Podcast appearances and mentions of courtney carver

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4135: Courtney Carver explains that the fear of missing out has one real remedy, and it is presence rather than more effort. She names the signs of FOMO, from saying yes when your heart says no to endless scrolling, then offers five practices for staying present, including turning off devices and choosing depth over breadth. What she is after is JOMO: the joy of missing out. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/fomo Quotes to ponder: "When you are truly present, there is no regret for the past, or fear of the future." "FOMO signals a lack of engagement. If you are worried about what you are missing, you cannot be present." "Letting go of FOMO means abandoning the need to catch up, keep up, and measure up in exchange for a chance to connect and engage with what or who is right in front of you." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if having less could actually give you more—more time, more energy, more creativity, and more freedom?In this episode of Badass Basic Bitch, Brianna sits down with Courtney Carver, founder of Be More with Less and creator of the Project 333 Challenge, to talk about simplifying your life, letting go of what's weighing you down, and redefining what “enough” really looks like.Courtney's journey toward simplicity began after a life-changing health diagnosis forced her to take a closer look at the stress in her life. What started with addressing debt, clutter, and an overwhelming career eventually became a completely different way of living—and a movement that has inspired people around the world to rethink their relationship with their stuff.Courtney breaks down her famous Project 333 Challenge: dressing with just 33 items or less for three months. But as Brianna and Courtney explore, this conversation is about much more than cleaning out your closet.They dive into the emotional reasons we hold onto things, how shopping can become a way of coping with discomfort, the influence of social media and algorithms on consumerism, and the surprising mental freedom that comes from having fewer decisions to make every day.From designer handbags and kids' clutter to online shopping and decision fatigue, this episode will have you looking around your house—and maybe opening your closet—the second it's over.In This Episode, We Discuss:How Courtney's journey toward simplicity beganWhy reducing stress became the catalyst for changing her lifeThe creation of Be More with Less and Project 333How the Project 333 Challenge worksWhat is—and isn't—included in your 33 itemsWhy Project 333 isn't about deprivation or sufferingHow having less helps redefine what “enough” actually meansThe emotional attachment we develop to clothes, handbags, and possessionsA simple trick for letting go of items you're emotionally attached toBrianna's experience letting go of designer bags and simplifying her wardrobeHow shopping can become a coping mechanism when other parts of life feel outside our controlWhy clutter isn't always made up of things we dislikeThe challenge of managing clutter when you have kidsHow fewer choices can benefit children, tooReducing decision fatigue through a simplified wardrobeWhy fewer possessions can create more room for creativityManaging your energy instead of constantly trying to manage your timeUsing services like Rent the Runway without falling back into overconsumptionHow Instagram, TikTok, algorithms, and online shopping influence what we think we needWhy Courtney intentionally reduced her own social media consumptionThe surprising realization that most people aren't paying attention to what you wearHow simplifying one area of your life can inspire changes everywhere elseMemorable Quote“One of the biggest benefits is realizing that nobody notices what you're doing.” — Courtney CarverKey TakeawaysSimplicity Isn't About DeprivationProject 333 isn't designed to make you suffer through three months with nothing to wear. The challenge is an experiment in discovering how much you actually need.By choosing 33 items—including clothing, jewelry, shoes, and accessories—and living with them for three months, you get the opportunity to step away from the constant cycle of wanting more and discover what you genuinely enjoy wearing.Sometimes You Need Space Before You Can Let GoGetting rid of something can feel surprisingly emotional, especially when the item represents a memory, identity, accomplishment, or version of yourself.Courtney suggests removing items from sight before deciding whether to permanently let them go. Creating distance can weaken the emotional connection and help you recognize whether you actually miss the item—or simply felt uncomfortable getting rid of it.Clutter Costs More Than MoneyEverything we own requires something from us. We have to organize it, clean it, maintain it, store it, think about it, or decide what to do with it.Reducing what you own isn't simply about having a cleaner closet. It can reduce decision fatigue and free up mental energy for creativity, relationships, work, problem-solving, and the things that matter more.Shopping Can Give Us the Illusion of ControlWhen something painful or stressful is happening outside of our control, focusing on something we can control—like what we buy—can feel comforting.But that temporary relief can eventually create another source of stress through clutter, spending, and the constant pressure to acquire more. Recognizing why you're reaching for something can be just as important as deciding whether to buy it.Social Media Is Constantly Telling Us We Need MoreInstagram, TikTok, online shopping, and personalized algorithms have created an environment where we're constantly being introduced to the next thing we're supposed to want.Courtney shares why she's intentionally reduced her own time on certain platforms and why becoming more conscious about what we're consuming digitally can help change what we consume physically.Fewer Decisions Can Create More CreativityWhen you remove dozens of unnecessary decisions from your day, that energy doesn't disappear—it becomes available for something else.Courtney has found that simplifying areas like her wardrobe gives her more capacity for writing, business, problem-solving, and creativity. Sometimes creating more space in your life literally begins by removing things from it.Nobody Is Paying as Much Attention as You ThinkOne of the unexpected lessons from Project 333 is discovering how little other people notice what you're wearing.The fear that someone will notice you repeating an outfit or wearing fewer things is often much bigger in our minds than it is in reality. Letting go of that perceived judgment can create freedom far beyond your closet.Ready to Try Project 333?For three months, dress with 33 items or less, including:ClothingJewelryAccessoriesShoesItems such as underwear, sleepwear, workout clothing used specifically for exercise, and special-occasion pieces aren't included in the 33.The goal isn't to find the perfect 33 pieces. It's to experiment with less and pay attention to what changes—your mornings, your decisions, your spending, your energy, and potentially much more.Connect with Courtney CarverCourtney Carver is the founder of Be More with Less and creator of the Project 333 Challenge. Through her books, writing, courses, and The Simplicity Space Community, Courtney helps people live with less and let go of what's weighing them down.

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3098: Courtney Carver of Be More With Less shares 7 simple ways to be more you. She explains how simplifying, writing yourself down, and spending time with people who lift you up help you remember who you are, because authenticity is what makes healthy relationships and real love possible. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/more-you/ Quotes to ponder: "This isn't about finding yourself. It's about remembering who you are." "The changes started on the outside, but the real work was happening on the inside." "Love your people so much and don't forget to let them love you back." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) — Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: ⁠⁠https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join⁠ Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4099: Courtney Carver explores how guilt often keeps us holding on to clutter, unwanted possessions, and even unhealthy habits long after they've stopped serving us. She explains that by acknowledging guilt, choosing to release it, and making room for joy instead, we can create more space for purpose, love, and a simpler life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/go-guilt/ Quotes to ponder: "What you may have forgotten though is that it is your choice to carry the burden of feeling guilty about what's in your closet, or other areas of your home. It's your choice." "What I didn't know is that the guilt was weighing me down with absolutely no purpose. The guilt wasn't serving me in any way." "What's interesting about the guilt of letting go, is the guilt doesn't usually come from letting go. It comes from holding on." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) — Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: ⁠⁠https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join⁠ Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4099: Courtney Carver explores how guilt often keeps us holding on to clutter, unwanted possessions, and even unhealthy habits long after they've stopped serving us. She explains that by acknowledging guilt, choosing to release it, and making room for joy instead, we can create more space for purpose, love, and a simpler life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/go-guilt/ Quotes to ponder: "What you may have forgotten though is that it is your choice to carry the burden of feeling guilty about what's in your closet, or other areas of your home. It's your choice." "What I didn't know is that the guilt was weighing me down with absolutely no purpose. The guilt wasn't serving me in any way." "What's interesting about the guilt of letting go, is the guilt doesn't usually come from letting go. It comes from holding on." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) — Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: ⁠⁠https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join⁠ Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4099: Courtney Carver explores how guilt often keeps us holding on to clutter, unwanted possessions, and even unhealthy habits long after they've stopped serving us. She explains that by acknowledging guilt, choosing to release it, and making room for joy instead, we can create more space for purpose, love, and a simpler life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/go-guilt/ Quotes to ponder: "What you may have forgotten though is that it is your choice to carry the burden of feeling guilty about what's in your closet, or other areas of your home. It's your choice." "What I didn't know is that the guilt was weighing me down with absolutely no purpose. The guilt wasn't serving me in any way." "What's interesting about the guilt of letting go, is the guilt doesn't usually come from letting go. It comes from holding on." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Rest to Return is a podcast for a restless world. Kohenet Keshira haLev Fife is your host. This series is rooted in Shabbat, an ancient Jewish practice that teaches us how to belong to time. Here, rest is a sacred rhythm woven into who we are. We continue by gathering around a single question: Who do we become when we rest? Lecha Dodi is the song that ends Kabbalat Shabbat (the service that helps us transition into Shabbat) before we move into the Ma'ariv prayer service.  The idea that Creator finished creation on the seventh day comes from Genesis 2:2. Tranquility, satisfaction, calm, and quiet being created on the seventh day comes from Genesis Rabbah 10:9. The idea of creating change that's “slow, deep, and irreversible” comes from artist and activist Ricardo Levins Morales. I learned the mussar practice of clarifying our ratzon by asking “what do I want? What do I really want?” from Rabbi David Jaffe of Kirva. You can learn more in Chapter 1 of his book, Changing the World from the Inside Out: A Jewish Approach to Personal and Social Change. This quote has been misattributed to Courtney Carver. It is instead referenced by Carver in her book, Gentle: Rest More, Stress Less and Live the Life You Actually You Want. The quotation itself comes from Psychologist Nicola Jane Hobbs who teaches, “Instead of asking, 'Have I worked hard enough to deserve rest?' ask, 'Have I rested enough to do my most loving, meaningful work?'” Enjoy the live version of Lay it Down, Let it Go here. Check out the Rest to Return webpage for photos, info about the Rest to Return retreat, and more! This episode is brought to you by the Institute for Jewish Spirituality. Rest to Return exists because we believe slowing down is a spiritual act. IJS believes that too. For over two decades, IJS has been helping people go deeper, through Jewish mindfulness meditation, contemplative prayer, sacred text study, and embodied practice. Their offerings range from online courses and silent retreats to immersive cohort programs for seekers of all experience levels, clergy, and spiritual leaders who are ready to live and lead from a more grounded place. Kohenet Keshira haLev Fife is part of IJS's core faculty, and the wisdom you'll hear in this series is very much in that spirit. If this podcast is stirring something in you, IJS is a place to go further. Explore their programs, and more ways to learn and practice with Keshira, at jewishspirituality.org, including: View the latest offerings from IJS in our program catalog Join Keshira and others on retreat this August: Returning Anew Learn more about Keshira's latest class at IJS on Mindful Speech as a Spiritual Practice Learn more about Shevet, IJS's community for younger adults (20s-30s) IJS has several online free practices with Keshira and our other faculty including our live Daily Sit, our weekly Shevet Sit for younger adults (under 40), and monthly Affinity Sits for Jews of Color, LGBTQ+, and individuals with disabilities. Click here for more information. Join our mailing list to be notified about our upcoming fall courses, including Keshira's Earth, Moon, Mindfulness year-long class.

Rest to Return is a podcast for a restless world. Kohenet Keshira haLev Fife is your host. This series is rooted in Shabbat, an ancient Jewish practice that teaches us how to belong to time. Here, rest is a sacred rhythm woven into who we are. We continue by gathering around a single question: What is sacred time? The names victims of the shooting at the Tree of Life building, whose memories are always close to my heart are: Joyce Fienberg, Richard Gottfried, Rose Mallinger, Dr. Jerry Rabinowitz, Cecil Rosenthal, David Rosenthal, Bernice Simon, Sylvan Simon, Daniel Stein, Melvin Wax and Irving Younger. May their memories be for a blessing always. Mishenichnas Adar marbim b'simcha comes from the Talmud (Ta'anit 29a:18). I first learned about the cycles of the moon from Jane Hardwicke Collings at the School of Shamanic Womancraft. This quote comes from Ahad Ha'am (Asher Ginsburg)'s Yalkut Katan (meaning “Small Collection”) which was published in the journal Hashiloaḥ, in 1898. Lex Rofeberg is co-founder of Judaism Unbound! This quote is found in Courtney Carver's book Gentle: Rest More, Stress Less, and Live the Life You Actually Want; she is quoting writer and psychologist Nicola Jane Hobbs who originally asked the question. The concept of the shmitta cycle originates in Exodus 23:10-11, Leviticus 25:2-7, and Deuteronomy 15:1-3. God breathing life into Adam's nostrils comes from Genesis 2:7. Enjoy the live version of Lay it Down, Let it Go here. Check out the Rest to Return webpage for photos, info about the Rest to Return retreat, and more! If Rest to Return has evoked something in you, if these episodes have helped you slow down, breathe a little deeper, or reconnect with what matters most, you might be interested in Rest to Return: A High Holiday Deceleration Retreat, which I'll be co-hosting this September. Nestled amidst New England beauty, 25 Jewish leaders - some Jewish professionals, some people who are Jewish and leaders - will gather for a retreat centered around rest as a form of teshuvah, returning to ourselves. Through creativity, reflection, and connection, we'll immerse in slowness and spaciousness as a way to prepare ourselves for 5787. If you're a Jewish leader and you've been longing for something like this, check out www.keshirahalev.com/sacredpause to learn more and express interest before July 10. This episode is brought to you by the Institute for Jewish Spirituality. Rest to Return exists because we believe slowing down is a spiritual act. IJS believes that too. For over two decades, IJS has been helping people go deeper, through Jewish mindfulness meditation, contemplative prayer, sacred text study, and embodied practice. Their offerings range from online courses and silent retreats to immersive cohort programs for seekers of all experience levels, clergy, and spiritual leaders who are ready to live and lead from a more grounded place. Kohenet Keshira haLev Fife is part of IJS's core faculty, and the wisdom you'll hear in this series is very much in that spirit. If this podcast is stirring something in you, IJS is a place to go further. Explore their programs, and more ways to learn and practice with Keshira, at jewishspirituality.org, including: View the latest offerings from IJS in our program catalog Join Keshira and others on retreat this August: Returning Anew Learn more about Shevet, IJS's community for younger adults (20s-30s) IJS has several online free practices with Keshira and our other faculty including our live Daily Sit, our weekly Shevet Sit for younger adults (under 40), and monthly Affinity Sits for Jews of Color, LGBTQ+, and individuals with disabilities. Click here for more information. Join our mailing list to be notified about our upcoming fall courses, including Keshira's Earth, Moon, Mindfulness year-long class.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4067: Courtney Carver explains that there is no single perfect method for simplifying your life, the best approach is the one that fits your personality, habits, and circumstances. She shares ten practical ways to build momentum, from creating a clutter-free sanctuary and decluttering your mornings to unplugging from information overload and letting go of sentimental items with intention, helping you make progress with less struggle and more ease. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/declutter-your-life/ Quotes to ponder: "The best way is the way that works best for you because we each learn differently, approach change in our own way, and have unique methods to our madness." "Once you limit the amount of information and streamline when and where it's coming from, schedule blocks of information-free time. A few hours a day, a full day a week to unplug gives your mind chance to recover and reset." "You'll feel less scattered and more focused all day long when you give yourself time first." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4067: Courtney Carver explains that there is no single perfect method for simplifying your life, the best approach is the one that fits your personality, habits, and circumstances. She shares ten practical ways to build momentum, from creating a clutter-free sanctuary and decluttering your mornings to unplugging from information overload and letting go of sentimental items with intention, helping you make progress with less struggle and more ease. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/declutter-your-life/ Quotes to ponder: "The best way is the way that works best for you because we each learn differently, approach change in our own way, and have unique methods to our madness." "Once you limit the amount of information and streamline when and where it's coming from, schedule blocks of information-free time. A few hours a day, a full day a week to unplug gives your mind chance to recover and reset." "You'll feel less scattered and more focused all day long when you give yourself time first." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4067: Courtney Carver explains that there is no single perfect method for simplifying your life, the best approach is the one that fits your personality, habits, and circumstances. She shares ten practical ways to build momentum, from creating a clutter-free sanctuary and decluttering your mornings to unplugging from information overload and letting go of sentimental items with intention, helping you make progress with less struggle and more ease. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/declutter-your-life/ Quotes to ponder: "The best way is the way that works best for you because we each learn differently, approach change in our own way, and have unique methods to our madness." "Once you limit the amount of information and streamline when and where it's coming from, schedule blocks of information-free time. A few hours a day, a full day a week to unplug gives your mind chance to recover and reset." "You'll feel less scattered and more focused all day long when you give yourself time first." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3437: Courtney Carver explores five everyday habits that quietly increase stress, from staying constantly busy to overexplaining your decisions. By replacing these patterns with healthier boundaries and simpler routines, she shows how creating more space and intention can lead to greater calm, energy, and peace of mind. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/daily-habits/ Quotes to ponder: "Always being busy has become an admirable way for people to avoid themselves." "Doomscrolling is when a person actively seeks out saddening or negative material to read or scroll through on social media or news media outlets. The idea behind doomscrolling is attempting to get access to all the information you need to keep yourself protected from what's dangerous around you." "The only people upset about you setting boundaries are the ones who benefited from you having none." Episode references: Sara Kuburic: https://www.sarakuburic.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3437: Courtney Carver explores five everyday habits that quietly increase stress, from staying constantly busy to overexplaining your decisions. By replacing these patterns with healthier boundaries and simpler routines, she shows how creating more space and intention can lead to greater calm, energy, and peace of mind. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/daily-habits/ Quotes to ponder: "Always being busy has become an admirable way for people to avoid themselves." "Doomscrolling is when a person actively seeks out saddening or negative material to read or scroll through on social media or news media outlets. The idea behind doomscrolling is attempting to get access to all the information you need to keep yourself protected from what's dangerous around you." "The only people upset about you setting boundaries are the ones who benefited from you having none." Episode references: Sara Kuburic: https://www.sarakuburic.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Rest to Return, a podcast for a restless world. Kohenet Keshira haLev Fife is your host. This series is rooted in Shabbat, an ancient Jewish practice that teaches us how to belong to time. Here, rest is a sacred rhythm woven into who we are. We continue by gathering around a single question: What is my sacred purpose? You can find more info about Tzedek Lab here. Settled back into his room, my dad was a bit frail…but he could still kiss us and us that he loved us! The list of 39 melachot can be found here. Olam haBah is often translated as “the world to come” and is used in reference to the afterlife. In this context, I'm using it to describe “the world as it could be” which includes dignity, equity, and liberation. The idea that each person is a letter in the Torah is rooted in Megaleh Amukot (Va'etchanan 186:1). I learned about the concept of “ratzon” from my teacher, colleague, and friend David Jaffe, Founder and Executive Director of Kirva. Rabbi Tarfon's quote comes from Pirkei Avot 2:16. One source for Rabbi Simcha Bunim's teaching is Tales of The Hasidim Later Masters by Martin Buber. The Mary Oliver line comes from her poem, entitled “The Summer Day”. This quote has been misattributed to Courtney Carver. It is instead referenced by Carver in her book, Gentle: Rest More, Stress Less and Live the Life You Actually You Want. The quotation itself comes from Psychologist Nicola Jane Hobbs who teaches, “Instead of asking, 'Have I worked hard enough to deserve rest?' ask, 'Have I rested enough to do my most loving, meaningful work?'"” The practice in this episode was inspired by a practice that I learned from Rabbi David Jaffe, Founder of Kirva, and it is one that I've enjoyed practicing with each Cohort of “Dismantling Racism from the Inside Out” that I have the privilege of co-facilitating for People of Colour, alongside Yehudah Webster. The next cohort begins in Fall 2026 and you can find more info here. This episode is brought to you by the Institute for Jewish Spirituality. Rest to Return exists because we believe slowing down is a spiritual act. IJS believes that too. For over two decades, IJS has been helping people go deeper, through Jewish mindfulness meditation, contemplative prayer, sacred text study, and embodied practice. Their offerings range from online courses and silent retreats to immersive cohort programs for seekers of all experience levels, clergy, and spiritual leaders who are ready to live and lead from a more grounded place. Kohenet Keshira haLev Fife is part of IJS's core faculty, and the wisdom you'll hear in this series is very much in that spirit. If this podcast is stirring something in you, IJS is a place to go further. Explore their programs, and more ways to learn and practice with Keshira, at jewishspirituality.org, including: View the latest offerings from IJS in our program catalog Join Keshira on retreat this August: Returning Anew Learn more about Keshira's latest class at IJS on Mindful Speech as a Spiritual Practice Learn more about Shevet, IJS's community for younger adults (20s-30s) IJS has several online free practices with Keshira and our other faculty including our live Daily Sit, our weekly Shevet Sit for younger adults (under 40), and monthly Affinity Sits for Jews of Color, LGBTQ+, and individuals with disabilities. Click here for more information. Join our mailing list to be notified about our upcoming fall courses, including Keshira's Earth, Moon, Mindfulness year-long class.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2980: Courtney Carver shares a deeply personal love story that moves beyond romance into resilience, showing how true partnership is built through adversity, intention, and growth. Her reflections reveal that lasting marriage depends on simplicity, selflessness, and daily effort, not just love. It's a heartfelt reminder that the strongest relationships are consciously nurtured, even in life's most uncertain moments. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/lessons-from-love-and-marriage/ Quotes to ponder: "Love is not enough. Take it from an expert, it is easy to be in love, but it is not enough to sustain a long term relationship." "Being right is not important. Seriously, in most cases who cares who was right?" "Less stuff means more genuine connection." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3979: Courtney Carver explores the emotional weight behind sentimental clutter and how holding onto objects can tie us to fear of losing the past or missing future joy. She shares compassionate strategies to release these items gradually, helping you shift your attachment from things to the meaningful moments they represent. Letting go creates space to fully appreciate the present and welcome new memories with ease. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/victorylap/ Quotes to ponder: "If you are struggling to let go of sentimental items, you are not alone." "As you share the stories, you'll notice that the item isn't what your heart is holding on to. Your heart doesn't want to hold on to stuff. All it wants is love." "Letting go of the sentimental items, my hold on the past, and fear of the future allowed me to find magic in the present." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3979: Courtney Carver explores the emotional weight behind sentimental clutter and how holding onto objects can tie us to fear of losing the past or missing future joy. She shares compassionate strategies to release these items gradually, helping you shift your attachment from things to the meaningful moments they represent. Letting go creates space to fully appreciate the present and welcome new memories with ease. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/victorylap/ Quotes to ponder: "If you are struggling to let go of sentimental items, you are not alone." "As you share the stories, you'll notice that the item isn't what your heart is holding on to. Your heart doesn't want to hold on to stuff. All it wants is love." "Letting go of the sentimental items, my hold on the past, and fear of the future allowed me to find magic in the present." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3979: Courtney Carver explores the emotional weight behind sentimental clutter and how holding onto objects can tie us to fear of losing the past or missing future joy. She shares compassionate strategies to release these items gradually, helping you shift your attachment from things to the meaningful moments they represent. Letting go creates space to fully appreciate the present and welcome new memories with ease. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/victorylap/ Quotes to ponder: "If you are struggling to let go of sentimental items, you are not alone." "As you share the stories, you'll notice that the item isn't what your heart is holding on to. Your heart doesn't want to hold on to stuff. All it wants is love." "Letting go of the sentimental items, my hold on the past, and fear of the future allowed me to find magic in the present." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3933: Courtney Carver explores the space between feeling inspired and actually taking action, revealing how easily distractions and self-doubt can trap us in the “inspiration gap.” She shares gentle, practical ways to close that gap, by taking one tiny step the moment inspiration strikes. Listen to discover how small, consistent actions can transform fleeting motivation into meaningful, lasting change. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/inspiration-gap/ Quotes to ponder: "One tiny step is all it takes." "Big change comes from hundreds of tiny steps and they all matter." "Sometimes we have to be inspired by the same idea for years before it sticks." Episode references: Your Money or Your Life: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Money-Life-Transforming-Relationship/dp/0143115766 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3933: Courtney Carver explores the space between feeling inspired and actually taking action, revealing how easily distractions and self-doubt can trap us in the “inspiration gap.” She shares gentle, practical ways to close that gap, by taking one tiny step the moment inspiration strikes. Listen to discover how small, consistent actions can transform fleeting motivation into meaningful, lasting change. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/inspiration-gap/ Quotes to ponder: "One tiny step is all it takes." "Big change comes from hundreds of tiny steps and they all matter." "Sometimes we have to be inspired by the same idea for years before it sticks." Episode references: Your Money or Your Life: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Money-Life-Transforming-Relationship/dp/0143115766 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3933: Courtney Carver explores the space between feeling inspired and actually taking action, revealing how easily distractions and self-doubt can trap us in the “inspiration gap.” She shares gentle, practical ways to close that gap, by taking one tiny step the moment inspiration strikes. Listen to discover how small, consistent actions can transform fleeting motivation into meaningful, lasting change. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/inspiration-gap/ Quotes to ponder: "One tiny step is all it takes." "Big change comes from hundreds of tiny steps and they all matter." "Sometimes we have to be inspired by the same idea for years before it sticks." Episode references: Your Money or Your Life: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Money-Life-Transforming-Relationship/dp/0143115766 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2898: Courtney Carver shows how emotional healing begins by creating space in your heart, clearing out pain, guilt, and cluttered thoughts to make room for joy, connection, and purpose. Through gentle yet powerful steps like speaking your truth, slowing down, and letting go, she offers a path to a more meaningful, present, and love-filled life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/heartspace/ Quotes to ponder: "While your bookshelves and countertops have a finite amount of space, the capacity for space in your heart is limitless." "Busyness might mask that heavy heart, but the only way to repair the damage is to slow down, pause and then come to a full stop and address your heart ache." "You deserve a big, full, open heart. A heart full of joy, wonder, love and gratitude." Episode references: Thrive: https://www.amazon.com/Thrive-Arianna-Huffington/dp/0804140847 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2898: Courtney Carver shows how emotional healing begins by creating space in your heart, clearing out pain, guilt, and cluttered thoughts to make room for joy, connection, and purpose. Through gentle yet powerful steps like speaking your truth, slowing down, and letting go, she offers a path to a more meaningful, present, and love-filled life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/heartspace/ Quotes to ponder: "While your bookshelves and countertops have a finite amount of space, the capacity for space in your heart is limitless." "Busyness might mask that heavy heart, but the only way to repair the damage is to slow down, pause and then come to a full stop and address your heart ache." "You deserve a big, full, open heart. A heart full of joy, wonder, love and gratitude." Episode references: Thrive: https://www.amazon.com/Thrive-Arianna-Huffington/dp/0804140847

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3895: Courtney Carver shares ten thoughtful strategies to help you say no with clarity and confidence, freeing up time and energy for what truly matters to you. Her compassionate guidance empowers you to protect your well-being, set boundaries without guilt, and reclaim joy through intentional choices. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/no/ Quotes to ponder: "No thank you. I appreciate you thinking of me, but I have another commitment." "Feel joy that you have a choice, and joy because you are protecting what matters most." "Saying yes to less is the way out." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3895: Courtney Carver shares ten thoughtful strategies to help you say no with clarity and confidence, freeing up time and energy for what truly matters to you. Her compassionate guidance empowers you to protect your well-being, set boundaries without guilt, and reclaim joy through intentional choices. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/no/ Quotes to ponder: "No thank you. I appreciate you thinking of me, but I have another commitment." "Feel joy that you have a choice, and joy because you are protecting what matters most." "Saying yes to less is the way out." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3895: Courtney Carver shares ten thoughtful strategies to help you say no with clarity and confidence, freeing up time and energy for what truly matters to you. Her compassionate guidance empowers you to protect your well-being, set boundaries without guilt, and reclaim joy through intentional choices. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/no/ Quotes to ponder: "No thank you. I appreciate you thinking of me, but I have another commitment." "Feel joy that you have a choice, and joy because you are protecting what matters most." "Saying yes to less is the way out." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3843: Courtney Carver shares practical solutions to the most common struggles people face when starting a capsule wardrobe, from perfectionism to body changes to weather challenges. Her compassionate advice helps you embrace simplicity, let go of limiting beliefs, and find clarity in your closet without sacrificing personal style. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/solution/ Quotes to ponder: "Starting something new makes starting the next thing even easier." "You need time away from choosing so you can discover what you really want." "Less perfection equals more happiness, more risk-taking, and better relationships." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3843: Courtney Carver shares practical solutions to the most common struggles people face when starting a capsule wardrobe, from perfectionism to body changes to weather challenges. Her compassionate advice helps you embrace simplicity, let go of limiting beliefs, and find clarity in your closet without sacrificing personal style. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/solution/ Quotes to ponder: "Starting something new makes starting the next thing even easier." "You need time away from choosing so you can discover what you really want." "Less perfection equals more happiness, more risk-taking, and better relationships." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3843: Courtney Carver shares practical solutions to the most common struggles people face when starting a capsule wardrobe, from perfectionism to body changes to weather challenges. Her compassionate advice helps you embrace simplicity, let go of limiting beliefs, and find clarity in your closet without sacrificing personal style. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/solution/ Quotes to ponder: "Starting something new makes starting the next thing even easier." "You need time away from choosing so you can discover what you really want." "Less perfection equals more happiness, more risk-taking, and better relationships." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks.In this episode of the Make Time for Success podcast, host Dr. Christine Li welcomes simplicity and self-care expert Courtney Carver to discuss her newest book, Gentle: Rest More, Stress Less, and Live the Life You Actually Want. Together, they explore the transformative power of rest, strategies for reducing overwhelm, and the art of caring less about the non-essential. Courtney Carver is the founder and creator of bemorewithless.com and The Simplicity Space, a membership community supporting and celebrating people as they simplify their lives. She is the best-selling author of Soulful Simplicity:, How Living with Less Can Lead to So Much More and Project 333. Her new book, Gentle, Rest More, Stress Less and Live the Life You Actually Want came out earlier this year. Timestamps:00:00:01 - 00:01:51Introduction & Courtney Carver's book "Gentle"00:03:55 - 00:06:07Why rest is essential00:13:16 - 00:14:56Courtney Carver's journey to simplicity00:22:04 - 00:24:28Under-reacting for self-care00:27:27 - 00:29:17Simplicity Space community00:31:02 - 00:31:25Free guide info

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3811: Courtney Carver offers a gentle yet powerful invitation to redefine how we approach the holidays by letting go of obligations, perfectionism, and pressure. Her practical advice helps listeners create a more meaningful, calm, and joyful season by focusing on what truly matters. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/holiday-overwhelm/ Quotes to ponder: "Peace of mind, presence, and genuine connection make the season bright." "You don't have to buy presents to show people you love them." "Simplifying is not about sacrifice, it's about creating space for what matters most." Episode references: Soulful Simplicity (book): https://www.amazon.com/Soulful-Simplicity-How-Greatest-Things/dp/0143130684 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3811: Courtney Carver offers a gentle yet powerful invitation to redefine how we approach the holidays by letting go of obligations, perfectionism, and pressure. Her practical advice helps listeners create a more meaningful, calm, and joyful season by focusing on what truly matters. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/holiday-overwhelm/ Quotes to ponder: "Peace of mind, presence, and genuine connection make the season bright." "You don't have to buy presents to show people you love them." "Simplifying is not about sacrifice, it's about creating space for what matters most." Episode references: Soulful Simplicity (book): https://www.amazon.com/Soulful-Simplicity-How-Greatest-Things/dp/0143130684 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3811: Courtney Carver offers a gentle yet powerful invitation to redefine how we approach the holidays by letting go of obligations, perfectionism, and pressure. Her practical advice helps listeners create a more meaningful, calm, and joyful season by focusing on what truly matters. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/holiday-overwhelm/ Quotes to ponder: "Peace of mind, presence, and genuine connection make the season bright." "You don't have to buy presents to show people you love them." "Simplifying is not about sacrifice, it's about creating space for what matters most." Episode references: Soulful Simplicity (book): https://www.amazon.com/Soulful-Simplicity-How-Greatest-Things/dp/0143130684 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3784: Courtney Carver invites us to reclaim our time and peace by becoming "gentle warriors," intentionally rejecting the glorification of busyness in favor of presence, gratitude, and calm. Through simple shifts like silencing notifications, asking better questions, and embracing solitude, she shows how we can trade overwhelm for a more meaningful and spacious life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/manifesto/ Quotes to ponder: "I will work with people who want my best, not my busiest." "Ban the word 'busy' and see what it feels like to talk about your life differently." "The opposite of a busy life isn't a lazy life, it's a full life." Episode references: Digital Detox (National Day of Unplugging): https://www.nationaldayofunplugging.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3784: Courtney Carver invites us to reclaim our time and peace by becoming "gentle warriors," intentionally rejecting the glorification of busyness in favor of presence, gratitude, and calm. Through simple shifts like silencing notifications, asking better questions, and embracing solitude, she shows how we can trade overwhelm for a more meaningful and spacious life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/manifesto/ Quotes to ponder: "I will work with people who want my best, not my busiest." "Ban the word 'busy' and see what it feels like to talk about your life differently." "The opposite of a busy life isn't a lazy life, it's a full life." Episode references: Digital Detox (National Day of Unplugging): https://www.nationaldayofunplugging.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3784: Courtney Carver invites us to reclaim our time and peace by becoming "gentle warriors," intentionally rejecting the glorification of busyness in favor of presence, gratitude, and calm. Through simple shifts like silencing notifications, asking better questions, and embracing solitude, she shows how we can trade overwhelm for a more meaningful and spacious life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/manifesto/ Quotes to ponder: "I will work with people who want my best, not my busiest." "Ban the word 'busy' and see what it feels like to talk about your life differently." "The opposite of a busy life isn't a lazy life, it's a full life." Episode references: Digital Detox (National Day of Unplugging): https://www.nationaldayofunplugging.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3783: Courtney Carver invites us to quietly rebel against the chaos of modern life by becoming “gentle warriors” who prioritize presence, health, and heartfelt decisions over constant productivity. Her powerful reflections offer a compassionate roadmap for reclaiming time, energy, and connection in a world obsessed with doing more. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/manifesto/ Quotes to ponder: "Asking for help is a sign of strength. Asking for help builds relationships." "If you can draw the line with your heart, you can take a stand with a smile." "Your no doesn't need a lengthy explanation or apology." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3783: Courtney Carver invites us to quietly rebel against the chaos of modern life by becoming “gentle warriors” who prioritize presence, health, and heartfelt decisions over constant productivity. Her powerful reflections offer a compassionate roadmap for reclaiming time, energy, and connection in a world obsessed with doing more. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/manifesto/ Quotes to ponder: "Asking for help is a sign of strength. Asking for help builds relationships." "If you can draw the line with your heart, you can take a stand with a smile." "Your no doesn't need a lengthy explanation or apology." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3783: Courtney Carver invites us to quietly rebel against the chaos of modern life by becoming “gentle warriors” who prioritize presence, health, and heartfelt decisions over constant productivity. Her powerful reflections offer a compassionate roadmap for reclaiming time, energy, and connection in a world obsessed with doing more. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/manifesto/ Quotes to ponder: "Asking for help is a sign of strength. Asking for help builds relationships." "If you can draw the line with your heart, you can take a stand with a smile." "Your no doesn't need a lengthy explanation or apology." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're taking out the mental garbage — the “you're not enough / you're too much / who the hell do you think you are?” soundtrack — and swapping it for inner wisdom that actually serves us. Our guest, Megan Dalla-Camina, bestselling author and founder of Women Rising, breaks down 13 inner-critic archetypes and gives us a simple 3-step system to catch the story, question it, and reframe it so we can move — with clarity — toward what we actually want. She's the author of books including Simple Soulful Sacred, which brings leadership and spirituality together to offer practical, soulful pathways to help women rise into their power and awaken their inner wisdom. We also dig into how patriarchy scripts so many of these voices, why “taming” beats “silencing,” and what it looks like to let your critic ride in the car… but never drive. We Cover Why naming your inner-critic archetype gives you leverage (language = power) The light side and shadow side of traits like perfectionism (at what cost?) The 3-step loop: Catch the story → “Is it true?” → Reframe How stress and burnout reactivate old patterns — and how to get back to wise self-leadership Moving from external validation to inner wisdom (aka you're the decider) Bottom line: you may not silence your head trash forever, but you can change the relationship, reclaim your power, and let your inner wisdom lead the way. Connect with Megan: Website: megandallacamina.com Inner Critic Quiz (free): megandallacamina.com/innercriticquiz Book: https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Soulful-Sacred-Megan-Dalla-Camina/dp/1401965873?utm_source=chatgpt.com LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/megandallacamina/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/megandallacamina/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/megandallacamina/ Related Podcast Episodes: How To Rewire Patterns That No Longer Serve You with Judy Wilkins-Smith | 323 Gentleness: Cultivating Compassion for Yourself and Others with Courtney Carver | 282 VI4P - Head Trash and Giving Grace on the Journey (Chapter 7) Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform!

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3741: Courtney Carver shares practical advice for building a capsule wardrobe that suits your lifestyle, reduces decision fatigue, and makes room for your favorite pieces. By setting your own rules, letting go of fear, and focusing on what really matters, you create more time, space, and joy in your daily life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/caspule-wardrobe Quotes to ponder: "Having it all doesn't require owning it all." "Ignore the trends, the advertising, and everyone who looks like you think you should look, and be happy in your clothes." "Once you've created your capsule wardrobe, you won't need extra time to get ready in the morning, and you won't be spending time shopping online, or in dressing rooms." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3741: Courtney Carver shares practical advice for building a capsule wardrobe that suits your lifestyle, reduces decision fatigue, and makes room for your favorite pieces. By setting your own rules, letting go of fear, and focusing on what really matters, you create more time, space, and joy in your daily life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/caspule-wardrobe Quotes to ponder: "Having it all doesn't require owning it all." "Ignore the trends, the advertising, and everyone who looks like you think you should look, and be happy in your clothes." "Once you've created your capsule wardrobe, you won't need extra time to get ready in the morning, and you won't be spending time shopping online, or in dressing rooms." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3666: Courtney Carver shares a timeless parable that reveals how true happiness comes from balancing life's responsibilities with the beauty and wonder that surrounds us. Through simplicity and intentional living, she encourages us to clear the clutter, both physical and mental, to make space for joy right now, rather than waiting for the “perfect” moment. This is an inspiring reminder to focus on what matters most while fully embracing the present. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/the-secret-to-happiness Quotes to ponder: "The secret of happiness is to see all the marvels of the world, and never to forget the drops of oil on the spoon." "Imagine dumping everything in your life that is meaningless. Everything that you don't do for love. What would be leftover?" "I can tell you with great conviction that it's time to be happy right now." Episode references: The Alchemist: https://www.amazon.com/Alchemist-Paulo-Coelho/dp/0061122416 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

 Are you addicted to “more” and missing your life? I brought Courtney Carver on not just for you, but for me too. Because if you're like me—a climber, a high achiever—you probably feel that slowing down means you're falling behind. But what if I told you that you're not broken, and you don't need “more” to be enough? In this conversation, Courtney and I get honest about what it really means to rest first, to stop chasing a finish line you can't even define, and to start living here instead of waiting for “there.”  We talk about the moments when your body starts rejecting your pace, your aggression, and your addiction to constant movement. I share what it felt like to sit by the ocean yet never look at it because I was glued to my phone, and how leaving that phone inside during a cigar break changed everything for me. Courtney shares the small, practical shifts that allowed her to simplify her life without blowing it up—and why rest isn't just sleep, but the small choices that allow you to reclaim your energy without guilt.  We also get into why so many of us—especially achievers—avoid slowing down, and how we attach our identity to “more.” Courtney's take? You're not broken, you just need to redefine what enough looks like for you. We also talk about the hidden cost of constant advice-giving and how letting go of regret can unlock the energy you're leaking into the past so you can move forward with more clarity and peace. Why rest should come first—not last—and how this fuels better performance. How to take small, practical steps to simplify without losing your edge. Why your addiction to “more” might be stealing your peace and focus. How leaving your phone behind, even for an hour, can transform your presence. Letting go of regret so you can move forward without dragging the past with you.   Listen, I know you're busy. I know you've got goals. I do too. But what if you could climb without burning out? What if you could actually enjoy the life you're working so hard to build?Key Takeaways:It's time to stop living for a “someday” that never comes. This conversation will help you create space to enjoy the life you're fighting for. Share this with someone who needs it—and as always, MAX OUT.  

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3006: Courtney Carver reveals a transformative secret to boosting productivity: slowing down. By embracing a deliberate pace, you can minimize distractions, heighten focus, and create space for what truly matters. Carver's insights help listeners shift away from the frantic pursuit of doing more and toward a more mindful, impactful way of working. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/productivitysecret/ Quotes to ponder: "Productivity doesn't have to be about doing more, it can be about doing less,  better." "Slowing down creates the space to notice what really deserves your attention." "When you are busy rushing around, you miss the little things that make life sweeter." Episode references: Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport: https://www.calnewport.com/books/digital-minimalism/ Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less: https://gregmckeown.com/books/essentialism Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you're exhausted from trying to do it all — keeping the house clean, showing up for everyone, working, and staying “on” — you're not alone. Maybe you're craving peace, space, or just one quiet moment to breathe… but you don't know where to start. In this episode, I sit down with the incredibly inspiring Courtney Carver — bestselling author of Soulful Simplicity and Gentle — who completely transformed her life after a diagnosis of MS forced her to slow down, simplify, and let go of what wasn't serving her. We dive into what it really means to declutter—not just your home, but your calendar, your mind, your expectations, and your heart. Courtney shares how she found more health, creativity, love, and presence by doing LESS… and how you can too. If you've ever felt like you're drowning in commitments, noise, or stuff—and you just want to feel like yourself again—this episode is for you. ✨ We chat about: How to simplify when you're completely overwhelmed Why your self-worth is not measured by how much you do Creating boundaries with your time, energy, and emotions The power of starting small — and starting gently The life-changing magic of Project 333 Simple, soulful shifts that will help you breathe again

In this episode, Courtney Carver, author of Rest More, Stress Less: How to Live the Life You Actually Want, shares her transformative approach to prioritizing rest and reducing stress. Courtney, a simplicity and decluttering expert, discusses how rest is not just a reward but a necessity for productivity, creativity, and overall well-being. In this conversation, we explore: • The Importance of Rest: Courtney explains why rest should be prioritized, not as a reward, but as an essential part of life and work. She discusses how our productivity and creativity improve when we take time to rest. • The Three Seasons of Gentle: We dive into the book's three-part structure: Rest, Less, and Rise. Courtney explains why rest is the foundation that allows us to simplify our lives, reduce stress, and ultimately rise into the life we truly want. • Breaking Free from the Busyness Trap: Courtney reveals how our society's overemphasis on constant productivity can lead to burnout, and how intentionally doing less can lead to more meaningful results. • The Power of Decluttering: We discuss how simplifying our physical environment by letting go of excess stuff can ease mental clutter and reduce decision fatigue, making space for more peace and joy. • Energy Management and Chronic Illness: Courtney shares her personal experience managing multiple sclerosis and how counting “spoons”—a way to measure limited energy—can help in making mindful choices about how we use our time and energy. Courtney's approach to living with less, embracing rest, and prioritizing what truly matters offers practical solutions for anyone feeling overwhelmed or burnt out. Her insights provide a roadmap for living a life with more meaning, purpose, and peace. Learn more about Courtney and her work at bemorewithless.com, and find Rest More, Stress Less wherever books are sold. Connect with Erik: LinkedIn  Facebook  Bluesky This Podcast is Powered By: Descript Descript 101 Castmagic Ecamm Podpage Rodecaster Pro Top Productivity Books List Make sure to support the show by checking out the sponsors! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Courtney Carver, author of Rest More, Stress Less: How to Live the Life You Actually Want, shares her transformative approach to prioritizing rest and reducing stress. Courtney, a simplicity and decluttering expert, discusses how rest is not just a reward but a necessity for productivity, creativity, and overall well-being. In this conversation, we explore: • The Importance of Rest: Courtney explains why rest should be prioritized, not as a reward, but as an essential part of life and work. She discusses how our productivity and creativity improve when we take time to rest. • The Three Seasons of Gentle: We dive into the book's three-part structure: Rest, Less, and Rise. Courtney explains why rest is the foundation that allows us to simplify our lives, reduce stress, and ultimately rise into the life we truly want. • Breaking Free from the Busyness Trap: Courtney reveals how our society's overemphasis on constant productivity can lead to burnout, and how intentionally doing less can lead to more meaningful results. • The Power of Decluttering: We discuss how simplifying our physical environment by letting go of excess stuff can ease mental clutter and reduce decision fatigue, making space for more peace and joy. • Energy Management and Chronic Illness: Courtney shares her personal experience managing multiple sclerosis and how counting “spoons”—a way to measure limited energy—can help in making mindful choices about how we use our time and energy. Courtney's approach to living with less, embracing rest, and prioritizing what truly matters offers practical solutions for anyone feeling overwhelmed or burnt out. Her insights provide a roadmap for living a life with more meaning, purpose, and peace. Learn more about Courtney and her work at bemorewithless.com, and find Rest More, Stress Less wherever books are sold. Connect with Erik: LinkedIn  Facebook  Bluesky This Podcast is Powered By: Descript Descript 101 Castmagic Ecamm Podpage Rodecaster Pro Top Productivity Books List Make sure to support the show by checking out the sponsors! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3501: Courtney Carver shares ten guiding principles to help cultivate strength in uncertain times, prioritizing self-care, protecting mornings, embracing kindness, and taking meaningful action. By keeping things simple, removing drama, and finding moments of joy, we can move forward with courage and grace. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/navigate/ Quotes to ponder: "I can stand up for what I believe in without being snarky on social media. I can make a difference without engaging in contentious conversations." "Keeping things simple isn't always the easy choice, but practice anyway. Be strong for the things you can't control, by simplifying the things you can." "Action alleviates fear and worry. See what happens when instead of getting lost in the oh-nos and what-ifs, you take action to support what matters to you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For the second episode in their five-part Household Clutter series, The Minimalists are joined by Courtney Carver to talk about decluttering the excess clothes, shoes, and accessories in our closets. Discussed in this episode: I'm great at decluttering, but why can't I stop buying new clothes? (2:28) Why do you own so many clothes? (15:27) Listener tip: How to achieve variety and novelty with clothing. (41:51) Listen to the full Maximal episode on Patreon: patreon.com/theminimalists Detailed show notes: minimalists.com/podcast Recorded at Earthing Studios.