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Explore our journey as millennial swingers in non monogamy, sex work, sex positivity and relationship advice. Listen every week as we interview people from across the spectrum of sex work, non monogamy and sex positive people. We hope we can provide a safe space for all individuals within the sexual freedom community to inspire others to continue on the culture of inclusivity. Ride along on the Pineapple Express with us!

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    105: After the High: Breaking Up, Breaking Open — with Jack from @polarityunscripted

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2025 77:52


    Send us a textIn this raw, vulnerable follow-up to Episode 100, I share the painful, unexpected breakup with my partner after four blissful months of connection, intimacy, and what felt like “the one.” This episode is my real-time unraveling — the moment where fantasy meets grief, and I'm left to begin again.Joining me is my dear friend and guest, Jack from Polarity Unscripted (listen to his podcast here), who gently and powerfully holds space for the ache, the anger, the longing, and the deep truth that not all love stories are meant to last.We talk about:The grief of sudden endings in relationshipsThe courage it takes to let go when your nervous system still wants to hold onWhat it means to begin the journey into solo polyamory not from empowerment — but from devastationHow friendship, tenderness, and presence can carry you through heartbreakThis episode is for anyone who's loved hard, lost deeply, and is learning to rebuild not just their love life — but their relationship to themselves. Support the show

    Power, Swinging, & the Diddy Trial: A Trauma-Informed Breakdown with Dr. Emma Smith, PhD

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2025 72:43


    Send us a textWhat's the difference between kink and coercion? How do trauma bonds form—and why do people stay in abusive relationships? In this powerful episode, sex and relationship coach Kiley George sits down with trauma-informed therapist Dr. Emma Smith, PhD, to unpack the ongoing Sean “Diddy” Combs trial and what it reveals about consent, power dynamics, and survival responses.From celebrity influence to “freak-off” parties and nervous system shutdowns, we explore how trauma shapes relationships—especially in non-monogamy—and how to reclaim agency, safety, and self-awareness in the bedroom and beyond.Topics include:The psychology behind trauma bondsWhat real consent looks likePublic gaslighting, kink myths, and the Diddy trialWhy your body might be saying “no” even when your mouth says “yes”Whether you're healing from toxic love or rethinking everything you thought you knew about desire and safety—this one's for you.

    104: Good Luck to You, George Golburn: What it's like to be a male escort—

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 66:00


    Send us a textIn this episode of The Pineapple Express, I'm joined by George — a straight male escort based in Australia who helps women feel confident, desired, and deeply connected to their bodies. George shares his journey as a full-service male companion, what it means to offer women a safe space for sensual exploration, and how his work often mirrors the emotional intimacy and healing portrayed in Good Luck to You, Leo Grande.We talk about the legal realities of sex work in Australia, the importance of decriminalization, and how ethical sex work can be a powerful tool for empowerment, especially for women navigating shame, touch, and pleasure.Whether you're curious about sex work, intimacy beyond the binary, or what it looks like when men serve women's desire with integrity — this is a must-listen.✨ Topics covered: • Male sex work & companionship for women • Sex work decriminalization in Australia • Embodied confidence, pleasure, and healing • Erotic care work and ethical intimacy • George Golburn's  path to becoming a companionhttps://www.instagram.com/george_goulburnhttps://bio.site/georgegoulburnSupport the show

    Redesign Your Damn Relationship: Non Monogamy, Conscious Monogamy & Breaking the Rules with Dr. Joli Hamilton

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2025 66:56


    Send us a textIn this episode of The Pineapple Express: A Guide to Millennial Love, Evolution, and Relationships, we're diving headfirst into the world of relationship design, jealousy, and letting go of the outdated love scripts that no longer serve us.My guest is the incredible Dr. Joli Hamilton—psychologist, TEDx speaker, and founder of The Institute for Creative Relating—who's on a mission to help people create intentional, empowering relationships that actually fit their lives.Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, non-monogamous, or somewhere in between, this episode is packed with juicy insights about: 

    102: The Other Side of Cheating— What Ashley Madison Can Teach Us About Modern Relationships with Paul Keable

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2025 61:49


    Send us a textIn this episode of The Pineapple Express: A Guide to Millennial Love, Evolution, and Relationships, I sit down with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison, to explore the real reasons people seek connection outside of traditional monogamy.We talk about: 

    101: Connective Sex And Non Monogamy With Reid from ReidAboutSex

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2025 70:11


    Send us a textThe Pineapple Express: A Guide to Millennial Love, Evolution, and RelationshipsIn this episode, I sit down with the legendary Reid Mihalko—sex and relationship educator, creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp, and the brain behind reidaboutsex.com—to talk about something that often gets overlooked in non-monogamy: connective sex.Whether you're navigating swinging, polyamory, or open relationships, it can be easy to get swept up in novelty, scheduling, and logistics… but Reid and I unpack the deeper stuff:✨ What does it really mean to stay emotionally connected during casual or multiple sexual connections? How do you create sex that feels nourishing—not just exciting? Can casual sex be intimate? (Spoiler: Yes. And Reid tells us how.)We talk about: – The difference between “porn sex” and “connected sex” – How to bring heart, intention, and intimacy into non-monogamous dynamics – Tools for checking in with partners before and after play – Why emotional presence during sex matters—even when it's casualWhether you're new to ethical non-monogamy or years into your journey, this episode is packed with wisdom, warmth, and permission to slow down and get real about what turns you on—emotionally.About Reid Mihalko: Reid is a world-renowned sex and relationship coach who blends humor, heart, and skill-building to help people create more intimacy and connection in their sex lives. You can learn more about him at reidaboutsex.com.

    100: Love, Soulmates & My Journey Back to Monogamy – Special Guest Tyler

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2025 83:11


    Send us a textLeaving Swinging & Embracing Monogamy – A Love Story with Tyler

    99: Hierarchical Polyamory, Big Feelings, and Demisexuality:An Open Conversation with Laura Boyle

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2025 68:26


    Send us a textIn this episode of The Pineapple Express, I sit down with my friend and non-monogamy expert Laura Boyle, creator of Ready for Polyamory. We dive into the provocative idea that “hierarchical polyamory is just demisexual swinging,” unpacking big feelings about different forms of polyamory and non-monogamy.We explore how labels and dynamics shape relationships, challenge stereotypes, and share our personal journeys—mine includes a surprising move toward monogamy with my new partner. This episode is full of laughs, heartfelt moments, and insights you won't want to miss.

    98:For Better or Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love & Life with Lauren Hayes SwingingLifestyleCoach

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2025 64:11


    Send us a textIn this episode of The Pineapple Express, I sit down with Lauren Hayes, author of For Better or Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love & Life from a Non-Monogamist. Lauren shares her journey into non-monogamy and the transformative lessons she's learned along the way. We explore the key themes of her book, including navigating jealousy, fostering deeper communication, and redefining love and commitment through the lens of ethical non-monogamy.Whether you're curious about open relationships, a seasoned non-monogamist, or just seeking insights to enrich your own partnerships, this conversation is packed with practical wisdom and heartfelt stories. Tune in to hear how Lauren's experiences can help you embrace love and life on your own terms.

    97: Men and Emotional Intelligence In Non Monogamous Relationships With Justin Nault

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2025 71:45


    Send us a textWhat does it mean to embrace true masculine power while navigating non-monogamy? In this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast, we sit down with Justin Nault, creator of King vs. Prince, a transformative program guiding men from ego-driven behaviors to grounded, confident leadership.With a background in entrepreneurship, music, and holistic health, Justin helps men develop emotional mastery, radical self-acceptance, and authentic leadership—all essential skills for thriving in open relationships. With over 650,000 followers and a thriving 12,000-member Clovis community, he's leading a revolution in modern masculinity, holistic health, and relationship freedom.

    96: Holding Space for Heartache: Grief in the Swingers Lifestyle

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2025 77:50


    Send us a textIn this heartfelt episode of The Pineapple Express, I explore grief in the swinger lifestyle — the losses that aren't always acknowledged, from friendships and play partners to deep emotional bonds. This episode holds space for heartache, reflection, and healing within non-monogamous communities.Stay with us until the end, where I share my personal essay, “Silver Springs, Tulip Fields, and Upside Down Pineapples”, featured on The Queer Love Project Substack. It's a deeply intimate story of love, loss, and the transformative power of connection. https://queerloveproject.substack.comThis episode is dedicated to my dear friend Brad Weiner, who left us too soon, until we meet again teddy bear. What You'll Get from This Episode:

    95: Power, Domination, and Power Dynamics: Part 3 Lions, Tigers and Systems of Harm In Non Monogamy and Swinging OH MY!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2025 97:41


    Send us a textIn Part 3 of this series, we take a journey down the yellow brick road to explore how The Wizard of Oz serves as a metaphor for the systemic issues that persist in our world today. From the glittering Emerald City we talk about how to step into allyship in a real impactful way!In this episode, we'll explore:How The Wizard of Oz illustrates systemic oppression and power dynamics.Practical tools for having skillful, empathetic conversations about privilege and bias.Steps you can take today to educate yourself, redistribute resources, and decenter privilege.How to Recognize and address systemic oppression in your communities, including swinger and non-monogamous spaces.Why Listen:If you've ever struggled to navigate conversations about equity and privilege or felt uncertain about how to show up as an ally, this episode will leave you with clear, actionable steps to make a meaningful impact.Want to Learn More?Check out Bridget's work at Professor Playtime for resources on allyship, equity, and non-monogamy..Resource Guide For This Episode:

    94: Power, Domination, and Power Dynamics: Part 2 Some Wicked Lessons About Swinger Spaces

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2024 71:28


    Send us a textWhat can a glittering "Good Witch" and a misunderstood green-skinned rebel teach us about allyship? A lot more than you might think. In this episode of The Pineapple Express, Kiley George and Professor Playtime break down  power dynamics and the unlearning and relearning phase of allyship. We'll connect these lessons to real-world dynamics of privilege, power, and justice—unpacking systems like whiteness, patriarchy, and monogamy, and how they shape our relationships and communities. In this episode, we'll discuss:The difference between performative and authentic allyshipHow societal systems like whiteness, patriarchy, and monogamy influence power dynamics and relationships.Why symbolic gestures aren't enough and how to shift from awareness to meaningful action.Content Warning: This episode includes discussions about race, privilege, gender, and societal power structures.Why You Should Listen:If you've ever felt called to do better as an ally but struggled with where to start or how to handle the discomfort, this episode is for you. It's time to embrace authentic allyship, challenge systems of harm, and build healthier, more equitable relationships in every area of life.Want to Learn More?Check out Bridget's work at Professor Playtime for resources on allyship, equity, and non-monogamy..

    93:Power, Domination, and Power Dynamics: Part 1 Unpacking Privilege and Systems of Harm In Swinger Spaces

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2024 75:57


    Send us a text In this powerful episode of The Pineapple Express, host Kiley George (swinger expert and non-monogamy advocate) and guest Bridget, aka "Professor Playtime" (integrity coach and educator on intersectionality and allyship) we talk about power dynamics, privilege, and systems of harm that shape our relationships and communities. We also discuss the risks and rewards of stepping into allyship, especially in light of recent political changes, and share insights into how challenging systems of power starts with looking inward. This is a conversation for those ready to step up, do the work, and build systems of equity in their communities.What You'll Hear in This Episode:The impact of whiteness, patriarchy, and monogamy on relationships and social structuresHow these systems condition us to reinforce hierarchies of privilege and controlThe importance of self-reflection in allyship and dismantling internalized biasesPractical tips for creating safer, more equitable spacesResources for those ready to take actionWant to Learn More?Check out Bridget's work at Professor Playtime for resources on allyship, equity, and non-monogamy..

    92: Swinging and Sex Without Shame With Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2024 62:41


    Send us a textReady to break free from sexual shame and embrace a more fulfilling, authentic life? In this episode of Pineapple Express, host Kiley George sits down with renowned sex therapist and author, Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, to explore the transformative power of sex-positive thinking and how to overcome societal and religious stigmas around swinging, non-monogamy, and intimacy.Dr. Sellers brings her expertise in dismantling shame-based beliefs to discuss how individuals and couples can cultivate confidence, enhance communication, and deepen intimacy in their relationships. Whether you're navigating the swinger lifestyle, curious about non-monogamy, or seeking a healthier relationship with your sexuality, this episode offers practical advice and powerful insights to help you live a more liberated and pleasure-filled life.Tune in to discover:✅ How to overcome shame and embrace your sexual identity.✅ Tips for creating trust and consent in swinging and non-monogamous relationships.✅ The impact of societal norms on sexual freedom and how to rewrite your narrative.Don't miss this transformative conversation with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, a leading voice in sex positivity and healthy intimacy.

    91:Non-Monogamy, Sex Work, and Challenging Societal Norms with Author Zara Shah

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2024 78:30


    Send us a textIn this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast, we sit down with Zara Shah, author of Non-Monogamy and Sex Work, published by Thornapple Press. Together, we explore the intersections of sex work and non-monogamy, unpacking topics like intimacy, economics, social rejection, sexual health, and the impact of societal norms on mental health.Zara shares powerful insights into the challenges and triumphs within non-monogamous and sex work communities, offering a fresh perspective on how these lifestyles intersect with larger cultural, religious, and social frameworks.

    90:Non-Monogamy, Mental Health, and Sexual Liberation with Ann Russo

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2024 79:24


    Send us a textWelcome to The Pineapple Express Podcast! In this episode, we talk about the transformative intersection of non-monogamy, mental health, and sexual empowerment with the inspiring Ann Russo. Ann is a radical educator, writer, and activist committed to building liberatory practices rooted in care, accountability, and collective well-being.Together, we explore how embracing non-monogamy can be a path to personal growth and emotional resilience. Ann shares their insights into dismantling societal norms that often suppress sexual agency and how embracing relational diversity can enhance mental health and create more meaningful, empowered connections.Join us for a thought-provoking discussion on:Practical ways to navigate mental health challenges within non-monogamy.The role of community care in sexual liberation.How to build relationships rooted in respect, authenticity, and joy.Whether you're curious about non-monogamy, a seasoned explorer, or simply looking to expand your understanding of radical relational practices, this episode is packed with wisdom and inspiration. Tune in and let's reimagine connection and empowerment together!✨ Let's keep the conversation going: Share your thoughts and follow The Pineapple Express Podcast for more episodes on non-monogamy, intimacy, and sex-positive living.Support the show

    89:Protecting Lifestyle Clubs And The Fight for Consensual Adult Spaces in Acadia Parish and Beyond

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2024 47:45


    Send us a textIn this impactful episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley George explores the proposed Acadia Parish ordinance targeting sexually oriented businesses and its potential consequences for lifestyle clubs and consensual adult spaces. Discover why these spaces are essential for people practicing non-monogamy, swinging, and ethical open relationships, and how misconceptions about them drive unfair laws under the guise of "public safety."Kiley shares parallels from The Champagne Club's legal challenges and explains how ordinances like this threaten sexual freedom and the availability of safe, supportive spaces for adults. Learn why protecting these communities is a fight for personal freedom and how you can take action.Visit ncsfreedom.org for resources and advocacy tools. Subscribe now, share this episode with your community, and help protect consensual adult spaces. Together, we can safeguard the right to explore relationships freely and safely.How to Support NCSF and Their Call to Action:Write a Statement of Opposition:Draft a letter opposing the proposed ordinance and  use the https://ncsfreedom.org/2024/11/07/call-to-action-say-no-to-the-proposed-acadia-parish-sexually-oriented-businesses-ordinance/ to find out who to send it to. Share your perspective on why protecting consensual adult spaces is essential for the community.Make Calls to Local Officials:Reach out to Acadia Parish officials to express your opposition to the ordinance. Be respectful but firm in advocating for the rights of consensual adult spaces.Send Emails to Acadia Parish Leadership:Use NCSF's templates or craft your own email explaining the negative impacts of the proposed ordinance and urging them to vote against it.Leverage Social Media:Share the NCSF's call to action link and raise awareness about the ordinance. Use hashtags like #ProtectAdultSpaces, #SexualFreedom, and #NCSFAction to amplify the message.Spread Awareness in Your Community:Encourage others in your networks to join the fight. Share information about the ordinance and explain how they can get involved.Use Advocacy Scripts:Utilize the scripts provided by NCSF to ensure your calls, emails, or public comments are clear, concise, and effective.Donate to NCSF:Support the organization financially to help fund their advocacy work and efforts to protect consensual adult spaces across the country.Stay Updated:Follow NCSF on social media and subscribe to their newsletters for updates on the ordinance and other advocacy efforts.Educate Others About the Issue:Share accurate information about the importance of lifestyle clubs and the role they play in creating safe, consensual spaces for adults.4oSupport the show

    88: Layers of Liberation: Exploring Feminism And Non Monogamy with Mel Cassidy

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2024 92:45


    Send us a textIn this powerful episode of The Pineapple Express, Kiley sits down with Mel Cassidy to dive deep into the intersectionality of feminism. Together, they unpack how feminist values overlap with diverse identities, exploring the unique challenges and triumphs of navigating gender, race, sexuality, and non-monogamy. They'll discuss the evolution of intersectional feminism, its impact on modern relationships, and how inclusivity in feminist spaces can create a stronger, more resilient movement. Perfect for anyone passionate about social justice, personal empowerment, and inclusive feminism, this conversation will inspire and challenge listeners to rethink their role in creating a more equitable world.Support the show

    87: Male Bisexuality And It's Evolution In Non Monogamy with "Boyslut" Zachary Zane

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2024 70:56


    Send us a textGet ready for an eye-opening and no-holds-barred conversation on this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast! We're joined by Zachary Zane—an acclaimed writer, and the brilliant mind behind Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. We talk all things evolutionary, including the evolution of male bisexuality in the world of swinging and non-monogamy.Zachary shares personal stories and insights on what it's like to navigate bisexual identity as a man, breaking down outdated stigmas and discussing how the swinging community is becoming more inclusive. We talk openly about the challenges and triumphs of being a bi man in non-monogamous relationships, how sexual fluidity is being embraced, and why representation matters.This episode is packed with real talk, laughs, and some seriously empowering moments. If you're curious about male bisexuality in the swinging lifestyle or want to learn how non-monogamy is evolving, you won't want to miss this raw and engaging chat. Tune in and join us for an unfiltered look at sex, sexuality, and everything in between!Follow my favorite ‘BoySlut' on social media Instagram https://www.zacharyzane.com/Get a copy of Boy Slut

    86:Swinger Horror Stories: Avoiding Newbie Nightmares – Vetting Clubs, Dodging Scams, and Protecting Your Privacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2024 59:02


    Send us a textIn this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast,  I reveal the secrets to avoiding newbie swinger horror stories and protecting your privacy in the lifestyle. Whether you're just starting out or looking to refine your experiences, I'll give you the tools you need to vet swinger clubs, avoid scams, and stay safe on social media. Don't let your fantasy turn into a nightmare—swing smarter with our essential tips.I also highlight venues like The Body Shop,https://bodyshopclubs.com/events a trusted space for swingers that prioritizes discretion and safety. From safeguarding your identity to selecting the right events, this episode is your ultimate guide for a smooth, enjoyable swinger experience.Key Takeaways:Vetting swinger clubs: Learn how to research and select trustworthy swinger venues like The Body Shop.Avoiding scams: Spot the red flags and avoid being scammed when navigating the swinger scene.Protecting your privacy: Find out how to safeguard your identity and prevent getting outed on social media.Real-life horror stories: Hear firsthand accounts of swinger mishaps and how to avoid them.Swing with confidence: Gain practical tips to swing smarter, ensuring a safe and enjoyable experience every time.

    85: Are You Poly-Curious and a Swinger? With DirtyLola

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2024 76:09 Transcription Available


    Send us a textThe Pineapple Express Podcast: Polycurious Swinging with DirtyLolaIn this exciting episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley sits down with the unapologetically bold DirtyLola, a sex educator and polyamory advocate, to dive deep into the world of polycurious swinging. Join them as they explore the intersections of non-monogamy, swinging, and curiosity about polyamorous relationships. DirtyLola shares her personal journey of embracing ethical non-monogamy, offering relatable stories and expert insights on how to navigate these dynamic relationship styles. Together, they break down myths, highlight the importance of clear communication, and discuss how to create safer, consent-driven spaces for sexual exploration.Whether you're just beginning to explore non-monogamy or you're a seasoned swinger looking to learn more about polyamory, this episode is packed with practical tips and engaging conversations to inspire your journey. Tune in to hear how curiosity and openness can lead to more fulfilling, connected relationships.Tune in to learn:What it means to be polycurious as a swinger.How to communicate effectively about boundaries and desires.Tips from DirtyLola on balancing multiple relationships.

    84: The Making Of Open A Journey Through Love and The Real Swingers You Should Be Watching Instead Of Those Mormon Wives With Roderick Stevens

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 78:39


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    83: The Controversy of Performative Bisexuality In Swinging With Violet Fawkes

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2024 90:37


    82: Embracing Consent Mistakes In Non Monogamy and Swinging With Consent Educator Mia Schachter

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2024 58:16


    81: Enthusiastic Consent in Swinging, Kink and Non Monogamy Spaces with Susan Wright From NCSF

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2024 81:42


    80: Empowered Consent In Non Monogamy And Swinging with Ally Iseman

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2024 70:19


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    Consent In Action: Embodied Consent with Dr. Hazel Grace Yates

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2024 81:04


    Send us a textOn the Pineapple Express podcast, host Kiley engages in a heartfelt conversation with Dr. Hazel Grace, a trauma-informed sex educator known for their empathetic approach to navigating complex topics surrounding sexuality. In this enlightening episode, they delve into the crucial concept of embodied consent, emphasizing its importance in fostering healthy relationships and self-awareness. Dr. Grace shares their expertise on how understanding one's own body and boundaries can lead to more meaningful connections, ultimately transforming the way individuals approach intimacy. Through candid discussions and relatable anecdotes Dr. Grace creates a warm and empowering atmosphere, encouraging listeners to embrace vulnerability and prioritize consent in their everyday lives.Dr. Hazel Grace Yates (They/Them)  is a trauma-informed somatic sex educator and a certified sexological bodywork practitioner.Ph.D. in Human Sexuality (Institute of Advanced Studies of Human Sexuality) Masters in Education (Education for the Blind from Western Michigan University)Certified Sex Coach (Dr. Patti Britton)Certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker (Somatic Sex Educators Association)Queer Competency Certification (Embody Emerge)Trauma-Informed Somatic Practitioner (Bridging Soma and Soul Certification)Femme Dom Training (Midori)Certified Circling Facilitator (The Integral Center)Tantra Counselor (Shawn Roop – TantraQuest)Authentic Man Program Facilitator (AMP) Extensive training in Landmark EducationLearn more about Dr Hazel Grace Yates: Dr. Hazel's Website

    78: The Compersion Connection With Dr. Marie Thouin Author of the book What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2024 74:37


    Send us a text[Welcome to another episode of the Pineapple Express podcast, where we explore the juicy and vibrant world of relationships! Today, we have a special guest with us—Dr. Marie Thouin,  author of 'What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships.' In this enlightening episode, we'll dive into the transformative concept of compersion, a feeling of joy and empathy that arises when we see our partners thrive in other relationships. Dr. Thouin will share her insights on how understanding compersion can deepen connections, enrich our experiences, and foster healthier dynamics in consensually non-monogamous settings.Marie Thouin, PhD is the author of "What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships," the first-ever comprehensive scholarly book on compersion. She has been featured in several publications and podcasts, including ELLE, the Savage Lovecast, The Times of London, and HuffPost. Marie has also published seminal research studies, the first encyclopedia entry on compersion, and is the creator of www.WhatIsCompersion.com, a popular website that features her research, blogs, and resources on the topic of compersion. She is the Founder of Love InSight, a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coaching practice where she supports and guides people of all backgrounds and relational orientations to create intentional and vibrant love lives.Find Marie on IG Get a copy of the book  

    77: Monogamy? In This Economy? Unpacking Polyamory and Family Relationship Dynamics with Laura Boyle

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2024 73:08


    Send us a Text Message.Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, where we dive into the multifaceted world of relationships, love, and everything in between. I'm your host, Kiley, and today we have an exceptional guest joining us—Laura Boyle, the brilliant mind behind the thought-provoking book *Monogamy? In this Economy?*.In this conversation, Laura shares her insights on polyamory, modern relationships, and the changing dynamics of love in today's society. We'll explore the ideas behind her book, discussing how people can navigate different types of relationships and the challenges and rewards that come with them. It's a must-listen for anyone curious about alternative relationship styles and looking for a fresh perspective.So, grab your favorite drink, get comfortable, and join us as we embark on this enlightening journey with Laura Boyle.---Enjoy the episode!Find out more about @readyforpolyamory Here is Laura's Linktree with all of her information, socials and website Linktree Here's a link to get a copy of the book

    76: Flexing Beyond The Gym: Dealing with Emotions and Jealousy From A Man's Perspective In the Swinger Lifestyle

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2024 73:22


    Send us a Text Message.Welcome back to another episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, where we explore the diverse and fascinating world of alternative lifestyles and relationships. I'm your host, Kiley, and today we have a very important discussion lined up for you. Joining us is Matt Turnquist, a swinger and fitness enthusiast who is male identified. In this episode, Matt will chat with us about the emotional intricacies that men face while navigating the swinger lifestyle. We'll tackle topics like jealousy, communication, and emotional well-being, shedding light on the often-overlooked male perspective. Whether you're already part of the lifestyle or simply curious, this conversation promises valuable insights and practical advice.So, kick back, relax, and join us for an open and honest discussion about men's emotions and challenges in the swinger community with Matt Turnquist.---Enjoy the episode!Here's how you can find Matt on IG

    76: Social Media Literacy In The Swinger Lifestyle and Power Dynamics with Swinger Influencers from a Swinger Content Creator Perspective With Kiley

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2024 62:51


    75: How to Recover From a Bad Swinging Experience with Dr. Rachael Meir

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2024 67:37


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    74: The Week Of Visibility For Non Monogamy With Brett Chamberlin The Co Founder Of OPEN

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2024 64:59


    Send us a Text Message.In this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast Kiley talks with Brett Chamberlin the co founder of OPEN about the week of visibility for non monogamy. They talk about how by promoting visibility, challenging stereotypes, and celebrating love in all its forms, we can pave the way for a world where non-monogamous families and relationships are not just accepted but celebrated.To learn more about The Week Of Visibility and OPEN follow these links https://www.weekofvisibility.com/https://www.open-love.org/Book Naughty In Nawlins 2025https://members.naughty-events.com/events/53925/orders/new?promoter_id=534988All My Links To Learn More About Mehttps://sexyswingerchic.net/Onlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchicFind me on social media IG https://www.instagram.com/thepineappleexpresspodcast?igsh=MWdhZ2owY3d0dDhlNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexyswingerchic91?_t=8k7KsW0pvQI&_r=1Cleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzqD9XNXyUFnyEs/?mibextid=K35XfPIf you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you. For a personalized coaching session with me book on my website https://www.consciousloveconnections.com/Don't forget to sign up for our newsletter and stay up to date on All Things Pineapple Express http://eepurl.com/immxdIFor more info about me and where to find all the events we will be at and to get an exclusive invite to The Swinger Society Discord make sure you check out my website https://sexyswingerchic.net/I'm on clapper so if TikTok gets banned follow me here: https://clapperapp.com/Sexyswingerchic?is_invite=1&r=gV6ALln5op&c=in&

    73: Naughty In Na'wlins 2024: Unpacking Trauma Before I Unpack My Bags and More Juicy Behind the Scenes Details About Naughty In Na'wlins 2024

    Play Episode Play 60 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 5, 2024 45:13


    72: All The Naughty In Na'wlins Tea and My Emotional Story Leading Up To The Event

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2024 47:18


    71: Creating Inclusive Swinger Event Spaces with ISH Owner Pumpkin

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2024 77:24


    70: Swinger Event Planning: The Ultimate Guide to Preparing for a Large Swinger Event + Naughty in Nawlins Details

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2024 48:20


    69: The Pelvic Floor and Pleasure with Cara Turquist

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2024 74:45


    68: Creating Space For Community In Non Monogamy With Noa Elan

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2024 73:36


    In this episode, we sit down with Noa Elan, the CEO of the Plura app, to delve into a thought-provoking conversation about community in non-monogamy. Join us as we explore the importance of finding like-minded individuals, building a supportive community, and navigating the complexities of non-traditional relationships. Tune in to Pineapple Express for a meaningful dialogue that celebrates diversity, love, and the power of community in redefining relationships.Join the Plura App https://apps.apple.com/us/app/plura-meet-partners-friends/id1528252601Join the movement with me! Together, we can normalize non-monogamyBy promoting visibility, challenging stereotypes, and celebrating love in all its forms, we can pave the way for a world where non-monogamous families and relationships are not just accepted but celebrated.Check out https://www.weekofvisibility.com/Thrilled to announce that I will be speaking at #Poly4Paly, a fundraiser by @polyphiliablog featuring 20+ non-monogamous creators sharing polyamory tips and stories to support people who really need our help right now. It's happening in two weeks, so register now - and everyone gets a copy of the recording, so if you can't attend live you miss nothing (except for the opportunity to say hello to me live, of course!)https://poly4paly.eventbrite.com/There's still time to book Naughty in Nawlins book until June 10You can still get your tickets and book the event using my code https://members.naughty-events.com/events/53925/orders/new?promoter_id=534988All My Links To Learn More About Mehttps://sexyswingerchic.net/Onlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchicFind me on social media IG https://www.instagram.com/thepineappleexpresspodcast?igsh=MWdhZ2owY3d0dDhlNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexyswingerchic91?_t=8k7KsW0pvQI&_r=1Cleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzqD9XNXyUFnyEs/?mibextid=K35XfPIf you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you. For a personalized coaching session with me book on my website https://www.consciousloveconnections.com/Don't forget to sign up for our newsletter and stay up to date on All Things Pineapple Express http://eepurl.com/immxdIFor more info about me and where to find all the events we will be at and to get an exclusive invite to The Swinger Society Discord make sure you check out my website https://sexyswingerchic.net/I'm on clapper so if TikTok gets banned follow me here: https://clapperapp.com/Sexyswingerchic?is_invite=1&r=gV6ALln5op&c=in&

    67: Navigating Swinging as a Newbie with Jess Nonmonogamous_newbies

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2024 68:14


    66: The Ultimate Guide to Naughty in Nawlins with The Accidental Swingers Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2024 80:07


    What is Naughty in Nawlins? "Naughty in Nawlins" is a well-known swingers and lifestyle convention held annually in New Orleans, Louisiana. It's one of the largest events of its kind, attracting couples and singles from around the world who are interested in alternative lifestyles, open relationships, and sexual exploration. For anyone interested, it's advised to review event details, rules, and codes of conduct on the official Naughty in Nawlins website to ensure a fulfilling and respectful experience.You can still get your tickets and book the event using my code https://members.naughty-events.com/events/53925/orders/new?promoter_id=534988To learn more about Myrenia and Tristan and The Accidental Swingers Podcast make sure you check out their website https://linktr.ee/AccidentalSwingers?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaYUAzD1Ns_-g2ERcaeF30tvfJWNRZ1i302x74mi0bwQzIYf186fLNN9ym4_aem_AQ1qdukzujh21-FeJt7XZycgM1nlVIDWN1YThGHkUhcnEiD5EfjaveR-LS6a_13JE_7gEoeCf-q7vIAkNq_EGwZNAll My Links To Learn More About Mehttps://sexyswingerchic.net/Onlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchicFind me on social media IG https://www.instagram.com/thepineappleexpresspodcast?igsh=MWdhZ2owY3d0dDhlNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexyswingerchic91?_t=8k7KsW0pvQI&_r=1Cleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzqD9XNXyUFnyEs/?mibextid=K35XfPIf you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you. For a personalized coaching session with me book on my website https://www.consciousloveconnections.com/Don't forget to sign up for our newsletter and stay up to date on All Things Pineapple Express http://eepurl.com/immxdIFor more info about me and where to find all the events we will be at and to get an exclusive invite to The Swinger Society Discord make sure you check out my website https://sexyswingerchic.net/I'm on clapper so if TikTok gets banned follow me here: https://clapperapp.com/Sexyswingerchic?is_invite=1&r=gV6ALln5op&c=in&

    65: Uncovering Shame in Sexuality as a Swinger with Sex and Intimacy Coach Deborah Kat

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2024 81:20


    64: Sex Work and Human Design with Samantha Zagar

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2024 64:31


    63: Embracing Inclusion in Non Monogamy Communities with DEI expert ThatInclusionLady

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2024 78:10


    In this  episode of  the podcast, we talk about all things inclusion within the non-monogamy community, featuring the expertise of Ama, affectionately known as "That Inclusion Lady." A renowned Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) Coach, Ama brings a wealth of knowledge, insight, and passion to our discussion, shedding light on the challenges, triumphs, and the often overlooked  importance of being inclusive in non-monogamous spaces.As our community continues to grow and evolve, the conversation around making these spaces welcoming for everyone becomes increasingly crucial. Ama guides us through the importance of recognizing and celebrating diversity in sexual and relationship orientations, racial and cultural backgrounds, and beyond. She offers tangible advice and strategies for individuals and communities to foster an environment of true inclusivity and belonging.Listeners will come away with a deeper understanding of the significance of DEI principles in non-monogamy, practical tips for creating more inclusive spaces, and the inspiration to champion inclusion in their own lives and communities. Whether you're well-versed in the lifestyle or simply curious about the intersections of non-monogamy and inclusivity, this episode with Ama is a must-listen. Support Ama's work by following her on social media ThatInclusionLady IG https://www.instagram.com/that_inclusionlady?igsh=aXdvZjkzdXVhbWtyThatInclusionLady TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@that_inclusionlady?_t=8lnODpYUtkF&_r=1Book Ama for coaching services(great for event groups or lifestyle businesses) https://inclusionenterprises.org/All My Links To Learn More About Mehttps://sexyswingerchic.net/Onlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchicFind me on social media IG https://www.instagram.com/thepineappleexpresspodcast?igsh=MWdhZ2owY3d0dDhlNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexyswingerchic91?_t=8k7KsW0pvQI&_r=1Cleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzqD9XNXyUFnyEs/?mibextid=K35XfPIf you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you. For a personalized coaching session with me book on my website https://www.consciousloveconnections.com/Don't forget to sign up for our newsletter and stay up to date on All Things Pineapple Express http://eepurl.com/immxdIFor more info about me and where to find all the events we will be at and to get an exclusive invite to The Swinger Society Discord make sure you check out my website https://sexyswingerchic.net/I'm on clapper so if TikTok gets banned follow me here: https://clapperapp.com/Sexyswingerchic?is_invite=1&r=gV6ALln

    62:Creating Community and Non Monogamy Evolution With Noa Elan

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2024 71:37


    61: ED Solutions For Men in the Swinger Lifestyle with Dr. Elliot Justin

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2024 72:19


    In this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast Kiley talks with Dr Elliot Justin about Firmtech, Elliot Justin, MD, FACEP is an Emergency Medicine specialist, telemedicine expert and sex toy enthusiast. His goal is to help all men and women sustain their sexual fitness, and if they develop ED to reverse or impede its progression. This will be achieved by providing personal data via scientifically designed under wearables and more effective and comfortable cock rings and vibrators. They talk about the effects of ED in the swinger lifestyle and how Firmtech can be a solution for men and couples dealing with ED. Learn more about firmtech https://www.instagram.com/myfirmtech?igsh=MTJ4eGg4Z3ZuOXE5cA==Get your very own firmtech ring https://myfirmtech.com/?sca_ref=5783584.Bx15fTwK3eUse my code Sexyswingerchick for an exclusive discount All My Links To Learn More About Mehttps://sexyswingerchic.net/Onlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchicFind me on social media IG https://www.instagram.com/thepineappleexpresspodcast?igsh=MWdhZ2owY3d0dDhlNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexyswingerchic91?_t=8k7KsW0pvQI&_r=1Cleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzqD9XNXyUFnyEs/?mibextid=K35XfPIf you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you. For a personalized coaching session with me book on my website https://www.consciousloveconnections.com/Don't forget to sign up for our newsletter and stay up to date on All Things Pineapple Express http://eepurl.com/immxdIFor more info about me and where to find all the events we will be at and to get an exclusive invite to The Swinger Society Discord make sure you check out my website https://sexyswingerchic.net/I'm on clapper so if TikTok gets banned follow me here: https://clapperapp.com/Sexyswingerchic?is_invite=1&r=gV6ALln5op&c=in&m=coSponsor Links:https://swingersociety.net/https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK10098https://promescent.com/kileyhttps://shamelesscare.com/?ref=358Use my code sexyswingerchic for 15% off https://thesultryvixen.com/

    60: Human Design and Spirituality in Swinger Settings with Aycee Brown

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2024 69:41


    59: Body Positivity in The Swinger Lifestyle: A Candid Heartfelt Conversation With Em from Voluptuous Vixen

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2024 95:12


    58: From Couple To Throuple: Exploring Non Monogamy in the Media with InfinitePolyAm

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2024 79:03


    57: Exploring Body Diversity and Inclusivity in the Swinger Lifestyle with Cara Turnquist

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2024 80:06


    Kiley and Cara delve into the beauty of body diversity within the swinger lifestyle, on the latest juicy episode of the Pineapple Express podcast!Find out more about Cara by following her on her social media https://www.instagram.com/caraturnquist?igsh=MXZpcjkwZGU4eHdkaQ==All My Links To Learn More About Mehttps://sexyswingerchic.net/Onlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchicFind me on social media IG https://www.instagram.com/thepineappleexpresspodcast?igsh=MWdhZ2owY3d0dDhlNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexyswingerchic91?_t=8k7KsW0pvQI&_r=1Cleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzqD9XNXyUFnyEs/?mibextid=K35XfPIf you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you. For a personalized coaching session with me book on my website https://www.consciousloveconnections.com/Don't forget to sign up for our newsletter and stay up to date on All Things Pineapple Express http://eepurl.com/immxdIFor more info about me and where to find all the events we will be at and to get an exclusive invite to The Swinger Society Discord make sure you check out my website https://sexyswingerchic.net/I'm on clapper so if TikTok gets banned follow me here: https://clapperapp.com/Sexyswingerchic?is_invite=1&r=gV6ALln5op&c=in&m=coSponsor Links:https://swingersociety.net/https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK10098https://promescent.com/kileyhttps://shamelesscare.com/?ref=358Use my code sexyswingerchic for 15% off https://thesultryvixen.com/Use my code sexyswingerchic for 10% off https://voluptuous-vixen.com/

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