Overpowering Emotions Podcast: Helping Children and Teens Manage Big Feels

Emotions don't just “happen”—they're built on signals from the body. In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, we explore how affect—the body's internal state—shapes what kids (and adults) feel, label, and act on. From blood sugar crashes that masquerade as anger, to dehydration that looks like anxiety, you'll learn how body signals are often misread as emotional problems.Discover practical strategies to help children and teens decode their body's “dashboard lights,” build emotional literacy, and prevent misdiagnosis of mood or behavior challenges. Whether you're a parent, educator, or mental health professional, this episode will help you shift the way you support kids who seem dysregulated for “no reason.”Homework Ideas✅ Daily Body Budget Check-insAsk kids: “What's your body telling you right now?”Use body scan visuals (head, chest, stomach, muscles) to track signals.✅ Battery AnalogyPrint or draw a battery chart (100% → low power mode).Have kids check their “charge level” before school, after school, and bedtime.✅ Hydration + Snack RoutineCreate a snack station with healthy, quick options.Encourage kids to drink water at transitions (before school, after recess, after homework).✅ Sleep ResetUse a “sleep log” for one week to track bedtime, wake time, and energy.Share the pattern with kids so they can see how rest affects mood.Enjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/X: https://x.com/drcarolinebuzWebsite: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/#resourcesBusiness inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline zeroes in on emotional literacy as an essential foundation of all self-regulation. From everyday behaviours to big emotional outbursts, the ability to name and understand emotions changes everything. Learn why kids often shut down, spiral, or explode when they don't have the right words—and how to build their emotional vocabulary in ways that are playful, specific, and powerful. You'll walk away with real-world tools and creative strategies to support kids at every stage. Learn what you need to help kids feel, name, and regulate emotions—so they can build confidence, connection, and resilience. Homework Ideas & Resources Daily Feelings Check-InsUsing a visual, like a feelings wheel or emojis, ask: · How do you feel right now?· How do you know?Resource: use the feels wheel, emotions list, or emojis in the emotional literacy resource book Build an Emotion Word WallStart with basic categories (mad, sad, happy, scared). Then expand with synonyms and nuance (e.g., “annoyed,” “resentful,” “embarrassed,” “overwhelmed”). Ask kids to:· Sort words by intensity· Compare synonyms (What's the difference between nervous and uneasy?)· Add new words they discover in books, music, or real life Emotion Detective JournalEach day, kids track:· One emotion they felt· What may have triggered it· What they noticed in their body, thoughts, and behaviour· What helped, what didn'tThis supports emotional tracking and self-awareness over time. Check out the Emotional Literacy Resource to help you with each of these activities (https://korulearninginstitute.kit.com/emotionalliteracy) Enjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/X: https://x.com/drcarolinebuzWebsite: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/#resourcesBusiness inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Emotions aren't just “big feelings” — they're information. In this episode of Overpowering Emotions Dr. Caroline breaks down the building blocks of affect, emotions, feelings, and moods to show why understanding the differences matters for kids' self-regulation. Learn how the brain interprets emotional signals, why emotions guide survival and decision-making, and how pleasant and unpleasant emotions both play a role in resilience. You'll walk away with a clearer map for helping children (and yourself) move from overwhelmed to informed by emotional experiences.Homework IdeasBoosting Pleasant Moods Journal: Each day, have kids write or draw one moment of pleasant emotions. Talk about how it gave them energy for learning or connecting.Behaviour vs Emotion Reflection: When a child engages in a behaviour, separate it from emotion: “It makes sense your body wanted to slam the door when you were angry. Anger's job is to protect. Let's find another way to do that.”Brain Mapping: Help kids recognize the connections between thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, and show how their brain can be “rewired” to respond differently over time.Draw (or print) a simple brain with two key parts labeled:Amygdala = “Alarm System” (sometimes right, sometimes glitchy)Prefrontal Cortex = “Wise Coach” (helps calm the alarm with reason and practice)Explain: “When something scary or stressful happens, the amygdala sets off the alarmbefore you even think. Your prefrontal cortex can calm it down—but only if youpractice sending it the right messages. We're going to map how your brainreacts, and then practice rewiring it.”Map a Real-Life Situation: On a piece of paper, draw four columns:Trigger / Situation (“What happened? What set off the alarm?”)Thoughts (“What was running through your mind?”)Feelings / Body Signals (“What did your body do?” Racing heart? Sweaty palms? Stomach ache?)Actions / Behaviors (“What did you do next? Did you avoid, yell, freeze, or something else?”)Have kids fill them in whenever they experienced strong emotions. Guide with prompts like: “When did your amygdala set off the alarm this week?”Connect the dots:Show how actions (like avoidance) may have made the amygdala stronger (“see, I was right, that was dangerous!”).Show how helpful actions (like staying in the situation, using calming skills, or reframing a thought) send the opposite message (“actually, this wasn't dangerous, I can handle it”).Draw arrows to make a cycle diagram: Trigger → Thoughts → Feelings → Actions → Amygdala ResponseAsk: “Did your brain get tricked into making the cycle worse, or did your brain start learning it could handle it?”Practice rewiring the brain: For each mapped example, add a new column called: “Rewire Response” (What could I think, feel, or do differently next time to help my brain learn I can handle it?)Examples:Thought: “This is panic, but I can ride it out.”Action: “Instead of leaving, I'll stay one more minute.”Feeling: “I might still feel scared, but it doesn't mean I'm in danger.”Reflect & Track Progress: At the end of the week, ask:“When did your prefrontal cortex win this week?”“What did your amygdala learn?”“What cycle do you want to rewire next?”Enjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/X: https://x.com/drcarolinebuzWebsite: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/#resourcesBusiness inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Teen years are a time of big feelings, strong peer influence, and still-developing self-control. In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline explores how peers can be powerful allies in helping kids and teens strengthen self-regulation. From co-regulation strategies and group skill-building to peer mentoring and conflict resolution practice, discover how friendships and social dynamics can support emotional growth. Find practical ways to harness peer influence in building resilience, impulse control, and healthy relationships.Homework Ideas:Emotion Labeling Practice: Encourage kids to name their feelings daily (use a chart or journal).Peer Role-Play: Pair kids with peers or siblings to practice handling conflicts, giving space for respectful disagreement.Shared Problem-Solving: Present a real-world challenge and have kids brainstorm solutions together, discussing which strategies help regulate emotions.Self-Regulation Coaching Pairs: Set up peer partners who check in with each other on goals, frustrations, and coping tools.Celebrating Success: Create a system (classroom board, home chart, or group circle time) where kids recognize when peers used self-regulation strategies well.Enjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/X: https://x.com/drcarolinebuzWebsite: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/#resourcesBusiness inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Self-regulation isn't just about teaching kids to “calm down.” It's about what's happening around them—the relationships, routines, and environments that shape how they manage emotions and reach goals. In this episode of #overpoweringemotions Dr. Caroline breaks down the often-overlooked elements that make or break self-regulation development: chaotic households, screen dependency, co-regulation pitfalls, and the surprising role of peers. If you're a parent, teacher, or clinician working with kids or teens, this one's for you.We cover:• Why adult emotional regulation directly affects kids' behavior• How co-regulation can backfire if you're doing too much• The impact of adversity, screen time, and stress on kids' brains• Why school and community settings are vital for real change• The difference between training toddlers and coaching teensHomework Ideas:Adult Self-Regulation Check-InReflect on the past 3 days: • How did you respond to stress? • Did your kids or students see you calm down? • When did you yell, rush, or shut down? → Write down one pattern you want to shift. → Share it with a co-parent or colleague for accountability.Co-Regulation InventoryUse this to evaluate how you're supporting kids' emotional development. Be honest—this isn't about guilt, it's about growth.PART 1: Your Emotional AvailabilityOver the past 3 days… ☐ Did I stay calm when my child/teen was upset? ☐ Did I model pausing and taking a breath? ☐ Did I respond with connection before correction? ☐ Did I name emotions without dismissing or fixing them? ☐ Did I let them feel uncomfortable without jumping to solve it?Reflection Prompt: When they were overwhelmed, did I show up in a way that made things feel safe—or more stressful?”PART 2: Your Habits That Might Be Getting in the WayCheck any that apply: ☐ I often talk for my child when they're upset ☐ I immediately distract or fix when they're struggling ☐ I raise my voice when things escalate ☐ I jump in too fast instead of coaching them through ☐ I feel emotionally wiped out and lose patience quicklyTry This Reframe: Instead of “How do I get them to calm down?” ask: “How do I help them build the skills to handle this next time?”PART 3: Skills to StrengthenWhich of these could you practice this week? ☐ Allowing space for emotional expression ☐ Staying regulated in front of dysregulation ☐ Using fewer words when things escalate ☐ Validating their feelings—even if you don't agree ☐ Practicing stress recovery yourself (sleep, food, rest)Personal Reflection * What pattern do I want to shift this week? * What usually triggers my reactivity? * What would support *me* in staying grounded?Coaching Phrase to Use This Week: “You don't have to fix it right now. I'm here with you while we ride it out.”Collaboration ConversationsUse the following tips and example scripts to create structure and routines without power struggles. Key goals:✅ Reduce resistance✅ Build autonomy✅ Strengthen connection✅ Support emotional regulationBEFORE YOU START: 3 Ground Rules1. Stay calm and neutral2. Assume good intentions3. Make it feel like a team effort—not a lectureFor Younger Children (Ages 5–10)Example Goal: Create a bedtime or morning routineScript Starter: “Hey buddy, mornings have felt kinda rushed lately. Can we come up with a plan together so it feels smoother for both of us?”Prompt Questions: * “What do you like doing first when you wake up?” * “What part is hardest for you?” * “Would it help to have a checklist or pictures?” * “Should we race the timer tomorrow and see if we can beat it?”Collaborative Statement:“Let's pick 3 things you'll do in order. I'll help you remember until it's a habit.”Tip: Let them draw or decorate their routine chart. Ownership = buy-in.For Tweens and Teens (Ages 11+)Example Goal: Homework + Screen BalanceScript Starter:“You're getting older, and I want you to have more say in how your time goes. Can we figure out a plan together so screens and homework don't fight each other?”Prompt Questions: * “When do you feel most focused?” * “Would you rather work in one block or take breaks?” * “What's something I should stop doing that makes it harder?” * “What's a fair plan for screen time after work is done?”Collaborative Statement:“Let's test this plan for a few days and tweak it if it's not working. I want this to feel fair, not forced.”Boundaries Script: When They ResistUse this when things start to spiral: “I'm not here to control you. I want to figure this out together. I'm going to take a pause and we can try again when we're both ready to work as a team.”Bonus Prompts for Any Age“What's one thing that would make [school mornings / bedtime / dinner time] better?”“What do you want to have control over here?”Let's pick one small thing to try this week. You pick it.”Enjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/X: https://x.com/drcarolinebuzWebsite: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/#resourcesBusiness inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

This episode of #OverpoweringEmotions breaks down the most effective strategies to help kids and teens manage their impulses, emotions, and behaviours beyond the usual “just breathe” advice. Dr. Caroline covers a broad range of effective interventions from mindfulness and CBT to distress exposures, DBT skills, emotional literacy, family supports, and system-wide approaches. Learn more about the importance of building habits and brain skills for lifelong self-regulation.Homework Ideas:Audit Your Child's EnvironmentCheck for unnecessary stressors that are making regulation harder: noise, screen overload, lack of sleep, poor transitions.Create a checklist of daily rhythm points (wake-up, meals, after-school, bedtime) to spot hidden pressure points.Daily 3-2-1 Ritual • 3 things that made me feel good today • 2 people I felt connected to • 1 thing I want to try this weekEmotion Literacy JarFill a jar with feeling words and scenarios (e.g., “Someone cuts in line,” “You're left out”). Pull one a day and practice labeling feelings + planning a regulation strategy.Practice “Opposite Action” TogetherCreate a family challenge where each person picks one “opposite action” moment a day (e.g., stay when you want to leave, speak kindly when annoyed). Reflect together at dinner.If needed, use these prompts to help kids practice doing the opposite of what their emotion urges them to do. • You feel like yelling → Try whispering instead• You want to leave the room → Try staying for 1 more minute• You feel like slamming the door → Try closing it gently• You want to ignore someone → Try making eye contact and saying hi• You feel like quitting → Try doing 2 more minutes of effort• You want to scroll → Try putting your phone in another room• You feel embarrassed → Try smiling or staying in the momentEnjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/X: https://x.com/drcarolinebuzWebsite: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/#resourcesBusiness inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Is boredom a problem—or a powerful emotional signal? In this episode of #Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline challenges the modern urge to “fix” boredom and shares why it's actually essential for emotion regulation, creativity, and executive function. Learn how boredom acts as a reset for the brain, encourages self-reflection, and builds resilience in kids and adults alike. Discover why sitting in stillness matters more than ever—and how doing nothing may be exactly what growing minds need.Homework Ideas Schedule daily "do-nothing" breaks: 3–5 minutes of intentional stillness—no phones, music, or multitasking. Just breathe, notice, and pause.Model boredom tolerance: Say “I'm bored too—let's sit with it together” (even if you aren't). Normalize the emotion without rushing to fix it. Who knows what spark might happen!Reframe the language: Instead of “I'm bored,” try “I'm resetting” or “I'm giving my brain a break.” Teach this shift to your kids.Observe your own reaction to kids' boredom: Are you rushing to solve it? Sit with that discomfort too.Create a boredom menu: Use the resource below as a proactive list of creative activities kids can reference before they feel bored. Designed to spark curiosity after rest—not replace it. Resource:119 ideas: https://korulearninginstitute.kit.com/119activities Enjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/X: https://x.com/drcarolinebuzWebsite: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/#resourcesBusiness inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

In this episode of #Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline breaks down self-regulation into its three essential parts—cognitive, emotional, and behavioural—and explains why emotional overload can derail even the best intentions.Learn how executive functions like attention, working memory, and impulse control interact with emotions and behaviors, why common strategies fall short, and what actually helps kids (and adults) build lasting regulation skills.This episode sets the stage for real, effective support, especially for emotional intensity.Homework IdeasDelay Gratification ChallengeSet up small daily challenges that build delay tolerance—e.g., “Wait 10 minutes before dessert,” or “Finish one task before checking your phone.” Model it yourself too.Track Hot vs. Cold Brain StatesObserve kids across the day and label whether they're in a “hot” (emotional, reactive) or “cold” (calm, thinking) brain state. Identify physical or emotional clues that suggest which brain is active. Review patterns together at the end of the week to identify triggers or strengths. Use this to plan to proactively target, teach, and/or reinforce regulation skills. Have kids help too - building awareness of their internal states is the first step toward better self-regulation.Ideas of what to track:DateTime of Day/ActivityBrain State (Hot or Cold?)Clues I Noticed (e.g., heart racing, calm body, fast talking)Enjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/X: https://x.com/drcarolinebuzWebsite: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/#resourcesBusiness inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

What's really behind your child's procrastination, meltdowns, or avoidance? It might not be defiance—it could be a gap in self-regulation skills. In this episode of #overpoweringemotions Dr. Caroline breaks down how to support kids and teens in building the tools they need to follow through on goals—whether it's brushing teeth or studying for a test. She emphasizes the need for a framework to develop goal-directed behavior and executive skills. You'll learn strategies in developing self-regulation, including making expectations clear and concrete, using backward planning, and coach kids with self-talk strategies that actually work. She also discusses the importance of proactive planning, reflection, and promoting supported autonomy to help children develop independence and self-regulationPerfect for anyone looking to foster independence, build resilience, and stop the constant nagging cycle.

Today Dr. Caroline breaks down the difference between self-regulation and self-control—and why confusing the two leads to ineffective strategies. She explores how self-control is tied to social connection, modeling, and co-regulation. Learn what actually helps kids build emotional regulation that lasts. A must-listen for anyone wanting to support kids through stress, frustration, and big feelings.Homework IdeasNarrate Your Own Regulation:Start talking out loud when you're managing frustration or stress. (“I'm feeling overwhelmed, so I'm going to pause and take a few deep breaths.”)Spot and Praise the Pause:Catch kids using restraint (no matter how small) and acknowledge it. (“I noticed you stopped before yelling—great job catching yourself!”)Build Predictable Routines:Identify one part of the day that often brings stress. Create a simple visual schedule or routine to reduce unpredictability and set kids up for success.Model Emotional Vocabulary:Teach kids words for their emotions. Practice using phrases like “frustrated Fred showed up again—what do we want to do with him?”Create a Co-Regulation Plan:Work with kids to come up with ways you can support them during tricky moments. What helps them feel safe enough to pause?Enjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/X: https://x.com/drcarolinebuzWebsite: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/#resourcesBusiness inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Kids aren't defiant, lazy, or unmotivated—they're often stuck without the tools to follow through. In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline digs into what self-regulation actually means, how it connects to goal-directed behaviour, and what adults can do to guide kids without falling into the nagging trap. Dr. Caroline breaks down the executive function skills kids need to stay focused, manage frustration, and follow through—whether it's brushing teeth or finishing homework. You'll learn how to make expectations visible, teach kids to plan backwards, and create visual guides, flowcharts, and self-talk strategies that stick. This just may be the reset you didn't know you needed. Homework Ideas Create a Visual Goal Planner Pick one goal (e.g., be ready for school by 8:15 AM). Work together to break it down into small, concrete steps. Use backward planning to identify each task. Start from the last step and work backward to the first then create a visual flowchart or checklist with images or icons. ✅ Optional: If you want to help build time management as well, have them predict how long each step will take and write how long it actually takes.Tip: Take photos of each step and use them to create a visual guide. Step What needs to happen? Predicted time Actual time Develop Self-Coaching ScriptsHelp kids create their own inner coach with motivational phrases to stay focused and keep going. Brainstorm 3–5 short self-coaching phrases when things get hard. Frame them as “I can…” or “When I feel ___, I can ___.” You can use the prompts below to help them come up with their own helpful phrases. I can...Example: I can do one small thing right now. When I feel frustrated, I can...Example: Ask for help. When I feel like giving up, I can remind myself...Example: I've done hard things before. Create your own:1. __________________________________________2. __________________________________________3. __________________________________________4. __________________________________________5. __________________________________________Post these scripts somewhere visible—on a binder, wall, or mirror—for easy remindersEnjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/X: https://x.com/drcarolinebuzWebsite: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/#resourcesBusiness inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Music hits different when it speaks to your soul—and it can do the same for kids. In this episode, Dr. Caroline explores how music affects the brain and the role it can have in helping kids manage emotions. When using music intentionally, not as a distraction but as a tool, the right playlist can help kids process emotions, shift moods, and respond to situations proactively. Hear more about helping kids build their own music toolbox to boost emotional balance, increase self-awareness, and manage everyday stress. From pump-up jams before a hockey game to sad songs that offer comfort after a rough day, music meets us where we are—and can help guide us forward.Homework IdeasMusic ToolboxHelp kids create a personalized Music Toolbox with (at least) three intentional playlists:Power Playlist – Songs that boost confidence and focus before tough tasks or sports.Chill-Out Playlist – Calming tracks to slow breathing and ease transitions or stress.Comfort Playlist – Sad or emotionally honest songs to help process and release tough feelings. Ask:“What does this song make you feel?”“Where do you feel it in your body?”“When would this song help you most?” ModelTalk about how YOU use music for motivation, calm, and processing emotions. Create and use your own playlists too! Model intentional use of music for emotional regulation. ExperimentOver the next week, help kids experiment with different genres and tempos of music. Try at least three types of music they don't normally listen to. After listening to each type for a few minutes, have them jot down their responses:What emotion(s) came up?Where did you feel it in your body? What thoughts popped into your head?Would you choose to listen to that again when you feel overwhelmed, sad, bored, anxious, or unmotivated? Create a Music Reset PlanHelp kids use music proactively for emotional balance and stress regulation. Have them pick a moment during their day when they might feel stressed or scattered and listen to a (helpful) personal playlist to promote balance. Choose 3–5 songs that calm, motivate, or ground. Use it regularly throughout the day every day.For the first week, it is helpful to answer these reflection questions after each use:What mood were you in before you listened?What changed (if anything) afterward?Was the music helpful for getting back on track?Would you change anything on your playlist?Invite kids to create different versions: a “wake-up reset,” a “pre-test calm,” or a “post-conflict cool-down” playlist.Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

We know movement is good for mood. But what if it's also the missing link to helping kids (and adults) become better problem solvers? In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline explains how physical movement helps regulate emotions, unlock creativity, and activate the brain's problem-solving systems. Learn why talking while walking is more effective than sitting face-to-face, how to avoid getting stuck in emotional venting loops, and what kind of movement actually shifts kids from spiraling into clarity. This is more than a brain break—this is a strategy that works.Learn practical ideas to help kids problem-solve when emotions run high.Homework Ideas✅ Try the “Load-and-Move” Strategy: Go for a walk. Before the walk, ask your child to think of one question they're stuck on (e.g., What should I do about my friend ignoring me?).· During the walk or rhythmic activity: Don't push for answers. Let the thoughts flow and the body move.· After the walk: Ask what popped up during the activity. Was anything clearer?✅ Incorporate Brain-Body Breaks· Set timers for 15–20 minutes during homework or classwork to stand, stretch, or walk.· Use silly dances, skipping, or “shake it off” routines to release tension.✅ Shift from Face-to-Face to Side-by-Side· Use walking conversations instead of sit-down problem-solving talks. It eases pressure and opens dialogue.Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

What if emotional health wasn't something we “talked about” but something kids could actually practice—every single day? In this episode, Rafael McMaster of Indivisible Arts joins Caroline to share the 7 practical tools his nonprofit teaches Gen Z and Gen Alpha youth to build emotional strength, self-awareness, and authentic connection.They explore why most kids say “I'm fine” when they're not, how screens and social pressure are rewiring the teen brain, and what it really takes to build emotional resilience from the inside out. You'll hear how even young kids ae learning to recognize unhelpful thought loops, shift their mindset with tools like G-flipping, and create meaning through creativity and connection.Perfect for educators, parents, and mental health professionals ready to move beyond theory and give youth tools they'll actually useHomework IdeasLearn and Practice the 7 Tools Yourself• Awareness: Notice recurring patterns of emotions. • Acceptance: Let go of needing things to be different right now.• Intention: Set a daily intention using feeling-based language.• G-Flip: Reframe a frustration into a gratitude-based statement.• Compassion: Show yourself the kindness you'd give your child.• Forgiveness: Write one letter to release resentment (even if you never send it).• Connection: Schedule a creative or awe-filled moment—walk in nature, make art, or sit in stillness.Start “Tool Talks” With Youth• Ask: “Which tool do you think we both need today?”• Practice one together for 5 minutes before bed or after school. About Rafael Rafael McMaster is a creative leader in youth mindfulness - teaching consciousness to the next Generation of students in a fresh way. He founded a youth creative laboratory - Resin, in Hermosa Beach, CA - as well as founding a 501c3 non-profit, Indivisible Arts that teaches fundamental life tools to youth. Rafael just published his first book, the “Fundamental Life Tools” this month, as well as the Emerging Consciousness Broadcast Center, and one destination where youth can begin learning about consciousness through tools being taught by fellow teens and youth.Check out his new book! Fundamental Life Tools: Self-Empowering Toolkit for Being Where to find RafaelWebsites: https://www.indivisiblearts.org/ https://www.rafaelmcmaster.com/ https://www.theemergingc.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rafael-mcmaster-ba573531/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rafaelmcmasterart/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mcmaster.peace/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVP8eNYx58zWant to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

In this episode of #OverpoweringEmotions, Dr. Caroline chats with holistic psychotherapist Keri Cooper about the overlooked building blocks of mental health: sleep, nutrition, hydration, movement, and screen habits. They dive into simple daily shifts that make a big difference for kids' emotional well-being. Discover easy strategies that boost resilience, focus, and mood. Plus, hear how small parenting habits today shape lifelong mental health.This conversation is packed with practical takeaways you can start today.Tune in and find out how small, doable changes can create big wins for kids and teens.Homework Ideas:Remove phones from bedrooms at night. Set up a central charging station for the family.Eat one meal together daily — even if it's messy or short. Focus on showing up, not perfection.Shift to water-only drinking at home — replace sodas and sugary drinks with water.Introduce a wind-down routine — screens off 1 hour before bed. Try board games, a walk, or reading.Get kids involved in meal planning or cooking — even just one meal a week.Prefer to watch?About Keri:Keri Cooper, LCSW, is the owner of Keri Cooper Holistic Therapy in northern New Jersey. In her private practice, she counsels teens and works to give them the tools they need to navigate life. Keri takes a holistic approach to therapy, looking at the whole person, not just their symptoms.Website for more tips and free downloads: kericooperholistictherapy.comWant to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

In this episode, Dr. Caroline takes a closer look at the surprising ways breathing can interfere with emotional regulation, especially for children and teens facing anxiety, OCD, and emotional reactivity. From avoidance and compulsions to relaxation-induced anxiety, she unpacks why breathing isn't always the right answer—and how to teach it in ways that build strength, not dependency.There are certainly times breathing is important - after all, we need to breathe to live. And yes, there are times when it can help with regulation. But it's important to know how to spot unhelpful patterns, support kids with intentional breath work, and shift the focus from controlling feelings to building real tolerance for discomfort.This one's especially for anyone who's ever been told to “just breathe”—and found it didn't work.Homework IdeasGoal: Support kids and teens in using breathing at helpful times without turning it into avoidance or compulsion.When emotions come up, this is a great opportunity to replace “Take a deep breath to calm down” with dropping into the body and noticing what is happening there.Check out this worksheet and use it to guide your practice.Introduce “pause–breathe–choose” in low-stakes moments (e.g., before dinner, before homework) to reinforce decision-making over reactivity.Create a “Breath Check” prompt (for yourself!):Why are you asking a child to take a breath right now? What do you want that breath to do?To stay with it… or to get away from it?”Is this helping them learn? Move toward what matters?Model screen-free, wind-down routines at night, including stretching, reading, or gentle music.Eat one phone-free family meal per day. No pressure to talk—just be together. Use this to support sleep/wake rhythms and encourage healthier food choices.Prefer to watch? Check out my YouTube channelEnjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/X: https://x.com/drcarolinebuzWebsite: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/#resourcesBusiness inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Today's guest, Laura Lyles Reagan, family sociologist and parenting communication coach, brings powerful reminders about the deep social roots of teen well-being. We unpack how intentional rites of passage, strong support networks, and real communication shape a teenager's sense of safety and belonging — and how we can step up in meaningful ways. Tune in to hear practical ways to help teens build resilience and confidence in a world that can feel overwhelming. Small steps make a lasting difference.Homework Ideas:Build a Teen Support Network Map Help teens list trusted adults and mentors they can turn to for different types of support (academic, emotional, practical). Use a simple tree, mind map, or committee chart.Create Family Rites of Passage Identify and celebrate meaningful milestones beyond academics (e.g., first solo trip to the store, managing their own schedule, contributing to a family project).Practice Conscious Conversations Focus on open-ended questions and true listening without judgment or "but" statements. Model emotional safety by validating feelings before offering advice.Introduce a Communication Journal Set up a simple journal where teens can share thoughts with parents or mentors outside of stressful moments.ResourcesConversation Starters to use with silent or moody teens and the Conflict Free Conversation Checklist at https://LauraLReagan.comSociety for the Prevention of Teen SuicideAbout LauraLaura Lyles Reagan, MS is a family sociologist, youth development researcher, parent and teen communication coach and award-winning author of How to Raise Respectful Parents. She helps parents and teens move from conflict to connection that lasts a lifetime. She teaches communication skills which help parents co-create solutions to problems and build positive futures together in her coaching practice and parent workshops nationwide.https://LauraLReagan.comFacebook Group, @Brave Parents Raising TeensWant to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

When emotions get tangled up in rumination, kids—and adults—can stay stuck. Expressive writing offers a way out.In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline Buzanko shares how writing helps shift overwhelming emotions into structured thinking, builds resilience, and keeps the brain's self-regulation system online. She explains why freewriting beats silent spiraling, how to introduce this tool to kids, and how a simple daily habit can create lasting emotional change.This episode explores:· Why writing regulates better than talking or thinking· How to introduce structured emotional writing at home and school· Ways to adapt expressive writing for different ages and comfort levels· How to use gratitude journals, letters, and storytelling to strengthen resilienceHomework Ideas:Personal TrialSpend 15–20 minutes writing freely about an emotional experience for 4 consecutive days. No editing, no structure. Just write.Introduce to Kids· Adapt freewriting for different ages: drawing, storytelling, or voice-to-text if needed.· Introduce a Feelings Journal with no rules—just a safe space.Gratitude PracticeWrite 3 things you're grateful for each night for one week. Try it with kids too.Communication JournalStart a parent-child or teacher-student communication notebook. Quietly pass it back and forth. No pressure, no corrections.Story RewritesEncourage rewriting tough experiences with a different ending to build emotional flexibility.Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

When it comes to helping kids manage big emotions, we often think about what to say. But sometimes the most powerful support isn't verbal—it's physical.In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline Buzanko explores how safe, affectionate touch builds emotional security, reduces stress, and strengthens connection. Learn how simple, proactive physical contact like hugs, high-fives, and gentle reassurance can regulate emotions better than words ever could.This episode covers:· How touch calms the nervous system and reduces anxiety· Why proactive physical connection builds trust and emotional resilience· Practical ways to use touch to strengthen relationships· How to respect comfort zones while fostering deeper emotional connectionsHomework Ideas:✅ Proactive Connection Challenge· Give at least one extra physical touch every day (hug, high-five, hand on shoulder).· Notice emotional responses without using extra words.✅ Observe and Adjust:· Track how different kids or teens respond to different types of touch.· Respect comfort levels and ask if needed.✅ Mississippi Hugs:· Try a 6-second hug rule ("Six Mississippi's") at key moments: greeting, goodbye, before bedtime.✅ Silent Presence Practice:· Sit quietly next to a dysregulated child without speaking. Focus on calming presence and gentle proximity.Prefer to watch? Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Kids don't manipulate—they learn. And often, they're learning from us.In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline Buzanko takes a hard look at what's really going on when adults feel “manipulated” by big emotions. Whether it's whining, shouting, tears, or shutdowns, we unpack how reinforcement, not manipulation, shapes behavior—and what we can do to stop accidentally teaching kids to rely on emotional outbursts to get what they want.Perfect for anyone with kids or working with kids, this episode delivers:· Why kids lean on emotional reactions (and how they get reinforced)· How to stop giving mixed signals without shutting down expression· Tools to validate emotion without rewarding behavior· Consistent boundaries that build real emotional skillPrefer to WATCH?Homework IdeasAudit Your Reactions· Track one situation where a child whines, yells, or shuts down· Write down your response· Ask: Did I reinforce the behaviour? Did I validate the emotion without changing the rule?Practice Broken Record Validation· Create a go-to phrase: “I hear you. That's frustrating.”· Repeat it calmly when pushback increases—but don't budge on the boundary.Teach the Rules of Communication· Frontload expectations: “I don't understand whining. Talk to me when you're ready.”· Respond with calm consistency every time.Model Emotion OwnershipUse your own stress moments to say: “I'm feeling overwhelmed. I'm going to take a walk and come back when I'm calm.”Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Why do kids push back when we're just trying to help? Why do teens dig in their heels at the simplest request? In this episode, Dr. Caroline chats about the psychology behind resistance—what it really means when children, students, or even adults reject support.We explore:• The real reason behind pushback (hint: it's not defiance)• What “invisible support” looks like—and why it works• Why autonomy matters more than compliance• Subtle strategies to offer help without undermining confidence• How teachers, parents, and professionals can model emotional regulation without a power struggleListen in for practical ways to build trust, offer support that actually works, and create space for real emotional growth.Prefer to watch? Check it out HEREHomework IdeasWeekly Reflection Challenge:1. Identify one moment where you usually offer help.2. Ask: Is this child resisting because they feel controlled?3. Try giving two choices that lead to the same outcome.4. Use the phrase: “Let me know if you need me.”5. Watch for any shift in response. Did they engage more?Observation TaskWatch for a moment your child or student resists your suggestion.Pause. Reflect. Was it about control?Journal the interaction and how it might be reframed next time.Invisible Support Ideas – Helping Without Taking OverHere are some ideas of subtle strategies to support children and teens while respecting their independence and building confidence.

Today on Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline speaks with Kevin Elworth, a father of five, entrepreneur, and resilience advocate, to explore how determination and mindset shape family life and personal growth. Kevin shares his journey from fostering to adoption, navigating financial and emotional challenges, and raising kids to be independent thinkers. Discover actionable strategies to help kids overcome “I can't” mentalities, foster creativity, and redefine failure as learning opportunities. Tune in to get practical advice and inspiring stories to help guide children toward resilience and confidence.Homework IdeasBan “I Don't Know” and “I Can't”: Challenge yourself and kids to replace these phrases with action-oriented alternatives like “I need to research” or “How can I make this possible?”Create “Boredom Time”: Dedicate at least one afternoon per week as a no-screens, unstructured time for kids to explore their creativity.Support Goal-Setting: Help kids identify one goal they're passionate about. Work with them to create a step-by-step plan to achieve it, teaching them to view setbacks as opportunities.Redefine Mistakes: With kids, write down recent “mistakes” and discuss what was learned from each one. Focus on the growth that came from the experience.Identify Strengths: Encourage kids to identify what they're naturally good at and explore how they can use these strengths in creative or entrepreneurial ways.About KevinKevin Elworth is a renowned speaker who delights in making the complex simple with his storytelling style, he's a fan of audiences everywhere who leave challenged, encouraged, and motivated in their pursuit of what comes next. His forthcoming book, Breaking the I Can't Cycle, is sure to compel you toward your own determination and drive to accomplish more.Get in touch:FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=759787935Website: https://www.kevinelworth.live/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Emotions are contagious—and kids absorb others' emotions the fastest.In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline breaks down the science of emotional contagion. Learn social media's impact on emotion regulation and why adults should consider themselves emotional thermostats (vs. thermometers). Learn how your stress, frustration, or calm directly impacts kids' emotions, behaviour, and learning. To help kids regulate emotions, learn how to manage your emotional energy—online and offline—and help kids build emotional resilience.Topics include:Mirror neurons & emotional contagionHow adult moods shape kids environmentStrategies to model emotional regulationSocial media's emotional rollercoasterIdeas to reset emotional energy and stop doom scrollingPrefer to WATCH?Homework IdeasTrack Your Emotional State Around Kids* Pay attention to how your mood shifts and how kids react.* Journal moments when your tone or facial expression changed the energy in the room.Practice Setting the Emotional Tone* During chaos, slow your movements and lower your voice—observe what happens.* Use eye contact and a calm, steady voice to model regulation.Teach Kids About Emotional Contagion:* Watch short videos together that elicit different emotions and talk about how it made them feel.* Ask: “Have you ever felt happier because someone smiled at you?”* Start daily check-ins: “What mood did you catch today? What was yours?”Social Media Reset* Try a 24-hour Social Media Detox—notice emotional shifts.* Curate your social feed: unfollow draining accounts, follow pages that inspire.Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

How often do you notice the voice in your head? That constant chatter guiding your choices, second-guessing decisions, or even holding you back? On this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline unpacks the power of our inner voice—how it helps us problem-solve, remember details, and coach ourselves through challenges, but also how it can turn against us with self-doubt and anxiety. Learn practical ways to help yourself and your kids manage that inner dialogue, build confidence, and break free from rumination. It's time to take control of the conversation happening inside your mind.Prefer to watch? Check out: https://youtu.be/M965x8OCt54

Helping Kids Regulate Their Emotions – Without Escalating the ChaosEmotional regulation isn't just about calming kids down—it's about teaching them how to handle their emotions effectively. In this episode, Dr. Caroline chats with Leslie Josel, ADHD parenting coach and executive function expert, to break down why emotional regulation is a crucial executive function skill—and how we can support kids without making things worse.You'll learn: ✔️ Why kids' executive function struggles make emotions even harder to manage ✔️ The #1 mistake adults make when responding to kids' emotional outbursts ✔️ How to de-escalate meltdowns by working with the child's brain, not against it ✔️ Simple strategies to set limits without power strugglesPlus, Leslie shares practical, real-life scripts to help kids feel heard while keeping the peace at home. Tune in and transform the way you handle emotional moments!Prefer to watch? Check it out: https://youtu.be/EjuaF-8mCsYHomework Ideas to Rewire Your Responses to Emotional OutburstsStart with one strategy today and see the difference!

Emotional regulation isn't about staying calm all the time—it's about recognizing emotions, processing them, and responding in a way that helps rather than hurts. In this episode, we break down how kids develop emotional regulation skills, why adults must model these behaviors first, and practical strategies to help children manage frustration, disappointment, and stress.You'll learn:✔️ Why telling kids to “calm down” doesn't work (and what to do instead)✔️ How to model self-regulation in high-stress moments✔️ The #1 mistake parents make when trying to teach emotional regulation✔️ How to help kids recognize and name their emotions✔️ Simple daily practices to build emotional resilienceThis episode is packed with real-world examples, actionable strategies, and tools to help guide children in developing strong self-regulation skills.Watch now and start building a calmer, more emotionally aware environment.

Finding the "Just Right" Challenge: How to Help Kids Grow Without OverwhelmLast week, we talked about the importance of resilience and how stress plays a role in helping kids develop the skills to navigate life's challenges. But how much challenge is too much? And how can we push kids just enough without overwhelming them?In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, we explore the Zone of Proximal Development (ZPD)—the sweet spot where kids stretch beyond their comfort zones while still feeling supported. Think of it as the "Goldilocks Principle" for learning: not too easy, not too hard, but just right.You'll learn: ✔️ How to recognize kids' ZPD and adjust challenges accordingly ✔️ The key difference between guiding and rescuing (and why less talking is often better!) ✔️ Why frustration and mistakes are essential for growth ✔️ Practical, real-life challenges you can use to build independence and problem-solving skillsPlus, check out below for activities designed to help kids push their limits in a way that fosters confidence, resilience, and lifelong motivation.

Resilience isn't about avoiding challenges—it's about learning to face them. In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, we're breaking down exactly what resilience looks like, why kids need stress and adversity to grow, and how parents and teachers can help build it in everyday life.

Today on Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline chats with Justyna Bronski, a life coach and former high school math teacher, to explore the emotional challenges teens face today. From identity struggles to social media pressures, Justyna shares how parents and educators can create an environment where teens feel truly heard, valued, and empowered.You'll learn:✅ Why today's teens feel disconnected (despite being more "connected" than ever)✅ How social media influences identity and emotional avoidance✅ Simple ways to help teens build confidence and emotional awareness✅ Why embracing mistakes is key to growth—and how to model it for kids✅ The power of stepping outside comfort zones (for both teens and parents!)PLUS: Justyna reveals why parents need to focus on their own emotional well-being first—and how that transformation impacts their kids. Homework Ideas:Self-Reflection: Identify moments where your own emotions impact your interactions with kids. Write down one personal trigger and explore where it comes from.Validation Challenge: Go one full day without offering solutions to your teen's concerns—just listen and validate their feelings.Step Outside Comfort Zones: Pick one new experience to try (preferably with your teen). Discuss the emotions it brings up.Mistake Modelling: Share a personal failure with your teen and discuss how you learned from it.Check out Justyna's free video training series: Freebie: What Your Teen Want You to Know ( But Does Not Know How To Ask)About Justyna:Justyna is a former high school teacher with 15 years of experience, during which she gained unique insights into the minds and hearts of hundreds of teens. Now a dedicated life coach for teens, she specializes in helping them navigate overwhelming emotions, build a positive self-image, and foster meaningful relationships. Justyna has also worked as a coach for educators, empowering teachers with strategies to better support their students. Her passion is guiding teens to uncover their authentic selves and thrive emotionally and socially.Website: www.justynabronski.com Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Love isn't just about grand gestures—it's in the little everyday moments that build connection, trust, and self-worth. In this special Valentine's episode of Overpowering Emotions, I discuss how to strengthen relationships with kindness, compassion, and understanding.

Are stress and reactivity running the show? Today on Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline chats with parenting expert Linda Clement to uncover how survival brains hijack our emotions and what we can do to bring calm and connection back into focus. Linda shares simple, science-backed strategies to quiet the stress response and reignite creativity, empathy, and resilience in kids and adults alike. Discover how subtle shifts in your approach can create big changes in emotional well-being and behavior.This conversation offers practical tools that parents, teachers, and anyone working with children can use immediately to foster emotional safety and healthier relationships. Learn how to tune into the body, rewire the brain for calm, and lead by example so kids can thrive in today's high-pressure world.Resources:https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/emotioncardsbodyoutlines/https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/understanding-emotions-and-needs/https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/helping-kids-manage-emotions/ Homework Ideas:Body Awareness Check-In: At the start and end of the day, pause for 30 seconds to notice what your body feels like. Are your shoulders tense? Is your breathing shallow? Share this practice with your kids or students and ask them to describe their own body signals.Finger Sensory Practice: Teach kids how to focus their attention by gently rubbing their fingertips together. Show them how to notice the sensations and use this as a reset tool when emotions run high.Emotion Mapping: Create an "emotion wheel" that matches feelings with physical sensations (e.g., frustration = tight chest, excitement = butterflies). Use it to help kids identify what they're experiencing in real-time.Name Your Triggers: Write down a list of common stress triggers. Discuss how each of you feels when faced with those triggers and brainstorm calming strategies together.Daily Gratitude Game: Everyday, take turns sharing one thing that made you feel safe or happy that day. This reinforces connection and encourages kids to focus on positive experiences.Connect Through Storytelling: Share a time when you felt scared or stressed and how you calmed yourself down. Encourage kids to share their own stories and celebrate their efforts to manage big emotions."Toe Finder" Challenge: During a moment of overwhelm, guide kids to focus on their feet and notice their toes. This quick exercise helps ground them and redirects their attention to the present.Mirror Emotional Words: Start describing emotions you notice in yourself and your child throughout the day (“You seem frustrated right now” or “I feel excited about this!”). This models emotional literacy and normalizes feelings.Thrive Brain Reset Jar: Create a jar with small slips of paper listing sensory grounding activities (e.g., "Take a deep breath and count to five," "Find five red things in the room"). When stress spikes, pull a slip and complete the activity together.About LindaLinda flips the script on parenting, from tips and tricks to "get" them to obey, listen, mind, do what they're told, etc... to listening, supporting, encouraging and nurturing them, instead. Transforming families from conflict and chaos to peaceful and cooperative through confidential parent coaching. Linda has been helping families reach their own goals since 2002. Author of 3 parenting books, Linda earned her Skilled Communicator designation in 2011 with the organization that was originally Toastmistresses. As a softball umpire for 17 years, she is neutral and observant, quickly seeing the key pieces of a family's struggles.Get in touch with LindaEmail: Lindaclement@raisingparents.net FB: www.facebook.com/linda.clement.733/ IG: www.instagram.com/raising_parents_inc Website: www.raisingparents.nethttps://subscribepage.io/mentalfitnessrecordedWant to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Today on Overpowering Emotions, we're talking about what happens after kids learn to name their emotions. Understanding feelings is just the start—helping children manage those emotions is where the magic happens. Discover how emotions influence perception, behaviour, and decision-making, and learn simple, effective strategies to help kids build emotional regulation skills. Learn about practical tools and interactive activities that connect emotions to the body to help kids to navigate their feelings with confidence and clarity. Homework Ideas to Support Kids' Emotional Growth:Daily Mood Check-Ins – Ask your child, “Is your energy high or low? Do you feel pleasant or unpleasant?” Practice this at various points during the day to normalize emotional awareness.Emotion Charades – Act out emotions and have kids guess. This strengthens emotional vocabulary and makes it fun.Mood Jar – Use a clear jar and different colored pom-poms (or beads) for each emotional quadrant. Let kids add to the jar daily based on how they feel.Emotion Dance Party – Play different songs and have kids express emotions through movement. Reflect on how their body felt during each type of music.Body Scans – Guide kids through a body check-in. Ask if their heart is racing, breathing is shallow, or if they feel light and calm. This builds awareness of physical emotional cues.Create an Emotion Toolkit – Work with your child to list activities that help shift moods. Keep this toolkit visible.Resources:Emotion Wheel & Body OutlineUnderstanding Emotions WorksheetHelping Kids Manage Emotions WorksheetMood Meter: Find it on the How We Feel app!Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Today on Overpowering Emotions I discuss how to guide kids in recognizing, accepting, and channeling their feelings to make better decisions and develop stronger emotional intelligence.I provide lots of practical strategies and actionable tools for emotional check-ins so you leave with concrete steps to create calm, confident, and emotionally aware kids.Tune in for insights on how emotions shape behavior and how simple shifts can lead to lasting emotional growth.Homework Ideas: Daily Emotional Check-ins. Practice asking, “How does your body feel right now? Is your energy high or low? Do you feel pleasant or unpleasant?Emotion Wheel Activity: Create or print an emotion wheel. Have your child spin and share a memory related to the emotion it lands on.Mood Jar. Use colored pom-poms or beads to represent emotions at the end of each day.Body Scan Exercise. Guide kids through quick check-ins: “How does your chest feel? Is your heart racing or slow? How is your breathing?Emotion Dance Party. Play different types of music and encourage kids to move based on how the music makes them feel.By incorporating these simple but effective practices into daily routines, you'll nurture emotional intelligence in your kids while creating opportunities for reflection, connection, and growth. Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Anxiety in kids and teens doesn't always look like panic attacks or overt distress. Often, it hides behind stomach aches, perfectionism, or school avoidance. In this episode, I chat with anxiety coach Monica Crnogorac about recognizing the subtle signs of anxiety in teens and understanding how it can manifest.We also discuss practical strategies for:• Supporting teens in managing overwhelming emotions.• Helping them build resilience without becoming dependent on constant reassurance.• Using effective communication to create a safe space for open dialogue.Monica also shares her personal journey with high-functioning anxiety, offering insights into how parents can model healthy behaviours and foster emotional strength in their teens. Listen now to gain the tools and understanding you need to support the teens in your life.Prefer to watch? https://youtu.be/EbS2ksJ_kDIAbout MonicaMonica is a Certified Life & Wellness Coach who helps teens and young adults manage anxiety and overwhelm that disrupt their daily lives. She also hosts the Parenting Anxious Teens podcast, where she connects with parents and shares strategies to better support their teens. Monica offers a free giveaway for both parents and teens when they subscribe to her email list, providing valuable resources and insights to help manage anxiety and foster resilience. Where to find herPodcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/parenting-anxious-teens-parenting-teens-managing-teen/id1757142421 Website: https://www.consciouscoach.biz/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/__consciouscoach/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, I dive back into emotional intelligence (EI) as the foundation for resilience. Discover why teaching kids to recognize and manage their emotions is far more impactful than simply correcting behaviour.I dig even deeper than before, so this will cover a few episodes Today I break down the four branches of EI and share practical strategies to help kids build self-awareness, empathy, and emotional regulation. This is the first step in our journey to continue nurturing emotional resilience in the year to come.Ideas to work on this week:Model Emotional Awareness: Regularly name and express your emotions in front of kids to normalize emotional conversations. When frustrations arise, model taking a deep breath or stepping away momentarily. Narrate this to help kids understand the importance of pausing and responding thoughtfully.Emotion Check-Ins: Set up daily or weekly emotion check-ins with kids. Use simple prompts like, “How are you feeling today and why?”Labeling Emotions: Encourage kids to identify and name their emotions during different situations, both positive and challenging.Gratitude Practice: Start a daily gratitude ritual by asking kids to name three things they are grateful for.Key Points covered:Emotional Intelligence (EI) is essential for raising resilient kids.Identifying strong EI skills in kids. EI focuses on recognizing, understanding, and managing emotions in oneself and others.Emotional regulation helps prevent meltdowns, sibling conflicts, and frustration.The four branches of EI include:Perceiving EmotionsFacilitating Thought with EmotionsUnderstanding EmotionsManaging EmotionsStrong EI correlates with better relationships, empathy, and confidence in kids.Modeling EI as adults is crucial to teaching it effectively.Simple practices like labeling emotions, gratitude exercises, and role-playing help foster EI.Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

As this year comes to a close, it is important for kids to reflect on their growth and set meaningful resilience goals for the year ahead. From celebrating small victories to creating intentions that feel manageable and encouraging, I cover actionable ways to support kids in becoming more confident and capable. Tune in for simple strategies to spark important conversations and foster resilience that lasts.Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, I revisit the foundational elements of raising resilient kids just in time for the holiday season. Learn how to create strong connections with your children through warmth, validation, and intentional interactions. Discover why secure attachments are crucial for emotional regulation and lifelong success and gain actionable tips to strengthen bonds during the holidays. With practical strategies like active listening, validating emotions, and embracing fun, this episode will empower you to nurture confident, resilient kids while fostering joy and connection as a family.

The holidays can be a mix of joy and stress. In this special episode of Overpowering Emotions, we explore practical ways to strengthen resilience during the busiest time of the year. From setting realistic expectations to practicing gratitude and mindfulness, you'll discover how to create meaningful moments, manage family dynamics, and build lasting traditions. Learn how to turn holiday challenges into growth opportunities for your family while staying focused on what truly matters.Bonus: actionable tips and homework to help you and your kids reflect on the resilience built over the past year.

Today on Overpowering Emotions I recap a key skill in building emotional resilience. A key way to manage emotions during stress, foster mindfulness, and encourage kids to tackle challenges head-on. Learn how to help your children build their resilience toolkit, face unpredictable moments, and embrace growth through adversity. Plus, this week's reflective homework will help kids recognize how far they've come.Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Today on Overpowering Emotions: Part 2 of why over-focusing on children's emotions might do more harm than good (recast from the podcast, Parents of the Year). We also discuss practical strategies for helping kids navigate life's ups and downs without being overwhelmed by their feelings.Tune in for another insightful conversation on fostering independence and emotional strength in your children.Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Today on Overpowering Emotions I decided to recast a two-part series from Parents of the Year where Andrew and I talked about how an overemphasis on children's feelings might be doing more harm than good. This is part 1. While it's crucial to acknowledge and respect our kids' feelings, constantly focusing on their emotional states can inadvertently lead to dependency and a lack of resilience. Join us as we unpack the potential pitfalls of emotion-centric parenting in part one of this series and discuss why stepping back and letting kids navigate their feelings independently might be the key to raising more capable, confident adults.Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Caroline welcomes special guest Bridgette Melton, an educator, children's author, and trauma resilience expert, to discuss a unique approach to emotion recognition through auditory awareness.Drawing from her book Arnold's Silent Heart, Bridgette shares how children can learn to recognize and process their emotions by associating them with sounds, offering a new tool for emotional regulation.Together, they explore the importance of helping kids identify their feelings without judgment and the role of auditory cues in fostering resilience. Tune in to learn practical strategies for empowering children with emotional tools that can help them navigate life's challenges.Prefer to watch? https://youtu.be/iNbvUgbhLeMAbout BridgetBridgette is a former early childhood and kindergarten teacher. She holds a Master's in Psychology and is a Certified Trauma and Resilience Practitioner. Importantly, she is a mom of two, which drives her passion for helping kids learn emotional recognition and regulation. Bridgette is trauma-informed and loves helping kids overcome trauma with resiliency. Her first children's book Arnold's Silent Heart embodies her concept, Emotional Recognition through Auditory Awareness. Bridgette believes in the power of small actions to create significant ripples of positive change.Bonus!Use this code: podcast24 for 10% off book purchases at: https://www.bridgettemelton.com/shopWant to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, we dive into the brain's natural ability to adapt to stimuli, known as habituation, and how it can be used to enhance positive experiences while managing unpleasant ones. Dr. Caroline Buzanko shares practical tips for breaking up enjoyable moments to boost long-term happiness and for pushing through tough tasks without taking breaks. From handling anxiety to building resilience in kids, this episode provides actionable strategies for improving emotional regulation and making daily life feel more vibrant.Homework: Learn how to break up enjoyable activities for maximum benefit and help kids power through tough tasks. Try simple strategies at home or in the classroom to shake up routines and make everyday moments more memorable!Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline is joined by award-winning choreographer and dance educator Leslie Kuny. Together, they explore the connection between structured activities, risk-taking, and resilience in children and teens. Leslie shares her insights on how these activities, like dance, can be transformative, teaching kids to embrace challenges, take healthy risks, and build a growth mindset.Tune in to learn how letting experts guide the way can empower young people to set realistic expectations, overcome setbacks, and develop resilience that goes beyond the dance floor or playing field, equipping them with skills for life.Prefer to watch on YouTube?About Leslie KunyLeslie Cooney is an award-winning choreographer, dance educator, and co-founder of Ignite Dance Center in Surrey, British Columbia. With over 20 years of experience, Leslie brings a unique blend of honest feedback and joy to her teaching, fostering supportive and empowering environments for dancers. A graduate of Grant MacEwan and Simon Fraser University's Dance programs, she is also a Level 2 certified Adjudicator with Canadian Dance Leadership and a member of the Professional Adjudicators Alliance. Leslie passionately rejects outdated norms of dance education rooted in shame and guilt, believing that dance is not just an art form but a training ground for life. Her human-first approach, rooted in humor and joy, empowers dancers to achieve greatness on and off the stage. A published author in the collaborative book Pursuit 365: Business Edition, Leslie loves to travel with her husband and has a deep-seated love for musical theatre and comedy.Connect with LeslieInstagram @lesliekunyFacebook https://www.facebook.com/lesliekuny/ lesliekuny@gmail.comlesliekuny.comReady to empower kids with stronger emotion regulation, problem-solving skills, and boost their confidence and resilience? Join Dr. Caroline for live and on-demand workshops designed to help kids thrive. Don't miss out—explore upcoming opportunities now! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Perfectionism can silently shape how kids see themselves, and it often starts with the expectations we unintentionally set. In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline Buzanko breaks down how even well-meaning actions can send kids the wrong message, tying their self-worth to performance instead of effort. From focusing too much on results to setting unrealistic behavioural expectations, we're diving into the subtle ways perfectionism takes root and what we can do to stop it. Learn practical strategies to celebrate progress, validate emotions, and create a healthier family dynamic.Challenge this week: Let go of nagging and fixing and start praising effort over results. Small changes can make a big difference!Ready to empower kids with stronger emotion regulation, problem-solving skills, and boost their confidence and resilience? Join Dr. Caroline for live and on-demand workshops designed to help kids thrive. Don't miss out—explore upcoming opportunities now! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Today on #OverpoweringEmotions, Dr. Caroline discusses how parental perfectionism spills over to kids, creating a cycle of anxiety, fear of failure, and unrealistic expectations. Dr. Caroline shares personal insights on recognizing perfectionist tendencies in ourselves, the negative effects on kids, and, most importantly, practical ways to break this cycle. Learn how to model self-compassion, celebrate mistakes, and focus on progress, not perfection, for a healthier family dynamic.Ready to empower kids with stronger emotion regulation, problem-solving skills, and boost their confidence and resilience? Join Dr. Caroline for live and on-demand workshops designed to help kids thrive. Don't miss out—explore upcoming opportunities now! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, we continue our journey beyond perfectionism and discuss how to help kids use those perfectionistic, binary, all-or-nothing thoughts to their advantage. I share insights from sports psychology to help kids stop freezing up under pressure and instead focus on what they can control—effort, action, and showing up. Learn how to turn rigid thinking into growth opportunities by asking the right questions, celebrating small wins, and setting realistic, manageable steps. Discover simple strategies to help kids build resilience and confidence, not by avoiding failure but by embracing every experience as a chance to learn.Prefer to watch on YouTube?And, check out this week's homework to help kids use perfectionism's rigid, binary thinking to become more flexible. Choose at least one task to model and reinforce these concepts throughout the week.Reframe the Questions You AskInstead of asking outcome-focused questions like “Did you get a goal?” or “What was your grade?”, shift to questions that emphasize effort and participation. Use prompts like “Did you enjoy playing?” or “How did you feel about your effort today?” This helps children focus on their involvement and personal growth rather than just the final result.Create “Did You or Did You Not” TargetsIdentify everyday tasks where the outcome can be defined simply as “Did you or did you not?” For instance, “Did you play the game?” rather than “Did you win?” or “Did you hand in your assignment?” instead of “Did you get it perfect?” At this point of learning to manage perfectionism, simplifying goals helps reduce pressure by focusing on participation and completion rather than perfection. Model Binary Thinking with Your Own TasksDemonstrate this shift in thinking with your own tasks. Verbalize your actions aloud. Children learn a lot from observing adults. Modeling this thinking reinforces the approach in real-life contexts.Set Up “Try Something New” ChallengesEncourage the child to try something new each week where the focus is purely on participation. Examples include trying a new hobby, playing a game, or attempting a new skill. This builds resilience and shows kids that trying is valuable, regardless of immediate success.Ready to empower kids with stronger emotion regulation, problem-solving skills, and boost their confidence and resilience? Join Dr. Caroline for live and on-demand workshops designed to help kids thrive. Don't miss out—explore upcoming opportunities now! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline goes deeper into the practical side of overcoming perfectionism with a focus on procedural thinking. She shares actionable steps to help kids break free from the overwhelming need to be perfect by shifting their mindset to “What's next?” Learn how to guide children through breaking tasks into manageable steps, using reflective questions, celebrating effort, and embracing the journey of trial and error. This episode is packed with tips to foster resilience, adaptability, and a love of learning, helping kids stay focused on progress rather than perfection. Tune in to discover simple yet powerful ways to help children keep moving forward!Prefer to watch? Check out the episode on YouTube!And, to help kids shift away from perfectionism and embrace procedural thinking, choose at least one of these practical homework activities this week.Break Tasks into Manageable StepsChoose a task your child is struggling with or avoiding. Work with them to break it down into smaller, sequential steps. Use visual aids like Post-its, a checklist, or a step-by-step plan on paper. This approach makes overwhelming tasks feel achievable and helps kids stay focused on one step at a time, reducing anxiety.Practice Low-Stakes Problem-SolvingEngage in activities like board games, puzzles, or building blocks where mistakes happen frequently. Use these moments to practice the “What's next?” mindset. When a mistake occurs, gently prompt, “What's next?” to keep the momentum going. This will build familiarity with the “What's next?” approach in a fun, low-pressure setting, making it easier to apply in more stressful situations.If they want, have them make a “What's Next?” visual and display it where they often face challenges. This keeps their focus on the next action rather than getting stuck in self-criticism or rumination.Model “What's Next?” in Your Own LifeVerbally model your problem-solving when you face setbacks or mistakes. Share your thought process aloud, such as, “I made an error in this recipe—what's next? I'll adjust and try again.” Involve your child in finding solutions when appropriate. Doing so demonstrates resilience and flexibility, showing kids that mistakes are normal and manageable.End-of-Day ReflectionAt the end of each day, ask your child to reflect on any mistakes they made and, importantly, what they did next. Discuss how using “What's next?” helped them move forward. These reflections reinforce the habit of focusing on actionable steps and acknowledge their resilience and perseverance.Ready to empower kids with stronger emotion regulation, problem-solving skills, and boost their confidence and resilience? Join Dr. Caroline for live and on-demand workshops designed to help kids thrive. Don't miss out—explore upcoming opportunities now! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, we're tackling the one thing that can completely sabotage a child's mental health. Perfectionism. Today, we explore what it looks like, where it comes from, and how it impacts their emotional well-being. We break down the difference between healthy striving and unhealthy perfectionism, and why it's so important for children to learn that mistakes are not just okay, but a necessary part of growth. Learn how perfectionistic thinking traps kids in anxiety, procrastination, and avoidance, and discover practical strategies to help them shift to a healthier mindset. This episode is packed with actionable tips to support kids in becoming resilient, confident learners who embrace challenges and find joy in the process.And, be sure to check out these homework activities discussed in the episode to help shift perfectionistic thinking and promote a healthier mindset in children.Model Imperfection in Everyday LifeStart narrating your own mistakes aloud in front of your child. For instance, if you burn dinner, talk through it: “Oops, I got distracted. That's okay—I'll adjust and keep going.” Show them how you cope with errors calmly.Celebrate Mistakes as Learning OpportunitiesCreate a “Mistake of the Day” tradition. Encourage everyone to share their mistakes and what they learned from them. Turn it into a fun and positive experience by celebrating these moments.Prefer to watch? Check it out on YouTube!Ready to empower kids with stronger emotion regulation, problem-solving skills, and boost their confidence and resilience? Join Dr. Caroline for live and on-demand workshops designed to help kids thrive. Don't miss out—explore upcoming opportunities now! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/

Today on Overpowering Emotions join Dr. Caroline with special guest Chana Studley, a remarkable figure who transitioned from a Hollywood special effects artist to a leading trauma and addiction counsellor. Chana shares her unique journey from creating illusions in film to unraveling the illusions of the mind, her innovative approach to therapy, and the realization that we are never truly broken. Learn how Chana uses her background in special effects to explain how our minds create illusions of fear and anxiety and discover practical strategies to discover our innate resilience. About ChanaChana Studley is a trauma counselolr with over 30 years experience. She has written 3 books. Her latest book, Very Well, was an Amazon #1 best seller. Chana is passionate about pointing people back to their own innate well-being and showing her clients that no one is ever broken. Connect with Chana Studley:Website: http://chanastudley.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/chanastudleyEmail: info@chanastudley.com Chana's 3 books are all on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/Very-Well-novel-about-hormones/dp/B0BV4LSCFQhttps://www.amazon.com/Painless-novel-Chronic-Mind-Body-Connection/dp/B08PM27MJFhttps://www.amazon.com/Myth-Low-Self-Esteem-Hollywood-healing/dp/1790894573Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcomingevents/

In this concluding episode of this series on managing school avoidance, Dr. Caroline wraps up the school avoidance discussion by focusing on the essential skills students need to acquire and the processes that must be implemented to ensure a successful return to school.If you haven't yet listened to the previous episodes, be sure to catch up. In those episodes, Dr. Caroline laid the foundation for student success by exploring the key considerations for creating a supportive environment and equipping adults with effective strategies to respond to anxiety.Today Dr. Caroline discusses the practical skills and actionable steps that are critical for helping students overcome school avoidance and thrive in their academic journey.For those looking to gain a deeper understanding of how to conduct a functional analysis and design an effective re-entry plan, check out Dr. Caroline's School Refusal training. https://bit.ly/managing-school-refusalEnjoying the show? Help out by rating this podcast on Apple to help others get access to this information too! apple.co/3ysFijh Follow Dr. Caroline YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.carolinebuzankoIG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.carolinebuzanko/ LinkedIn: https://ca.linkedin.com/in/dr-caroline-buzankoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrCarolineBuzanko/X: https://x.com/drcarolinebuzWebsite: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/Resources: https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/#resourcesBusiness inquiries: https://korupsychology.ca/contact-us/Want to learn more about helping kids strengthen their emotion regulation skills and problem-solving brains while boosting their confidence, independence, and resilience? Check out my many training opportunities! https://drcarolinebuzanko.com/upcoming-events/