We Weren't Friends In High School

Ever wish you could go back to high school? A Bradford Corbitt is doing the next best thing. He's tracking down everyone from his high school class (Wissahickon High School, 2001) that he WASN'T friends with. The stereotypes, the fights, the failed crushes. Is this really what we remember?  Under the surface of an awkward meet-up may begin the budding of  a new friendship, or just more awkwardness.    Instgram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere. All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

In the very first episode, classmate Mike Clyburn joins Brad to discuss band class, retail jobs, and their conflict in Japanese Class. Mike also shares his experiences going back to school and becoming a father of biracial children.  Check out Mike's Satire Blog - https://www.thetwistedcape.com Twist Cast - https://soundcloud.com/twisted-cape Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

On the 2nd Episode of We Weren’t Friends In High School, Brad reunites with Erik Coxen (Class of 2001). Brad looked at Erik as one of the cool kids, and Erik quickly fills Brad in on the reality of his school life. Learn of Erik’s transfer into the school district, his legal troubles, and how his friendships changed moving forward. Erik and Brad share their experiences both as bi-racial Jews and being the last of their single friends in their mid-30s. This is an incredible conversation that you have to hear to believe! Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

On the 3rd Episode of We Weren’t Friends In High School, Brad reunites with Danielle Cataldi (Class of 2001). Danielle and Brad grew up in close proximity to each other, but were never friends. As two Ambler OGs, we discuss our ever-changing hometown. We get into the stigma attached to Tech School. Who was the hottest male teacher in Wissahickon? Plus, the bi-racial trend continues because Danielle's son is bi-racial. We take a look at it from a Hispanic point of view! Danielle has a little handmade candle online shop: Scentable Wicks - https://www.facebook.com/scentsable.wicks.3 In Celebration of Duan Holmes: https://www.facebook.com/DuanHolmes39/ Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

On the 4th Episode of We Weren’t Friends In High School, I reunite with Alaia Bradshaw (Class of 2001). I called Alaia some bad names as kids, but through this conversation, realize we developed into more of a brother & sister in high school. Alaia and I hang out on the deck and talk about how our parents may have passed their trauma on to us, how we view race, and how Alaia overcame her high school battles with teenage depression and drinking. Alaia gives her unfiltered views on our former High School and why she brought her family back to the area. Also, playing bartender during the episode is Alaia's boyfriend and fellow 2001 graduate, my actual friend Aaron Cooper. Book Alaia for readings and energy healing @ Evolve Spiritual Services on Facebook Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

From Duffy's Coffee Shop in Clarks Summit, Jason opens up about his battle with alcoholism after high school and how it changed his life forever. Jason discusses the friendships he lost along the way, how he met his wife, and the role she played in his recovery. Jason and I also relive our days hatching chickens in 5th grade, TV Lab with Mr. Malone, and our mutual love for hip-hop. Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

Kim didn’t belong to a “clique.” She had an older boyfriend, a job, got stoned, and didn’t worry about what other people thought. We contrast that with my anxieties about the future. We add Kim to the list of students who enjoyed tech school (another mention of Derek Cataldi for a 3rd episode). Plus, since Kim doesn’t like talking politics, I talk to her about not liking to talk about politics. This is a hilarious Take 2 Episode! Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

Happy Thanksgiving! Here's a special Extra Credit Episode featuring someone we've talked about a lot on the show already. Derek (Class of '99) joins me to talk about doing stuff with his hands! Derek opens up about how Tech School and falling into a trade helped him succeed, the real estate crash of the 2000s, and being a vegetarian in the 90s! Plus, Derek gives us the ins and outs of the Carpenter's Union (Local #167). In addition, Derek gives us some tips on public speaking a la William Shatner. Friends of Carpenters Union Local #167: https://www.facebook.com/ubclocal167atgmailcom/ JAC Carpenter’s Apprentice Program – 215-824-2300 Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere. All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

Christian didn't have friends in Middle School, but Cross Country Track changed his life in high school. I've known Christian since 4th grade, we tell stories of the famous Mrs. Roebuck, Cub Scouts, and our troubles with assigned reading. Plus, I explain the origins of my full name. This is the Happy Hour Episode! Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

In Part 2, Christian explains why he doesn't believe in homework, why he never went away to college, and the MONTCO Frat House he spent his post high school years partying at. We graduated high school just months before 9/11 and we discuss our memories of being college freshmen on this fateful day in history. In addition, the continuation of the "Mailbox Story" and find out what keeps Christian motivated today. Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

Happy Hanukkah Episode with Ryan Dunn who is both Jewish and Irish Catholic! On Part 1 of this conversation we discuss: Debate Team & Interact Club How I cheated in Spanish class Growing up with 90s Technology - CDs, Walkmen, TI-83 Graphing Calculators, The Internet, AOL and more! Ryan's new born daughter and my insecurities with relationships and having a family Columbine & "The Trench Coat Mafia" Bullying Part 2 Drops Christmas Day! Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)  

Merry Christmas! In this half of this conversation with Ryan Dunn, I talk about my time as a writer at World Wrestling Entertainment and how I got fired, the impact losing a friend can have on your memories, the loss of Classmate Kishan Sheth, Ryan’s path through school, and what led to him leaving Family Law. We discuss our relationship with alcohol in the past and the lack of crowds for the tennis team. Plus hear about Ryan’s first flight with his daughter!

Suzie Spinelli (Mullett) was one of the coolest girls in school in my eyes, but not in her own. We examine that perspective as Suzie shares stories of being a twin and dating the same boys as her sister. Plus, the moment that gave her the push to pursue kinesiology and the Wissahickon teacher that played a role in her path. I compare that to my road as a Communications major starting with Community College. Since Suzie is a teacher now, hear her perspective on school today, flirting, and what lessons she takes from her student career. If you didn’t get enough in the previous episode, you can join in on more of my fears of the modern dating world. We share our first cell phone memories. Also, Suzie just came back from her very first trip to California. She talks about some of her favorite moments on the West Coast while attending a wedding in wine country! Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)  

Briannon shares stories of friendships, family, and more. Hear about the party that got Briannon punished for 2 years. Plus, I reveal the one time I was actually in Briannon's house for a party not thrown by Briannon.  Briannon talks about her strong circle of women that help support her, including her sister, mom, and Episode 111's guest Suzie Spinelli. She details her bouts with anxiety in high school and difficult post-college journey as an un-wed first time mother, battling postpartum depression and Bell's Palsy. She tells these stories with loads of personality and humor.  We also compare our households growing up as children of divorce and our relationships with our dads. Plus, we get into the uncomfortable topic of controversial and convicted teachers of our past. No coming back from this one...    

It’s my first Asian guest! Ah Ram talks about coming to America as a young child from Korean and what it was like to hang out in the “large group of Asian Kids” in school, their social life & hanging in Korean bars as a teenager. In today’s life, Ah Ram has been a family man for over a decade with a wife and 2 kids, an owner of 2 businesses and a past life as an Auctioneer. Plus, my run in with classmate Dan Cassidy that got me to start the podcast, why I'm not a "Poop" guy, and Tinder in my mid 30s. Check out Ah Ram’s businesses Ah’s Garage (Norristown) & Good Vibes Smoke Shop (Bensalem) Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

Amar moved to America in his Freshman year and struggled to find friends. He eventually became one of the "cool kids." What makes a popular kid? Hear Amar's perspective and the movie-like atmosphere of American life: random hookups, embarrassing himself at a Halloween Party, the group staying together to this day. Lots of discussion about differences between the US and England such as school systems and party life for kids. Amar grew up wanting to be a soccer player prior to coming to America. He discusses the role soccer played helping him make friends in high school and at West Chester University. Pop music, DMX, Kanye, & R. Kelly! Amar discusses his 36 Days in the hospital and his battle with ulcerative colitis. Plus - what life is like in London and what would've been had Amar not moved. Being Indian and how Amar's trip to India may have been his downfall. International Travel, WWE SummerSlam 1992, and a lot more! Instagram: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya works pretty much everywhere All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

Rachel moved to Wissahickon in 7th grade and it greatly affected her ability to fit in. Coming from a strict Korean Family, Rachel struggled to find her place, eventually entering into a toxic relationship in 10th grade that would lead to dropping out in 12th grade and moving to Texas for college. We discuss the quirks of our random friendship that started in 2012 and how Rachel met her husband Kyle. Rachel also talks about her successful battle against cervical cancer and the importance of preventative care! The Pete Whittaker Story Plus, Disney World, awkward (great) boob talk, and whether my ex-girlfriend was pretty or not. IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

Alicia is the bestie I never knew I had! Alicia reveals why she didn't change her name when she got married, the loss of her father, and her friends along the way, starting at Blue Bell Elementary School. A look at Body Image, clothes, and teenage health. We ask 'Was Alicia really friends with everyone?' Plus, I reveal the first girls I ever loved and more about my high school crushes. Mrs. Romeu's Spanish Class Smoking weed with Freddie Prinze Jr. IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)    

Previously Unreleased, Jason and I discuss hip-hop music, Jay Z, Eminem, and the old school days. Listen to more of Jason on Episode 105!

Kelly is a self-described nerd who went from National Honor Society to feeling "average" in college. Hear how she navigated through school with her boyfriend and steady group of friends, school sports, and more. How Kelly's best friend broke out of the Friend Zone to became her husband. Kelly and I reminisce about Japanese class while drinking sake. Dating in school, Kelly tries to find my "type", and that time a girl tried to choke me out in 6th grade because I was too afraid to go out with her.  Plus, why I dislike Kelly's favorite band -DMB, 90s TV shows such as 90210 and Dawson's Creek, and more. IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

Kelly and I continue on in Part 2 discussing my experiences in the Friend Zone and Kelly's reservations about moving forward with her best friend. What were Kelly's expectations for her high school boyfriend 20 years ago? Plus, the reason her husband is now teasing her about her yearbook entry. Kelly asks if I could change 1 thing about high school, what would it be? And the Origins of my Red Shirt Playa gimmick. youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

Sean and I bond over beards, hip-hop, and Game of Thrones. Hear about Sean’s entry to Wiss. In 7th grade and the rumors he heard about the district. Sean married his “High School Sweetheart.” He tells a feel-good love story that is different than the way most guys tell it. Plus, changing colleges and careers, school construction, and teenage jobs. youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool Twitter: @wwfinhighschool @redshirtplaya Logos & artwork by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

Holly was someone many talked and whispered about growing up, now she is having a chance to speak for herself. Holly opens up about battling rumors of her sex life in school and the importance of self-respect as a young woman. We discuss “shit talking” and bullying in the 90s, Holly’s road to healing, and the states she traveled to get there. Plus – how dating women led to Holly meeting her future husband, becoming a mother and esthetician, and her passion for animal rights! youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool @redshirtplaya All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

Welcome to a mini-series podcast featuring the music of the Red Shirt Playa. Stories behind my lyrics and production, relation to Wissahickon and beyond.  On this episode..."Red Shirt Playa" & "Yeah..."

Welcome to a mini-series podcast featuring the music of the Red Shirt Playa. Stories behind my lyrics and production, relation to Wissahickon and beyond.  On this episode..."Rhyming Machine" & "I Don't Hear 'Em"

Welcome to a mini-series podcast featuring the music of the Red Shirt Playa. Stories behind my lyrics and production, relation to Wissahickon and beyond.  On this episode..."In The Zone" & "Where I'm From (A-Town)"

JP was an admitted band nerd, but boy did that pay off. Most of JP's socializing came through music and we talk about our times in Band and Chorus, like the time we had to perform a silent song for over 4 minutes. JP had a career path out of college, but it was taken away on a technicality. He ended up loving his new career so much, he wouldn't even want to go back now! There is some serious Broadway Musical talk as we discuss our favorites, Wissahickon's musicals, and my increased disappointment in the selections. Start of the new course level, and my first Social Distancing pod! youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool @redshirtplaya All logos & artwork created by Carrie Stanton (@carriethepanda)

Kelley has literally been all around the world, and for several years, she was at Wissahickon with us. We had some similarities growing up, our love for black culture, struggles to find our black connections socially, and dealing with strict parents, Kelley also shares a lot of very personal stories about losing friendships, struggles in young marriage, and guiding her children through racism. Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

Tom was younger than most in our class. He talks being a stoner kid in school and the drug culture. Plus, we're talking about lots of food, making the switch from Business to Culinary Arts, & breaking down some Philly favorites such as the top cheesesteak spots and why Wawa fell off. We also talk about the passing of Tom's brother Joe, and the type of dreams we have about those we have lost. https://chefsspecialbar.com/ Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

Jess was a TWO Sport Athlete in high school. Learn about the hard work that went into becoming a Freshman Starter in basketball and earning a Kent State Scholarship in Track. We get into the make-up of Penllyn, the legacy of her own family, and the impact Jess’ older brother had on MY life. Plus, Jess talks about her long-time friendship with The First Girl I Ever Loved. Jess is also a Deputy Sheriff in Alameda County in the Bay Area, and we discuss her path through the Police Department as a black woman, and her role as a Training Officer at the Academy. Jess’ IG For “Black & Blue” Series: @J_Iggie1899 Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

After Jess and I did a WWFINHS episode, Jess reached out and asked if I'd be willing to have a public conversation about the current unrest in this country stemming from the George Floyd murder, protests, and calls to defund the police. We had that conversation on Facebook Live. Here is the audio. Jessica Ignont is a Deputy Sheriff for Alameda County in California, and a training officer for the Police Academy as well as my high school classmate. 

Lesly brings new perspective to the podcast as she discusses the difficulties of being a nerd on the DL while being social with boys in school and how the Enrichment Program helped shape Lesly's world view. We compare growing up Jew-ish. Lesly shares an awesome Lauryn Hill/Outkast story. Family life in D.C., the unknown starting in Washington, and the elbows she's brushed along the way. This episode made me blush. Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

I'm really learning about Javier for the first time in this conversation: like how his Dad played guitar in Sister Sledge and how he spent his teenage years looking for "inspiration." Javier clears up exactly why and how he went to school on a dancing scholarship, and a very interesting perspective on race. Plus, the background of his sister's Philadelphia restaurants! Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

Euka moved to our school in the beginning of 10th grade, one of the hardest times for kids. While missing his love of BMX, Euka pushed through with new friends and graduated, all the while dreaming of getting back "home" to Austin, TX. But that's not where Euka ended up going. Plus, thoughts on being one of the few Japanese students in school, and what the podcast has taught me so far. Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

Barclay was bullied and picked on as a kid, with a lack of friendships, while battling Major Depressive Disorder. Barclay's High School adversity would pale in comparison to her trauma in the US Army as a victim of sexual assault and marrying a narcissist that would subject her to mental and verbal abuse for the next decade. Barclay bares the good and the bad with incredible bravery in this conversation. Twitch.tv/Auraflare_Rising Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

Kim and I talk about Wissahickon's Foreign Language Program, and I try to sing a song in French. We share our experiences being in "Dreamgirls" in Middle School and our disappointment in the chorus program. Also, Kim talks about being diagnosed with Turner Syndrome and her struggles with weight in school, and her victories in present day. And can there be more than 1 type of person in each group? Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

Continuing on from our conversation about Lesly's Lauryn Hill & Outkast story (WWFINHS 205), Lesly and I geek out on our favorite musical artists and songs. Random run-ins with Katie Pollins, buying bootleg tapes from Adam Salter, and much more! GET THE SPOTIFY PLAYLIST!!: https://spoti.fi/3eROqS0 Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

Here's a preview of the Reunion Special available now at youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA

I get a few minutes into this conversation and realize Tom was PRETTY CLOSE to a friend Senior Year. I even went to his Graduation Party! But I never knew much about Tom. Now he fills me in on his pressures to succeed on a struggling football team, being a teenage fireman, and his long desire to join the Air Force that almost feels like a story of destiny. Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

Paige dishes on her experience being one of the "cool kids," not always feeling welcome with everyone in the group, and dating one of the most popular boys in school. Paige had a drive to work hard all throughout her life, we examine that and at what point she wished she backed off the gas pedal a little bit. Paige was also a State Champion long distance runner who knew at an early age it could help her get into college, but that doesn't mean she knew what she wanted to do when she got there. Paige talks about switching majors at Duke University, and the importance of seeking guidance when you need help finding your path. Plus, early hopes for our 20 Year Reunion! Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

Mike is the Band Director at Wissahickon, and the first teacher to join the show! The hiring process & starting in the district for our Freshman Year! Playing with some of the greats - The Temptations, Billy Paul, and yelling at Gwen Stefani before No Doubt broke big. Mike also spent time in the Army, going from Army Band hopeful to Korean Linguist? Plus, the future of music in the district and beyond. On the QT, this is a hip episode! http://www.hoppinjohnorchestra.com http://hankscadillac.com/about/

We go past Homeroom and find out what Dustin’s HS life was all about. We discuss the dynamic of neighborhood friends, the 6th Grade Camping Trip To the Poconos, and my storied Wawa Career. Becoming a Fraternity Guy and some of Dustin's side hustles going back to selling candy for school lunch money. Do you know what a Texas Tommy Is? Lemon Perfect: Cold Pressed Lemon Water https://lemonperfect.com/ Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

Kim and I were both heavily involved in the Chorus and Musical programs. We discuss the horrible politics of casting, and compare our Senior Year experiences. We look at the role race plays in education, the built-in anxieties of gym class and lunch period, and the struggle to find genuine friendships in school. Plus, Kim’s introduction to local politics, becoming the Whitman Township Supervisor, Mermaid Lake updates, and moving back to the street she grew up on. Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

Paul didn’t have a steady crew of friends. He tried different groups, but never quite fit in all the time. Paul discusses his struggles in school with his ADD diagnosis, and the stigma that came with it. We also talk at length about Paul’s lost connection to Class of 2001, and the grief he dealt with finding out so many classmates had passed away, including his childhood friend, Matt Smith. Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

Lizzie (Most Athletic) still isn’t quite sure what she wants to be, but it’s not for lack of trying! Over working throughout Wiss., early acceptance to Princeton, Real Estate Law, Haiti Relief, Med School, and her aspirations ending with a lawsuit. Being a twin with her more social brother, Andy. Plus, Lizzie's long distance relationship success story, and my short distance relationship shortfalls. Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

George is my first friend to join the show. Hear about our crew and the type of stuff we used to do, but also, what happened prior to Wissahickon: the smaller world of Catholic School, transitioning to public school, and his strong Ambler roots in town. Plus, buying, building, and wrecking cars, playing adult full contact football, finding art, and leaving town almost a decade after graduation. We’re putting layers on the Earth! Check out George’s art at www.georgebarreca.com Facebook: @WWFINHS youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA IG: @wewerentfriendsinhighschool

First in-person podcast since March, my neighbor Krissy finally joins the pod! Krissy battled a difficult home-life as a child of divorce, going back and forth between Mom & Dad, and not having sibling support from her brothers or sisters. It was her friends at Wiss that helped her through the toughest times. Overcoming a 6th grade fear of theater to become a Theater Major in college, Sign Language, and starting your own business in the middle of a pandemic. Myrtle & Magnolia Floral Designs - https://myrtleandmagnolia.com/ Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Unlike past guests, Pat is a twin that graduated High School without his twin brother. He talks about being brothers, but not friends, and how they grew to be closer than ever as adults. Dial-up Internet memories, having pride in good grades, and ditching medicine for the restaurant business. Let your mouth water- https://trulucks.com/ Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

I’ve wanted to talk to Chrissy since I was 9 years old, when I met her in 4th grade. Now it’s finally happening! My embarrassing stories of pining after Chrissy in Elementary and Middle School, being aggressive, and another POV of the now infamous busted up party sophomore year. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Pam and I share a special bond, we both lost a great friend on February 18, 2001. Pam joins me to talk about our memories of classmate Ray Campion, the dynamic of a Work Friend vs. School Friend, and dealing with grief in our Senior Year. Plus, Pam’s love of live concerts and DMB, Hosting Parties, and winning the lottery! Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Mike was expelled/asked to leave Wissahickon in 9th Grade. Struggling with dyslexia, no home supervision, and a lack of ability to connect took Mike down a dark path that he’s alive to talk about today. We talk about acting out in school, dealing with trauma and mental illness in the family, and the party life of the freaks and geeks.   Mike’s Art: https://fineartamerica.com/profiles/michael-volpicelli/shop   Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Chris and I grew up in Ambler, but he was a year ahead of me in school. We throwback to memories of Regan's Shoes & Mattison Ave., the time I was in Chris' car without him, leaving the restaurant business for stability, and why I wanted to talk to Chris about lawn care! Also, my College Radio days & getting hired at WWE! https://www.stoutlawncare.com/ Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Brian grew up in a very strict house with expectations for his future, a social network not connected to Wissahickon, and a family instinct for starting his own business. We discuss the tough structure Brian’s parents put in place, consequences for not complying, and College freedom. Plus, dealing with racism in school, Taiwanese vs. Chinese, and doing business today in China and beyond.   How did Brian turn a video game addiction into technology side hustles, racking up $15K selling websites in 11th Grade? We discuss the technology from our childhood, going from Computer Science to the Furniture space, and unhealthy expectations of a start-up business. Visit https://helloraye.com/ for commercial and residential furniture. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Matt moved to Wissahickon in 4th grade following the uncommon amicable divorce of his parents. Hanging out with older kids, getting high, and the Enrichment Program. The 2Pac song Matt lost his virginity to, Slam Books, and the Pool Hall where everything seemed to be happening for Adult Matt. Plus, joining the Carpenter’s Union and how Matt’s path was different than Derek Cataldi’s.   Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Chris and I have been sharing hip-hop music with each other for the past few years, but we don't know each other! I share my early fears of talking to Chris on Facebook, and we bond in the uncomfortable experience of self-made, rich Grandfathers. Memories of one of Chris’ best friends Evan Wallace, aka E-Dubble. Plus how a paperwork error sealed Chris’ college fate. This is for all the 90s & Early 2000s Hip-Hop fans. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

The first International Podcast! Now in Greece, Aneta first came to the US as a Political Refugee from Poland as a baby with her parents. Despite not being top of our class or getting into her college choices, Aneta still achieved her dreams of working in the field with Refugees around the world, often with her own life in danger. Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

When Max left North Penn High School, he stopped giving a fuck. Growing up in different suburbs, racism and scary cops, and the process of feeling out Wissahickon. His difficult summer of Trade School, why Max didn’t stick it out, and what happened when his teachers and coaches didn’t provide any guidance for the future. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Maria came from a strict family and a small Catholic school. Fears entering Wissahickon, the cliques in her small school, and Maria’s strict family Homelife. Dating classmate Zach Rowe, breaking tradition with her marriage, and moving away from Ambler. Plus, returning home to care for ailing father, her unexpected pregnancy, and being the wife of a Marine. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Jeff spent most of his high school days focused on his passion for pastry in hopes of becoming a chef. But he had an unexpected experienced that crushed his desire to continue on.  We also reflect on little league baseball, School Safeties, and marrying into the Indian culture! Check Out Jeff & Diamond State Financial Group https://www.dsfg.com/team-member/jeffrey-e-marsico-clu Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Best of the very first We Weren't Friends In High School Reunion Special! Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Zach was the always The New Kid. Wissahickon was Zach's 3rd High School in as many years. We discuss why he and his parents moved around a lot, where he spent the most time, and what happened when his parents left the day after graduation. Plus, the legal troubles that pushed Zach to change his life and join the Marine Corps, how he got lucky, and the strong bond between he and his wife, fellow classmate Maria. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

All the way from SINGAPORE, Jeff is the 2nd International Guest to join the pod! Coming to Wiss in 9th grade, why Zack Morris was a negative influence on our lives, and crying over not making the basketball team. Plus, Jeff's road from back packing to building hostels to starting a software company, what he's learned about success and failure, and being scarred by his high school football memories. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Our Homecoming Queen reveals what it was like to win the crown and have all of the attention on her, her long-term relationship with classmate Pat, and getting her hair pulled during Lunch and standing up for herself. Plus, we break down if I peaked professionally during my time in WWE, Schools who teach learning vs. memorization, and looking for guidance while preparing for college. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Bianca moved from Hartford, CT to the Philly Suburbs. Prior to moving, she only had experiences with West Indians and Hispanics. She talks about the cultural shift, her insecurities of not being like the other kids, and growing up as the only black teenage girl in her neighborhood. Why Bianca quit her first love of soccer, male sport bias, and which former guest of this podcast made Bianca doubt her own skills. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Jon struggled to fit in and develop relationships while maintaining his faith in Christ, and while Chorus gave him a chance to shine, Jon preferred fitting in the background with chorus & band friends. Jon's friendship with first guest Mike Clyburn (WWFINHS 101), disgust in the school dating cycle, and the politics that steered Jon away from after school activities. Have you ever smoked banana peels?  Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Cassie was a shy kid who moved with her family to Wissahickon in the middle of 11th grade. Cassie talks about some of her memories of teaching daycare, the awesome block of BET programming after school, and looking back on the death of Aaliyah. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Monica was a confused child with an intimidating reputation. We discuss girls beating up boys, first impressions, and going into the work force rather than going to college. Monica also talks about her Egyptian heritage, her old-school upbringing, and summers in Egypt. Plus, Monica opens up about her struggles with addition after school, her path to sobriety, and regaining trust, normalcy, and her daughter! Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Adam and I reconnect for the first time since Graduation to talk about coming up in the Pod system in middle school, our opposite experiences in the 13th grade and the feeling of being lost coming out of college. Plus, our shared memories of TV Lab, music, and the early days of making mixtapes. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

My 12th Grade English Teacher joins the podcast to talk about her transition from Wiss student to Wiss teacher, my ups and downs in her class, and leaving school to surf in New Zealand! Plus, her predatory colleague, navigating a sexist work place, and the negatives of fostering competition in school. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Jen joins the podcast to talk old school Ambler days when kids played outside, memories of Knights Park, and growing up with all sisters. Plus, going tech school with a purpose, her path through nursing, and 20+ years with husband and classmate Sean (Ep. 119). Also, how Jen went form loving hip-hop to becoming a country music fan. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Chris begged to go to Wissahickon Middle School, his first public school. But he left the high school for LaSalle because of bullying. Chris talks about the friends he made after leaving Wissahickon, and the bullying that still took place in private school. Plus, the simple beginnings of Chris's struggles with drinking, living a sober life, and helping others learn from his experiences.  Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

From Ambler to Hollywood, Hank packed up his car and moved across the country to pursue his passion in screenwriting. He talks about the grind to get his foot in the door, overcoming disappointment, and landing his dream-job of working on Peacock's “Bel-Air.”  Plus, Hank talks about his struggle to bond with a black community growing up, the racism that pushed him away from his Middle School friends, and how his outlook changed when his cousin Dave joined him in High School. Hank takes us behind-the-scenes as we discuss his career on projects such as “Blackish,” “The New Edition Story,” and his start on BET's “The Game.” Don't forget to watch “Bel-Air” Sunday February 13 on Peacock!  Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

The Girl I Didn't Know at graduation FINALLY joins the pod, and it turns out we a lot in common!  Lauren discusses her Phoenixville origins, moving to Kentucky in 7th Grade, and how she ended up at Wissahickon in 10th grade.  Lauren shares how she was impacted by her parents' divorce, we compare our tumultuous relationships with our dads.  Plus, her dating app disasters, working at QVC, and moving to Charlotte!  Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL    

Do you remember where you sat in 5th Grade? Jen does! Shady Grove memories, what a Middle School boyfriend was really like, and Jen's hillarious fantasy involving science teacher Mr. Landis. Growing up Korean, not dating Asian men, and her experiences with the phrase "whitewashed."  Plus, Jen's obsessive *NSYNC fandom, playing it safe in her career, and the difference in bullying for girls vs. boys. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Joe and Pete became friends in Elementary School, and they brought beer to talk about it! It's my first 2-Guest Podcast as we follow Joe's passion for film from the Blizzard of '93 to giving up a college scholarship and opening a cafe for cats!  Plus, Pete's days on the winless football team to leaving his first college at St. Vincent's and getting the teaching bug. How my college music video crossed paths with a questionable sex scene that Joe helped shoot, the boys driving cross country together for the first time, and the effect covid has had on both of their jobs over the past few years. Kicking it off with Double IPAs at noon. http://www.keasbeymattison.com/ Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Before he became the Varsity Basketball Coach and Middle School English Teacher, Kyle Wilson was a Wissahickon student (Class of '85)! Coach joins the podcast to talk about cutting through the woods in the 80s, playing tough against the older kids at Knight's Park, and why he picked basketball as the sport to pursue. Plus, the complexities of coaching your own kids, memorable players through the years, and the responsibility of being a black teacher/coach. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG:@WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

The Mayor of Conshohocken joins the podcast to talk about his childhood, moving 10 times before landing at Wissahickon and pulling pranks in school for his Show on WTV. Plus, letting go of his filmmaking dream and the unanswered email that inspired him to run for Mayor. Yaniv takes us inside his first campaign, running against a 4 term incumbent, the end of his “Steelo” character, and the importance his wife played in not only his first term, but winning re-election. Also, insight to the communication and messaging Yaniv utilized with police and the community during George Floyd and BLM demonstrations. Conshohocken Arts Festival - June 4 https://www.conshohockenartsfestival.com/ https://www.yanivaronson.com/conshystrong Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS                                  IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Francesco had low self esteem and trouble fitting in, but he buried those insecurities after high school. Now it's time to dig them up all over again. We talk about our struggles with body image, the post-high school glow up, and confronting our anger and aggression.  Plus, marrying his high school crush, Fran's recovery from addiction, and how he built himself back up again. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS                                  IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

A Jew named Christian? Amanda and I go way back to our Middle School production of Dreamgirls! We dive into our musical careers in school, the politics that went into casting, and why Amanda never pursued a career in theater. Plus, Amanda details her falling out with her best friend in 11th Grade, her internal struggles with not being "perfect", and why she had no clue classmates were partying in high school. Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS                                  IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

LeeAnn, not her actual name, was Captain of the Cheerleading team. After Kindergarten, she moved to Pittsburgh for 9 years! LeeAnn talks about returning to Wissahickon in 8th grade, the decision to go blonde as a teenager, and how her guidance counselor blew her college admission. Plus, dating a “cool kid” from my class, McDonald's & Chuck E Cheese play areas, and why she left teaching. Check out LeeAnn's Etsy Page https://www.etsy.com/people/phillymeanmugs Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Jessica came to Wissahickon in 9th grade, and promptly quit playing soccer to get back at her parents for making her move. We talk about bullying for girls, the best *NSYNC member, and how Jessica's undiagnosed ADD affected her learning. As school went on, Jessica began partying at a different level than everyone else. Jessica talks about how drugs changed who she was, what she lost, and making living amends to repay her family.  Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL

Andrew grew up with twin sister Lizzie, and while they shared some similarities, Andrew had a different school experience. Andrew reveals how he responded to his father pushing him to improve his grades and make The National Honor Society. Plus, playing sports year round, what he learned from his family trips to the Dominican Republic, and why he really went to so many DMB concerts.  Andrew shares his perspective on twin life, being in an interracial marriage, and he reacts to the arrest of our teacher and his summertime boss, Matt Milleo.  Full Video @ youtube.com/REDSHIRTPLAYA Facebook: @WWFINHS IG: @WEWERENTFRIENDSINHIGHSCHOOL