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Conflict Resolution: Solving Your People Problems by June Hunt   June 1st @ 3pm EST- Melinda Patrick will be speaking with the Exchange Ministries Parent Group. This group is led by Mark Nelson.   *You may join in person at Trinity Church, Deltona, FL or on Zoom.  For more information, email: Melinda@melindapatrick.org   June 20-21st - His Wonderful Works is hosting an in-person watch party for the Restored Hope Network Annual Conference:   Please email:  melinda@melindapatrick.org to register.   $30/day or $50 for both days.  This includes a box lunch. 

In today's episode, not only does Patti Height share the riveting 'next chapter' of her story, but she also answers one of the most asked questions we receive from parents, family, and friends:  "How can we best minister to those in the LGBTQ community with grace and truth?"    Listen in and discover: *God's heart for your loved one *ways to minister to the one in front of you *why pressing into Jesus for your joy is not just important to you but also to your loved one   Patti Height is a gifted communicator of the gospel of Jesus Christ. She is passionate about the word of God and seeing Jesus set people free. Through her own personal experience of secretly identifying as gay in her heart and mind at twelve and then coming out in her twenties, then getting radically and miraculously saved at 36, she has seen the hand of God at work in a very personal way. In 2012 Patti founded Out Of Egypt ministries, where she travels the country and internationally, in churches, high schools, colleges and other venues, equipping Christians to bring the gospel, via grace and truth, to the LGBT+ community.    Connect with Patti: Out of Egypt Ministries

Those who experience same-sex attraction or gender confusion aren't the only ones who fall into the trap of the Enemie's lies.   Listen in to today's episode with Patti Height as she shares Part One of her God-story.     If you are needing some extra hope and encouragement this week, here are the top 10 Episodes for Moms (not in any particular order): Eps 27 Encouragement and Hope For All Moms: The Grieving Mother, The Mother Who Has Been Blocked Or Distanced From Her Child, The Mother Who Struggles With Mom Guilt and the Mom Who Is Doing Her Best To Stand Strong Gretchen Stockman – Help For the Parent Who Has Been Estranged From Their Child {Eps 78} Alicia Michelle – How To Show Up With Emotional Confidence with Family and Friends During The Holidays {Eps 72} Billie Jauss - To The Christian Parent With An LGBTQ-Identified Child: How To Tackle The Disturbing Thoughts That Keep You Up At Night {Eps. 51} Lori Margo: Tracking God – Positioning Ourselves to See God In the Midst Of A Difficult Season {Eps 48} Sarah Frazer – Navigating Through Life When This Isn't What You Signed Up For {Eps 46} How To Overcome Grief When It Is Impacting Your Life and Relationship With Your LGBTQ Identified Child {Eps 41} Taking Territory Back: How To Release the Power of God In Your Prayers For Your LGBTQ+ Loved One, Part Two with Lindsey Kiser Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity {Eps 31} Eps 9 – The Loudest Roar: Living In The Unshakable Victory Of Christ with Judy Dunagan

Lindsey Kiser - a returning guest on The Bridge Between Us and author of Piercing The Night is extending invitation to band together as the Psalm 68 army of women in the place of intercession to contend for our LGBTQ loved ones and the generations.   “The Lord gives the word [of power]; the women who bear and publish [the news] are a great host. The kings of the enemies' armies, they flee, they flee! She who tarries at home divides the spoil [left behind].” Psalm 68:11-12 For more information or to register:  Frontier Company   To purchase Lindsey's book:   Piercing The Night: Strategic Intercession To Set the LGBTQ+ Captives Free   Previous TBBU episodes with Lindsey Kiser: Eps 37 - Piercing The Night: Strategic Intercession To Set The LGBTQ+ Captives Free Eps 38 - Taking Territory Back: How To Release The Power of God in Your Prayers For Your LGBTQ-Identified Loved One   Please share this episode.    *This shownote contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase through one of these links, I will make a commission at no extra cost to you.​    

Do you ever feel that if you stop praying for your loved one they won't come to know Jesus or that God will stop pursuing your child?  In today's Bridge Between Us episode, author and Executive Director of Restored Hope Network, Anne Edward, is joining Melinda Patrick.  Anne has a story that hopefully will allow parents to take a deep breath and rest as they continue to trust Jesus for the outcome of their loved one.  Melinda and Anne also talk about the importance of community and how you can find that through Restored Hope Network.   To connect with Anne Edward: Restored Hope Network   To connect with Melinda Patrick: www.melindapatrick.org   Discount code for RHN Hope 2025 - Bridge25  (**Code expires on May 9. 2025)   More information regarding RHN Hope 2025 watch parties: RHN watch parties   Prior episodes mentioned: Andrew Rodriguez Gretchen Stockman Dean Greer with Living Waters Kathy Grace Duncan with Portland Fellowship    

Have you ever wonder if what you say really makes a difference?   In today's episode, Mark Nelson, Executive Director of Exchange Ministries, joins Melinda and shares an awe-inspiring testimony of God's powerful intervention in his life.   Mark's testimony is fuls of Holy Spirit inspired moments that leave you wanting to know more.  Listine in to discover: *how words spoken over Mark made a life changing difference for him *ways that we can speak life over our loved ones   Connect with Mark:  Exchange Ministries   Next Week: Tune in as we Mark shares Part 2 of his transformation story.  Thank you for listening to The Bridge Between Us! Remember, God has entrusted this journey to you, as you engage with Him He will equip you for each next step. Please share this episode with others.  If you haven't left a review for The Bridge Between Us Podcast, please take 1-3 minutes to do so.  This helps other parents to know if this is the right podcast for them.    

Welcome to The Bridge Between Us Podcast, where we navigate the challenges and opportunities of walking alongside LGBTQ-identified loved ones from a Biblical perspective. Hosted by Melinda Patrick, today's solo episode is all about being your own advocate as you build a support team for your personal journey. In Today's Episode, You'll Hear About: The importance of a support system and how Jesus' story of raising Lazarus teaches us that no one walks the journey alone. The need for Godly counsel and guidance in your healing process. Signs to look for that indicate you might need professional help, including counselors or therapists, to aid you through grief or trauma. How to interview a counselor to ensure they align with your Biblical convictions and are a good fit for your needs. Practical questions you should ask potential counselors to be your own advocate. The role of trusting in God's process and finding freedom not just for your loved one, but for yourself too. Key Scriptures Discussed: John 11:44 – The story of Lazarus: Jesus doesn't expect us to walk alone. Galatians 6:2 – Carry one another's burdens and fulfill the law of Christ. Romans 8:28-29 – God works all things for our good and transforms us into the image of His Son. Proverbs 11:14, 20:5, 24:6 – The wisdom and safety found in seeking godly counsel. Key Takeaways: Building a support team of friends, prayer warriors, counselors, and more is essential to emotional and spiritual healing. A biblical counselor can provide guidance and a fresh perspective when you're stuck in grief or difficult circumstances. As a self-advocate, you have the right to interview and find the right counselor who aligns with your values. Healing and freedom aren't just for your loved one—they're for YOU too. Your journey is just as much about your own transformation. Red Flags: Signs You May Need Help Melinda shares some red flags to watch for to determine if you might be struggling with grief or trauma: Difficulty remembering the last time you laughed or enjoyed time with loved ones. Struggling to engage in activities you once loved. Feeling emotionally drained by everyday tasks. Avoiding people or conversations. Trouble celebrating others' successes. Feeling overwhelmed by bitterness, guilt, or sadness. Questions to Ask Your Counselor: How does your Christian faith influence your approach to therapy? What's your view on marriage and gender? What do you believe about homosexuality, and how does that affect your counseling approach? Do you see the Bible as the final authority in your practice? These questions will help you determine if a counselor aligns with your faith and values before diving deeper into the therapeutic process. Resources Mentioned: Restored Hope Network Helpful previous TBBU episodes:  Eps 89, Eps 41   Want to Connect? Melinda loves to hear from listeners! If you're navigating your own journey, need encouragement, or want to share your story, feel free to email Melinda at melinda@melindapatrick.org. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who might need it. Until next time, remember: God has entrusted this journey to you. As you engage with Him, He will equip you for each next step.   *Disclaimer: The opinions and advice shared on this podcast are intended for informational purposes and are not a substitute for professional counseling. Always seek appropriate guidance and support for your personal needs.

God hasn't called us to walk through life alone. In today's episode, Melinda takes us through what it looks like to set yourself up for success when facing a daunting challenge, and how the team around you plays a crucial role in getting you to the finish line. Listen in to hear the four key people you need on your team and why. As Melinda challenges listeners, it's important to recognize and appreciate those who walk with you on your journey. A simple note, call, or text to show gratitude can make a huge difference. The support system you build along the way doesn't just help you reach the finish line—it transforms you as you walk together. Next Week: Tune in as we explore the important role of counselors in our lives. Melinda will share insights on finding the right counselor and how professional support complements the support of loved ones. Thank you for listening to The Bridge Between Us! Remember, you're never alone on your journey—keep building your team, and keep walking forward. God has entrusted this journey to you, and He will equip you for each next step. If you've enjoyed today's episode, please consider leaving a review or sharing it with a friend who might benefit from hearing about the power of a strong support system.

For many parents, when their child shares with them they experience same-sex attraction or gender disphoria, one thing they will also hear is: "I have prayed and prayed and asked God to take it away but He hasn't." As parents, many of us have done the same thing: we have prayed and prayed and God doesn't appear to be answering. In today's episode, Nate Oyloe - ministry leader of Agape First Ministries, joins Melinda Patrick.  Nate shares a portion of his own healing journey, but he also share how parents can respond when their child doesn't feel as though God is answering their prayers.  In this powerful episode, listeners will hear: *how to respond to your child's disspointment in God seemingly not answering his/her prayer *one thing that can disempower parents *God's desing for healing within the family     Connect with Nate Oyloe: Agape First Ministries   Other mentions: Restored Hope Network Living Waters   Other TBBU episodes mentioned: Dean Greer - Part One Dean Greer - Part Two   Please share this episode with others.  If you haven't left a review for The Bridge Between Us Podcast, please take 1-3 minutes to do so.  This helps other parents to know if this is the right podcast for them.       

For Christian parents whose children have embraced an LGBTQ+ identity, the world is full of confusion, manipulation, and emotional pain. Watching your child go through gender confusion and irreversible medical procedures is heart-wrenching. Navigating this world feels isolating and often spiritually and emotionally draining. There's a need for truth, empathy, and a support system that isn't afraid to stand firm in God's design for humanity. In this episode, Brandon Showalter, a passionate advocate for truth and a journalist for the Christian Post, is joining Melinda on The Bridge Between Us Podcast. With years of experience and a personal commitment to truth, Brandon offers both emotional support and practical advice.  Listen is to discover:  The Deception of Language One of the most insidious aspects of gender ideology is the manipulation of language. Brandon highlights how changing the meaning of basic words, like “gender” and “sex,” sows confusion and disrupts the ability to speak truthfully about the human body and identity. Spiritual Warfare and the Church's Role In this battle against gender ideologies, Brandon discusses how the church must not only engage in policy change but also engage spiritually. The importance of persistent prayer and maintaining vigilance is underscored. The need for the church to stand firm against this deception is crucial in reclaiming the truth of God's design for humanity. The Role of the Church in the Battle As society grapples with this issue, the church is called to be a place of healing and truth. The need to accept and minister to those who are struggling with gender identity is vital, but it requires both compassion and the courage to speak the truth. Parents on the Frontlines Parents are urged to be proactive in protecting their children from harmful ideologies and pseudoscience. Despite the cultural push for tolerance, Brandon explains that compassion and kindness should not require compromising truth.   We are in the midst of a spiritual battle, but as believers, we are equipped with the truth of God's word and the power of prayer. Let's stay vigilant, stand firm, and continue to share the love of Christ with a world in desperate need of His transformative hope.   Connect with Brand Showalter:  Exposing The Gender Lie: How To Protect Children and Teens From the Trangender Industry's False Ideology The Christian Post

Hey friends, welcome back to The Bridge Between Us Podcast!  In this episode, Melinda Patrick and her guest, Alex McFarland, dive deep into how we, as parents and individuals, can continue to hold firm to the truth amidst the changing culture and differing values between us and our children. Parents today are facing a culture that challenges traditional beliefs, especially around sexuality, identity, and values. Their children are growing up in a world where those beliefs often conflict with their own, and it can feel overwhelming and heartbreaking. How can parents stand firm in their faith and share truth with love in a way that doesn't compromise their beliefs but also doesn't drive a wedge between them and their children? Today's guest is Alex McFarland, an expert in apologetics and a passionate advocate for truth. Alex has spent years counseling, teaching, and engaging in tough conversations with people who are struggling with cultural shifts in their beliefs. He brings years of wisdom to the table as he helps us navigate how to hold fast to God's truth, love others well, and parent with courage. Listen in and discover how to:  Stand firm in the truth of God's Word. Love others unconditionally, even when you don't agree with their choices. Be patient and trust in God's timing as you continue to pray and walk alongside your loved ones. Thank You For Listening! Thank you for joining us today on The Bridge Between Us Podcast. If you found this episode helpful, please share it with your friends and family. Let's continue to walk in truth and love together. Subscribe to the podcast to never miss an episode! Mentions: Restored Hope Network The Truth Network - Alex McFarland Show with Melinda Patrick  

Mike Manzie, executive director of Fresno New Creation Ministries is joining Melinda on The Bridge Between Us podcast.  In this episode, Mike and Melinda discuss the importance of processing pain and healing through a spiritual lens. Using the SHAPE journaling method, parents can take intentional steps toward healing and understanding, inviting the Lord into their emotional journey. This episode provides valuable guidance for parents navigating complex feelings while supporting their children in love and truth. Key Topics Discussed: Why time alone doesn't heal wounds – the importance of intentional processing How to invite the Lord into the process of emotional healing Practical tips for journaling through pain and seeking clarity The importance of addressing unresolved emotions before they resurface   SHAPE Journaling Method Explained: Scripture Hearing Application Purpose Edify   Mike's testimony: Listen Here>>> Connect with Mike:  Website   ncmfresno.org Phone     559-227-1066 Email       mike@ncmfresno.org

Welcome to the TBBU Podcast, hosted by Melinda Patrick. In today's episode, we're diving into an essential topic for Christian parents with LGBTQ-identified children: caring for your heart as you navigate this journey. With February being 'heart month,' we'll talk about the importance of nurturing your own well-being. We'll explore the red flags that signal when you're not taking care of your heart, why it's vital to guard and care for it, and practical steps you can take to protect your emotional and spiritual health. As we walk through this, we'll discuss how you can overflow with joy, peace, and hope, even during challenging seasons. Plus, we'll talk about how to support your child or spouse, even when they might not be ready to care for their own heart. Join me for this heart-centered episode that offers grace, encouragement, and a challenge to care for yourself so that you can love your child well. Scripture Reference: Proverbs 4:23 (NIV) – Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Romans 15:13 (NIV) – May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. John 10:10 (NIV) – The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. Resources Mentioned in the Episode: The Bridge Newsletter – Subscribe for updates and exclusive content Episode with Tony & Alisa on prayer in marriage  Episode on decluttering hearts Email Melinda – Share your heart and steps you're taking for self-care 2-Week Challenge: Starting today, take just 15 minutes each day to do something that gives you life. Here are some ideas: Take a nap Sit in silence Go for a walk Take time off social media Breathe deeply and relax Connect with Us: Subscribe to The Bridge newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming launches. Share this podcast with fellow parents and ministry leaders who might benefit from this message. If you're struggling with grief or emotional burnout, reach out for support—whether through prayer or a counselor. You don't have to walk this journey alone. Closing Prayer: "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." (Romans 15:13)

When we discover that our child has embraced an LGBTQ identity, it can feel like a tidal wave that shakes the very foundation of our family dynamics. It's easy to overlook the other important relationships in our lives—especially our marriage.  In this powerful episode, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo join host Melinda Patrick to discuss the crucial steps couples can take to preserve their relationship with each other while navigating this difficult season. One of the most impactful takeaways from this episode is the reminder that "If couples don't take care of their marriage, then there will need to be two rescues: not just the rescue of the child, but the rescue of the couple." This quote serves as a powerful warning to couples that the well-being of their marriage is just as important as their child's emotional health. In this episode, you'll learn how to: Maintain closeness and connection with your spouse Take actionable steps forward if you feel stuck in your relationships Honor your spouse during seasons of grief Pray together as a couple in times of uncertainty Lighten the heaviness of difficult circumstances and rediscover joy Whether you're navigating changes in your family or simply seeking ways to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers valuable insights on maintaining balance and emotional well-being during challenging times. Resources Mentioned: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy by Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo Dave Ramsey The Daring Rescue by Melinda Patrick Join the conversation: We'd love to hear how you've navigated difficult family transitions. Share your thoughts and experiences with us on social media or via email. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast! ​The shownotes contain affiliate links. If you make a purchase through one of these links, I will make a commission at no extra cost to you.​

Today I'm answering a question from a listener. Perhaps its a question you have wanted answered, too.  How do I support my transgender niece with non-endorsing support? Is it possible to acknowledge the hurt and pain of my LGBTQ-identified loved one without seeming to condone and accept this path?    Restored Hope Network HOPE 2025 VIRTUAL conference: https://www.restoredhopenetwork.org/hopeconf Use code: EBHOPE2025 for the early bird discount by February 1.   Speakers: Dr. Andrew Rodriguez- TBBU episode 45 with Andrew                                       TBBU episode 33 with Andrew Dr. Julie Hamilton Dr. Anne Gillies Jonathan Daugherty  

It will never happen to our child, our family, or in our school.  Words from almost every parent across America. Until it does. January Littlejohn and her husband thought the same thing until one day, everything changed. Listen in to Melinda Patrick's conversation with January Littlejohn and learn how to be a voice for your child and family - in the church and at home.    Connect with January Littlejohn:   https://donoharmmedicine.org/share-your-concern/   Dr. Miriam Grossman notice to schools: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IECbkuP4QZ20ZOdfrF3DtILlMGqO2Leq/edit   Resources mentioned: Christian Resources on Gender Ideology Books and articles: The Church Transgender Response Guide – https://childparentrights.org/church-transgender- response-guide/ For the Body by Timothy Tennent When Harry Became Sally – by Ryan Anderson Lost in Trans Nation – by Dr. Miriam Grossman Perfected with Love– by Walk Heyer – https://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/mary-hasson-parents-pastors-transgender- gender-ideology-person-and-identity/ Organizations: The Person and Identity Project- https://personandidentity.com/ Focus on the Family – https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/transgender-resources/ Identity Project – https://identityproject.tv/ Family Research Council – https://www.frc.org/sexuality Eden's Redemption – https://edensredemption.org/ Sex Change Regret- https://sexchangeregret.com/ Help 4 Families by Living Stone Ministries – https://livingstonesministries.org/help4families/ Documentaries: Dysphoria – https://www.fearlessfeatures.org/dysphoria In His Image – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W3YKpnrzmqc Tranzformed- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ebodf8rWpv4 Mary Hasson speech- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S96KBTBiYuA Videos – https://identityproject.tv/watch/how-can-i-respond-to-a-child-or-friend-with-gender- confusion Resources to inoculate young children: Articles: https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/kids-navigate-transgender-ideology/ https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/tips-talking-kids-transgender/ https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/talking-to-your-children-about-transgender- issues/ https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/8-things-parents-gender-transition/ https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/different-pronouns-explaining-lgbt-pronoun- usage-to-our-kids/ https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/reinforce-your-childs-sexual-identity/ https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/what-is-gender-identity/ Children's Books: God Made Boys and Girls- Helping Children Understand the Gift of Gender No More Secrets I'm Glad God Made Me a Girl Elephants Are Not Birds God Made Me in His Image: Helping Children Appreciate Their Bodies – by Justin and Lindsey Holcomb He is He – by Bethan Bomberger She Is She – by Bethany and Ryan Bomberger In the Image of God: A Story of Identity and Value Secure Daughters, Confident Sons: How Parents Guide Their Children into Authentic Masculinity and Femininity  

It will never happen to our child, our family, or in our school.  Words from almost every parent across America.   Until it does. January Littlejohn and her husband thought the same thing until one day, everything changed.  Listen in to Melinda Patrick's conversation with January Littlejohn and learn what questions you need to be asking, signs you need to be looking for in your school system, and what you can do to help your child.     Connect with January Littlejohn:   https://donoharmmedicine.org/share-your-concern/   Dr. Miriam Grossman notice to schools: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IECbkuP4QZ20ZOdfrF3DtILlMGqO2Leq/edit   Resources mentioned: Christian Resources on Gender Ideology Books and articles: The Church Transgender Response Guide - https://childparentrights.org/church-transgender- response-guide/ For the Body by Timothy Tennent  When Harry Became Sally - by Ryan Anderson Lost in Trans Nation – by Dr. Miriam Grossman  Perfected with Love- by Walk Heyer - https://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/mary-hasson-parents-pastors-transgender- gender-ideology-person-and-identity/ Organizations: The Person and Identity Project- https://personandidentity.com/ Focus on the Family – https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/transgender-resources/ Identity Project - https://identityproject.tv/ Family Research Council - https://www.frc.org/sexuality Eden's Redemption - https://edensredemption.org/ Sex Change Regret- https://sexchangeregret.com/ Help 4 Families by Living Stone Ministries - https://livingstonesministries.org/help4families/ Documentaries: Dysphoria - https://www.fearlessfeatures.org/dysphoria In His Image - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W3YKpnrzmqc Tranzformed- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ebodf8rWpv4 Mary Hasson speech- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S96KBTBiYuA Videos – https://identityproject.tv/watch/how-can-i-respond-to-a-child-or-friend-with-gender- confusion Resources to inoculate young children: Articles: https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/kids-navigate-transgender-ideology/ https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/tips-talking-kids-transgender/ https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/talking-to-your-children-about-transgender- issues/ https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/8-things-parents-gender-transition/ https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/different-pronouns-explaining-lgbt-pronoun- usage-to-our-kids/ https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/reinforce-your-childs-sexual-identity/ https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/what-is-gender-identity/ Children's Books: God Made Boys and Girls- Helping Children Understand the Gift of Gender No More Secrets  I'm Glad God Made Me a Girl  Elephants Are Not Birds  God Made Me in His Image: Helping Children Appreciate Their Bodies – by Justin and Lindsey Holcomb  He is He – by Bethan Bomberger  She Is She – by Bethany and Ryan Bomberger In the Image of God: A Story of Identity and Value Secure Daughters, Confident Sons: How Parents Guide Their Children into Authentic Masculinity and Femininity  

We have this room in our home that I affectionately call the gathering room. It rests above our garage and for many years it was a great connecting place with family and friends. In fact that is the original intent of the room. A gathering place for family and friends. A place where we could hang out, play games, watch a movie and relax. A place where we could enjoy laughter and long late-night talks with our children and one day grandchildren. And, that is how the room was for a many years. But overtime, the room became a place to stash and hide things away in a hurry when company came. Which eventually turned into a place where I would store items I didn't know what to do with  -  always with the mind set: One day I will take the time to get this sorted back out and cleaned up. But …the time didn't come and I have continued living my life while steadily stashing away items in the bonus room like a squirrel packs his nest for winter. Our hearts can be the same way.   In this episode, I share with you 3 things I learned on this decluttering journey that will also help us declutter our hearts and set us up for relational wins in 2025.  I also share two ways to maintain a clean room and a clean heart along with 3 questions you can ask yourself as you declutter: How well has this attitude, thought, or behavior worked for me? Does this bring me joy in life? Do I want my children to have to deal with this? If you are decluttering a room or your heart this year, let me know.  I would love to cheer you on and prayer for you.  Send me an email:  melinda@melindapatrick.org Also, please share this episode with someone else who may need to be encouraged. Let's start 2025 off with decluttered hearts!

Hey friend. Have you been estranged from your child and don't know what to do? Perhaps this Christmas is a little more than you can take. In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick and guest Gretchen Stockman talk about things parents can do to get through the painful season - especially when you have been estranged from your child.   Gretchen Stockman is a licensed marriage and family therapist but more important than that - she is a mother who is all too familiar with the pain of being estranged from her children.  Our prayer for you today is that you will be helped and equipped to 'light a candle and give the enemy a big kick!' Listeners will discover: *The healing that comes from dragging our pain into the light *The power of having a Kingdom mindset. *Ways to minister to a friend who has been estranged from their child *What to do this Christmas season to give the Enemy a big kick!   A few of favorite quotes from the episode: We can get hyperfocused on the loss and not be able to attend to all of the blessings, all of the other people that are in our life. - Gretchen Stockman I can hurt really bad and I can feel all the feelings but I can still have a wonderful life and a fulfilling and meaningful existence. - Gretchen Stockman We are fighting the good fight of faith...we are interceding for our children. They need us to be stable, solid, and committed. - Gretchen Stockman Our children may run from our presence but they can't run from our prayers. - Melinda Patrick Being fully present being able to love, is one of the best, most richest parts of life. - Gretchen Stockman     Connect with Gretchen Stockman: livrite@livrite.com  https://livrite.com/bewholecoaching/   Other mentions: Restored Hope Network Shoulder to Shoulder support group - contact Gretchen Stockman (livrite@livrite.com) Dr. Joshua Coleman's book - Rules of Estrangement: Why Adult Children Cut Ties and How To Heal the Conflict Karen Wheaton   Order Melinda Patrick's new book The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-identified Child's Heart here.   Stay up to date by signing up here to receive our newsletter. To share your thoughts: Leave a note in the comment section below or send me an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org Leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families and I read each one.

Hey friend, do you want to make a difference in your child's life but aren't sure what will bring the most return on investment?   Perhaps you are feeling powerless and not sure what to do.  In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick and guest Catherine Segars  unpack 4 types of prayers you can be praying and how to start taking back ground from the enemy. Listeners will discover: the 4 types of prayers you can be praying and which one will cause you to put on your battle boots and go to war the difference between the logos word and the rhema word how God has blessed Catherine on this journey as a mom   Connect with Catherine Segars: https://catherinesegars.com/ Christian Parent/Crazy World Podcast   Did you miss our previous episodes on prayer? Taking Territory Back: How To Release the Power of God In Your Prayers For Your LGBTQ+ Loved One, Part Two with Lindsey Kiser - Eps 38 Co-laboring With Jesus Christ as Intercessors For the LGBTQ Community, Prodigals, and the Next Generation - Eps 23 The Loudest Roar: Living In The Unshakable Victory Of Christ with Judy Dunagan - Eps 9   Books mentioned: Intercessory Prayer: How God Can Use Your Prayers To Move Heaven and Earth by Dutch Sheets Authority In Prayer: Praying With Power and Purpose by Dutch Sheets Watchman Prayer: Protecting Your Family, Home, and Community From the Enemy's Schemes by Dutch Sheets Order The Daring Rescue here.   Stay up to date by signing up here to receive our newsletter.   To share your thoughts: Leave a note in the comment section below or send me an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org Leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families and I read each one.

Today, I have a very special guest joining me on The Bridge Between Us podcast - my husband, Ron Patrick.   Listen in as we discuss 3 steps you can take to better connect with your LGBTQ-identified child's heart. 

In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick discusses how to converse without letting your emotions take over.  Download your Parent Guide To Difficult Conversations (*If you do not see the guide in your inbox, please check your spam.  If you still don't see it, please email: melinda@melindapatrick.org) Order The Daring Rescue: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/the-daring-rescue/ To share your thoughts: Leave a note in the comment section below or send me an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org Leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families and I read each one.

Hey friend, are you feeling anxious about the holidays? Do you find yourself wondering how to handle difficult moments in family functions?  I imagine you want to show up well for your family and friends at the Thanksgiving table or gatherings during Christmas.  You wouldn't be here if you didn't.  But, let's be honest. It can oftentimes be difficult when there is division and pain in our lives. We aren't powerless, though. We may not can control others but we can control ourselves.  In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, coach, author and podcast host, Alicia Michelle, joins Melinda Patrick.  Drawing from Alicia Michelle's personal and professional experience, they unpack 3 steps you can take that will set you up for success in relationships over the days ahead.  Listeners will discover: *the importance of acknowledging where you are emotionally *how to lean into God's clarity for situations *you have the power to choose where you want to emotionally dwell It's not too late to gain emotional confidence! Call to ACTION: Make a list for this season using Phillipians 4:8 as a template.     Connect with Alicia Michelle: Link to get Chapter 1 of the book for free: https://AliciaMichelle.com/free-chapter   Site Link: AliciaMichelle.com   Podcast: The Christian Mindset Coach Podcast (link is for Apple Podcasts)   IG: @aliciamichellecoach Order Alicia Michelle's new book: Emotional Confidence here.   Connect with Melinda Patrick: Email: melinda@melindapatrick.org Order Melinda Patrick's book The Daring Rescue here: Click HERE for more information or to register for the FREE holiday webinar with Ashley and Melinda.  To share your thoughts: Leave a note in the comment section below or send me an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org Leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families and I read each one.

It doesn't take much right now to lose peace and eventually begin reacting to fear or anxiousness. One commercial or news report on the radio or tv, an acquaintance's social media post that doesn't align with your beliefs, or a family member obnoxiously belittling your values can set us off. Or the Enemy placing a thought in our minds causing us to turn our focus from Jesus to the world can have us sinking in the storm and not walking on the water.    I can easily find my peace slipping away and fear sneaking in with every glance toward the world.  Anybody else? (hand raised) This isn't what God has for His children, though. Like Peter, we are called to be water-walkers. Our lives should look different not only on good days but also when surrounded by a storm. The world is watching so here are 5 ways we can set ourselves up for success over the coming days and weeks to be a light to the world around us.   Connect with Melinda or for more information about the FREE webinar:  melinda@melindapatrick.org  

Fathers not only impact their children, but they also impact the generations to come.  Today, Daniel Mingo, ministry leader of Abba's Delight, joins host Melinda Patrick.   Daniel shares a small portion of his testimony and then opens his heart to us as a father.   In this episode, you will discover: *one of the best ways to engage your child *what to do when parent guilt hits   To connect with Daniel Mingo: Abba's Delight Ministry   To connect with Melinda Patrick: melinda@melindapatrick.org   Purchase Melinda Patrick's newest book - The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-Identified Child's Heart  

Do you ever feel like you have completely blown it? As a parent, I have felt that many times. I'm so thankful we serve a God who is greater than our biggest mistakes.  In today's episode of The Bridge Between Us Podcast, Melinda continues her conversation with author, ministry leader, and podcast host Garry Ingraham.  Garry has words of wisdom and practical application for fathers. In this episode, you will: *learn what it means to 'shepherd your child's heart' *be given practical ways to connect with your child   Connect with Garry Ingraham: Garry is the podcast host for Love & Truth Network and the author of Am I Gay? He and his wife, Melissa, founded Love & Truth Network, a national, non-profit ministry focused on equipping Christian leaders to develop safe and transformational environments with the purpose of restoring sexual wholeness and Biblical identity. Love & Truth Network Mentions: ReStory Ministries Living Waters - Andrew Comisky Listen here to Melinda's interview on Love & Truth Network   Previous episodes speaking of fathers: Eps 3 with Ashley Little Bible verses: James 5:16 Malachi 4:6 Proverbs 20:5 1 John 1:7 To share your thoughts or to send a question: Send Melinda an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org Please leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families, and I read each one.

Hey friend, do you feel hopeless and overwhelmed? Are there days you think your loved one may be too far gone, and this is how life will always be? In this episode of The Bridge Between Us podcast, author and ministry leader Garry Ingraham joins our host, Melinda Patrick.  Your heart will be encouraged and your burden lightened as Garry shares how the Holy Spirit pursued him and won his affection.    Garry is the podcast host for Love & Truth Network and the author of Am I Gay? He and his wife, Melissa, founded Love & Truth Network, a national, non-profit ministry focused on equipping Christian leaders to develop safe and transformational environments with the purpose of restoring sexual wholeness and Biblical identity. Listeners will discover: *ways the enemy can get a foothold in our children's lives *the power and pursuit of the Holy Spirit in the lives of those we pray for *the importance of shepherding our children's hearts   Connect with Garry Ingraham: Love & Truth Network   Mentions: Listen here to Melinda's interview on Love & Truth Network Restored Hope Network   Bible verses: Proverbs 20:17 James 1:8 1 Corinthians 6:18   To share your thoughts or to send a question: Send Melinda an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org Please leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families, and I read each one.

In episode 67 of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick's returning guest, Dr. Linda Seiler, discusses what is happening in the culture and why we are seeing an uprise in transgender disorder. Listeners will discover: The 3 categories of transgender ROGD - Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria and its roots practical application and resources for families and the Church    Dr. Linda Seiler is the author of Trans-Formation: A Former Transgender Responds to LGBTQ, the executive director of ReStory Ministries, an ordained Assemblies of God minister, and a National Chi Alpha missionary.    Did you miss these prior episodes that were mentioned? Eps 66 - Part One with Dr. Linda Seiler   Books mentioned: Trans-Formation: A Former Transgender Responds To The LGBTQ by Dr. Linda Seiler. Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters by Abigail Shier Desist, Detrans & Detox: Getting Your Child Out of the Gender Cult by Maria Keffler   ReStory Ministries Quick Guide   Connect with Dr. Linda Seiler: Linda Seiler ReStory Ministries   Register for the ReStoried24 Conference   Speakers at ReStoried24 who have previously been a guest on The Bridge Between Us: Andrew Rodriguez - Eps 45 and Eps 33 Joe Dallas - Eps 17 Dr. Linda Seiler - Eps 66    Order Melinda Patrick's new book:  The Daring Rescue - Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-Identified Child's Heart   Stay up to date by signing up here to receive our newsletter. To share your thoughts: Leave a note in the comment section below or send me an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org Leave an honest review on iTunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families, and I read each one.

In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick's guest, Dr. Linda Seiler, shares a portion of her testimony. Melinda and Linda discuss the healing journey God took Linda on as He set her free from a transgender identity and the role the Body of Christ had in her freedom.  Listeners will discover: The power of confession and repentance when it comes to setting the LGBTQ free root issues that may result in SSA or Transgender desires how to walk with others in the healing process Dr. Linda Seiler is the author of Trans-Formation: A Former Transgender Responds to LGBTQ, the executive director of ReStory Ministries, an ordained Assemblies of God minister, and a National Chi Alpha missionary.    Did you miss these prior episodes that were mentioned? Eps 64 with Kathy Grace Duncan - Part One Eps 65 with Kathy Grace Duncan - Part Two   Books mentioned: Purchase Trans-Formation: A Former Transgender Responds To The LGBTQ by Dr. Linda Seiler. Order The Daring Rescue by Melinda Patrick.   Stay up to date by signing up here to receive our newsletter.   Connect with Dr. Linda Seiler: Linda Seiler ReStory Ministries    Bible verses mentioned: James 5:16   To share your thoughts: Leave a note in the comment section below or send me an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org Leave an honest review on iTunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families, and I read each one.

In episode 62, I shared ways we can be like the LGBTQ community, and I touched on what we can do to be more like Jesus.  (I'll link the episode in the show notes if you haven't listened in yet.) I briefly talked about Pride, broken identity, disordered desires, and spiritual disappointment. Today, we will examine pride and unpack it a little more. We are also going to look at steps we can take to replace pride with humility and look more like Jesus.   Previous episodes mentioned: Episode 62 – Four Ways Christians Can Be Like the LGBTQ Community And What To Do To Be More Like Jesus  Episode 37 with Lindsey Kiser Part One– Piercing The Night: Stretigic Intercession To Set The LGBTQ Captives Free Episode 38 with Lindsey Kiser Part Two: Taking Territory Back – How To Release The Power Of God In Your Prayer For Your LGBTQ Loved One     Scripture verses mentioned: 2 Chronicle 7:14 Psalm 25:8-9 Isaiah 66:2 James 4:6 Psalm 18:27 Proverbs 11:2 John 6:68     Links to books: Humility: True Greatness by C. J. Mahaney TransFormation: A Former Transgender Responds To LGBTQ by Dr. Linda Seiler Piercing the Darkness: Strategic Intercession To Set The LGBTQ Captives Free by Kathryn Lindsey Kiser The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ Identified Child's Heart by Melinda Patrick   Upcoming conferences:  ReStoried24 Conference (In-person ONLY) October 4-5 in Indianapolis, Indiana   *These show notes contain affiliate links. If you purchase a book through one of these links, I will make a commission at no extra cost to you.  

Connect with Kathy Grace Duncan: Portland Fellowship Changed Movement:  Kathy Grace Duncan's story   The Daring Rescue book by Melinda Patrick Sept. 20-21 – Rising Stronger Summit – at Park Place Chruch in Snellville, GA Oct. 2 – Grace Assembly – Greenwood, IN Oct. 4-5 – ReStoried24 Conference – Greenwood, IN

Have you ever played the game 2 Truths and 1 Lie?  The game's object is for you to share 2 truths and one lie about yourself and the people around you must determine which statement is the lie.  You can learn a lot about someone in this game. And today, as you listen in, you will learn a lot about: *how perceptions play a big part in our belief system  *the goodness of God *the role your response can play in helping someone walk our their freedom    Connect with Kathy Grace Duncan: Portland Fellowship Changed Movement:  Kathy Grace Duncan's story   The Daring Rescue book by Melinda Patrick Sept. 20-21 - Rising Stronger Summit - at Park Place Chruch in Snellville, GA Oct. 2 - Grace Assembly - Greenwood, IN Oct. 4-5 - ReStoried24 Conference - Greenwood, IN

Quite often on this journey with an LGBTQ-identified child or loved one, we focus mainly on the ways we are different. I will never forget the day the Lord opened my eyes to the ways I was similar to the LGBTQ community. It was a painful day but a freeing and healing day. Listen in to hear 4 ways Christians and can be like the LGBTQ community and what to do to look more like Jesus.  Mentions:  Eps. 8 - Spiritual Disappointment Queen Bee Coffee, McDonough, GA (in the Conflux Building)- Book Signing - Thursday, Sept. 12 - 6:00pm - 8:00pm (please park on the street or use the nearby public parking) Rising Stronger Summit - Sept. 20-21 - Park Place Church - Snellville, GA Grace Assembly - October 2 (night service) - Greenwood, Indiana ReStoried24 - October 4-5 - Greenwood, Indiana The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-Identified Child's Heart is now on Amazon Connect with Melinda: melinda@melindapatrick.org * These shownotes contain affiliate links. If you purchase through one of these links, I will make a commission at no extra cost to you.    

Listen to Ashley's testimony here: Eps. 3 How To Come Alongside Your LGBTQ Loved One To Bring Healing and Freedom

Eps 2 with Dee Barnes: LGBTQ + Christian Identity - How Truth From An Unlikely Source Set Dee Free

Wilna van Beek - Eps 23: Co-laboring With Jesus Christ as Intercessors for the LGBTQ Community  Wilna van Beek: How She Walked Away From Homosexuality and Discovered True Joy in Jesus Christ - Eps 13 - Part 1 When Pride Met Humility - Eps 14 - Part 2

Read Colossians 2:6-10

Read through Psalm 18. Take note of who GOD is. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter who we are.  What matters is who God is!

This month can be heartbreaking and anxiety-provoking for many parents.  Over the next 30 days, we will share stories different than what the world offers.  Stories of hope, truth, and equipping.  Resources listed:  Restored Hope Network Transformation Ministries Alliance Joe Dallas: Christians In Cancel Culture (Youtube) Andrew Rodriguez: Psycho Bible Youtube   Books: Transformation: A Former Transgender Responds To LGBTQ by Linda A Seiler, PhD Piercing The Night: Strategic Intercession to Set the LGBTQ+ Captives Free by Kathryn Lindsey Kiser The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-identified Child's Heart by Melinda Hardy Patrick   *I earn a small commission from these sponsored links if you purchase a book. 

Connect with Wayne Blakely:   Website: www.knowhislove.org Email: 2knowhislove@gmail.com   Current sizzle reel for documentary: https://vimeo.com/videomission/malta **Password: knowhislove2023 Documentary: Gender Transformation: The Untold Realities Prior TBBU episodes mentioned: Eps 45 with Andrew Rodriguez: https://melindapatrick.org/2023/12/06/andrew-rodriguez-feelings-community-and-how-parents-can-join-jesus-in-the-healing-process-eps-45/ Eps 43 with Jessica Rose: https://melindapatrick.org/2023/11/20/jessica-rose-from-transgender-to-transformed-ways-we-can-build-a-bridge-to-our-children-and-be-prepared-to-walk-out-the-healing-journey-with-them-eps-43/ Eps 33 with Andrew Rodriguez: https://melindapatrick.org/2023/07/22/andrew-rodriguez-we-are-talking-boundaries-defining-compassion-and-unpacking-why-it-is-impossible-to-show-compassion-if-we-arent-also-sharing-truth-eps-33/

Restored Hope Network - HOPE 2024 Conference - June 21-22, 2024 Transformational Ministries Alliance EPIC Conference - May 30-June 1, 2024

We all have them  -- the unwanted and ill-timed thoughts that want to control your day or interrupt your much-needed sleep.  You know, the ones where you are sound asleep and then rudely awakened by worry, fear, doubt, or grief.   In today's episode, author Billie Jauss joins host Melinda Patrick. Billie leads us through 5 simple steps to minimize distracting thoughts and achieve more peace.     Meet our guest, Billie Jauss: https://www.billiejauss.com/   Other related episodes: Eps. 9 with Judy Dunagan - The Loudest Roar: Living In the Unshakeable Victory of Christ Eps 22 with Dr. Sharon Elliott - Didn't See THAT Coming: When How They're Living Is Not How You Raised Them Eps 38 with Lindsey Kiser - Taking Territory Back: How To Release The Power Of God In Your Prayers   Episodes with Andrew Rodriguez: Eps 45  Eps 33   Upcoming Conferences: Transformational Ministries Alliance EPIC Conference 2024 - May 30-June 1,  Restored Hope Network HOPE 2024 Conference- June 21-22   For Book Launch Information:  Email:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

So much of this journey is out of our control. But, what if there were a few things we could be doing?  Join Melinda and her guest, Dean Greer, as they discuss two important things you can do to help your child and ways you can be ready when they say "Yes" to Jesus.    Oasis: www.desertstream.org/oasis   Living Waters Guidebook: https://www.shopdesertstream.org/product-page/living-waters-guidebook-1   LW Teaching Videos: https://desertstreamministries.uscreen.io/catalog     Restored Hope Network Hope 2024 Conference: https://www.restoredhopenetwork.org/hopeconf

Oasis: www.desertstream.org/oasis   Living Waters Guidebook: https://www.shopdesertstream.org/product-page/living-waters-guidebook-1   LW Teaching Videos: https://desertstreamministries.uscreen.io/catalog   Restored Hope Network Hope 2024 Conference    

Lori Margo is joining in the conversation today with Melinda.  Lori is no stranger to difficult seasons and wondering where God is. It is through one particular heartbreaking time in Lori's life that she came to understand the importance of tracking God in her life and the life of her family. Today, Lori equips others to track God and watch peace rule where panic once controlled.  Listen in today to learn:  *the importance of tracking God *where to uncover the deep gifts of God *and how to document your faith and watch God surprise you Scriptures mentioned: Habakkuk Chapters 1-3 Philippians 4:4-9 Matthew 11:28-30 Psalm 77   Connect with Lori Margo: Tracking God quiz https://lorimargo.com/ FaceBook Instagram   For More information on the Restored Hope Conference:   Restored Hope Network 2024 Hope Conference   To connect with Melinda, please email: melinda@melindapatrick.org