Podcasts about bfrb

Welcome to the Personal Development Trailblazers Podcast! In today's episode, we're diving deep into something that hits close to home for so many of us—those unwanted behaviors we keep repeating, even when we're desperate to stop.Laura Hope is a Behavior Transformation Coach who helps people break free from unwanted habits and reclaim their confidence. At Hope and Healing Coach, she combines her years of clinical experience with deep empathy to guide clients toward lasting change, specializing in body-focused repetitive behaviors (BFRBs) such as hair pulling or skin picking as well as other frustrating behaviors such as stress eating or impulse spending. When she's not empowering clients to embrace radical self-acceptance, you'll find her advocating for BFRB awareness, tending to her ever-growing plant collection, or spending time with her two sons and husband. Connect with Laura Here: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopeandhealingcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopeandhealingcoach/Website: https://hopeandhealingcoach.com/Grab the freebie here: Try This Instead: Regulation Strategies to Overcome Unwanted Behaviors: https://hopeandhealingcoach.kit.com/335ecb9780===================================If you enjoyed this episode, remember to hit the like button and subscribe. Then share this episode with your friends.Thanks for watching the Personal Development Trailblazers Podcast. This podcast is part of the Digital Trailblazer family of podcasts. To learn more about Digital Trailblazer and what we do to help entrepreneurs, go to DigitalTrailblazer.com.Are you a coach, consultant, expert, or online course creator? Then we'd love to invite you to our FREE Facebook Group where you can learn the best strategies to land more high-ticket clients and customers. QUICK LINKS: APPLY TO BE FEATURED: https://app.digitaltrailblazer.com/podcast-guest-applicationDIGITAL TRAILBLAZER: https://digitaltrailblazer.com/

Leah Terry @Leelee_5678 has had trichotillomania since she was around five years old. Through her experience she has realized that community means everything. She is an advocate for BFRB awareness as well as eating disorders. Leah considers herself a proud member of the non-profit, BFRB Changemakers @bfrbchangemakers.Stay tuned for Leah's second appearance on Trich Talks!— This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off sitewide! Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Begin your journey to self-acceptance with trichotillomania by enrolling in my course, Sharing Our Stories. Sharing Our Stories does a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

In today's double episode drop on Trich Talks, Barbara is answering your BFRB questions! From personal experiences to practical advice, she's diving into the topics that matter most to you, the listeners!Have a question you didn't hear answered? Don't fret! Send Barbara a message and also be on the lookout for her prompt on her Instagram story!— This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off sitewide! Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Begin your journey to self-acceptance with trichotillomania by enrolling in my course, Sharing Our Stories. Sharing Our Stories does a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

Holly @hollylynnj is 35 years young and has been living with trichotillomania since she was 16 but that isn't her only BFRB—she also lives with dermatillomania and has since puberty. Holly currently lives in Tampa, Florida with her boyfriend of almost 10 years, she's a cat mom to 2 fur babies, and is a goal oriented go getter who is ready to speak her truth about living with BFRBs.— This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off sitewide! Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Begin your journey to self-acceptance with trichotillomania by enrolling in my course, Sharing Our Stories. Sharing Our Stories does a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

In this inspiring episode, Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale and Cali Werner sit down with Aneela Idnani Kumar, a TED Talk speaker, entrepreneur, and advocate for individuals living with body-focused repetitive behaviors (BFRBs) such as trichotillomania (hair pulling). Aneela shares her personal journey from silent suffering to creating HabitAware, a smart bracelet that helps users bring awareness to their BFRBs and make meaningful changes. This episode dives into mental health innovation, stigma reduction, and how to transform pain into purpose.Key Points:[0:00] - Introduction to Aneela Idnani Kumar and HabitAwareMeet Aneela, a TED Talk speaker and inventor of HabitAware, a Time Magazine Best Invention, aimed at helping individuals with BFRBs like hair-pulling and skin-picking.[15:50] - Turning Pain Into PurposeAneela reflects on how her father's cancer diagnosis triggered her BFRB and how her personal struggles inspired her to create tools that help others.[22:54] - How HabitAware WorksLearn how the HabitAware bracelet tracks behaviors in real time, notifies wearers, and supports behavioral change—integrating seamlessly into therapy.[32:26] - Breaking the Silence Around BFRBsAneela discusses the stigma surrounding BFRBs and how awareness, education, and compassion can encourage individuals to seek help earlier.[37:30] - Advice for Those Suffering in SilenceAneela shares heartfelt advice for anyone struggling with BFRBs: from self-compassion to seeking support, you don't have to walk this journey alone.Quotable Moments:[22:51] “Turning pain into purpose is the most powerful thing we can do.”—Aneela Idnani[32:44] “Suffering in silence keeps you stuck. Taking the first step—telling someone—changes everything.”—Aneela Idnani[37:25] “Your behavior doesn't define you. There's help, hope, and community waiting for you.”—Aneela IdnaniLinks Mentioned: • HabitAware: www.habitaware.com • Aneela's TED Talk: https://youtu.be/WkfBtT4VbI4?si=HPyyD91KGISLp_s7 • Anxiety Society Podcast Website: www.anxietysocietypodcast.comAneela's inspiring journey is a testament to the power of awareness and the importance of turning personal challenges into opportunities to help others. If you or someone you know struggles with BFRBs, this episode is a powerful reminder that healing is possible, and you don't have to face it alone. Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs it!

In dieser Episode ist Prof. Dr. Christian Stierle, Verhaltenstherapeut und Professor für klinische Psychologie, zu Gast. In unserem Gespräch erklärt Christian u.a., was es mit der Compassion Focused Therapy auf sich hat, wie wichtig Mitgefühl - mit sich selbst und anderen - im Alltag ist und welche Bedeutung ihm in der Behandlung von psychischen Störungen zukommt, bei denen Scham und Schuldgefühle eine zentrale Rolle spielen. Es geht um Selbstkritik, den Umgang mit Emotionen und auch um die Frage, warum es (manchmal) so schwer ist, mit sich selbst und anderen mitfühlend umzugehen. Gegen Ende der Folge gibt es außerdem einige Ideen, wie sich dem Thema Compassion bzw. Mitgefühl nähern und erste Schritte im Alltag umsetzen kann. Buchempfehlungen (unbezahlte Werbung): Stierle, C. (2022). Compassion Focused Therapy in der Praxis. Beltz Neff, K. & Germer, C. Selbstmitgefühl (2019). – Das Übungsbuch. Arbor Verlag GmbH **************************************************** Wenn Du diesen Podcast gerne unterstützen möchtest - hier geht es zur BFRB.care Kaffeekasse: https://ko-fi.com/bfrbcare (Falls Euch das lieber ist: Ihr könnt auch einfach direkt via Paypal an (bfrb.care(at)gmail.com) überweisen.) Weitere Infos zu Skin Picking bzw. Dermatillomanie, Trichotillomanie, Nägelkauen und anderen BFRBs findest Du auf meiner Homepage: www.skinpicking-trichotillomanie.de Wenn Du Fragen, Ideen oder Wünsche für bestimmte Themen hast, schreib mir einfach gerne über meine Homepage oder auf Instagram unter: https://www.instagram.com/bfrb.care/

In the latest episode of Trich Talks, Barbara Lally shares her experience with trichotillomania spreading to different areas of her body. What started in one spot didn't stay there, and as it moved, so did her fear and frustration. She opens up about the anxiety of losing control, the challenges of adapting, and the coping strategies that have helped her along the way. For those who have felt scared or overwhelmed by their BFRB shifting or growing, this episode offers reassurance and insight into this often-overlooked part of the journey.Purchase a signed copy of The Trichster Diaries here or unsigned from Amazon— This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off sitewide! Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Begin your journey to self-acceptance with trichotillomania by enrolling in my course, Sharing Our Stories. Sharing Our Stories does a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

Do you struggle with skin picking, hair pulling, nail biting, or other repetitive behaviors you just can't seem to stop? These actions, known as Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs), go far beyond “bad habits” and can have deep emotional and psychological roots. But what causes them? And more importantly, how can they be managed? In this episode of The Happier Life Project, licensed therapist and BFRBs specialist Nathan Peterson joins us to explore the complexities of these compulsive behaviors. With years of experience working in mental health clinics, hospitals, schools, and his private practice in Texas, Nathan has dedicated his career to helping people navigate OCD, anxiety, tics, Tourette's, and BFRBs. He also runs a popular OCD and anxiety YouTube channel, providing education and hope to millions. BFRBs often serve as coping mechanisms for stress, anxiety, boredom, or perfectionism, but they can also occur without conscious awareness. These repetitive self-grooming behaviors impact daily life and can be physically harmful, leading to hair loss, skin infections, and scarring. The emotional consequences range from shame and self-consciousness to anxiety, depression, and body dysmorphic disorder. In this episode, we explore what makes a BFRB problematic. Is it a symptom of something deeper, such as anxiety, depression, ADHD, or OCD, or rather an isolated issue? Are BFRBs hereditary—can the repetitive compulsion be passed down? We also examine the connection between skin picking and perfectionism, along with the deeper psychological and emotional factors that drive these behaviors. Plus, we take a closer look at the role of compulsions and frustration in maintaining BFRBs, how can they be treated, or perhaps even accepted, and practical strategies for managing and resisting the urge to pick, pull, bite, or chew. If you're seeking answers and support, this episode is packed with insights to help you take control of your BFRB or support someone you know who struggles with this condition. To download the My Possible Self app: https://mypossibleself.app.link/podcast To follow My Possible Self on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mypossibleself To follow Nate on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ocdandanxietyonline Nate's self-directed course for hair-pulling/skin-picking:  www.ocd-anxiety.com Nate's YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/ocdandanxiety   The most common Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs) include: Trichotillomania (Hair-Pulling Disorder) – Compulsively pulling out hair from the scalp, eyebrows, eyelashes, or other areas of the body. Dermatillomania (Skin-Picking Disorder/Excoriation Disorder) – Repeatedly picking at the skin, often leading to wounds, scarring, or infections. Onychophagia (Chronic Nail Biting) – Habitual nail biting that can cause damage to the nails and surrounding skin. Lip Biting (Lip Chewing Disorder) – Biting or chewing on the lips, sometimes to the point of causing sores or bleeding. Cheek Biting (Morsicatio Buccarum) – Biting the inside of the cheeks, leading to irritation, sores, or thickened skin. Rhinotillexomania (Compulsive Nose Picking) – Frequent and intense nose picking that can result in nasal damage or infections.

In the latest episode of Trich Talks, Barbara reads from The Trichster Diaries, sharing raw and relatable entries about her experiences with trichotillomania. She reflects on being asked the uncomfortable question, “Do you eat the hair?” and the awkwardness that followed. She also recounts a trip to Disney World, where an unflattering photo sparked deep feelings about self-image. Additionally, Barbara discusses her participation in a trichotillomania study, offering insight into the challenges and emotions that come with living with a BFRB.Purchase a signed copy of The Trichster Diaries here or unsigned from Amazon— This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off sitewide! Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Begin your journey to self-acceptance with trichotillomania by enrolling in my course, Sharing Our Stories. Sharing Our Stories does a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

In the latest episode of Trich Talks: The Podcast, Barbara Lally continues reading from The Trichster Diaries, offering a raw and personal look into her journey with trichotillomania. This time, she shares two pivotal moments—her first experience with therapy and the emotional weight of confessing her hair pulling to her parents. Barbara reflects on the fear, vulnerability, and eventual relief of opening up about her struggle, as well as how those conversations shaped her journey. Whether you're navigating your own BFRB experience or simply seeking an honest and heartfelt story, this episode is one you won't want to miss. Tune in to hear Barbara's reflections, insights, and a glimpse into the pages of her book.Purchase a signed copy of The Trichster Diaries here or unsigned from Amazon— This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off sitewide! Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Begin your journey to self-acceptance with trichotillomania by enrolling in my course, Sharing Our Stories. Sharing Our Stories does a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

In dieser Episode teile ich ein paar Gedanken zu den Weihnachtsfeiertagen und zum Jahresende mit Euch - Gedanken zu all dem Stress und den Ansprüchen und Erwartungen, die so in der Luft liegen. Und es geht u.a. um die Fragen: Wie viel Platz ist an den Feiertagen für schwierige Gefühle? Muss ich immer funktionieren? Wie sieht es eigentlich mit meinen Erfolgen und Vorsätzen für das ablaufende Jahr aus? Muss ich mich deswegen schlecht fühlen? Darf ich stolz auf mich sein? Und über allem steht die Frage: Wie kann ich es mir vielleicht ein wenig leichter machen? Wie kann ich ein wenig milder mit mir und anderen umgehen? Wenn Du diesen Podcast gerne unterstützen möchtest - hier findest Du die BFRB.care Kaffeekasse: https://ko-fi.com/bfrbcare (Falls Dir das lieber ist: Du kannst natürlich auch einfach direkt via Paypal an (bfrb.care(at)gmail.com) überweisen.) Weitere Infos zu Skin Picking bzw. Dermatillomanie, Trichotillomanie, Nägelkauen und anderen BFRBs findest Du auf meiner Homepage: www.skinpicking-trichotillomanie.de Wenn Du Fragen, Ideen oder Wünsche für bestimmte Themen hast, schreib mir einfach gerne über meine Homepage oder auf Instagram unter: https://www.instagram.com/bfrb.care/

It is not uncommon for kids with anxiety or OCD to also have issues with picking their skin or pulling their hair. These behaviors are classified as BFRBs, body-focused, repetitive behaviors. Although BFRBs are a common comorbid condition to anxiety and OCD, it is a separate disorder with its own set of therapy approaches. In this week's AT Parenting Survival Podcast, we celebrate BFRB week by having one of my favorite people on, Aneela Idnani from Habitaware. Aneela has struggled with trichotillomania her whole life. She took her pain and turned it into purpose; helping other people with BFRBs. She created a bracelet that helps people with BFRBs become more aware of when they are doing those behaviors. She also built a beautiful community filled with free support groups for kids and teens as well as services to support parents.Resources:HabitawareFree BFRB kid support group Free BFRB teen support groupParent Huddle SeriesThe BFRB Change CollectiveBFRB ChangemakersPickingme.orgThe TLC Foundation***This podcast episode is sponsored by NOCD. NOCD provides online OCD therapy in the US, UK, Australia and Canada. To schedule your free 15 minute consultation to see if NOCD is a right fit for you and your child, go to: https://go.treatmyocd.com/at_parentingThis podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be used to replace the guidance of a qualified professional.

Jess @jessloufawcett lives with trichotillomania, dermatillomania, as well as autism. Although she still pulls and picks, her relationship with her body-focussed repetitive behaviors (BFRBs) has changed for the better. Jess's advice for those outside of the BFRB community: if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. — This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off sitewide! Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Begin your journey to self-acceptance with trichotillomania by enrolling in my course, Sharing Our Stories. Sharing Our Stories does a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

Lauren @laurenkotowski12 is a dog mom of 3, living in Wisconsin. She has a professional background in social work and has always been passionate about mental health and breaking the stigma. Lauren developed trichotillomania when she was in 6th grade and is telling her story to continue shed light on barriers that people with BFRB's experience & normalize it.— This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off sitewide! Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Begin your journey to self-acceptance with trichotillomania by enrolling in my course, Sharing Our Stories. Sharing Our Stories does a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

My guest this week is Dr. Marla Deibler, a clinical psychologist who specializes in treating anxiety. We discussed her excellent new book, The BFRB Recovery Workbook (affiliate link). Check out the publisher's website where you can download many free worksheets and resources. Topics we discussed included: When a body-focused repetitive behavior becomes a diagnosable disorder Common physical consequences of BFRBs Behaviors associated with the hair-pulling of trichotillomania, a type of BFRB The buildup of hair in the digestive system (trichobezoar) from ingesting hair What makes BFRBs so hard to stop The rewarding feeling that often accompanies BFRBs Fixing something with a BFRB that doesn't feel quite right Why willpower alone is usually not enough to stop BFRBs Ambivalence in the process of change: wanting to change and not wanting to change The importance of a functional analysis to understand what drives behaviors Wanting to jump to fixing a problematic behavior before understanding it The importance of awareness for treatment Practicing incompatible responses to interrupt the habit of BFRBs The relation of BFRBs to OCD and other types of compulsive behaviors The important role of acceptance and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) The problems of using punishment to shape behavior Marla W. Deibler, PsyD, ABPP, is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Board-Certified in Behavioral and Cognitive Psychology, and Founder/Executive Director of The Center for Emotional Health of Greater Philadelphia. Marla serves on the Faculty of the Behavior Therapy Training Institute (BTTI) of the International OCD Foundation. She serves as President of the Board of Directors of OCD NJ, the NJ affiliate of the IOCDF, Consultant for the New Jersey Center for Tourette Syndrome, Visiting Clinical Supervisor at the Rutgers University Psychological Services Clinic, and Executive Council member of the ACBS OCD SIG. She is co-author of The BFRB Recovery Workbook: A Step-By-Step Guide to Effective Recovery from Hair Pulling, Skin Picking, Nail Biting, and Other Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors. Find Marla online at her website.

9 Ways to Stop Picking Your Skin This Summer As summer approaches and the weather gets hotter, many of us are eager to wear shorter sleeves and enjoy the sun. However, this often leads to increased skin exposure and, unfortunately, a greater temptation to pick at our skin. In today's article, we'll explore nine strategies to help you stop picking your skin this summer. These tips have been helpful to many of my clients, and I hope they will be just as beneficial for you. Understanding Skin Picking Before we dive into the strategies, it's important to understand what skin picking is. Clinically known as dermatillomania, skin picking is a type of body-focused repetitive behavior (BFRB). People with this condition may pick at their skin, arms, lips, scalp, nails, and even more sensitive areas like the pubic region. It's similar to trichotillomania, which involves hair pulling. It's crucial to note that skin picking and hair pulling are not forms of self-harm. People who pick their skin are not trying to hurt themselves or seek attention. They often do it because they are either understimulated (bored) or overstimulated (anxious or overwhelmed). Understanding this can provide insight into the strategies we'll discuss. Strategy #1: Awareness Logs Awareness logs are a powerful tool in any stage of recovery. By logging every time you have the urge to pick, noting how much you picked, where, and for how long, you gain a better understanding of how this condition impacts your life. Many people find that having to document their behavior reduces the frequency of picking. Awareness logs are a key component of habit reversal training, a cognitive-behavioral therapy technique specifically designed for BFRBs. For more information about BFRB School, our online course for skin picking and hair pulling, CLICK HERE Strategy #2: Keep Your Hands Busy Engaging in a competing response can help divert your urge to pick. Competing responses might include using fidget toys, holding a stone, or playing with soothing textures. You can find many affordable fidgets online or at dollar stores. Create a basket of tactile items that you can use to keep your hands busy. Place these items around your house, in your car, and at work to ensure they are easily accessible when you need them. Strategy #3: Create a Skincare Routine A good skincare routine can help prevent irritation and dryness that might tempt you to pick. However, it's important not to overdo it, as too much attention to your skin can also trigger picking. Consult with your doctor to develop a routine that keeps your skin healthy without exacerbating your condition. Strategy #4: Use Physical Barriers Using physical barriers (called habit blockers) like gloves, band-aids, or long sleeves can prevent you from touching and picking at your skin. Some people find that keeping their nails short or wearing fake nails can reduce the tactile satisfaction of picking. Identify what works best for you and use these barriers consistently. Strategy #5: Self-Compassion Practicing self-compassion is vital. Beating yourself up for picking only increases negative emotions like shame and guilt, which can lead to more picking. Instead, practice radical acceptance and reduce self-criticism. This approach can help you feel more motivated and improve your overall well-being. Strategy #6: Manage Stress and Anxiety Managing stress and anxiety is crucial, as many people pick their skin to cope with these feelings. Cognitive-behavioral skills can help address faulty cognitions and behaviors that exacerbate stress. Consider taking an online course, like Overcoming Anxiety and Panic, to learn effective stress management techniques. Strategy #7: Establish a Support System Having a support system can make a significant difference. Whether it's family, friends, or online support groups like those at BFRB.org, having people to check in with can help you feel less alone and more accountable. Some people find it helpful to text or call a support person when they feel the urge to pick. Strategy #8: Stay Hydrated and Healthy Good nutrition and hydration can impact your skin's health. Speak with your doctor about how to maintain healthy skin through diet and hydration. Additionally, consider looking into over-the-counter medications like N-acetylcysteine, which has been shown to help with skin picking. Always consult with your doctor before starting any new supplement. Strategy #9: Set Realistic Goals and Track Progress Set achievable goals and track your progress. Instead of aiming to completely stop picking, focus on gradually reducing the behavior by a small percentage each week. Tracking your progress helps you see improvement and identify what strategies are working. Remember, small steps lead to significant changes. Conclusion These nine strategies can help you stop picking your skin this summer. Whether you use awareness logs, keep your hands busy with fidgets, or establish a support system, each step you take brings you closer to managing this behavior. Remember to practice self-compassion and set realistic goals. If you need additional support, consider enrolling in courses like BFRB School or Overcoming Anxiety and Panic. Transcript Today we're going to cover nine strategies to stop picking your skin this summer. It's getting hotter. You want to start wearing shorter sleeves or have your skin exposed to the sun more often, which means you're more likely to start picking at your skin. Let's talk about nine strategies that you can use right away. Hopefully, you find them as helpful as my clients have. Welcome back. I am so excited to talk with you about nine strategies and skills that you can use to stop picking your skin this summer. But before we do that, let's just first do a little deep dive into what skin picking is. Clinically, we call it “dermatillomania,” and it's a kind of body-focused repetitive behavior. Often, people with skin picking will pick out their skin, their arms, their lips, their scalp, and their nails. There's really no limit to where someone can pick their skin. Some people even pick pubic areas under their arms or around their genitals. There is, as I said, no off-topic area that people will pick. It's completely normal for people to pick in one or all of these areas. It's similar to a condition called trichotillomania, which is hair pulling. Again, hair pulling is another type of body-focused repetitive behavior, and people may pick at any area where there is skin on their body. It is important for us to first highlight that skin picking and hair pulling are not self-harm. People who pick their skin aren't trying to hurt themselves. They're also not trying to just get attention. They do not want to be damaging their skin or giving their skin abrasions and such. It's just a part of a condition, and we have a little bit of insight as to why they're doing it. Often, people with skin picking, or dermatillomania, are skin picking either because they're understimulated, they're bored, or we know they may be overstimulated. Maybe they're very anxious, they're feeling hyper-reactive to feeling overwhelmed with either emotions, stimulation, or thoughts. We do know that people who engage in this skin-picking behavior are more likely to pick either when they're overstimulated or understimulated. That's something to think about, and there is a clue there into some of the strategies that we're going to use today. Let's get to it. Let's start talking about some of the strategies that you can use to stop picking your skin this summer. Strategy #1: Awareness Logs Awareness logs can be so helpful at any stage of recovery. An awareness log is either a piece of paper or a document on your computer or on your phone, where you log every time you have the urge to pick your skin, how much you picked your skin, where you picked your skin, and how long you engaged in skin picking. What this does is, number one, it helps us really understand to what degree this condition is impacting your life. Secondly, people often report that when they have to document it, they're less likely to engage in the behavior because nobody wants to have to spend all their time logging it as something they don't want to deal with. Awareness logs can be a very helpful skill for us in understanding our own condition and our own symptoms, and in addition, they can help us with motivation to slowly reduce this behavior. Awareness logs are something we use in a very well-known and researched way of using cognitive behavioral therapy, and the type of therapy is called habit reversal training. It's the specific modality that we use for skin picking and hair pulling, and it is a key component of that cognitive and awareness work. Strategy #2: Keep Your Hands Busy Now again, when we're using habit reversal training, we engage in something called a competing response. A competing response is a behavior that competes with the feeling of picking our skin. Now, a competing response might be fiddles or fidget toys. It could be holding a stone or maybe stroking a feather. It could be playing with other fidgets that we have. The cool news is that you can get so many fidgets online these days for a really low price, or you could easily go to your dollar store and look around for textures that feel beautiful to you, feel soothing to you, or help you with either the understimulation or overstimulation. What we want to look for here is, what are the specific tactile experiences that you can use to keep your hands busy? We actually have an online course called BFRB School, which is a specific course for people with hair pulling and skin picking, using skills like habit reversal training and cognitive behavioral therapy. We talk all about the core importance of using competing responses. I often tell my patients and my students to always have a bucket or a basket in the house of different tactile experiences, different tactile things that you can play with objects, so that at that moment, if you've identified in your awareness log that you're feeling bored, you can engage in something that stimulates your creativity, stimulates your awareness. However, if you're the opposite and you're feeling overstimulated, you might dig into the basket and find something that's quite soothing. Maybe it's more like a silly putty, a gel, or something else that's more soothing for you. These competing responses are going to be so important for you in getting very clear on what you need at that moment and having it readily available. I often say to my patients and my students, don't just have it in one area of the house because, in that moment, you're still going to want to just pick your skin. What we prefer to do is to have little pieces over the house, in your car, or in your office so that they're easily accessible. Some people have it on their key rings, some people have it in their purses—whatever works for you. Again, that awareness log will help us identify specifically where you are when you're having these urges to pick your skin. And then we can put in competing responses to compete with the skin-picking behavior. Strategy #3: Create a Skincare Routine That Helps You This is a little bit of a fine line, though, because we don't want to engage in a skin routine that has you putting too much attention on your skin because, again, too much attention on your skin is going to mean that you're more likely to pick your skin. However, we also want to make sure that we are not ignoring your skin, letting it get really dry, especially in the summer. Maybe you've had a sunburn or such, and you've got some wind chafing or something. Again, if you have any irritation on your skin that isn't taken care of with a skin routine, you are more likely to pick at that skin, especially if there's already an open wound or a scab. If you already have an open wound that you've scratched or maybe you bumped into something and you've got a little scab there, we want to make sure that we're engaging in a really healthy skin routine to help that heal and repair so that you're less likely to go and pick that. I would encourage you to speak with your medical professional about skincare and what would be best for you. Maybe you have a skin condition. Very commonly, people with skin picking do. Speak with your doctor about a skincare routine that will help your skin picking but not be so extensive that it actually makes it worse. I would trust that your doctor will be able to help you in that area. Strategy #4: Use Physical Barriers Again, going back to the gold standard treatment for skin picking, which is habit reversal training, we use what we call a habit blocker. This is something that blocks you from the habit of picking, and this can involve anything that stops you from being able to touch your skin. A lot of patients and students I have had have used things like gloves or band-aids to cover an area that they're likely to pick. Maybe in the summer, they may wear longer sleeves even though it's very hot because that actually stops them from getting to the area that they feel an urge to pick. You may also want to keep your nails really thin or cover your nails. Some people keep nails on, like actual fake nails, as a barrier to being able to touch the skin. Maybe it doesn't give them that same tactile feeling of picking when their nails are medium-length. What we want to do here is identify for yourself the specific barriers that are helpful. The thing to remember here about skin picking is that everyone is different. Not one strategy that I've used for one client is going to be the strategy we use for another client. It's going to be very much dependent on those awareness logs that you logged out of in that first strategy. Getting clear on specifically what are the triggers that cause you to pick your skin and what specific behaviors and habit blockers are helpful to reduce the skin picking that you feel the urge to engage in. Strategy #5: Self-Compassion We have to engage in not beating yourself up, not judging yourself, not punishing yourself if, in fact, you have picked or recently picked despite all of these strategies. Beating yourself up actually does not motivate you to stop picking. In fact, it usually brings up more emotions such as shame, guilt, sadness, anger, and humiliation. Those emotions can send us into overstimulation, making us want to pick again. Again, we want to engage in a practice of self-compassion. We want to engage in a sense of radical acceptance of ourselves, whether we pick or not. This is so important because we want to reduce our suffering, not make our suffering higher. We do find that people who practice self-compassion tend to have higher levels of motivation, decreased levels of procrastination. They tend to feel better about themselves and have higher self-esteem. They're more likely to get out there and do the things that they love. Every moment that you're engaging in in your life is a moment you're less likely to be picking. It's very, very important that you practice a self-compassion routine, even if it's once a day. Anything is better than nothing to reduce that self-criticism where you can. Strategy #6: Manage Stress and Anxiety  I cannot stress this enough. It is so important when it comes to skin picking that we manage our stress. Again, a lot of people pick their skin because it is a way in which they can manage their stress. A lot of people with skin picking say once they start picking, they can exit out of reality and go into a trance-like mode where everything disappears and they feel relaxed and in the zone, and it takes away all of the stress. We can now understand why there is actually an urge and a pull towards picking and pulling, because who really wants to stay in stress and anxiety? Of course, it makes total sense. The more we can manage our stress using strategies, skills, and other tools like cognitive behavioral therapy, the less likely we are to use skin picking as a coping strategy. When it comes to managing stress, again, the most important thing we're going to do here is what we call cognitive behavioral skills. It's going to be taking a lot of our cognitions that might be faulty, leading us to have more anxiety, and also looking at our behaviors and the things that we do that may be actually exacerbating the stress and anxiety that we experience. If you're someone who struggles with anxiety and stress, I strongly encourage you to check out our online course called Overcoming Anxiety and Panic. We go through all of these steps. You can do it from home, and it may help you to get an idea of what might be some of the things that are triggering your stress response, triggering your anxiety response so that you can manage that, so that then you can move on to manage your skin picking as well. Strategy #7: Establish a Support System We want to have a community of people who can support us as we go through these steps. It's not an easy thing to overcome skin picking, so I really want to encourage you to find a support system, whether that be family or friends, or you can go to BFRB.org. They have a whole array of online support groups that you might be interested in looking at to get support, so you feel like you're not alone and that you have the support that you need. Another option here is to also look for accountability bodies. Somebody who mightn't even have skin picking. They might be a loved one, a friend, a parent, or a sibling—someone who you can check in with when your urge is really high. A lot of my students have said that it's been very helpful when they have the urge to text somebody and say, “I have a strong urge. I'm texting you to let you know.” They may have already set up a plan on what to do. Maybe they jump on a phone call together, they might text each other throughout it to help the person ride that wave of the urge. Or maybe that person might encourage them to say, “Hey, you told me to remind you of this one thing if you have this urge.” Really, the importance of a support group can help you, or a support person can help you not only with feeling less alone, not only with beating yourself up, but also with putting these strategies into action, especially if you let them know about the strategies. Strategy #8: Stay Hydrated and Healthy Now again, I'm going to encourage you to speak with your medical doctor about this, but I just wanted to mention because I try to look at you as a holistic, full person, someone who's not just your skin picking, but also, we want to have a look at things like your health. Take a look at your nutrition. Take a look at your hydration levels. Again, these things can impact our skin. If, let's say, you're having a lot of nutrition that's causing a lot of breakouts and you're someone who's prone to skin picking, those two things together could become a disaster. You want to speak with your doctor or a professional in that area about specific nutrition, things you may want to avoid eating, and how hydrated you need to stay to keep your skin healthy, to reduce the chances of you wanting to pick and pull. A lot of patients I see, and a lot of students that have come through BFRB School, our online course for skin picking, have reported having skin conditions, acne, or certain things that have impacted how much their skin is irritated, how many pimples they're having. Now, I'm not assuming that nutrition and hydration are the solution to all of that, but I would encourage you to speak with a doctor and just inquire about what you could do to make sure we're addressing those skin conditions. Another thing to know here, and this is like an inside scoop, is that there are specific over-the-counter medications you can get that have been proven to help with skin picking. I'll leave a link in the show notes for you to take a look, but there is a vitamin that's called N-acetylcysteine. It is an over-the-counter medication that has very few side effects and has been shown to help people with skin picking. Now again, I'm not a doctor. I would strongly encourage you to speak with your doctor about that, but again, I'm trying to give you as many resources today as we can to help you get to the goal that you want. These are all things that you can take a look at and speak to your doctor about. Strategy #9: Set Realistic Goals and Make Sure You Track Your Progress  We want to set realistic goals. I always tell my patients at the beginning of treatment that the goal isn't to completely stop skin picking, even though most people are coming for that goal. Because what I have found is, when you set that huge goal, it sets you up to fail. It makes you feel so bad if you slip. It makes you feel so much pressure. It's such a scarier experience than if you say, “Hey, I'm just going to reduce this by 3 to 5 percent each week,” or month or day, whatever is right for you. We want to set realistic goals—goals that can help keep you motivated and goals that make you feel like they're achievable. We also want to track progress. One of the most important parts of treatment, once we've done that first awareness log—and we do this in BFRB School, I do it with my patients as well—is that once we're off and running, we then track how well we're doing. How well did you use your tools? What tools didn't work? How long did you pick for? Where were you? What went wrong? We are not doing this to beat you up or to scrutinize you; we are doing it from a place of experimenting, gathering information to know specifically what's getting in the way of your recovery and what your progress looks like. Some people may say, “I'm not making any progress,” but when we actually look at their logs, we're starting to see progress in these small ways. Remember, small steps lead to medium-sized steps. Medium-sized steps lead to huge changes. The last strategy is probably the most important. I could have spent a whole podcast episode talking about that. It's about setting realistic goals and tracking your progress. Again, if you are struggling with this and you want to take BFRBSchool.com, head on over to CBTSchool.com. You'll get access to it there. It will take you through all of these steps. We also have modules on self-compassion, mindfulness, and healthy lifestyles that can really help you with this recovery as well. I'd strongly encourage you to consider that as a hopeful strategy as well. All right, guys, thank you so much. These have been the nine strategies to help you stop skin-picking this summer. I hope you found it helpful, and I'll see you next week.

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Eddie Thomson @ethomson92 and @why_we_watch is an accountant, hobbyist movie critic, and content creator. He's been part of the BFRB community since around 2015 and has written a few articles, with the help of Laura Barton, on his journey with trichotillomania for the Canadian BFRB Support Network. In college, he hosted two screenings of Jillian Corsie's Trichster in his community, and he put a few DVDs in his local libraries.Read Eddie's articles here!—This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off the replacement training bundle.Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

Is there a technological solution for skin picking and hair pulling?Today's Guests:Aneela Idnani:Cofounder & President of HabitAware, Aneela Idnani transformed her struggle with hair pulling into the innovative Keen2 smart bracelet. Recognized in "40 under 40," her work has earned accolades from TIME Magazine and substantial support from national health institutes.Ellen Crupi:Director at HabitAware, Ellen Crupi leverages over seven years in trichotillomania recovery to foster mental health improvements. She is trained in Yale University's SPACE program and actively advocates for BFRB awareness, enhancing lives through education and technology.In this episode:Learn how Keen2 bracelet manages skin picking, hair pulling.Discover tech's role in personal behavioral change.Understand importance of awareness in overcoming mental health challenges.Check out the bracelet with the link below!https://partners.habitaware.com/208.html@habitaware on all socialsConnect with JamieAre you a high-achieving woman with ADHD looking for a coach? Event planner looking for a wildly captivating speaker? Go to outsmartadhd.co to get in touch!

Christina @beachmamablog is a mom blogger who shares about her mental health to help shed light on topics that are often ignored. Christina began her body-focused repetitive behavior (BFRB) journey by developing trichotemnomania (the hair-cutting disorder) which ultimately led her to trichotillomania (the hair-pulling disorder). Although her BFRBs once caused her immense shame, Christina has been able to shed the shame and share her story with the world. Christina wants everyone but especially other mothers to know that there is a community out there that is ready to support you and she is part of it!—This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. What better way to start 2024 than by bringing awareness to your BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off the replacement training bundle.Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

Narelle @wholesomehumankind @narellearmstrong is 28 years old and has had trichotillomania as well as other body-focused repetitive behaviors (BFRBs) throughout her life. Narelle lives in Australia and works as a paramedic. Although she has a significant history of various mental health conditions, Narelle has committed herself to development over the past year. With all of her hard work, she finds herself feeling genuinely happy and content with where her life is heading.—This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. What better way to start 2024 than by bringing awareness to your BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off the replacement training bundle.Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

Tara @_tarannum.h has lived with trichotillomania since she was 6 and a half years old. Throughout her life with the disorder, she has been able to better understand her triggers and find management strategies that she enjoys. Her favorite management strategy? Journaling. You can always find Tara with her journal because she lovingly carries it everywhere! Being able to journal her thoughts allows Tara to quiet her mind which positively impacts her trichotillomania.—This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. What better way to start 2024 than by bringing awareness to your BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off the replacement training bundle.Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

Olivia @_compass_ion is an Autistic ADHDer who runs a mentoring service and Instagram page for Neurodivergent people. Olivia has had Trichotillomania since age 7, she is now 20. She was relieved to find out that her hair-pulling had a cause and an actual name! Now, although not always easy, she shares her experience with others in order to help educate and support others.—This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. What better way to start 2024 than by bringing awareness to your BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off the replacement training bundle.Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

Elle @ellehirata is a 19 year old college student in Chicago who has struggled with trichotillomania since she was 13. She's finally in a place where she's comfortable to tell her story and what she's learned about managing stress and anxiety in a demanding area of study and just a demanding world in general. She recently faced a setback with her hair-pulling but wants to share the idea that doesn't mean she's ‘failed.'—This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. What better way to start 2024 than by bringing awareness to your BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off the replacement training bundle.Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. You can learn more at barbaralally.com

Jordan @jordan_shepley is 23 years old and has had trichotillomania since she was in early elementary school. Jordan is currently working on acceptance and how health, wellness, and sobriety can positively impact her trichotillomania.—This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. What better way to start 2024 than by bringing awareness to your BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off the replacement training bundle.Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. We also complete empowering activities, and have a biweekly support group so that you can meet others in the community.As a gift to you, please use promo code TrichTalks25 to receive 25% off the 5 session package. You can access this promotion at barbaralally.com. Thank you and I can't wait to start your journey to self-love and self-acceptance.

Katie @katiedbannon is a writer, editor, and educator whose work has been featured in The Washington Post, ELLE, Newsweek, and more. She teaches writing and is working on a memoir about trichotillomania. Katie has let go of the shame that once surrounded her because of her trichotillomania and feels the true freedom of being 100% herself. She was once told that reaching her goals in life would be impossible until she got her trichotillomania under control but guess what? Katie still pulls and she has everything she has ever wanted and more. You can find her and all of her incredible articles at www.katiebannon.com I couldn't stop pulling my hair. What was wrong with me? From The Washington Post—This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. What better way to start 2024 than by bringing awareness to your BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off the replacement training bundle.Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. We also complete empowering activities, and have a biweekly support group so that you can meet others in the community.As a gift to you, please use promo code TrichTalks25 to receive 25% off the 5 session package. You can access this promotion at barbaralally.com. Thank you and I can't wait to start your journey to self-love and self-acceptance.

Tamara Harrison is a counselor based in Seattle, Washington. Her specialty in treating patients lies in OCD, Anxiety, and Body-focused repetitive behaviors (BFRB's). She utilizes Exposure & Response Prevention (ERP) in treating patients suffering from OCD, and Habit Reversal Training (HRT) for patients with BFRB's. Tamara takes on  a warm, understanding, & empathetic approach based on proven techniques to treat her patients. In this episode we talk about:  ◾️ Understanding Body-focused repetitive behaviors and its relation to mental health ◾️ Treating BFRB's with Habit Reversal Training ◾️ Identifying whether or not your movements are BFRB's Find Tamara here: Tamara@evergreenstatecounseling.com psychologytoday.com Find Zach here: zachwesterbeck.com @zach_westerbeck This podcast is made possible by NOCD. NOCD offers effective, affordable, and convenient OCD therapy. NOCD therapists are trained in Exposure Response Prevention, or ERP, therapy, the gold standard treatment for OCD. With NOCD, you can do virtual, live face-to-face video sessions with one of their licensed, specialty-trained therapists, and they accept most major insurance plans. If your insurance isn't covered, mention discount code ZACH100 for a special $100 rate for the next two months. To find out more about NOCD, visit zachwesterbeck.com/virtual-ocd-therapy/ to book a free 15-minute call. Zach Westerbeck is not a licensed medical professional. Zach Westerbeck is not trained in diagnosing psychological or medical conditions. Zach Westerbeck is not a substitute for medical care or medical advice. If you require assistance with any mental health or medical issue, please contact your health care provider for any medical care or medical advice. Zach Westerbeck makes no guarantees of any kind that the information or services provided by Zach Westerbeck will improve the client's situation. This podcast should not be considered medical advice. Please seek professional assistance from a licensed professional. Zach Westerbeck (https://zachwesterbeck.com/virtual-ocd-therapy/) Virtual OCD Therapy - Zach Westerbeck I've partnered with NOCD to bring you effective, affordable and convenient OCD therapy.

Lauren @my_trichjourney is a mum of 1 and a trichotillomania warrior who has lived with trichotillomania since she was 7 years old. Lauren's trichotillomania made her feel like she couldn't leave the house without wearing eyeliner—fearing that others would notice and think differently of her. After her daughter was born, Lauren found her relationship with trichotillomania starting to shift. She wanted to be the best example for her daughter and with that she found herself leaving the house without makeup and magically—not really caring at all.—This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. What better way to start 2024 than by bringing awareness to your BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off the replacement training bundle.Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. We also complete empowering activities, and have a biweekly support group so that you can meet others in the community.As a gift to you, please use promo code TrichTalks25 to receive 25% off the 5 session package. You can access this promotion at barbaralally.com. Thank you and I can't wait to start your journey to self-love and self-acceptance.

Jese @jesemasser is a model and mental health advocate who has lived with trichotillomania for almost 30 years. What is one thing that works best for Jese? Barriers. Listen as she explains just what barriers have worked best and how adding barriers might work for you too. But that's not all! Jese's pet bird, Snickers, makes an appearance and much, much more.—This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. What better way to start 2024 than by bringing awareness to your BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off the replacement training bundle.Did you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today.—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. We also complete empowering activities, and have a biweekly support group so that you can meet others in the community.As a gift to you, please use promo code TrichTalks25 to receive 25% off the 5 session package. You can access this promotion at barbaralally.com. Thank you and I can't wait to start your journey to self-love and self-acceptance.

Jessica @jyss_jyss has lived with trichotillomania for over 30 years. Like many of us in the community, the areas where she pulls from have changed; beginning with her eyebrows to now her scalp. She has battled with shame but has learned to let some of that go by reaching out to others in the community. Jessica wants listeners to know that sharing your story with others will feel like a weight lifted off of your shoulders and you'll be able to meet some amazing people. So just go for it!—This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. What better way to start 2024 than by bringing awareness to your BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware and use code LALLYLOVE for 10% off the replacement training bundleDid you know HabitAware also offers virtual peer coaching? This one-to-one peer-based program will coach you through shifting mindset, practicing healthy strategies and creating your personal roadmap to recovery. To work with me, Ellen or Aneela, head over to habitaware.com/coaching today—Thank you so much for listening to this episode of Trich Talks.Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. We also complete empowering activities, and have a biweekly support group so that you can meet others in the community.As a gift to you, please use promo code TrichTalks25 to receive 25% off the 5 session package. You can access this promotion at barbaralally.com. Thank you and I can't wait to start your journey to self-love and self-acceptance.

Tash Wilson from @bfrb.uk.ireland is a BFRB advocate, support group leader, and much more! Tash lives with multiple BFRBs and dedicates her time to spreading awareness and supporting others in the community. At first, perfectionism was ruling her world but after much introspection, Tash realized that the real cure is kindness. You can find Tash at @bfrb.uk.ireland on Instagram and https://www.bfrbukireland.com/ – This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. If you follow me on social media you have seen me with my Keen2 in lilac. I love it and I love that it is a tool created for BFRBs by someone who has a BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware– Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. We also complete empowering activities, and have a biweekly support group so that you can meet others in the community.As a gift to you, please use promo code TrichTalks25 to receive 25% off the 5 session package. You can access this promotion at barbaralally.com. Thank you and I can't wait to start your journey to self-love and self-acceptance.

PART 2 of Chaille & Karen's episode focuses on Body-Focused Process Addictions (BFPAs)!Chaille DeFaria is a Master Certified Coach through the International Coaching Federation and a facilitator of Dr. Brene Brown's research. She is also the co-founder of The BFPA Resource Center with Karen. When Chaille exposed her secret of living with a BFRB and started to own the parts of herself that wanted to be seen as perfect the wall around her crumbled to the ground. That choice was a gift. The opposite of shame is worthiness. Belonging doesn't require us to change who we are, it requires us to be who we are. To learn more or work with Chaille please visit her website https://www.chailledefaria.com/Karen Pickett is a licensed psychotherapist in California (LMFT40735) and Ohio (F.1700012) and the co-founder of The BFPA Resource Center. She is an expert in the treatment of anxiety disorders and body-focused process addictions (BFPAs), including Panic Disorder, Health Anxiety, Social Anxiety, Agoraphobia, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Skin Picking Disorder and Trichotillomania. Previously, Karen was the Clinical Director of the OCD Center of Los Angeles and Faculty in Counseling Psychology at the University of Santa Monica. To learn more or work with Karen please visit her website https://karenpickett.com/–This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. If you follow me on social media you have seen me with my Keen2 in lilac. I love it and I love that it is a tool created for BFRBs by someone who has a BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware–Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. We also complete empowering activities, and have a biweekly support group so that you can meet others in the community.As a gift to you, please use promo code TrichTalks25 to receive 25% off the 5 session package. You can access this promotion at barbaralally.com. Thank you and I can't wait to start your journey to self-love and self-acceptance.

Trich Talks: Season 4 is starting with a double guest episode for the first time ever! Chaille DeFaria is a Master Certified Coach through the International Coaching Federation and a facilitator of Dr. Brene Brown's research. She is also the co-founder of The BFPA Resource Center with Karen. When Chaille exposed her secret of living with a BFRB and started to own the parts of herself that wanted to be seen as perfect the wall around her crumbled to the ground. That choice was a gift. The opposite of shame is worthiness. Belonging doesn't require us to change who we are, it requires us to be who we are. To learn more or work with Chaille please visit her website https://www.chailledefaria.com/ Karen Pickett is a licensed psychotherapist in California (LMFT40735) and Ohio (F.1700012) and the co-founder of The BFPA Resource Center. She is an expert in the treatment of anxiety disorders and body-focused process addictions (BFPAs), including Panic Disorder, Health Anxiety, Social Anxiety, Agoraphobia, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Skin Picking Disorder and Trichotillomania. Previously, Karen was the Clinical Director of the OCD Center of Los Angeles and Faculty in Counseling Psychology at the University of Santa Monica. To learn more or work with Karen please visit her website https://karenpickett.com/ Listen to Chaille and Karen's experiences and expertise in part 1 of their 2 part episode.– This episode is brought to you by HabitAware. If you follow me on social media you have seen me with my Keen2 in lilac. I love it and I love that it is a tool created for BFRBs by someone who has a BFRB. My Keen2 brings awareness to my trichotillomania by giving my wrist a gentle hug or vibration when I'm doing the scanning behavior. Bring awareness into your life by visiting barbaralally.com/habitaware– Did you know that I offer a trichotillomania online course?My course is called Sharing Our Stories. In it we do a deep dive into your relationship with trichotillomania by using my guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, as our workbook. We also complete empowering activities, and have a biweekly support group so that you can meet others in the community.As a gift to you, please use promo code TrichTalks25 to receive 25% off the 5 session package. You can access this promotion at barbaralally.com. Thank you and I can't wait to start your journey to self-love and self-acceptance.

Starr @starrjauregui is a musician and BFRB advocate who has experienced both trichotillomania, the hair-pulling disorder, and dermatillomania, the skin-picking disorder throughout her life. Although there are moments where things feel terrible, Starr wants you to know that things can get better.

Emily Kircher-Morris is joined by Barbara Lally, a certified professional coach and author who focuses on Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs). Barbara shares her personal story of living with trichotillomania, a chronic hair-pulling disorder, and discusses the stigma and misunderstandings surrounding BFRBs. She also offers advice for those struggling with BFRBs and their loved ones. There's a lot to learn in episode 202. If you're a teacher and not yet a member of the Neurodiversity University Educator Hub, we'll be opening up registration in January. It will only be open for a limited time, so make sure you're notified when it happens. Sign up here. Barbara Lally is a teacher-turned certified professional coach, author, and body-focused repetitive behavior (BFRB) advocate. When she was 10 years old she developed trichotillomania, the chronic hair-pulling disorder which led to intense feelings of guilt, shame, and self-loathing. Nineteen years after her diagnosis, Barbara released her memoir, The Trichster Diaries, detailing her life with the disorder and her journey to self-love and self-acceptance. By sharing her story, Barbara's life changed. She released a guided journal, My Trichster Diaries, and hosts a podcast where she interviews others with BFRBs called Trich Talks. Barbara realized she was meant to spread awareness of BFRBs and help others toward self-love and self-acceptance, so she left her teaching job after seven years and decided to go back to school to become a certified professional coach. BACKGROUND READING Website Instagram Tiktok

Luce @calmstrips is a mother of 5, a horror movie lover, a BFRB/mental health advocate, and a Shark Tank star, among other things. Her life completely changed when she met Michael and became a member of the Calm Strips team. What first started as packing up orders to help a friend, quickly turned into a full-time career. Through this process Luce learned about BFRBs and that she actually had a few of them.More about Calm Strips:Calm Strips are reusable textured sensory stickers designed to help regulate restless energy and increase focus. They provide a cool and convenient way to manage sensory needs; whether you're simply touching, scratching, or tracing the textured surface, or utilizing one of our interactive grounding/breathing designs.Luce and Michael from Calm Strips were featured on Shark Tank! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IJpOvKFpdX8

Carlee @carleebusby has lived with trichotillomania for over 22 years but is happy to share that she is now in recovery. She has worked tirelessly to understand her triggers and learn from them. Carlee earned an MS in nutrition and functional medicine and uses her expertise to help others in the BFRB community. To learn more and/or to work with Carlee please visit: bfrbrecovery.com

Clare Mackay @thetrichprof is a professor of imaging neuroscience at The University of Oxford, mother, and someone who has lived with trichotillomania for most of her life. Within the last year, Clare has started openly sharing her story and using her expertise in neuroscience to help bring more insight into what it means to have a body-focused repetitive behavior (BFRB). Read Clare's published article featured in the BMJ Mental Health Journals here: https://mentalhealth.bmj.com/content/26/1/e300795Read Clare's blog in the University of Oxford's Department of Psychiatry here: https://www.psych.ox.ac.uk/news/trichotillomania-emerging-from-under-the-cloak-of-shame

      In this episode, I talk with Suzanne Mouton-Odum, PhD and Ruth Goldfinger Golomb about their recent book with Charles S Mansueto.  These authors have done some of most important work in developing effective treatment for BFRBs. We discuss   the key elements  ComB model for the treatment of hair pulling and skin picking. Since sensory issues are often very important in the treatment of BFRB, we also talk about Suzanne Mouton-Odum and Ruth Golomb other books on sensory dysregulation. Helping Your Child with Sensory Regulation: Skill to Manage the Emotional and Behavioral Components of Your Child's Sensory Processing Challenges by Suzanne Mouton-Odum and Ruth Goldfinger Golomb Psychological Interventions for Children with Sensory Dysregulation by Ruth Goldfinger Golomb and Suzanne Mouton-Odum   Ruth Goldfinger Golomb, LCPC can be found at http://www.behaviortherapycenter.com/new-page-2 Suzanne Mouton-Odum, PhD can be found at https://psychologyhoustonpc.com/.

Join your host, Nicole Morris, LMFT and Mental Health Correspondent, as she welcomes Ruth Golomb, M.Ed., LCPC, BFRB and OCD Specialist, to our family table for Part I of our 2nd Annual OCD-Related Disorder (OCRD) Series! Ruth is an accomplished author, practitioner, and she serves on the Scientific Advisory Board for the TLC Foundation for Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors. And today we're talking all about what BFRB's are, approaches to treatment, and how they impact the fam and loved ones of OCRD warriors. So join the conversation! Because not only is there a lot of helpful learning, but there's lots of HOPE too.

Dr. Laura Chackes, Psy. D. explains what therapists need to understand about treating Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRB's). The most common BFRB's being Trichotillomania, aka hair pulling, and Excoriation, aka skin picking.Laura Chackes, founder and owner of The Center for Mindfulness & CBT in St. Louis, is a licensed psychologist who specializes in the treatment of children, adolescents, and adults with OCD and body-focused repetitive behaviors (BFRBs). Dr. Chackes is a leading expert in the treatment of BFRBs such as skin picking and hair pulling. She has been running treatment groups for children, adolescents, and adults in St. Louis for over 10 years, and teaches courses online to adults with BFRBs, as well as to train therapists how to treat these disorders. Her mindfulness-based cognitive behavioral therapy approach has led hundreds of BFRB sufferers to long-term symptom relief.Dr. Chackes is also a fierce advocate working to spread awareness of BFRBs in order to reduce the shame and isolation that comes from the public's lack of knowledge of these disorders. Her Facebook group, Overcoming Skin Picking and Hair Pulling: Help for BFRBs, has connected over 4000 BFRB sufferers, parents, and therapists to learn more about how they can best support one another.OFFERS & HELPFUL LINKS:Dr. Laura Chackes Online Training for Therapists Jennifer Agee coaching pageDestination Continuing Education Facebook communityCounseling Community Instagram

Welcome to The Treatment Room! I'm Tessa, a licensed esthetician, acne specialist, nutrition coach and skincare brand founder. Trigger warning: this episode does contain discussion around the sensitive topic of skin picking. Today I'm shedding light on skin picking as a disorder, providing resources for professional help, and my tips for skincare as an acne specialist. Let's end isolation and shame for people experiencing skin picking associated behaviors. We talk: - what is skin picking? (excoriation disorder) - why do we do it - treatment options - how to limit picking - what to do if you pick - how can estheticians be there for those who struggle with BFRB? FACE MASKS Ultra hydrating enzyme masque (gentle exfoliation) Luminate masque (brightening) Acne masque CBD masque (soothing masque) HYACYN ACTIVE SKIN RECOVERY MIST CALM-PLEX SERUM ARNICA+ CREAM RESOURCES how to limit skin picking about skin excoriation disorder tips to break the habit how to overcome BFRB My Instagram @myestytessa My YouTube: Tess Zolly My TikTok: @myestytessa My skincare brand: @freeskinbytessa MY SOCIAL MEDIA + SHOPS ⁠⁠⁠⁠Schedule a mentorship call with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠shop FSBT⁠ (my skincare brand) or follow along on instagram @freeskinbytessa. ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Book virtual acne care⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Book a skin consultation or mentorship call with me: www.tessaskin.com⁠  Shop Jan Marini, Elta MD, Colorescience + more with free shipping on Pomp Beauty. To shop Glymed Plus, register on the top right via my authorized store: ⁠https://glymedplus.com/store/tessaskin⁠

On episode 21 of A Chat with Uma, I speak with Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT! Kimberley is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and public speaker who is the host of Your Anxiety Toolkit podcast, founder of CBT School, and owner of Kimberley Quinlan (A Marriage and Family Therapy Corporation) in Los Angeles, CA.  She is passionate about the treatment of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder and related disorders, Eating Disorders and Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors, and provides one-on-one treatment and online courses for those who are struggling in these areas. Advocating for those with mental health disorders is also a huge part of her life mission, and she serves as a global advocate for the International OCD Foundation. She is also the founder of CBTSchool, an online psychoeducation platform where she offers support and research-based educational products to those who cannot access correct care. CBTSchool offers low-cost online courses and FREE resources for OCD, anxiety and BFRB's. She is also the best-selling author of 'The Self-Compassion Workbook for OCD: Lean into Your Fear, Manage Difficult Emotions, and Focus On Recovery' (2021). In this episode, we discuss the following topics (+ timestamps): (00:00:00) Introduction of episode & Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT (00:04:35) How Kimberley became an OCD-specialized therapist (00:10:39) How Kimberley's lived experience with anxiety, eating disorders, and being a personal trainer led her to becoming a mental health therapist; Being an OCD therapist without having OCD (00:13:59): All about self-compassion The events that led to Kimberley's interest & specialization in self-compassion Referenced clinician: Tara Brach Operational definition of self-compassion What self-compassion is & is not How anybody can access self-compassion Research on efficacy of self-compassion in treatment Role of self-compassion in recovery (00:30:22) About Kimberley's book: The Self-Compassion Workbook for OCD: Lean into Your Fear, Manage Difficult Emotions, and Focus On Recovery' (2021) (00:40:57) How Kimberley has made evidence-based OCD treatment education widely accessible through CBT School (00:47:55) Discussion: does an OCD treatment provider need to have lived experience of OCD to provide the best therapeutic care? (00:53:39): Kimberley's experience with chronic illness & having a disability Her journey to a POTS diagnosis How she had to radically change her life & way of operating Acceptance of disabilities & limitations The lessons she's learned from her chronic illness experience Full story on her podcast: episode 124, episode 307 Recommended book: How To Be Sick by Toni Bernhard (01:10:20): Navigating boundaries and finding balance in life Kimberley's experience with developing boundaries How to (attempt to) strike balance amongst incredible busyness Fielding judgment and criticism from social media & large-scale public creation Kimberley's family and children Kimberley's strategies for time management Referenced course: Time Management for Optimum Mental Health (01:20:03) Kimberley's experience as an Australian immigrant; Navigating the grief + anxiety of living across the world from her family (01:23:23) DEEP rapid-fire final questions with Kimberley, and closing out the episode! Connect with Kimberley: Website: https://kimberleyquinlan.com/ Listen To Her Podcast: Your Anxiety Toolkit - all podcast platforms CBT School: Find all courses here Instagram: @YourAnxietyToolkit Book: The Self-Compassion Workbook for OCD: Lean into Your Fear, Manage Difficult Emotions, and Focus On Recovery Kimberley's Clinical Practice: info here Connect with me! My website⁠: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠umarchatterjee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@UmaRChatterjee⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@UmaRChatterjee⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@UmaRChatterjee⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@umarchatterjee.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Have a guest you want on the show? Fill out the ⁠⁠⁠⁠Guest Suggestion Form!⁠ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/umarchatterjee/message

Join your host, Nicole Morris, LMFT and Mental Health Correspondent, for another chat around the water cooler! This week, Nicole is talking about BFRBs in the summertime! If you aren't familiar with Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs), consider this a special invitation to learn more! Because Nicole's guess is that the OCD Family Community runs into this OCD-Related Disorder more often than folks realize! So join the conversation! It's a brief, yet broad overview to bring awareness, resources and support to our BFRB and OCD Family community!

Though BFRBs are relatively common, people struggling with them often feel ashamed and misunderstood. Suzanne Mouton-Odum, Ph.D., shares current best practice treatment approaches, and how caregivers can lovingly support a child with a BFRB.

In this episode, I speak to Chaille DeFaria, who is an Mental Health Consultant and BFRB Coach.Before helping so many people with their body focused repetitive behaviors, Chaille experienced her own compulsions through hair-pulling (trichotillomania). I thoroughly enjoyed chatting with Chaille - even getting a little teary-eyed! I hope you enjoy the conversation. If you'd like to learn more about Chaille, you can check out her website or visit her Instagram page. As always, feel free to follow and get in touch with me over on Instagram and Tiktok. Thank you for listening and supporting this podcast.Support the show

Am I bored of my BFRB? What is intentional peer support? How can we move from helping to learning together? How to advocate for BFRBs? Fly fly nothing's perfect!Guest:Jen  - @origamistoryclubIG: @fidgetpodcasthttps://fidgetpodcast.com/

At some point, everyone has anxiety. How does your manifest? Join me and Barbara Lally, author of the Trichster Diaries, as we talk about trichotillomania, a hair pulling disorder that affects roughly 2% of the population (and both of us!) Barbara has learned to turn her pain into purpose, embrace her story with Trichotillomania and use it to help others for good. This episode will leave you with a permission slip to own who you are, even the parts that you've kept hidden! YOU WILL LEARN:

In episode 369 I chat with Nathan Peterson. Nathan is an OCD specialist who practices in Allen, Texas. He works with OCD, anxiety, tics and Tourettes, and BFRB's such as hair pulling and skin picking. He has a YouTube channel where he posts weekly videos about OCD and other anxiety related disorders. We discuss an update on him and his YouTube channel, what is emotional contamination themed OCD, magical thinking, some of the obsessions and compulsions of this theme, exposure and response prevention therapy (ERP) ideas and examples, working through resistance to treatment, how family and partners can support their loved one with this theme, words of hope and much more. Hope it helps.      Show notes: https://theocdstories.com/episode/nathan-369   The podcast is made possible by NOCD and JS Health vitamins.  NOCD offers effective, convenient therapy available in the US and outside the US. To find out more about NOCD, their therapy plans and if they currently take your insurance head over to https://go.treatmyocd.com/theocdstories JS Health's vitamin formulas are solution-focused, meaning they are designed to target your main health concerns and support a whole range of wellness goals. Get 15% off their entire range at www.jshealthvitamins.com and use the code OCDSTORIES at checkout. Join our Patreon to see the video versions of the podcast ad-free and other perks: https://www.patreon.com/theocdstoriespodcast

Today I connect with Kimberley Quinlan, a therapist and fellow spoonie. We discuss a variety of topics including her experience having POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome), strategies for coping with health anxiety, and how to know what type of therapy is right for you.  KIMBERLEY QUINLAN is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and has a private practice in Calabasas, CA specializing in Anxiety, OCD and related disorders, and Eating Disorders. Kimberley is also the founder of CBTschool.com, an online psycho-education platform that provides online courses for those with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and Body-Focused Repetitive Behavior's. Kimberley is the author of The Self-Compassion Workbook for OCD and the host of Your Anxiety Toolkit Podcast, a podcast aimed at providing mindfulness-based tools for anxiety, OCD, depression, and BFRB's. YOUR ANXIETY TOOLKIT: https://pod.link/1098792502 COURSES & Free trainings CBTSCHOOL.com Private Practice kimberleyquinlan-lmft.com Instagram: @youranxietytoolkit or https://www.instagram.com/youranxietytoolkit/ The Self-Compassion Workbook for OCD https://www.amazon.com/dp/168403776X/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_2JG8H4VWFSBMBJVQ4AD8 Episode Transcripts: https://www.emilyfraser.ca/podcast FREE flare-up freedom workshop: https://www.thespooniementor.com/free/  Instagram: https://instagram.com/thespooniementor Website: https://www.emilyfraser.ca/  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thespooniepodcast/message