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Recovering cynic and social media addict Brad Gage hosts REAL FEELS - a podcast that asks guests to be public with their private persona. In a society where many of us constantly curate a version of ourselves online, this show gives people permission to look at who they are now, who they aim to be,…

Brad Gage


    • May 28, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 31m AVG DURATION
    • 52 EPISODES

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    The Real Feels podcast is an exceptional show that goes beyond surface-level conversations and delves into the depths of vulnerability, honesty, and self-awareness. Hosted by the wonderful Brad, this podcast offers a refreshing take on understanding and positive communication between individuals. It provides a platform for guests to share their thoughts and ponderings, often unspoken or rarely discussed with others. This podcast is not only enlightening but also empowers listeners to embrace their emotions and mental well-being.

    One of the best aspects of The Real Feels podcast is Brad's authenticity as a host. He creates a comfortable environment for his guests to open up and shed their "public personas." His genuine curiosity shines through in every conversation, allowing for deep and meaningful discussions. Moreover, Brad's selection of guests is commendable. They come from various backgrounds and offer diverse perspectives, making each episode unique and thought-provoking.

    Another incredible aspect of this podcast is its focus on personal growth and empowerment. The conversations on The Real Feels touch upon topics that are often considered taboo or dismissed in mainstream media. By addressing these subjects head-on, the podcast encourages listeners to confront their own fears, insecurities, and emotions in order to experience true growth. Through vulnerability and self-reflection, individuals can discover their own power and live more fulfilled lives.

    While it's difficult to find any major faults in The Real Feels podcast, some might argue that it can be emotionally intense at times. The deep dive into vulnerable topics may be overwhelming for those who prefer lighter content or wish to simply pass the time with entertainment-focused podcasts. However, it's important to note that this intensity is what makes The Real Feels truly special. It touches hearts while promoting personal growth.

    In conclusion, The Real Feels podcast is an absolute gem in the realm of podcasts. With its emphasis on vulnerability, honesty, and self-awareness, it fosters understanding between individuals and cultivates positive communication. Brad's authentic and thoughtful approach as a host, coupled with the insightful conversations with diverse guests, allows for a truly enriching listening experience. The Real Feels is a must-listen for anyone seeking personal growth, empowerment, and emotional/mental wealth.



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    Is Trauma the Source for Positive Change in Men? A Conversation with Jonathan Jacobs

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 41:21


    Jonathan Jacobs is a marketer and community organizer with a passion for men's work - recently starting the West Coast Chapter of “Walking Talking Men”. Walking Talking Men is a group of guys who walk together, opening the door for local friendships and non-judgmental conversations. On this episode you'll get Jonathan's take on how trauma is usually the source of change for men in their perspective on gender roles and manhood. Plus -  if you listen to the end you'll hear the story about how former New York Yankee All-Star Reggie Jackson taught him how to shake hands. We dig into the practical side of making male friendships and more on Real Feels. Here he is - Jonathan Jacobs. Hosted, Edited, and Produced by Brad Gage Logo by Nolan Fabricius Theme Song by Russell Henson Find Jonathan: www.JonathanJacobs.com @JonathanJacobs89 on Instagram

    How Democrats Can Win Back Men with Mark W. Sutton

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2025 25:42


    If the past few US presidential elections have taught us anything, it is that many men do not really see themselves aligned with the values and ideals of the Democratic party. Men are currently dying 5.9 years earlier than women, are only 40% of college students, and represent 75% of the unhoused population. They are struggling on the whole and Democrats rarely decide to dive into that crisis as a talking point. Author and data analyst Mark Sutton talks with Brad about why that is happening, and what can be changed to bring men back into the fold for the Democratic Party. Mark W Sutton is the author of the new book How Democrats Can Win Back Men Book: https://amzn.to/3z3R1Iz Site: http://mark-sutton.com Substack: https://menandthe2024election.substack.com   Real Feels is Hosted, Produced, and Edited by Brad Gage Logo by Nolan Fabricius Theme song by Russell Henson

    Why Men Need to Get Naked - A Conversation with author Mark Grayson

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 36:01


    What happens to men when they get naked? Mark Grayson thinks it's the key to reclaiming the parts of ourselves that our society tells us to get rid of if we want to be a "real man". Mark is the author of the new book "Getting Naked: A Field Guide For Men", where he helps men make a mental, emotional, and behavioral shift in order to embrace a broader and more empowered view of success.   Brad and Mark also talk about how to experience the male gaze as a guy - to better understand what women have to go through AND we discover how much Brad and Mark enjoy what Brad explains is "boy dinner".   Hosted, Edited, and Produced by Brad Gage   Logo by Nolan Fabricius   Theme Song by Russell Henson   Buy Mark's book: https://www.nakedmancollective.com/ Paperback: https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Naked-Field-Guide-Men/dp/B0DB6F5JY4 The Good Men Project Featured Columnist: https://goodmenproject.com/author/mark-grayson/ Mark's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markgrayson/ Mark's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mark_grayson_/

    Brad Gage Talks About Why Men's Mental Health Advocacy is Essential (with Hannah Ho)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2025 18:18


    Brad Gage talks about working in the world of masculinity, mental health, and NAMI with Hannah Ho, the founder of Address Teen Stress. Address Teen Stress is a non-profit and podcast committed to creating a safe, welcoming space where young people can share their struggles, access vital resources, and build the resilience needed to navigate life's challenges. The conversation hits on the meat and potatoes of Brad's work and inspiration. Topics include: men's mental health, the issues and stigmas with men's relationship to therapy, and Brad's work with NAMI - the National Alliance on Mental Illness. Check out AddressTeenStress.wixsite.com for more info about Hannah's organization. Check out NAMI.org for mental health resources    Hosted and Produced by Brad Gage Guest Interviewer - Hannah Ho    

    Why Do Men Hate Women?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2024 3:17


    When I peek under the hood of a lot of content I see right now, it leads me to the wonder - do men actually just hate women? They seem to truly want to stop the progress of women's rights at every turn. But clearly, to me, it's not about biology, or MeToo, or the anti-men POV right now in the dating world. I think the actual reason is the toughest thing to face - that they hate that they're not allowed to be kind to each other or themselves because it would break the rules. Written and produced by Brad Gage Theme song written by Russell Henson Logo by Nolan Fabricus

    Charles Bukowski: The Problematic Poet

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2024 9:12


    Charles Bukowski was one of the most famous and revered poets of the 20th century, but did his attitude and actions toward women negatively influence a generation of men? And is it possible to separate the art from the problematic artist?  Host Brad Gage tries his best to do just that and fails mid-podcast to find that my moral threshold doesn't allow him to admire people who demean and abuse women (no matter how much he loves their poetry). Hosted, Edited, and Produced by Brad Gage Logo by Nolan Fabricius Theme Song by Russell Henson

    How to Not Be a Creep

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2024 10:48


    What makes a guy a "creep"? And how can you make sure women aren't calling you one? While creepiness is subjective, it is the number one description to stay away from in dating or your social life. Being called a creep is one of the worst things for your reputation. Brad Gage takes time to figure out what are the traits of a “creep”, some actual examples of creepiness to give context, and some ideas on how to not become one.  Hosted, Edited, and Produced by Brad Gage Logo by Nolan Fabricius Theme Song by Russell Henson  

    A Male Platonic Friendship "Dating" App with Marc Milberg of Olley

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2023 28:01


    Host Brad Gage talks to Marc Milberg - founder of Olley, an app for men to connect with new friends in their area based on personality, interests, & more. Basically what they've built is a friendship-finding app that functions similarly to dating apps, but it's all platonic. Studies show that in 2021, 15% of men reported having no close friends, compared to only 3% in 1990. This is a fivefold increase since 1990. Especially for anyone who just recently moved to a new city, finding male friends is not easy, so there is a clear need for something like this.  Here is Marc Milberg's explanation for why the world needs the Olley app, and how he and Brad may have just made ourselves friends IRL in the process of this podcast. Download Olley: www.olleyapp.io Hosted, Edited, and Produced by Brad Gage Logo by Nolan Fabricius Theme Song by Russell Henson

    Patriarchy Blues and Intersectionality with author Fred Joseph

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2023 35:39


    Brad talks to 2 time New York Times bestselling author Frederick Joseph about intersectional feminism, how people can be both oppressed and privileged at the same time, why he could beat Joe Rogan's ass. Plus, they dive into the historical idea of women seen as property. Fred has written the sometimes-banned books "The Black Friend" and "Patriarchy Blues", as well as "Better Than We Found It" and "Black Panther: Wakanda Forever - The Courage to Dream".  On this episode, Brad got to do something few people have done - talk with one of their favorite authors about specific passages of one of their favorite books. Fred's Substack: https://frederickjoseph.substack.com/ Hosted and Produced by Brad Gage Logo by Nolan Fabricius Theme Song by Russell Henson

    Men's Dating Coaches and the Modern Manosphere with Michael Le

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2023 34:51


    Brad talks to Michael Le (aka "Dr. Silk"), a men's coach, about how conversational artistry is pretty much the most important thing in talking to women. Michael talks about his emphasis on empathy, curiosity, and listening when it comes to engaging with women, or anybody successfully. Brad's past episode about Pickup Artists and YouTube Dating Coaches caught Michael's attention, and the two talk about thoughtful, modern tactics in dating, as well as an explaination of the Andrew Tate phenomenon, MGTOW (men going their own way), and "black pill" mentalities. Michael's Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@realmrsilk Hosted and Produced by Brad Gage Logo by Nolan Fabricius Theme Song by Russell Henson

    Millennial and Gen X Talk About Masculinity and Addiction - with Tom Matlack

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2023 32:26


    Brad talks to writer, entrepreneur, and guy who helps men get sober - Tom Matlack. Tom is one of the authors of the book The Good Men Project: Real Stories from the Front Lines of Modern Manhood and you should definitely check out his writing by searching his name in Substack. What starts as a conversation of masculinity perspectives from a millennial guy versus a Gen X dude, turns into a deep assessment of life as a recovering alcoholic and money-obsessed individual. I'm so grateful to Tom for being so vulnerable, and zeroing in on why the dream of success and money is never really the answer to our inner troubles. Tom's Substack: https://substack.com/profile/7575118-tom-matlack Hosted and Produced by Brad Gage Logo by Nolan Fabricius Theme Song by Russell Henson

    The Lie That Self-Objectification is Empowering with Dr. Caroline Heldman

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2023 31:13


    On today's episode, Brad is talking to Dr. Caroline Heldman - a professor of Critical Theory and Social Justice at Occidental College in Los Angeles. She is also Executive Director of The Representation Project and has been featured in some of the most important documentaries on the subject of gender studies including Miss Representation and The Mask You Live In. Caroline is a friend who has been instrumental in guiding Brad through his journey of exploration on the subjects of modern masculinity, rape culture, gender equity, and intersectional feminism. Basically, if Brad am ever confused about what to do or who to talk to about a certain subject, he's lucky to be able to reach out to Caroline. Today, we are chatting about the topics in her new book: The Sexy Lie - which is an update and deeper dive on her viral TED talk of the same name. If you are interested in getting the book, there's a link in the description or you can go to https://www.sororitymansion.org/books Hosted and Produced by Brad Gage Logo by Nolan Fabricius Theme Song by Russell Henson  

    Saying the Things Men Aren't Supposed to Say

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2023 3:48


    I think a lot of guys feel the exact same way as me. So why don't they talk about it openly? Because the patriarchy and modern masculinity tell us that if we do, we're breaking the bro code and we are the worst thing imaginable - feminine. But it's not gendered to feel emotions, it's human. Written and Hosted and Edited by Brad Gage Subscribe for more conversations around modern masculinity and the inner lives of men.

    How I Stopped Watching Tubesite Porn

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2023 5:37


    Research shows that tubesite porn use is leading men to be less engaged in real relationships, have more erectile dysfunction, and have less motivation to make human connections. Plus, the main porn industry is fraught with abuse and inequity. This is not a deep dive about the injustices of porn, while there are many. This is a practical, reasonable guide for guys who want to ween off of a genuine compulsion. Written and Hosted and Edited by Brad Gage Subscribe for more conversations around modern masculinity and the inner lives of men.

    The Importance of Male Friendship

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2023 4:11


    Guys, for the sake of your health, check in on the men in your life. Lean into the camaraderie you have in your community. And if you don't have it, be brave and do the work to go get them. At least making male friendship connections should be a little less hard than dating. Written and Hosted and Edited by Brad Gage Subscribe for more conversations around modern masculinity and the inner lives of men.

    How Prisoners Taught Me Feminism

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2023 7:40


    This is a story about a group of the most traditionally masculine men possible - convicts, felons, and murderers - talking about feminism. Brad was inspired by the documentary "The Feminist on Cell Block Y" about program that helps teach prisoners about toxic masculinity, patriarchy, and how they can reach their personal goals in healthier ways. The film is a testament to rehabilitation, education, and how love within a community can heal the wounds we have within ourselves. Written and Hosted and Edited by Brad Gage Subscribe for more conversations around modern masculinity and the inner lives of men.

    Why I Won't Watch HBO's Euphoria

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2023 6:11


    Euphoria is a groundbreaking TV series in a lot of ways, but it wasn't until I understood how the show sexualizes teenagers that I realized why I had always felt uncomfortable at the idea of watching it. I explain how much the things we watch actually affect our view of the world, and why images of sexy teens can be harmful. Written, Produced, Edited, and Hosted by Brad Gage READ the Jessica Valenti piece "The Euphoria Problem" https://jessica.substack.com/p/the-euphoria-problem?s=r

    Why The Rock is the World's Most Famous Feminist

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2022 10:21


    Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson is arguably the biggest movie star in the world, and if you pay close enough attention, he's also the biggest feminist in Hollywood. Brad dives into The Rock's life, love, children, TV show, and more to unravel why Johnson is one of those unique famous men who believes in real equality (which is also why he's probably running for president). Written and Hosted and Edited by Brad Gage Subscribe for more conversations around modern masculinity and the inner lives of men.

    An Introduction to Restorative Justice with Sonya Shah

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2022 29:08


    Sonya Shah is someone Brad has admired from her appearances on other podcasts for her deep expertise around restorative justice, and all forms of healing justice that represent an alternative to the punitive, and many times racially insensitive systems of justice that currently preside in this country. Sonya is the Co-Executive Director of Ahimsa Collective is an organization that works to address harm in ways that foster wholeness for everyone. Their goals are to replace systems of punishment with paradigms grounded in healing, relationship, and love. It's a great talk where Sonya takes Brad to school around the work of restorative justice - how it's not a silver bullet solution to all instances of harm, and how much race and sheltered moralities really come into play for the people who disagree that we need an alternative to the current justice system's structure of repairing harm. Real Feels is produced, edited and hosted by  Brad Gage. The theme song was written by Russell Henson and our logo was designed by Nolan Fabricus. Thanks for listening and if you or someone you love is interested in seeking a restorative approach to harm, please reach out to the Ahimsa Collective at contact@ahimsacollective.net And if you want more conversations around masculinity and empathy, and loving the inner world of men, subscribe to this podcast or to Real Feels on YouTube.

    Why Large Age Gap Relationships Can Feel Gross

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2022 18:35


    Is age just a number? Using celebrities, TV, and pop culture, Brad Gage digs into the psychology of age-gap relationships, why older men and younger women are attracted to each other, how it can sometimes result in an unequal power dynamic, and what can be done to help these relationships thrive. Includes analysis of age-gap May-December romances, Evolution Theory, Gender Roles, "Daddy Issues", plus Dane Cook and Jerry Seinfeld dating teenagers. It'll all make sense when you listen. Written and Hosted by Brad Gage Produced by Brad Gage and Allison Mandell Editing by Brad Gage

    What Happens After #MeToo? Restorative Justice

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2022 6:57


    What should come after the #MeToo era? Restorative Justice is a process that hands the power to the victim after harm is done, while still working in collaboration with the person who did the harm. This way all those involved can release some of the shame, anger, or secrecy surrounding the incident. Because sometimes victims need something more than what law and order can provide. Written, Edited, and Performed by Brad Gage Music by Russell Henson Check out Russell's music here: https://www.russellhenson.com/ Find resources on Restorative Justice through the Ahimsa Collective https://www.ahimsacollective.net

    Male Sex Coach Cam Fraser Talking Porn, Masturbation, and Communication

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2022 50:45


    Cam Fraser is Australia's leading men's sex coach who you can find through his engaging, thoughtful, and frequently funny Instagram videos. He speaks to men about everything from masturbation, to porn, to myths about male sex organs. Luckily, we have become friends, and today's episode is where I get to ask him all my juicy questions about taboos, if porn is energetically cheating on your partner, and how men can help themselves take the shame out of porn, and sex and masturbation. Cam is really all about liberation from the ideas that keep men in the dark about their sexuality, and I am HERE FOR IT.

    How Pickup Artists Ruined Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2021 18:13


    Pickup Artists might seem old, corny, and pretty ridiculous to most people, but since their mid-2000's rise in popularity, the philosophy of THE GAME has influenced a generation of young men to manipulate their way to sex. With pickup gurus like Ross Jeffries, Neil Strauss, and Mystery teaching men for decades how to cut the female experience out of dating, they've made a lasting influence on the minds of modern single guys. Brad breaks down the “rules”, the mindset, and the emotional disconnection in hopes to find a better way to find love. Writing / Hosting / Graphics / Editing by Brad Gage Produced by Brad Gage and Allison Mandell Special thanks to: Dana Swanson Caron Clancey Matt Fried Jesse McKiel Ben Gonzales Ryan Thomas Andrew Delman Max Johanson

    Amanda Crew on Eating Disorders and Sexual Trauma

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2021 43:51


    Amanda Crew (HBO's Silicon Valley) and Brad have been friends a long time, but recently bonded over each of them finding movements they are truly passionate about. For Brad, it's reframing toxic masculinity, and for her, it's re-educating people around eating disorders. She's been vocal about it in her work with Project Heal, but in this conversation, we get to the genesis of her journey through anorexia. Amanda also gets frank about her own experiences with sexual trauma, providing advice about how romantic partners of victims can maneuver sex in a way that honors body autonomy and past events. Thanks for listening and if you want to find out more about Project Heal, which is an organization working to break down systemic, healthcare, and financial barriers to eating disorder treatment - go to theProjectHeal.org. Also - if you or someone you love is a victim of sexual violence seeking resources or support, you can find that and more at RAINN.org where they are in partnership with more than 1,000 local sexual assault service providers across the country. Hosted, Produced, and Edited by Brad Gage Subscribe to Real Feels on YouTube for more videos about how we form a new, more empathetic masculinity.

    Kaitlyn Hollysmith and Her Story of Trans Visibility

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2021 37:19


    Today’s episode is mostly a story - one both personal to me and educational. It’s with Kaitlyn Hollysmith, a lawyer, a mother, a wife, and a friend...who back in my college fraternity days - was my little brother. Kaitlyn is trans. Here on the show, we reconnect after 10 years of that normal drift apart that happens after you leave college, but she saw what I was doing with Real Feels, and reached out.  Her story about finding who she really was, how she got close to committing suicide, and triumphing into a married life with a young son - I can’t think of a more heroic journey. So, here is Kaitlyn Hollysmith spending some time to tell her story with me, right now. Thanks for listening and if you or someone you love is looking for a place with resources and crisis help for LGBTQ+ youth, check out thetrevorproject.org Hosted, Produced, and Edited by Brad Gage

    Joe Rogan Doesn't Understand Toxic Masculinity

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2020 12:23


    Joe Rogan has one major blindspot - his own toxic masculinity. While his open-mindedness on politics, relationships, drugs, hunting, and other social subjects is part of why he's amassed millions of subscribers (and a new $100 million Spotify contract), Rogan rejects the idea that men are conditioned in a way that is harmful to women and themselves. Brad Gage looks at the Joe Rogan Experience podcast as a whole, showing why Rogan would be even more successful if he embraced his emotional, empathetic, and cooperative side. Hosted and Produced by Brad Gage Written by Brad Gage and Allison Mandell

    Ep 25 - Sarah Moshman

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2020 51:28


    Like the women in her documentaries, director Sarah Moshman is on a mission. Her work is centered firmly around female empowerment - not just because she recognizes the injustices around her, but also to give her daughter a future with equity, integrity, and real possibility. Sarah’s ability to turn her message into her career makes her one of my personal role models, and her passion for communicating the female experience is infectious - as you’ll hear in our chat. Sarah and I talk about the tough gender subjects - sexual assault, conditioning, and how to talk with our future children about sex.  Anyone can host a screening of Sarah's film at www.neverthelessfilm.com Hosted and Produced by Brad Gage

    Ep 24 - Miguel Ferrer

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2020 46:18


    My friend Miguel Ferrer works internationally as a writer and director for feature films, music videos, and commercials. An exciting life as a storyteller, he could only have realized because his parents emigrated him from Venezuela to Miami when he was a young boy. His heritage is his pride, though Miguel is not afraid to critique the types of toxic male traits that permeate Latino culture. We break down ways to curb macho bullying, how being handsome doesn’t have as much of an effect on women as you think, and a bunch more in today’s episode. 

    Ep 23 - Dustin Milligan (from Schitt's Creek & RuPaul's Celebrity Drag Race)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2020 44:37


    Dustin Milligan is a man very in touch with his masculinity, and if you caught him recently as one of the winners on RuPaul’s Celebrity Drag Race - you’d see he’s clearly in touch with his femininity just as much. You might know Dustin from TV shows like Schitt’s Creek or Silicon Valley, but the guy I know above all is one who genuinely looks at the impact his life is making...and a dude who is just filled to the brim with puns. You can see the proof on his hilarious instagram account. Dustin sat down with me several months ago, right after he had shot Drag Race, to talk about why he had to cut out cannabis after 15 years, how he sees our society’s relationship to social media, and why listening is the best thing men can do right now in the wake of #MeToo. I’m so grateful he took some time to be with me, in THIS moment. Hosted and Produced by Brad Gage

    The Surprising Masculinity of Mister Rogers

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2020 9:09


    What does it mean to be a man? In his own particular way, Mister Rogers represented traits that traditionally masculine men pride themselves in - power, strength, confidence, and success. And his tactics are just what the modern man needs to maneuver personal relationships in the 21st century. Special thanks to everyone who had a part in the making of “Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood”, “Won’t You Be My Neighbor”, and “A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood”

    Ep 22 - Caron Clancey

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2020 52:21


    Caron Clancey is a writer, director, and eco-conscious hero. And I say “hero” because she wields her power in the way that every one of us can - with our wallets. She makes choices every day, no matter how small, to lower her carbon footprint and help heal the environment. And I think it’s about time that we recognize how exciting it is to make big changes every day. Caron and I talk here about her love for dirt, the helpful earth-nerd tricks she shares online, and how disconnected masculinity bleeds into every area of environmental politics. Above all, this episode will inspire you to make even the smallest baby steps toward your health and the world’s. Because we do what we can with the choices we are brought. And I’m so glad to bring you Caron Clancey in this moment….right now…. Caron's favorite video about composting - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWKxFWstoCA  

    Ep 21 - Evan Watkins

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2020 48:20


    Evan Watkins is an actor, guitarist, and guy who has made enough mistakes in his romantic life to know how important listening is. And it shows. What is lovely about this episode is that Evan was down to attack some big questions about masculinity with humility, and an awareness that while there are a lot of external pressures to be a certain type of guy, real manliness comes from having empathy for women and not pushing your own expectations on a situation. Listening, learning and striving to be better is what evolving is all about. I’m so glad Evan took some time to be here with me right now...

    Ep 20 - Lisa Schwartz

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2020 45:58


    Lisa Schwartz is an actress, producer, and personality who built a career on being herself for an audience of 2 million subscribers on YouTube. And being herself is about asking people to be empowered by the imperfect, and leaning into the quirks of being your age - which she did with her 2019 memoir “Thirty Life Crisis”. After going through a very public breakup a few years ago, she has finally found herself in a relationship that gives her peace, balance, and someone to lay on the bathroom floor with her when she’s hungover. I’m so lucky to have Lisa on the show today, where she taught me that there’s always hard stuff, you’re always evolving and that’s the beauty of life.

    Ep 19 - Steve Levy

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2020 29:41


    Steve Levy is a guy who doesn’t completely feel like he’s grown up yet, and he’s okay with that. As an associate producer of the hit Adult Swim show “Rick and Morty”, he’s worked hard as hell to succeed in an environment where he can immerse himself in the world of the movies and TV his father showed him as a young boy. And sometimes that immersion has affected his dating like, as you’ll hear. Today - we talk about what it was like growing up as a sensitive kid, the frat-like climate at his high school, and some life lessons he gleaned from his dad.

    Ep 18 - Lola Blanc

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2020 47:35


    Actress, singer, and director Lola Blanc is currently breaking out of her persona. After spending much of her adult life focused on pop music stardom, she’s now honing in on being more the version of herself that is...herself. And part of that is publicly sharing her perspectives on subjects like Mormonism, (which took up much of her childhood), sexism (which took up much of her music career), and allowing people space to make mistakes and grow (which is part of her mission now). Her coming on the show was actually prompted by an instagram post she shared about how conflicted she is playing into the algorithms of social media that are so entrenched in the male gaze. 

    Ep 17 - Philip Wang

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2020 48:33


    Philip Wang feels like he’s graduating into the next phase of his life, and it’s easy to agree with him. Along with his team at Wong Fu Productions, Philip built a YouTube channel with a fanbase of over 3 million people. Also - within the past year, he realized his dreams of opening a restaurant (bopomofo cafe), AND proposing to his girlfriend Helen. It all seems perfect, but, of course, it took a TON of inner work to get here. As you’ll see, Philip still feels impatient for what he can see is a future of opportunity - not just for him, but for the entire Asian American community. He’s a very busy guy and a great friend and I’m so grateful he took a little time to be here with me right now.

    Ep 16 - Iain McDonald

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2020 51:42


    Iain McDonald is a guy who Brad recently met and instantly wanted on the podcast. Not only is his energy calming and empathetic, but he also is very clearly hungry for knowledge and connection in a way that's contagious. He’s an actor and photographer, but as you’ll hear in the show, he is above all a curious guy, unafraid of questioning the reality we live in. I wade into the deep end with him about spirituality, metaphysics, technology, and the importance of asking “why”.

    Ep 15 - Andree Vermeulen

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2020 47:05


    Actor Andree Vermeulen is accomplishing a bunch of major life shifts in a very short time. Within the past 5 months she’s gotten pregnant, engaged, and moved into a new house. That’s...a lot. And she faces the challenges of her transitioning life through the practices of shifting her perspective to empowerment and connecting with who she really is on a daily basis. Today, she sat down with me to talk about how releasing her grip on the idea of "plans" helped get her role on the TV show "Angie Tribeca" (and even her baby). I’m so grateful she decided to be here with me right now in this moment.

    Ep 14 - Lee Newton

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2020 51:31


    Actor/writer/funny person Lee Newton is having a challenging moment. It’s one of heartbreak as well as new beginnings. After almost two years working with her comedy group - the Valleyfolk - on a vibrant and funny YouTube channel (as well as the NBC comedy TV show “Bring the Funny”) Lee was surprised to learn she had been terminated from the company she helped create. On this episode, Brad and Lee chat about empowerment, loss, resilience, comedy, and lessons she has learned being a woman in the entertainment industry. Thank you so much for listening.

    Ep 13 - Janine Oda

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2020 39:31


    Janine Oda is an actor, host, and friend, who in this moment is navigating her tendency to say "yes" to everything as well as publicly representing her faith in a community that's not always as accepting of it. She also has a loving boyfriend of 15 years, and you know what - she IS tired of people asking her if she’s getting married. She almost didn’t want to do my podcast because she was sick of talking about it. But, what resists persists, and we luckily got her on the show to get a little vulnerable. Thank you so much for listening.

    Ep 12 - Amalia Levari

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2019 50:39


    On a slightly different episode of the podcast, animation writer and longtime friend Amalia Levari, tells a wonderfully non-spooky ghost story, AND takes the opportunity to ask a question that no one has posed to Brad yet. Why is he doing this show and why isn’t it...funny? Together, the look at Brad's recent spiritual pivot, plus how she deals with wanting to fix everyone’s problems, and why she’s rooting for the survival of humanity. Thank you for listening.

    Ep 11 - Chen Tang

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2019 41:21


    Performer, artist, and one of the stars of Disney’s upcoming live-action “Mulan”, Chen Tang is here to speak his truth. Originally born in China, Chen talks about finding his many selves through the duel life of bouncing back and forth from China to America. Chen talks about spirit, truth, philosophy, and how easy Transcendental Meditation can really be when you just relax and let your brain do the work.

    Ep 10 - Jenny Lorenzo

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2019 40:30


    Jenny Lorenzo is a hard worker, totally hilarious, and thoroughly filled with anxiety. And she’s not shy about it. Whether it’s her Cuban upbringing in Miami, the drive to support the people around her, or the unending call to feed the content machines of the internet - Jenny is always on the grind. But is work all there is? And how does she handle the pressures of being an internet personality? Thank you for listening to this podcast. Genuinely.

    Ep 9 - Shaun Brown

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2019 41:21


    Shaun Brown and Brad are old friends. They've worked together, drank together, and lived together. Today, they spent some time together talking about the important stuff - the brutality of the animal kingdom as seen through instagram videos, true love, and the challenge of being a sensitive guy in the modern age. Thank you for listening!

    Ep 8 - Beth Rowe

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2019 37:56


    Comedian, actor and writer Beth Rowe is getting married. Well, was about to get married when we recorded this. She’s since then actually done it (congrats Beth) but here she talks about the anxieties, the politics and the utter joy of committing to her life with her best friend. We also talked about how living near Columbine High School affected her view on guns, and how her version of meditation is getting her nails done. We balance the dark with the light here on Real Feels...

    Ep 7 - Ricky Carmona

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2019 34:35


    Comedian Ricky Carmona is grateful for many things - including getting to write jokes for a TV show after learning how to speak English watching TV shows. He talks about doing standup in Chicago before moving to LA in his mid-30’s, which he admits is not the usual story. We caught him in a good spot! Sending a genuine THANK YOU for listening.

    Ep 6 - JJ Duncan

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2019 49:53


    JJ Duncan is a writer, a mom, a seeker, a TV producer, and someone who has been dealt a hell of a 2019. Dive in as she runs us through her takes on identity, the male gaze, spiritual growth, and how she dealt with her son's cancer. It's a wonderful lesson in not getting trapped in a persona. If you would like to donate toward her son, Mason's, road to recovery - go to https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-masons-road-to-recovery

    Ep 5 - Ted Marsden

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2019 32:41


    Ted talks about feeling activated - finding a cause and putting energy towards it. Whether it be his collaborative filmmaking, his feminine energy or political campaigns. He drops the simple, yet welcome reminder about how “knowing more” in politics isn’t as helpful as “doing things”.  Thanks for listening!

    Ep 4 - Warren Burke

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2019 50:14


    Warren brings his dynamic energy to the podcast, opening up about his gratitude practices, how he deals with people who doubt his positivity, and the inspiring story of when he went against all reason and moved to Los Angeles. Today, we try to answer the question he poses “Misery loves company, but what does happiness love?”

    Episode 3 - Lindsay Ames

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2019 26:35


    Lindsay opens up about the anxiety of constant self-promotion on social media, how people engage more with photos of her face than her life, and never allowing herself to get bored. Also - thank YOU for listening to this podcast.

    Episode 2 - Hunter Cope

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2019 43:03


    Hunter opens up about his anxiety-fighting rituals, his very hippie parents, and tapping into the more playful side of his spirit in the wake of sobriety. Thank YOU for listening to this podcast.

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