Podcast appearances and mentions of dominic barter

Dr. T and Truth Fairy welcome guest Gil Bar-Sela to the podcast to talk about his work as a psychedelic guide, facilitator, and trainer working with individuals, couples, and groups. Gil weaves modalities like generative somatics, compassionate listening, and archetypal work into the more ancient medicine ceremonies. Gil shares his personal journey with Dr. T and Truth Fairy and engages in thoughtful discussions about psychedelics and healing. Gil shares that when he moved to the United States after being raised in Tel Aviv, Israel, he had his first opportunity to deal with the trauma lodged in his body. That led him to ask questions about conflict, the root causes of conflict, trauma, and intergenerational trauma which put him on track to explore all those issues. He also began his own personal healing process around his queer identity. This experience and questioning led him to the studies and practices he engages in today.  Truth Fairy, Gil, and Dr. T talk about how self-awareness is what first leads to healing work. Having a sense of what we need can lead us to the right kind of work to be doing. Gil talks about the building blocks necessary to become a good guide which include ethics, pharmacology, and onboarding clients in a responsible way. The conversation highlights Gil's own strong sense of guidance and understanding of the different types of medicine available for healing individuals which also includes psychedelics.“You have the psychiatrist, you have the psychotherapist moving into the space that are very rooted in the Western psyche, but are also lacking usually in terms of connection to spirit, to more expansive practices, to ancient wisdom. And so I think, in particular, the role of the underground guide can be to merge the two worlds. Because we're not here and we're not there. We can be bridge builders. The training that I lead is very much focused on that.” - Gil Bar-Sela__About Gil Bar-Sela:Gil has trained teams and businesses to invoke a thriving work culture. He has inspired audiences of thousands by speaking at colleges across the country on topics such as the power of listening and gender equality. He has collaborated with the leadership team of Seattle's Restorative Justice Initiative, creating community-based, non-punitive solutions to conflict. He co-leads annual delegations to Palestine and Israel with The Compassionate Listening Project, an organization dedicated to empowering individuals and communities to transform conflict and strengthen cultures of peace. He also coaches privately, and leads workshops and retreats globally.Gil is a Certified Trainer with the Heart Math Institute and a Certified Facilitator with The Compassionate Listening Project. He has also trained at Susan Scott's Fierce Conversations, Dominic Barter's Restorative Circles, Core Energetics, META (Mindful Experiential Therapy Approaches), Cortiva's 1,000-hour massage therapy program, and shamanism.Website: GilBarSela.com__Contact Punk Therapy:Patreon: Patreon.com/PunkTherapyWebsite: PunkTherapy.comEmail: info@punktherapy.com

In the first hour of "Connections with Evan Dawson" on Friday, September 22, 2023, our guests discuss restorative practices, including the process of Restorative Circles, created by Dominic Barter.

Empathy is less about arriving somewhere. It's more about being. In dieser Podcast-Folge spricht Stefan mit Kiu Coates, der seine Erfahrungen und Erkenntnisse über kulturelle Unterschiede und die Praxis der Gewaltfreien Kommunikation (GFK) mit uns teilt. Wir sprechen über seine Zeit in Brasilien und beleuchten die kulturellen Unterschiede, auf die er gestoßen ist, wie z. B. Direktheit und Verbindlichkeit in der brasilianischen gegenüber der europäischen Kultur. Wir sprechen auch über seinen Weg in die gewaltfreie Kommunikation mit Dominic Barter und darüber, wie sie sich auf seine persönlichen Beziehungen und sein Verständnis von Systemen und Kultur ausgewirkt hat. In der Episode erzählt Kiu verschiedene Beispiele und Erfahrungen, darunter eine über einen Streik in einer Schule und wie einfühlsames Zuhören und Verstehen dabei geholfen haben, Konflikte zu lösen und neue Lösungen zu finden. Er zeigt auf, wie wichtig es ist, die Bedürfnisse anderer zu erfassen und zu würdigen sowie unterstützende Strukturen und Systeme zu schaffen, die Empathie und Handeln fördern. Wir sprechen darüber, wie wir Bereiche identifizieren können, in denen wir einfühlsamer sein wollen, und wie die Schaffung bewusster Unterstützungsstrukturen dabei helfen kann, diese Bedürfnisse zu erforschen und anzugehen.  Insgesamt bietet diese vielseitige Podcast-Episode einen spannenden tiefen Einstieg in kulturelle Unterschiede, gewaltfreie Kommunikation und die Bedeutung von Empathie und Unterstützungsstrukturen für die Förderung von Verständnis und Verbindung. Übungen: Finde einen Bereich, in dem Du einfühlsamer sein willst, und baue Dir bewusst Unterstützungsstrukturen aus, um diese Bedürfnisse zu erforschen und anzusprechen - ähnlich wie ein Empathie-Buddy: Menschen, die bewusst mit Dir etwas erforschen, das Euch am Herzen liegt. Diese Sache wird geteilt, und ist ein regelmäßiges Unterstützungs-System. Zum Beispiel, wenn du ein Elternteil bist und es um deine Kinder geht: Wie wäre es, wenn du dich regelmäßig mit anderen Eltern verabredest, die die gleichen Sorgen haben, weil sie nicht wissen, wie sie ihren Kindern gegenüber Grenzen setzen können? Du musst das System selbst gestalten und herausfinden, wie das funktionieren soll, wie regelmäßig es ist – und wird sich mit der Zeit ändern. Bleib also flexibel, aber baue Dein eigenes Selbstfürsorgesystem auf.Übe Dich in der Annahme, dass jedes Mal, wenn jemand etwas sagt, was Dir nicht gefällt, er eigentlich "bitte" sagt, und erforsche die zugrunde liegenden Bedürfnisse hinter seinen Worten. –– ENGLISH --In this podcast episode, Stefan interviews Kiu Coates who shares his experiences and insights on cultural differences and the practice of non-violent communication (NVC). We discuss his time living in Brazil and highlight the cultural differences he encountered, such as directness and accountability in Brazilian versus european culture. We also discuss his journey into non-violent communication with Dominic Barter and how it has impacted his personal relationships and understanding of systems and culture. Throughout the episode, Kiu shares various examples and stories, including one about a strike in a school and how empathetic listening and understanding helped resolve conflicts and find new solutions. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing and appreciating the needs of others, as well as creating support structures and systems that encourage empathy and action. We talk about identifying areas where we want to be more empathetic and how creating intentional support structures to explore and address those needs can help.  Overall, this podcast episode offers a deep dive into cultural differences, non-violent communication, and the importance of empathy and support structures in fostering understanding and connection. Exercises: Identify an area where you want to be more empathetic and create intentional support structures to explore and address those needs. Find an area where you want to be more empathetic, and consciously build support structures to explore and address those needs - much like an empathy buddy: people who consciously explore with you something you care about. This thing is shared, and is a regular support system. For example, if you're a parent and it's about your kids: how about regularly dating other parents who have the same concerns about not knowing how to set boundaries with their kids? You have to design the system yourself and figure out how that's going to work, how regular it is - and will change over time. So stay flexible, but build your own self-care system.Practice assuming that every time someone says something you don't like, they are actually saying "please" and explore the underlying needs behind their words. Die Webseite von Kiu:  "www.kiucoates.com www.kiucoates.com Mehr zu Dominic Barter:  "https://restorativecircles.de/dominic-barter https://restorativecircles.de/dominic-barter Wir wünschen Dir viel Freude mit dieser Folge. Wenn Du magst, hol Dir jetzt den Newsletter und bleib dran beim Thema GFK: https://podcast.gfk-trainer.de/episoden Abonniere unsere GFK-Impulse auf Telegram: https://t.me/gfkImpulseGFCast Hier erfährst Du mehr über uns und den GFCast: https://gfcast.de oder schreib uns: gfcast@gfk-trainer.de

Rosa supports leaders and groups around the world to work creatively with divergent perspectives. Her mission is developing our collective capacity to transform friction into useful energy and greater insight. Author of From Conflict to Creative Collaboration, a manual on Dynamic Facilitation. She also just finished her Ph.D. so soon we should say Dr. Rosa Zubizaretta.  This has freed up her time to take on new clients after some time steeped in academia. What would happen if helping a neighbor with a conflict was as normal as waking up in the morning?  What if our companies had an ethos that conflict is not only natural but good and has a hearty system for restoring after conflict?  That is what Traci and Rosa discuss as well as why we need to not start with our most difficult political rivals but make resolving conflict with those close to us our first order of business. Episode Timeline [00:09] Intro  [1:41] Meet Rosa [3:21] Rosa's contribution to the Sidewalk Talk Bus Tour [5:23] German and European ties [7:16] We need each other [8:51] De shame yourself [11:42] Common causes of conflict [15:43] How conflict is in heaven [18:56] Dominic Barter's restorative circles [25:40] Start where it is easy [33:30] Love wrestling with your husband [38:08] Passionate conflict is an energy turbine [41:32] The roots of violence [46:18] Closing [48:35] Outro Resources Mentioned From Conflict to Creative Collaboration (Book) Standout Quotes “I just want to start with the fact that as human beings, we get into messes with each other” (Rosa) “Anybody can learn how to hold space productively for another person and listen deeply.” (Rosa) “If the 99 % could figure out how to do collaboration between us, we'd be so F* strong,” (Rosa) “But we grew up in a culture where we do not learn how to confront people with love. ” (Rosa) “Conflict happens when we're at our edge. It's like, there's an edge there. There's something that I don't know or understand yet, or something's getting triggered or something. And so it's a potential growth place. ” (Rosa) “I think conflict is a potentially renewable, sustainable source of energy ” (Rosa) “We just have to open the space so that we are not butt heads against each other, but that that passion gets harnessed.” (Rosa) Connect Find | Sidewalk Talk  At sidewalk-talk.org On Instagram: @sidewalktalkorg On Twitter: @sidewalktalkorg   Find | Traci Ruble At Traciruble.com On Instagram: @TraciRubleMFT On Twitter: @TraciRubleMFT On Facebook: @TraciRubleMFT   Find | Rosa Zubizarreta At www.diapraxis.com  www.co-intelligence.institute On LinkedIn: @rosazubizarreta   SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST On Apple Podcasts On Google Podcasts On Spotify On YouTube  

Ein Konfliktlösungsansatz für Großgruppen Auf dem IIT - dem Internationalen Intensivtraining für Gewaltfreie Kommunikation - habe ich (Irina) Duke Duchscherer kennengelernt. Er ist ein vom CNVC - Center for Nonviolent Communication - zertifizierter GFK-Trainer und international tätig. Seine Schwerpunktarbeit liegt im Einsatz der Restorative Circles zwischen vielen Konfliktparteien. Es ist ein Prozess, den er bei dem Begründer Dominic Barter gelernt hat und nun in der Verbindung mit Gewaltfreier Kommunikation anwendet. Hauptsächlich geht es dabei darum alle Konfliktbeteiligte in einem Sitzkreis zusammenzubringen, alle zu Wort kommen zu lassen und von anderen Beteiligten gehört zu werden. Durch die Moderation des Begleiters wie Duke, haben alle die Möglichkeit auszusprechen, was sie die andere Konfliktpartei hören lassen wollen. All ihren Schmerz, die Umstände des Konfliktes, aber auch ihre Beweggründe für ihr Handeln. Auf diese Weise kann beidseitiges Verständnis entstehen und die Konfliktbeteiligten können inneren Frieden finden.  Um einen Eindruck von dieser Arbeit zu erhalten, hat Duke mir die Gelegenheit geboten seinen Vortrag für den Podcast aufzunehmen. Hierbei berichtet Duke von drei Konflikten aus Nigeria, Peru und Ruanda.  Er ist auch sehr offen für Kooperationen, sodass Ihr ihn gerne kontaktieren könnt, wenn Ihr mit ihm kooperieren mögt.  Webseite von Duke:  "https://togetherwethrive.world/#stories Home - Gemeinsam gedeihen wir (togetherwethrive.world) Dokumentation seiner Arbeit:  "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RqA2OydkXgg&t=2s Raamro Aakha Ma - In the Eyes of the Good (english) - YouTube Wir wünschen Dir viel Freude mit dieser Folge. Wenn Du magst, hol Dir jetzt den Newsletter und bleib dran beim Thema GFK: https://podcast.gfk-trainer.de/episoden Abonniere unsere GFK-Impulse auf Telegram: https://t.me/gfkImpulseGFCast Hier erfährst Du mehr über uns und den GFCast: https://gfcast.de oder schreib uns: gfcast@gfk-trainer.de

Auf dem IIT - dem Internationalen Intensivtraining für Gewaltfreie Kommunikation - habe ich (Irina) Duke Duchscherer kennengelernt. Er ist ein vom CNVC - Center for Nonviolent Communication - zertifizierter GFK-Trainer und international tätig. Seine Schwerpunktarbeit liegt im Einsatz der Restorative Circles zwischen vielen Konfliktparteien. Es ist ein Prozess, den er bei dem Begründer Dominic Barter gelernt hat und nun in der Verbindung mit Gewaltfreier Kommunikation anwendet. Hauptsächlich geht es dabei darum alle Konfliktbeteiligte in einem Sitzkreis zusammenzubringen, alle zu Wort kommen zu lassen und von anderen Beteiligten gehört zu werden. Durch die Moderation des Begleiters wie Duke, haben alle die Möglichkeit auszusprechen, was sie die andere Konfliktpartei hören lassen wollen. All ihren Schmerz, die Umstände des Konfliktes, aber auch ihre Beweggründe für ihr Handeln. Auf diese Weise kann beidseitiges Verständnis entstehen und die Konfliktbeteiligten können inneren Frieden finden.  Um einen Eindruck von dieser Arbeit zu erhalten, hat Duke mir die Gelegenheit geboten seinen Vortrag für den Podcast aufzunehmen. Hierbei berichtet Duke von drei Konflikten aus Nigeria, Peru und Ruanda.  Er ist auch sehr offen für Kooperationen, sodass Ihr ihn gerne kontaktieren könnt, wenn Ihr mit ihm kooperieren mögt.  Webseite von Duke: Home - Gemeinsam gedeihen wir (togetherwethrive.world) Dokumentation seiner Arbeit: Raamro Aakha Ma - In the Eyes of the Good (english) - YouTube Wir wünschen Dir viel Freude mit dieser Folge. Wenn Du magst, hol Dir jetzt den Newsletter und bleib dran beim Thema GFK: https://podcast.gfk-trainer.de/episoden Abonniere unsere GFK-Impulse auf Telegram: https://t.me/gfkImpulseGFCast Hier erfährst Du mehr über uns und den GFCast: https://gfcast.de oder schreib uns: gfcast@gfk-trainer.de

Conflict in life is inevitable. Today's guest Alyson Ewald talks about how to have a good fight, how to transform harm into connection, and the importance of creating conflict systems that are personal and effective for your community. Alyson Ewald works with individuals and groups to design systems and practices that support learning, connection, creative conflict engagement, and collaborative decision making. She also facilitates the social dimension of Gaia Education's online course in sustainable design. Alyson has spent thirty years leading environmental and educational programs both within the US and abroad. She has received training and experience in English teaching, Permaculture, Alternatives to Violence, Nonviolent Communication, and Restorative Circles. She has also served as a Board member for Dancing Rabbit Ecovillage, Scotland County Farmers' Market, and the Foundation for Intentional Community (FIC). She is a Missouri certified teacher, a certified Permaculture designer, and an avid student of governance, conflict, and justice. In 2005 she co-founded Red Earth Farms, a homesteading community in northeast Missouri, U.S., where she continues to practice permaculture and social transformation. Learn more about Alyson and her work at www.AlysonEwald.com. Alyson also mentioned the work of Dominic Barter and you can learn more about him and Restorative Circles at www.restorativecircles.org Sign up for Alyson's 5-week online course, Tough Talks: How to Communicate with Grace and Compassion That Works, starting June 25th. https://www.ic.org/communication-course/ref/179 Podcast listeners, use this code INSIDE30 and get 30% off. If you want to learn more about facilitation or any aspect of building community, check out the Inside Community Podcast sponsor, The Foundation for Intentional Community. FIC is an incredible resource center with weekly events, online courses, classified advertisements, an extensive bookstore and lots of free educational materials. You can learn more about FIC and access full show notes at ic.org/podcast. Your financial support of Inside Community helps us to continue to create meaningful and exciting content and I hope you'll consider donating through our website while you are there. Communities Magazine is a primary resource for information, stories, and ideas about intentional communities—including urban co-ops, cohousing groups, ecovillages, and rural communes. Each full-color quarterly issue focuses on a specific theme. Subscriptions are available and more than 400 back-issue articles are posted for free public reading on the website. https://www.gen-us.net/communities/ Follow the show and see inspiring images and videos of community life on Facebook and Instagram @InsideCommunityPodcast - I'd love to hear from you there! You can find the show on TikTok @InsideCommunity If this content has been meaningful or useful to you, please subscribe, rate and review, and share with your friends and folks you know who are curious about living Inside Community.

Ein Gemeinschaftsprojekt Bildung ist ein Luxusgut. Dazu zählen wir auch die GFK. Wenn eine Person Sorgen hat, wie sie ihre Fixkosten bezahlen kann, wird sie nicht nach Bildungsangeboten Ausschau halten.  Auch die persönliche Entwicklung erfordert meist den Gegenwert des Geldes. Sei es, dass jemand sich Bücher, Kurse oder Ausbildungen leisten möchte.  Hier möchte ich, Irina, ein Experiment eingehen. Ich teste den Finanzierungsansatz von Dominic Barter und biete Euch viele meiner Dienstleistungen zu einem von Euch gewählten Preis an. Der Gedanke dahinter ist, dass wir uns alle als Gemeinschaft betrachten und Menschen ermöglichen wollen die Gewaltfreie Kommunikation kennenzulernen, auch wenn sie nur geringe finanzielle Mittel zur Verfügung haben. Diejenigen, die mehr zu geben haben unterstützen diejenigen, die sich Bildung und damit persönliches Wachstum sonst nicht unbedingt leisten würden. Alle Informationen erfährst Du unter: https://www.irinasonberg.online/ Ich freue mich, wenn Du dabei bist :) Sei herzlich willkommen! Wir wünschen Dir viel Freude mit dieser Folge. Wenn Du magst, hol Dir jetzt den Newsletter und bleib dran beim Thema GFK: https://podcast.gfk-trainer.de/episoden Abonniere unsere GFK-Impulse auf Telegram: https://t.me/gfkImpulseGFCast Hier erfährst Du mehr über uns und den GFCast: https://gfcast.de oder schreib uns: gfcast@gfk-trainer.de

Bildung ist ein Luxusgut. Dazu zählen wir auch die GFK. Wenn eine Person Sorgen hat, wie sie ihre Fixkosten bezahlen kann, wird sie nicht nach Bildungsangeboten Ausschau halten.  Auch die persönliche Entwicklung erfordert meist den Gegenwert des Geldes. Sei es, dass jemand sich Bücher, Kurse oder Ausbildungen leisten möchte.  Hier möchte ich, Irina, ein Experiment eingehen. Ich teste den Finanzierungsansatz von Dominic Barter und biete Euch viele meiner Dienstleistungen zu einem von Euch gewählten Preis an. Der Gedanke dahinter ist, dass wir uns alle als Gemeinschaft betrachten und Menschen ermöglichen wollen die Gewaltfreie Kommunikation kennenzulernen, auch wenn sie nur geringe finanzielle Mittel zur Verfügung haben. Diejenigen, die mehr zu geben haben unterstützen diejenigen, die sich Bildung und damit persönliches Wachstum sonst nicht unbedingt leisten würden. Alle Informationen erfährst Du unter: https://www.irinasonberg.online/ Ich freue mich, wenn Du dabei bist :) Sei herzlich willkommen! Wir wünschen Dir viel Freude mit dieser Folge. Wenn Du magst, hol Dir jetzt den Newsletter und bleib dran beim Thema GFK: https://podcast.gfk-trainer.de/episoden Abonniere unsere GFK-Impulse auf Telegram: https://t.me/gfkImpulseGFCast Hier erfährst Du mehr über uns und den GFCast: https://gfcast.de oder schreib uns: gfcast@gfk-trainer.de

Quem aí já não esteve em situações em que perdemos a cabeça e falamos o que queríamos de um jeito agressivo ou autoritário? Ou ouvimos palavras neste teor vindo de alguém? O tema de hoje tem tudo haver com o jeito com que nos comunicamos, ou seja, com o jeito que falamos e ouvimos. E para isso, traremos o conceito da COMUNICAÇÃO NÃO VIOLENTA (CNV), idealizada pelo psicólogo Marshal Rosenberg, que contou ao mundo mais sobre o tema no seu livro com o mesmo nome.  Já no Brasil, o maior nome disseminador de seu conhecimento no assunto é Dominic Barter e vamos nos apropriar de suas contribuições para no episódio de hoje.

In our inaugural episode of WakeUpWalkTowards, Catherine and Jiva sit down with Restorative Circles developer Dominic Barter to discuss conflict, grief, and building community resilience without relying on outside experts. This is a podcast in times of climate crisis and colonial collapse. You are not alone. Join us as we meet people from around the world who are actively creating a regenerative future where all beings matter.

É possível melhorar a comunicação a ponto de reduzir conflitos em todos os âmbitos da vida? Dominic Barter (@contatodominic), especialista em Comunicação Não-Violenta conversa com a apresentadora @IzabellaCamargoReal e prova que, com a CNV, sim, é possível. Siga a gente nas redes sociais: @Zenklub

A comunicação não-violenta é uma prática quase que vital em tempos de polarização. Conversamos com Dominic Barter, especialista no tema, sobre como negociar pela internet, com quem pensa muito diferente de você e em família. Escute o papo. Trechos de música: “Ferris Wheel”, Quincas Moreira

Nossa conversa é com o Dominic Barter, ele é britânico (mas nossa conversa é em português) e estuda Comunicação Não-Violenta há mais de 20 anos. Nessa conversa focamos o papo em Justiça Restaurativa, um tema importante e ainda pouco explorado. Acompanhe o trabalho do Dominic em sua página do Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dominicbarter42/

Um papo sobre infâncias, educação, manifestação de sonhos grandiosos, começar da forma que é possível. Mariana Carvalho tem um trabalho nada banal: é cofundadora e diretora do Espaço Cria, uma escola para as crianças serem elas mesmas. Através da conexão com a natureza e com educadores sensíveis, as crianças se desenvolvem na sua máxima potência. Mari pra mim é exemplo de persistência e firmeza no propósito. Sonha grande e dá passos do tamanho possível a cada agora. Nesse episódio você vai ouvir sobre: > educação, infância e prazer > aprendizados com as crianças > limites e limitações > autonomia e liberdade > ter foco no sonho grandioso e começar como for possível > o trabalho como ambiente de auto-criação > criar a partir de princípios, e não formas rígidas Inscreva-se na newsletter no www.carolinabergier.com.br para receber conteúdo exclusivo. Referências do episódio: Educação Gaia, escola Inkiri, Ivana Jauregui, Renato Noguera, José Pacheco e Escola da Ponte, Ana Carolina Moraes, Charles Eisenstein, ExtraMuros, Dominic Barter.

Conversar com quem tem opiniões muito opostas às nossas nunca foi fácil. Todo mundo sempre falou sobre parentes chatos, amigos irredutíveis, colegas de trabalho inconvenientes… Mas parece que as coisas estão mais acirradas ultimamente. Os almoços com a família andam com o clima mais pesado. Reencontrar amigos antigos pode ser mais desconfortável do que nunca e dá até medo de tocar em certos assuntos… e se juntarmos tudo isso com os períodos eleitorais, então, danou-se. Qualquer papo vira briga. Realizada em parceria do Instituto Avon com o site Papo de Homem, a pesquisa “Derrubando Muros & Construindo Pontes” traduziu em dados toda essa dificuldade que temos em conversar. O projeto foi criado para entender quais são os maiores entraves – e as maiores esperanças – que se apresentam quando debatemos ideias. Após muitas análises, o resultado separou as pessoas em três perfis distintos: os Construtores de Pontes, os Em Trânsito e os Entre Muros. O primeiro perfil é daqueles que estão mais abertos ao diálogo; o segundo descreve quem está com vontade de entender mais sobre o outro e está se esforçando para conversar mais; por fim, os que se encaixam no terceiro perfil são os que não sentem que têm paciência para falar com ninguém que pense muito diferente. A conclusão parece simples: precisamos, cada vez mais, estimular pessoas a serem Construtoras de Pontes, certo? Mas como ajudar pessoas a se abrirem? Como conduzir um diálogo sem deixar que a raiva, a frustração e a falta de paciência domine tudo e possamos, enfim, conversar nos conectando com as nossas necessidades e as dos outros? Para discutir esta questão, contamos esta semana com a presença de Dominic Barter, pesquisador social e consultor internacional em comunicação não-violenta em práticas restaurativas; e Mafoane Odara, coordenadora do Instituto Avon. Vem com a gente e com nossos especialistas convidados entender um pouco mais sobre a teoria e a prática da Comunicação Não-Violenta e mediação de conflitos! ======== BRADESCO PATROCINA O 22° FESTIVAL DO JAPÃO O Bradesco é patrocinador do Festival do Japão, que está em seu 22º aniversário e acontece dos dias 5 a 7 de julho. E olha que demais: a internet em 2019 completa 50 anos e o Festival do Japão celebra as ferramentas que possibilitam a troca de informações e cultura entre os povos. Não se esqueça de usar a internet e ver todos os Stories no Instagram do Bradesco! A cobertura vai focar na culinária, mas também mostraremos dança e músicas típicas. O tema desse ano é “cultura sem fronteiras; a internet como ferramenta de acesso e compartilhamento de cultura e informações”. Acompanhe a cobertura e celebre todas as culturas com o Bradesco! ======== FALE CONOSCO . Email: mamilos@b9.com.br . Facebook: aqui . Twitter: aqui ======== CONTRIBUA COM O MAMILOS Quem apoia o Mamilos ajuda a manter o podcast no ar e ainda recebe toda semana um apanhado das notícias mais quentes do jeito que só o Mamilos sabe fazer. É só R$9,90 por mês! Corre ler, quem assina tá recomendando pra todo mundo. https://www.catarse.me/mamilos ======== EQUIPE MAMILOS Edição – Caio Corraini Produção – Beatriz Fiorotto Apoio a pauta – Jaqueline Costa e grande elenco Publicação – Pedro Strazza ======== CAPA A capa dessa semana é de autoria de Johnny Brito. ======== FAROL ACESO Mafoane: Livro “A Coragem de Ser Imperfeito”, pesquisa “O Conservadorismo e as Questões Sociais” e campanha “Você Não Está Sozinha”; Ju: Música e clipe “Amarelo”, filme “Dhanak” e livro “Kindred”.

Então é Natal, tempo de milagre até para ateus ortodoxos porque mesmo na guerra é aquele tempo em que a gente baixa as armas e olha para quem está do outro lado da trincheira enxergando a humanidade que nos conecta. Nós esquecemos por um dia as feridas que nos infligimos e enxergamos a dor compartilhada, as perdas mútuas. Celebramos nossa capacidade de criar beleza, alegria e solidariedade. Por um dia, todas as diferenças que nos separam ficam secundárias. Em 2018, muitas mágoas e rancores estão no caminho deste pequeno milagre de Natal. Foi o ano de nos chocarmos com a opinião das pessoas, de sofrermos com intolerância; foi tempo de enrijecer posicionamentos e nos isolarmos em torres de incertezas e superioridades morais. Tudo isso nos afasta, e é natural que seja assim. Nossa perspectiva da vida, personalidade e ambição são únicas. Nossas dores, nossos desafios, nossas falhas também. Todas as nossas escolhas podem ser espinhos para ferir quem cruza nosso caminho; podem dificultar e às vezes até mesmo impossibilitar a vida do outro. É bem tentador pra quem se machucou a opção de querer se afastar. Mas sozinhos não funcionamos; nossa maior habilidade evolutiva é a nossa capacidade de trabalharmos juntos, de colaborarmos, de nos esquentarmos um no calor do outro pra sobreviver ao inverno. E para isso, precisamos de um mecanismo para sistematicamente curar as feridas que causamos uns aos outros. É por isso que o Mamilos de hoje vai falar sobre perdão. Na mesa, contamos com as presenças de Ana Canosa e Fe Duarte, além das participações especiais de Regina Giannetti, Lucas Wallauer, Dominic Barter e Mãe Jacira Ialorixá do Abassa Axé de Ogum . Vem com a gente e taca-lhe o play nesse Mamilos! EM 2019, FAÇA ACONTECER COM O BRADESCO Todo final de ano, a equipe de redes sociais do Bradesco analisa as conversas que aconteceram durante o ano e pensa como ele pode participar de forma fluida para promover conexões genuínas, usando o filme de natal para potencializar uma reflexão relevante para as pessoas. Em 2018, a exclusão de alguns grupos de pessoas dos espaços e das conversas esteve no centro do debate. E isso fala muito com um banco que se constituiu a partir do ideal de inclusão bancária. Este foi o ponto de partida que inspira o filme de natal desse ano, que pela primeira vez sai das redes sociais e vai ganhar todas plataformas. A história feita “pra todos aqueles que encontraram o seu lugar e todos os que ainda vão encontrar”. FALE CONOSCO . Email: mamilos@b9.com.br . Facebook: aqui . Twitter: aqui CONTRIBUA COM O MAMILOS Quem apoia o Mamilos ajuda a manter o podcast no ar e ainda recebe toda semana um apanhado das notícias mais quentes do jeito que só o Mamilos sabe fazer. É só R$9,90 por mês! Corre ler, quem assina tá recomendando pra todo mundo. https://www.catarse.me/mamilos EQUIPE MAMILOS Edição – Caio Corraini Produção – Maíra Teixeira Apoio a pauta – Jaqueline Costa e grande elenco Transcrição dos programas – Lu Machado e Mamilândia CAPA A capa dessa semana é uma colagem digital de Zeca Bral (Colagem digital de Zeca Bral sobre tela da artista libanesa Arwa Abouon). FAROL ACESO Ana: Série "Rita"; Fe: Filme "Desejo e Reparação"; Cris: Livro "A Caixa Preta"; Ju: Filme "Roma". Link pro post no B9: https://www.b9.com.br/101642/mamilos-176-perdoar-pra-que/

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Este primeiro episódio trata sobre o que é a escuta, de maneira bem ampla. Trouxemos falas de pessoas com visões diversas sobre o que é a escuta e as ampliamos com também as nossas visões a respeito. Esperamos poder despertar boas cócegas na mente de vocês! Quem fez esse episódio Eliza Mania Dougas Leal Juliana Gouveia Leticia Sodré Como falar com a gente caleidoscopio.podcast@gmail.com www.facebook.com/caleidoscopiopodcast Referências Frases “não é bastante ter ouvidos para ouvir o que é dito, é preciso também que haja silêncio dentro da alma” Rubem Alves “Eu não vejo o mundo como ele é, mas como eu sou” Humberto Maturana “Não existe saber mais, existem diferentes saberes” Paulo Freire Textos “Estado de Presença” - André dos Anjos http://andreteatro.blogspot.com.br/2011/05/estado-de-presenca.html “Notas sobre experiência e o saber de experiência” - Jorge Larrosa Bondia http://www.scielo.br/pdf/rbedu/n19/n19a02.pdf Vídeos Rapaz tocando junto com a máquina de lavar: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u1hnBv12-uk Brené Brown - O poder da empatia https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ay846oJ8tfY TED Celeste Headlee - Dez regras para conversar melhor https://www.ted.com/talks/celeste_headlee_10_ways_to_have_a_better_conversation?language=pt-br TED Brené Brown - O poder da vulnerabilidade https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability?language=pt-br TED Julian Treasure - 5 maneiras de escutar melhor https://www.ted.com/talks/julian_treasure_5_ways_to_listen_better?language=pt-br TED Evelyn Glennie - Evelyn Glennie mostra como ouvir https://www.ted.com/talks/evelyn_glennie_shows_how_to_listen?language=pt-br TED Ernerto Sirolli - Quer ajudar alguém? Fique quieto e escute! https://www.ted.com/talks/ernesto_sirolli_want_to_help_someone_shut_up_and_listen?language=pt-br Filme Waking Life – roteiro e direção de Richard Linklater Conceitos mencionados Comunicação Não-Violenta - Marshal Rosemberg Teoria U - Otto Scharmer Design Thinking Pessoas e organizações às quais nos referimos Wellington Nogueira - Doutores da Alegria https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CY_KJJXRmhM&t=1694s (inicia na posição 9’20”) Brandon Stanton - Humans of NY http://www.humansofnewyork.com/about Noam Chomski - "Linguagem e Mente", Ed. Unesp, 2009. Peu - Casa Redonda (http://casaredonda.com.br) Vai-e-Vem (www.facebook.com/vaievembrasil) EMEF Amorim Lima (http://amorimlima.org.br) Falas Paula Hilst e Iuri Hilst José Bueno (www.facebook.com/zerobueno) Débora Rebecchi (www.facebook.com/debora.rebecchi) Stefano Tincani (drtincani@gmail.com | 19 3739-1020) Cibelle Rosa (www.facebook.com/cibelle.rosa.1) Dominic Barter (www.facebook.com/dominicbarter42)

Two Dialogues: 2012 and Summer of Peace 2013 with Sissi Mazzetti Description of both dialogues: Dominic Barter shares poignantly in both interviews first by the tone of his sharing and presence, which in fact illuminates the equanimity that is felt in the actual process he helps guide with his work in Restorative Circles. The first […] The post Dominic Barter appeared first on Restorative Justice On The Rise.

Brett's and my continuing series on self-esteem pillarshttp://schoolsucksproject.com/podcast-266-the-practice-of-self-responibility-the-six-pillars-of-self-esteem-part-3/my guest appearance on The Ed And Ethan Showhttp://edandethan.com/podcast/ed-ethan-96-conspiring-to-theorize/Brett's guest appearancehttp://schoolsucksproject.com/257-supplemental-better-communication-with-ed-and-ethan/Empathy Connects, Transforms and Removes the Blocks to Action! Dominic Barter & Edwin Rutschhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LROG6BmN_XEhttp://cultureofempathy.comAudio series containing Dominic Barter's talk "Chalk dust for ninjas: making systems visible"http://a-path-with-heart.net/level1/bumper music "Empathy" (Maii Remix) by Laura Mayhttp://www.beatport.com/en-US/html/content/release/detail/241259/Empathy

I was a guest on http://cultureofempathy.com with host Edwin Rutsch. Edwin has been seeking to build a culture of empathy, one that encompasses all human systems, starting with oneself and one's family.Wesley Bertrand and Edwin Rutsch: How to Build a Culture of Empathyhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jFkcZCB09h0Our conversation with other notes: http://j.mp/1366vQShttp://cultureofempathy.com/Projects/Empathy-Tent/index.htmhttp://cultureofempathy.com/Projects/Empathy-Movement/Restorative-Empathy-Circle/Index.htmhttp://www.youtube.com/user/EdwinRutsch/videosThe Six Pillars of Self-Esteemhttp://www.nathanielbranden.com/product-category/self-esteem/Breaking Free by Nathaniel Brandenhttp://books.google.com/books/about/Breaking_free.html?id=2U8dAQAAMAAJPunished by Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A's, Praise, and Other Bribeshttp://www.alfiekohn.org/books/pbr.htmUnconditional Parenting: Moving From Rewards And Punishments To Love And Reason by Alfie Kohnhttp://www.unconditionalparenting.com/up/Nonviolent Communication: A Language Of Life by Marshall Rosenberghttp://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Marshall-Rosenberg/dp/1892005034/http://en.nvcwiki.com/index.php/Restorative_justicehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/VoluntaryismFundamentals of Voluntaryism (nod to Carl Watner)http://voluntaryist.com/fundamentals/Sudbury Valley School that fosters intrinsic motivationhttp://www.sudval.org/http://www.guywinch.com/the-book/http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-squeaky-wheelHuman Centered Designhttp://dschool.stanford.edu/http://abc.go.com/watch/wife-swap/SH5539547/VDKA0_lgk9v6h5/avery-lamb--martinhttp://schoolsucksproject.com/208-whole-parents-with-dayna-martin/Dayna Martin: What is Radical Unschooling?http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kiHyzS26N0YUnschooling: What is Deschooling? (Dayna Martin)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9meP3a64MzYDayna Martin: Common Unschooling Questions Answeredhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-NheCjqDMMhttp://dirtywars.org/jeremy-scahillhttp://reason.com/reasontv/2013/06/13/jeremy-scahill-dirty-wars[154] Dirty Wars: Terror Begets Terror | Jeremy Scahill Breaks the Sethttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y_fq-20h5SwThe Stream : Uncovering America's 'dirty wars'http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BCRMDBk13PINVC teleconference - http://a-path-with-heart.net/level1/Dominic Barter's site - http://www.restorativecircles.org/Google Personal Growth Series The New Science of Mindsight by Dan Siegelhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gr4Od7kqDT8bumper music "Empathy" by Jayswayshttp://jayswaysmusic.com/

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Dominic Barter has studied the interface between societal and personal change, and the role of conflict, since the 1980s. Since 2004 he has worked as consultant and training program director for the Brazilian Restorative Justice pilot projects, in collaboration with the UN Development Program, UNESCO, the Ministry of Justice, Ministry of Education and Special Secretariat […] The post Dominic Barter of Restorative Circles appeared first on Restorative Justice On The Rise.