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For nearly 30 years, American Heritage Girls® has come alongside families and youth ministry leaders in offering Christ-centered, girl-focused character development. Through the Raising Godly Girls® Podcast, presented by American Heritage Girls, listeners get to tap into the advice that seasoned AHG leaders have gleaned over three decades of ministering to girls. Plus, hear from industry experts with solutions to a broad range of issues impacting today’s girls. Get Biblically-sound and actionable tips from fellow parents, volunteers, and thought leaders on how to raise up a girl after God’s own heart.

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    Ep. 286 — Weird Influences: What's Really Messing with Your Girl's Mind with Dr. Natalie Atwell

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2025 33:44


    As Halloween approaches, culture puts darkness on display in costumes, decorations, and entertainment. But the truth is, not all darkness wears a costume. Beneath the surface of our daughters' social media feeds, school hallways, and friend groups, there are subtle yet powerful influences shaping their view of truth, beauty, and even God Himself.  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay welcomes Dr. Natalie Atwell—a licensed clinical mental health counselor, professor, and creator of the Mental Warrior course—for an eye-opening conversation about what's really messing with our girls' minds. With over 20 years of experience in mental health and ministry, Dr. Atwell helps us untangle the “weird influences” girls are facing today, from spiritual confusion online to the glamorization of occult practices in mainstream culture.  Together, Patti and Dr. Atwell explore the reality of spiritual warfare, the importance of recognizing when struggles are more than “just mental,” and how Christian moms can discern the unseen battle for their daughters' hearts and minds. They discuss the power of identity in Christ, the Armor of God, and practical steps moms can take this very weekend to reclaim spiritual ground in their homes.  Whether your daughter is scrolling TikTok, questioning spiritual practices, or simply navigating life in a confusing world, this conversation will help you see the hidden battle—and equip you to guide her into the lasting peace of God's truth.  Scripture References in this Episode:  Ephesians 6:10–18 – The Armor of God  John 8:32 – “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”  1 Peter 5:8 – “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.”  Learn more about Dr. Natalie Atwell's work at mentalwarriorconsulting.com.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.  To find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 285 — The Hidden Messages in Social Media Every Christian Mom Should Watch For

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2025 26:14


    Every day, our daughters are surrounded by cultural messages that claim to be empowering, positive, or even “spiritual.” From TikTok reels to Pinterest mantras to influencer hashtags, the slogans sound harmless—“Good vibes only,” “She believed she could, so she did,” “Trust the universe.” But as Christian parents, we have to ask: what's really behind those words? Are they pointing our girls toward God's truth—or leading them into deception?  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden expose the subtle lies hidden in today's social media trends. With insight from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay, they discuss how the enemy uses the same old playbook he's used since the Garden of Eden—just packaged now in hashtags, aesthetics, and trending content. From horoscopes and crystals to “manifesting” dreams, what looks trendy and harmless can actually distort a girl's view of God when left unchecked.  Rather than responding with fear or panic, Rachael and Melissa share practical ways moms can disciple their daughters through these cultural messages. You'll hear tools to help your girl ask the right questions, test cultural claims against Scripture, and gain confidence in her identity as a child of God. The goal isn't to raise daughters who hide from culture—but to raise daughters so rooted in truth that they can spot the counterfeit before it takes root.  Scripture References:  1 John 4:1 — “Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God.”  2 Corinthians 10:5 — “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”  Ephesians 6:11 — “Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes.”  John 8:32 — “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”  3 Key Truths to Remember:  Trendy ≠ Truth — Just because a message is popular online doesn't mean it aligns with God's Word.  Spot the Counterfeit — Teach your daughter to ask: “Where's the lie? How does this oppose God's design?”  Truth Sets Her Free — When she anchors in Scripture, she can confidently declare: “I am a child of God; the enemy has no power over me.”  At American Heritage Girls, programs like the Faith Awards and Troop life give girls exactly this kind of grounding. Whether through structured studies, Godly mentorship, or simply time spent unplugged and away from cultural noise, American Heritage Girls equips girls to recognize lies and replace them with the light of Christ. Moms, this episode will help you step into those daily discipleship conversations with confidence.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.  To find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 284 — The Unseen Battle: Discerning the Spiritual Influences Shaping Our Girls

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2025 19:02


    As Halloween approaches, culture bombards our daughters with images of fear, darkness, and death—often disguised as harmless fun. But behind the costumes, creepy décor, and “fear-as-fun” mentality lies a much deeper reality: the unseen spiritual battle for our girls' hearts and minds.  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden unpack what it looks like to discern the subtle and not-so-subtle spiritual influences shaping our daughters. Drawing from Scripture—including Ephesians 6:12, which reminds us that our struggle is not against flesh and blood—they help moms recognize that insecurity, rebellion, and even negative self-talk can often be rooted in spiritual lies rather than just “phases.”  You'll hear a powerful Raising Godly Girls Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, reflections on why truth—not fear—anchors our daughters, and personal stories that highlight how easily the enemy twists what looks innocent into something deceptive. Most importantly, Rachael and Melissa offer practical tools for parents: spotting patterns of repeated lies, equipping girls with Scripture, and covering them in prayer with confidence, not anxiety.  At American Heritage Girls, we believe light always defeats darkness. That's why AHG's Identity and Daughter of the King badges, alongside Troop life, give girls the space to declare who they are in Christ—compassionate, perseverant, pure—and to stand firm when the enemy tries to distort their identity.  Scripture References:  Ephesians 6:12 — “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against… the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”  2 Corinthians 10:5 — “We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”  2 Timothy 1:7 — “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”  1 Thessalonians 5:5 — “You are all children of the light and children of the day. We do not belong to the night or to the darkness.”  3 Key Truths to Remember:  The Battle Is Real — Your daughter's struggles may be spiritual as well as emotional or behavioral. Stay prayerful and discerning.  Light Defeats Darkness — Equip your girl with Scripture and confidence in Christ. Fear cannot stand against His truth.  Model Spiritual Strength — Your calm trust in God shows your daughter how to stand firm in faith without anxiety.  This episode will encourage you to pause, pray, and have intentional conversations with your daughter about the lies she faces and the truth God has spoken over her life. Moms, you are not alone in this battle. With faith, Scripture, and the support of Christ-centered community, your daughter can shine His light even in the darkest cultural moments.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.  To find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 283 — Raising Daughters who Have Courage to Overcome Obstacles with Kirthana Fanning

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2025 13:50


    Courage is not the absence of fear—it's choosing faith in the midst of fear. In this week's episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, American Heritage Girls Executive Director and host Rachael Culpepper sits down with award-winning children's author and content creator Kirthana Fanning to talk about raising daughters who have the courage to overcome life's obstacles.  Kirthana brings years of experience as a writer, producer, and the creator of Read Believe Grow TV, a YouTube channel dedicated to helping children encounter God's truth in engaging ways. In this conversation, she shares her passion for crafting faith-filled stories that equip the next generation with courage and resilience—qualities that girls desperately need in a culture that often tells them to shrink back or compromise their faith.  Through her beloved children's book The Girl and Her Noble Steed, Kirthana paints a picture of bravery rooted in God's promises. She and Rachael explore why courage must be understood through a Biblical lens, the unique challenges girls face today in standing boldly for their faith, and how parents can guide their daughters toward resilience by leaning on the truth of Scripture rather than cultural trends.  Scripture Referenced in This Episode:  Joshua 1:9 — “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”  Isaiah 41:10 — God strengthens and upholds His people.  2 Timothy 1:7 — “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”  Esther 4:14 — Courage to stand boldly “for such a time as this.”  Psalm 27:1 — “The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear?”    This episode will encourage you, as a mom, to see the everyday moments of parenting as opportunities to nurture bravery in your daughter's heart. You'll walk away inspired to help her embrace a faith that stands firm in the face of fear—trusting that with God's help, she can overcome every obstacle in her path.   To learn more about Kirthana Fanning and her books, visit kirthanajfanning.com.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.  To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep 282- Your Family and the Everyday Heroes of Tomorrow

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2025 24:53


    What makes an everyday hero? It's not fame, recognition, or a grand stage—it's a willingness to step into hard moments with faith and courage, even when fear is present. This week on the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive into what it looks like for Christian families to raise daughters who are ready and willing to answer God's call in both ordinary and extraordinary circumstances.  Drawing inspiration from the life of missionary Elisabeth Elliot, they unpack her powerful reminder: “The secret is Christ in me, not me in a different set of circumstances.” Through this lens, Rachael and Natalie explore how courage is cultivated bit by bit in everyday life—whether that's a girl finding the bravery to stand up for a classmate, conquer stage fright, or speak out in the face of injustice.  You'll also hear the Raising Godly Girls Minute from AHG Founder Patti Garibay, reminding parents that courage is internal and often unseen until a moment of decision comes. The hosts then reflect on real-life examples, including the inspiring story of an AHG Girl Member who risked her own safety to rescue sailors in danger—earning the prestigious AHG Lifesaving Award. These stories illustrate how small steps of obedience and trust in God prepare girls for moments when extraordinary courage is required.  Rachael and Natalie offer three practical ways to equip your daughter for courageous living: letting courage build through small challenges, doing a post-game recap exercise to reinforce victories over fear, and modeling humble prayers that show reliance on God's strength. Together, these practices shape a girl's heart and prepare her to become one of the everyday heroes God is raising up for His Kingdom.  As you listen, you'll be encouraged to see courage not as a rare trait, but as a spiritual discipline—something that grows in your family's life as you lean on God's power, trust His timing, and walk in faith.  Scripture Referenced in This Episode:  1 Samuel 17  Judges 6–7  Exodus   Esther 1–4 (esp. Esther 4:14)  Acts 18   John 16:33   1 Samuel 17:45–50   This Week's Reminders:  Courage builds bit by bit—every small victory matters.  A “post-game recap” helps your daughter recognize God's faithfulness in action.  Humble, open-handed prayers prepare her to trust God with the unknown.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 281 — Why the Key to Courage Isn't the Absence of Fear in Your Girl

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2025 28:50


    Every girl will face fear—whether it's speaking up in class, standing up to a bully, trying something new, or stepping into leadership. But the true measure of courage isn't the absence of fear—it's learning how to move forward with fear, leaning on God's strength instead of shrinking back in doubt.  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose tackle the topic of courage head-on, exploring how parents can help their daughters face giants with faith. Drawing from Scripture, personal stories, and AHG's own legacy of raising strong, Godly women, they remind us that God doesn't call our girls to avoid fear—He calls them to trust Him in the midst of it.  Rachael and Natalie reflect on what cowardice looks like in today's culture, how trauma requires a gentle approach, and why resilience is best cultivated at home before our daughters step into the wider world. You'll also hear how the AHG Program develops courage in girls through meaningful service, leadership, and discipleship opportunities—including the Stars & Stripes Award and sharing insight on the For Girls Like You program alliance.  Whether your daughter's giant is stage fright, peer pressure, or self-doubt, this conversation will equip you to inspire her toward bravery, remind her that God has called her to hard and holy things, and show her that real courage means stepping forward—even when fear tags along.  Scripture Referenced in This Episode:  Deuteronomy 1:19–33   James 1:2–4   This Week's Reminders:  Fear will always be present—but it doesn't have to be in charge.  Resilience in your daughter grows when you model courage in your own life.  God equips girls not to avoid fear, but to lean into His strength when it comes.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.  To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 280 — Breaking the Cycle of Shame in Your Daughter's Life with Brittany Sawrey-Coulson (Trueface)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2025 37:45


    Shame is one of the enemy's most powerful tools—it twists mistakes into identity, leaving our daughters believing lies like “I'm not enough, I'll never measure up, I'll always be a failure.” Left unaddressed, those inner whispers can grow into heavy chains that shape how a girl views herself, others, and even God.  In this powerful conversation, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director and podcast host Patti Garibay is joined by Brittany Sawrey-Coulson, Licensed Professional Counselor and Director of Content at Trueface. With wisdom and compassion, Brittany unpacks the difference between guilt and shame, why negative self-talk begins earlier than we think, and how moms can model grace-filled authenticity that frees their daughters from shame's grip.  Together, Patti and Brittany discuss practical ways parents can help girls replace lies with God's truth, cultivate safe spaces for honest conversation, and anchor their worth in Christ—not in performance, appearance, or comparison. And if you're a mom who wrestles with shame yourself, this episode offers hope for your own healing as well as guidance for breaking the generational cycle.  Shame doesn't get the last word—Jesus does. Tune in and discover how to lead your daughter toward freedom, confidence, and a lasting identity rooted in Him.  Referenced Scriptures in this episode:  Romans 12:2   Proverbs 18:21   John 8:36   Learn more about Brittany and the ministry of Trueface at trueface.org.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.

    Ep. 279 — What to Say When Your Daughter Struggles with Negative Self-Talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2025 23:53


    We've all heard it—those quiet but crushing words our daughters whisper to themselves: “I'm not good enough.” “I always mess up.” “I'll never get this right.” This negative self-talk may sound small, but it carries weight, planting seeds of shame, doubt, and insecurity that can shape how a girl sees herself, her choices, and even her faith. The enemy uses these whispers to keep our girls bound in fear—but God has already spoken a louder, truer word over them.  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden dive deep into the power of self-talk and how parents can help their daughters combat lies with the truth of Scripture. With honesty and humor, Melissa shares how her own inner critic can sometimes feel like it has a megaphone, while Rachael unpacks how shame twists identity and why parents must first model speaking life over themselves if they want to teach their daughters to do the same.  Together, they explore how negative self-talk isn't just about careless words—it's about the heart. Drawing from Proverbs and Romans, they remind us that the tongue has the power of life and death, even when it's turned inward. And they offer practical, grace-filled ways to help your daughter silence her inner critic, from role-playing the lies as silly “characters” to journaling God's truth, leaving hidden Scripture notes, and creating “Faith Snapshot” albums that capture moments of God's goodness in everyday life.  This Week's Reminders:  Catch the Lies Early: Teach your daughter to notice when her inner critic speaks and name the lies for what they are.  Replace Criticism with God's Word: Equip her with truth-filled tools like Scripture, playlists, and affirmations that reflect her identity in Christ.  Empower Independent Truth-Telling: Encourage her to practice speaking God's truth over herself, even when you're not there.  Scripture Referenced in This Episode:  James 1:19  Proverbs 15:4  Proverbs 18:21  Romans 12:2  This episode will encourage you to see negative self-talk not as an impossible battle, but as an opportunity to guide your girl toward resilience and confidence rooted in Christ. By catching lies early, replacing them with God's Word, and empowering her to practice truth-telling on her own, you can help her build a faith that isn't shaken by whispers of doubt.  Discover more resources to raise confident girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.  Find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 278 — Parenting Through Shame Struggles with Grace and Truth

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2025 29:35


    Shame has a way of whispering lies that drown out truth. For today's girls, those lies are amplified by comparison, perfectionism, and a culture that magnifies flaws instead of celebrating God's design. Left unchecked, shame doesn't just shape how our daughters see themselves—it can entangle whole families in cycles of silence, generational sin, and negative self-talk. But as followers of Christ, we know shame doesn't get the last word.  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden step into one of the hardest yet most necessary conversations for parents: how to help our daughters battle shame with grace and truth. With vulnerability, Melissa shares how childhood trauma left her searching for comfort in all the wrong places—and how God's faithful love brought freedom where shame once ruled. Rachael opens up about the weight of generational patterns and the importance of showing our girls that Christ's redemption runs deeper than family history.  Together, they explore why negative self-talk is so powerful, how inherited shame can quietly shape a girl's identity, and what it means for parents to model speaking God's truth over their own lives. This episode also offers practical tools—from “lie detector” check-ins to truth journals and worship playlists—that help girls replace the “not enough” lies with the promises of Scripture. And woven throughout is the unshakable hope that God rebuilds what shame has broken, turning burdens into blessings for generations to come.  This Week's Reminders:  Truth is the Antidote to Shame — Help your daughter identify lies and replace them with God's Word.  You're Her Coach, Not Her Constant Companion — Equip her with tools, but let her practice walking in truth on her own.  God Redeems Family Stories — Generational shame doesn't define her future—Christ does.  Scripture Referenced in This Episode:  2 Timothy 1:7  Daniel 3  Romans 8:1  Isaiah 61:3 (beauty for ashes)  Ecclesiastes 1:9 (“nothing new under the sun”)  Moms, you'll walk away from this episode encouraged not to fear these conversations, but to step into them with honesty, authenticity, and faith. Because when we teach our daughters to name shame and answer it with truth, we give them the confidence to live free in Christ.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.  To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 277 — Standing in the Gap: A Parent's Prayer for their Prodigal Child with Dr. James Banks

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2025 33:56


    Ep. 277 — Standing in the Gap: A Parent's Prayer for their Prodigal Child with Dr. James Banks  Few things break a Christ-following parent's heart more than watching a daughter walk away from her faith. In a culture where drifting and deconstruction are becoming all too common, it can feel overwhelming to know how to respond. Yet Scripture offers both hope and a blueprint: we serve a God who runs toward prodigals with open arms (Luke 15:20), and prayer is the bridge that can bring wandering hearts home.  In this powerful episode, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay welcomes Dr. James Banks—pastor, author, and devoted encourager of parents walking through prodigal seasons. With deep compassion and practical wisdom, Dr. Banks shares what it means to “stand in the gap” through prayer, how to show unconditional love without compromising truth, and why parents can persevere in hope even when change feels far away.  You'll also hear practical encouragement for spotting early signs of drift, how to guard against despair, and why community and mentorship are lifelines for weary parents. If you've been praying for your prodigal daughter—or longing for strength to keep praying—this conversation will refresh your spirit and remind you that God is always at work, even when we cannot see it.  Discover how persistent prayer doesn't just move prodigals closer to God—it transforms parents in the process.  Scripture Referenced in This Episode:  Luke 15:20  Romans 8:26–27  James 5:16  Psalm 126:5–6  Galatians 6:9  Learn more about Dr. James Banks and his ministry at jamesbanks.org.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.  To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 276- Parenting Through a Prodigal Testimony

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2025 19:11


    Every parent has a story. For some, it's a story of steady faith passed down through generations. For others, it's a testimony of wandering, stumbling, and finding God's grace in unexpected places. No matter which story you carry, your testimony is one of the most powerful tools God has given you to disciple your daughter.  In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose unpack the beauty and challenge of parenting through your own testimony. Natalie vulnerably shares about her years of struggle and redemption, while Rachael reflects on the grace of a “tame” testimony. Together, they remind parents that every story is a story of God's faithfulness—and that sharing authentically with your daughter can point her to the goodness of Jesus in both the mundane and the miraculous.  You'll hear a Raising Godly Girls Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus, Patti Garibay, on why no testimony is “boring” when it highlights the steadfast love of God across generations. Plus, Rachael and Natalie offer practical encouragement for breaking off shame, funneling your fears through Scripture, and modeling the same Gospel that continues to transform your own heart.  Scripture Referenced in This Episode:  Micah 7:20  1 Corinthians 1:9  Romans 8:1  2 Corinthians 5:17  Matthew 3:8, 11  If you've ever wondered how much of your story to share with your daughter, or feared that your past disqualifies you from leading her in faith, this conversation will anchor you in truth: God uses every testimony for His glory, and your girl needs to see His story alive in you.   Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 275 — When Your Daughter Goes Wayward from Her Christian Faith

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2025 25:45


    Every Christ-following parent dreams of raising a daughter who clings tightly to her faith. But what happens when she doesn't? What if she begins to question, rebel, or even walk away from the truth you've poured into her?  In this week's episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose step into one of the hardest realities of Christian parenting: the prodigal season. With honesty and grace, they talk about what it looks like to parent with firm love while keeping the door open with compassion and forgiveness.  Drawing from the parable of the prodigal son in Luke 15 and reminders throughout Scripture, Rachael and Natalie encourage moms to:  Address sin with truth and grace, not avoidance or outbursts.  Speak to their daughter's identity in Christ, rather than letting her mistakes define her.  Pray persistently, trusting that God is faithful to pursue her heart even when she has turned away.  This conversation is both sobering and hope-filled. If you are in a season of heartbreak over your daughter's choices, you'll be reminded that you are not alone—and that God equips you with wisdom, love, and endurance to walk through it.  Because at the end of the day, your daughter's story is still being written, and God is the author who never gives up on His children.  Scripture References:  Luke 15:11–32  John 8:11 (“Go and sin no more”)  Colossians 3:12  Matthew 5:14–16  Jude 1:1  1 Peter 5:6–7  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.  To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 274 — Supporting Your Daughter When Burnout Feels Overwhelming with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2025 24:11


    Burnout isn't just an adult problem—it's showing up in the lives of our daughters at alarming rates. Between heavy academic loads, endless extracurriculars, and the pressure to be “perfect” online and in real life, girls today are carrying stress that leaves them weary in body, mind, and spirit.  On this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Rachael Culpepper, Executive Director of American Heritage Girls, sits down with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, physician, international speaker, and bestselling author of Sacred Rest. Together, they unpack how burnout is shaping this generation of girls—and how moms can step in with both wisdom and grace.  Dr. Saundra shares practical ways to recognize the warning signs of burnout, the dangerous link between perfectionism and exhaustion, and why rest is not a luxury, but a God-designed necessity. Rachael and Dr. Saundra also explore the different kinds of rest beyond sleep—social, emotional, creative, and spiritual—and how each one can help restore your daughter's resilience.  If you've ever wondered how to support your girl when she's running on empty, this conversation will give you hope and direction. Because at the heart of it all is the reminder Jesus gives us: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28).  Scripture References:  Matthew 11:28  Learn more about Dr. Saundra's work at ichoosemybestlife.com. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.   

    Ep. 273 — A Home That Rests: Building Sabbath Rhythms for Your Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2025 22:36


    We live in a culture that applauds busyness and rewards hustle—but our daughters are quietly paying the price. Exhausted schedules, constant connectivity, and the unspoken demand to always “do more” are burning out today's girls long before adulthood.  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden pull back the curtain on one of the greatest needs in our homes: true Sabbath rest. Far from being an outdated ritual or just “a Sunday nap,” Sabbath is God's gift to His people—a rhythm of renewal that restores body, mind, and soul.  You'll also hear American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus, Patti Garibay, share a powerful Raising Godly Girls Minute reminding us that if God Himself rested after creation, our daughters certainly need space to rest too.  Rachael and Melissa then unpack how families can reclaim this rhythm with practical, joy-filled ideas—from setting up a Sabbath Shelf to creating “Selah moments” at the dinner table. Together, they show how Sabbath is not something to squeeze in when everything else is done, but the very starting point for a life of peace, faith, and flourishing.  When moms model rest as worship, daughters learn that their worth is not tied to achievement, but to abiding in Christ. This episode will encourage you to build a home where rest isn't rare—it's the culture.  This Week's Reminders:  God made her for rest  Your rest sets the pace  Rest is worship  Scripture References:  Mark 2:27  John 15:4  Genesis 2:2–3  Exodus 20:8–11  Psalm 46:10  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com. To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 272 — How a Culture of Busyness is Burning Out Our Girls

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2025 28:12


    Today's girls are growing up in a culture that glorifies hustle—and it's leaving them exhausted. From academics to athletics, friendships to faith commitments, many daughters are running on empty long before adulthood. Is busyness shaping their identity more than God's truth?  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden tackle the silent epidemic of burnout among girls. With honesty, humor, and Biblical wisdom, they share how nonstop schedules can rob girls of peace and distort their sense of worth—and how parents can push back with rhythms of rest.  You'll also hear American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay deliver a powerful Raising Godly Girls Minute on the “Busy Bee” trap and the freedom that comes with Psalm 46:10: “Be still and know that I am God.”  Together, the conversation points to a better way: teaching our girls that rest is not laziness, but obedience. That saying “no” can be an act of trust. And that their value is not measured by their productivity, but by their identity in Christ.  If your daughter is running hard—or if your own schedule feels like it's running you—this episode will help you breathe deeply, hit pause, and rediscover the beauty of a slower, Spirit-led life.  This Week's Reminders:  Her schedule should serve her, not control her  Rest is a spiritual discipline, not a reward  You set the tone she learns to live by  Scripture References:  Psalm 46:10  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.  To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 271 — How Making Life Too Easy Hinders a Girl's Character, Mental, and Spiritual Growth with Erin Kunkle (MAVEN)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2025 37:46


    As parents, it's natural to want to smooth the path for our daughters—to protect them from hurt, hardship, and struggle. But when we make life too easy, we may unintentionally rob them of the very opportunities that build strength, character, and faith.  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay, Founder & Executive Director Emeritus, is joined by Erin Kunkle, co-founder of MAVEN and a veteran homeschooling mom, to talk about why struggle is not the enemy of growth—it's the catalyst for it. Erin draws from her experience as a ministry leader, speaker, and mom to highlight how over-helping can hinder a girl's emotional, mental, and spiritual development.  Together, Patti and Erin unpack why “lawnmower parenting” may feel loving in the moment but ultimately leaves girls unequipped for the challenges of life and faith. Instead, they remind us that it's through perseverance, problem-solving, and dependence on Christ that our daughters become resilient young women who pursue truth, goodness, and beauty.  Scripture References in this Episode:  Romans 5:3–4 — “Suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.”  James 1:2–4 — “Consider it pure joy… because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.”  Hebrews 12:11 — “No discipline seems pleasant at the time… later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace.”  Proverbs 22:6 — “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”  If you've ever wrestled with knowing when to step in and when to step back, this episode will encourage you to trust God's design, embrace the power of perseverance, and equip your daughter to thrive—even when life gets hard.  To learn more about Erin's work and the MAVEN ministry, visit maventruth.com.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 270 — Resilience-Building Parenting Strategies

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2025 24:52


    Every parent wants to protect their daughter—but when does protecting cross the line into preventing her from growing? On this week's Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive into the challenge of “lawnmower parenting” and how stepping back actually strengthens our daughters for the road ahead.  Through honest stories and Biblical encouragement, Rachael and Natalie share what it looks like to let our girls face healthy adversity, build resilience, and learn to trust God's leadership in their own lives. From kindergarten battles over hair bows to navigating playground conflicts and tough conversations with teachers, they remind us that ease doesn't build strength—resistance does.  You'll also hear a special Raising Godly Girls Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay about how adversity strengthens trees—and girls. Together, we'll explore why our instincts to intervene, though good, must sometimes yield to God's greater plan for our daughters' growth.  Scripture References:  Isaiah 55:8–9  Proverbs 16:3  If you've ever wrestled with when to step in and when to step back, this episode will encourage you to parent with courage, humility, and trust in God's sovereignty.   Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 269 — Why Parents Shouldn't Make Life Easy for Their Daughters

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2025 25:32


    As parents, our hearts want the very best for our girls. We long to shield them from failure, hardship, and pain. But what if our desire to protect is actually preventing them from growing into the young women God created them to be?  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive into the parenting pitfalls of “helicoptering” and “lawnmowing”—those tendencies to hover or clear every obstacle out of our daughter's path. Together, they wrestle with the tension between loving our girls well and trusting the Lord to use challenges, disappointments, and even failures to build godly character.  You'll hear real-life parenting stories, Biblical wisdom, and encouragement from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in this week's Raising Godly Girls Minute.   The truth is, resilience grows when girls are allowed to stumble, problem-solve, and experience God's faithfulness firsthand. Parenting is not about writing their story—it's about trusting the One who already has.  Scripture References:  Matthew 7:9–11  Hebrews 12  If you've ever struggled with when to step in and when to step back, this episode will help you release the pressure, pry your hands open, and lean on God's sovereignty as you raise your daughter with courage and faith.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 268 — Guiding Girls Through Big Emotions with Michelle Nietert

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2025 35:41


    If there's one thing every parent of girls knows, it's this: emotions can run deep, wide, and loud. From tearful meltdowns to dramatic outbursts, our daughters' feelings can often feel like tidal waves that threaten to pull the whole household under. But what if those very moments weren't interruptions to parenting—but opportunities for discipleship?  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay, Founder & Executive Director Emeritus of American Heritage Girls, sits down with licensed professional counselor and bestselling author Michelle Nietert to unpack how parents can guide their daughters through big emotions with both compassion and Biblical truth. Drawing from decades of experience as a counselor, school crisis responder, and mom, Michelle offers practical insights for helping girls process sadness, fear, and anxiety while building emotional resilience that's rooted in Christ.  You'll hear encouragement for the mom who feels like her daughter is drowning in emotions, guidance on discerning when drama signals deeper emotional needs, and everyday ways parents can connect spiritual discipleship to emotional growth. From playground drama to teenage friendship struggles, Michelle reminds us that while the world may tell girls to be ruled by their feelings, God calls them to bring those feelings to Him.  Scripture References:  Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”  2 Timothy 1:7 – “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”  Philippians 4:6–7 – “Do not be anxious about anything… and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”  Galatians 5:22–23 – The fruit of the Spirit, including self-control. This conversation will leave you equipped with tools, reassured by truth, and reminded that you are not alone in raising emotionally healthy, Godly girls.  This conversation will leave you equipped with tools, reassured by truth, and reminded that you are not alone in raising emotionally healthy, Godly girls.  You can learn more about Michelle and her work at michellenietert.com  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 267- Teaching Girls to Feel Without Being Ruled by Feelings

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2025 24:55


    Big emotions are a normal part of growing up—but when those emotions start calling the shots, our girls can quickly feel overwhelmed, discouraged, and even defeated. As moms, we want to raise daughters who feel deeply while also learning that their emotions don't get to be in charge—Christ does.  In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden explore what it means to guide our daughters through the highs and lows of anger, sadness, joy, and fear with patience, connection, and truth. You'll hear honest mom-to-mom stories, practical tools like “do-overs” and weekly check-ins, and encouragement to see emotional outbursts not as inconveniences but as discipleship opportunities.  Together, we'll unpack how to help our daughters:  Recognize that emotions are real but not ultimate truth  Move from reacting in anger to responding in the Spirit  Root their identity in Christ rather than in how they feel  Practice self-control through grace-filled parenting moments  You'll also hear the Raising Godly Girls Minute with Patti Garibay, Founder & Executive Director Emeritus of American Heritage Girls, reminding us that while anger is natural, the Holy Spirit transforms it into life-giving joy.  So, whether your daughter is slamming doors, quietly shutting down, or somewhere in between, this episode will remind you that big feelings don't make her “too much.” They make her human—and God has entrusted you to shepherd her through them with His wisdom and love.  Scripture References:  • Galatians 5:16, 19–21, 22–23  • 2 Timothy 1:7  • John 11:35    This Week's Reminders:  Big emotions don't make your daughter “bad”—they make her human. God created her with deep feelings for a purpose. Your job isn't to silence those emotions but to shepherd her through them with love, patience, and truth.   Correction is most powerful when it's paired with connection. Your daughter will grow most when she feels safe, seen, and loved—even after a meltdown. Stay close, speak truth, and don't underestimate the power of a gentle tone.   You are not alone in this—and neither is she. God is with you in every eye roll, every slammed door, and every teary moment. He's working in her heart even when you can't see it. Keep sowing seeds of Spirit-led parenting. He is faithful to grow the fruit.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.  

    Ep. 266 — From Mood Swings to Steadfast Hearts: Faith-Filled Tools for Emotional Growth

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2025 24:27


    Emotions can be overwhelming—both for our daughters and for us as moms. From tearful meltdowns to unpredictable mood swings, it's easy to feel like big emotions threaten to take over the day. But here's the truth: feelings aren't something to fix or fear. They're invitations—opportunities to lean into God's presence, disciple with compassion, and point our girls toward steadfastness in Christ.  In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden share personal stories of their own girlhood “big emotion” moments, reminding us that as moms, we've stood where our daughters now stand. Together, they explore practical and faith-filled ways to help girls put words to their emotions, process them in healthy ways, and anchor their identity in who God says they are—not in how they feel.  You'll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, who offers an actionable tool for moms: teaching your daughter to reframe “I am” statements into “I feel” statements. This simple shift can transform self-talk, strengthen identity, and remind our girls that feelings are temporary—but God's truth is eternal.  Through practical steps like journaling, mealtime check-ins, and memorizing “truth anchor” verses, this episode equips you to model emotional maturity, guide your daughter with gentleness, and rest in the knowledge that God didn't call you to fix every emotion—He called you to shepherd your girl's heart toward Him.  Referenced Scripture:  Genesis 16:13 — God sees us in our struggles.  Romans 12:2 — Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.  Exodus 14:13 — Stand firm and see the salvation of the Lord.  Psalm 139:14 — Fearfully and wonderfully made.  Isaiah 43:1 — Called by name and redeemed.  1 Peter 2:9 — Chosen and belonging to God.  This Week's Reminders:  Feelings Are Real, But Not Always True  Help your daughter name her emotions without letting them define her. Just because she feels unloved doesn't mean she is unloved. Root her identity in God's truth, not her temporary feelings.   She Learns Emotional Maturity by Watching You  Your example is her blueprint. When you model calm, prayerful responses and speak truth over your own emotions, you're teaching her how to navigate hers with grace and faith.   God Doesn't Call You to Be Her Savior—Just Her Shepherd  You're not expected to fix every meltdown. Your role is to guide her toward the One who can hold every emotion she faces. Let that truth lighten the load—you're parenting with God, not apart from Him.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.  

    Ep. 265 — Restoring Spiritual Legacy Between the Generations with Kate and Mike Battistelli

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2025 35:22


    In today's fast-paced culture, the generational divide can feel wider than ever. Parents and grandparents long to pass on a vibrant faith, but too often wonder if their words will land—or if younger hearts are even listening. Statistics paint a sobering picture: nearly 70% of young adults raised in the church walk away as they enter adulthood. But this isn't just a statistic. It's a wake-up call to reclaim the power of spiritual legacy.  In this episode, host Patti Garibay sits down with Kate and Mike Battistelli—parents to Grammy Award-winning artist Francesca Battistelli and faithful disciplers with a passion for legacy building. Together, they share powerful insights on how families can bridge the gap between generations, cultivating authentic connections that lead daughters and granddaughters to encounter Jesus for themselves.  With wisdom drawn from both triumphs and trials, Kate and Mike reveal what spiritual legacy really looks like: everyday faithfulness, intentional mentoring, and a willingness to model surrender in a world that prizes independence. From the father's role in guiding and anchoring faith, to the Titus 2 calling for women to mentor the next generation, their conversation is a clarion call for every believer to show up, stay present, and speak life across generational lines.  Whether you feel overlooked as an older mentor, hesitant as a younger parent, or simply burdened for your daughter's future, this episode will encourage you to take practical steps toward bridging the divide. Because when one generation commends God's works to another, His mighty acts echo far beyond our lifetimes.  Referenced Scripture:  Psalm 145:4 — “One generation shall commend your works to another, and shall declare your mighty acts.”  Titus 2:3–5 — The call for older women to disciple younger women.  Deuteronomy 6:6–9 — Teaching God's Word diligently to the next generation.  Learn more about Kate and Mike's ministry and resources at katebattistelli.com. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.  

    Ep. 264 — The Value of Connecting with Today's Teens

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2025 17:56


    In a culture where communication is constant but true connection feels scarce, today's teens are navigating pressures unlike any generation before them. From endless scrolling to viral slang, it can seem like their world is unreachable for parents, grandparents, and mentors. But here's the good news: the deepest needs of teen girls haven't changed. They still long for trusted relationships, authentic guidance, and meaningful time with the people who care most about them.  In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose unpack how to build bridges with teens who live in a tech-saturated world but crave in-person connection. With warmth and humor, they share real-life stories about the balance between “relating” to teens and “leading” them into maturity—and why authenticity matters more than trying to keep up with every trend.  You'll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, who brings clarity to how girls actually flourish in their friendships. Drawing from both research and Scripture, she reminds us that teens thrive in communities that echo the early church—gathering, serving, and growing together in Christ-centered relationships.  Practical wisdom flows throughout this conversation: consistently showing up in your girl's world, asking deeper questions that fuel her faith, and admitting when you don't have all the answers. Whether you're a parent, grandparent, or mentor, this episode will encourage you to lead at the “speed of trust” and invest in relationships that last beyond the moment.  Referenced Scripture:  Acts 2:42–47 — Early church community life.  Deuteronomy 6:4–9 — Teaching God's Word to the next generation.  Titus 2:3–5 — Mentoring and discipling across generations.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.  

    Ep. 263 — The Generation Gap: Learning the Lingo

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2025 24:00


    Bridging the gap between generations isn't just about understanding slang—it's about building trust, opening doors for discipleship, and creating a shared language of faith. In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose take a lighthearted (and sometimes hilarious) look at the “Gen Z Bible,” then turn the conversation toward a much deeper truth: God is doing something unprecedented among today's youth.  With Gen Z leading the largest surge of faith growth in modern history, the question for parents, mentors, and leaders is clear—will we be ready to connect, disciple, and walk alongside them as they lead? Drawing from Titus 2 and 1 Timothy 3, Rachael and Natalie unpack three key principles for empowering the next generation of Godly leaders: training them well, passing down wisdom, and modeling a lifelong learner's heart.  Along the way, you'll hear practical ways to:  Understand your daughter's “lingo” without trying to be “one of the kids”  Recognize and nurture her leadership gifts without skipping the necessary training  Build bridges between generations in your family, church, and community  Encourage girls to embrace discipleship—both giving and receiving it  This episode will make you laugh, challenge your perspective, and inspire you to engage with the young leaders God is raising up in this generation.  Referenced Scripture:  Psalm 23 (paraphrased in Gen Z Bible reading)  Deuteronomy 6:4–9  Colossians 4:15  1 Timothy 3:2–13  Titus 2:3–5  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 262 — Raising Up Rooted, Gritty, and Faith-Filled Girls in a Cancel Culture with Billy Hallowell

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2025 17:13


    Cancel culture has become one of the most defining—and divisive—features of our modern world. For parents raising daughters, the stakes are high: one wrong post, one unpopular opinion, and she could face public shaming or social exile. How do we raise girls who remain unshaken in their Biblical convictions while leading with love, grace, and resilience?  In this episode, Rachael Culpepper is joined by journalist, author, and cultural commentator Billy Hallowell for a powerful conversation on equipping girls to stand firm in Christ in the face of cultural pressure. Together, they unpack how cancel culture distorts the concepts of accountability and forgiveness, why the Gospel offers a radically different response, and what practical tools parents can give their daughters to navigate the digital world with discernment.  You'll hear how to:  Teach your daughter to speak truth boldly without fear of rejection  Model healthy boundaries while practicing Biblical forgiveness  Guide girls through social media pressures with confidence in their identity in Christ  Use cultural moments as teachable opportunities about redemption and grace  Introduce apologetics in a way that equips—not intimidates—young believers  Referenced Scripture:  Isaiah 5:20  2 Corinthians 5:17–20  Matthew 5:43–48  Romans 14:1–12  If you've been wondering how to raise a girl who can stand strong in her faith in a culture quick to “cancel,” this episode will encourage, challenge, and equip you for the journey.   Learn more about Billy Hallowell at billyhallowell.com. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 261 — Ways Your Girl Can Reconcile the Divide Cut by Cancel Culture

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2025 24:10


    Cancel culture seems to demand that we choose sides—cutting off, calling out, and canceling others with little room for redemption. But what does a Gospel response look like? How do we teach our daughters to stand firm in their faith without returning fire with fire?  In this Thursday episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dig deep into how the divide created by cancel culture can be reconciled—not through compromise, but through Christ. Rooted in the ministry of reconciliation described in 2 Corinthians 5, this episode explores what it means to be a peacemaker in a polarized world and how to help your daughter hold truth and grace in tension.  From toddler playground scuffles to teenaged social dynamics, cancel culture is showing up in your daughter's life earlier than ever. But instead of teaching her to cancel back, this conversation invites you to cast a different vision—one that prioritizes empathy, identity in Christ, spiritual maturity, and prayer for those who oppose her.  You'll walk away with:  A Gospel-centered framework for responding to cancel culture  Real-life language to help your daughter approach conflict differently  3 practical jumping-off points to move her from canceling to reconciling  AHG resources like GRIT with Grace that equip girls to practice Biblical unity in their everyday relationships  As American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay reminds us in this week's Raising Godly Girls Minute, our differences are not a threat—they are an opportunity to celebrate the body of Christ in its fullness. Unity doesn't mean sameness; it means choosing love in the face of division.  Scripture References:  Genesis 6 – God grieves humanity's wickedness  Isaiah 5:20 – “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil...”  2 Corinthians 5:17–20 – Ministry of reconciliation  Romans 14:1–12 – Unity in the body despite differences  Matthew 5:43–44 – “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you”  Revelation 7:9 – A vision of heaven's diversity: every tribe, nation, and tongue  2 Timothy 1:7 – Spirit of power, love, and self-discipline  Our girls don't need to be cultural chameleons—they need to be Gospel lights. Teach her to lead with conviction, but love like Christ.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 260 — Does Cancel Culture Belong Among Christians?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2025 23:57


    In a world where boycotts trend by the hour and social media justice can render someone “canceled” overnight, Christian parents are left wondering—how should we respond? In this insightful and deeply relevant episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose step into the emotionally charged topic of Cancel Culture with clarity, nuance, and a Biblical lens.  Rather than being driven by reactionary outrage, Christians are called to be rooted in grace, truth, and discernment. The conversation explores the dangers of modern Cancel Culture—doxing, boycotting, and outrage cycles—and contrasts them with the radical love and reconciliation found in Christ. Rachael and Natalie ask: What does it look like to live out a Grace Culture in a canceling world? And how do we teach our daughters to pursue peace, seek justice, and reflect the heart of Jesus in the face of public pressure?  Listeners will appreciate the honesty of personal stories, Biblical insights, and encouragements to step away from knee-jerk reactions and instead stand firmly on their identity in Christ. With wisdom from the Raising Godly Girls Minute by American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, this episode reminds us that we are uncanceled by God—and that truth has massive implications for how we love others.  Scripture References:  Romans 5:8 – “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”  Ephesians 2:4–5 – “But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ…”  Matthew 5:8 – “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.”  Micah 6:8 – “What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”  2 Timothy 1:7 – “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.”  Whether you're trying to navigate social media, lead your family in integrity, or disciple your daughter through cultural confusion, this episode offers an anchored, grace-filled vision for Christian living in divisive times.    Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 259 — Harnessing the Parenting Potential of Emotional Intelligence with Vic Clesceri (The Management Sherpa)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2025 34:14


    Parenting in today's world is not for the faint of heart—and emotional intelligence may be one of your most powerful, overlooked tools in raising a resilient, Christ-centered daughter.  In this insightful conversation, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay sits down with Christ-centered leadership coach and author Vic Clesceri to unpack how Emotional Intelligence (EI) transforms the way we parent. From managing our own triggers to modeling self-awareness and empathy, Vic helps us see parenting not as a performance—but as a spiritual practice rooted in grace, surrender, and intentional growth.  You'll hear about:  What Emotional Intelligence actually is—and why it matters for moms and dads  How subtle "saboteurs" like perfectionism, fear, or the need for control undermine our parenting  Tools and daily practices to help you lead your daughter with emotional clarity and Biblical compassion  Whether you're in the trenches of toddlerhood or navigating the teen years, this episode offers hope and clarity. God is with you, and He has equipped you to parent with wisdom, peace, and purpose.  Be encouraged: Emotional Intelligence isn't a secular parenting trend—it's a Biblical call to be transformed from the inside out so we can reflect Christ more fully to our children.  Learn more about Vic's leadership work at themanagementsherpa.com  Take the free Saboteur assessment referenced in the episode at positiveintelligence.com Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 258 — How to Help Your Daughter Open Up Emotionally

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2025 26:36


    Is your daughter shutting down emotionally—retreating behind “I'm fine” and silence when life feels too big? In a world that often confuses resilience with repression, many girls grow up without the tools or trust to process their emotions in a healthy, God-honoring way. This episode is here to help change that.  Join co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden as they explore how to build emotional bridges with your daughter, not barriers. From personal stories of girlhood to faith-rooted wisdom, this episode will equip you with simple, practical ways to create a safe space for vulnerability—while still pointing your girl toward Christ.  You'll learn:  Why girls often repress emotions—and how to respond with grace  How to model emotional openness without oversharing  Conversation strategies that draw her out instead of shutting her down  What Scripture teaches about emotional honesty and trust  You'll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay on why emotional intelligence is vital to true resilience—and how the Bible affirms the value of naming our emotions, not burying them.  This is a conversation for every parent who longs to connect with their daughter's heart—and guide her toward the God who understands and cares for her completely.  Scriptures Referenced in This Episode:  James 1:19 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”  1 Peter 5:7 – “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”  Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 257 — Emotional Intelligence for Moms and Daughters

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2025 26:12


    Emotions can feel overwhelming—both hers and yours. So how do you raise a Godly girl who's emotionally wise, not just reactive?  In this episode, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden explore how emotional intelligence (EQ) can shape your daughter's spiritual maturity—and your parenting too. You'll hear practical ways to help her name her feelings, respond with grace, and grow in wisdom from a Biblical Worldview.  Discover how Jesus modeled empathy and self-control, why EQ is more than a buzzword, and how God uses emotions to shape both moms and daughters into His likeness.  Plus, hear this week's Raising Godly Girls Minute with American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay as she reminds us that emotions aren't flaws—they're God-designed tools for growth.  Scripture References in This Episode:  Proverbs 15:1 – “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”  Galatians 5:22-23 – The fruit of the Spirit, including self-control and gentleness  Ecclesiastes 3:4 – “A time to weep and a time to laugh…”  James 1:19-20 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry…”  Ephesians 4:26 – “In your anger do not sin…”  John 11:35 – “Jesus wept.” (A powerful example of Christ's emotional expression)  2 Timothy 1:7 – “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”  Whether you're navigating a meltdown or simply want to parent with more patience and purpose, this episode will equip you with Biblical insight and practical tools to grow both your daughter's emotional intelligence—and your own.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 256 — From Self-Absorbed to Selfless: Guiding Girls Toward Christlike Character with Jill Garner

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2025 42:20


    How do we raise daughters who reflect the humility of Christ in a world that rewards self-promotion? How do we steer their hearts away from “me first” and toward “others first”? In this powerful weekend episode, Raising Godly Girls host and American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay welcomes character education expert and author Jill Garner to explore how parents can guide girls from self-absorption to selflessness through intentional heart training.  Jill Garner, founder of Manners of the Heart, brings decades of insight on shaping young hearts through respect-based education rooted in Biblical truth. As the author of Raising Respectful Children in a Disrespectful World and StrongHeart: Cultivating Humility, Respect, and Resiliency in Your Child, Jill offers a clear and compassionate voice for parents seeking to raise daughters of integrity—girls who are resilient, gracious, and grounded in their identity in Christ.  Together, Patti and Jill explore the cultural currents pulling girls toward vanity, entitlement, and independence from God—and contrast them with a Spirit-led path of humility and service. With practical advice, personal testimony, and a heart for transformation, this conversation is a must-listen for parents raising daughters in today's me-centered world.  In this episode, you'll learn:  Why selfishness begins early—and what it reveals about the heart  What “Heart Education” is and how it can be a game-changer in your parenting  How to cultivate Christlike humility and respect in your daughter's everyday life  Encouraging tools and Scriptures that anchor your family in a God-honoring character journey  How to partner with schools, churches, and AHG to reinforce selflessness and servant leadership  Key Scriptures Highlighted:  Philippians 2:3–4 – “In humility, value others above yourselves…”  Proverbs 11:25 – “Whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.”  James 3:16 – The warning against selfish ambition and its impact on community  If you've ever asked, “How do I lead my daughter to think of others first—and love them well?” this episode will equip you with both the truth and the tools to begin that work today.  Learn more about Jill's work and explore helpful parenting resources at mannersoftheheart.org.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.   

    Ep. 255 — Teaching Your Daughter That It's Not About Her

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2025 21:42


    From toddler tantrums to teen drama, it's easy to spot the signs of self-focus in our daughters—but it's harder to correct that trajectory in a culture that rewards self-obsession. This episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast gently but boldly tackles the uncomfortable topic of selfishness and entitlement, equipping moms with Biblical tools to shepherd their daughters into a Christ-centered life of humility and service.  Co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose offer heartfelt insight, Scripture-based truth, and real-life reflection on how selfish habits form—and how to break them with grace. From the sassy toddler mimicking grown-up behavior to the teen seeking praise and power, this conversation walks alongside moms who want to train up daughters who reflect Christ, not the culture.  You'll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in a timely Raising Godly Girls Minute, pointing parents to Proverbs and practical ways to help girls become refreshers of others rather than rulers of their own tiny kingdoms. If you've ever struggled to set boundaries, discipline with love, or navigate your girl's “attitude,” this episode will meet you right where you are—and call you higher in your parenting.  In this episode, you'll discover:  Why early entitlement, if left unchecked, leads to lasting relational damage  How to guide your girl from “what I want” to “what others need” using empathy and training  Biblical wisdom from Philippians 2 and James 3:16 that redefines confidence as Christlike humility  Practical parenting phrases and questions to use when disciplining or redirecting selfish behavior  How service and discipleship lead girls out of self-focus and into Kingdom purpose    Scriptures Highlighted:  Philippians 2:3-4 — “Do nothing out of selfish ambition…”  James 3:16 — “Where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder…”  Proverbs 11:25 — “A generous person will prosper…”  If you're ready to raise a girl who shines for Christ, not for the applause of the crowd, this episode will help you lay the groundwork. It's not about squashing her confidence—it's about redirecting her heart toward something greater: a life lived for others, rooted in the example of Jesus.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 254 — Freeing Your Girl from the Being-Liked Addiction

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2025 29:01


    The desire to be liked is natural—but left unchecked, it can quietly shape your daughter's identity in unhealthy, even addictive ways. From the playground to the group chat, the pressure to earn approval can steal her joy, distort her view of self, and distance her from the truth of who she is in Christ.  In this must-listen episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive deep into the social and spiritual undercurrents of girls' need for affirmation. Together, they unpack how a girl's early development can fuel her craving for praise—and how loving, intentional parenting can redirect that desire toward the One whose love never wavers.  You'll hear candid personal stories from both hosts, powerful Scriptural truths, and timely insights from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in the Raising Godly Girls Minute. You'll also learn how to reframe your daughter's attention-seeking behavior, not as manipulation, but as a longing to be seen, known, and loved. This episode doesn't just name the problem—it offers the Christ-centered path out.  In this episode, you'll explore:  How girls' early need for affirmation can spiral into an identity crisis if left unaddressed  The “Hawthorne Effect” and what it reveals about your daughter's desire to be seen  The difference between “fitting in” and standing out for Christ (Philippians 2:15, Romans 8:5)  How to help your girl root her confidence in Colossians 3:2 living—setting her mind on things above  Practical steps to break the approval addiction and reestablish her identity in Christ    Scriptures Referenced:  Philippians 2:15 — “...shine like stars in the sky.”  Romans 8:5 — “Those who live according to the flesh...”  Colossians 3:2 — “Set your minds on things above...”  John 15:5 — “Abide in me and I in you...”  This episode reminds you that your daughter's desire to be liked isn't the problem—it's where she looks for that affirmation that matters most. Help her turn from the fleeting approval of the world to the everlasting love of her Heavenly Father. And as a mom, be encouraged: your voice, your presence, and your daily words of truth are shaping the next generation of confident, Christlike women.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 253 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: Peace at Home: Teaching Conflict Resolution to Girls with Dr. Danny Huerta (Focus on the Family)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2025 35:52


    In this “best of” episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay welcomes Dr. Danny Huerta from Focus on the Family to discuss practical strategies for achieving peace at home through effective conflict resolution. The average family experiences around 2,100 arguments a year. That's nearly 49 minutes of daily conflict! But how we handle these inevitable clashes can make all the difference in fostering a loving and harmonious home environment.  Dr. Huerta shares his expertise on the most common sources of family conflict and offers insights on how parents can identify and address these issues early on. Discover practical advice on managing sibling rivalry, teaching your children effective communication skills, and the vital role of forgiveness and reconciliation in resolving disputes. Learn how parents can mediate conflicts without being overly controlling, and how to turn everyday arguments into opportunities for growth and understanding.  Join us as we get to the heart of family dynamics, exploring ways to transform conflict into connection and maintain a peaceful, supportive atmosphere in your home. With Biblical wisdom and practical tips, this replay episode is designed to help you raise resilient, Godly girls equipped to navigate life's challenges.  To learn more about Dr. Huerta's work with Focus on the Family, visit focusonthefamily.com/parenting  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org       Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

    Ep. 252 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: From Conflict to Connection: Effective Communication in Parent-Daughter Arguments

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2025 21:45


    In this “best of” episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast co-hosts Rachael and Melissa dig deep into the often-challenging terrain of parent-daughter arguments. While sibling spats can teach valuable lessons in conflict resolution, parent-daughter disagreements require a different approach to foster healthy, respectful communication.  Join us as we explore practical strategies and Biblical wisdom to navigate these conflicts, transforming moments of disagreement into opportunities for connection. In this episode, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay shares insightful advice on overcoming conflict and creating lasting bonds with your daughter.  Discover the power of understanding different perspectives, using "I" statements, and knowing when to take breaks during heated arguments. Through real-life anecdotes, scriptural guidance, and practical tips, we aim to equip you with the tools to foster open, respectful dialogue with your daughter, strengthening your relationship in the process.  Don't miss this insightful conversation designed to help you and your daughter build a foundation of love, patience, and effective communication. Tune in now and learn how to turn conflicts into connections that last a lifetime.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org       Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

    Ep. 251 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: Grace in Times of Disagreement: Guiding Your Girl Through Sibling Arguments

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2025 20:35


    Join co-hosts Rachael and Melissa in this “best of” episode as they discuss the complexities of sibling arguments and how to guide your daughters through them with grace and wisdom. In this replay episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, we discuss practical strategies rooted in Biblical principles to help your daughters navigate disagreements with their siblings. Featuring insights from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay, we explore the importance of cultivating a heart filled with the Fruit of the Spirit and the power of gentle, kind communication.  Tune in as we share personal anecdotes, Biblical examples, and effective ways to foster healthy conflict resolution in your home. Learn how to equip your daughters with the tools they need to handle disagreements gracefully, ensuring they build strong, loving relationships with their siblings. Don't miss this insightful and encouraging episode designed to support you in raising Godly girls who can navigate the challenges of sibling rivalry with faith and wisdom.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org       Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

    Ep. 250 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: Strong Girls, Strong Women with Sarah Stonestreet

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2025 51:05


    In this insightful “best of” episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay is joined by Sarah Stonestreet, the vibrant host of the Colson Center's Strong Women Podcast. Together, they delve into the core principles of raising strong, resilient girls grounded in their faith. Sarah shares her passion for empowering young girls and the pivotal role of Biblical principles in cultivating strength and boldness. They explore how parents can redefine meekness as a powerful virtue and equip their daughters to lead with humility and confidence.  Through engaging discussions, Patti and Sarah highlight the significance of nurturing a strong sense of identity rooted in God's love, enabling girls to navigate societal pressures while staying true to their faith. They also discuss the concept of Biblical femininity and the importance of perseverance and resilience. Tune in to gain valuable insights and practical strategies for raising godly girls in today's challenging cultural landscape.  To learn more about Sarah and the Strong Women Podcast, visit colsoncenter.org/strong-women  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org    Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com    

    Ep. 249 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: Revealing the Confidence of Christ to Your Daughter

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2025 21:08


    In this “best of” episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Natalie delve into the theme of revealing the confidence of Christ to your daughter. They share personal stories about the moments their faith truly became their own and explore how parents can guide their girls to embrace and live out the boldness of Christ in a world that often pushes back against Christian values.  Drawing inspiration from a recent Raising Godly Girls Minute by American Hertiage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, they discuss practical ways to help girls confidently share the Gospel and embody Christ's love, even when faced with opposition. Highlighting the importance of both speaking and living the gospel, Rachael and Natalie offer insights on setting gospel-sharing goals, fostering a missional mindset, and growing confidence through tough times.  Tune in to hear how American Heritage Girls supports this mission through various badges and leadership training sessions that empower girls to be confident, Godly women of integrity.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org    Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

    Ep. 248 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: What It Means to Preach and Live the Gospel Boldly

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2025 21:05


    In this ‘best of' episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Natalie explore the theme of Christian boldness. They share personal stories and Biblical examples, like Jochebed and Esther, to illustrate how women have historically and courageously advanced God's Kingdom. Emphasizing the importance of embodying faith both in word and action, they reference 1 Corinthians 1:18 and Matthew 5:14-16 to highlight that living a life reflective of Christ's teachings enhances the credibility of the Gospel message.  The episode also features a Raising Godly Girls Minute with Patti Garibay, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus, focusing on the connection between faith symbols and living a faith-filled life. Rachael and Natalie reflect on the importance of consistent faith practice, urging parents to guide their daughters to boldly express and live their faith. They share practical advice on nurturing spiritual growth and boldness, drawing from 2 Timothy 4:2 and encouraging listeners to instill in their daughters the courage to speak and live their faith confidently.  Throughout the conversation, the hosts share practical advice on nurturing spiritual growth and boldness in girls, leveraging AHG's resources such as badges, Bible studies, and outdoor experiences.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org    Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

    Ep. 247 — More Than Academics: Teaching Truth & Faith at Home with Yvette Hampton

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2025 32:30


    Today's episode is a must-listen for every parent who wants their daughter's education to be rooted in more than just grades and test scores. When it comes to shaping a girl's heart, soul, and mind, discipleship doesn't end at church—it starts at home. And for an increasing number of families, that includes homeschooling.  This weekend on the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay welcomes back Yvette Hampton—host of The Schoolhouse Rocked Podcast and producer of the powerful documentary Schoolhouse Rocked: The Homeschool Revolution. Yvette shares her heartfelt journey into homeschooling and offers an honest, hope-filled perspective on how parents can teach both truth and academics with confidence—even if they feel unqualified.  In a time when nearly 4 million children in the U.S. are homeschooled, this conversation tackles what's driving the movement, the cultural pressures families are pushing back against, and how homeschooling allows space for Biblical worldview development, daily discipleship, and deep family connection. Yvette encourages moms and dads to remember that education isn't just about passing on knowledge—it's about passing on faith.  In this episode, you'll gain:  Encouragement to embrace your God-given role as both parent and spiritual teacher  Insight into how homeschooling supports God's design for discipleship in the family  Practical advice for integrating Scripture and truth into daily lessons  A reminder that even if you feel like you've “missed the mark,” God is not finished writing your family's story  Resources for building Christ-centered community and courage in your homeschool journey  Scriptures Referenced:  Proverbs 22:6 – “Train up a child in the way he should go…”  Deuteronomy 6:6–7 – “Impress [God's commands] on your children…”  Whether you're new to homeschooling or simply rethinking how your home supports your child's faith, this episode is a powerful reminder that education is never just academic—it's spiritual. You don't need credentials to teach your daughter about Christ. You just need conviction, consistency, and the courage to walk in obedience. And as Yvette shares, when you build your daughter's education on the foundation of God's Word, you're preparing her not just for college—but for the Kingdom.    To learn more about Yvette and Schoolhouse Rocked, visit schoolhouserocked.com.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 246 — Called but Not Ready: Leading Your Kids in Faith When You Don't Feel Qualified

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2025 22:06


    Do you ever feel like you're not qualified to lead your daughter spiritually? Maybe you didn't grow up with strong faith role models, maybe you struggle to read Scripture consistently, or maybe you're overwhelmed by the thought of answering your child's deep questions about God. If so—you're not alone. And this episode is for you.  This week on the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden offer real talk and reassuring truth for every mom who feels inadequate when it comes to spiritual leadership. Together, they tackle the lie that says “you're not equipped” and replace it with God's truth: if He called you to it, He will carry you through it. You don't need to be a Bible scholar to disciple your daughter—you just need a willing heart and the faith to take the next step.  Drawing from personal stories, Scripture, and relatable insight, Rachael and Melissa unpack how to lead your home in faith while learning and growing yourself. They remind listeners that spiritual formation isn't a performance—it's a relationship. And the best discipleship doesn't happen in perfect devotionals, but in everyday moments of honesty, humility, and love.  In this episode, you'll be encouraged to:  Trust that God chose you on purpose to raise your daughter—and He doesn't make mistakes  Embrace discipleship as a journey you walk with your child, not something you have to master beforehand  Find your voice as a spiritual leader by speaking truth out loud and modeling dependence on God  Build confidence through community, mentorship, and resources like AHG curriculum and the Raising Godly Girls Guide to Biblical Worldview  Let go of the pressure to “have it all together,” and instead, learn the beauty of being a co-learner in God's Word    Scriptures Referenced:  Proverbs 22:6 – “Train up a child in the way she should go…”  Deuteronomy 6:6–7 – “Impress [these commands] on your children…”  Ephesians 5:1–2 – “Be imitators of God… and walk in love…”  It's okay if you don't have all the answers. What matters most is showing up with humility, pointing your daughter to Jesus, and trusting that God's grace fills every gap. In fact, the moments when you feel the weakest may be the very places where your daughter sees the strength of Christ most clearly.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.

    Ep. 245 — God's Design for Discipleship Starts in Your Living Room

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2025 32:11


    What if the most powerful place to disciple your daughter isn't a classroom, a church, or a camp—but your own living room? In this practical and heartfelt episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden invite you to recenter your family life around God's original design for discipleship: one that starts at home, in the rhythms of everyday parenting.  In a culture where spiritual formation is often outsourced to Sunday school or youth group, Scripture calls parents to be the first and most enduring voice of truth in their children's lives. But let's be honest—between laundry piles, dinner prep, and constant to-dos, that kind of intentionality can feel overwhelming. Today's episode encourages you to shift your mindset, embrace holy interruptions, and trust that God is present and powerful in your home—even in the mess.  You'll hear honest stories about motherhood, homeschooling, and discipleship through dinnertime devotions, tough conversations, and the daily chaos of real life. Rachael and Melissa unpack how Deuteronomy 6 isn't just theory—it's a roadmap for forming your girl's faith through consistency, curiosity, and connection. You'll leave this episode reminded that you don't need to be a trained theologian to raise a girl who knows, loves, and lives for Jesus.  In this episode, you'll discover:  Why your home is the most formative place for faith and worldview development  How to transform ordinary moments—like bedtime, car rides, and family meals—into discipleship opportunities  Practical, age-appropriate tools to help your girl own her faith, ask big questions, and grow in Biblical literacy  Encouragement for busy moms feeling the weight of spiritual responsibility—and the grace to know God works through your willingness, not your perfection  How American Heritage Girls supports and amplifies home discipleship through Christ-centered community  Scriptures Referenced:  Deuteronomy 6:6–7 – “Impress [God's commands] on your children…”  Mark 10:14 – “Let the little children come to Me…”  Proverbs 22:6 – “Train up a child in the way she should go…”    Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org

    Ep. 244 — Multigenerational Ministry: God's Faithfulness from Backstage to Center Stage with Katie & Kim Miller (Sight & Sound Theatres)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2025 40:20


    What does it look like when a family answers God's call—together? In this inspiring weekend episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus, sits down with Kim and Katie Miller of Sight & Sound Theatres, a mother-daughter duo living out a vibrant legacy of multigenerational ministry. From backstage beginnings to center stage moments, their story is a testimony to the power of faithful families saying “yes” to God—again and again.  With roots in rural Pennsylvania and a passion for Bible-centered storytelling, the Miller family's journey began with one man's vision and has grown into one of the most impactful theatrical ministries in the world. Kim, daughter of Sight & Sound's founders and now Ministry Coordinator, shares how that vision took shape in the early years and what it's meant to pass the torch to the next generation. Katie, her daughter and Director of Brand Development, offers her own reflections on growing up surrounded by purpose and how she personally embraced her role in the ministry legacy.  Together, they unpack the beauty and complexity of serving as a family—what it means to disciple intentionally, live faithfully in both public and private moments, and nurture a daughter's identity in Christ while inviting her into the bigger story God is writing. Whether you're raising girls in the pews, behind the scenes, or at the kitchen table, you'll walk away encouraged by their honesty, wisdom, and generational faithfulness.  Learn more about Katie & Kim's work with Sight & Sound Theatres and upcoming showings of NOAH nationwide, visit sight-sound.com  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 243 — A Legacy of Ministering in Your Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2025 27:29


    Ministry isn't a job title—it's a way of life. In this powerful Thursday episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose unpack what it means for families to embrace ministry as both a calling and a legacy. Whether you're a family of pastors, faithful volunteers, or simply parents trying to serve Jesus through everyday moments, this conversation will challenge and encourage you to let your family's light shine brightly in the world.  Through heartfelt stories—from Rich Mullins' radical generosity to the everyday acts of preschool volunteering and neighborhood service—Rachael and Natalie illustrate that ministry can happen anywhere: around the kitchen table, in the car, at a church workday, or even in the checkout line. You'll be reminded that a Kingdom impact doesn't require a pulpit, just a posture of obedience.  You'll also hear from AHG Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in a special Raising Godly Girls Minute that paints a picture of young girls ministering to hospital patients through simple, Spirit-led acts of compassion. It's a moving reminder that no one is too young—or too ordinary—to be used by God.  This episode dives into two vital heart postures every family can adopt: a willingness to let God multiply their influence and a readiness to make sacrifices for His Kingdom. Whether you're serving in a formal church role or quietly discipling your daughter at home, your life of faithfulness can ripple into eternity.  Scriptures Referenced:  Matthew 25:34–40 – “Whatever you did for the least of these…you did for Me.”  Proverbs 19:21 – “Many are the plans in a person's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails.”  Acts 1:8 – “You will be My witnesses…to the ends of the earth.”  Deuteronomy 7:9 – “He is the faithful God, keeping His covenant of love to a thousand generations…”  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.

    Ep. 242 — Bridging the Generational Gap with Your Girl

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2025 24:21


    “Mom, it's not the 1900s anymore.” If you've ever heard a variation of this phrase from your daughter, you're not alone. While each generation brings its own slang, styles, and standards, the gap between “then” and “now” can either divide us—or become fertile ground for discipleship. In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose lean into the tension many families feel across generations, offering insight, laughter, and wisdom to help you connect more deeply with your daughter.  This conversation is part of our special week on Multi-Generational Ministry, and today's episode explores how parents can resist the pull of presentism—the assumption that today's ideas are inherently better—and instead practice humility, curiosity, and Christlike love across generational lines. You'll hear stories about misunderstood YouTube trends and lively car conversations that became spiritual breakthroughs, plus practical tools for navigating those head-to-head moments with grace instead of frustration.  You'll also hear a thought-provoking Raising Godly Girls Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus, Patti Garibay, reminding us that while younger and older generations may approach the world differently, unity is possible when all are rooted in the pure Gospel of Jesus. When your daughter knows she's both seen and guided, she's more likely to extend the same grace back to you—and to her generation.  If you're parenting a Gen Z or Gen Alpha girl and wondering how to build trust, foster understanding, and grow in faith together, this episode offers a refreshing, Gospel-centered perspective on what it means to bridge the generational divide in your home.  Scriptures Referenced:  Mark 12:30–31   Deuteronomy 7:9   Titus 2:1–8   Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 241 — The Question Every Burned-Out Mom Needs to Answer with Sherri Crandall (The MomCo)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2025 33:24


    Motherhood is a sacred calling—but it can also be exhausting. From sleepless nights to emotionally draining days, moms often give everything to everyone else… leaving themselves running on empty. In this heartfelt and hope-filled episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay, Founder & Executive Director Emeritus of American Heritage Girls, welcomes Sherri Crandall, Vice President of Global Ministries and Leadership Experience at The MomCo, to unpack the one powerful question every burned-out mom must answer: What do you want Me to do for you? (Mark 10:51).  Drawing from a recent Barna Group study with The MomCo revealing that 50% of Christian moms long for support from their church in the area of mental wellness, this episode leans into the truth that asking for help isn't weakness—it's wisdom. Together, Patti and Sherri discuss the stigma moms feel around needing support, the Gospel's invitation to release guilt and shame, and how to create space for real, vulnerable community in our homes, churches, and hearts.  Through Biblical wisdom, relatable stories, and encouraging guidance, Sherri equips moms to take their first steps toward healing and renewal—spiritually, emotionally, and relationally. From practical ways to model vulnerability to your daughter to the importance of honest prayer and soul-care, this conversation reminds listeners that Jesus sees you, knows your needs, and gently asks, What do you want Me to do for you?  If you're a mom feeling weary, unseen, or overwhelmed, this episode is your invitation to exhale, reflect, and receive. You're not alone—and you don't have to carry it all alone.  To learn more about Sherri and her work with The MomCo, visit themom.co  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 240 — Brave Enough to Ask: Teaching Daughters Biblical Dependence

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2025 26:11


    She's smart. She's capable. She's independent. But is she brave enough to ask for help?  In a culture that idolizes self-sufficiency and pushes girls to “be your own hero,” many daughters are quietly drowning under the weight of silent struggles—too afraid to reach out for fear of being seen as weak, too used to hearing that needing others is a flaw. But what if asking for help isn't weakness at all? What if it's wisdom?  This week on the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden dive into one of the most countercultural lessons a parent can teach their daughter: how to embrace Biblical dependence. With honesty, humor, and Scripture, they unpack how girls today are wrestling with anxiety, control, and perfectionism—and how learning to ask for help might just be the freedom they've been praying for.  Drawing from Isaiah 41:10 and Galatians 6:2, this episode encourages moms to model courageous vulnerability and practical interdependence. Through personal stories, faith-based parenting tips, and a powerful RGG Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay on the link between anxiety and control, this conversation will help you identify where your daughter needs support—and how you can help her ask for it with confidence.  In this episode, you'll learn:  How to normalize asking for help in everyday moments with your daughter  Practical ways to teach her to discern what's hers to carry—and what belongs in God's hands  Why modeling your own dependence on God and community is essential in her discipleship  How AHG equips girls to grow through mentorship, community, and Christ-centered leadership  Scriptures Referenced:  Isaiah 41:10 – “I will strengthen you and help you…”  Galatians 6:2 – “Carry each other's burdens…”  James 1:5 – “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God…”  When your daughter learns that strength isn't found in doing it all alone—but in leaning on Christ and His people—she will walk through life with resilience, grace, and godly wisdom. So let's model that truth boldly. Let's raise girls who are strong enough to admit when they're not okay, wise enough to ask for help, and faithful enough to believe that God will answer.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 239 — Biblical Truths for Overwhelmed Moms

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2025 23:20


    You're doing all the things—but you're worn thin. And beneath the smiles, the sports pickups, the dinner prep, and the late-night laundry, you wonder: Am I the only one who feels like I can't keep up?  In this honest and hope-filled episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden speak directly to the weary heart of the overwhelmed Christian mom. Together, they unpack the invisible load modern mothers carry—and the dangerous lie that asking for help is a form of spiritual failure.  But the Bible tells a different story. From Moses to the early Church, God's Word is rich with examples of leaders who were never meant to go it alone. Through personal stories—including Rachael's life-changing health scare and Melissa's practical advice on why you should always say yes to a Meal Train—this episode offers permission to release the pressure and embrace God's provision through community.  In this episode, you'll discover:  Why asking for help is not weakness—but Biblical wisdom (Galatians 6:2, Exodus 18)  Three simple ways to begin asking for help today, grounded in Scripture  How overcommitment, lack of rest, and self-reliance may be affecting your daughter's discipleship  Practical rhythms for sustainable motherhood, including prayerful yeses and sharing the load  How American Heritage Girls provides not only support for your daughter—but sacred sisterhood for you  Scriptures Referenced:  Galatians 6:2 – “Carry each other's burdens...”  Exodus 18:17–18 – “What you are doing is not good…”  James 1:5 – “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God...”  Proverbs 11:14 – “In an abundance of counselors there is safety.”  John 15:13 – “Greater love has no one than this…”  You were never meant to carry it all alone, mom. God sees your exhaustion—and He's already provided help through His Word, His Spirit, and His people. May this episode remind you that surrender is strength, dependence is discipleship, and asking for help is one of the holiest things you can model for your girl.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 238 — Equipping the Next Generation to Defend Their Faith and Religious Liberty with Rick Green (Patriot Academy)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2025 27:48


    What does it really mean to be free to follow Jesus in today's culture? In this powerful weekend episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Melissa Bearden sits down with Rick Green—America's Constitution Coach and the visionary founder of Patriot Academy—to unpack the vital topic of religious liberty and how families can raise girls who are ready to defend their faith with courage and clarity.  As Americans celebrate Independence Day, this conversation is both timely and timeless. With more than 80% of Americans agreeing that religion is losing influence in public life, it's more important than ever to prepare our daughters to stand firm in Biblical truth and understand their God-given—and Constitutionally protected—right to religious freedom. Rick shares from his years of experience educating young leaders, training millions through his Constitution programs, and raising up the next generation through Patriot Academy.  Together, Melissa and Rick explore what religious liberty actually means, how young girls can be equipped to face cultural pressures, and why it's critical for Christian parents to start these conversations early. They also highlight how AHG Alumna Hannah is carrying out this mission through her work at Patriot Academy, offering a beautiful picture of how faithful citizenship begins in the home and grows into leadership in the world.  Whether you're already passionate about civic engagement or wondering where to start, this episode offers practical steps and deeply rooted encouragement for parents raising daughters to boldly live out their faith in every sphere—from the classroom to the Capitol, from social media to Sunday morning.  Learn more about Rick and his work with Patriot Academy at patriotacademy.com  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 237 — Freedom Isn't Free: Teaching Girls the Cost of Religious Liberty

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2025 19:03


    Religious liberty is one of the most precious freedoms we enjoy—but do our daughters understand the cost behind that freedom? In this powerful Independence Day week episode, co-hosts Rachael and Melissa dig into the often-overlooked responsibility of raising girls who recognize the spiritual and historical significance of living in a nation where we can worship God openly and boldly.  Together, they unpack the phrase “freedom isn't free,” exploring how Christian girls can be taught to honor the sacrifices made for their religious freedom—while also understanding that liberty is not just a privilege, but a call to courageous faith. From Scripture to American history, from grandfathers' stories to military heroes and missionaries, Rachael and Melissa reflect on the importance of instilling gratitude, discernment, and a sense of stewardship in the next generation of Christ-followers.  Featuring a moving Raising Godly Girls Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, this episode touches on what it means to “love your land” with humility and conviction. It equips moms to help their girls hold a love of country and a deep allegiance to God in the same heart—without turning a blind eye to hard truths. Listeners will find encouragement to talk with their daughters about standing firm in faith even when religious liberty is challenged or misunderstood.  Whether your daughter is writing a thank-you note to a missionary, studying U.S. history through an AHG badge, or simply asking big questions about God and country, this episode offers the inspiration and practical guidance to help her develop a heart full of gratitude and a spirit of bold, Biblical citizenship.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 236 — Why Religious Liberty Matters to Girls Today

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2025 19:39


    What does religious liberty mean to the next generation—and why should it matter to girls growing up in today's culture?  In this special Independence Day week's episode, co-hosts Rachael and Melissa explore the often-overlooked freedom that gives our daughters the courage to live out their faith boldly: religious liberty. As we celebrate our nation's founding this week, it's the perfect moment to pause and consider how this essential freedom empowers girls to stand strong in their beliefs, speak truth with grace, and be a light in a world filled with competing values.  You'll hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, who reminds us that our daughters don't have to wait until they're grown to live out their faith in the public square. Whether it's reading Scripture at a city council meeting or praying over a crowd at a national conference, girls can—and should—use their voices to glorify God and lead with conviction. This episode challenges moms and mentors to create space for these moments and to model a faith that is lived out loud.  Rachael and Melissa also share practical strategies for helping your girl understand and appreciate this freedom. From discussing the global cost of discipleship to inviting your daughter to serve, speak, or pray in public settings, you'll walk away with tangible ways to encourage boldness rooted in love. The message is clear: freedoms we don't exercise can be lost. But when we equip our girls to understand their rights and use them for God's glory, we help shape a future generation of courageous Christ-followers.  Don't miss this timely, faith-filled conversation that inspires families to raise girls who are not only grateful for their freedom but also ready to use it for Kingdom impact.  Referenced Scriptures:  Psalm 57:9 – “I will praise you, Lord, among the nations; I will sing of you among the peoples.”  Matthew 5:14-16 – “You are the light of the world… let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”  Galatians 5:13 – “You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.”  1 Peter 3:15 – “But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer… with gentleness and respect.”  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.

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