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Best podcasts about shawn bonneteau

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Secret Habit
S2E35: Trigger Diggers: The Real Reason You're Triggered To Watch Porn

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2025 15:53


We're a month into 2025, how are you doing with your triggers and temptations? In this episode, I want to ensure you dont just run away from your temptations, I want you to understand them, face them and overcome them We just launched DeepClean Signature 2.0 and its FIRE - you will learn much more about in this episode. If you're ready to book a call with our team, you can learnj how you can work 1:1 with Shawn Bonneteau: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://secrethabit.ca/call/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today, we will talk about: - How Emotions and Sexuality Are Connected - What Triggers and Temptation Tell Us - How To Create a Trigger Template - How to Ask Great Questions About Our Temptations and Triggers - How To Get To The Bottom Of Why you're Triggered - Defining Core Lies - Getting Needs Met - Pursuing Real Recovery These topics are fundamental to recovery. Guys in DeepClean are getting incredible results from just these 2 videos in our new course. If you want to take your recovery to the next level, theres no better time to take the next step, Heres a few ways for you take that next step 1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://secrethabit.ca/call/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 2. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 3. Enroll in a Free DIY Mini Course: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Credit to DeepClean and Sathiya Sam & Pure Desires Arousal Template

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection
19 | Shawn Bonneteau: A Healthy Skeptic of Life Being Good

What We Really Want: Conversations About Connection

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 45:31


"Send us a message! (questions, feedback, etc.)"When I think of Shawn, I sometimes have to remind myself we've never actually met in person. Shawn is the kind of person who's easy to get to know quickly. He is kind & curious, and also open & vulnerable.Shawn has a compelling sexual recovery story. Growing up impacted by family of origin trauma (like so many), Shawn turned to pornography as a comfort and became addicted. Like so many other young men, he experienced an unexpected physical impact - porn-induced erectile dysfunction. (Have you noticed lately how many ED medication ads we're seeing lately marketed for young men?) *Note: If you listen to the podcast with kids around, be aware that we use clear physiological descriptions in the ED part of the conversation. We hope this will offer you an opportunity to engage with your internet-connected kids on the important topic of porn. Through embracing recovery and digging deeper into his own trauma story, Shawn began to experience spiritual, emotional, and physiological healing. Drawing from his own experience, he founded Secret Habit, offering porn recovery coaching from a Christian perspective. More recently, he joined Sathiya Sam's Deep Clean ministry as lead coach.Listening to Shawn's story, we hope you'll hear things that make you feel less alone, and that give you hope that life can be more than what we often settle for. Healthy connection is for everyone. #shawnbonneteau #secrethabit #deepclean #counseling #coaching #gospel #sexualaddiction #sexaddiction #awaken #awakenrecovery #awakenpodcast #whatwereallywant #wwrw #grace #connection #conversationSecret Habit Christian Recovery CoachingPorn Addiction recovery coaching with Deep CleanShawn on Instagram Awaken websiteRoots Retreat Men's IntensiveRoots Retreat Women's WorkshopAwaken Men & Women's support meeting info (including virtual)

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Unleash The Man Within
753 - Q&A Triggers, Intimacy, and Deliverance with Sathiya and Shawn

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2024 45:18 Transcription Available


✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. We're live with our first Q&A episode with Sathiya and Shawn!  This is your opportunity to get free coaching from Sathiya and head Deep Clean coach Shawn Bonneteau by submitting your question (link below). Plus, hear questions from others in the community who are on their own recovery journey...chances are you're in a similar place and could benefit from the answers we give on this show. Check it out and please let us know what you think by sharing it if you enjoy this style, and leaving us a review on Apple (or a rating on Spotify). In this episode, we discuss: 2:26 Intro to Shawn and what God is doing in his life 6:40 Adjusting from one to two kids 9:56 Emotionally healthy communication with your children 13:56 Rupture and repair 19:20 Trends that we're seeing in clients' recovery journeys 21:33 Question 1: Taking control of triggers (including in the shower) 29:48 Question 2: How do you understand concepts like truth and intimacy when you've conditioned yourself to view them as something they aren't, like white lies? 36:15 Question 3: Why didn't a deliverance prayer fully heal me? 43:00 Wrap up and request Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya ➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram ➡️ Watch on YouTube

Secret Habit
S2E27: Stuck Making Immature Decisions? Heres How To Separate Your Past From Present & Get Free From Porn Addiction

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2024 13:09


Looking for lasting freedom from porn? START with one of our 3 options here: 1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: ⁠https://secrethabit.ca/call/⁠ 2. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: ⁠https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/⁠ 3. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: ⁠https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing⁠ In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau is going to talk to you about triangulation, enmeshment and the process of getting out of what seems so stuck! If you seem to make immature decisions more than you would like to admit, then stick around and learn what it means to unmesh from your past Shawn has a personal testimony of overcoming these challenges and shares candidly about his own journey to growing in maturity, compassion and integrity This is at the heart of what it means to be free from porn, masturbation and sexual sin... If you feel stuck and dont know how to fix it, this is the right place for you Do you need some direction on what to do next? Check out ⁠secrethabit.ca⁠ to book a call with our team, buy a course or grab a free resource

Secret Habit
S2E26: Porn Genres Reveal The Pathway To Healing; How To Renew Your Faulty Neuro-Connections

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 13:39


Looking for lasting freedom from porn? START with one of our 3 options here: 1. Book a Call with our Team to work 1:1 with Coach Shawn: https://secrethabit.ca/call/ 2. Enroll in a DIY Mini Course: https://secrethabit.thinkific.com/ 3. Grab Our Free 90 Day Porn Withdrawal Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1SIG3jTjSAtEtsqxqHDI8fNG7m9L8mAv5/view?usp=sharing In this episode, get ready to learn from Shawn Bonneteau about something that may shock you... How the types of porn you watch can actually reveal the very thing that needs healing... Its true, check out how And thats not all... Learn how your brain has created neuro connections that have become so engrained that you've become a slave to them Ill offer you a few key next steps to ensure you can apply what you learned and have some major breakthroughs This is what it takes to get free from porn addiction, overcome masturbation and outgrow sexual sin Do you need some direction on what to do next? Check out secrethabit.ca to book a call with our team, buy a course or grab a free resource

Secret Habit
S2E25: Leading The Boy Within: 4 Steps To Effective Inner Child Recovery

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2024 27:04


Inner Child Work has become one of the most effective approaches to healing addiction, trauma or past pain. I absolutely love it when it comes to helping men quit porn and overcome sex addiction... It's been so successful that im doubling down on it today and doing an episode to share about the 4 steps I now teach. On top of the 4 steps, I want to really unpack the most important on going step - leading the boy. Without this step being an on going habit, you will never get to the place where you have power over the trauma... you will always be a victim to the inner child getting activated, and thats no fun! If you're ready to GET FREE FROM PORN and you think inner child work is the best way for you to get there, ⁠book a call with our team at DeepClean.⁠ Extra resources: In episode 50 I share about the 9 steps to inner child work and in episode 59 I walk guys through a step by step exercise to apply the inner child approach These are AMAZING episodes, please listen to them. However, this info here will help you boil it down even more and get the absolute best out of your inner child practice. In this episode you learn about the nervous system. I do a deeper dive on this in ep 60 - all about fight, flight, freeze and finding safety in your day to day life. Get your free copy of my E-Book: The 4 Stages of Overcoming Porn Withdrawal Symptoms Tune in and submit your questions to the Unleash The Man Within Podcast with Shawn Bonneteau and Sathiya Sam

Unleash The Man Within
753 - Q&A: Triggers, Intimacy, and Deliverance with Sathiya and Shawn

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2024 45:18


✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God. We're live with our first Q&A episode with Sathiya and Shawn! This is your opportunity to get free coaching from Sathiya and head Deep Clean coach Shawn Bonneteau by submitting your question (link below). Plus, hear questions from others in the community who are on their own recovery journey...chances are you're in a similar place and could benefit from the answers we give on this show. Check it out and please let us know what you think by sharing it if you enjoy this style, and leaving us a review on Apple (or a rating on Spotify). In this episode, we discuss: 2:26 Intro to Shawn and what God is doing in his life 6:40 Adjusting from one to two kids 9:56 Emotionally healthy communication with your children 13:56 Rupture and repair 19:20 Trends that we're seeing in clients' recovery journeys 21:33 Question 1: Taking control of triggers (including in the shower) 29:48 Question 2: How do you understand concepts like truth and intimacy when you've conditioned yourself to view them as something they aren't, like white lies? 36:15 Question 3: Why didn't a deliverance prayer fully heal me? 43:00 Wrap up and request Get Your Question Answered: ❓ Submit Your Question Here LET'S CONNECT ➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram➡️ Watch on YouTube

Secret Habit
S2E17 Porn Resilient 2023: Core Needs & Your Relationship with God

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2023 54:14


Core needs are important! Even more, our relationship and fellowship with God is VITALLY important. However, most times, we live as if our hard work and effort is what matters most... this is a failure plan In this interview, Taylor Chambers interviews Shawn Bonneteau on the Porn Resilient Summit to talk about some major topics in the porn recovery realm In this episode, get ready to learn about: - Core needs and how they affect us when unmet - Why we need to understand Relationship AND Fellowship with God - How to understand our Nervous System and the Fight, Flight, Freeze - How to Outsmart our brain and overcome temptation - How to create truly helpful recovery gameplans - Why we need to focus on the Gospel as our first and foremost importance - The 4 Stages of Porn Withdrawals and Recovery If you find this interview valuable and want to work with Shawn, you can book a call with the DeepClean team at secrethabit.ca/call If you want to grab the free e book mentioned in the interview, get a free copy here

Secret Habit
S2E15: Forgive Like Christ Forgave

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2023 23:40


Biblical forgiveness is not about forgetting... Its about naming the pain and releasing the debt to the one who has paid it all - Jesus Christ But how do we do that? In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau shares about his personal journey to through unforgiveness on route to forgiving those who have hurt him most. Topics Shawn covers in this episode: - What forgiveness is and what it is not - Forgiveness and trust are different things - The 2 common approaches to forgiveness - The 7 steps to forgiving someone or something - The call to die to self and surrender to Jesus Christ * Register for the FREE Porn Resilient virtual summit: https://www.taylorchambers.com/ * Enrol in DeepClean Signature, the all in one porn recovery system for Christian men: secrethabit.ca/call

Secret Habit
S2E13: Outsmart Your Sexual Temptations With This Porn Recovery Tool

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2023 14:33


Sexual temptation is powerful... Most people are like a deer in headlights when sexually tempted. No matter the trigger, its almost as if you go on auto pilot and do things you never thought you would do... sound about right? If so, then this recovery life hack is 100% for you In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau is going to uncover the #1 reason mature adults make childish decisions in the face of temptation. Get ready to learn about: - What happens when you go into fight, flight freeze - Why its so hard to make good decisions when sexually tempted - What is really triggering you before you watch porn - Why "prayer and read your bible more" doesn't work - Whats going on in the brain when you get sexually tempted or emotionally triggered - How to hold the power and overcome triggers and temptations no matter when they come Grab our 90 day survival guide when quitting porn (bottom of the blog page) DOWNLOAD IT FOR FREE We're opening up some slots f you're ready to quit porn but need a coach, system and community to help you do it - book your free call now and join us at DeepClean - the all in one porn recovery system for Christian men

Secret Habit
S2E12: Stop Using Cute Words To Describe Your Porn Addiction

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2023 10:14


Do you do what most people do: Calling their porn addiction a "sin issue" or a "lust problem"? In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau is going to get real and challenge the weak sauce language we so often use as Christians. I want to help you add some weight to your words to enhance your conviction to change. This is a vital message to those who want to build bigger "muscles" in their journey to freedom from porn and sexual integrity Get ready to learn about: - The difference between weak and strong language - How to say things for what they are - Being brutally honest - Growing your conviction while quitting porn Ready to do something about your porn addiction FOR REAL? * Book your call with our team today and get started on our 4 month porn recovery program Extra resource: "The Last Relapse" book by Sathiya Sam. Grab your free copy today

Secret Habit
S2E11: Jesus Wants You To Be Fruitful, Heres Why You're Not

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2023 11:16


Fruitfulness is vitally important to the Christian life. Jesus literally uprooted a fig tree that bore no fruit. If this is the case, then its time to start inspecting your porn addiction recovery for fruit. Most guys I work with are not experiencing the fruit that they could be. Its not to say they're relapsing all the time and their life is a mess... however, anything that is not fruitful IS fruitless... theres really no in between In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau takes the time to unpack what it means to not just be curious about your life, but to become skeptical. One of Shawns greatest strengths (and weaknesses lol) is that he is extremely skeptical and seeks evidence, facts and truth to back up claims or outcomes. Get ready to learn about: - Shawns journey to Christ and freedom from porn - How to inspect your life for fruit - How to ask yourself better questions - Breaking down pride, fear and sloth Need help gettign past the first 90 days of quitting porn? **Grab our 90 day porn withdrawal survival guide (bottom of the blog page) DOWNLOAD IT FOR FREE **If you're ready to dig deep, heal the roots and experience lasting freedom from porn then book a call with us and get started with a coach today

Secret Habit
S2E10: Your Voice Has Power Over Shame When You Do THIS

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2023 18:47


Have you ever considered the idea that you actually listen to yourself much more than your speak to yourself? We all have thousands of thoughts going through our mind all day. Sadly 75% of them are from bad sources - the flesh, the world and satan... that makes the odds of hearing good things pretty low. Not only that, so many of them are deep rooted, familiar and highly toxic. These are the ones you hear the most, especially after you make a mistake. In this episode Shawn Bonneteau unpacks the difference between listening and speaking and gives you some real life examples of how he has cut off the shame cycle after making a mistake. This concept is incredible for porn addiction recovery, but its also a holistic idea that can impact every area of you life Ready to learn about our all in one porn recovery system that helps men get sober from porn in 120 days? * Book your free strategy call today Mentions in the episode: - "Humility: The beauty of Holiness" by Andrew Murray

Secret Habit
S2E8: Fleeing Sexual Temptation Doesn't Work

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2023 11:40


Are you the kind of person who reads in the bible "flee temptation" and decides to lock down their phone, avoid the beach and cancel their gym membership? If so, we understand! It can be a confusing command to understand and apply correctly Often we read stories like in Genesis 39 where Jospeh "runs" from Potipher's wife as an example of fleeing temptation. In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau wants to offer you a perspective shift on what fleeing temptation really means and how this story has so often been taken out of context Get ready to learn about: - What Potiphers wife represents for us today - Key takeaways from Joesphs response to sexual enticement - How we surrender control to temptation too easily - The difference between sexual temptation and sexual manipulation - How to understand sexual temptation - How to overcome sexual temptation If you need help overcoming temptation, quitting porn and getting free from sexual sin, then book a call with us today, we would love to see if you're a good fit for our all in one porn recovery system "DeepClean" secrethabit.ca/call Scriptures read/referenced in this episode: Geneis 39:7-12 (NIV) Matthew 5:29-30

Secret Habit
S2E6: Stop Suppressing Your Emotions!

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2023 14:13


Emotions are a gift from God. Not only do they tell us a lot about where we need healing, they invite us to experience a fresh dose of Gods love, comfort and peace In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau is going to dive into 2 key areas of processing emotions - labeling and validating. Theres a step by step process taught at DeepClean on how to process emotions for best results and this is a small tidbit from that incredible teaching module in the Signature program. If you want to learn more about DeepClean, book a call with someone on our team If you struggle to label your emotions, process them or talk to God or others about them, then this episode is 100% for you! Its time to learn from your emotions so you can control them. No more being ruled by your emotions! God wants so much for for you and we believe its one of the key secrets behind lasting freedom from porn addiction, compulsive masturbation and other sexual struggles. *Are you ready to quit porn for good? Book your call with the DeepClean team and find out how you can join our all-in-one porn recovery system

Secret Habit
S2E5: What If I Don't Have Any Trauma?

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2023 18:15


Holistic healing from porn addiction requires trauma work, but the age old question is this: What if I didn't experience any trauma? In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau will talk about a better way to approach the topic of trauma. Because trauma is just as much about what we learned from our experiences then it is what happened to us, we need to open our minds to what may still be driving our addictions. Maybe you dont think you had any trauma growing up, we would beg you to listen to this episode and then consider that idea Maybe you think you only experienced BIG T trauma and have done some healing in that area but there still seems to be some lingering issues you cant seem to get over Either way, this episode is for you Shawns going to uncover some incredible insights that he has applied to his own life and recovery that now has him at 6 years of freedom. He also shares these insights from years of experience coaching men from all walks of life *Ready to quit porn once and for all? Book a free private strategy call with our team at DeepClean to learn more about our coaching program.

Unleash The Man Within
555 - Shawn Bonneteau on Healing Your Inner Child, Regulating Your Adult Nervous System, and Why Trying Harder Doesn't Work

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2023 61:46


This rare in-person interview features Shawn Bonneteau, a return guest of the show and the founder of Secret Habit Life Coaching, podcast host, and coach extraordinaire. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Unleash The Man Within
555 - Shawn Bonneteau on Healing Your Inner Child, Regulating Your Adult Nervous System, and Why Trying Harder Doesn't Work

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2023 61:46


This rare in-person interview features Shawn Bonneteau, a return guest of the show and the founder of Secret Habit Life Coaching, podcast host, and coach extraordinaire. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

indoubt Podcast
Ep. 327: FINDING FREEDOM FROM PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTION

indoubt Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2023 64:42


The statistics are not pretty. Pornography continues to be a big problem and it seems like the ages of people struggling with porn addiction decreases as the percentage of users increase. There is hope! It's not all doom and gloom. Join host Andrew Marcus as he connects with Shawn Bonneteau from Deep Clean, an incredible ministry that offers one on one coaching, group coaching and a wide variety of resources to help those addicted break FREE! Jump into their conversation as they unpack the reality that there is hope for freedom. Freedom exists. You may not think there's a way out, but there is. Listen now to learn some practical ways to overcome addiction and live a life of true freedom in Christ. 

Secret Habit
64. The Truth Will Set You Free: The Blueprint To Overcoming Sexual Shame

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2023 23:31


I've heard it said that it takes 10 positive experiences to equal the power of 1 negative experience. If that's true, then it's no wonder shame is running rampant in our lives. And when shame has more power in our lives than the word of God, we begin to question our worth, isolate and numb. And when these become habitual, we're on our way to forming habits around sinful behaviours such as watching porn. This episode was inspired by a powerful approach Shawn Bonneteau learned from Jay Stringer in his famous book "Unwanted". It's the concept of "swimming toward the shark of shame" so we can face, defy and dismantle the lies we believe about ourselves and other people. It's all too common that we hear in the church that there is no condemnation in Christ, but then we realize the church is full of people who are feeling shame about some area of their lives. This doesn't say anything about Jesus, but it certainly says a lot about the approaches we're offering to handle shame. Here you will learn the 4 step blueprint to defying and dismantling shame so you can live in the truth and light of Jesus Christ. We truly believe this is at the heart of one's freedom and abundance as a Christian. If you learn this, I believe you will begin to reclaim what God intended for you. You will begin to thrive in hope, peace and joy... and we desperately want this for you! This is at the heart of recovery from pmo, betrayal trauma, sexual shame and other sexual struggles. No matter if you're single, dating, engaged, married or divorced, there's so much to learn from the word of God and His truth! It's the only way we can truly defy the lies in our life. Are you ready to take the next steps in your recovery? 1. Want free resources and a safe place to heal? Join our free men's community today 2. Ready to work with a coach? Book a free coaching consult call with Shawn Books mentioned in the episode: - Unwanted by Jay Stringer - Going Deeper by Eddie Capparucci

Unleash The Man Within
500 - Shawn & Helena Bonneteau on Idolizing Recovery, How Brutal Honesty Saved Their Marriage, and Why Feeling Wanted Is Irresistible

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2023 66:17


Shawn and Helena Bonneteau have played a helping hand in transforming over 2000 relationships through their coaching services and podcast. Both Shawn and Helena struggled with an addiction to porn and masturbation and by the grace of God are now celebrating over 5 years of freedom individually and as a couple. Shawn is a certified Inner Child Recovery Specialist and together, they are certified sexual addiction mentors and certified Husband Material coaches. In today's interview, Shawn, Helena & Sathiya discuss: -How Shawn quit p*rn on his 25th birthday -Helena's own struggle with porn problem and abusive relationships (which were influenced by porn) -Shawn totally botching the disclosure process -Something felt off when they started having sex in their marriage -Everything blew up in one big conversation when they were both finally honest with each other about their struggles -How journaling rescued Shawn's recovery -Helena's journey through betrayal trauma with a close friend -Why they both watched porn: Distance (emotionally & physically) from parents; porn was a 'soother' and provided worth/feeling of desired -Women are not expecting perfection, but they are expecting honesty, otherwise they feel disrespected -At 3 year mark into Shawn's recovery is when Helena had a day where there were no triggers -Why intimate knowledge of one another is necessary to build trust -Recovery can become an idol — don't get caught up into just "doing the stuff", make sure you're actually applying the work Listen To The Secret Habit Podcast Join Secret Habit Community Listen to Episode 149 - Shawn Bonneteau on Dealing With Erectile Dysfunction, Experiencing Betrayal Trauma As A Man, and How To Design A Sexual Template Book A Time With The DeepClean Team

Unleash The Man Within
500 - Shawn & Helena Bonneteau on Idolizing Recovery, How Brutal Honesty Saved Their Marriage, and Why Feeling Wanted Is Irresistible

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2023 66:17


Shawn and Helena Bonneteau have played a helping hand in transforming over 2000 relationships through their coaching services and podcast. Both Shawn and Helena struggled with an addiction to porn and masturbation and by the grace of God are now celebrating over 5 years of freedom individually and as a couple. Shawn is a certified Inner Child Recovery Specialist and together, they are certified sexual addiction mentors and certified Husband Material coaches. In today's interview, Shawn, Helena & Sathiya discuss: -How Shawn quit p*rn on his 25th birthday -Helena's own struggle with porn problem and abusive relationships (which were influenced by porn) -Shawn totally botching the disclosure process -Something felt off when they started having sex in their marriage -Everything blew up in one big conversation when they were both finally honest with each other about their struggles -How journaling rescued Shawn's recovery -Helena's journey through betrayal trauma with a close friend -Why they both watched porn: Distance (emotionally & physically) from parents; porn was a 'soother' and provided worth/feeling of desired -Women are not expecting perfection, but they are expecting honesty, otherwise they feel disrespected -At 3 year mark into Shawn's recovery is when Helena had a day where there were no triggers -Why intimate knowledge of one another is necessary to build trust -Recovery can become an idol — don't get caught up into just "doing the stuff", make sure you're actually applying the work Listen To The Secret Habit Podcast Join Secret Habit Community Listen to Episode 149 - Shawn Bonneteau on Dealing With Erectile Dysfunction, Experiencing Betrayal Trauma As A Man, and How To Design A Sexual Template   Book A Time With The DeepClean Team

Secret Habit
62. Building Purposeful Relationships: Breaking Down the 4 Main Barriers

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2023 36:32


One of the biggest struggles I see with my clients no matter where they live or how old they are is creating healthy relationships. I have pinpointed 4 main barriers that stand in the way of someone taking the risks a healthy relationship requires and I want to help you break them down in this episode. I believe healthy relationships breed the type of connection we long for. I also believe that when we feel connected, we feel safe, secure, loved, cared for and wanted. These are all VITAL to someone being free from sexual addiction and feeling redeemed. Relationships are truly one of the key elements to a successful recovery and life that you must take seriously. This episode is taken from a live training Shawn Bonneteau did in the Secret Habit Mens Community. These are hosted once per month and for those in the community, you get access to a 20-minute Q and A afterward! Make sure to join the community today! In this episode, you will learn about: - The 4 barriers keeping you from healthy relationships - The practical solutions required to break the barriers - Biblical examples of healthy relationships - Applicable and helpful next steps so you can get started today The goal of this live training is to help you create purposeful relationships that bless your recovery and life. that's it! If you find this to be too simple and there are further traumas and struggles in the way, please reach out for coaching, I would love to chat and see how I can help Ready to quit porn, follow our 3-step plan: 1. Join our free men's community 2. Sign up for a free courses in the community 3. Start 1 on 1 coaching Please rate & review our show, it helps others hear our content and get the help they're searching for! It only takes 2 minutes :)

Unleash The Man Within
496 - Is Recovery An Idol In Your Life?

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2023 12:09


Anything can become an idol in our lives and recovery is no exception. Sparked by a recent interview with Shawn Bonneteau, Sathiya explains why we must ensure we keep Jesus at the center of all our efforts, and recovery as a second priority; never the other way around. Join DeepClean Inner Circle Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram

Secret Habit
61. Overcame Porn Addiction But Why Is My Wife Still Not Happy?

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2023 31:15


How do I make my wife feel safe again after my porn addiction? This is a question that has been asked by men over the years. Women are not happy because they are not safe, and they will never feel safe until you make them feel like they can trust you again. The safety element is kind of a building block in building trust, and it's a foundational element that must be in place before you can really start to rebuild the trust between you. In this episode, Helena and Shawn Bonneteau are going to help you understand the do's and don't s of how to make your wife feel safe again. Helena will give you some practical steps that you can take to rebuild trust with your wife and help her to feel safe again while on your journey to overcoming masturbation and porn addiction. Many men think that they already know what their wives need from them and they think going to meetings, and calling their sponsors makes her feel safe. But it's not that simple. Sobriety isn't the end goal, as you will learn here. Here you will quickly learn: When you're in sobriety, you have to keep on doing the things that make your wife feel safe. Not doing things isn't changing and sobriety from behavior change doesn't equal trust Sobriety in itself isn't the solution, being more like Christ is... Changing from the inside is. Recovery's not doing things, it's changing. Changing is an integral part of us How to define what is safe and what is safe and what restores safety. Being busy with recovery leads to tiredness, irritability, and grumpiness which translates to being unsafe for your wife Wife watches who you are more than what you do What is safe? Wife seeing husband growing with God, seeking integrity Having curiosity and asking for clarity and help. (What do you need right now? What would make you feel safe? What would make you feel this is rebuilding trust?) Expressing a willingness and desire to change/heal Taking ownership, apologizing, seeking to reconcile What is unsafe? Assuming you know what she wants, needs and likes Breaking boundaries without respecting them Abdicating leadership and role as man and leader; Being passive-aggressive, avoiding conflict and tension. Not fulfilling your God-given role of protector and provider. This episode is ultimately all about finding out what your wife wants and likes which helps remove the assumptions that bring marriage struggles between couples. Learning each other's boundaries and how to respect each other boundaries is a big part of what helps build trust in a relationship. When you respect each other's boundaries, it shows that you care about them and their feelings. If you're wondering how to rebuild trust with your wife after masturbation and porn addiction (and make her feel safe and happy), then this episode will help get started on the right path. Ready to quit porn? Follow our simple plan: 1. Join our free men's community 2. Sign up for some free courses in the community 3. Start 1 on 1 coaching Ready to heal from Betrayal Trauma? Grab the "Beneath The Skin" video course for only $49 cdn PLEASE Comment, like, and share the episode

Secret Habit
59. Becoming Emotionally and Sexually Mature In Christ

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2023 49:45


So many of us do things we wish we did not do. It's one thing to not want to do them, it's another thing to know how to stop! For any of you that know the famous text in Romans 7:15, I'm sure you can relate to Paul's internal battle of doing what he hates, even though he knows what is good. From a psychological standpoint, this sort of inner war happens because of things like childhood trauma, no matter how big or small. When we experience something painful or come to believe something that goes against God's truth while in our formative years, it leads to that part of us getting stuck in "childish" thinking, aka. immaturity. It's as if the child within gets frozen in time and cannot mature, no matter how hard you try! In this episode, you will hear from Shawn Bonneteau's teaching on inner child healing, as well as internal family systems and the concept of parts work. This recording was from his live training that was live in the Secret Habit Porn Recovery Mens Community. Get ready to learn about: - Healing your inner child through being re parented - Recognizing and healing the parts of you that carry shame - Understanding your inner manager, firefighter and exiles - What is happening inside the brain, mind and body when you get triggered - Your 3 roles in healing your parts and inner child - The 9 steps of inner child healing recovery This approach has been incredibly helpful for porn addiction recovery and healing from other unwanted sexual behaviours. If you're struggling with watching porn, masturbation, sex addiction, or any other form of sexual shame, then I would encourage you to consider this opportunity to heal the deeper roots of your struggles. To watch this live training and not just listen, join the Secret Habit Porn Recovery Mens Community + Get access to live trainings like this every month! The next one is Feb 25th - RSVP inside the community for free Ready to get coaching? Check these links out: 1 on 1 Coaching with Shawn (For porn addiction, unwanted sexual behaviours and porn-induced erectile dysfunction) Group Coaching with Shawn (For men who want to outgrow unwanted sexual behaviours)

Secret Habit
55. 6 Secrets to Igniting Sexual Intimacy with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo from ONE Extraordinary Marriage

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2023 52:49


Intimacy in your marriage is about so much more than just having sex. It's all about closeness and connection between 2 people. In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau has the privilege of interviewing Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to hear more about their incredible book The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Here's a bit about our guests today: As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their best-selling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy, has transformed countless marriages around the world. This framework is simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Tony and Alisa are total legends in the area of intimacy! They have been coaching and educating marriages for 13 years now... that's a lot of wisdom! In this episode, you're going to learn all about the 6 pillars of intimacy: Emotional Intimacy: Verbal and Non-Verbal Communication Physical Intimacy: The Non-Sexual Intimacy! Financial Intimacy: Being on the same page Spiritual Intimacy: Going deeper in your faith together Recreational Intimacy: Having Fun! Sexual Intimacy: romance, initiating, foreplay and intercourse BONUS: Learn how each pillar is built up and made strong, and how each pillar begins to crack! Here's a bit about the 6 Pillars of Intimacy Book: The six intimacies (pillars), and how to use them. How to keep the pillars solid and straight so your marriage thrives How your marriage can start to collapse if the pillars become damaged The author's real-life story, experience, and relationship struggles. Here's a bit about the 6 Pillars of Intimacy Workbook: Get clarity on each of the 6 Pillars of Intimacy. Develop an understanding of how you each show up in the marriage. Build action steps that you can really implement. Understand how you can take action today. To learn more about Tony and Alisa and what they're doing with The One Extraordinary Marriage, go to: oneextraordinarymarriage.com @oneextraordinarymarriage on IG 6pillarsofintimacy.com To learn more about Secret Habits resources and coaching: Get your free copy of our "Creating a Sexual Template" course (Available in our free men's community) Join Shawns' special private group coaching starting Feb 15th! For more info check out secrethabit.ca/group

Secret Habit
54. What is Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction?

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2023 41:15


When a man cannot get or stay erect due to the influence of pornography consumption, we call this Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED). It's a really hot issue right now and it's affecting men from all walks of life. Porn-induced erectile dysfunction has become an epidemic due to the incredibly high rates of men addicted to internet pornography (some stats show up to 70% of men are watching porn regularly). PIED occurs when the consumption of pornography causes physiological damage to the brain and psychological damage to the mind. This results in things like atrophied dopamine receptors, deteriorated grey matter of the brain and skewed beliefs about masculinity and sex. Your co-host Shawn Bonneteau had a struggle with PIED and psychological ED for many years. In this episode, he and Helena dig into what he went through as he struggled, what he learned and what changed so he could be healed and free today. You will also hear from Helena and the perspective of a woman... because this issue affects women too! In this episode, we will talk about: 1. client success stories from Josh and Grayson 2. what is Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction 3. Shawn's story of struggling with and overcoming PIED 4. The medical systems perspective 5. The Pornified brain 6. how to overcome porn-induced erectile dysfunction in 4 practical steps FREE resources to help you quit porn and overcome PIED 1. Creating a Sexual Template course 2. The 4 Stages of Porn Addiction Withdrawal Symptoms 3. Secret Habit Mens Community If you want to take the next step and learn about coaching with Shawn, book a free call with him here

Husband Material
Habits That Heal (with Shawn Bonneteau)

Husband Material

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2023 38:02


What habits are most helpful for healing and outgrowing porn? In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau presents a beautiful menu of ideas to transform habits without pressure, perfectionism, or "shoulding" all over yourself in 2023.Shawn Bonneteau is a Christian pornography recovery coach and podcast host at Secret Habit. After quitting porn in the summer of 2017, he has spent his life pursuing God's call to transform relationships through coaching men to find freedom from porn. Shawn is a certified Husband Material coach, certified sexual addictions mentor and an inner child recovery specialist. He spends the majority of his time coaching men all over the globe in both 1-on-1 and group settings. He has a deep passion for speaking and has had the privilege to share with tens of thousands of men and women on the topics of porn addiction, masturbation and erectile dysfunction over the past 4 years. Shawn lives in Halifax, Canada with his wife Helena and daughter Violet. In his spare time he loves to watch hockey, play the drums and watch a good mindbender from Christopher Nolan.Resources by Shawn:Secret Habit PodcastSecret Habit CommunityFree Recovery Navigator CallMentioned in this episode:The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction (interview with Shawn Bonneteau)The Ruthless Elimination Of Hurry by John Mark Comer (paid link)Man Cards: Conversation Starters For Men by Husband MaterialTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast and leave a review Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Secret Habit
51. Help, I Cant Stop Watching Porn... What Should I do?

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2022 21:10


We all get sexually triggered, but that's not the problem. The problem is that very few men actually know why they're being triggered and how to deal with the root issue. This makes it really hard if you want to experience freedom porn... In this live teaching from Secret Habit's lead coach Shawn Bonneteau, you're going to learn the 3 essentials to understanding, handling and overcoming your triggers so you can gain the awareness and self-control that freedom from porn requires. This episode is taken from a recording of a live training Shawn did back in the summer of 2022 called "Sexual Triggers, Why They Happen & What You Can Do About Them". He is speaking to a male audience but what he shares is applicable to anyone struggling with porn addiction, sexual triggers and other unwanted sexual behaviours. In this episode, I will help you understand why you get triggered, what to do when you get triggered, and how you can develop the confidence to deal with them when they arise. In this episode you will learn about: How Sexual Triggers reveal our insecurities that have been sexually hijacked How to learn from our triggers so we can deal with their root issue - our unmet needs How to develop a gameplan and self-talk routine focused on understanding our core needs is a proactive and healthy way to develop confidence and overcome our sexual triggers JOIN our free men's porn recovery community for more trainings, content, support and help as you work towards freedom in 2023!

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Real Men Connect with Dr. Joe Martin - Christian Men Podcast
One Couples Journey Through Sexual Brokenness (EP:698)

Real Men Connect with Dr. Joe Martin - Christian Men Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2022 59:42


Shawn Bonneteau is a passionate speaker and certified mentor to men struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors. With his own 14-year pornography addiction, struggles with erectile dysfunction, and ultimately, sexual brokenness, he has been called to use his redemption story as a beacon of hope to those in similar places. Shawn has had the opportunity to speak in various settings to men and women around the world. He has been a guest speaker/writer with X3 Church, Bravehearts, Husband Material, Family Life Canada, and many more. With a holistic, Gospel-centered approach, Shawn has helped men from all walks of life experience live in sexual integrity. Shawn runs Secret Habit with his wife Helena, and together, they are on a mission to help men and women experience God's beautiful design for sexuality. They live in Halifax Nova Scotia and are the proud parents of a beautiful daughter, named Violet. To contact Shawn and/or Helena, use the following links: https://secrethabit.ca helena@secrethabit.ca IG: @secrethabitlifecoaching -------------------   If you want to help us transform the lives of even MORE MEN for God's glory, please take a minute to leave us a helpful REVIEW on iTunes: http://www.rmcpodcast.com and SHARE this podcast with any young man (or men) you're mentoring or discipling. And make sure you don't miss an interview episode by signing up for our Man-to-Man eNewsletter at http://www.RealMenConnect.com, and grab your FREE copy of the Real Men Victory Tracker.  Are you stuck? Want to go to the next level in your marriage, career, business, or ministry?  Then maybe it's time you got a coach. ALL CHAMPIONS have one. Let me coach you to help you strengthen your faith, improve your marriage, spiritually lead your family, achieve more, balance your time, grow your ministry, or even stop an addiction. Click here for details: http://www.RMCfree.com   Also join us on: Join the Real Men 300: http://www.RealMen300.com Facebook Group: http://www.realmenuniversity.com/ YouTube: http://www.RealMenTraining.com Facebook: @realdrjoemartin Instagram: @realdrjoemartin Twitter: @professormartin

Ron Huntley Leadership Podcast
Finding Freedom from Pornography - Shawn Bonneteau #91

Ron Huntley Leadership Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2022 51:39


In this episode, I chat with Shawn Bonnetteau. Shawn is co-founder & lead coach of a ministry called Secret Habit, helping people overcome struggles with pornography. We discuss his story of how he, himself, became addicted to pornography and how he found freedom in Christ. We also talk about how destructive pornography is in today's culture and what we can do to help others find freedom from it as well.   Secret Habit is an incredible ministry that helps, motivates, encourages and empowers people to transcend their addiction to pornography and find hope, freedom, and restoration on the other side! Shawn has coached and mentored men from around the world, spoken to crowds in person and virtually from all over the globe, and has led trainings for leaders wanting to help their organizations deal with the harms of pornography.   The 91st episode of the Ron Huntley Leadership Podcast, “Finding Freedom from Pornography", is available to listen to now on Spotify & Apple Podcasts.   Listen on https://apple.co/3vjltcS

Brotherhood of Fatherhood
BOF 129: Sex, Erectile Dysfunction, and Porn Addiction with Shawn Bonneteau

Brotherhood of Fatherhood

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2022 59:40


Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a problem that many men face at one time or another in their lives. ED can have many causes, including physical and psychological issues. Porn addiction is also a problem that can affect men's sexual health. In this episode, we will explore the relationship between sex, erectile dysfunction, and porn addiction. We will also discuss treatment options for these issues. Male, Father of two children - one girl and one boy. Shawn has been coaching men for 14 years now to help them heal from things like erectile dysfunction or internet addiction caused by watching too much pornography which can lead to the loss of ability during sex because it desensitizes you toward feel-good nerve endings rather than physical sensations associated with lovemaking acts between partners who care about each other's well being. He speaks around the world through different platforms such as videos presented at conferences where he shares his story so others don't have to go through what he did.https://www.facebook.com/Secrethabitlifecoaching/https://www.instagram.com/secrethabitlifecoaching/Podcast: secrethabit.ca/podcastAll in one program: secrethabit.ca/pornrecoveryprogramFree coaching video: secrethabit.ca/the-essential-stepThis is the sexual template mini-course: https://secrethabit.ca/overcoming-erectile-dysfunction-mini-course/Be sure to check out this episode of the BOF Podcast. Don't forget to like, share and subscribe!Join the Brotherhood of Fatherhood FB group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/brotherhoodoffatherhoodwww.brotherhoodfatherhood.com/alphaOrder the DAPPERGURU and get 10% on your order by using the code: Brotherhoodhttps://thedapperguru.com/?ref=PngnnQiFoV05N Get a 15% discount on purchases from Direct Hemp!www.directhemp.com Use Code: brotherhoodOur sponsor: Jarvis Copy ai: https://jasper.ai/?fpr=scottr#BOFPodcast #brotherhoodoffatherhood #brotherhoodoffatherhoodpodcast #dad #father #podcast #fatherhood #parenting #masculinity #menleadingmen #personalgrowth

Pure Victory Podcast
119. Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction: Yes, It's A Thing! With Shawn Bonneteau

Pure Victory Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2022 41:27


Welcome to episode #119 with Shawn Bonneteau of Secret Habit!True surrender to God is necessaryShawn's wife, Helena, asked him what life would look like if he never got porn out of his life. She then asked what life could look like if he did. Thinking about these questions hit Shawn on a soul level and led him to get on his knees and surrender to God. This was the start of him engaging in the fight in a new way every day and having spirit-led conversations with Helena about his struggle, rather than hiding in his shame and guilt.'Trying' to quit porn is keeping many people stuck in their secret habitShawn realized he had been doing a lot of recovery 'stuff,' but finally just said to God, "I am open. I will follow you from now on." He started learning what it looked like to experience God's strength in his weakness and to follow God in freedom rather than trying to quit porn in his own strength.Porn can cause erectile dysfunctionBefore Shawn gave his life to Jesus, he was sexually active with an attractive girlfriend. He started losing his erections and was embarrassed at this reality. His girlfriend thought it was her fault and he didn't know what to say. He realized in time that this was due to his porn use. His brain's neurochemistry was altered to the point of only getting aroused by pixels on a screen. This carried into his marriage and lasted for eight years before things got back to normal.Know your sexual templateWe all have thoughts that run through our minds when we hear the word 'sex' or engage in sexual activity. They point to beliefs we have that often go unspoken. Shawn has a course for singles or couples to go through that helps identify core beliefs about sex. This helps us understand ourselves, our partners, and walk in the freedom from shame that God wants us to experience.Share this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes!ResourcesSecret HabitSecret Habit PodcastSean's Sexual Template Mini-CoursePure Freedom Journey for men and womenCleansing HoursPersonal 1-on-1 Coaching with one of Restored Ministries' trained coachesHelp for wivesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He has been married for 13 years to his wife Kristen, and they live in Edmonton, Alberta. He is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.comMATT CLINEMatt and his wife Louise raise their little guys, David and Oliver, in Edmonton, Alberta. He is honoured to do what he can to tackle the epidemic of pornography and sexual perversion in every way possible. Seeing lives and marriages get free and experience the love of God in profound ways is what drives him every day. He leads Restored Ministries, is a certified speaker and coach for the John Maxwell Team, and formerly played hockey in the WHL and for Hockey Canada. You can visit www.restoredministries.ca.

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Shawn Bonneteau is a passionate speaker and certified mentor to men struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors. With his own 14-year pornography addiction, struggles with erectile dysfunction, and ultimately, sexual brokenness, he has been called to use his redemption story as a beacon of hope to those in similar places. Shawn has had the opportunity to speak in various settings to men and women around the world. He has been a guest speaker/writer with X3 Church, Bravehearts, Husband Material, Family Life Canada, and many more. With a holistic, Gospel-centered approach, Shawn has helped men from all walks of life experience live in sexual integrity. Shawn runs Secret Habit with his wife Helen-a, and together, they are on a mission to help men and women experience God's beautiful design for sexuality. They live in Halifax Nova Scotia and are the proud parents of a beautiful daughter, named Violet. To contact Shawn, you can visit his website at https://secrethabit.ca/ or email him at shawn@secrethabit.ca  --------------------------   If you want to help us transform the lives of even MORE MEN for God's glory, please take a minute to leave us a helpful REVIEW on iTunes: http://www.rmcpodcast.com and SHARE this podcast with any young man (or men) you're mentoring or discipling. And make sure you don't miss an interview episode by signing up for our Man-to-Man eNewsletter at http://www.RealMenConnect.com, and grab your FREE copy of the Real Men Victory Tracker.  Are you stuck? Want to go to the next level in your marriage, career, business, or ministry?  Then maybe it's time you got a coach. ALL CHAMPIONS have one. Let me coach you to help you strengthen your faith, improve your marriage, spiritually lead your family, achieve more, balance your time, grow your ministry, or even stop an addiction. Click here for details: http://www.RMCfree.com   Also join us on: Join the Real Men 300: http://www.RealMen300.com Facebook Group: http://www.realmenuniversity.com/ YouTube: http://www.RealMenTraining.com Facebook: @realdrjoemartin Instagram: @realdrjoemartin Twitter: @professormartin

Real Relationship Talk
The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction & Masturbation - with Shawn Bonneteau (Shameless Sex Series)

Real Relationship Talk

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 32:52


The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction & Masturbation - with Shawn Bonneteau (Shameless Sex Series) Erectile dysfunction is one of those secret symptoms men don't like to talk about when it comes to their sexual health. However, statistics show that 1 in 3 men under the age of 40 experience erectile dysfunction (ED), and the vast majority of these men are or have been addicted to pornography.  But porn isn't the only cause of ED. We've been taught that erectile dysfunction is a medical problem, and though it can be, there are other factors. Psychological issues and past trauma can also be contributing factors of erectile dysfunction, according to my guest, Shawn Bonneteau. As a certified professional mentor who's helped countless men overcome pornography addiction and ED and armed with his own personal journey with both, Shawn sheds light on what the little blue pill won't help with.  Throughout our conversation, we also talk about masturbation and how it affects women and men. This is one conversation you're going to want to listen to multiple times. Grab something to take notes with and listen to this powerful conversation!    Learn more about Shawn and his wife Helena's coaching at https://secrethabit.ca.    Links Mentioned in this Episode The Overcoming ED Mini Course The Secret Habit Podcast Real Relationship Talk - Ep. 70 - Can Porn Improve Your Sex Life - with Sathiya Sam     SUBSCRIBE | SHARE | RATE | COMMENT To ensure you never miss an episode, be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Spotify, Stitcher, iHeart Radio, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Remember, sharing is caring! So, share these episodes with your friends and family via email or social media.

Secret Habit
4. A Longing To Be Seen: Shawn Bonneteau's story of freedom from porn addiction, sex addiction, masturbation, self hatred and porn induced erectile dysfunction

Secret Habit

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2022 48:41


Shawn Bonneteau is the co-founder of Secret Habit Life Coaching and the co-host of the Secret Habit podcast. He is a Certified Coach with Husband Material and a Certified Mentor through Bravehearts and is on a mission to help Christian men experience sexual integrity. He is a firm believer that God's design for sexuality is better than we imagine and is on a mission to help men become sexually healthy and all they were created to be In this episode, you will learn about Shawn's story - one of addiction to porn, sex, and masturbation, ultimately the pursuit of acceptance, or so he thought. He found all he was longing for in a place he never expected... and this fulfillment has been the foundation of the life he has today with his Helena. A life of sexual integrity, a marriage that is thriving, a family that is healthy, and a faith in Jesus Christ that is constantly growing deeper. Shawn has a deep passion to help men not only quit pornography but to outgrow porn! This is done by helping them become men of character, faith, and integrity which leads to a life of holistic health... Ultimately it leads to a life where there is freedom from things like sexual addiction, shame, and dysfunction and it opens the door to a life of freedom for God's purpose and healthy relationships. 3 Focal Points From This Episode: #1 - What it means to actually surrender to God #2 - What it looks like to have a helpful community and a guide in recovery from porn #3 - What transformation of a trauma story through God looks like -- Shawn has recently released a free coaching video "The essential step to quitting porn". Grab yourself a copy and start 2022 off with a bang: https://secrethabit.ca/the-essential-step/ To learn more about Shawn and Helena Bonneteau and the work they do, follow them on Instagram: @secrethabitlifecoaching Or check out the Secret Habit website for free resources, testimonies, coaching, and programs: Secrethabit.ca -- Shout out to Pure Desire

Unleash The Man Within
149 - Shawn Bonneteau on Dealing With Erectile Dysfunction, Experiencing Betrayal Trauma As A Man, and How To Design A Sexual Template

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2021 60:05


Shawn Bonneteau is a passionate speaker, certified mentor and founder of Secret Habit with his wife Helena. His mission is to help men struggling with pornography addiction, erectile dysfunction, and ultimately, sexual brokenness. He has been a guest speaker/writer with X3 Church, Bravehearts, Husband Material, Family Life Canada, and many more. In this candid interview, Shawn details his experience with porn-induced erectile dysfunction AND a classic case of erectile dysfunction as well, detailing the origins, the experiences itself, and how he and his wife together have worked through it. Shawn also explains what it has been like to be married to someone with a porn consumption history and how its affected his own sexuality. Reach Shawn directly Check out Secret Habit Follow Secret Habit on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn Access the mini-course on Overcoming Erectile Dysfunction & Betrayal Trauma Read Unwanted by Jay Stringer Read Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

Unleash The Man Within
149 - Shawn Bonneteau on Dealing With Erectile Dysfunction, Experiencing Betrayal Trauma As A Man, and How To Design A Sexual Template

Unleash The Man Within

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2021 60:05


Shawn Bonneteau is a passionate speaker, certified mentor and founder of Secret Habit with his wife Helena. His mission is to help men struggling with pornography addiction, erectile dysfunction, and ultimately, sexual brokenness. He has been a guest speaker/writer with X3 Church, Bravehearts, Husband Material, Family Life Canada, and many more.  In this candid interview, Shawn details his experience with porn-induced erectile dysfunction AND a classic case of erectile dysfunction as well, detailing the origins, the experiences itself, and how he and his wife together have worked through it. Shawn also explains what it has been like to be married to someone with a porn consumption history and how its affected his own sexuality.  Reach Shawn directly Check out Secret Habit Follow Secret Habit on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn Access the mini-course on Overcoming Erectile Dysfunction & Betrayal Trauma Read Unwanted by Jay Stringer Read Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com

From Mess to Miracle
Overcoming Your Addiction to Pornography

From Mess to Miracle

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2021 31:58


Porn addiction can be defined as compulsive use of the internet for porn.  This can interfere with daily life and your relationships.  Addiction can leave you feeling ashamed and isolated. If you notice porn having a negative impact on your life this podcast will give you tools and help to find wholeness and recovery.  My guest is Shawn Bonneteau.  Shawn is a passionate speaker and certified mentor to men struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors. With his own 14-year pornography addiction, struggles with erectile dysfunction, and ultimately, sexual brokenness, he has been called to use his redemption story as a beacon of hope to those in similar places. Shawn runs Secret Habit with his wife Helena. Together, they are on a mission to help men and women experience God's beautiful design for sexuality. You can connect with Shawn and his ministry at:https://secrethabit.ca/services/pornography-addiction-help/https://www.instagram.com/secrethabitministry Inspiring Stories of Faith In times like these, we need hope. You can partner with me as we inspire the people around the worldSupport the show (https://paypal.me/alightbreaksthrough?locale.x=en_US)

Lets Have This Conversation
Helping Men Understand and Heal Their Sexual Brokenness with Shawn Bonneteau

Lets Have This Conversation

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2021 33:07


Shawn Bonneteau, is committed to helping men understand and heal their sexual brokenness. With a 14-year addiction to pornography and a severe struggle with erectile dysfunction, he uses my experiences and expertise to mentor and disciple men around the world. He has the privilege of doing this work with his wife Helena as they run their company Secret Habit together. He joined me this week to tell me more. For more information: https://secrethabit.ca/ Instagram: @secrethabitministry Facebook: @secrethabitministry

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Husband Material
The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction (with Shawn Bonneteau)

Husband Material

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2021 62:28


Porn-induced erectile dysfunction is more common—and curable—than you might think. Hear Shawn Bonneteau's story of PIED/ED, why he continued to struggle after years of freedom from porn, and how he finally overcame it. Shawn also shares practical steps to freedom from PIED/ED, including The Thought Model.Download Shawn's free 5-page PDF explaining The Thought Model here.Shawn Bonneteau is a professional mentor and the co-founder of Secret Habit, where he and his wife Helena equip & empower people to heal from the harmful effects of pornography. Contact Shawn at https://secrethabit.ca/contact/Join Shawn and Helena for a more intimate conversation about erectile dysfunction from a couple's perspective on May 4th inside our private community at husbandmaterial.appText Drew at 805-398-6170 .

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Pure Sex Radio
Breaking Free from Your Secret Habit

Pure Sex Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2021 31:00


Millions of men view porn every day. Many of them don't want this to be part of their daily life. They want to break free from this secret habit. In this episode, our guest is Shawn Bonneteau. He shares honestly and openly about his own story and how his journey out of porn addiction is now helping other men find freedom too. If you're a man who wants to dig deep and discover a way out of porn, Shawn's story and insights will help you. Links to connect with Shawn: * http://secrethabit.ca/ * http://facebook.com/secrethabitministry * http://instagram.com/secrethabitministry More men's resources: http://Men.Bebroken.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

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A Cup of Freedom
# 5 How Jesus redeems our brokenness to give hope to others- an interview with Shawn Bonneteau

A Cup of Freedom

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2020 46:52


Grab a Cup of coffee and join Matt and Shawn for a discussion on how Jesus freed him from pornography addiction and is now using him to give help, hope, and healing to those affected by pornography. Find out more about Shawn and his ministry work through Secret Habit at: www.secrethabit.ca --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cupoffreedom/support

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Pure Sex Radio
Breaking Free from Your Secret Habit

Pure Sex Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 1970 31:00


Millions of men view porn every day. Many of them don't want this to be part of their daily life. They want to break free from this secret habit. In this episode, our guest is Shawn Bonneteau. He shares honestly and openly about his own story and how his journey out of porn addiction is now helping other men find freedom too. If you're a man who wants to dig deep and discover a way out of porn, Shawn's story and insights will help you. Links to connect with Shawn: * http://secrethabit.ca/ * http://facebook.com/secrethabitministry * http://instagram.com/secrethabitministry More men's resources: http://Men.Bebroken.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

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