That Social Work Lady

Episode 45 is the season finale for Season 2 for That Social Work Lady Podcast. Recorded on November 12, 2022, this episode pays homage to my sorority Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc. I am so grateful to the two women who joined me to celebrate our sorority's centennial celebration: Dr. Araba Afenyi-Annan and Educator Leola Banks.  We pledged together at the University of Michigan - Ann Arbor (Iota Psi Chapter) and have each done the work to live out our sorority mission - Greater Service, Greater Progress!Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc. was organized on November 12, 1922, in Indianapolis, Indiana, by seven young educators: Mary Lou Allison Gardner Little, Dorothy Hanley Whiteside, Vivian Irene White Marbury, Nannie Mae Gahn Johnson, Hattie Mae Annette Dulin Redford, Bessie Mae Downey Rhoades Martin, and Cubena McClure. The group became an incorporated national collegiate sorority on December 30, 1929, when a charter was granted to the Alpha chapter at Butler University. Since its inception, the dynamic women of Sigma Gamma Rho have built and sustained a well-known and well-respected reputation for leading positive change to help uplift the community through sisterhood, leadership, and service.LEOLA BANKS, known as Tee to her family and close friends, is a proud native Detroiter and product of the Detroit Public School District; graduating 2nd in her class from Central High School. She currently works as an Assistant Principal with Detroit Public Schools Community District.  Ms. Banks has taught elementary as well as middle school reading, language arts and mathematics.  She also served in various roles (Lead Teacher, Title I Intervention Teacher and Instructional Specialist) prior to her current role in administration. She received a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Communications from The University of Michigan, Ann Arbor and has earned two Master's degrees in Curriculum & Instruction and Educational Leadership from the University of Detroit Mercy.  Leola is a committed advocate for equity and quality education for under-represented and underprivileged children which has been her motivation for remaining in public education.  Ms. Banks has a close-knit family; two sisters and a very loving mother, her greatest supporter, who raised three girls as a single parent. Additionally, she is a proud member of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc., enjoys attending and serving in her church, spending time with family, friends and traveling.  Ms. Banks is honored to be an educator.  She wholeheartedly believes it is her “ministry.” Most importantly, God has had His hands on her for a very long time.  Since her baptism, at the age of 14, she has enjoyed gospel music, reading, and studying the Word of God.  She loves the Lord!Dr. Araba Afenyi-Annan is a retired academic physician, researcher, and educator. After a life changing injury left her permanently disabled in chronic pain, she was led on a new life path and understanding of healing. As a student and practitioner of A Course In Miracles, she believes her true purpose is to be truly helpful and live a life of Love. Her life is a testament to the power of grace. Now a certified spiritual counselor, facilitator, author and speaker, it is her joy and honor to support others on their journey of spiritual growth and awakening. A mother and co-parent of two teenagers, she believes parenting is an untapped yet vital vehicle for individual and collective transformation. To learn more about the illustrious organization, Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc.:https://www.sgrho1922.org/https://www.instagram.com/sgrhoupdates/https://www.facebook.com/sgrhoupdates

Comediennes are community griots. They make spaces for the stories that we all need to know and tell them with flare and honesty while making us laugh. enoje (EN-oh-jay) is a community griot. In episode 44, she graces me with her brilliance, and goals for creating space for women to explore comedy for our mental health and well being. She takes her cue from her own mother's laughter. Remembering stories from her childhood of her mother and the aunties being in the kitchen telling each other stories from their day and laughing uncontrollably. Their joy is the focus of her mission. More specifically, extending that joy to as many women who are willing to join in.enoje is the founder and director of Bish Funny, a comedy project that creates opportunities for women+. She's the host of Let 'Em Eat Laughs, a conversation series about comedians, food, and culture. enoje is an Executive Board member of the Black Women in Comedy Laff Fest in New York. And she is the host and producer of Toronto's recently launched popular comedy series, Ladies Love Cool Jokes.Follow enoje onInstagram @funnybishness orLadies Love Cool JokesThe Black Women in Comedy Laff Fest

Abortion is a medical procedure that ends a pregnancy.  Why then is something so basic at the heart of so many toxic conversations?Episode 43 brings a topic that is very dear to my heart - bodily autonomy. It's time we reframe the abortion conversation as a discussion about right to privacy and bodily autonomy.  Any other approach to this conversation is problematic and grounded in patriarchal toxicity. American citizens with the capacity for pregnancy deserve to be able to make medical decisions about their bodies with the guidance of medical care professions of their choosing without the interference of people who are ignorant to the actual functions of the female reproduction system. Learn more about the facts on abortion and reproductive health:https://usafacts.org/data/topics/security-safety/child-care-and-safety/foster-care/children-in-foster-care/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=ND-StatsData&gclid=Cj0KCQjwqc6aBhC4ARIsAN06NmMfs-NCPJ8aVdLIo10CN5q44b-yhnuANNN0POT1umbfjGf9yo3ainsaAvcaEALw_wcBhttps://www.statista.com/statistics/191226/reported-forcible-rape-rate-in-the-us-since-1990/https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/abortion/in-clinic-abortion-procedureshttps://www.amnesty.org/en/what-we-do/sexual-and-reproductive-rights/abortion-facts/https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/dilation-and-curettage/about/pac-20384910

Jacqueline M. Baker is a speaker, author, leadership consultant and advisor known for her unique approach to modern etiquette and leadership. As the author of The Unexpected Leader: Discovering the Leader Within You and Leader by Mistake: Becoming A Leader One Mistake At A Time, she frequently speaks and writes on the leadership-for-all concept.In Episode 42, I got to speak with leadership consultant and entrepreneur Jacqueline M. Baker about her company Scarlet Communications and the impact she has had on leadership training in corporate America. Baker's story is one of perseverance, finding your niche and pursuing it. From her perspective we are ALL leaders. Listening to her share her unique definition for leadership and the way she teaches etiquette so that her clients will shine no matter the environment they find themselves in, will have you believing and owning your own capacity for leadership.For more information about the work Jacqueline M. Baker does and to grab a copy of her books, go to:https://jacquelinembaker.com/Just Start: From Ideas to Action Podcast

Episode 41 brings another Black woman's story and this time we're getting advice from a leadership expert. Jacqueline M. Baker is a speaker, author, leadership consultant and advisor known for her unique approach to modern etiquette and leadership. As the author of The Unexpected Leader: Discovering the Leader Within You and Leader by Mistake: Becoming A Leader One Mistake At A Time, she frequently speaks and writes on the leadership-for-all concept.This conversation that I got to have with Jacqueline M. Baker is a full motivational lesson for the unexpected leader. I appreciate Baker for her uncanny ability to elevate uncommon genius and help the reluctant leaders among us accept our role. Baker reminds us that you don't have to ALL the things you think you need to move in the direction of your goals and dreams. What you need most to START is to know your personal North Star. When you know your North Star, according to Baker, you will know which direction to move in.  I agree with her. Find your North Star and then start.For more information about the work Jacqueline M. Baker does and to grab a copy of her books, go to:https://jacquelinembaker.com/Just Start: From Ideas to Action Podcast

The world has shifted. It has changed. So how do you are a parent of black or brown child pivot to be responsive to the times we live in now?...parents fear being viewed as inconsistent or worst undermining our own authority by changing our minds. The paradox of that is that there is no better expression of authority to making a change due to changing circumstances or the realization that you didn't do enough due diligence before making a decision.-Heather Frazier, Pivot Parenting PodcastEpisode 40 explores the need for black and brown parents to revise the parenting strategies we've leaned on for centuries. Our conservatism that served us so well in the 20th century have helped us keep our children safe in a world hellbent on their demise. However, those strategies do NOT help us raise adults who will have the skills they need to navigate life in a global community. We  have to recognize the world our children will 'adult' in is starkly different from the one we are currently 'adulting' in. So how can we continue to use the exact same tools and mindset in our parenting that was used to move us into adulthood? The truth is we undermine our authority with our children when we are restrictive and unmoving. The choke hold placed on kids is what threatens your relationship with your children. When you do more due diligence, when you open yourself up to the possibility that what has always been is not what will always be, you build and solidify the bridge between you and your child. Rules to Pivoting in Parenting:1. Pay attention to your child. Remind yourself that who they were at 7 will not be who they are at 12 or 14. Pay attention to the changes they are making in their values and ideas.2. Get to know the people your child surrounds themselves with both in person and virtually. Most kids in the 21st century who virtual friendships that are completely different from the friends they are around in person.3. Realize that your child's virtual life is just as vibrant and important to them as their 'real' life. Group chats, direct messaging, gaming squads, are communities that your child is engaged in. They may have a different persona that they take on in each community they navigate. 4. Evaluate if the culture of the spaces you allow your child in aligns with your values and culture or are in alignment with who your child is evolving in to.5. Remember you can do this!Other resources to check out:https://danahirtparenting.com/new-blog/2018/2/9/how-to-pivot-when-changing-parenting-ruleshttps://www.blackgirlspivot.com/https://heatherfrazier.com/podcast/

Whew! I'm tired (please read as tiiiii'ed). But I know I'm not the only one out here feeling the multiple levels of tired that I feel.Episode 39  in this Season 2 is all about rest. Michale Bernard Beckwith once said, "Authentic Rest is power." I read that quote when my son was an infant after my body had been stressed and strained beyond my previously recognized limitations. I thought then that I knew what 'rest' meant. However, according to Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith I grossly overestimated what I knew. Dr. Dalton-Smith's research demonstrates that we all have 7 buckets that must be filled in order to experience authentic rest. They are Physical, Mental, Emotional, Social, Sensory, Creative, and Spiritual. You may very well be getting all the physical rest you need, that does not mean you are rested! Your rejuvenation and renewal starts with identifying what kind of rest you actually need.Learn more about Dr. Dalton-Smith:https://www.drdaltonsmith.comGet her Book:Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your SanityDon't know who Michael Bernard Beckwith is, check him out as well:https://michaelbeckwith.com

Special Needs Advocate and Educator Vertongie Kendrix-Bailey  shares in Episode 38, that was stressful to see her toddler cry a lot, act as if he was lost at times and throw tantrums. When he was 4 years old, her son Hezekiah was diagnosed with autism after a comprehensive evaluation by his medical team. The medical team that evaluated Hezekiah included a pediatrician, a psychiatrist, an occupational therapist, a speech and language pathologist, and a nurse. After the evaluation and diagnosis Kendrix-Bailey knew she had to get help for her son.  With that in mind, Kendrix-Bailey took it upon herself to educate herself about autism. She took college courses on children with special needs and autism. Then she began a nonprofit to educate and empower parents and other community members named, Hezekiah Kidz, Inc.The mission at Hezekiah Kidz, Inc. is to empower children with autism and other disabilities with life skills. This nonprofit aims to move children beyond their disabilities,  provide them with the skills to survive, and prepare them to live a meaningful life.  Hezekiah Kidz, Inc. envisions a world where all children regardless of their disabilities are valued and afforded resources to develop the skills to realize their full potential. Each year Hezekiah Kidz, Inc. hosts an Autism Community Day. This event raises awareness, provides links to community programs for parents of children with special needs, and offers fun activities for families and community members alike. Autism Community Day will take place on Saturday, September 24, 2022 at The Game Room in Livonia, MI. Kendrix-Bailey credits her oldest son with laying the groundwork for the mission and purpose of Hezekiah Kidz, Inc. He did this simply by showing his mother that her youngest son may have a diagnosed disability but that doesn't mean he doesn't have abilities! Vertongie is a woman of great humility and expansive determination. She is a stroke survivor and parents a child with special needs. What others may see as set backs, Vertongie has turned into set ups for success. Parenting her son who has autism has taught her the importance of advocacy and has propelled her to work diligently to learn as much as she can in order to be the best support not only for her son but for all the children in her community.Vertongie began her educational journey in Detroit Public Schools. She holds a Bachelor's degree in Business Administration-Accounting, a Master's degree in Administration-Human Resources, and is currently working towards a 2nd Master's in Special Education with her eye on a Ph. D. in Behavioral Health. To say that she believes education is important in setting and achieving your goals would be an understatement.To learn more about  Vertongie's nonprofit and upcoming events check out:Hezekiah Kidz, IncAutism AllianceFriendship Circle

In Episode 37, Vertongie Kendrix-Bailey shares her journey as a mother and advocate for her two sons: Zechariah and Hezekiah. Her parenting philosophy guides how she has crafted community to support her values and goals for her family. As a highly educated professional, Vertongie is the kind of mother who uses all her resources and skills to provide for and advocate for her children and herself. Vertongie also serves as a parent liaison for Children with Special Needs, participates on nonprofit boards, trains parents on how to be better advocates for their children, organizes local campaigns,  and found her own foundation/small business Hezekiah Kidz, Inc. Vertongie is a woman of great humility and expansive determination. She is a stroke survivor and parents a child with special needs. What others may see as set backs, Vertongie has turned into set ups for success. Parenting her son who has autism has taught her the importance of advocacy and has propelled her to work diligently to learn as much as she can in order to be the best support not only for her son but for all the children in her community. Vertongie began her educational journey in Detroit Public Schools. She holds a Bachelor's degree in Business Administration-Accounting, a Master's degree in Administration-Human Resources, and is currently working towards a 2nd Master's in Special Education with her eye on a Ph. D. in Behavioral Health. To say that she believes education is important in setting and achieving your goals would be an understatement.To learn more about a few of the program Vertongie supports check out:Hezekiah Kidz, IncDAPCEPCHADDAutism Alliance of Michigan

Episode 36 continues our conversation with Detroit's very own #communitycounselor Patrece M. Lucas, MS, LPC.Patrece specializes in providing culturally specific counseling and creating safe healing spaces for African, Black, and other indigenous and BIPOC communities. She has committed her life's work to advocating for communities of color to not only survive but to dismantle broken systems and create new ones that are inherent on supporting and uplifting the communities capacity to thrive. As a licensed Mental Health Counselor Patrece serves as a community counselor in Detroit and its surrounding communities.  She is in private practice as a counselor, wellness partner and mediator at her agency called indigo transitions. In Episode 36, we learn more about Community Counselor Patrece Lucas's approach to mental health services and the origins of her program "Coffee with a Counselor." At the root of her motivation is to destigmatize mental health service and access for the Black community. She understood that in order to get more Black people engaged with a mental health professional she would first have to demystify the idea of 'going to therapy.'You can connect with Patrece via CoffeewithaCounselor@gmail.comindigo transitions Where do Black Women Go to Grieve?

Episode 35 invites Detroit's very own #communitycounselor Patrece M. Lucas, MS, LPC.Patrece is a licensed Mental Health Counselor and serves as a community counselor in Detroit and its surrounding communities.  She is in private practice as a counselor, wellness partner and mediator at her agency called indigo transitions. indigo transitions is about assisting the INDIGO (person) transition and adjusts to functioning in this social construct wholly as THEY ARE...At indigo transitions, Patrece assists clients as they PREPARE for, MANIFEST, and begin to LIVE their best lives. Patrece also provides counseling services as a Business Coach, Nationally Recognized Speaker, Trainer, Facilitator, Corporate Team Builder, and Healing Partner.In Episode 35 Community Counselor Patrece Lucas gives us a glimpse of what makes her the perfect counselor for those going through change in their lives. Lucas truly is a transition expert having navigated multiple transitions in her own life. She shares with me several big leaps in her own life and how each time she was able to land on her feet. The greatest lesson from our conversation is learning to say to 'yes' to the things that align with your personal purpose even when it simply would be easier to say 'no.'Patrece specializes in providing culturally specific counseling and creating safe healing spaces for African, Black, and other indigenous and BIPOC communities. You can connect with Patrece via CoffeewithaCounselor@gmail.comindigo transitions 

That Social Work Lady welcomes both Jasmine Logan and Jada Williams back to the studio for Episode 34.Both Jasmine Logan and Jada Williams are master level divinity students at Wake Forest University. In Episode 34 they offer me a crash course on womanist theology. The concepts they share about womanist theology are mind-blowing. Especially the idea that womanist theology takes many of the iconic bible stories and views them through the eyes of a Black woman...well that just makes me giddy! #BlackWomenStoriesMatter Logan already made my head spin in Episode 32 when she introduced the idea that much of the American evangelical church adheres to a narrative that is better described as the white supremacist church of America. WHEW!Jada Williams is in her fourth year of the dual JD/MDiv program at Wake Forest University. She holds a Bachelor of Arts in History from Young Harris College, where she was a Division II NCAA basketball player and heavily involved in other campus organizations and clubs ranging from Greek life to religious life to residence life. Jada is a certified beekeeper, began her own cheesecake business in 2020, and is a volunteer youth basketball coach in her free time.Co-host for this episode is Jasmine “Jazz” Logan. Jazz is a third-year student at Wake Forest University School of Divinity. Jazz is from Arizona but most recently lived in Los Angeles, California, before attending WFU School of Divinity. Jazz has aspirations of becoming an ordained minister (denomination pending) and has a passion for teaching the next generation that they are beloved.Learn more about Wake Forest University here.Want a precursor to Womanist Theology? Check out this link: Womanist Theology 101.We also recommend that you read Alice Walker's In Search of Our Mother's Garden: Womanist Prose 

Episode 33 is a Millennial Theologian Takeover!I am so grateful to welcome theologian Jasmine Logan back on That Social Work Lady along with her colleague Jada Williams. Jada Williams is in her fourth year of the dual JD/MDiv program at Wake Forest University. She holds a Bachelor of Arts in History from Young Harris College, where she was a Division II NCAA basketball player and heavily involved in other campus organizations and clubs ranging from Greek life to religious life to residence life. Jada is a certified beekeeper, began her own cheesecake business in 2020, and is a volunteer youth basketball coach in her free time.To say that Williams is a 21st century Renaissance woman is an understatement! During episode 33, Williams and Logan take us on a journey of how to build community in spaces that are not necessarily inviting. Williams goes so far as to express that community is not just a people but is also a place and a mindset. Further pushing the envelop of community as a stagnant location, Williams helps us gain a deeper understanding of the radical nature of community and community building. The most surprising element? How unexpected community can be a place where you heal.Co-host for this episode is Jasmine “Jazz” Logan. Jazz is a third-year student at Wake Forest University School of Divinity. Jazz is from Arizona but most recently lived in Los Angeles, California, before attending WFU School of Divinity. Jazz has aspirations of becoming an ordained minister (denomination pending) and has a passion for teaching the next generation that they are beloved.Learn more about Wake Forest University here.Correction: AAU is the Amateur Athletic Union. Learn more about AAU leagues and locations here.

Millennial Theologian Jasmine (Jazz) Logan is back in the studio for Episode 32. During this conversation, Jazz candidly shares her experience as #churchgirl who grew up in the evangelical Christian church. From her perspective the #colorblind ideals of the church actually negated her experience as an African American girl growing up Christian. There were times when she felt that the church not only did not recognize the uniqueness of her experience as being a minority on the church campus but actively pointed out her differences and in same cases 'disciplined' her for them. In Episode 32, Theologian Jasmine Logan shatters the narrative that black girls setting boundaries are #angryblackwomen. We also learn how through purposeful healing (Jesus plus therapy), Jazz was able to heal her #churchhurt and found a path to her personal relationship with God. Jasmine “Jazz” Logan (she/her) is a third-year student at Wake Forest University School of Divinity. Jazz is from Arizona but most recently lived in Los Angeles, California, before attending WFU School of Divinity. Jazz has aspirations of becoming an ordained minister (denomination pending) and has a passion for teaching the next generation that they are beloved. Jazz will join That Social Work Lady Podcast as cohost for Episodes 33 - 34. Books Jazz referenced during our talk:I'm Still Here: Black Dignity in a World Made for WhitenessThe Color PurpleIn Search of Our Mother's Garden: Womanist ProseThe Essential Jesus: Original Saying and Early ImagesJesus: A Revolutionary BiographyAndUS Clergyman Creflo Dollar Apologizes

That Social Work Lady welcomes Jasmine (Jazz) Logan to the studio for Episode 31. In Episode 31, millennial theologian Jasmine Logan and I delve into how the contemporary church has outed itself as a the white supremacist christian church of America. Logan holds no punches in her description of the ways the religion of a 'color blind' Jesus does harm to children and youth in the church who do not happen to be white or male or heterosexual. Some may call her ideas radical. Other call them in direct alignment with the actual teachings of the historical Christ.Jazz's take on religion, spirituality and Christianity  is eye opening and jaw dropping. Listening to Jazz gave me insight into why so many millennials have left the church. She also gives insight into how some millennials are leaving behind the religious practices of their childhood for an inclusive spiritualism that fuels their social activism.Jasmine “Jazz” Logan (she/her) is a third-year student at Wake Forest University School of Divinity. Jazz is from Arizona but most recently lived in Los Angeles, California, before attending WFU School of Divinity. Jazz has aspirations of becoming an ordained minister (denomination pending) and has a passion for teaching the next generation that they are beloved. Jazz will join That Social Work Lady Podcast as cohost for Episodes 33 - 34. 

Episode 30 welcomes Pastors Sharon and Rodney Logan , co-founders of ACTS Christian Center in Maricopa, AZ to the studio.For over 20 years they have done the work to expand the idea of community and service. "By the way we love" is their mantra which is given meaning by their work as community organizers and builders.In Episode 30, Pastors Sharon and Rodney invite a candid conversation about 'church hurt' and community engagement. From their perspective the church is not always a physical place but is a people who live their purpose and operate from a place of love in ACTion. They remedy for healing 'church hurt' offers a three part prescription: 1. Create a safe space for all; 2. Provide an opportunity for authentic conversation; and 3. Be willing to sit in whatever truth comes out of the conversation you've invited. The Logans are both trained and highly distinguished engineering professionals who take on the responsibilities of problem solving in their work as project managers, astronaut trainers, and servant leaders.  Pastors Rodney & Sharon received ministry training from the Abundant Life School of Ministry (ALSOM) in La Marque, TX.   They have been serving the Lord together in ministry for over 20 years in cities all over America (Baton Rouge, Detroit, Houston, Austin, Alpine, Los Angeles, San Jose, Las Vegas, Chandler, & Maricopa).  They are partnered with Faith Family Church (FFC) of Chandler, AZ where they previously served as Assistant Pastor (Pastor Rodney) and Elder (Pastor Sharon) for over 5 years.  They  have two adult children, Jasmine & Jessica.  They are committed to fulfilling the call of God to Activate Christ Throughout Society (ACTS) by sharing the Love of God from house to house according to Acts 2:42-47. Join Pastors Sharon and Rodney each Sunday live on Facebook for services at ACT Christian Center of Maricopa, AZ. Here's the link: ACTS Christian Center.

In Episode 29, I welcome Social Worker Carrie Bushell to the mic. As a seasoned social worker, Carrie has worked with children and their families at every important developmental stage in their life. Together we've been in the trenches for 54 years!In this episode, Bushell shares her passion for social work and rights several myths about social workers. For the first of many times, Bushell and I combat the myth that social workers 'take people kids.' Social Worker Carrie Bushell and I both love what we do as social workers. We know the important role social workers play in building community.  Did you know, social workers are the leading providers of mental health services in the United States of America? We are. In fact,  Social Workers provide more mental health service care than psychiatrists, psychologists and psychiatric nurses combined. To learn more about what social workers do check out:https://www.socialworkers.orghttps://www.nabsw.org/?https://www.sswaa.orghttps://www.usnews.com/best-graduate-schools/top-health-schools/social-work-rankingsMore about Ms. Bushell:Carrie Bushell was born and raised in the metro Detroit area. She is a graduate of Southfield High School and later attended the University of Detroit Mercy where she obtained a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology in 1995. After working in the field of social work for several years, Carrie enrolled in a Master of Social Work program at Wayne State University, specializing in school social work. Carrie completed this program in 2003 and dedicated her social work career to working with children in schools. This is an area of passion for her, one that drives her career goals.After several years of giving her best to students she worked with in Michigan, Carrie relocated to Charlotte, North Carolina in May 2012. As this was a time of transition for her, she returned to her beginning years of social work and re-explored the area of child and family services. Carrie currently resides in Charlotte, NC., and is a divorced mother of 2 adult boys, Donovan (27) and Caleb (19). She is also a proud grandmother to 2 beautiful girls, Ryley (3) and Savanna (1). She enjoys spending time with family, traveling, and exploring new restaurants (yes, she is a foodie). Her passion is helping and supporting pregnant/teen mothers, with her ultimate goal of developing a center where young ladies can receive all needed services and resources in one place.

Author B. Angela Redd returns to the studio for Episode 28. Avid reader Tameka Kelsey also graced us in the studio to discuss Redd's debut novel: Willfully Blind.B. Angela Redd is a writer hell-bent on dragging readers, occasionally kicking and screaming, into the psyche of her characters. Her latest novel achieves that and more. A literary fiction writer to her core, she masterfully seizes and conveys the depths of her characters through stories that are both complex and thematic. With a three-tier Bachelor of Arts degree in Journalism, Political Science, and Sociology from the University of Michigan, B.Angela Redd's background lends her passion for writing, activism, and a drive for advocating for vulnerable people. When she's not advocating for the vulnerable or feverishly writing novels, she spends many of her days kayaking in Michigan's Great Lakes and camping with family and friends.Her debut novel, Willfully Blind follows the lives of two couples in polar opposite relationships, navigating everyday struggles brought on by an unwillingness to take ownership of self-sabotaging choices.Follow B. Angela Redd on Amazon and her website: www.bangelaredd.com.

For Episode 27, That Social Work Lady welcomes author B. Angela Redd to the studio to discuss community, family, and her writing process.Since the age of twelve years old Redd has believed she was destined to be a writer after completing her first play and corralling neighborhood kids to read for parts, study their lines, and show up on time daily for rehearsal. Her passion for writing never ceased throughout the years.  It would be thirty years before Redd put family, career, and life on pause, faced down the paralyzing fear and self-doubt she'd known from years of low self-esteem and mustered the courage to do what she knew was her God-given assignment - write.B. Angela Redd realized her dream on April 29, 2022, when she published her first novel, Willfully Blind. A literary fiction writer to her core, she masterfully seized and conveyed the depths of her characters through a story both complex and thematic. With a three-tier Bachelor of Arts degree in Journalism, Political Science, and Sociology from the University of Michigan- Dearborn, B. Angela Redd's background lends her passion for writing, political and social justice, and mental wellness. She has always retained a heart for those struggling with mental illness, hence her decision to work for a community mental health agency advocating for vulnerable adults struggling with mental illness and developmental disabilities for the past eighteen years. Follow B. Angela Redd for more:www.bangelaredd.com

Social Activist Yvonne Jones returns for the final installation of our mini series #mamaknowscommunity. This time she again welcomes three generations of women from her family to talk community, family, and legacy.  Welcome back to the studio Mrs. Emma Steward, Mrs. Shirley Roberson-Presley, and Dr. Penny Logan.Our guests hold no punches in this open and honest conversation about the struggle for liberation for the Black community. There are also surprise connections between Mrs. Jones' family and the legendary Fred Hampton.Community Mother Emma Steward, Educator Shirley Roberson-Presley and Dr. Penny Logan speak with Mrs. Jones about their experiences working to build community, fight oppression, and uphold their ministry as #superaunts. If you don't know Aunts are the backbone of the Black community. In Episode 26, Mrs. Jones gets her sisters and aunt to share their Auntie Legacy.Mrs. Emma Steward is a nonagenarian living in Hot Springs, AR who continues to do her part to infuse care and integrity in her community and especially works at ensuring her church is well taken care of.Educator Shirley Roberson-Presley has been teaching revolutionary math concepts since the 1980's. She makes her home and community in northern Louisiana.Dr. Penny Logan received her Ph.D. from the University of Texas - Austin. She is a fierce advocate for nontraditional students and a proponent of community college as a gateway to personal advancement.To learn more about a few of the topics we covered in this episode, check outFred-HamptonThe Emerging Movement for Police and Prison AbolitionEducational Opportunities in Prison Key in Reducing CrimeCointel-pro

Social Activist Yvonne Jones is back in the studio for Episode 25. This time she welcomes three guests: Mrs. Emma Steward, Educator Shirley Roberson-Presley, and Dr. Penny Logan.Each of these women are not only members of Mrs. Jones' family but as community builders have been working to better neighborhoods and families in the Black Community for generations.In this candid conversation social activist Jones talks with Community Mother Emma Steward, Educator Shirley Roberson-Presley and Dr. Penny Logan to share what community means to them as well as the ways they have been work to preserve the African legacies of community and family inherited from our ancestors.Mrs. Emma Steward is a nonagenarian living in Hot Springs, AR who continues to do her part to infuse care and integrity in her community and especially works at ensuring her church is well taken care of.Educator Shirley Roberson-Presley has been teaching revolutionary math concepts since the 1980's. She makes her home and community in northern Louisiana.Dr. Penny Logan received her Ph.D. from the University of Texas - Austin. She is a fierce advocate for nontraditional students and a proponent of community college as a gateway to personal advancement.

Episode 24, Social Activist Yvonne Jones co-host for continuation of our mini series #mamaknowscommunity.Mrs. Jones is a lifetime Detroit resident.  She spent her formatives years during the turmoil of Civil Rights Movement and has first hand experience with the Detroit Rebellion of 1967. She is unashamed of being a direct benefactor of Affirmative Action and the advances made by the Civil Rights Movement. In her second episode as co-host, she continues her conversation with Pan African Activist Nehanda Green. Ms. Green is the mother of one adult daughter and two granddaughters. She has both an undergraduate degree and a  Masters in Public Administration. She is a long time Pan African Political Activist and has traveled extensively through North America, Europe and Asia.  But Ms. Green's favorite destination is Africa. She is the author of five children's books and a City of Detroit retiree where she worked as an accountant.In this episode Mrs. Jones and Ms. Green share the individuals and movements that inspire their community work. Beginning with an open conversation about Marcus Garvey, we discover that Ms. Green has a direct link to Garveyite movement. Mrs. Jones likewise shares her love of the radical nonviolent philosophy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Together they offer a life curriculum on African activism everyone should become familiar with, here are just a few names they dropped in hopes that you will research and learn more:Marcus GarveyRichard AllenDr. Martin Luther King, Jr.Kwame NkrumahKwame TureW.E.B. DuBoiseBooker T. WashingtonGhanaian IndependenceAfrican UnitedAll African People's Revolutionary Party (post SNCC)el Hajj Malik el Shabazz (Malcolm X)Harriet TubmanSojourner TruthFannie Lou HamerShirley Chisholm

In Episode 23, introduces Yvonne Jones as co-host for That Social Work Lady Podcast's mini series #mamaknowscommunity.Mrs. Jones is a lifetime Detroit resident.  She spent her formatives years during the turmoil of Civil Rights Movement and has first hand experience with the Detroit Rebellion of 1967. She is unashamed of being a direct benefactor of Affirmative Action and the advances made by the Civil Rights Movement. In her debut episode as co-host, she invites Pan African Activist Nehanda Green to the studio. Ms. Green is the mother of one adult daughter and two granddaughters. She has both an undergraduate degree and a  Masters in Public Administration. She is a long time Pan African Political Activist And has traveled extensively through North America, Europe and Asia.  But Ms. Green's favorite destination is Africa. She is the author of five children's books and a City of Detroit retiree where she worked as an accountant.What a treat that Episode 23 allows me to be in conversation with two dynamic women who have spent their lives working to build community and work for the liberation of Black people throughout the diaspora. Ms. Green shares her philosophy of Pan Africanism, while Mrs. Jones focuses her energy on the eradication of the oppression of Black people in America.Together, they helped build a preschool in Freetown, Sierra Leone and have sustained that school for a generation. How? Through small donations from their community members based in Detroit, MI, Ms. Green and Mrs. Jones have held up and help grow the Mawina Kouyate Early Education Center.  They liken their dedication to help build the school among their other community building efforts to the #kitchenpolitics of women like Georgia Gilmore.Georgia Gilmore was a Montgomery, GA cook, midwife and activist whose secret kitchen fed the civil rights movement. For more information about her story check out: Meet the Fearless Cook Who Secretly Fed - And Funded - The Civil Rights Movement.What to learn more about Pan Africanism?The Pan African MovementThe History of Pan Africanism

Episode 22 was taped days before Environmentalist  Zwena Gray began her 900 kilometer (559 mile) trek along the Canadian Bruce Trail.Originally from Detroit MI, Zwena is an outdoor enthusiast, community builder, and a business owner. This summer she will be working as the Environmental Director at @campkawartha. Her work focuses on the Black community and teaching sustainability strategies. In Episode 22, Zee shares her inspiration for embarking on a "thru - hiking"  journey on the Bruce Trail. The Bruce Trail is Canada's oldest and longest hiking trail. Zee anticipates that it will take her between 5 - 6 weeks to complete the trail in it's entirety. While on the journey, she will take several of the paths walked by Harriet Tubman on the her final path for freedom during her work with the Underground Railroad.  Zwena hopes to learn and share the black history that is part of The Bruce Trail (Canada's oldest and longest marked hiking trail!) while show casing black joy in nature . She will meet with experts in Canadian history specific Afro-Canadian historians and Bruce Trail enthusiasts along her journey. Zee will start her break in Niagara Falls and end in Tobermory! To follow her on her journey check out @just.zee @zeeisatree@ZwenaGrayTo learn more about the Semester Schools Network that inspired Zee's intellectual curiosity, check out:Semester Schools NetworkAnd definitely check out one of Zee's first stops on her trekGrey Roots Museum & Archives

On Episode 21, I got to share the mic with entrepreneur Tiffany Funderburk.During our candid conversation,  Tiffany Funderburk shares some of the tenets of her philosophy on parenting and entrepreneurship. Truly she offers a master class on nurturing a marriage while raising a blended family. Hint: her definition of community is the foundation.Born in Cali, but raised in Detroit, Tiffany attended Detroit Public Schools. After high school she attended Western Michigan University. While at WMU she joined the U.S. Army and became an active member of the National Guard.  She has been married for 15 and is the mother of a blended family of 7 children! Tiffany is also a doting grandmother. After 14 years as a homeschooling mother, Tiffany decided to take a big leap of faith. 3 years ago an opportunity opened up for her to pursue ownership of a Cold Stone Creamery franchise. Although the odds were against her (and more than a few small business loan rejections) Tiffany persevered. She is now the owner of that Cold Stone Creamery franchise, 1 of only 2 black  Cold Stone Creamery franchisees in the state of Michigan.

Episode 20 completes the conversation Dr. Hilary Jones and I began in Episode 19.An Associate Professor of History at the University of Kentucky, Dr. Hilary Jones credits her high school French teacher as the person who opened the door to her interest in francophiles in the African diaspora. Now, nearly 3 decades later, Dr. Jones is a scholar with a vested interest in setting the historical record straight about the lives, contribution and history of Africans in the diaspora and Senegal. Dr. Jones' research has appeared in the Journal of African History, Cultural Geographies, Slavery and Abolition, the International Journal of African Historical Studies, and Zamani a publication of CODESRIA (Dakar).  She has contributed to six edited volumes and seven research works.  Currently, Jones is working on a book manuscript about the long history of Senegal and the French Caribbean.  In Episode 20, she shares her experiences with international travel and the importance of students developing a global perspective. With that being said, she agrees with me when I say, if there is an opportunity for you or your student to travel and study abroad - Go.A native of Detroit, Michigan, Jones is a graduate of Cass Technical High School and Spelman College.  She earned her doctoral degree in African History at Michigan State University.To get more information on things we discussed this episode, check out:https://blackkidsdotravel.comhttps://themomtrotter.comhttps://thecatchmeifyoucan.comFor more information on Dr. Jones' work check out:https://aaas.as.uky.edu

Season 2's dedication to #blackwomenstoriesmatter continues with Episode 19. This week we welcome scholar and educator Dr. Hilary Jones.Dr. Jones is Associate Professor of History at University of Kentucky where she serves the African American and Africana Studies Program and participates in the Commonwealth Institute of Black Studies.  She also authored The Métis of Senegal: Urban Life and Politics in French West Africa (Indiana University Press, 2013), and examines the making of multiracial communities in Senegal's colonial capital.  A native of Detroit, Michigan, Dr. Jones is a graduate of Cass Technical High School and Spelman College.  She earned her doctoral degree in African History at Michigan State University. In Episode 19, she shares her ideas of community and the lessons she has learned from her work as a scholar.  As world traveler, Dr. Jones has had to rely on the kindness of strangers. Her secret, she tells me, is terenga , a Wolof term meaning hospitality but encompassing so much more, is at the root of building community no matter where she lands.For more information on Dr. Jones' work check out:https://aaas.as.uky.edu

Episode 18 is the conclusion of a two part conversation of affirmation with Human Services Leader MiVida Burrus. The founder of Faith with Heels, LLC MiVida Burrus shares her insight on the importance of building others up as you create and establish networks that work. Her community building strategies are heart full and centered on the promotion of joy and healing.How is she able to do all that she does? Faith. Fo more information about programs and organizations discussed during the Episode 18 check out:HAVEN of Oakland CountyThe World According to Fannie Davis: My Mother's Life in the Detroit NumbersFaith With Heels

In 2022, MiVida Burris took on the mantra: You are welcomed to participate in all this joy! In Episode 17, for Season 2 she shares the meaning behind her mantra and what joy she is inviting others to participate in. When you listen to MiVida's story, you will wonder how she has the capacity to walk in joy or faith given all that she has survived. But I assure you for her, that's the point.  She lives her life full of joy, passion and purpose! And welcomes you to join her. During our conversation MiVida also shares her inspiration for creating FaithWithHeels, LLC. Along with members of her community MiVida established FaithWithHeels as a networking group to support women owned businesses in Metro Detroit. With her at the helm, FaithWithHeels has helped multiple nonprofit start up's reach their fundraising and outreach goals. This Episode is only Part 1 of our complete conversation. Be on the look out for the conclusion in Episode 18.

For Episode Sweet 16, Motivational Speaker Crystal Bell rejoins me in the studio.Crystal Bell is an agent of change in both the professional and private sectors. She has made it her life's mission to empower others. Crystal urges others to see the incomparable value of friendships—and relationships in general—she is best known for authentically connecting with audiences through witty storytelling, wisdom and insight. Crystal thrives off the power of connectivity seeing opportunity where others see void and destitution. Her transparency, coupled with humor and bouts of laughter, allow people to “connect the dots” in a creative, innovative way and move their life, their business, or their mission forward. Currently working on completing her upcoming book on the power of friendship, in this Sweet 16 Episode, Crystal shares her radical philosophy for friendship and it's origins in her Vacation Bible School Days. Crystal's philosophy on Radical Friendship begins with asking 1 critical question: Who can you believe in when they can't believe in themselves and will do the same for you?View to a Vision  is a vision board company designed to help others strategically fulfill their goals through practical leadership, ideas and accountability. Crystal is collaborating with a few colleagues to make View to a Vision a reality. Besides appearing on local television to represent Habitat Detroit, Crystal has also been fortunate enough to speak at numerous youth events, women's conferences and trainings for community organizations. With a degree in Public Relations from Eastern Michigan University, she is more than well-educated in connecting people worldwide in order to maximize the synergy of connectivity—helping them reach and exceed their personal and professional goals. For more information or speaking engagements email crystalmariebell@gmail.com. 

In Episode 15 for Season 2, I welcome Motivational Speaker Crystal Bell.As a motivational speaker for over thirty years, Crystal's audiences have been enlightened and inspired to live life out loud—despite the obstacles. Whether she's facilitating a workshop on vision and goal-setting, or she's training corporate professionals to meet their organizational team goals, Crystal Bell leaves a positive impact and the minds and hearts of men and women that can't easily be erased. Her extensive non-profit career with both local and national organizations has not only positioned her as an expert in community development, team-building and continuous improvement, but also customer service and retention—truly making her a force to be reckoned with amongst competitors. During Episode 15, Crystal shares stories of her joyful childhood. Her transparency lead us to explore the question of why #blackgirljoy is the normalized standard. What is it about our society that we can see a black girl full of joy and wonder 'what's wrong with her.' Crystal reminds us that protecting and connecting with others is what brings peace and helps seal in the joy.To connect with Crystal email her at crystalmariebell@gmail.com. 

This week I welcome Weight Loss Advocate Ciara Hamiel back to the studio to share her journey.Ciara began her weight loss journey with a starting weight of 450 lbs.  With hard work, dedication, and assistance of the gastric sleeve surgery, she have lost over 235lbs. Ciara knew she needed to do something with her life. In this episode she is candid about her journey and shares with me the things she both lost and gained on the road to a healthier self.Motivated by the love of her two sons, Ciara hopes her story is an inspiration for other women fighting the same battle. Her weight loss journey, however, is not over yet. Ciara hopes to inspire more women along her way. Tune in to her podcast launching July 2022, Fat Girl Confessions as she discuss her lifetime battle with weight loss and her new passion for a healthier lifestyle.For more information about Bariatric Surgery check out:Mayo ClinicWeight Loss Surgery: is it an option for you

This week That Social Work Lady welcomes 30 year old Ciara Hamiel to the studio.Ciara Hamiel is a weight loss advocate who wants to support other women on their pathway to weight loss success. In episode 13, Ciara shares her experience with community. She admits that as a young woman she did not have the confidence to build community solo, but is grateful for the ways she has been adopted into community. As a result she has found community at every point in her life and it has helped her fulfill the needs she has a parent of two sons.Ciara is a dynamic optimist. The greatest part of her story is how she never gives up on herself or others - even when it would be in her best interest to let some people go. We appreciate her transparency about setting boundaries, and how her lessons in boundary setting have helped her grow.For more information on programs Ciara mentioned during the show please check out:Teen Infant Parents Services: https://mchsmi.org/teen-infant-parenting-services/Catherine Ferguson Alternative High School

Episode 12 for Season 2 welcomes Sonseeahray (Sonni) Harvin back to the studio. This time we're talking purpose and generational wealth. After her first closing - helping a military family return home from Italy - she was hooked on helping with homes.  Sonni found her true vocation as a realtor and investor. After purchasing homes with other realtors, Sonseeahray saw an opportunity to create a different experience for buyers and sellers. One with an agent who cares and is who's business is devoted to integrity, education and service. Further, Sonni feels strongly about empowering individuals to change the trajectory of their lineage through homeownership. She wanted to do work that made a difference in people's lives while also providing & being available for her children. Sonni's background includes education & training, operations management, information technology, and digital marketing. She also attempted several entrepreneurial endeavors before taking on real estate as her occupational purpose. In our conversation she shares her knowledge about using home ownership to build generational wealth. She also finally demystifies for me 'land contracts' and so many other terms that have left me feeling less than intelligent in rooms where generational wealth is the topic of discussion.In her spare time, Sonseeahray is passionate about self improvement - physical, mental and relational. She loves words, sleep, research and has recently taken up exercise.Follow Sonni on social media @Sonni Sells - The Real Estate SpecialistSonni@YourServiceAnd her website: https://sonnirealestate.com

This week I welcome Realtor Sonseeahray (Sonni) Harvin  into the studio.Sonni was born and raised on Detroit's west side. She is an alumna of both Renaissance High and Emory University where she received both her undergraduate and graduate degree. Currently, Sonni lives with her three children (2 in college and 1 in middle school) in Oakland County, MI. In this candid conversation, Sonni shares that after her multiple sclerosis diagnosis in 2010, she  began to see the necessity of community. After living most of her young adult years in survival mold focused on rearing her children and finding her occupational footing, Sonni learned through her diagnosis that without having a  community to hold her up, she was not going to be able to maintain the life she had worked so hard to build for her family. So...setting aside the myth of Superwoman, Sonni rolled up her sleeves, committing herself to structuring her life so that her health and the care of her children became center. From that basis she then restructured her view of what community should be. Whew! To learn more about multiple sclerosis and how you can advance treatment and services for individuals navigating this illness please check out National Multiple Sclerosis Society or Walk MS.Follow Sonni on social media @Sonni Sells - The Real Estate SpecialistSonni@YourServiceAnd her website: https://sonnirealestate.com

I'm in the studio solo dolo for this episode and I'm talking about Bruno!Every family has secrets. Some of those secrets are merely private things that truly aren't anyone's business outside of the family. But there are other secrets that are truly damaging and traumatic. There are secrets that hurt, harm and kill. Watching Disney's Encanto brought home to me the impact that generational trauma has on families, particularly Black families. Many family members carry the shame of their generational trauma without zero understanding of the origin of the trauma and why they function the way they do in society.Brene Brown, TED talk famous social worker and renown shame researcher says, "I define shame as the intensely painful feeling or experience of believing that we are flawed and therefore unworthy of love and belonging—something we've experienced, done, or failed to do makes us unworthy of connection."Bruno, a character in Encanto, embodies his family's shame. The shame is directly related to their trauma. Bruno is the hidden secret. The crazy thing is millions of families across America have a Bruno! In our families Bruno can be male or female. They may be a drunk or someone with mental illness. At the end of the day, however, Bruno holds the family shame and because he holds the family shame the rest of the family can 'function' in the larger society.Whew! So that's what we diving into in Episode 10. For more information on Brene Brown's shame research check out:https://brenebrown.com/articles/2013/01/15/shame-v-guilt/Also check out the book: You Are Your Best Thing edited by Brene Brown and Tarana Burke

If you want to raise free black children into adults who can stand in their own birthright as humans worthy of love, you have to operate from the grounding principle: Love Does Not Abuse.Gentle Parenting is the 'new' trend in parenting techniques. In Episode 9, I share ideals researched and popularized by bell hooks nearly 30 years ago. Her ideals expound on the Kingian idea that to build the beloved community we must eradicate militarism.Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was both a theologian and philosopher. His theories on building the beloved community through nonviolence is an entire curriculum worth of study and discussion. I share more of Dr. King's theory in Season 1, Episode 31. Episode 9 of Season 2, I dive deeper in the ways in which we have internalized militarism, especially as it relates to parenting. Gentle Parenting, at it's core, eliminates domination as a primary parenting principle. A parent's assertive superiority rejects a child's autonomy and even fails to recognize their rights. Hence, coercive measures in parenting become detrimental to a child's growth. Therefore, domination in parenting counters a child's rights.So by it's very nature Gentle Parenting is feminist, anti-white supremacy, and when done right will in fact smash the patriarchy.  For more information on bell hooks' ideas please see the following resources:https://feminisminindia.com/2021/09/16/the-parenting-philosophy-of-bell-hooks-there-is-no-love-without-justice/?amphttps://rlstollar.com/2020/12/06/love-does-not-abuse-the-parenting-philosophy-of-bell-hooks/?fbclid=IwAR04dDTuvxt_DnH2GdYotBHXefEmkwtn7dd9WceBrqM4yVgx6zYstYTejxsWhat is Gentle Parenting

Season 2, Episode 8 I welcome back to the studio Engineer Maurita Mussawwir!Maurita is a native Detroit, a mother, a graduate of Central State University and an engineer. She has been in the field of engineering for more than 20 years. During this episode, she shares stories about her love of math and science. You see Black girls love math and science too. Maurita is living proof of that fact!Of course, most of us learned this lesson a few years ago when the movie Hidden Figures came out. Maurita's love of math and science is what lead her to pursue an engineering degree from Central State University. Now more than 20 years later, she remains less than 5 Black women engineers to work within her department. Although she knew she was an outlier, Maurita didn't realize she was also a way maker.In her years as an Engineer, she has been mentored by other Black women and has now been able to pay it forward by mentoring up and coming Black women in engineering. Maurita's main advice for others is to make sure that they join organizations that will support them professionally and personally. Because they will feel alone and that will chip away at their confidence.As a proud alumna of Central State University, Maurita shares her experience as a student at a Historically Black University and College. She believes that much of her professional confidence came from attending a school that expected her to succeed. You will see Maurita sporting her maroon and gold around the city promoting both her alma mater as well as science and math education for Black girls.Want more information about the groups and organizations Maurita and I discussed during this episode, click the links below:National Society of Black EngineersCentral State UniversityDAPCEPBlack Girls Code

Episode 7, I welcome Ms. Maurita Mussawwir to the studio. Maurita is the perfect example of why #blackwomenstoriesmatter. She is so unassuming in her mannerisms. You'd never know that she is parenting two different generations simultaneously. In our conversation, Maurita gets candid about her experience navigating potty training for one child and driver's training for the other at the same time! That alone is a major feat but in addition to parenting, Maurita is a full time engineer, volunteer, active member of Zeta Phi Beta sorority, and more!In our conversation we reminisce about our common experiences as Detroit girls. We reflect on the close knit communities of our childhood. And we recognize the ways we have both crafted communities to meet our children's unique needs. Children are for sure our greatest teachers. It is because of them that we are more intention about who we have in our lives and how we move in the world we inhabit.  Our childhood communities may have shaped us into the women we became but our children have redesigned the way we move in the communities we now inhabit. Maurita Mussawwir speaks a lot about her daughter's fearlessness and her son's ability to 'read a room.' Like many moms, she doesn't want to take credit for the unique ways her children's strengths have developed. But she agrees whole heartedly that she set the foundation from which they will build their own worlds. Just like the foundation the community of our childhood built for us. Ms. Mussawwir is a native Detroiter, a Cass Technical High School graduate and alumna of Central State University (the midwest Historically Black College). She is a black women in engineering. Maurita is also a believer in community and defines community at it's core as people coming together to look out for each other.

I welcome Lisa Lipscomb back to the the studio for Episode 6.This time we dive into Lisa's passion - Something New. What began as a challenge from her father who told her "for the rest of your life you will be learning something new" morphed into a practice that grew into a business. Lisa Lipscomb not only intentionally seeks out novel experiences, she teaches others how to incorporate 'something new' as a practice to reinvigorate their  life.She teaches others how to get out of the rut of routine. Her goal is to help other build a bridge from the life they have to a life they will love. So far, Lisa's Something New Series have offered corporate training, and daily inspiration for her social media followers. She's even written a book on how to incorporate novelty into your day on purpose.  Her bestselling book Do Something New: 7 Steps to Recharting Your Path & Creating a Life You Love is currently available on Amazon as a eBook and paperback.Lisa earned a Bachelor of Arts from the University of Michigan-Dearborn, National Board Certification in Literacy: Reading & Language Arts, a Master in the Art of Teaching from Marygrove College, and a Master of Learning Technologies and Instructional Design from Utah State University. She is a Detroit native where she attended St. Mary's and is a graduate of Redford High School. She is a veteran educator. Working in public schools for nearly 3 decades.Learn more about Lisa's initiative by following her on social media:https://www.facebook.com/LisaLipscombLLLAnd check out her website: Something New!

In Episode 5, I got to welcome Lisa Lipscomb to the the studio.Lisa earned a Bachelor of Arts from the University of Michigan-Dearborn, National Board Certification in Literacy: Reading & Language Arts, a Master in the Art of Teaching from Marygrove College, and a Master of Learning Technologies and Instructional Design from Utah State University. She is a Detroit native where she attended St. Mary's and is a graduate of Redford High School. She is a veteran educator. Working in public schools for nearly 3 decades. Lisa has personally witnessed a shift in education. As an educator, Lisa has been intentionally building community in her classrooms for decades. In this interview she offers her unique formula for building community in the classroom and beyond. Her secret is she believes every person in community has something to contribute. Every student in Lisa's classroom is made to feel that they have a voice and a say in how their community will work. And that works! Even in the virtual school setting!Learn more about Lisa's initiative by following her on social media:https://www.facebook.com/LisaLipscombLLLAnd check out her website: Something New!

Julie Collins is back in the studio with me for Episode 4.Today we are talking gunsense. Julie has been campaigning for sensible gun laws for nearly 2 decades. In today's conversation she and I get candid about the work of gun violence prevention groups and the constant backlash from the gun industry.We all believed that after The Columbine High School massacre in 1999, America would work to create laws that would at least protect children. But instead, in many states gun laws have become more lax. Granting accessibility to gun purchases by anyone at any time. Is a dangerous and damaging practice.We really could change that, however, if we wanted to.AlsoShoutout to Meredith Lawson Roll, 1st black woman elected to Reynoldsburg Oh. Previously known as a sundown town. AndShoutout to Doris Beatty Dawson, president of Harrisburg City Council President. Delta Omega Kappa - OSU Here are links discussed in Season 2, Episode 4:https://www.bradyunited.org/https://www.hbo.com/exterminate-all-the-bruteshttps://www.clickondetroit.com/news/local/2022/01/08/get-caught-up-oxford-shooting-latest-suspected-shooter-bound-over-parents-denied-bond-reduction-more/?outputType=amp

In Episode 3 of Season 2, I welcome Mrs. Julie Collins to the That Social Work Lady couch.  Julie shares with me stories from her life as a Black women propelled into activism. While much of work as a community organizer has focused on bringing gun sense legislation to America, she has also worked to help better local schools, address the appalling disparity in maternal health care for Black women, and more.Julie Collins is a national speaker, and is currently a field organizer for Red Wine and Blue a group working to get suburban women involved in the political process. She and her husband Leo reside in the Westerville area of Ohio. Collins was a former Advocacy Lead for Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense in America (Moms), Ohio Chapter. Moms is an organization that formed after the Sandy Hook massacre to promote sensible gun laws in America. As an Advocacy Leader, Collins lobbied legislators in Washington DC and in Columbus. Julie was also the former National Diversity Coordinator for Moms, her focus was getting communities of color involved in gun violence prevention. Of note, Mrs. Collins is a former city councilwoman from the city of Pataskala, Ohio, where she represented the third ward of the city. She is the only African American ever elected to Pataskala City Council. In addition, Julie is a former president of the Licking County branch of NAACP and a former member of the Mental Health and Recovery Board for Licking and Knox counties.A graduate of Columbus State Community College and Otterbein University and the mother of three millennials, Matthew, Brittany and Sarah. Julie Collins is Black Women's History.To learn more about the groups and organizations that Collins has taken a leadership role in and continues to support, check out:http://www.pinkwaterputman.com/millionmommarchhttps://www.bradyunited.orghttps://momsdemandaction.orghttps://naacp.orghttp://www.cityofpataskalaohio.gov/government/city-council/https://www.redwine.blue

In Season 1, I encouraged you to find a therapist and actively involve yourself in purposeful healing. I mean we were in a pandemic, quarantined for months. Our whole person was ripe and ready to work through all the big ugly things that were weighing us down and holding us back.And according to the numbers, you went. The rate at which Americans started therapy over the last year surpasses all other years in this decade! The idea of therapy as a tool to support growth and help us as individuals and family to process emotional pain or reorient our relationships so that they are healthier has caught on. So if the pandemic quarantines brought your mental health strain to the forefront causing you and your life to unravel, you are/were not alone. Millions of people experienced a similar 'wake up.' Absent from the 'busyness' of our pre-pandemic life, we were left to ourselves which revealed that  our well-being was not in fact 'well.' Millions flocked to therapy in an effort to fix the parts of them they felt were broken. Unfortunately, as many people who ran to therapy to get support nearly just as many left. Now people leave therapy for a plethora of reasons. But what I've learned is that mostly people leave therapy because they don't really understand how the therapeutic relationship works.In this episode, I provide a few tips on how to build a relationship with a mental health profession. I begin with the premise that although you will be in a relationship with your therapist, it is not a friendship. With that in mind, there are different rules and responsibilities that apply to the relationship. Here I highlight what those difference are.For more resources on 'how to therapy' check out these resources:https://psychcentral.com/lib/therapists-spill-tips-for-making-the-most-of-therapy#next-stepshttps://www.talkspace.com/blog/what-i-wish-someone-had-told-me-about-how-therapy-actually-works/https://www.self.com/story/what-to-talk-about-in-therapy/amp

Season 2 of That Social Work Lady is live!!That Social Work Lady Podcast began as a pandemic project. Like most projects that begin on a whim, the podcast began without a plan. It was just an idea to create a podcast that focused on exploring the ideas in Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.'s thesis 'the beloved community' through my eyes as a social worker.Now in Season 2, I'm asking the question: What do I want That Social Work Lady to be when it grows up? And of course my answer shifted from what I want the podcast to be to how I want That Social Work Lady to contribute to my community.Adults often ask kids that question as well. Kids when first asked the question, What do you want to be when you grow up, believe it is an open question with a world's worth of answers. They quickly learn however, that the question is asked with expectations making it a more loaded question. Soon kids begin answering the question in order to please the person who is asking the question versus answering it in their own truth and honesty.In the first episode of season 2 for That Social Work Lady podcast, I am shifting the energy of that question. In the spirit of building the beloved community let's stop asking kids 'what they want to be when they grow up' and instead ask 'how do you want to contribute to your community.' Now let's take it a step farther and start asking the question of yourself, your business endeavors, your family, and other aspects of your life. Ask not what you want it to be but ask instead how you want it to contribute.Also new for Season 2, follow That Social Work Lady on social media. Here are the links:Facebook: @thatsocialworkladyInstagram: @that.socialworkladyFor more information about the Perkbox survey click here. NF's song When I Grow Up.

Back in the studio with entrepreneur, mother, and survivor Crystal Weaver.In today's conversation, Crystal continues to share her life story. Her transparency and desire to unmask family secrets that if remained hidden would continue to fester and hurt for generations is heroic. Crystal has survived the death of her first born, domestic violence, and divorce. Yet remains true to her heart and open to love in the ways it manifests that are healing and grounded in faith. Her story is not unfamiliar. In fact it is a common narrative among women, that is why it is such an important story.Follow Crystal YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sx82eY86WYE.And check out her products at www.soseductiveboutique.com 

In part one of this two part session, Crystal Weaver - Detroit native, YouTube vlogger, Content Creator, Mother, Entrepreneur - shares her life story and the inspiration behind her YouTube channel, Blinded by Faith.Crystal joined the ranks of motherhood at 18, and married her first husband at 19. Before her 30th birthday, she birthed 6 children, divorced her first husband, survived her firstborn's death after a long illness, and married her second husband.Now at 42, Crystal is a pro at self reinvention. In this episode she shares her story, her faith walk, and the superhero complex that can both burden and burgeon her resolve to keep it moving.At That Social Work Lady we believe in the value of women's stories. Sharing our stories provide roadmaps for our children and generations in our community who will come up behind us. The stereotype of the strong Black woman is common place yet there is no actual model for what that means and how you are to live as a Black woman I'm strength.Take a moment and a listen. And when you get the chance subscribe to Crystal's YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCugGyNBOIATGjIGsRSKj0LQ

If you've ever wondered what inspired me to start a podcast you really don't have to look or wonder for long. I was raised on radio at a time when my city, Detroit, was reigned by TWO queens: Aretha and Martha Jean.If you've never heard of her Martha Jean the Queen was born Martha Jean Jones in Memphis, TN in 1930. A larger than life figure, the Queen built a communication empire after 46 years in the industry. She is a member of both the Black Radio Hall of Fame and the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.And throughout the entirety of my childhood, Martha Jean the Queen's voice came through on the radio. She was one of the architects for the MLK Holiday in the city of Detroit in the 70's. Because of her work and that of Detroit City officials, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.'s birthday was observed as a city wide holiday throughout my primary school life. Martha Jean was also heralded as the 'calm' during the 1967 Rebellion in Detroit. And the Queen inspired my 8 year old self to organize a protest against a very authoritarian paraprofessional. But more importantly she taught me that black girls are to be seen and heard, unapologetically. Here is more information about the great Martha Jean 'the Queen' Steinberg:https://detroithistorical.org/learn/encyclopedia-of-detroit/steinberg-martha-jean-queenhttps://www.elmwoodhistoriccemetery.org/biographies/martha-jean-the-queen-steinberg/https://www.metrotimes.com/news-hits/archives/2017/07/24/how-martha-jean-the-queen-steinberg-helped-calm-detroit-during-the-summer-of-1967https://www.radiohalloffame.com/martha-jean-steinberg

That Social Work Lady is going online! Be on the look out for our Facebook and Instagram pages. I can't wait to be able to interact with you all online!Poverty is violence.  Here are a few quick stats:The poverty rate in U.S. is close to 12%, meaning 1 in 8 Americans live at or below the poverty level.1 in 6 children in the U.S. are living in povertyThe poverty rate for single-mother households is 31%, meaning almost 1 in 3 single mothers live in poverty.11 million children, or about 1 in 9 of all children in the U.S., live at 50 percent below the federal poverty line.37% of children raised in poverty do not finish high school.People who do not earn a high school diploma by age 20 are 7 times more likely to be persistently poor between ages 25 and 30.Children who grow up impoverished complete fewer years of schooling and earn much lower income than people who did not grow up poor.Children who grow up poor in the U.S. are more likely to be in poor health.It cost more to be poor in American than it would to cover the cost of health care and secondary education for every American.  If that's true, and it is, why is poverty so prevalent in this country? Why won't we do the work to eradicate poverty from sea to shining sea. Poverty exists in these United States of America because there are both political and economic structures that sustain it. That's right. Poverty is a sustained system of oppression that is reinforced by the very system we thought were created in order to eliminate or at least minimize the effects poverty has on American citizens. It costs more to keep people poor in America than it would to provide a comprehensive social safety net similar to those provided in EVERY OTHER WESTERN SOCIETY on this planet. 

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was a radical revolutionary genius who has been relegated in American history to a caricature for complacency. In today's episode I am back in the studio solo dolo committed to continuing the conversation on the Kingian principle of beloved community.Let's begin with an exert from Dr. King's speech "The Other America." In the 1 minute and 55 second I share today, Dr. King talks about how time is used in politic and in our lived experienced.  Dr. King once said, "Social progress never rolls in on the wheels of inevitability; it comes through the tireless efforts and the persistent work of dedicated individuals..." Time is only on the side of the individual or group who uses it with deliberate dedication to sculpt the world in their own image.American Progressives play defense. Defense is reactive and short sighted. Defense is a response to a proactive play. The reason why America trek toward a more progressive and inclusive nation has been such a slow and arduous process is because Progressive do not play the long game. They are not offensive players. But guess who is?For more information about Kingian Principles visit: https://thekingcenter.org/about-tkc/the-king-philosophy/To hear Dr. King's speech The Other America in it's entirety go to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dOWDtDUKz-U

Back in the studio, solo dolo. In episode 31, I'm taking a deep dive into what is meant behind the phrase: The Beloved Community. The goal of Season 1 of That Social Work Lady has been to introduce myself and share with my listeners how community is built, supported, maintained, and structured. In community, we all have a role to play and something to share. No matter who you are and no matter what you believe you have to offer everyone can contribute to community.The late great Congressman John Lewis was a champion of building The Beloved Community and he often spoke on the importance of getting into 'good trouble' in the name of establishing it. Mr. Lewis learned the concept from his mentor and leader Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.In his own words, Dr. King once said, "Our goal is to create a beloved community and this will require a qualitative change in our souls as well as a quantitative change in our lives."As a social worker for nearly 3 decades I have made it my mission to  work toward building community using the tenets mapped out by Dr. King's philosophy of nonviolence. It has not been an easy road. Especially when so much of my time has been spent advocating and arguing against policies that create more barriers for people than they alleviate. Let's talk about how we do the work of building the beloved community together.Read more about The Triple Evils as defined by Kingian Philosophy:  https://thekingcenter.org/about-tkc/the-king-philosophy/To purchase "Where Do We Go From Here: From Chaos to Community" by Dr. Martin L. King, Jr.: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/205943/where-do-we-go-from-here-by-martin-luther-king-jr/