Transition Drill

Sergio Alfaro, Army Medic and GWOT veteran, in Episode 234 of the Transition Drill Podcast, his experience highlights the importance of preparing for the mental and emotional side of transition, not just the next job or degree, and building support systems early instead of relying on a single post-service plan. Ultimately, his path reinforces that successful transition preparation requires adaptability, self-awareness, and permission to redefine success when the original mission no longer fits.Sergio talks about Iraq, PTSD, and the long road from wanting to become a doctor to rebuilding a life that actually works. If you're a veteran or first responder trying to figure out who you are after the job, this one's for you.Sergio was born in Los Angeles and grew up in Maywood and Burbank, seeing two very different worlds early on. He joined the Army with a long-term plans of becoming a doctor. In the Army, he became a medic, trained and deployed to Iraq in 2003–2004, based in Hamadi, west of Fallujah. He describes the reality of frequent mortar attacks, watching for IED threats, and the kind of moments that never really leave you. He also shares the loss of his commanding officer overseas, and how survivor's guilt and “why him, not me” thinking followed him home.After one enlistment, that turned into four and a half years because of stop-loss, Sergio struggled with trauma, but was hopeful of getting the option for the Army to send him to college to be a doctor. He wanted to keep serving and also go to school, but he ran into the “ask command” reality of the system, and it changed his outlook on staying in. He got out, determined to chase the goal on his own terms.That drive carries him all the way to acceptance at Harvard Medical School, with the GI Bill and Yellow Ribbon support helping make it possible. But also dealing with PTSD, a medical culture not built for that, and a training path that puts him in a VA inpatient psych ward rotation at the worst possible time. Things spiral, and he shares what it's like when your identity is tied to one mission and you feel it slipping away.The second half of this conversation is about what actually helped: support systems, weekly check-ins, and eventually getting connected with Wounded Warrior Project's Warriors to Work, job fairs, resume feedback, and a shift toward a new career path built around what he always loved most, training and teaching others.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

Tactical Transition Tips Round 109 of the Transition Drill Podcast offers practical guidance and career readiness for veterans and first responders, organized based on how far out your exit is. In this episode, how civilian career decisions that bring immediate relief can quietly limit your options.A lot of people in uniform picture the civilian world as the easier world. Less danger. Less stress. Less intensity.Some of that can be true. But the risk doesn't disappear when you hang up the uniform. It just changes its disguise.This time it's about a different kind of risk. The kind that doesn't show up with sirens or urgency. The kind that shows up later, after you've already made the move. It's the risk of picking what feels familiar instead of what protects your future. It's the trap of confusing relief with security. It's the slow cost of delayed consequences, unclear feedback, and workplaces where effort doesn't always translate into stability the way you're used to.If you're planning your transition, this is about learning to spot the new version of “danger” early, so you don't end up stuck in a role that feels calm but quietly caps your options.Transition-group tips• Close Range Group (transitioning within a year): Chasing Challenge or EasyTip: Before you commit to your next job, ask yourself if you're choosing it because it shuts the noise off fast, or because it actually gives you stability and growth.Why it matters: When urgency is running the show, “familiar” can feel safe even when it recreates the same burnout in different camouflage.• Medium Range Group (transitioning in 3 to 5 years): New Game, New RulesTip: Use your runway to learn how civilian careers actually work, including how decisions are made, how security is built, and how advancement really happens.Why it matters: The danger here isn't lack of preparation, it's preparing for the wrong game and getting blindsided by a different reward system.• Long Range Group (transitioning in a decade or more): Build Mobility, Not AttachmentTip: Build skills that travel, relationships outside your organization, and an identity that isn't dependent on your current role.Why it matters: Complacency is quiet, and the real risk is realizing too late your experience only makes sense inside one system.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

This Mindset Debrief episode is a short-form reflection on personal accountability, discipline, and self-leadership for people navigating pressure, responsibility, and growth. In this episode, we focus on: How constant mental pull and unfinished attention slowly wear you downYou know that end-of-day tired where you sit down and realize you're wiped out, but you can't point to a single hard thing that “earned” it. No crisis. No deep, focused stretch. Just a vague, unsettled fatigue that makes you quietly question your drive, your focus, maybe even your edge. This Mindset Debrief episode pulls that apart, starting with a simple idea from Herbert Simon: a wealth of information can create a poverty of attention. The point here isn't that you're lazy or undisciplined. The argument is that what's wearing you down is the constant splitting of attention, the starting and stopping, and the never fully finishing anything before something else reaches for you. It also gets into why rest sometimes doesn't work the way it should. You can be off the clock and still not be at rest, because your mind stays on alert, waiting for the next thing, checking, scrolling, keeping mental tabs open, living in a “potentially urgent” ready state. Over time, that keeps the system revving above idle, and the episode frames it as a slow energy leak, not a single spike. From there, it shifts into accountability without guilt: noticing how often the pull isn't outside of you, it's you, interrupting yourself. The closing lens is simple: stop asking only “why am I so tired,” and start asking where your attention is being spent without realizing it. Clarity isn't gone, it's been crowded out, and it waits for permission. Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.com

Brian Scoggins, retired Marine Corps Gunnery Sergeant, in Episode 233 of the Transition Drill Podcast, explores identity, accountability, and consequence for veterans and first responders navigating the long shadow of family history and personal choice. You'll hear Brian on carrying mistakes that weren't his, surviving moments that should've ended his life, and what it took to take ownership anyway and build a future he could stand behind. Brian Scoggins grew up on the east side of St. Paul, Minnesota, in a split world: one side of the family steeped in stability, military service, and tradition, and the other marked by addiction, chaos, and hard lessons at home. He talks about how that environment pushed him to grow up early, protect his younger siblings, and figure out who he was when things around him weren't steady. Brian takes you through the turning point that changed the trajectory of his life as a teenager, including a near-death moment that led him to recommit to faith and make a clean break from the path he was headed down. From there, it's the messy real-life version of “getting it together”: trying to join the military, dealing with legal problems caused by his older brother using his name, and learning fast how systems work when you're the one stuck proving you're not the guy they're looking for. He originally wanted a rescue-focused path and even chased the idea of being a firefighter, EMT, or special operations, but the Marine Corps became his lane after a recruiter encounter that felt like a dare. Brian shipped to boot camp in 2004 and ended up in aviation ordnance, loading guns, bombs, and munitions on aircraft, often in high-tempo environments where mistakes can get people killed. He shares what it was like hitting the fleet and deployments to Iraq, and how deployments and leadership experiences shaped him, including time inside a struggling helicopter squadron where he had to confront dysfunction head-on and protect Marines by forcing uncomfortable accountability. After 20 years of service, including recruiting duty, and fighting MMA, Brian retired in June 2024, and explains the work he's doing now working for Northrup Grumman and in the nonprofit space with No Lone Wolves, focused on reducing isolation and suicide risk by building connection through community and online gaming meetups. The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life. Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

Tactical Transition Tips Round 108 of the Transition Drill Podcast offers practical guidance and career readiness for veterans and first responders, organized based on how far out your exit is. In this episode, the systems in place to protect you require documentation and use before you're out.Benefits don't fail because they're weak. They fail because they sit there unused.In these careers, it's easy to treat “benefits” like paperwork you'll deal with later, once life slows down. But later is the trap. The system isn't going to chase you down and make sure you're set up. If you don't learn what you're entitled to, document what needs documenting, and use what's available while you still have access, you can end up paying out of pocket, delaying care, or walking into transition with avoidable problems on your back.This episode addresses benefits as protection, not perks. That includes medical documentation, but it also includes education options (like the GI Bill), financial and investing support, home buying programs, and even outside organizations that offer help for you and your family. The point isn't to become a benefits expert. It's to stop treating protection like background noise.Here are the three transition tips covered:Close Range Group (transitioning within a year): Get it on paper before you get outYou're running out of time for “I'll handle it later,” so this is about getting appointments, issues, and records documented now so you're not trying to prove things from memory after you're out.Medium Range Group (transitioning in 3 to 5 years): Fix it while you're still inYou've still got the advantage of structure and easier access, so you use this window to address real issues and use available resources before transition pressure makes everything harder to prioritize.Long Range Group (transitioning in a decade or more): The most important equipment maintenance is youThis is where you build habits and track patterns early so neglect doesn't become normal and small problems don't turn into long-term damage that follows you into any future transition.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10

This Mindset Debrief episode is a short-form reflection on personal accountability, discipline, and self-leadership for people navigating pressure, responsibility, and growth. In this episode, we focus on: Being responsible is how much uncertainty and risk you remove for those after you.Responsibility isn't a personality trait you “have.” It shows up after your work leaves your hands, when someone else has to rely on what you did and either move forward cleanly or slow down to protect themselves. You'll hear a different definition of responsibility: it's proven by exposure, not effort. “I tried” and “I meant well” can feel sincere, but they don't reduce risk. What reduces risk is what you do before anyone sees the result: forward thinking, verification, redundancy when it's needed, and follow-through that considers who's next in the chain.The episode digs into how risk moves downstream. Shortcuts don't remove problems, they relocate them. When reassurance replaces verification, the work can look “done” in the moment, but the cost shows up later as cleanup, rework, stress, and slowly declining trust. Over time, standards drift. People start checking your work without saying anything. They build their own redundancies because they can't take “it's good to go” at face value.It also reframes respect in practical terms. Not politeness. Respect as lowered uncertainty for the next person. Fewer surprises, less friction, less bracing for impact. You don't prove care by saying you care. You prove it by making failure less likely and outcomes steadier after you're out of the picture.If you care about accountability, competence, and trust at work and at home, this one gives you a clean lens for what “done” should mean.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15

Adam Cordova, retired LASD Deputy, in Episode 232 of the Transition Drill Podcast, shares what it really looks like to build a long law enforcement career without letting the job become your entire identity, for veterans and first responders navigating transition, retirement, and the next chapter. You'll hear Adam on his time in the SHU, to Gangs, then to secret squirrel stuff, and today a podcaster. All while balancing staying solid at home while still being great at the job.Adam grew up in the LA area in places like Compton, Lynwood, Inglewood, in the shadows of Firestone station, in an environment where you learn early how to carry yourself and how fast things can go wrong. He talks about a strict but fair father, being responsible for his brothers, and making a point to stay out of gangs even with that influence close by; his father was an OG “Veterano.” By his senior year, he was living on his own, working, and learning how to survive.Before law enforcement, Adam chased the fire service hard; he actually didn't like cops. He trained at stations, tested well, and thought he was headed that direction, but the process dragged out and felt like a game. A friend pushed him to test for the Sheriff's Department as a backup. That “backup” turned into the career.Adam got hired in 1990, and his early years were exactly what a lot of people don't want, but every agency needs: the jails, then court services. He talks about how that time either sharpens you or stalls you out, depending on what you bring to the work. In 1995, he finally hit patrol, and his first station was Walnut Station, which ended up being a lot busier than people assume. Walnut trained him in North County areas with gangs, drugs, and real calls, and he learned fast that a good cop can work anywhere if they actually want to work.From there, Adam moved into specialized work, including OSS, and later spent 11 years living the callout life where nights, weekends, and family time get sacrificed without anyone asking your permission. When homicide came up as the next “expected” move, he made a different decision and went to Tech Ops instead. He breaks down what that world actually looks like: trackers, bugs, hidden cameras, microphones, bug sweeps, digital evidence, and working warrants across the county with a small team that was basically on-call nonstop.Adam retired in 2022, and today he's still creating in a different way, working with graphic design and video production, something he'd been doing as a serious hobby for years. He also started his own podcast: A Proper Scoundrel, where he talks with former cops about the stories of their careers. Adam has a great story and offers great advice and perspective on having a long law enforcement career.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life. Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

Tactical Transition Tips Round 107 of the Transition Drill Podcast offers practical guidance and career readiness for veterans and first responders, organized based on how far out your exit is. In this episode, how a “I deserve this” mindset can quietly limit your growth.You've earned a lot in your career. You've done hard things that most people will never do, and you've absorbed stress that doesn't shut off just because the shift ends or the deployment's over. So it makes sense if there's a quiet thought in the background that says, “This should count for something.”This episode is about that invisible story. Not the loud version where you say you're owed something, but the subtle version that leaks into your patience, your tone, and your expectations. The problem isn't pride in your service. The problem is when you carry a scorecard into the civilian world and expect the world to agree with it.Because civilian hiring doesn't run on moral credit. It runs on value, timing, and fit. If you show up with even a hint of “I'm owed,” people can feel it. And you can do everything right on paper while your posture quietly pushes doors closed.So we're getting practical. We're talking about how entitlement forms, how it shows up, and how to rewrite the story now while you're still serving, so you're not learning this lesson the hard way in the middle of a job search or a new career.Here are the transition-specific tips we break down:Close Range Group (Transitioning within a year): Replace “What I Deserve” With “What I'm Building”This shifts your focus from chasing a payoff to choosing the next right move that builds skills, momentum, and options.Medium Range Group (Transitioning in 3 to 5 years): Test Your Expectations Against Civilian RealityYou'll compare what you think you should get with what roles actually require and reward, so your plan is based on truth, not assumptions.Long Range Group (Transitioning in a decade or more): Learn Humility Before Life Forces You ToYou'll train coachability and resilience now, so feedback, rejection, or a detour later doesn't turn into offense or ego-driven decisions.If you've ever felt misunderstood by the civilian world, this one's for you. It'll help you show up cleaner, calmer, and harder to ignore.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10

This Mindset Debrief episode is a short-form reflection on personal accountability, discipline, and self-leadership for people navigating pressure, responsibility, and growth. In this episode, we focus on: Turning intentions into something clear, visible, and trackable enough to follow through on.Most people don't lie out loud about what matters to them. They say their health is important, that their relationships matter, that their work deserves focus, that they're serious about the next chapter of their life. But none of it ever makes it onto paper. It never lands in a notebook, a calendar, a plan, or a place where it can be seen again tomorrow. And because of that, it stays a feeling instead of becoming a commitment.In this episode the information centers on a simple but uncomfortable idea: if something isn't written down, it usually isn't a real priority. Not because you're lazy or incapable, but because vague intentions are easy to protect. They let you feel aligned with the person you want to be without forcing you to confront how you're actually spending your time, energy, and attention.This episode isn't about rigid planning or turning your life into a spreadsheet. It's about honesty. It explores why people avoid writing things down in the first place, why clarity can feel threatening, and how leaving goals undefined gives you an easy escape when things get uncomfortable. You'll hear how unwritten goals quietly drift, how accountability disappears when nothing is tracked, and how the gap between intention and behavior grows wider the longer it stays unexamined.There's also a human side to this. Writing things down forces a moment of stillness. It makes you slow down long enough to see what you've been avoiding, postponing, or protecting yourself from. That can feel personal. It can feel exposing. And for a lot of people, that's exactly why they keep everything vague.This episode is a reflection on mindfulness, ownership, and the stories we tell ourselves about what we care about. It doesn't offer hacks or shortcuts. It asks better questions. What are you actually prioritizing based on how you live your days. What keeps getting attention without ever being acknowledged. And what changes when you stop letting your goals live only in your head.If you've ever felt busy but ungrounded, motivated but stuck, or committed in theory but inconsistent in practice, this conversation will likely feel uncomfortably familiar. And that's the point.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10

Antonio Bonfiglio, GWOT Iraq combat veteran, in Episode 231 of the Transition Drill Podcast explores transition and identity for veterans and first responders navigating the messy middle between “who I was” and “who I'm becoming.” You'll hear Antonio on combat deployments, what it takes to rebuild your life, and working for the Wounded Warrior Project.The episodes begins by naming a lie he's told himself on repeat: that he's tough. Not tough in the “I can handle anything” way, but tough as a posture, a defense he learned early. He grew up the short, sickly kid in a loud, old school household, always trying to prove he belonged. His family story is its own wild thing too: his dad was 30 years older than his mom, and Antonio grew up with three much older half-siblings who were closer in age to his mom than to him.He was born in New Jersey, raised in South Florida, then got pulled back to New Jersey at 13 and hated it. Hockey was his identity in Florida, and when that fell away, he started chasing status in the wrong places. He talks about a going-away party, getting caught with weed when the cops showed up, and how fast one “stupid decision” can change how your parents see you and what doors stay open.In 2003, he enlists in the Marine Corps on an open contract and ships off to Parris Island. He goes from boot camp to Marine Combat Training to combat engineer school, then hits his first unit in November 2003: 2nd Combat Engineer Battalion, 2nd Marine Division. His first deployment is January 2005, was to Fallujah right after Operation Phantom Fury. To the question “where did you grow up,” Antonio often says, “Iraq.” He shares the kind of stories that sound funny until you feel what's underneath them.After the Marines, Antonio runs into the next kind of fight: school, work, relationships, and trying to fit into normal life while still acting like everything's a mission. He talks about using education benefits, clashing with a professor, trying to get hired by the NYPD, and watching his life drift into dead end jobs, partying, gaining weight, and a layoff in the 2009 economic collapse. The throughline isn't perfection. It's the honest look at how a “tough guy” identity can protect you early, then trap you later, until you finally decide to change how you're living.Today he's turned his life around, he's now married and has a couple children. He's been working for the Wounded Warrior Project for the past 6 years, and though he's helping other's who, “raised their right hand” as a physical fitness instructor, he's found his own treatment helping others through their journey. His new passions are sailing and jiu-jitsu, both he found through veteran non-profits.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life. Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comEPISODE BLOG PAGE AND CONNECT WITH ANTONIO:https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.com/post/transition-drill-podcast-marine-corps-combat-engineer-to-wounded-warrior-project-antonio-bonfiglioSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

Tactical Transition Tips Round 106 of the Transition Drill Podcast offers practical guidance and career readiness for veterans and first responders, organized based on how far out your exit is. In this episode, how the negative noise impacts your outlook and transition preparation.If you're active duty military or a working first responder, your transition mindset is getting shaped right now, whether you mean for it to or not. This episode is about how social media and online commentary can quietly start planning your future for you, especially when the loudest voices are the most bitter.You've probably noticed it. Rage bait. Outrage clips. “Here's why the job is broken” takes that get more traction than the quieter stories of people who rebuilt their lives and moved forward. The problem isn't that hard stories exist. They do. The problem is when you absorb someone else's resentment like it's objective guidance, and you start rehearsing a future you never actually chose.We're going to talk about discernment. Not disengaging. Not pretending transition is easy. Just learning how to separate lessons from emotional residue, and how to stop confusing volume with credibility. Because attention isn't neutral. What you keep feeding yourself starts teaching you what to expect, what to fear, and what to resent.Here are the transition tips from this episode:Close Range Group (transitioning within a year, or it's happening right now): Filter Voices by Outcomes, Not VolumePay attention to whether someone's stable and building a life now, not how confident or angry they sound, because your expectations and confidence can get hijacked at the exact moment you need clean execution.Medium Range Group (transitioning in 3 to 5 years): Study Patterns, Not ComplaintsUse other people's outcomes as data by looking for repeat themes in who struggles and why, so you're preparing with ownership instead of collecting grievances that don't help you plan.Long Range Group (transitioning in a decade or more): Build an Identity That Doesn't Need an EnemyStart widening who you are outside the uniform or badge now, so you don't end up needing blame or bitterness later to explain what feels like an identity loss.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15

This Mindset Debrief episode is a short-form reflection on personal accountability, discipline, and self-leadership for people navigating pressure, responsibility, and growth. In this episode, we focus on: Making mistakes isn't the issue, it's ensuring you repair them that strengthens you.You say you don't wanna make mistakes. Fair. But if you're being honest, you're probably not afraid of the mistake itself. You're afraid of what it demands after, the slow cleanup, the awkward conversations, the patience, the lost momentum, and that quiet stretch where you don't get a reset button.In this episode hear about mistakes and repair, and why the real growth doesn't happen in the instant something goes wrong. A mistake can happen fast, sometimes while you're doing your best. The learning shows up later, when progress feels like it ran in reverse and you've still got work to do, even after the emotion fades and everyone else has moved on.You'll hear why people hesitate and overthink, not because they're lazy, but because they don't wanna face the version of themselves that has to fix something without applause. Mistakes feel loud and emotional. Repair feels flat. It's repetitive. It can feel lonely. It comes with pressure, “Did you fix it yet?” That's where discipline gets tested. That's where you find out if you've built real systems, or if you've been relying on motivation, because motivation doesn't survive cleanup work.We also get into the two common traps people fall into after they mess up. Some rush the fix just to escape discomfort and call it “done” too early. Others overcorrect, obsess, and turn one mistake into a statement about their worth. This episode draws a hard line between responsibility and shame. Repair isn't punishment. It's commitment. It's how you restore trust with yourself, your work, and the people around you.If you want to become steadier under pressure, you don't need a flawless record. You need the willingness to stay in it, finish what the mistake started, and learn who you are in that quiet part.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15

Kyle Collins, retired Deputy Fire Chief, in Episode 230 of the Transition Drill Podcast, explores identity loss after service for firefighters, veterans, and first responders navigating retirement and life after the uniform. You'll hear Kyle Collins on what happens when decades of trauma, leadership, and purpose collide with silence, and what it takes to admit you need help before you lose the people you love.Kyle Collins spent his life inside the fire service. He grew up around the outdoors, learned hard technical skills early, and chased a path that eventually led him to become a paramedic, a firefighter, a company officer, a battalion chief, and finally a deputy fire chief. He didn't just work calls, he carried them. Years on the paramedic squad meant nonstop exposure to emergencies across wide areas. Child calls hit him the hardest, especially when they mirrored the ages of his own kids. He learned to compartmentalize because that was how the culture worked. You showed up, did the job, and moved on.By the time Kyle retired in December 2019, he had given more than three decades to the job. He thought he was ready. Then COVID hit. Travel plans disappeared. His daughter's family moved into his house longer than expected. The routines that usually keep retirees grounded weren't there. The phone stopped ringing. The role that had defined him for decades vanished, and he didn't know how much of his identity had been tied to it until it was gone.What followed wasn't what he expected. He wasn't having nightmares or flashbacks. He was losing patience. Losing gratitude. Losing the ability to feel joy. He felt ashamed because, on paper, his life looked good. A pension. A long marriage. A family. Inside, he was coming apart. He kept calling friends at the department just to feel connected, then realized he had to let go because it was keeping him stuck.The breaking point came when his anger spilled into his home and scared the people he loved. That night forced him to admit something he'd avoided for years. He wasn't okay. Kyle reached out for help and was connected with a therapist who specialized in first responders. Through EMDR and months of work, he started unpacking decades of calls he never dealt with, including many he didn't realize were still active inside him.This conversation isn't about weakness. It's about what happens when strong people don't get ahead of what they carry. Kyle shares what the job took, what retirement exposed, and what it actually looks like to rebuild when the uniform comes off.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life. Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comEPISODE BLOG PAGE AND CONNECT WITH KYLEhttps://www.transitiondrillpodcast.com/post/transition-drill-podcast-deputy-fire-chief-and-the-cost-of-an-emergency-service-career-kyle-collinsSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

Tactical Transition Tips Round 105 of the Transition Drill Podcast offers practical guidance and career readiness for veterans and first responders, organized based on how far out your exit is. In this episode, we focus on what we quiet carry from these careers.There's “stuff” most active-duty service members and first responders carry, but rarely name out loud: the baggage from these careers. The calls, deployments, injuries you pushed through, the leadership failures that still irritate you, the mistake you haven't fully forgiven yourself for, the burnout you've learned to function with. When an end date starts feeling real, that “stuff” doesn't disappear. It starts showing up in how you think, how you talk, and how you picture your future.This episode isn't about digging up the past for the sake of it. It's about separating emotion from information, so you can keep the lessons without letting the weight run your next chapter. Because whether you like it or not, your experience is already shaping what you'll do after the uniform. The question is whether you'll carry it intentionally, or let it quietly steer your decisions.Here's how we put it into practical steps based on where you are right now:• Close Range Group (transitioning within a year): Turn Your Hardest Experiences into Problem Solving Skills. Write out a few defining moments, separate what happened from what you learned, and turn those lessons into clear language you can use in interviews instead of oversharing or underselling yourself.• Medium Range Group (transitioning in 3 to 5 years): Build a purpose-driven project. Start a small, personal-aligned project (mentoring, teaching, writing, coaching, creating, a side venture) to test how your experience creates value outside the uniform and get real feedback before transition becomes urgent.• Long Range Group (transitioning in a decade or more): Write Your Career Story Now. Capture lessons, failures, and growth while details are still fresh, so your future leadership, promotions, and eventual interviews are built on a real record, not fuzzy memory.If you've been telling yourself “I'm good,” you might be. This is just making sure what you've carried becomes direction, not drag. Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15

This Mindset Debrief episode is a short-form reflection on personal accountability, discipline, and self-leadership for people navigating pressure, responsibility, and growth. In this episode, we focus on: Stop giving the world more power than it has.The World is Holding you Back: Walk through a pattern a lot of capable people fall into without realizing it: when accountability gets uncomfortable, it's easy to decide the problem is “out there.” The system. The culture. Your coworkers. Your boss. Timing. Your environment. However, that story quietly changes everything, especially the everyday moments that shouldn't carry so much weight. A suggestion gets heard as an attack. A question gets labeled as skepticism. A disagreement starts feeling like disrespect. You replay conversations, anticipate resistance before it even shows up, and stay on guard in situations that don't require it. This isn't an episode where we pretend obstacles don't exist. It acknowledges that people misunderstand each other, systems are imperfect, and some environments are harder than others. But it also make a clear distinction that changes how you move through work and relationships: friction is neutral. What matters is what you do after friction shows up. A big part of the episode focuses on feedback and communication. Feedback is often poorly delivered, badly timed, and filtered through someone else's bias. Still, if you automatically convert feedback into an attack, you lose useful information that could help you improve how you're perceived, how you communicate, and how you perform. This episode also addresses the cycle that keeps people stuck: carrying tension into every interaction, watching others pull back, then using that reaction as “proof” you're being held back. The way out is uncomfortable, but simple in concept. You stop handing the world more power than it actually has, and you start owning your side: how you listen, how you respond, what you assume, and what you're willing to adjust. Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

Marc Hansen, a former Navy SEAL, in Episode 229 of the Transition Drill Podcast. This time, explore identity after service for veterans and first responders, navigating the shift from team structure to self-directed responsibility. You'll hear Marc Hansen on choosing a renewed mission through music after the SEAL Teams, and what it takes to own your transition without drifting.Marc Hansen served six years in the Navy and has been out about ten years. He's direct about what changed him most: once you're out, it's on you, and that responsibility hits different than anything inside the military system. A turning point shows up early. Midway through his first deployment, Marc was already thinking about getting out. When he returned, he learned his younger brother was injured in training and didn't make it through the pipeline. Marc made a decision in that moment: when his time was up, he was getting out and they were going to rock and roll together. That choice connects to the way he defines “success” in music: writing songs, playing them live, and hearing a crowd sing them back. The conversation also gets into the family context. Marc describes a home where service was normal, with a mix of Navy and first responder work across siblings, and a longer thread of Navy service in earlier generations. He's from Staten Island, talks about growing up in a tight neighborhood, and how that environment shaped him before the military. Before the Teams, he aimed at art school, attended FIT in Manhattan, then shifted toward work, travel, and eventually committing to BUD/S. He doesn't romanticize it. Swimming didn't come easy, he struggled, and then found a partner dynamic that helped him perform beyond what he expected. The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life. Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

In Round 104 of the Tactical Transition Tips on the Transition Drill Podcast, transition doesn't just test your resume, it tests your reputation, especially if you're a veteran or first responder whose career can be judged by optics instead of context. If you don't own your story with calm clarity, someone else will shape it for you, and you'll be stuck responding instead of leading. In this Tactical Transition Tips episode, you're going to look at a transition stressor that rarely gets talked about early in a career: the “trailer” you tow into every interview, background, lateral process, and post-service environment, even when you did your job professionally for years. In high-liability professions, being cleared doesn't always mean being untouched, and pieces of your history can linger through investigations, complaints, policy reviews, rumors, or public attention. This isn't about spinning your story or pretending nothing happened. It's about being prepared to explain your career with accuracy and credibility, without defensiveness, over-explaining, or blame. Your narrative already exists. The only question is whether you take ownership of it before someone else reads it back to you in a hiring process. You'll hear what “control the narrative” actually means in practice: clear facts, clear outcomes, and clear lessons, delivered with professional tone, because credibility lives in how you carry the explanation, not in a perfectly polished line. Close Range Group (transitioning within a year): Own Your Story Before Someone Else Does — Identify the moments that could raise questions and write a factual explanation: what happened, what the outcome was, and what you learned. You're doing this now so you don't get forced into a reactive, emotional explanation when the stakes are highest. Medium Range Group (transitioning in 3 to 5 years): Choose mentors who will vouch for character, not just skill — Build relationships with people who've watched how you operate over time, then tighten your habits in writing and communication so your reputation holds up even when something gets read out of context. Long Range Group (transitioning in a decade or more): Live like everything is reviewable — Operate with discipline and professionalism now, because most career damage comes from patterns, and patterns are what people use to decide whether they trust you later. Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10

If you're someone who keeps waiting for reassurance before you move or make a decision, this Mindset Debrief episode is for you. It addresses the pattern and shows how it turns capable people into hesitant decision-makers.You'll see what it's costing you in momentum and self-trust, and you'll leave with a practical way to act while uncertainty's still present.A lot of people assume they're delaying because they're being careful. The research points to a more uncomfortable driver. Avoidance often shows up as emotion regulation, not bad time management. When a task or decision stirs up tension, the brain looks for quick relief, and delay becomes a short-term mood fix. Reassurance works the same way. It can lower anxiety for a moment, but it teaches you to treat discomfort as a problem that needs to be removed before you're “allowed” to act. In clinical research, excessive reassurance-seeking is tied to worsening depressive symptoms and strained relationships, partly because it can pull other people into a loop that never really resolves the fear underneath. This gets louder when you've got a low tolerance for uncertainty. Intolerance of uncertainty reliably predicts higher anxiety, and it pushes people toward behaviors that feel safe in the moment, like checking, overplanning, and seeking repeated confirmation. In decision-making research, that “safety behavior” can backfire by keeping you dependent on certainty you can't actually secure. SpringerSo this episode draws a hard line between two things that get confused: information and permission. Information helps you make a better call. Permission is emotional outsourcing. If you can't tell the difference, you'll keep collecting opinions long after you've already got enough to decide.We talk through what reassurance-seeking looks like in real life at work and at home, why it feels responsible, and how it quietly trains you to distrust your own judgment. Then we shift the standard you're using. You're not waiting for confidence. You're waiting for discomfort to go away. It won't. The move is learning to decide with it still there, and to treat self-trust as something you practice, not something you earn from other people.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10

Episode 228 of Transition Drill Podcast explores identity loss, career-ending injury, and post-service reinvention for Navy Divers and military professionals navigating an unexpected transition. You'll hear Tommy McConnell on the psychological crash that followed his 2018 diving injury, and what it actually took to rebuild purpose, competence, and direction after the uniform came off.Tommy's story begins well before the injury. He walks through his decision to join the Navy, shipping to boot camp in May, 2011, and earning his place in the Navy Diver community. He explains the pride that came with mastering a demanding craft and the quiet confidence built through repetition, competence, and trust in teammates. That foundation carried him into real-world operations, including the high-profile F/A-18 recovery mission in the Persian Gulf, where technical skill and discipline mattered more than recognition.In 2018, everything changed. A career-ending diving injury shut the door on Navy diving and forced a transition he wasn't mentally prepared for. Tommy shares his blunt story of what came next. He describes a bad period after leaving the Navy marked by depression, loss of identity, and a sense that the skills that once defined him no longer had a place. Like many veterans and first responders, he struggled with the silence that follows service, when structure disappears and no one is telling you where you belong next.What makes this conversation valuable is how specific Tommy is about climbing out of that hole. He didn't reinvent himself from scratch. He leveraged what he already knew. Drawing on his dive background, he entered the Unmanned Underwater Vehicle industry, first as a contractor operating UUV systems, then progressing into a role with a San Diego-based company where he now trains and mentors other UUV operators. The work restored competence, responsibility, and a sense of contribution.At the same time, Tommy revisited something he had put on hold while on active duty. He resurrected his clothing brand, 15 Fathoms, not as a hobby but as a deliberate reclaiming of ownership and identity outside the Navy.This episode speaks directly to veterans and first responders facing forced transitions, medical retirements, or identity loss after service. Tommy's experience shows that recovery isn't about finding something entirely new. It's about reconnecting with what you already know, taking responsibility for your next chapter, and rebuilding purpose one decision at a time.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life. Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comEPISODE BLOG PAGE AND CONNECT WITH TOMMY:https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.com/post/transition-drill-podcast-tommy-mcconnell-navy-diver-veteran-career-ending-injury-medical-separationSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

In Round 103 of the Tactical Transition Tips on the Transition Drill Podcast, some mornings you wake up and you're already behind, not on tasks, but in your head. The list isn't a list anymore. It's a pile. Career decisions collide with money decisions. Money decisions collide with family pressure. Family pressure collides with location, timing, and the question you keep dodging: what happens when your current lane ends.This episode is about transition overload, what it actually is, how it sneaks in, and why it's dangerous even when you're still performing well. Transition overload isn't being busy. It's too many major decisions competing for the same mental space at the same time. When that happens, you don't just feel tired. Your judgment gets less accurate. You start bouncing between tasks, chasing quick relief instead of clear outcomes. You either rush decisions to collapse the pile, avoid decisions by staying in research mode, or do a little of everything and finish nothing.The point here isn't to grind harder. It's to protect decision quality. Because the quiet risk of overload is the quiet decision. The one you make just to reduce uncertainty. The one that turns into a path you didn't fully choose.This episode breaks down the difference between pressure with order and pressure without order, and why the second one feels endless. It also gives you three practical moves based on your timeline, so you can keep your transition deliberate instead of reactive.Close Range Group (transitioning within a year): Sequence Your Transition, Don't Pile It.Pick one primary lane for the next 60 to 90 days and put everything else in maintenance mode so you stop burning bandwidth on competing priorities.Medium Range Group (transitioning in 3 to 5 years): Reassess Your “Wish” List.Write out the expectations you've been carrying and renegotiate what still fits so you don't build a future plan around an outdated version of yourself.Long Range Group (transitioning in a decade or more): Put Buffers in Place to Avoid Panic Choices.Build financial, skill, and personal buffers now so future decisions don't get made under threat when timelines change fast.If you've felt friction instead of focus, this episode will help you spot what's happening and slow the pile down before it shrinks your options.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15

The Mindset Debrief: Gaining perspective on what hits you hard and not making it your identityPain has a way of hanging around longer than it should. Not because you want it to, but because it keeps offering itself as protection. One hard hit turns into a default posture. You start bracing early. You assume the worst faster. You call it boundaries, but it can turn into walls. You call it self-awareness, but it can turn into a script that plays before anything even happens.In this episode, we're looking at the difference between pain as a teacher and pain as an identity. Pain can sharpen judgment, clarify what you value, and show you what you won't tolerate again. But if it isn't processed, it doesn't stay in its corner. It leaks into how you speak, how you trust, how you handle stress, and how people experience you in a room. It can start to feel like control, even when it's costing you more than it's protecting you.This episode offers specifics about what it looks like when pain becomes personality, and what changes when pain becomes perspective. Perspective doesn't erase what happened. It organizes it. It puts the experience in the right place so it can inform decisions without running them. You'll hear the shift in the questions too. Not “What did this do to me,” but “What did this teach me.” Not “How do I make sure this never happens again,” but “How do I move forward without carrying this into everything.”Information is also presented regarding personal responsibility without pretending pain didn't matter. Explanation isn't exemption. At some point, what happened to you can't be the reason you stop working on yourself. We'll talk about how processed pain sounds different than unprocessed pain, how absolutist thinking narrows the future, and why maturity often looks like catching old reactions before they become default.If you've felt yourself tightening up, getting more guarded, or living like your hardest chapter is the whole book, this episode is built for that moment.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15

Michael D'Angelo, a Marine and now Rapid Fire Comedy Tour, in Episode 227 of the Transition Drill Podcast. This episode traces Michael D'Angelo's path from a chaotic childhood in Las Vegas to a deliberate decision to leave everything familiar behind and join the Marine Corps. It is not a redemption arc built on hindsight or polish. It is a clear account of how instability, exposure to violence, and constant proximity to bad outcomes shaped a young man who knew early that staying meant losing.Michael grew up in a home defined by addiction, financial collapse, and constant movement. His father went from successful construction business owner to struggling laborer. His mother drifted in and out, leaving long stretches of absence and unpredictability. By elementary school, Michael was changing schools almost every year. By middle school, the streets had become his community. Not because he wanted crime, but because he wanted connection, structure, and a sense of belonging that wasn't available at home.What stands out is his awareness of the line he refused to cross. He ran with kids who stole cars, carried guns, and sold drugs, yet he never did. He was frequently detained, handcuffed, and documented by police, but never arrested. He understood consequences even while chasing adrenaline. That tension—between chaos and restraint—runs through the entire conversation.The turning point came on the Fourth of July when a street fight escalated and Michael was slashed across the face with a straight razor. Thirty-two stitches later, the scar became permanent. The lesson was immediate. Staying meant prison, death, or something close enough not to matter. Within months, he left high school, earned his GED, and walked into a recruiter's office with one objective: get out.His entry into the Marine Corps was fast and imperfect. He took the first contract available, asked few questions, and left home at seventeen. Boot camp was not a shock. It was stability. Regular meals, sleep, expectations, and accountability. For the first time, life made sense.This episode matters to veterans and first responders because it shows how early environments shape risk tolerance, decision-making, and identity long before a uniform is involved. Michael's story isn't about being saved by service. It's about choosing structure when disorder becomes the default, and accepting responsibility before the cost becomes irreversible.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life. Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comEPISODE BLOG PAGE AND CONNECT WITH MICHAELhttps://www.transitiondrillpodcast.com/post/transition-drill-podcast-from-chaos-to-comedy-the-marine-corps-saved-his-life-michael-dangeloSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

In Round 102 of the Tactical Transition Tips on the Transition Drill Podcast, your transition doesn't begin with paperwork or a final day on the job. It begins much earlier, often quietly, when structure starts doing more of the work than intention. For people who built their identity inside disciplined professions, the danger isn't failure after transition, it's drift. Old habits. Old circles. Old coping mechanisms that no longer fit the life ahead, but remain familiar enough to feel safe.This episode focuses on one critical idea: if you don't deliberately decide what you're leaving behind, it will follow you forward. Careers built on structure, hierarchy, and mission provide a powerful container. When that container loosens or disappears, responsibility shifts inward. Without planning, the same discipline that once kept everything aligned can dissolve into complacency, isolation, or reactive decision-making.This episode breaks transition preparation into three distinct timelines, recognizing that preparation looks different depending on how close someone is to leaving a structured career. Each group is given a specific focus designed to reduce risk, preserve identity, and support long-term stability beyond a uniform, badge, or rank.Transition Group Guidance:• Close Range Group (transitioning now to within 12 months): Audit What Still Pulls You Backwards.Identify people, routines, and environments that undermine progress, and create distance now so they don't quietly shape your next career.• Medium Range Group (transitioning in 3–5 years): Build a New Tribe Before You Need It.Begin forming relationships outside your current organization so support, mentorship, and perspective already exist when the transition begins.• Long Range Group (transitioning in 10+ years): Decide Early Who You Refuse to Become.Establish clear identity guardrails and small daily habits that prevent long-term drift into bitterness, stagnation, or unhealthy metrics of success.This episode isn't about motivation. It's about awareness, discipline, and ownership. Transition outcomes are rarely determined at the moment of exit. They are shaped years earlier by the decisions people make when no one is forcing them to prepare.This round lays out how to do that work early, deliberately, and without drama.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10

The Mindset Debrief: Improving emotional control, clarity, and leadership effectiveness in high-pressure situations.There's a split second before things go sideways. A message lands wrong, a meeting gets tense, a plan starts slipping, and you feel that pull to fix it now. To respond fast, clarify, correct, defend, or prove you're in control. But speed isn't the same thing as skill, and under stress, it's easy to treat the first thought as the best thought. That's where this episode lives: in the moment before the consequences show up.The concept of the discipline of stepping back, not as avoidance, silence, or “letting it go,” but as a deliberate pause is addressed, which creates space for clarity. Why so many capable people don't struggle with effort, they struggle with restraint, and how “control” quietly gets mistaken for “fast.” When emotions rise, your nervous system gets loud, assumptions start feeling like facts, and conversations turn into contests. Stepping back interrupts that chain before it turns a manageable problem into collateral damage.This episode reframes composure as something you build, not something you're born with. It's a skill that shows up through repetition: taking the breath on purpose, delaying the conversation you can't handle cleanly, and choosing timing that protects your judgment. You'll also learn why this matters beyond you. Stepping back changes how safe you are to be around when tension hits. It changes whether your presence steadies a room or heats it up. That's leadership, even without a title.This episode presents practices you can use at work, at home, and in any relationship where tone and timing matter. Write the draft without sending it. Put the message in your notes and let it sit. Delay decisions when you're emotionally compromised, not forever, just long enough to regain judgment. Use stepping back as a verification tool, so you don't assign meaning while you're charged up. And when you're about to speak or act, run one simple check: is this about helping the situation, or helping your feelings? Stepping back won't make you passive. It'll make you accurate, safer, and more effective.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Frontline Optics Get 10% off your purchase Link: https://frontlineoptics.com Promocode: Transition10

Alex Payne was born in Uzbekistan and raised in a post Soviet environment before living briefly in Moscow. He moved to the U.S. at 16 and talks about learning to rebuild from scratch, then stacking real life work experience before ever putting on a uniform. He didn't start policing at 21. He entered the job later, after corporate work and customer service, and he's direct about why that mattered. In his view, the street doesn't care how motivated you are, it cares whether you can manage people, stay calm, and make decisions when somebody's worst day becomes your problem.Alex walks through a law enforcement career that gave him purpose and also tested his trust in the organization behind the badge. He describes calls that never leave you, including scenes involving children, and he doesn't pretend the job is clean or predictable. He also recounts being ambushed and how that reinforced a mindset he repeats throughout the conversation: tomorrow isn't guaranteed, so don't live on autopilot.The turning point in his story is an in-custody death that he says triggered a long stretch of internal pressure. He explains how an internal affairs finding he labels “administrator disapproval” became fuel for a civil lawsuit. He talks about the depositions, the case dragging on into 2020, and being on his way out while he still had an open lawsuit and multiple internal investigations. He describes feeling more worried about his department than working nights in South Central, and he ties that to why he lateraled and rebuilt his career in Santa Monica. He says those years became the best stretch of his time on the job, and it's also where his personal life changed, meeting his wife and starting a family.Now retired, he lays out what he does today, business first. He runs a turnkey commercial asset operation that designs, furnishes, and clears out offices and buildings, including full liquidations. He also mentions a logistics company, a media company, and his own podcast. If you're a veteran or first responder thinking about transition, this episode stays in the real world: identity, loyalty, pressure, and what it looks like to walk away while you're still carrying unfinished business.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

In Round 101 of the Tactical Transition Tips on the Transition Drill Podcast, there comes a point in a military or first responder career when the job that once felt right begins to feel different. You may still be committed, still disciplined, and still performing, but something in you has changed. The identity you built through years of service no longer aligns with the person you have become. Many veterans and first responders feel this shift quietly. It shows up as internal friction, a loss of energy, or a subtle awareness that the role no longer matches your values or emotional needs.This episode explores the emotional reality behind that moment. It focuses on identity, direction, and the slow evolution that happens in these careers. Transition is not about quitting. It is about understanding who you are becoming and how your future can reflect that growth.Using grounded insight, this episode walks you through the experience of misalignment and how to use that awareness as a tool for transition preparation, no matter where you are in your career.Transition Group Breakdown• Close Range Group (transition within 1 year):Tip: Alignment with Future Identity, Not a Perfect Job TitleExplanation: When transition is close, clarity matters more than panic, and emotional steadiness helps you move intentionally into the next chapter.• Medium Range Group (transition in 3 to 5 years):Tip: Begin Mapping 3 LanesExplanation: This period gives you time to build skills, education, and identity outside the uniform so your options expand instead of collapse.• Long Range Group (transition a decade or more away):Tip: Protect Your Identity from Becoming One-Dimensional.Explanation: Early habits in health, identity, and personal development protect you from becoming defined by a single role later in life.This episode helps you understand that misalignment is not failure. It is information. And when you listen to it early, transition becomes a choice, not a crisis.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10

The Mindset Debrief: Learn from those ahead of you, walk with those beside you, and mentor those behind youLiving your life in thirds is a mindset that brings clarity, balance, and personal fulfillment in a world that's often driven by constant motion and emotional pressure. Many people chase success, but they do it alone, and eventually feel disconnected, stressed, or overwhelmed. In this episode, we explore a practical and meaningful way to approach growth: learn from those ahead of you, walk beside the people who support your daily life, and mentor those who are building their identity behind you. These three groups create a healthy rhythm of learning, connection, and contribution.Through storytelling and reflection, this episode helps you understand why personal balance is impossible when everything becomes a solo mission. We grow faster when we study the habits and principles of those ahead of us, we stay grounded when we remain emotionally connected to the people walking through life with us, and we create real purpose when we serve and support others without expecting anything in return. Fulfillment becomes less about status or achievement and more about identity, clarity, and emotional maturity.This mindset makes personal development feel calmer and more intentional. You learn from experience without carrying every burden alone, you enjoy a richer emotional life with people who matter, and you build legacy by pouring your time and wisdom into the next generation. Living in thirds protects your confidence, strengthens your relationships, and brings meaning to every season of life.If you want to improve your mindset, emotional intelligence, discipline, and personal growth, this episode will help you see your own development with more patience and clarity. Progress becomes peaceful instead of stressful when you decide you're not meant to do everything alone.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15

Travis Winfield served a 24-year Navy career as a Master at Arms, a lifelong commitment to mentorship, financial literacy, and real estate education, all driven by his mission to help others transition into civilian life with confidence, stability, and purpose.In Episode 225 of the Transition Drill Podcast, if you're a military veteran or first responder, you've probably heard the same line your whole career: “You'll be fine, the pension will take care of you.” Travis Winfield lived that life, and he'll tell you straight, it's not enough. Travis grew up in Richmond, Virginia, raised mostly by a single mom, working obs as a teenager just to help keep life moving. He thought aviation was his future, got accepted to a top civilian flight program, then watched the door slam shut when the money was not there. So he joined the Navy out of necessity and ended up serving twenty four years.He as an Operations Specialist, hated it, and eventually converted to Master at Arms . That path took him into military law enforcement, dignitary protection overseas in places like Greece and Italy, and eventually to Command Senior Chief on a small crew ship.Along the way he started selling real estate, then after retiring, Travis built a real estate business, wrote a book on financial literacy for the military community, and created Military Operated Real Estate, (MORE), a SkillBridge and VA approved real estate training pipeline designed for veterans, active duty, and military family members.In this episode we walk the whole arc, from humble beginnings, rebellious youth to command level leadership, trauma, transition, and building a second career. Travis breaks down his “life in thirds” model, the influence of retired Green Beret Larry Broughton, and why learning money, mentorship, and mission early can change your entire post service life.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

In Round 100 of the Tactical Transition Tips on the Transition Drill Podcast, transition can feel overwhelming for military veterans and first responders because the world outside the uniform often presents more choices than clarity. This episode explores how choice overload affects service members, police officers, firefighters, EMS professionals, soldiers, Marines, sailors, and airmen as they prepare for life after service. The story that unfolds is one many experience but rarely discuss, the fear of choosing wrong, the pressure to explore everything, and the uncertainty that grows when direction is missing.You'll hear how transition becomes easier when you narrow your focus, build identity intentionally, and match your preparation to the stage of your career. Instead of chasing every possible path, this episode shows why clarity and structure create the confidence needed to move forward with purpose.Transition Group Breakdown• Close Range Group (transitioning immediately to one year): Choose one or two career lanes to explore deeply; this helps reduce overwhelm and supports decisive movement during a critical window.• Medium Range Group (transitioning in roughly five years): Build depth in your professional identity and create early positioning; these actions give you stronger options and more confidence when transition becomes real.• Long Range Group (transitioning in ten or more years): Develop curiosity and foundational habits that strengthen long term readiness; this ensures your identity and skills evolve in ways that support future transition rather than threaten it.This episode guides you through the reality many military veterans and first responders face, a future filled with options that can either paralyze progress or strengthen direction. The goal is simple, help you build clarity so your next chapter isn't defined by uncertainty, but by deliberate movement toward a meaningful life after service.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

The Mindset Debrief | Doing It All Alone Is Breaking YouSelf-reliance is often praised as strength, yet many adults quietly turn it into a constant survival strategy. What begins as independence can slowly shift into isolation, and most people never notice the moment when self-discipline turns into self-damage. This episode explores why high performers often carry everything alone, and how that habit can erode clarity, creativity, and emotional stability over time.Examine the subtle ways independence starts taking more than it gives. How silence can disguise itself as focus, how isolation can look like discipline, and why doing everything alone slowly narrows your perspective. This episode challenges the belief that strength requires solitude and offers a mindset shift that rebuilds resilience without sacrificing independence.The heart of this episode centers on a simple idea: you're a rough draft of the person you're becoming, and your growth depends on more than your ability to grind through challenges alone. You'll learn how to recognize the early signs of emotional isolation, how to replace pressure with clarity, and why support is a strategic tool for personal and professional growth.If you've ever pushed through exhaustion, withheld your struggles, or believed you had to carry everything yourself, this episode will speak directly to you. It invites you to rethink what strength really is, and it offers a practical, hopeful path forward.This episode is designed for anyone who cares about leadership, mindset, emotional intelligence, and personal growth. It's a reminder that you don't grow by standing alone, you grow by standing open: open to perspective, open to connection, and open to becoming something more.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10

Veterans and First Responders, civilian transition can be an identity crisis. Jiu Jitsu helped her find her purpose.In Episode 224 of the Transition Drill Podcast, what happens when you've already lived out your dream career but are forced to walk away from it. For many first responders and military members, transition is not a clean break, it's an identity crisis. In this episode, former San Diego Police Officer Kristi Miedecke opens up about the hardest fight she ever faced. It didn't happen in uniform, it happened at home.Kristi grew up in a law enforcement family, earned her badge with grit, and loved the job. But when she became a mother while married to another cop, the math stopped working. Two young kids, opposite shifts, no real sleep, and a quiet question started chasing her. Can you be fully present for your family and still be fully committed to the badge. Kristi made the choice to leave the department, but she didn't expect the silence that followed. No radio traffic, no partners, no roll calls, and no identity. That silence led to postpartum depression, anxiety, isolation, and the painful admission that she felt like she didn't know who she was anymore.What followed is powerful. Therapy. Grad school. Discovery of jiu jitsu as a form of grounding and healing. The creation of Gates to Healing, an equine therapy program built for first responders and military veterans fighting trauma, anxiety, and loss of identity. Kristi didn't just rebuild her life. She rebuilt her purpose.This conversation is for any firefighter, police officer, medic, veteran, or service member asking the tough questions: What if the uniform is gone. What if I don't know who I am anymore. And what does it really take to move forward. If you're in transition, or might be someday, this episode is proof that your purpose can evolve and your mission is far from over.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comEPISODE BLOG AND CONNECT WITH KRISTI:https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.com/post/kristi-miedecke-chose-family-over-the-badge-a-cops-transition-journey-veterans-first-respondersSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

In Round 99 of the Tactical Transition Tips on the Transition Drill Podcast, the holiday season should feel joyful, but for many veterans and first responders it often feels like pressure disguised as celebration. When the lights go up and small talk begins, transition stress can surface faster than any festive spirit. Military veterans, Police officers, EMTs, and firefighters often carry more emotional weight this time of year, and if transition is on the horizon, the season can quickly become a silent test of identity. That's why this episode focuses on turning holiday stress into clarity, not chaos.This time it's tips on how the season can be used intentionally, even if it feels uncomfortable. Instead of performing for others, you'll learn how to observe, protect energy, and quietly prepare for the next phase of life after service. Transition isn't only about leaving the uniform, it's about who you're becoming next.This episode includes tailored guidance for each transition group:• Close Range Group (transitioning now to one year): Pre-loaded responses protect mindset during holiday conversations, and prevent emotional fatigue while you prepare for real decisions in the new year.• Medium Range Group (transitioning in about five years): The holidays are a rehearsal space where you can practice observing civilian communication and begin building awareness before pressure arrives.• Long Range Group (transitioning in a decade or more): Use this season to study influence, communication, scheduling, and identity so your future self isn't limited to a single role.For the military veteran or first responder navigating transition, clarity isn't always loud. Sometimes it's built quietly during holiday moments when you finally see who you've been, and who you're meant to become.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

Your first reaction might feel automatic, but it often becomes your reputation. Before logic arrives, before you think you had time to choose your words, something already showed up in your name. That small window between stimulus and response may be brief, but it reveals far more about your mindset than most people realize. In this episode, we explore how your first reaction can either damage your credibility or establish your influence.Most people wait until they feel pressure before they try to regulate their emotions. But by that point, the reaction has usually introduced them. Real discipline is built before that moment ever arrives. This episode walks through the psychology behind instinctive reactions, why the brain sometimes interprets inconvenience as threat, and how ego often steps forward before logic has a chance to speak. You'll hear how calm voices gain trust, how composure builds leadership, and how emotional clarity becomes a competitive advantage.This episode of The Mindset Debrief breaks down practical strategies that help you train your response before pressure tests it. You'll learn how to use routines, mindset habits, and internal language to build discipline that holds steady when the moment tries to pull you off balance. True composure isn't the absence of feeling. It's the ability to guide emotion instead of letting emotion guide you.The episode highlights what happens within the first three seconds of conflict, challenge, or surprise. That breath either protects your ego or protects your reputation. The difference between reacting and leading often begins right there.Leadership isn't only seen in public settings. It begins privately, in the way you handle tension, disagreement, or sudden change. This episode shows how those moments don't have to define you, they can reveal who you're becoming.Your first reaction isn't your final answer, but it often becomes what people remember. If you train that moment, you'll begin shaping the rest of the conversation on purpose.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15

In Episode 223 of the Transition Drill Podcast, when the dates on the calendar are saying you're older and the adrenaline slows down, your body starts telling the truth. For veterans and first responders, that truth often shows up as fatigue, low energy, dropping motivation, unexplained weight gain, or stress that feels too heavy to shake. Many think it's just aging. Others blame it on the job. But sometimes the real answer is hiding in your hormones, your sleep, and your recovery. Today's conversation proves that your body might not be failing you. It might just be asking for help.In this episode, we sit down with Kevin Kuder, owner of Game Day Men's Health in Murrieta, California, a clinic built to serve veterans, police officers, firefighters, medics, and everyday people who feel like they've slowly drifted away from their old selves. Kevin grew up in a military family, worked across medical staffing and sales, taught English in South Korea, and eventually discovered a mission that put service and health back at the center of his life.After battling his own fatigue and stress, he walked into Game Day Men's Health as a patient, not a business owner. That visit changed everything. His blood panels told the story his energy had been trying to tell for years. That moment pushed him toward a calling that now helps thousands of men and women understand what their bodies are going through and how hormones, sleep, nutrition, and mindset can work together to rebuild strength and clarity.This isn't about shortcuts or chasing youth. It's about helping people feel human again. It's about showing veterans and first responders that they're not weak, lazy, or broken. Sometimes they're just low.If you're tired of feeling tired, this episode isn't just worth listening to. It might be the starting line of getting your life back.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comEPISODE BLOG AND CONNECT WITH KEVIN:https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.com/post/hormones-health-trt-and-energy-kevin-kuder-serving-veterans-first-respondersSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

In Round 97 of the Tactical Transition Tips on the Transition Drill Podcast, service transition comes in many forms. It might be opportunity, injury, burnout, new leadership, layoffs, or a change you didn't see coming. Military veterans, police officers, firefighters, EMS professionals, and law enforcement personnel often feel prepared for chaos on duty, yet struggle when transition arrives without warning. The real test isn't simply leaving service. It's building the ability to adapt when stability disappears. That's what this episode confronts head on. What happens when your future knocks and you no longer get time to prepare, you only get time to respond?Transition always carries pressure, but each phase requires a different strategy. These Tactical Transition Tips challenge a dangerous belief found across military and first responder careers. Time isn't guaranteed. Rank doesn't shield you. Stability isn't promised. The closer you get to transition, the more crucial readiness becomes. The mission is simple: live fully now, while building resilience for whatever comes next.This week's transition strategies focus on three groups:Close Range Group (transitioning immediately to one year out): Cut the Emotional Attachment NowIf something owns your emotions, it owns your choices; begin detachment training immediately to prevent hesitation from sabotaging your momentum.Medium Range Group (transitioning in five or so years): Train Your ExitUse this window to make mistakes when the stakes are low, test ideas, adjust leadership styles, and treat failure as scouting information.Long Range Group (transitioning in a decade or more): Always Be Ready to Walk in 30 SecondsBuild financial clarity, physical readiness, and emotional adaptability so you can pivot when life demands it instead of when you feel ready.Military transition, veteran transition, law enforcement transition, and life after service don't begin on a calendar date. They begin the moment you decide to stay ready.Because readiness isn't a luxury. It's a responsibility.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

The direction of your life is often shaped by something easy to overlook: the expectations of the people closest to you. Our circle influences how we think about challenges, how we respond to discomfort, and how much effort we believe is required to grow. Today's episode explores the power of our peer group and why intentional relationships are one of the most important decisions we make when building a meaningful life.We've all felt the difference between two environments: one where people complain and shrink their goals, and one where people pursue growth and speak with possibility. The first room quietly drains ambition, while the second room wakes it up. This episode is a conversation about how to step toward the latter. Not by abandoning people, but by choosing alignment. By deciding which expectations you'll allow near your mindset, and which ones no longer serve your future.Growth requires accountability. Accountability requires environment. And environment requires intentional selection of the people who influence our habits, standards, and imagination. You deserve a circle that challenges your excuses and supports your potential.You don't need a perfect circle, you need an honest one. A circle that lives with purpose, demands effort, and believes your best days are still ahead. Today, we'll walk through how to evaluate your influences, how to enter stronger environments, and how to become someone who belongs in the circle you're seeking.Your circle will either raise your ceiling or reinforce it. If you choose your influences carefully, you'll begin to see your identity expand, your discipline strengthen, and your future open into possibilities you may have forgotten were possible.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

In Episode 222 of the Transition Drill Podcast, Ernie Mariscal's story is one that grabs you early and stays with you. It's a journey that speaks to veterans, first responders, and anyone fighting through trauma that started long before adulthood. Growing up with childhood abuse, identity confusion, and fear that controlled every decision, Ernie enlisted in the Army searching for structure, purpose, and a chance to rewrite who he was. What he found was discipline, belonging, pride, and the harsh reality of war. Iraq in 2004 changed him. Losing friends, surviving daily danger, and coming home with invisible wounds pushed him into a fight he never trained for.His transition into civilian life wasn't smooth. It wasn't simple. It wasn't the kind of story that fits into a clean motivational speech. Ernie struggled with drinking, broken marriages, emotional numbness, rage, job instability, and the crushing loss of identity so many veterans and first responders face after service. He went through depression that nearly cost him his life. He slept in his car. He battled medication that numbed him. He felt completely alone.But the turning point came in a simple request to speak to a class of at risk students. Sharing his story cracked something open inside him and gave him purpose again. That moment started a slow, powerful rebuild. He joined Toastmasters, began speaking publicly, and used honesty instead of hiding to help others work through trauma, transition challenges, and the long road back to themselves. Today he's growing a speaking career, building brands around mindset and resilience, and giving people the voice he once needed.This episode walks through Ernie's entire life story, told openly and without filters. It's emotional, gritty, and filled with moments every veteran, every first responder, and every survivor of childhood trauma or war related trauma will understand. It also shows how growth is possible when you refuse to quit on yourself. If you're navigating transition, healing from trauma, or searching for purpose, this conversation will speak to you directly.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

In Round 97 of the Tactical Transition Tips on the Transition Drill Podcast, You need to have goals. Every mission starts with a plan, and transition is no different. For military veterans and first responders, life after service can feel unpredictable, but the key to staying grounded is treating your future like an evolving mission plan. This episode breaks down how to turn your next chapter into a personal roadmap built on direction, discipline, and purpose.When you leave the military, police, fire service, or EMS, the loss of a defined mission can feel like losing part of your identity. That's why having goals must become your next operational focus. This episode teaches how to build, execute, and revise your personal strategy for the life ahead. Whether you're days away from separation or a decade from retirement, learning to plan with purpose transforms your transition from uncertain to unstoppable.In this episode, we focus on all three transition groups:• Close Range Group (those transitioning immediately to a year out): Transition is Just a waypoint. By setting goals that extend beyond the day you leave service, you avoid the emotional crash that often follows separation. This section explains how to transform your transition into the launch point for your next mission.• Medium Range Group (those transitioning in roughly five years): Conduct a Quarterly Goal Audit every 90 days. This structured rhythm of stopping what no longer works, starting what moves you forward, and continuing what builds momentum keeps your progress aligned. The episode outlines how veterans and first responders can use this system to stay adaptable and disciplined through the middle years of service.• Long Range Group (those ten years or more from transition): Identify Flex-Point Indicators that trigger strategic re-planning. These measurable data points, such as missed promotions or lifestyle changes, ensure you never become attached to outdated goals. We explain how using five-year increments creates a resilient and forward-thinking career blueprint.Transition isn't the end of your mission; it's the evolution of it. Having a goals with a plan ensures that your next chapter carries the same purpose, structure, and focus that made you effective in uniform.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

There comes a moment in every person's life when the path they once trusted begins to feel too narrow or too familiar. It happens quietly at first, then all at once, and suddenly you're staring at your own reflection wondering why a life that once fit so well now feels smaller than you remember. This episode of The Mindset Debrief explores that pivotal moment with honesty and clarity. It shows why starting over isn't a sign of failure, it's a sign of growth, courage, and alignment.The information guides you through the internal conflict that comes with beginning again. You'll hear how identity can keep you tied to old versions of yourself, how comfort convinces you to stay in places that no longer stretch your potential, and why clarity often comes disguised as discomfort. Instead of forcing progress where there's no longer purpose, you'll learn how to recognize when a chapter has ended and when it's time to step into something new.Moreover, aspects like discipline, micro commitments, and honest self-evaluation form the backbone of a meaningful reset. Growth rarely arrives as a dramatic leap. Instead, it's formed through small, steady choices that help you realign your life with who you're becoming. You'll also hear why patience matters during the early stages of change and how to navigate the uncertainty that comes with leaving the familiar behind.You're Allowed to Start Over is a reminder that you're never stuck. You're never too late. You're not defined by the path you walked before. You're defined by the courage to begin again with more wisdom, more clarity, and more intention than you had before. If you've felt the quiet pull toward a new direction, this episode will give you the perspective and confidence to take the next step toward a life that actually fits.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15

In Episode 221 of the Transition Drill Podcast, Chris Seminatore's story is a lesson in resilience, reinvention, and relentless curiosity. From a small-town Ohio upbringing to serving in U.S. Navy intelligence during Desert Shield and Desert Storm, to building a life as an entrepreneur and marketing innovator in Los Angeles and now Mexico.Chris shares how the discipline and precision he learned in the Navy became the foundation for everything that came after. His service taught him to see patterns where others saw chaos, a skill that translated directly into business and technology. After leaving the military, he faced the familiar uncertainty of transition, struggling to find meaning in college classrooms that felt disconnected from real life. Restless but determined, he chased purpose through writing, film, finance, and startups. Each venture brought lessons in leadership, human behavior, and the value of staying adaptable.What makes Chris's journey so compelling isn't just the career changes, it's the mindset that ties them together. Whether navigating Wall Street crashes, building early web-based tech, or recovering from business setbacks, he never stopped moving forward. His latest chapter in marketing and advertising uses geo-fencing technology to help businesses reach audiences with precision and authenticity, proving that modern innovation still relies on timeless principles—strategy, integrity, and human connection.For veterans and first responders looking to navigate their own transitions, Chris's story offers something powerful: proof that the skills forged in service can thrive in any environment. The same situational awareness, mission focus, and accountability that define a uniformed career can drive success in business, marketing, and beyond.This episode isn't just about marketing or technology. It's about mindset. It's about what happens when you refuse to be defined by your past and instead use it as fuel to build something new. Whether you're planning your transition, leading a business, or simply searching for purpose, Chris Seminatore's journey will remind you that your mission isn't over; it's just changing coordinates.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comEPISODE BLOG PAGE & CONNECT WITH CHRIS:https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.com/post/navy-intelligence-to-digital-marketing-veteran-transition-journey-chris-seminatoreSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

In Round 96 of the Tactical Transition Tips on the Transition Drill Podcast, transitioning out of the military or leaving a career in law enforcement, firefighting, or EMS is not just a career change, it is a full identity shift. The uniform eventually comes off, the radio stops, the structure quiets, and suddenly your success depends not only on your experience, but on who is willing to speak your name when you are not in the room. In this episode go beyond mentorship and reveal a critical truth for every military veteran and first responder preparing for life after service: you do not rise in the civilian world on experience alone, you rise when someone with influence advocates for you.This episode focuses on the strategic move from collecting mentors to creating advocates, people who put their reputation on the line to open doors for your next chapter. Military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and EMS professionals already understand leadership, discipline, and responsibility. What often gets missed during transition is learning how to build relationships with decision-makers who can champion your potential in the civilian arena. That is the skill we train today.We break down this mission across all three transition timelines:Close Range Group (transition within a year): Turn one mentor into a formal advocate, and one sentence explanation: You will prepare for civilian hiring by directly asking a key contact to serve as a formal reference and equipping them with your resume and target job description so they can speak confidently on your behalf.Medium Range Group (transition in roughly five years): Define three sponsor actions, and one sentence explanation: You will identify three specific ways a future advocate can assist you such as introductions, developmental opportunities, or executive visibility so support becomes actionable not vague.Long Range Group (transition in a decade or more): Build early relationships with leaders who have real influence, and one sentence explanation: You will invest in authentic long-term relationships with proven decision-makers who may later become advocates once they have seen your consistency, character, and performance over time.Whether you are a Soldier, Marine, Sailor, Airmen, police officer, firefighter, paramedic, or anyone preparing for a military transition or first responder transition, this episode strengthens your approach to building meaningful professional relationships that secure real opportunity in your next mission.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

There is a quiet moment in everyone's journey where frustration meets truth. You might feel like you have done enough, worked hard enough, waited long enough, and therefore life should finally reward you. It is easy to believe you deserve more simply because you want more. Yet, real transformation rarely begins with receiving; it begins with earning.This Mindset Debrief episode explores the powerful shift from expectation to effort, from passive deserving to active earning. It is a story many of us know well: you set a goal, put in effort, and expect results to follow on your timeline. But when progress stalls, doubt grows. It is here, in that uneasy space, where some people stop, while others rise. Those who rise do so not because they are gifted or lucky, but because they chose to earn their growth relentlessly.Through reflective insight and practical direction, this episode challenges the belief that success arrives simply because you worked once. Success arrives because you continue to show up. You build discipline when motivation fades. You commit to improvement even when no one is watching. Consistency becomes the quiet engine behind your results.In this episode you will learn:• Why entitlement quietly steals progress and momentum• How an earning mindset builds confidence, resilience, and direction• The difference between activity and disciplined execution• Why identity shifts when effort becomes a lifestyle, not a burst• How to step out of waiting mode and into personal agencyThis is not about punishment or perfection. It is about reclaiming control. Growth belongs to those willing to earn it consistently, thoughtfully, and patiently. You do not rise by hoping for outcomes, you rise by preparing for them. The person you want to become will not show up simply because you desire that life. They will appear through practice, discipline, and repeated action.Your future is not guaranteed. It is built. Step into the process and earn the life you say you want.If you are ready to build a stronger, steadier version of yourself, start here. Because gratitude is not waiting for you to feel ready, it's waiting for you to begin.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10

In Episode 220 of the Transition Drill Podcast, dive into the remarkable journey of Surinder Goode, a woman who never needed a title or uniform to stand tall in a community built on grit, sacrifice, and service. Her life is a powerful reflection of what it means to build identity, purpose, and resilience alongside a spouse serving at the highest levels of Naval Special Warfare.Before she ever stepped foot in America, Surinder was already fighting expectations. Growing up in a traditional Indian household, she rejected the path chosen for her and chose freedom instead. She left home, lived in her car, built a life with her own two hands, and then followed opportunity across continents during a time of global conflict. That independence shaped her long before she met her future husband, a Navy SEAL.In Coronado, she entered the special operations world with humor, strength, and honesty, not through rank or entitlement, but through her own merit. She built a thriving on-base coffee business where service members found community, laughter, and honest conversation. Every cup poured came with respect, tough love, and encouragement for those carrying the weight of unseen missions and silent burdens. Today, she has transitioned herself to hosting her own podcast, The Goode Show, diving into the unfiltered realities of military life, entrepreneurship, and identity.Surinder speaks directly to military spouses, veterans, and first responders who understand isolation, transition stress, and personal sacrifice. She shares how she navigated deployments, motherhood, shifting identity, and the emotional challenges that come when the uniform finally comes off. Her story reminds us that family serves too, independence matters, and love requires hard conversations and relentless honesty.If you are a veteran, active-duty service member, military spouse, or first responder seeking real insight on identity, transition, resilience, and staying grounded through chaos and change, this interview will speak to you. Surinder embodies humor, truth, loyalty, and strength, and her voice is one every service family should hear. This is not a story about living behind a warrior. It is a story about living beside one.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comREAD MORE ABOUT / CONNECT WITH SURINDER GOODEhttps://www.transitiondrillpodcast.com/post/surinder-goode-a-military-spouse's-journey-of-grit-identity-and-purposeSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Blue Line RoastingGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://bluelineroasting.comPromocode: Transition10Frontline OpticsGet 10% off your purchaseLink: https://frontlineoptics.comPromocode: Transition10

In Round 95 of the Tactical Transition Tips on the Transition Drill Podcast, every military veteran, police officer, firefighter, and first responder knows trauma. But not all trauma hits hard and fast. Most of it builds quietly, hidden in the daily grind of service life. Small, repeated exposures to stress, known as “Little T” trauma, can wear down even the most resilient.In this episode, unpack the reality that cumulative trauma is not just about what happens on the worst day of your career, but what happens every day afterward. By learning to see, measure, and manage the small moments that build up over time, veterans and first responders can protect their longevity, purpose, and emotional health.This episode breaks down practical, actionable guidance for each transition group:• Close Range Group (transitioning now to within one year): The Daily “Little T” — Keep a simple daily log of small stressors or frustrations. This makes invisible pressure visible and helps you recognize patterns before burnout hits.• Medium Range Group (transitioning in roughly five years): “Decompression” Breaks — Schedule two short 15-minute resets during your shift. These tactical pauses prevent stress overload and preserve focus, patience, and composure.• Long Range Group (transitioning in a decade or more): Prioritize Emotional Health — Treat therapy, downtime, and self-care as operational readiness costs. Proactive wellness investments protect your future and extend your service life.From the military base to the firehouse to the patrol car, every service environment carries its own version of daily trauma. Understanding and addressing it early allows you to transition stronger, live healthier, and lead by example.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Total Force Plus ConferenceLink: https://totalforceplus.org

Most people treat gratitude like a mood, something that shows up when life feels good. But real gratitude is not a feeling; it's a skill. It's a muscle that strengthens only through consistent effort. When you train it daily, it changes the way you see the world, the way you handle adversity, and the way you lead yourself through difficult moments.In this episode of The Mindset Debrief, we explore the idea that gratitude is not found in comfort but built through resistance. Life will always throw challenges your way. The question is, will you see the thorn or the rose? Gratitude reframes how you experience pressure, setbacks, and uncertainty. It helps you shift from reaction to response, from frustration to focus, from negativity to perspective.This episode walks you through what it means to build mental endurance through gratitude. Each time you choose to recognize what is present instead of what is missing, you train your mind to stay grounded, calm, and capable. Gratitude teaches awareness. It gives clarity in chaos and control when emotions want to take over.You will hear how gratitude parallels physical training: small daily repetitions that compound into strength. These are the unseen moments when you choose patience over complaint, appreciation over comparison, and presence over distraction. The more you train gratitude, the less you need ideal circumstances to feel at peace.Gratitude does not erase hardship. It equips you to carry it better. It reminds you that growth often hides inside struggle and that perspective is the true measure of maturity. This episode is a challenge and a guide to begin your own daily practice of gratitude—not as a reaction, but as a mindset.If you are ready to build a stronger, steadier version of yourself, start here. Because gratitude is not waiting for you to feel ready, it's waiting for you to begin.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15

In Episode 219 of the Transition Drill Podcast, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) Brett Ryan has spent nearly two decades helping first responders and military veterans confront trauma, rebuild relationships, and reclaim their lives. Brett shares how he founded Brett Ryan Counseling and built a private practice trusted by police officers, firefighters, and military service members.Brett explains how trauma affects those who serve on the front lines and why many still struggle to seek help. He reveals how methods like Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) are transforming the way first responders and veterans process stress, recover from post-traumatic experiences, and reconnect with family.From his early years in ministry to his advanced clinical training, Brett's story is one of purpose and compassion. He discusses the stigma surrounding therapy, how confidentiality and trust are crucial for those in uniform, and the growing shift among younger first responders who now see therapy as mental maintenance rather than a last resort.This episode goes beyond the surface to explore what real healing looks like for those who protect others daily. It's a powerful conversation about resilience, emotional health, and the courage it takes to heal from the inside out.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Total Force Plus ConferenceLink: https://totalforceplus.org

In Round 94 of the Tactical Transition Tips on the Transition Drill Podcast, when service becomes your identity, it's easy to delay life for later. Veterans, police officers, firefighters, and EMS professionals often tell themselves that once things slow down, they'll finally take that trip, spend that time, or live that life. But “later” never comes.In this episode of the Transition Drill Podcast, we explore how to stop postponing fulfillment and start living intentionally today. Whether you're nearing the end of your service or just starting your journey, these strategies will help you balance duty with life.Transition Groups:• Close Range (Transitioning now to within 1 year): Buy the Ticket — Choose one experience you've delayed for six months or more and commit to it now. Reclaim your time and remind your family that life outside the job matters.• Medium Range (Transitioning in 5 years): Regret-Proof Your Schedule — Create a Non-Negotiable Time Budget for family and personal life. Protect it with the same discipline you bring to duty.• Long Range (Transitioning in 10 years or more): Plan Legacy Events — Tie family experiences to career milestones. Build shared memories that turn your professional success into personal legacy.Your uniform may define your career, but it shouldn't dictate your life.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Total Force Plus ConferenceLink: https://totalforceplus.org

Most people want change, until it costs them comfort.We love the idea of growth, but we hesitate when it means holding ourselves accountable.What you see in the mirror is about facing that hesitation head-on.Every morning, you meet the one person responsible for your progress: the reflection staring back. The mirror doesn't lie. It doesn't soften the truth. It reflects your habits, your choices, and your effort. In this episode, we explore what happens when you stop blaming your circumstances and start taking full ownership of the life you're building.Growth doesn't begin with a plan or a goal; it begins with honesty. It begins when you stop negotiating with excuses and start confronting the reflection. This is where radical ownership takes root. You'll learn how to quiet the ego that deflects responsibility, how to build consistency that earns self-trust, and how to shift from waiting for direction to leading yourself.It's about realizing that every action you take, no matter how small, is shaping the person you see every day. When you take ownership, you stop asking for permission to improve. You simply begin.Understanding that accountability is not punishment, it's freedom. Because the moment you own the person in the mirror, everything else in your life starts to align: your work, your relationships, your confidence, and your sense of purpose.Listen, reflect, and reset your direction. The reflection isn't your enemy. It's your reminder.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15

In Episode 218 of the Transition Drill Podcast, when Caylie Valenta, at the time studying to become a Physician's Assistant, met probationer firefighter Andy Valenta, their story began like something out of a movie. A chance encounter at a bar on a California night that turned into a bond built on love and sacrifice. Together, they forged a life rooted in purpose and family, raising two daughters and chasing the ordinary joys of marriage in between long shifts. But when Andy, a healthy and dedicated firefighter, was diagnosed with metastatic melanoma, their world changed overnight. What followed was a journey of courage, loss, and rebirth that transformed personal tragedy into a mission to protect others. Through the creation of the Andy Valenta Melanoma Foundation, Caylie turned grief into purpose, shining a light on the hidden cancer dangers facing firefighters and proving that even in loss, love can build something lasting; something that saves lives.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Follow the show and share it with another veteran or first responder who would enjoy this.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Total Force Plus ConferenceLink: https://totalforceplus.org

In Round 93 of the Tactical Transition Tips on the Transition Drill Podcast, transition isn't about leaving something behind. It's about discovering what's next. In this episode, explore how military veterans and first responders can take ownership of their stories; shifting focus from pain to progress. It's not about forgetting the hard moments, it's about recognizing how much strength lives in between them.• Close Range Group (0–1 year from transition): Do a Gratitude Inventory.Reclaim mental balance by writing down daily moments of good and retraining your mind to see beyond the hard days.• Medium Range Group (about 5 years from transition): Write a Success Story.Translate your service into a personal narrative that highlights your resilience and helps guide future career choices.• Long Range Group (10+ years from transition): Convert Struggle into Service.Channel the lessons from your toughest moments into mentorship or advocacy that gives meaning and direction to others.You are not being replaced by technology; you are the safeguard that keeps it from failing.The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for veteran transition and life after service. Helping you plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life.Get additional resources and join our newsletter via the link in the show notes.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15Total Force Plus ConferenceLink: https://totalforceplus.org

Time is the only currency you will never earn back, yet most people spend it as if the supply is endless. We fill our calendars, chase distractions, and call it productivity, but the truth is simpler and harder to face. Every minute you spend is an investment, and most of us are funding the wrong things.In this episode of The Mindset Debrief, explore the hard truth behind the way we use time. You're challenged to see time not as something to manage, but as something to spend with precision. Every “yes” you give is an exchange. Every distraction is a withdrawal. Every focused moment is an investment in your growth, relationships, and purpose.If you feel like you are constantly running but not getting anywhere, this conversation will hit home. It will push you to stop treating your time like loose change and start treating it like capital that builds your future.Your time tells the truth about your priorities. Spend it like your life depends on it, because it does.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from the information.CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:IG: https://www.instagram.com/paulpantani/WEBSITE: https://www.transitiondrillpodcast.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulpantani/SIGN-UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://transitiondrillpodcast.com/home#aboutQUESTIONS OR COMMENTS:paul@transitiondrillpodcast.comSPONSORS:GRND CollectiveGet 15% off your purchaseLink: https://thegrndcollective.com/Promo Code: TRANSITION15