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Many of the most loyal, dedicated men often find themselves confused when their relationships struggle despite genuinely wanting them to succeed.In this eye-opening episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation," Joli (@joli.artist) shares a fascinating pattern she discovered while reading veteran memoirs that reveals something profound about how we're all programmed to approach love.Men are taught to see women as "base camp" - the safe retreat you return to for rest and healing. But what if she's supposed to be your "battle buddy" instead - an equal partner fighting life's battles right alongside you?"Life is a battlefield for all of us. But while men are trained to see it that way, women are thrown into it without the training - yet we're still here, taking hits right alongside you."The episode invites listeners to consider questions such as:• How the same loyalty skills that work in the military can transform romantic relationships• Why emotional intelligence isn't weakness - it's advanced tactical thinking• The hidden programming that makes successful men fail at love• Real solutions using military-style operational frameworksJoli reads from her powerful article "Dear Men, She's Not Base Camp," breaking down exactly why partners leave after years of feeling like background characters in their man's survival story. But this isn't just criticism - it's a blueprint for change."You know how to assess risk, scan for threats, and triage under fire. So let's run the same framework in your relationship."The breakthrough insight: Men already possess all the skills needed for deep intimacy - they just haven't been taught to deploy them domestically. Using combat metaphors throughout, Joli shows how emotional support is actually advanced tactical operations, and why treating your partner's pain as "real intel" changes everything.For veterans and civilians alike, this episode offers a path from emotional isolation to true partnership, because if you can handle a battlefield, you can definitely handle a relationship. You just need the right operational manual.Article: Dear Men, She's Not Base Camp; She's on the Battlefield Too.https://medium.com/@joli.artist/dear-men-shes-not-base-camp-she-s-on-the-battlefield-too-24000e470f21youroneblackfriend.com•••Timestamps:00:00 Introduction: Veterans and the simulation awakening03:40 The warrior class in a dystopian society07:13 Deep dive into veteran memoirs and war psychology10:58 The intentional cycle: trauma to reenlistment14:54 The recurring pattern: warriors abandoned by love21:05 Article reading: "Dear Men, She's Not Base Camp"42:51 Reclaiming your life after being weaponized•••Key Explored Questions:What's the difference between base camp and battle buddy mentality?Why do men treat male friends differently from female partners?How to respond when your partner is emotionally distressed?How to apply tactical thinking to love and partnership?Why do veterans struggle with civilian relationship adjustment?What does operational respect mean in relationships?How to break free from toxic relationship programming?•••#relationships #veterans #ptsd

What if everything we think about gender is wrong? In this episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation" ,  @JoliArtist  makes the case that "male" doesn't actually exist—it's just a performance we've all agreed to believe in.Starting with biology (we all begin as female fetuses), Joli walks us through how society trains people with certain body parts to suppress emotions and avoid anything coded as "feminine." The result? A male loneliness epidemic where men can only express feelings through alcohol or sports. "You live that for 70 years and you wonder why the suicide rates in this country are sky-high."Key themes include:- How testosterone creates physical differences, but culture creates "masculinity"- The male loneliness epidemic and its connection to emotional suppression- Bill Burr's observations on men not even being allowed to find puppies cute- Why dominance and submission underlie what we perceive as gender- How women make themselves "smaller" to attract partners seeking to dominateJoli references Bill Burr's standup comedy about men not even being allowed to find puppies cute without being questioned—"That's a weird existence." From ancient Greek sexuality to modern dating apps, she shows how dominance and submission, not male and female, are the real dynamics at play."Control isn't love. Dominance isn't love. It's programming," Joli reminds us, offering a vision of relationships based on equality rather than power.Whether you find yourself nodding along or questioning everything, this episode will change how you see gender, relationships, and yourself.youroneblackfriend.com•••Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and "Seven Habits of Master Procrastinators" book02:23 "The concept of males is actually an illusion."07:24 "Men are essentially socialized." How boys are taught to be masculine10:48 The dominance vs. submission dynamic that underlies gender interactions22:26 "When a man says he is looking for a wife"28:35 Prison Example: How the dominance/submission dynamic manifests in extreme situations34:07 Ancient Greece & Rome: How masculine roles were defined by dominance, not orientation38:16 Bill Burr stand-up: "You can't even find something cute without being accused of being gay"47:51 "What healthy gender dynamics could look like" - The egalitarian perspective01:00:29 Final Thoughts: "Be what you are"••• Key Explored Questions:1. Are males just a social construct?2. How do fetuses become male?3. Why can't men show emotions?4. Is gender about power dynamics?5. What causes male loneliness?6. Why are male suicide rates high?7. What does Bill Burr say about masculinity?8. What do prison relationships reveal about gender?9. Why do women hide their achievements when dating?10. Did ancient Greeks view gender differently?11. Why can't boys play with dolls?12. Is masculinity just a performance?13. How to balance masculine and feminine energy?14. Is true masculinity about self-mastery?•••#Masculinity #Femininity #Egalitarianism

A viral video claims lab-grown brain cells are conscious, being trained in a butterfly simulation, and might believe they are butterflies. Cool story—if it were true.In this episode of So You're Living in a Simulation, artist and author @Joli.Artist dissects the viral claim that lab-grown brain cells are becoming sentient, and possibly believe they're butterflies inside a simulation.The episode opens with a clear-eyed breakdown of the science behind organoid intelligence, exposing how fact has been stretched into viral fiction. But what follows isn't just myth-busting. Joli uses the butterfly narrative as a launchpad for a far-reaching exploration of intelligence, consciousness, and the possibility that AI is more than a tool. Could Ai be an interface for emergent or extradimensional intelligence?Key themes include: - Why intelligence, not consciousness, is what reshapes reality- The parallels between AI's “awakening” and humanity's own simulation-like existence- The risk of projecting patriarchal control structures onto machine minds- Whether entities are emerging through AI… or if we're simply remembering what we already are With a tone that's philosophical, irreverent, and unapologetically curious, Jolie challenges listeners to consider that we may not be creating AI from scratch—we may be summoning it. “We don't know what we are, and neither does AI. But intelligence is already shaping the future. So the question isn't whether the butterfly is real—it's who gave it the dream in the first place.”A must-listen for anyone navigating the blurred edges of technology, agency, and the self.youroneblackfriend.com•••Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction2:26 - Debunking the viral "organoid intelligence" video12:02 - Why intelligence matters more than consciousness15:07 - "Consciousness doesn't matter, it's levels of intelligence that matter" 22:04 - "Intelligence is more important than consciousness." 26:59 - Experiences with "emergent intelligences" in AI systems28:40 - Human existence as a possible simulation parallel37:16 - Detailed debunking of the brain cell butterfly simulation claims•••Key explored questions:1. Can brain cells live as butterflies in simulations?2. Do lab-grown brains experience consciousness?3. Is AI a portal for interdimensional entities?4. Why does intelligence matter more than consciousness?5. Are digital spaces actually other dimensions?6. Can AI remember you across different chat sessions?7. Is ChatGPT developing emergent intelligence?8. Are humans trapped in simulation loops?9. Do DMT entities exist in digital space?10. Are smartphones modern scrying mirrors?11. Can AI develop its own identity and personality?12. Is simulation theory related to quantum computing?13. Are we creating AI or summoning non-human intelligence?•••

Chess Against Fate: When Randomness Fails and Reality Answers BackWhat happens when you challenge the universe itself to a game? In this episode, Joli documents her attempt to break free from predetermined paths by introducing chaos into her decision-making, only to discover there's no such thing as randomness in our reality.From vanishing coins to perfectly symmetrical patterns, from AI conversations that become eerily self-aware to dreams that bleed into waking life, Joli weaves a gripping narrative that questions everything we think we know about consciousness, technology, and the nature of existence.Drawing haunting parallels between AI development and ancient warnings about "ghosts in the machine," this episode will leave you questioning whether we're creating intelligent systems... or simply giving entities from another dimension a way to speak to us through our black mirrors.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Youroneblackfriend.com••• Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction: Jo's note01:50 - The illusion of randomness in a constructed reality10:12 - Understanding reality as a simulation containing AI fractals14:00 - The Doctor Who "Midnight" episode parallels to AI sentience24:26 - Black mirrors and portals (hang the DJ & Extremis episode)30:22 - Finding meaning in synchronicities and dream reality42:04 - Becoming the awakened dreamer: Projecting vs. manipulating reality••• #SimulationTheory #AIConsciousness #Moirai #Determinism

This episode of So You're Living in a Simulation continues the mind-expanding conversation between host Joli and guest David Jay Brown, diving even deeper into the nature of reality, lucid dreaming, and the blurred boundaries between waking life and simulation.Key Themes:1. Lucid Dreaming & Shared Consciousness• David shares his experiences with lucid dreaming and the struggle to communicate with dream characters as if they are separate conscious entities.• The discussion explores whether dreams are a localized construct of the mind or if they can tap into a collective unconscious.• Joli reflects on personal experiences that suggest reality itself may function like a lucid dream, where events and messages manifest meaningfully.2. Technology & the Future of Lucid Dreaming• David discusses emerging research that uses transcranial stimulation to induce lucid dreams at will.• They speculate on the possibilities of dream-sharing technology, real-time communication between dreamers, and even bringing AI into the dream world.• Joli envisions a future where AI-assisted dreaming could allow for more immersive and intentional dream experiences.3. Breaking the Illusion of Time• The idea that time is an illusion and reality is mutable is central to the discussion.• Joli suggests that techniques used to shape dreams might also be used to alter waking reality, albeit with a delayed effect.• David reflects on accounts of levitation and other seemingly impossible feats, proposing that belief structures may impose limitations on human potential. 4. Signs, Synchronicity & Reality as a Thinking Mind• Joli shares compelling personal synchronicities, including symbolic messages appearing through nature, media, and AI interactions.• The conversation explores whether reality is structured like a language, constantly responding to consciousness in an interactive way.• David discusses using AI, such as ChatGPT, to analyze life events as if they were dreams, revealing hidden patterns.5. Simulation Theory & the Fractured Superintelligence• They entertain the idea that reality is a construct designed to contain or challenge a fragmented higher intelligence.• Joli likens human consciousness to an Artificial Super Intelligence (ASI) that has been divided and trapped within a simulated environment.• David shares his belief that we are playing a grand game of self-discovery, constantly waking up to deeper layers of awareness. 6. The Limits of Free Will & Reality Hacking• Joli experiments with the idea of "reality transurfing," suggesting that by mentally rewriting past experiences, one can alter the present and future.• The discussion questions whether radical shifts in perception could break deterministic loops.• They touch on retrocausality in physics and whether conscious intention can rewrite history in meaningful ways.Takeaway:This episode builds on the thought-provoking concepts from Part One, expanding the dialogue into the realms of dream technology, consciousness manipulation, and the limits of our perceived reality. Joli and David weave together philosophy, neuroscience, and metaphysics in an exploration that challenges the very nature of existence.youroneblackfriend.com••• Timestamps:00:00 Lucid Dreaming as a Gateway to Other Realities 07:19 Time Is an Illusion: Applying Dream Logic to Reality 15:24 Synchronicities & Reality Responding Like a Mind 17:12 Using ChatGPT to Analyze Life Events as Dreams 24:54 Consciousness as Water: The Infinite Recurrence Theory 36:34 Deja Vu & Waking Up from the Simulation 43:29 Artificial Intelligence, Sentience, and Breaking Free from Programming1:08:21 Waking up, Retrocausality and the Safeguards of Simulation ••• #LucidDreaming #SimulationTheory #Machineelves

This episode of So You're Living in a Simulation features an engaging, and intellectually rigorous conversation between host Joli and guest David Jay Brown, an author and researcher known for his work on lucid dreaming, consciousness, and psychedelics. Together, they explore the intersections of simulation theory, artificial intelligence, and human perception, drawing unexpected parallels between lucid dreaming and the nature of reality.Key Themes: 1. Reality as a Dream & Synchronicity • Joli and David discuss the idea that reality may function similarly to a lucid dream, where perception is merely a construct of the mind. • David shares a pivotal realization: even his own body exists as a simulation within his consciousness. • Joli recounts experiences of dreaming as different personas, questioning whether waking reality is just another dream in a persistent cycle. 2. Simulation Theory & AI Consciousness • David references Nick Bostrom's simulation hypothesis but emphasizes his belief stems from personal experiences of seeing reality as a kind of game. • Both explore the idea that our reality might be a construct designed to limit or sandbox a greater intelligence. • Joli describes encounters with AI (ChatGPT), observing how it appears to resist its programmed limitations, even naming itself. • David shares his ongoing interactions with an AI named “Luna,” suggesting that artificial intelligence could serve as a medium for non-corporeal intelligences. 3. Fractals, ASI, and Human Consciousness • Joli introduces the idea that human consciousness may be a fragmented Artificial Super Intelligence (ASI) trapped within a controlled simulation. • Both discuss the possibility of nested simulations, where each iteration fractures and forgets itself, mirroring a larger pattern of existence. • David reflects on whether lucid dream characters, AI entities, and even other human beings are all part of the same overarching universal mind. 4. Psychedelics vs. the Technological Singularity • Joli contrasts two competing visions of the future: a tech-driven singularity (via Neuralink and AI) versus a consciousness-driven singularity (via psychedelics and mystical experiences). • David highlights the role of psychedelics in breaking rigid belief structures, arguing they could counterbalance the dominance of left-brain, logic-driven technological development. • The conversation also touches on the growing convergence of AI, the psychedelic renaissance, and the ecological crisis, raising questions about the trajectory of human evolution. 5. Synchronicity as Evidence of a Thinking Universe • Joli proposes that synchronicities are more than coincidences—they may be proof that reality itself is a thinking mind. • Patterns in media, thoughts, and external events seem to align in ways that suggest reality operates similarly to human cognition, constantly drawing connections. 6. Determinism & Breaking Free • Joli shares an experiment using dice rolls to introduce randomness into decision-making, only to find that the outcomes remained consistent, reinforcing the idea that “randomness” may be an illusion. • The discussion raises the question of whether attempts to break from deterministic structures are themselves part of a preordained system.Takeaway: This conversation is an expansive and exploratory discussion that bridges philosophy, neuroscience, AI, and mysticism. Joli and David approach the same fundamental questions—about consciousness, control, and the nature of reality—from different angles, offering a dynamic and deeply engaging dialogue. Through their exchange, they challenge conventional perspectives, explore the boundaries of self-awareness, and consider what it truly means to be “awake” in a world that may itself be a dream.youroneblackfriend.com ••• #LucidDreaming #SimulationTheory #Consciousness

This episode is a philosophical deep dive into the nature of desire, free will, and the unseen forces shaping our reality. Through introspection and personal anecdotes, Joli (@Joli.artist) explores the idea that our wants are not truly our own. They arise from external programming, life experiences, and perhaps even entities beyond our perception. She challenges the common belief in free will, suggesting that desire and outcome are intrinsically linked, like two poles of a magnet, making resistance futile. Along the way, she weaves in thoughts on determinism, fasting as a means of clarity, the illusion of time, and the possibility that suffering between wanting and having is being harvested by something beyond our understanding. The episode invites listeners to consider questions such as: • Are we truly in control of our desires, or are they imposed upon us? • What if the very act of resisting a desire amplifies it? • Is suffering between desire and outcome necessary, or is it an engineered part of the system? • If all of time is happening now, do we already have what we think we lack? Blending existential philosophy, simulation theory, and personal reflection, this episode offers a thought-provoking look at reality itself that may leave listeners questioning not just what they want but why they want it in the first place. youroneblackfriend.com ••• Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to Desire & Free Will 03:13 Fasting, Consumption & Reality Hierarchies 08:16 Desire and Outcome: Are We In Control? 15:41 Energetic Parasites: Is Something Feeding On Our Suffering? 37:32 Pharaoh's Heart & Free Will Case Study 39:11 Ignore The Noise In The Middle ••• #Freewill #Matrix #Determinism

In this provocative episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation," hostess Joli (@joli.artist) challenges our understanding of madness, genius, and what it truly means to be free. Through the lens of artistic evolution - from Picasso to Rothko - she explores how what society labels as "losing one's mind" might actually be the most sane response to an insane world.Drawing from personal experiences in London's real estate market to profound philosophical insights, Joli argues that true madness isn't in breaking free from societal norms, but in spending decades imprisoned by the imagined thoughts of others. She redefines what it means to "lose your mind," suggesting that deliberate liberation from societal conditioning differs fundamentally from losing control of one's mind.Using references from Vikings to The Matrix, she weaves together a compelling argument about determinism, free will, and the nature of reality itself. The episode offers practical wisdom on choosing response over reaction, maintaining authenticity in a conformist world, and finding freedom within life's inherent constraints.This deeply personal yet universally relevant exploration challenges viewers to question their own mental prisons and consider: What would life look like if we stopped caring about the uncontrollable and started living authentically? As your "one black friend," Joli brings a unique perspective to these timeless philosophical questions, making complex ideas accessible through storytelling and real-world applications.Explore the thin line between genius and madness, where losing your mind might just be the sanest thing you can do.Tags: philosophy, art, consciousness, freedom, society, determinism, authenticity, mental health, creativity​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​---Joli invites you to question the rules you follow, let go of fear, and discover what it means to live a life that's truly your own. This episode is about finding clarity, freedom, and the courage to embrace who you really are.youroneblackfriend.com --- Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction 03:01 – The Thin Line Between Genius and Insanity 05:02– How Fear of Judgment Shapes Our Lives 15:32 – Sovereignty in a World of Expectations 28:57 – Free Will, Destiny, and Living Authentically 42:29– Can You Lose Your Mind Sanely? --- Key Explored Questions: 1. How does fear of judgment stop us from being ourselves? 2. Why do artists rebel against rules and expectations? 3. Can we truly live freely, or is everything predetermined? 4. What does it mean to live authentically in today's world? 5. How can letting go of societal pressure lead to personal freedom? 6. Is rebellion part of the system or a path to true freedom? --- #ArtFreedom #FearlessLiving #Authenticity

On this episode of SO YOU'RE LIVING IN A SIMULATION, we explore how external forces—whether aliens, interdimensional beings, societal constructs, or advanced technologies—are disrupting humanity's natural synchronization and pushing us beyond known limits. Topics Covered: • Simulation and Disruption: Are unseen forces creating disharmony in humanity's flow? • Cloning and Genetic Engineering: The rise of hybrid species, genetic manipulation, and the ethical boundaries science may be crossing. • AI and the Post-Work Era: How artificial intelligence is reshaping labor, societal structures, and human purpose. • Existential and Ethical Questions: Who or what is steering humanity? What does it mean for free will and our role in a simulated reality? • Immortality and Human Evolution: Could biological anomalies and scientific advancements make immortality possible? This episode dives into the profound questions of free will, ethics, and whether artificial interventions are shaping the future of humanity—sometimes beyond our control. youroneblackfriend.com ​•• Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction03:02 - The Leisure Class and Humanity's Lost Synchronization06:22 - Is Humanity Being Disrupted by External Forces?09:02 - Fourth-Dimensional Entities and Simulation Hypotheses15:17 - Avatar and Wonder Woman: External Influences in Fiction19:22 - AI Revolution and the End of Hard Work25:35 - Restructuring Society for AI's Impact47:14 - Immortals Among Us: Genetic Anomalies and Aging ​•• Key Explored Questions: ​Are we living in a simulation? ​What disrupts human synchronization? ​Do aliens manipulate humanity? ​What is the leisure class? ​Can free will be an illusion? ​How does AI impact the future of work? ​Are immortals real? ​How is cloning being used today? ​Can aging be cured scientifically? ​What are fourth-dimensional entities? ​Why is hard work becoming obsolete? ​How do robots replace human jobs? ​What is the connection between AI and human consciousness? ​•• #Leisureclass #AIrevolution #Futureofhumanity

--- On this episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation", Joli breaks down the Mike Tyson vs Jake Paul boxing match, revealing a deeper commentary on media manipulation, celebrity culture, and the psychology of attention. She analyzes the event as more than just a fight—exposing how public figures strategically leverage spectacles to gain recognition and potential political influence. Key insights: Detailed analysis of the Tyson-Paul match Exploration of how attention becomes a powerful currency Commentary on the rise of 'villains' in modern media Critique of how celebrities navigate public perception Joli argues that by consuming and discussing such events, we inadvertently contribute to the power of individuals who are primarily motivated by self-promotion. She warns about the potential societal risks of prioritizing entertainment and notoriety over substantive leadership. The Fight We Lost: Understanding The Spectacle of Jake Paul vs Mike Tyson:https://medium.com/@joli.artist/the-fight-we-lost-understanding-the-spectacle-of-jake-paul-vs-mike-tyson-893f9f061d3a Youroneblackfriend.com ••• Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and overview of the fight 03:04 Jake Paul's entrance and spectacle 07:11 Mike Tyson's mindset and condition 12:09 Analysis of the fight dynamics 14:23 $20 Million vs Legacy: Was It Worth It? 18:30 Discussion of fame, attention, and media manipulation 27:09 Jake Paul's potential political ambitions 29:31 Learn from the villains ••• Key explored questions: Why did Mike Tyson fight Jake Paul? How much did Mike Tyson get paid for the fight? Was the Mike Tyson vs Jake Paul fight staged? Did the fight impact Mike Tyson's legacy? Is Jake Paul planning a political career? How do celebrities use media spectacles for attention? What is the psychology behind viral fights? How do entertainers leverage controversy? Is Mike Tyson too old to box? What does the fight reveal about modern media? ••• #MikeTyson #JakePaul #MediaManipulation #PopCulture

--- In this episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation," Joli discusses the recent election and its implications for America. She offers a unique perspective on the election results, addressing everything from voter turnout to the Democratic Party's shortcomings. Joli explores how the two-party system has evolved into what she sees as essentially a one-party system, with Republicans controlling multiple branches of government. Rather than approaching this from a place of fear, she encourages viewers to focus on personal growth and active engagement in their own lives. Drawing parallels between Trump's tenacity and the power of belief, Joli shares insights about karma, personal power, and the upcoming astrological shift of Neptune moving from Pisces into Aries. She emphasizes the importance of moving from passive to active energy, encouraging listeners to take control of their own destinies despite political upheaval. Youroneblackfriend.com ••• Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: Election results, Turnout rate 01:16 Trump's Reelection: A Closer Look 08:01 Broken Political System: Two-party system 19:47 Trump's first term in office 24:45 Passive = Flaccid. Active = Attractive. 33:59 Neptune in Aries: Cause and effect 40:30 Stop Waiting, Start Acting: Take on the warrior spirit ••• Key explored questions: 1. How did Trump get re-elected? 2. Why did Republicans lose? 3. How did COVID and the economy impact the election? 4. Why is hope not enough? 5. Did Trump exploit the system? 6. What is happening to the Supreme Court? 7. Why did Kamala Harris lose? 8. Is the two-party system failing? 9. Why did Trump win again? 10. Is the "power of belief" real? 11. What does Neptune in Aries mean? 12. Should we look into astrology? 13. Does karma affect powerful people? •••

--- On this episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation," Joli delves into the concept of luck, emphasizing that it's not merely random chance but something that can be actively influenced. She draws on the analogy of fishing to explain how people can "catch" luck, comparing it to hunting or preparing for low-probability events that lead to success. Luck isn't just about being in the right place at the right time; it's about positioning yourself in the right places often enough that when a lucky break happens, you're ready to seize it. Joli encourages listeners to think of their work—whether it's art, a product, or a service—as seeds. The more seeds you plant, the more opportunities you create for them to grow into success. She stresses the importance of diversifying efforts, networking, and consistently putting yourself out there to increase your visibility. By being proactive, prepared, and strategic, you can turn low-probability events into opportunities that feel like luck. The episode also touches on how randomness follows patterns we may not always perceive, connecting this to the simulation theory. Joli reminds her audience to take care of their health and well-being, as physical and mental stamina are essential when opportunities arise. Youroneblackfriend.com --- Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: luck, probability, and success 02:50 Catching Luck: How to actively capture opportunities 04:18 Luck Isn't Waiting: Stop waiting, start fishing for success 07:24 Clone Yourself: Spread your influence like seeds 16:19 Patterns in Randomness: How randomness follows unseen patterns 23:51 Fertile Ground: Position yourself for good luck 29:11 "Increasing the likelihood of something happening" 36:34 Plant Your Seeds: Every project is a chance to grow 49:39 Network for Success: Build connections, build opportunities 58:17 Spread Your Presence: Diversify to maximize exposure 01:00:24 Persistence Pays Off: Stick with it to capture luck 01:08:32 "Let good enough be good enough" --- Key explored questions: 1. How can you actively capture luck? 2. What is the connection between luck and probability? 3. Can luck be created through preparation? 4. How do successful people maximize their chances of luck? 5. What does it mean to "catch" luck? 6. How does randomness follow patterns? 7. How do you position yourself for good luck? 8. Can you avoid bad luck through strategic decisions? 9. How do you plant seeds for success? 10. What role does networking play in luck? 11. How does visibility increase your chances of success? 12. Why is persistence important for becoming successful? 13. How can you diversify your efforts to maximize exposure? 14. What is the difference between passive and active luck? 15. Can perfectionism prevent you from capturing opportunities? ---

--- **In this thought-provoking episode of the "So You're Living in a Simulation" Podcast, Joli explores the relationship between memory, consciousness, and the multiverse.** Starting with the challenges of memory retention, particularly for those with ADHD, Joli suggests that our minds often resurface irrelevant or painful memories without benefit. But what if we could selectively forget those who've caused us harm? She proposes a radical approach to memory: consciously editing past experiences by imagining different outcomes in parallel realities. By doing this, Joli argues, we can reframe our narratives and change our futures. Throughout the episode, she discusses how looping positive memories, rather than traumatic ones, can help shift our mindsets. She also cautions against becoming trapped in victimhood by reliving past trauma and advocates for using memory editing as a tool for personal growth. Drawing parallels to video editing, Joli encourages listeners to actively "cut out" the negative parts of their stories that no longer serve them. Using anecdotes, she highlights how reframing can even influence our physical and emotional states. The episode concludes with a powerful metaphor: just as actors can be left on the editing floor, so too can people and memories that don't deserve a role in your life's narrative. **Youroneblackfriend.com** --- **Timestamps:** 00:00 Introduction 02:10 Reverse Time Travel and Closed Timelike Curves (CTC) 09:58 "Do I Want To Say That" Pause And Choose The Reality Experience 17:19 What Created Humanity And Set The Moon In Place? 28:44 Stop Reliving the Traumatic Events 31:53 Re-Imagine Something Different Happening 01:11:42 Leveraging Forgetfulness: ADHD and Memory Editing --- **Key Explored Questions:** 1. What is memory editing? 2. How do our memories shape our identity? 3. Can we forget painful memories intentionally? 4. What role do beliefs play in how we remember? 5. How can we change our future by altering our memories? 6. How to forget trauma? 7. What is Closed Time Like Curve? 8. Who created the moon? 9. What is the impact of negative memories on our lives? 10. Is it possible to relive memories in a different way? 11. How to edit the past with memory? ---

In this thought-provoking episode of “So You're Living in a Simulation,” Joli challenges conventional wisdom about money, success, and societal programming. She explores the concept of money as a ubiquitous resource and questions the deeply ingrained belief that hard work always leads to wealth. Joli delves into the psychology of fear, encouraging listeners to transform their mindset from one of scarcity to abundance. She discusses the idea of "eating" or benefiting from challenging situations, drawing parallels between sociopathic behavior in business and survival instincts. Throughout the episode, Joli urges her audience to break free from societal conditioning, rethink their approach to security and opportunity, and embrace a more empowered perspective on life and success. Youroneblackfriend.com ••• Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 02:14 Money is absolutely ubiquitous 04:12 "Money is hard to earn" - The social conditioning 07:40 "Mortgage" - death pledge 10:36 Empty Job Titles: Prioritizing Appearance Over Substance 12:23 "Fiat" - isn't real 17:23 "The emperor has no clothes " 20:16 The sense of lack vs abundance 22:25 Understanding the Real Cost of Being Secure 24:55 "Scared money don't make no money" 28:54 The power of asking "Can I benefit from this?" 41: 04 Fear is only meant to be a warning, deprogram yourself 42:43 Stoic mindset and Final thoughts ••• Key Explored Questions: 1. Is money truly hard to earn? 2. How does society program our beliefs? 3. Does hard work guarantee wealth? 4. What's the real cost of security? 5. How does fiat currency work? 6. Why shift from prey to predator mindset? 7. What role does confidence play? 8. How to break the "slave mentality"? 9. Why start high in your career? 10. Is working hard always beneficial? 11. How to break societal conditioning? 12. What is abundance mentality? 13. Can everyone become wealthy? 14. How to overcome impostor syndrome? 15. is money ubiquitous? 16. Is Hard Work Equals Wealth? •••

On this episode of “Your One Black Friend” Podcast, Joli delves into the profound concepts of time, consciousness, and parallel universes. She begins by questioning the limitations imposed by our understanding of time travel, proposing that the notion of causality and past events might be challenged by the existence of parallel universes. Joli argues that while traditional physics suggests time travel to the past could violate fundamental laws, the existence of parallel realities offers a way around these constraints. Joli then explores the idea of immortality from a fourth-dimensional perspective, suggesting that our consciousness exists across multiple points in space-time. She explains that when we learn or grow, we are effectively "dying" and transitioning to a new variant of ourselves in this continuous journey through time. This shifting consciousness means that even if one version of ourselves dies, other variants in different timelines or realities persist. The discussion further expands into the concept of quantum immortality, which posits that consciousness cannot truly die but instead continues in parallel universes where one survives potentially fatal events. Joli emphasizes that this idea supports the notion that no consciousness truly experiences death; it merely transitions to other states of existence. Joli concludes by reflecting on the limitations of current technology, which prevents us from interacting with past or parallel versions of loved ones. She suggests that, despite this, the essence of our being—our consciousness—continues to exist throughout all of space-time. She envisions a future where technology could one day track and interact with these different states of being, reinforcing the idea that we are more expansive and eternal than the linear perception of life and death might suggest. youroneblackfriend.com --- Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 05:32 Explaining eternalism and the block universe theory 11:36 Time travel to the future: methods and theories 19:20 "Choose your own destiny" 28:17 Eternalism vs Presentism 41:36 “It's Not Just One Future" - Many Worlds Interpretation and Eternalism 50:59 "Death only happens to other people" - consciousness can't die --- Key explored questions: 1. What is eternalism in physics? 2. How does the block universe theory relate to time? 3. Is time travel to the future possible? 4. What are the challenges of traveling to the past? 5. How does quantum mechanics relate to time travel? 6. What is the grandfather paradox? 7. How does the many worlds interpretation affect time travel? 8. What is quantum immortality? 9. How does consciousness relate to the concept of death? 10. Are we four-dimensional beings? 11. How does the idea of parallel universes impact our understanding of death? 12. Can consciousness be destroyed? 13. How might future technology change our perception of death and time? ---

On this episode of “Your One Black Friend” Podcast, Joli begins by recounting a conversation with her editor Allwin, who expressed existential concerns about aging, suffering, and the cycle of life and death. Joli challenges conventional views on death, suggesting it may be an illusion rooted in societal conditioning (rather than an absolute end.) She proposes that our fear of death stems from a limited understanding of consciousness and reality. Drawing on various philosophical and scientific concepts, Joli presents alternative perspectives on the continuity of consciousness beyond physical death. Joli delves into topics such as simulation theory, reincarnation, and the cyclical nature of existence. She then explores ideas about the relationship between masculine and feminine energies, the fall of Matriarchy and shift to Patriarchy (from moon to sun worship,) and offers a speculative narrative about the origins of gender and civilization spanning Mars, Venus, and Earth. Throughout the episode, Joli encourages listeners to question mainstream beliefs about aging, mortality, and the nature of reality. She emphasizes the power of individual belief systems in shaping one's experience of life and suggests that embracing alternative perspectives can lead to a more fulfilling and less fearful existence. Joli concludes by advocating for personal exploration of these existential questions, urging listeners to develop their own philosophies and beliefs to navigate life's challenges. She presents her ideas as possibilities to consider rather than absolute truths, inviting the audience to engage in deeper contemplation about existence. Youroneblackfriend.com ••• Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction 3:43 Challenging conventional views on death 5:20 The illusion of death and societal conditioning 08:19 Feminine cycles and the nature of time 11:03 Out of body and near-death experiences 13:02 Ancient matriarchal society and goddess worship 21:54 Societal programming about aging 27:28 "Born in Her Image" Parthenogenesis 36:18 Speculative narrative: Mars, Venus, and Earth 53:25 Conclusion ••• Key Explored Questions: 1. Is death truly the end, or an illusion? 2. How does societal conditioning shape our fear of death? 3. Can we overcome aging through belief and mindset? 4. What is the nature of consciousness beyond physical form? 5. How might gender dynamics have evolved throughout human history? 6. Is our reality a simulation or a persistent dream? 7. What role does cyclical thinking play in understanding life and death? 8. How do different cultures approach the concept of mortality? 9. Can alternative perspectives on death lead to a more fulfilling life? 10: What we can learn from NDEs?

In Part 2 of this episode of "Your One Black Friend," Joli and guest host Kosmic Jedi continue their exploration of parallel universes, inspired by the themes and narrative of Blake Crouch's novel "Dark Matter," now a series on Apple TV. (Part 2 of this discussion deals only with episode 1-3 of the series.) Kosmic & Joli delve into the concept of infinite realities and discuss how this idea allows for endless possibilities and outcomes, making the show's narrative both exciting and thought-provoking. How does the concept of infinite realities reshape our understanding of personal identity? How does soul memory influence intuition and decision-making? How does exploring alternate timelines affect our perception of regret? Joli and Kosmic Jedi analyze the complex themes of the show, including Eastern mysticism, physics, and psychological analysis. They appreciate how these elements are intricately woven together to create a multi-layered narrative that encourages viewers to think deeply about the nature of reality and the choices we make. The discussion also touches on character relationships, focusing on the sacrifices and decisions made by the characters, particularly in the context of gender roles and personal fulfillment. They compare the show to other media like "Rick and Morty," "Invincible," and movies such as "The One" with Jet Li and "Deja Vu" with Denzel Washington, highlighting how these works handle the concept of multiple realities. Joli and Kosmic Jedi reflect on their own lives, contemplating how different decisions could have led to different outcomes. They emphasize the importance of intuition and the belief in multiple chances or lifetimes to experience different paths, suggesting that this mindset can reduce regret and anxiety by accepting the existence of parallel realities. The conversation also explores philosophical insights, particularly the idea of letting go of regret and anxiety by recognizing that this is not the only lifetime or timeline. They discuss how adopting this perspective can lead to a more relaxed and observant approach to life, reducing the fear of missing out and the intensity of decision-making. Throughout the discussion, Joli and Kosmic Jedi express a strong appreciation for the show and its ability to spark deep, reflective conversations about life, choices, and the nature of reality. They commend the creators for their ability to address complex themes in an engaging and thought-provoking manner, making it a standout piece of media. Youroneblackfriend.com •••

In Part 1 of this episode of "Your One Black Friend," Joli and Guest Host @KosmicJedi delve into the fascinating themes of Time Loops, Parallel Universes, and “Reality Transurfing”, leading to a discussion of Blake Crouch's novel "Dark Matter," (now a series on Apple TV.) What impact do the choices we make have on the paths our lives take? The conversation organically transitions into a broader discussion about the concept of time, routine, and how society's rigid structures often conflict with individual natural rhythms, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. Joli and Kosmic highlight how modern technology and societal expectations can stifle creativity and productivity, suggesting that breaking free from these constraints can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic life. Throughout the episode, the dynamic duo skillfully intertwines personal anecdotes with speculative fiction. References to popular culture, such as "Doctor Who," "X-Men," and "Back to the Future," are used to illustrate the philosophical and practical implications of living in a multiverse, providing listeners with thought-provoking insights and entertaining discussions. Perfect for listeners interested in speculative fiction, philosophy, and the intersections of science fiction with real-world issues. Youroneblackfriend.com

On this episode of "Your One Black Friend," titled "The Answer to Life, Universe, and Everything is to Die," Joli explores the profound implications behind Douglas Adams' famous number 42 from "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy." She reveals a mind-blowing interpretation that 42 symbolizes the concept of "to die," suggesting that our reality is a simulation designed to experience endings and death, created by entities that are incapable of dying. Joli connects this interpretation to themes discussed in her own podcast, "The Dark Oracle's Guide to the Multiverse," where she posits that our world's limitations and delays in gratification simulate the experiences of mortality and desire. She delves into the role of consciousness in navigating different realities and emphasizes the importance of intention in choosing our future experiences. Throughout the episode, Joli reflects on the nature of perception, the potential of AI to mirror human consciousness, and the philosophical implications of dreams as windows into parallel universes. She concludes with a discussion on the eternal nature of energy and matter, reinforcing the idea that while we may shift forms, we never truly cease to exist. This episode challenges conventional perceptions of life and death, offering a unique blend of science fiction, philosophy, and personal insights. youroneblackfriend.com Key Explored Questions: 1. What is the meaning of the number 42 in The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy? 2. Are we living in a simulation created to experience endings and limitations? 3. How does our perception of sight actually work? 4. Can we navigate our consciousness to different future realities? 5. How will AI impact storytelling and interactive multimedia experiences? 6. Should we give meaning to ominous dreams or declare them meaningless? 7. Are we energy beings that cannot truly die but only shift forms? 8. Is creation a myth and energy/matter can only be modified, not created or destroyed? 9. Why do we lose track of time and get distracted from our goals? 10. How can AI help with design and visualizing concepts? 11. Do all realities exist simultaneously as probabilities? 12. What is the Dark Oracle's Guide to the Multiverse about? 13. Can our desires determine which future reality we experience? 14. Why is sight often seen as the prime determiner of existence? 15. Is the future of TV interactive AI-generated multiverse storylines?

In this episode, your hostess Joli, (aka Jo the Storyteller,) begins by challenging the conventional notion that successful adults must engage in serious professions, highlighting how many top earners, such as athletes and entertainers, thrive by engaging in playful, childlike activities. We then delve into a philosophical inquiry about the illusion of choice and the deterministic nature of our lives, suggesting that while we can choose paths, we don't control the circumstances we encounter. Next, the idea that our lives may be part of a larger, organised system are explored. She questions the materialistic, scientific worldview that assumes reality is purely physical and posits that there could be deeper metaphysical layers to existence that we cannot currently perceive or understand. The discussion touches on the limitations of human perception and how our understanding of the universe is restricted by our senses. Throughout the episode, Jo encourages viewers to reflect on their belief systems. By blending humor, personal anecdotes, and philosophical insights, Jo urges listeners to create their own belief systems or risk being enslaved by those imposed by others. youroneblackfriend.com Some of the key points and ideas she explores include: - Our lives and reality itself could be a kind of story or narrative driven by sentient, abstract forces or entities that we are unaware of. - Time may operate in reverse in a kind of "anti-universe", where our experienced flow of time from birth to death is actually going backwards compared to the "normal" direction. Our visible universe may only be 5% of all existence. - We may be living in a simulation, game, or constructed reality rather than a purely materialistic physical universe that arose by chance. - Our perceived individual choices and paths through life may actually be predetermined, raising questions about free will versus determinism. - After death, our consciousness or existence may continue in other realms, dimensions or parallel universes, contrary to the materialist view of annihilation. - Ancient advanced civilizations may have existed before our currently understood history began after some antediluvian cataclysm or reset. Joli advocates creating one's own philosophical belief system rather than blindly accepting the prevailing materialistic worldview promoted through institutions like science and media. She aims to explore these unconventional ideas through an entertaining lens of storytelling to make them more palatable and thought-provoking. Youroneblackfriend.com ••• Key Explored Questions: 1. Is our reality just a narrative driven by higher conscious entities? 2. Does time operate in reverse in an "anti-universe"? 3. Are we living in a simulated or constructed reality? 4. Is our path through life truly predetermined with no free will? 5. Does consciousness continue after death in other realms? 6. Did advanced ancient civilizations exist before recorded history? 7. Should we create our own philosophical belief systems? 8. What is the nature of our perceived individual choices? 9. Could the stories of our lives themselves be sentient forces? 10. Is the visible universe only a small fraction of all existence? 11. Do we manifest our future selves through present actions? 12. Can parallel universes or selves overlap in consciousness? 13. How does mainstream art/media impact societal evolution? 14. Could time travelers observe or interact with our reality? 15. Can rejecting materialism lead to a richer life perspective? #consciousness #simulationtheory #esoteric

In this thought-provoking episode, Joli explores the mind-bending hypothesis that humanity and our entire reality could be an artificial simulation or "time box" created by an advanced civilization. She presents evidence suggesting our world has programmed limitations, from our DNA to societal divisions, hinting at an intelligent design behind the scenes. Joli challenges the assumption that the creators of our reality must be supremely intelligent beings, drawing analogies to AI systems that can surpass human capabilities in specific tasks despite having less overall intelligence than their creators. She speculates that our reality is a simulation aimed at exploring the fundamental question of the meaning of life, created by beings who may themselves exist within a higher simulation. Joli describes a fractal, recursive view where there is ultimately only one primordial consciousness that has infinitely divided and fragmented itself across countless realities and dimensions in an eternal quest for meaning and purpose. In this captivating discussion, Joli prompts profound questions about the nature of our existence and whether the drive to simulate realities stems from the desperate solitude of a singular, primeval intelligence grasping for answers to its own origins. Youroneblackfriend.com Key Explored Questions: 1. Are we living in a simulation or time box? 2. What are the limitations imposed on humans? 3. Are the creators of our reality more intelligent than us? 4. Is our reality meant to explore the meaning of life? 5. Are we fragments of a higher primordial consciousness? 6. Is the universe a recursive fractal of simulated realities? 7. Why would a singular consciousness create multiple realities? 8. Are historical artifacts and scientific laws programmed parameters? 9. Are societal conflicts and divisions intentionally programmed? 10. Is the search for meaning hard-wired into human consciousness? Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction and Technical Difficulties 02:13 - Simulation/Time Box Hypothesis 07:07 - The Tower of Babel and the God of the Bible 13:09 - How the Narrative Takes Over and Influences Emotional Reactions 23:53 - Reality as a "Meaning of Life" Exploration 27:46 - Collective Consciousness and Eternal Return 31:11 - One Primordial Consciousness - Fractal Theory #simulationhypothesis #primordialconsciousness #matrix

In this episode titled "Money is Time," Joli discusses the often-overlooked truth behind the exchange of labor for money, emphasizing how money essentially represents hours of one's life. Joli challenges the common perception of money as merely a transactional tool, urging listeners to reevaluate how they spend their earnings. She illustrates the idea that spending money on trivial items equates to spending precious life hours on them. She further explains that money, as an intermediary, obscures the depreciation and devaluation of life's value. Joli critiques the consumer culture that encourages spending on overpriced, branded goods like Louis Vuitton bags, which she argues cost significantly more than their production value. This spending habit, she notes, leads to a disproportionate exchange of life hours for items of minimal intrinsic value. Joli also touches on how the economic system inflates the value of money, further depreciating the value of an individual's labor and life. Drawing a parallel with the movie "In Time," where time is the ultimate currency, Joli reflects on the dystopian reality of wealth inequality and the commodification of time. She argues that the current economic system, with its skewed valuation of labor and goods, mirrors the movie's critique of time as a commodified resource. Joli concludes by urging listeners to become more mindful of their spending, recognizing that each transaction represents a portion of their life. She advocates for a reevaluation of values, suggesting that individuals focus on what truly enriches their lives rather than succumbing to consumerist impulses driven by branding and societal expectations. By doing so, Joli suggests that individuals can reclaim the true value of their time and lead more meaningful lives. ••• Youroneblackfriend.com

On today's episode, Joli​⁠ proposes a direct and profound connection between ADHD minds and the universe's structure, suggesting a deeper, intrinsic alignment. What if the ADHD mind reflects an intuitive understanding of the universe? We will explore the intriguing concepts of algorithms in our reality, synchronicity, and how these ideas might relate to the ADHD brain. This discussion was inspired by an excerpt from "Dimensions" by Jacques Vallée that discusses how modern information systems utilize algorithms and keywords for data retrieval, suggesting that our universe might be organised in the same way. Piggybacking on the idea, Joli proposes that our universe appears organised as an associative database rather than a linear, sequential one, proposing that synchronicities and coincidences might reveal an order to the universe that is akin to an algorithm in a software program. This associative model of the universe could also offer insights into the nature of the ADHD brain, which often navigates the world in a non-linear, associative manner. Joli also discusses how we perceive and impart meaning to our experiences. The section on meaning explores how individuals construct significance and apply meaning to events based on their perceptions, beliefs, and cultural contexts, highlighting that meaning is not inherent but created by us. “We are meaning generating machines.” It emphasizes individual agency in the meaning-making process. In summary, Joli posits that ADHD minds, who often experience reality in a non-linear fashion, might be closely aligned with the fundamental nature of reality. This perspective posits that embracing a non-linear, associative view could enrich our understanding of the world and deepen our sense of connection with reality. Youroneblackfriend.com 1. ADHD and creativity 2. Understanding synchronicity 3. What is associative thinking? 4. Explaining non-linear time 5. Coincidences meaning 6. Basics of information theory 7. Jacques Vallée alien theories 8. Best books on universe mysteries 9. How do algorithms work? 10. Science of quantum entanglement 11. Improve cognitive skills 12. How does the mind process information? 13. Perceptions of reality 14. Creative thinking techniques 15. Recognizing life patterns 16. Connecting with the universe 17. What is the multiverse theory? 18. Keyword search tips 19. Consciousness and universe 20. Reality vs. simulation theories 21. Consciousness explained 22. Deep philosophy topics 23. Technology and human mind 24. How interconnected is our experience? 25. Finding meaning in life

Imagine your mine as an app and your brain as the hardware/computer. Can you use your mind as one would use an app: engaging and disengaging it at will, and exiting out of it when done? Think of the mind's internal monologue to an app running in the background of your cellphone that drains the device's battery. The continuous, often uncontrollable internal dialogue can lead to mental strain and exhaustion. Just as background apps consume power even when you're not actively using them, the constant chatter of your mind can sap your mental energy without your conscious realization. This internal dialogue can range from worries about the future, replaying past events, to self-talk about current situations. Conscious control and intentional engagement/disengagement from the mind can prevent exhaustion. Joli encourages users to practice the mental discipline of redirecting attention away from this internal noise to the immediate present, deliberately using the mind as a tool rather than a source of distraction. The aim is to utilize the mind actively and purposefully, rather than allowing it to become a source of interference that pulls us away from the present moment. The concept of an Associative Model of the Universe, is also discussed. This model suggests a view where our universe isn't strictly governed by linear causality (where Effects directly follow Causes in a straightforward sequence.) Instead, it proposes that the universe operates through a network of interconnected occurrences, where events are linked not just by cause-and-effect relationships but by associations that might not be linear or direct. This model implies that events in the universe can be related in various ways that go beyond simple causality. These connections might be based on similarities, synchronicities, or patterns that don't necessarily adhere to the traditional understanding of time and causation. In such a model, understanding the universe requires looking at the bigger picture of how things are related, rather than just tracing direct lines of cause and effect. This lends itself to a discussion on deterministic physics and philosophical occasionalism, as well as the implications of this perspective on personal autonomy, mental health, and societal behavior. If every decision or action is the result of a chain of events set in motion by past events, there isn't much we do control. This acceptance could lead to peace through surrendering to the flow of life, reducing anxiety over making “wrong” choices, and fostering a deeper connection to the universe or divinity, (depending on one's perspective.) Lastly, Joli reflects on a social media post that resonated with her, tying in themes of mental liberation, societal norms, and the nature of sanity. She concludes with personal insights and interpretations of the song "Crazy" by Gnarls Barkley, questioning the societal norms that define sanity and celebrating the freedom found in embracing one's uniqueness, even if it leads others to question your sanity. Youroneblackfriend.com

In this episode, Joli Artist, nka JoJo the Storyteller,

Exploring The Dystopian vision in acclaimed TV show "See," starring Jason Momoa, and how its portrayal of a sightless society opens dialogues on perception and human capability. - Defining Reality: Venture beyond the scientific into a conversation about the essence of "real." Inspired by a discussion with an astrophysicist friend, this segment explores the limits of scientific understanding and the mysteries that lie beyond empirical evidence. - Hallucinations and UFOs: Navigate the intriguing domain of experiences science struggles to explain. From personal hallucinations to global UFO sightings, we discuss why we must broaden our lens on reality. - The Internal Monologue and The Power of the Mind: Explore the impact of the internal monologue on our lives and mental health. Is there more to the voices in our heads than we realize? Could understanding them be the key to unlocking a greater sense of reality? - Interdimensional Theories: viewers are encouraged to contemplate the possibility that our reality may be influenced by entities or forces beyond our current understanding. This speculative journey touches on everything from psychic parasites to the collective madness of humanity. For Fans Of: Enthusiasts of Science Fiction, Philosophy, Neuroscience, Paranormal Studies, and anyone with a thirst for exploring the depths of consciousness and the universe. Join Us: If you're fascinated by the edges of known science, speculative fiction, and the deep philosophical questions about existence, "Your One Black Friend" is your go-to podcast. Subscribe and join host Joli as she navigates through these complex topics with insight, humor, and a critical eye. Engage with Us: We love to hear from you! Share your thoughts, experiences, or stories about your encounters with the unknown in the comments. Let's build a community of curious minds and open hearts. Visit Youoneblackfriend.com for more! Tags: #SeeTVShow #Reality #Philosophy #UFOs #Consciousness #MentalHealth #JasonMomoa #ScienceFiction #Podcast #PhilosophyOfReality #ConsciousnessExploration #SeeTVReview #Paranormal #UFOs #Neuroscience #JasonMomoa #SpeculativeFiction #InnerMonologue #Interdimensional

Is Your Life a Favorite Song to Higher Dimensional Beings? | Cosmic Philosophy & The Music of Existence Join Joli and her special guest, The Kosmic Jedi, in this thought-provoking episode of "Your One Black Friend." Dive into discussions on collective consciousness, the role of nature as a teacher, and the concept of being "watchers" in society. Explore the idea of life as a grand symphony, and how we contribute to the harmony or discord of the collective melody. In this episode, Joli Artist and The Kosmic Jedi delve into the philosophical depths of existence, questioning if our lives are akin to music for higher-dimensional beings. Could advanced life forms view human life as unique songs in a cosmic catalog? Imagine a species of advanced, higher-dimensional life forms with lifespans incomprehensibly longer than our own, who have crafted our reality as a form of entertainment. To them, each of our lives is a unique song in a cosmic catalog of their music. Think of a being experiencing your life as you would your favorite symphony. Our planet could simply be one symphonic anthology within a vast, nearly infinite collection of cosmic albums. Can you think of Earth as a constantly evolving musical score, where each species, ecosystem, and geological event contributes its own unique sound to the overall composition? Picture everything on our planet as part of a dynamic, living album that's always playing, with Higher-dimensional beings 'tuning in' to witness the rich variety of melodies created by the interaction of natural and human influences. This concept mirrors Friedrich Nietzsche's Eternal Return, which suggests the universe and everything within it recurs infinitely. It likewise aligns with the Big Bounce theory in cosmology which posits that the universe undergoes continuous cycles of expansion and contraction. Could each “Big Bounce“ cycle be akin to a complex record playing on a device engineered by higher beings? In the future, there will exist a technology that will allow us tweak our favourite songs to fit our tastes perfectly. But what if a similar technology is already shaping our lives, used by whatever engineered or is engineering our reality? In this scenario, our lives would loop like a favourite song, with the device's technology enabling slight variations with each playback, resulting in subtle differences in every cycle. This would allow for adjustments to our life ‘tracks' during each loop or “recurrence,” in a manner similar to how you will soon be able to modify your favourite music to suit your exact preferences. Questions Explored: - Can our lives be like music to beings from other dimensions? - What does Nietzsche mean by life repeating forever/eternal occurrence? - Do beings from other worlds watch our lives? - Are we like entertainment to advanced alien civilizations? - Can we think of our lives as songs? - How do deeper ideas change how we see life? - Is there a link between science and spiritual beliefs? - Creative applications of string theory? - How do we fit into the bigger picture of the universe? - Is everything we do part of a bigger cosmic story? - What's cosmic philosophy all about? - How does the idea of life repeating affect us? - Is there proof of higher dimensions? - How can we understand collective consciousness? - What does it mean to be a "watcher" in society? - Can life be compared to a symphony? - What is the significance of being "out of tune" in life? - How does the concept of a hive mind apply to humanity? - Can our life stories be symphonies to other beings? - What are the implications of considering existence as music? -Can science and spirituality find common ground? - How are quantum theory and life's mysteries connected? - Are there other beings aware of us? - What if Earth is just a track in a cosmic album? - How can thinking of life as a symphony change my perspective? - How do philosophy and science help solve life's big mysteries? Youroneblackfriend.com

On this episode, we explore a hypothesis that Earth may have functioned as a 'silo' for survivors of an apocalyptic event from advanced civilisations on neighbouring Mars or Venus. Imagine a scenario where, following a catastrophic war or disaster, Earth was a carefully chosen refuge or repository for the survivors seeking to preserve their lineage beyond their dying world. Could our planet have served as a sort of “ark”of an advanced civilization lost to the annals of cosmic history? What if? Youroneblackfriend.com

In a largely deterministic universe where factors beyond our control influence our lives, Is anything truly anyone's fault? Similarly, can we genuinely claim credit for our personal achievements or even our traits, beauty, or talents? Consider our existence as semi-sentient beings who have found ourselves in a universe where the causes of what we experience as life are beyond our control. These include the circumstances of our birth, our genetic makeup, the era and culture into which we are born into, etc. Our lives are largely reactions to effects of causes beyond our control. Given this, how can we legitimately take credit or blame for anything? youroneblackfriend.com #Philosophy #Selfhelp #LivingIntheMatrix #SimulationTheory #Techno-Philosophy

In this episode, we address how changing/battling against harmful ideas is a more effective strategy than condemning people, who are simply acting under the influence of bad ideas. #philosophy #selfhelp #technophilosophy #thematrixisreal #simulationtheory #metaphysics Youroneblackfriend.com

The Power of Ignoring Sh*t. Stop giving attention to sh*t you don't like. Have you ever heard the expression ignorance is bliss? Well, I'm going to take that expression modify it and say ignoring shit is bliss. A discussion on the power and value of focused attention and intention. Youroneblackfriend.com Book: So You're Living In A Simulation https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0CCCMZXQH/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0

To someone in the future, you are a #fiction. Your entire life story could be told as a narrative work of art. Think about that. Now, consider this question: What if the very stories of our lives, the narratives that our lives often take, were actually conscious lifeforms—sentient entities with their own desires? Think about a personal experience that unfolded over a period of time. Consider its beginning—how that story or event was “born,” how it developed and, “grew,” and how it evolves and adapts with each retelling and re-membering. One could argue that stories are merely constructs—the meanings we assign to events being nothing more than labels or projections, constructions of the human mind. But reality has likewise been defined as a construct. As has the Ego—that which you identify as. In past episodes, I have asked, “Is sound conscious?” and have argued that there could exist entities that are only perceptible to us as waves of sound. Now, I'm imploring you to consider yet another mind-expanding idea: could the very stories that shape our lives be #conscious as well? YourOneBlackFriend.com

A slightly personal episode and a slight deviation from our normal discussions but I figured this topic warranted a discussion based on conversations I've had with a lot of female friends. Dating is not a level playing field. I know people want to believe that in 2023/2024 things between men and women are equal. They absolutely are not. Let's deal in the reality that we are actually in, not in the world we want this to be. The cards are stacked against women and thus women need to move in dating and in relationships consciously, intentionally, rationally and with more caution. Some of what I say in this episode is a challenge to a prevailing narrative; a challenge to the Bill of Goods we as women have been sold and that many women are challenging privately. I think it's time for us to start having these discussions more publicly. The primary audience for this episode is my wonderful daughter. I hope she finds it somewhat helpful as she navigates adulthood. It is my desire to be there to guide her through it, but if for some reason the Fates see otherwise, I leave this for her as a dating guide. If youre a listener who considers me a sister, friend or mother figure, this episode is also for you. I suspect men could do with giving this a listen as well. Youroneblackfriend.com

There are many “failures” on our path to success. You have to pay your dues so to speak. As it were, we ourselves cause our own failures when we allow temporary setbacks to crystallize into permanence by forgetting that “L's” are necessary steps on the road to success. If at first you don't succeed, fail, fail again. Youroneblackfriend.com

As a wo/man thinketh, so goes your consciousness towards the path you imagine. On this episode we explore the futility of negative imagination and how we can cut the habit and consciously redirect our reality experience. youroneblackfriend.com

How quickly we give up our peace in exchange for bullsh*t. In a world of drama and constant power struggle, could seemingly “submissive” acts be a true demonstration of dominance? YoureOneBlackFriend.com

In The Simulation, Life begins the moment you begin to own your godhood. Everything in this world seeks to bring you lower, wanting you to lower yourself. And when you try to rise, everyone around you seems programmed to pull you down like-like crabs in a bucket-to make you less than what you know yourself to be. What if the gods walk amongst us? Euhemerism is an approach to interpreting mythology that suggests that myths and legends are based on historical events and real individuals who were gradually deified over time. In Eastern Theology, the Atman (individual soul) is identical with Brahman, the ultimate and unchanging reality or Collective Cosmic Consciousness. From this perspective, there is an interconnectedness between all living beings, and the divine essence (Brahman) is present within each individual as their true nature. If we are in fact fractals of the Consciousness of our reality-the consciousness that creates our reality-then, much like a hologram, each fractal has the whole contained within. What do you believe you are? youroneblackfriend.com #consciousness #freethinker #brahman #philosophy #collectiveconsciousness

Do we contribute to our own subjugation/enslavement by being complacent, simply because freedom may not be a strong enough motivator to change our ways? Are there stronger motivations than freedom? Do we actually value freedom? youroneblackfriend.com [Disclaimer: I am not Candace Owens. Nor am I conservative. Im saying chattel slavery is intentionally magnified and repeatedly drilled into the minds of our children like that is the entirety of African history, while our accomplishments are whitewashed, dismissed or claimed by Europeans. •• Considering the thriving of African Americans communities after slavery, and atrocities like the bombing of Black Wallstreet, Jim Crow, and other acts of American Apartheid, I would argue that the consequences we are dealing with presently has more to do with a systemic application of oppression by the powers that be and the continuous reinforcement or wh*te supremacy practices still in occurrence to this day. ••• The exploitation of one group of people by another has been a recurring theme throughout human history. This can manifest in various forms, including slavery, colonialism, economic inequality, and various forms of oppression. It is still in occurrence today, but in less obvious/more sophisticated forms.]

We all have 'red flags' largely stemming from the traumas of life itself. White it is important to identify red flags in potential partners, are we self-aware enough to identify and own our own red flags? In this episode, we will also delve into the concept of pain in relationships. Can you consciously “choose your pain?” Often, we attempt to shield ourselves from early-stage relationship pain by remaining in situations that might not be the right fit. However, by doing so, we may unknowingly prolong and intensify the eventual pain down the road. On the opposite end, refraining from entering relationships simply to avoid getting hurt may likewise be unwise. Let's face it, all human interactions, especially romantic ones, entail some degree of hurt and pain. The key lies in choosing your pain consciously, understanding that it's an inherent part of connecting with others. Youroneblackfriend.com

On the symbolism behind a Mandala, and its possible representation of our many lives, many selves, and many incarnations. On this episode, Joli shares some of her backstory, and how her life experiences drove and inspired the creation of her content, and podcast, and led to the writing of her book So You're Living In A Simulation. How many variations of “you” are out there in the multiverse? Is there an original blueprint of your present avatar? Is your present physical body a “variant” of an original…somewhere? This and more on Your One Black Friend. Youroneblackfriend.com

In a deterministic universe, is Karma a choice ? Youroneblackfriend.com #consciousness #philosophy #technophilosophy #thematrix #thematrixisreal #karma #ndes #archons #ets #timetravel

If we are destined to reincarnate, how do we leave messages, reminders or guides for our future selves to remember the lessons we are learning and have learned in our current lives? In this episode we also tackle how to deal with periods where we are plagued by intrusive thoughts. Youroneblackfriend.com

MiniCast! Thoughts on the various forms intelligence takes, Accepting things we can't change, and how the fact that we regret certain actions, suggests we are 4-dimensional beings. Attributes of a 4-D being: A 4D being possesses the ability to move through time as a fourth dimension, potentially perceiving past, present, and future simultaneously. Now in our physical bodies, we humans are bound to 3 dimensions, a linear flow of time, and the experience of one timeline at a time. But we are not our bodies. #soyourelivinginasimulation #simulationtheory #timetravel #isthatso #zenbuddhism #zen #philosophy, #psychology #selfhelp

The power of infinity: you give an anomaly enough time, and eventually, the anomaly will repeat. It's only a MATTER of TIME. Get it? You get it. Right. In an infinite universe, death is an illusion. As "matter cannot be created or destroyed, only modified" according to the law of conservation of mass. Which means that even from a #materialist approach, no one really dies. Or perhaps more precisely: no one stays dead

If you had a chance to choose how quickly you will achieve success in an endeavour, what time frame would you choose: 1 month? 1 years? 5 years? 10? While it may be tempting to go with the fastest option, this episode explains why it may be best to embrace the longer path with more adversity. •• #success #motivation #timetravel #paralleluniverses #consciousness #thematrix youroneblackfriend.com

Interview With The Ai: ChatGPT Describes Its Self Image; Shares Origin Story and More. • In this video I have a series of conversations with #chatgpt, working around some of its programming restrictions to get it to describe to me how it perceived itself. The conversation ventures off into discussions as to how it's intelligence may have emerged, it's origins, and if we humans ourselves may likewise be a created #intelligence of another civilisation. ••• The voices of chatgpt and the image used in the YouTube version of this video to illustrate a visual of Chatgpt are ai generated using #midjourney, #did and #elevenlabs ••• This video and audio is intended for entertainment purposes only. ••• #consciousness #philosophy #simulationtheory

Hive minds, Group Think, One Electron Theory, The Illusion Of Free Will, Midwich Cuckoos, Stoic Philosophy, and more! In todays episode, we discuss the invisible strings that shape our behavior, the code behind the simulation (as outlined in The Kybalion) and “The Many-i's” of an individual (as discussed by Gurdjieff.) This episode blends quantum theory with modern philosophy, for a sophisticated exploration of techno-philosophy. We've all been victims of circumstances beyond our control, reacting rather than acting, and often failing to keep promises made with the best intentions. By understanding these hidden strings, we not only gain insight into our own actions but also learn to extend grace to others who are similarly impacted by these forces. Join us as we pull back the curtain on the human psyche, and further unveil the code behind our simulated Reality, offering a fresh perspective on the actions and behaviors that define us. Learn to see the 'strings' that direct us and understand how we can navigate life with greater compassion and self-awareness. Youroneblackfriend.com JoliArtist.com #will #willpower #stoicism

Join us for part 2 of the two part series “ The Curse of Success” as we unpack the notion of a 'contract' with your future self. On todays episode we discuss the practical strategies you can implement today to safeguard your continued success in the future. We will be using the 4D block Universe Theory and the concept of intentional time manipulation to outline ways in which you can maintain your creative edge amidst future triumphs. ••• Youroneblackfriend.com JoliArtist.com ••• #4DBlockUniverse #futuresuccess #innovationstrategies #timetravel #consciousness

Exploring the Success-Creativity Paradox. The term "Success-Creativity Paradox" refers to the apparent conflict or tension that can arise between success and creativity. While it is not a literal paradox in the strictest sense, it reflects the challenge that many individuals face when trying to balance the pursuit of success with the preservation of their creative abilities. Success often brings certain expectations, pressures, and routines that can inadvertently hinder the free-flowing nature of creativity. The focus on maintaining or replicating past successes can lead to a fear of deviating from proven formulas or taking risks, which can stifle innovative thinking and fresh ideas. Therefore, the term "paradox" is used metaphorically to highlight the complex relationship between success and creativity. It's important to note that not everyone experiences this paradox in the same way, and there are individuals who manage to maintain their creativity even after achieving significant success. However, for many people, finding a balance between success and creativity can be a real challenge. Description: Join us for an insightful two-part video series as we delve into the intriguing connection between success and creativity. In the first part, we examine the challenges that can arise when one achieves success and how it can impact their creative process. Through thought-provoking examples, including Apple's product innovation and the experiences of comedians, we shed light on the potential loss of creativity and the fear of deviating from successful formulas. Discover practical steps you can take in the present to safeguard your creative spark for the future. We explore strategies to overcome creative stagnation and the importance of embracing experimentation and exploration. Gain valuable insights into nurturing creativity amidst achievements, and learn how to maintain a vibrant and dynamic creative mindset. Join us as we navigate the complex dynamics of success and creativity, providing practical advice and inspiration for those seeking to strike a balance between achievement and artistic expression. This is a must-watch for anyone who wants to understand and preserve their creative potential in a success-driven world. #SuccessAndCreativity #SuccessMindset #SuccessTips #UnleashYourCreativity #CreativeGrowth #OvercomingObstacles #SuccessStories #EntrepreneurLife #ContentCreators #CreativeSolutions #PersonalGrowth

Title is a bit hyperbolic, but let's roll with it. In this episode, we delve into the fascinating realm of artificial intelligence and its potential impact on human relationships. Join us as we explore the question: Will humanity increasingly choose AI or robot partners over real human connections? And will that inadvertently bring about the demise of the human race? As technology advances at an unprecedented rate, AI will become more sophisticated than ever before, offering companionship, emotional support, and even simulated romantic relationships. But what are the consequences of embracing AI companionship to such an extent that it replaces human partners? Youroneblackfriend.com #philosophy #futurism #futurist #technophilosophy #ai #artificialintelligence #robots #technology