Podcasts about Adult child

Text Me!Episode 224: Healing as an Adult Child of Alcoholics w/ Margy SchallerIn episode 224 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen welcomes Margy Schaller to the show, and they talk about healing as an Adult Child of Alcoholics, also known as ACA. Margy shares her story of addiction and recovery and how she started to live loud and proud in her sobriety after 18 years of sober living. Margy Schaller is the Co-Founder of Sober Life Rocks, a community of people who choose not to drink, are sober-ish, sober curious, and sober wingmen. Their mission is to create spaces and initiate conversations that challenge the prevailing drinking culture, offering support to a wide range of individuals including salespeople, speakers, consultants, and other successful businesspeople.What you will learn in this episode:After 20 years of sobriety, Margie discusses hiding her recovery for 18.5 years due to professional pressure.The Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACA) program helped Margie recognize how childhood experiences shaped her adult behavior.Common traits in adult children of alcoholics include hypervigilance, perfectionism, and the compulsion to "fix" others.Strategies for sober parents to have honest conversations with their children about alcoholThree powerful tips to begin healing: explore ACA literature, understand survival behaviors, and practice self-forgivenessThank you for listening! Connect with Margy:Sober Life Rocks Sober Life Rocks Podcast Episode with Laura Resources mentioned:Courtney's WebsiteAmplify Sober Voices Event, Use code Courtney at checkout to save $29Adult Children of Alcoholics BookLaundry List Book Join the Soberity Circle today with a 4-day Free trial. Ready to thrive in your alcohol-free life? Sober Vibes: A Guide to Thriving in Your First Three Months Without Alcohol is your step-by-step guide to navigating early sobriety with confidence.Grab your copy today!Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney:InstagramJoin the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 CoachingOrder the Sober Vibes Book

In this episode of the Happy Families Podcast, Justin and Kylie tackle a tricky parenting dilemma: how to support your adult child without damaging the relationship. Responding to a listener's concern about her 20-year-old daughter's social media presence, they explore the importance of autonomy, the dangers of forceful guidance, and how parents can remain a supportive influence while respecting boundaries. KEY POINTS: Adult children crave autonomy; unsolicited advice often creates resistance. Connection, not correction, is the key to long-term influence. Dropping the parental agenda fosters openness and trust. Seek consent before offering advice to show respect and preserve the relationship. Employers do check social media – nearly 70% of them, according to the Harvard Business Review. When you share concerns respectfully, you plant seeds that may grow later. QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:“Our kids, especially our young adults, want autonomy more than anything – it’s like oxygen to them.” RESOURCES MENTIONED: Harvard Business Review statistic: ~70% of employers check candidates’ social media. Happy Families Podcast – Submit tricky questions via happyfamilies.com.au/podcast ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS: Let go of the agenda – Accept that your adult child will make their own choices. Prioritise connection – Build trust through presence, interest, and nonjudgmental conversation. Ask for permission – Before giving advice, say: “Would you be open to hearing a thought I have?” Share perspective, not prescriptions – Offer insights gently and leave space for reflection. Respect autonomy – Even when it’s hard, show you trust their ability to learn from experience. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

 Transformed Podcast Episode 121 | May 01, 2025 Dr. Greg Gifford tackles the tough realities of adult children living at home. Discover why setting clear expectations could be the most loving thing you do for your grown kids. Learn how productivity, financial responsibility, and moral standards shape a true launch into adulthood. – Preorder the new book, Lies My Therapist Told Me, by Fortis Institute Fellow Dr. Greg Gifford now! https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/liesmytherapisttoldme – Thanks for listening! Transformed would not be possible without the financial support of our Gospel Partners. If you would like to support Transformed we would be extremely grateful. VISIT https://fortisinstitute.org/donate/ If you are already a Gospel Partner we couldn't be more thankful for you if we tried!

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This week on The Message is Hope Podcast, Kelley A. comes on to share his story with us and give us some hope! Kelley has been in and around the rooms of recovery for decades and shares his experiences with us and whats different this time. Please share this with anyone who needs to hear Kelleys story! Thank you for listening and supporting the podcast.

What happens when you grow up in a home where sex addiction, secrecy, and emotional disconnection define the family dynamic? In this intimate conversation, the author of Light in the Dark: The Hidden Legacy of Adult Children of Sex Addicts share how the book came to life—and why it's opening doors for healing across generations. Featuring Culle L. Vande Garde, one of the co-authors and a certified sex addiction therapist, this episode explores the 12 core characteristics of adult children of sex addicts, the invisible weight of carried shame, and what it truly means to reclaim your voice, your story, and your right to healing. Whether you're a clinician, a survivor, or someone trying to make sense of your past, this discussion brings clarity, compassion, and hope. Learn how shame gets passed down, what recovery really looks like, and how to begin rewriting your narrative—one truth at a time. #LightInTheDarkBook #AdultChildrenOfSexAddicts #GenerationalHealing #CarriedShame #SexAddictionRecovery #TraumaAwareness #FamilyOfOriginWork #EmotionalHealing #BreakingTheCycle #ShameResilience #InnerChildHealing #RecoveryJourney #TherapistTalks #MentalHealthMatters #Hidden #Culle L.VandeGarde

Link to the L.O.V.E. M.E.N.D.S. Framework:  https://www.midlifediscoveries.com/LOVEIn this heartfelt Easter weekend episode, Kim Damon introduces the transformative L.O.V.E. M.E.N.D.S. framework – a powerful approach for mothers struggling to connect with their adult children. Drawing from her personal journey of reconnection after years of strained relationships, Kim shares how shifting your focus from fixing your child to healing yourself can repair even the most fractured family bonds. Learn the nine essential elements that make up this life-changing framework, each supported by scripture and practical wisdom. Whether you're walking on eggshells around your grown children, feeling sidelined during holidays, or experiencing the pain of low or no contact, this episode offers a roadmap to rebuilding connection while rediscovering your own worth. Kim's compassionate guidance provides hope that no matter where you are on the journey, healing is possible when you begin with mending your own heart first.Grab Your Free Course, Thriving in a Divided Family: https://www.midlifediscoveries.com/ThrivingVisit the website at: https://www.midlifediscoveries.com/

In this powerful episode of the Why Intervention podcast, host Christopher Doyle interviews Sally Harris, who transformed her devastating experience with her daughter's estrangement into a mission helping other mothers find healing. Guest's Info Sally helps mothers navigate one of life's most challenging journeys - estrangement from their children. After over a decade battling addiction, depression, and the despair of suicide attempts, it was a severe health crisis that ultimately sparked Sally's profound transformation. Through deepening faith and a revolutionary insight - that her well-being couldn't depend on her daughter's choices - Sally found her way to healing. Today, she celebrates years of sobriety, a renewed relationship with her daughter, and a thriving coaching practice that helps other mothers find their path to wholeness.” Highlights The shocking truth about what "estrangement" really means—and why it's not always what you think (hint: your child might be in more pain than you realize) Why 60% of mothers dealing with estrangement have ZERO support system—and the dangerous spiral this creates The "front porch vs. front yard" strategy that will immediately transform who you talk to about your child's struggles The critical difference between HELPING and ENABLING your adult child (most parents get this dangerously wrong) Why loving detachment might be the most painful—yet healing—gift you can give both yourself and your child How to handle the soul-crushing judgment from others who haven't walked in your shoes The unexpected revelation about "control" that changed everything for Sally (and can do the same for you) The simple communication technique that can instantly transform your relationship with your adult child Why forgiving YOURSELF might be the missing key to healing your relationship (most parents skip this crucial step) The counterintuitive approach to boundaries that actually strengthens your bond with your child The profound mistake Sally made that led to dangerous enabling—and how you can avoid the same path Why Sally chooses to meet with mothers on Thanksgiving and Christmas Day (the revelation will bring tears to your eyes) Listen now to discover how Sally found her way to healing after years of addiction, depression, and suicide attempts—and how her journey can light the path for your own healing and reconciliation. Links and Resources from this Episode https://whyintervention.com/ https://twitter.com/whyintervention https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/ https://www.instagram.com/whyintervention/ TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: Get an early preview of Christopher's new book "Stop Addiction Early: A Recovery Roadmap For Proactive Parents" at no cost for a limited time: https://helpthisbook.com/recoveryroadmapforparents/recovery-roadmap   Connect with Sally Harris www.sally-harris.com https://www.youtube.com/@sallyharriscoach   Call to Action Schedule a Call Free Resources Review, Subscribe and Share If you like what you hear please leave a review by clicking here Make sure you're subscribed to the podcast so you get the latest episodes. Subscribe with Apple Podcasts Follow on Spotify Subscribe with RSS

What if you had one last chance to tell your parent how you felt? Would you take it? Discover how Dr. Jack Stoltzfus's decision to express love first changed everything.In this compelling episode of Life in Transition, host Art Blanchford welcomes Dr. Jack Stoltzfus, America's Launch Coach, who shares his transformative journey reconciling with his distant father. Dr. Stoltzfus recalls the pivotal moment when he chose to express love first, despite a lifetime of emotional disconnection, and how this reconciliation occurred just five years before his father's unexpected death. This personal experience shaped his professional path, transitioning from a potential career in law to becoming a counseling psychologist dedicated to helping parents and young adults maintain loving connections through major life transitions.Dr. Stoltzfus introduces his core practices for healthy parent-adult child relationships, emphasizing the importance of unconditional love, forgiveness as "the antidote to resentment," and the power of written communication. He shares practical tools like his unconditional love letter to his children and his forgiveness shredder technique for releasing resentment. The conversation explores the delicate balance between letting go and staying connected, the challenge of supporting young adults' authentic paths rather than predetermined expectations, and how resolving parent-child relationships impacts all other relationships throughout our lives.Dr. Jack Stoltzfus is a clinical psychologist and America's launch coachTM. He is a licensed psychologist who has worked with parents and children for over thirty-five years. His specialty is helping parents succeed in letting go and launching their young adult children. Dr. Jack has authored six short books describing the critical practices needed to launch a young adult successfully. His current book, The Parent's Launch Code: Loving and Letting Go of Our Adult Children, integrates these books and his learnings in working with parents of young adults over the last twelve years. The author also draws from his experiences as a young adult and, more recently, as the parent of three successfully launched adult children. Dr. Jack has created a website, parentslettinggo.com, to support parents, which describes his work and provides additional resources. About The Show: The Life in Transition, hosted by Art Blanchford focuses on making the most of the changes we're given every week. Art has been through hundreds of transitions in his life. Many have been difficult, but all have led to a depth and richness he could never have imagined. On the podcast Art explores how to create more love and joy in life, no matter what transitions we go through. Art is married to his lifelong partner, a proud father of three and a long-time adventurer and global business executive. He is the founder and leader of the Midlife Transition Mastery Community. Learn more about the MLTM Community here: www.lifeintransition.online.In This Episode: (00:00) A Powerful Story of Forgiveness and Letting Go(01:57) The Buckets of Tears Story: An Impactful Transition(04:30) Questioning Self-Worth and Expressing Love First(09:48) Taking Responsibility for Reconciliation(14:05) Advice to Younger Self: Getting Closer to Dad(17:30) MidLife Transition Mastery Ad(18:30) Writing Letters of Unconditional Love to Children(24:18) Letting Go of What You Want Your Child to Be(30:44) From Control to Coaching: Shifting Parental Roles(32:54) Transition Mastery Coaching Ad(38:51) The One Tool: Communicating Unconditional Love(47:00) The Shredder Technique for Releasing Resentment Information(51:03) Closing ThoughtsLike, subscribe, and send us your comments and feedback.Resources:Jack Stoltzfus LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackstoltzfusphd/https://parentslettinggo.com/Book: "The Parents Launch Code: Loving and Letting Go of Our Adult Children" Email Art BlanchfordLife in Transition WebsiteLife in Transition on IGLife in Transition on FBJoin Our Community: https://www.lifeintransition.online/My new book "PURPOSEFUL LIVING" is out now. Order it now: https://www.amazon.com/PURPOSEFUL-LIVING-Wisdom-Coming-Complex/dp/1963913922Explore our website https://lifeintransitionpodcast.com/ for more in-depth information and resources, and to download the 8-step guide to mastering mid-life transitions.The views and opinions expressed on the “Life In Transition” podcast are solely those of the author and guests and should not be attributed to any other individual or entity. This podcast is an independent production of Life In Transition Podcast, and the podcast production is an original work of the author. All rights of ownership and reproduction are retained—copyright 2025.

Send us a textWhat Your Young Adult Child Wants You to KnowIf you've ever wondered what your young adult child is really thinking—but they're not telling you—this episode is for you. Tina Gosney sits down with two self-aware and deeply insightful young adults, Clarice Paulsen and Caleb Price, to give parents a rare look inside the young adult experience.You'll hear honest and vulnerable stories about how parents unintentionally make life harder for their young adult children—and what they actually need instead. Tina also shares reflections and guidance to help you respond with less fear, more compassion, and a stronger emotional foundation.If you want to foster a deeper relationship with your young adult and learn how to be a soft place for them to land, this conversation is a must-listen.Links to access the resources in this episode:(Free Class) How to Heal the Relationship with Your Adult Child without Guilt, Anxiety, or Walking on Eggshells CLICK HERE If you're tired of walking on eggshells or feeling heartbroken over the distance between you and your adult child or anyone else in your family, Bridge to Connection will show you a better way. In just eight short lessons, you'll learn powerful tools to stay grounded, respond with confidence, and create safety in your relationship—without needing your child to change first. You'll walk away feeling empowered, hopeful, and deeply connected to the person you want to be, no matter what's happening around you. CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT MOREGuest Name: Clarice Paulsen & Caleb Price Bio:Clarice is a coach with Balanced Recovery Coaching, helping people reconnect with their purpose and healing.Caleb is a college coach and podcast host, guiding young adults to manage their minds and create confidence in college and beyond.Links:Clarice: balancedrecovery.coachCaleb: calebpricecoaching.com

Are you struggling to launch your adult child? Have you ever found yourself wondering if you're overstepping boundaries with your adult child? Maybe you're caught in the cycle of questioning how often to text them, whether to offer advice, or if you're supporting them the right way? You're not alone. On this episode of the Brainy Moms podcast, Dr. Amy and Sandy talk with Dr. Jack Stoltzfus – clinical psychologist, America's launch coach, and author of "The Parent's Launch Code". Dr. Jack reveals that the transition to adult independence is challenging precisely because "the problem with young adults is they're adults, you can't control them." This fundamental shift requires parents to abandon old power dynamics and embrace a partnership approach.Dr. Jack explains why this particular parenting stage feels so difficult, sharing eye-opening statistics including that more than 50% of young adults between 18-29 now live with their parents. Rather than viewing this as failure, he redefines successful launching as achieving self-sufficiency and responsibility, regardless of living situation. The real measure of success is whether young adults can stand independently while maintaining a caring bond with parents.The conversation takes a poignant turn when discussing estrangement – with one in four young adults cutting off communication with parents for months or indefinitely. Dr. Jack offers practical strategies to prevent this heartbreaking outcome, including his innovative "five-year plan" approach that helps young adults envision their future while creating manageable steps toward independence.Whether you're wrestling with questions about charging rent, setting boundaries when adult children return home from college, or navigating the delicate balance between offering support without enabling dependence, this episode provides compassionate guidance. Dr. Jack's framework of combining unconditional love with what he calls "backbone" (clear values and boundaries) offers a roadmap for maintaining connection while fostering independence. For every parent wondering how to love and launch simultaneously, this conversation is an essential guide to launching your adult child with confidence and care.CONNECT WITH US: Website: www.TheBrainyMoms.com Email: info@TheBrainyMoms.com Social Media: @TheBrainyMoms Our sponsor's website: www.LearningRx.comSandy's TikTok: @TheBrainTrainerLadyDr. Amy's brand new IG: @DrAmySaysGraceDr. Amy's website: www.AmyMoorePhD.com

Matt Slick Live (Live Broadcast of 04-04-2025) is a production of the Christian Apologetics Research Ministry (CARM). Matt answers questions on topics such as: The Bible, Apologetics, Theology, World Religions, Atheism, and other issues! You can also email questions to Matt using: info@carm.org, Put "Radio Show Question" in the Subject line! Answers will be discussed in a future show. Topics Include: What About Steve Gregg, his views on Hell and Preterism?/A Recommendation on The Book—Evidence That Demands a Verdict/ A Question About Advice on How to Deal with an Adult Child's Boyfriend/Girlfriend Problem/Radio Question Friday—Did Jesus Die for an Infinite Number of Sins?/ A Caller Gives Her Advice on The Child Boyfriend/Girlfriend Problem/ Matt Makes Several Resource Recommendations That Christians Should Consider/ A Question About The Greek of John 1:1- “God” and “The Word.”/How Does This Relate to The Hebrew Language?/ John 15- God is The Vine Dresser, How Can a Branch Be Taken Away?/ April 4, 2025

Matt Slick Live (Live Broadcast of 04-04-2025) is a production of the Christian Apologetics Research Ministry (CARM). Matt answers questions on topics such as: The Bible, Apologetics, Theology, World Religions, Atheism, and other issues! You can also email questions to Matt using: info@carm.org, Put "Radio Show Question" in the Subject line! Answers will be discussed in a future show. Topics Include:What About Steve Gregg, his views on Hell and Preterism?/A Recommendation on The Book—Evidence That Demands a Verdict/ A Question About Advice on How to Deal with an Adult Child's Boyfriend/Girlfriend Problem/ Radio Question Friday—Did Jesus Die for an Infinite Number of Sins?/ A Caller Gives Her Advice on The Child Boyfriend/Girlfriend Problem/ Matt Makes Several Resource Recommendations That Christians Should Consider/ A Question About The Greek of John 1:1- "God" and "The Word."/How Does This Relate to The Hebrew Language?/ John 15- God is The Vine Dresser, How Can a Branch Be Taken Away?/ April 4, 2025

Matt Slick Live (Live Broadcast of 04-04-2025) is a production of the Christian Apologetics Research Ministry (CARM). Matt answers questions on topics such as: The Bible, Apologetics, Theology, World Religions, Atheism, and other issues! You can also email questions to Matt using: info@carm.org, Put "Radio Show Question" in the Subject line! Answers will be discussed in a future show. Topics Include: What About Steve Gregg, his views on Hell and Preterism?/A Recommendation on The Book—Evidence That Demands a Verdict/ A Question About Advice on How to Deal with an Adult Child's Boyfriend/Girlfriend Problem/Radio Question Friday—Did Jesus Die for an Infinite Number of Sins?/ A Caller Gives Her Advice on The Child Boyfriend/Girlfriend Problem/ Matt Makes Several Resource Recommendations That Christians Should Consider/ A Question About The Greek of John 1:1- “God” and “The Word.”/How Does This Relate to The Hebrew Language?/ John 15- God is The Vine Dresser, How Can a Branch Be Taken Away?/ April 4, 2025

In-laws, potential in–laws, the challenges for parents, and big relationships with breakups and when new ones begin. But there is a third group, and it is the parents of adult children who split with their significant long-term partners. Stephanie Regan, Clinical Psychotherapist, joined Pat on the show.

More people are helping their adult children financially according to a 2025 survey. With the average support to an adult child of over $1,400 per month, this can become quite a drag on retirement savings. In this show we talk about the emotional and often difficult choices involved in this situation.

More people are helping their adult children financially according to a 2025 survey. With the average support to an adult child of over $1,400 per month, this can become quite a drag on retirement savings. In this show we talk about the emotional and often difficult choices involved in this situation.

In this powerful Part Two of the two-part series with Dr. Anthony Mazzella and Renee Swanson, we shift perspectives. In part one, we discussed the adult child uncovering a covert narcissistic parent, and this is featured on The Narcissism Decoder. Now we shift to the parent who realizes their adult child exhibits covert narcissistic behaviors. Dr. Mazzella, a seasoned psychotherapist and psychoanalyst, brings his expertise in to explore the emotional turmoil, self-doubt, and painful realities parents face when confronted with this harsh truth. Together, we unpack the deep-seated psychological mechanisms that drive covert narcissism, the role of early relationship failures, and how unresolved emotional wounds shape an insatiable need for validation. This episode offers a compassionate yet realistic discussion on:

Noted psychologist Dr. Josh Coleman outlines the alarming trend of adults breaking off contact with their parents for their own mental health.  He has counseled thousands of the parties to this intimate kind of conflict, leading a large percentage to reconciliation.  Leah offers practical suggestions for preventing this anguish and drama with specific parenting techniques.  They talk about the impact on grandparents and the loss for grandchildren caught in the family feud.Additional resources:Dr. Coleman's book--Rules of Estrangement: Why Adult Children Cut Ties and How to Heal the Conflicthttps://www.drjoshuacoleman.com/

Send us a textEpisode 173 - How to Rebuild a Relationship with Your Adult Child – 5 Essential StepsAre you struggling to reconnect with your adult child? Do you feel like no matter what you do, there's a growing emotional distance? In this episode of The Coaching Your Family Relationships Podcast, we're exploring five essential steps that will help you mend your relationship and create a foundation for meaningful, lasting connection.What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why reflecting on your relationship's journey is the first step toward healing How recognizing emotional triggers can help break unhealthy patterns The importance of shifting from fixing to supporting your adult child How communication style impacts your connection—and what to do differently Why setting clear, loving boundaries fosters a stronger relationshipWhy This MattersFeeling disconnected from your child—no matter their age—can be heartbreaking. But relationships are not static; they evolve. And while disconnection may have happened over time, rebuilding your bond is absolutely possible when you take intentional steps forward.Want the Full Step-by-Step Guide?I've created a free training, Healing Your Heart: 5 Steps to Reconnect with Your Adult Child, that walks you through each of these steps in detail, with practical exercises you can start using today. Download it now - click hereJoin My Class: Healing Your Relationship with Your Adult ChildIf you're ready to take this work even further, I invite you to my upcoming class where we dive deeper into these steps and give you the tools to repair and strengthen your relationship. Sign up today - click here Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She helps her clients move past contention in their homes and move into connection. Developing healthy family relationships can change lives. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tinagosneycoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tinagosneycoaching ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Tina is certified in family relationships and a trauma informed coach. Visit tinagosney.com for more information on coaching services.

In this episode, Kreed concludes the two part interview with an estranged adult daughter. The conversation explores the complexities of estrangement within families, focusing on the experiences of an estranged adult daughter and delves into the impact of family dynamics, the importance of setting boundaries, and the journey towards healing and personal growth. The guest shares her story of estrangement from her father and brother, highlighting the challenges of maintaining relationships while protecting her children from environments influenced by addiction. The discussion culminates in the creation of a personal mission statement that emphasizes respect, healthy communication, and the importance of teaching these values to the next generation.Takeaways Estrangement can occur even in seemingly normal families. Setting boundaries is crucial for protecting children. Addiction in the family can complicate relationships. Creating a personal mission statement can guide decisions. Estrangement does not always stem from abuse or trauma. Healing relationships requires effort and understanding about root issues, concerns The journey of estrangement can lead to personal growth and empowerment.http://www.TheEstrangedHeart.comEmail Kreed at: TheEstrangedHeart@gmail.comCoaching & Consultation with KreedEmail Kreed at TheEstrangedHeart@gmail.comFacebook Support Group for estranged moms: facilitated by Kreed: https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroupIf you wish to become a financial supporter of the podcast and Kreed's work with estranged parents & adult children:  https://www.anchor.fm/theestrangedheart/supporthttps://www.buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere  (one time donation)

Send us a textThe Red Book, known as Adult Children of Alcoholics/Alcoholic/Dysfunctional Families is the approved literature of the 12 step program for adult children. This podcast reviews the 25 questions mentioned in the book that helps participants of the program identify if they qualify as an adult child and therefore might benefit from this program.Support the showWe're eager to hear from you! Feel free to share your thoughts through our anonymous form or simply write to info@freshouttaplans.com with your topic requests or any burning questions you'd like us to explore on the podcast. https://linktr.ee/freshouttaplans

Boundaries make nourishing relationships possible — regardless of what our guilty feelings might tell us when we set those boundaries. Our guest for part two of this conversation, Registered Psychologist Janelle Drisner, helps us grapple with the tension between human limitations and unconditional love. This time, Janelle dives deeper into the complexities and limitations of relationships, how we show up for each other and the necessary, uncomfortable work of articulating our boundaries — in pursuit of more authentic relationships.Read our blog: CroneCast.caShare your questions and comments at cronecast.ca/contact.  We want to hear from you about all things crone.--From This Episode-- Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People: Avoid Emotional Traps, Stand Up for Your Self, and Transform Your Relationships as an Adult Child of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson(00:53) - - With Every No, There Is A Yes (04:11) - - Communicating Your Boundaries (11:40) - - Challenging Cultural Scripts (14:49) - - Anger Is A Source Of Courage (17:42) - - Apology Is Only The Beginning Of Repair (22:15) - - Relationships With Adult Children (27:43) - - Wrestling With The Roles We're Given (31:29) - - Unconditional Love And Being Human --Credits-- Hosted by Trudy Callaghan and Lisa Austin Produced by Odvod MediaAudio Engineering by Steve GlenOriginal music by Darrin Hagen

In this conversation, Kreed engages with an anonymous estranged adult daughter to explore the complexities of family estrangement, particularly focusing on the impact of parenting and emotional health. The discussion delves into the dynamics of unhealthy family relationships, the role of addiction, and the journey towards self-discovery and healing. The guest shares her experiences of estrangement from her father and brother, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries for the well-being of her own children. The conversation highlights the challenges of navigating familial expectations and the emotional toll of living in a dysfunctional family system.http://www.TheEstrangedHeart.comEmail Kreed at: TheEstrangedHeart@gmail.comCoaching & Consultation with KreedEmail Kreed at TheEstrangedHeart@gmail.comFacebook Support Group for estranged moms: facilitated by Kreed: https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroupIf you wish to become a financial supporter of the podcast and Kreed's work with estranged parents & adult children:  https://www.anchor.fm/theestrangedheart/supporthttps://www.buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere  (one time donation)

On today's episode of Great Points, Matt addresses a common question: does it make sense to help an adult child to purchase a home?  With Real Estate prices significantly outpacing inflation over the past few decades, gifting may be one pathway to help your child afford a home.  However, it's worth asking whether you can reasonably afford to help and--maybe more importantly--if you should.  Matt walks through some of the considerations to make the right choice for you.

This is a two-part series with the hosts of Nuance Needed. In part 1, Whitney, Amanda, and Sam discuss the complexities of parental estrangement, the misconceptions surrounding it, and the impact of social media on family dynamics and estrangement. In Part 2, we reflect on the impact of their work on social media on their personal lives, the challenges of parenting, and tips to avoid estrangement. You can listen to part two on Nuance Needed. For online therapy in 42 states, visit Amanda's practice, Therapy for Women: https://therapyforwomencenter.com/ Join The Family Cyclebreakers Club: www.callinghome.co/join Have a question for Whitney? Call in and leave a voicemail for the show at 866-225-5466. Follow Whitney on Instagram: www.instagram.com/sitwithwhit Subscribe to Whitney's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@whitneygoodmanlmft Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Send us a textEpisode 169: Navigating Estrangement: How to Reconnect with Your Adult ChildIn this Ask Me Anything episode, Tina Gosney, The Family Conflict Coach, answers two heartfelt questions from parents struggling with estrangement from their adult children. These relationships are complex, emotional, and often deeply rooted in family patterns that span generations. Tina shares insights from Bowen Family Systems Theory and differentiation of self to help parents navigate these challenging dynamics.If you're dealing with a strained relationship with your adult child, feeling confused, hurt, or even resentful, this episode is for you. Learn practical strategies for managing your emotions, breaking old family patterns, and fostering connection without pressure or urgency.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why adult children distance themselves from parents and how unresolved emotional tension plays a role.The impact of generational family patterns on relationships.How to stay emotionally grounded and avoid reactive patterns.The difference between enmeshment, emotional cutoff, and healthy differentiation.Why healing happens on your child's timeline, not yours.Practical steps to rebuild trust and create a safe space for reconnection.Timestamps:00:05 - Welcome to Coaching Your Family Relationships podcast00:17 - Why estrangement between parents and adult children is becoming more common02:34 - Free guide: 5 Steps to Reconnect with Your Adult Child (Get it in the show notes!)03:53 - Question #1: Our daughter has set strong boundaries—how do we reconnect?06:55 - Understanding emotional cutoff and generational family patterns07:22 - Key questions to ask yourself before reaching out10:46 - Question #2: My son's girlfriend “stole” him from our family—how do I handle this?12:15 - The role of differentiation in family relationships15:33 - The power of small, pressure-free interactions in rebuilding trust17:23 - Shifting your mindset: Why healing starts with YOUResources & Free Guide:

Should you ‘scold' your 30-year-old child? Author and family counsellor Jim Burns shares fascinating insights into how your role as a parent changes when your child becomes an adult. Be the best parent you can be for adult children.

Send us a textEpisode 168: Why Family Drama Keeps Repeating – and How to Break the CycleAre you stuck in the same frustrating arguments with your adult child or other family members? In this episode, we uncover how automatic family patterns keep you trapped in unhealthy dynamics and show you how to break free. Learn how subconscious programming influences your reactions, why awareness is the first step toward change, and four powerful strategies to transform your relationships.You'll discover:Why family conflict patterns repeat across generations.How to wake up to automatic reactions and choose healthier responses.The key to managing emotions and staying grounded during difficult moments.Why developing your sense of self improves relationships with your adult child.Ready to stop reacting out of fear and start responding with intention? Tune in to learn how small shifts can create lasting change.If you have a relationship with an adult child that is suffering, download this free guide:5 Steps to Reconnect with Your Adult ChildYou'll begin healing the hurt you're carrying, and your heart will feel lighter and more hopeful. You'll begin taking a different road to building that precious relationship instead of walking on eggshells and riding the roller coaster of disconnection and frustration. Click Here to Download the Guide  Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She helps her clients move past contention in their homes and move into connection. It takes one person to begin changing unhealthy patterns. You can be the one. Tina is a positivity practitioner and a trauma informed coach. Visit tinagosney.com for more information

Have you ever felt like you missed out on your childhood because you were too busy parenting your own parent? This episode of Covert Narcissism Podcast dives deep into the hidden trauma of parentification—a heartbreaking dynamic where children take on adult responsibilities to meet the emotional or physical needs of their caregivers, especially covert narcissistic parents. Growing up as the emotional support system, household manager, or peacekeeper in a volatile home leaves lasting scars. Many adult children of covert narcissists share similar experiences: managing their parent's emotions, walking on eggshells to avoid conflict, or being praised only when their achievements made the parent look good. These children often internalize guilt, low self-esteem, and the belief that they are responsible for fixing others' problems—a mindset that can persist well into adulthood. In this episode, we uncover: What is parentification? The difference between instrumental parentification (cooking, cleaning, managing tasks) and emotional parentification (being your parent's therapist or confidant). Real-life examples of how covert narcissistic parents burden their children with adult responsibilities, leaving them to miss out on the carefree joy of childhood. The long-term effects of growing up with a covert narcissistic parent, from difficulty trusting others to struggles with self-worth and parenting their own children. Healing and reclaiming your life, including setting boundaries, processing trauma, and embracing the childhood joy you never had. If you grew up feeling like your worth was tied to your parent's approval or you're still carrying the emotional weight of their needs, this episode will resonate deeply. You'll gain insights into why you feel this way and actionable steps to heal and break the cycle. Tune in and learn how to turn your pain into wisdom, rebuild your confidence, and create a life rooted in self-love and emotional freedom. Your story matters, and healing is possible. Listen now!

This conversation delves into the complexities of parent-child relationships and emphasizes the importance of understanding relational history, the lack of choice for the child, and the inherent power differentials that exist. Kreed advocates for curiosity, empathy, and a commitment to long-term growth as essential components for healing and reconciliation in estranged relationships. www.TheEstrangedHeart.com Email Kreed: TheEstrangedHeart@gmail.com Leave a voicemail for Kreed: https://www.theestrangedheart.com/voicemail/ Coaching with Kreed: https://TheEstrangedHeart-scheduler.as.me/COACHING Facebook Support Group for Estranged Moms: facilitated by Kreed - https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroup To support the podcast and Kreed's work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere  (one time donation)

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In this heartfelt and humorous episode, we open up about reconnecting with our oldest child, who recently resurfaced after a period of no contact. We dive into the challenges of parenting an adult child still navigating a difficult season and the delicate balance of supporting her growth. Cris shares an embarrassing fact about her post-high school plans, including how her parents had to sit back and let her learn her lessons at 18. We also find humor in reminiscing about our first apartment's hilariously questionable decor choices. Tune in for an emotional, real, and relatable conversation about family, growth, and finding laughter even in life's messy moments.

Are you living with the painful reality of a grown child who's chosen silence? In this heartfelt episode, we explore the complex reasons behind adult child estrangement and provide gentle guidance for moms struggling with this challenging journey. Whether you're walking on eggshells or haven't heard from your child in years, this episode offers practical insights and compassionate strategies for navigating the path forward. Learn how to recognize patterns, create safe spaces, and take meaningful steps toward healing - all while honoring both your journey and your child's.Grab Your Free Course, Thriving in a Divided Family: https://www.midlifediscoveries.com/ThrivingVisit the website at: https://www.midlifediscoveries.com/

Where did you find inspiration and meaning in 2024? This week sex therapist and friend of the podcast TRACEY COX joins Andrew to reflect on another year of The Meaningful Life, and to discuss the episodes that meant the most to them.  They share highlights from episodes with: Samantha Rodman Whiten (Dr Psych Mom) on Being an Adult Child of Dysfunctional Parents. Jessica Baum on Anxious Attachment. Douglas Thomas on What You Can Learn About Yourself from Your Sexual Fantasies. Robert Glover on People Pleasing Robert Neimeyer on the Six Tasks of Grief Joseph Lee on Jungian Dream Analysis (bonus material) Alan Pearce on Comas and Near-Death Experiences (bonus material).  Subscriber Content This Week  If you're a subscriber to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Patreon), this week you'll be hearing:  More things we learned last year and first news on exciting new projects for 2025  AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees. Follow Up Get Andrew's free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things  Take a look at Andrew's new online relationship course: My Best Relationship Tools  Buy Great Sex Starts at 50: How to Age-Proof Your Libido by Tracey Cox Get the advice you need on your sex life from Tracey Cox Listen to Tracey Cox and Kelsey Chittick's SexTok podcast Follow Tracey Cox on social media: Instagram, Facebook and Twitter/X. Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall 

Send us a textEpisode 165 – What's in Your Control and What Isn't– Most Popular Episodes of 2024Our family members are not people to be controlled, they are relationships to nurture.You're probably trying to control things that are not in your control. If you're frustrated in your relationships, you are trying to control things that are not in your control. You don't get to control what someone else thinks, feels, or does, even when you think you should be able to. What is in your control? What you think, what you do with your feelings, and what actions you take. When you're able to let go of trying to control things that aren't in your control, you'll save yourself a lot of suffering.  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------If you have a relationship with an adult child that is suffering, download this free guide:5 Steps to Reconnect with Your Adult ChildYou'll begin healing the hurt you're carrying, and your heart will feel lighter and more hopeful. You'll begin taking a different road to building that precious relationship instead of walking on eggshells and riding the roller coaster of disconnection and frustration. Click Here to Download the Guide Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She helps her clients move past contention in their homes and move into connection. It takes one person to begin changing unhealthy patterns. You can be the one. Tina is a positivity practitioner and a trauma informed coach. Visit tinagosney.com for more information

Navigating faith differences feels scary for moms, but if you lead with grace you can have some amazing conversations. Let's talk about the grace to listen to your adult child's perspective and the grace of loving your child unconditionally. HELPFUL LINKS:  Free Guide: Your Kids Are Grown...Now What? here Free Discovery Session with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here Take the Quiz here Review + Rate podcast here Follow Pamela on Instagram here Follow Pamela on Facebook here Pamela's website with free resources here

Typically we steer clear of breaking down grief by type of relationship, but today we're making an exception. In this episode we talk about the experience of grieving the death of an adult child. This is a topic that has been requested on many occasions, both because it is pervasive and also often overlooked. If you've experienced this personally or love someone who has, we hope this episode offers some insights and ideas for how we as a society can be better equipped to understand this unique type of loss. Visit whatsyourgrief.com for hundreds of free articles we've written about all things grief and loss. If you like the podcast, we think you'll love WYG Grief Support Hub. It's our online membership community that brings grievers together for learning, creativity, and support. You don't have to navigate grief alone - participate in grief conversation sessions and groups, a discussion forum, grief support webinars, creativity projects, community writing sessions, and more. You can learn more here and join.  If you're a grief professional, we have a community for you too. https://whatsyourgrief.com/grief-professionals-community/ You can also make a donation here at any time to help us keep the lights on.  Feeling holiday grief dread? https://whatsyourgrief.com/product/rewriting-the-holidays-after-loss-eworkbook/ Get Lessons to Write On: A Guided Grief Journaling Intensive here.  https://whatsyourgrief.ck.page/products/lessons-to-write-on-grief-journaling Pick up the What's Your Grief Book Bookshop.org Barnes & Noble Amazon Books A Million IndieBound

Pamela discusses important areas to extend grace when you and your child see God differently. Pamela talks about the grace to not pressure your child to conform to your views and the grace to manage your emotions well during the holidays. HELPFUL LINKS:  Free Guide: Your Kids Are Grown...Now What? here Free Discovery Session with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here Take the Quiz here Review + Rate podcast here Follow Pamela on Instagram here Follow Pamela on Facebook here Pamela's website with free resources here

-Separated/Divorced when daughter was 8 months old -Single motherhood navigation -Married and divorced a second time with an engagement in between -Therapy 3-4 times in life -Teenage years through college years navigating as a co-parent -Adult Child coparenting  -Went from Worse to Great! Took a lot of time and checking of MYSELF in order to put my child first I'm an Educational Consultant - topics from new teacher support, advocacy, and co-parenting  FIND HER HERE: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jerri-johnson-ph-d-7ba7552a/ https://www.instagram.com/ejuc8ullc/

Dr. Chapman urges parents of adult children to assess themselves first putting blame on their adult child. These parents need to influence vs control and make requests rather than demands of their adult children. It's critically important that parents maintain a relationship with their adult children, even when their child's choices are heartbreaking.   Receive the book Your New Life with Adult Children plus a free audio download of “How to Positively Influence Your Adult Child” for your donation of any amount! Your Gift DOUBLES to Give Families Hope! Save 2X the marriages and families this Christmas with your life-changing gift today!    Get More Episode Resources    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. 

We talk with Dr. Judith Smith, who has researched and written about the difficulties of parenting adult children with addiction and other mental health challenges. We talk about what she has learned, how this interfaces with what we know about addiction in families, and how to find your way through these challenges. Special Guest: Judith Smith, PhD.

Dr. Chapman urges parents of adult children to assess themselves first putting blame on their adult child. These parents need to influence vs control and make requests rather than demands of their adult children. It's critically important that parents maintain a relationship with their adult children, even when their child's choices are heartbreaking.   Receive the book Your New Life with Adult Children plus a free audio download of “How to Positively Influence Your Adult Child” for your donation of any amount! Your Gift DOUBLES to Give Families Hope! Save 2X the marriages and families this Christmas with your life-changing gift today!    Get More Episode Resources    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. 

Is prayer the antidote to your distress? What could it look like if you traded your worry for prayer? Join Pamela as she gets practical and teaches you seven ways to pray for your adult child. HELPFUL LINKS:  Free Guide: Your Kids Are Grown...Now What? here Free Discovery Session with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here Take the Quiz here Review + Rate podcast here Follow Pamela on Instagram here Follow Pamela on Facebook here Pamela's website with free resources here

On this episode: Aaron interviews returning guest Andrea Ashley. Andrea is the host of the Adult Child podcast. She's the only child from an alcoholic household who became sober at 19 years old. She shares her story of learning and implementing boundaries with her parents and others. Andrea shares how she has learned to see her inner child and stopped trying to correct it. She talks about how her friendships have grown over time as she has gotten healthier. They discuss the isolation of going deeper when others aren't there. They consider importance of endings and that they aren't all your fault. Andrea also discusses how suffering and pain cause positive healthy growth. Links:   Adult Child Podcast Instagram: Adult Child Podcast Youtube: Adult Child Podcast TikTok: Adult Child Podcast Events: 2024 Samson Summit If you have thoughts or questions that you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.   The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society and www.fiftysounds.com. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.  Support for the women who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com. The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To help support the vision, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

Let's talk about why your prayers matter and get practical on how to specifically pray for your adult child. We'll talk about the power of three word prayers and how to pray scripture over your offspring. HELPFUL LINKS:  Free Guide: Your Kids Are Grown...Now What? here Free Discovery Session with certified Empty Nest Coach, Pamela here Take the Quiz here Review + Rate podcast here Follow Pamela on Instagram here Follow Pamela on Facebook here Pamela's website with free resources here

This is Part 3 of a 3-part series on adult child and parent estrangement. In this episode, Whitney compares the survey results of estranged parents and estranged adult children. She shares her thoughts about the survey results and dives deeper into what this survey has taught us about this issue. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This is Part 1 of a 3 Part Series on Adult Child and Parent estrangement. In this episode, Whitney discusses the findings from a survey of 204 estranged parents. You will hear how this group of parents feels about their estrangement from their adult child, what they're willing to do to fix the relationship, and if therapists and social media really are the cause of it all. The responses from these parents reflect experiences and stories that resonate deeply with many who have faced the pain of family separation. They share their emotional struggles, expressing feelings of loss, confusion, and helplessness as they try to understand why their adult children have distanced themselves. These shared experiences highlight broader patterns in family dynamics, showing that estrangement is a complex yet relatable issue that touches many lives. We can learn a lot from the parents who were willing to share their experiences for this episode. What You Will Learn: [09:14] About the survey and how Whitney collected the data  [14:50] A breakdown of the findings from the survey of 204 estranged parents  [39:32] The responses and how they reflect our experiences and stories  [40:54] What to expect and look forward to in Part 2 Standout Quotes: "Adult children have a lifetime of experience under their parent care; for a minimum of 18 years, the parent has power over them, and this power differential never completely goes away.” [03:13] “Parents should attempt to be strong, steady leaders even when their children are adults.” [03:35] “Adults are entitled to have and end relationships with whoever they want to have relationship with, parents and adult children both have this right in adulthood, no matter how painful that is.” [03:41] Let's Connect Have a question for Whitney? Call Home at 866-225-5466.  Join Whitney's Family Cycle Breakers Club for further support and discussion on family dynamics at CallingHome.co. Follow the Calling Home community on Instagram. Click here to get “Toxic Positivity” on paperback.  Follow Whitney Goodman on Instagram or TikTok.  The Calling Home podcast is not engaged in providing therapy services, mental health advice, or other medical advice or services, is not a substitute for advice from a qualified healthcare provider, and does not create any therapist-patient or other treatment relationship between you and Calling Home or Whitney Goodman. For more information, please see Calling Home's Terms of Service.  Mixing, editing, and show notes provided by Next Day Podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Once your child becomes an adult, your relationship will inevitably change. In this dynamic presentation, Dr. Jim Burns helps parents of adult children see how they can help, or hurt, this evolving relationship. As a parent transitions to the role of a coach, they can interact with their adult child in ways that minimize conflict and maximize godly influence.   Receive the book Doing Life with Your Adult Children plus a free audio download of “Learning Your New Role as the Parent of an Adult Child” for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive.    Get More Episode Resources   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.