. It's like, okay, you're good at asking questions and interviewing, but what about you? What's behind that skin of yours? What's going on? What's going on, dude? What are we doing today? You want to start checking in and being like, okay, what's really the problem here? You got irritated with this person, they didn't do anything to you. Then you got to pull yourself aside and say, okay, what's happening?Lesley Logan 34:16  Yeah.Adrian Starks 34:17  Why am I upset? And that's that self-reflection of like, okay, you're upset because there's a number of things that you're ignoring that you're putting to the side, and you're feeling like people don't see you because you don't see yourself.Lesley Logan 34:30  Yeah.Adrian Starks 34:30  So therefore you're putting that on other people, and that's where we have to be very careful with ourselves and just be patient and be kind to ourselves more often, because that was a problem I had. I held myself to very high standards, that I had to do this, I had to be this way, I had to be well-polished. That's why now you hear some curse words coming off of me, because I'm just being natural.Lesley Logan 34:54  Yeah.Adrian Starks 34:54  I mean, I can go off and say all these astute, know all these great words, and make myself look very articulate, blah blah blah blah, but at the end of the day, it's like, how am I showing up right now? That's the truth, and that's what people need to hear. So, I would say, yeah, talk to yourself, ask yourself questions, and be careful with who you ask information from.Lesley Logan 35:20  Yes.Adrian Starks 35:21  Because that's what gets you in trouble. And a lot of times with people working in environments where they may not be around the people that they choose to be around, I want to get to these people too, because a lot of people out there, they're working in environments they don't really want to be in, but they have an objective to get the hell out of there. But in the meantime, you're with people, let's just say the work world, seven, eight hours a day, and then you're dealing with those people, and then you're trying to get out of that environment. Well, you have to be careful what you listen to, how you conversate with them, and for goodness' sake, don't ask them for advice if they're not doing what you're doing, or if they haven't dove into what you're learning. Do not ask them, please, no, don't confide in them. I don't care how nice they are. There's this thing too that came up about nice versus kind.Lesley Logan 36:09  Yeah.Adrian Starks 36:10  And people get in trouble with this. It's like, okay, they're a nice person, great, but do they have good intentions towards you? And most likely, it's probably not.Lesley Logan 36:18  Yeah.Adrian Starks 36:19  A kind person, they just want to do good, they don't need nothing from you, right? So, a lot of people get mixed up in that, so be careful. I would say to people, when you're in that moment where you're vulnerable, the vulnerable state, guard that.Lesley Logan 36:32  Yeah.Adrian Starks 36:32  Be careful, be careful, be careful. And one more thing about the grieving that you mentioned: I lost my father a few years ago, and I'm still grieving because he had such a powerful presence in my life. So, grieving is not something we get over. We're supposed to learn to live with it. And I've cried multiple times, and every now and then, sometimes I catch myself, I'll just tear up, but you know what? I let it flow, because that's how he impacted me.Lesley Logan 36:59  Yeah.Adrian Starks 37:00  And for the person that you just mentioned, I would advise for them not to ignore that. If you have a moment and you're with somebody, tell somebody, "Hey, you know what? I'm having a moment right now. I need to step away." It's okay to tell people that.Lesley Logan 37:15  It's actually kind. It's kind because you're being super... you're actually being real authentic. You're feeling your feel, and you're letting people in like, "Hold on, I know we're supposed to have coffee right now, I just need to have a moment." And you can however you want to have that moment, go into your car, take the extra time, whatever that is. But I do think people think that they have to get over a loss like that, and the grief coaches that I've interviewed on this podcast, what I have really understood is that you don't. That's why grief is so hard. Your brain has to learn new rhythms and new patterns because that person's not there, and that person was part of a blanket that you've woven of your life, and so you're expecting that person where they repeat, and they're not. So you have to weave a new pattern for your brain. It takes time.Adrian Starks 38:00  It so takes time, and that's all we've got. At the end of the day, we only have time. And time doesn't go backwards, it doesn't go forward, it's just right there. And when we're grieving something, or it could be not just someone in our family, could be anything, could be a loss of an opportunity, that's a grieving thing. It could be a loss of a business or something. I mean, it could be anything. We have to just be mindful that we're human, and don't blame ourselves and don't beat ourselves up internally about it. We have to just know that this is something that's happened. Now, what can I do that can move me forward? And sometimes it's just going to take time. Patience is what we have to have.Lesley Logan 38:43  Yeah, also people don't realize that you could be excited about the next step, and there's still grief for what you left behind, you know? Like, I was so excited to move to Las Vegas, I still grieve that I closed a studio to do it, and I was very proud of that work, and I wasn't really actually ready to close that studio, but this is really exciting. So, something can be exciting, and there's still a loss that's there that you have to go, "Oh, what about that am I bummed about? Where..." You have to let those feelings happen. And I think that the more people actually self-reflect, the more they're going to find purpose in their life, they're going to figure it out. I find like people are looking to others to figure out their purposes, and I want to go back to your advice thing, because I really think people have to hear this 17,000 times. And I love that you brought up like you can have that job that pays the bills, but don't ask those people for advice. That might even be family too. I love mine, they listen to this pod, and sometimes I'll tell you personally, I'm not asking them for advice. They're not entrepreneurs, their face is not the business. If they say the wrong thing, they don't have people who will be disappointed, like hundreds of people, you know. So, they're not the best people for advice. Could I tell them things? Of course, that's different, telling people something, sharing your life with them is very different than asking them what to do. And so you really might need to take some time to write down who would be the best people in my life to ask advice from. If you don't have those people, like when I was first starting out, I didn't have money or mentors, I had to go, okay, I've listened to podcasts starting like 2012, 2013, I'm like, "This person makes a lot of sense. This is the person I'm going to infer advice from," and I would search their pods to find the thing that I thought might be an answer to my question. Sometimes it's that. Sometimes you don't even know the person you're asking advice from, but be intentional about that. I agree.Adrian Starks 40:33  Yeah, being intentional and just knowing that you're going to vibe with people a certain way. There are some people out there in the industry when I first started that I liked, and some that I didn't really vibe with. Didn't mean that there was anything against them, it's just that everyone's different. So, advice I would also give is that don't look at someone for their popularity, look for how they make you feel.Lesley Logan 40:55  Beautiful.Adrian Starks 40:56  Don't look at someone and say, "Oh, they've got millions of comments, they've got millions of likes. Oh, they must know a lot. Let me listen to them." No, nope, nope, nope, nope. That's something that's going to get your attention; it's designed that way.Lesley Logan 41:09  Yeah.Adrian Starks 41:10  How do they make you feel?Lesley Logan 41:12  Yeah.Adrian Starks 41:13  No, how do they make you feel? How do they sound when you listen to them? Could you listen to them all day? Could you listen to them in your times of need? How do they make you feel? That's the important thing of connection that we're missing today. We're so quick to look at the external, like, what has this person accomplished? Cool, then they're credible. Awesome, I'll follow. Awesome, I'll subscribe. Awesome, I'll comment.Lesley Logan 41:35  Yeah.Adrian Starks 41:35  They have a person over here, they may have a lot less, but they got a lot more to offer, and you're passing that up because you're just looking at numbers here. It's like I would encourage people that now is the time for us to find guidance that aligns with our purpose of being. And everyone, there's over how many people are on the planet right now? Lesley Logan 41:57  It's like 8 billion.Adrian Starks 41:58  8 billion people on a planet. I heard this stat one time. Out of 8 billion people, no matter what you do in life, 5% of people are not going to like you, they're not going to vibe with you, you're not going to connect with them. 5%. So, my math may be really off, I'm not going to even say it, but it's in the millions.Lesley Logan 42:20  Yeah.Adrian Starks 42:20  That you're gonna have a disconnect with people, no matter what you do. You could be well-polished, have everything together, and someone's gonna come around and be like, "Ah, they're phony." They're gonna talk some shit about you, because they just don't connect with you. They have no idea.Lesley Logan 42:35  Yeah.Adrian Starks 42:36  About your background, your pedigree, what you've done. They just want to.Lesley Logan 42:40  We all do it. We all do it, like you see something on your Instagram out of social, and you're like, just the first second, don't like it. Moving on.Adrian Starks 42:51  You move on. You're like, "Hey, I'm not interested in it. What is this? This is silly."Lesley Logan 42:57  Yeah.Adrian Starks 42:57  And that's part of us. We just have a natural sense of either we connect or we don't connect with certain things, and I think that in this time we're living in now, people are very overstimulated.Lesley Logan 43:07  Yes.Adrian Starks 43:08  There's so much information, there's so many solutions, there's so many offers, and we don't know where to look. It reminds you of like when you're sitting down and you have that night where it's a movie night, right? And you're just like, "Let me watch a movie, let me watch a TV show." And all of a sudden you got all these options, applications, and you're going from this application to this application, this application. Before you know it, it's like 30, 40 minutes later, and then you just give up and say, "You know what, damn it, just pick something, pick anything," because you're tired of looking.Lesley Logan 43:41  Yeah.Adrian Starks 43:41  And that's what's happening with us. We're just picking anything now we think is going to entertain us or bring us some type of joy.Lesley Logan 43:48  Yeah, because we can't handle being bored. Adrian, I could talk to you literally for more hours, but we do have to wrap this up. So we're gonna take a brief break, and then we're gonna find where people can find you, follow you, listen to your voice for many, many hours, and your Be It Action Items. Lesley Logan 43:59  All right, Adrian, where do you hang out? Where can they listen to your podcast?Adrian Starks 44:06  Okay, so you can listen to my podcast anywhere, pretty much. It's called Your Purposeful Life with Adrian Starks. And go to my website, adrianstarks.com. You can listen to the podcast from there. You can go to my YouTube channel, which has the videos. You can also listen to some audio, I have affirmations that I've been doing lately as well.Lesley Logan 44:25  Oh my god, do you have, if you don't, you should have a Patreon for affirmations because if people are paying for you to be a narrator, can you imagine every day you read me an affirmation or a mantra? I love that.Adrian Starks 44:39  I can do that, Lesley. Yes. They could go to adrianstarks.com. I just want to keep it simple for people, go to adrianstarks.com, all my social media handles are there, and you can just go wherever you choose and just be inspired and listen. And if you can, yeah, definitely subscribe to the podcast, it always helps. Share it whenever you can, but more importantly, just know this: that your purpose in life is not something you find, it's something that you do, and that is going to change, is going to evolve with time, and that's okay. Having self-doubt is okay, not knowing everything is okay. And now we live in a time where you're never too old, don't put an age on anything to start something new, or to pick up where you left off with something.Lesley Logan 45:27  Oh my god, those are Be It Action Items if I ever heard any. Like, you just led right in, and I'm obsessed with all of them. Great. Adrian Starks, I'm so happy we did this. We'll have to do this again. You'll have to be a person who keeps going back on, because you just have so much great wisdom. You guys, share this with a friend who needs to hear it. Share with a friend who's stuck on like, "What's my purpose?" They need to hear this, because it's like that Dr. Seuss book, like, Are You My Mother? You know, it's like that's not how you find it. It's got to be some self-reflection. So, thank you. We'll do this again, and until next time, my loves, Be It Till You See It.Lesley Logan 46:03  That's all I got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It Podcast. 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This week's episode is a different kind of one: a very open and honest letter to my postpartum self. I've been sitting on this episode for months, pulling back the curtain on the lowest-revenue year of my business (around $100K less in 2025 than the year before), the identity crisis nobody warned me about, and how I rebuilt my business to be *even better* than it was pre baby. But this episode isn't just for moms. It's about what happens to your motivation, your confidence, and your sense of self when life rips your old schedule out of your hands and what it actually takes to rebuild, on your own terms, without forcing yourself back into who you used to be.In this episode, we talk about:Why "drop the timelines" is the first thing I'd tell my past self, and why healing, rebuilding, or finding your footing again has no deadline, no matter what month 3, 6, or 12 says you should feel likeThe sneaky way shame shows up for high achievers and how it's different from guilt, told through a Brené Brown lesson that changed how I saw my entire postpartum yearWhy comparing yourself to people who aren't in the same season as you (different support, different circumstances, different everything) is setting yourself up to feel like you're failing on purposeThe real difference between losing your motivation and having it redirected, and why "I have no ideas anymore" might actually mean your bandwidth went somewhere else entirelyWhy having a personal-growth heavy brand doesn't mean you're not allowed to struggle, and the imposter syndrome that comes with teaching mindset work while losing your ownThe capability vs. character framework from therapy that explains why even the most confident people can feel like they've lost themselves completelyWhy I stopped asking "what's realistic" and started asking "what do I actually want," and how that shift is what got my business having solid recurring revenue through 2027The belief I didn't even know I had and what it took to unlearn itWhy "the story you need to be on camera and posting constantly to sell" is a story I made up, and how I built a business that doesn't run on that anymorePop this episode on when you're in a season that feels too permanent to get out of: postpartum, burnout, or just feeling like a stranger in your own life. This one's proof: it's temporary, and you already know how to build.Listen to similar episodes:227. Redefining Success After Motherhood: Pivots, Identity & Letting Go of Comparison Ft. Kacia Ghetmiri214. How I Structure My Day & Week as a Mompreneur207. The Truth About Being a Mompreneur: 5 Lessons From My Hardest Season Yet186. [Mompreneur Tell All] Answering Your Rawest Questions About My Postpartum JourneyWhen you rate and review the podcast, you'll receive my Connect to your Higher Self Visualization as a thank you: Click here to claim your gift. Ways to Work with Nora:1:1 Coaching Waitlist – Add your name to the waitlist to be the first to learn when spots open.90-Minute Intensives Waitlist – Limited openings for deep-dive, high-impact sessions. Join the waitlist to be notified when spots become available.Courses – Explore Nora's signature programs:Full Throttle – The ultimate business strategy courseElite – Business energetics + identity work coursePodcasting for Business Growth – Turn your podcast into profitConnect with Nora – Follow her on Instagram @iamnoravirginia for updates, tips, and inspiration.

In this episode, Kevin explore's one of the most subtle and dangerous traps on the spiritual path: using nonduality, awareness, and awakening as a way to escape life rather than engage with it consciously.Many seekers arrive at profound realizations. They discover they are not their thoughts, not their emotions, not their identities, and not the stories they've spent years defending. They begin to see through the illusion of the separate self and recognize the witnessing awareness that remains unchanged beneath every experience.This realization is liberating.But it can also become a trap.Because once we discover that we are not the character, the mind often asks a new question: "If I'm not the character, why should I participate at all?" Why build a business? Why pursue a relationship? Why create? Why serve? Why care?These questions sound spiritual, but they often conceal a misunderstanding.The purpose of awakening is not to remove you from life. The purpose of awakening is to remove your attachment to life.In this conversation, Kevin examines the difference between spiritual realization and spiritual bypassing. We explore how the ego can hide inside spiritual concepts, using ideas such as "there is no self," "nothing matters," and "everything is already perfect" as excuses for withdrawal, avoidance, and inaction.Using examples from business, relationships, purpose, and service, he explains why conscious participation is the natural expression of true freedom. The awakened man does not leave the game. He learns how to play the game without becoming trapped by it.Kevin also explores the dream analogy, lucid dreaming, the role of the witness, and why many spiritual teachings stop too soon - teaching people how to wake up without teaching them how to live after awakening.The question is not whether the world is ultimately real.The question is how to participate fully while remembering what you truly are.When attachment dissolves, life does not disappear. Relationships remain. Responsibilities remain. Creativity remains. Love remains. Service remains. The difference is that the burden of proving, becoming, defending, and seeking completion begins to fall away.What remains is freedom in action.This episode is an invitation to stop using spirituality as an escape hatch and begin using self-knowledge as a foundation for courageous participation. To love without possession. To create without attachment. To serve without self-importance. To engage without becoming lost.Awakening is not the end of the game.Awakening is the moment you realize you've been asleep while playing it.In This Episode:The hidden danger of spiritual bypassingWhy nonduality is often misunderstoodThe difference between attachment and participationHow the ego survives through spiritual identityConscious business, relationships, and purposeThe lucid dream analogy for awakeningWhy service naturally arises from realizationFreedom in action vs freedom from actionHow to play the game consciouslyKnow. Serve. Protect.

April was the top. May confirmed it. Now we are heading into the slide that always bottoms out around August. The question is whether your used inventory is positioned for it.Mike Murray from National Powersport Auctions is back for our pre-owned market update, and this one matters because we are at the turning point in the season. We walk through the May data, compare it to where we were in April, and get into exactly what dealers should be doing right now with the bikes sitting on their lot.This conversation goes deeper than the numbers. Mike makes the case for why dealers are too fixated on book values, why the actual selling price tells a truer story, and how to think about a trade you take in today as a unit you might still own in September.What we cover:Why April was the high water mark and what the slide into August actually looks likeHow values can be up year over year and softening month to month at the same timeThe book value problem: why dealers fixate on JD Power and why the real market often moves faster than the bookWhy a clean late-model R6 can sell for thousands over a brand new one, and what that teaches about pricing to the market instead of the bookWhere Black Book and NPA's own value guide fit into the pictureWhy early June auctions in San Diego came in stronger than expected and what that says about dealer confidenceThe fuel price wildcard and whether it is actually moving metric cruiser demandDomestic cruisers: still the leader, but the price to book story versus the actual dollar story are very differentThe $4,000 spread between a clean Harley and a rough one, and why condition and miles matter more than the bookMetric cruisers: why the small May uptick is probably a flash in the panSport bikes: bouncing around the peak, why dealers who follow the niche are crushing it, and why you cannot have too manyMX cooling off and why product mix and cleanliness drive that number more than demandATV: the standout still climbing, and why used side by sides finally hit their strideSide by side: the seasonal flattening, the regional differences, and why cabbed-out luxury units hold valueThe inventory turn framework: the 0 to 30, 60, 90, and 120 day buckets and why Mike built them aggressive on purposeThe real cost of holding a unit: how a $10,000 bike costs around $356 a month and nearly $2,900 over 90 days once you add opportunity costWhy an 18% gross over 12 months might actually be a 3% lossProactive pricing: how to get ahead of the softening market instead of chasing it downThe exit strategy: NPA Direct Buy, consignment, and why you should never wish a wholesale unit into a retail customerWatch on YouTube: ⁠https://youtube.com/@dealershipfixit?si=xGw636a89UUDAK20⁠Connect with Mike Murray (NPA): ⁠mmurray@npauctions.com⁠NPA Market Reports: ⁠https://www.npauctions.com/cp/npa-market-report⁠Connect with Jacob: ⁠https://linkedin.com/in/jacob-b-berry⁠Follow the Fixit Online: ⁠https://linktr.ee/dealershipfixit⁠MotoHunt for Dealers: ⁠https://dealers.motohunt.com⁠

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In this episode of the Empowered Homes Podcast, Bobby and Meg sit down with Retired Marine Corps Major, pastor, author and father Brad Flurry to discuss one of the greatest challenges facing families today: the need for engaged, intentional fathers. Drawing from his own story of growing up without a father and his years of leadership in the Marine Corps, Brad shares how those experiences shaped his passion for helping men lead their families with purpose. Together, they explore the dangers of passivity, the importance of taking action in fatherhood, and why dads have a unique and irreplaceable role in the home.Brad offers practical encouragement for fathers who want to lead well but feel overwhelmed, including simple habits that can make a lasting impact on their marriage, children, and spiritual leadership. He also shares hope for dads who feel like they've fallen short and reminds listeners that it's never too late to begin leading with intention.In this episode, you'll learn:How Brad's personal story shaped his approach to fatherhoodWhy a "bias for action" is essential for dadsPractical ways fathers can lead their families wellWhy loving your spouse is one of the greatest gifts you can give your childrenWhat it means to intentionally bless your childrenHow fathers can overcome regret and move forward with purposeThe legacy every dad has the opportunity to leave.Whether you're a father, grandfather, mentor, or simply care about strengthening families, this conversation offers wisdom, encouragement, and practical next steps for building a lasting legacy.Purchase a copy of Brad's Book here.About Empowered Homes Empowered Homes exists to help families win at home by equipping parents, grandparents, and ministry leaders to live out gospel truths in the everyday rhythms of life. Through free, gospel-centered, and practical resources, along with in-person training, coaching, and equipping experiences, Empowered Homes helps families disciple the next generation with confidence and hope. Explore free resources, training opportunities, and more at empoweredhomes.org. Empowered Homes Podcast Show us some Love! Do you appreciate The Empowered Homes Podcast? Like, subscribe, comment, share. Every bit of your engagement helps us be open-handed in sharing resources to grow strong families, leaders and ministries. Thanks for your help in Empowering Homes for the gospel! FB : https://www.facebook.com/EmpoweredHomesResources Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/empoweredhomesresources/ Youtube: www.youtube.com/@empoweredhomes9809Questions? Ideas for the Podcast? Contact us at podcast@empoweredhomes.org. Bobby@empoweredhomes.org Meghan@empoweredhomes.orgFind Free Resources empoweredhomes.org

You keep asking money to tell you who you are. Whether you're safe. Whether you're successful. Whether you're lovable, whether you're worthy, whether you're finally enough. And then you wonder why you wake up exhausted. Money can buy you a mattress, but it was never going to buy you peace, and somewhere along the way you started treating a tool like a god.Here's the part that stings. You're not creating from your bank account. You're creating from your identity account. The beliefs running your money story got installed before you even knew what a mortgage was, back when your nervous system was just taking notes on how the adults around you treated abundance. Those notes became your reality, and now your brain spends every day hunting for proof that the story is true. This episode is where I call that out and show you what actually changes when you stop worshiping the number.Episode Takeaways:Recognize the difference between using money and worshiping itName the money beliefs your nervous system absorbed before you could understand themUnderstand why misery at $10 follows you straight to $10 millionShift from asking how to get more money to asking who already feels safeSee your money story as a filter your brain keeps confirming on purposeThe version of you who is actually wealthy is not staring at a spreadsheet or refreshing the bank app. She's creating. She's laughing, building something true, trusting herself. When you stop asking money to validate you and start using it like the tool it is, you stop running the obstacle course of stress and start living like someone who already knows she's worthy. That is the shift. And it starts the moment you decide you're done being loyal to the version of you that stays stuck.Mentioned in the episode:Rich & Regulated: 15 Days to Manifest Money & Keep It — live class starts June 28, 2026. $199. Flexible payment plans available. Enroll here: https://manifestingmiracles.thinkific.com/products/courses/richandregulated If this episode resonated, your first month inside the Manifesting Miracles Academy is completely free — link below.✨ MANIFESTING MIRACLES ACADEMY  ✨ Your first month is completely free.Join now: https://manifestingmiracles.thinkific.com/pages/memberships 

Summary: In this episode, Ms. G shares insights on how to prioritize what truly matters in our busy, distraction-filled lives. She emphasizes the importance of focusing on goals, cultivating kindness, and trusting God's plan to find peace and purpose.Key topics covered:The danger of focusing on unimportant distractions and how they disturb our peaceThe significance of setting and pursuing meaningful goals tailored to our unique purposeThe importance of becoming better listeners in our relationshipsThe power of kindness and how small acts can significantly impact othersThe value of helping others and reflecting God's love through serviceSelf-care practices: rest, nourishment, movement, and emotional well-beingRecognizing what does not deserve our focus, such as gossip and unnecessary opinionsTrusting God and releasing control over outcomes outside our influenceReflective questions to evaluate where our focus lies and how it aligns with growth and peace[ProverbsTimestamps:00:00 - Introduction: Focus on things that truly matter in life00:29 - The distractions of noise and demands that hinder peace00:56 - Prioritizing personal goals and God's calling01:25 - The danger of comparison and staying in your own lane01:54 - Developing listening skills to strengthen relationships02:21 - The importance of truly listening to others for understanding03:16 - How listening without judgment reflects compassion and respect03:47 - The significance of simply hearing others' struggles without giving unsolicited advice04:16 - Listening to God's voice through prayer and stillness04:41 - Practicing kindness and its lasting impact05:09 - Small acts of kindness, like encouraging others and sharing moments of joy05:38 - A touching story about celebrating a centenarian's birthday06:08 - The importance of recognizing and honoring life's blessings06:37 - Helping others and the ripple effect of kindness and support07:06 - Serving as a reflection of God's love and the importance of almsgiving07:37 - The necessity of self-care: rest, nourishment, movement, and mental health08:07 - Practical tips for prioritizing self-care and mental well-being09:00 - Avoiding distractions like gossip and unnecessary drama09:29 - The futility of controlling what is beyond our reach and trusting God's sovereignty10:27 - The importance of minding our own business and respecting others' journeys11:25 - The value of releasing control and trusting God's plan11:50 - Recognizing battles that belong to God and not worrying over what we cannot change12:16 - Proverbs 3:5-6 as a reminder to trust and acknowledge God's leadership13:15 - Self-reflective questions: focus, peace, growth, and purpose13:44 - Call to focus on goals, kindness, and relationship with God14:13 - Closing encouragement: remember to pray and stay aligned with what truly mattersResources & Links:

Near-Death Experiences, Psychedelics, and the Truth About Consciousness with Dr. Eben AlexanderCan consciousness exist independent of the brain?In this fascinating return conversation, JJ sits down with renowned neurosurgeon, near-death experiencer, and bestselling author Eben Alexander to explore one of the biggest questions facing science, spirituality, and human healing today.Drawing from his own extraordinary near-death experience during a week-long coma caused by bacterial meningitis, Dr. Alexander challenges conventional assumptions about consciousness, memory, healing, and the role of the brain itself.Together, JJ and Dr. Alexander explore the intersection of neuroplasticity, psychedelics, meditation, trauma healing, survival states, and spiritual awakening. They discuss why so many people remain stuck despite years of therapy, why conventional psychiatric approaches may fall short, and what practices can help people access deeper states of transformation.This conversation dives into the profound possibility that healing may not come from fixing the brain—but from reconnecting to the greater consciousness beyond it.In This Episode You'll Learn:Why Dr. Alexander believes consciousness is not created by the brainWhat his near-death experience revealed about life, death, and the soulThe surprising science behind psilocybin and ego dissolutionHow meditation and psychedelics may affect the brain's default mode networkWhy fear of death can keep the body trapped in survival modeThe connection between healing, consciousness, and neuroplasticityWhat near-death experiences consistently teach about love and purposeThe role of meditation in expanding awareness and intuitionScientific evidence supporting non-local consciousnessHow childhood wounds, identity, and ego influence our experience of realityWhy personal experience often changes people more than data alonePractical ways to begin exploring consciousness for yourselfKey Takeaway"The deepest lesson from near-death experiences is remarkably simple: Love is what matters. How we treat ourselves and others is ultimately the most important thing."Resources Mentioned

Near-Death Experiences, Psychedelics, and the Truth About Consciousness with Dr. Eben AlexanderCan consciousness exist independent of the brain?In this fascinating return conversation, JJ sits down with renowned neurosurgeon, near-death experiencer, and bestselling author Eben Alexander to explore one of the biggest questions facing science, spirituality, and human healing today.Drawing from his own extraordinary near-death experience during a week-long coma caused by bacterial meningitis, Dr. Alexander challenges conventional assumptions about consciousness, memory, healing, and the role of the brain itself.Together, JJ and Dr. Alexander explore the intersection of neuroplasticity, psychedelics, meditation, trauma healing, survival states, and spiritual awakening. They discuss why so many people remain stuck despite years of therapy, why conventional psychiatric approaches may fall short, and what practices can help people access deeper states of transformation.This conversation dives into the profound possibility that healing may not come from fixing the brain—but from reconnecting to the greater consciousness beyond it.In This Episode You'll Learn:Why Dr. Alexander believes consciousness is not created by the brainWhat his near-death experience revealed about life, death, and the soulThe surprising science behind psilocybin and ego dissolutionHow meditation and psychedelics may affect the brain's default mode networkWhy fear of death can keep the body trapped in survival modeThe connection between healing, consciousness, and neuroplasticityWhat near-death experiences consistently teach about love and purposeThe role of meditation in expanding awareness and intuitionScientific evidence supporting non-local consciousnessHow childhood wounds, identity, and ego influence our experience of realityWhy personal experience often changes people more than data alonePractical ways to begin exploring consciousness for yourselfKey Takeaway"The deepest lesson from near-death experiences is remarkably simple: Love is what matters. How we treat ourselves and others is ultimately the most important thing."Resources Mentioned

Have you ever looked in the mirror and felt disconnected from the person staring back at you? What if you haven't lost yourself at all—what if you've simply lost connection with who God created you to be?In this powerful motivational and inspirational episode, Reginald D answers a deeply personal listener question: "How do I find myself again after losing who I am?"If you've ever felt lost after heartbreak, divorce, trauma, grief, disappointment, burnout, caregiving, people-pleasing, or years of putting everyone else first, this episode was created for you.Through a powerful motivational speech, Reginald D shares practical wisdom, faith-based encouragement, self-improvement strategies, and inspirational truths designed to help listeners reconnect with their identity, rediscover their purpose, and rebuild confidence after difficult seasons of life.In this motivational conversation, you'll discover:Why feeling lost is often a loss of connection, not a loss of purposeHow survival mode causes people to disconnect from themselvesWhy God still knows the plans for your life even when you're confusedHow comparison steals confidence and purposeWhy your mistakes do not define your identityThe danger of people-pleasing and living for others' expectationsHow to embrace healing, growth, and self-discoveryWhy God is "recalculating" your life, not canceling your futureHow to reconnect with your gifts, calling, and purposeThe mindset shifts needed to move from survival to transformationReginald D also shares personal experiences about overcoming limiting beliefs, rejecting labels placed on him by others, and learning that purpose is not destroyed by setbacks, wrong turns, or difficult seasons.Packed with motivational speech moments, inspirational stories, self-improvement principles, faith and motivation, personal growth strategies, and life-changing perspective shifts, this episode will encourage anyone who feels disconnected, discouraged, or uncertain about who they are becoming.Press play now to hear this powerful motivational speech and discover how to reconnect with your purpose, restore your confidence, and find yourself again after life's most difficult seasons.Send us Fan MailSupport the showFor daily motivation and inspiration, subscribe and follow Real Talk With Reginald D on social media:Instagram: realtalkwithreginaldd   TikTok: @realtalkregd  Youtube: @realtalkwithreginald  Website:  https://www.realtalkwithreginaldd.com Real Talk With Reginald D  -  MerchandiseReal Talk With Reginald D is a faith-based globally ranked inspirational and motivational podcast designed to motivate, empower & transform lives through powerful motivational speeches, authentic conversations, and real-life inspirational stories. Each episode delivers motivational and inspirational coaching focused on self improvement, leadership, healing, resilience & purpose. Rooted in faith and motivation, this Christian-based platform blends practical growth strategies with biblical wisdom, helping listeners strengthen their mindset, deepen their faith, and walk boldly in their calling.  Check out Reginald D's powerful motivational speeches today!`

Near-Death Experiences, Psychedelics, and the Truth About Consciousness with Dr. Eben AlexanderCan consciousness exist independent of the brain?In this fascinating return conversation, JJ sits down with renowned neurosurgeon, near-death experiencer, and bestselling author Eben Alexander to explore one of the biggest questions facing science, spirituality, and human healing today.Drawing from his own extraordinary near-death experience during a week-long coma caused by bacterial meningitis, Dr. Alexander challenges conventional assumptions about consciousness, memory, healing, and the role of the brain itself.Together, JJ and Dr. Alexander explore the intersection of neuroplasticity, psychedelics, meditation, trauma healing, survival states, and spiritual awakening. They discuss why so many people remain stuck despite years of therapy, why conventional psychiatric approaches may fall short, and what practices can help people access deeper states of transformation.This conversation dives into the profound possibility that healing may not come from fixing the brain—but from reconnecting to the greater consciousness beyond it.In This Episode You'll Learn:Why Dr. Alexander believes consciousness is not created by the brainWhat his near-death experience revealed about life, death, and the soulThe surprising science behind psilocybin and ego dissolutionHow meditation and psychedelics may affect the brain's default mode networkWhy fear of death can keep the body trapped in survival modeThe connection between healing, consciousness, and neuroplasticityWhat near-death experiences consistently teach about love and purposeThe role of meditation in expanding awareness and intuitionScientific evidence supporting non-local consciousnessHow childhood wounds, identity, and ego influence our experience of realityWhy personal experience often changes people more than data alonePractical ways to begin exploring consciousness for yourselfKey Takeaway"The deepest lesson from near-death experiences is remarkably simple: Love is what matters. How we treat ourselves and others is ultimately the most important thing."Resources Mentioned

Near-Death Experiences, Psychedelics, and the Truth About Consciousness with Dr. Eben AlexanderCan consciousness exist independent of the brain?In this fascinating return conversation, JJ sits down with renowned neurosurgeon, near-death experiencer, and bestselling author Eben Alexander to explore one of the biggest questions facing science, spirituality, and human healing today.Drawing from his own extraordinary near-death experience during a week-long coma caused by bacterial meningitis, Dr. Alexander challenges conventional assumptions about consciousness, memory, healing, and the role of the brain itself.Together, JJ and Dr. Alexander explore the intersection of neuroplasticity, psychedelics, meditation, trauma healing, survival states, and spiritual awakening. They discuss why so many people remain stuck despite years of therapy, why conventional psychiatric approaches may fall short, and what practices can help people access deeper states of transformation.This conversation dives into the profound possibility that healing may not come from fixing the brain—but from reconnecting to the greater consciousness beyond it.In This Episode You'll Learn:Why Dr. Alexander believes consciousness is not created by the brainWhat his near-death experience revealed about life, death, and the soulThe surprising science behind psilocybin and ego dissolutionHow meditation and psychedelics may affect the brain's default mode networkWhy fear of death can keep the body trapped in survival modeThe connection between healing, consciousness, and neuroplasticityWhat near-death experiences consistently teach about love and purposeThe role of meditation in expanding awareness and intuitionScientific evidence supporting non-local consciousnessHow childhood wounds, identity, and ego influence our experience of realityWhy personal experience often changes people more than data alonePractical ways to begin exploring consciousness for yourselfKey Takeaway"The deepest lesson from near-death experiences is remarkably simple: Love is what matters. How we treat ourselves and others is ultimately the most important thing."Resources Mentioned

Near-Death Experiences, Psychedelics, and the Truth About Consciousness with Dr. Eben AlexanderCan consciousness exist independent of the brain?In this fascinating return conversation, JJ sits down with renowned neurosurgeon, near-death experiencer, and bestselling author Eben Alexander to explore one of the biggest questions facing science, spirituality, and human healing today.Drawing from his own extraordinary near-death experience during a week-long coma caused by bacterial meningitis, Dr. Alexander challenges conventional assumptions about consciousness, memory, healing, and the role of the brain itself.Together, JJ and Dr. Alexander explore the intersection of neuroplasticity, psychedelics, meditation, trauma healing, survival states, and spiritual awakening. They discuss why so many people remain stuck despite years of therapy, why conventional psychiatric approaches may fall short, and what practices can help people access deeper states of transformation.This conversation dives into the profound possibility that healing may not come from fixing the brain—but from reconnecting to the greater consciousness beyond it.In This Episode You'll Learn:Why Dr. Alexander believes consciousness is not created by the brainWhat his near-death experience revealed about life, death, and the soulThe surprising science behind psilocybin and ego dissolutionHow meditation and psychedelics may affect the brain's default mode networkWhy fear of death can keep the body trapped in survival modeThe connection between healing, consciousness, and neuroplasticityWhat near-death experiences consistently teach about love and purposeThe role of meditation in expanding awareness and intuitionScientific evidence supporting non-local consciousnessHow childhood wounds, identity, and ego influence our experience of realityWhy personal experience often changes people more than data alonePractical ways to begin exploring consciousness for yourselfKey Takeaway"The deepest lesson from near-death experiences is remarkably simple: Love is what matters. How we treat ourselves and others is ultimately the most important thing."Resources Mentioned

Greg Downs person in long term recovery, author, andfinancial coach:https://www.cpfinancialcoaching.com/ Recovery Literature (quit-lit) recommendations: Big Book - https://www.aa.org/the-big-bookThe Power of Now - https://a.co/d/05rjIRA0 Best Piece of Recovery Advice: Practice the principles inall our affairs Song that symbolizes Recovery to Greg: Not afraid by Eminem- https://youtu.be/j5-yKhDd64s?si=I2uGhM8VVYCOoEeS In this episode, Greg Downs — a long-term recovery advocateand financial planner — explores how applying 12-step principles to personalfinance can lead to emotional and financial sobriety. His unique approach isdesigned to help people break free from the cycle of financial stress just asrecovery helps free from addiction.In this episode:Greg's personal story of addiction, loss, and recovery,including the pivotal jail experience that transformed his lifeHow the emotional patterns of addiction mirror those infinancial struggles — guilt, denial, avoidanceThe concept of "financial sobriety" — using12-step tools to manage money with integrity and purposeThe parallels between relapse in addiction and financialrelapse — how stress and emotion can trigger old patternsPractical steps: admitting control issues, making inventory,restoring trust, aligning spending with valuesHow community, connection, and service reinforce recoveryand financial healthThe process of writing a book that applies 12-step recoveryprinciples to personal finance, and its potential impactNotable quote: “The opposite of addiction isn't sobriety —it's connection.”This episode challenges us to reframe our relationship withmoney through the lens of recovery, emphasizing emotional honesty, community,and purpose as essential to lasting change. Don't forget to check out “The Way Out Playlist” availableonly on Spotify. Curated by all our wonderful guests on the podcast!https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6HNQyyjlFBrDbOUADgw1Sz?si=NC26a67vQjqw0BcgTzPmRg(c) 2015 - 2026 The Way Out Podcast | All Rights Reserved.Theme Music: “all clear” (⁠⁠⁠https://ketsa.uk/browse-music/)byKetsa (https://ketsa.uk⁠⁠⁠)licensedunderCCBY-NC-ND4.0(https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd)

As a U.S. Marine, John Benjamin Jones was trained to be strong, self-reliant, and ready for any challenge. But after an unexpected medical discharge, he found himself facing battles no amount of training could prepare him for. In this powerful and deeply personal conversation with Doug Stringer, John shares how seasons of adversity, loss, and healing led him to discover what it truly means to surrender to God and depend on His strength.Through honest storytelling and hard-earned wisdom, John reveals how God met him in his brokenness and transformed his pain into a testimony of hope and restoration. Today, he helps others navigate trauma, find healing, and encounter the faithfulness of God for themselves.In this episode, you'll discover:How to navigate life's unexpected challenges with faith and resilienceWhy vulnerability and reaching out to others are vital steps toward healingWhat true wisdom looks like in seasons of hardship and uncertaintyHow God uses every season of preparation for His greater purposeThe hope and restoration that can emerge from even life's hardest battlesClick here for SHOW NOTES.Share this message with a friend and subscribe for weekly encouragement and inspiration!Visit AWordInSeasonPodcast.org for a free 30-Day Devotional, Show Notes, and to see previous guests.Learn more at: SomebodyCares.org and join us to support this ministry and disaster response efforts. You can also receive weekly Provoke-a-Thought emails, monthly teaching emails, periodic ministry updates, or join our prayer team by signing up here!FOLLOW US ON:Facebook: @SomebodyCaresAmerica Youtube: SomebodyCaresAmerica Rumble: SomebodyCares or X: _SomebodyCares.Instagram: SomebodyCaresAmericaLinkedIn: Somebody Cares America

Unlock the secret to transforming your spiritual and personal growth using simple, actionable steps rooted in scripture no matter where you are in life right now. In this episode clip, Chris Thomas reveals how choosing the right scripture can serve as a mirror to your current condition and a roadmap to your next breakthrough. Tired of feeling stuck? Discover how aligning with divine principles can help you tweak your foundation and build a life that reflects your highest potential. It's not just about faith it's about applying proven concepts that produce tangible proof of progress.You'll discover:How selecting a scripture that speaks directly to your feelings can unlock clarity and purposeThe powerful framework of “Proof of Concept”: actionable steps that turn spiritual insights into real-life resultsWhy fixing your alignment with divine systems is essential to changing your circumstancesThe importance of community and accountability in multiplying your growthPractical ways to incorporate these principles into your daily routine for lasting changeWithout this knowledge, you risk staying in the same place, repeating unproductive patterns, and missing out on opportunities for true transformation. But with it, you set a clear path forward building resilience, faith, and momentum one scriptural step at a time.Perfect for anyone seeking spiritual clarity, motivation to act, or practical tools to elevate their life—this episode will empower you to move from reflection to action. Tune in and discover how to turn your faith into proof that progress is possible.Chris Thomas, a dedicated spiritual mentor, shares insights grounded in real experience and biblical wisdom, making this a must-listen for those ready to realign their lives and see concrete results. Whether you're looking for inspiration, strategy, or community, this episode is your blueprint for turning divine precepts into proof of progress. Hit play and start building your breakthrough today.

Today we're talking about the emotional duality so many ambitious moms quietly carry this time of year. The kids are home for summer and routines are shifting.And somewhere between the snack requests, wet towels and swimsuits, and “MOMMMM?” every 14 seconds… you're also trying to maintain momentum in the things you've worked really hard to build.In this solo episode, Haley opens up about the tension between wanting slower mornings and core memories with your kids… while also craving progress, structure, and uninterrupted thought.Because both things can be true: You can deeply love motherhood AND still want to build big dreams. You can romanticize summer AND still feel overwhelmed by the chaos. You can crave presence AND still desire momentum.This episode is a reminder that building a rich life was never supposed to require abandoning yourself in the process. If you've ever answered emails from a pool chair with an emotional support bevy in hand… this one's for you.In this episode, we get into:The duality of motherhood and ambitionSummer schedule shifts as an entrepreneurReleasing guilt around wanting both presence + purposeThe pressure of “perfect” motherhood onlineModeling ambition and humanity for our kidsRedefining success during different seasons of lifeIf this episode resonated with you, share it with another ambitious woman navigating the messy middle this summer. And if you're not already subscribed to The Weekly Pour, Haley's weekly newsletter, it's the place where many of these real-time thoughts begin before they become podcast episodes.Subscribe to The Weekly PourCONNECT WITH HALEY:Instagram: @thehaleywestfallWebsite: www.haleywestfall.comTikTok: @thehaleywestfallLinkedIn: Haley Westfall

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In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Podcast, Maurice Harker explores a powerful idea: what you believe about the future—especially life after death—directly shapes the choices you make today.Through personal stories and meaningful discussion, this episode dives into how having a clear vision of eternal relationships and purpose can give your life direction, courage, and deeper meaning. Maurice explains why understanding where you're going helps you decide how to act now—whether that means taking risks, standing firm, or making difficult but meaningful choices.You'll also learn how anchoring your life in a bigger picture can help you navigate uncertainty, strengthen relationships, and stay aligned with what matters most.

Are you tired of feeling stuck in cycles of shame, overthinking, or never quite getting it right?In this honest episode of the Collide Podcast, we sit down with Lisa Whittle to talk about how shame, misplaced priorities, and hidden idols quietly take hold in our lives—and keep us from experiencing the freedom God has for us. She shares about her unexpected journey into ministry, how pain shaped her calling, and what it really looks like to put Jesus over everything.Whether you're battling shame, stuck in unhealthy patterns, or longing for a fresh start with God, this episode will remind you that it's never too late to come back and experience soul-deep renewal.Meet Lisa WhittleLisa is an author, Bible teacher, podcast host, and ministry leader who has written nearly ten books and studies focused on helping women follow Jesus with integrity and depth. She also leads Ministry Strong, where she equips leaders to serve God faithfully for the long haul. Lisa is passionate about helping women break free from shame, live with purpose, and keep Jesus at the center of their lives.In This Episode, You'll LearnHow God often uses pain and hardship to reveal your calling and purposeThe subtle ways idols and “over behaviors” (like overthinking, overworking, or overindulging) take over your lifeWhy shame keeps so many women stuck—and how to break free from itWhat it practically looks like to put Jesus first and experience real soul revivalHow This Episode Will Encourage YouThis episode will help you take an honest look at what's been holding you back and remind you that freedom is possible. You'll be encouraged to release shame, realign your priorities, and come back to God just as you are—knowing He meets you there with grace, healing, and hope.https://wecollide.net/books/collide/Connect with Lisa: lisawhittle.comFollow Willow: Website | Instagram | Facebook

What do you do when God doesn't answer your prayers the way you expected?

Burnout is often treated like a badge of honor—but what if constant stress is actually sabotaging your performance?In this episode of the Career Warrior Podcast, Chris Villanueva sits down with leadership advisor and former C-suite executive Amy Leneker, who once experienced over 100 stress-induced panic attacks in just three months while leading at the highest levels of business. Despite advising Fortune 100 companies and building a high-powered career, Amy realized she had mistaken constant stress for a meaningful life. She recently released the book: Cheers to Monday: The Surprisingly Simple Method to Lead and Live with Less Stress and More Joy, which is currently climbing best seller lists.Now a leadership consultant who has helped 100,000+ professionals and executives, Amy shares the science and strategy behind working with less stress and more joy—without sacrificing ambition or results.Together, Chris and Amy explore why high achievers often glorify stress, how burnout sneaks up on even the most successful professionals, and what leaders can do to perform at their best without sacrificing their health or happiness.You'll also learn Amy's practical framework for “unstressing” your work life, the surprising research behind why 79% of people perform best when connected to joy, and simple habits you can use immediately to create more clarity, focus, and energy in your career.In this episode, you'll learn:Why ambitious professionals often confuse stress with purposeThe moment Amy realized her “dream job” had become a nightmareA powerful framework for sorting and managing different types of stressThe ABC of Joy (Awareness, Breathe, Connection) and how it impacts performanceWhether stress is actually necessary for successWhat to do when you have to work long hours but still want to avoid burnoutIf you're a driven professional, leader, or job seeker trying to grow your career without sacrificing your well-being, this conversation will help you rethink how high performance, joy, and ambition can coexist.Resources MentionedCheers to Monday: The Surprisingly Simple Method to Lead and Live with Less Stress and More Joy (Wiley // March 24, 2026)Follow Amy on LinkedInLess Stress, More Joy Podcast Amy's InstagramConnect with Chris, the hostLet's Eat, Grandma — Resume writing services to help you stand out with clarity and confidence. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this powerful conversation, Joseph Graham sits down with entrepreneur, coach, and podcasting veteran Bryce Prescott for a deep dive into what modern brotherhood really looks like. This episode cuts through the noise and gets real about men's issues, personal responsibility, and the importance of having a tribe that challenges you to rise—not stay comfortable.Joseph and Bryce also pull back the curtain on the world of podcasting: how to build a platform with purpose, the mindset behind consistent content creation, and why storytelling is one of the most important skills a man can develop today.If you're a man looking to level up your relationships, your mission, and your voice, this episode hits hard.The crisis of isolation among men and why brotherhood is the antidoteWhat real accountability looks like—and why most men avoid itHow to build a circle of men who actually challenge youMasculinity without the clichés: strength, emotional honesty, and purposeThe evolution of Bryce's work in coaching and men's developmentBehind the mic: how Bryce approaches podcasting with intentionWhy every man should consider creating content, even if it's not for an audienceThe role of discipline and structure in becoming the man you say you want to beBryce breaks down the difference between support and enabling—and why most men confuse the two.Joseph shares how brotherhood has shaped his own growth and why he's committed to creating spaces where men can be honest without being judged.A candid discussion on the mental health challenges men face and how community changes everything.A behind‑the‑scenes look at the realities of podcasting: consistency, vulnerability, and the grind no one sees.Men seeking deeper connection and stronger brotherhoodAnyone navigating personal growth, discipline, or identityCreators and aspiring podcastersListeners who appreciate raw, honest conversations about life and purpose

Some episodes just hit different the second time around.I'm re-releasing one of my favorite conversations with someone I've known since middle school in Severna Park, MD. You may know him now as the anchor of the CBS Evening News. But when we sat down to record this, I thought I knew his story.I didn't.Tony Dokoupil opens up about growing up with a father who was a federal drug trafficker, the nickname he carried in our hometown that I never knew about, how baseball became his lifeline, and how he ended up in one of the most iconic chairs in journalism...not because he planned it, but because he kept saying yes.This one is raw, real, and genuinely surprising.And if you've never heard this episode, then you're in for a treat!—--In this special re-release episode, Kara sits down with Tony Dokoupil, now the anchor of the CBS Evening News as of January 2026, to revisit a story that hits even deeper today.What looks like a polished, successful journalism career on the surface is actually built on a foundation of resilience, identity shifts, and unexpected turns. From a childhood shaped by his father's involvement in a major drug trafficking operation to rebuilding life in Maryland, Tony shares the moments that quietly shaped his path.This conversation isn't about chasing a dream job. It's about saying yes to what's in front of you, discovering your strengths along the way, and stepping into opportunities you never planned for.Listening now, with the weight of his recent promotion, this story lands differently. It's a reminder that the path rarely looks how we expect, but it often makes perfect sense looking back.Episode Topics:Tony Dokoupil's journey from childhood adversity to national news anchorThe impact of his father's arrest and starting over in a new lifeIdentity, humility, and navigating different socioeconomic realitiesHow baseball created direction and opportunityTransition from writing to broadcast journalismOvercoming shyness and imposter syndromeThe role of storytelling in human connectionWhy success often comes from saying yes, not having a perfect planBalancing career, parenthood, and purposeThe power of curiosity and lifelong learningInsights:Your starting point does not define your ceilingSkills built in one season often prepare you for something unexpected laterShyness and self-doubt don't disqualify you from visible rolesSaying yes consistently can shape a career more than having a clear visionAdversity can create empathy, which becomes a powerful professional advantageCritical thinking about your work is different from negative self-talkImposter syndrome is common, even at the highest levelsPhysical movement can unlock mental clarity and creativityWe are far less “figured out” as humans than we think, and that curiosity mattersStorytelling is the original human connection toolHighlights:00:00 Guest Introduction & Context02:15 Early Life and Family History12:14 Education and Baseball Scholarship13:22 Career Path into Journalism23:32 Imposter Syndrome and Self-Critique28:46 Uplift Segment and Current Work32:59 Interest in Writing and Future Book33:29 Curiosity About Scientific Unknowns36:40 Inspiration and Creative Process38:09 Closing and Audience Call-to-Action40:58 Podcast episode endedIf this episode shifted your perspective even a little, share it with someone who needs to hear it right now. Take a moment to rate and review the podcast to help more people discover conversations like this. And ask yourself this: what's the next opportunity in front of you that you've been hesitating to say yes to?Resources:Follow Tony Dokoupil on Instagram and Twitter (active in DMs)Watch CBS Morning and CBS Evening NewsCBS News Streaming: “Uplift” segment and extended featuresNational Archives (public records access mentioned in episode)Connect with Tony Dokoupil:CBS News Website - https://www.cbsnews.com/cbs-mornings/Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tonydokoupil/Twitter - https://twitter.com/tonydokoupilLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tony-dokoupil-605898a/Connect with Kara to share your thoughts on the series:Website - http://www.kcdrealestate.com/Email - kara@kdcrealestate.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/karachaffindonofrio/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/karachaffin1?_rdc=1&_rdrYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/user/KaraChaffinLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/karachaffin/Don't forget to visit freegiftfromkara.com for our special giveaway, the Dynamic Life Journal to help you maintain your authentic voice and intuitive wisdom while navigating the balance between technology and human connection in your business and personal life.Special Listener Offer: Unlock Your Soul-Aligned Brand with Jen CudmoreAs a gift to our Soul Inspiring Business community, I've convinced my incredible mentor and business coach, Jen Cudmore, to create an exclusive package just for you—our loyal listeners. 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In this episode we'll talk about:Why attraction to your vision isn't the same as alignment with your purposeThe difference between someone who wants your world and someone who guards itWhy vision-driven people are especially vulnerable to the wrong kind of attention7 questions to help you discern who belongs in the most sacred parts of your lifeWhy protecting what God is building through you is an act of stewardshipHow the right person covers your vision instead of competing with itAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here's the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn't Knowing the Whole Path… It's Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN

In this powerful episode of Kingdom Crossroads, host TS Wright sits down with Tarsha Campbell—a seasoned minister, publisher, and leadership coach with over 40 years of ministry experience.Tarsha shares her inspiring journey of faith, beginning at a young age, and how a life rooted in God's Word helped shape her purpose, protect her path, and empower others. From stepping out in obedience without technical skills to becoming a publisher and mentor to emerging leaders, her story is a blueprint for walking by faith and not by sight.Together, they unpack key themes including vision, destiny, leadership development, and the importance of divine protection in today's world.Key Topics CoveredTarsha Campbell's testimony and early walk with GodHow to discover and activate your God-given visionPractical steps to move from vision to actionUnderstanding “destiny moments” and divine purposeThe role of coaching in developing leadersFaith-driven entrepreneurship and publishingThe importance of divine protection and prayerLiving a lifestyle of worship through obedienceKey TakeawaysVision originates with God and must be nurtured through intentional time with HimWriting down and revisiting your vision is critical for progressDestiny is not random—it's God-appointed and purpose-drivenObedience unlocks opportunities, even when you lack experienceGod equips you with the gifts needed to fulfill your callingDivine protection is accessed through relationship and prayerFeatured ResourcesMy Next Step: Vision Board Dream Journal & PlannerDivinely Covered: Powerful Prayers of ProtectionCoaching and publishing services by Tarsha CampbellConnect with Tarsha CampbellWebsite: tarshacampbellempowers.comCall to ActionHas God given you a vision? Don't wait for perfect clarity—start taking steps today. As you move, God will guide your path and bring His purpose to fruition in your life.If You Enjoyed This EpisodeBe sure to follow, subscribe, and share Kingdom Crossroads with others who are seeking to grow in faith, purpose, and leadership.Check out this link to view Kingdom Cross Roads on TV.https://jesussaid.tv/?affiliate=tswright_gccTo get a copy of our new book "Embracing the Truth" or to have TS Wright speak at your event or conference or if you simply want spiritual or life coaching or just a consultation visit:www.tswrightspeaks.comVisit our website to learn more about The God Centered Concept. The God Centered Concept is designed to bring real discipleship and spreading the Gospel to help spark the Great Harvest, a revival in this generation.www.godcenteredconcept.comKingdom Cross Roads Podcast is a part of The God Centered Concept.

What does it actually mean to follow God? Not casually. Not halfway. But fully… as a true disciple. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach break down the reality that most Christian men are living with partial surrender and missing the life God actually called them to.The truth is, discipleship isn't about believing in God… it's about being all in. Jesus didn't say “love God a lot.” He said love Him with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind. That's not a suggestion. That's the standard.The Problem Most Christian Men Face Many Christian men:Believe in GodRead the Bible occasionallyTry to live the right way…but still feel stuck, inconsistent, or disconnected from their purpose. Why? Because they're giving effort—but not everything. And according to Scripture, partial surrender produces partial results.This episode breaks down what true discipleship looks like across three areas: Heart, Soul, and Mind.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why most Christian men never fully step into their purposeThe difference between belief and true discipleshipWhy “being a good man” isn't enoughHow distraction is silently destroying your faithWhat it means to give God everything—not just part of your lifeWhy God isn't looking for perfection—but full surrenderHow to stop holding back and start following God fullyIf you're a Christian man who's ready to stop living halfway and start following God fully… this episode will challenge everything and change everything.Get With NuWave Home Lenders By Clicking HereJoin a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here.Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking hereGet the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking hereJoin us in Mindset Mastery by clicking hereIf you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here.Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking hereGET IN TOUCHSocial Media - @theimpossiblelifeEmail - info@theimpossible.life

Send us Fan MailIn today's episode, I'm chatting with Jennifer van der Kleut (née McBride). Jennifer is an award-winning former journalist of both print and digital publications, including the D.C. affiliate of ABC7 News. A graduate of San Jose State University, she spent most of her life in the San Francisco Bay Area before moving to the Norther Virginia suburbs of D.C., where she currently lives with her husband and two sons. When she is not writing, she loves going to the beach with her family, going to concerts with her girlfriends, and getting lost in the pages of a book. We are here today to discuss her debut psychological thriller, The Better Mother.Episode Highlights:How journalism trained her to write with clarity, focus, and purposeThe shift from reporting facts to creating fictional worldsWhy she's drawn to writing from a villain's perspectiveWhat she loved most about writing The Better MotherHow understanding “why” drives both journalism and fictionConnect with Jennifer:InstagramFacebookWebsiteSome links are affiliate links, which are no extra cost to you but do help to support the show.Books and authors mentioned in the episode:Lucy Foley booksCarol Goodman booksKaira Rouda booksRobyn Harding booksAshley Winstead booksDream Harbor book series by Laurie GilmoreElin Hilderbrand booksThe Storyteller by Jodi PicoultThe Locked Ward by Sarah PekkanenThis is Not a Game by Kelly MullenBook FlightThe Last Celebrity by Madeleine HenryTell Me What You Did by Carter WilsonThe Only One Left by Riley Sager✨ Find Your Next Great Read! We just hit 175 episodes of Bookish Flights, and to celebrate, I created the Bookish Flights Roadmap — a guide to all 175 podcast episodes, sorted by genre to help you find your next great read faster.Explore it here → www.bookishflights.com/read/roadmapSupport the showBe sure to join the Bookish Flights community on social media. Happy listening!InstagramFacebookWebsite

What if the quiet nudges you've been feeling… aren't random at all?In this episode, we're joined by Robert Mulhall—leader, spiritual practitioner, and former CEO of Kripalu Center for Yoga & Health. He has spent his life learning how to listen to those subtle inner whispers…and actually follow them.Robert's journey doesn't fit neatly into one box (and honestly, we love that). From global development and public health to executive coaching and spiritual practice, including training in mindfulness meditation, Reiki, Akashic Records, the Enneagram, and even Celtic Irish shamanism. He's walked the line between the corporate world and deep inner work, proving that you don't have to choose one or the other.What really stands out is his willingness to trust the unknown, even when it didn't make logical sense.We talk about what it really means to listen to your inner guidance, how to recognize when life is asking you to pivot, and why transformation isn't something to chase—it's something to allow.If you've been feeling a pull toward “something more” but can't quite explain it… this one's for you.WHAT WE TALK ABOUTWhat “life's whispers” actually feel like—and how to recognize themWhy your next step won't always make logical sense (and why that's okay)The power of presence + attention (hint: it's everything)How Robert's unconventional upbringing shaped his view of wholeness and purposeThe intersection of leadership, spirituality, and serviceInsights from practices like mindfulness, Reiki, the Enneagram, and Celtic Irish shamanism—and how they each support transformationLessons from some of the world's most respected spiritual teachersHow to build trust with your inner voice (even if it's been quiet for a while)Why transformation is less about doing… and more about remembering who you already areA must-do exercise that may change your every daySo many of us are standing at a crossroads, trying to figure out what's next. And while the world is loud with advice, Robert reminds us that the answers we're looking for are often much quieter… and already within us.This conversation is your reminder to slow down, tune in, and trust what you're hearing—even if it feels unfamiliar.MORE FROM ROBERT MULHALLVisit robertmulhall.com to explore more about Robert and his work. Visit seekingcentercommunity.com for more with Robyn + Karen and many of the guides on Seeking Center: The Podcast. You'll get access to live weekly sessions, intuitive guidance, daily inspiration, and a space to share your journey with like-minded people who just get it. You can also follow Seeking Center on Instagram @theseekingcenter.

In this deeply moving and inspiring episode, I sit down with my dear friend Stephanie Molina y Vedia, a woman whose life story is nothing short of extraordinary.A mother of four, a global citizen, and the only female football agent in Switzerland, Stephanie's journey is one of courage, reinvention, and unwavering determination.From dominating the male-driven world of commodities trading as the “Cobalt Queen” to disrupting the football industry with her own agency, Stephanie has continuously redefined what is possible, both personally and professionally.But behind her success lies a moment that changed everything.The moment that changed her life:At the birth of her fourth child, Stephanie heard the words no mother ever wants to hear:“You have eight minutes… the mother and the child have eight minutes.”Her daughter Abigail was born prematurely at 27 weeks, and what followed were months of uncertainty, fear, and resilience. Against all odds, both survived, but the experience left a permanent imprint.Those eight minutes became a turning point.A moment that brought absolute clarity about what truly matters: connection, love, time, and the courage to live fully.Before this life-changing event, Stephanie built an impressive career in the commodities world, working with Glencore International AG, managing high-level deals and projects exceeding 50 million USD. Known as the “Queen of Cobalt”, she thrived in a highly competitive, male-dominated environment.But after her daughter's birth, everything shifted.She stepped away, reassessed her life, and chose a completely new path, one that would offer freedom, purpose, and deeper human connection.Reinventing herself in the world of FootballStephanie entered yet another male-dominated industry: professional football.With courage and vision, she founded Asmantra Sports, a boutique, female-led football agency that brings a human, relationship-driven approach to sports management.Today, she stands as the only female football agent in Switzerland and a true industry disruptor, working across Europe and South America.Her work, however, goes beyond representing players. Stephanie is now also developing a course designed specifically for parents of young football talents, guiding them on how to support, nurture, and navigate their children's potential in a demanding and often complex industry.Her success is not built on following the rules, but on redefining them.In our conversation, Stephanie shares:How adversity can become your greatest turning pointWhat it takes to succeed in male-dominated industriesThe power of emotional intelligence in businessWhy connection is the true currency of successHow motherhood shaped her leadership and purposeThe courage it takes to reinvent yourself, again and againHer story is a masterclass in resilience, self-leadership, and fearless decision-making.Born in Houston to Argentine and American parents, Stephanie grew up in an international environment and has lived and worked across the world, including Russia, Hungary, Spain, and Switzerland.Fluent in five languages, she has a natural ability to connect across cultures, a skill that has been instrumental in her success.Her life has been shaped by travel, diversity, and a deep understanding of people.Beyond her professional achievements, Stephanie is a devoted mother of four and a passionate advocate for female entrepreneurship.She is a woman who lives with intensity, authenticity, and purpose, whether she is negotiating deals, supporting athletes, or hiking in the mountains.Her philosophy is simple yet powerful:Be fearless. Be honest. And never forget who you are.Stephanie's journey reminds us that life does not always go according to plan but sometimes, the most difficult moments lead us exactly where we are meant to be.That reinvention is always possible.And that true success is not just about what we achieve but. about how deeply we live, love, and connect.If you have ever felt the need to start again, to pivot, or to step into a new version of yourself, this episode will speak directly to your heart.Because sometimes… it only takes one moment to change everything.

In this powerful episode of Love Drops Podcast, we sit down with Charles Wright to explore what it truly means to not just survive life's challenges—but to rise, rebuild, and thrive because of them.Charles shares his deeply personal journey through adversity, offering an honest look at the moments that tested his limits and the mindset shifts that ultimately transformed his path forward. With vulnerability and clarity, he unpacks how resilience isn't something you're born with—it's something you cultivate, choice by choice.Together, we dive into the emotional and mental tools that support growth after hardship, including self-awareness, discipline, and the courage to confront uncomfortable truths. Charles also speaks about the importance of purpose, community, and maintaining faith in yourself when circumstances feel overwhelming.This conversation is both grounding and energizing—filled with real-life insights that listeners can apply in their own journeys, whether they're facing personal setbacks, navigating change, or simply striving for more alignment in life.In this episode, we discuss:What resilience really looks like beyond the surfaceTurning pain into purposeThe role of mindset in overcoming adversityHow to rebuild confidence after setbacksWhy thriving is a continuous, intentional processIf you've ever felt stuck, discouraged, or uncertain about your next step, this episode is a reminder that growth is always possible—and often begins in the moments that challenge us the most.Tune in and discover how to transform resilience into a way of life.Connect with Charles Wright: https://www.GetAccountableApp.comCharles@getaccountableapp.com

In this empowering episode of the Modern Mystic Soul Podcast, Therese sits down with Lani Gonzales—clinical hypnotherapist, former attorney, author, and speaker—whose work helps women break free from subconscious patterns and step into aligned, purpose-driven leadership.After leaving a 13-year legal career as a law firm partner, Lani now guides high-achieving women to rewire the nervous system, transform identity at the subconscious level, and create sustainable success rooted in truth—not burnout.Together, Therese and Lani explore the deeper layers of what keeps people feeling stuck—and how to move beyond it with clarity, embodiment, and power.In this episode, we explore:Why high-achieving women often feel stuck despite external successHow subconscious and nervous system patterns shape identity and behaviorThe difference between surface-level change and true identity rewiringHow to challenge old patterns and create new ones that align with your purposeThe role of archetypal energy in activating confidence, clarity, and forward movementWhat it actually takes to step into a life that feels powerful, aligned, and self-ledThis conversation is both practical and expansive—bridging psychology, somatics, and spiritual awareness to help you move from stagnation into sovereignty.If you've been doing “all the work” but still feel stuck in certain patterns, this episode will help you understand why—and what to do differently.

What do you do after Jesus has spoken—but before everything He promised shows up?In Acts 1, we find the disciples living in the in-between. The resurrection has already happened, but the promise hasn't fully arrived. For 40 days, Jesus proves He is alive, not a rumor, not a ghost, but real, present, and preparing them for what's next.This message dives into how to navigate seasons of waiting and what God is doing in the middle of it all.In this message:

In this episode, Maddie Lightening shares candid stories about common pitfalls in paid media management, the importance of leveraging AI wisely, and how to approach mistakes with a growth mindset. Discover practical advice on account structuring, controlling CPCs, and embracing experimentation to stay ahead in the fast-paced world of PPC.Main Topics Covered:The significance of proper account currency configuration and how currency conversion errors can impact reportingThe risks and lessons learned from outdated account structures, especially in Google AdsHow to implement CPC caps within bid strategies to regain control without performance lossThe importance of not just adopting AI but using it strategically and with purposeThe value of a "FAFO" mindset—try, fail, learn, and move forward in paid mediaTips for managing mistakes seamlessly, including transparency with clients and teamKey insights into seasonality and account adjustments during peak periodsCreative ways to break the rules with AI, like running targeted campaigns with unique placementsThe role of curiosity in PPC success — always testing and asking "what if?"Timestamps:00:00 - Introducing Maddie Lightening and her PPC background00:52 - Maddie's journey to Head of Paid Media at Hallam02:17 - Maddie's fun fact: from banana bread to F1 autographing03:40 - Navigating industry interests outside PPC04:36 - Common mistake: Currency conversion errors and reporting impact06:12 - Lessons from account structure mistakes inherited from other agencies07:52 - Handling performance drops without panic09:23 - When to restructure campaigns and assessing seasonal impacts11:23 - What could have been done differently during account restructuring12:44 - Client reactions to structural changes: fear vs. frustration14:23 - Managing CPC increases and external factors influencing CPCs18:38 - Implementing CPC caps in bid strategies for better control21:12 - Breaking rules: Running targeted campaigns with AI and Google restrictions22:30 - Advice for professionals discovering account mistakes23:35 - The importance of accountability and giving yourself grace25:22 - Maddie's PPC value: FAFO — fuck around and find out26:26 - Curiosity and testing as fundamental PPC skills27:32 - Overcoming fear of AI bans in agencies28:41 - Integrating AI into routine work—don't ban it, use it effectively30:07 - Avoiding common AI pitfalls: Providing enough context and data32:02 - The dangers of complete AI bans and staying adaptable33:55 - Future-proofing PPC strategies with AI and technology understanding36:39 - Maddie's fun movie title: “Rush” – PPC's fast-paced nature38:16 - Connect with Maddie on LinkedIn for more insightsResources & Links:⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn - Maddie Lightening⁠⁠⁠⁠PPC Live Event Schedule⁠Join us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Slack⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

We often reward urgency, speed, and constant output. Slowing down doesn't happen naturally, it must be chosen.In this episode of Live Intentionally with Ladymarsela, we explore why intentional slowing down is not weakness, laziness, or lack of ambition but a conscious leadership decision.One that protects your clarity, your health, and your long-term impact.Slowing down is not about doing nothing.It's about creating space before burnout forces you to stop.In this episode, we reflect on:Why busyness can quietly disconnect us from purposeThe difference between collapse-rest and intentional slowing downHow urgency can become self-imposed pressureWhy slowing down strengthens discernmentPractical ways to build spaciousness into your lifeIf you've been feeling stretched, reactive, or constantly “on,” this conversation will meet you with gentleness and clarity.

Easter reminds us that death is not the end—but it does invite a deeper question: how are we living in the time we've been given?In this episode of the Embracing Brokenness Podcast, Steve and Colleen explore “The Dash”—the small line between your birth date and death date that represents your entire life.Through the story of Alfred Nobel, personal experiences with loss, and a powerful reflection sparked by the song Live Like That, they unpack what it really means to live intentionally.You'll discover:Why most people drift instead of live with purposeThe difference between happiness and lasting joyHow distraction and self-focus quietly shape your lifeWhat people actually remember about you in the endHow to choose love at the “fork in the road” momentsThis isn't about achieving more—it's about becoming someone who reflects Christ in everyday life.Because the dash may look small… but it holds everything.00:00 – Welcome + Easter Monday Reflection02:00 – The Question: What Would People Say About Your Life?07:30 – The Dash Explained (Birth → Death → Everything Between)10:15 – The Alfred Nobel Story (A Wake-Up Call)13:30 – Why Most People Drift Through Life15:00 – Meaning Doesn't Just Happen—It's Cultivated18:30 – Colleen's Turning Point (Loss, Funerals, Clarity)22:30 – “Live Like That” – The Measuring Line for Life26:00 – The Fork in the Road: Choosing Love or Self29:00 – Living Surrendered vs Living in Control32:00 – Start With Why (and Where It Falls Short)34:30 – Happiness vs Joy36:30 – What Living for the Dash Actually Feels Like40:00 – It's Not About What You Achieve42:00 – Final Question: What Is Being Written in Your Dash?43:30 – Closing Challenge + What's Next

You've reached a point in life where you thought you'd feel different. You've checked a lot of the boxes of achievement, happiness, even success. And, still, something is missing. It is a quiet restlessness that age or achievement cannot seem to quiet. What you're missing is meaning.Our guest today is Arthur Brooks. He is a Harvard professor and #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness. In this conversation, we explore:The myths we tell about how to find meaning, and how they delude us. The neurological reason why your phone is blocking purposeThe 3 real keys to meaning and mattering, and finally feeling aliveThe arrival fallacy that explains why winning is not the same the meaningHow to use a specific morning protocol to program your brain for mystery and wonderThe counterintuitive reason you actually want suffering in your lifeIf you are tired of the hustle and still feeling empty, it is time to look at the science of the soul, and learn how to bring more meaning into your life, starting with practical tools today.You can find Arthur at: Website | Instagram | Episode TranscriptNext week, we're sharing a really meaningful conversation with Jenny Lawson. She's a #1 New York Times bestselling author who has made millions of people laugh with her writing, and she also lives with treatment-resistant depression and anxiety. This conversation is one of the most honest, funny, and unexpectedly hopeful we've ever had on the show.Check out our offerings & partners: Join My New Writing Project: Awake at the WheelVisit Our Sponsor Page For Great Resources & Discount Codes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode we'll talk about:Why many people feel exhausted chasing definitions of success that don't truly fit themHow cultural metrics of success can distract from alignment and purposeThe difference between external competition and internal clarityWhy comparison often signals that you're measuring your life against the wrong scoreboardHow identifying the right metrics can transform your direction and energyWhy building your own lane leads to more meaningful successAnd more… CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here's the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn't Knowing the Whole Path… It's Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN

After 5 years, 5 seasons, and over 170 episodes… this is the final chapter of The Soul Star Podcast.In this deeply heartfelt and honest conversation, Mandy and Alli come together one last time to close a powerful cycle—honoring not just the podcast, but the growth, evolution, and transformation that unfolded along the way.They reflect on the journey from the very first episode (with just 21 listeners) to building a space that supported awakening, connection, and expansion for so many. From recording in a cozy crawl space (with the occasional unexpected mouse cameo

In this episode of Read the Damn Book, Brian Larson, author and host of Shelf Care Society, joins Michelle to discuss his journey to sobriety, the transformative power of books, and the meaningful conversations that have shaped his life. From discussing personal growth to interviewing global changemakers like Malala Yousafzai, Brian shares how authentic connections and storytelling can spark real social change. Tune in to explore how reading, resilience, and purpose-driven dialogue can impact lives and build a more connected world.What We're Talking About...Brian Larson's sobriety journey and how recovery transformed his life and purposeThe story behind the Shelf Care Society podcast and book club focused on mental health and connectionKey insights from Brian's conversation with Malala Yousafzai and her powerful memoirHow books can inspire personal growth, healing, and meaningful social changeChapters00:00 Introduction and Background08:18 The Launch of Shelf Care Society15:38 Friendship with Malala Yousafzai22:21 Navigating the Literary World29:47 The Power of Books and Community33:15 The Power of Books and FriendshipLinks MentionedListen to the Shelf Care Society Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6HWtG5eJ7emQ8iwjOVjpD0?si=481b3305352a44c2

Four years ago, I started The Player Development Pod for one reason:To clear my name.After being let go and hearing things about myself that didn't align with who I was, I made a decision…If I showed up every week and gave real value to coaches, athletes, and professionals in this space, the truth would speak for itself.What I didn't expect was what this podcast would actually become.In this 4-year anniversary episode, I take you behind the scenes of the journey from that moment… to building a global platform that has reached hundreds of thousands of people in the player development space.We cover:The real story behind why the podcast startedThe interview that changed everything for meHow pain turned into purposeThe 4 original pillars of The Player Development PodWhat 300+ episodes have taught meThe biggest lessons from showing up consistently for 4 yearsWhy interviews, athletes, and high school coaches are the future of this spaceHow this podcast helped build Beyond The Field, books, and the Player Development SummitWe also reflect on what's been built:300+ episodes600,000+ listens and viewsA global audience across multiple continentsA growing movement around player developmentBut more than anything… this episode is about impact.Because this was never just about a podcast.It's about helping people:Develop people. Elevate programs.If this podcast has ever helped you, challenged you, or supported your journey…Share this episode with someone else who needs it.And if you've been listening since the early days…You already know what to do.BOOK - Get YOUR copy of the Beyond The Field Player Development Guide: https://amzn.to/3TtnaA8 2026 Player Development Summit - https://www.btfprogram.com/pdsummit2026 Player Development Summit Sponsorship - https://forms.gle/vPucKVKaZmTVcLDq9Player Development Newsletter → https://substack.com/@btfprogram

Struggling with Christian burnout or feeling like your faith has become performance-based? In this episode, I talk with Karolyne Roberts about our identity in Christ, striving in faith, and learning to rest as a daughter of God.Karolyne shares how years of ministry and leadership eventually revealed something many Christian women quietly struggle with: a works-based mindset that ties our worth to what we do instead of who we truly are.We unpack what it really means to live from the secure identity of being God's daughter - and why rediscovering that truth can bring the freedom, peace, and breathing room so many of us are craving!If you've ever felt like you are constantly trying to prove your worth to God, to others, or even to yourself, this conversation is your reminder of the truth: your identity as God's daughter was never something you had to earn.Episode HighlightsWhy so many women slip into performance-based faith before they've realized itHow striving can lead to burnout in ministry and everyday lifeWhat it looks like to rest in your identity in Christ while still living with purposeThe role the church can play in creating healthier rhythms of service and restSimple ways to reconnect with God when life feels overwhelmingResources MentionedThe Beauty of Being: Strive Less and Live More with God as Your Guide by Karolyne RobertsThe Best Yes: Making Wise Decisions in the Midst of Endless Demands by Lysa TerKeurstAtomic Habits by James Clear Therapy and Theology podcast with Lysa TerKeurst, Jim Cress, & Dr. Joel MuddamalleRelated Episodes For You EP 2 - Slow Growth and Capacity with Mary MarantzEP 3 - Encouragement for the Woman Who is Drowning in OverwhelmEP 7 - Top 3 Questions to Ask Before Saying "Yes"EP 14 - Reader Review: Atomic Habits by James ClearEP 39 - The Source of Empowerment with Becky BeresfordEP 59 - Rethinking the Proverbs 31 Woman: Inspiration, Not ExpectationEP 67 - Spiritual Direction 101: How to Tune In and Trust God's Lead with Cheryl WeaverEP 71 - What If You're Doing Better Than You Think? with Jennifer Renee WatsonConnect with Karolyne Website: karolyne.comInstagram: @KarolyneRobertsMiss Eternity Christian PageantDear Daddy MinistryConnect with RachelWebsite: racheldbaker.comInstagram: @rachel.d.baker Email: rachel@racheldbaker.comI never recommend anything to you that I don't truly love & believe is worthwhile. Some of the links I share are affiliate links, and I'll earn a tiny commission if you go through them to make a purchase. It's no extra cost to you, and buying through the links I share is one small way you can support this ministry and our podcast. Mentioned in this episode:FREE Printable Permission SlipsIf you've been feeling like you need a minute to catch your breath, hear from God, and remember who you are outside of all the chaos... this is for you. It's a Printable Permission Slip. Yes, an actual fill-in-the-blank reminder that you are allowed to rest, reflect, and realign with what really matters. When you download it, you'll get four designs of beautiful, fill-in-the-blank permission slips and 20 permission slip ideas to get you started. You don't need the world's permission to step into your purpose - but sometimes it helps to see it in writing.Printable Permission SlipsI'd love to speak at your event!Hey sis! It's Rachel, your go-to encourager and coach. I know you love our podcast talks, but imagine taking that connection to the next level – in person! I'm more than a Clarity Coach; I'm someone who's been in the trenches, juggling All The Things. I get it! I've danced with chaos, overloaded schedules, and the struggle to prioritize self-care. But I found the rhythm, and I've got the strategies to help your ladies create some breathing room. So, if you're organizing an event, whether it's a conference, church gathering, or retreat, and you want a speaker who brings humor, real talk, and a dose of inspiration, I'm your girl. Let's chat about making your event a memorable one. Visit racheldbaker.com/speaking. This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: OP3 - https://op3.dev/privacy

What happens when God prepares you for nearly two decades before revealing your next assignment?In this episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Garrett Unclebach and Nick Surface sit down with entrepreneur and community leader Rod Vilhauer, who shares the incredible journey that led him from business success… to personal desert… to stepping into a completely unexpected calling: running for mayor of Frisco, Texas.Rod built a company that generated $400 million a year in revenue, only to watch it collapse and spend the next 18 years walking through a season of waiting and testing. What looked like a desert was actually preparation.Through stories about faith, perseverance, and sowing seed when nothing seems to be growing, Rod explains how God uses difficult seasons to build the character needed for future leadership.The conversation explores:Why God often spends more time working in a person than working through themHow seasons of struggle build the foundation for purposeThe biblical principle of sowing seed even in droughtWhy faith requires looking vertical instead of horizontalThe role Christians should play in leadership and public lifeWhat it looks like to step into purpose even later in lifeRod also shares the story of his brother planting crops during a drought when every other farmer said it was pointless—only to see an incredible harvest later. The lesson is simple but powerful: If you stop sowing, you eliminate your chance to reap.Whether you're in a season of waiting, wondering about your calling, or trying to understand how faith intersects with leadership and culture, this episode will challenge you to keep sowing, keep trusting God, and stay ready for the moment when the door finally opens.Because sometimes the longest seasons of preparation lead to the most unexpected purpose.Join a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here.Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking hereGet the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking hereJoin us in Mindset Mastery by clicking hereIf you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here.Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking hereGET IN TOUCHSocial Media - @theimpossiblelifeEmail - info@theimpossible.life

When it comes to building a happy and meaningful life, most of us rely on a grab bag of strategies — habits and goals around work, relationships, and health. But my guest today would argue that in the quest for true flourishing, there's a deeper element that not only ties together those efforts, but organizes and energizes them: purpose.Vic Strecher is a professor of public health, a behavioral scientist, and the author of Life on Purpose: How Living for What Matters Most Changes Everything. We begin our conversation with Vic's powerful story of how losing his 19-year-old daughter led him to discover how purpose can fundamentally reshape your life. Vic then unpacks the dramatic impact purpose has on your physical and mental health. He shares some guideposts on finding your own purpose, what kinds of aims foster the most fulfillment, why finding purpose isn't a one-and-done process, and why becoming purposeful can make life feel less like a tug-of-war and more like stepping into a strong current that carries you forward.Resources Related to the PodcastThe Purposeful appAoM Article:The Power of PurposeThe 5 Best AoM Podcast Episodes on Finding Meaning and PurposeAoM Podcast #1,051: Man's Search for Meaning, With Viktor Frankl's GrandsonConnect with Vic StrecherVic's faculty pageVic on LinkedInSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

GRAB YOUR FREE FREEDOM CALCULATOR™ https://jenniferjadealvarez.myflodesk.com/freedom-calculatorThe #1 tool to help you plan to work less BTC and into Salon CEOGet 20 hours back in your life and career and scale back from working BTC and step into becoming a Salon CEO to build a well-oiled machine without you!Check out our guest Coleen Oterohttps://stan.store/coleenoteroceoUnlock the secrets to building a profitable personal brand and diversifying your revenue streams from industry leader and brand strategist, Coleen Otero. Whether you're a salon owner or an aspiring entrepreneur, her insights can help you leverage your story and expertise for impactful success.How Coleen transitioned from being a hairstylist to a top brand strategist & digital entrepreneurThe importance of diversifying skill sets beyond traditional salon servicesStrategies for creating online products that sell without sacrificing authenticityHow to identify your true audience and serve them with purposeThe mindset shifts needed to price your offers confidently and value your experienceWays to leverage social media for engagement, trust, and conversionsBuilding a community: from small meetups to large impactful eventsThe power of storytelling and vulnerability in connection and salesTips for balancing faith, purpose, and business growthUpcoming opportunities: digital courses, events, and how to get startedIn this episode, you'll learn:Timestamps:00:00 - Welcome to the episode: From salon life to brand empire00:30 - Coleen's background: From hairstylist to brand strategist01:23 - Rebuilding after the 2008 recession and pivoting into branding02:23 - Partnering with major brands & growing influence03:19 - Her mission: Empowering women to build profitable brands with impact04:17 - Starting with products: workshops and low-dollar offers05:55 - Recognizing her real audience outside the beauty industry07:46 - The importance of testing and validating your offerings09:40 - How community asks guided her brand evolution10:05 - Growing her social media presence and engagement strategies11:07 - Creating CEO Chick movement & community from scratch13:00 - Running impactful meetups and events that snowball15:18 - Niching down to digital products and online branding16:32 - Tips for salon owners pivoting into online education & product sales17:56 - The value of focusing on quality leads over followers18:49 - Pricing strategies: valuing your experience and services20:25 - Mindset shifts around success, visibility, and worth21:45 - Overcoming limiting beliefs and embracing your story's power23:04 - The role of hardship and story in building authentic brands26:25 - Building trust through genuine connection and service28:09 - Content engagement: quality over vanity metrics29:26 - Real results: leveraging trust to generate revenue30:12 - How to authentically share your day-to-day life online31:08 - Recognizing divine guidance and intuition in business decisions33:29 - Coleen's personal story of resilience and rebuilding35:32 - The shift for salon owners — exploring new revenue streams36:22 - Announcing her digital product program & upcoming cohort37:14 - The power of choosing your own path: controlling your narrative38:23 - The importance of tuning into your purpose & not just trends39:31 - Valuing your experience: Pricing with confidence41:07 - Resources available: Book, courses, and events in Orlando42:30 - Closing thoughts: Embrace your story & take aligned actionResources & Links:Connect with Coleen:Optional:Interested in launching your digital product or event? Join Coleen's next cohort starting in April or attend the March 28th rooftop networking event in Orlando for deep connections and growth opportunities.

What if every heartbreak, every failure, every person who showed up and walked away — was actually pointing you toward your purpose?Most of us move through life reacting to what happens — calling it bad luck, calling it unfair, calling it "just the way things are." But what if you zoomed out far enough to see the pattern? The same type of relationship that keeps showing up. The same wall you keep hitting at work. The same feeling that follows you no matter how much you try to outrun it.What if none of it was random — and all of it was trying to teach you something?In this episode, Raj introduces a simple but powerful idea: your life has a purpose, and that purpose is hidden inside the very experiences you wish never happened. He breaks it down into two layers — the lessons you're here to heal from and the life you're here to step into — and explains why most people stay stuck in the first layer without ever realizing there's a second one waiting for them.What You'll Discover:Why the same painful patterns keep repeating in your life — and what they're actually trying to show you about your deeper purposeThe difference between the wounds you're here to heal and the life you're here to build — and why understanding both is the key to finally moving forwardWhy "just the way I am" is the most expensive belief you'll ever carry — and the mindset shift that puts your life back in your handsThe moment Raj realized that pain is inevitable but suffering is a choice — and the simple distinction that changed everythingHow to use your past as a map — a reflection practice that helps you connect the dots and see the deeper intelligence behind what you've been throughWhy trusting yourself enough to try something new — even without a guarantee — is the real work most personal growth skips overThe reason your life might feel like it's falling apart right now — and why that breakdown could be the setup for the version of you that's trying to emergeHow to stop waiting for permission, clarity, or the "right time" and start walking toward the life that's been calling you all alongIf you've ever felt like there has to be more to life than what you're experiencing — like there's a reason behind the struggle that you just can't see yet — this episode will help you see it. Press play and start connecting the dots.Connect with Raj:Liber8: www.liber8.health/programNewsletter – Sign up here: https://www.rajjana.com/staygrounded/Website: http://www.rajjana.com/Instagram: @raj_janaiTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/rs/podcast/stay-grounded-with-raj-jana/id1318038490Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/22Hrw6VWfnUSI45lw8LJBPYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@raj_janaLegal Disclaimer: The information and opinions discussed in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only. The host and guests are not medical or mental health professionals, and their advice should not be a substitute for seeking professional help. Any action taken based on the information presented is strictly at your own risk. The podcast host and their guests shall have neither liability nor responsibility to any person or entity with respect to any loss, damage, or injury caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly by information shared in this podcast. Consult your physician before making any changes to your mental health treatment or lifestyle. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I sit down with best-selling author, NYU professor, and values expert, Dr. Suzy Welch, to talk about her practical approach to finding your purpose. We dive into the research behind her proven method, “Becoming You,” and the popular NYU class she created to help students discover their most authentic selves & careers through identifying their values. Dr. Welch opens up about her own journey to finding the work she was meant to do, the importance of knowing (and living) your top values, and how she has navigated life after loss. We also chat about the realities of being a working mom, why women can't always “have it all”, and the importance of female friendships at any age. Plus, she breaks down the “Four Horsemen” that hold us back from reaching our full potential and her simple but powerful 10-10-10 decision-making method. Key Takeaway / Points:Why so many people feel lost trying to find their purposeThe research behind Dr. Suzy Welch's “Becoming You” methodology and how she turned it into the most requested class at NYU Stern School of BusinessThe breakdown of the most common top values, and the difference between your values, aptitudes, and interestsThe myth that women can "have it all" and the constant balance (and guilt) between work and motherhoodHow she landed on her authentic life in her sixtiesTurning the grief of losing her husband, Jack, into purposeThe Four Horsemen framework and the barriers stopping you from living your perfect life“10-10-10” method for making decisions that are aligned with your valuesDr. Welch's insights into the most common career mistakes, why happiness shouldn't be the end goal, and why it's never too late for reinventionRead Dr. Suzy Welch's book Becoming YouListen to her podcast Becoming YouTake the Values Bridge Test HEREFollow Dr. Suzy Welch:Instagram: @suzywelchTikTok: @suzywelchWebsite: suzywelch.comFollow me:Instagram: @cameronoaksrogersSubstack: Fill Your CupWebsite: cameronoaksrogers.comTikTok: @cameronoaksrogersYoutube: Cameron Rogers

In this solo round episode of A Voice and Beyond, Marisa Lee explores why so many people struggle to achieve their goals and how support, alignment, and clarity of vision are often the missing pieces.In this episode, you'll discover:Why lack of support is one of the biggest reasons people abandon their goalsHow trying to “do it all alone” keeps people stuck and disconnected from their purposeThe difference between chasing the how versus clarifying the visionWhy alignment creates momentum, and hustle often creates burnoutA powerful childhood story about dreaming, belief, and living in alignmentHow mentorship and coaching accelerate growth and confidenceWhy success begins internally before it shows up externallyPractical mindset shifts to help you reconnect with your vision for 2026Marisa also shares real-life examples of how living in alignment has created unexpected opportunities, meaningful support, and tangible results, reinforcing the idea that when you align with who you're becoming, the path opens up.✨ If this episode resonates with you and you're ready for support, head to the show notes to explore Marisa's coaching program and discover how you can bring your vision to life with guidance, clarity, and confidence.Find Marisa online: Website: https://drmarisaleenaismith.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drmarisaleenaismith/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmarisaleenaismith/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marisa.lee.12 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@avoiceandbeyond3519/videos Resources: MLN Coaching Program: https://drmarisaleenaismith.com/mentoring/ Schedule a Free Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/info-56015/discovery Gratitude Journal: https://drmarisaleenaismith.com/product/in-gratitude-my-daily-self-journal/ Download your eBook: Thriving in a Creative Industry: https://drmarisaleenaismith.com/product/ebook-thriving-in-a-creative-industry-dr-marisa-lee-naismith/ Like this episode? Please leave a review here - even ...