One Last Network

I'm sharing some important news about the future of this podcast. I appreciate each and every one of you who has listened, shared and supported the show.” I've come to a decision that has been difficult but necessary: there will be no more episodes of The Companions Collective. 2024 has thrown us a lot of curveballs here at Chez Bella, making life a little more challenging lately. My baby girl is not really a baby anymore and with arthritis setting in on that leg she had TPLO surgery on in January 2023, she needs more from me. More of everything. As many of you know, she is my world, just as your pets are to you. She's my ride or die and it's vital for me to be there for her in this time. On top of that, my husband and I have faced some challenges dealing with his mother's estate. Navigating this kind of family business has been a heavy burden, and balancing everything has become increasingly difficult. I need to simplify my life to focus on what matters most right now. I've loved flexing my interview skills and connecting with so many of you through this podcast, especially during episodes that focused on understanding pet loss and grief. I believe our pets—especially our dogs—come into our lives to change us and make us better people. Losing them transforms us in even more profound ways, and those conversations have been close to my heart. I'm proud of the insights we've shared together. I set a personal goal to reach 100 episodes, and while I won't get there, I'm grateful for the journey and the conversations that brought us all closer together. I do believe, though, that many of the episodes are a valuable resource to pet guardians who are experiencing anticipatory grief or pet loss grief. I hope you will go back and listen again when you need them or share them with someone who might need to hear them. This isn't goodbye forever; it's just a shift in focus. I have other creative pursuits I want to explore, and I believe there's a different outlet out there that might align more with where I am in my life right now. I'll be over at Big White Dog Photography, making art for people who love their dogs that damn much, and getting as much love and as many snuggles as I can from the sweetest Maremmano-Abrusseze to ever exist in the world. Thank you for being part of The Companions Collective. Your support has meant the world to me, and I hope you continue to honor the beautiful bond we share with our pets. Keep being kind to yourselves and each other. Until we meet again, tell your dog I said hi. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

Hand2Paw is a nonprofit that connects homeless youth with meaningful employment opportunities in animal shelters. In this week's episode, we chat with Penny Ellison, Hand2Paw's leader and passionate animal advocate, about how this innovative program is changing lives and creating a brighter future for young people facing homelessness. Penny shares her journey from a corporate law career to dedicating her life to animal advocacy, highlighting how her experiences shaped the mission of Hand2Paw. Learn how the organization provides essential job training and support to homeless youth while promoting the well-being of animals in shelters. Discover the transformative power of compassion and connection, and how caring for animals can foster personal growth, responsibility, and a sense of purpose. We also discuss the challenges and successes of working with at-risk youth, the importance of community involvement, and how listeners can get involved to make a difference. Tune in to hear how Penny's vision is not just about saving animals, but about empowering youth to rise above their circumstances and build a brighter future. Where to find Hand2Paw Hand2Paw.org Facebook Instagram --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

Crates can be … ah … not the most attractive piece of furniture in your home. But some people find them quite useful in training and containing their dogs. So why not have a crate that becomes a part of your décor? That's where Danny Nathan comes in. He's the founder and CEO of Apollo 21, a company that sits at the intersection of a business consultancy, a product design studio and a venture studio. Essentially, he designs cool shit. Like a sleep platform to overland in his SUV. And more recently, dog crates. But you don't just buy the crate. Oh no, my friends. Danny designs cool shit then creates design manuals so you can do it yourself. I think it sounds like fun, and Danny fills us in on the how and why in this episode. Where to find Stay. Good Dog crates StayGoodDog.com Instagram --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

You're not weird if you see a dog in a muzzle and think, "He's so scary looking." You're not weird if you see a dog in a muzzle, pick up your chihuahua and hurriedly cross the street. But you might be wrong. Kylee Doyle of Kylee Doyle Photography in Sacramento, California, has embarked on an incredibly meaningful personal project: photographing dogs in their muzzles. She hopes to educate people that dogs wear muzzles for a variety of reasons, not just because they might be aggressive or reactive. Kylee sits down with me today to tell me all about her project and what she hopes it can mean to the dog community, not just in Northern California but around the world. Where to find Kylee KyleeDoylePhotography.com Instagram Facebook --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

Do you end up with a wooly ball of anxiety every time you have to go to the vet? I do. In fact, we've been having to go to a lot of appointments lately as arthritis has set in with the knee Bella had TPLO surgery on last year. Now … we adore our general practice vet here in Spokane Valley but if Latah Creek Animal Hospital was a little bit closer, I would be seriously considering a switch. Based right here in my town, Spokane, Washington, Latah Creek is a fear-free clinic. I've been following their Instagram account for a while and I just love the energy that comes out in their posts: informative, educational, kind … I reached out for a chance to interview the top dogs there and clinic owners Jessica Osborne and Dr. Megan Bauer couldn't wait to share the good word of fear-free veterinary practices. We talk about this innovative approach to reduce stress and anxiety for pets during vet visits and how Jessica and Dr. Megan create a calm environment for both stressed-out animal and stressed-out human guardian. Where to find Latah Creek Animal Hospital LatahCreekAH.com Instagram Facebook --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

I get so fired up when I connect with someone who wants to talk about the deeper meaning for dogs in our lives. Like when I chat with a fellow believer that dogs teach us who we are and who we need to be. It didn't take long before I was mesmerized with Saro Boghozian's words. After becoming a certified dog trainer through The College of Canine Behavioral Science, Saro quickly recognized he also needed learn about human psychology so that he could help his two-legged clients understand the root causes of their dogs' behavior. Together, we explore the profound impact dogs have on our personal growth and well-being. Where to find Saro Saro Dog Training YouTube Instagram --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

I know you know what I'm talking about when I say sometimes our veterinarians aren't the best communicators. Hell's bells, Dani McVety told us as much on the podcast last fall. They're introverts. They'd rather be dealing with our animals, not us. So sometimes they tell us a lot of words that go in one ear and out the other. Or we run home and start Googling, doing our best to remember the words and take our best shot at spelling them. Enter Tyler Sugerman. An emergency vet in Tacoma, Washington, Tyler bridges the gap between vet jargon and pet guardians on his podcast Vetsplanation. With a goal to help pet guardians keep their animals happy, healthy and safe, Tyler breaks the science of vet care down into simple, understandable terms. Today, he shares that journey with us. Where to Find Tyler Vetsplanation website YouTube Facebook Instagram --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

We've spent a lot of time on this podcast talking about grief over the loss of our beloved companion animals. Much of the content has revolved around anticipatory grief and the loss of a pet due to a terminal illness or old age. But there are many more types of loss pet guardians can face. Runaways. Accidents. Surrenders. Custody battles. Behavioral euthanasia. And they all carry with them trauma and nuanced, complex emotions. My dear friend Coleen Ellis of Two Hearts Pet Loss Center joins me to unravel those emotions and how guilt and grief intertwine. Where to Find Coleen Two Hearts Pet Loss Center Facebook Instagram --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

Diana Lundin's journey from journalist to dog photographer has been a winding one, filled with challenges and personal growth. Now she's bringing her life full circle, joining journalism and dog photography together to shine a spotlight on the way climate change is affecting our animal species. She leaped at a recent volunteer opportunity that took her on an adventurous cross-country road trip to relocate animals for a farm sanctuary. The 3,600-mile journey was not without its obstacles, as the team navigated weather challenges, vehicle issues and a rather hungry llama. She documented the trip while driving the bus and caring for the animals and she intends to use the experience and her storytelling skills to bring light to the important conversation surrounding the impacts fo climate change. Where to Find Diana You want adventure? OK, drive an animal sanctuary across the country -- Medium Diana Lundin Photography Facebook Instagram --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

In a world where power dynamics often leave us feeling disempowered and disconnected, Carmen Theobald has found a unique, transformative way to help humans reclaim their personal power and reconnect with their true selves. Through her work at Horse Sense North, Carmen harnesses the healing power of horses to guide individuals on a journey toward empowerment and authenticity. At Horse Sense North, the belief is that true empowerment comes from a place of balance and heart-centeredness. It is about finding the strength within ourselves to be who we are meant to be, without fear or inhibition. Carmen understands the challenges that come with navigating power dynamics and strives to provide her clients with the skills and tools necessary to move through the world with confidence and grace. Carmen joins us to chat about the Horse Sense North mission that is centered on clarity, connection and courage. And how through the horses' unique ability to provide immediate, non-judgmental feedback, clients often rediscover their authentic selves and embark on profound inner journeys of healing and self-discovery. And of course we talk about that one horse that changed Carmen. What to Listen For Carmen's trauma, growth and connection with horses That horse that taught Carmen to understand a horse's perspective and trauma Where Carmen learned to show up for herself Why she wants to build a bridge between horses and humans How horses can help humans connect deeply with themselves and find their authenticity Why connecting with horses can help us transform our own healing journey Where to Find Carmen Horse Sense North Facebook Instagram TikTok YouTube LinkedIn --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

Today is a throwback to this podcast's roots in the grief we endure when our best fur friends die. My good Beth Bigler and I had this chat before I decided to rebrand the pod and expand the subject matter beyond that niche. As I continued to study grief, it struck me that a number of folks out there might not seek professional help with their grief for the pet. We exist in a world where our sorrow is called "disenfranchised grief," in which our loss is not necessarily accepted, respected and acknowledged by some people in our lives and the world at large. Because it's "just a pet," right? We know better. And Beth helps dispense the notion that it's just too darn silly or shameful to seek professional help. Beth is a licensed pet loss grief counselor and her Instagram account, @honoring our animals, is one of the comprehensive resources for pet loss you can find on the internet. In this episode, she offers insights into the challenges faced by individuals navigating this grief alone. What to Listen For Disenfranchised grief: How society's perception of pet loss as insignificant can lead to stigma, hindering individuals from seeking support. Challenges of seeking help: Beth sheds light on common misconceptions and barriers faced by those reaching out for counseling or support groups. Missteps in counseling: The discussion touches on ineffective counseling experiences and the importance of finding a counselor who understands the unique dynamics of pet loss. Creating a supportive environment: Beth shares strategies for creating a safe space where pet owners can express their grief without judgment. Building community: The role of community in healing, offering insights into how shared experiences can provide comfort and validation. Where to Find Beth Honoring Our Animals website Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

The transformative power of therapy animals with Mary Margaret Callahan of Pet Partners We pet guardians see our companion animals as more than just animals, creatures with four legs roaming around our homes or yards, waiting for their next dinner. Many of us see them as family … some of us, as our children. Still more of us look at them as vital sources of therapy and emotional support. Our best fur friends – or hairless or scaled, whichever you choose – become vital sources of therapy and emotional support. They give us comfort, help us reduce stress and provide us with a sense of stability and responsibility. A small group of pet guardians take their animals' secret powers and share them with others. Today's guest is Mary Margaret Callahan, the chief mission officer at Pet Partners, an organization dedicated to improving human health and wellbeing through the power of therapy animals. The nine different species Pet Partners registers bring joy, comfort and healing to countless individuals in hospitals, schools, senior living facilities and many other environments. Mary Margaret and I dive into the profound impact the volunteer teams have on the humans they visit and Mary Margaret share some insights into the human-animal bond that transcends the guardian-companion relationship. What to Listen For The different species Pet Partners registers as therapy animals The impact therapy animals have in different environments How Pet Partners evaluates therapy animal teams Why pet guardians must be aware of their animals' comfort in a therapy environment Where to Find Pet Partners PetPartners.org YouTube Instagram Facebook LinkedIn TikTok --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

Have you taken an Enneagram test? What number are you? Today we welcome pet loss grief coach Wendy van de Poll and Pant the Town Photography's Darlene Woodward who explore the profound connection between the Enneagram and navigating the emotional journey of losing a beloved pet. Wendy shares her unique approach to pet loss grief, which combines her extensive experience in animal communication, mediumship and the Enneagram. Wendy explains how understanding the nine personality types of the Enneagram can offer invaluable insights and tools for coping with grief. She delves into the different ways head, heart, and gut types experience and process grief, providing practical advice on how to use this ancient system to foster healing and self-awareness during such a challenging time. Darlene, a true Type 4, shares her personal experience with grief and how the Enneagram has helped her understand and manage her emotions better, while Wendy offers tips on how to get started with the Enneagram, recommending specific books and resources to help guide you on this transformative journey. What to listen for Wendy's journey with the Enneagram The three body types under the Enneagram How the types differ when encountering pet loss grief How Wendy applies the Enneagram to her animal medium sessions Why understanding our Enneagram number can help us cope with grief Where to Find Wendy Website Facebook LinkedIn Resources Mentioned in This Episode  The Wisdom of the Enneagram by Russ Hudson and Don Richard Riso You Are More Than a Type by Tammy Hendrix --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

According to her business's Facebook page Brittni Heywood spreads  contagious kindness. And fitness for dogs. Brittni is the owner of Potential Unleashed in Kuna, Idaho … heyo, just down the road from me … and she is dedicated to improving dog behavior, manners and fitness. That's right, she's a dog trainer. With a twist. Sure, she'll teach humans how to get our dogs to sit, stay and heel but she's much more into getting -- and keeping --- our dogs fit and healthy. Brittni also just launched the P.U.P., or Potential Unleashed Pool, a water dog's private paradise. She's built on an acre-and-a-half of her property a swimming pool and a large, fenced-in play area that humans can rent for two hours of playtime with their dogs.  Brittni joins me today to share her expertise in canine fitness, highlighting how personalized fitness routines can significantly enhance our dogs' health and extend their lifespan. Certified in both  behavior and canine fitness, she gives us valuable insights into keeping dogs of all ages active and healthy. What to Listen For Importance of maintaining a healthy weight for dogs Tailored fitness routines for puppies, adults, and senior dogs Exercises like cavaletti for muscle development and mobility Collaboration with rehab centers for post-injury fitness Enhancing the human-dog bond through fitness activities Understanding and advocating for your dog's health Where to find Brittni Potential Unleashed IdahoP.U.P. IdahoFacebookInstagram What to listen forWhere to find Brittni --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

Her first spoken word was "cat." Even before she said "mama" and "dada." And the cat didn't even like her. Today's guest is Tracy Munson, my good friend from lower shebobia New Brunswick. Lower shebobia … ha … it's technically Hillsborough, New Brunswick, a small community about a half hour south of Moncton and right on the Petitcodiac River. About a three-hour drive from the little town in Nova Scotia where I grew up. But she's not from there. She's a Toronto girl, from the Big Smoke, where she plied her trade as a veterinary technician. The work got to her, though. Being in veterinary medicine is hard. It may be the only industry we know where it is a responsibility to end life. Tracy recognized she was in burnout mode and started planning her escape … to becoming a pet photographer. She's now a recognized leader in Canadian pet photography and an award winner in both pet photography and landscape photography. Today, we have a discussion about careers in vet medicine and the trials and tribulations that lie within. What to listen for 5:23 Vicarious trauma and its impact on animal shelter workers 11:53 The emotional toll of euthanizing sick and injured animals 17:53 How support in the field is improving for animal shelter workers 28:28 Compounding trauma with the grief from her own loss 40:00 How the COVID-19 pandemic took its toll 41:50 Why prioritizing your exit plan can make all the difference Resources mentioned Dr. Faith Banks on TikTok Compassion Fatigue in Animal Shelter/Rescue Workers Practice Compassionate Badassery with Jessica Dolce The Art of Being Kind to Your Vet --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

Spray-dried plasma is the new kid on the scene of pet health supplements. What is it? It's a powder formed by exposing the liquid part of blood to high heat. The process preserves the bioactive components of plasma that offering numerous benefits for our companion animals, from joint health to immune function. And it's the key active ingredient in WinProPet products. Tim Mitchum, president and CEO of WinProPet, joins us this week to break it all down for us. When his own chihuahua stopped jumping onto the couch for cuddles, he tried WinProPet's hip and joint chews and became inspired by Roxy's transformation. That's when he joined the company, bringing his business acumen and deep love of dogs to the table. Tim shares his expertise on the benefits of supplements for our pets and the testimonials that undergird his belief in the product. And if you're a cat person, fear not! WinProPet just launched its line of feline-dedicated products. If you'd like to give WinProPet supplements a try with your pet, go to WinProPet.com and type ONE20 in the discount code box on the checkout page for 20% off a one-time purchase or your first order of a subscription. What to listen for 5:46 How plasma is the "natural enemy" of inflammation 9:02 Scientists discover its spray-dried form reduced mortality rate from 20% to 1% in piglets 17:21 Spray-dried plasma can improve a cat's oral health 21:27 How to look for pet supplements that can help your cat or dog Where to find WinProPet WinProPet.com Instagram Facebook TikTok Other questions you might have Are WinProPet supplements suitable for all dog breeds? While WinProPet supplements are generally well-tolerated by most dogs, individual preferences and health conditions may vary. It's recommended to consult with your veterinarian before introducing any new supplements to your pet's diet. How long does it take to see results with WinProPet supplements? Results may vary depending on factors such as the pet's age, health status, and the specific supplement being used. Some pet owners report seeing improvements within a few weeks, while others may require longer-term supplementation for noticeable benefits. Are WinProPet supplements safe for long-term use? Yes, WinProPet supplements are formulated with high-quality, natural ingredients and are designed for long-term use to support ongoing pet health and wellness. However, it's advisable to follow recommended dosage guidelines and monitor your pet's response over time. Can WinProPet supplements be used alongside other medications or treatments? WinProPet supplements are generally safe to use alongside other medications or treatments, but it's essential to consult with your veterinarian to ensure compatibility and avoid potential interactions. Do WinProPet supplements require refrigeration? WinProPet supplements are shelf-stable and do not require refrigeration. However, it's recommended to store them in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight for optimal freshness and efficacy. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

Things are going to change around here. Said not in the tone my father used to say those words ... The topics of grief, loss and pet loss grief are heavy, and I understand that not every episode is easy to listen to, especially if you're in grief. It's taken its toll on me too. To care better care of myself, we're rebranding from One Last Network to The Companions Collective and diversifying the content we're going to offer. Look forward to discussions on a broader range of pet-related topics, including the profound connection between human and companion animal and the incredible projects my professional pet photographer friends are using to change the world. Let's emBARK on this next stage of the journey! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thecompanionscollective/support

Lynn Sehnert of Lance and Lili Photography covering the Washington, D.C., area takes the mic today and interviews Jessey Scheip, a licensed veterinary technician with a specialty in behavior. Jessey also has training certification from the Karen Pryor Academy and has worked with Dr. Amy Pike of the Animal Behavior Wellness Center in Fairfax, Virginia. That's where Lynn met Jessey, looking for help with her sweet boy Lance. Jessey enjoys teaching pet guardians how to understand their pets and how to use behavior principles to ensure they grow together and live their best lives together. Today, Lynn and Jessey have an in-depth discussion about canine cognitive disorder. What to listen for How Jessey fills a void between veterinary behaviorists and standard trainers What symptoms should pet guardians watch for to notice CCD Why pet guardians should track their pets' health changes Treatment options for canine cognitive dysfunction When to decide it's time to say goodbye Where to find Jessey Mindful Mentor Behavior Consulting Facebook Other episodes you may find interesting The Art of Balancing Behavior Issues, part 1, with Dr. Kyle Bohland The Art of Balancing Behavior Issues, part 2, with Dr. Kyle Bohland The Art of Aging Gracefully with Dr. Dennis Wormald --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

You may have heard of animal chaplains. They are spiritual caregivers who provide support and comfort to individuals who are grieving the loss of a beloved companion animal or who are facing difficult decisions related to their pets' health and wellbeing. And then there's Scott Campbell, veterinary chaplain. Veterinary chaplains are rare in the United States. Scott is one of just a handful of these trained professionals who provide emotional and spiritual support to veterinary staff, in addition to pet guardians and the animals in veterinary settings. There are even fewer of them affiliated with a university, and Scott practices his craft at Washington State University, just down the road from me in Pullman, Washington. A veterinary chaplain's role may seem similar to that of a chaplain in human healthcare but individuals like Scott focus specifically on the unique challenges and emotional experiences within the veterinary medicine realm. Scott joins me on the podcast today to share his journey into veterinary chaplaincy and his passion for supporting the emotional well-being of pets, pet guardians and the world-class team at WSU, affectionately known in these parts as WAZZU. We talk about the challenges faced by the veterinary profession, including its high suicide rates, and how his own experiences are motivating him to establish the American Association for Veterinary Chaplains. Have a listen as Scott shares how he aims to alleviate the emotional burdens of the veterinary community and foster healing for those of us who suffer as our companion animals need care. What to listen for How Scott ensures WSU clients feel comfortable and heard Why a veterinary chaplain must be prepared to address a variety of belief structures The evolution of companion animals as family members in society What Scott finds more rewarding about veterinary chaplaincy Scott hosts a series of events called Celebration of Life and Remembrance for our Animal Companions for pet guardians to grieve and honor the lives of their precious babes. The event will feature a Remembrance Garland Ceremony, during which participants write messages on ribbons and attach them to a garland that's hung outside the Veterinary Teaching Hospital at WSU in Pullman. The next one is set for Saturday, April 13, at the Elson S. Floyd Cultural Center. It starts at 10:30 a.m., doors open at 10 a.m. and Scott suggests it's a good idea to arrive early to prepare a ribbon for the garland. A social hour follows from 11:15 a.m. to 12:15 p.m. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Are we doing better? And can we do better yet? These are the questions I had for Dr. Dani McVety, the cofounder of Lap of Love Veterinary Hospice and In-Home Euthanasia with Dr. Mary Gardner. Lap of Love is a national network of veterinary doctors who offer hospice care and peaceful euthanasia in the comfort of a pet's home. When Dani was prepping a family for a euthanasia one night at the emergency clinic where she was working shortly after graduating from veterinary school, her client said, "Please, can you leave her on my lap? I don't want her on that cold sterile table. I want her right here with me." That wasn't clinic policy, though. Dani said yes. And it was at that moment, she knew that's what every pet deserves, to be in the place where they are most comfortable … their guardian's lap. Lap of Love was born, and now 15 years later, Dani and her cofounder are advocates for ways the veterinary world can improve the euthanasia process for pets and their families. After all, the word "euthanasia" is Greek for "eu," or easy, and "thanatos," or death. Easy death. Let's find out what that really means. What to listen for How end of life care has evolved for veterinarians The importance of honoring a pet's journey Why pet guardians need a comfortable, supportive space How a better experience can shift the end of life process Normalizing hospice care in veterinary medicine Where to find Dr. Dani McVety Lap of Love Dr. Dani McVety (for speaking engagements) Lap of Love Facebook Lap of Love Instagram Lap of Love YouTube --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

I've struggled a while with addressing this topic. I don't have human children, never wanted one. So who was I to host a podcast on how to talk to kids about the family pet dying? But I remembered that all I had to do was put on my old journalist hat and ask the right questions. First question: who can answer those questions? Of course, my good friend Coleen Ellis of Two Hearts Pet Loss Center can. Coleen is also my mentor in pet loss grief companioning. With Dr. Mary Gardner, cofounder of Lap of Love Veterinary Hospice, Coleen has written two books to guide children through their grief. Both are called "My Forever Friend." One is for saying goodbye to a special dog and the other for saying goodbye to a special cat. Each one contains activities for parents and children to work through together. Coleen, who also doesn't have skin children, a term I learned from Coleen, is quite easily the kind of person you can trust to accompany your kids on this grief journey. She's dynamic and engaging and most importantly empathetic and compassionate. What to listen for How Coleen guides children through their grief with a collaborative, empathetic approach The importance of letting children grieve and process their emotions their own way Why we should use clear language when discussing death with children Involving children in the planning for and day of euthanasia Where to find Coleen Coleen Rocks Two Hearts Pet Loss Center Forever Friend: A children's guide and activity book for saying goodbye to a special dog (Amazon) Forever Friend: A children's guide and activity book for saying goodbye to a special cat --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Losing a pet is a profound experience that often leaves us grappling with overwhelming emotions. Today, I'm giving you permission to cry on your journey of pet loss grief and standing up for the need to normalize grieving for a pet. In a world that often tells us to toughen up and hide our emotions, it's time to challenge the stigma surrounding tears, especially when it comes to grieving the loss of a beloved pet. Let's dive into the significance of allowing ourselves to cry and the importance of normalizing the grief experienced over the death of a furry companion. What to listen for Your permission to cry What I learned as a child about crying Tears as natural detox How society suppresses our grief over losing a pet A path to healing the world --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

You might not want to believe what I'm about to tell you … brace yourself. Running an animal rescue isn't all glamour, snuggles and magical puppy breath. I know, right? Shocking. Running an animal rescue can be incredibly challenging, logistically and emotionally. On one hand, there's an immense satisfaction and joy in providing a safe haven for animals in need, giving them a chance at a better life. On the other hand, it comes with a heavy responsibility of making decisions to end an animal's life. The simple reality is -- and it's going to be a tough one to hear -- not every life can be saved. There may be cases where euthanasia is the most humane option, whether due to illness, injury or behavioral issues. These decisions weigh heavily on the shoulders of those running a sanctuary, as they must balance compassion with practicality and often limited resources. Amy Castro of Starlight Outreach and Rescue in Friendswood, Texas, joins us today to talk about the ongoing burden of making those decisions. Amy is a people management and communications expert who coaches organizations on leadership building. While volunteering at one of her local rescues, she felt prompted to start her own in 2017. With upwards of 40 animals on her 7-acre property at any given time, Amy has developed a relatively thick skin when it comes to making end of life decisions. But that doesn't always make it easy. What to listen for Amy's inspiration for Starlight Outreach and Rescue The factors Amy considers before euthanizing a rescue animal The importance of making humane decisions for each animal The emotional impact of running a rescue and sanctuary How Amy strives to educate pet guardians about their responsibilities Where to find Amy and Starlight Outreach Starlight Outreach and Rescue Starlight Pet Talk podcast Starlight Pet Talk's Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

I'm a word nerd. I took linguistics courses toward my bachelor's degree and I've been a professional writer for more than 30 years. Words matter to me. And recently I've been spending a lot of time thinking about the language and words we use around death, loss and grief, particularly when we're talking about our companion animals. So I brought back my fellow word nerd and friend of the pod, Beth Bigler, for her third appearance. Beth, who has become so well known for her Instagram account, @honoringouranimals, is a certified pet loss grief counselor and pet chaplain. She holds bachelor's and master's degrees in arts and has over 20 years of experience in film, including in writing. Heck, she's even an instructor at New York Film Academy in their screenwriting and producing departments. Beth even uses writing in her counseling, helping her grief clients navigate their journey of love and loss with their pets through the power of story. What to listen for Some of our terminologies with pet loss grief are old-fashioned Our beliefs about death influence the way we talk about it The challenges of language when discussing death Our words can create moments of self-compassion and self-loathing Why we hate the terms "pet loss grief" and "end of life pet photography" Where to find Beth HonoringOurAnimals.com Instagram The Art of Finding the Right Support The Art of Chasing Rainbows --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Erica's back! Erica Messer is the genius behind Wolfie's Wish, an online resource for pet guardians in grief. It started with a deck of cards, simple pieces of guidance or affirmations that a grieving pet guardian can look to for a little help in getting through the day. In The Art of Shuffling the Deck, we chatted about Erica's journey through pet loss grief after losing her beloved Wolfgang and how we can support each other in our grief. We're checking back in because Erica has expanded the Wolfie's Wish website into an online shop and guidance center, and she is hosting her own virtual grief support group. What to listen for Erica spills the beans on her new podcast and other developments at Wolfie's Wish Why self-care is so important during anticipatory grief The conversation around pet loss grief is changing How to use our memories to help us heal Where to find Wolfie's Wish Wolfie's Wish  Instagram  Facebook: Wolfie's Wish Pet Loss Support Group  YouTube  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

We're back with Dr. Kyle Bohland from the Ohio State University Veterinary Medical Center. Last week, we talked about the behavioral issues that seems to be becoming more common in our companion animals. Today, we're exploring the complex issue of behavioral euthanasia. We talk about the signs that might prompt such a decision and the factors involved in the process. Dr. Bohland emphasizes the importance of considering our pets' quality of life and safety, along with the quality of life and safety of the humans who share the home. Dr. Bohland highlights how the decision to euthanize on the basis of behavioral issues requires teamwork from the pet guardian and their veterinarian. What to listen for 5:23 How to decide it may be time for behavioral euthanasia 11:45 The considerations a veterinarian might have around behavioral issues 15:00 Having a conversation with your vet about behavioral euthanasia 19:09 When your vet might start that conversation 32:13 The impact behavioral euthanasia has on the veterinary world Where to find Dr. Bohland Ohio State University Veterinary Medical Center OSU's Honoring the Bond Grief Support OSU Facebook OSU YouTube --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

We spend a lot of time talking about the grief we experience as pet guardians whose companion animals have grown old or become terminally ill. There are other types of loss and grief, though, that pet guardians can experience. Many carry with them elevated levels of trauma -- sudden death, runaways, theft, loss of custody due to the end of a relationship -- and I would love to interview someone on those very subjects. Today, though, we're talking about behavioral issues in our companion animals, especially dogs, and the way we manage and treat reactivity or aggression. Dr. Kyle Bohland of the Ohio State University Veterinary Medical Center joins me to talk about his work in behavioral studies and the intricacies around behavioral euthanasia. Dr. Bohland was born and raised in Fremont, Ohio, and completed his undergraduate degree in economics at the University of Akron. After graduation, he earned his master's in science in agricultural, environmental and development economics from Ohio State University. Along the way, he realized veterinary medicine was his true calling, a career he'd dreamed of since childhood. He graduated from the OSU College of Veterinary Medicine in 2018 and worked in general practice doing preventive medicine, general medicine, urgent care, surgery and dentistry. All the while, he was working on his residency program in behavioral medicine at OSU and then joined the faculty full time. His topics of interest lie in end of life care, pain management and the behavior of shelter-housed animals. He lives in Columbus, Ohio, with his wife, 6-year-old child, four senior dogs, one cat and a few fish. What to listen for 2:42 Early socialization and its impact on dog behavior 8:29 The positive and negative impacts COVID-19 has had on dog behavior 13:27 Trauma and reactivity in shelter dogs 21:55 How the unregulated dog training industry affects dog behavior --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

The Dog Aging Project is a groundbreaking initiative that seeks to unravel the mysteries of aging in dogs and, by extension, gain insights into the aging process in humans. Launched in 2018, this collaborative effort involves researchers from various institutions, including the University of Washington School of Medicine and Texas A&M University. The project is designed to be the most extensive study of canine aging, with the aim of improving the health and well-being of both dogs and humans. At the heart of the Dog Aging Project is a longitudinal study that follows the lives of thousands of dogs over several years. By collecting comprehensive data on various aspects of a dog's life, including genetics, lifestyle and environment, researchers hope to identify factors that contribute to longevity and healthy aging. The ultimate goal is to develop interventions and treatments that can enhance the quality of life for both aging dogs and aging humans. One key aspect of the project is the inclusion of citizen scientists—dog owners who actively participate by providing information about their pets. This crowdsourced approach not only facilitates data collection on a massive scale but also fosters a sense of community among dog owners who share a common interest in understanding and improving the aging process for their furry companions. Dr. Kate Illing, one of the research veterinarians with the project—and who hails from my favorite city in the whole wide world, Calgary, Alberta—joins us today to chat about the Dog Aging Project and in particular the research she's doing on rapamycin. What to Listen For 4:24 Kate's journey from engineering to veterinary medicine 7:51 The mission behind the Dog Aging Project 15:06 Kate's research into anti-aging drug rapamyacin 19:01 Who can enroll in the Dog Aging Project Sign Up for the Dog Aging Project Enroll Your Dog Find DAP on Instagram --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Did you know February is Pet Dental Health Month? Vets clinics across North America dedicate their marketing programs to raising awareness about the importance of oral hygiene in our pets. Just like us, our pets can suffer from such dental issues as plaque buildup, gum disease and tooth decay. If we take proactive steps, though, we can prevent these and ensure our pets' overall well-being. I've been fortunate with Bella. Dental care is a priority at our vet clinic. And then … a couple of months ago, I went to a networking event at -- of all places! -- a dentistry clinic for pets. Elevated Pet Dentistry recently opened on Sprague Avenue in Spokane Valley with Dr. Madelynn Mayes running the ship. Maddie has been a veterinarian for 13 years, after graduating from Washington State University in 2010. She was one of only 40 students selected to take an online dental course and wet lab, sparking her interest in dentistry. She started her career as a rural mixed animal practitioner and then transitioned to small animal-only work. But a specialization, a niche, kept calling to her. She nurtured her passion by completing numerous advanced dental training courses with specialists across the country. Her learning helped her improve her technique and proficiency in all areas of general and advanced dental care. Let's meet Maddie and have her tell us all about it. What to listen for 3:26 The impact of dental issues on our pets 8:33 Which dog breeds are more prone to dental issues 10:02 Dental issues that are common in cats 13:18 What we can do at home to care for our pets' teeth 17:19 How often our pets should have their teeth cleaned --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Joy is a stupid word. Or at least it feels that way when you're living with grief. Very little feels like "joy" or "happiness" when you're bound by this complexity of navigating a whole new world without your companion animal. Our host, Angela Schneider of Big White Dog Photography in Spokane, Washington, explores the challenges we face in grief, especially when we're faced with people who want us to be more positive and, ahem, "get over it." But the cult of positivity doesn't serve everyone. Angela emphasizes the importance of acknowledging our feelings, embracing the emptiness we feel and redefining the word "joy" in our new world. Remember, it's OK to not conform to societal expectations. Finding contentment in the present moment may be the only way you need to feel right now. What to listen for 2:43 Is the real work to be happy or simply to be alive? 5:00 Why the words "joy" and "happy" might feel uncomfortable 8:00 The experience of witnessing someone else's grief 9:45 Steps you can take to find your peace If you need extra help Get $10 off your first 12 months of Help Texts --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Losing our pets is a deeply emotional experience, and navigating the grief that follows is an essential aspect of self-care. Pets become precious members of our families, offering unconditional love and companionship. Coping with their loss requires acknowledging and processing the complex emotions that arise. Our own self-care during pet loss grief becomes crucial. Our grief isn't just overwhelming and confusing, it's also exhausting. Our tanks run empty because all of our energy is funneled into the pain and sorrow we're feeling. Our founder and host Angela Schneider of Big White Dog Photography in Spokane, Washington, shares some thoughts this week about why we need to make self-care a priority and how we might do that. Listen as Angela shares personal insights and valuable lessons to help navigate the intricate journey of grief. What to listen for 1:32 Why grieving for our pets can be more intense 3:37 The importance of acknowledging our grief 4:58 Ways to cope with grief 6:32 How to prioritize ourselves

Facing the holidays while grieving the loss of your pet can be an emotionally challenging experience. Our companion animals hold a special place in our hearts, serving as best friends, the most important member of our support network and a huge source of unconditional love. During the holiday season, traditions and celebrations may trigger memories of shared moments with our pets, intensifying the sense of loss. Their absence can create a profound void, making it difficult to fully engage in festive activities. The holiday spirit, typically associated with joy and togetherness, can feel tinged with sadness. The holidays can also amplify feelings of loneliness and isolation. The companionship and comfort our pets provide are irreplaceable, and the void left by their absence can be acutely felt during a time when the emphasis is on connection and togetherness. We're releasing this episode a couple of days early in case you need to hear it on Thanksgiving morning. Our host and pet loss grief educator Angela Schneider shares 10 strategies you might want to try to get survive these next few weeks. What to listen for 00:43 Angela's struggles with the holidays3:13 10 strategies for coping with the holidays5:11 Where to look for support7:53 Why it's OK to cry during the holidays Your discount codes Dr. Buzby's Tip-to-Tail Health Scan: Use code ONELAST Get $10 off your first 12 months of Help Texts --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Welcome to One Last Network and the Art of Being Kind to Your Vet. Dr. Lianna Titcombe is the founder and owner of Claire Place Veterinary Hospice in Ottawa, Ontario, one of the first practices in Canada devoted to end-of-life care for companion animals. You may remember her from The Art of Checking Your Phone. Lianna is one of the veterinarians who have contributed to the pet loss grief content in Help Texts, an SMS-based service to help people cope through loss and grief. On the subject of animal hospice and palliative care, she is an author, speaker, educator and mentor. She is the past president of the International Association for Animal Hospice and Palliative Care and is still active with their international committee. She participates in volunteer missions to provide veterinary care to underserviced communities both locally and in developing countries. And she has been the director of the Pet Loss Support Group of Ottawa for over 20 years. In getting to know each other, Lianna and I learned we were both in the 2022 cohort for David Kessler's grief educator program. Her true passion is the art of gentle euthanasia and in 2021, became the international director and instructor for Companion Animal Euthanasia Training Academy. After 20 years in veterinary medicine, she has retired from clinical practice to focus on education. She's also a certified yoga instructor and compassion fatigue professional, who is offering grief retreats to people living with loss. Today, we have an in-depth conversation about the veterinary field, euthanasia and the vet-pet guardian relationship. What to listen for 3:29 How Lianna's mom and dog George drive her to improve the death experience 7:12 Why planning the end can make it more peaceful 17:47 Veterinary burnout versus client expectations 26:44 The financial challenges of pet health care 38:04 The emotional impact of euthanizing pets as a veterinarian Where to find Dr. Lianna Titcombe Claire Place Veterinary Hospice in Ottawa, Ontario Instagram Facebook Grief Retreats Resources mentioned Not One More Vet tips for pet guardians Companion Animal Euthanasia Training Academy Your discount codes Dr. Buzby's Tip-to-Tail Health Scan: Use code ONELAST Get $10 off your first 12 months of Help Texts --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

While much of our content on this podcast caters to senior pet care and the grief we endure in the days leading up to and after our last farewells, I love to bring you information about end of life pet photography sessions … with professional photographers. One Last Network has a small but growing directory where you can find professional photographers in your area to assist you in creating the kind of memories I believe will help to comfort you in your grief and lead you toward a path of healing. We gather together every couple of months to discuss a subject pertinent to our work so that you can prepare for your upcoming session and feel comfortable with your photographer. One of the key elements in being a photographer is the ability to translate any location, any moment into beautiful memories. The right location can elevate our photos and create a memorable experience and as professional photographers, it is our responsibility to know where the great locations are for your end of life pet photography session and how to work with a less than ideal location. Who joins us Sharon Canovas Canovas Photography in Hamilton, Ontario Instagram Kylee Doyle Kylee Doyle Photography in Sacramento, California Instagram Jenn Wilson Jenn Wilson Pet Portraiture in Kitchener, Ontario Instagram Darlene Woodward Pant the Town Photography in Georgetown,  Massachusetts Instagram Lynn Sehnert Lance & Lili Photography in Ashburn, Virginia Instagram Lisa Peterson Pawsh Photography in Minneapolis, Minnesota Instagram Nicole Hrustyk Pawtraits by Nicole in Las Vegas, Nevada Instagram Angela Schneider (host) Big White Dog Photography in Spokane, Washington Instagram   Your discount codes Dr. Buzby's Tip-to-Tail Health Scan: Use code ONELAST Get $10 off your first 12 months of Help Texts --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Nestled on an 11-acre farmland in Rutledge, Georgia, sits a special rescue for dogs. The dream for pet and horse photographer Courtney Bryson, whom you may remember from The Art of Finding the Perfect Imperfect, and her wife Renee Ussery began when they helped on a hoarding case in August 2011. There were 35 Boston terriers, pugs and buggs, or Boston-pug mixes, in crisis. Local rescues teamed up and needed just six days to coordinate transportation and fosters for each dog. But first they had to wait in a non-climate-controlled and very crowded municipal shelter. Six to eight dogs were in each kennel and they were all suffering from mange, flea infestations and illnesses. More than half contracted parvo and died. Courtney and Renee launched their mission: to look for land where they could build a short-term emergency shelter for dogs in crisis. They purchased their property in October 2012 and launched the Rescue Ranch with 17 indoor kennels, each with its own outdoor dog run, and space for veterinary exams. And over there in the corner, you'll see a memorial garden for the pets they took in and never left. As the Rescue Ranch evolved in this last decade, Courtney and Renee are rising to the challenge of working with medically fragile and hospice animals. Which means they have to say goodbye … often. Sometimes sooner than they expected. Today, they share with us a conversation they have about the challenges of facing grief as often as they do. Have a listen. What to listen for 5:23 The first hospice dog they cared for 8:19 Caring for and losing medically fragile dogs 10:10 Making the decision to end a dog's life 13:01 Giving each dog a full life 18:30 The emotional impact of losing a dog 23:40 How grief manifests in rescue work Where to find Courtney and the Rescue Ranch CM Bryson Photography The Rescue Ranch Facebook Instagram YouTube Your discount codes Dr. Buzby's Tip-to-Tail Health Scan: Use code ONELAST Get $10 off your first 12 months of Help Texts --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

The big thing I love about today's guest is how she stresses the power of our relationships with our dogs. Dr. Julie Buzby has been an integrative veterinarian for nearly 20 years. She earned her certification from the American Veterinary Chiropractic Association in 1998 and from the International Veterinary Acupuncture Society in 2002. She blends traditional Western medicine with alternative therapies and creates out-of-the-box tools for pet guardians to understand and improve their dogs' health and quality of life. She invented ToeGrips, synthetic sheaths that cover the dogs' toenails and assist with traction and mobility. The blog on ToeGrips.com is an incredible resource for all pet guardians, but especially for us pet guardians whose companion animals are entering or have entered the senior stage. Today, she guides us through the concerns we need to have as guardians of senior dogs and how to recognize the more telling signs that something might be wrong. Make sure you stay tuned to the end for a special discount code from Dr. Buzby. What to listen for 0:20 Dr. Buzby's passion for veterinary and holistic medicine 4:12 How ToeGrips can help your dog move around the house 9:31 The signs we need to watch for in our senior dogs 18:18 Changes we can make around the house to help our senior dogs 25:45 The factors that affect a dog's longevity 32:19 How to maintain our dogs' dignity in their golden years Where to find Dr. Buzby ToeGrips.com Instagram Facebook Your discount codes Dr. Buzby's Tip-to-Tail Health Scan: Use code ONELAST Get $10 off your first 12 months of Help Texts --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

One day, Sheryl Green realized people-pleasing was getting her nowhere. She had trouble saying no to friends and family, until she hit the old metaphorical brick wall. That's when she discovered what a boundary is. When Sheryl was growing up, she dreamed of becoming an FBI profiler and hunting down serial killers. A wicked cool job that would have been, if you ask me … I mean, I've seen almost every episode of Criminal Minds … at least until Shemar Moore left the show. She earned a master's in forensic psychology until she realized she'd rather not spend her days inside the minds of criminals. Her path took her instead to mental health, customer service, public relations, education and the nonprofit world, including animal rescue. As a relationship expert, she has now authored six books, including "Surviving to Thriving: How to Overcome Setbacks and Rock Your Life," "A Pet Parent's Guide to First Aid and Prevention" and "You Had Me at No: How Setting Healthy Boundaries Helps You Banish Burnout, Repair Relationships and Save Your Sanity." I brought Sheryl on to the podcast to talk about exactly that. Boundaries. Especially the boundaries we need to set and maintain when we're facing or healing from the loss of our best fur friends. What to listen for 4:19 How others can be inappropriate with our grief 9:30 What boundaries are and why they matter 15:01 How to assert your boundaries 21:10 Why having a "boundary buddy" can help 35:04 How standing up for ourselves maintains our self-worth Where to find Sheryl Sheryl Green Speaks You Had Me at No on Amazon Sheryl's books on Amazon Facebook   Don't forget Get $10 off your first 12 months of Help Texts --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

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Welcome to One Last Network and The Art of Finding the Love We Deserve. Julie Schurr has been a member of the LGBTQ2S+ community for more than 25 years. She has served the queer community in a number of ways, including educator, entertainer and advocate. An expat American living in Spain, Julie seeks to continue uplifting her chosen family through mindset and growth coaching, with a focus on grief. Along with her certification in coaching, she is accredited in cognitive behavioral therapy and rational emotive behavioral therapy. She also holds a master's in linguistics. The queer community is drastically underserved in so many ways. Its members face experiences that those who identify as nonqueer will never understand. Those experiences -- often coupled with profound loss -- can bring stress, grief and lack of focus. Julie wants to help her community overcome those feelings and remind her family members that they have the strength to do so. I reached out to Julie because I have so many friends in the queer community, friends who have endured loss … friends who have endured the loss of pets. And I know from my own perspective how isolating grief and loss can be but I wanted us to better understand the loneliness and isolation that our queer brothers and sisters experience when they say goodbye to their best fur friend. Have a listen. What to listen for 6:36 How Julie fought for LGBTQ2S+ students as a teacher 11:48 The microaggressions and discrimination Julie faces daily 24:03 When Julie met Avery, the love she deserves 34:07 How the love of pets can fill the void of loss 47:10 How health care practitioners and allies can do better Where to find Julie Coach Julie Schurr LinkedIn Instagram Don't forget Get $10 off your first 12 months of Help Texts --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Rev. Jennifer Cormier is a grief coach and earth-based ceremonial artist who brings 20 years of experience in the healing arts to help her clients move through life transitions and grief.  She is committed to the revolution of how we view death and walk with grief. The creator of a program called Walk Through Grief with Grace, she wants us all to shift our perspective to include our body in our grieving processes and see grief as a creative collaborator in our lives.  That's when we open the door to healing and peace.  Jenn joins me today to discuss grief and grace and how we can use creative writing, nature, movement and more to release the pain of grief and bring us closer to healing.   What to listen for  1:44 Jenn's personal journey with grief and her dad's cancer  13:46 The difference between running away and questing  17:36 Finding comfort in movement and activity  22:25 Jenn's emotional attachment to a car  27:50 How to allow grief to move through the body and mind  31:55 Why creative expression can facilitate healing from grief and loss  Where to find Jenn  Walk Through Grief with Grace  The WTGWG podcast on Spotify  The WTGWG podcast on Apple  Grief and Grace Facebook Group  Fall Healing Retreat: A Sacred Journey to Reclaim Joy After Loss, Nov. 12-18, in Teotihuacan, Mexico  Don't forget  Get $10 off your first 12 months of Help Texts --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

In a world that often feels fast-paced and impersonal, dealing with grief can be an isolating and challenging experience. Go back to episode 49, The Art of Exploring the Loneliness Within, to hear my thoughts on why that isolation becomes compounded when we lose our beloved pets. When a companion animal leaves our physical world, our grief is profound and often misunderstood by people who haven't experienced such a bond, including those who may be closest to us. Recognizing this need for specialized support, Help Texts -- an innovative SMS-based grief support service -- recently released a segment dedicated to help individuals like us manage our pain and sorrow. Help Texts makes a significant impact in the realm of grief support, providing a confidential and accessible platform for us to find solace and guidance during such a difficult time. It uses the simplicity and ubiquity of text messaging to deliver timely and empathetic support to people like us who may be struggling to find inclusive support or an appropriate outlet for our grief. The pet loss grief segment demonstrates the organization's commitment to addressing diverse forms to grief and fostering a compassionate and understanding community. Melissa Lunardini, head of clinical at Help Texts, and Lianna Titcombe, a certified hospice and palliative care veterinarian out of Ottawa, Ontario, and one of Help Texts' expert contributors, join me today to fill us in on all the details. What to listen for 4:48 The beginning and intention of Help Texts 10:07 How Help Texts tailors messages to grief stages 19:58 The importance of grief support, especially in anticipatory grief stages 22:39 Why pet loss grief must be normalized and validated 27:57 The differences between generations and cultures when grief strikes 40:08 How Help Texts is changing the way grief is perceived Where to find Help Texts Help TextsInstagramFacebookLinkedInTikTok Other resources Get $10 off your first 12 months of Help Texts --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

After the death of her son Jimmy in 2014, Margo Fowkes (Folks) created Salt Water, a blog and online community that provides a safe harbor for those who are grieving the death of someone dear to them. Inspired by Jimmy's determination to live a rich, full life despite his cancer diagnosis, Salt Water's articles and other resources focus on healing and building a new life in the aftermath of a devastating loss. Margo is also the founder and president of OnTarget Consulting, Inc., a firm specializing in helping organizations and individuals act strategically, improve their performance and achieve their business goals. She works with clients to solve problems of productivity, morale and innovation.  Margo recently released her first book, Leading Through Loss: How to Navigate Grief at Work, and she coaches leaders on how to create a more compassionate culture by acknowledging and speaking openly about grief and loss in the workplace. That's what we're talking about today: how to navigate grief in the workplace, from the perspective of the person in grief to her coworkers and her management team. But particularly from the context of pet loss grief. I remember at one of the newspapers I worked at decades ago, one of our graphic designers had to say goodbye to her horse. She took her year's worth of vacation, two weeks. And I'll fully admit I didn't get it then. It took the pain of losing Shep for me to understand the depth of pain, and I wasn't working at the time. I was home alone and I remember yearning to have a job at the time -- not just to keep me busy but also to have a community around me, even if it might not have been as supportive as I needed it to be at the time. Because pet loss grief is disenfranchised and might not rank as worthy in the eyes of many who don't get it. We talk about that, too.   What to listen for 3:10 What drove Margo into the grief business 7:32 How we carry our grief into the workplace 11:35 How we can create a more supportive workplace 15:41 What can management teams do to help employees in grief 28:24 The essential elements of providing support in the workplace Where to find Margo Salt Water: Find Your Safe Harbor Salt Water on Facebook Salt Water on Instagram OnTarget Consulting Margo's book, Leading Through Loss: How to Navigate Grief at Work, on Amazon --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Dennis Wormald loves to find creative ways to educate dog owners on the misconceptions of dog behavior. Based in Melbourne, Australia, Dennis has a Ph.D. in veterinary medicine, focused on canine anxiety. As a vet, he exclusively treats dogs with mental health conditions and come to him with a wide range of behavior issues, such as aggression or separation anxiety. He recently published his first book titled "A Dedication to Difficult Dogs," which gives a fresh perspective on canine mental health, covering common misconceptions of dog behavior, punishment versus training, and ownership vs. guardianship of dogs. I reached out to Dennis to talk about the mental health conditions that can become present in our dogs as they age, wanting to learn more about cognitive decline and how we as pet guardians can allow our dogs to age gracefully. What to listen for 3:25 How Dennis defines "reactivity" in dogs 6:45 Why a dog's first few vet visits can affect the rest of her life 18:13 How to identify cognitive decline and other medical conditions 24:06 The importance of consistently interacting with your dog 31:25 Treatment options for dogs with cognitive decline 36:16 Changes you can make in your home to help your senior dog Where to find Dennis A Dedication to Difficult Dogs ABADog Twitter ABAdog on YouTube ABAdog on Facebook   Resources mentioned Senior Canine Cognitive Assessment by Purina --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

A few weeks ago, I drove out to the northwest side of Spokane, so far northwest I was at the tip of the beautiful Riverside State Park. I met with Kit and Pete Jagoda, the founders of River's Wish Animal Sanctuary. River's Wish saves animal lives through rescue, education and advocacy. Kit and Pete strive to treat animals as individuals and to express their wonder and plight through visual art forms, from painting to jewelry-making. The sanctuary is named for River, a dog who inspired Kit and Pete to do more for animals. River left their physical world in 1999 but he left an indelible stamp on their hearts, moving them to dream for a world in which every creature is able to live a full and joyful life. Kit and I have a terrific discussion about the motivation she found in her grief for River, the constant state of anticipatory grief in which she exists, and why we must learn to see each animal's spirit and personality. What to listen for 2:18 The year Kit's eyes were opened to animal care 6:34 How a rescue dog became the center of her life 14:58 The devastation of losing River to cancer 25:28 How Kit lives in a state of anticipatory grief 33:19 Why we must see animals as individuals Where to find River's Wish River's Wish Animal Sanctuary Facebook Instagram YouTube   How to help Find more information on how to help Kit and Pete pursue their mission to give all animals a safe haven. You can donate, sponsor individual residents, bequeath your estate in your will or, if you're in the Spokane area, volunteer. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Grief can bring with it periods of loneliness and isolation. Some may choose to find comfort in messages, hugs and social interactions after their pet's death, while others may need solitude to process their emotions and memories. Our founder, Angela Schneider of Big White Dog Photography in Spokane, Washington, has experienced both. In today's episode she explores the deep emotional connection people have with their pets and how the grief of losing them can lead to isolation. She dives into the way society often downplays the significance of pet loss grief and the impact of unsupportive reactions from others. She explains that isolation, whether self-imposed or societal, can affect the grieving process in both positive and negative ways. For many, Angela says, the best path may be to find a balance of solitude with social interactions to navigate the grief journey in a healthy way. She encourages honoring your emotions while seeking support from friends, family and, when needed, professionals. What to listen for 1:41 Why we develop such profound connections with our pets 2:45 How grief can be a very lonely journey 3:38 What happens if we withdraw too much 4:43 The benefits to finding time and space to yourself 7:07 When healing begins --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Many dogs come to Dr. Masami Seplow after injury or when age is starting to attack their old bones and muscles. She gets them walking again. Dr. Seplow was born and raised in Japan where she earned her bachelor's degree in sociology and then moved to Miami, Florida, where she was working on her master's in Hospitality Management. Then she heard the call of the wild. Or rather the howl of a dog. Maybe the mew of a kitten. She decided to be a veterinarian before receiving her degree. She turned her attention and got her degree as a Doctor of Veterinary Medicine at the University of Florida's College of Veterinary Medicine. While working as a general practitioner at a 24-hour hospital, Dr. Seplow decided to become certified in acupuncture and Chinese medicine, which she has been practicing for more than 15 years. She received another certification in canine rehabilitation in 2015. She is particularly interested in geriatric medicine and food therapy, in addition to rehab and Chinese medicine, because all of these modalities are positive and gentle. Dr. Seplow describes herself as the Crazy Chihuahua Lady. She has rescued five: Ellie, Lucas, Romeo, Juliet and Millie. This week, Kylee Doyle of Kylee Doyle Photography in Sacramento interviews Dr. Seplow about rehab, Chinese medicine and her work at the Sierra Ranch Veterinary Clinic and Pet Rehabilitation Center in Roseville, California. What to listen for 4:14 When it's time to see a rehab vet like Dr. Seplow 7:14 Get the most out of your dog's rehab plan 13:24 Acupuncture can benefit your dog's recovery 18:26 Why you should always be touching your pet 20:44 How to check for changes in your dog's physical condition Resources Sierra Ranch Veterinary Clinic and Pet Rehabilitation Center Instagram: @sierraranchpetrehab Kylee Doyle Photography --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Welcome to One Last Network and The Art of Joy and Pain. One Last Network has a mission to provide you with the support and services you may need as your pets enter their twilight years and ultimately leave our physical world.   We are all pet photographers, and we are one of the services we encourage you to find so that you create beautiful, everlasting memories of the love you have for your best fur friend. Many of us, too, have become educated in what grief means and how we can best support you as you walk a path with your pet which can be overwhelming, confusing and emotional. I became a pet loss grief companion through Two Hearts Pet Loss Center and a grief educator through David Kessler and Grief.com so I could teach my fellow pet photographers to do just that. We have a profound appreciation for the love you have for your pets. Many of us have loved and lost. And we can play a unique role in your support system as you're taking these last adventures with your beloved pet. We can be your shoulder to cry on when it feels like you have no one else in your life to understand.   At your photo shoot, too, we know how to strike a balance between all the things you're feeling -- the sorrow, the pain, the confusion -- and how to celebrate the life of your pet and the deep bond you've created with that being.  That's what we're talking about today. That delicate balance.   I've gathered some of the photographers of One Last Network -- and many of them are now pet loss grief specialists -- together to chat about how we approach our end of life photography sessions so that you have beautiful artwork and images and support in your grief. You will hear from: Kylee Doyle of Kylee Doyle Photography in Sacramento, California Courtney Bryson of CM Bryson Photography in Atlanta, Georgia Jessica Wasik of Bark and Gold Photography in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania Chris Miller of MIL Pet Photography in Berkshire, United Kingdom Jenn Wilson of Jenn Wilson Pet Portraiture in Kitchener, Ontario Nicole Hrustyk of Pawtraits by Nicole in Las Vegas, Nevada Darlene Woodward of Pant the Town Photography in Georgetown, Massachusetts Lynn Sehnert of Lance and Lili Photography in Loudon County, Virginia and our newest pet loss grief specialist … Lisa Peterson of Pawsh Photos in Minneapolis, Minnesota What to listen for 3:55 Jessica and Chris discuss how their businesses have changed since learning about grief 6:58 Kylee has become a more active listener to support her clients 11:28 Courtney strives to find that balance between joy and pain at her sessions 30:39 Nicole adjusts her sessions depending on the dog's mobility 35:54 Lynn gives her clients space to be who they are in the moment --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Welcome to One Last Network and The Art of Shuffling the Deck.   Erica Messer encountered tragedy in 2020. Just months after finding her soul cat, Wolfgang, he had an accident and left her physical world.   Her grief was overwhelming, especially since it was complicated with mental health issues.  Wolfgang's death broke her in many ways.  But like kintsugi, the Japanese art of repairing ceramics with gold, she put herself back together and found her way down a new path, helping others see light through the darkness of their grief.  In her own grief, she went searching for something simple that would help her focus on her healing.   She found nothing suitable.  In consultation with her mum, Bonnie, Erica put her whole heart in developing Wolfie's Wish, her own simple product, a deck of pet loss grieving cards. Each card carries a message, an instruction, an affirmation for dealing specifically with pet loss and the grief that accompanies it.  The cards were first runner-up in the Accessories and Gifts category for the Best New Product awards at Superzoo, a large pet industry trade show, in 2022.  The cards are just the beginning of the empire Erica wants to build as she steps forward into this new life of pet loss grief and being of service to pet guardians around the world.   What to listen for  4:06 Why Erica sought professional help for her own grief  12:20 Erica's mission to help others in their grief  21:25 Learning to talk to people in a more empathetic way  32:01 How Erica finds new ways to support people in grief  37:29 How to give someone grieving space to feel  Where to find Erica  Wolfie's Wish  Instagram  Facebook: Wolfie's Wish Pet Loss Support Group  YouTube  Other resources mentioned in this episode  David Kessler's Healing Grief Card Deck  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

One Last Network founder Angela Schneider digs deep into the complex, intertwined emotions of guilt and grief.  Angela is a grief educator certified by David Kessler and grief.com and a pet loss grief companion certified by Two Hearts Pet Loss Center. Losing a pet can be an incredibly challenging and heartbreaking experience, and understanding the psychological aspects behind guilt and grief can help us navigate this difficult journey. The loss of a pet has a profound impact on our lives. Our pets become cherished family members, offering unconditional love, companionship and joy. Losing them brings a number of complex emotions. We are often tortured in our grief by feelings of guilt, wishing we could have done more. The sad reality is, though, that our pets don't live as long as we would like them to. Listen as Angela offers her personal experience and some thoughts on how to confront your feelings of guilt as you grieve the loss of your pet. What to listen for 2:23 Why losing a pet is so difficult 4:06 How self-blame can determine the way we grieve 5:40 Why we feel guilt after our pets die 9:14 How a bucket list can help us prepare 11:13 How to confront your feelings of guilt Resources mentioned in this episode Grief.com How Guilt Stops Us from Feeling Helpless (The Science of Grief) with David Kessler The Role of Cognitive Variables in Psychological Functioning After the Death of a First Degree Relative Guilt in Bereavement: The Role of Self-Blame and Regret in Coping with Loss --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, your pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water, and sunshine, and friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who have been ill and old are restored to health and strength, those who were hurt are made better and strong again, like we remember them before they go to heaven. They are happy and content except for one small thing—they each miss someone very special to them who had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are shining, his body shakes. Suddenly he begins to run from the herd, rushing over the grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cuddle in a happy hug never to be apart again. You and your pet are in tears. Your hands again cuddle his head and you look again into his trusting eyes, so long gone from life, but never absent from your heart, and then you cross the Rainbow Bridge together. The Rainbow Bridge has long been a comfort to many whose pets have gone onto the next world. The Facebook photos that get shared whenever someone posts about their loss usually list the author as "unknown." It was recently discovered, though, that it was written by a Scottish artist and animal lover, Edna Clyne-Rekhy. She was 19 at the time -- more than 60 years ago -- and grieving the loss of her Labrador retriever, Major. Her mother suggested she write how she was feeling. She showed it to friends. They wanted their own copies. It got passed around. It got changed over time. Sixty years later, the sentiment remains the same. Our pets are waiting in some supernatural field of flowers and rainbows. Waiting for us. And many who are raised to belief in an afterlife find the words soothing, a promise that we'll see our beloved fur friends again. Others find it off-putting. What if there's no afterlife? Why does my dog have to just sit there and wait for me until I die? What if … how does … and why … As a recovering Catholic and an atheist, I wanted to dig deeper into this. Is the Rainbow Bridge the right piece of prose to share to someone whose pet just died? Is it meaningful, hurtful or an empty gesture like "thoughts and prayers"? I put my friend Beth Bigler, a pet loss grief counsellor and the mastermind behind @honoringouranimals, on the hot seat. What to listen for 4:46 Why we must be inclusive with beliefs in pet loss grief 12:39 How we maintain our connection after our pets have died 16:02 The confusion Beth experienced after Arne died 22:25 Why we must mirror a griever's language to provide support 27:30 How we can show up for people experiencing pet loss grief 36:59 Coping with the uncertainty of death, loss and grief --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support

Acupuncture is a practice originating from traditional Chinese medicine that involves the insertion of fine needles into specific points on the body to stimulate natural healing processes. I had it done on my right hand when I was healing from a broken Bennet's joint and on my shoulder when I was healing from a torn rotator cuff -- both epically stupid softball injuries. I also had it done on Shep in Calgary when we couldn't get in to see his chiropractor. That was in 2011 or 12. Over the last 20  years, acupuncture has picked up steam as a valuable therapeutic option for pets, especially senior cats and dogs. It helps with pain management, stress and anxiety reduction, mobility and flexibility and support for organ function. It has even been shown to improve weak immune systems. Today, Lynn Sehnert of Lance and Lili Pet Photography in Loudon County, Virginia, whose story you heard last week, interviews the veterinarian who helps manage her two dogs' health and anxiety. Dr. Kathleen Phillips owns the Franklin Farm Veterinary Clinic in Herndon, Virginia. She is originally from Buffalo, New York, and is the unfortunate fan of the NHL Sabres and the NFL Bills … as we say in the sports world, always a bridesmaid, never a bride. Anyhow … Dr. Phillips shares with us how acupuncture works and how she has seen vast improvements in the health and quality of life of several patients. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/onelastnetwork/support