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Robert Falconer is a pioneering consultant and international educator in Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy. He brings over five decades of transformative psychological expertise and a heartfelt commitment to healing and understanding the complexity of human experience. Falconer has authored several influential books including Many Minds, One Self, co-written with IFS founder Richard C. Schwartz. Falconer's book The Others Within Us, the subject of this podcast, is a groundbreaking work which centralizes "porosity" as a key component to healing. Falconer draws from personal experience and extensive clinical practice. He is a respected international trainer who has led workshops in many countries, including Australia, Japan, Pakistan, Mexico, China, Europe and Canada. He has also taught all over the US, including the Fort Beltnap Sioux and Northern Cheyenne reservations. Falconer champions a holistic view that recognizes the inherent spiritual nature of psychological healing. Now in his mid-70s, Falconer remains an active teacher and thought leader. His work challenges Western therapeutic paradigms and advocates for a more comprehensive understanding of human consciousness. For more information about Richard, please see: https://robertfalconer.us/ This podcast is available on your favorite podcast platform, or here:https://endoftheroad.libsyn.com/episode-308-robert-falconer-porous-mindspirit-possessioninternal-family-systemsthe-others-within-us Have a blessed weekend!
In this episode, we explore the concept of re-parenting ourselves. And how all of us, no matter how wonderful or disastrous the parenting was that we received as children, benefit from learning to lead ourselves from the perspective of the unconditionally loving adult Self (Big S) within. ResourcesThe Reclaimed Woman* by Dr. Kelly BroganNo Bad Parts* by Richard C. Schwartz, PhDAdult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents* by Lindsay C. GibsonDisclaimer: This podcast is intended for entertainment and informational purposes only and does not substitute individual psychological advice.*This is an affiliate link. Purchasing through affiliate links supports The Soul Horizon at no extra cost to you. Thanks for your support!
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Internal Family Systems therapy (or IFS) is transforming the field of psychology, captivating interest among professionals and laypeople alike in the relatively few years since Dr. Richard C. Schwartz first introduced his revolutionary model. Bestselling author Gabby Bernstein proclaims herself to be among the growing number of people whose lives have been improved in seemingly miraculous ways through IFS. In this podcast, Tami Simon speaks with Schwartz and Bernstein about the unique ways in which IFS can heal and deepen our intimate relationships. Give a listen to this empowering discussion of “Courageous Love,” exploring: breaking the “mono-mind” paradigm; uncovering the core Self; coming into full integration and aligning with the truth of who you are; being Self-led in relationships; a four-step method for engaging compassion, curiosity, connection, and choice; asking yourself, “What do I need right now?”; IFS as a devotional practice; becoming “the primary caretaker of our exiles”; the burden of worthlessness; the intensity of our protector parts; IFS for conflict resolution and the practice of speaking about our parts instead of from our parts; calling a time-out to return to calm and presence; the cumulative nature of the energy of the Self; why we need to dialogue with our parts before we try to discuss them with others; the vulnerability of courageous love; the magic of clarity; and more. Note: This episode originally aired on Sounds True One, where these special episodes of Insights at the Edge are available to watch live on video and with exclusive access to Q&As with our guests. Learn more at join.soundstrue.com.
In this episode I interview Richard C Schwartz, the creator of Internal Family Systems (IFS). IFS is a highly effective, evidence-based therapeutic model that de-pathologizes the multipart personality. We discuss:How he came to develop this system and how it is helping millions around the world How the mind is naturally multiple and that is a good thing.How IFS creates inner and outer connectedness by helping people first access their Self and, from that core, come to understand and heal their parts. How It is also a way of understanding personal and intimate relationships and stepping into life with the 8 Cs: confidence, calm, compassion, courage, creativity, clarity, curiosity, and connectedness.Learn more about IFS here: https://ifs-institute.com/Sponsors making this show possible:-Fatty15: Fatty15 is on a mission to replenish your C15 levels and restore your long-term health! You can now get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/DRLEAF and using code DRLEAF at checkout for an additional 15% off your first order! -IRESTORE: So treat yourself to some high-tech self-care with iRestore's Illumina face mask. For a limited time only, our listeners get 25% off their Illumina Face Mask when you use code DRLEAF25 at https://iRestorelaser.com
Send us a textHumans have many inner mechanisms that try to save our butts when we're going off track. They can attract our attention in painful ways, though, and that's inconvenient, to say the least.But if you know how to decode their messages - impulses that spring up in your mind, body pain, self-criticism and off-key behaviors - you can heal the cause of the problems. Then your burnout will magically melt away.So this episode is about dealing skillfully with those irritating inner voices!Show Notes:https://www.amazon.com/No-Bad-Parts-Restoring-Wholeness/dp/1785045113/ Richard C Schwartz https://www.burnouttoleadership.com/1849743/episodes/12863246-ep-80-top-5-tips-to-tame-your-inner-critichttps://www.burnouttoleadership.com/1849743/episodes/12708910-ep-77-confidence-to-surpass-your-previous-besthttps://www.burnouttoleadership.com/1849743/episodes/10780250-ep-36-championing-yourselfhttps://www.burnouttoleadership.com/1849743/episodes/10116785-ep-23-work-performance-and-imposter-syndrome----------------------------------- Burnout Resources:Get 1-on-1 burnout recovery coaching at https:/mini.dexrandall.comBurnout Recovery eCourse: https://go.dexrandall.com/beatburnoutFor even more TIPS see FACEBOOK: @coachdexrandallINSTAGRAM: @coachdexrandallLINKEDIN: @coachdexrandallTWITTER: @coachdexrandallor join the FACEBOOK group for burnout coaches onlyhttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1030925731159138See https://linktr.ee/coachdexrandall for all links
Have you ever met someone who is doing the thing you wish “younger you” had known? Recently, I met Esther and wow…Just. Wow. In many ways she reminded me of “younger me” but better. Way. Better. (And with a cool accent to boot:)She's been a mom on a mission to turn her household around. And she has implemented so much in such a short amount of time - literal lightning speed. I feel like what took me decades to figure out has taken Esther minutes. She's inspiring to say the least…especially if you have an extra spicy strong willed one. Esther started as a podcast listener and became a self-directed learner. Now she's a committed and super impressive, pack-leading Mama Bear. Take a listen, and imagine all the ways you can transform your family with the right support!In this episode, you'll learn:How we can use tech tools and old-fashioned compassion to support moms wherever they are in their pack leadership journeys.Why well-meaning parents mistakenly see conformity and obedience as kid-raising goals.What I really think of the performative perfection standards too many of us hold ourselves to as parents.And much more! As always, thanks for listening. Head over to Facebook, where you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community. We post tips and tools and do pop-up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!Get all the links, resources, and transcripts here: https://mastermindparenting.com/podcast-301About Randi RubensteinRandi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.She's the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.Randi's Web and Social LinksWebsite: https://mastermindparenting.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mastermindparentingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mastermind_parenting/Resources Discussed/LinksThe Highly Sensitive Child, by Elaine Aron, Ph.D. https://hsperson.com/books/the-highly-sensitive-child/Dr. William Sears' Attachment Parenting https://www.askdrsears.com/topics/parenting/attachment-parenting/No Bad Parts, by Richard C. Schwartz, Ph.D. https://ifs-institute.com/nobadpartsOur 12-week Basics Bootcamp program is now available as a 100% online self-study course! https://mastermindparenting.com/minimasters/Live assessment: https://mastermindparenting.com/live-assessment/
In this episode I have a paradigm shift that will alter your drive. We are all raised in the mono-mind belief system, the idea that we have one mind, and from this one mind we have an infinite amount of differing thoughts and emotions and impulses and urges. That we often feel are competing against each other. We think of our good selves and our bad selves. Our healthy and unhealthy aspects. And we get frustrated and feel guilty that our one mind seems so schizophrenic. My guest today has a very different theory and perspective. From his research he believes we have a multiple personality, and all the parts are doing what they are supposed to. If we understand this, we can use them in harmony to help us be our best selves. Richard C. Schwartz, is an American systemic family therapist, academic, author, and creator of the Internal Family Systems branch of therapy. He developed his foundational work with IFS in the 1980s after noticing that his clients were made up of many different pieces or "parts" of their "Self.” Dick is currently on the faculty of Harvard Medical School, and his latest of five books is called, No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model. The forward is by renowned music artist, Alanis Morissette who credits Dick's work with IFS as revolutionizing her own therapy and life perspective and even bringing her to her core spirituality. Famed physician Gabor Maté and psychologist Bessel Van Der Kolk attest to IFS as one of the most innovative and transformational therapies to have emerged in the present century. I sat down with Dick to dig into Internal Family Systems and the message in his new book, No Bad Parts, to uncover how changing our paradigm on the different parts of our minds can significantly alter what drives us for the better. Got a comment or question about an episode? Want to ask a question about your drive? Email me. I don't want to just talk to you here, I want to talk with you. kmiller@kevinmiller.co. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code KEVIN and depending on the model receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/kevin Go to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial. Sign up for AromaTru's Insider Club and today you'll receive a FREE Waterless Oil Diffuser and a FREE lemon eucalyptus oil - that's over $200 in savings. Head to aromatruorganics.com/kevin to take advantage of this exclusive offer. Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to Kajabi.com/kevin Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and enter code "KEVIN" at checkout. Go to Quince.com/drives for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How you handle your inner critic can seriously affect your sense of fulfillment in all areas of your life. This episode will help you better understand the source of this perfectionist part of you and learn how to manage it with compassion to prevent burnout. You will also discover effective strategies to fuel your growth with an inspiring vision instead of oppressive self-criticism. Tune in to transform your relationship with your inner critic and enhance your overall well-being.
Episode 119. In today's solo episode, I'm going to share some of what I've learned about IFS and how it works based on both my personal and professional experiences thus far. I'm also going to talk about learning to slow down, how it's a journey I'm still on, and how IFS helps me actually do it, specifically focusing on my example of my Overworking Part, which I learned as I talked through this episode is very linked with my "Optimizing my Experience" Part (also described in my episode with Randi Rubenstein). In this episode I share my process of recognizing my Overworking/Optimizing Parts, appreciating them, and helping to do things (like record this episode for you!) from a more embodied and grounded place. In the middle of the episode, I lead you through an IFS based meditation to get to know a Protector Part of yours, Overworking Part or otherwise. Then I cover 3 of the main lessons I've learned from experiencing IFS. Without further ado, let's dive in! But First, Words of Wisdom “Compassion as a spontaneous aspect of Self blew my mind, because I'd always assumed and learned that compassion was something you had to develop. There's this idea—especially in some spiritual circles—that you have to build up the muscle of compassion over time, because it's not inherent. Again, that's the negative view on human nature at play. To be clear, what I mean by compassion is the ability to be in Self with somebody when they're really hurting and feel for them, but not be overwhelmed by their pain. You can only do that if you've done it within yourself. That is, if you can be with your own exiles without blending and being overwhelmed by them and instead show them compassion and help them, then you can do the same for someone in pain who's sitting across from you.”― Richard C. Schwartz, No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model The Top 3 Lessons I Have Learned Through Experiencing IFS Cognitive Self-Compassion is Very Different Than Heart Self Compassion. It's totally different. And I was definitely always practicing the cognitive type. This really came to light for me when I talked with Dr. Allyn Richards in episode 108 (you can listen here). We both experienced compassion for ourselves by practicing IFS in a way that was totally different than anything we've tried to do in the past. You Have to Life it to Give It. Hearing this always felt annoying to me. But also so true. I always heard that you shouldn't teach meditation if you don't have a meditation practice. Well, I occasionally taught it, but I definitely didn't have a practice. Talking About Parts is Very Different than Talking to and Building a Relationship with Parts. One of my trainers in my Level 1 mentioned that she often sees therapists saying they are doing IFS, when really they are talking about parts with clients, which can be helpful. Many of us, therapists especially, have developing amazing conceptualization and analyzing parts that helped us a TON. And also, they are still parts. When you truly build a relationship with and honor these parts, new levels of healing and embodiment open up, likely that you didn't believe were truly possible. Wanting more support beyond these podcasts? I am currently accepting new therapy clients if you live in one of these 40 states in the US My rate for an intake session is $220 and for a 45 minute follow up is $195 If interested in learning more, including my availability and details about my practice, email me at info@drshawnhondorp.com or call 616-227-0001 Or if you are a therapist of helping professional looking to connect in community and learn more about or experience the IFS model, get on my email list here and/or email me at info@drshawnhondorp.com to introduce yourself! We may be starting another IFS based community group soon. “I know I shouldn't focus on weight loss, but…” (Polarized Parts Alert!)
In this episode of Happy Hour with Bundle Birth Nurses, Justine and Sarah Lavonne get deep into trauma work and trauma-informed care. Sarah shares a personal experience of a traumatic event that happened to her in Ecuador and how she has been working through it with therapy, specifically eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR). She explains how EMDR helped her reprocess the traumatic memory and find a sense of empowerment and healing. They talk about the prevalence of trauma among nurses and the impact it can have on their lives and work. They also discuss the concept of adverse childhood events (ACEs) and how they can contribute to chronic illnesses and trauma in adulthood. The episode emphasizes the importance of addressing and healing from trauma to live a more fulfilling and resilient life. Thanks for listening and subscribing! Note: this episode describes physical violence.Helpful Links! - Healing Trauma in the Birth Professional On-Demand Class (2 CEs)- Preventing Birth Trauma Level 1 On-Demand Class (2.75 CEs)- Preventing Birth Trauma Level 2 On-Demand Class (2.5 CEs)- Grounding Techniques On-Demand Class (1.5 CEs)- No Bad Parts book by Richard C. Schwartz, PHD- What is ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences)
#19 – Lilli Zinaman – “You Are The One Who Decides How You Feel About Anything.” GUEST Lilli Zinaman TOPICS Writing A Book; Texts to Self; Chocolate Croissants; The Tenderloin District; The Draw of Living in Austin; The Power of Networking; Conception vs Experience; The Three M's; Finding Professional Alignment with Personal Purpose; Cultivating Opportunities Through Conversation; Authenticity vs Faking It on Social Media; Becoming a Life Coach; Why High Engagement Matters More Than A High Follower Count; The Framework of Internal Family Systems; Managing vs Fire Fighting; and so much more. ABOUT LILLY As a coach, Lilli helps her clients declutter the monkey mind and mental patterns that come with high-performance and high-stake positions so they can live a life enriched with deep purpose and fulfillment. Her strategic style of coaching helps clients establish an unshakeable relationship with themselves, their work, and their lives. By focusing on the lenses through which they make decisions, the effects of this approach quickly ripple into every area of their lives. She is deeply passionate about helping others find clarity and shed the layers preventing them from living a life that makes them truly proud. FOLLOW LILLY Website: https://www.lillizin.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lilli.zin/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lillizinaman/ FOLLOW SPENCER COURSEN Spencer's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/s.coursen/ Spencer's Website: www.SpencerCoursen.com Spencer's Book: TheSafetyTrap.com Spencer's Brand: Ronin6.com Spencer's Company: CoursenSecurityGroup.com SHOW NOTES The Second Mountain, by David Brooks: https://a.co/d/4BDEChu No Bad Parts, by Richard C. Schwartz: https://a.co/d/i6WxEgQ How To Know A Person, by David Brooks: https://a.co/d/7GPBOe8 Clifton Strengths: https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/252137/home.aspx Attached, by Amir Levine, Rachel Heller, et al.: https://a.co/d/a6Pd1UM Göbekli Tepe (ruins in Turkey): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G%C3%B6bekli_Tepe#:~:text=Around%20the%20beginning%20of%20the,the%20region's%20older%2C%20foraging%20communities RECORDING STUDIO Podcast Recorded Studio: Record ATX https://www.recordatx.com/ THEME MUSIC "Underground Moments" by Cushy https://www.epidemicsound.com/artists/cushy/ PODCAST AND VIDEO PRODUCTION Ronin6 Media GUEST SUBMISSIONS sgc@CoursenEnterprises.com
In this episode Lindsay and I discuss the hole left behind by Christianity. Did we fill it? With what? Did it work?These questions and more are discussed.How about you? If you've left institutional Christianity, how did you respond to its absence?Also, there is always help if you need it: https://988lifeline.org/Digging Deeper Our friend Cliff's website is https://www.cliffravenscraft.com. The episode I mentioned was episode 156 and the gentleman's name was Tony.
296. Abby & Amanda's IFS Therapy Sessions with Richard Schwartz: Why We Do What We Don't Want to Do In Part 2 of our Internal Family Systems (IFS) discussion with IFS founder Richard C. Schwartz, we dive into how to recognize and hear from your own parts, how to know when you are being led by your parts instead of your true self, and Abby and Amanda each have a transformative on-air IFS therapy sessions! Discover: -The KEY to uncovering your true self; -How to apply IFS to parenting; -Abby's revelation during her IFS session about how to finally find self-love; -The parts behind Amanda's journey to satisfaction; and -How to have compassion AND Gratitude for your inner critic; For Part 1 of this conversation, check out: _____________________________ (---insert final title here AND HYPERLINK TO PRIOR EPISODE HERE) For our earlier episodes that deal with IFS, check out: Episode 170. The Most Radical Way to Heal: Internal Family Systems with Dr. Becky Kennedy; and Episode 252. Martha Beck Helps Amanda Let Go Richard C. Schwartz, PhD, is the creator of Internal Family Systems, a highly effective, evidence-based therapeutic model that depathologizes the multi-part personality. His IFS Institute offers training for professionals and the general public. He is currently on the faculty of Harvard Medical School and has published five books, including No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model. Social Media: Instagram: @internalfamilysystems To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
A recording of excerpts from a SAND Community Gathering hosted by Zaya and Maurizio Benazzo. Trauma has a way of separating us from parts of ourselves. Painful experiences cause protective parts to take over, isolating our inner wounds in an effort to help us survive. Yet, avoiding our emotional injuries rarely leads to true healing. In this conversation, Internal Family System (IFS) founder Richard Schwartz outlined how to transform our relationship with the wounded parts holding our unresolved injuries. Richard C. Schwartz, PhD, is the creator of Internal Family Systems, a highly effective, evidence-based therapeutic model that de-pathologizes the multi-part personality. His IFS Institute offers training for professionals and the general public. He is currently on the faculty of Harvard Medical School, and has published five books, including No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model. Dick lives with his wife Jeanne near Chicago, close to his three daughters and his growing number of grandchildren. Topics: 00:00 – Introduction 02:00 – Intro to Internal Family System (IFS) 16:48 – IFS work with Maurizio 29:16 – Ancestor and Legacy Work 38:12 – Altered States of Consciousness in IFS Work 44:20 – Exiled Parts That Become Cultural Patterns Support the mission of SAND the production of this podcast by becoming a SAND Member.
295. Inside an Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy Session with Glennon & Richard C. Schwartz You don't want to miss this riveting deep dive into Internal Family Systems (IFS) – the revolutionary therapy model that Glennon has been using in her recovery – with IFS founder Dr. Richard C. Schwartz. Dr. Schwartz even does an on-air IFS session with Glennon! Discover: -Finally, the answer to the question “Why do I do what I don't want to do?” -How our parts get exiled or locked away and the path to free them; -Why your self-sabotaging parts often believe you are a very little kid and how to update them; and -The must-hear healing revelation from Glennon's live therapy session with Dr. Schwartz. CW: Self-harm, eating disorders For our prior episodes that deal with IFS, check out: Episode 170. The Most Radical Way to Heal: Internal Family Systems with Dr. Becky Kennedy; and Episode 252. Martha Beck Helps Amanda Let Go Richard C. Schwartz, PhD, is the creator of Internal Family Systems, a highly effective, evidence-based therapeutic model that depathologizes the multi-part personality. His IFS Institute offers training for professionals and the general public. He is currently on the faculty of Harvard Medical School, and has published five books, including No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model. Social Media: Instagram: @internalfamilysystems To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Here we explore what the Internal Family Systems [IFS] model encompasses and how healing our own inner world can create ripples of compassion that extend from ourselves to our communities. Schwartz encourages people to listen to these parts with spaciousness and personal curiosity so as to ultimately live a more balanced life. Richard C. Schwartz, Ph.D. is the creator of the therapeutic model known as Internal Family Systems [IFS] and founder of the IFS Institute which offers training for professionals and the general public. Formerly an associate professor in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Illinois at Chicago and later at Northwestern University, he is currently on the faculty of Harvard Medical School. He is the author of many books including No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma, and Restoring Wholeness with The Internal Family Systems Model (Sounds True 2021)Interview Date: 1/26/2024 Tags: Richard C. Schwartz, Hakomi, inner critic, attachment theory, shame, Personal Transformation, Psychology
Richard C. Schwartz, Ph.D. is the creator of the therapeutic model known as Internal Family Systems [IFS] and founder of the IFS Institute which offers training for professionals and the general public. Formerly an associate professor in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Illinois at Chicago and later at Northwestern University, he is currently on the faculty of Harvard Medical School. He is the author of many books including No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma, and Restoring Wholeness with The Internal Family Systems Model (Sounds True 2021)Interview Date: 1/26/2024 Tags: Richard C. Schwartz, Internal Family Systems, IFS, alternative therapy sessions, family therapy, multiple personality disorder, legacy burdens, inner protector, psychotherapy, Personal Transformation, Psychology
In this episode we talk about whether healing from trauma is like healing from a physical wound: do our bodies innately know how to do it? How do we tap into that knowledge? And what is the role of others, such as a therapist, in the healing process? Sarah shares a quote this week from the book Internal Family Systems Therapy, 2nd edition, by Richard C. Schwartz and Martha Sweezy. On the Resilient Birth podcast, Justine and Sarah explore the impact of trauma in the perinatal period. Through an inspirational quote that drives the weekly content, Justine and Sarah explore various trauma areas with vulnerability and compassion that support birthing people and birth professionals. Each week, listeners leave with takeaways to utilize in their lives and/or clients. Justine and Sarah hold the stories they share with honor and respect with the hope to impart knowledge, increase understanding, and bear witness to this challenging topic. Sarah is a licensed mental health counselor, educator, and mom of three. She walks with a story of trauma from before and as a result of her perinatal experience. Justine supports survivors of trauma through perinatal coaching and childbirth education. As well as being a mother of three, she holds a Ph.D. on representations of consent and sexual violence.
Emi discusses growing up in a dysfunctional Christian Science home, finding a very non-CS career path, and recovering from narcissistic abuse Here are some book recommendations mentioned in this episode: No Bad Parts by Richard C. Schwartz https://www.audible.com/pd/B09GKYDGZQ?source_code=ASSOR150021921000V Healing Trauma by Peter A. Levine on Audible. https://www.audible.com/pd/B002V5BMPE?source_code=ASSOR150021921000V Somatic Internal Family Systems Therapy by Susan McConnell https://www.audible.com/pd/1623176832?source_code=ASSOR150021921000V Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD https://www.audible.com/pd/B01F2M2GDO?source_code=ASSOR150021921000V Emi would also like to extend a welcome to anyone who wants to reach out either to her Facebook profile, Emi Lindlee, or her email, Em.hulen@gmail.com
In this episode Kate and Deb discuss the integrative therapeutic approach called Internal Family Systems therapy and how to use it with mothering. The Internal Family Systems Model is an approach to individual psychotherapy developed by Richard C. Schwartz in the 1980s. It combines systems thinking with the view that the mind is made up of relatively discrete sub-personalities, each with its own unique viewpoint and qualities. By learning how different parts function as a system and how the overall system reacts to other systems and other people, people in therapy can often become better able to identify the roots of conflict, manage any complications arising, and achieve greater well-being. The IFS model has 5 basic assumptions: The human mind is subdivided into an unknown number of parts. Each person has a Self, and the Self should be the chief agent in coordinating the inner family. Parts engaging in non-extreme behavior are beneficial to the individual. There is no such thing as a “bad part.” Therapy aims to help parts discover their non-extreme roles. Personal growth and development leads to the development of the internal family. Interactions between parts become more complex, allowing for systems theory to be applied to the internal system. Reorganization of the internal system may lead to rapid changes in the roles of parts. Adjustments made to the internal system will result in changes to the external system and vice versa. Therefore, both the internal and external systems need to be adequately assessed. Disclosure, Deb has been studying IFS for about 4 years and attempted to give a very simple description of the practice so listeners can start to understand the concept. This practice has many terms that she did not go into such as; “managers, firefighters, blending, unburdening” and so on. This was intentional because Kate and Deb did not want to overwhelm the listener. There are many great resources to deepen your understanding of this model, but some great book recommendations include “The Sum of All Parts” and “No Bad Parts” both by Richard Schwartz. Thanks for listening and enjoy the show. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/motherhood-uncut/message
Uri Talmor (Gen X) joins Kiki (GenZ) and Yo (Boomer) to talk about Internal Family Systems (IFS). Uri has been a psychotherapist since 2004 and has been using Internal Family Systems or IFS since 2003 in his practice. The goal of IFS therapy is to help people identify and accept the different parts of themselves and heal the parts that are wounded. Kiki had recommended the book, No Bad Parts, by Richard Schwartz, PhD, for the podcast and Uri has graciously shared his expertise. This recording was so juicy we had to break it into 2 parts so be sure to listen to both to get all the aspects of this model. One of our goals as a podcast is to help us all know ourselves better so we understand our leadership style and how we can hold ourselves back. This discussion is to help you see some of the aspects of who you are, where those tendencies might come from, and how to embrace and have compassion for ourselves, so we can have it for others. 3 Takeaways: 1. IFS is a method that brings us a way to see ourselves as a complete Self with no bad parts. 2. We can embrace our exiles, fire fighter, and manager – acknowledge and validate them. 3. The Self is characterized by what IFS calls the 8C's: compassion, curiosity, clarity, creativity, calm, confidence, courage, and connectedness. As opposed to many other models, IFS holds that everyone has access to these qualities at their core. Mentioned in the Episode: No Bad Parts – Book by Richard C Schwartz, PhD Related Episode: Part 1 Ep. 115 Inside Out: Unveiling the Layers of Internal Family Systems (IFS) with Uri Talmor Part 2 Ep. 116 Inside Out: Unveiling the Layers of Internal Family Systems (IFS) with Uri Talmor More About Uri: Uri graduated from Naropa University's Transpersonal Counseling program and has been teaching there since 2013. A well-loved faculty member, teaching is the highlight of his professional career. His mission and passion are to help make the world a better place for all children. Everything he teaches is connected to this goal, and he is overjoyed for any opportunity to share helpful information that supports child wellness, especially models like IFS that address children's rights on the intra-psychic plane. He co-founded The Healed Healer Institute with his life partner and brilliant Enneagram career coach, Cherie Wilcox. The institute provides training opportunities for healing professionals to master the healing arts through their own healing and personal growth. When he's not seeing clients, supervising therapists, or teaching, he cherishes his time with his two wonderful daughters and amazing life partner. How to reach Uri: utalmor@gmail.com https://consciousheartintegration.com/ https://healedhealer.com https://www.facebook.com/CHIntegration https://twitter.com/CHIntegration How to reach Yo Canny: Our website: www.girltaketheleadpod.com You can send a message or voicemail there. We'd love to hear from you! email: yo@yocanny.com (Yo) FB group: Girl, Take the Lead https://www.facebook.com/groups/272025931481748/?ref=share IG: yocanny (Yo) YouTube LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/yocanny/
On this episode of The 10 Ninety Podcast Mason and Ryan talk about their experience with IFS therapy. IFS therapy was introduced to them by Matt Quackenbush. Matt recommended the book "No Bad Parts" as an introduction to IFS therapy. IFS, founded in the early 1980's by Dr. Richard C. Schwartz, serves as both a psychotherapy modality & a mental paradigm. In clinical settings, practitioners and patients have seen positive outcomes using IFS to treat trauma, depression, and anxiety.
It's time to talk about purity culture! Join Andrew and Laura as they begin a mini-series on all things purity culture. In today's episode we discuss the history of purity culture, our own experiences in it, the long term impacts it's had on their clients and some of the ways they work with clients when it comes to recovering from purity culture. This is the first episode in a 6-episode series where we will be discussing the impact of purity culture, some of the specific implications for individuals socialized male and female (since in purity culture there is a very rigid, binary gender concept) as well as talk to people about their lived experiences of healing from purity culture. And, you won't want to miss today's vocabulary lesson where we ask…what is an Inner Child? Do we actually have a tiny child living within us? Resources mentioned in the podcast episode: Homecoming by John Bradshaw No Bad Parts by Richard C. Schwartz www.scarleteen.com Our Whole Lives (comprehensive sex education) Polysecure by Jessica Fern The Care and Keeping of You 1 & 2 by American Girl Library This podcast is brought to you by the Center for Trauma Resolution and Recovery: an online trauma coaching company whose practitioners are trauma informed and trauma trained to work with individuals, couples and families who have experienced high control religion, cults, and religious trauma. For more information on the support that CTRR provides, for resources–including courses, workshops, and more–head to traumaresolutionandrecovery.com or follow us on Instagram: @traumaresolutionandrecovery The views and opinions expressed by Sunday School Dropouts are those of the hosts and not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the Center for Trauma Resolution and Recovery. Any of the content provided by our guests, sponsors, authors, or bloggers are their own ideas and opinions. The Sunday School Dropouts podcast is not anti-religion but it is anti -harm, -power and control, -oppression and, -abuse and will speak to the harmful practices and messaging of fundamentalist groups. Follow Andrew on Instagram and TikTok @deconstruct_everything Follow Laura on Instagram and TikTok @drlauraeanderson or on her website: www.drlauraeanderson.com Hosts: Laura Anderson and Andrew Kerbs Music by Benjamin Faye Music @heytherebenji Editing and Production by Kevin Crowe and can be found at www.kevincrowe.co
On this week's episode of Enneagram IRL, we meet with Amanda Steed. Amanda is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) serving Texas, Colorado, and Washington through her private practice - Unfolding Collective - Therapy & Consulting. With a mission to facilitate healing and wholeness, Amanda believes in the power of establishing trusting relationships as the cornerstone of therapy.Her therapeutic approach is rooted in trauma-informed care and attachment-focused techniques. Amanda has completed Level One IFS training, is EMDR-certified and an EMDR consultant in training. She trusts these evidence-based modalities to guide her clients through core wound healing, creating new pathways in the brain, and empowering them to regain a fulfilling life. She specializes in working with spiritual trauma, anxiety disorders, ADHD, and codependency.While Amanda takes her work very seriously, she does not take herself seriously and enjoys being silly as often as possible. Sign up for IFS Demo Group for TherapistsSign up for EMDR+IFS Consultation Groups
In this episode, Matt Musgrave shares his journey from the army to becoming a counselor and starting his own online counseling practice. He discusses the challenges he faced in the hyper-masculine environment of the army and how it led him to question his path. Matt explains how his personal experiences and work with men who use violence in relationships inspired him to focus on supporting men's mental health and growth. He also dives into the importance of self-awareness, self-compassion, and self-leadership in creating positive change in one's life.Key Takeaways:Matt's personal journey from the army to counseling and starting his own practice.The challenges men face in conforming to societal expectations of masculinity.The importance of self-awareness in understanding and navigating conflicting thoughts and emotions.The role of self-compassion in creating positive change and overcoming shame.The concept of self-leadership and how it can empower men to make authentic choices.Quotes:"You cannot shame yourself into effective, healthy behavior change." - Matt Musgrave"Change is scary, but what's harder? Living the rest of your life like this or going through the period of change?" - Matt Musgrave-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Resources:MYF'S LINKS:Website: https://www.myfgalloway.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/myfgalloway/MATT'S LINKS:Website: https://matthewmusgrave.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matthewmusgrave_/Strong Space Counselling: https://www.strongspacecounselling.com/Book - No Bad Parts by Richard C. Schwartz: https://www.amazon.com.au/No-Bad-Parts-Restoring-Wholeness/dp/1683646681ManKind Project: https://mankindproject.org.au/The Resilience Project: https://theresilienceproject.com.au/
This is quite a unique episode. It's about an hour-long conversation that Dr. Richard Schwartz, the founder of Internal Family Systems, had with a group of mental health clinicians. He's sharing his IFS model and taking questions from the group. The group is Mondays with Moshe and you'll hear from its creator, Moshe Norman, in just a few minutes. But I wanted to tell you a few things about the episode before you get to the main content. This is a recording of a live conversation. The audio at times isn't the best. However, it's clear enough that you should be able to make out what is being said and asked. Dr Scwartz's audio is great but some of the audio from the group is a little fuzzy or just not so clear. The group is composed of mental health clinicians who are mainly Jewish so you may hear some phrases or words that you aren't familiar with however the content shared is definitely clinical and not from a religious perspective. If you're unsure of what something means or you're curious to learn more, feel free to reach out to me at lisa at lisamustard.com. And one more thing, the information provided is solely for educational purposes and should not be a substitute for any work you are doing with your doctor or therapist. Want to sign up for Mondays with Moshe? Send an email to mnormanlcsw@gmail.com and ask to be a part of the group. View the Mondays with Moshe Youtube channel here. Need continuing education contact hours? If so, then be sure to check out my Podcourses. Find other CE courses on my site here. Want to pivot your skill set and generate more income? Looking to expand your services or create new ones? Grab my list of 50+ ideas that can help you create an additional stream of revenue here: https://bit.ly/ideasformoreincome Ready to start your podcast? Connect with Chelsea Weaver Podcasting. Learn about the Psychcraft Network. Visit my Etsy shop for social media ready templates.
This podcast is focused on Empaths. It explains who Empaths are, how one becomes an empath, and what all empaths need to know. Empaths bring the gift of caring to people around them. A world without empathy and compassion is a world without nourishing connections, a desert without water. If you are an empath, you need to embrace your empathic gift, but you also need to become curious how you acquired that gift. This Podcast is meant to raise awareness about empathic aspect of personality and how one becomes an empath. It also explains how empaths absorb the emotional burdens of others, and how they can protect themselves from that by transforming their empathy to compassion. More specifically, we cover the following topics: - How to know if you are an empath?- Understanding the difference between Sympathy, Empathy, and Compassion- Noticing the difference between Empaths and Compassionate Individuals - Understanding how one becomes an Empath- And, Transforming your Empathic Gift to Compassion This podcast is produced by Aion Farvahar, who is a Life and Spirituality Mentor, and a Psychoshamanic and IFS Self-Leadership Practitioner. For more information about Aion Farvahar or Celestial Twin Life Mentorship visit:- Celestial Twin Website (https://celestialtwin.com/)- About Aion Farvahar (https://celestialtwin.com/linkinbio/)- Celestial Twin YouTube Channel (https://www.youtube.com/c/CelestialTwin/) Reference Links:- IFS Introduction: https://youtu.be/Ww9C-jXAHtw - Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an evidence-based, psychospiritual model with applications in psychology and coaching. IFS model was pioneered by Dr. Richard C. Schwartz and is sponsored by IFS Institute Website (https://ifs-institute.com/). Background Music:CC-BY by Artist: Meydän, Track: Away, Artist's Website (https://soundcloud.com/meydansound/) Disclaimer:The ideas presented here are based on personal perspectives, experience, or research, and are not meant to reflect any scientific or academic argument. No part of this podcasts may be reproduced or used without written permission from Celestial Twin Life Mentorship or Aion Farvahar (https://celestialtwin.com/). Use of brief quotations is permitted, if providing a clear attribution and link to the original post. Blessings!
In this episode of the Human Capital podcast, Jeff welcomes a special guest from Australia, Cassandra Goodman, who introduces her latest book titled "Being True." What makes Cassie stand out is her wealth of experience in the business world and her extensive time as a senior executive and an external consultant. She has made a significant impact on renowned companies like GE, Adobe, and Mastercard, but what really sets Cassie apart is her mission to help leaders embrace their authentic selves, quirks and all. She's not just a fountain of innovative ideas, but also a fantastic role model for genuine self-expression. During their conversation, Jeff and Cassie dive into the intriguing concept of "True Leadership." They chat about how this approach requires us to let go of the traditional norms of leadership we're accustomed to. They dig deep into the significance of getting back in touch with our inner essence, understanding the different aspects of ourselves, and how being true to who we are can profoundly enhance our leadership with empathy and effectiveness. Cassie calls upon the well known therapeudic modality of Internal Family Systems (IFS), founded by Dr. Richard C. Schwartz, Ph.D. and leverages this to boast healthier "internal" and "external" leadership.
In today's video, I am hosted by my husband's channel, Nightlight Astrology, to explore a book we are reading together called, "No Bad Parts" by Richard C. Schwartz. The idea of our psyche as one continuous whole Self is only one way modern psychology understands the mind, and in this video, we look at the current Sun square Uranus transit and how it brings up questions around wholeness and parts. We hope you enjoy this discussion of IFS (Internal Family Systems) and how this perspective might open us up to a different way of working with our psyche this week!RESOURCES "No Bad Parts" by Richard C. Schwartz - https://bookshop.org/p/books/no-bad-parts-healing-trauma-and-restoring-wholeness-with-the-internal-family-systems-model-richard-schwartz/16396062?ean=9781683646686*All purchases from bookshop.org supports independent bookstores and booksellers.
There are different parts of ourselves that come up to the surface…that come up, that show up when we are being attacked or when we feel like we need to protect. And, it's only because there are certain parts of ourselves that's triggered. – Dr. Neeta Bhushan Hey there, Brave Table fam! In today's episode, we're diving deep into a topic that's crucial to our relational success. We'll be exploring the concept of gaslighting - what it is, how to spot it in ourselves and those around us, and how it can affect our relationships. I'll be sharing some powerful techniques to help you navigate those tough conversations and challenging emotions that we all face from time to time. In this episode, I talk about… Breaking down empathy, recognizing when others are denying experiences & minimizing feelings. Shifting blame, creating conflict & their impact on communication. Knowing your emotional Type & reacting in tough moments It's so important to remember to acknowledge and validate the emotions of others, and equally vital to practice self-awareness and self-compassion in our own lives. Remember, our greatest teachers are the relationships we have with ourselves and others. As we navigate this journey towards recognizing and addressing gaslighting dynamics, let's find the beauty and healing in embracing our emotions. Recommended Book: No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model by Richard C. Schwartz, PhD Connect with me: Find me on Instagram @neetabhushan. Find The Brave Table on Instagram @thebravetable. Watch this reel to learn how to spot gaslighting, like, then leave a comment. Take my NEW quiz to discover your emotional type during sucky, stressful moments. If you loved this episode… Episode 119: Speaking Your Truth & How to Let Go of Resentment with Dr. Neeta Bhushan might also interest you. Apple | Spotify Episode 94: How To Have Hard Conversations & Not Get Triggered Around Family Members During the Holidays will help you speak your truth. Apple | Spotify Focus on relationships with Episode 50: Understanding Your Attachment Styles To Create Boundaries in Relationships with Silvy Khoucasian. Apple | Spotify Discussion Question: In the context of gaslighting, how can we cultivate a safe and supportive environment in our relationships where open communication and emotional validation are encouraged? Join the conversation on Instagram @thebravetable! Grab your limited edition MERCH while it's available here! Thatsuckednowwhat.com/shop We love hearing your feedback! Send a screenshot of your juicy 5-star review to support@globalgrit.co and we'll send you a FREE GIFT.
This might be my most vulnerable episode of Dear Gabby yet. I had SO much to cover with my guest, Dr. Richard (“Dick)” Schwartz, founder of Internal Family Systems therapy (and my hero!), that we kept rolling after our Big Talk episode, and ended up demoing a real, on-air session of Internal Family Systems therapy. And I'm the client! Don't miss this one! Richard C. Schwartz, PhD, is the creator of Internal Family Systems therapy, a highly effective, evidence-based therapeutic model that de-pathologizes the multi-part personality. His IFS Institute offers training for professionals and the general public. He is currently on the faculty of Harvard Medical School, and has published five books, including No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model. Dick lives with his wife, Jeanne, near Chicago, close to his three daughters and his growing number of grandchildren. Want even more support? My NEW gabby™ coaching app makes personal growth easy to access. Get weekly lessons, guided meditations and proven manifesting methods to enhance every area of your life—on your own terms, at your own pace, all in one place. I'll be your coach to help you manifest your desires and live with an unshakeable sense of inner peace. Click here to join the waitlist. https://bit.ly/3X2560Q I talk a lot about Internal Family Systems therapy in my book, Happy Days. Check it out for more on the practice, including my own experience with it and the impact it has had on my life. Get my most impactful meditation to release stress and calm anxiety. This 17-minute meditation will help you calm your mind, release tension and cultivate a sense of inner peace and stillness. Listen now to quiet your thoughts and connect with the present moment. Click here to get your free anxiety meditation. If you feel you need additional support, please consult this list of safety, recovery and mental health resources. I'm proud of you for your commitment to self-care. bit.ly/3p0AAY Disclaimer: This podcast is intended to educate, inspire, and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. If you want to take ownership of your health, try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase. Go to drinkAG1.com/GABBY. For a limited time, Pique is offering 2 bonus gifts: a beaker and a frother when you head to piquelife.com/gabby Produced by Dear Media.
7 out of every 10 adults have experienced a traumatic event, and whether you are aware of it or not, you are most likely interacting with trauma survivors both personally and professionally on a daily basis. Tune into today's episode to learn one of two tips that will help you be more informed, supportive and safe for those survivors in your life. ---------- Free Resources: · The Body Keeps the Score: Brian, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D. · No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma & Restoring Wholeness with The Internal Family Systems Model by Richard C. Schwartz, PhD · Trauma Stewardship: An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others by Laura van Dernoot Lipsky · The A-to-Z Self Care Handbook for Social Workers and Other Helping Professionals by Erlene Grise-Owens · Help for the Helper: Self-Care Strategies for Managing Burnout and Stress by Babette Rothschild · Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Amelia & Emiy Nagoski, PhD · Eastern Body-Western Mind: Psychology and the Chakra System as a Path to the Self by Anodea Judith · Running on Empty: Overcoming your Childhood Neglect by Jonice Webb, PhD · Attached: The New Science on Adult Attachment and How It Can Help you Find and Keep Love by Amir Levine, M.D. and Rachel Heller, M.A. · My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Mending of Our Bodies and Hearts by Resmaa Menakem, MSW · Lifting Heavy Things: Healing Trauma One Rep at a Time by Laura Khoudari · Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Controlling Yourself by Melody Beattie · Dissociation Made Simple: A Stigma- Free Guide to Embracing Your Dissociative Mind and Navigating Daily Life by Jamie Marich, PhD · Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved parents by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD · The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse by Wendy Maltz · The Complex PTSD Workbook: A Mind-Body Approach to Regaining Emotional Control & Becoming Whole by Arielle Schwartz, PhD & Jim Knipe, PhD ---------- Stay Connected Instagram: @jess_demarchis_coaching Website: www.jessicademarchis.com
7 out of every 10 adults have experienced a traumatic event, and whether you are aware of it or not, you are most likely interacting with trauma survivors both personally and professionally on a daily basis. Tune into today's episode to learn one of two tips that will help you be more informed, supportive and safe for those survivors in your life. ---------- Free Resources: · The Body Keeps the Score: Brian, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D. · No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma & Restoring Wholeness with The Internal Family Systems Model by Richard C. Schwartz, PhD · Trauma Stewardship: An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others by Laura van Dernoot Lipsky · The A-to-Z Self Care Handbook for Social Workers and Other Helping Professionals by Erlene Grise-Owens · Help for the Helper: Self-Care Strategies for Managing Burnout and Stress by Babette Rothschild · Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Amelia & Emiy Nagoski, PhD · Eastern Body-Western Mind: Psychology and the Chakra System as a Path to the Self by Anodea Judith · Running on Empty: Overcoming your Childhood Neglect by Jonice Webb, PhD · Attached: The New Science on Adult Attachment and How It Can Help you Find and Keep Love by Amir Levine, M.D. and Rachel Heller, M.A. · My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Mending of Our Bodies and Hearts by Resmaa Menakem, MSW · Lifting Heavy Things: Healing Trauma One Rep at a Time by Laura Khoudari · Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Controlling Yourself by Melody Beattie · Dissociation Made Simple: A Stigma- Free Guide to Embracing Your Dissociative Mind and Navigating Daily Life by Jamie Marich, PhD · Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved parents by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD · The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse by Wendy Maltz · The Complex PTSD Workbook: A Mind-Body Approach to Regaining Emotional Control & Becoming Whole by Arielle Schwartz, PhD & Jim Knipe, PhD ---------- Stay Connected Instagram: @jess_demarchis_coaching Website: www.jessicademarchis.com
If you've ever tried Brainspotting on your own and wondered if you were doing it right or wondered if it was really as simple as it sounds, this episode is for you. In it, I discuss the nuanced differences between self-brainspotting and Self-led brainspotting. I also share some updates that have been happening behind the scenes over here at Brain Unblocked. You don't want to miss: Why I went on indefinite leave of absence from my thriving private therapy practice. My new course for already-optimized AF entrepreneurs who feel stalled out by perfectionism and procrastination The small but mighty difference between self-brainspotting and being Self-led PLUS, how multiple approaches to wellness can combine when there is truly no territory on healing. Links and resources: Get a Daily Brain Block Buster delivered right to your inbox every M-F to help you get past the brain blocks keeping you stuck on groundhog day so you can take action and move the needle in your business. Sign up at https://carolynrobistow.net/daily Download your free body scan meditation so you can take the first step toward subcortical healing https://carolynrobistow.net/bodyscan Mistaken Moderation e-Book - Download for free now Follow me on Instagram: @carolynrobistow Find a Brainspotting practitioner near you: https://brainspotting.com/directory/ UK-specific directory: https://www.bspuk.co.uk/therapists/ Free Biolateral Music https://youtu.be/Eu_kSaFzSR0 Brainspotting by Dr. David Grand https://amzn.to/3AvtiNK The Curious Voyage by Cynthia Schwartzberg https://a.co/d/j5x9sCk Internal Family Systems Therapy, Second Edition by Richard C. Schwartz and Martha Sweezy https://a.co/d/ctkPB3f
“And now 40 years later, thousands of parts and thousands of people using this all over the world, we can safely say that Self is in everybody; it can't be damaged, it knows how to heal, and it is just beneath the surface of these parts…and psychedelics seem to have a way to access that pretty quickly.” Welcome to Integrating Psychedelics, featuring insights gleaned from psychedelic experiences and conversations around how to integrate this wisdom into our daily lives. I'm your host, Jenny Weinar, and in today's episode I'm speaking with Dick Schwartz. Richard C. Schwartz, PhD, is the creator of Internal Family Systems, a highly effective, evidence-based therapeutic model that de-pathologizes the multi-part personality. His IFS Institute offers training for professionals and the general public. He is currently on the faculty of Harvard Medical School, and has published five books, including No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model. Dick lives with his wife Jeanne near Chicago, close to his three daughters and his growing number of grandchildren. In this conversation we discuss: How listening to his patients led Dick to develop the therapeutic model of Internal Family Systems How IFS is fundamentally different than most other paradigms for understanding the psyche The role of inner child parts in the IFS framework The goals of IFS and how it differs from mindfulness How parts work fits naturally with psychedelics The problem with the concept of ego dissolution The relationship of IFS to set, setting and psychedelic facilitators My personal experience incorporating IFS with ketamine Why parts work is helpful for people who seemingly don't respond to the medicine How the inner work of IFS extends to social justice and the world at large Why it's vital to follow up with parts even after healing has occurred Dick's vision for the future of IFS ...and more! You can learn more about IFS and purchase books by Dick Schwartz on the IFS Institute website. You can connect with me on Instagram, through my website and very occasional newsletter. In addition to providing Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy in Philadelphia, I offer Psychedelic Integration Therapy to residents of Pennsylvania, Colorado and New Jersey. You can also show this podcast some love by subscribing, leaving a positive review and sharing! This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for individual medical or mental health advice. Please do your research about the legality and safety of any substance you are considering using and make the most informed choice possible for your unique situation and self.
We are very excited to welcome Dr. Richard C. Schwartz, founder of Internal Family Systems and the IFS Institute to the Wednesday Wake-Up podcast! Dr. Schwartz is an accomplished author, with his latest book Introduction to Internal Family Systems (second edition) coming out today, March 7th. Gregory and Dr. Schwartz discuss IFS, meditation, activism, and his latest books. You can read more about Dr. Schwartz, his books, and IFS Institute trainings and offerings HERE. A big thanks to publisher Sounds True! ABOUT HOST GREGORY MALOOF Gregory Maloof is a western Dharma teacher from the Ruth Denison lineage. The Dharma is freely given, but if you would like to support this podcast and pay it forward, you can donate and support it HERE Follow Gregory on Instagram @gregorymaloofdharma To learn about retreats, news, and classes first, CLICK HERE to keep in touch and get on the Wednesday Wake-Up mailing list. Intro and Outro Music by Lenny Dinardo, Wave Em' In.
Welcome to this episode of the podcast, where we will be exploring the world of Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy and its powerful 6 F's process for unburdening and finding relief. In this episode, you will learn: What Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy is and how it can help you understand and work with different parts of yourself The 6 F's process for exploring and unburdening these parts: Find, Focus, Flesh Out, Feel Towards, Friend, and Fear A guided meditation that will take you through the 6 F's process to help you find peace and relief from the burdens of your internal parts. IFS therapy recognizes that each person is an ecosystem, with a core self at the center and a multitude of parts that exist around it. Through this process, you will be able to identify and communicate with these parts, understand their role and purpose, and build a relationship with them from a place of self-compassion and validation. Join us as we take a journey of self-discovery, and discover a new way of finding peace and relief with your internal parts. This podcast is inspired by the work of Dr. Richard C. Schwartz, the Developer of the Internal Family Systems method, and brought to you by Mentally Fit. Don't forget to share this episode with a friend who could benefit from this guided meditation.
A part of me really wants to eat the chocolate that I recently bought a whole stash of because it's on sale and it's my fav. I thought I'd be thrifty and stock up for seasonal baking. I love using chopped dark chocolate bars in my favorite chocolate chip cookie recipe. But another part of me says, "once on the lips, twice on the hips." And another part of me says, "just finish it all right now you don't need to save any for cookies. That way you can get back on track tomorrow!" It's common to think in parts like this. Part of you wants to do this, while part of you says you should/need to do that. What you may not realize is this way of parts-thinking is called the Internal Family Systems Model (IFS) and was created by Richard C. Schwartz in the 1980s. As an evidence-based model, IFS helps to explain why different parts of you tell you different stories about a situation - like eating chocolate. My guest today, beautifully explains this model using her own personal experience of healing from years of disordered eating. Agnis J Pena-Toro, MA is a trained psychotherapist and Body and Food Liberation coach and consultant. Based on her own personal experience healing from decades of diet culture harm and her professional clinical experience working with Internal Family Systems, Agnis helps women discover how to live their lives without restricting food and forcing their bodies to look a certain way. Here's what you'll hear in our conversation: How diet culture starts to indoctrinate many women at the age of puberty. Agnis shares her personal journey toward body and food liberation by divorcing from diet culture. And she's spent years counseling people using the IFS model. Hear how Agnis combines her personal and professional experience to help other women on the road to healing from chronic dieting. Agnis explains the importance of becoming aware of the body and food parts in your mind (a part that wants to be skinny so you can be accepted/loved; a part of you that hates dieting but still believes that's the only way to be healthy; a part of you that was traumatized as a kid by your body being criticized by parents and culture, etc.) As we wrap up, Agnis shares why it's important to work psychologically with these parts in your mind so that the parts don't sabotage your practice of reclaiming intuitive eating skills and positive body image. Get show notes and resources at www.alpinenutrition.org/blog Are your parts getting in the way of an unhealthy relationship with food? Take the quiz to find out! Like what you hear? Subscribe to the show so you don't miss an episode. Don't forget to rate, review, and share! This kindness helps other women in midlife find the show too!
“What's healing is the self to part relationship. And that relationship gets built based on the part being able to tell its story without repercussions.” In this episode of the Mindspace podcast, Dr. Joe speaks with Dr. Robert Grant. Dr. Grant is an Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist, a ketamine-assisted psychotherapist, a pulmonary physician, a professor of medicine at UCSF, a former researcher in HIV prevention and treatment, and a cofounder of the Healing Realms Center (healingrealmscenter.com). The Healing Realms Center is a clinic specializing in ketamine-assisted psychotherapy. Dr. Grant is especially well known for his work as an IFS therapist specializing in ketamine treatments. IFS was developed by Dr. Richard C. Schwartz. It is a therapy based on the notion that the human mind is made up of inner parts. And healing involves the cultivation of harmony among these parts. It is commonly used in the treatment of post-traumatic stress. In this interview Dr. Joe and Dr. Grant explored: - How his research into preventing HIV led him to studying IFS - What “parts” mean in the IFS model - The three most common types of parts: Managers, Exiles, and Firefighters - What “self” mean in the context of IFS - How parts become burdened by trauma - The role of “self” in healing - The 6 F's: Find, Focus, Flesh it out, Feel, beFriend, and Fear - What ‘unblending' is - Why IFS fits so well with psychedelics
Richard C. Schwartz speaks to Banyen Books & Sound about his new book, No Bad Parts. Richard C. Schwartz, PhD, is the creator of Internal Family Systems, a highly effective, evidence-based therapeutic model that de-pathologizes the multi-part personality. His IFS Institute offers training for professionals and the general public. Formerly an associate professor in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Illinois at Chicago and later at Northwestern University, he is currently on the faculty of Harvard Medical School. He has published five books and is a sought-after presenter. For more, visit ifs-institute.com.
Today's episode is with George Maple. George is a multidisciplinary artist - she sings, write, directs, produces films. A creator to the core. George and I speak about deep connection and cultivating community no matter where you are in the world. Mentioned in the episode: Connection to self: George's relationship with George Maple and her birth name, Jessica Higgs Shadow work Parts work / Internal Family Systems by Richard C. Schwartz: https://ifs-institute.com Importance of connection and community Going beyond the superficial relationships to deeper connection Intimacy in friendships Feeling polarity internally and externally Embracing the fun of life Find George Maple: @georgemapleofficial Listen to George Maple on Spotify Follow us on @godeep_podcast. Share the episode if you have enjoyed it. Rate the go deep podcast on apple podcasts - it helps! Music by @musicbybyrne aka @besopalma
In this episode, which originally aired in radio format on December 9th, 2021, I explore some ideas from the book Internal Family Systems Therapy, by Richard C. Schwartz. According to IFS, we all have at least 5-15 different "parts" (subpersonalities) within us. Some are Managers, some are Firefighters, and some are the reason that Managers and Firefighters exist in the first place: Exiles. The goal of IFS therapy is to help these parts trust the Self. BYOBF! (Be Your Own Best Friend!) Distinguish your true voice from the many false (misguided, protective, frightened, hurt) voices you've internalized. I will also explore, through an IFS lens, some of my experience of having an eating disorder many years ago as an adolescent.
On this episode of Holding Ground psychotherapist Laura Richer and Marriage and Family Therapy Intern Denise Johnson discuss Internal Family Systems therapy aka IFS. IFS is a therapy that was developed by Richard C. Schwartz. Denise and Laura talk about how this effective therapy can help clients better understand their own inner conflict and create positive change in their lives by understanding and addressing issues related to trauma, addiction, and self-sabotaging behaviors.
Drawing on the work of psychologist, Dr. Richard C. Schwartz, I explain how you can facilitate inner dialogue with yourself so as to improve your mental health, resilience, and psychological flexibility. If you feel stuck in your career, this practice offers a way out of rigid thinking and opens up a wider range of possibilities. For help facilitating this practice more deeply, work with me! You can schedule a consult here: https://danielledelamare.com/.
In this episode of Vital Psychedelic Conversations, Kyle and David interview the author of “No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model" and IFS creator: Dr. Richard C. Schwartz. www.psychedelicstoday.com
I recently started reading a new book and wanted to share if with you here. In his book, "No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model," Richard C. Schwartz, goes into detail about Internal Family Systems (IFS) and how they apply to our present day. We all have different parts of us that have been developed over our lifetime. They get buried in the subconscious and can sometimes make us act or react in ways we don't understand. IFS helps to open us up to learn more about these parts to discover their true motive, emotions, beliefs, and what they might be able to do to be more constructive in our lives. When we first become aware of these parts, we can be mindful of them to help them clear out, so that we can develop a relationship with our true Self. Join me for this episode as I share more about this concept and this book. Read No Bad Parts Follow me on IG: @Christy.Chadwick.Healing Join my FB group: Explore Essential Oils with Christy Receive your Every Day Healthy Habits Kit --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
In this interview, Dick discusses how his work with families lead to him learning from clients about their parts. He discusses how his clients talked about their parts, and at first he and his client tried to argue against that part and try to get rid of it or for it to not be doing what it was doing. When this wasn't working, he and his clients began to have compassion for those parts, and learn about what they needed, and how they were trying to protect the client. He explained he conceptualizes parts as natural and universal, rather than something only born out of trauma and being indicative of pathology. He explained how he conceptualizes a Self, which is the part that is the leader, essential, wise part, and how other parts exist from the beginning of our lives, but sometimes, just like in families, they take on roles to protect the system. He talked about how these parts reminded him of children in the families who he worked with that were trying to help the family system by taking on roles. Using this conceptualization, he worked with the parts as children in the family who were trying to stabilize the system, and instead helping the Self to connect with these parts, and relieve them of their need to try to protect. He explained that the goal of IFS is not to integrate, as that would suggest that the goal is to not have the parts, but more for the parts to feel safe, and coexist in a healthy system, just like a healthy family. During the interview, Dick demonstrates the technique of unblending with Keith, the interviewer, and uses this demonstration to further explain the aspects of IFS including the Protectors, the FireFighters, and the Exiled Parts. He discusses working with complex trauma with IFS, using IFS with couples and families, and his next chapter in his career, making IFS more accessible to the public through books or apps or other ways that people in the public can use it, not just only in therapy. Richard C. Schwartz, Ph.D., is the founder of The IFS Institute, originally named The Center for Self Leadership. He began his career as a systemic family therapist and an academic. Grounded in systems thinking, Dr. Schwartz developed Internal Family Systems (IFS) in response to clients' descriptions of various parts within themselves. He focused on the relationships among these parts and noticed that there were systemic patterns to the way they were organized across clients. He also found that when the clients' parts felt safe and were allowed to relax, the clients would experience spontaneously the qualities of confidence, openness, and compassion that Dr. Schwartz came to call the Self. He found that when in that state of Self, clients would know how to heal their parts. A featured speaker for national professional organizations, Dr. Schwartz has published many books and over fifty articles about IFS.
Molly Kellogg, CEDRD-S, LCSW helps us understand how she uses Internal Family Systems (IFS) as her primary treatment model. She is the author of Counseling Tips for Nutrition Therapists: Practice Workbook series and a nationally recognized trainer on health behavior change based in Philadelphia, PA. She is a member of the Motivational Interviewing Network of Trainers and served on the American Dietetic Association Evidence Analysis Library Nutrition Counseling Workgroup. Her Motivational Interviewing training materials and home study courses have been used by nutrition professors and dietetic internship programs. In her private psychotherapy practice, her primary treatment model is Internal Family Systems (IFS). She partners with Diana Dugan Richards, RDN, LDN. to provide an introduction to IFS for dietitians. Introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS) for Nutrition Professionals Live Virtual workshop with a pre-workshop course Workshop Presenters: Diana Dugan Richards, RDN, LDN Molly Kellogg, LCSW, CEDRD 2021 dates: October 29, 9 – 4:30, Eastern Time We plan on adding a couple of dates in 2022. Email to be added to our interest list. $449 This fee includes a 3-hour recorded pre-workshop course (a $198 value) Register here CEUs: 6 for RDs Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an evidence-based therapeutic technique, conceptual framework, and practice used by a wide range of professionals. It is particularly effective in treating trauma. Integrating the IFS model within counseling guides the client to 1) identify the self-protective function of polarized cognitions expressed through eating and resultant eating disorder behaviors; 2) identify and address the cognitive, emotional, and physical triggers driving this internal dialogue particularly the anticipation of the loss of control, negative self-evaluations, and self-blaming, self-shaming thoughts; 3) identify the ambivalence behind nutritious vs. inappropriate eating patterns, and 4) identify fears and other feelings that arise in response to shifting to more nourishing choices. There is more information about IFS at https://ifs-institute.com/ This interactive workshop is designed to give dietitians a comprehensive introduction to the IFS model. The concepts and processes of IFS will be examined from a dietitian's perspective using a mix of presentation, small and large group discussion, demonstration, short videos, and practice. Educational Objectives: Discover the basic concepts of the Internal Family Systems (IFS) Model. Examine how the IFS model approaches the treatment of eating disorders and disordered eating. Integrate the IFS model concepts with clients with disordered eating. Differentiate the role of the Dietitian in an IFS treatment team. Evaluate the issues that arise for dietitians who adopt the IFS model. Suggested pre-workshop reading: Introduction to the Internal Family Systems Model, by Richard C. Schwartz. https://ifs-institute.com/store We highly recommend reading this prior to the workshop if you have had little or no exposure to IFS. Beth Harrell Follow Beth on Instagram
Richard C. Schwartz, is the founder of a style of psychotherapy called Internal Family Systems. IFS is based on the idea that the mind is made up of discrete subpersonalities and that healing occurs when they are brought into harmony. Dick is bullish about psychedelics as a way of accessing and understanding these different subpersonalities or “parts” and believes that IFS can be a helpful topography for anyone doing psychedelic-assisted therapy. On the show we discuss the IFS system and why it's particularly good for working with trauma. Dick shares his personal experiences with psychedelic medicines and Eamon shares his own spontaneous IFS work during his iboga journey. We talk about how IFS can inform psychedelic-assisted therapy and why a knowledge of parts is important for the therapist. We talk about indigenous wisdom traditions and the spirit guides of the DMT world. As always, we conclude with Dick's specific advice to the aspiring psychedelic therapist. It is an honor to speak to such an affable and studied luminary in the field of Psychology and we are excited to bring you other perspectives beyond the psychedelic community moving forward. One important note: This podcast, Maya, and I personally support the Black Lives Matter movement. We recognize that the Psychedelic Renaissance has challenges with diversity and we commit to continuing to platform the enormous gifts of BIPOC communities as well as subjects like equal access to psychedelic medicine, healing ancestral trauma, and social justice on this podcast. There are many brilliant melanated voices carrying psychedelic wisdom, if you'd like to nominate a guest for this show, please let us know in the Psychedelic Therapy Facebook group. LINKS IFS Institute: https://ifs-institute.com/ Richard C. Schwartz, Ph.D: https://ifs-institute.com/about-us/richard-c-schwartz-phd “MDMA-Assisted Psychotherapy: How Different is it from Other Psychotherapy?” By Michael Mithoefer, MD: https://maps.org/news-letters/v23n1/v23n1_p10-14.pdf TIMESTAMPS :09 - Forthcoming Studies with Internal Family Systems and MDMA, psilocybin, and ketamine. :12 - What is IFS and why is it so good for dealing with trauma :22 - Dick's personal experiences with ketamine and MDMA :28 - Eamon shares his spontaneous IFS experience during an iboga journey :33 - The IFS map of parts including protectors, managers, firefighters, and exiles :41 - How a psychedelic therapist can better hold space by being aware of their own parts. :47 - The importance of safety for IFS & psychedelic healing :54 - IFS through the lens of Ayahuasca and other indigenous wisdom traditions :59 - Dick Schwartz' advice to aspiring psychedelic therapists