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Best podcasts about evolutionary relationships

Latest podcast episodes about evolutionary relationships

Aubrey Marcus Podcast
A New Pattern Of Sacred Relationship Emerges | Vylana, Alana Beale, Dr. Marc Gafni #498

Aubrey Marcus Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 157:08


Are relationship structures intended by the Cosmos to be one size fits all? Or do variations actually serve the evolution of love? In this wildly intimate and emotional revelation, we share the story of how the sacred union with my wife Vylana expanded to include our beloved Alana Beale. This is not a prescription, it is a description of what has worked for us to allow us to live a life of radical commitment, and total freedom. Dr. Marc Gafni, our esteemed teacher joins us to discuss the philosophical underpinnings behind this evolution of love, that we hope will expand the boundaries of what is possible. For more on Marc Gafni and the ontological structure of relationships as they relate to Eros, check out his latest book series: Evolution of Love from Quarks to Culture. The Rise of Evolutionary Relationships in Response to the Meta-Crisis⁠https://www.amazon.com/Evolution-Love-Quarks-Culture-Relationships/dp/B0F4PW61LQ/⁠| Vylana |https://bio.site/vylana Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/vylana/Check out Vylana's Series I AM Unique Sound on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUjde9EZj_8o_fPWf6NGUkA| Alana Beale |Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/alanabeale/| Dr. Marc Gafni |Substack: https://substack.com/@marcgafniInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/marcgafni/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/MarcGafniTwitter:https://twitter.com/MarcGafni Whole Mate: the Future of Relationshipshttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4PZ9V5B/Join the revolution: https://www.centerforworldphilosophyandreligion.com/jointherevolutionThis episode is sponsored byLove To The Seventh Power by Aubrey Marcus: https://chakaruna.com/collections/booksMetal Mark Golden Collectable Art |  https://mtlmrk.com/Korrect Energy | https://korrectlife.com/| Aubrey Marcus |Website | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://bit.ly/2GesYqi ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://bit.ly/2BlfCEO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://bit.ly/2F4nBZk ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠X |  ⁠⁠⁠http://bit.ly/2BlGBAdAd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Aubrey Marcus newsletter:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.aubreymarcus.com/pages/email⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠To partner with the Aubrey Marcus Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Aubrey Marcus podcast:iTunes | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://apple.co/2lMZRCn ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify |⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://spoti.fi/2EaELZO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stitcher | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://bit.ly/2G8ccJt ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IHeartRadio | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://ihr.fm/3CiV4x3 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Lead From Within
99. Conscious Evolutionary Relationships with guest Jennifer Hendler

Lead From Within

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2025 53:29


In this episode I talk to Jennifer Hendler about the difference between being fiercely independence and interdependence in relationships and with ourselves. Introduction Jennifer is the founder of Claiming My Voice, a Holistic Psychotherapy practice that specializes in helping women break free from stifling their voice to reach their full potential. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Holistic Life Coach, Relationship Coach and Flower Essence Therapist. From Jennifer's website she says: I work with motivated, visionary souls of service who feel like they have to self-sacrifice to achieve their dreams. I help them Claim Their Voices so they never have to lose themselves again to belong and succeed. And I teach them how to build evolutionary relationships that lead to soul-satisfying connection and a more peaceful planet. For 25 years I've been making it safe for women to trust themselves, communicate authentically, and share power. I know how painful it is to be unseen, unheard, and unmet; to shrink from relentless self-doubt; to get depleted from poor boundaries, and obsess over difficult relationship dynamics. It's taken me a lifetime of courage to grab the reins and Claim My Voice in a world that often doesn't understand, validate, or include my holistic perspective Resources mentioned in this episode Follow Jennifer: Instagram: HERE Facebook: HERE Website: HERE Botanical Wellness: HERE Narcissist Repellant: HERE Thank you for listening. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider subscribing and leaving a review. Leave comment on what you enjoyed from the episode and if you have any suggestions for future episodes, I'd love to hear from you. Even better, share it with a friend or colleague and turn on the notifications so that you never miss an episode. It really helps the podcast gain more listeners so that we can grow our Lead From Within community. Thanks everyone! Keep reaching for your highest branch!   Let's Connect Follow me on LinkedIn Here Visit my website Here Email: mthomson@curisconsulting.ca  Self-Care Guide on Amazon: Canada: HERE USA: HERE Leave me a voice note HERE and have it included on a future podcast! Just click on the "message" tab.  It is greatly appreciated!  

Ari in the Air
Principles of Evolutionary Relationships w/ James Schmachtenberger at The Stoa

Ari in the Air

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2022 98:10


This is a presentation that I did with James Schmachtenberger at The Stoa. We wanted to present this under-discussed topic because we truly believe that it's a powerful crux for human relationships and the state of the world. A big claim, I know, but I really mean it. James Schmachtenberger is a serial entrepreneur and change-maker who focuses on social enterprises to harness the power of business for positive global change. He's the CEO of Neurohacker Collective, the makers of Qualia - a nootropic suite of drugs designed to increase human capacity. He has had a long history of being interested and invested in human relationships and open relating. This is an awesome presentation, we think you're gonna love it. 15% OFF QUALIA https://neurohacker.com/shop/qualia-mind?rfsn=6736291.51bd0fe Code: ARI (good for 15% off any purchase) Follow me on instagram! https://www.instagram.com/ariintheair Support this channel! $5/Month! Get FREE PARAGLIDE COACHING! https://www.patreon.com/ariintheair PHILOSOPHICAL COACHING WITH ARI HTTPS://www.ariintheair.com/coaching/

Here For The Truth
Ep 94 - Bernhard Guenther & Laura Matsue | Evolutionary Relationships

Here For The Truth

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2022 86:06


Bernhard & Laura join us again, this time together to discuss the power and potential of relationships to accelerate our personal awakening journeys.    We chat about topics such as the nature of love, conscious and unconscious relationships, green and red flags in relationships, twin flame distortions and the rise of extreme polarity teachings.    This episode is a must watch for anyone seeking to develop more conscious and healthy relationships.    Guest links: https://www.thetimeoftransition.com/ https://veilofreality.com https://www.youtube.com/timeoftransition   See all our episodes:  https://hereforthetruth.com Join our membership community:  https://friendsofthetruth.co Apply for our 8 week group coaching program: http://riseabovetheherd.co  Download our free e-book “55 Signs of Low Self-Esteem for Truth Seekers”: https://growyourselfesteem.com  Connect with us on Telegram:  https://t.me/areyouhereforthetruth  All other links:  https://tinyurl.com/hfttlinks    Hosted by Joel Rafidi & Yerasimos Intro and outro music: “Illusion” by Joel Rafidi Intro voice-over: Namakula (https://www.namakula.com/voice-over)

Love, Evolved: Conscious Relationships
Real World Couples with Laura Matsue + Bernhard Guenther: Evolutionary Relationships

Love, Evolved: Conscious Relationships

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2022 73:20


I invited Laura Matsue and Bernhard Guenther onto the podcast as part of my Real World Couples series, where I feature couples in incredible relationships who serve as models for others.  This was one of my favorite episodes so far, with so much rich discussion - can't wait for you listen!We start out with an overview of evolutionary relationships (and discuss our upcoming masterclass on this topic on Oct 6, 2022, see link below) and how we are seeing that people are ready for a new level of spiritual partnership.From there, we get into:- The story of how they met (on Facebook!)  - Some incredible signs Laura received before they even met- Why this relationship felt different to them this time around- How they define evolutionary relationships (or conscious relationships) and how most relationships are unconscious- How everything comes up in relationships - attachment wounding, trauma, shadow stuff - and how these are opportunities to heal and evolve- Getting into the evolutionary astrology angle where some people are more open to growth + evolution, based on their birth charts- Navigating conflict (addressing both conflict avoidance and the conflict volatility)- A fascinating discussion of the current state of affairs with love, sex, and relationships - where are we collectively? - The agenda behind the war on love, sx and relationships- How social media has replaced healthy human connection- Why now, more than ever, we need healthy + secure relationships- How the world of therapy has been overtaken by the 'woke cult'- The rupture of the family unit and the counterbalance happening- Laura and Bernhard end with their biggest keys that shifted how they do relationshipsIt was such an honor to speak with them, and we hope you find this episode helpful.  Please contact any of us below with any comments or questions, we'd love to hear.Evolutionary Relationships Masterclass:https://www.evolutionaryrelationshipsnow.com/Bernhard's Website (check out his incredible essays):https://veilofreality.com/Laura's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/lauramatsue/Cosmic Matrix podcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-cosmic-matrix/id1452122496Leigh-Anne's website:https://www.love-evolved.us/Leigh-Anne's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/love.evolv.ed/

What is Going OM with Sandie Sedgbeer
Evolutionary Relationships with Patricia Albere

What is Going OM with Sandie Sedgbeer

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2022 55:32


Evolutionary Relationships – Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening with Patricia AlbereLivestreaming Thursday, 22 September 2022 at 7:00 AM PST/10:00 AM EST on OMTimes Magazine Facebook, OMTimes Radio & TV Facebook, or OMTimesTV YoutubeFor millennia, spirituality has been a deeply personal pursuit – monks on mountaintops and yogis in caves. But the world is more social than ever, and interconnectedness is transforming everything, from our family lives to work. Today, we need a spirituality that focuses more on “we” than “me.” In her book Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening, Patricia Albere draws on more than four decades of teaching work to explore what an evolutionary relationship is and introduce a new dimension of egoless shared unity that is becoming accessible through evolutionary relationships.Life is defined by relationships—we're deeply social creatures. But not all relationships are created equal. An “Evolutionary Relationship” is one that drives us, challenges us, compels us to grow and evolve not through expertly learning to navigate our separateness, but by finding a new point of contact that is beyond the ego, beyond our karma and beyond even a soul connection. Join Sandie and Patricia Albere for this (r)evolutionary conversation and discover a new paradigm of relatedness.Patricia Albere is the founder of the Evolutionary Collective, internationally known contemporary spiritual teacher, visionary, bestselling author of Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Transformative Power of Mutual Awakening and recognized leader in the emerging field of post-personal development. Her unique experience of a sustained dual awakening over 20 years ago resulted in a different kind of realization, a dual realization. It has led to the discovery of the essential components that create an awakened ‘we space' that is transforming our understanding of what is possible in the space between us.Connect with Patricia at https://evolutionarycollective.com#PatriciaAlbere #EvolutionaryRelationships #SandieSedgbeer #WhatIsGoingOMVisit the What Is Going OM show page https://omtimes.com/iom/shows/what-is-going-omConnect with Sandie Sedgbeer at https://www.sedgbeer.comSubscribe to our Newsletter https://omtimes.com/subscribe-omtimes-magazine/Connect with OMTimes on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/Omtimes.Magazine/ and OMTimes Radio https://www.facebook.com/ConsciousRadiowebtv.OMTimes/Twitter: https://twitter.com/OmTimes/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/omtimes/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/OMTimesTVLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/2798417/Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/omtimes/

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Spiritual Indies Only
S3E19 - Mutual Awakening and Shared Unity with Renowned Spiritual Teacher Patricia Albere

Spiritual Indies Only

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2022 56:17


In this episode, Patricia Albere and I talk about her experiences with mutual awakening and the unitive consciousness work she is doing now with groups. She is the founder of the Evolutionary Collective, an internationally known contemporary spiritual teacher and bestselling author of Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Transformative Power of Mutual Awakening. She has been a spiritual transformation teacher since 1971 when she began as an EST trainer with EST founder Werner Erhard. But along the way, she had a very amazing experience in mutual awakening with a man she had fallen in love with. We talked about that and how powerful that was because it was a case of inter-subjective awakening and experiencing reality with another person in a much deeper way. Over the last 14 years, Albere has been pioneering a whole new realm of group unity work that leads to a shared unity in which the group experiences intra-subjective (shared) reality together. She says that in that state of shared unity, one feels that the individuals in the group take on a shared group identity (while still retaining their individual identity). And she added that she clearly feels that "Evolution is leading the group to new, higher levels of consciousness." She describes this as going beyond our individual "Me project" to the "We project" which involves truly experiencing We Consciousness as shared unity, shared reality. In talking with her, I feel that this is where human evolution is ultimately going, and I believe her work is very important for the future of humanity. Learn more about her at EvolutionaryCollective.com, and you can sign up for her free Introduction to Mutual Awakening e-course.Support the show

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ReWilding for Women - Empowering Women through Meditation, Shamanism, Astrology, and Inner Archetypal and Goddess Practices
BONUS – Evolutionary Relationships: Twin Flames, Codependency, Sacred Sexuality, Polarity Issues, Boundaries

ReWilding for Women - Empowering Women through Meditation, Shamanism, Astrology, and Inner Archetypal and Goddess Practices

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2022 85:23


Let's look at relationships from a higher, more mystical vantage point to see what your relationship potential truly is! This bonus episode (only available for a limited time) is inspired by our new online relationships program: ReWilding Your Relationships! Want to take your current relationships to the next level or call in the relationship you've… The post BONUS – Evolutionary Relationships: Twin Flames, Codependency, Sacred Sexuality, Polarity Issues, Boundaries appeared first on Rewilding for Women.

Reawakening Love and Power with Carol Anne
43. VEXED: Bridgerton and toxic relationship narratives with Bee Slêmanîyah

Reawakening Love and Power with Carol Anne

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2022 82:30


What do two Sex, Love and Relationship Coaches think of Bridgerton season 2 on Netflix? Dear Listener, we are vexed! Bee Slêmanîyah and I tangle with what turned us on and off, the way the characters treated each other, what makes for a good relationship, and the allure of emotionally unavailable men. You'll hear: Why we binged it Whether Anthony is a fuckboy Harmful relationship dynamics Society of the 1800s vs. now (we might not be as far as we think) Response to other shows like True Blood and Twilight What is being romanticised and is that the message we want? Attachment styles and push/pull in relationships Erotic blueprints and sexual tension Kink & BDSM Women's portrayal and options in society Emotional unavailability in potential partners Balance between mystery/eroticism and safety/security in relationship Interpreting your turn on while watching and using it for your benefit Unrealistic portrayals of female sexual pleasure Media as a vehicle for cultural messaging The show's attempt at racial diversity and inclusion Turn on gas pedals and brakes Through Trauma Informed, Somatic, Attachment Therapy and Coaching, in Sex, Love, & Relationships, Bee thrives on integrating shadow and light, bringing ones multiple truths and selves into their authentic dance— of pleasure, play, harmony, and belonging, while savouring all colours of the palette as the sacred and perfect parts of the humxn experience that they are. From Trauma, Tantra, to Taboo, Bee's work can be described as radical alchemy; holding spaces which allow humxns to come into their full spectrum authentic selves, and have pleasure based lives of Conscious Sex, Radical Love, and Evolutionary Relationships. As a kinky, queer, genderfull, BBIBOC, immigrant, parent, and performing artist, Bee loves serving folx with parallel lived experience, in marginalised communities, while also being deeply passionate about working with men, and revolutionizing dating, intimacy, and relating, (for all genders), with singles and in couples. Bee's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsbeexox/ Support Bee and their content: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/itsbeexox Carol's website: https://www.carolanne.com.au/ Book a Clarity Call: https://carolanne.as.me/ Carol's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolannealive/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/reawakeningloveandpower/message

At Risk
Evolutionary Relationships and Fish w/ Yi-Kai Tea

At Risk

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2022 32:11


Find out about the confusing and unheard world of taxonomy, and all the facinating topics that go hand in hand with fish, and the world of evolution. Today, I talked to a systematic ichthyologist, who specialize in sorting fish into their rightful place within the world. We talk about evolutionary relationships, phylogeny, macrophotography, and so much more! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/at-risk-podcast/message

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Gateways to Awakening
Evolutionary Relationships and Connections with Patricia Albere

Gateways to Awakening

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2022


On today’s episode, I interview Patricia Albere, the founder of the Evolutionary Collective, internationally known contemporary spiritual teacher, visionary, bestselling author of Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Transformative Power of Mutual Awakening and recognized leader in the emerging field of post-personal development. Her unique experience of a sustained dual awakening over 20 years ago led to the discovery of the essential components that create an awakened ‘we space’ that is transforming our understanding of what is possible in the space between us. Patricia has a free, self-paced Introduction to Mutual Awakening e-Course available at www.evolutionarycollective.come/intro-course-yt We talk about the following and so much more: ✅ The new evolutionary dimension of embodiment and what it means to be in an evolutionary relationship ✅ Maslow’s hierarchy of needs and how she applies it to the world of relationships ✅ How the need for connection has changed in the last ten years and especially in the last year of the pandemic ✅ The Mutual Awakening Practice and why its important Please tag us and tell us what you loved! You can follow @Gateways_To_Awakening on Instagram or Facebook if you’d like to stay connected.

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Gateways to Awakening
Evolutionary Relationships and Connections with Patricia Albere

Gateways to Awakening

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2022


On today’s episode, I interview Patricia Albere, the founder of the Evolutionary Collective, internationally known contemporary spiritual teacher, visionary, bestselling author of Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Transformative Power of Mutual Awakening and recognized leader in the emerging field of post-personal development. Her unique experience of a sustained dual awakening over 20 years ago led to the discovery of the essential components that create an awakened ‘we space’ that is transforming our understanding of what is possible in the space between us. Patricia has a free, self-paced Introduction to Mutual Awakening e-Course available at www.evolutionarycollective.come/intro-course-yt We talk about the following and so much more: ✅ The new evolutionary dimension of embodiment and what it means to be in an evolutionary relationship ✅ Maslow’s hierarchy of needs and how she applies it to the world of relationships ✅ How the need for connection has changed in the last ten years and especially in the last year of the pandemic ✅ The Mutual Awakening Practice and why its important Please tag us and tell us what you loved! You can follow @Gateways_To_Awakening on Instagram or Facebook if you’d like to stay connected.

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Kara and Caleb
Ep. 33 - Parenting Through Emotional Connection with Sterna Suissa

Kara and Caleb

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2021 71:47


Note: Our conversation with Sterna begins at 14:30 seconds in.Hi, friends! Welcome back to another episode of (r)Evolutionary Relationships. We're so excited that you're here because we think you're really going to love this episode with Parenting Coach, Sterna Suissa. Sterna is not only an incredible coach, but she's a gifted communicator.On this podcast, we talk aboutThe power of self awarenessWhat it means to parent through emotional connectionWhat it looks like to parent through emotional connectionAnd how do we begin to reparent our inner child. Whether you're a parent or thinking of being a parent or you just want to learn how to reconnect to the inner child inside of you, then you'll love this conversation.Learn more about Sterna, here.Learn more about Kara, hereLearn more about Caleb, here.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Ep. 25 - Transforming Your Relationship with Money with Erin Skye Kelly

Kara and Caleb

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2021 71:30


Hey everyone, welcome back to another episode of (r)Evolutionary Relationships! This is a podcast that is here to support you on your emotional, relational and spiritual evolution!Today's guest is not only someone that we call a friend, but someone that we deeply admire when it comes to building and maintaining a healthy relationship with money.Erin Skye Kelly life's mission is about removing the shame and frustration of finances and empowering you to make money decisions you are proud of.So, if you have ever felt stress about money, lost sleep because of money, beat yourself up because of money decisions, or felt stuck and hopeless because of money, then you're going to love this episode!We start the podcast out by talking about romantic partnerships, but we quickly transition into what it looks like to build a healthy relationship with money. We promise you, you're going to get something from this episode.If you want to learn more about today's guest, you can do that, here.Get Erin's Book, Get The Hell Out Of Debt, here.Get Erin's Get The Hell Out Of Debt Course, here.You can follow Erin on Instagram, here.You can follow Caleb on Instagram, here.You can follow Kara on Instagram, here.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Cosmic Matrix
The Difference Between Matrix & Evolutionary Relationships | TCM #63 (Part 1)

The Cosmic Matrix

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2021 50:18


Laura and Bernhard discuss the difference between Matrix relationships and Evolutionary relationships. They discuss the four different types of relationships based on the evolution of consciousness and what the prerequisite is to use relationships as a container for spiritual growth and inner work.

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Terrible Lizards
S03E07 Dinosaur Evolutionary Relationships

Terrible Lizards

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2021 62:09


Following on from last week's look at how dinosaurs get named, in this (Patreon picked) episode Iszi and Dave turn to the issue of dinosaur relationships. How do palaeontologists put together family trees and work out which species or group is related to which other one? And how easy and reliable is it when most dinosaurs are known from only fragments of skeletons rather than complete fossils? For our final normal episode of series 3 (have we really come this far already?) we are joined by Professor Sophie Scott who has a question about the sounds dinosaurs might have made.   Links: Prof Sophie Scott CBE is Director of UCL Institute of Cognitive Neuroscience. RI Xmas Lecturer 2017 - listen to her podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-neuromantics/id1455641494 Here’s a link to a discussion  between researchers about the vexed idea of the Ornithoscleida  https://www.theguardian.com/science/2018/feb/07/a-discussion-not-a-war-two-opposing-experts-talk-dinosaur-family-trees And here’s a link to an article about dinosaur origins and the question over the origins of the ornithischians https://news.mit.edu/2020/study-timing-dinosaurs-evolution-0729

My AP Biology Thoughts
Evolutionary Relationships: Phylogenetic Trees and Cladograms

My AP Biology Thoughts

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2021 4:39


My AP Biology Thoughts Welcome to My AP Biology Thoughts podcast, my name is Charles but you can call me Darwin and I am your host for today. This is podcast number 8 called Evolutionary Relationships. Today we will be discussing Phylogenetic trees and Cladograms. Segment 1: Introduction to Evolutionary RelationshipsPhylogenetic Tree-  A diagram that shows evolutionary relationships among species  Uses DNA sequences to find patterns in species There is a distinct difference between cladograms and phylogenetic trees. Cladograms are shaped like a “y” but with a lot more lines branching off. This diagram is based on hypothesis and does not use DNA sequencing. It's mainly based on homologous structures and noted similarities between animales. Each protruding line from the base represents a time where a structure split off, such as a heart having 4 chambers or having webbed feet.   Phylogenetic trees are mainly used to show time. It is shaped like a very geometric tree sideways. The trunk is the common ancestor for all of the species at the tip of the branches. Each junction represents a closer common ancestor. If a line stops short, that usually means the species went extinct. Cladograms- DNA sequencing is a process of finding common ancestors. Since All cells have DNA, which contain a series of different letters that describe that organism. If some of the sequences in DNA matches that of another species, that could mean they are related or share a common ancestor.  are different ways to find the common ancestor of a species, one way is to find homologous bones structures in creatures, which could relate species. However, the most definitive way to find common ancestors, is to look at similarities in DNA sequences.  Segment 2: Example of Phylogenetic Trees and CladogramsThere are tons of examples, and you can search up a diagram for any animal. Looking at a human Phylogenetic tree, we can see that humans are more closely related to chimpanzees than any other monkey. Also, Humans are more closely related to cats, than cows. In addition to looking at phylogenetic trees, you could look at similarities in DNA sequences. Cats are 85% similar to humans, while cows are about 80% similar. It doesn't seem like cats should be my brothers, however that remaining 15% has critical DNA letters that change various aspects of a creature. If we were to look at a cladogram, we would see the line for humans would be separate from cats, and the segment in between would represent a time where fur stops being useful or hind legs are being primarily used.  Segment 3: Digging Deeper and Making ConnectionsHow does this topic fit into the greater picture of evolution? Cladograms and Phylogenetic trees come hand in hand when determining common ancestors. These common ancestors are the key to seeing how the species was able to evolve and split off into different organisms. While cladograms help us determine specific structures and when organisms split off, they are not scientific. Meaning they're based off of hypothesis, or what we think it would look like. Phylogenetic trees are more scientific, meaning it helps show specifically who is the most recent common ancestor and who closely related organisms are to each other. It is quinicential in finding the common ancestor in order to see the steps a species took to evolve. We can also see the environmental pressures that a species endured and look at how it affected the present species. Thank you for listening to this episode of My AP Biology Thoughts. For more student-ran podcasts, make sure that you visit http://www.hvspn.com/ (www.hvspn.com). Thanks for listening! Music Credits:"Ice Flow" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Subscribe to our PodcastApple Podcasts Spotify Google Podcasts   Stitcher  ...

FIVE Minute Bark Podcast
Evolutionary Relationships - Grow In Love Together With Marie Winter

FIVE Minute Bark Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2020 35:46


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The Think You Podcast
Evolutionary Relationships and Divine Self Love with Alison Lessard

The Think You Podcast

Play Episode Play 60 sec Highlight Listen Later Jun 23, 2020 73:32


Alison Lessard has been my Youtube Mentor for five years now. She's created a niche in what it means to show up as our authentic selves in all relationships, particularly the most evolutionary one - the Twin Flame relationship. In this episode Alison and I dive into our experience with the Twin Flame journey and how that has unfolded into the most beautiful self loving experiences. Everything in our lives has lead us back to trusting our intuition and building strength in our communication with it. We discuss all things relationships with others, ourselves, how we learned to love our bodies, heal our relationship with food & begin to understand our limiting beliefs holding us back from really showing up consciously in all of our relationships.Stephanie Laurens Instagram Handle: @stephanieeelaurenAlison Lessards Instagram Handle: @alison.lessardAlison's Youtube Channel: Alison Lessard

Sexpert Talks
Sexpert Bee River talks about the Sacred in the Taboo

Sexpert Talks

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2020 39:42


In this conversation, Bee River shares with us the ways that some of our deepest, most shadowy "taboo" parts and desires often hold our greatest gifts. Bee shares ways we can practice radical self-acceptance and explore our sacred shadows both alone and in relationship. Get ready for a powerful conversation spanning taboo, trauma, kink/BDSM, and tantric practices to bring you deeper in love with your authentic self. Bee River thrives on integrating shadow and light, and harnessing the meeting points between them into their sweet dance of pleasure, play, and harmony, while savoring all colors of the palette as sacred, and perfect parts of the humxn experience. From Trauma, Tantra, to Taboo, Bee’s work can be described as radical alchemy; coaching humxns into being their full spectrum authentic selves, and having pleasure based lives of Conscious Sex, Radical Love, and Evolutionary Relationships. As a queer, kinky, polyamorous, gender diverse, BIPOC, immigrant, parent, and performing artist, Bee loves serving folx in these communities, and is also deeply passionate about working with men, anyone dating, and couples. You can follow Bee on Instagram here @ItsBeeRiver to look out for Up & Coming offerings: Virtual Workshop— The Sacred Brat 1:1 Program— The Labyrinth Website+Facebook Group— The Temple, where all of you is welcome. Interviewer Kimberly FiNix is a womxn's Divorce Coach & Transformational Guide. Her mission is to help womxn navigate the portals of divorce & relationship transition with strength, confidence, and a clear vision for their next stage of life. Kimberly's holistic approach combines modern coaching & mindset work with body-based practices and somatic trauma integration techniques. Connect with Kimberly at: https://www.phoenix-path.com, Instagram: @phoenixpath, and her FB group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/435199533995784/

Reawakening Love and Power with Carol Anne
(Conversation) EMOTIONS - Emotional alchemy for challenging times with Bee River

Reawakening Love and Power with Carol Anne

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2020 97:35


Bee River and I have a conversation about emotional alchemy for challenging times. Right now as the pandemic is unfolding across the world, lots of emotions are surfacing for people, including uncomfortable ones, and it’s not always easy to know how to deal with them. Bee and I talk about how to relate to your emotions in a way that feels empowering and helpful. Our conversation covers the spectrum of emotions and ways of relating to them, including: How Bee manages her emotions as a sensitive person who feels things very intensely Tools and practices to process and honour your emotions, including practices which harness the innate wisdom and power of the body The spectrum from repressing your emotions to having a dramatic relationship with them Advanced practices of incorporating pleasure and turn on into emotional processing Processing your emotions with a partner in an intentional container and the three magic words a partner can say to you in the process We also cover how to approach these practices in ways that are safer, more supportive, and trauma aware. We offer lots of permission to take things slowly and go step by step. We also describe how you can recognise when you’re at your edge so that you don’t push past your own limits. Bee River thrives on integrating shadow and light, and harnessing the meeting points between them into their sweet dance of pleasure, play, and harmony, while savoring all colors of the palette as sacred, and perfect parts of the humxn experience. From Trauma, Tantra, to Taboo, Bee’s work can be described as radical alchemy; coaching humxns into being their full spectrum authentic selves, and having pleasure based lives of Conscious Sex, Radical Love, and Evolutionary Relationships. As a queer, kinky, polyamorous, gender diverse, BIPOC, immigrant, parent, and performing artist, Bee loves serving folx in these communities, and is also deeply passionate about working with men, anyone dating, and couples. You can follow Bee on Instagram at www.instagram.com/itsbeeriver. Follow her there to look out for her up and coming offerings, including her virtual workshop The Sacred Brat, her 1:1 program The Labyrinth, and her website and Facebook group The Temple, where all of you is welcome. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/reawakeningloveandpower/message

The AutoImmune Hour
Patricia Albere - Imagine When the Focus Becomes We Instead of Me

The AutoImmune Hour

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2020 57:01


Imagine When the Focus Becomes We Instead of MeAired Friday, March 13, 2020 at 4:00 PM PST / 7:00 PM ESTWhat if your mindfulness, practice, your spirituality focused more on “we” than “me?” What would change? In the episode, we welcome Patricia Albere. Best-selling author, founder, and creator of Evolutionary Relationships and Mutual Awakening. A practice-based on consciously creating a connection between two or more people who mutually commit to explore and develop higher states of perception and awareness. Patricia shares:How to find and transform any committed relationship into a dynamic engine for mutual evolution. The eight activating principles of Mutual Awakening Insights into how this practice enhances your feelings of connection, compassion, and kindness, plus so much more…More about our guest:Patricia Albere is at ground zero of an evolutionary stream of spiritual awakening. Just as meditation can be an opening to a personal awakening, Albere originated the Mutual Awakening Practice – a 21st-century practice that empowers us to enter into new dimensions of relating and expanding consciousness together. One in which we learn to go beyond individual psychology and transformation into a new space of shared unity or mutual awakening. Patricia's work creates a palpable field of shared consciousness and love that reveals the unimagined human potential that can move humanity far beyond the limits of personal growth or self-development and into mutual awakening.She is a recognized visionary, leader, and innovator in the emerging field of inter-subjective awakening and post-personal development. She is the bestselling author of Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening, developed to connect individuals to activate powerful fields of shared consciousness in their ongoing reality. Learn more at: https://evolutionarycollective.com/ Listen to the intriguing interview first on Friday, March 13th at 7 PM ET and later in podcast and videocast.The information provided on UnderstandingAutoimmune.com, Life InterruptedRadio.com, and The Autoimmune Hour are for educational purposes only.Visit the Autoimmune Hour show page https://omtimes.com/iom/shows/autoimmune-hour/Connect with Sharon Sayler at http://lifeinterruptedradio.com/#PatriciaAlbere #EvolutionaryRelationships #TheAutoimmuneHour #SharonSayler

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The Autoimmune Hour
Imagine When the Focus Becomes We Instead of Me

The Autoimmune Hour

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2020 56:32


What if your mindfulness, practice, your spirituality focused more on “we” than “me?” What would change? In the episode, we welcome Patricia Albere. Best-selling author, founder, and creator of Evolutionary Relationships and Mutual Awakening. A practice-based on consciously creating a connection between two or more people who mutually commit to explore and develop higher states of perception and awareness. Patricia shares:How to find and transform any committed relationship into a dynamic engine for mutual evolution.The eight activating principles of Mutual AwakeningInsights into how this practice enhances your feelings of connection, compassion, and kindness, plus so much more...More about our guest: Patricia Albere is at ground zero of an evolutionary stream of spiritual awakening. Just as meditation can be an opening to a personal awakening, Albere originated the Mutual Awakening Practice – a 21st-century practice that empowers us to enter into new dimensions of relating and expanding consciousness together. One in which we learn to go beyond individual psychology and transformation into a new space of shared unity or mutual awakening. Patricia's work creates a palpable field of shared consciousness and love that reveals the unimagined human potential that can move humanity far beyond the limits of personal growth or self-development and into mutual awakening.She is a recognized visionary, leader, and innovator in the emerging field of inter-subjective awakening and post-personal development. She is the bestselling author of Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening, developed to connect individuals to activate powerful fields of shared consciousness in their ongoing reality. Learn more at https://evolutionarycollective.com/
Listen to the intriguing interview first on Friday, March 13th at 7 PM ET and later in podcast and videocast at www.UnderstandingAutoimmune.com/Patricia The information provided on UnderstandingAutoimmune.com, Life InterruptedRadio.com, and The Autoimmune Hour are for educational purposes only.

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Woman Untamed
008 - WILD HEART: Evolutionary Relationships + Sacred Union

Woman Untamed

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2019 37:16


In this episode, I am covering the multidimensional aspects of sacred partnership and why these entanglements are a necessary part of Rewilding. Learn how to stop spiritually bypassing these divine assignments and how to use the challenges that arise in these containers as initiations to expand in consciousness and create Heaven on Earth.    Head HERE to learn how to channel your soul into writing and speaking that serves, heals, and spreads light.   Be sure to subscribe to catch the new episodes as they drop each week!   Blessings! 

Coaches Rising
24 - Patricia Albere: Evolutionary Relationships

Coaches Rising

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2018 41:47


24 - Patricia Albere: Evolutionary Relationships by Coaches Rising

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Fire it up with CJ
Mutual Awakening (Patricia Albere)

Fire it up with CJ

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2018 50:50


CJ interviews author Patricia Albere on her newest book "Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening". Patricia describes her soul mate connection and how it lead her to find her life's mission. How can we move from our separated consciousness to a collective consciousness? Patricia explains how mutual awakening affects her daily interactions with others and how it's different than doing individual practices (e.g.- meditation, yoga, etc).This show is broadcast live on Wednesday's 4PM ET on W4WN Radio – The Women 4 Women Network (www.w4wn.com) part of Talk 4 Radio (http://www.talk4radio.com/) on the Talk 4 Media Network (http://www.talk4media.com/).2

Relationship Alive!
131: How Love is Evolving You - Evolutionary Relationships with Patricia Albere

Relationship Alive!

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2018 69:52


When you start a relationship, something special becomes possible, something unique that the world has never known before. However - how do you figure out what that “something special” is? And how can your love be a vehicle for actually helping us evolve? This episode is an invitation to you to step into an experience of “shared consciousness” - what happens when you’re able to explore the space created between you and another person. Our guest is Patricia Albere, founder of the Evolutionary Collective and author of Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening. Patricia has been guiding others on this path for years, exploring the edges of how consciousness shifts when two (or more) people step into it together. In her book, and in this episode, we talk about the practical aspects of her work - how it translates into higher levels of connectedness, personal growth, healing, feeling supported, and supporting others. And we also talk about some of the fundamental principles that are required when you want to explore and experiment with your partner (or others in your life who are up for the journey). Here is a link to the first appearance of Patricia Albere on Relationship Alive: Episode 6 - How to Deepen Intimacy through Shared Consciousness. And, as always, I’m looking forward to your thoughts on this episode and what revelations and questions it creates for you. Join us in the Relationship Alive Community on Facebook to chat about it! Resources: Check out Patricia Albere's website Read Patricia’s new book, Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening FREE Relationship Communication Secrets Guide www.neilsattin.com/patricia2 Visit to download the transcript, or text “PASSION” to 33444 and follow the instructions to download the transcript to this episode with Patricia Albere Amazing intro/outro music graciously provided courtesy of: The Railsplitters - Check them Out Transcript: Neil Sattin: Hello and welcome to another episode of Relationship Alive. This is your host, Neil Sattin. What we're trying to do with this show is create a change in culture, and for the purposes of our conversation here, most of that change has to do with how we relate to our partners, our lovers, our spouses, our boyfriends and girlfriends and other friends. That's the foundation of the conversation that we're having here, and we're part of a larger conversation about how we relate to each other in the world in general. Neil Sattin: In order to talk more about that and where our relatedness is going, how to take conventional relationships and actually turn them into something that's deeper, more fulfilling, more enlivening, and part of the evolution of our species and our culture, I brought in someone really special who was here in the early days of the podcast. Her name is Patricia Albere and she is here on the heels of releasing her new book, Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening. Neil Sattin: She was on Relationship Alive way back in episode six, and if you're interested in hearing that episode you can go to neilsattin.com/patricia and that will take you there so you can hear what we talked about the first time she was on the show. We may take a moment this time around to talk a little bit about mutual awakening and how to do it, which is something that we talked about back then, but otherwise we are going to dive even more deeply into the skills of relatedness and how to create something even more amazing as you explore the shared consciousness created between you and your partner, or you and someone else with whom you feel that spark of an evolutionary relationship. We're going to talk about what that means in just a moment. Neil Sattin: If you are interested in downloading the transcript and action guide for this episode, you can do that at neilsattin.com/patricia2, that's the name Patricia and the number 2, or as always, you can text the word PASSION to the number 33444 and follow the instructions, and that will get you all the information that you need. Okay, I think that's it for now. Patricia Albere, thank you so much for joining us again here today on Relationship Alive. Patricia Albere: I am just smiling, I'm just so happy to be with you and to be able to have another conversation about something that we're both passionate about. Neil Sattin: Yes. I don't want to set an unrealistic expectation but I will say that after our last conversation, I just remember this so clearly. I got off Skype and I went and found Chloe, my wife, and I was just like, "That was probably the most powerful conversation I've had up until that point." You know, it was just so expansive and it's such a treat to be able to have you back here today. Patricia Albere: Thank you. Neil Sattin: The title of your book, it's called Evolutionary Relationships, and I don't think we can really talk about the practice of mutual awakening and all of the activating principles - we will hopefully cover some of those on today's conversation - without talking about what you even mean about evolutionary relationship. How is that different than the kind of relationships that we're used to having and why is it so important? Patricia Albere: Great question. Evolutionary relationship, you can approach it from a couple of different angles. One is evolutionary. We are lucky enough as human beings to be conscious of the fact that evolution exists, that we're actually headed somewhere. For thousands of years no one had that concept at all. I mean basically we were just on the planet, we were living, we were doing whatever we were doing, and for the most part time and the movement of time was very ... It looked like things weren't even changing. Like most people's children did the same thing they did. Patricia Albere: If you think of thousands and thousands of years, the sense of no change was pretty strong. For us, we are now living at a time where the quality of change and how everything is moving is so crazily intense. Every day scientists are discovering things, there's technology. I mean it's like the newness of what is occurring and how we are hooking up and even consciousness itself is evolving, that to be connected to the fact that your relationships too are evolving, love is evolving. Patricia Albere: We think love is just some eternal expression between human beings that has been the same forever, and actually love itself is evolving. For relationships, the evolutionary quality of relationships, I talked about in the first chapter, first or second chapter, I can't remember, talking about Maslow's hierarchy. If you look at relationships from Maslow's hierarchy of needs, some relationships, none of it is bad or good, it's just different. You can have a romantic or a marriage type relationship where in a way it's at the basic needs of Maslow at the bottom, it turns into logistics. Patricia Albere: Sex is kind of very basic, you have a home together, you take care of things, you get food, you have meals, you get a new car, there can be a quality where much of the relationship starts getting devoted to just the survival needs of what it means to live together. Just even saying that sometimes you're like, "Ooh". You can feel when your relationship is sort of slipped into, that that becomes the dominant. Patricia Albere: Even if you're doing it at a high level of going on vacations and getting another fabulous car, or something else, it becomes kind of on a survival level and the relatedness is not very awake and expanded, and there aren't tons of potentials that are going to show up between you. Patricia Albere: Next level up you would move into safety and security. Most people navigate that in their relationships to feel safe, safe psychologically and physically with each other, and secure and able to trust. Next level up is belonging, a sense of being loved. Some relationships never get beyond sort of like third level up which is just that just to be loved and to feel like you have a sense of belonging, you belong to one another, is the scope and the territory of the level of relatedness which is also important and wonderful, but it isn't on the edge of evolution. Patricia Albere: Evolution is always pushing into the newness into what's possible for human beings. An evolutionary relationship is like where our human potentials and possibilities are evolving into, moving into. As you move up the scale, I went through the whole thing, but on that higher levels, there's the two higher levels, one is called actualization. You can be with a partner where you experience empowering one another to really actualize your potentials to both be successful in the world, to make a difference or whatever it is that you have a value for in that way, and to love each other from more of a place of abundance rather than need. Patricia Albere: Instead of just "I need this" or "I need a relationship for the various things", you start to feel like an overflow, like you actually have a lot to give and you can give to one another. Neil Sattin: Right. In our first conversation we talked about how in that kind of relationship you can even be taking a stand for each other, like, "I'm taking a stand for you being the best you could possibly be." Patricia Albere: Yes, definitely. I think a lot of the current things, you know, the courses and conversations, and the things that you can do are very much about empowering that sense of actualization where you have two independent human beings who are self-authoring. They're trying to really fulfill themselves, their higher purpose, their sense of self, their interior sense of self, and that you have two people loving each other from being more actualized whether it's in the world or also in your own consciousness and development. Patricia Albere: The evolutionary relationship is taking it a step further which is something that not everybody needs to do but some of us need to. If evolution is going to continue to move, the thing that is worth knowing is that it isn't just about relationship, evolution itself is happening through human consciousness and human relationship at this point. We aren't creating new creatures, in fact we're eliminating many of them. Patricia Albere: Evolution isn't fooling around with "how do we have new species", where it's interested, where the push is in the entire movement of billions of years of evolution is human consciousness is where it's happening. Where it's happening in human consciousness is no longer with just people's individual consciousness, that's been being worked with for the last few thousand years. Individual enlightenment, personal transformation, individual salvation through like religion and stuff has been - Neil Sattin: Right, that's old news. Patricia Albere: Kind of. The way I see it, that's been going on. We've been doing that for a few thousand years, somewhat, I guess okay, and we're failing in a lot of it, but that's not new. Science is pointing to that we're not separate objects, that actually the only thing that's real is exchanging. There's no there there, there's no atom. We think there's little billiard balls that we're made of. When they go down to the root of the root of what's there, they don't find anything, what they find is exchange. These little balls of exchanging energies. If you want to translate that, that is relating. What that is, is relationship and relating. Patricia Albere: Ultimately, all there is, is relating on the most fundamental levels, and the way that humans can begin to push the consciousness, awaken to and begin to be a part of, being able to manage the kind of consciousness that we need to start to get access to, kind of like atomic fusion, is what is the space between us, what is actually happening in the space between humans and how can we lean into and become awake to, and sensitive to reality together. Neil Sattin: I'm curious to know a couple of things, one is do you recall when you first became aware that that was what was happening? That there was this space between a shared consciousness that was where evolution was taking us. Was there like an "aha" moment for you around that? Patricia Albere: Yes. I didn't know about the evolutionary part until later, but my path has always been I'm like taken into experiences and then 10 years later I understand what happened. I guess I'm mystic at heart, I'm willing to not know. I'm sure I probably shared a bit of it on the first conversation that we had, but it happened in a relationship. There was a man named Peter who was a beautiful German mystic, and we fell in love and came together. His obsession for awakening and for enlightenment was from the moment he woke up all the way through his sleep. He never was interested in anything other than that and he never stopped paying attention to awakening, to consciousness, to being fully present in every moment. He was pretty obsessed. Patricia Albere: For me, I had had a background of working with thousands of people and I think my heart, my ability to love was very developed. I had a childhood that ... A great mom. My heart was very available. When we came together and I am convinced that he is my twin soul, it was one of those things that you couldn't not recognize and you couldn't not be in. The magnet that pulls us together was not ... There was no choice, it was choiceless. Patricia Albere: Our being together, what happened was was as we said yes to one another and we were so focused on each other and the space that was happening between us, and with his meditative consciousness and my capacity and attunement to love and the energies and what's going on there, and then just the way we felt about each other, we were so made one, and 24/7 we were always aware of what was happening. There was never a moment where he was unaware of what was happening with me, what was happening with us and vice versa. We never were separate, we never went in to like, "I'm just me over here, and he is just him over there, and I don't really know what's going on." Patricia Albere: Most relationships, if people look are pretty separate. There's times of relating, it's always sort of there, but a lot of the time we're functioning on two separate tracks a lot. Especially in that actualized level, you're very focused on your own separate track even though you love each other and you're supporting each other. This was being what I call interpenetrated, like we were completely inside each other and inside of this relatedness that we were together. Patricia Albere: I had four years of that before he was in a car accident, and he was brain injured, then eventually he died. I was in something where we were opening and being taken somewhere. Evolution was definitely having a field day with us. I felt it, I felt like I'd look at him sometimes like we'd make love or something would happen and I would look at him and I'd go, "Oh my god." I felt like love itself had just gone some place where it had never been before. Patricia Albere: Sometimes it felt more like it was just beautiful, and full and amazing, but there were times where I could actually feel the newness of existence finding new pathways because we were so available. Just like if you were two great tennis players, like if you're two genius tennis players, sometimes tennis goes some place where tennis has never been before. It was pretty exciting to have that in the level of relatedness. Patricia Albere: For me when I later found out many years later about evolution and about the edge of evolution, and about consciousness, I could see that what I had experienced with him was part of the future of where we were headed. Where not just couples were headed, but that the multiple beloved. There is a way to be connected that has that mystical dimension, that has our divinity being evoked as much as even more than just our humanity and our limitations. That's pretty exciting. Neil Sattin: Yes. When I hear that what I am brought to is thinking about the capacity that we have to experience the miracle of life, the blessing of interrelatedness to bring that into even just our simple day-to-day interactions which brings a quality of aliveness that once you experience it I think it's challenging to be like, "Yeah, I'm just gonna go back to paying the bills and pretending this doesn't exist." Patricia Albere: It's true. There's even a more, to me, kind of exciting opportunity in all of it for those of us who are drawn to love, drawn to pay attention to relatedness as you are, as we are, and I'm sure the people that are obviously listening to this. The thing that's so exciting that I didn't know when I was with Peter was the quality of the consciousness that we were developing was different than nondual consciousness. Those people who have done a lot of meditation and a lot of work in nondual quality of consciousness which is usually what people consider being enlightened or awake. Patricia Albere: It's completely different than that. There's actually a new kind of consciousness that's absolutely enlightened but it's not that. When they do brain studies they can actually see that when you're meditating which is by yourself with your eyes closed in silence, you are learning how to let go of thinking, you're learning how to move into a certain state where they find that the mind when they measure it, you're letting go of your particular relationship to the world. You go into a deep state of relaxation and the brain goes into a certain place. Patricia Albere: When you're doing the kind of practices that we're doing, that I'm practicing and working with people where it's like super focus with the other, with the space between, your brain goes into this amazingly other place, it ignites different lobes and parietal. I don't remember the names of all of it but it activates your brain in such a way that it goes into a place of flow, it goes into a place of like joy and positive love, like different kinds of experiences and energies that lift people. Lift their mood and lift their stabilization there, and it also allows them to be incredibly engaged in the world. Patricia Albere: Like you're in contact with this kind of intimacy, and love and care for the trees, for your kids. The feeling of intimacy, like everything is touching everything, like you feel like you're inside your cat when your petting their fur, like you're both the fur and the cat. It makes sense because ultimately with love or lovers, people that have studied tantra, you experience your lover, you're like inside them experiencing their experience, your experience and then something else simultaneously. This consciousness is that. Patricia Albere: I think it's way more attuned to eyes open, moving around in this world, and it is what is necessary. It's a kind of flow state rather than just being in yourself, focused on your higher purpose, focused on how you feel, grounded in your body. All of that is good but it's so separate, and it's not like, "You know, as long I am completely focused on my own subjective experience, and how I feel, and how I'm moving, and what I want and where I'm headed and all the rest of it", I'm not all of that related. Patricia Albere: That makes a certain kind of flow not possible, it also makes the fact that 7.5 billion people right now moving towards 10 billion in 2050, to me, evolution is not that interested in everyone individually really knowing themselves only, it's not going to really work. Neil Sattin: It's going to be a lot of life coaches. Patricia Albere: Oh my god, we're going to have a problem. We need to learn how to be like those sports teams, and the people that, well we see them become like one organism, and then spectacularly empowered to be individuals within it. Like the way basketball team that's really got that oneness, all the team members are like knocking it out of the park but they're not operating individually, there's this oneness of the way that they're flowing and moving together that's tastable. My work is about ... We've hacked into how do you bring people into that level of consciousness and relatedness without having to have like a basketball or a violin. Neil Sattin: There are two places I want to go right now, one is giving you listening a taste of what we're talking about, like how this actually happens, and then there's the question that's in my mind around like how do you know if a certain person that you're interacting with, how do you know if this evolutionary potential is there between the two of you? Patricia Albere: Interesting. The first thing would be, as we've talked about, people can download a couple of chapters of the book in evolutionarycollective.com. You personally need to first go, "What is she talking about? And who am I in relationship to this?" If it starts to make more and more sense, if you feel like you're a candidate or maybe you're quoted for this edge of evolution, to understand more about it and to begin to experience it for yourself. Patricia Albere: There are ways that we take people into the practice. There are certain practices like meditation that give you a very powerful experience of being in this consciousness with another human being who's also interested in being the consciousness with you, because you need two people that are mutually interested which is one of the great things and it's one of the problems because you can't do it by yourself. You can't just do it with anybody. If you have somebody sitting across from you who's kind of going, "I don't really wanna do this and I don't really wanna be here", it's not going to work. Patricia Albere: The first thing is find out for yourself, then from there ... You read the book together, you could start to do the practices, you could then begin to invite someone into like, "Would you be willing to experiment with me and see, and see what happens for us?", like you and your wife, and start to see if something begins to open in a way that is compelling for both of you. Neil Sattin: Actually you were just mentioning talking about the brain activity that might be involved in this kinds of practice. We just released an interview with Alex Katehakis who, she focuses mainly on addiction, and sex, and love addiction, and the power of relatedness in healing the pathways that went offline and that created an opportunity for addiction to emerge in a person. I can imagine this practice will have an enormous healing potential for connection, like if you're in a place that feels really disconnected from your partner if you can invite them into it in a way where they feel like, "Yeah, I'm willing to give that a whirl." Neil Sattin: The kind of presence with each other that we're talking about, and we'll get a little bit more into that I think, offers a healing experience when you're bringing those parts of your brain back online. This is total speculation, but it must be that when you set up that kind of resonance that's what allows this shared consciousness to happen. Patricia Albere: Yes, definitely. It was so amazing. I just came from teaching for like almost eight days or nine days which isn't usual, I mean normally I have some breaks in between. We have the people that are very, very interested in what can happen between people who are really inside this way of practicing and want to work together instead on their personal work. We have 100 people who are doing these kinds of practices with each other and just spent five days together in a retreat. Patricia Albere: They're practicing all year long and we meet a couple of times a year, so we're building this quality of the beloved, of this amazing ridiculous-like levels of our nervous systems getting hooked up. What you're saying is, like the people that understand attachment theory and the various kinds of ways in which people develop, this is first of all like when people are inside of something that's large like that and the level of connectedness is so absolute, the pathways around not having had healthy attachment, and not being able to trust, and not being able to relax literally start getting handled without even paying attention to it. Patricia Albere: So you're not actually processing that stuff, you're actually in a larger nervous system that's already stabilizing and harmonizing and regulating you which is crazy powerful as far as healing people. We're not doing it for that reason but that is happening. The other thing ... One of the most exciting things that's happened at least up until this week, the group is from all over, everybody came. There are people from Japan, and Australia, and Europe, and New York, and Vermont, and California. Patricia Albere: We were all together and we've all been working together for anywhere as from one to eight years, there are people that have been in that. What started to happen, we were all together is you know how like when you're working with someone, and consciousness-wise, they can all of a sudden shift their consciousness and become totally silent or totally focused, or they could drop into a certain kind of depth reliably? You can just point the there and they go, "Whop", and they kind of go there. Patricia Albere: Our collective being, because it actually feels like something that's bigger than us, literally has new skills. It was amazing. We could be in this powerful sense of unification, and focus and depth of love, and then if I said something you could tell if somebody started to think, there was a tiny bit of fragmentation, I could just point to it and it would just be like, "Woo." Patricia Albere: The level of unity. One of the women shared this morning, we had a call earlier, she said she's always felt like a little bit afraid to speak up for herself in certain situations that are challenging. She always thought she should and blah, blah, blah, and she said there is something that is so powerfully in her now that she can't not. Almost like something was, some strength was placed - in her level of not being alone, her level of this consciousness connection that we have, she's standing on something that she never stood on before and it's changing her behavior. Which is kind of cool! Neil Sattin: Yes, very cool. Bringing that back to the context of romantic relationship, it's very common that the battles that emerge are around actually fighting for connection, fighting to prove that you're not alone, and it can feel like you're really alone. Again, I can just imagine how creating a backdrop of connectedness has such a powerful impact on the level of trust in relationship as one example. Patricia Albere: Yes. Part of what the practices are, I mean there is a main one but there are some different things, is where you learn to make the connection is not on the surface, it's not on the personality level, it's not even on that subtle connection level where you're feeling your heart, and there's like a deeper place that people usually are trained to connect from. We're actually moving it from the subtle to this causal dimension which is the deepest origination point of that particular human being and yourself. Patricia Albere: When I can work with people I can get them to drop into this place, and from that place you're not solid. You're like this opening of who you are that's very particular but it's not a solid object, it's like what the scientists are saying - you're like this space of potential as Neil. When you and I connect from that deepest opening that you are, and you can see into the deepest place of where I am, and we literally start to connect from there, two spaces could connect, two fragrances can connect, two stones can't. Things that are solid can't actually interpenetrate. Patricia Albere: When you start to build that level of the we, like you literally become a new kind of wine. Your grape and my grape, we become Merlot. When you're deepening and deepening into that, now does it mean that your personality and the crazy things that drive each other crazy go away? No. We still have separatenesses that are still going to operate but we have that to ... That becomes louder and louder and a place to return to and stand on. So that when you're dealing with the things that are different and challenging, you don't lose each other, you do it from being connected instead of separate. Patricia Albere: Most arguments are completely separate. That's why people love having fights and making love because when you make love and you all of a sudden go, "Oh, it's you, it's me. You know, I remember you. You know, you don't look like the evil guy who's making me crazy." You go back to that place where the real connection is, and we have a very sophisticated but powerful way to just have humans find that, nurture that, deepen that because that's also where divinity arises from. Patricia Albere: We include our human limitations and failings, but there's some source that I know Peter and I found where I felt myself as more beautiful, and more powerful. It was like I was almost witnessing her as he was. It was like some way of me being myself that I had never experienced nor had I ever been received in that way. My work is really devoted to deepening that for people, exploring that not as a spiritual bypass kind of thing but as making that louder and louder, and clearer, and more rich and substantial so that the other levels of us are kind of put more in their place. They're not everything. Neil Sattin: Yes. We have had Jett Psaris on the show, one of the authors of Undefended Love, I'm not sure if her conversation will have aired by the time. We may do this one first. One of the places that she comes from, I'm not sure if you're familiar with her work at all is basically getting couples to the place where they're able to be totally open and vulnerable with each other. Neil Sattin: When we're young we start out from a place like that and then we end up suffering some wound or something happens that creates a crack in the veneer of everything being one and perfect which gives us a really hard emotional internal experience. From that our personality emerges which she talks about as basically all of our ego structures that are about protecting us from the experience, from what we're afraid will happen if we're that vulnerable again. Neil Sattin: Her practice is a lot about going inwards when you feel that fear happening, that closing happening. I love that this is almost like the equal and opposite approach to very similar way of getting at the essential self. Like what is there beneath the veneer of personality. Patricia Albere: Yes. It's interesting because as you're speaking I'm realizing the direct access to the core which actually is findable  - interestingly -  I don't know why but it's almost like giving people ... Like if you're doing remote viewing and you give them coordinates. The coordinate of finding this deepest place in oneself is actually findable even though people think they can't, they find it. Neil Sattin: Is that something we could talk about now? Patricia Albere: I'm just saying when you find that and you deepen into that then when stuff comes up there's a way in the way that we practice where we turn towards whatever is there together. If I'm feeling defended, I'm feeling hard like cardboard, and I'm sensing into like the phenomenological reality of feeling separate. That would happen with Peter, sometimes we'd go, "Wow, it feels really flat." We'd go, "Yeah, it does, doesn't it?" we were like kids, like we were so curious about whatever was there, we didn't have like a certain kind of preference that it had to be always profound or deep. Patricia Albere: Whatever was there, we were like we wanted to be close to that, and we wanted to be close together with it. When you turn that way towards whatever is there even if it's a weird defensive thing, it seems to unravel, it tends to show itself without you trying to do anything, and it tends to, in my experience, the power of things dissolving in the face of "the two" being with it instead of it's just my process and and it's my stuff. It's exciting because it moves very quickly and it feels different when you're not just by yourself working on your stuff. Neil Sattin: Yes. It feels to me like there's alchemy in the space. Patricia Albere: Yes, that's a good way of saying it, interesting. Yes, definitely. Part of what I'm excited about too, I mean I've worked for 40 years with people with their individual work, and I love people, and I've always been committed to people being able to express their highest, deepest selves and why they're here. For the people who are able to not make it all about them and want to explore the edges of where evolutionary relationships could go and what's possible together, what I find is that the kind of activation and healing, and empowering people to move forward is just a hundred times more powerful, and it makes sense. Patricia Albere: If I was creating the universe, instead of having everybody selfishly working on themselves individually forever as the fastest mode, that wouldn't make sense. It makes sense that if we somehow find a way to come together that everything goes faster, that we're rewarded for that makes sense to me. Neil Sattin: Yes. Patricia Albere: It's more efficient, it's kind of like I can't build a house by myself, if we're like a hundred people we can do it. Neil Sattin: Honestly, I'm also thinking about the power, like in the power of relatedness. I was just reading a book by Deborah Tannen about friendships among women, and it was talking about this girl who, she was on the autism spectrum, and seemingly incurable and getting worse. No amount of therapy, no amount of intervention from a teacher, like nothing was helping, and then she made a friend who actually accepted her. I think they connected around horses or something like that, and did this amazing turnaround where she went from being completely shut down to being open, socially engaged. Neil Sattin: It was like the power of healing that was there in the relatedness versus trying to fix something, or cure something. Patricia Albere: That's so beautiful. Here's another thing I'll throw in that you'll probably appreciate. I don't know if everyone will appreciate this. In this evolutionary piece, when you think about evolution there are jumps to evolution. We went from nothing to matter, so there was geosphere, there was just this dead planet here, and then from a dead planet life showed up which is kind of crazy, like how did that happen. There are jumps that just are completely miraculous. From dead matter to life, and then from life, from single celled creatures, we have Einstein, we have geniuses and human beings, and plants, and birds and everything come to life, and then humans with consciousness which is just a miracle. Patricia Albere: From humans, we have what he calls the thinking layer. Teilhard de Chardin called that the noosphere , he said we go from the biosphere which is life and human life, to the thinking layer which is the noosphere which is all of culture, and language, and art, and philosophy, and psychology, everything that you're talking about on your show, and love. All of that he called the noosphere, and you can see it in the internet, you can see the physicality of this noosphere, hooking up, hooking up, hooking up, so that we have omnsicience. We can know anything anytime, we can contact each other. Patricia Albere: If the aliens land outside my house like in the next five minutes, if I captured it on my phone, the whole world will know in about 10 minutes. If it was real, but it was compelling enough, billions of people would be focused on the same image and the same words in a heartbeat. It is unbelievable. That didn't even exist 10 years ago, and we are hooking up, hooking up, hooking up, right? People have it on their phones. Patricia Albere: The noosphere was the next layer that evolution was innovating and is obviously pretty excited about. The next one is what I'm going to call the spondic sphere. Spondic love, the term is this experience of I am, may you be. In the way that we practice there's this experience of love, and when you love someone, it comes from some place that's deeper than your personality loving them. There's almost like this cosmic energy that wants to just go, "Ha, I want you to have everything. You know, like I love you, I love you." You just want to imbue them with everything. We feel that for our children. Sometimes our heart bursts into this kind of empowerment that is deeper than just human love. Patricia Albere: You can feel it when you're on the other end of spondic love, it is palpable, you actually feel like part of your life just got made because this person loves you from a place that they're in and for you in a way that's real. This mutual spondic love which is also part of the consciousness that we're working with and the consciousness that I think is next, I think that the next place of innovation will be that kind of love where we, instead of being separate, instead of not being even neutral towards each other and just surviving on our own, or competing or actively using each other and stomping on each other. Patricia Albere: This spondic quality of love and connectivity will be the foundation for a ridiculous amount of miracles, innovation, creativity, coming together, working together, doing things that can't be done, et cetera, et cetera, that's going to be the next explosion of where evolution is going to be working. Neil Sattin: I'm going to ask a hard question here which is what's the place of monogamous relationships in the birthing of this interconnectedness and this evolutionary consciousness. Patricia Albere: I think when you are in fact with your twin soul, it doesn't happen a lot, but when it happens, there is nowhere to go, there really isn't. Even if they ended up marrying someone else they are yours. You are so one and there is nowhere you want to be. The kind of sexuality, the kind of love and the depth that's shared, there's no desire for anyone else because the newness of love, and the depth, and the profundity of what's there is just crazy unfolding between you. You'd have to be crazy to want to actually go and try to be with someone that you didn't have that with. Maybe you eat the best food in the world and then you decide to go have a- Neil Sattin: Have a burger. Patricia Albere: McDonald's hamburger. I don't know why did I even want to do that. Neil Sattin: It's just interesting because it sounds like the experience, because we're talking about being able to evoke this kind of consciousness in an exercise with a partner, and yet it is creating the experience of deep, deep love and interconnectedness. Patricia Albere: There is still a discernment. The thing that I find with the groups of people is, what happens is because everyone is so starving for being seen for any kind of real depth and relatedness, the moment someone sees you deeply you think you want to have sex with them or that you love them. It's so pathetic, I mean we're so starving as humans, and it's nobody's fault. We live in a world of separation. People don't look at each other, we literally live in so much separation and isolation that we don't even realize that it doesn't have to be normal. Patricia Albere: What happen is is like in the people that I'm working with intensively, I remember two people and they're both married to other people, they did a practice and they went somewhere, and they both came out and you look at them and you were like, "Whoa, what just happened?" They've gone to a level of love and depth that they didn't ever even experience with their partners. Patricia Albere: Initially they were kind of like, "I don't know, you know, what do I do with that?" It was a man and a woman, and I just said keep allowing it, keep holding, and then more of that started to happen in the group. Part of what comes through then as you begin to create these deeper connections and you're being so nourished and so seen and you realize how abundant that is, you can then bring that to your partner. You don't have to go being, what do they call it, polyamorous. Patricia Albere: Polyamory is a lot of work, to try to juggle. You have to have no life I think. To navigate one relationship is hard enough as you know, if you're trying to navigate with depth, and with openness, and transparency and honesty, two relationships or more, that takes a ridiculous amount of real energy and work. I respect it, I think that there is some newness, something that's opening there and people are learning and growing within that, so I'm not condemning that, I'm just saying I don't think that ultimately that's where we're headed, not at all. Because you can experience profound connection without having to have sex with everybody. Neil Sattin: Thank you. Patricia Albere: You're welcome. Neil Sattin: This really makes me want to dive in to some of your activating principles. Neil Sattin: Great. Patricia, like I mentioned in our first episode together, we talked about the mutual awakening practice. Could you give us just a quick like 30 second rundown. If you're going to try it with your partner, this is how you try it. Then we can talk about some of the principles that make it so unique in terms of your approach and how to really deepen in that experience. Patricia Albere: I honestly, I can't do a 10-minute version of how to do it, I can't because it wouldn't really help and if people tried to do it from there it wouldn't work anyway. You need to know enough of where to come from, you need to take the time because otherwise ... People do it from the superficial level of self, it's pointless, it wouldn't do anything. Again, if they just go to evolutionarycollective.com and they at least download the first three chapters that will start them on their way. If they listen to the other interview that we did that will help as well. If they're genuinely curious, they're going to need to invest some time and energy in actually discovering what this is and how it works for real. Patricia Albere: The activating principles which are in the book, the chapters in the book are basically mostly dedicated to not only how to do it but then how do you turn it on, how do you continue ... If you were to do it with your wife you would start to learn how to do it and then you could take a chapter and work with that for awhile to open it, to make it even more full, and to continue to work through the pieces. Patricia Albere: One of them is engagement. It's simple but when your turns towards each other, to really recognize how fully engaged are you and how much more can you open and give yourself into the connection. If people just think about that for a moment, the next time they listen to their small child...how engaged are you? Are you just sort of passively listening, being polite, being a good parent and hoping that it won't take too long, or do you actually go over where their enthusiasm is, get inside their little six-year-old consciousness, try to really enter into them and engage fully in what it is that they're actually experiencing? That's one of them. Patricia Albere: In life, you don't have to know how the practice works, to just pay attention to the engagement not as someone as separate but can you get inside them, can you be inside their world and then connect. That turns something on. When people are, when you're inside their world with them and then getting engaged, something happens that's different than if you're just listening from over where you are. Neil Sattin: Can you talk about how that interacts with the next activating principle of commitment in terms of your committedness to staying inside as you work through whatever comes up. Patricia Albere: That's a little bit bigger. If you created an evolutionary relationship, if you are practicing with each other, if you're entering into this interpenetrated consciousness, consciousness where instead of ... Most people have a subjective experience where "I feel this", and if I'm vulnerable I'll let you in on how I feel, I'll share it with you and you compassionately listen and usually relate to it from yourself - from the way you feel like that - which is still we're very separate. Patricia Albere: Interpenetrating is where you learn how to place your consciousness. This is like against all the boundary stuff, but you actually go inside and you feel the other as they feel themselves. You feel me as I actually feel myself. There's a way that I guide people into how do you actually do that. When that level of relatedness is being developed and built, from there and from a commitment to each other, then the committed-ness make sense. Patricia Albere: Like if something happens or if you do something that's driving me crazy, instead of me working it out in my head by myself and then announcing to you how I'm going to deal with it, or announcing to you that I'm leaving you, I'll let you know what I worked out for myself. I stay inside with you and I share with you, and we kind of go in together into what the resistance is, what the concern is. We do it from being inside the commitment to each other, and to the relationship, and to the experience that's actually there. I don't do it as a separate something. Does that makes sense to you? Neil Sattin: Yes. What you're committing to is that you're involved in a process that you're co-creating, and so the act of going off on your own to figure something out is a step away from what could emerge if you gave that thing to the process that you're in. Patricia Albere: Yes, right, and that we'll share it. It doesn't mean anyone is going to be perfect, it doesn't mean that we won't disturb each other in different ways, but that we bring it forth, and we bring it in, and we bring it towards, instead of that it's a function of separation. When you have that spondic relationship too, when you activate that in and for each other, that also makes it a lot safer. Neil Sattin: Then you can actually be invested in the truth without it being something that's about separating. Patricia Albere: Yes, totally. Neil Sattin: Obviously we won't have time to talk about this whole topic but I didn't want to end this conversation without being able to talk for a moment about trust. I love the way that you articulate the different levels of trust. The level that you call basic trust, how that feeds into the way that we trust each other, and then the generative trust that leads to your trust growing and the expectation of it being potentially a little messy that's included there. Neil Sattin: I'm wondering of you could just explain, because I think what would really be helpful for our listeners is if they could come away from this with a sense of what basic trust is, and then let's see where that takes us as we wrap up this conversation. Patricia Albere: You keep asking me for the one-minute version of something that takes like- Neil Sattin: I'm bad, I know I'm so bad. Patricia Albere: The basic trust is obviously - there's one of the chapters that goes through that, relative trust and generative trust. There's a course that I have online that's in evergreen that people can buy that has two whole sessions dedicated to the basic trust part. To do the very simple version is basic trust is something that we have when we're born, until it's disturbed there's this sense of being connected to the flow of life where we feel like ... It's without thought, it's like things are going to work out. Patricia Albere: If you get fed, you get off, you get a little frustrated and you get fed, and somebody picks you up. Different things are happening without too much frustration, you tend to grow up to be a human being who has some sense of being relaxed in life. Even if something is hard that's happening, you kind of sense that it's going to work out or you're going to figure out a way through it. Patricia Albere: The people that have basic trust interfered with, they constantly are not getting what they need, they tense up and their egos are wired to try to make it all happen themselves. Ultimately, when basic trust is restored, you relax and life unfolds. Actually, faith, true faith, the kind that saints have, is basic trust restored, and that's full relaxation. You actually feel utterly okay being in the world that even when things don't go well. Patricia Albere: It's unbelievably important, it shapes your relationship to absolutely everything, and it's one of those concepts that when you find out about it and you begin to work with it, it can change your whole life. It's super important. Obviously with the hundred people, that is what is partly being restored. Neil Sattin: Right. That feeds into, if you can operate from that place then it makes that that much easier to have relative trust which you talk about as the way that two people learn to trust each other based on their agreements, and their humility, and their expectations. Again in your book, Evolutionary Relationships, it's such a compelling read because for one thing, it's not like an entire book about trust, but it also distills it in such a way that I think makes it really real and practical for you to examine. Neil Sattin: This is an area like for instance, "my relationship has tons of trust based on our commitment, but we don't actually have the capacity to communicate in order to keep our trust intact", and so we have to increase our capacities. I love how you do that. What I love too is how it evolves to this generative trust and I think this is one of the hardest things in relationship because people expect like, "Oh, we're going for it and we're really deep and we're connecting, and we're interpenetrating with each other, then all of our problems are gonna go away." Patricia Albere: Yes, not so. Neil Sattin: How did that emerge for you, that concept of generative trust and why that's so important. Patricia Albere: Having worked with people forever and just having been in relationship, I mean the clarity around that was just given. Because you have to manage all of it. The relative trust is also important. If you have somebody who never keeps their word no matter how deep the connection is, you're not going to trust them and you shouldn't because they're not trustable. Neil Sattin: Right, or if they don't have the humility to be open to influence. Patricia Albere: Absolutely. People have to also take responsibility for having character, and I think that in some of the post-modern work everybody's working and dealing with their limitations. We get to a point where we just assume everyone is doing the best they can, and people are following the flow. They are following their subjective experience individually, but they're not taking responsibility for being related and actually showing up and having character, and dealing with the impact of a certain lack of integrity in certain ways. That definitely gets addressed in the book. Neil Sattin: Yes. It's funny that there are people like Dale Carnegie who write on and on, and on about how to become trustworthy, how to be someone that other people will turn to for influence. You sum it up pretty well in one chapter. Patricia Albere: Cool, thanks. Neil Sattin: Well, Patricia Albere, thank you so much for taking the time to be with us today on Relationship Alive to dive more deeply into the question of what makes an evolutionary relationship, what's possible. Again, you can visit her website, evolutionarycollective.com where you can download the first three chapters of Patricia's book, Evolutionary Relationships, and also find out more about her work and her trainings. We will have links to Patricia's book and website in the detailed transcript and action guide for this episode which you can get at neilsattin.com/patricia2, or you can text the work PASSION to the number 33444 and follow the instructions. Neil Sattin: Like I said, our first episode together, episode six, we do talk a little bit more about the actual mutual awakening process and I encourage you to check out that episode that we did together as well. In the mean time, thank you so much for joining us, Patricia. Is there anything else? Maybe you could just mention you do in person intensives where people can come and learn this. Patricia Albere: Yes. People that are intrigued by the possibility of being with a cohort of other human beings that are really interested in this quality of relationship, there will be a three-day in New York in April, the 13th through the 15th, we only do those twice a year, it's kind of special. If they sign up for the book, they'll have access to knowing what's happening and then people can, from the menu of what's there, see if something serves them. Thank you and thank you Neil, you do such a good job with this and with bringing just a myriad of ways to empower people with relatedness which I really respect. Neil Sattin: Thank you, I appreciate your saying that. Resources: Check out Patricia Albere's website Read Patricia’s new book, Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening FREE Relationship Communication Secrets Guide www.neilsattin.com/patricia2 Visit to download the transcript, or text “PASSION” to 33444 and follow the instructions to download the transcript to this episode with Patricia Albere Amazing intro/outro music graciously provided courtesy of: The Railsplitters - Check them Out    

Soulful Living on Empower Radio
Evolutionary Relationships with Patricia Albere

Soulful Living on Empower Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2018


For millennia, spirituality has been a deeply personal pursuit – monks on mountaintops and yogis in caves. But the world is more social than ever, and interconnectedness is transforming everything, from our family lives to work. Today, we need a spirituality that focuses more on “we” than “me.” In her bestselling book, Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening, Patricia Albere draws on more than four decades of teaching work to introduce a new spirituality called “mutual awakening” that you can explore with a friend, lover, spouse, or partner. With practices to guide you and lessons to inspire you, this book helps you become more available to yourself, your partner, and our world.

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On The Couch
"Evolutionary Relationship"

On The Couch

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2018 55:00


Whether you need to improve your relationship with a friend, lover, spouse or family member, Dr. Michelle and her guest, Patricia Albere, talk about Patricia's latest book, "Evolutionary Relationships; Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening." In this enlightening interview, you can find out how to become more available to yourself and to those who really matter in your life, as well as to the world in general. Patricia talks about how she has worked with over 200,000 people to help guide them to clarity and consciousness in order to find mutual awaking, more intimacy, truth and depth in their relationships. Find out more about Patricia Albere, and get her book at: evolutionarycollective.com or at patriciaalbere.com

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On The Couch
"Evolutionary Relationship"

On The Couch

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2018 55:00


Whether you need to improve your relationship with a friend, lover, spouse or family member, Dr. Michelle and her guest, Patricia Albere, talk about Patricia's latest book, "Evolutionary Relationships; Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening." In this enlightening interview, you can find out how to become more available to yourself and to those who really matter in your life, as well as to the world in general. Patricia talks about how she has worked with over 200,000 people to help guide them to clarity and consciousness in order to find mutual awaking, more intimacy, truth and depth in their relationships. Find out more about Patricia Albere, and get her book at: evolutionarycollective.com or at patriciaalbere.com

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Embrace Change Radio  with Kate Olson
EP:12 We Are Connected Spirits

Embrace Change Radio with Kate Olson

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2017 55:48


Kate & Michelle interview a guest expert on how to get in touch with your spiritual side and feel more connected and in touch with yourself and others in a collective sense of awareness. Our guest, Patricia Albere, is a fellow Contact Talk Radio host, speaker, spiritual teacher and coach, as well as, the author of Evolutionary Relationships, Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening!

The Daily Evolver
The Power of Mutual Awakening - My conversation with Patricia Albere

The Daily Evolver

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2017 52:48


Hey Folks, Today I'd like to share a conversation I had with one of my favorite evolutionary teachers, Patricia Albere, about her beautiful new book: Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Power of Mutual Awakening. Patricia is the founder of The Evolutionary Collective, a group of committed integral practitioners who are investigating relationship itself as a means of spiritual awakening. I hosted Patricia as she started the Collective several years ago at Boulder Integral. I loved working with her; Patricia has a special, right-on-schedule realization, and the gift of real spiritual leadership in sharing it with others. Here's the blurb I wrote for her book: “Patricia Albere has been conducting basic research into what it is to evolve in mutuality with other people. This book is a report from the frontiers of her explorations. What she has discovered is that love is not just an emotion but an evolutionary force, a force that drives all the fragments of the universe – including us – toward greater connection and wholeness.” You can find out more about Patricia's new book Evolutionary Relationships here. And if you are seriously interested in the practice of mutual awakening, consider buying the book by Sunday, 10/8/17 and you'll get complimentary tuition to her four-part course, Mutual Trust.

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Main Street Universe
The Code Connection - Controlling Emotions and Embracing Creative Power

Main Street Universe

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2016 121:00


Jesse interviews Dr. Linda Gadbois – Visionary artist and founder of Creative Transformations; which is dedicated to providing people with Higher Education and Strategic Intervention that meets and exceeds the highest standards and most modern technologies in the areas of Creative Mind Development, Psychology, Personal Transformation, Professional Development, Communication, the Creative Arts, Consciousness Studies, and Integrative Medicine.  Dr. Gadbois also shares her wisdom in areas such as:  Spiritual Sciences, Evolutionary Relationships, Sacred Sexuality, Health and Wellbeing, Divine Feminine, Creativity, Business, Conscious Dying, Life Purpose, Play Workshops, and Adventure Seminars.  Linda will be sharing her thoughts on dealing with emotions, how to balance them and how to tap into your creative power through a mental emotional balance.  You can learn more about her work at:  http://www.creativetransformations.biz/Index.html   Website:  www.compassioncodes.com Shimshai:  www.shimshai.com

Main Street Universe
The Code Connection - Seeing The Illusion With Dr. Linda Gadbois

Main Street Universe

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2016 109:00


Jesse interviews Dr. Linda Gadbois – Visionary artist and founder of Creative Transformations; which is dedicated to providing people with Higher Education and Strategic Intervention that meets and exceeds the highest standards and most modern technologies in the areas of Creative Mind Development, Psychology, Personal Transformation, Professional Development, Communication, the Creative Arts, Consciousness Studies, and Integrative Medicine.  Dr. Gadbois also shares her wisdom in areas such as:  Spiritual Sciences, Evolutionary Relationships, Sacred Sexuality, Health and Wellbeing, Divine Feminine, Creativity, Business, Conscious Dying, Life Purpose, Play Workshops, and Adventure Seminars.  We will be looking at her work in Crop Circles, Geometric Patterns in life; and Creative Transformation.  You can learn more about her work at:  http://www.creativetransformations.biz/Index.html   Website:  www.compassioncodes.com Shimshai:  www.shimshai.com

Living on Purpose
Patricia Albere, Founder of the Evolutionary Collective, (EC)

Living on Purpose

Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2012 59:42


Jesse Herriott is joined this week by Patricia Albere, the founder of the Evolutionary Collective (EC), a new model for awakened community. Patricia Albere is an internationally recognized transformational educator and contemporary spiritual teacher who is passionate about turning people onto the power of Evolutionary Relationships, as well as the large-scale transformation available through new forms of collective consciousness. For the past 40 years, she has taught from the emerging edge of consciousness, awakening others to the profound depths and infinite wisdom accessed by way of two or more people connected to larger and more powerful evolutionary forces. 

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“Evolution in Consciousness” with Larry Pearlman
Patricia Albere interview 04/19/12

“Evolution in Consciousness” with Larry Pearlman

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2012 55:19


Patricia Albere, internationally recognized transformational educator and contemporary spiritual teacher, will be Larry’s guest on Evolution in Consciousness on April 19. In addition to running and facilitating the Evolutionary Collective, a transformational educational institute dedicated to helping people manifest new levels of creativity, relationship, and collective consciousness, Patricia also hosts her own radio show, Evolutionary Collective Conversations, and teaches Evolutionary Relationships, a 7-week course that allows people to step into a different realm of relating. Tune in to what promises to be an exciting and fast-moving hour

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A Fresh Start Archives - WebTalkRadio.net
A Fresh Start – What the Heck are Evolutionary Relationships; And how does that relate with Depression?

A Fresh Start Archives - WebTalkRadio.net

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2012 55:24


Do you know someone who is depressed and needs support? Communication is key in any relationship. Join Sallie Felton and her husband, Conway as they speak candidly with Patricia Albere who is an internationally recognized pioneer and teacher, championing Evolutionary Relationships in our intimate, social and professional lives — offering a way of experiencing one […] The post A Fresh Start – What the Heck are Evolutionary Relationships; And how does that relate with Depression? appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.

Vibrant Living: Life Coaching With Carla
Evolutionary Relationships Rather Than Romantic, With Patricia Albere

Vibrant Living: Life Coaching With Carla

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2011 60:18


Evolutionary Relationship is our "ideal ' way of interacting that includes love, trust and sharing rather than competition, aggression and jealousy. Our guest, Patricia Albere,.is an internationally recognized pioneer and teacher and she is the founder of the Evolutionary Collective, a transformational education institute focused on discovering what's possible through our connection, collective consciousness and creativity.

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Smart Women Talk Radio
“Evolutionary Relationships!” 07/19/11

Smart Women Talk Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2011 55:33


Patricia Albere, an internationally recognized pioneer and teacher, championing Evolutionary Relationships in our intimate, social and professional lives.

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Wisdom Talk Radio
Evolutionary Relationships: a conversation with Patricia Albere

Wisdom Talk Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 1969 40:41


In 1987, when I was completing my training in the Bonny Method of Guided Imagery and Music, I wrote a paper about the power of relationships for personal transformation. My life has been devoted to the personal and the collective power of transformation. So, when in a chance conversation with Patricia Albere, we began to talk about what is possible for humanity, I immediately invited her have a conversation on Wisdom Talk Radio.1.  the longing that was first ignited in your heart2.  the connection between the intimacy of the relationship between Self and Presence, and the intimacy between people3.  the Mutual Awakening Process and awakening our potential4.  the experience of an Evolutionary RelationshipPatricia Albere is at ground zero of an evolutionary stream of spiritual awakening where we learn to go beyond individual psychology and transformation into a new space of mutual, intersubjective awakening.She is the founder of the Evolutionary Collective, originator of the Mutual Awakening Practice, an internationally known contemporary spiritual teacher, and bestselling author of Evolutionary Relationships: Unleashing the Transformative Power of Mutual Awakening.  Her unique discovery of the essential components that create an awakened ‘we space’ is transforming our understanding of what is possible in the space between us.Find Patricia at: https://evolutionarycollective.com/Find Laurie and the Creative Innovator Quiz at: https://thebacainstitute.com/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/wisdom-talk-radio/donations

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