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We wanted to finish our thoughts on Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne, specifically surrounding childhood sports and extracurriculars. We talk about what activities we are comfortable with at this current stage of kindergarten and how we are exploring the world of extracurriculars with a grain of skepticism and permission to adjust as needed!! Paris talks about starting Miles in hockey and her end goals for her children's activities. Britt talks about interviewing for a full time job and then about your children coming as they are and adjusting expectations in your current family from how you grew up. We hope this episode feels helpful and relatable in some way to what you are currently experiencing! We would love to hear how you are currently managing the push and pull of extracurricular activity!!You can follow along on Instagram @kindred_conversations.

Book Club Episode!! Simplicity Parenting by Kim John PayneWe loved this book and felt either around the Holidays or at the beginning of the year felt like the most appropriate time to give it a read. We're so excited to share with you all that we learned and want to takeaway! We talk about toys, scheduling, meals, and daily rhythms. Let us know what you think and if you read along please share your insights with us over on Instagram @kindred_conversations.If you liked this episode please leave a 5-star rating or review on Spotify or the Podcast app. It would mean so much!

Chapter 1: Summary of Simplicity Parenting"Simplicity Parenting" by Kim John Payne and Lisa M. Ross presents a compelling approach to parenting that emphasizes the importance of simplifying a child's environment and daily life to foster emotional well-being and resilience. The authors argue that modern culture's focus on busyness, over-scheduling, and materialism can overwhelm children, leading to stress and anxiety.The book outlines four key areas for simplification:1. Environment: Create a calm and orderly physical space by reducing clutter and distractions. A simplified environment can help children feel more secure and focused.2. Rhythm: Establish consistent daily and weekly rhythms, which provide a sense of security and predictability. This structure helps children know what to expect and reduces anxiety.3. Information: Limit the amount of information and media exposure. The authors encourage parents to be mindful of the content and quantity of what children consume, advocating for less screen time and more engaging, time-honored forms of play and learning.4. Choices: Reduce the number of choices children have to make, which can overwhelm them. Instead, offer limited, manageable options that help children feel empowered without feeling burdened.Payne and Ross emphasize that by simplifying these aspects of life, parents can help create a nurturing and supportive environment that enables children to thrive emotionally and socially. The book provides practical strategies and insights to guide parents in implementing these principles, ultimately fostering deeper connections within families and promoting healthier development for children.Chapter 2: The Theme of Simplicity Parenting"Simplicity Parenting: Using the Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids" by Kim John Payne and Lisa M. Ross advocates for a minimalistic approach to parenting and childhood that emphasizes the benefits of simplicity. While the book is not a narrative work with traditional plot points or character development, it presents vital concepts and practices in child-rearing. Here are key ideas and themes from the book: Key Points:1. The Overstimulation of Modern Childhood:- The book discusses how children today face overwhelming amounts of information, activities, and material possessions. The authors argue that this overstimulation can lead to anxiety, behavioral issues, and diminished creativity.2. Four Key Principles of Simplicity Parenting:Payne and Ross outline four essential areas to simplify:- Environment: Creating a calming and organized physical space by reducing clutter and distractions.- Rhythms: Establishing predictable daily routines that provide structure and security for children.- Schedules: Allowing unstructured playtime and freedom from excessive extracurricular activities to encourage creativity and independence.- Filtering Information: Moderating the types of media and information children are exposed to, ensuring it is age-appropriate and not overwhelming.3. Importance of Safe Spaces:- The authors emphasize the need for children to have safe, nurturing environments where they can express themselves and explore their interests without fear of judgment.4. Connection Over Control:- They advocate for a parenting style that prioritizes emotional connection and understanding over strict discipline or control, fostering a supportive relationship between parents and children. Character Development:While "Simplicity Parenting" does not have characters in a fictional sense, the concept of character development can be linked to:- Parent Growth: The book suggests that parents should reflect on their own values and behaviors. As parents work through the simplification process, they may develop greater...

In this episode, I'm chatting with Kim John Payne, a family therapist and author of ‘Simplicity Parenting', and we're exploring how the relentless pace of today's society impacts children's development and mental health. We discuss the issue of children's overstimulation in modern family life, how dialling back activities and fostering a simpler lifestyle can lead to more resilient and balanced children, the importance of giving children downtime, and how less can genuinely be more when it comes to parenting.In this episode:The impact of overstimulation on kidsUnderstanding simplicity parentingThe sympathetic and parasympathetic balanceThe modern childhood crisisThe importance of downtime and creative playPreparing kids for future successChallenging modern parenting normsThe impact of overexposure on childrenCreating a safe harbour for childrenPractical advice for parentsConnect with Kim John Payne:Simplicity Parenting websiteFacebookInstagramConnect with Clare: Instagram YouTubeFacebook LinkedInWebsite More about On the Couch with Clare:Come take a seat On the Couch with Clare, your weekly dose of common sense and raw conversations, where psychology meets everyday life. It's a show aimed to bring scientific insights, engaging conversations and never shies away from the tough topics across health, relationships, politics, parenting and everyday life. You'll hear from guests from diverse backgrounds, including media personalities, authors, and health professionals. Expect a blend of professional wisdom, personal anecdotes and political correctness - free zone. Clare's straightforward and honest approach delivers shame-free practical solutions, new perspectives, and actionable advice. Keeping it real, she addresses everything from fitness struggles, ADHD and digital addictions to mental health challenges and the dating scene. So, whether you're sipping coffee or enjoying your favourite wine, prepare for your weekly meet-up with a friend who's here to show you that the only battle you're truly facing is with yourself—and it's a battle you can win.Clare Rowe is a dynamic Sydney-based psychologist with a Masters in Educational & Developmental Psychology. Heading up a leading Child & Adolescent Psychology clinic, Clare's career spans from the therapy room to the courtroom and the media spotlight, offering practical solutions for parents regaining confidence, individuals navigating life post-divorce, and anyone trying to balance the demands of a fast-paced world.Dropping every Thursday, "On the Couch with Clare" will unfold with season 1 launching in July 2024.

Episode 144: On Simplicity, with Kim John Payne In the second episode of our Poolside Professional Development Summer Series for Moms we are sharing a conversation with Kim John Payne. Yes, that's right, sisters- he's back! Kim John Payne, M.ED, is an award-winning author and has been a school counselor, adult educator, consultant, researcher, educator, and private family counselor for twenty-seven years. In this conversation, we discuss child development, adolescence, homeschooling, media consumption, and how to simplify it all! View the show notes here: - Episode 144: On Simplicity, with Kim John Payne

Jeannie talks with Jennifer Pepito about her new book Habits for a Sacred Home, sharing Biblical truths, homeschool wisdom, and insights for Kingdom Living. About Jennifer Jennifer Pepito has seven children and has been homeschooling for twenty-five years. She has graduated five children from her program, with two students earning honors degrees from their preferred university and one pursuing a Juris Doctorate. When she discovered that her second daughter had learning disabilities, Jennifer became an avid student of child development, learning from innovators and researchers such as Carol Stock Kranowitz, Gordon Neufeld, John Taylor Gatto, Jane Healy, Maria Montessori, Kim John Payne, and Charlotte Mason. The Peaceful Press resources were born out of these years of research.  Jennifer has a passion for equipping families to homeschool in a way that is developmentally appropriate, spiritually nourishing, and based on proven methods of education. She doesn't want you just to homeschool. She wants to help you enjoy the homeschooling journey and learn with your children in ways that build connected families. Her book, Mothering by the Book can help you overcome the fears that steal that joy so you can savor motherhood.  Jennifer is a Simplicity Parenting Coach and a Certified Life Coach. She continually researches education and child development to ensure that Peaceful Press families are getting the best resources based on current research about learning while continuing to integrate the time-honored educational philosophy put forward by Charlotte Mason and Maria Montessori.  She's regularly contributed to the Wild and Free homeschool community and has been published in several online journals and print articles. About Jeannie Jeannie Fulbright, a 24-year veteran homeschooler, is the author of the #1 best-selling, multi award-winning Apologia Young Explorer science series: Exploring Creation with Astronomy, Chemistry and Physics, Botany, Zoology, and Anatomy & Physiology. She is also the author of the action-packed historical time travel book series Rumble Tumbles Through Time, as well as preschool science books and activity kits, the Charlotte Mason Heirloom Planner, and many high-quality Charlotte Mason based products. Jeannie and her husband Jeff became empty nesters in 2019. All four of their children all went to the University of Georgia on scholarship (homeschooling works!). For more than 20 years Jeannie has traveled around the country speaking to homeschoolers at conventions, covering a plethora of topics from Charlotte Mason to marriage and prayer.  Resources Pre-order Habits for a Sacred Home Connect Jeannie Fulbright | Instagram | Facebook | Facebook Group | TikTok | Pinterest | Website Jennifer Pepito | Instagram | Website Homeschooling.mom | Instagram | Website Subscribe to our YouTube channel | YouTube Thank you to our sponsors! Medi-Share: an affordable Christian alternative to traditional health insurance Tuttle Twins: children's books to help you teach your kids how the world really works Have you joined us at one of the Great Homeschool Conventions?  We hope to see you there! For more encouragement on your homeschooling journey, visit the Homeschooling.mom site, and tune in to our sister podcast The Homeschool Solutions Show. View full show notes on the blog.

Why are so many of our kids showing signs of trauma when they live in relative safety? How do we raise counter-cultural kids in a world of excess? Today, Dawn is joined by Kim John Payne, M.ED., who has been a counselor, educator, consultant, and researcher for over thirty years.  IN THIS EPISODE:  -The one thing Kim would say to parents right now -What lead Kim to study simplicity in parenting -A formula for unstructured playtime -Importance of rhythms vs. routines  -Parenting as a governor, gardener, and guide  ABOUT KIM JOHN PAYNE: Kim John Payne is an Australian who has, for 24 years, worked throughout the world as a counselor, consultant/researcher and educator of both children and adults. He has been helping children, adolescents and families explore issues such as social difficulties with siblings and classmates, attention and behavioral issues at home and school, and a range of emotional issues such as defiance, aggression, addiction and self-esteem. BOOKS: Simplicity Parenting Book: https://amzn.to/4c9P7VQ Being at Your Best When Your Kids are at Their Worst: https://amzn.to/3T5Tokh The Soul of Discipline: The Simplicity Parenting Approach to Warm, Firm, and Calm Guidance -- From Toddlers to Teens: https://amzn.to/3VahD3p Reset Your Child's Brain, 4 Week Screen Detox: https://amzn.to/3wVCxsM Welcome to The Official Minimal Mom Podcast. Thank you so much for listening and could I ask a favor? Would you mind following? It helps podcast apps recommend this podcast to more friends. Thank you! Dawn  

Tye DeGrange is the founder and CEO of Round Barn Labs, a performance and affiliate marketing company that has worked with companies like Oculus, thredUp, ModCloth and Nextdoor. Prior to that he had career stints at Amazon, eBay and Commission Junction. He grew up on a horse ranch in Northern California!  He's also a husband and the father of two kids. In today's conversation we discussed: What life was like growing up on a ranch and the work ethic that instilled in him Tye's parenting philosophies and the books they're rooted in His relationship with social media and its influence on his kids How he met his wife -- possibly my favorite story yet! The importance of consistency, simplicity and a well-structured day — Where to find Tye DeGrange - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tyedegrange/ - Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/TyeDeGrange - Round Barn Labs: https://www.roundbarnlabs.com/   Where to find Adam Fishman - Newsletter: https://startupdadpod.substack.com/ - Newsletter: https://www.fishmanafnewsletter.com - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ — In this episode, we cover: [1:58] Welcome [2:33] Tye's professional background [5:57] Work ethic from ranch childhood; the story of round barns [10:24] How Tye met his wife [12:07] Tye's kids [14:11] Their decision to start a family [20:13] His earliest memory of being a dad [21:32] Most surprising thing about being a dad [23:15] Advice that resonates with Tye [25:35] Parenting frameworks [33:29] Where Tye and his partner don't align [36:18] His kid's relationship to technology [42:38] What did Tye give up to be a dad? [45:33] A mistake Tye made as a dad [47:47] Balance work/life [50:34] Follow along with Tye [51:20] Rapid fire — Show references: How To Raise Successful People: Simple Lessons for Radical Results by Esther Wojcicki: https://www.amazon.com/How-Raise-Successful-People-Lessons/dp/1328974863/ Yellowstone: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt4236770/ Bob Feist invitational: https://bfiweek.com/schedule/ Cool Gray City of Love: 49 Views of San Francisco Hardcover by Gary Kamiya: https://www.amazon.com/Cool-Gray-City-Love-Francisco/dp/1608199606 National Lampoon's Vacation: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0085995/ Fountain Grove, Ca: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fountain_Grove,_California Oculus: https://www.meta.com/quest/quest-3/ ThredUP: https://www.thredup.com/ ModCloth: https://modcloth.com/ NextDoor: https://nextdoor.com/ Amazon: https://www.amazon.com Ebay: https://www.ebay.com/ Commission Junction: https://www.cj.com/ Salesforce: https://www.salesforce.com/ Bowflex: https://www.bowflex.com/home StubHub: https://www.stubhub.com/ Baby Bjorn: https://www.babybjorn.com/ Bringing Up Bébé: One American Mother Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting (now with Bébé Day by Day: 100 Keys to French Parenting) by Pamela Druckerman: https://www.amazon.com/Bringing-Up-B%C3%A9b%C3%A9-Discovers-Parenting/dp/0143122967 Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids Paperback by Kim John Payne and Lisa M. Ross: https://www.amazon.com/Simplicity-Parenting-Extraordinary-Calmer-Happier/dp/0345507983/ Lion King: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110357/ Sing 2: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6467266/ The Goonies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/ Daniel Tiger Potty Episode: https://pbskids.org/video/daniel-tigers-neighborhood/2328918496 — For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com. For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com  Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/

Tye DeGrange is the founder and CEO of Round Barn Labs, a performance and affiliate marketing company that has worked with companies like Oculus, thredUp, ModCloth and Nextdoor. Prior to that he had career stints at Amazon, eBay and Commission Junction. He grew up on a horse ranch in Northern California!  He's also a husband and the father of two kids. In today's conversation we discussed:* What life was like growing up on a ranch and the work ethic that instilled in him* Tye's parenting philosophies and the books they're rooted in* His relationship with social media and its influence on his kids* How he met his wife -- possibly my favorite story yet!* The importance of consistency, simplicity and a well-structured dayListen or watch Startup Dad on Apple, Spotify, YouTube, and Overcast.—Where to find Tye DeGrange- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tyedegrange/- Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/TyeDeGrange- Round Barn Labs: https://www.roundbarnlabs.com/Where to find Adam Fishman- Newsletter: startupdadpod.substack.com - Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/—In this episode, we cover:[1:58] Welcome[2:33] Tye's professional background[5:57] Work ethic from ranch childhood; the story of round barns[10:24] How Tye met his wife[12:07] Tye's kids[14:11] Their decision to start a family[20:13] His earliest memory of being a dad[21:32] Most surprising thing about being a dad[23:15] Advice that resonates with Tye[25:35] Parenting frameworks[33:29] Where Tye and his partner don't align[36:18] His kid's relationship to technology[42:38] What did Tye give up to be a dad?[45:33] A mistake Tye made as a dad[47:47] Balance work/life[50:34] Follow along with Tye[51:20] Rapid fire—Show references:How To Raise Successful People: Simple Lessons for Radical Results by Esther Wojcicki: https://www.amazon.com/How-Raise-Successful-People-Lessons/dp/1328974863/Yellowstone: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt4236770/Bob Feist invitational: https://bfiweek.com/schedule/Cool Gray City of Love: 49 Views of San Francisco Hardcover by Gary Kamiya: https://www.amazon.com/Cool-Gray-City-Love-Francisco/dp/1608199606National Lampoon's Vacation: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0085995/Fountain Grove, Ca: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fountain_Grove,_CaliforniaOculus: https://www.meta.com/quest/quest-3/ThredUP: https://www.thredup.com/ModCloth: https://modcloth.com/NextDoor: https://nextdoor.com/Amazon: https://www.amazon.comEbay: https://www.ebay.com/Commission Junction: https://www.cj.com/Salesforce: https://www.salesforce.com/Bowflex: https://www.bowflex.com/homeStubHub: https://www.stubhub.com/Baby Bjorn: https://www.babybjorn.com/Bringing Up Bébé: One American Mother Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting (now with Bébé Day by Day: 100 Keys to French Parenting) by Pamela Druckerman: https://www.amazon.com/Bringing-Up-B%C3%A9b%C3%A9-Discovers-Parenting/dp/0143122967Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids Paperback by Kim John Payne and Lisa M. Ross: https://www.amazon.com/Simplicity-Parenting-Extraordinary-Calmer-Happier/dp/0345507983/Lion King: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110357/Sing 2: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6467266/The Goonies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/Daniel Tiger Potty Episode: https://pbskids.org/video/daniel-tigers-neighborhood/2328918496—For sponsorship inquiries email: podcast@fishmana.com.For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com Production support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron at http://www.armaziproductions.com/ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit startupdadpod.substack.com

Kim is back!!!! And oh my, every time it's a home run. We're talking about disoriented kids in this episodes - kids who are floundering through the overwhelm of childhood activities. We're talking about low-screen and no-screen kids and the long-term benefits of being a little more vigilant there. We talk about how a simple and balanced life aligns seamlessly with brain science - woot woot! As the conversation unfolds, Payne stresses the critical role of parents in navigating emotional overwhelm, highlighting the importance of staying calm and centered. The episode explores the power of wonder, urging parents to give their instincts the space they need. We discuss how inner talk develops and why that's so important (fascinating!!!) In this episode, Ginny Yurich and Kim John Payne deliver a captivating exploration of parenting, discipline, and the intricate world of childhood development, challenging conventional beliefs and offering a fresh perspective on the true essence of raising resilient and well-balanced kiddos. It's a don't miss episode! ** Purchase your copy of The Soul of Discipline here >> https://amzn.to/496ykko Check out Kim's trainings and podcast here >> https://www.simplicityparenting.com/ ** Downloads your free 1000 Hours Outside trackers here >> https://www.1000hoursoutside.com/trackers Find everything you need to kick off your 1000 Hours Outside Journey here >> https://www.1000hoursoutside.com/blog/allthethings Order of copy of Ginny's newest book, Until the Streetlights Come On here >> https://amzn.to/3RXjBlN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join me as we revisit Road Trip lessons from 2023This is 52 weeks of episodes in 52 days.We'll follow the 2023 Road MapWe'll cruise along  to find out what's in store for 2024.Book Review 2023:Light on Life B.K.S. IyengarPerfectly Imperfect by Baron BaptistThe Body is Not an Apology Sonia Renee TaylorParis Apartment Lucy FoleyBeautiful Ruins Jess WalterJoe Dispenza Books: Evolve your Brain, Becoming Supernatural, Breaking the Habit of Being YourselfGreen Lights Matthew McConaugheyAre you okay, really? Jenna KutcherGreat Gatsby F. Scott FitzgeraldBrave New World Aldus HuxleyBook Suggestion:Atomic Habits by James ClearLife Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie KondoPlaying Big by Tara MohrOuter Order Inner Calm by Gretchen RubinSimplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne and Lisa M. RossIf you are loving the podcast, please share it with a friend.Join me over on IG and FB, Feelings FitnessCheck out the website www.feelingsfitness.comGet on the email list.Keep in touch via email, suzanne@feelingsfitness.com

You guys have probably seen or heard us talk about 1,000 hours outside on our social media. For the last 3 years we have been trying to complete our 1,000 hours outside as a family. We are SO close to finally hitting our goal this year – which is super exciting!

Chapter 1 Delve deeper into Simplicity Parenting literary work's message"Simiplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids" is a book written by Kim John Payne. It offers practical advice and strategies to help parents simplify their children's lives, reduce overwhelming choices and activities, and create a more peaceful and nurturing environment for their family. The book emphasizes the importance of providing children with a slower, more intentional childhood experience to promote their emotional well-being and development.Chapter 2 Is Simplicity Parenting literary work Worth Reading?While it ultimately depends on your personal preferences and parenting style, "Simplicity Parenting" by Kim John Payne is generally regarded as a good book by readers and experts in the field. The book offers practical advice on simplifying and streamlining various aspects of family life in order to reduce stress and create a more balanced and calm environment for children. It emphasizes the importance of slowing down, creating routines, minimizing clutter, and limiting exposure to media in order to promote healthy child development. Overall, "Simplicity Parenting" has been positively received for its practical tips and insights into fostering a more mindful and peaceful parenting approach.Chapter 3 Brief Description of Simplicity Parenting literary work"Simplicity Parenting" is a book written by Kim John Payne that offers practical advice and strategies for parents to simplify and streamline their family life. The book emphasizes the importance of creating a calm and nurturing home environment for children, free from the overwhelming pressures of modern society.In the book, Payne discusses the negative impact of media overexposure, overscheduling, and excessive clutter on children's well-being. He highlights the need to simplify the daily routines, schedules, and possessions of both parents and children in order to reduce stress and create more meaningful connections within the family.Payne offers guidance on how to declutter and organize the physical space of a home, suggesting that a simplified environment provides a sense of calm and security for children. He also provides suggestions for creating predictable and rhythmic routines that help children feel grounded and secure.Another key aspect of "Simplicity Parenting" is the importance of setting boundaries for children and limiting their exposure to external influences. Payne encourages parents to be mindful of the media and consumer culture that can shape children's desires and values. He suggests creating a media-free environment and promoting activities that foster creativity, imagination, and outdoor play.Throughout the book, Payne provides practical tips, case studies, and real-life examples to support his suggestions. He also emphasizes the importance of self-care for parents, emphasizing the need for balance and simplicity in their own lives.Overall, "Simplicity Parenting" offers a powerful framework for parents to navigate the complexities of modern family life and create a nurturing, peaceful, and simplified home environment for their children.Chapter 4 About Simplicity Parenting literary work's Author The book Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids was written by Kim John Payne with Lisa M. Ross. It was first published in 2009.Apart from Simplicity Parenting, Kim John Payne has written several other books, including:1. The Soul of...

Jennifer Pepito has seven children and has been homeschooling for twenty-five years. She has graduated five children from her program, with two students earning honors degrees from their preferred university and one pursuing a Juris Doctorate. When she discovered that her second daughter had learning disabilities, Jennifer became an avid student of child development, learning from innovators and researchers such as Carol Stock Kranowitz, Gordon Neufeld, John Taylor Gatto, Jane Healy, Maria Montessori, Kim John Payne, and Charlotte Mason. The Peaceful Press resources were born out of these years of research. Jennifer has a passion for equipping families to homeschool in a way that is developmentally appropriate, spiritually nourishing, and based on proven methods of education. She doesn't want you just to homeschool. She wants to help you enjoy the homeschooling journey and learn with your children in ways that build connected families. Her book, Mothering by the Book can help you overcome the fears that steal that joy so you can savor motherhood.

EP156: Feel overwhelmed with the holiday season approaching? I'm Jean Miller, and today's episode is all about cultivating a Simplicity Mindset for the coming holiday season. I'll guide you through five simple practices that will help you align your holidays with your core values, use visualization to your advantage, lean into your intuition, engage in hands-on activities, and gracefully deal with stress points. We're going to explore ways to reduce what Kim John Payne, in his book Simplicity Parenting, refers to as holiday soul fever.During our conversation, you'll discover how to create a peaceful, joyful, and value-aligned holiday experience that brings you closer to your loved ones. It's not just about surviving the holidays, it's about thriving in them! In addition, I'll share how you can deepen this exploration by joining the Inspired at Home community, a space packed with resources to support your homeschooling journey. So, let's pause, reflect, and decide what we want to say 'no, thank you' to this holiday season. Tune in and let's embark on a journey towards a much-needed simplicity mindset this holiday season.Find the Show Notes Here (www.artofhomeschooling.com/episode156)Inspired at Home Membership (www.artofhomeschooling.com/inspiredathome)Ages & Stages, a NEW FREE guide, describes each grade at a glance ~ child development, lesson topics, & educational themes for kindergarten through grade eight. This beautiful little guide helps you pause & connect with your children so you don't get overwhelmed by the day-to-day details of homeschooling.Get yours today>>>www.artofhomeschooling.com/agesandstages Support the showThanks for listening! Follow us on Instagram or find us on Facebook.

In the season 5 finale, the Mama's discuss the book, Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne. Listen as they dscuss the book and how it has affected each of their lifes, even beyond parenting.

“A mother's love liberates.” —Maya AngelouOur kids' teen years can be a struggle and a disruption, or they can be the medicine we need to connect to our kids AND our purpose.What does talking about this have to do with what we do around here? Many of us plan for the physical hours of mothering in the early years, but we rarely consider the time it takes to process the mental load of the later years.Listen in for all the details. Read the post for the basic idea.A few years ago Sil Reynolds and I created a container for a group of mamas for five weeks. Sil offered us this definition of motherhood, “Allowing our kids to become themselves.” I love this definition for mothering kids of all ages, and it helps me understand what has worked and what has not. Our job is not to be perfect. Our kids grow as much from what we do right as what we do wrong. Openness to evolve has been most helpful.I believe the work is ours, and often we make it about our kids.I did a lot of work on parenting in the early years that led to work on family values, family meals, less stuff. We loved the work of Kim John Payne who wrote a book called Simplicity Parenting that led to fewer toys and activity and no media. It was actually the foundation for what became Plan Simple Meals. It was simple at the beginning. As our kids became tweens and then teens, it got harder for me and my husband to agree, because we each got triggered in different ways.My experience of helping my teen who was really suffering two years ago started like one would expect. Hours combing through therapists. Daily emails to colleagues and friends who might have ideas. It was one deadend after another, until I totally surrendered.I saw the gift that was in front of me not only to help her, but to heal generations before and after us. I saw my responsibility in the situation. I saw the only way I could tap into my mama instinct in this extreme situation was to be 100% present. Sometimes that looked like sitting with her for 3 hours patiently waiting for her to eat. I started to see the connection between me being ok when she was not and her getting better. I danced with her. I hugged her often. I held my tongue hourly, and sometimes presence had me walking out the door alone.I didn't talk about this at first. I wanted to protect my kids and to make sure I was healed too, but this phase, these challenges of motherhood kept coming up in our weekly FLOW365 calls. I wasn't the only one spending hours looking for a tutor or therapist while not getting work done or having things fall apart at home. I wasn't the only feeling like I wasn't taking care of my body because I was taking care of something else.Often we think that parenting teens is less intensive than parenting younger kids, but really things just shift. Our teens still need us, but in different ways. Our role is still to allow our kids to become themselves, and that doesn't mean stepping back.The world really wants you to parent from the outside, but this phase needs you to source from the inside.Here are 3 keys that have helped me LOVE being the mom of 3 teens (and they are still working as I move into the parent of a young adult too!).Listen. Kids want to be heard. When your teen opens up to you, try to listen without jumping to conclusions, judging them, or even trying to come up with a solution (unless you are asked).It's hard to listen without fixing, but it builds trust and encourages them to come to you in the future.How can you listen? Each kid is different, but try: Going for a walkDuring car ridesWhile cooking or doing other things around the houseSaying goodnight, sometimes this end of the day opens them upHow do you listen without fixing? My daughter and I danced...

Jay and Wendy Papasan are a real estate, business, and leadership power couple from Austin, Texas. Jay co-authored the #1 best-seller ‘The One Thing' and serves as Vice President at Keller Williams International. Wendy runs the Papasan Properties Group, a top 1% real estate agency, and hosts the ‘Empire Building Podcast.'In this episode, Jay and Wendy share how they dove head first into investing after realizing at age 30 that their net worth was just $2,000; how they've developed as leaders, spouses, and parents; how they set goals; and what they've learned from working 1:1 with top performers like Gary Keller.Jay and Wendy also talk about:-Their backpacking adventures after getting married-Investing aggressively, even on a modest income-What “financial freedom” means to them-The benefits of being a “time billionaire”-Their definition of happiness-"Work-life balancing" and the seasonality of life-How Gary Keller entered their lives-Brandon's best marketing advice-How to start tracking your net worth-The sweat equity they put into their properties in the beginning-Avoiding lifestyle creep-Giving away money (to your kids and charity) while you're still alive-Their best parenting and marriage advice-Why they enrolled their son in Acton Academy, a non-traditional school-Setting crystal clear expectations for team members-What they want their legacy to beJay and Wendy's charitable cause:Red Oak Hope, a non-profit that works to “stop trafficking and exploitation on a large scale, while simultaneously providing holistic care to individuals and communities already affected"Books mentioned in this episode:-The One Thing by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan -The Millionaire Real Estate Agent by Gary Keller, Dave Jenks, and Jay Papasan-Think Like A CEO by Mr Byron Morrison-FedEx Delivers by Madan Birla-Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl-The Road Less Stupid by Keith Cunningham-Good to Great by Jim Collins-Body for Life by Bill Phillips-Go for the Goal by Mia Hamm and Aaron Heifetz-The Millionaire Next Door by Thomas J. Stanley -The Simple Path to Wealth by JL Collins-Die with Zero by Bill Perkins-Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne and Lisa M. Ross-Lord of the Flies by William Golding-Give and Take by Adam Grant-The Twenty Percenter newsletter by Jay PapasanConnect with Jay & Wendy on social:Twenty Percenter newsletterJay's InstagramJay's LinkedInWendy's LinkTreeWendy's InstagramWendy's LinkedIn

Episode Highlights With JessHow she trained in adventure therapy and learned to race dog sledsWhat adventure therapy is and how it can be helpfulResilience is being adaptable in the face of stress and how to nurture thisThe nervous system is very hungryWhat biological resilience is and how to increase itLack of nourishment sends a signal of being unsafe to the body and can deplete resilienceHow focusing on the root cause specific to anxiety can lead to parents and children feeling stuckWhat she means by the cyclone of stressHer model for nervous system healthUnderstanding the five core nourishment needs and limiting the five core stressorsThe hidden stressors that send messages of threat to the nervous systemHow genetics come into play in mood and behavior and how understanding them can help parentsSleep issues are also connected to safety and nervous system healthWhat a lack of sleep can indicate and how to help kids through itImportance of approaching these factors with curiosity and help kids take agency from their own health as they get olderResources We MentionJess Sherman - WebsiteJess Sherman - InstagramRaising Resilience: take the stress out of feeding your family and love your life: 36 ways to help your kids relax, learn and grow by Jess ShermanNutrition GenomeSimplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids by Kim John Payne

Jason Drees is the founder and CEO of Jason Drees Coaching and author of ‘Do The Impossible'. He is a Tony Robbins Master Business Coach who has been transforming companies for over 20 years. He has clocked more than 10,000 hours consulting and coaching executives, real estate investors, and high-level entrepreneurs.Alexis Drees is an educator of 25 years and has a Master's in Child Development. She was a full-time mom when Jason began coaching, while also working at pre-schools and teaching kids. She is now the owner of a new parent mentorship program called ‘Parent Academy'. They are parents to 4 boys of the ages 5, 7, 9, and 12.In this episode, Alexis and Jason share their journey from broke and on government assistance to multi-millionaires who give back, discussing the vital importance of mindset and alignment. They also open up about their marriage and family life and what they have learned about being both great parents and successful entrepreneurs.Alexis and Jason also talk about:- How Jason defines "mindset" and its role in success - Why alignment is more important than accountability- The "Dog Food Exercise"- Imagining a "future version of you" to solve the problem in front of you- How to be a wife and partner to someone who is constantly evolving- Alexis' one tip for parents struggling with finding their identity- Marriage as a "together/solo" journey- Why they homeschool their children and the future of education- How to use the DISC personality assessment to better understand yourself and othersBooks mentioned in this episode:- Being You, Changing the World by Dr. Dain Heer- Money Isn't the Problem, You Are by Dr. Dain Heer & Gary Douglas- Be Your Future Self Now by Dr. Benjamin Hardy- Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids by Kim John Payne & Lisa M. Ross- The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine N. Aron Ph.D.- The Power of a Positive No by William Ury- The Alchemist by Paolo Coelho- The Whole Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind by Daniel J. J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson- Whatever Arises, Love That: A Love Revolution That Begins with You by Matt Kahn- Do the Impossible by Jason DreesConnect with Jason and Alexis on social:https://www.instagram.com/jasondreescoachinghttps://www.instagram.com/alexismdreeshttps://www.jasondreescoaching.comJason's Monday Mindset Reset

Well this is a topic that is definitely close to my heart and I have experienced in such strong ways. I am so grateful that I was able to sit with Kristen Harding, a local mom and owner of PillarBox Gifts, to talk about how to "find ourselves" in the dense forest of motherhood. The pressures of motherhood have high standards where we feel this need to "mom so hard" all-the-time. It's easy to get a bit lost in that forest. Or very lost. On top of it we don't use our own compass to get to where we need to be- we look around at others and feel we should be where they are or do what they're doing. Trust me, I speak from experience. A piece of advice, you do not have to have the same journey as anyone else. Write your own story. But first- you have to connect with who you truly are beyond the role of a mother. How? Listen to this episode as Kristen and I share our stories and she gives incredible guidance and hope for a life where you can truly be happy and fulfilled on your terms. A bit more about Kristen: Kristen is a stay-at-home mom to an amazing little boy while running my own business doing something that she loves. Motherhood has inspired her to create a strong yearning for community and connection that she didn't have before. Kristen has a strong passion for art and creating and chose to use these skills to create gifts for other women as a means to show them how truly valuable and loved they are and to help create a community of women supporting women. Thank you so much for listening and sharing this episode with some friends. I hope that this episode can help you in some way and know I'm here if you ever want to connect and chat. You can find me on Instagram at @thehonestmompodcast You can connect with Kristen and PillarBox Gifts Here! https://www.etsy.com/shop/pillarboxgifts, on Instagram @pillarboxmama or if you're local to the Tri-City area, you can find her at the Red Hive Market in downtown Batavia. Kristen's Resources For You: Hoopla, Insight Timer (my FAVORITE app as well! It's a free app for meditation, anxiety, sleep, and mindfulness), "The Happiness Lab" podcast with Gretchen Rubin, "Live Awake" podcast with Sarah Blondin (who's also on Insight Timer!), "Simplicity Parenting" book by Kim John Payne. Kristen's Favorite Things: Her Lavender Eye Pillow and Keep Calm Roller

Here we go with part 2 – What's the kid's responsibility and what's the parent's responsibility? How much do we need to tell our kids, and how to gauge whether to say something to our kids ("is it true/kind/necessary and will it help your child feel secure?"). We talk about stories from Kim John Payne's book, including the story of a mom going to a new park with their 2 year old, and how a group of parents in New York fell into the "peer-parenting" trap. We talk about how to stop a kid from interrupting, from making unreasonable demands, and  how to ultimately recognize the best in our kids instead of pointing out things we don't like.Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne

Join me as we discuss the power in Simplicity Parenting, a way to streamline your life and family values so that you can raise kids to be "calmer, happier and more secure". We'll talk about ways to increase rhythm and regularity in the home, how to deal with media and marketing to children, how kids actually do better with rules, and even tips on how to help your kids not watch too much tv.This book is filled with so many great ideas that I'll be doing a second part next week, so stay tuned!Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne

In today's episode, we are joined by Kim John Payne, a renowned family counselor, educator, and author of the best-selling book, "Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids." We dive into the concept of simplicity parenting, which centers around reducing clutter, distractions, and unnecessary choices in a child's life. We explore practical ways to simplify our children's lives, including strategies for decluttering, simplifying schedules, and creating a more peaceful home environment. Payne also emphasizes the importance of slowing down and being present with our children in order to build strong relationships and foster healthy emotional development. Whether you are a parent, grandparent, or caregiver, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable tips for simplifying your family's life and creating a more joyful and fulfilling experience for everyone involved. So sit back, relax, and enjoy this enlightening conversation with Kim John Payne on simplicity parenting. Learn more about Simplicity Parenting at: https://www.simplicityparenting.com/

Eleven years ago, Ginny Yurich, an overwhelmed and exhausted mom of three under three, accepted a challenge from a friend to spend time with her little ones outdoors. In this Arts of Language episode, Andrew Pudewa and Julie Walker welcome Ginny Yurich, author, speaker, homeschooling mom of five, and founder of the global movement 1000 Hours Outside. Listen in as she passionately shares her family's journey to get outside that led to “a movement for those who want a slower childhood and a fuller life.” Referenced Materials 1000 Hours Outside™ 1000 Hours Outside: Activities to Match Screen Time with Green Time by Ginny Yurich 1000 Hours Outside Activity Book by Ginny Yurich 2022 Kick-Off Pack Nature Deficit Disorder audio talk by Andrew Pudewa Last Child in the Woods by Richard Louv Mothers of Preschoolers Smart Moves by Dr. Carla Hannaford Free-Range Kids by Lenore Skenazy Let Grow Free to Learn by Peter Gray Bud & Me by Alta Abernathy Cosmo Together Playborhood by Mike Lanza Balanced and Barefoot by Angela J. Hanscom Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne and Lisa M. Ross Episode 364: Health and Wellness with Katie Wells Transcript of Podcast Episode 367 If you have questions for Andrew, send them to podcast@IEW.com Perhaps your question will be answered at the next Ask Andrew Anything (AAA). If you have questions about IEW products or classes, contact customer service at 800.856.5815 or info@IEW.com

Kim John Payne, M. ED. is an award-winning author. He has worked passionately to help tens of thousands of people give voice to the feeling that something is not okay about the new normal of overwhelm that so many people are experiencing every day. He offers doable ways to realize the hopes and values that ... more »

Kim John Payne says "How we handle the storms and struggles is what will ultimately define us in the eyes of our kids." And since difficulties can blow up quickly with kids having tried-and-true strategies that can calm down heated situations can make a huge impact on our family life both now and in the future. This is the third time Kim has joined us on the podcast. He is always relatable, practical, and compassionate. You walk away from listening to him with more than you can imagine. In this episode you'll learn how and why to model self-control, how to break the cycle of frustration, how to recall the golden moments of your days and more. Learn more about Kim John Payne and his Simplicity Parenting movement here >> https://www.simplicityparenting.com/ Purchase Being at Your Best When Your Kids are at Their Worst: Practical Compassion in Parenting here >> https://amzn.to/3wY8BcF Don't miss our other two podcast episodes with Kim John Payne!  Episode 36 - The Undeclared War on Childhood >> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-1000-hours-outside-podcast/id1448210728?i=1000551379827 Episode 67 - We Underestimate the Power of Family >> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-1000-hours-outside-podcast/id1448210728?i=1000575715229

On todays podcast, we are thrilled to welcome back Jennifer Pepito of The Peaceful Press.  The last time she was with us, Leslie and Jennifer talked about Creating A Living Education, and we encourage you to check out that podcast as well if you haven't heard it yet. On today's episode, Jennifer and Leslie will be talking about overcoming homeschool and mothering fears, why it matters, and then some specific ways to help you overcome your fears. Meet the Guest:Jennifer Pepito is the mother of seven children and has been homeschooling for twenty-five years. She has graduated five children from her program, with two of her students earning honors degrees from their preferred university and one pursuing a J.D. When she discovered that her second daughter had learning disabilities, Jennifer became an avid student of child development, learning from innovators and researchers such as Carol Stock Kranowitz, Gordon Neufield, John Taylor Gatto, Jane Healy, Maria Montessori, Kim John Payne, and Charlotte Mason. The Peaceful Press resources were born out of these years of research, and Jennifer has a passion to equip families to homeschool in a way that is developmentally appropriate, spiritually nourishing, and based on proven methods of education. She doesn't want you to just homeschool. She wants to help you enjoy the journey of homeschooling and connect with your children in ways that build lasting memories and relationships. Her book, Mothering by the Book can help you overcome the fears that steal that joy so you can savor motherhood.Jennifer is a Simplicity Parenting Coach, and a Certified Life Coach. She continually researches education and child development to ensure that Peaceful Press families are getting the best resources based on current research about learning while continuing to integrate time honored educational philosophy put forward by Charlotte Mason and Maria Montessori.Podcast Sponsor: Today's podcast is sponsored by AOP.  Homeschooling empowers parents to give their children an individualized education like no other educational setup can provide. With AOP, you can teach your children in the way they learn best while keeping homeschooling fun and full of excitement as you discover new things each day. Choose from multiple curriculum options to fit your child's strengths, learning style, and needs.  Click HERE to learn more today. Additional Resources:   Find out more about The Peaceful Press HERE Order your copy of Mothering By The Book HERE Listen to Jennifer's podcast "Creating a Living Education" HERE

Right now, the average amount of time that kids are spending outside is four to seven minutes.  But the data shows that the amount of time they should be spending outside for their brain development, for their growth, for critical thinking skills, for leadership should be four to seven hours. And the average amount of time that kids today are spending on devices is four to seven hours. We have it completely backwards and if you're an entrepreneur who is raising kids, this is an episode you have to hear.  This is one of my all time favorite interviews on this show. My guest today is a good friend of mine, Ginny Yurich. Ginny is the Founder of 1000 Hours Outside and the entire premise of Ginny's movement, and her company is really propelling kids to get outside and experience all the beauty that nature has to offer and the benefits that it has on their growth and their leadership. In today's conversation, we go over the birth of this movement and how it came to be so organically for Ginny and how the pain in her life as a mother really propelled her into where she was being led. Ginny also gives strategic, tactical steps on how you can do this too and explains the way she brought her kids into the business and the benefits of entrepreneurship for her family. So there's practical wisdom in today's episode, not to mention the fact that she's just a wealth of knowledge around so many different things.  Can't wait for you to hear this one! SHOW NOTES: https://luminaryleadershipco.com/episode144   RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE: Visit 1000 Hours Outside website: https://www.1000hoursoutside.com/  Connect with Ginny on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/1000hoursoutside/  Connect with Ginny on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1000hoursoutside  Download 1000 Hours Outside Trackers: https://www.1000hoursoutside.com/trackers  Ginny's new book coming out in December: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/712828/1000-hours-outside-by-ginny-yurich/ Learning All the Time by John Holt: https://www.amazon.com/Learning-All-Time-John-Holt/dp/0201550911  Balanced and Barefoot by Angela J. Hanscom: https://www.amazon.com/Balanced-Barefoot-Unrestricted-Confident-Children/dp/1626253730  The Singularity Is Near by Ray Kurzweil: https://www.amazon.com/Singularity-Near-Humans-Transcend-Biology-ebook/dp/B000QCSA7C/  Your New Playlist: The Student's Guide to Tapping into the Superpower of Mindset by Jon Acuff, L.E. Acuff, McRae Acuff: https://www.amazon.com/Your-New-Playlist-Students-Superpower/dp/154090248X  Digital Madness by Nicholas Kardaras: https://www.amazon.com/Digital-Madness-Driving-Crisis-Restore/dp/125027849X  Glow Kids by Nicholas Kardaras: https://www.amazon.com/Glow-Kids-Screen-Addiction-Hijacking/dp/1250097991  Emotionally Resilient Tweens and Teens by Kim John Payne: https://www.amazon.com/Emotionally-Resilient-Tweens-Teens-Empowering/dp/1611805643  Chasing Slow by Erin Loechner: https://www.amazon.com/Chasing-Slow-Courage-Journey-Beaten/dp/1531834337  Connect with me on Instagram! Did this episode resonate with you? Help spread the message by rating and leaving a review for the show here!

Kim John Payne helps parents understand why their teens & tweens are so reactive, and how to build stronger relationships with their children. He talks about his book, Emotionally Resilient Teens & Tweens, and offers hope to parents who are ready for change. To learn more about Kim John Payne, visit his website here:https://www.simplicityparenting.com/LIMElight with Jessie is part of the WGRT 102.3 FM Podcast Network. For the latest episodes of all of our featured podcasts, visit our website here:https://wgrt-1023-fm-podcast-network.captivate.fmWGRT's LIMElight with Jessie is produced by the following team members:Executive Producer: Jessie WiegandAudio Engineer: George JamesAdministrator: Jessie WiegandMarketing: Jessie WiegandFollow Jessie on Instagram here:https://www.instagram.com/wgrt_jessie/

What do you do when your teen has been cyber bullied, teased, or socially excluded? In this episode I interview KIM JOHN PAYNE, M.ED., a counselor, educator, consultant, and researcher for over thirty years. Kim is the author of several acclaimed books, including Simplicity Parenting, The Soul of Discipline, and Being at Your Best When Your Kids Are at Their Worst.  His newest book is Emotionally Resilient Tweens and Teens: Empowering your Kids to Navigate Bullying, Teasing and Social Exclusion. We explore questions like, What does emotionally resiliency look like in our teens and tweens? and What can parents do to raise empowered teens? This episode is full of practical wisdom. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As you all know I absolutely love hearing from you all, and so many good questions are coming my way these days that I figured now is the perfect time to offer my responses. While some of these questions are specific to the pandemic and all that it entails, the answers, as you'll see, offer information and advice that are beneficial at any time. I'll start by further exploring the ‘Govern, Garden, Guide' concept which we have looked at in the past, and also share some strategies about ending the use of pacifiers and thumb sucking. Other questions I look at are regarding children who are still experiencing difficulty dealing with the restrictions that the pandemic has generated, addressing both typical and violent tantrums, teaching kids to be able to laugh things off, and instilling a good attitude in children. The topics may seem wide ranging, but woven through them all is the desire to provide our children with the strong foundation they need to enjoy strong and rewarding relationships throughout their lives. Let me tell you, there's definitely something in today's episode for everyone.   The Finer Details of This Episode: · Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne is one of my favorite parenting books · It's developmentally inappropriate to try to guide a toddler · You make your toddler feel safe by bonding, setting the rules and boundaries, and letting them know that you've ‘got them' · If your child is having tantrums, you have to look at your governing and your boundaries for firmness and consistency · If a child feels unsafe, it yields poor behavior · It is very important to lay this foundation from 0-6 for future years · If you wait until teen years to discipline, you are fucked · Ending pacifier use can be a matter of just taking it away or slowly cutting a bit of a hole in it over the period of a couple weeks which reduces its ‘big suck' appeal · Before employing techniques such as putting a nasty tasting lotion on the thumb or putting a mitt on a child's hand to stop thumb sucking, check in with your dentist · For children who still don't understand the restrictions imposed by the pandemic, check in on how you talk about the lockdown – ex. saying ‘I get to' rather than ‘I have to' · Kids forget and kids are resilient · We are over-socialized – the true extrovert is very rare · We need to transition our children back into social situations gradually from this ‘lockdown' · The child who is very dysregulated in the house has to go to their room to learn to self-regulate – it's respectful to let them have their big feelings in there · Revisit the ‘Go to Your Room Strategy' podcast · Attitudes are caught – watch what you are modeling when showing your child how to laugh things off, help others out, handle angry moments, lose graciously, etc.   Quotes: “You can't guide a toddler, you have to govern.” “It's pure brain development.” “Crappy behavior is often your child asking you to say, ‘No'.” “You're laying the foundation for the beauty of the relationship later.” “Discipline is like teaching…and you can teach very simply by following through.” “If your child is still pining for everyday life that was in February, there's a culture in your house that is producing that.” “Everything we do or say is teaching.” “If you have a shitty attitude and you don't shake things off, you know that's like you speaking French in the house and expecting your child to just learn English – they're going to do what you do.”   Links: Jamie's homepage - http://www.jamieglowacki.com/  Oh Crap! Potty Training – https://www.amazon.com/Crap-Potty-Training-Everything-Parenting-ebook/dp/B00V3L8YSU Oh Crap! I Have A Toddler -  https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Oh-Crap!-I-Have-a-Toddler/Jamie-Glowacki/Oh-Crap-Parenting/9781982109738 Jamie's Patreon Page: https://www.patreon.com/join/jamieglowacki?

The first years of a baby's life can feel anything but simple. While their needs are few, namely love, food, sleep, and play, parents often feel pressure to provide the absolute best on these fronts. The best food. The best sleep. The best play.    We are told that to accomplish this by doing more: more playdates, more lessons, more outings, and more variety on the table. Jessica Rolph is joined by Kim John Payne on today's episode to help us question this approach. He is the author of the best-seller Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids and he has also written: The Soul of Discipline: The Simplicity Parenting Approach to Warm, Firm, and Calm Guidance — From Toddlers to Teens and Being at Your Best When Your Kids Are at Their Worst: Practical Compassion in Parenting.   Highlights:: [2:07]  What does Simplicity Parenting mean? [3:15] Kim lists the four main areas to start simplifying your child's life. [5:20] How do parents know if a toy is purposeful before they decide to bring it home?  [7:25] The power of predictability: Why do children benefit from knowing what to expect?  [12:24] What does a Waldorf-informed mealtime look like?  [15:10] How can parents simplify their lives more proactively and less reactively?  [17:12] A child's brain processes a fraction slower than adults; Kim explains how to match their timing. [20:17] Kim shares tips for parents who are struggling with the transition from a busy day to reentering the family unit at a slower pace. [24:18] Jessica offers three takeaways from her conversation with Kim John Payne.   Mentioned in this episode: Brought to you by Lovevery.com   Receive weekly emails about your child's development, and stay in the know about new play essentials, promos, and more by signing up at Lovevery.com Follow Lovevery and Jessica Rolph on Instagram.   Simplicity Parenting Podcast

I think you're going to listen to this one twice. Maybe three times. I cried while editing it and I can hardly believe I got to speak with Kim John Payne a second time.  Payne's newest book, Emotionally Resilient Tweens and Teens launches this week and it left me slack-jawed. Like all of Payne's other books, he covers so many pressing topics in both practical and memorable ways and then, in these conversations, he somehow is able to expound even more.  In just sixty minutes we cover the crucial topic of family being a safe harbor and how as a lot of the structures of the past fall away we have to step up and strengthen the family base camp. We cover bullying - in all forms including online, exclusion, teasing, and more and the ways to coach kids through. Bullying doesn't just affect one child, it affects the entire family. We discuss "turning down the faucet" instead of spending childhood mopping up the spillage.  We talk about rites of passage in other cultures and the ways in which those are related to enduring ongoing social turbulence. Payne shares a secret near the end... and it's a good one.  We had the conversation and I took notes. I listened back to edit it and I took notes. It's just so good. A golden nugget of my parenting years.  The things we can teach our tweens, teens and even younger children about being emotionally resilient will help us as well in our adult lives. There aren't many books I recommend having on your shelves as reference, but this is definitely one.  You can purchase a copy here: https://amzn.to/3dl1Smc Sign up for a free live book launch workshop on Thursday 8/18 at 8:30 ET here: https://www.simplicityparentinginstitute.com/ertt-book-home It's free but you have to register. I'll be there too!! Learn more about Kim John Payne and all of his wonderful books here. As Kim says, "Parenting is too important to not enjoy it."  https://www.simplicityparenting.com/

When kids have adult-directed activities filling every nook and cranny of their childhoods, they lose the ability to be a self-starter. They miss out on key developmental periods where the experiences of simple play help them learn to be creative and adaptable. Kim John Payne (author of Simplicity Parenting and many other books) co-wrote a book called "Beyond Winning: Smart Parenting in a Toxic Sports Environment" with Luis Fernando Llosa and Scott Lancaster and it probably wouldn't have been a book I would've initially picked up but Kim introduced us to Luis and I'm so thankful the path of my life led me to this book. It is filled with rich parenting and life insights. While youth sports culture is sufficiently covered, so are a considerable amount of other topics that are timely and needed for today's parents. We discuss the power of play, boredom, the upcoming job market, the gift of anticipation, peer mentoring, learning for mastery, how to respond to loss and failure, what should define success in childhood and in life, and more! Beyond Winning went right to the top of my list as a favorite parenting book. You can learn more about Luis at Whole Child Sports: https://www.wholechildsports.com/ You can purchase Beyond Winning (and many other phenomenal books) here: https://www.simplicityparenting.com/book-store Finally, you can pre-order Luis's newest book with Kim John Payne that releases August 9th, Emotionally Resilient Tweens and Teens here: https://amzn.to/3B47tHo

In this episode, I introduce you to Corey and Stoney, the two new Peaceful Parenting Coaches here at Sarah Rosensweet Peaceful Parenting. We chat about our peaceful parenting journeys as well as our most influential parenting books over the years.   We go into: [1:45] Introducing Corey to the team [3:10] Introducing Stoney to the team [5:50] Sarah's most influential parenting books [8:35] Corey's most influential parenting books [13:00] Stoney's most influential parenting books [24:30] The importance of equal partnership [32:50] What to do if you're struggling with burnout    Resources mentioned in this episode Episode 24: Coaching call with Corey: When Peaceful Parenting Wasn't Enough Episode 47: Shame-Proof Parenting with Mercedes Samudio Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids by Dr. Laura Marham  Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn  Punished by Rewards by Alfie Kohn   Shame Proof Parenting by Mercedes Samudio  Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne  The Soul of Discipline by Kim John Payne  Raising Human Beings by Ross Greene  Find Your Unicorn Space by Eve Rodsky  Fair Play by Eve Rodsky  Impossible Parenting by Olivia Scobie  How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids by Jancee Dunn  All The Rage: Mothers, Fathers, and The Myth of Equal Partnership by Darcy Lockman  Burnout by Emily and Amelia Nagoski Connect with Sarah Rosensweet   On Instagram On Facebook https://www.sarahrosensweet.com  Book a short consult or coaching session call

"Independence is not doing your own thing it is doing the right thing on your own." Kim John Payne. Happy Independence Day! Being independent is freedom. Freedom. Freedom to being your best self. "Because Monday is Motivating."

Today on The AMPLIFY Show, I'm welcoming back Kim John Payne, a counselor, researcher, and the author of eight books about children.    He was one of the first guests on this show, and I highly recommend going back and listening to that interview in Episode 6 if you like this one!   Last time, we talked about his 2009 book Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids.    In this interview, we talk about two big topics that have changed for parents since Simplicity Parenting was released, and why he added them as new sections when he rewrote the book in 2019.    We also chat about emotional resiliency - how to manage our own emotions and model that for our kids - which he dives deep into in his upcoming book Emotionally Resilient Tweens and Teens.    And he shares a really troubling condition that more and more kids are experiencing, which is a complete detachment from parents, and the really scary damage that can happen to the parent-child relationship when the parent is too attached to their phone.    If you're a parent, I think you're going to love this interview. And be sure to check out some of Kim's books, which are linked below and available on his website.  Mentioned in the episode: Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids Being Your Best When Your Kids Are At Their Worst Episode 6: Simplicity Parenting and Entrepreneurship with Kim John Payne  Connect with Kim: Website Podcast Facebook Connect with me: Website Instagram Facebook This episode was first published at emilyrichett.com/episode-72. 

I'm sure we've all wondered what our last words will be, but do you ever think about the possibility that your words might be the last that someone else hears?    In Episode 70 of The AMPLIFY Show (70, can you believe it?), I share my thoughts on the significance of last words, including the unexpected ones that have inspired me to be better, even during the ordinary, small moments.    I'm also sharing an update about this current season I'm in and some of the learning and growth that comes from hard seasons. And I mention a few resources that have been helping and inspiring me, which you can find below!   Mentioned in the episode: Hallow App: https://hallow.com/ Every Sacred Sunday: https://everysacredsunday.com/ Fr. Mike Schmitz on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fathermikeschmitz/ My interview with Kim John Payne: https://emilyrichett.com/2019/10/17/episode-6-simplicity-parenting-and-entrepreneurship-with-kim-john-payne/  My interview with Adam Cayton-Holland: https://emilyrichett.com/2020/06/11/episode-21-purpose-through-tragedy-comedy-through-life-with-adam-cayton-holland/   Connect with me: Website Instagram Facebook   This episode was first published at emilyrichett.com/episode-70.

Would you like to share what’s on your mind? How often do we hear the advice “Get it off your chest. Sharing is caring!” But is it always better to voice every thought? If not, how can we filter ourselves in the right way? LINKS Find more from Kim John Payne at https://www.simplicityparenting.com/ Follow @thespace_podcast on Instagram Watch @thespace_podcast on TikTok Follow @novapodcastsofficial on Instagram CREDITS Host: Casey Donovan @caseydonovan88 Writer: Amy Molloy @amymolloy Executive Producer: Elise Cooper Editor: Adrian Walton Listen to more great podcasts at novapodcasts.com.au See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

My guest today is none other than Kim John Payne, a child and family counsellor, consultant, educator, researcher and the author of the number one bestseller, ‘Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Happier, Calmer, More Secure Kids'. Kim says that our faster, busier society today is ‘waging an undeclared war on childhood', of too much ‘too much stuff, too many choices, too much sexiness, too much information, and too much speed'. And while we don't have the power to change the more, louder, faster world around us, we do have the power as parents, Kim says, to ‘declare peace in our homes'. Today's is such a hopeful episode, because it's about the choices that we get to make, as parents, to give our children a childhood in a time when this is no longer a given. Kim and I talk about: How average kids without any obvious history of trauma are experiencing symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder, just as a result of the cumulative stress of living in the 21st century world The work of ‘simplicity parenting' that Kim developed to help families consciously wind back the different sources of stress in children's lives, through: Decluttering our children's environment Bringing warm, nurturing rhythms and rituals into our children's days Balancing our little one's schedules Filtering out adult information (because it's not just too much stuff that's overwhelming for children - it's also the clutter of too much information) And creating values-centered family leadership, and fostering a family culture that truly reflects our values and our desires. If you enjoy today's episode, it would mean the world to me if you left me a review over on iTunes, because that helps to get this podcast in front of other wild mamas who could also benefit from these conversations. You can also share this podcast with other mamas by simply taking a screenshot and sharing it on Instagram, and don't forget to tag me at @drjessicahodgens! RESOURCES MENTIONED IN TODAY'S EPISODE: Grab your copy of my free guide, 'The Four Things you Actually Need to Know to Prepare for a Physiologic ("Natural") Birth' Read Kim's book ‘Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Happier, Calmer, More Secure Kids'. CONNECT WITH KIM: On Facebook [Link: https://www.facebook.com/SimplicityParenting/] At his website: [link: https://www.simplicityparenting.com/] Until next time - stay wild, mamas! Jess xx Find me on Instagram at @drjessicahodgens www.jessicahodgens.com Intro and outro music: "Bloom", from the album The Jasmani Garden by Deya Dova, with the kind permission of the artist. Cover image by Briony Goodsell. I'm living and mothering on the unceded Country of Dharawal people, and I gratefully acknowledge their ongoing work - and the work of indigenous people everywhere - in the service of thriving life on earth.

Simplicity Parenting is a book that has touched hundreds of thousands of families around the globe. It certainly up-ended many of my thoughts on parenting and changed the course of our family in so many ways for the better. I consider it a must read for any parent.  Simplicity Parenting is just one of eight books written by Kim John Payne. In this episode, he goes above and beyond is written words and clarifies, explains, validates, inspires, and reminds us of what is truly important. And then he points us to the future. Play is what will best prepare our children for it. Discover the extraordinary power of the ordinary with Kim John Payne. Purchase your copy of Simplicity Parenting here: https://amzn.to/3gRJ0tS Pre-order Emotionally Resilient Teens & Tweens here: https://amzn.to/3JBWp5E  

As parents, we may want to shield our children from any pain or sadness they may face, but if we're honest with ourselves, we know this is impossible. So rather than fighting the inevitable, our children are better served if we work to help them understand how to weather the storm, to equip them with tools so they're capable of processing and working through the full range of emotions life has in store for them.   Joining me today is Kim John Payne, author of several books, including the number 1 Best Seller Simplicity Parenting. This episode is overflowing with Kim's time-honored guidance for raising healthy children who feel confident to explore and create, as well as mindset shifts to make ourselves that can help us to be more present and allow us to truly enjoy the journey.        Want to get more from Dr. Sarah Bren?  ✨ Follow Dr. Sarah on Instagram ✨ Click here to join the weekly newsletter  ✨ And check out her website for more free parenting resources  

I've been sharing some of our most downloaded episodes of all time here on The AMPLIFY Show, and this week is my interview with author Kim John Payne.    He's well known for his best-selling book Simplicity Parenting, which is my favorite parenting book and one I've reread multiple times. He has worked with children and families around the world as a counselor and educator. As an author, he's given a voice to people like you and me. People who have this feeling that something is not okay about this new normal of overwhelm, doing more, being more… and this fast-paced life with too much stuff, too many choices, and too little time.   In this interview, we talk about strategies like de-escalating with humor, re-entering family life after you've had a long day of work, and things like a child-centered home vs. a value-centered home.    I hope to talk with him again hopefully in my upcoming season in the new year… so excited to tell you more about that soon.    Mentioned in the episode: Kim's book, Simplicity Parenting Kim's book, Being at Your Best When Your Kids Are at Their Worst Connect with Kim: Website Facebook Podcast Connect with me: Website Instagram Facebook This episode was first published at emilyrichett.com/episode-62. 

Our kids live in a world that chooses to overwhelm them from their birth. Toys, TV, phones, books, activities, sports, etc., all come rushing at our kids with crazy speed in today's world and there's a reason so many kids can't focus and get overwhelmed easy. Today on the podcast, I had the privilege of having Kim John Payne join me where we discuss easy steps to help simplify your kid's lifestyle. We dive into easy parenting strategies and practical steps that can help your kids focus easier and become more creative.

Description: Author of the Bestseller, Simplicity Parenting, Kim John Payne and I discuss the pains and possibilities in parenting kids today. Join us for practical and inspiring discussion how how the greatest gift we can give our children is our more complete, here-and-now presence with them in daily life. About Kim John Payne: Kim John Payne has been quietly and passionately working to help tens of thousands of people give voice to the feeling that something is not okay about the new normal of overwhelm that so many people are now experiencing. He offers do-able ways to realize the hopes and values we all have for ourselves, and build deep connections with our children that gives families resiliency and simple joy. A consultant and trainer to over 230 U.S. independent and public schools, Kim John Payne, M.ED, has been a school counselor, adult educator, consultant, researcher, educator and a private family counselor for twenty seven years. He regularly gives key-note addresses at international conferences for educators, parents, and therapists and runs workshops and training's around the world. In each role, he has been helping children, adolescents and families explore issues such as social difficulties with siblings and classmates, attention and behavioral issues at home and school, emotional issues such as defiance, aggression, addiction and self-esteem and the vital role living a balanced simple life brings. He has also consulted for educational associations in South Africa, Hungary, Israel, Russia, Switzerland, Ireland, Canada, Australia, and the United Kingdom, Thailand and China. Kim has worked extensively with the North American and UK Waldorf educational movements. He has served as Director of the Collaborative Counseling program at Antioch University New England. He is the Director of the Simplicity Project a multi media social network that explores what really connects and disconnects us to ourselves and to the world. Together with his team they have trained around 1000 Simplicity Parenting Coaches around the world. Kim is the Founding Director of The Center for Social Sustainability, an organization that has trained thousands of teachers, parents and students in the Three Stream Process that gives social, emotional and behavioral support to children who struggle in the school environment. In addition to authoring the #1 Best Seller Simplicity Parenting© . Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier and More Secure Kid, published by Random House Penguin in 2009, he also authored The Games Children Play©, (1996) published by Hawthorn Press ,The Soul of Discipline (2015 Random House/Penguin), co-authored Whole Child Sport™ How to Navigate Child & Youth Sports™. and Being At Your Best When Your Kids Are At Their Worst (Shambhala Press 2019). His books have been translated into 27 languages. He has appeared frequently on television including ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox; on radio with the BBC, Sirius/XM, CBC & NPR and in print including being featured in Time Magazine, Chicago Tribune, Parenting, Mothering, Times Union and the LA Times. Kim strives to deepen understanding and give practical tools for life that arise out of the burning social issues of our time. He lives on a farm in Ashfield, Massachusetts with his wife and two children. Find out more at: https://www.simplicityparenting.com

In today's episode we're talking all things motherhood, forgiveness and healing. We're talking about spiritual parenting - from planning the astrological sign of your child (or attempting to!), to mystical approaches to learning including a conversation about Waldorf education. We're also discussing the eating disorder recovery process - something that my guest and I have both experienced. My guest is Prim Ormanovich a mother, author, and Waldorf teacher. She recently published her first book of poetry, "knotted" which captures her journey through a chaotic childhood, eating disorder recovery, sexual abuse, motherhood, forgiveness and healing. Prim is a long time blogger and podcaster, who started out writing about eating disorder recovery and intuitive eating as a way to advocate for people through a “Health At Every Size” lens. She currently runs a motherhood podcast with our good friend (and previous guest!) Karsyn DuPree, where they discuss all things woo woo parenting. Prim is currently undergoing Coach Training with Lightyear Leadership to further develop herself as a spiritual leader and to help people hone the power of their language, and attention, to set goals and a vision for their life.  Get Prim's book “knotted”, listen to her podcast here and follow her via instagram at @primormanovich. Upcoming events to know about: The Opulent Shift: Group coaching in an intimate soul-led community featuring conscious business resources and hands-on mentorship. Session 3 begins October 1, 2021 * Learn more about my additional community offerings and Culte La Lune at ouiwegirl.com/cultelalune & Seachangers at seachangerscollective.com Find more to love and join our community at ouiwegirl.com. Where to find me: ouiwegirl.com @ouiwegirl Follow the show instagram page: @yourwoowoobff This show is produced, mixed, recorded and additional music by T'Ben Alleman Opening and closing music: Pet Fangs Resource: Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids by Kim John Payne, The Food Psych Podcast by Christy Harrison, Intuitive Eating: A Revolutionary Anti-Diet Approach by Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch, Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life by Anne Lamotte, The Alchemist, A Fable About Following Your Dream by Paulo Coelho

ep # 34  Mallika and Ashley have a conversation on raising children inspired by topics from the book Hunt, Gather, Parent by Michaeleen Doucleff. You'll here us talk about: The lack of meaningful work that children have the opportunity to engage in culturally The pressure that comes from an expectation of parents always enjoying their kids Finding a balance between focus on self and community The potential benefits of inviting children to work on family needs from a young age Shifting our internal orientation to acts of caretaking home as a sacred  Link to Kim John Payne's Simplicity Parenting The power of presence in tantrums Simplifying the way we ask for kids participation is daily tasks Letting go of expectations that child will change behaviors quickly Raising children to be embraced by life that's bigger then them The importance of children integrating the needs of others  Mallika's Instagram  Mallika's Website  Ashley's Instagram  Ashley's Website  Support the show (https://www.thewildandwise.com/donate)Support the show (https://www.thewildandwise.com/donate)

We are taking a deep dive into using rhythms in your homeschool and family life. Rhythms are systems that make the hundreds of decisions and to do's head to autopilot while making more room for you to enjoy. Resources from this episode. 1. Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne 2. Live and Highlights on Rhythms3. The Life Giving Rhythms Mini CourseI'd love to stay in touch and new tools to support you on your homeschooling journey, get set up here to receive all of the latest updates, tips, and tricks.

In this very special final episode of the season, the sisters are joined by the author of one of their very favorite shared books, Kim John Payne. Years ago, Cait + Kara bonded over one of his many books, Simplicity Parenting, and so they are thrilled to welcome him to the show this week. Kim, Cait and Kara discuss why parents don't need to to be on a constant quest to give their kids more, the gift of boredom and how we can simplify our kids' lives so they can become more who they truly are. This is a new favorite, sisters! To view all content and links, please visit the show notes for this episode.