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Have you ever felt alone—even when surrounded by others? Maybe it crept in quietly, or maybe it hit you like a wave. In this episode, I'm getting real about that feeling of aloneness—why it's not just 'in your head,' and why your body may actually be trying to protect you. I'll share the neuroscience behind loneliness, how to regulate your nervous system in those foggy moments, and what helped me personally during some of the hardest seasons of disconnection. If you've ever thought, ‘Is it just me?'—this one's for you. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Update00:14 Feeling Alone: Personal Experiences04:20 Understanding the Biology of Loneliness10:55 Micro Moments of Connection14:16 The Power of Naming Shame18:32 Seeking Safe Spaces and Connection24:20 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsLindsay's current program offerings: Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It's time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts September, 2025! Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin September, 2025. Want a certification above + PRIVATE MENTORSHIP from yours truly? I have limited spaced available. Apply here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing and accepting her circumstance more fully, she found coaching—which propelled her into a forward focused state of ...
Tera and Wes Wages get vulnerable about what truly makes — and breaks — connection over time. In this heartfelt and revealing conversation, they explore the hidden challenges of long-term love, from battling insecurity and body image fears to maintaining consistency through the daily chaos of life. They also candidly share insights on emotional validation, how minor daily efforts like scheduled texts can transform a relationship, and why talking openly about sex — even without pressure — can reignite intimacy. With real-life stories, expert emotional tools, and a viral 8-million-view surprise moment, this episode is an honest look into the beautiful, messy, and rewarding journey of authentic connection.Links and Resources:Download the Core Emotion Wheel: https://connectioncodes.co/get-the-cewFind out how to become a Certified Coach: https://connectioncodes.co/certified-coachingFind a coach: https://connectioncodes.co/all-coachesChapters:00:00:00 - 17 Years In: What Marriage Really Looks Like Behind the Scenes00:01:01 - How Wes Became Instagram's Favorite Husband (And the Viral Moment)00:03:03 - Why Feeling Truly Seen Changes Everything in Relationships00:03:59 - The Small Acts of Validation That Keep Love Alive00:10:04 - Facing Insecurities Head-On: Real Talk About Marriage Fears00:11:50 - Building Unshakable Trust by Processing Core Emotions00:20:38 - Why Consistency, Not Grand Gestures, Sustains Long-Term Love00:21:20 - Juggling Dreams, Kids, and Marriage: Finding the Balance00:24:07 - The Daily Connection Habit That Makes or Breaks Relationships00:27:45 - How Scheduling Texts Can Actually Save Your Relationship00:28:54 - Power Tools for Deeper, Faster Emotional Connection00:30:03 - How Connection Codes Revolutionized Our Marriage00:35:05 - Getting Real About Sex, Pressure, and Intimacy After 17 Years00:40:45 - Final Takeaways: Hope, Growth, and Staying Connected Through It All
Do you ever lay in bed exhausted, but your mind won't turn off? This episode breaks down why it's not your to-do list that's draining you—it's unprocessed emotion. Hosts Tera, Phyllis, and Dr. Glenn explore the physiological and psychological toll of unacknowledged fear, anxiety, and emotional overload in today's high-stress world. From Sunday scaries and doom-scrolling to navigating news-induced stress and personal loss, they reveal how naming your feelings and using the Core Emotion Wheel can bring your nervous system back into balance. With neuroscience, vulnerability, and practical insight, this conversation offers a roadmap to emotional regulation, deeper connection, and truly restorative rest.Links and Resources:Download the Core Emotion Wheel: https://connectioncodes.co/get-the-cewFind out how to become a Certified Coach: https://connectioncodes.co/certified-coachingFind a coach: https://connectioncodes.co/all-coachesChapters:00:00:00 – A Sleepless Mind & The Chaos Within00:01:04 – Welcome to the Place Where Emotions Finally Make Sense00:01:44 – Fear Isn't the Problem—It's the Key00:03:02 – What Science Says About What You're Feeling00:04:28 – Can Fear Really Wreck Your Sleep? Yes—Here's How00:07:21 – Cortisol: The Tiny Hormone Running Your Life00:12:26 – Are You Being Emotionally Hijacked by Your Phone?00:16:38 – What Happens When You Choose Peace Over Noise00:21:31 – Human Connection: Your Brain's Favorite Medicine00:31:51 – When Caring Becomes Crushing: Walking the Advocacy Tightrope00:38:55 – Speak the Fear, Set Yourself Free00:39:25 – Safe People: Your Emotional Safety Net00:39:56 – Is That Fear Even Real? Let's Talk About It00:40:57 – This Simple Tool Could Change the Way You Communicate Forever00:42:50 – Real Fear, Real Stories, Real Healing00:44:19 – The 8 Words That Can Set You Emotionally Free00:50:38 – Don't Dismiss Their Feelings—Here's Why It Matters00:52:56 – The Wheel Isn't Just a Tool—It's a Game-Changer01:00:37 – You're Not Alone—And You Don't Have to Stay Stuck
Ready to stop spinning your wheels and build a business that actually feels like you? In this episode, Lindsay Poelman shares the real reasons coaches and entrepreneurs plateau from the get go—and what they need to break through and rise.Lindsay introduces her private, high-touch mentorship program designed for visionary business owners who are done with hustle and burnout and want to grow with clarity, sustainability, and integrity.You'll hear about:Why traditional business tactics often fall flat (especially for heart-led leaders)The power of nervous system regulation + strategic supportLindsay's blend of Capricorn structure + Cancer soul in mentorshipWhat's included in the yearlong container How this container creates the kind of safety that brings your true self online—and your next level with itIf you're ready to scale without selling your soul, this episode is your sign.
In this week's episode, Tera, Dr. Glenn, and Phyllis dive deep into the power of hurt—specifically, how we respond when our partner is hurt by something we've done. If you've ever deflected, avoided a tough conversation, or struggled with shame and guilt in your relationship, this episode is for you. Learn practical tools to process hurt, communicate with compassion, and move forward with authentic connection.Download the Core Emotion Wheel: https://connectioncodes.co/get-the-cewFind out how to become a Certified Coach:https://connectioncodes.co/certified-coachingFind a coach: https://connectioncodes.co/all-coaches
On this episode of Today's Your Day Podcast, Tedi welcomes special guest Cheryl Thacker, a Master Board Certified Coach and the Founder of Successful Coaches. Tedi and Cheryl talk about what a Certified Coach is and is not. Cheryl provides us with her many years of wisdom when it comes to what it takes to be a successful coach and how you can help others with your own coaching business. Tedi and Cheryl discuss the importance of receiving your coaching certification from a reputable organization and why joining the International Coaching Federation (ICF) is vital to bringing credibility to you and your professional coaching career. Learn what it takes to become a Certified Coach and how you can grow your own successful business. This is a great conversation, one you do not want to miss.Contact Information for Cheryl Thacker, PCC, BCC:Website: https://successfulcoaches.com/ Email: coachcheryl@successfulcoaches.comEpisode Sponsor: Graze Craze, Okemos, MIhttps://www.grazecraze.com/okemos-miArticle on Coaching Statisticshttps://luisazhou.com/blog/life-coaching-statistics/# International Coaching Federation (ICF)https://coachingfederation.org/The opinions and statements made on the Today's Your Day Podcast are/or do not necessarily reflect those of the Today's Your Podcast Podcast or Tedi Parsons. To learn more, please visit: https://owningtheday.comThe music used for this podcast was provided by: total-happy-up-and-sunny by sascha-ende-from-filmmusic-io. https://filmmusic.io/standard-license. License (CC BY 4.0):
I often get asked: •Why did this happen to me? •How did I get here? •How do I prevent it from ever happening again? •How do I heal from this? These are excellent questions and they are very related to each other. Why did this happen to me has a whole lot to do with how do I prevent it from ever happening again. How did I get here is tied closely with how do I heal from this. You need to know about Radical Personal Responsibility - Your special weapon that is unreachable for narcissistic individuals. Taking control of your own internal world is absolutely one of your greatest tools and something that covert narcissists can never do!! I want to explain this tool to you and then teach you how to use it. The first step is to become aware of your autopilot! I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. •Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? •Are you searching for people who get it? •Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? •Are you running in circles in your mind? •Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? •Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism
What if the most radical thing you could do for your community is not to argue — but to be deeply, visibly well?Today on the podcast, Lindsay shares anecdotes and insights on the power of non-confrontational activism, emphasizing healing and personal growth as catalysts for community change. Today Lindsay shares:A reframe on what activism can look like, in any community;Why healing yourself is activism;The power of story, questions, and quiet alignment; andHow to influence without burning out or needing others to agree.Whether you've left a tight-knit faith community or just feel out of place in your specific culture, this episode is a must-listen. Through storytelling and personal reflections, she demonstrates how living authentically and compassionately can inspire others. If you struggle to do this, or want support while figuring things out, take a look at the link below to learn more about programs that could support you. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:18 Returning to Utah: A Personal Journey01:33 Activism in Conservative Communities02:07 The Power of Non-Confrontational Activism03:48 Healing and Compassion in Activism07:12 Storytelling as a Tool for Change09:01 A Personal Story of Quiet Activism15:13 The Role of Healed Leaders15:41 Invitation to Join the MovementLindsay's current program offerings: Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It's time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts September, 2025! Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin September, 2025. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing and accepting her circumstance more fully, she found coaching—which propelled her into a forward focused state of empowerment. Over the last 6+ years of deep dive/fundamental coaching for women in betrayal (around porn use, spouses coming out around gender identity and sexuality, childhood negle...
Is a peaceful divorce possible when dealing with a covert narcissist? In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with high-conflict divorce coach Eleanor Marks to unpack the complexities of separation from a covert narcissist. We dive into the concept of radical acceptance—understanding the reality of your situation and adjusting your expectations accordingly. If you're navigating a high-conflict divorce or struggling to co-parent with a covert narcissist, this conversation will provide clarity, validation, and practical steps to regain your power.
Imagine being pushed, prodded, and ignored—until you finally snap. Then suddenly, you're the problem. Sound familiar? In this episode, we're diving deep into reactive abuse—one of the most insidious tactics covert narcissists use to flip the script and make survivors question their reality. I'll share real-life stories—both from childhood and marriage—illustrating how this pattern plays out, how narcissists provoke reactions only to play the victim, and why your reaction does not make you the abuser. If you've ever been told, “Wow, you're the crazy one,” or “You really have anger issues,” after finally standing up for yourself—this episode is for you. Let's dismantle the shame and reclaim your truth. You are not alone. Your reactions don't define you. And you deserve to heal. Subscribe now and don't miss next week's deep dive on the Grey Rock method! I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
In this episode of The Brand Called You, Navyug, CEO of QAI and a Stanford-trained life design educator shares his journey from pioneering process consulting to empowering individuals through life design, Navyug shares his journey, insights, and philosophies on success, growth, and fulfillment.00:35- About Navyug MohnotNavyug is the Chief Executive Officer of QAI, which is a global leader in process improvement and quality consulting. He's also a Stanford-trained life design educator, certified coach, and facilitator.
Men and Emotional Processing? We don't see enough of it in today's world . . . In Part 1 of this 2 part episode series, host Lindsay Poelman interviews Dan Gurley, the first male guest on the podcast. Dan shares his journey from growing up in a high-demand Southern Christian culture to dealing with severe family trauma and emotional struggles. He discusses the impact of his high-pressure upbringing, his experiences with spiritual bypassing, and the profound challenges he faced as a father. The conversation delves into the processing of emotions, the concept of spiritual bypassing, and the importance of emotional healing. Dan's story illustrates the need for self-compassion and inner child work, particularly for men navigating complex emotional landscapes. This episode highlights the significance of trauma-informed coaching and provides a compelling case for Lindsay's certification program in emotional recovery and healing. Don't miss out on this insightful discussion, and be sure to leave an Apple review!00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:48 Dan's Background and Upbringing02:35 High Expectations and Anxiety05:46 Military Life and Personal Struggles13:30 Family Challenges and Trauma18:34 Emotional Recovery and SupportLindsay's current program offerings: Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It's time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts March 11, 2025! Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin March 11, 2025. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her...
In part 2 of this authentic and vulnerable episode, join host Lindsay Poelman as she explores the transformative experiences of Dan Gurley in her trauma-informed coaching program. In this compelling episode, Dan shares his insights on societal norms around male emotional expression, the critical importance of understanding the nervous system, and the unique challenges men face in today's world. Learn how trauma-informed coaching has not only impacted Dan's personal and professional relationships but also how it equips him to help others navigate their own emotional landscapes. Listen in to understand why investing in trauma-informed coaching could be a life-changing decision for anyone looking to heal and grow.00:00 The Emotional Struggles of Men00:48 Balancing Work and Emotional Well-being02:25 The Importance of Metabolizing Emotions05:03 Discovering Trauma-Informed Coaching06:24 The Impact of Trauma on Men11:25 Personal Growth and Self-Compassion19:33 The Need for Male Mentors and Healers23:19 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsLindsay's current program offerings: Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It's time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts March 11, 2025! Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin March 11, 2025. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her...
What happens when the very dynamics that shaped your childhood follow you into adulthood—into your marriage, friendships, and even your career? In this episode, Mindy shares her eye-opening realization that she married a version of her narcissistic mother and how her upbringing with both a covert narcissistic mom and an abusive father left her trapped in cycles of self-doubt, hypervigilance, and struggle. We'll explore how childhood conditioning makes us perfect targets for love bombing, why receiving even the smallest gift puts us in a tailspin, and how deep-seated beliefs of unworthiness shape our adult relationships. If you've ever wondered What the hell happened to my family?—this episode is for you. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
In this episode, host Jenny Dempsey chats with Annie Cole of Vancouver, WA, a financial coach who's no stranger to career flipping. Annie shares her journey from social work to education, then ed tech, and finally launching her own business focused on financial coaching for women. Along the way, she's learned the importance of self-care while making intentional career moves. She offers real, practical advice for anyone considering a career change or starting a business—like utilizing free resources, seeking mentorship, and taking it one step at a time. Annie also highlights how bridge jobs can provide financial security and breathing room while you figure out your next step. Whether you're thinking about flipping your own career or diving into entrepreneurship, this conversation is packed with insights on navigating change without being too hard on yourself.Key Takeaways:Career changes don't have to be all-or-nothing—you can transition gradually while keeping financial stability.Bridge jobs can be a smart way to stay financially secure while exploring your next career move.Networking and mentorship can open doors you didn't even know existed.Taking risks (and even making mistakes) is part of the process—what matters is learning and adjusting along the way. Connect with AnnieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/build.wealth.with.annie/Coaching: https://www.money-essentials.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/money-essentials-for-women/ Thanks for listening to The Career Flipper!If you enjoyed this episode, let's spread the word! Share it with a friend, subscribe, and leave a review—it helps other career flippers find the show.Let's Stay Connected:Join the community: thecareerflipper.comTikTok: @thecareerflipperInstagram: @thecareerflipperpodGot a career flip story? I'd love to hear it—and maybe even have you on the podcast! Whether you've completed your flip, are just starting, or are in the thick of it, submit your story here: https://www.thecareerflipper.com Want to support the show?Looking for a speaker? I'd love to talk about career changes at your next event.Collaborate through sponsorships or affiliates! Let's work together.Email me: hello@thecareerflipper.comCheck Out My Customer Service CoursesBefore my career flip, I led customer experience teams and created online courses that have helped over 12,000 students worldwide. Whether you're switching to customer service or sharpening your skills to run your own business, these courses are packed with practical tips. Learn more at thecareerflipper.com/courses.Other Ways to Get Involved:Buy me a coffee!Explore my furniture flipsMusic CreditsSeason 1: Intro and outro music by audionautix.com. Season 2: Intro and outro original music by Jenny Dempsey, recorded in a home studio.What's the best that could happen?
In this podcast episode, the host interviews Amy Russell, a graduate of the trauma-informed coach certification program. They discuss Amy's background, her journey through various states, and her passion for healing work. Amy shares insights into her personal transformation, emphasizing the importance of being trauma-informed and understanding the nervous system. They explore Amy's spiritual experiences, including her affinity for fairies, and how reconnecting with her childhood interests has guided her. The conversation highlights the significance of setting boundaries, recognizing inner authority, and addressing trauma within familial relationships. Amy's healing practices, including intuitive and energy-based methods, are also discussed. The episode underscores the idea that everyone has innate spiritual gifts and the value of integrating body wisdom with spiritual insights to foster healing and self-awareness.In Part 1 of this episode, Lindsay and Amy explore Amy's personal journey, from her spiritual awakening and rediscovery of childhood passions to the challenges of navigating familial relationships and learning the importance of boundaries. Amy shares her transformative experiences with understanding the nervous system, overcoming enmeshment, and developing a deeper connection with her body. Tune in to hear insights about reclaiming oneself and living a soul-led life.00:22 Meet Amy Russell01:22 Amy's Childhood and Love for Fairies03:09 Rediscovering Spirituality and Intuition05:28 Navigating the Dark Night of the Soul08:30 Understanding the Nervous System18:44 The Power of Boundaries20:52 Conclusion and Teaser for Part TwoConnect with Amy here! Lindsay's current program offerings: Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It's time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts March 11, 2025! Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin March 11, 2025. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her...
In this enlightening second part of the podcast interview, host Lindsay dives deep with Amy Russell into the profound impacts of setting boundaries and being trauma-informed. They discuss how reclaiming one's self through boundaries can transform relationships and self-perception. Amy shares personal stories from her healing journey, emphasizing the importance of understanding bodily cues and sensations. The conversation also explores the integration of spiritual gifts with a grounded knowledge of trauma and the nervous system. A must-listen for anyone interested in healing, personal growth, and the intersection of body, mind, and spirit. See link below to learn more about Lindsay's available certification programs for deeper insights into trauma-informed practices.00:00 Introduction and Overview00:26 Understanding Boundaries and Self-Love02:15 Family Dynamics and Personal Growth06:11 Discovering and Embracing Spiritual Gifts20:42 The Importance of Being Trauma-Informed27:34 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsConnect with Amy here! Lindsay's current program offerings: Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It's time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts March 11, 2025! Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin March 11, 2025. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her...
Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling drained, confused, or even doubting yourself? Do you feel like every attempt at connection turns into an argument, a guilt trip, or complete silence? You're not alone. Talking to a covert narcissist isn't like talking to anyone else. Simple, everyday questions—What do you want for dinner? How was your day?—can be met with sighs, irritation, or even the silent treatment. And when it comes to deeper conversations, the dynamic becomes even more exhausting. In this episode, we're unpacking why conversations with a covert narcissist feel impossible. From dismissive one-word answers to twisted words and subtle control tactics, we'll break down the communication patterns that leave you feeling unheard, defensive, and emotionally drained. Most importantly, we'll explore what you can do to protect your energy, set boundaries, and reclaim your voice. If you've ever found yourself questioning, Why am I like this only with them?—this episode is for you. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
Kathy Stepien, MD, is a board-certified Pediatrician, Certified Coach, and Director of the Institute for Physician Wellness. She is also a mother to two teenage boys. In 2016, Dr. Stepien founded the Institute for Physician Wellness with the mission of helping physicians learn, heal, grow, and connect. Through the Institute's retreats, coaching, and Chief Wellness Officer Certification program, she and her team have supported thousands of physicians worldwide.Dr. Stepien's passion for wellness stems from her personal experience with burnout during her first career as a physical therapist. After realizing the toll of caring for others at the expense of her own well-being, she entered medical school with a new approach to balance, determined to avoid burnout while raising her two young sons.Her work is driven by a deep commitment to helping physicians, especially women in medicine, live empowered and fulfilling lives on their own terms. She believes in fostering a life where women can fully stand in their power and embrace their role as the authors of their own stories.Some of the topics we discussed were:How identifying your core values is connected to improved well-beingHow to identify your own core valuesAnd much more!Learn more about me or schedule a FREE coaching call:https://www.joyfulsuccessliving.com/Join the Voices of Women Physicians Facebook Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/190596326343825/Connect with Dr. Stepien:Website:https://www.instituteforphysicianwellness.com/Instagram:www.instagram.com/kathystepienmdFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/physicianwellnessLinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathystepienmd/Anti-Burnout Program for Women Physicians:https://www.instituteforphysicianwellness.com/the-anti-burnout-program/Women Physician's Retreats:https://www.instituteforphysicianwellness.com/retreats/CWO Business Leadership Program:https://www.instituteforphysicianwellness.com/chief-wellness-officer-training-and-certification/
Many of us have been taught to focus on the good—to think about whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, and admirable and to not judge. These are not bad lessons to live by, but do they apply to our spouse in a toxic relationship? Or are we unintentionally ignoring red flags in covert narcissistic abuse? In this episode, we explore:
Welcome to the Personal Development Trailblazers Podcast! In today's episode, we're talking all about helping you create a life that you love—not just a life that you're simply living.Rhonda is Certified NLP Life & Leadership Coach, Founder of A Balanced Life For You LLC. She is a Certified Coach and NLP Expert recognized by the ICF, specializing in helping stressed female business owners break free from chaos and reclaim balance. As a wife, mother, grandmother, and entrepreneur, she brings real-life experience to her coaching, offering a compassionate yet strategic approach.Through her proven DREAM system, Rhonda empowers women to move from frustration to freedom by blending powerful NLP techniques, business insights, and self-care practices. Her mission is simple: help you unlock your potential, build a thriving business, and live a life you truly love.Connect with Rhonda here: www.linktree.com/RhondaCimhttps://www.facebook.com/rhonda.cimorellihttps://www.linkedin.com/in/rhonda-cimorelli/www.abalancedlifeforyou.comGrab the freebie here: 7 Hacks for life work balance: https://abalancedlifeforyou.com/7-hacks-for-work-life-balance602877===================================If you enjoyed this episode, remember to hit the like button and subscribe. Then share this episode with your friends.Thanks for watching the Personal Development Trailblazers Podcast. This podcast is part of the Digital Trailblazer family of podcasts. To learn more about Digital Trailblazer and what we do to help entrepreneurs, go to DigitalTrailblazer.com.Are you a coach, consultant, expert, or online course creator? Then we'd love to invite you to our FREE Facebook Group where you can learn the best strategies to land more high-ticket clients and customers. QUICK LINKS: APPLY TO BE FEATURED: https://app.digitaltrailblazer.com/podcast-guest-applicationDIGITAL TRAILBLAZER: https://digitaltrailblazer.com/
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Have you ever felt like your reality was rewritten right before your eyes? Covert narcissists are experts at controlling the narrative, erasing your perspective, dismissing your feelings, manipulating reality, and shaping how others see you. This is a key tactic in covert narcissistic abuse, leaving victims feeling unheard, invalidated, and questioning their own sanity. In this episode, we break down:
Have you ever tried to figure out someone's true intentions? Have you been suspicious of the intentions behind one's behaviors? Have you ever asked yourself, Yeah but what do they really want? Covert narcissists hide their true intentions. You can feel this when you talk with them. Something just doesn't feel quite right. It doesn't feel genuine. Everything they do and say has a hidden agenda. What is that agenda? What are their true intentions? The true intentions of a covert narcissistic person are: •to rely on others to build them up, to build their self-esteem •to earn compliments and recognition •to gain admiration and the feeling of being important •to confirm that they are better or higher in status than you •to create confusion in others so they can maintain their superior confidence over your obvious inferiority •to win your apologies and continue to boost their superiority •to validate that they are a good person How do we know this? How can you identify it in your own situation? What do you do about it? To join our upcoming group coaching session, reach out to me at renee@covertnarcissism.com or renee@cnglifecoaching.com For more information on the group sessions, visit https://www.covertnarcissism.com/group-session I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. •Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? •Are you searching for people who get it? •Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? •Are you running in circles in your mind? •Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? •Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism
I"Your intuition has all of the answers," says Jenn Beninger, founder and CEO of Genius Unlocked Institute. "Aligning your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors is key to success." Beninger shares her journey from a corporate career at WebMD to becoming a leading coach, revealing how her struggles with infertility and financial hardship led to profound reinvention. Listeners will learn how to trust their inner guidance, break through limiting beliefs, and take inspired action. "A coach can only take their clients as deep as they are willing to go themselves," Beninger advises. Tune in for an inspiring conversation on unlocking potential and creating meaningful impact. About Jenn Beninger: Jenn Beninger is the Founder and CEO of Genius Unlocked Institute, a board certified company where she coaches, mentors, and transforms leaders' personal and professional lives. Through her thousands of hours of executive experience, Jenn has refined the art of coaching others on how to delve into what's holding them back, and guiding them to successfully live in their purpose by calling on their intuition. With her deep understanding of energy work, intuition, communication skills, and mindset work, Jenn is able to produce more breakthrough results than she or her clients could dream of. From fortune 500 companies, to holding executive positions in the coaching industry, managing teams of coaches, developing coaching curriculum, teaching business development skills, and running transformational leadership events, Jenn has helped coaches in nearly every area reach their full potential. Jenn has a Bachelor of Science in Psychology and is also a board certified trainer at the master level in Neuro Linguistic Programs (NLP), NLP Coaching, Hypnotherapy, Time Line Therapy®, as a Certified Coach through John Maxwell, and a Master Reiki Teacher. Time Stamps: 02:36 - How growing up in California impacted her career decisions 04:15 - Working as executive assistant to the executive vice president at WebMD 05:44 - How Beninger shifted into entrepreneurship 10:20 - "When you can integrate conscious and unconscious mind, then you can have dreams." 11:39 - Why Beninger chose to leave network marketing to become a coach 15:34 - How coaching allows you to create mind shifts 22:34 - "Coaching can open up that path to your genius" 27:13 - How to align your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors for success Connect with Jenn Beninger: Website LinkedIn Facebook Instagram YouTube Connect with Lesley Jane Seymour: Website Instagram LinkedIn Substack If you found this episode insightful, please follow the podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. For more resources and community support, join me on Substack. Until next time, keep reinventing!
Have you ever felt like you were walking on eggshells, analyzing every glance, every sigh, every subtle shift in body language—just trying to figure out what went wrong this time? Covert narcissists don't always use words to manipulate, dismiss, or control. Sometimes, their most powerful weapon is silence itself. A heavy sigh, an eye roll, a dismissive shrug—these small, seemingly insignificant gestures carry messages that cut deep. And when words and actions don't align, you're left questioning your own reality. In this episode, I share a deeply personal story of how nonverbal communication was used to control, punish, and erode my sense of self—without a single word being spoken. We'll uncover:
In this episode we're diving into retirement life planning with Wendy Leggett.Wendy is a Certified Coach and the owner of Conflux Retirement Coaching, where she specializes in non-financial retirement transitions. With 25 years of corporate sales leadership experience, Wendy helps clients redefine their identity, find purpose, build social connections, and embrace positive aging. In This Episode, We Cover:✅ What retirement coaching is and how Wendy helps clients navigate this major life transition✅ The identity shift that happens in retirement—and how to redefine yourself✅ Common emotional and social challenges retirees face and strategies to overcome them✅ How to start thinking ahead about what life after your primary career could look like✅ Retirement planning for couples✅ Shocking statistics related to retirementIf you're wondering what life beyond work could look like—or if you're struggling with this transition—this episode is for you!Connect with Wendy:Website: https://confluxretirementcoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/wendyleggett/FB: https://facebook.com/confluxretirementcoaching/Freebie: https://www.boldnewsteps.com Connect with Marianne: Website: Message In The Middle with Marianne Message In the Middle Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/422430469323847/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MessageInTheMiddle/playlists LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marianne-demello-smith-678b9966 Email: Contact | Message In The Middle with Marianne Subscribe to Message In the Middle: Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Leave Us a Review: If you enjoyed today's episode, please leave a review and share your favorite takeaway. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and bring you even more valuable content.Keep the conversation going - Join us for more insightful conversations in the Message in the Middle Private Facebook Community & subscribe to Message in th...
Welcome to another episode of Expert To Authority Show, brought to you by http://gtex.org.uk/, I am your host, Simone Vincenzi, The Experts Strategist, and this is the podcast for experts who want to become the ultimate authority in their niche while making an impact in the world.We have created theWebinar Conversion Kit where you will get access to:The High-Converting Webinar FrameworkBONUS #1: High-Converting Webinar Slide TemplateBONUS #2: Pitch and Follow Up TemplatesBONUS #3: High Converting Webinars Case StudiesBONUS #4: Our Trello Webinar ChecklistAll of this for only £29.99 for a limited period of time.Click here to download.https://webinarconversionkit.com/Today I have the pleasure to interviewLeila Singh and James DewaneJames Dewane – Founder of My Electricians ToolBox, James turned his coaching business from scratch into a £17k/month membership with industry-leading retention. Through The Expert Incubator, he now helps coaches, mentors, and trainers create sustainable, profitable memberships—without the tech overwhelm.Leila Singh – A Leadership & Mindset Coach with a 25-year corporate background, Leila has worked with brands like Amazon Web Services, Hewlett Packard, BBC & IBM. A Certified Coach & NLP Master Practitioner, she empowers entrepreneurs to break through mindset barriers that hold you back, and scale with confidence.Together, they're the driving force behind The Membership Mastery Mastermind Retreat, where they teach practical strategies and mindset shifts to help you build a profitable, sustainable membership business.In this episode, we talk aboutMembership programs can be simple and sustainable – You don't need to overcomplicate the process. With the right strategy, you can create a membership that runs smoothly without overwhelming you.Your expertise is enough – You don't need to be a tech wizard or have a massive following to build a thriving membership. The key is structuring your offer the right way.Mindset is just as important as strategy – Fear, doubt, and overthinking can hold you back. Through NLP, mindset and coaching techniques, we help you break through limiting beliefs and confidently build a membership that serves both you and your audience.Connect with Leila SinghWebsite: https://leila-singh.mykajabi.com/a/2148054355/tNhtL7HkLinkedin: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/leila-singh Connect with James DewaneFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/jamestoolbox/To become a GTeX Member, Apply here:https://gtex.events/call -------To receive daily support in your coaching and speaking business, join our private Facebook Group EXPLODE YOUR EXPERT BIZ https://www.facebook.com/groups/explodeyourexpertbiz/-------Take a full business assessment for free to have absolute clarity on your business with the EXPERT BIZ CHECKLIST.http://bit.ly/expert-biz-checklist-podcast------Also, make sure yousubscribe to the podcast so you don't miss any other episode. If you want to reach out to me with your questions, you can email me at Simone@gtex.org.uk that comes right to my inbox.
After a family vacation that he thought was a wonderful family trip, Justin's covert narcissistic mother pulled him aside to tell him how disappointed she was in him. What he saw as a very balanced and enjoyable trip, she only saw that she did not get enough attention and focus from his wife and him. She pushed her unhappiness onto them. Growing up with a covert narcissistic parent, you experience extreme amounts of gaslighting, blame shifting, and passive aggressive behavior. Unknown to you, this often causes you, the child, to doubt yourself and work hard to do everything perfectly. However, you still never seem to be good enough, which often manifests as a core of shame. Moving into adulthood it is crucial to work through those trapped feelings and learn to set boundaries with this parent. If you resonate with this story and are struggling to get out from under the grasp of a covert narcissistic parent, please reach out today. You do not have to do this alone! Support is crucial as you work through the craziness! I wish you so much peace. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
Kathy Stepien, MD, is a board-certified Pediatrician, Certified Coach, and Director of the Institute for Physician Wellness. She is also a mother to two teenage boys. In 2016, Dr. Stepien founded the Institute for Physician Wellness with the mission of helping physicians learn, heal, grow, and connect. Through the Institute's retreats, coaching, and Chief Wellness Officer Certification program, she and her team have supported thousands of physicians worldwide.Dr. Stepien's passion for wellness stems from her personal experience with burnout during her first career as a physical therapist. After realizing the toll of caring for others at the expense of her own well-being, she entered medical school with a new approach to balance, determined to avoid burnout while raising her two young sons.Her work is driven by a deep commitment to helping physicians, especially women in medicine, live empowered and fulfilling lives on their own terms. She believes in fostering a life where women can fully stand in their power and embrace their role as the authors of their own stories.Some of the topics we discussed were:The joy of creating and being part of a community through physician retreats How Dr. Stepien brings physicians together to foster social connectionsWhat led to Dr. Stepien founding The Institute for Physician WellnessDr. Stepien's experience of going into medical school later in life with two young kidsWhat boundaries actually are and what they are notAdvice on how anyone can set strong boundaries and prevent burnout from occurringPractical tools people can easily for improving emotion regulationAnd more!Learn more about me or schedule a FREE coaching call:https://www.joyfulsuccessliving.com/Join the Voices of Women Physicians Facebook Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/190596326343825/Connect with Dr. Stepien:Website:https://www.instituteforphysicianwellness.com/Instagram:www.instagram.com/kathystepienmdFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/physicianwellnessLinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathystepienmd/Anti-Burnout Program for Women Physicians:https://www.instituteforphysicianwellness.com/the-anti-burnout-program/Women Physician's Retreats:https://www.instituteforphysicianwellness.com/retreats/CWO Business Leadership Program:https://www.instituteforphysicianwellness.com/chief-wellness-officer-training-and-certification/
Have you ever looked back on something a covert narcissist did and thought, Did that really just happen? In this episode, we're diving into the most jaw-dropping, mind-bending, and downright bizarre behaviors of covert narcissists. These behaviors are so absurd that they leave you questioning reality. If you've experienced the surreal world of covert narcissistic abuse, this episode is for you. Your story matters. Share your experience and connect with others on the path to healing. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
Growing up with a covert narcissistic mother can set the stage for a lifetime of fixing, pleasing, and sacrificing your own needs. In this episode, Cara shares her journey of living under the shadow of covert narcissism and how it shaped her identity as a fixer and a people pleaser. From the unfillable emotional hole left by her mother to the toxic relationships she found herself drawn to, we explore how covert narcissistic abuse created patterns she didn't even realize she was repeating. Cara discusses the moment of clarity when she asked her mother to see a therapist with her—and her mother's hurtful refusal that left her questioning her own sanity. Through inner child healing and learning to be her own anchor, she has taken steps to break the cycle and create a life of freedom, peace, and self-love. If you've ever felt trapped in a cycle of toxic relationships and struggle to heal from a narcissistic parent, this episode is for you. Let's talk about reclaiming your life, setting boundaries, and finally putting yourself first. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast Keywords: covert narcissism, covert narcissistic mother, narcissistic abuse, people pleaser, codependency, inner child healing, breaking free from covert narcissism, emotional abuse recovery, toxic relationships, self-love and healing.
Navigating 2025: Proactive Strategies for CoachesIn this episode of the 'Become a Trauma-Informed Coach' podcast, your host Lindsay delves into the whirlwind of 2025, drawing parallels to significant past events and emphasizing the collective journey humanity is on. Lindsay shares personal experiences of moving from a reactive to a proactive state, discussing the importance of preparation, especially in turbulent times. Lindsay also highlights the significance of being trauma-informed and shares details on current offers she has available that are designed to equip individuals with the necessary tools and support for thriving in an ever-changing world. Lindsay's goal is for as many people as possible to have access to support needed to navigate 2025 with more confidence and ease.00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:43 Navigating 2025: A Year of Change01:48 Proactive vs. Reactive Living03:36 Embracing Uncertainty with Preparedness05:41 Tools for a Thriving Life09:00 Certification Programs Overview12:33 One-on-One Coaching Options14:24 Affordable Group Courses15:46 Final Thoughts and EncouragementLindsay's current program offerings: Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It's time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts January 2025! Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin March 2025. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about...
How Healing Transforms Your Responses to a Covert Narcissist Healing doesn't change the covert narcissist. It changes YOU! Healing transforms your responses and reactions to their abusive tactics. This episode of Covert Narcissism Podcast explores how healing empowers victims to break free from the quicksand of covert narcissistic abuse and reclaim their confidence. Through relatable examples, we uncover the subtle but destructive tactics covert narcissists use to manipulate and control. You'll hear how interactions that seem innocent at first—like dismissing your achievements or denying your reality—can leave you questioning yourself and spiraling into self-doubt. But here's the good news: it doesn't have to stay this way. Healing transforms your responses, shifting the dynamic from reactive and self-doubting to calm, clear, and empowered. In this episode, you'll learn: How to deal with a covert narcissist spouse or partner when they dismiss your achievements, gaslight you, or criticize your efforts. How healing from covert narcissistic abuse empowers you to respond with confidence rather than defensiveness. The difference between pre-healing reactions—like over-apologizing or seeking their approval—and post-healing responses that prioritize your well-being. Real-life examples of navigating common scenarios, including criticism, gaslighting, silent treatment, and emotional outbursts. This episode will help you recognize the patterns of covert narcissism, understand why their behavior is not your fault, and inspire you to start or continue your healing journey. Healing doesn't change the covert narcissist, but it transforms how you respond to their manipulation—setting you free from their control and rebuilding your self-worth. Whether you're just starting to understand covert narcissism or deep into your recovery, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable advice to help you thrive. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
My guest today is Christa Rose. Christa Rose from Ontario Canada fulfilled her dream of becoming the author of Amazon #1 Bestselling book, Skip the Pain, Experience the Pleasure; Cut the crap that's holding you back so you can live the life you love! She is a dynamic speaker, Certified Coach, Health Advocate and Energy worker who helps bring you clarity to experience joy, peace and love in your life, especially in the toughest times. She gives the formula of how she continues to overcome some of her personal stories like surviving a head-on collision, having her husband die in her arms and is now battling a chronic illness. She shares how being resilient isn't just about getting back up after things get hard, but how getting back up even when you have every reason not to. Christa equips her audiences with empowering tools to carry long after the lights go out. She infuses humor and has been a guiding light for others. Between working with Christa, listening to her speeches, or reading her book, it will change your life, give you good laugh, and will definitely leave you with profound insights! In this episode we discuss mindset, personal growth, vulnerability and authenticity.Website - https://christarose.com/IG - https://www.instagram.com/4christa_roseFB- https://www.facebook.com/christa.rose.967LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/christa-rose-48b8342b3/In this episode you will learn:1. The importance of having a daily gratitude practice.2.Some daily practices and rituals for spiritual well-being .3. How being your own advocate can empower you in life as well as your health. “My motivation really is my life. I almost lost it several times.” - 00:03:50“I think that there's always a higher purpose. No matter where we are, there's no competition again of how spiritual we are or how good we act in the world." 00:24:10“It's okay to have fear. So many people say don't fear something and fear can stand for so many things people may have heard this false evidence appearing real.” 00:45:07
Welcome to the SYNC Your Life podcast episode #309! On this podcast, we will be diving into all things women's hormones to help you learn how to live in alignment with your female physiology. Too many women are living with their check engine lights flashing. You know you feel “off” but no matter what you do, you can't seem to have the energy, or lose the weight, or feel your best. This podcast exists to shed light on the important topic of healthy hormones and cycle syncing, to help you gain maximum energy in your life. In today's episode, I share my predictions for hormone health trends in 2025. Hormone health is a trending topic these days, and for good reason. Women are sick and tired of feeling low energy. So we're taking matters into our own hands and biohacking our way through perimenopause, hormone imbalance, and more in order to find our maximum energy. In this episode, I mention my favorite red light therapy light, Lux Therapy, which can be found here. (Use code LUXSYNC10). My interview with Lux founder Tony Kovicak can be found here. I also mention my favorite EDC free company, Hugh & Grace, which can be found here. Previous episodes mentioned include: Wearables Interview with Hugh & Grace CEOs Sara & Ben Jensen Protein Intake for Women Lifting Heavy To learn more about the SYNC fitness program, click here. To learn more about virtual consults with our resident hormone health doctor, click here. If you feel like something is “off” with your hormones, check out the FREE hormone imbalance quiz at sync.jennyswisher.com. To learn more about the SYNC Digital Course, check out jennyswisher.com. If you're interested in becoming a SYNC affiliate and Certified Coach mentored by me, you can learn more here. To learn more about Hugh & Grace and my favorite 3rd party tested endocrine disruption free products, including skin care, home care, and detox support, click here. To learn more about the SYNC and Hugh & Grace dual income opportunity, click here. Let's be friends outside of the podcast! Send me a message or schedule a call so I can get to know you better. You can reach out at https://jennyswisher.com/contact-2/. Enjoy the show! Episode Webpage: jennyswisher.com/podcast
Since you are here listening to this, you have probably done some amount of research into narcissism. By now, you have probably run into the word projection as it relates to narcissism. A relationship that is built on projections and expectations is a relationship that is doomed to struggle. I talk about this a lot in my group coaching program, but I have realized that I have never done a podcast episode on it. It is definitely time! Let's define what projection is. It is the process of misinterpreting what is on the inside of us as coming from the outside of us. Most people refer to projection as what the narcissistic person does, and they certainly do. However, projection is not limited to them. It affects all of us. Good people project their goodness onto others and bad people project their badness. Good people expect good behavior from others and bad people expect bad behavior from others. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
The Addicted Brain: Rewriting the Narrative on Alcohol with Dave Andrews Dave Andrews, “America's #1 Sobriety Coach,” CEO of The 30-Day Solution, and Co-Author of The 30-Day Sobriety Solution, is the leading expert in helping others recover, reclaim, and reinvent their lives without alcohol, and serves on the Board of Directors of the nonprofit organizations, Young People in Recovery, and Advocates for Recovery. As a speaker, sobriety coach, author, and Certified Coach in Positive Psychology, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), and Strategic Intervention, he has been a featured “Sobriety Expert” on numerous national and international talk shows. Dave has, himself, been sober for over eight years. What You'll Learn ● How to undo the patterns of addiction. ● The prospects of drugs helping end addictions. ● How to get to a place of indifference. ● How to release any negative experience. Timestamps · [08:55] The patterns of addiction. · [12:07] “Why now is not a good time.” · [18:06] Drugs and addiction. · [23:32] Controlling the mind. · [31:01] Getting to a place of indifference. · [40:33] Releasing any negative experience. · [47:21] The lies that limit you. · [57:24] Spiritual awakening. · [64:00] Relinquishing control. · [66:07] How to let go. Memorable Quotes · “Only 58% of adults in America drink alcohol.” – Dave Andrews [10:02] · “We associate happiness with freedom.” – Dave Andrews [42:37] · “Drink with love.” – Dave Andrews [52:50] · “Trying to control the uncontrollable is the greatest source of suffering in the world.” – Dave Andrews [64:33] Websites fambizforum.com. www.chrisyonker.com. dave.coach. www.the30daysolution.com.
Welcome to the SYNC Your Life podcast episode #308! On this podcast, we will be diving into all things women's hormones to help you learn how to live in alignment with your female physiology. Too many women are living with their check engine lights flashing. You know you feel “off” but no matter what you do, you can't seem to have the energy, or lose the weight, or feel your best. This podcast exists to shed light on the important topic of healthy hormones and cycle syncing, to help you gain maximum energy in your life. In today's episode, I interview Ashley Rocha, founder of Ladywell, a hormonal health supplement brand for women that gives women the tools to care for their hormones and well-being. Ladywell was created to make hormonal health solutions easily accessible to women and close the knowledge gap around hormonal health. With a culture hyper focused on quick symptom relief, Ladywell aims to treat the root cause and reestablish what it feels like to have a “normal cycle." In this interview, we discuss herbal powerhouse remedies for issues like PMS, PMDD, and common symptoms experienced during perimenopause. We also touch on optimizing our fertility and so much more. To learn more about Ladywell, click here. To learn more about the SYNC fitness program, click here. To learn more about virtual consults with our resident hormone health doctor, click here. If you feel like something is “off” with your hormones, check out the FREE hormone imbalance quiz at sync.jennyswisher.com. To learn more about the SYNC Digital Course, check out jennyswisher.com. If you're interested in becoming a SYNC affiliate and Certified Coach mentored by me, you can learn more here. To learn more about Hugh & Grace and my favorite 3rd party tested endocrine disruption free products, including skin care, home care, and detox support, click here. To learn more about the SYNC and Hugh & Grace dual income opportunity, click here. Let's be friends outside of the podcast! Send me a message or schedule a call so I can get to know you better. You can reach out at https://jennyswisher.com/contact-2/. Enjoy the show! Episode Webpage: jennyswisher.com/podcast
I was SO good at sweeping things under the rug! I could take any huge bad things that happened and just make it disappear. Do you know what I mean? Have you ever experienced this? Maybe you have heard this phrase before and don't really know what it's talking about. I am going to explain it right here and give you personal examples from my world. I recently realized that the broom I used the most actually has a title. Here's what I mean. Sweeping things under the rug refers to all the times that we make excuses for someone's bad behavior. We don't hold them accountable for what they have said or done. We push it aside and move on. Some refer to this as forgive and forget. We might try to pretend it never happened. We convince ourselves that this person didn't mean it or was having a bad day or any other excuse we can come up with. Well, my broom that I recently discovered was that All marriages have problems. I could erase any bad behavior with this broom, sweep it right away. Whoosh, under the rug it goes. What broom are you using? I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
Welcome to the SYNC Your Life podcast episode #307! On this podcast, we will be diving into all things women's hormones to help you learn how to live in alignment with your female physiology. Too many women are living with their check engine lights flashing. You know you feel “off” but no matter what you do, you can't seem to have the energy, or lose the weight, or feel your best. This podcast exists to shed light on the important topic of healthy hormones and cycle syncing, to help you gain maximum energy in your life. In today's episode, I dive into tangible action steps to apply in order to optimize your hormone health in this fresh new year of 2025. To learn more about the SYNC fitness program, click here. You will need access to the core program before moving into the monthly membership. To learn more about virtual consults with our resident hormone health doctor, click here. If you feel like something is “off” with your hormones, check out the FREE hormone imbalance quiz at sync.jennyswisher.com. To learn more about the SYNC Digital Course, check out jennyswisher.com. If you're interested in becoming a SYNC affiliate and Certified Coach mentored by me, you can learn more here. To learn more about Hugh & Grace and my favorite 3rd party tested endocrine disruption free products, including skin care, home care, and detox support, click here. To learn more about the SYNC and Hugh & Grace dual income opportunity, click here. Let's be friends outside of the podcast! Send me a message or schedule a call so I can get to know you better. You can reach out at https://jennyswisher.com/contact-2/. Enjoy the show! Episode Webpage: jennyswisher.com/podcast
Michelle shares her story after decades with a covert narcissist. As a stay at home mom, she was not allowed to work outside the home. He maintained his control over her in this way. Step by step, she put a plan in place and worked towards her freedom, which is now becoming her reality. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
Certified Coach and HR Expert, Shelby McGuire Canlas, chats with Delanie about the importance of prioritizing your mental health and wellbeing during a job search, why taking a job "for the meantime" might be exactly the kind of breather you need (for your happiness and long-term success), and how to let go of the "dream job" pressure + tips for your next career move. Full episode with Shelby McGuire Canlas: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/21ce2f57/how-to-crush-the-job-search-even-if-you-feel-like-sht-with-hr-expert-shelby-mcguire-canlasWhat topic would you like covered next? Vote & submit questions for guests: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
I cringe every time I hear someone ask a victim of covert narcissism why they are still there or why they haven't left. It's an okay question in the right circumstances. But it is a crushing question in the wrong situation. In the wrong conversation, this becomes victim blaming. You aren't strong enough to stand up for yourself. You don't love yourself enough. You chose this so that's on you. If you decide to stay, I can't help you. These statements and these attitudes are so painful to someone who is already living in an incredibly painful situation. Making them feel worse is not going to help. When I am in a coaching situation and someone tells me that they really want to stay. I understand this, because so did I. So let's talk about it. For those who have left, that was an incredibly tough decision to make. But I want you to understand that for those who stay, this is an equally tough decision to make. To everyone listening who has chosen to stay in their marriage with a covert narcissist, I want you to know this: you are not alone. Your choice to stay is not a measure of your strength or worth. It is simply the path you are on right now, and there is no shame in that. Continue to take care of yourself. Protect your peace. And remember, you have the power to revisit this decision whenever you feel the need. Life is a journey, and you are walking it with courage every single day. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
For survivors of covert narcissistic abuse, the New Year can feel overwhelming—another reminder of time lost and dreams unfulfilled. But this year can mark the start of something new: freedom, healing, and renewal. In this heartfelt episode, I share how I transitioned from merely surviving to truly living—reclaiming peace in my home, my heart, and my mind. I'll provide practical steps to help you let go of emotional burdens, set boundaries, and embrace small, meaningful joys. The life you deserve—a life of peace, connection, and freedom—is possible. Let this be the year you step forward, one small moment at a time. "You are stronger than you know, and this is your year to let go, to heal, and to rise." I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
Today, I want to talk to you about a question that lingers in the hearts of so many: Why can't I feel intimate with my partner? Let me assure you, you're not alone in asking this. Intimacy, that deep connection we all crave, can feel impossible when you're caught in the web of emotional abuse. Victims of covert abuse spend years wondering what is wrong with them. Why am I not more sexually attracted to my partner? We go to the doctor to learn what is wrong with us. We try medications and hormones. We try stress reduction and eating healthier. We try to just force our way through it. But nothing seems to work! This is because you are having a very normal reaction to a person that does not feel safe to you. A covert narcissist's impact on intimacy is profound and often heartbreaking. Intimacy requires trust, vulnerability, and emotional safety. These qualities are absent in relationships with covert narcissists. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
The holidays can be a difficult time for survivors of covert narcissistic abuse—what should be moments of joy often become memories of tension and survival. In this heartfelt episode, I reflect on past holidays that were filled with anxiety and share how I transformed my life and home into a sanctuary of peace, love, and laughter. Six years after leaving a chaotic environment, I've learned how to reclaim joy, create genuine connection, and build a home where feelings are safe and celebrated. If you're struggling this holiday season, know that healing is possible. Join me as I offer hope, share my personal journey, and provide encouragement for those longing to turn survival into peace and transformation. This holiday, you deserve joy. You deserve peace. And you are strong enough to create it. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
Emotional abuse is often described as insidious, and for good reason. It doesn't have to happen constantly to dominate your thoughts, emotions, and decisions. Even if the abuse only happens 10% of the time on a clock or calendar, the fear of it, the anticipation of it, and the recovery from it consumes your mind 100% of the time. You are constantly analyzing it, trying to figure out what went wrong, wondering what you could have done and so on. Let's talk about why that is and what we can do to take back our mental and emotional space. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
I can't keep living like this. I've tried everything I know to try. Things might get better for a little while, but it never lasts. I continuously find myself right back in the same place. Over and over trying to explain how I feel and everything is always flipped back at me. I've been doing this for years, or even decades, and I just can't do it anymore. I've tried everything I can try. I'm damaged. My kids are damaged. I'm done. I want out, now what? That very thought can be intensely overwhelming! Getting out of the relationship can seem impossible. How will I support myself? What about our kids? How will the family all react? How will he/she react? How do I tell them? What am I thinking? I can't possibly do this. It is very easy to stay in the relationship because it seems like the simpler answer. Even the thought of trying to leave can send us into a whirlwind. Heart racing, stomach feeling like it is trying to turn inside out, body tense, mind racing. How can I even be considering this? I know these feelings all too well. I never thought in a million years that I would be taking those steps. I never saw it coming. But I just could not stay. I had tried everything I could possibly try. I didn't have anything left in my tank. And I could not continue this way. Do I file first and then tell him? Do I move out first? Do I tell him first? Do I pack bags? Do I tell him to leave? What do I do first? There are so many different ways that all this happens. There is no magical “right” answer. The path is different in every situation and at the end of the day is not the most important piece. The important part is that you found your voice and your strength. They are going to be upset no matter how you tell them. In person, by phone, write a letter. Say it this way or that way. It truly does not matter. Do you really think that you can find the magical way where they will not be angry? So do what feels right to you. You have spent enough time and energy trying to figure out how to not upset them. You have tap danced around them enough. I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast
Are you dreading the holidays? Approaching them with a pit in your stomach? I remember those days all too well! I didn't want to take the trips with him. I didn't want to go visit family with him. I didn't want to be with him 24/7. Who dreads the holidays? People who are living with a covert narcissist or visiting a covert narcissistic family member To those of you who are heading into these holidays with covert narcissists in your life, I see you. I hear the discouragement and exhaustion in you. I hear your cry for peace. We have to find some humor at times or we are all going to lose our minds. So this year we are playing covert narcissist BINGO! On the bingo cards you will find: Rolling their eyes, huffing, sulking, calling you names, digging remarks, dismissive attitude, gaslighting, passive aggressive statement, victim playing, backwards apology, and much more. For your copy of a bingo card, join my mailing list at http://www.covertnarcissism.com I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse. Are you tired of feeling isolated and alone? Are you searching for people who get it? Are you confused, reactive and unsure what to do? Are you running in circles in your mind? Are you worried for your kids and the effect this is having on them? Do you want to know how not to raise another narcissist in this world? I can help you! I offer both group and individual coaching, which you can find at www.covertnarcissism.com Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse http://www.covertnarcissism.com https://www.tiktok.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.youtube.com/@cngreneeswanson https://www.facebook.com/renee.covertnarcissism #Trauma #abuse #gaslighting #narcissism #narcissist #CovertNarcissism #podcast