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In this episode, Kelly harnesses the transformative power of mindset, personal growth, and spirituality in entrepreneurship. Join us as we explore how shifting your perspective, overcoming fear, and tapping into divine guidance can unlock endless opportunities in your life and business. [4:58] Self Help Books "I started reading personal development books, and it started to shift my mindset." [9:12] The Entrepreneurial Space "It is a beautiful magical space when your brain starts thinking all these different things." [16:00] Roots of Relationship "You have to build a foundation." [22:59] Fear as a Barrier "The fear blocks you from opportunities." [28:33] The Divine Control "I am filled with so much gratitude, and that's just like God: God in me, God working through me, and God working throughout me." [32:19] Fearless Action "The only way that you will fail is if you don't do it." Don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe!  Connect with Kelly here: Follow Me on Instagram at @chaselifewithkelly  Follow Me on TikTok at @iamkellychase Subscribe to My YouTube Channel Goddess Magic Program Kelly's Favorites Visit Our Website!

For 50 years, Marcia Naomi Berger, 79, has experienced a journey from madness to love and meaning. Her first manic episode was at 29, when she was already a well-respected licensed clinical social worker - an experienced psychotherapist well-trained in cognitive-behavioral, family systems, process, and psychodynamic approaches. She draws from many treatment approaches to fit the needs of her clients. Naomi's life changed abruptly when she experienced the first of two difficult hospitalizations. While her early upbringing was difficult and influenced her decision to become a therapist and concentrate on relationships, nothing prepared Naomi for a diagnosis of bipolar disorder. From that moment on she was determined to write a book about this difficult, shame-inducing condition. Everytime she took pen in hand, she found she could only get so far and would put it away. It was only in May of this year that she accomplished her goal and The Bipolar Therapist was published. Prior to that, Naomi published two books on relationships.Naomi lives her life by three convictions:Don't bow down to stigma - you are a multi-faceted person who has a lot to give to this worldWhatever your situation is, don't let other people define you.Live a whole meaningful life. Find happiness every dayCONNECT WITH NAOMI:Email: mnaomiberger@gmail.comBooks: The BiPolar Therapist Marriage Minded: An A to Z Dating Guide for Lasting Love,Marriage Meetings for Lasting Love: 30 Minutes a Week to the Relationship You've Always WantedLinkedIn Profile

Do you wonder why you're attracted to certain people and seem less compatible with others?Any 2 healthy, well-developed people can have a successful relationship. Understanding yours and your partner's similarities and differences can help with communication - especially in romantic relationships. In their book “Just Your Type: Create the Relationship You've Always Wanted Using the Secrets of Personality Type,” Barbara Barron and Paul D. Tieger say they've found that many personality types are more satisfied when they're paired with similar partners.

Hey everyone! Happy November! As we near the holiday season, I am so excited to share the first interview conducted on The Letters & Layers Podcast with Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Muhammad. Dr. Jeannelle is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, owner of private practice TMI Counseling, and author of Into-Me-See: Mastering Black Intimacy for the Relationship You've Always Wanted. We dive deep into this conversation and discuss her inspiration for writing the book, how it has changed her as a therapist, the impact of mental health on intimate relationships, and what she would love her readers to take away. It was great to talk to Dr. Jeannelle and I hope you all enjoy the interview! Want to reach out to Dr. Jeannelle? Personal website: Drjeannelle.com Private Practice Website: Tmicounselingandcoaching.com Instagram: drjeannelle Private Practice Instagram: tmi.counseling Tik Tok: dr.jeannellelmft   As always, please share and recommend, and thank you so much for the support! EMAIL: contact@thelettersandlayers.com  -OR- DM me through my social media handles! IG: @amaka_ag; @yourmentalhealthnp I appreciate you!

Hey y'all!In this episode Mikey and Randie interview Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Muhammad on her latest book Into-Me-See: Mastering Black Intimacy for the Relationship You've Always Wanted and there's so much to say.Before beginning the interview, The Chapmans and Dr. Jeannelle share their first memories of feeling safe. Later, the duo learn that finding out she was married to a narcissist inspired Dr. Jeannelle to write this book and more. Together, they discuss the infamous emotions chart that everybody in the world needs to print and hang up in their house, activities couples can do to draw them closer and ensure their needs are being met, HBNS (Hot Butt-Naked Sex), and how the brain remembers trauma even when you're no longer in danger.To end, the couple show each other some love in their PDA segment because you know that's how they do. In all, nothing but playing the episode can do justice to the gems Dr. Jeannelle shared in her book and on the show.So tune in and grab the book. Randie finished it in one day!As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn't be here without your support and they want you to know they're grateful.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreonhttp://bit.ly/JOINBMMConnect with Dr. Jeannelle!IG: https://www.instagram.com/Tmi.counseling/IG: https://www.instagram.com/drjeannelle/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.jeannellelmft Buy Into-Me-See: https://rb.gy/rwhoxCheck out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Muhammad is a psychotherapist and licensed family therapist who authored the book, "Into-Me-See: Mastering Black Intimacy for the Relationship You've Always Wanted," which explores cultural and personal factors that can make it challenging for Black couples to develop and maintain intimacy. Learn more at https://tmicounselingandcoaching.com  Follow our podcast on Facebook @TheOptimalLifePodcast If you enjoyed this episode, you might also like: Ep. 216 - Leigh Bodden :: Standing Up to Tyranny Ep. 125 - Race Relations in America ROUNDTABLE

On this episode of Coffee with Klingman, Gabriel Klingman sits down with guest Matt Schneider. They discuss key takeaways for success, such as having different skill sets and working alongside people rather than just for them. They also dive into the importance of clarity around mission, vision, and values in personal and business partnerships. Other topics include the speaker's experience with being a first responder and becoming an accidental entrepreneur after a windfall, as well as navigating the challenges of leadership and teamwork. The episode also covers the speaker's personal journey with negative self-perceptions, and the impact it had on his marriage and success. He shares how developing core values and associating with like-minded people propelled him forward and helped him become the man he aspired to be. --- TIMESTAMPS: The Painful Reality of Being an Entrepreneur: "Just simply having a good idea and building it out well is not nearly enough... getting a team to be bought in on the vision and the mission and the core values of the company that help rally behind you to create something substantial - that is an art and a science." — Matt Schneider [00:06:43 → 00:10:27] Marriage, Stress, and Superpowers: "Being very even keeled and being able to keep a level head and make clear decisions under stress is obviously critically important. And so that is part of my superpower." — Matt Schneider [00:11:02 → 00:13:43] Navigating Uncertainty: "We didn't understand back then that we were really living in a box with a glass ceiling over it as far as what our potential was." — Matt Schneider [00:14:23 → 00:16:30] The Cost of Being Inauthentic: "It really absolutely boiled down to me being an ineffective leader. And I was learning that taking the fake it to you, make it path and not being authentic was not serving me or anybody else well." — Matt Schneider [00:16:44 → 00:19:22] Changing Your Circumstances: "If we don't like our circumstances, we truly have the power and control to change them." — Matt Schneider [00:27:49 → 00:32:17] Personal transformation: "I developed core values, non negotiable core values, which is a lens that I filter everything through. And I knew if I was 60 pounds overweight and I was driving through fast food and Taco Bell and McDonald's and was talking skinny but eating fat, we all know that shit's not good for you." — Matt Schneider [00:32:41 → 00:35:32] "The Importance of Putting Yourself First in a Relationship: You're able to actually show up for the people that you love and the people that love you the most in the biggest, most substantial, positive ways if you yourself are whole. First." — Matt Schneider [00:36:07 → 00:39:24] "Attraction and Weight: 'There's no way that as a fat body...my wife didn't like that wasn't attractive to her.' - Quote by unknown speaker" — Matt Schneider [00:39:54 → 00:42:31] The Importance of Leveraging Zones of Genius in Business and Marriage: "And one of my favorite quotes is if you help other people get what they want, you will get what you want in return. And when I realized that, it just became a matter of my wife has incredible talent and zones of genius that I don't have that are necessary to success in business." — Matt Schneider [00:46:54 → 00:50:09] The Importance of Impact Over Legacy: "I don't care about legacy because I don't care if people remember my name, if I can help people in the most positive ways, right?...I focus on impact regardless of if they know where it came from." — Matt Schneider [00:53:17 → 00:59:14] --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coffeewithklingman/message

In today's episode I interview Sandy Weiner. She is founder of Last First Date and The Women of Value. She's an internationally known TED X Speaker and Dating and Relationship Coach, as well as Women's Empowerment Coach. She's author of three books and is a podcast host. Dating and relationships is such an important topic because, as humans, relationships with other humans can be a source of joy and love, or it can be a source of toxicity. Whether you are currently in a relationship, dating, or not, this interview will be helpful because we discuss how it comes down to knowing and feeling comfortable with ourselves in order to have more fulfilling experiences with others. Sandy shares that it was after experiencing a difficult childhood, being brought up by two parents who had a terrible marriage, and divorcing her husband after 23 years of marriage, that she had an opportunity to reassess her life. She decided to reclaim the parts of herself that had been lost along the way, and one of those was her interest in helping others. She trained as a life coach which gave her so much self-awareness. She found herself helping friends who were dating, and in the process, started studying the deeper parts of dating, communication skills and boundary setting. This changed her life for the better and now it's doing the same thing for her clients every day. When You're in the Wrong Relationship Sandy finds that a lot of people realize later in life - in their 40s, 50s and even older – that they are not in the relationship that works for them anymore. It's often when their kids are grown, if they have kids, and they're starting to think about if they really want to spend the rest of their life with this person. Perhaps they realize they don't really enjoy being their partner anymore or it doesn't feel safe anymore. Sandy doesn't think divorce is the right thing for everyone. She says, you must assess for yourself and think if you really want to stay in a relationship. She sees people staying in terrible relationships and that breaks her heart. Couples may be having the same complaint every single time they talk, and yet they stay in the relationship. Of course, there could be a lot of reasons for this, such as fear of going out on your own, or financial concerns. You must believe in what you're doing and know why you're leaving. In the end, it's almost always for the better. You have to weigh out how you want to live the rest of your life. Avoiding The Same Patterns in a New Relationship We often make the same choices over and over, and don't even realize it. Or we go to the opposite extreme. It's not just about finding the opposite. And we can't make choices based on attraction. It's about analyzing if you're going into a relationship just because it feels familiar and think about it based on your attachment style. Knowing how you attach to your partners, how you tend to bring your past into the present, how to self-regulate, how to talk about the things that matter, how to bring up hard stuff, and how to ask questions when you have questions instead of keeping them inside, as well as knowing what you want in life… are all so important. These are things to work on before even going on dates, so that you can come as a whole person to the dating process. We also need to look at the patterns of core relationships in our life, and what they have in common. We also need to consider our limiting beliefs, and where we're struggling. When we really go deep into who we are, then it is easier to find someone that will be a good match for us. Attraction is Not The Most Important Thing in a Relationship You have to have some attraction obviously, but if you're so attracted that you lose yourself in that person's presence, it's not a good sign. This is something to look at - we need to analyze where does this come from? Is there abandonment involved? Does this person remind you of someone, and now you're trying to get that missed attention? If you do this, you then can rewire your brain for healthy attraction. There's a difference between attraction based on deprivation and attraction based on inspiration. Most of us are stuck in the attraction of deprivation. This is what we don't have, and so we want it. When we are attracted to somebody in an attraction of inspiration, we're inspired by that person, but we also bring value. That's called interdependence. With interdependence, we have a life; we have wholeness and fullness, but we also have the capacity to allow another person into our life to add value to each other and to complement each other. Narcissism in Relationships Sandy finds that the term “narcissism” is thrown around a lot, so she tends to focus instead on behaviors. If you were in a relationship with somebody who was self-centered, not empathic, they always had to be right, and you felt that your needs didn't matter, that is something you need to look at and consider why you chose that relationship. She helps clients to trace back in order to understand their choices - who did that person remind them of and in doing so, they start to rewire their brain for attraction in a healthier way. She doesn't believe in hard and fast rules. She believes in principles, and self-care, and knowing how you function best so that you can advocate for that in relationships. To be able to succeed in a relationship you have to be able to communicate your needs in three main areas: worldview, lifestyle and sexual. If you don't communicate your needs, you can't expect them to be met. Lifestyle has to with whether you like hot or cold weather, and whether you are vegetarian, or not, and can you be with somebody who is a meat eater. What time do you go to bed, and are you an introvert or extrovert. It's really important to understand that lifestyle piece. The next area is worldview, which is how you see the world. How do we view religion, politics, God, miracles, faith, community - all the things that are the bigger picture because that's really the core of you see the world. And then the last category is sex, including what kind of sex you like and how often. You have to be able to communicate all these things. When you get comfortable advocating for yourself, as well talking and sharing your stories in a way that make the other person want to share their stories in a way that's healthy, that's a big win. A Healthy Way to Be Motivated About Choosing a Relationship Sandy shares that a lot of people have a hard time picturing what it is like to imagine a healthy relationship. We can create a vision of what you want, not just what you don't want, or what you think is out there regarding relationships. Also, it is not healthy to be too rigid or specific about it because you could end up overlooking some amazing people who don't have all those things that you think you need and then love shows up in a surprise package when you're open to it. It's when we get out of our heads and into our hearts that we make room for real love. But we have to understand what would work best for us. We have to have certain parameters of who that person has to be in order for us to feel that way. That's where we start to really attract not just the right partner but the right friends and the right work - it's all connected. And most people really don't have an idea and so they get distracted, discouraged, and they just shut down to dating, but what would it feel like to be in a partnership, what would it feel like to have somebody to travel with, to come home to at the end of the day and take a walk and share a meal. It's those small things that matter. Communication Is Key in a Successful Relationship We also need to look at our needs and feelings without judgment. We normally bring in history to our arguments or needs that were not met when we were growing up. When you start to see that needs and feelings are connected it's helpful. Then you don't have to say it all out loud. You could even just process it for yourself without feeling upset because of something your partner did or did not do. Maybe you had a need for communication; maybe you had a need for respect. And then you get curious about the other person; maybe it wasn't disrespectful on their part to them but now you can have a conversation about what was going on for you, so your partner knows about it. This takes practice and openness on both parts. We have to be able to honor the other person and see their needs being as important as ours. Sometimes we're taught is we say something then the other person might get mad and then we feel like we can never say anything, and then we never do say anything, and it just becomes a tense situation. It is also very important that we give ourselves time after a breakup before dating again, to process what happened, and to analyze what we learned, what worked, what didn't, and what would we like our next relationship to feel like; what type of communication would we like to have. Give yourself the time to feel it in your body - to feel all the feelings. A lot of people miss companionship and the feeling of intimacy so much that they will either go back to the person or they'll find somebody to replace them too quickly and end up repeating the same thing over and over. We have to take our time to really picture what it would feel like to be in a healthy relationship. What would that look and feel like to you because the more you have it as a felt sense, the more you're going to recognize it when it comes. Sandy finds that a lot of people are waiting to be saved and rescued. Instead, she encourages people to enjoy their life while dating and find somebody who adds value. Don't settle for less. If you want to reach out to Sandy and learn more about how she can help you, please make sure to check out her website and her Last First Date Radio Podcast. You can also check out her Dating and Relationship Support Group on Facebook. To understand my approach to helping people recover from stress and trauma with my Stress Recovery Protocol, you may want to start by reading my book Master Your Stress Reset Your Health. I talk about relationships and their impact on our mental and physical health in the book too! For the most comprehensive support to recover from stress and trauma, even with the most difficult health issues (physical or mental), it is best to meet with me one-on-one, which is available to you no matter where you are in the world (via phone or zoom). You can set up a one-on-one appointment with me here. We're here to help you! 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Fewer and fewer people are opting to get married as time passes by. Is marriage outdated? According to Marcia Naomi Berger, absolutely not. However, marriage has changed. In this episode, we'll talk about how marriage has changed over the years and why so many marriages fail. We'll discuss some myths and expectations around finding the right partner and we'll delve deeper into understanding the benefits of being marriage-minded and some tips in creating this wonderful connection with you and your partner and so much more. Marcia Naomi Berger, MSW, LCSW, leads dynamic marriage and communication workshops, is a popular speaker at conferences, a clinical social worker with a private psychotherapy practice, and has taught continuing education classes for therapists at the University of California Berkeley Extension, Alliant International University, and various professional associations. She's the author of Marriage Minded: An A to Z Dating Guide for Lasting Love and Marriage Meetings for Lasting Love: 30 Minutes a Week to the Relationship You've Always Wanted. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 7:08 The crying need for people to learn how to have good relationships skills and create good marriages. 8:05 How has marriage changed over the years. 11:02 What makes a good marriage? 13:55 Myths and expectations that get in the way of a good marriage 16:48 What men think about marriage and what keeps some women from finding the right person to marry. 18:52 The benefits of being marriage-minded. 20:50 Marcia's advice to those who have lost their passion in marriage. 26:11 Tips for keeping the fun alive when there are so many demands. 29:29 How can people recognize and overcome what's getting in the way of a good marriage. 36:13 The Marriage Meeting framework. Mentioned Marriage Minded: An A to Z Dating Guide for Lasting Love (book) (*Amazon affiliate link) The Marriage Meeting Program: A Strengths-Based Approach for Successful Relationships Marriage Meetings for Lasting Love: 30 Minutes a Week to the Relationship You've Always Wanted (book) (*Amazon affiliate link) Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love (book) (*Amazon affiliate link) ERP 252: How to Deal with Sexual Performance Anxieties - An Interview with Dr. Ian Kerner Connect with Marcia Naomi Berger Website marcianaomiberger.com Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.

I have a question for you. Are you turned on or turned off by witchcraft? My recent poll says a lot of you are turned on by it! Astrologer and intuitive business witch Luna Veronica cleverly shows us how witchcraft and self-love are surprisingly similar, which is not at all how witches have been portrayed. Want to learn more about Tarot and Oracle cards?Curious about our connection to the moon and her cycles? Compelled to discover how witches being burnt at the stake might affect your relationship with social media today? This episode is for you!Intuition, guidance, sisterhood, magic. This conversation had me in full-body goose pimples throughout. Reconnect with your sacred feminine whilst basking in the glow of deep ancient wisdom. Learn how to harness the yin energy of receptivity to receive guidance from the universe. Get ready for your mind to expand and your soul to take flight. Luna's insights on witchcraft and aligning with your soul calling, will make your whole body tingle with TRUTH resonance. It's powerful, fun and profoundly liberating to hear Luna's potent brew of scared wisdom. If I had taken a poll about whether I was turned on by astrology, my mind would instantly go to 'NO', even though I do like it! Luna explains why this might be and how what is happening above reflects what is happening below...Luna supports clients to create a soul purpose-led life by blending birth chart astrological mapping, intuition development and witchcraft. Her dream is to support other creatrix women to achieve financial sovereignty by embracing their offerings to help transform the world. She is known for her transformational 1:1 coaching, her Baby Witch Academy & her podcast, Words are Spells Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luna.veronica.mystic/Website: https://www.lunaveronica.com/The relationship book I talk about is “Are You the One for Me?: How to Have the Relationship You'Ve Always Wanted” https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0722532989/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_6R7HW0G3XB1R07628P5PTwo great moon apps are: https://apps.apple.com/gb/app/full-moon-phase/id1119055470 and https://apps.apple.com/gb/app/moonly-daily-moon-calendar/id1489889871The universe is always listening and talking to us, we just need to create space to receive its wisdom. And remember, with self-love, anything is possible.--My first book 'PS I Love Me' is now available to buy at UK: https://www.ginaswire.com/psiloveme-uk USA:  www.ginaswire.com/psiloveme-usaFollow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginaswire/ Email the PS I Love Me Podcast: teamselflove@ginaswire.comExplore my website: www.ginaswire.comExperience a 12 Step Self-Love Transformation:https://ginaswire.com/12-step-self-love-transformation-main-2021/--The next episode of PS I Love Me will be out next Wednesday. For more self-love content sign up to my newsletter at https://www.ginaswire.com/newsletter

Ana Aluisy is a therapist in Tampa, Florida, specializing in multicultural couples counseling and making mental healthcare accessible to minority communities. In our talk we cover a range of issues, like why more people are coming to therapy during COVID, the unique bond that can exist between a therapist and a client, and the challenges that minority communities can often face to receive mental health support. Here are some of the the main subjects we touch on: -Why more people are coming to therapy during Covid (1:30) -What therapy is actually like (3:10) -Working with clients' false beliefs of being unworthy or unloveable (9:10) -Multicultural couples counseling (12:30) -Different cultural perceptions about therapy (15:20) -Writing a book for the Spanish-speaking community (18:20) -Barriers to treatment for minorities: accessibility, availability, utilization (21:00) Visit Ana's Website: comegethelp.com Check Out Ana's Book "Reinvent Your Relationship: A Therapist's Insights to Having the Relationship You've Always Wanted": www.indiebound.org/book/9781630478971 For more information on Matt's work or for help getting the word out about your therapy practice, visit mattshedd.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/finding-help/message

Can you create a quality relationship with your fitness customers? Or do you have to rely on selling to the already interested or people you know? How old are your kids? What are they doing this summer? How are things for you during this pandemic? What's your work like? These might be logical questions and yet, if you are talking to a parent you've not created a bond with them. You've just distracted them. If someone's thoughts go to their livelihood, and concerns about future earning, you may have talked them out of something before you even begin. Create a Relationship: Don't Lose Them Some of the most common questions asked in sales are about family. Are you married? Do you have kids? How old are they? So, if someone has marital problems, or wonders where their kids are right now and what they're doing right now – like most mother's minds will go – you've essentially lost them. You think you've bonded, but you've given them a reason not to pay attention. Meet Them Where They are If a prospective client comes to you (by phone, Facetime, Skype) and is thinking about their job status, whether they'll be working from home, in the office again soon, or they might have hours cut and she's scared, she is going to have a hard time looking at training three times a week for a year to avoid osteoporosis. If you're talking to someone who is soaking wet and you start talking about the benefits of exercise, they clearly aren't going to listen in that distracted state. Right Place Right Time Having the right conversation at the wrong time is going to alienate you from that prospect. It's nice, it may be true that they'll reduce their chance of heart disease but it's not what is going to make someone train with you. If you show them a bicep curl in the middle of a pandemic, is that going to help with their immune system, their stress level, their cravings for junk food feet away in the pantry? Give them a Quick Win To do that you have to really know what they want. What is urgent about it now? Why aren't they already there? What do they believe about it? Give them one thing. When you meet you might go deep into core exercise, a stretch for the lower back issues, but one thing. Go deep and solve that and suggest the easy maintenance. Don't solve all their problems, solve the one that's bleeding. If you think if you give them that free session you'll give them so much they won't need you, it's probably the way you're setting up that session, creating expectations about that session, and conducting that session. Someone with lower back pain doesn't need a week's worth of workouts, and a dozen exercises. They need an understanding of 5 things contributing to their back pain (so you open up needs to get more support from you), they need to understand the difference between immediate relief and long-term solutions. Trainers are the Best Sales People You can dig deep into that one thing. And leave them needing and wanting all that you have. No one woke up in the morning wanting a better bicep curl. So be selective in the things you share in social media. Does your content peak curiosity in the clients you most want to work with? Maybe the answer to that is yes. Maybe you want and love working with women whose greatest urgency during this pandemic is their arms. Know Who Choose the person you want to work with, show something they care deeply about, so deeply that during a pandemic they are willing to spend time, money, and energy getting. A facility is not a sales strategy. Relationships are. Days are coming I believe when the membership sales team is a thing of the past. Whether someone wants to join or they really want and need to train and have a place to do it, a trainer can sell transformation far better than a sales person. You're in a Moment of Opportunity if You Can Create a Relationship You can workout at home and get as good or better results as you do in a gym. It's just a playground. The emergence of studios and boutiques in recent years has proven that less equipment and higher quality movement is the answer. You're a trainer with the world open to you right now. There are home gym equipment dealers right now overwhelmed with the amount of business they've been flooded with. Those people buying equipment, however, don't know what to do with it. There's also a prediction for those people that can hang on through this that there will be a surge in fitness centers. There's a chance that some are just waiting for the second stimulus check they think may be coming, and then they'll cash in their chips. That will create opportunity for trainers who have a business mindset and understand profitability and scale. The question is, what are you doing right now to learn it if you don't know it? Other Episodes You Might Enjoy: 7 Tips to Be the Trainer Everyone Wants to Work With Medical Fitness in the Middle of a Pandemic When You Feel Like Quitting Resource: Health & Fitness Professional's Guide to Social Media

Astrologer Colin Bedell and I discuss the Relational Houses (Houses 4-8) in Astrology. How to have healthy relationships based on what the signs of these houses need! Who rules your relational house and what are they looking for? BOOKS FROM THE SESSION LITERATURE "Attached" The New Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help You Find - And Keep - Love. (2010) by Amir Levine, Rachel S.F. Heller "The Intentional Family: How To Build Family Ties In Our Modern World" (1999) by William H. Doherty The Gottman Institute "The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are" (2010). Brene Brown. "Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence: (2006). Esther Perel 1."Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love." (2019). John and Julie Gottman. 2. "Marriage Meetings for Lasting Love: 30 Minutes a Week to the Relationship You've Always Wanted" (2014) Marcia Naomi Berger 1."Getting the Love You Want: A Guide questions like who, what, for Couples." (2007). Dr. Harville when, where, why and how. Hendrix. 2. "Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships. (2015) Marshall Rosenberg CHECK OUT COLIN: https://www.queercosmos.com/ Bio: Colin Bedell is a queer Gemini Twin from Long Island, New York. He's a passionate student of secular personal-growth systems, and the universal spiritual themes explored in A Course in Miracles. Well & Good Magazine listed Colin as one of the most influential people in the wellness industry and as a 2020 Innovator. Complementing his work with QueerCosmos, Colin's the weekly horoscope writer for Cosmopolitan.com. His bestselling first book A Little Bit of Astrology from Sterling Publishers debuted November ‘18, his second book Queer Cosmos: The Astrology of Queer Identities & Relationships which launched last November was ranked the #1 Astrology book for beginners by the DailyDot magazine, and his third book Gemini by Sterling debuted January 2020. HOW TO FIND PLANETS IN YOUR CHART: https://youtu.be/EUgvbq-17sQ SOLSTICE GIFTS:https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11465551&appointmentType=15038734 CHECK OUT THE EAT & GREET COLLABORATIONS: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwL0zDMT3qCA8eEDFVfXZCBDik4OZ0jT7 FULL NATAL CHART-https://app.acuityscheduling.com/catalog.php?owner=11465551&action=addCart&id=167635 READY FOR A READING: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11465551&appointmentType=category:READINGS+%28LOOKING+AT+ONLY+1+PERSON%27S+CHART%29 BIRTHDAY (SOLAR RETURN) REPORT: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/catalog.php?owner=11465551&action=addCart&id=58786 FULL CHART ANALYSIS BY VIDEO: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/catalog.php?owner=11465551&action=addCart&id=248187 EMAIL READING- https://app.acuityscheduling.com/catalog.php?owner=11465551&action=addCart&id=144274 MONTH BY MONTH PERSONAL BREAKDOWN VIDEO-https://app.acuityscheduling.com/catalog.php?owner=11465551&action=addCart&id=169746 FACEBOOK-https://www.facebook.com/pages/Stormie-Grace/138693799515065?ref=hl FIND YOUR TRIBE GROUP ON FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/232632710465654/ https://twitter.com/StormieGrace08 All my love everyone --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/stormie-grace/support

Is the Relationship You are in Healthy? Or Are You Wasting Your Time with Someone God Never Sent into Your Life?

In this episode of The Catholic Couple, Bobby and Katie discuss their first attempt at holding a "marriage meeting" inspired by the book Marriage Meetings for Lasting Love: 30 Minutes a Week to the Relationship You've Always Wanted by Marcia Naomi Berger (link to the book below).The Catholic Couple Email: thecatholiccouplepodcast@gmail.comThe meeting agenda from the book:1.  Showing Appreciation (within the last week)2.  Discuss domestic economy/household chores/daily life issues3.  Planning for good times4.  Resolving big issuesaaaand then we put some Jesus into it:1.  Pray over the meeting 2.  Showing Appreciation (within the last week)3.  Discuss domestic economy/household chores/daily life issues4.  Planning for good times5.  Resolving big issues6.  Spouses spontaneously pray over one another individuallyShow notes:Book: https://www.amazon.com/Marriage-Meetings-Lasting-Love-Relationship/dp/1608682234Podcast interview with the author: https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/podcast-611-how-a-weekly-marriage-meeting-can-strengthen-your-relationship/Other books and websites mentioned:Jesus Shock: https://www.amazon.com/Jesus-Shock-Peter-Kreeft/dp/1937509176/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=jesus+shock&qid=1590726210&s=books&sr=1-1Fortitude: https://www.amazon.com/Fortitude-American-Resilience-Era-Outrage/dp/1538733307/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=krenshaw&qid=1590726336&s=books&sr=1-1Thrift Books: https://www.thriftbooks.com/

In this week's podcast, Chris E. and Chris L. share their top 3 things that are probably holding you back on sales and/or service calls.   Your Gear – If you go to the door as a tech with a fully loaded tool bag, tool backpack, or tool belt, the customer sees you as being ready to go to work on the thing. They also think that you don't have time to talk since you are ready to work. This means you won't spend as much time as you need to talking to the customer. The same thing happens if you are a salesperson and you immediately open your laptop or tablet when you get in the home.   Challenge: Leave your gear in the truck and talk to the customer for at least 15-20 mins.   Lack of Courage – Your company is spending money to train you. Hopefully, that training is with Service Excellence Training! If not, you are still getting some training. Be courageous enough to use that training. The lion in the SET logo is a symbol of boldness and courage. It reminds you to be courageous and bold enough to use your training, and to try something new. Handle objections like you've been taught. Say the credibility statement like you've been told. Do what you know to do.   Challenge: Use the training that you have and know.   Lack of Relationship – You've heard the adage, “People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care.” This is so true with in-home service and sales. Showing you care difficult if you don't try to establish a relationship with the customer by recognizing and using profiles. This is impossible to do without spending time in the early stages of the call with the customer. Most likely, the two items listed above are getting in the way of your relationship building. Also, you are probably trying to get through the call to what you consider is the hard part – handling objections. You rush to get there so you can get the sale, or not, and then move on to the next one. Take your time. Get to know the customer.   Challenge: Get to know how the customer lives with the thing before you work on or try to sell the thing.   These three things are holding you back. Enjoy the podcast. Please like and share it!

Episode 204: Founder of Fierce Grace: Practices of Embodied Wholeness for Women, Kendra Cunov has been studying, facilitating, and (most importantly) practicing Authentic Relating, Embodiment Practices & Deep Intimacy Work for the last fifteen years. Kendra has worked with thousands of men, women & couples in the areas of embodiment, intimacy, communication & full self-expression. She co-founded Authentic World, as well as The Embodied Relationship & Intimacy Training Salon, and pioneered some of the most cutting edge relation work on the planet. Kendra has consulted for companies such as Genentech & is currently on staff for 4PC, an elite mastermind for the top 4% of coaches in the world. She works with organizations & leaders, as well as men, women & couples, who know that presence, truth, connection & integrity are our truest access points to success - in business & in love. Show notes: FABFITFUN is a seasonal box, with full-size beauty, fitness and lifestyle products. Check out www.FABFITFUN.com and use the code "MINDYBODY" to save $10 off your first box, making it only $39.99 (yet every box is worth $200 in product!) >> don't miss their unique Summer box! Why Kendra lived at a Buddhist Monastery for a period of time and how it eventually led her to leave the monastery to lead relational dynamics with her now ex husband Two of her teachers: Sofia Diaz and David Deida Authentic relating: the practice of hiding nothing (not to be confused with share everything) How making assumptions about what people can and cannot handle from you can lead you to limiting yourself (all from just an assumption, too!)-- this is why we often show our full spectrum of emotions to some people, but not all people. How Kendra has learned what works for her when she feels jealous in her relationship (and how she communicates it with her partner) Letting your emotions flare How to be generous and patient while you learn to let your man lead (sometimes badly) How to not be defensive when your partner is doing his best to be honest and vulnerable Let {Him} Lead You Badly (video) Going three layers deeper so you move past the surface level complaint and get to the real desire An example of how we often sabotage our partner from taking the role of leader My fear of going deep into this woo-woo relationship realm and how it may disconnect me from the "mainstream" men I have available to date (and what Kendra has to say about that) The Myth of Being Met in Relationship You can be exactly who you are whether you are in a relationship or not: you never have to change your ways or your behavior (unless you decide to) How the masculine creates the structure and the feminine is the energy that fills it Why using a word like "energy" might feel better than a word like surrender Must-read book: The Art of Asking by Amanda Palmer Diptyque Rose Candles Connect with Kendra: Website Facebook

This week Elle and Abigail are telling their birth stories... Now, why would they want to do that? Birth can engulf us with emotions that linger way beyond the time our children are babies, but we rarely have an opportunity to talk about the feelings we had. And what we felt then, how it shaped up to our friends' experiences or our own expectations, can often linger and impact how we find parenting, and even how we relate to our children. Why Telling Your Birth Story is Important for Your and The Relationship You have with Your Child Talking about your birth story, from pregnancy, and right into the fourth trimester - can unlock real insights into the issues we find challenging as parents. Listen in, as Elle and Abigail talk about their own experiences having babies, and how those early experiences impacted their parenting. In this episode, find out: How the birth of your children can trigger rushes of feelings later on in your parenting Why telling your birth story can help you find new and creative ways to handle your big parenting challenges Why should you tell the story of your child's birth, even if you have a teen now How your birth experience can affect you today and the relationship you have with your child More Resources for New Parents Here is the self-guided course on Building A Listening Partnership. Learn how to set up and share listening partnerships that help you melt your parenting stress Elle mention's our book Listen: Five Simple Tools To Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges. Keep Connected We’d love to hear about your parenting challenges. You can follow Hand in Hand on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and Instagram. Be sure to drop Elle and Abigail a message Sign up for our Monthly Newsletter     

From lust to love to friendship. This episode unpacks the story of Vince and Flavia and the many, many lessons learned along the way towards becoming a "power couple". Flavia and Vince are interviewed by close friend and best selling author Craig Ballantyne about what goes on behind the scenes that make them a power couple. You'll discover the simple but effective routines and productivity rituals that Vince and Flavia have built into their lives that have drastically improved their relationship, productivity, and businesses.  [Tweet "If momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy. - Vince Del Monte Podcast "]  Subscribe to iTunes, TuneIn, or Stitcher Radio! Love the podcast? Leave a review on iTunes! What do you want to hear from the Vince Delmonte Podcast Show? Tell us here! Key Highlights: ⇾  How to fight effectively and use it to improve your marriage and relationship. ⇾  The ONE question your woman is asking herself every single second of the day when she is with you.  ⇾  The 3 key things every married woman wants and needs.   Time Stamps 5:22 How to get things done and still be productive when working 60+ hours a week. Routines and secrets of discipline from Flavia Del Monte.12:45 How having kids could surprisingly benefit your productivity. How to embrace the seasons of life.16:55 Implementing the perfect day formula even when you have young kids.20:40 What every married man knows (or should know). Key advice for single men!22:15 The 3 things that women NEED.24:24 Marriage and finances.28:05 The importance of fighting well in your marriage.31:04 MEN....let her shout!33:30 One weird trick for men to communicate better with their spouse.39:10 Don't be this kind of dad.48:53 Best books & resources for improving your relationship and bettering yourself.54:00 Vince's #1 tactical tip for health, wealth building, family, and faith.55:00 Flavia's #1 tactical tip for health, wealth building, family, and faith.  Resources & Links Dad, Here's What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter's Heart Paperback – September 1, 2014Shepherding a Child's HeartBringing Out the Best in Your Wife: Encourage Your Spouse and Experience the Relationship You've Always WantedSafe House: How Emotional Safety Is the Key to Raising Kids Who Live, Love, and Lead WellHero: Being the Strong Father Your Children NeedHis Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof MarriageModel Man: From Integrity to LegacyFollow FlaviaFacebook Website Instagram YoutubeFollow CraigFacebook Website Instagram LinkedInFollow VinceFacebook Instagram Youtube

At Gobekli Tepe archeologists have excavated pieces of ancient buildings and monuments. It's possible that this location was a spiritual beginning for humankind. Our featured guest is Randy Siegel who is a nationally known expert on identity, and has used spiritual perspectives to train more than a thousand professionals worldwide on how to present themselves. Reflect about hearing your inner voice when your schedule is hectic. Learn about upcoming mindful events and spiritual observances including the Samhain, considered by some people to be the Wiccan New Year. Show Segments Intro: 00:00 Spiritual Reflection: Hearing our inner voice: 01:16 Spiritual Events and Observances: Samhain: 02:52 Spiritual Places: Gobekli Tepe: 04:53 Featured Guest: Identity and spiritual expert, Randy Siegel: 07:24 Outro: 37:52 Our Featured Guest Randy Siegel is a writer, artist, and workshop facilitator who believes “relationships are the super highway to The Divine.” He has spent the last half of life exploring connections to the self, others, the natural world, and God. Randy’s most recent book, In Search of The One: How To Attract the Relationship You’ve Longed For, is an Amazon.com bestseller. You can find out more about Randy at his website. Show Resources and Links Is the world's first temple at Gobekli Tepe? The oldest temple of the world. Gobekli Tepe in Wikipedia. Activities of the Holy Father Pope Francis The schedule for the Dalai Lama. Eckhart Tolle and Kim Eng events. Celebrating the Samhain festival. The Samhain festival in Wikipedia. Thanksgiving Insight Meditation Retreat: A Journey into Presence, Peace and Gratitude at the Spirit Rock Meditation Center in West Marin County, California. Join our Spiritual Community Today Get exclusive access to podcasts, videos, our private Facebook group and more. Available only to Spiritual Fizz subscribers. Find out more about the Spiritual Fizz Podcast Please support us by subscribing to this podcast on iTunes and tell your friends about us. We look forward to being with you next time when we talk more about the connections between the spiritual and physical worlds.

Hye-mi어떻게 하면 그 표정에 그런 필이 나는 거지? How do you get that kind of expression and emotion? Pil-sook간단해. 연애하면 돼. It’s simple. Be in a relationship. Hye-mi연애? 너 연애해?Relationship? You’re in a relationship? Pil-sook응.Yep.

Hye-mi어떻게 하면 그 표정에 그런 필이 나는 거지? How do you get that kind of expression and emotion? Pil-sook간단해. 연애하면 돼. It’s simple. Be in a relationship. Hye-mi연애? 너 연애해?Relationship? You’re in a relationship? Pil-sook응.Yep.

Hye-mi어떻게 하면 그 표정에 그런 필이 나는 거지? How do you get that kind of expression and emotion? Pil-sook간단해. 연애하면 돼. It’s simple. Be in a relationship. Hye-mi연애? 너 연애해?Relationship? You’re in a relationship? Pil-sook응.Yep.

Hye-mi어떻게 하면 그 표정에 그런 필이 나는 거지? How do you get that kind of expression and emotion? Pil-sook간단해. 연애하면 돼. It’s simple. Be in a relationship. Hye-mi연애? 너 연애해?Relationship? You’re in a relationship? Pil-sook응.Yep.

Hye-mi어떻게 하면 그 표정에 그런 필이 나는 거지? How do you get that kind of expression and emotion? Pil-sook간단해. 연애하면 돼. It’s simple. Be in a relationship. Hye-mi연애? 너 연애해?Relationship? You’re in a relationship? Pil-sook응.Yep.

Join serial entrepreneur, author, speaker, mentor and business consultant, Vicki Fitch on this episode of Vicki Fitch Live! A Fresh Perspective #3 with special guest Ted Rubin.   On this edition of  Vicki Fitch Live! A Fresh Perspective, Vicki is joined by Ted Rubin. Ted is a leading Social Marketing Strategist, Keynote Speaker, Brand Evangelist and Acting CMO of Brand Innovators and in March 2009 started publicly using and evangelizing the term ROR: Return on Relationship™ You can find Ted on his website at http://www.tedrubin.com  

Does your marriage seem to ebb and flow with the wind of love, anger, disrespect or work?  Does the world seem to 'have it all' and you are grasping at the vision of what your life should look like as it walks out the door?  Life is hard, love is hard and to find a way to have the best, is that hard too?  Maybe not?My guest is Marcia Naomi Berger is a clinical social worker and author of Marriage Meetings for Lasting Love;  30 Minutes a Week to the Relationship You've Always Wanted.  In her Marriage Meeting Program, she tells exactly how to create a great relationship and keep it thriving for a lifetime.  This is way more than a date night, it is a real life plan that requires committment and responsibility to keep a marriage going. For more information visit:  www.marriagemeetings.com  and to purchase the book click here.

Is your marriage or partnership fulfilling? We often hear things like, "love is all we need," but is that accurate? Are deal-breakers healthy in marriages? In this episode, Rev. Kevin Ross is joined by special guest Naomi Berger, author of the book, Marriage Meetings for Lasting Love: 30 Minutes a Week to the Relationship You've Always Wanted. Join us as we learn how spending 30 minutes a week can lead to the relationship we truly desire.

Title: Working Through the Relationship You’re In.  Date: June 26, 2012 Afternoon - Edmonton, Canada Summer Seminar.  Quote: You need to give. If you have reasons to not give, then you are being like what the relationship is. Then you are dying in a dying relationship. You need to live in a dying relationship. www.johnderuiter.com

My guest, Pamela Hollister, founder of The People Process, will discuss Personality Type which has helped more than fifty million people gain valuable insights into themselves and others and become more successful in their personal and professional lives. Although there isn’t just one right type for anyone, you will learn important things about yourself and what you need in a relationship for it to be fulfilling. More than 40 percent of couples report experiencing regular relationship difficulties that range from vague dissatisfaction and frustration to outright misery. Most couples sincerely want things to be better between them, but because they don’t understand the problems, they can’t figure out how to fix them. Originally based on the work of Swiss psychologist Carl Jung, Personality Type is an exceptional tool that is used by thousands of counselors, therapists, and educators every day and it is considered by many Fortune 500 companies to be the most effective tool for improving interpersonal communication. Personality Type is a system of understanding human behavior and paints a clearer and richer portrait of a person by enabling each individual to understand his or her values, drives, and motivations. Instead of celebrating our differences, as couples, we resist them; we try to make our partners more like us. And as we do, we chip away at the foundations of our relationships by constantly criticizing, complaining, blaming, and dismissing our partners’ characteristics and natural tendencies. Most couples just stop talking – really talking. So the overwhelming reason relationships fail is poor communication.A whole industry has been created around the notion that gender is to blame, that men and women are so different that they don’t even come from the same planet! People are not all the same. Discover how to Create the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted Using the Secrets of Personality Type.

My guest, Pamela Hollister, founder of The People Process, will discuss Personality Type which has helped more than fifty million people gain valuable insights into themselves and others and become more successful in their personal and professional lives. Although there isn’t just one right type for anyone, you will learn important things about yourself and what you need in a relationship for it to be fulfilling. More than 40 percent of couples report experiencing regular relationship difficulties that range from vague dissatisfaction and frustration to outright misery. Most couples sincerely want things to be better between them, but because they don’t understand the problems, they can’t figure out how to fix them. Originally based on the work of Swiss psychologist Carl Jung, Personality Type is an exceptional tool that is used by thousands of counselors, therapists, and educators every day and it is considered by many Fortune 500 companies to be the most effective tool for improving interpersonal communication. Personality Type is a system of understanding human behavior and paints a clearer and richer portrait of a person by enabling each individual to understand his or her values, drives, and motivations. Instead of celebrating our differences, as couples, we resist them; we try to make our partners more like us. And as we do, we chip away at the foundations of our relationships by constantly criticizing, complaining, blaming, and dismissing our partners’ characteristics and natural tendencies. Most couples just stop talking – really talking. So the overwhelming reason relationships fail is poor communication.A whole industry has been created around the notion that gender is to blame, that men and women are so different that they don’t even come from the same planet! People are not all the same. Discover how to Create the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted Using the Secrets of Personality Type.