Thrive Like A Parent

EP:143 Hey there, amazing community! I'm beyond excited to bring you an incredible episode with my friend Dr. Sara Reardon, aka the "Vagina Whisperer"

EP142: Hey there, Thrive Like a Parent community!  In this powerful episode, I sit down with my dear friend Brittany, a former professional dancer turned fitness entrepreneur who's redefining what it means to be a strong, balanced mom. We dive deep into her incredible journey from New York City's dance world to creating Brits Bar Virtual Studio, sharing raw, vulnerable moments about nervous system regulation, motherhood challenges, and how she built a fitness platform that truly understands what moms need. Brittany opens up about her struggles with burnout, the importance of self-care, and how she transformed her personal challenges into a mission to support moms everywhere with efficient, meaningful workouts. We talk about everything from dance injuries to pandemic pivots, and how she's created a fitness experience that's not just about looking good, but feeling incredible. Want to transform your fitness journey? Check out Britsbarre and use code DR.B for a FREE month! Trust me, this is more than a workout - it's a lifeline for busy moms. Don't miss this episode - it might just be the inspiration you need to prioritize yourself. #ThriveLikeAParent #MomFitness #NervousSystemHealth #SelfCareMom #BrittanysBarre Xoxo,  Dr. B

EP:141 Hey THRIVE Community!   It's been four years since Jonathan passed. And in this episode, I'm bringing you into what healing has really looked like—not the polished version, but the real one. From turning my home into a space that finally feels calm… to raising two kids alone… to building a business while still navigating grief—I've done a lot of rebuilding. And it hasn't been linear. I'm sharing: What it felt like to film a vlog on the anniversary of Jonathan's death Why my Austin Under 40 nomination brought up way more than pride My recent Prenuvo health scan (and why I did it for more than just information) And how the team I've built at Thrive has helped me stay grounded—even when life still hits hard This episode isn't about having it all figured out. It's about continuing to show up for your life—even when it breaks you open. I hope it reminds you: you're allowed to take your time. And you don't have to do it alone. XOXO, Dr. B #ThrivelikeaParent #Grief #Healing #PersonalGrowth #Resilience #WomenEntrepreneurs #LifeAfterLoss #MindfulLiving Links & Resources:

EP:140 Hey everyone! In this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I sat down with the incredible Stephanie, and OH. MY. GOODNESS. Her story about her micro-preemie son ZEV will absolutely blow your mind!  We dive deep into her journey of having a 23-week baby who weighed just ONE POUND, and how she and her husband turned their most challenging moment into an incredible mission of hope through their nonprofit, Four Those.  You'll hear about: The night they were told ZEV might not survive How "Tell Me What's Good" became their lifeline Her EPIC 147-mile run representing each day ZEV was in the NICU The award-winning documentary that captures their incredible story This episode is a MUST-LISTEN for anyone who needs a reminder that impossible is just the beginning of something extraordinary!

EP:139 Hey Thrive Family! Today's episode was FIRE! I sat down with the incredible Rachel Rodgers, and let me tell you, this conversation was packed with entrepreneurial gold!  As a fellow business owner and mom, I was totally vibing with Rachel's journey from law school debt to building an eight-figure business. We dove deep into the power of understanding your strengths, showing up authentically on social media, and why having a supportive squad is crucial for success. Rachel's new book "Future Millionaire" is a game-changer - especially for parents looking to teach their kids about money. Pro tip: We both agree that involving kids in financial conversations early is key!    Key Takeaways: Align your business with your natural talents Be real on social media Invest in your community Teach your kids about money management  Action Items Grab Rachel's book at https://futuremillionairebook.com/ Follow her @RachelRodgersEsq Join her free Money Camp #ThrivelikeaParent #EntrepreneurMom #FinancialFreedom #WealthMindset Who's ready to level up? Drop a comment and let me know what resonated with you! Xoxo, Dr. B

EP:138 Hey there! I just finished watching the Netflix series "Adolescence" and WOW, do I have some thoughts to share!   In this episode, I'm breaking down why this series is creating such a buzz and why I believe we're facing a PARENTING crisis, not just a boy crisis. I'm getting real about the importance of practical parenting - balancing boundaries with love and connection. Key Takeaways: Devices and unlimited freedom are NOT the answer Your kids NEED structure (they actually want it!) Boundaries aren't about controlling, they're about protecting My personal story hits home - with a 50% higher risk of depression in my family, I can't afford to get parenting wrong. This isn't about being perfect, it's about being intentional. #PracticalParenting #ParentingTips #RaisingResilientKids Feeling overwhelmed? Struggling with your child's behavior? DM me or reach out - Carter and I specialize in getting families back on track! Want more insights? Join our parenting community! Remember: Structure + Nurture = Happy, Confident Kids!

EP:137 In this special Q&A episode with my team member Brittany, I opened up about some of the most personal and profound aspects of my journey. We discussed everything from my approach to motherhood, relationships, and building my business to the deeper emotional work of healing and supporting others. Key Highlights: Shared vulnerable moments about losing my first husband and navigating family challenges Discussed the importance of understanding our nervous system and mental health Explored my love language and relationship dynamics with Carter Revealed my struggle with imaginary play as a mom Talked about the mission of our company: making mental health support accessible to everyone Personal Reflection: Motherhood is hard, but I'm loving this stage where I can have real conversations with my kids. I'm not afraid to be weird, embarrassing, and fun - and my kids know it! Business Insight: Our goal is to help everyone understand their brain and nervous system. We're working on creating more accessible support options at different price points. #ThriveLikeAParent #MentalHealthJourney #NervousSystemHealing Ready to invest in yourself? Check out our programs and start your healing journey today! Don't wait - you are worth it!

EP:136 Hey Thrive Community!  Today's episode is a game-changing conversation with Libby from Diary of an Honest Mom that you DO NOT want to miss! We dive deep into the messy, beautiful reality of motherhood, mental health, and personal growth. Libby shares her incredible journey from feeling isolated during the pandemic to becoming a powerful voice for moms everywhere. We talk about the real struggles - overstimulation, burnout, and the impossible societal expectations that make us feel like we're constantly failing. Key takeaways: ✨ You're not alone in your motherhood struggles ✨ Authenticity is your superpower ✨ Setting boundaries is self-care ✨ Growth is a non-linear journey We get vulnerable about relationships, inner voices, and the courage it takes to show up as your true self. Libby's raw honesty will make you laugh, cry, and feel seen. Want more real talk?  

EP:135 Hey Thrive Like a Parent Podcast Fam!   Today's episode is INCREDIBLE! I sat down with the amazing Laura Day, an intuitive powerhouse who just released her seventh book, "The Prism". Let me tell you, this conversation blew my mind!   Laura shared her profound journey of overcoming childhood trauma, developing intuition, and creating a life of purpose. As someone who's walked through my own challenges, her insights about healing and personal transformation resonated deeply with me. The biggest takeaway? We don't need to be stuck in our past. Small, intentional changes can completely reshape our lives. Laura's approach isn't about endless meditation or complicated self-help routines - it's about making tiny, meaningful shifts that create massive transformation. Grab Laura's book "The Prism" Follow Laura @lauraday.intuit Share your biggest personal growth moment using #ThriveWithPurpose #IntuitiveHealing If this episode touched your heart, screenshot and share! Let's spread hope and healing together.   Remember, you are your own magic wand.   Xoxo, Dr. B

EP:134 Hey there, amazing humans!  In this raw and real podcast episode, I'm diving deep into something that's been brewing in my heart - the battle between supporting everyone else and supporting YOURSELF.   I'm sharing my personal journey from being a people-pleaser to becoming the most authentic version of Brooke possible. Trust me, it wasn't easy! I've lived both sides - sacrificing myself for others and then finally choosing ME. And let me tell you, the liberation is REAL. Putting others first doesn't make you a hero, it makes you exhausted Your mental health matters MORE than making everyone comfortable Being yourself isn't selfish - it's NECESSARY My biggest revelation? When I stopped trying to fit into everyone else's box, I found MY power. After Jonathan's passing, I realized life is too short to live for others. Reflect on where YOU'RE sacrificing yourself Start making ONE choice this week that's just for YOU Follow your intuition, not everyone else's expectations #ThrivelikeaParent #SelfLove #AuthenticLiving #MentalHealthMatters Who's ready to choose themselves? Drop a comment and let's chat!

EP:132 Hey there! Let me get real with you about something I've struggled with my entire life - living in chaos without losing myself. Whether you're a high-performer who loves last-minute adrenaline or a parent feeling constantly overwhelmed, I've been there! I used to think thriving meant constant hustle and pushing myself to the limit. But what I've learned is that true thriving is about balance, self-care, and listening to your body. Key Takeaways: ✨ Recognize your energy patterns ✨ Set boundaries ✨ Prioritize REST ✨ Choose yourself FIRST My biggest lesson? You are the most important person in your life. When you take care of yourself, EVERYTHING else falls into place.

EP:132 As a former "raging people pleaser", I know firsthand how exhausting it can be to constantly put others' needs before your own. I used to do everything for everyone, to the point where I was absolutely drowning. I'd say yes to things I had no time or energy for, shy away from difficult conversations, and never accept help - all in the pursuit of being the "perfect" mom, wife, friend, and professional. But I've learned that your purpose in life isn't to serve others - it's to live and enjoy your life fully, on your own terms. It takes courage to stop being a chameleon and start being your authentic self. I had to shed a lot of old relationships and communities that didn't accept the real me. But surrounding myself with my "people" - those who love and support me unconditionally - has been so freeing. Now I use my values as a compass, being honest about what I want and need, even if it means setting boundaries that ruffle some feathers. I've realized that being honest and assertive isn't the same as being unkind or selfish. It's about having the courage to show up as your true self. Overcoming people-pleasing isn't easy, but it's so worth it for your mental health and personal fulfillment. Start small, be patient with yourself, and remember - you are worthy, even if it means ruffling a few feathers.

As a parent, I know how easy it is to get so caught up in the demands of work, home, and family that you have nothing left to give your partner. I've been there - feeling lonely, resentful, and disconnected from the person I love the most. But I've also learned that it doesn't have to be that way. It takes effort to keep that love muscle strong, but it's so worth it. Make date nights a non-negotiable, even if it's just a simple activity together. And don't be afraid to plan a kid-free getaway - even 3 days can reignite that spark. Your relationship deserves that investment. You both do. It's not easy, but choosing each other, even when life is crazy, is what will keep your bond alive. Ready to learn more? Listen to the full episode of the Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, where I dive deeper into this topic. Your relationship is worth the investment - let's work on it together! XOXO, Dr. B Links & Resources:

EP:130 As a parent, I know how triggering mess and clutter can be. It's like my brain just snaps! But I've learned some tricks to manage it. First, I made my bedroom a peaceful sanctuary - no TV, just calm vibes. It's my Hail Mary when the rest of the house is a disaster zone. I grew up in a super tidy home, but now I've had to release that perfectionism. My house isn't Pinterest-perfect, but good enough is good enough.   I also get the kids involved - one new chore at a time so it doesn't overwhelm them (or me!). It's a work in progress, but creating that calm space and delegating responsibilities has been game-changing.    I used to get so anxious when my parents would visit, worried they'd judge my messy home. But I've learned to give myself grace - clutter doesn't define my worth as a parent. If mess stresses you out, you're not alone. With a little self-compassion and some simple strategies, you can regain that sense of peace and control. Who's with me on this decluttering journey?  XOXO, Dr. B   Links & Resources:

EP:129 This week, I decided to try something I've always wanted to do - bring my kids on the podcast. My older son Charlie joined me, and I'm so proud of how he opened up and shared his perspective. As a child who lost his dad to suicide, Charlie has a unique understanding of grief and resilience. He talked about the difficulty of seeing other kids with their dads, and how it felt to have male role models like my partner Carter step in to fill that void. It's been a journey for all of us, but I'm in awe of how Charlie has weathered the storm.   EP:129 He acknowledged the stress and sadness I experienced in that first year, but also recognized how I've been able to be more present for him and his brother as time has passed. Charlie's advice for other families going through loss is to keep believing - that there is always a solution around the corner, and that with trust and love, you can emerge as an even stronger team. I'm so grateful to Charlie for his honesty and vulnerability in sharing his story. Listening to Charlie's perspective has deepened my own understanding of our family's experience. He's a remarkable young man, wise beyond his years. I hope that by opening up about our journey, we can provide comfort and inspiration to others facing unimaginable challenges. Our family may look different, but the love and support we share is what truly matters.    Links & Resources:

EP:128 Our kids' head-banging, rocking, and constant movement aren't just concerning behaviors - they're natural ways they're trying to regulate their nervous systems. As a mom of preemies, I know how much deep pressure and sensory input my babies needed to soothe and settle.    Things like pacifiers and thumb-sucking aren't just social norms, they're our kids' innate ways of calming their developing brains and bodies. Instead of stripping away these natural regulation methods, we need to observe the patterns, support their needs, and create space for their incredible ability to self-regulate. It's a journey, but so worth it for their long-term mental health.   Links & Resources:

EP:127 As I shared, feeling like you're "too much" is a core wound that affects so many of us. It leads us to create a performative reality, dampening our light and abandoning our true selves. Growing up, I learned to function according to societal norms, but I found my truest self could only shine when I was on stage, dancing. That freedom and authenticity was so liberating, yet so rare in my everyday life. Even in my relationships, I often became a mirror for others' issues, rather than honoring my own worth. It wasn't until I became a solo parent during COVID that I had a breakthrough - I realized I had to be my own mirror, my own support. Understanding our nervous systems is key - it allows us to embrace our unique selves, rather than trying to fit a mold. The more we live boldly and authentically, the more we'll inspire others. It's not easy to overcome the fear of being "too much," but the rewards are immense. I encourage you to take risks, say the things you're afraid to say, and let your light shine. Your value doesn't decrease based on others' inability to see your worth. Embrace all that you are - it's your greatest gift. Xoxo, Dr.B   Links & Resources:

EP:126 Hey friends! I just recorded a new episode of the Thrive Like a Parent podcast all about losing your temper with your kids. As a mom, I know how hard this can be - we all have those moments where we just feel like we're at the end of our rope. But I want you to know that it doesn't make you a bad parent. It just means you need to take care of yourself, whether that's taking a break, practicing self-care, or finding healthy ways to manage your emotions.   In this episode, I get real about my own struggles with traditional "play" activities, and how I've learned to connect with my kids in my own unique way. I also share my honest thoughts on some popular parenting experts and methods - not everything works for every family, and that's okay! The key is being kind to yourself, setting boundaries, and making time for your own mental health. When we do that, we can show up as calmer, more regulated parents. I hope this episode gives you the validation and encouragement you need. You're doing an amazing job, even on the tough days. Sending you all my love!   #parenting #selfcare #mentalhealth #emotionalregulation #parentingtips #thrivelikeaparent    Links & Resources:

EP:125 Hi Friends! I've noticed a pattern with my clients - many struggle with intimacy and sex within their marriages or partnerships. This is a topic that isn't openly discussed, but it's so important. Intimacy should be a deep, mutual connection - not a one-sided experience where one partner's needs are neglected. I've heard too many stories of intimacy feeling like a chore, rather than a pleasurable, regulating experience for both people. I want to empower you to advocate for your own needs when it comes to intimacy. Your body, your choice. You deserve to feel comfortable, respected, and mutually satisfied. Don't be afraid to have an open conversation with your partner about your desires and boundaries. Your wellbeing should be the priority, not just meeting your partner's needs. You have the right to prioritize your own pleasure and regulation.   Links & Resources:

EP:124 Hi friends! this episode was a doozy, let me tell you. I dove headfirst into some major home renovations during my winter break, and let me just say - the dust, the fumes, the chaos, it was a lot to handle! But you know what, my amazing neighbor was so kind to let me and the family stay at her place for a week, which was a total lifesaver. It gave me the space I needed to recharge and reconnect with my partner, Carter.   He's been such a rock for me through all of this. When I was really struggling, he stepped up and made sure I got the time and support I needed, whether that was pushing me out the door for some alone time or planning a surprise date night. It's made me realize how important it is to have that kind of partnership, where you can lean on each other when times get tough. I'm so grateful for him, and I hope all of you can foster that same level of support in your relationships. Xoxo,  Dr.B

EP:123 Hi friends, I'm so excited to share a powerful insight with you today - the fastest way to regulate your nervous system is NOT control, fixing, or jumping into action. In fact, those strategies often backfire and perpetuate stress. Instead, I'll show you how to build a larger window of tolerance, so you can stay calm and present, even when life gets chaotic. No more meltdowns or irritability - just more peace, connection, and joy. This is life-changing stuff, and I can't wait to share it with you. Through my Thrive programs, I've seen firsthand how this approach can transform lives. When we learn to manage our stress response, everything shifts. We become more patient, more present, and better able to show up for ourselves and our loved ones. If you're ready to ditch the stress and cultivate more calm, this is for you. It's not always easy, but the rewards are profound. I'll guide you through the process, step-by-step, so you can reclaim your power and thrive, no matter what life throws your way. Stay tuned, my friends, and get ready to experience the freedom that comes from a regulated nervous system. It's a game-changer, I promise! Links & Resources:

EP:122 New Year's resolutions are total BS. I'm done with the pressure to completely overhaul my life overnight. Instead, I'm focusing on making small, sustainable changes that I can stick to all year long. No more crash diets or extreme makeovers - just gentle, consistent progress.   This year, I'm embracing the Kaizen method - taking one small step at a time towards my goals. Whether it's saving a little more, eating a bit healthier, or improving my relationships, I know lasting change happens gradually. I'm giving myself grace and celebrating tiny wins, not beating myself up over setbacks.   This is my year to thrive, not just survive. No more January blues or post-holiday hangovers. I'm listening to my body and brain, throttling my energy levels, and trusting the process. Slow and steady progress is where it's at!  Links & Resources:

EP:120 This was a heavy topic, but an important one. Losing my husband Jonathan to suicide was devastating, and I know firsthand the confusion, anger and lack of closure that those left behind feel.   Hearing Carter talk about losing multiple friends the same way was heartbreaking. The numbness he described is something I can relate to - it becomes almost expected, which is not normal. The most important thing is that you are not alone. There are people who want to listen and support you, even if reaching out feels impossible. I've been that person for strangers, and I'm always here if anyone needs a non-judgmental ear. Please, don't isolate yourself. Reach out to a trusted friend or call a helpline. Your life matters, and the hole you would leave behind is bigger than you know. Take care of yourselves, especially during the holidays.   Links & Resources:

EP:119 As a former pediatric clinician, I've seen how parenting has shifted over the years. The pendulum has swung from strict to passive - but I've learned the right balance is key. The kids we work with are brilliant, but impulsive and defiant. I've watched parents fall into the trap of letting their kids run the show, thinking they're being "good" by not setting boundaries. But that only makes things worse. Carter and I have developed methods to empower parents and reclaim their role. It's not about being the "bad guy" - it's about equipping our kids with the tools to thrive. The results are amazing - families go from chaos to peace, parents feel liberated, and kids are happier. I know it takes work, but it's so worth it. If you're struggling, ditch the guilt and do what's best. Your kids crave structure, even if they don't know it yet. Let's work together to raise resilient, well-adjusted kids. I'm here to support you.

EP:118 Today I'm so excited to introduce you to one of my beloved coaches, Maria Gonzalez. Maria's journey through our Thrive program has been truly transformative - from struggling to find her identity as a stay-at-home mom, to making incredible lifestyle changes and becoming the best version of herself. Hearing Maria share her raw, vulnerable experiences and how this work has impacted her family is so inspiring. I'm honored to have her supporting our Thrive clients now, using her own story to deeply connect and guide others. If you've been on the fence about taking the leap, I hope Maria's words encourage you to trust the process.  The work isn't easy, but the rewards are priceless. Let me know if you have any questions! Xoxo,  Dr. B Links & Resources:

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EP: 116 As a parent, understanding your child's sensory profile is crucial for providing the right support and creating a harmonious home environment. In this episode of the Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I'm diving deep into the complexities of sensory behaviors and how they can impact both you and your little ones. Too often, we pigeonhole our kids (and ourselves) into simplistic categories like "seeker" or "avoider." But the reality is, our sensory needs exist on a spectrum, and we can exhibit a mix of different tendencies. By learning to recognize these nuances, we can unlock the key to better managing meltdowns, transitions, picky eating, and more. I'll share real-life examples, break down the different sensory profiles, and explain why it's so important to gain a deeper understanding of our nervous systems. This knowledge isn't just for the kids - it can be a game-changer for parents too, helping us develop the coping skills and self-awareness needed to thrive. So if you're tired of walking on eggshells, ready to ditch the one-size-fits-all approaches, and want to cultivate more harmony in your home, this episode is for you. Get ready to unlock the power of sensory intelligence and reclaim your family's wellbeing. Links & Resources:

EP:115 On this week's episode join me to dive into a bigger conversation about something that's not talked about nearly enough—how often we as females and mothers put others' needs before our own, especially when it comes to our health and well-being. I dive into the pattern many women fall into, where we take on the role of “default parent” and end up neglecting ourselves. This can lead to chronic health issues, burnout, and even resentment in our relationships. I talk about the guilt that many of us feel around spending money on ourselves instead of our families, and how that can affect our emotional and physical well-being. Trust me you don't want to miss this one! XOXO, Dr. B #thrive #thrivelikeaparent #newepisode #thrivelikeaparentpodcast #selfcare #selfcareinmotherhood #selfreminder #prioritizeyourself #emotionalregulation #sensoryregulation #oxygenmask #fillyourcup #youmatter

EP:114 On this episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I went to this incredible Pink concert the other night, and it just made me reflect on how much I used to neglect myself back in my previous relationship. I was always putting my partner first, trying so hard to make everything "work" that I completely lost touch with the things that lit me up inside.   And I see that happening with so many parents these days - we get so caught up in the grind, in keeping up appearances, that we forget to take care of ourselves. And even worse, I see parents just zoning their kids out with screens, even at special events like concerts. Those shared experiences and memories are so precious, and I worry we're robbing our kids of that. My dad took me to so many amazing shows growing up, and I'll cherish those times forever. I just wish I had been brave enough to chase my own dream of being a dancer. So this episode is a bit of a rant, but it's coming from a place of deep passion. I want all of you to go do the thing that sets your soul on fire! And make sure you're really present and engaged with your kids, not just using screens as a crutch. I know it's not easy, but it's so worth it. We can't pour from an empty cup, you know? So let's talk about why self-care, following your passions, and being present with your kids are so crucial. I can't wait to hear your thoughts on this one.    #newepisode #thrivelikeaparentpodcast #ThriveLikeAParent #parenting #podcast

EP:113 In this episode of "Thrive Like a Parent," I dive into how yoga and movement help spark my creativity and provide clarity in my life. For me, working out isn't just about fitness, it's a way to connect with myself and find insights. I share some personal experiences, including the challenges I've faced as a mom of two preemies, running businesses, and going through a tough divorce after losing Jonathan. These experiences have deepened my empathy for others. I also reflect on the importance of asking for help and share a story about gathering Jonathan's belongings after his passing. With a close friend by my side, I faced the emotional weight of that day. My kids came to choose what they wanted to keep, and a touching moment was when Charlie wrote "I love Dad" in the dust on Jonathan's car. This episode is a reminder that we're not alone in our struggles, and it's okay to lean on others for support. #podcast #thrivelikeaparent #thrivelikeaparentpodcast #newepisode #support #yoga #emotionalregulation

EP:112 On this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I'm thrilled to be joined by one of our wonderful coaches, Dr. Maria Gonzalez. We'll be exploring a topic that so many of you have been asking about—having a partner who travels.   It can be challenging to stay grounded and regulated when your partner is frequently away, and it's easy for resentment to build up, making communication and communication tough. We'll talk about the courage it takes to take ownership of your feelings, to recognize what your body and nervous system need, and to clearly communicate those needs to your partner.   No matter what your dynamic is, all relationships have their ups and downs, and it's completely okay to feel everything that comes up—without guilt. Remember, you're not alone. XOXO, Dr. B and Dr. Maria   #podcast #thrivelikeaparent #thrivelikeaparentpodcast #relationship #partner #newepisode

EP:111 My children should not grow up without their father. I should not have to raise my children without their father. No family should lose a loved one due to mental health. But here I am, and so many others. This world is spinning out of control, and our brains can't keep up. There's so much pressure to do more, be more, and it's crushing so many. I support parents day in and day out. If you're struggling, please don't wait. If you're lonely, please don't wait. Never hesitate to reach out if you are finding yourself in this situation, there are hotlines that you can call. You can go to the hospital and as a friend and as a supporter, and anyone who is supporting someone who is in this state, it is okay to get yourself support. It is okay to take care of yourself, and it is also okay to do what you can to support them, but also release that outcome, which is, again, a really hard one to hear. I hope you can share this episode with someone who needs to hear it.

EP:110 On this episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast, I discuss what it's like to come out of a prolonged "fight or flight" mode, sharing my personal experiences of exhaustion and the emotional lows that follow. It feels like coming down from a marathon—completely draining but necessary for healing.It is so important to rest and take care of yourself , even when it feels unproductive. This is a reminder that healing takes time, and it's crucial to be patient and gentle and kind to yourself during this recalibration of the nervous system.

EP:109 Is it possible for movement to release emotions? YES. YES. YES. It's a vital and one of the most crucial pieces to mental health, sensory regulation, emotional regulation and your nervous system regulation. The ability to utilize movement for regulation is like a triangle.   I believe that we all need movement. We all need someone to talk to, which is another edge of the triangle.   Then regulation is the third. And having that triangle of all those different pieces truly builds you into a individual who can have the ability to regulate their nervous system. Are you always going to be regulated? No, but the ability to learn how to throttle between the gas and the brake, and being able to understand what is required of you or necessary. That is, that's the secret sauce. That's the juice. That is the magic pill.

What does it mean to truly regulate internally? ✅ It means you understand your brain and body. ✅ You understand what your body physically needs, what it dislikes, what it likes. ✅ You know what self care will really support you. ✅ You understand if you're an introvert versus an extrovert. I want you to check in with yourself to see if you are externally emotionally regulating yourself or are you internally emotionally regulating yourself… AND what are the steps you can take to shift that? Deep dive into WHY..

EP:107 On this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast we are going to talk about the importance of setting boundaries and enforcing natural consequences for children without resorting to anger or resentment.    We must set consistent, firm boundaries and natural consequences, such as chores or writing lines, to teach our children respect and responsibility.    You get to decide what behaviors are and aren't acceptable in your home, and enforce boundaries for unacceptable behaviors. You must claim the driver's seat in your home.    I encourage you to parent the child in front of you, not the child you fear they will become. Don't let fear hold you back.    If you hold boundaries, if you give them natural consequences, what they are going to do is actually build a stronger relationship, trusting dynamic with you, a greater bond of respect with you. And I guarantee you, they will be happier humans, because you've made a very structured life, and they know what's expected of them. And we're going to continue down that path.   We are their teacher, and it is okay to teach. You got this.    XOXO, Dr. B   #thrivelikeaparentpodcast #podcast #newepisode #parenting #adulthood #sensoryregulation

In this week's Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I dive deep into the importance of setting boundaries with kids with caution against doing it in a mean or angry way.   I share my views on ADHD, and argue that the diagnostic system is too focused on labeling people with "disorders" rather than embracing the diversity of human experiences. I also emphasize the need for better education about how the brain functions, as many ADHD symptoms are common experiences that people may think are "normal."   I also discuss the concept of being a "sensory seeker" and how it relates to ADHD-like symptoms, encouraging everyone to embrace their power and brilliance while learning to manage their intense experiences.   Check out this episode to learn more about this thought-provoking perspective!   #thrivelikeaparent #throvelikeaparentpodcast #newepisode #consciousparenting #gentleparenting #neurosensory #neurosensoryparenting #sensoryregulation #emotionalregulation #selfregulation #parenting #parenthood #podcastformoms #toppodcast

Why Understanding Your Child's Brain is Crucial for Parenting

On this week's episode of the Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I dive into the challenges and rewards of raising strong-willed children, especially when it comes to their sensory and emotional regulation. Storing willed kiddos often struggle with societal expectations, like sitting still or staying organized, because they're trying to navigate their own unique needs.   I want to reassure you that while raising strong-willed children can be exhausting and sometimes overwhelming, it's so important to trust your parenting instincts. Understanding the root of their behavior—whether it's driven by sensory needs or emotional intensity—can make a big difference in guiding them effectively. I promise you can support your strong-willed child while still maintaining your own sanity.   I keep it real, the tough moments and the frustration that can come with them is 10000% there. But I also want to offer you hope and encouragement, reminding you that these traits often point to brilliance and resilience in your child. The key is finding the right balance between supporting their development and creating a harmonious household where everyone thrives.   #ParentingTips #StrongWilledChild #ThriveLikeAParent #ParentingChallenges #RaisingKids #ChildDevelopment #ParentingAdvice #MindfulParenting #SensoryAwareness #EmotionalRegulation #MomLife #ParentingPodcast

EP:103 In this week's Thrive Like a Parent podcast, I share my personal journey with setting boundaries and the importance of prioritizing your needs. I describe a time when I had zero boundaries, leading to anxiety, insecurity, and relying on unhealthy coping mechanisms.   But through self-reflection, I've learned to establish healthy boundaries and strategies to manage my daily life as a parent and caretaker. I   also share about being honest and speaking up, even when it's uncomfortable. I've found that being more authentic has allowed me to feel more comfortable in my own skin. I also discuss the importance of setting boundaries with children, and not being afraid to have difficult conversations.   The goal is to help kids develop self-regulation and independence. Check out this inspiring episode on the transformative power of boundaries!   #podcast #thrivelikeaparent #thrivelikeaparentpodcast #video #fyp

EP:102 Putting on your oxygen mask first… that's you've heard over and over and over and over and over again. The problem that I'm finding is that just because we know that phrase doesn't necessarily mean that I'm seeing that we're doing it as parents, and when you don't do it, what happens is you place yourself at the bottom of the totem pole. If you are currently ✅ Exhausted and depleted. ✅ You're waking up in the morning saying, I can't believe this is my life. I don't know how I got to this place. ✅ You resent your partner. ✅ You are so frustrated and annoyed with your kids. ✅ You're on antidepressants. ✅ You have high anxiety. ✅ You are unhappy. That probably means you are and that means that you're probably dysregulated and miserable. There are so many of you that we work with who just that simple phrase, I matter. You don't believe it. You don't trust it. There are so many individuals who we work with who just have built their own worth within taking care of everyone else around them. I just want to remind you today, if you haven't taken care of yourself in a while, to please do so if you need support, skip the vacation and pay for the support so that when you go on vacation, you'll enjoy the damn vacation. Find someone who feels best and right for you to guide you through your own journey of life. And most importantly, stop wasting time, because time is the most valuable commodity you will ever have, and you can't get it back. So this is your kick in the ass to start climbing that totem pole all the way up to the top, and take a breath once you're up there and enjoy. For more on this topic - tune into the Thrive Like a Parent podcast. XOXO, Dr. B #podcast #thrivelikeaparentpodcast #thrivelikeaparent #newepisode #parenting #parenthood #podcastformoms #podcastfordads #selfcare #selfcareformoms #selfcareforwomen #selfcareforparents #settingboundaries #youmatter #youmattertoo #sensoryregulation #nervoussystemregulation #nervoussystemhealth #joyinparenting #emotionalregulation #thrive #selfregulation

EP:101 Are you feeling like more like roommate than a loving partner in your dynamic but are hiding from everyone?It's more common than you think…Why??  Because we all want to put our best faces forward, especially with what's happening inside the four corners of our homes!What usually causes the drift?? Overfamiliarity, too much comfortability, overwhelming tasks, and routines, piled up work, new responsibilities, raising kids, insecurities, lack of intimacy, fear, resentment and the list goes on!But this doesn't have to be your situation forever. It doesn't have to be just “Is what it is”The shift and dynamic of moving from disconnected roommate to connected loving partnership CAN happen.It can through both partners supporting their own mental health through both regulating their own nervous systems and through both having the communication, carving out time for one another and sharing the vulnerability piece of life.It's doable. I want you to know it is possible. So have hope. Have faith and take one small step every single day. And trust within where you're at in this life.Curious how?? Check out this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast.XOXO,Dr. B#thrive #thrivelikeaparent #thrivelikeaparentpodcast #partner #partnership #familydynamics #communication #communicationinrelationships #vulnerability #relationships #healthyrelationships #intimacy #strongpartnership #healthypartnerships #parenting #parentingpodcast #podcastformoms #podcast

EP:100 Why Emotional Eating is a Form of Regulation

EP:99 On this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast.. The dreaded public meltdowns and how to support yourself and your child through them by understanding what's happening within the nervous system. Every child has a tantrum. That does not mean you're a terrible parent. That does not mean that you suck. It means that your child chose the wrong time to do it and the absolute worst thing we can do during a public meltdown is give in. We live in a world where we think our children will just get it, and unfortunately, we have to teach it. Unfortunately, it is effort. It requires work on our end. Curious to know the details? Tune in on this week;s episode! XOXO, Dr. B #thrivelikeaparent #podcast #newepisode #parenting #boundaries #healthyboundaries #mentalhealth #childdevelopment #creatinghabits #parents #parenthood #motherhood #joyinthejourney #happyparents #firmandlovingparenting

EP:98 If you have never chosen to tap your toe into the world of vulnerability, sharing, being open, and being interested in your feelings, it's going to be very uncomfortable and scary. That's because your brain is saying, 'Hold on, I'm not used to doing this. This is uncharted territory, and this doesn't feel safe. #thrivelikeaparent #thrivelikeaparentpodcast #newepisode  #emotions #selfdevelopment #selfcare #adviceforparents #parentingtips #parents #personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #thrive #parenthood #partnership #thriving #settingboundaries #nervoussystem #nervoussystemregulation #nervoussystemhealing #nervoussystemsupport #joyinthejourney #joyinparenting #momeuntrepreneur #selfcarefirst #selfreminder #selfcarematters

EP:96 I am so excited to dive deep into what it means to be a sensory avoider on this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast. A true sensory avoider means that you experience sensory stimuli or input into your brain more intensely than the average human, which means you then avoid it because it's so overwhelming.Here are some signs that you may be a sensory avoider: ☑️ You startle easily with sounds☑️ You avoid bright lights☑️ You zone out on your phone to escape the chaos☑️ You prefer more bland food☑️ You need the house to be clean and in order☑️ You crave calm, quiet, peaceful environments☑️ You are upset by unexpected touch Often times I find that you humans with sensory avoiding tendencies place sooo much guilt and shame on themselves. Guilt to the point of anxiety and depression. Everyone else is going after it.. Why can't I?? So they push and push and push. Doing the complete opposite from what their body and their brain actually wants and needs. Therefore awareness is KEY. You must understand how your brain functions, how your children's brain functions and how to support that brain, that will lead to the most beneficial, healthy, joyful life you could ever imagine. Because you're supporting the brain in a way that suits your own individual brain. Tune in with me on this weeks episode of THRIVE Like a Parent podcast and let's discuss what it means to be a sensory avoider and how to increase your capacity for the stimuli around you.

EP:95 All families look different. Before I dive deep into the topic I want to preference that: ● whether you are a female And the working parent or a female and the stay at home parent ● whether you are the male and a working parent, or whether you are the male and a stay at home parent ALL of your roles matter! I think that partnerships are crumbling, and there's so much resentment and anger towards each other within partnerships. And on todays episode of Thrive Like a Parent Podcast I want to talk about one of the missing pieces that most partnerships do not understand…. No matter which job you're doing, it's not as easy or simple as the other pictures. Being a default parent and a stay at home parent, being the parent who does the majority of the mental load for the kids is not a life of autonomy unless you work really hard to give yourself that autonomy within that life. You must learn how to regulate within the chaos of parenthood in life. If you are the working parent, the pressure never turns off, if I don't show up, if I don't keep pushing, if I don't make it to the next level… What will happen if I lose my job? What will happen if I don't get the bonus? What will happen if I don't hit the next financial goal? Then we won't be able to go on the vacation, or I won't be able to. fix the car. There's just so much and the pressure continues. That emotional state never goes away. I truly hope this episode helps to give you a little insight and understanding into the other side of the equation, more awareness, more tolerance, and maybe even a curiosity to dive deeper into getting to know each other's nervous system and how to support each other. #thrivelikeaparentpodcast #thrive #parentingpodcast #podcastforwomen #podcastformen #intimacy #connection #intimacyissues #intimacyandconnection #resentment #joyinthejourney #emotionalregulation #sensoryregulation

EP:94 On this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent podcast we are going to explore strategies for breaking cycles of resentment and rebuilding intimacy in relationships.Some key points I will discuss are:✅ Working with couples individually on emotional/sensory regulation can be more effective than traditional couples counseling✅ Accepting your partner as an individual, rather than trying to control them, is important✅ Focus on your own self-care and regulation to rebuild trust and deeper connection✅ Understand your own nervous system and learn to self-regulate emotions/behaviors✅ Avoid over-caring for partner/child, allow them to develop independence✅ Have open, compassionate conversations about emotional states, not judgment✅ Teach self-regulation skills to children/partner rather than being the sole regulator✅ Address underlying issues like dysregulation or disconnection impacting intimacy✅ Intimacy requires consent, communication, and addressing resentment/angerFocus on yourself, communicate openly with empathy, and support your partner's self-regulation for a healthier, more intimate relationship. Trust me you don't want to miss this one.XOXO,Dr. B#thrivelikeaparentpodcast #thrive #parentingpodcast #podcastforwomen #podcastformen #intimacy #connection #intimacyissues #intimacyandconnection #resentment #joyinthejourney #emotionalregulation #sensoryregulation

EP:93 As we head into this summer season, I want you to take a breath and remind yourself, what is the rush. And the more you do that, you're more the more you're slowing your brain down and reminding your brain there is no threat here, I am safe, and it's really hard sometimes to not just allow yourself to feel safe in threatening moments. That's effort, but it's also effort to allow your brain to feel safe in happy moments and good moments, because we harp so much on the hard, we harp so much on the bad that we forget to acknowledge, or even be present to the good. So I encourage you to start acknowledging that there's good. As you ease into the summer, I want you to keep breathing. I want you to relax your shoulders. Take really big inhales and exhales. Do the thing. Say yes to this the thing, go get the ice cream late at night, let your kids stay up, watch the movie, snuggle with them, have fun, because summer can be magical if you allow it. #thrivelikeaparentpodcast #thrivelikeaparent #podcast #parentingpodcast #podcasts #embracingtheseasons #magicofsummer #selfcare #artofslowliving #nervoussystem #podcastforwomen #emotionalhealth #slowdown #summerseason #thrive #thrivecommunity