A podcast for conscious parents who drop the f-bomb. A lot. We are the overthinkers, the dreamers, and the doers. We are parenting in a radically different way than those before us. But our divine vision gets blurry cause...OMG...kids can be such a pain in the ass. Let's work from the inside out, in a whole brain, whole body way to mitigate the crappy behavior. Not just with our kids but with ourselves. So you can be the parent you envision.
Welcome to Part Two of our village series, where I'm diving even deeper into what it really takes to find your people. This episode is all about busting the myth that you need a perfect group to fit into—because guess what? You're not a jigsaw puzzle piece. We talk about why we're so quick to judge, how our personal values (and parenting ideals) shape who we connect with, and how to balance being picky with being open. I also share a bit about my own friendships—the ones that have lasted, the ones that faded, and what I've learned along the way. If you're navigating motherhood without a ride-or-die, or just trying to figure out how to make real friends in this messy season, this one's for you.Timestamps:(00:02:28) Embracing Vulnerability for Building Adult Friendships(00:04:20) Navigating Social Awkwardness Without Alcohol(00:08:03) Embracing Vulnerability for Connection and BelongingJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
Hey friends! I'm back with another bite-sized nugget and today I'm answering your follow-up questions from the hormone episodes - because the DMs came flooding in. We're talking red light therapy (yes, I explain the difference between that $300 panel and the chicken heat lamp vibe), what I eat before coffee (spoiler: it's not a croissant), and how to approach probiotics without throwing your gut totally out of whack. This one's quick, personal, and packed with the nerdy stuff I love. Let's keep it simple, keep it honest, and keep it rocking. You asked - I answered. Tune in!Timestamps:(00:02:11) Strategic Morning Nutrition for Cortisol Management(00:04:19) Balancing Cortisol Levels Through Nutrient-Dense Foods(00:05:22) Microbiome Health Through Fermented FoodsJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherape
Welcome to Part One of “The Village” series, where I'm diving deep into one of the most common (and desperate) parenting cries I hear: Where the hell is the village?! Spoiler alert—it doesn't just show up. In this episode, I'm unpacking how we got here, what's changed from just a couple generations ago, and why parenting today feels so damn isolating (especially during those brutal 0–6 years). We're talking about the crushing mental load, the rise of “toxic” label culture, the myth of fitting in, and how dopamine is messing with our ability to form real connection. But this isn't a rant—it's a gentle push to get out of our own way, embrace micro-connections, and start building the community we're all craving. Let's talk real village-building—no leprechaun glitter required.Timestamps:(00:03:48) "Moms' Frustration in Modern Parenting Roles"(00:06:23) Modern Parenting Challenges in Childhood Activities(00:18:01) Navigating Toxic and Dysfunctional Family Relationships(00:22:08) Healing Family Dynamics Through Addressing Trauma(00:25:47) Healing Through Compassionate Family Communication(00:28:04) "Influences of Teenage Years on Parenting"(00:37:15) Supportive Connections in Motherhood(00:43:05) Embracing Imperfections and Finding ConnectionJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
Let's talk about mental health-and not just ours, but our kids'. With everything moving at lightning speed these days, our littles are feeling the pressure too. And while structured environments like daycare and preschool might be necessary (and even great in moderation!), too much of it can start to wear on their nervous systems.In this episode, I'm getting into why unstructured, independent play isn't just “nice”-it's necessary. Kids need time to decompress, to get bored, to create from scratch using simple, open-ended materials. This is how their brains reset. This is how they process the world.With my background in child development and psychology, I've seen firsthand how giving kids more space and fewer adult-led activities can support their mental health in big ways. We don't need to throw out structure completely-but we do need to balance it with freedom. Because kids deserve to just be, not constantly perform.Timestamps:(00:00:00) Promoting Mental Well-being Through Kids' Downtime(00:00:56) The Importance of Unstructured Play for KidsJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
In this eye-opening episode of Oh Crap with Jamie, I'm joined by pediatric airway dentist Dr. Kassi Klein to talk about something that's affecting way more kids than you might think: airway health. From mouth breathing and bedwetting to sleep struggles and ADHD-like behavior, Dr. Kassi helps us connect the dots between jaw development, oral habits, and the behavioral and developmental challenges we often chalk up to “just being a kid.”Whether your child snores, grinds their teeth, struggles to sleep, or seems to have constant meltdowns - you need to hear this. We're diving into the overlooked signs of airway issues, the long-term impact of underdeveloped jaws, and what parents can actually do to help.Timestamps:(00:03:20) Early Recognition for Children's Sleep Breathing Problems(00:05:17) Signs of Pediatric Airway Obstruction in Children(00:13:54) Maxillary Width and Nasal Breathing Efficiency(00:15:24) Optimal Tongue Placement for Nasal Breathing(00:19:45) Improving Oral Health Through Myofunctional Therapy(00:20:39) Tongue Function Impact on Picky Eating(00:22:32) Optimizing Airway Function for Improved SleepIG: @Dr. Kassi Kleinhttps://www.airwayhealthsolutions.comhttps://vivos.comhttps://www.toothpillow.comJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
Hey guys - welcome to the very first Mini Nugget! These shorter episodes are for the things that don't need a full hour but definitely need to be said. And this week? We're talking about the word trauma, and how casually tossing it around might actually be making parenting harder. I'm breaking down the difference between Big T and Little t trauma, sharing what isn't traumatizing (spoiler: your kid being mad about the red cup isn't trauma), and why we need to stop walking on eggshells trying to protect our kids from every uncomfortable feeling. If you've ever worried, “Am I traumatizing my child?” - this one's for you. Tune in, take a breath, and let's bring some perspective back into parenting. Rock on.Timestamps:(00:00:50) "People who are traumatizing their children don't care if they're traumatizing their children. So that's a really good litmus test." (00:05:32) "Trauma is usually not about the actual event, but it is about what isn't said or done after the event." (00:10:44) "We've become a trauma drenched society and it's just, it's too much." Jamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
Hey friends! In this episode of Oh Crap with Jamie, I'm coming in hot with a real talk rant about the “sh*t sandwich” of modern parenthood—where you're constantly forced to choose between two crappy options and expected to smile through it.We're talking about burnout, the myth of having it all, and why family dinner might not be the sacred ritual we've made it out to be.I'm sharing what finally helped me stop crashing into the end of the day, why routines matter (yes, even for grownups), and how small shifts like "landing" before dinner can change everything.This one's part rant, part permission slip, and part call to make some bold, grown-up choices that actually support your life. Let's throw out the noise, simplify where we can, and get real about what we need. Let's go!Timestamps:(00:07:38) Transitioning Roles: The Family "Landing" Moment(00:09:33) Playground Meetups: Strengthening Family Bonds(00:14:58) Early Family Dinners Fostering Strong Connections(00:19:42) Child Sleep Schedules: Prioritizing Consistency and Needs(00:23:07) Supporting Work-Life Balance with Household Roles(00:28:55) Money Habits Shaped by Upbringing and Experiences(00:36:58) Financial Strain of Dual Incomes and Childcare(00:38:41) Reevaluating Vacation Choices for Personal AlignmentJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein Sticks
Hey friends! Buckle up—this week's episode is a big one. I'm diving into time, burnout, the myth of “having it all,” and why so many moms (especially in the 0-6 parenting years) are hanging on by a thread. I lay it all out—from the mental load and scheduling madness to the pressure we put on ourselves to do everything, perfectly, all the time. We're talking about “shit sandwiches,” modern parenting expectations, the elusive village (or lack thereof), and what really matters when your time, energy, and sanity are on the line. If you've ever looked at your life and thought, I literally can't do one more thing, this episode is your permission slip to slow down, scale back, and breathe. Let's cut the noise, reclaim our time, and build a life that actually feels good.Timestamps:(00:08:37) Parenting Labor Disparities: Cognitive vs Performance-driven(00:17:20) Balancing Career and Motherhood: Avoiding Burnout(00:19:29) "Pets as Additional Parenting Responsibilities"(00:25:54) Emphasizing Love and Connection for Well-being(00:28:29) Fulfilling Basic Needs for Mental Well-being(00:29:07) Establishing Healthy Sleep Habits for Children(00:32:27) Parental Sleep Prioritization and Cognitive Decline(00:43:54) Efficient Household Management through Communication and Prioritization(00:55:52) Efficient Tools for Nutritious Meal Prep(00:57:45) Eliminating Over-Commitment for Quality Family Time(01:09:45) Parental Well-being: Community Support and Self-careJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
Hey friends! It's a full-on potty training episode this week, and I'm diving into the common habits and “harmless” tactics that might actually be unraveling your potty training progress without you even realizing it. With summer right around the corner (aka potty training season), I'm laying out some key warnings and what not to do - from relying on “big kid” talk to post-accident potty sits to the weird trend of putting undies over diapers (please stop that!). We're also talking about the bigger theme behind all of it: autonomy. Potty training isn't just about getting your kid out of diapers - it's one of the biggest milestones for helping them step into independence. Tune in for real talk, practical tips, and a pep talk on why giving your kid more responsibility now leads to more cooperation later. You got this. Let's do it!Timestamps:(00:02:01) Early Start to Avoid Preschool Panic(00:08:37) Empowering Language Choices in Potty Training(00:12:42) Empowering Children Through Independent Life Skills(00:18:34) Muscle-Controlled Potty Training Dribbles Theory(00:25:08) Promoting Autonomy for Successful Potty Training(00:27:06) Child Pooping Challenges and Solutions MasteryJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapee
This week, I sat down with Crystal Popoff, founder of FuturePreneur, and wow—this conversation lit me up. We talked about why college isn't the only path (especially if your kid has no clue what they want to do), how entrepreneurship can build grit, confidence, and real-world skills, and why starting that journey early—like lemonade-stand-turned-business-plan early—matters more than ever. Crystal's kits help kids start mini businesses (like a dog walking service or pizza pop-up!) and I am so here for it. We also got real about dopamine, screens, and how to truly connect with your kids in meaningful ways. This one's packed, inspiring, and honestly made me rethink a few things.Timestamps(00:05:31) Early Entrepreneurship: Nurturing Passionate Young Minds(00:06:19) Young Entrepreneurs' Hands-On Business Development Program(00:10:39) Fostering Young Entrepreneurs Through Creative Activities(00:13:56) Fostering Entrepreneurial Skills Through Project-Based Learning(00:21:36) Teaching Respect for Professions through Hands-On Learning(00:24:53) Empowering Kids to Pursue Entrepreneurial Passions(00:24:53) Hands-On Entrepreneurial Exploration for Kids(00:32:49) Detrimental Effects of Excessive Screen Time(00:41:22) Empowering Kids to Pursue Their DreamsFreebie for audienceKrystal's IGKrystal's FBKrystal's WebsiteJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein Sticks
Hey friends! In this episode of Oh Crap with Jamie, I'm sharing stories from the health conference I just attended (including a very teary, fangirl moment with my hero Mark Sisson
This week on Oh Crap with Jamie, we're getting into the nitty gritty of constipation, hydration, and all the poop-related things no one talks enough about. If your kiddo is struggling with dry, nuggety, or just plain weird poops, this one's for you. I'm breaking down why fiber might actually be making things worse, why fat is your kid's best friend (hello, butter!), and how overhydration is totally sabotaging potty training. We're also talking fruit (spoiler: it's not a free-for-all) and why snacking might be more about gut bacteria than actual hunger. As always, I'm here to help you connect the dots between what your kid eats, how they poop, and how they behave—because it's all very connected. Tune in for real talk, no fluff, and plenty of practical advice to get your little one pooping like a champ!Timestamps(00:06:03) Optimizing Children's Health Through Animal Fats(00:07:50) Optimal Gut Health in Children: Fiber Considerations(00:17:56) The Impact of Marketing on Hydration(00:23:12) "Balancing Fruit Intake for Young Children"(00:25:02) Impact of Excessive Fruit Consumption on Gut Microbiome(00:28:47) "Nutrient-Dense Healing for Children's Gut Health"Jamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein Sticks
Hey guys! In this episode of Oh Crap with Jamie, we're diving deep into the wild world of Minecraft, video games, and tech use in kids—and I've got a LOT to say. Spoiler: I'm actually pro-Minecraft.
Hey everyone, Jamie here with another episode of "Oh Crap with Jamie," and this week, we're diving back into the topic of hormones—but it's not just about the hormones. After noticing some heated discussions about parenting teenagers versus younger kids, I've decided to expand on our understanding of different parenting stages. Remember the crucial shifts from governing to guiding as our kids grow? That's what we're unpacking today. We'll explore why the teenage years might seem daunting and how shifting our parenting approach can make a significant difference. I'm also delving into the broader issues facing women today, particularly around healthcare disparities and the often overwhelming pressure of managing perimenopause. Join me as we break down these complex topics with the aim to empower and inform. Don't miss out on a blend of tough love, practical advice, and some heartfelt discussions on navigating these challenging yet transformative stages of life.(00:09:11) "Empowering Wellness through Personal Experimentation"(00:12:47) Advocacy for Women's Hormonal Health Rights(00:15:39) Hormonal Cycle Productivity Optimization in Workplaces(00:19:52) Generational Misalignment: Parenting Through Menopause(00:23:18) Navigating Midlife Through Perimenopause Transition(00:31:01) "Muscle Building for Insulin Regulation and Health"(00:34:34) "Embracing Physical Transformation during Menopause"(00:37:19) Gradual Weightlifting Progress for Menopausal Fitness(00:38:48) Gradually Increasing Weights for Muscle Growth(00:49:55) Sprint Intervals for Optimal Hormonal Health(00:57:41) Optimizing Hormonal Balance Through Nutrition Tracking(01:11:53) Adrenal Health Through Lifestyle AdjustmentsJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein Sticks
Hey, everyone! It's Jamie on this week's episode of "Oh Crap with Jamie," where we're taking a deep dive into a hot topic—hormones! But guess what? It's not all about the hormones. From the turbulent teen years and the onset of puberty to the twists and turns of perimenopause and menopause, I'm unpacking the myths and providing a fresh perspective. If you've ever thought that mood swings, sarcasm, and the infamous eye rolls from your preteens or teens were just hormonal, or if you're approaching menopause and bracing for the worst, this episode is for you. I'll share insights into the vast changes our bodies and minds undergo during these critical life stages, backed by the wisdom of experts like Daniel Siegel and through personal anecdotes. We're talking about the brain changes, social dynamics, and yes, a bit about those hormones too, but with a twist. Join me as we explore how these life phases are more than just biological shifts—they're about growth, understanding, and sometimes, rediscovery of ourselves. Tune in to break down the barriers of hormone myths and discover how to navigate these changes with grace and knowledge!(00:00:01) Adolescent Development: Navigating Emotional Changes and Independence(00:04:25) Adapting Parenting Styles to Teenage Needs(00:12:16) Engaging Teens through Meaningful Conversations(00:18:11) Learning Healthy Relationships Through Real-Life Experiences(00:20:37) Navigating Adolescence: Shifting Parenting to Guide Mode(00:32:35) Evolutionary Perspective on Menopause's Biological Shifts(00:38:04) Dismissive Attitudes Towards Menopause Healthcare(00:46:35) Cortisol Management for Hormonal Balance(00:49:28) The Influence of Melatonin on Reproductive Health(00:51:51) Significance of Oxytocin in Female BondingJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein Sticks
Hey friends, Jamie here with another episode of "Oh Crap with Jamie" where parenting meets potty training in our new, merged podcast format! This week, I'm tackling a topic that you might be familiar with - peeing in the pants during potty training. Specifically, we're diving into the tricky transition from bottomless to pants on, and why your little one might be having accidents as they learn. I'll share some straightforward tips from my book (check page 133 in the yellow cover for the latest scoop!) on moving successfully from block one to block two, and how to set your kiddo up for dry days without the stress. Whether you're a first-timer or revisiting potty training with another child, this episode packs practical advice, plus a little personal oversharing on my end. Tune in, and let's navigate these parenting waters together!(00:07:01) Promoting Dry Pants Through Potty Training Success(00:09:07) Pants-On Potty Training Progression Strategy(00:09:50) Empowering Children in Potty Training SuccessJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein Sticks
Hey friends, Jamie here with another episode of "Oh Crap Parenting!" This week, as we edge into spring, I'm sharing a personal update about overcoming bronchitis and diving into some juicy topics that have been on my mind. First up, we're tackling independent play—why it's crucial for your kids and how to encourage it without micromanaging their every move. Then, I'm getting real with a rant that's been brewing about the unsolicited "just wait" advice that seems to follow parents at every stage. Whether it's about toddlers, teens, or perimenopause, let's chat about flipping the script to offer support instead of doom. So tune in, get inspired, and maybe even a little riled up, because parenting is all about the wild ride! As always, drop a
Hey there! It's Jamie from "Oh Crap Parenting" and in this week's episode, I'm super stoked to chat with Raquel Hopkins, a certified coach, therapist, and the founder of Success is Complicated. We're diving into the concept of capacity in parenting, something I've touched on before, but Raquel brings a whole new depth to it. She shares her journey from a high-flying HR professional to a mental health advocate, stirring in some fresh insights from adult development theory and how it meshes with our everyday struggles and triumphs as parents. We talk about everything from the pressures of modern motherhood to finding your personal capacity for growth and change. Raquel's stories about balancing work, life, and the messy, beautiful act of raising kids will resonate with anyone who's ever felt overwhelmed or underprepared in the parenting trenches. So, tune in, lean back, and let's unravel these complicated threads together because parenting is tough, but oh so rewarding!(00:03:33) Promoting Continuous Growth Through Coping Strategies(00:07:13) Navigating Parenthood with Personal Growth Perspective(00:10:07) Navigating Parenting Challenges: Building Self-Trust(00:15:44) Embracing Growth Through Radical Responsibility Journey(00:25:09) Embracing Change and Building Support in Motherhood(00:31:12) Navigating the Pressure of Modern Parenthood(00:36:01) Embracing Change for Personal Optimization in Therapy(00:39:59) Thrive by Balancing Life Roles EffectivelyJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein Sticks
In this week's episode of Oh Crap Parenting, I'm diving into the wild and sometimes overwhelming world of five-year-olds. Five can be such a tricky age — one minute they're fiercely independent, and the next they're melting down over who got the bigger slice of cake. I break down what's really happening in their little brains (hint: it's called the Limbic Leap), why emotions feel so intense at this age, and how you can help your kiddo self-regulate without losing your own mind. We'll talk about building autonomy, teaching emotional language, and finding those moments of calm in the chaos.(00:02:39) Autonomy Support in Gen X Parenting Trends(00:05:36) Guiding Children Through Significant Life Milestones(00:08:52) Navigating the Limbic Leap: Parenting a Five-Year-Old(00:13:42) Limbic Growth Impact on Children's Emotions(00:16:34) Empowering Children Through Chores and Autonomy(00:23:18) Empowering Children to Self-Regulate Emotions(00:26:09) Promoting Emotional Regulation in Parenting PracticesJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein Sticks
This week on Oh Crap Parenting, we're tackling a big one: when (and how) to talk to your kids about drugs and alcohol. This conversation is so much more than just "Don't do it!"—because let's be real, that approach doesn't work. I'm breaking down why affluent school districts tend to have more substance use, why we cannot assume "Not my kid," and how to have actual meaningful discussions that go beyond scare tactics. Plus, I'm sharing what I did with Pascal, including a radical (but necessary) approach that might just change how you think about this. We're talking peer pressure, sneaky social media drug sales, the dangers of fentanyl, and why being your kid's safe harbor matters more than ever. Let's dive in. (00:04:42) Understanding Family Views on Substance Education(00:07:51) Encouraging Awareness: Substance Effects on Young Minds(00:10:27) Alcohol's Deceptive Influence and Risky Behaviors(00:16:44) Navigating Teen Impulsive Behaviors with Trust(00:22:42) "Fentanyl: A Hidden Danger Among Teenagers"(00:24:42) Starting Conversations: Teen Substance Use DiscussionsJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein Sticks
This week on Oh Crap Parenting, we're diving into the concept of “the village” and what it truly means in today's world. Let's get real: the idyllic, supportive village we imagine doesn't just show up ready-made. It's messy, awkward, and sometimes not to our liking, but it's essential for our sanity as parents. I'm sharing why we often reject the village, the impact of hyper-individualism on parenting, and how we can start building our own messy-but-beautiful community. Whether it's folding laundry with a friend or letting others step in to help with your kids, I'm challenging you to step out of your bubble and rethink what support really looks like. Let's bring back connection and ditch the overwhelm—together. (00:00:01) Embracing the Village: Parenting with Community (00:08:44) Embracing Community Support in Parenting Journey (00:12:17) Embracing Support for Enriching Family Dynamics (00:14:58) Community-Based Parenting Collaboration in Modern Families (00:19:22) Empowering Parents to Make Personal Decisions Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler Paleovalley Protein Sticks
In this week's episode of Oh Crap Parenting, I'm diving into the theme of "starting too late" when it comes to parenting fundamentals. We're tackling two big areas: chores and the all-important conversation about sex. I'm sharing why these milestones are best introduced early and how delaying can make things way more complicated (hello, resistant preteens!). From scaffolding life skills to managing tricky conversations about bodies, consent, and relationships, I break it all down into approachable, age-appropriate steps. Plus, I sprinkle in personal anecdotes and practical tips to help make these sometimes-awkward topics a lot less daunting. Tune in to start building strong foundations now—because it's never too early, but it can be too late! (00:04:42) Ongoing Age-Appropriate Sex Education Conversations (00:07:28) Family Unity Through Early Household Responsibilities (00:09:55) Empowering Children Through Household Contributions (00:13:39) Early Conversations: Building a Foundation for Puberty (00:15:17) Developmentally-Gradual Introduction to Sex Education (00:30:39) Empowering Teens Through Open Sexual Health Talks Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler Paleovalley Protein Sticks
This week on Oh Crap Parenting, we're having some fun as we close out the year with lighthearted holiday stories and a few important reminders for next season. From navigating tricky Santa conversations to avoiding the trap of over-the-top traditions like Elf on the Shelf (trust me, I dug myself a deep hole with rhyming advent scavenger hunts!), I'm sharing my best tips and laughs to help you reflect on this holiday season. Plus, a gentle nudge to embrace the magic of giving and slow down as we enter the new year. Let's wrap up December with some joy, humor, and hopefully a bit more ease. (00:03:14) Navigating the Truth About Santa Claus (00:08:42) Navigating Truth and Innocence: Santa Claus (00:09:34) Transitioning Children's Focus to Giving at Christmas (00:10:47) Embracing Generosity and Love During Christmas (00:17:22) Embracing Darkness: Active Nighttime Outdoor Adventures Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler Paleovalley Protein Sticks
In this week's episode of Oh Crap Parenting, I dive into the Surgeon General's recent warning that parenting is hazardous to your health—especially your mental health. I unpack the two major crises we're all grappling with: a time crisis and a self-care crisis. From the pressure of hyper-vigilant, intensive parenting to the guilt that keeps us trapped in over-scheduling and activities, I'm breaking it all down. I share tips on setting boundaries, simplifying your days, and carving out essential time for yourself—because self-care isn't selfish, it's life-giving. Let's talk about how we can scale back, protect our energy, and nurture the parenting relationship without burning out. It's time to take care of YOU so you can show up fully for your kids. Let's do this! (00:01:17) Parenting Struggles: Balancing Time and Finances (00:03:38) Balancing Love and Support for Resilient Children (00:09:56) Balanced Approach to Childhood Education and Parenting (00:11:36) Essential Self-Care for Effective Parenting (00:17:51) Strength Training for Parental Self-Care (00:25:12) Enhancing Parenting Instincts Through Boundaries and Self-care Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler Paleovalley Protein Sticks
In this heartfelt and reflective episode of Oh Crap Parenting, I share how I stay grounded through the chaos of the holiday season while looking back on the fleeting early years of parenting. I talk candidly about the mix of joy and nostalgia that comes with watching my son Pascal grow up and offer a mix of practical advice and emotional insight to help parents balance their busy lives with the moments that truly matter. From tips on managing holiday activities to finding small ways to connect with your child amidst the frenzy, this episode is about doing less, loving more, and embracing the little things that make the season special. Let's tackle the holidays with intention and gratitude together! (00:08:08) Balancing Self-care and Parenting Priorities (00:12:36) Creating lasting holiday memories with children (00:19:27) Sunrise Family Walks: Nature Bonding Benefits (00:22:04) Maintaining Balance Amid Holiday Social Pressure (00:24:43) Prioritizing Well-being During Festive Season (00:28:45) Meaningful Gestures: Holiday Joy Through Simplicity Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler Paleovalley Protein Sticks
In this week's episode of Oh Crap Parenting, I'm sharing my top three tips for a peaceful holiday season with kids. From keeping your little ones well-fed before the big meal to avoiding power struggles over holiday food, I've got you covered. I talk about the magic of leaving gatherings on a high note (instead of waiting until they're melting down), and the power of a quiet, whispered reprimand to prevent embarrassing your child in front of others. Holidays can be chaotic, but with a few thoughtful strategies, you can make them joyful and stress-free for the whole family. (00:00:44) Whispered Reprimands and Happy Holidays (00:05:01) Creating Positive Memories by Leaving Early (00:08:16) Discreet Communication for Parental Guidance at Events Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler Paleovalley Protein Sticks
In this episode of Oh Crap Parenting, I'm breaking down what's really going wrong with “gentle parenting” and why so many parents feel like it doesn't work. The idea behind gentle parenting was never about giving in or being permissive—it's about being responsive without letting every big feeling run the show. I talk about co-regulation, validating emotions without making them rule the household, and why kids still need clear boundaries to grow. If you feel like “gentle parenting doesn't work,” tune in to get clarity on what it actually means to be a responsive parent! (00:00:45) Emphasizing Responsive Parenting for Autonomy Development (00:06:40) Emotionally Validating Parenting for Healthy Development (00:11:14) Respecting Children's Autonomy through Gentle Parenting (00:17:16) Balancing Parenting Duties and Quality Time (00:24:08) Balancing Attention for Healthy Family Dynamics Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler Paleovalley Protein Sticks
In this episode, we tackle a phrase we all know too well: "Use your words!" But here's the thing—our kids don't always have the words, especially when they're melting down. I talk about why expecting kids to verbalize their feelings during a tantrum can set us all up for frustration, and how we can better understand what's really going on beneath their behavior. We'll break down how unmet needs and connection gaps are often at the root, and why finding ways to stay calm and regulated is key. Join me as we explore better ways to support our little ones through their toughest moments! (00:02:02) Interpreting and Nurturing Toddler Emotions and Behavior (00:05:02) Fostering Strong Parent-Child Bonds through Connection (00:07:58) Creating Strong Family Connections through Shared Activities (00:14:19) Peak Tantrum Management Techniques (00:16:13) Calm Reflection for Effective Teaching Discussions Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler Paleovalley Protein Sticks
In this episode, I'm breaking down the key differences between boundaries and rules, showing how each plays a unique role in guiding your child's behavior and emotional growth. Rules provide clear instructions—like screen time limits or mealtime guidelines—while boundaries create the framework where kids can explore and understand limits with some autonomy. I'll share how consistent boundary-setting helps kids navigate and test their environment, supporting their social-emotional development. We'll also talk about how these concepts apply to adult relationships, focusing on how understanding and communicating boundaries is essential for maintaining healthy connections without trying to control others. This episode is all about finding that balance between structure and flexibility. (00:03:22) Flexible Boundaries Enhance Child Guidance (00:08:33) Boundary Exploration in Child Development (00:14:51) Empowering through Boundaries: Parenting Strategies (00:15:38) Setting Boundaries: Key to Healthy Relationships (00:20:42) Navigating personal limits for healthy relationships Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler Paleovalley Protein Sticks
In this episode, I dive into the incredibly important concept of giving our kids the gift of failure. Inspired by Jessica Lahey's book, The Gift of Failure, I explore how allowing our kids to fail, take risks, and have unstructured time builds resilience and independence—something they desperately need in today's overscheduled world. We talk about autonomy, supporting emotional growth by acknowledging their frustration without jumping in to fix things, and why stepping back and letting them figure it out on their own might just be the greatest gift you can give them. It's all about fostering independence, problem-solving skills, and emotional strength. Tune in for some eye-opening parenting strategies! (00:00:35) Fostering Resilience and Independence in Children (00:10:00) Building Trust Through Validating Children's Emotions (00:12:37) Empowering Children Through Problem-Solving Skills (00:18:13) Encouraging Autonomy through Supportive Parenting Approach The Gift of Failure Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler Paleovalley Protein Sticks
I have more to say about the importance of family meals and how to make them work for your family, this week. It's all about aligning your values, finding a routine that fits your life, and most importantly, creating connection after a long day apart. Whether it's shifting dinner times, understanding your child's needs, or redefining what family meals mean to you, it's time to rethink how we approach this daily ritual. Tune in to explore how small changes can foster deeper connection and reduce dinnertime stress. (00:00:53) Enhancing Family Connections Through Mealtime Communication (00:05:07) Nurturing Family Bonds Through Shared Meals (00:09:50) Strategic Early Dinner for Family Bonding (00:14:13) Foundational Needs for a Harmonious Family Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
Digital Canner I'm breaking down how to simplify family mealtime without sacrificing nutrition or sanity. We're talking about the importance of looking at your kids' nutrition over the span of several days rather than stressing about every single meal. I'm sharing my go-to tips for meal prepping, like using rotisserie chicken to whip up easy and healthy meals (because who has time for elaborate dinners every night?). We'll also cover how to handle picky eaters without turning mealtime into a battle and ways to minimize mealtime stress while focusing on connection with your kids. Let's make meal times easier, less chaotic, and more enjoyable for everyone. (00:00:38) Balanced Kids' Nutrition Approach for Parents (00:08:43) Rotisserie Chicken for Quick Family Meals (00:13:52) Creative Meal Approaches for Picky Eaters (00:19:31) Efficient Meal Preparation with Prepped Components (00:26:37) Identifying Children's Root Behavior Triggers in Parenting (00:28:01) Prioritizing Sleep and Connection for Parents Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
Today, I tackle one of the biggest challenges we face: balancing work and home life, especially when working from home. I dive into the friction points that can trip up our daily routines—like those chaotic mornings or stressful mealtimes—and how to design a family life that works for you, not against you. By identifying these "hot spots" and making small adjustments (like prepping meals ahead of time or finding the right workspace), we can create smoother, less stressful days for everyone. Let's make life more manageable for both parents and kids! (00:07:20) Identifying Daily Routine "Hot Spots" for Balance(00:08:57) Optimizing Daily Routines to Enhance Well-being(00:10:59) Morning Routines for Positive Starts(00:11:28) Proactive Meal Prep for Smooth Mornings(00:21:03) Minimize Family Stress Through Strategic Design
This week, I'm joined by Sarah Kleiner, a Quantum Health Coach and expert in circadian and quantum biology, to dive into how our bodies' natural rhythms affect everything from sleep to energy levels and overall health. We talk about optimizing circadian rhythms, balancing hormones through small lifestyle shifts, and why seasonal eating can make such a difference. Sarah breaks down the impact of blue light on sleep and offers practical tips for managing light exposure to support melatonin release and improve your well-being. This episode is packed with insights into how aligning with nature's cycles can help you feel your best! Sarah's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahkleinerwellness?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Sarah's website: https://www.sarahkleinerwellness.com (00:11:32) Quantum and Circadian Biology (00:16:22) Circadian Rhythms (00:16:29) Optimizing Health Through Circadian Rhythms Sync (00:21:48) Melatonin Production Through Light Management (00:27:32) Melatonin-Boosting Blue Light Blocking Strategies (00:32:45) Sunlight Exposure for Hormone Production and Health (00:39:25) Harmonizing Nutrition with Circadian Cycles (00:49:05) Nutrition and Light Integration (00:49:24) Empowerment Through Free Health and Wellness Guides Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
Today, I tackle a topic that's been causing quite a stir in many households: After-School Restraint Collapse. You know, that moment when your little one comes home from school and just melts down after holding it all together all day? It's a real thing, and it's hitting kindergarteners, first graders, and second graders hard. In this episode, I share why it happens and how you can help your kids transition smoothly from the structured school environment to the calm of home. From allowing transition time to prioritizing outdoor play and early bedtimes, I cover strategies to make these after-school hours a little less chaotic and a lot more connected. Plus, I dive into the importance of playtime and how we can better balance homework with much-needed family time. Let's navigate this together and ensure our kids get the support they need as they adapt to the demands of school life.(00:01:04) Emotional Meltdown: Kids Coping After School(00:08:03) Creating a Calm Homecoming for Schoolchildren(00:11:48) Recharging Through Outdoor Play: Kids' Vitality(00:17:40) "Bedtime Bonding: Nurturing After-School Connections"(00:21:55) The Impact of Excessive Homework on Elementary Students(00:27:24) Promoting Play for Child Development Success(00:29:59) Building Handwriting Skills Through Playful Activities(00:37:30) Supporting Children's Back-to-School Transition Mindfully Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
In Episode 195 of the Oh Crap Parenting Podcast, I address what might be the most important topic we've covered to date: the impact of parental exhaustion and the crucial need for connection with our kids. Lately, I've been seeing more and more behavioral issues—meltdowns, out-of-control behavior, even potty training setbacks—and I believe it all boils down to a lack of connection and the frantic pace of our lives. In this episode, I talk about how slowing down, reducing outside activities, and focusing on being truly present with our children can make all the difference. This isn't just another parenting tip—it's about creating a calm, connected family life that helps our kids thrive.(00:02:50) Parental Exhaustion's Influence on Children's Behavior(00:05:16) The Power of Soft Connections with Children(00:12:02) Promoting Well-being through Slower Family Life(00:13:06) Empowering Children Through Autonomy in Parenting(00:25:04) Understanding Children's Panic Response Triggers(00:31:35) Balancing Technology and Parent-Child Bonding Through Activities(00:39:02) Empowering Children Through Holistic Parenting Approach(00:40:54) Individualized Parenting Approaches Based on Child's Needs Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
In this episode, I dive deep into the ways our phones and constant digital distractions are leading us straight to burnout, affecting not just our own mental health but our parenting too. Inspired by a recent Mel Robbins podcast, I explore how excessive screen time floods our brains with dopamine, making it harder for us—and our kids—to tolerate boredom and truly connect. I share my own struggles with phone addiction, how I've set boundaries, and why it's crucial to disconnect to reset our minds and hearts. Join me as we unpack how to reclaim our peace, be more present, and avoid the burnout trap.Mel Robbins podcast episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0UmCZlyBjnjxw9lZsB1dSi (00:00:46) Dopamine Impact of Smartphone Addiction on Children (00:04:11) Impact of Excessive Screen Time on Mental Health (00:06:25) Resetting Dopamine Receptors to Reduce Phone Use (00:11:10) Parenting Mental Load and Burnout (00:20:12) The Dopamine-Driven Effects of Screen Time (00:26:32) Balancing Digital with In-Person Connections (00:33:20) Preventing Burnout Through Mindful Parenting Practice Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
In today's episode, I have a heartfelt conversation with Chantel Zimmerman, founder of a forest school in New Jersey and a passionate advocate for nature-based learning. We delve into Chantel's philosophy of prioritizing the parenting process over the outcome, emphasizing the importance of being present and mindful throughout the journey. Chantel shares her insights on aligning family activities with core values, fostering meaningful connections, and the joy that comes from intentional, family-centered parenting. We also explore the challenges of parental burnout, the significance of self-care, and the power of authentic communication in building strong, emotionally healthy families. Join us for an episode filled with practical advice and thoughtful reflections on raising children with empathy and mindfulness. Follow Chantel on Instagram: @sensory_garden_and_play (00:03:41) Emphasizing the Learning Journey(00:06:08) Authentic Family Connections and Parenting Practices(00:08:33) Prioritizing Family Time Over Rat Race Stress(00:10:38) Emotional Focused Family Seasonal Organization(00:22:59) Authentic Parenting: Shaping Childhood with Self-Awareness(00:24:38) Parental Support Networks for Well-being in Parenthood(00:30:38) Building Authentic Connections Through Uncomfortable Dialogues(00:35:45) Nurturing Meaningful Connections to Prevent Burnout(00:39:32) Personalized Pathways to Inner Balance(00:49:03) Quality Family Time Through Dinner Conversations(00:51:54) Balancing Work and Family for Well-Being
In this deeply personal episode, I open up about the recent passing of my mom and the profound journey of grief that follows. Losing a parent is a transformative experience, and I candidly share the layers of grief, the emotional rollercoaster, and the societal discomfort around death that I've encountered. Reflecting on my mom's complex medical history and our moments together during her final days, I discuss the importance of preparing for the inevitable and finding peace in the process. Join me as I honor my mom's memory, explore the spiritual growth that comes with loss, and celebrate the beauty and complexity of life and death. (00:00:41) Grief and Spiritual Transformation After Loss(00:02:40) The Journey of Coping with Complex Health Issues(00:09:51) End-of-Life Support(00:22:29) Navigating Grief Through Personal Transformation(00:30:27) Navigating Loss and Spiritual Transformation(00:32:25) Embracing Mortality: A Daughter's Journey(00:41:26) Navigating Grief without Alcohol: A Personal Journey(00:42:18) Embracing Imperfections and Forgiveness for Healing Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
I'm diving into Inside Out 2 to unpack how the film mirrors the teenage experience. We'll explore the role of sarcasm, the depiction of belief systems and anxiety, and how these elements resonate with real-life adolescent emotions. I'll share insights on managing emotional volatility, the importance of building a strong connection with your teen before they hit their teenage years, and tips for handling communication breakdowns. Join me for a deep dive into what the film gets right and where it misses the mark! (00:06:15) Navigating Teenage Sarcasm with Patience (00:08:37) Anxiety's Intricate Influence on Belief Systems (00:13:15) Navigating Teens' Emotional Changes with Empathy (00:21:26) Parental reactivity impacting teen communication and support (00:23:51) Nurturing a Soulful Connection with Teenagers Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
Hey you guys! Today, I sit down with the incredible Anna Sneed, known as "the period lady" for her expertise in menstrual cycle education. Anna is a dedicated empowerment and life coach who passionately believes in the importance of body literacy and understanding menstrual cycles as the "red thread" that connects us all. Together, we dive into the phases of the menstrual cycle, how they impact mood and daily activities, and the power of tracking these fluctuations to improve communication and support within relationships. Anna shares invaluable insights on normalizing conversations about menstrual health, advocating for women's well-being, and empowering our daughters through education and practical tools like period preparation kits. Join us for a fascinating discussion that will change how you view and navigate menstrual cycles in your family and beyond. (00:04:24) Seasonal Influence on Menstrual Phases(00:23:14) Enhancing Relationships Through Menstrual Health Education(00:25:29) Tracking Hormonal Phases(00:30:10) Menstrual Cycle Hormonal Impact on Emotions(00:30:10) Promoting Body Literacy for Women's Health(00:32:38) Period Tracking App with Education Emphasis(00:44:29) Period Starter Kits(00:44:33) Normalize Menstruation Education(00:44:33) Confident Menstrual Health for Daughters Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
Hey friends! I'm seeing a lot of people online talk about "slow summers" and "creating summer memories" with their kids and I wanted to share my perspective on this topic. We're talking about the magic of creating memorable and restful summers for our kids, even when work commitments keep us busy. We'll explore the benefits of traditional camps and summer programs that build connections, improve behavior, and reduce stress for both parents and children. I'll share how simple activities like backyard camping, nature walks, and making ice cream can foster deep bonds and lasting memories. By slowing down and being present, we can create summers full of joy and rejuvenation. Let's make this summer one that our kids will cherish forever, filled with impromptu fun and quality time together.(00:00:43) Creating Lasting Summer Memories for Kids(00:12:08) Joyful Summer Memories Through Ice Cream Adventures(00:15:09) Nurturing Bonds and Memories with Simple Activities(00:18:39) Prioritizing Quality Time to Connect with Kids(00:21:12) Potty Training Support and Parenting Resources Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
In this episode, I sit down with Jeanne-Marie Paynel, founder of Your Parenting Mentor and host of the Art of Parenting podcast, to dive deep into what Montessori education truly entails. Jeanne-Marie, a master of education and an experienced Montessori consultant, explains the core principles of Montessori, focusing on child-driven learning, freedom of choice, and the importance of a prepared environment. We discuss how these elements foster independence and emotional development in children. We also touch on the significance of freedom of movement and practical life skills in Montessori settings, along with the benefits of mixed-age classrooms. Jeanne-Marie shares invaluable insights for parents looking to create supportive, engaging environments that promote their children's growth and autonomy. Join us to explore how Montessori can transform your parenting approach and support your child's development in profound ways. (00:03:58) Child-Driven Learning Environments in Montessori Education(00:09:11) Montessori Approach Fosters Child-Led Education(00:22:57) Child-Driven Learning in Montessori Education(00:23:21) Child-Centered Learning in Montessori Classrooms(00:30:55) Enhancing Child Development Through Movement in Montessori(00:32:55) Child-Centered Environment for Effective Parenting(00:34:08) Independent Development Through Practical Tasks(00:48:08) Autonomy-Driven Montessori Nursery Setup(00:48:08) Autonomy Promotion Through Transition to Floor Bed Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
Hey, hey! Today, I dive into the dynamics of relationships and how they form a "love umbrella" that shields the entire family. I talk about how power imbalances in marriages impact co-parenting and family unity. We explore the significance of addressing postpartum depression, the influence of parental behavior on children's emotional development, and the critical need for regular communication and alignment on parenting philosophies. I share insights on creating a secure and loving environment for your children by maintaining a strong emotional connection with your partner. I also emphasize recognizing signs of a toxic marriage and the importance of not staying together just for the kids. Prioritizing your relationship is essential for a stable and nurturing home. Join me as we uncover the foundations of a strong partnership that benefits the whole family. (00:03:03) Parenting Unity: Impact of Marriage Dynamics(00:06:26) The Impact of Postpartum Depression on Relationships(00:09:04) Parental Relationship Impact on Children's Emotional Development(00:12:21) Nurturing the Marital Relationship for Family Harmony(00:15:35) Strengthening Family Unity through Shared Principles(00:20:52) "Prioritizing Love and Affection in Marriage"(00:32:38) Unified Front in Parenting for Family Harmony Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
Today we're talking about the art of apologizing, especially with our kids. Apologies aren't just about saying "sorry" – they're about making amends and truly repairing relationships. I'll talk about the key components of a genuine apology, like taking responsibility, expressing real remorse, and listening to the other person's perspective. We'll discuss why overpromising in apologies can be harmful and how to avoid defensive reactions. I'll also share tips on effective communication and addressing past hurts without deflecting responsibility. Tune in to learn how to foster healthier, more honest relationships through sincere apologies.(00:02:34) Genuine Apologies Fostering Healthy Relationships with Kids(00:03:17) Sincere Efforts to Mend Relationships through Apologies(00:08:56) Authentic Apologies: Acknowledging Mistakes and Improving(00:12:13) Meaningful Apology Guidelines(00:18:06) The Art of Genuine Apologies(00:18:59) Prioritizing Clean Emotional Transactions in Relationships Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
Hey you guys! Today, we're talking core memories, popularized by the Pixar movie Inside Out, and discuss how this idea, while engaging, is not based in science. I caution against the societal pressure parents may feel to create these "perfect" memories, emphasizing that true core memories are formed from the emotional connections behind everyday moments. Forget about orchestrating extravagant events; the best memories come from simple, meaningful interactions like cooking together or playing outside. Tune in to learn how staying present and creating loving, calm moments can help build lasting, positive memories for your children. (00:02:29) Core Memories Concept(00:08:44) Emotional Connections(00:13:03) Nostalgia and Childhood Memories(00:15:54) Emotional Impact on Lasting Memories(00:19:54) Memory Fallibility Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
In this episode, I dive into the complex world of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), a subtype of autism spectrum disorder characterized by extreme avoidance of social demands and anxiety-driven meltdowns. We'll explore the nuances of PDA, how it manifests in children, and why it often goes unrecognized in traditional autism screenings. I'll share effective strategies to manage PDA and similar behaviors, emphasizing the importance of tailored support and understanding. By implementing low-demand cues and fostering collaboration and autonomy, we can help our kids feel more in control and less anxious. Join me as we unravel the intricacies of PDA and learn practical ways to support our children's unique needs.(00:00:01) Overactive Threat Response in Pathological Demand Avoidance(00:08:34) Unique Strategies for Addressing Pathological Demand Avoidance(00:16:48) Navigating Anxiety in Children with PDA(00:29:34) Empowering Anxious Children through Collaborative Autonomy(00:31:01) Empowering Language for Children's Autonomy Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
Hey, hey, you guys! I dive into the importance of seeing the world through our children's eyes. We start by discussing the magical perspective children have on nature walks, where every creek and puddle is an adventure. Then, I share a personal story about how my son's fascination with trains led us to hours of joy at the train station, highlighting the value of child-led exploration. We also touch on complex family dynamics, such as relationships with estranged grandparents, and how our kids' views can offer unexpected insights. Join me as we explore how embracing our children's unique perspectives can enrich our parenting journey and strengthen our family connections.(00:00:52) Discovering Nature's Wonders Through a Child's Eyes(00:04:20) Exploring Trains through a Child's Eyes(00:08:28) Embracing Children's Intrigues through Exploration(00:15:08) Evolution of Grandparent-Grandchild Relationships(00:19:57) Navigating Family Dynamics with Nuance Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
Today's a short one from the archives! We're diving into the tricky world of timed warnings for kids. Ever told your little one, "We're leaving in 30 minutes," only to be met with resistance or outright dismissal? You're not alone! In this episode, I break down why these warnings can backfire and how to use them effectively. We'll talk about setting realistic expectations, using timers, and giving kids concrete activities to mark the end of playtime. Tune in to learn how to keep your transitions smooth and tantrum-free! Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
Hey, hey, you guys! This episode originally aired on Patreon March 4, 2021 but I wanted to reshare it her because I get questions on kiddos and speech all of the time.I'm so excited to have a special guest with us today who is going to address many of the questions you have been submitting about your kids and their speech development. Marci Melzer, M.Ed./SLP, is an intuitive speech-language pathologist with 30 years of experience helping people to develop the ability to use spoken language functionally. She is the founder of the online platform ‘Waves of Communication', the author of If it isn't FUN it ISN'T fun: Teach Your Child to Talk Faster Than Speech Therapy, and the host of her own YoutTube channel. Through each of these initiatives, Marci helps families to facilitate language themselves faster, easier, and with a lot more fun than speech therapy, and she shares a wealth of information and advice with us all here today.She begins by explaining her role and work, and then we delve deeply into the world of kids and language. In essence, we look at the development of speech in children, the signs that your child may need help with that development, and some strategies to employ should the need arise. Along the way we also discuss such topics as learning multiple languages, the use of sign language, and how to implement strategies during times such as the current pandemic. What Marcia and I want to make crystal clear is that there is no guilt to be assigned here. There are certain aspects in life that can block the development of speech and stop its evolution, and today we explore some ways to help you address them. I can tell you, we could have gone on for hours talking about this subject, and if you want to learn even more, don't forget to check out Marci's 370 free step-by-step strategy videos on YouTube! Waves of Communication homepage Waves of Communication YouTube Channel If it isn't FUN, it ISN'T fun (00:04:43) Promoting Appreciation Over External Comparisons in Parenting (00:08:50) Evolution of Language Skills in Children (00:14:04) Factors affecting language development in children (00:28:26) Language Exposure Impact on Late Talkers (00:28:26) Effective Communication Strategies for Late-Talking Children (00:28:26) Enhancing Language Development Through Parental Engagement (00:36:46) The Role of Speech Models in Development (00:45:42) Speech Models for Effective Language Development (00:46:46) Split Vocabulary Development in Multilingual Children (00:51:03) Speech Development: Overcoming Challenges and Providing Support (00:55:12) Meaningful Daily Interaction to Strengthen Bonds Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
In this episode, I'm joined by sleep expert Jessica Berk from @awesomelittlesleepers to dive deep into the world of toddler sleep. We're tackling everything from maintaining boundaries in parenting to handling transition periods and adjusting sleep training for older kids. With Jessica's expertise and my own experiences, we explore setting time limits for bedtime conversations and the importance of establishing a structured bedtime routine. Plus, we discuss the flexibility needed in sleep schedules while emphasizing the long-term benefits of instilling good sleep habits in our little ones. If you're struggling with your toddler's sleep, this episode is a must-listen!(00:05:15) Promoting Healthy Sleep Habits Through Consistent Boundaries(00:08:03) Transition Buffer Periods for Smooth Adjustments(00:10:03) Empowering Older Kids through Bedtime Choices(00:15:33) Bedtime Routine Optimization through Time Boundaries(00:23:40) Empowering Children Through Structured Bedtime Routines(00:26:19) Empowering Children Through Bedtime Preferences(00:29:47) Optimizing Children's Sleep Patterns for Well-being Jamie's Courses Jamie's Instagram Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community Oh Crap! Potty Training Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler
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