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For nearly 30 years, American Heritage Girls® has come alongside families and youth ministry leaders in offering Christ-centered, girl-focused character development. Through the Raising Godly Girls® Podcast, presented by American Heritage Girls, listeners get to tap into the advice that seasoned AHG leaders have gleaned over three decades of ministering to girls. Plus, hear from industry experts with solutions to a broad range of issues impacting today’s girls. Get Biblically-sound and actionable tips from fellow parents, volunteers, and thought leaders on how to raise up a girl after God’s own heart.

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    Ep. 269 — Why Parents Shouldn't Make Life Easy for Their Daughters

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2025 25:32


    As parents, our hearts want the very best for our girls. We long to shield them from failure, hardship, and pain. But what if our desire to protect is actually preventing them from growing into the young women God created them to be?  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive into the parenting pitfalls of “helicoptering” and “lawnmowing”—those tendencies to hover or clear every obstacle out of our daughter's path. Together, they wrestle with the tension between loving our girls well and trusting the Lord to use challenges, disappointments, and even failures to build godly character.  You'll hear real-life parenting stories, Biblical wisdom, and encouragement from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in this week's Raising Godly Girls Minute.   The truth is, resilience grows when girls are allowed to stumble, problem-solve, and experience God's faithfulness firsthand. Parenting is not about writing their story—it's about trusting the One who already has.  Scripture References:  Matthew 7:9–11  Hebrews 12  If you've ever struggled with when to step in and when to step back, this episode will help you release the pressure, pry your hands open, and lean on God's sovereignty as you raise your daughter with courage and faith.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 268 — Guiding Girls Through Big Emotions with Michelle Nietert

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2025 35:41


    If there's one thing every parent of girls knows, it's this: emotions can run deep, wide, and loud. From tearful meltdowns to dramatic outbursts, our daughters' feelings can often feel like tidal waves that threaten to pull the whole household under. But what if those very moments weren't interruptions to parenting—but opportunities for discipleship?  In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay, Founder & Executive Director Emeritus of American Heritage Girls, sits down with licensed professional counselor and bestselling author Michelle Nietert to unpack how parents can guide their daughters through big emotions with both compassion and Biblical truth. Drawing from decades of experience as a counselor, school crisis responder, and mom, Michelle offers practical insights for helping girls process sadness, fear, and anxiety while building emotional resilience that's rooted in Christ.  You'll hear encouragement for the mom who feels like her daughter is drowning in emotions, guidance on discerning when drama signals deeper emotional needs, and everyday ways parents can connect spiritual discipleship to emotional growth. From playground drama to teenage friendship struggles, Michelle reminds us that while the world may tell girls to be ruled by their feelings, God calls them to bring those feelings to Him.  Scripture References:  Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”  2 Timothy 1:7 – “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”  Philippians 4:6–7 – “Do not be anxious about anything… and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”  Galatians 5:22–23 – The fruit of the Spirit, including self-control. This conversation will leave you equipped with tools, reassured by truth, and reminded that you are not alone in raising emotionally healthy, Godly girls.  This conversation will leave you equipped with tools, reassured by truth, and reminded that you are not alone in raising emotionally healthy, Godly girls.  You can learn more about Michelle and her work at michellenietert.com  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 267- Teaching Girls to Feel Without Being Ruled by Feelings

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2025 24:55


    Big emotions are a normal part of growing up—but when those emotions start calling the shots, our girls can quickly feel overwhelmed, discouraged, and even defeated. As moms, we want to raise daughters who feel deeply while also learning that their emotions don't get to be in charge—Christ does.  In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden explore what it means to guide our daughters through the highs and lows of anger, sadness, joy, and fear with patience, connection, and truth. You'll hear honest mom-to-mom stories, practical tools like “do-overs” and weekly check-ins, and encouragement to see emotional outbursts not as inconveniences but as discipleship opportunities.  Together, we'll unpack how to help our daughters:  Recognize that emotions are real but not ultimate truth  Move from reacting in anger to responding in the Spirit  Root their identity in Christ rather than in how they feel  Practice self-control through grace-filled parenting moments  You'll also hear the Raising Godly Girls Minute with Patti Garibay, Founder & Executive Director Emeritus of American Heritage Girls, reminding us that while anger is natural, the Holy Spirit transforms it into life-giving joy.  So, whether your daughter is slamming doors, quietly shutting down, or somewhere in between, this episode will remind you that big feelings don't make her “too much.” They make her human—and God has entrusted you to shepherd her through them with His wisdom and love.  Scripture References:  • Galatians 5:16, 19–21, 22–23  • 2 Timothy 1:7  • John 11:35    This Week's Reminders:  Big emotions don't make your daughter “bad”—they make her human. God created her with deep feelings for a purpose. Your job isn't to silence those emotions but to shepherd her through them with love, patience, and truth.   Correction is most powerful when it's paired with connection. Your daughter will grow most when she feels safe, seen, and loved—even after a meltdown. Stay close, speak truth, and don't underestimate the power of a gentle tone.   You are not alone in this—and neither is she. God is with you in every eye roll, every slammed door, and every teary moment. He's working in her heart even when you can't see it. Keep sowing seeds of Spirit-led parenting. He is faithful to grow the fruit.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.  

    Ep. 266 — From Mood Swings to Steadfast Hearts: Faith-Filled Tools for Emotional Growth

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2025 24:27


    Emotions can be overwhelming—both for our daughters and for us as moms. From tearful meltdowns to unpredictable mood swings, it's easy to feel like big emotions threaten to take over the day. But here's the truth: feelings aren't something to fix or fear. They're invitations—opportunities to lean into God's presence, disciple with compassion, and point our girls toward steadfastness in Christ.  In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden share personal stories of their own girlhood “big emotion” moments, reminding us that as moms, we've stood where our daughters now stand. Together, they explore practical and faith-filled ways to help girls put words to their emotions, process them in healthy ways, and anchor their identity in who God says they are—not in how they feel.  You'll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, who offers an actionable tool for moms: teaching your daughter to reframe “I am” statements into “I feel” statements. This simple shift can transform self-talk, strengthen identity, and remind our girls that feelings are temporary—but God's truth is eternal.  Through practical steps like journaling, mealtime check-ins, and memorizing “truth anchor” verses, this episode equips you to model emotional maturity, guide your daughter with gentleness, and rest in the knowledge that God didn't call you to fix every emotion—He called you to shepherd your girl's heart toward Him.  Referenced Scripture:  Genesis 16:13 — God sees us in our struggles.  Romans 12:2 — Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.  Exodus 14:13 — Stand firm and see the salvation of the Lord.  Psalm 139:14 — Fearfully and wonderfully made.  Isaiah 43:1 — Called by name and redeemed.  1 Peter 2:9 — Chosen and belonging to God.  This Week's Reminders:  Feelings Are Real, But Not Always True  Help your daughter name her emotions without letting them define her. Just because she feels unloved doesn't mean she is unloved. Root her identity in God's truth, not her temporary feelings.   She Learns Emotional Maturity by Watching You  Your example is her blueprint. When you model calm, prayerful responses and speak truth over your own emotions, you're teaching her how to navigate hers with grace and faith.   God Doesn't Call You to Be Her Savior—Just Her Shepherd  You're not expected to fix every meltdown. Your role is to guide her toward the One who can hold every emotion she faces. Let that truth lighten the load—you're parenting with God, not apart from Him.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.  

    Ep. 265 — Restoring Spiritual Legacy Between the Generations with Kate and Mike Battistelli

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2025 35:22


    In today's fast-paced culture, the generational divide can feel wider than ever. Parents and grandparents long to pass on a vibrant faith, but too often wonder if their words will land—or if younger hearts are even listening. Statistics paint a sobering picture: nearly 70% of young adults raised in the church walk away as they enter adulthood. But this isn't just a statistic. It's a wake-up call to reclaim the power of spiritual legacy.  In this episode, host Patti Garibay sits down with Kate and Mike Battistelli—parents to Grammy Award-winning artist Francesca Battistelli and faithful disciplers with a passion for legacy building. Together, they share powerful insights on how families can bridge the gap between generations, cultivating authentic connections that lead daughters and granddaughters to encounter Jesus for themselves.  With wisdom drawn from both triumphs and trials, Kate and Mike reveal what spiritual legacy really looks like: everyday faithfulness, intentional mentoring, and a willingness to model surrender in a world that prizes independence. From the father's role in guiding and anchoring faith, to the Titus 2 calling for women to mentor the next generation, their conversation is a clarion call for every believer to show up, stay present, and speak life across generational lines.  Whether you feel overlooked as an older mentor, hesitant as a younger parent, or simply burdened for your daughter's future, this episode will encourage you to take practical steps toward bridging the divide. Because when one generation commends God's works to another, His mighty acts echo far beyond our lifetimes.  Referenced Scripture:  Psalm 145:4 — “One generation shall commend your works to another, and shall declare your mighty acts.”  Titus 2:3–5 — The call for older women to disciple younger women.  Deuteronomy 6:6–9 — Teaching God's Word diligently to the next generation.  Learn more about Kate and Mike's ministry and resources at katebattistelli.com. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.  

    Ep. 264 — The Value of Connecting with Today's Teens

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2025 17:56


    In a culture where communication is constant but true connection feels scarce, today's teens are navigating pressures unlike any generation before them. From endless scrolling to viral slang, it can seem like their world is unreachable for parents, grandparents, and mentors. But here's the good news: the deepest needs of teen girls haven't changed. They still long for trusted relationships, authentic guidance, and meaningful time with the people who care most about them.  In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose unpack how to build bridges with teens who live in a tech-saturated world but crave in-person connection. With warmth and humor, they share real-life stories about the balance between “relating” to teens and “leading” them into maturity—and why authenticity matters more than trying to keep up with every trend.  You'll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, who brings clarity to how girls actually flourish in their friendships. Drawing from both research and Scripture, she reminds us that teens thrive in communities that echo the early church—gathering, serving, and growing together in Christ-centered relationships.  Practical wisdom flows throughout this conversation: consistently showing up in your girl's world, asking deeper questions that fuel her faith, and admitting when you don't have all the answers. Whether you're a parent, grandparent, or mentor, this episode will encourage you to lead at the “speed of trust” and invest in relationships that last beyond the moment.  Referenced Scripture:  Acts 2:42–47 — Early church community life.  Deuteronomy 6:4–9 — Teaching God's Word to the next generation.  Titus 2:3–5 — Mentoring and discipling across generations.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.     To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.  

    Ep. 263 — The Generation Gap: Learning the Lingo

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2025 24:00


    Bridging the gap between generations isn't just about understanding slang—it's about building trust, opening doors for discipleship, and creating a shared language of faith. In this episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose take a lighthearted (and sometimes hilarious) look at the “Gen Z Bible,” then turn the conversation toward a much deeper truth: God is doing something unprecedented among today's youth.  With Gen Z leading the largest surge of faith growth in modern history, the question for parents, mentors, and leaders is clear—will we be ready to connect, disciple, and walk alongside them as they lead? Drawing from Titus 2 and 1 Timothy 3, Rachael and Natalie unpack three key principles for empowering the next generation of Godly leaders: training them well, passing down wisdom, and modeling a lifelong learner's heart.  Along the way, you'll hear practical ways to:  Understand your daughter's “lingo” without trying to be “one of the kids”  Recognize and nurture her leadership gifts without skipping the necessary training  Build bridges between generations in your family, church, and community  Encourage girls to embrace discipleship—both giving and receiving it  This episode will make you laugh, challenge your perspective, and inspire you to engage with the young leaders God is raising up in this generation.  Referenced Scripture:  Psalm 23 (paraphrased in Gen Z Bible reading)  Deuteronomy 6:4–9  Colossians 4:15  1 Timothy 3:2–13  Titus 2:3–5  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 262 — Raising Up Rooted, Gritty, and Faith-Filled Girls in a Cancel Culture with Billy Hallowell

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2025 17:13


    Cancel culture has become one of the most defining—and divisive—features of our modern world. For parents raising daughters, the stakes are high: one wrong post, one unpopular opinion, and she could face public shaming or social exile. How do we raise girls who remain unshaken in their Biblical convictions while leading with love, grace, and resilience?  In this episode, Rachael Culpepper is joined by journalist, author, and cultural commentator Billy Hallowell for a powerful conversation on equipping girls to stand firm in Christ in the face of cultural pressure. Together, they unpack how cancel culture distorts the concepts of accountability and forgiveness, why the Gospel offers a radically different response, and what practical tools parents can give their daughters to navigate the digital world with discernment.  You'll hear how to:  Teach your daughter to speak truth boldly without fear of rejection  Model healthy boundaries while practicing Biblical forgiveness  Guide girls through social media pressures with confidence in their identity in Christ  Use cultural moments as teachable opportunities about redemption and grace  Introduce apologetics in a way that equips—not intimidates—young believers  Referenced Scripture:  Isaiah 5:20  2 Corinthians 5:17–20  Matthew 5:43–48  Romans 14:1–12  If you've been wondering how to raise a girl who can stand strong in her faith in a culture quick to “cancel,” this episode will encourage, challenge, and equip you for the journey.   Learn more about Billy Hallowell at billyhallowell.com. Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 261 — Ways Your Girl Can Reconcile the Divide Cut by Cancel Culture

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2025 24:10


    Cancel culture seems to demand that we choose sides—cutting off, calling out, and canceling others with little room for redemption. But what does a Gospel response look like? How do we teach our daughters to stand firm in their faith without returning fire with fire?  In this Thursday episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dig deep into how the divide created by cancel culture can be reconciled—not through compromise, but through Christ. Rooted in the ministry of reconciliation described in 2 Corinthians 5, this episode explores what it means to be a peacemaker in a polarized world and how to help your daughter hold truth and grace in tension.  From toddler playground scuffles to teenaged social dynamics, cancel culture is showing up in your daughter's life earlier than ever. But instead of teaching her to cancel back, this conversation invites you to cast a different vision—one that prioritizes empathy, identity in Christ, spiritual maturity, and prayer for those who oppose her.  You'll walk away with:  A Gospel-centered framework for responding to cancel culture  Real-life language to help your daughter approach conflict differently  3 practical jumping-off points to move her from canceling to reconciling  AHG resources like GRIT with Grace that equip girls to practice Biblical unity in their everyday relationships  As American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay reminds us in this week's Raising Godly Girls Minute, our differences are not a threat—they are an opportunity to celebrate the body of Christ in its fullness. Unity doesn't mean sameness; it means choosing love in the face of division.  Scripture References:  Genesis 6 – God grieves humanity's wickedness  Isaiah 5:20 – “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil...”  2 Corinthians 5:17–20 – Ministry of reconciliation  Romans 14:1–12 – Unity in the body despite differences  Matthew 5:43–44 – “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you”  Revelation 7:9 – A vision of heaven's diversity: every tribe, nation, and tongue  2 Timothy 1:7 – Spirit of power, love, and self-discipline  Our girls don't need to be cultural chameleons—they need to be Gospel lights. Teach her to lead with conviction, but love like Christ.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 260 — Does Cancel Culture Belong Among Christians?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2025 23:57


    In a world where boycotts trend by the hour and social media justice can render someone “canceled” overnight, Christian parents are left wondering—how should we respond? In this insightful and deeply relevant episode, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose step into the emotionally charged topic of Cancel Culture with clarity, nuance, and a Biblical lens.  Rather than being driven by reactionary outrage, Christians are called to be rooted in grace, truth, and discernment. The conversation explores the dangers of modern Cancel Culture—doxing, boycotting, and outrage cycles—and contrasts them with the radical love and reconciliation found in Christ. Rachael and Natalie ask: What does it look like to live out a Grace Culture in a canceling world? And how do we teach our daughters to pursue peace, seek justice, and reflect the heart of Jesus in the face of public pressure?  Listeners will appreciate the honesty of personal stories, Biblical insights, and encouragements to step away from knee-jerk reactions and instead stand firmly on their identity in Christ. With wisdom from the Raising Godly Girls Minute by American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, this episode reminds us that we are uncanceled by God—and that truth has massive implications for how we love others.  Scripture References:  Romans 5:8 – “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”  Ephesians 2:4–5 – “But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ…”  Matthew 5:8 – “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.”  Micah 6:8 – “What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”  2 Timothy 1:7 – “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.”  Whether you're trying to navigate social media, lead your family in integrity, or disciple your daughter through cultural confusion, this episode offers an anchored, grace-filled vision for Christian living in divisive times.    Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 259 — Harnessing the Parenting Potential of Emotional Intelligence with Vic Clesceri (The Management Sherpa)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2025 34:14


    Parenting in today's world is not for the faint of heart—and emotional intelligence may be one of your most powerful, overlooked tools in raising a resilient, Christ-centered daughter.  In this insightful conversation, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay sits down with Christ-centered leadership coach and author Vic Clesceri to unpack how Emotional Intelligence (EI) transforms the way we parent. From managing our own triggers to modeling self-awareness and empathy, Vic helps us see parenting not as a performance—but as a spiritual practice rooted in grace, surrender, and intentional growth.  You'll hear about:  What Emotional Intelligence actually is—and why it matters for moms and dads  How subtle "saboteurs" like perfectionism, fear, or the need for control undermine our parenting  Tools and daily practices to help you lead your daughter with emotional clarity and Biblical compassion  Whether you're in the trenches of toddlerhood or navigating the teen years, this episode offers hope and clarity. God is with you, and He has equipped you to parent with wisdom, peace, and purpose.  Be encouraged: Emotional Intelligence isn't a secular parenting trend—it's a Biblical call to be transformed from the inside out so we can reflect Christ more fully to our children.  Learn more about Vic's leadership work at themanagementsherpa.com  Take the free Saboteur assessment referenced in the episode at positiveintelligence.com Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 258 — How to Help Your Daughter Open Up Emotionally

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2025 26:36


    Is your daughter shutting down emotionally—retreating behind “I'm fine” and silence when life feels too big? In a world that often confuses resilience with repression, many girls grow up without the tools or trust to process their emotions in a healthy, God-honoring way. This episode is here to help change that.  Join co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden as they explore how to build emotional bridges with your daughter, not barriers. From personal stories of girlhood to faith-rooted wisdom, this episode will equip you with simple, practical ways to create a safe space for vulnerability—while still pointing your girl toward Christ.  You'll learn:  Why girls often repress emotions—and how to respond with grace  How to model emotional openness without oversharing  Conversation strategies that draw her out instead of shutting her down  What Scripture teaches about emotional honesty and trust  You'll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay on why emotional intelligence is vital to true resilience—and how the Bible affirms the value of naming our emotions, not burying them.  This is a conversation for every parent who longs to connect with their daughter's heart—and guide her toward the God who understands and cares for her completely.  Scriptures Referenced in This Episode:  James 1:19 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”  1 Peter 5:7 – “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”  Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 257 — Emotional Intelligence for Moms and Daughters

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2025 26:12


    Emotions can feel overwhelming—both hers and yours. So how do you raise a Godly girl who's emotionally wise, not just reactive?  In this episode, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden explore how emotional intelligence (EQ) can shape your daughter's spiritual maturity—and your parenting too. You'll hear practical ways to help her name her feelings, respond with grace, and grow in wisdom from a Biblical Worldview.  Discover how Jesus modeled empathy and self-control, why EQ is more than a buzzword, and how God uses emotions to shape both moms and daughters into His likeness.  Plus, hear this week's Raising Godly Girls Minute with American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay as she reminds us that emotions aren't flaws—they're God-designed tools for growth.  Scripture References in This Episode:  Proverbs 15:1 – “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”  Galatians 5:22-23 – The fruit of the Spirit, including self-control and gentleness  Ecclesiastes 3:4 – “A time to weep and a time to laugh…”  James 1:19-20 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry…”  Ephesians 4:26 – “In your anger do not sin…”  John 11:35 – “Jesus wept.” (A powerful example of Christ's emotional expression)  2 Timothy 1:7 – “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”  Whether you're navigating a meltdown or simply want to parent with more patience and purpose, this episode will equip you with Biblical insight and practical tools to grow both your daughter's emotional intelligence—and your own.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 256 — From Self-Absorbed to Selfless: Guiding Girls Toward Christlike Character with Jill Garner

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2025 42:20


    How do we raise daughters who reflect the humility of Christ in a world that rewards self-promotion? How do we steer their hearts away from “me first” and toward “others first”? In this powerful weekend episode, Raising Godly Girls host and American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay welcomes character education expert and author Jill Garner to explore how parents can guide girls from self-absorption to selflessness through intentional heart training.  Jill Garner, founder of Manners of the Heart, brings decades of insight on shaping young hearts through respect-based education rooted in Biblical truth. As the author of Raising Respectful Children in a Disrespectful World and StrongHeart: Cultivating Humility, Respect, and Resiliency in Your Child, Jill offers a clear and compassionate voice for parents seeking to raise daughters of integrity—girls who are resilient, gracious, and grounded in their identity in Christ.  Together, Patti and Jill explore the cultural currents pulling girls toward vanity, entitlement, and independence from God—and contrast them with a Spirit-led path of humility and service. With practical advice, personal testimony, and a heart for transformation, this conversation is a must-listen for parents raising daughters in today's me-centered world.  In this episode, you'll learn:  Why selfishness begins early—and what it reveals about the heart  What “Heart Education” is and how it can be a game-changer in your parenting  How to cultivate Christlike humility and respect in your daughter's everyday life  Encouraging tools and Scriptures that anchor your family in a God-honoring character journey  How to partner with schools, churches, and AHG to reinforce selflessness and servant leadership  Key Scriptures Highlighted:  Philippians 2:3–4 – “In humility, value others above yourselves…”  Proverbs 11:25 – “Whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.”  James 3:16 – The warning against selfish ambition and its impact on community  If you've ever asked, “How do I lead my daughter to think of others first—and love them well?” this episode will equip you with both the truth and the tools to begin that work today.  Learn more about Jill's work and explore helpful parenting resources at mannersoftheheart.org.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.   

    Ep. 255 — Teaching Your Daughter That It's Not About Her

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2025 21:42


    From toddler tantrums to teen drama, it's easy to spot the signs of self-focus in our daughters—but it's harder to correct that trajectory in a culture that rewards self-obsession. This episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast gently but boldly tackles the uncomfortable topic of selfishness and entitlement, equipping moms with Biblical tools to shepherd their daughters into a Christ-centered life of humility and service.  Co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose offer heartfelt insight, Scripture-based truth, and real-life reflection on how selfish habits form—and how to break them with grace. From the sassy toddler mimicking grown-up behavior to the teen seeking praise and power, this conversation walks alongside moms who want to train up daughters who reflect Christ, not the culture.  You'll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in a timely Raising Godly Girls Minute, pointing parents to Proverbs and practical ways to help girls become refreshers of others rather than rulers of their own tiny kingdoms. If you've ever struggled to set boundaries, discipline with love, or navigate your girl's “attitude,” this episode will meet you right where you are—and call you higher in your parenting.  In this episode, you'll discover:  Why early entitlement, if left unchecked, leads to lasting relational damage  How to guide your girl from “what I want” to “what others need” using empathy and training  Biblical wisdom from Philippians 2 and James 3:16 that redefines confidence as Christlike humility  Practical parenting phrases and questions to use when disciplining or redirecting selfish behavior  How service and discipleship lead girls out of self-focus and into Kingdom purpose    Scriptures Highlighted:  Philippians 2:3-4 — “Do nothing out of selfish ambition…”  James 3:16 — “Where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder…”  Proverbs 11:25 — “A generous person will prosper…”  If you're ready to raise a girl who shines for Christ, not for the applause of the crowd, this episode will help you lay the groundwork. It's not about squashing her confidence—it's about redirecting her heart toward something greater: a life lived for others, rooted in the example of Jesus.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.    To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 254 — Freeing Your Girl from the Being-Liked Addiction

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2025 29:01


    The desire to be liked is natural—but left unchecked, it can quietly shape your daughter's identity in unhealthy, even addictive ways. From the playground to the group chat, the pressure to earn approval can steal her joy, distort her view of self, and distance her from the truth of who she is in Christ.  In this must-listen episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose dive deep into the social and spiritual undercurrents of girls' need for affirmation. Together, they unpack how a girl's early development can fuel her craving for praise—and how loving, intentional parenting can redirect that desire toward the One whose love never wavers.  You'll hear candid personal stories from both hosts, powerful Scriptural truths, and timely insights from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in the Raising Godly Girls Minute. You'll also learn how to reframe your daughter's attention-seeking behavior, not as manipulation, but as a longing to be seen, known, and loved. This episode doesn't just name the problem—it offers the Christ-centered path out.  In this episode, you'll explore:  How girls' early need for affirmation can spiral into an identity crisis if left unaddressed  The “Hawthorne Effect” and what it reveals about your daughter's desire to be seen  The difference between “fitting in” and standing out for Christ (Philippians 2:15, Romans 8:5)  How to help your girl root her confidence in Colossians 3:2 living—setting her mind on things above  Practical steps to break the approval addiction and reestablish her identity in Christ    Scriptures Referenced:  Philippians 2:15 — “...shine like stars in the sky.”  Romans 8:5 — “Those who live according to the flesh...”  Colossians 3:2 — “Set your minds on things above...”  John 15:5 — “Abide in me and I in you...”  This episode reminds you that your daughter's desire to be liked isn't the problem—it's where she looks for that affirmation that matters most. Help her turn from the fleeting approval of the world to the everlasting love of her Heavenly Father. And as a mom, be encouraged: your voice, your presence, and your daily words of truth are shaping the next generation of confident, Christlike women.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 253 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: Peace at Home: Teaching Conflict Resolution to Girls with Dr. Danny Huerta (Focus on the Family)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2025 35:52


    In this “best of” episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay welcomes Dr. Danny Huerta from Focus on the Family to discuss practical strategies for achieving peace at home through effective conflict resolution. The average family experiences around 2,100 arguments a year. That's nearly 49 minutes of daily conflict! But how we handle these inevitable clashes can make all the difference in fostering a loving and harmonious home environment.  Dr. Huerta shares his expertise on the most common sources of family conflict and offers insights on how parents can identify and address these issues early on. Discover practical advice on managing sibling rivalry, teaching your children effective communication skills, and the vital role of forgiveness and reconciliation in resolving disputes. Learn how parents can mediate conflicts without being overly controlling, and how to turn everyday arguments into opportunities for growth and understanding.  Join us as we get to the heart of family dynamics, exploring ways to transform conflict into connection and maintain a peaceful, supportive atmosphere in your home. With Biblical wisdom and practical tips, this replay episode is designed to help you raise resilient, Godly girls equipped to navigate life's challenges.  To learn more about Dr. Huerta's work with Focus on the Family, visit focusonthefamily.com/parenting  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org       Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

    Ep. 252 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: From Conflict to Connection: Effective Communication in Parent-Daughter Arguments

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2025 21:45


    In this “best of” episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast co-hosts Rachael and Melissa dig deep into the often-challenging terrain of parent-daughter arguments. While sibling spats can teach valuable lessons in conflict resolution, parent-daughter disagreements require a different approach to foster healthy, respectful communication.  Join us as we explore practical strategies and Biblical wisdom to navigate these conflicts, transforming moments of disagreement into opportunities for connection. In this episode, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay shares insightful advice on overcoming conflict and creating lasting bonds with your daughter.  Discover the power of understanding different perspectives, using "I" statements, and knowing when to take breaks during heated arguments. Through real-life anecdotes, scriptural guidance, and practical tips, we aim to equip you with the tools to foster open, respectful dialogue with your daughter, strengthening your relationship in the process.  Don't miss this insightful conversation designed to help you and your daughter build a foundation of love, patience, and effective communication. Tune in now and learn how to turn conflicts into connections that last a lifetime.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org       Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

    Ep. 251 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: Grace in Times of Disagreement: Guiding Your Girl Through Sibling Arguments

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2025 20:35


    Join co-hosts Rachael and Melissa in this “best of” episode as they discuss the complexities of sibling arguments and how to guide your daughters through them with grace and wisdom. In this replay episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, we discuss practical strategies rooted in Biblical principles to help your daughters navigate disagreements with their siblings. Featuring insights from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay, we explore the importance of cultivating a heart filled with the Fruit of the Spirit and the power of gentle, kind communication.  Tune in as we share personal anecdotes, Biblical examples, and effective ways to foster healthy conflict resolution in your home. Learn how to equip your daughters with the tools they need to handle disagreements gracefully, ensuring they build strong, loving relationships with their siblings. Don't miss this insightful and encouraging episode designed to support you in raising Godly girls who can navigate the challenges of sibling rivalry with faith and wisdom.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org       Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

    Ep. 250 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: Strong Girls, Strong Women with Sarah Stonestreet

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2025 51:05


    In this insightful “best of” episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay is joined by Sarah Stonestreet, the vibrant host of the Colson Center's Strong Women Podcast. Together, they delve into the core principles of raising strong, resilient girls grounded in their faith. Sarah shares her passion for empowering young girls and the pivotal role of Biblical principles in cultivating strength and boldness. They explore how parents can redefine meekness as a powerful virtue and equip their daughters to lead with humility and confidence.  Through engaging discussions, Patti and Sarah highlight the significance of nurturing a strong sense of identity rooted in God's love, enabling girls to navigate societal pressures while staying true to their faith. They also discuss the concept of Biblical femininity and the importance of perseverance and resilience. Tune in to gain valuable insights and practical strategies for raising godly girls in today's challenging cultural landscape.  To learn more about Sarah and the Strong Women Podcast, visit colsoncenter.org/strong-women  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org    Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com    

    Ep. 249 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: Revealing the Confidence of Christ to Your Daughter

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2025 21:08


    In this “best of” episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Natalie delve into the theme of revealing the confidence of Christ to your daughter. They share personal stories about the moments their faith truly became their own and explore how parents can guide their girls to embrace and live out the boldness of Christ in a world that often pushes back against Christian values.  Drawing inspiration from a recent Raising Godly Girls Minute by American Hertiage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, they discuss practical ways to help girls confidently share the Gospel and embody Christ's love, even when faced with opposition. Highlighting the importance of both speaking and living the gospel, Rachael and Natalie offer insights on setting gospel-sharing goals, fostering a missional mindset, and growing confidence through tough times.  Tune in to hear how American Heritage Girls supports this mission through various badges and leadership training sessions that empower girls to be confident, Godly women of integrity.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org    Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

    Ep. 248 — Best of Raising Godly Girls: What It Means to Preach and Live the Gospel Boldly

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2025 21:05


    In this ‘best of' episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Natalie explore the theme of Christian boldness. They share personal stories and Biblical examples, like Jochebed and Esther, to illustrate how women have historically and courageously advanced God's Kingdom. Emphasizing the importance of embodying faith both in word and action, they reference 1 Corinthians 1:18 and Matthew 5:14-16 to highlight that living a life reflective of Christ's teachings enhances the credibility of the Gospel message.  The episode also features a Raising Godly Girls Minute with Patti Garibay, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus, focusing on the connection between faith symbols and living a faith-filled life. Rachael and Natalie reflect on the importance of consistent faith practice, urging parents to guide their daughters to boldly express and live their faith. They share practical advice on nurturing spiritual growth and boldness, drawing from 2 Timothy 4:2 and encouraging listeners to instill in their daughters the courage to speak and live their faith confidently.  Throughout the conversation, the hosts share practical advice on nurturing spiritual growth and boldness in girls, leveraging AHG's resources such as badges, Bible studies, and outdoor experiences.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org    Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

    Ep. 247 — More Than Academics: Teaching Truth & Faith at Home with Yvette Hampton

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2025 32:30


    Today's episode is a must-listen for every parent who wants their daughter's education to be rooted in more than just grades and test scores. When it comes to shaping a girl's heart, soul, and mind, discipleship doesn't end at church—it starts at home. And for an increasing number of families, that includes homeschooling.  This weekend on the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay welcomes back Yvette Hampton—host of The Schoolhouse Rocked Podcast and producer of the powerful documentary Schoolhouse Rocked: The Homeschool Revolution. Yvette shares her heartfelt journey into homeschooling and offers an honest, hope-filled perspective on how parents can teach both truth and academics with confidence—even if they feel unqualified.  In a time when nearly 4 million children in the U.S. are homeschooled, this conversation tackles what's driving the movement, the cultural pressures families are pushing back against, and how homeschooling allows space for Biblical worldview development, daily discipleship, and deep family connection. Yvette encourages moms and dads to remember that education isn't just about passing on knowledge—it's about passing on faith.  In this episode, you'll gain:  Encouragement to embrace your God-given role as both parent and spiritual teacher  Insight into how homeschooling supports God's design for discipleship in the family  Practical advice for integrating Scripture and truth into daily lessons  A reminder that even if you feel like you've “missed the mark,” God is not finished writing your family's story  Resources for building Christ-centered community and courage in your homeschool journey  Scriptures Referenced:  Proverbs 22:6 – “Train up a child in the way he should go…”  Deuteronomy 6:6–7 – “Impress [God's commands] on your children…”  Whether you're new to homeschooling or simply rethinking how your home supports your child's faith, this episode is a powerful reminder that education is never just academic—it's spiritual. You don't need credentials to teach your daughter about Christ. You just need conviction, consistency, and the courage to walk in obedience. And as Yvette shares, when you build your daughter's education on the foundation of God's Word, you're preparing her not just for college—but for the Kingdom.    To learn more about Yvette and Schoolhouse Rocked, visit schoolhouserocked.com.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 246 — Called but Not Ready: Leading Your Kids in Faith When You Don't Feel Qualified

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2025 22:06


    Do you ever feel like you're not qualified to lead your daughter spiritually? Maybe you didn't grow up with strong faith role models, maybe you struggle to read Scripture consistently, or maybe you're overwhelmed by the thought of answering your child's deep questions about God. If so—you're not alone. And this episode is for you.  This week on the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden offer real talk and reassuring truth for every mom who feels inadequate when it comes to spiritual leadership. Together, they tackle the lie that says “you're not equipped” and replace it with God's truth: if He called you to it, He will carry you through it. You don't need to be a Bible scholar to disciple your daughter—you just need a willing heart and the faith to take the next step.  Drawing from personal stories, Scripture, and relatable insight, Rachael and Melissa unpack how to lead your home in faith while learning and growing yourself. They remind listeners that spiritual formation isn't a performance—it's a relationship. And the best discipleship doesn't happen in perfect devotionals, but in everyday moments of honesty, humility, and love.  In this episode, you'll be encouraged to:  Trust that God chose you on purpose to raise your daughter—and He doesn't make mistakes  Embrace discipleship as a journey you walk with your child, not something you have to master beforehand  Find your voice as a spiritual leader by speaking truth out loud and modeling dependence on God  Build confidence through community, mentorship, and resources like AHG curriculum and the Raising Godly Girls Guide to Biblical Worldview  Let go of the pressure to “have it all together,” and instead, learn the beauty of being a co-learner in God's Word    Scriptures Referenced:  Proverbs 22:6 – “Train up a child in the way she should go…”  Deuteronomy 6:6–7 – “Impress [these commands] on your children…”  Ephesians 5:1–2 – “Be imitators of God… and walk in love…”  It's okay if you don't have all the answers. What matters most is showing up with humility, pointing your daughter to Jesus, and trusting that God's grace fills every gap. In fact, the moments when you feel the weakest may be the very places where your daughter sees the strength of Christ most clearly.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.

    Ep. 245 — God's Design for Discipleship Starts in Your Living Room

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2025 32:11


    What if the most powerful place to disciple your daughter isn't a classroom, a church, or a camp—but your own living room? In this practical and heartfelt episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden invite you to recenter your family life around God's original design for discipleship: one that starts at home, in the rhythms of everyday parenting.  In a culture where spiritual formation is often outsourced to Sunday school or youth group, Scripture calls parents to be the first and most enduring voice of truth in their children's lives. But let's be honest—between laundry piles, dinner prep, and constant to-dos, that kind of intentionality can feel overwhelming. Today's episode encourages you to shift your mindset, embrace holy interruptions, and trust that God is present and powerful in your home—even in the mess.  You'll hear honest stories about motherhood, homeschooling, and discipleship through dinnertime devotions, tough conversations, and the daily chaos of real life. Rachael and Melissa unpack how Deuteronomy 6 isn't just theory—it's a roadmap for forming your girl's faith through consistency, curiosity, and connection. You'll leave this episode reminded that you don't need to be a trained theologian to raise a girl who knows, loves, and lives for Jesus.  In this episode, you'll discover:  Why your home is the most formative place for faith and worldview development  How to transform ordinary moments—like bedtime, car rides, and family meals—into discipleship opportunities  Practical, age-appropriate tools to help your girl own her faith, ask big questions, and grow in Biblical literacy  Encouragement for busy moms feeling the weight of spiritual responsibility—and the grace to know God works through your willingness, not your perfection  How American Heritage Girls supports and amplifies home discipleship through Christ-centered community  Scriptures Referenced:  Deuteronomy 6:6–7 – “Impress [God's commands] on your children…”  Mark 10:14 – “Let the little children come to Me…”  Proverbs 22:6 – “Train up a child in the way she should go…”    Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org

    Ep. 244 — Multigenerational Ministry: God's Faithfulness from Backstage to Center Stage with Katie & Kim Miller (Sight & Sound Theatres)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2025 40:20


    What does it look like when a family answers God's call—together? In this inspiring weekend episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus, sits down with Kim and Katie Miller of Sight & Sound Theatres, a mother-daughter duo living out a vibrant legacy of multigenerational ministry. From backstage beginnings to center stage moments, their story is a testimony to the power of faithful families saying “yes” to God—again and again.  With roots in rural Pennsylvania and a passion for Bible-centered storytelling, the Miller family's journey began with one man's vision and has grown into one of the most impactful theatrical ministries in the world. Kim, daughter of Sight & Sound's founders and now Ministry Coordinator, shares how that vision took shape in the early years and what it's meant to pass the torch to the next generation. Katie, her daughter and Director of Brand Development, offers her own reflections on growing up surrounded by purpose and how she personally embraced her role in the ministry legacy.  Together, they unpack the beauty and complexity of serving as a family—what it means to disciple intentionally, live faithfully in both public and private moments, and nurture a daughter's identity in Christ while inviting her into the bigger story God is writing. Whether you're raising girls in the pews, behind the scenes, or at the kitchen table, you'll walk away encouraged by their honesty, wisdom, and generational faithfulness.  Learn more about Katie & Kim's work with Sight & Sound Theatres and upcoming showings of NOAH nationwide, visit sight-sound.com  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 243 — A Legacy of Ministering in Your Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2025 27:29


    Ministry isn't a job title—it's a way of life. In this powerful Thursday episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose unpack what it means for families to embrace ministry as both a calling and a legacy. Whether you're a family of pastors, faithful volunteers, or simply parents trying to serve Jesus through everyday moments, this conversation will challenge and encourage you to let your family's light shine brightly in the world.  Through heartfelt stories—from Rich Mullins' radical generosity to the everyday acts of preschool volunteering and neighborhood service—Rachael and Natalie illustrate that ministry can happen anywhere: around the kitchen table, in the car, at a church workday, or even in the checkout line. You'll be reminded that a Kingdom impact doesn't require a pulpit, just a posture of obedience.  You'll also hear from AHG Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay in a special Raising Godly Girls Minute that paints a picture of young girls ministering to hospital patients through simple, Spirit-led acts of compassion. It's a moving reminder that no one is too young—or too ordinary—to be used by God.  This episode dives into two vital heart postures every family can adopt: a willingness to let God multiply their influence and a readiness to make sacrifices for His Kingdom. Whether you're serving in a formal church role or quietly discipling your daughter at home, your life of faithfulness can ripple into eternity.  Scriptures Referenced:  Matthew 25:34–40 – “Whatever you did for the least of these…you did for Me.”  Proverbs 19:21 – “Many are the plans in a person's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails.”  Acts 1:8 – “You will be My witnesses…to the ends of the earth.”  Deuteronomy 7:9 – “He is the faithful God, keeping His covenant of love to a thousand generations…”  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.

    Ep. 242 — Bridging the Generational Gap with Your Girl

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2025 24:21


    “Mom, it's not the 1900s anymore.” If you've ever heard a variation of this phrase from your daughter, you're not alone. While each generation brings its own slang, styles, and standards, the gap between “then” and “now” can either divide us—or become fertile ground for discipleship. In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Natalie Ambrose lean into the tension many families feel across generations, offering insight, laughter, and wisdom to help you connect more deeply with your daughter.  This conversation is part of our special week on Multi-Generational Ministry, and today's episode explores how parents can resist the pull of presentism—the assumption that today's ideas are inherently better—and instead practice humility, curiosity, and Christlike love across generational lines. You'll hear stories about misunderstood YouTube trends and lively car conversations that became spiritual breakthroughs, plus practical tools for navigating those head-to-head moments with grace instead of frustration.  You'll also hear a thought-provoking Raising Godly Girls Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus, Patti Garibay, reminding us that while younger and older generations may approach the world differently, unity is possible when all are rooted in the pure Gospel of Jesus. When your daughter knows she's both seen and guided, she's more likely to extend the same grace back to you—and to her generation.  If you're parenting a Gen Z or Gen Alpha girl and wondering how to build trust, foster understanding, and grow in faith together, this episode offers a refreshing, Gospel-centered perspective on what it means to bridge the generational divide in your home.  Scriptures Referenced:  Mark 12:30–31   Deuteronomy 7:9   Titus 2:1–8   Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 241 — The Question Every Burned-Out Mom Needs to Answer with Sherri Crandall (The MomCo)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2025 33:24


    Motherhood is a sacred calling—but it can also be exhausting. From sleepless nights to emotionally draining days, moms often give everything to everyone else… leaving themselves running on empty. In this heartfelt and hope-filled episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay, Founder & Executive Director Emeritus of American Heritage Girls, welcomes Sherri Crandall, Vice President of Global Ministries and Leadership Experience at The MomCo, to unpack the one powerful question every burned-out mom must answer: What do you want Me to do for you? (Mark 10:51).  Drawing from a recent Barna Group study with The MomCo revealing that 50% of Christian moms long for support from their church in the area of mental wellness, this episode leans into the truth that asking for help isn't weakness—it's wisdom. Together, Patti and Sherri discuss the stigma moms feel around needing support, the Gospel's invitation to release guilt and shame, and how to create space for real, vulnerable community in our homes, churches, and hearts.  Through Biblical wisdom, relatable stories, and encouraging guidance, Sherri equips moms to take their first steps toward healing and renewal—spiritually, emotionally, and relationally. From practical ways to model vulnerability to your daughter to the importance of honest prayer and soul-care, this conversation reminds listeners that Jesus sees you, knows your needs, and gently asks, What do you want Me to do for you?  If you're a mom feeling weary, unseen, or overwhelmed, this episode is your invitation to exhale, reflect, and receive. You're not alone—and you don't have to carry it all alone.  To learn more about Sherri and her work with The MomCo, visit themom.co  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 240 — Brave Enough to Ask: Teaching Daughters Biblical Dependence

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2025 26:11


    She's smart. She's capable. She's independent. But is she brave enough to ask for help?  In a culture that idolizes self-sufficiency and pushes girls to “be your own hero,” many daughters are quietly drowning under the weight of silent struggles—too afraid to reach out for fear of being seen as weak, too used to hearing that needing others is a flaw. But what if asking for help isn't weakness at all? What if it's wisdom?  This week on the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden dive into one of the most countercultural lessons a parent can teach their daughter: how to embrace Biblical dependence. With honesty, humor, and Scripture, they unpack how girls today are wrestling with anxiety, control, and perfectionism—and how learning to ask for help might just be the freedom they've been praying for.  Drawing from Isaiah 41:10 and Galatians 6:2, this episode encourages moms to model courageous vulnerability and practical interdependence. Through personal stories, faith-based parenting tips, and a powerful RGG Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay on the link between anxiety and control, this conversation will help you identify where your daughter needs support—and how you can help her ask for it with confidence.  In this episode, you'll learn:  How to normalize asking for help in everyday moments with your daughter  Practical ways to teach her to discern what's hers to carry—and what belongs in God's hands  Why modeling your own dependence on God and community is essential in her discipleship  How AHG equips girls to grow through mentorship, community, and Christ-centered leadership  Scriptures Referenced:  Isaiah 41:10 – “I will strengthen you and help you…”  Galatians 6:2 – “Carry each other's burdens…”  James 1:5 – “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God…”  When your daughter learns that strength isn't found in doing it all alone—but in leaning on Christ and His people—she will walk through life with resilience, grace, and godly wisdom. So let's model that truth boldly. Let's raise girls who are strong enough to admit when they're not okay, wise enough to ask for help, and faithful enough to believe that God will answer.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 239 — Biblical Truths for Overwhelmed Moms

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2025 23:20


    You're doing all the things—but you're worn thin. And beneath the smiles, the sports pickups, the dinner prep, and the late-night laundry, you wonder: Am I the only one who feels like I can't keep up?  In this honest and hope-filled episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden speak directly to the weary heart of the overwhelmed Christian mom. Together, they unpack the invisible load modern mothers carry—and the dangerous lie that asking for help is a form of spiritual failure.  But the Bible tells a different story. From Moses to the early Church, God's Word is rich with examples of leaders who were never meant to go it alone. Through personal stories—including Rachael's life-changing health scare and Melissa's practical advice on why you should always say yes to a Meal Train—this episode offers permission to release the pressure and embrace God's provision through community.  In this episode, you'll discover:  Why asking for help is not weakness—but Biblical wisdom (Galatians 6:2, Exodus 18)  Three simple ways to begin asking for help today, grounded in Scripture  How overcommitment, lack of rest, and self-reliance may be affecting your daughter's discipleship  Practical rhythms for sustainable motherhood, including prayerful yeses and sharing the load  How American Heritage Girls provides not only support for your daughter—but sacred sisterhood for you  Scriptures Referenced:  Galatians 6:2 – “Carry each other's burdens...”  Exodus 18:17–18 – “What you are doing is not good…”  James 1:5 – “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God...”  Proverbs 11:14 – “In an abundance of counselors there is safety.”  John 15:13 – “Greater love has no one than this…”  You were never meant to carry it all alone, mom. God sees your exhaustion—and He's already provided help through His Word, His Spirit, and His people. May this episode remind you that surrender is strength, dependence is discipleship, and asking for help is one of the holiest things you can model for your girl.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 238 — Equipping the Next Generation to Defend Their Faith and Religious Liberty with Rick Green (Patriot Academy)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2025 27:48


    What does it really mean to be free to follow Jesus in today's culture? In this powerful weekend episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Melissa Bearden sits down with Rick Green—America's Constitution Coach and the visionary founder of Patriot Academy—to unpack the vital topic of religious liberty and how families can raise girls who are ready to defend their faith with courage and clarity.  As Americans celebrate Independence Day, this conversation is both timely and timeless. With more than 80% of Americans agreeing that religion is losing influence in public life, it's more important than ever to prepare our daughters to stand firm in Biblical truth and understand their God-given—and Constitutionally protected—right to religious freedom. Rick shares from his years of experience educating young leaders, training millions through his Constitution programs, and raising up the next generation through Patriot Academy.  Together, Melissa and Rick explore what religious liberty actually means, how young girls can be equipped to face cultural pressures, and why it's critical for Christian parents to start these conversations early. They also highlight how AHG Alumna Hannah is carrying out this mission through her work at Patriot Academy, offering a beautiful picture of how faithful citizenship begins in the home and grows into leadership in the world.  Whether you're already passionate about civic engagement or wondering where to start, this episode offers practical steps and deeply rooted encouragement for parents raising daughters to boldly live out their faith in every sphere—from the classroom to the Capitol, from social media to Sunday morning.  Learn more about Rick and his work with Patriot Academy at patriotacademy.com  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 237 — Freedom Isn't Free: Teaching Girls the Cost of Religious Liberty

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2025 19:03


    Religious liberty is one of the most precious freedoms we enjoy—but do our daughters understand the cost behind that freedom? In this powerful Independence Day week episode, co-hosts Rachael and Melissa dig into the often-overlooked responsibility of raising girls who recognize the spiritual and historical significance of living in a nation where we can worship God openly and boldly.  Together, they unpack the phrase “freedom isn't free,” exploring how Christian girls can be taught to honor the sacrifices made for their religious freedom—while also understanding that liberty is not just a privilege, but a call to courageous faith. From Scripture to American history, from grandfathers' stories to military heroes and missionaries, Rachael and Melissa reflect on the importance of instilling gratitude, discernment, and a sense of stewardship in the next generation of Christ-followers.  Featuring a moving Raising Godly Girls Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, this episode touches on what it means to “love your land” with humility and conviction. It equips moms to help their girls hold a love of country and a deep allegiance to God in the same heart—without turning a blind eye to hard truths. Listeners will find encouragement to talk with their daughters about standing firm in faith even when religious liberty is challenged or misunderstood.  Whether your daughter is writing a thank-you note to a missionary, studying U.S. history through an AHG badge, or simply asking big questions about God and country, this episode offers the inspiration and practical guidance to help her develop a heart full of gratitude and a spirit of bold, Biblical citizenship.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 236 — Why Religious Liberty Matters to Girls Today

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2025 19:39


    What does religious liberty mean to the next generation—and why should it matter to girls growing up in today's culture?  In this special Independence Day week's episode, co-hosts Rachael and Melissa explore the often-overlooked freedom that gives our daughters the courage to live out their faith boldly: religious liberty. As we celebrate our nation's founding this week, it's the perfect moment to pause and consider how this essential freedom empowers girls to stand strong in their beliefs, speak truth with grace, and be a light in a world filled with competing values.  You'll hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, who reminds us that our daughters don't have to wait until they're grown to live out their faith in the public square. Whether it's reading Scripture at a city council meeting or praying over a crowd at a national conference, girls can—and should—use their voices to glorify God and lead with conviction. This episode challenges moms and mentors to create space for these moments and to model a faith that is lived out loud.  Rachael and Melissa also share practical strategies for helping your girl understand and appreciate this freedom. From discussing the global cost of discipleship to inviting your daughter to serve, speak, or pray in public settings, you'll walk away with tangible ways to encourage boldness rooted in love. The message is clear: freedoms we don't exercise can be lost. But when we equip our girls to understand their rights and use them for God's glory, we help shape a future generation of courageous Christ-followers.  Don't miss this timely, faith-filled conversation that inspires families to raise girls who are not only grateful for their freedom but also ready to use it for Kingdom impact.  Referenced Scriptures:  Psalm 57:9 – “I will praise you, Lord, among the nations; I will sing of you among the peoples.”  Matthew 5:14-16 – “You are the light of the world… let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”  Galatians 5:13 – “You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.”  1 Peter 3:15 – “But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer… with gentleness and respect.”  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.

    Ep. 235 — Leveraging Technology to Foster Your Family's Faith Formation with Matthew Potter (Pray.com)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2025 17:14


    In an age when screens are ever-present and digital distractions abound, parents are asking: How can I help my daughter grow in faith in a tech-saturated world? On this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, Rachael Culpepper, American Heritage Girls Executive Director, sits down with tech entrepreneur and Pray.com co-founder Matthew Potter to answer this important question. Together, they explore how families can embrace technology not as a threat to spiritual growth—but as a tool for meaningful discipleship.  Matthew shares how his experience developing over 6,000 apps led to a calling to create Pray.com, the #1 app for daily prayer and Bible-based audio content. He speaks from both a spiritual and practical perspective, encouraging parents to reframe the role of technology in their homes. Instead of viewing screens only as obstacles, Matthew challenges listeners to consider how technology can become a bridge to daily prayer, Bible study, and spiritual conversations with our daughters.  This episode offers wisdom for the modern Christian family—particularly for moms raising girls who are being formed not only by Scripture, but also by the screens they carry. From practical advice on curating faith-filled apps to tips for instilling intentionality in screen time, this conversation offers both hope and helpful tools. You'll walk away encouraged to leverage today's digital tools to reinforce a Biblical worldview and foster habits of faith that last into adulthood.  Whether you're a digital minimalist or an early tech adopter, you'll find renewed vision for using technology to cultivate spiritual maturity in your home. Don't miss this inspiring discussion about raising Godly girls in a digital age—where faith formation can flourish one tap at a time.  Scriptures Referenced in this Episode:  Romans 12:2 – “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind...”  Learn more about Matthew Potter and his work at pray.com  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 234 — Faith Tech: Connecting Your Family Worldwide

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2025 26:36


    In a world increasingly connected by technology, how can we raise daughters to use digital tools for the glory of God? In this insightful episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Natalie take listeners on a journey around the globe—without ever leaving home. This conversation explores how today's Christian families can use faith-based technology to build global community, grow in discipleship, and fulfill the Great Commission.  From international worship gatherings to app-based Bible studies and real-time prayer requests answered across continents, the hosts unpack the many ways girls can grow spiritually while connecting with the global Church. You'll hear reflections on the redemptive use of Christian tech spaces—from Christian bookstores to online ministries—and how these platforms offer more than entertainment; they provide Kingdom-impacting opportunities for discipleship and service.  Listeners are also treated to a Raising Godly Girls Minute with Patti Garibay, Founder and Executive Director Emeritus of American Heritage Girls, who reminds us that while technology can be a powerful aid in our spiritual development, it must remain a complement to real-life fellowship and face-to-face discipleship.  Whether it's providing clean water to a family in Haiti, learning how to pray for believers in Japan, or joining a virtual Bible study with friends across the globe, this episode equips parents with practical inspiration to help their girls use technology wisely—for worship, witness, and world-impacting love.  If you're a mom raising a girl in a digital age, you won't want to miss this episode filled with Scripture, insight, and the hopeful reminder that God is at work across the world—and in your home.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.

    Ep. 233 — Leveraging Technology to Grow Your Girl's Faith

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2025 24:50


    In a world where screens dominate and attention spans shrink, how can parents harness the power of technology for their daughter's spiritual growth instead of against it? On this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Natalie explore how today's tech tools—apps, online Bible studies, video resources, and more—can be transformed into powerful platforms for discipleship, Scripture engagement, and faith formation.  Rather than fearing the digital world, this episode encourages parents to bring it under Christ's lordship—intentionally guiding their girls to engage with technology in a way that builds holy habits, strengthens Biblical worldview, and reinforces godly identity. From RightNow Media and YouVersion to community-based virtual studies and screen-based Scripture reading, Rachael and Natalie share both personal examples and practical wisdom on integrating technology into the rhythm of everyday faith.  You'll hear surprising stats about Gen Z's hunger for spiritual content online, reflections on the long history of technology as a vessel for God's Word (think: the Gutenberg Bible!), and a heartfelt call to disciple with discernment—not detachment. This episode equips you with thoughtful strategies: from setting boundaries to maintaining presence and connection as your girl explores digital tools to grow in faith.  Technology is not the enemy—it's a tool. And when stewarded well, it can be a vibrant part of your daughter's walk with God. So grab your earbuds, press play, and discover how to nurture your girl's spiritual development in a tech-saturated world.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.

    Ep. 232 — Discernment Detox: Clearing Out the Lies with Kathy Gibbens (Filter It Through a Brain Cell)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2025 37:45


    In this weekend edition of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay welcomes Kathy Gibbens, homeschool mom and host of the insightful Filter It Through a Brain Cell podcast. Together, they dive deep into the vital skill of discernment—helping parents equip their daughters to think critically in a world flooded with misinformation and cultural noise.  Recent studies reveal that girls are particularly vulnerable to misinformation, often sharing conspiracy theories without fully grasping their impact. Kathy shares her personal journey of discovering logical fallacies alongside her daughter and explains why teaching critical thinking has become a crucial ministry today.  This episode is packed with practical advice on how to help girls filter information through a “brain cell,” recognize deception, and develop habits of discernment grounded in Biblical truth. From navigating emotional echo chambers on social media to encouraging respectful, critical conversations—even when tough questions risk social pushback—Kathy and Patti equip parents with tools to clear out the lies and anchor their girls in God's unchanging truth.  If you want your daughter to grow up strong, wise, and confident in her faith amid today's challenges, this episode is a must-listen.  Learn more about Kathy and her podcast at filteritthroughabraincell.com.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.

    Ep. 231 — Setting Aside Groupthink: Teaching Girls to Ask Good Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2025 25:01


    In this empowering episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Natalie tackle a timely challenge every parent of a daughter faces: how to help her resist the pull of groupthink and peer pressure by developing strong critical thinking skills and asking thoughtful questions.  From personal stories of youthful mistakes to deep reflections on social media's role in pushing conformity, Rachael and Natalie explore why it's so natural—and yet so risky—for girls to follow the crowd without questioning. They unpack the cultural tension of our age, where fierce individualism paradoxically blends into relentless collectivism, especially on platforms like TikTok and Instagram.  Featuring a powerful Raising Godly Girls Minute with American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay on the dangers of groupthink culture, this episode equips you with practical, faith-centered tools to empower your daughter to “pump the brakes” in tough moments. Learn three key questions your girl can ask herself to stand strong in her faith and identity: Does this honor God? Does this honor others? Does this honor who God created me to be? These simple but profound questions help build spiritual discernment and courage to resist peer pressure.  You'll also discover how American Heritage Girls programs like the Big Sister-Little Sister and FREE to Grow Patch Programs, along with resources like Axis.org's Culture Translator, provide a safe and Spirit-filled environment for girls to grow in faith and wisdom, even amid cultural noise.  Scripture mentioned in this episode:  Colossians 3:12  1 Peter 4:8  Matthew 6:33  Tune in to hear how you can create intentional conversations with your daughter, pray with purpose, and raise her to be a confident Christ-follower who thoughtfully navigates the pressures of today's culture.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.

    Ep. 230 — How Open is Your Girl to New Ideas?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2025 29:02


    In a world where information is everywhere—and answers are just a tap away—how can we equip our daughters to discern truth from fiction, wisdom from noise, and God's Word from worldly rhetoric? In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Natalie invite listeners into a thought-provoking and laughter-filled conversation about raising critical thinkers who are firmly rooted in a Biblical Worldview.  Join us as we explore the very real challenge of outsourced thinking—a cultural default where girls often parrot popular talking points without wrestling with the “why” behind their beliefs. Drawing from a recent Raising Godly Girls Minute with American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay and real-life parenting moments, Rachael and Natalie offer practical insights and Biblical guardrails for helping your daughter engage deeply, rather than passively, with the ideas that flood her mind daily.  Whether your girl is still young and curious or in the thick of her teenage years, this episode will give you tools to help her filter everything through the lens of Scripture. You'll learn how to teach her to measure every new idea against John 14:6, to stand strong even when her views aren't popular (Matthew 7:13–14), and to always be ready to defend her faith with gentleness and respect (1 Peter 3:15).  Plus, we'll introduce resources like AHG's Discover Good and Live RESTfully Patch Programs and Summit Ministries' worldview tools—resources designed to help families strengthen spiritual muscles over the summer and beyond. These aren't just parenting strategies; they're discipleship opportunities for your girl's heart and mind.  If you're ready to guide your daughter to be wise, discerning, and grounded in truth in an age of noise and confusion, this episode is a must-listen.  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org.

    Ep. 229 — Building Intentional Bonds: How Dads Can Strengthen Their Relationship with Their Daughters

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2025 41:34


    In a world that often sidelines the significance of fatherhood, the impact of an engaged, emotionally present dad cannot be overstated—especially in the life of a daughter. On this empowering episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay, Founder & Executive Director Emeritus of American Heritage Girls, sits down with returning guest and father-daughter relationship expert Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield to explore how dads can become the intentional, godly role models their daughters desperately need.  With more than 28 years of experience as a licensed professional counselor and founder of The Abba Project, Dr. Michelle brings rich insight into the unique and irreplaceable role fathers play in shaping their daughter's identity, confidence, and faith. From navigating teenage moods to building trust through everyday conversations, this episode offers practical tools and biblical encouragement for dads who want to connect on a deeper level—even if they feel like it's too late.  Dr. Michelle shares powerful testimonies from her work with fathers across the country, highlights the most common roadblocks that keep men from engaging, and outlines simple habits that foster consistency, safety, and spiritual growth in the father-daughter bond. You'll also learn about her must-read book Let's Talk: Conversation Starters for Dads and Daughters and the heart behind her award-winning podcast The Dad Whisperer.  Whether you're a dad hoping to reconnect with your daughter, a mom wanting to support that relationship, or a parent craving stronger family bonds rooted in Christ, this episode is a heartfelt reminder: it's never too late to start showing up with purpose.  Learn more at drmichellewatson.com  Explore more resources to raise girls rooted in Christ at raisinggodlygirls.com.   To find or start an AHG Troop in your area, visit americanheritagegirls.org. 

    Ep. 228 — Godly Christian Fathers as Shepherds of Influence

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2025 24:33


    In this special Father's Day week episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Natalie explore the vital and God-ordained role of fathers as shepherds of influence in a girl's life. Through heartfelt stories, Biblical insight, and practical encouragement, this conversation sheds light on how godly men shape the spiritual identity and emotional well-being of the next generation—especially their daughters.  From dad jokes to deeply transformative mentorship, fatherhood is not only a calling—it's a gift that echoes into eternity. Whether you're a biological dad, a spiritual father, or someone standing in the gap for a girl in need of guidance, your influence matters. Drawing from Scripture and wisdom from experts like Dr. Meg Meeker (Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters), the episode emphasizes the unique ability fathers have to instill identity, cultivate grit, and model Christ-like love.  Rachael and Natalie reflect on personal stories, including the steadfastness of a father whose love helped redeem a disconnected teen, and the legacy of a man whose kindness and character live on through his children's eyes—literally. This episode also features a Raising Godly Girls Minute by Patti Garibay (Founder & Executive Director Emeritus of American Heritage Girls) that reminds listeners how a father's presence points daughters to their Heavenly Father, even through life's storms.  You'll also hear about the role American Heritage Girls plays in supporting Godly fatherhood, from Troop involvement to partnerships with leaders like Ryan Bomberger of The Radiance Foundation. Don't miss the mention of an exciting Saturday episode with Dr. Michelle Canfield of The Abba Project, and her powerful message for fathers looking to truly connect with their daughters' hearts.  Whether you're a mom honoring the fathers in your daughter's life or a dad longing to lead with purpose, this conversation will challenge and uplift you. Godly fatherhood matters—and when lived out in faith, it becomes one of the greatest legacies a man can leave.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org        Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com     

    Ep. 227 — Unique Ways That Godly Dads Connect with Their Daughters

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2025 22:22


    As Father's Day approaches, we're turning the spotlight toward the irreplaceable role of a dad in a daughter's life. In this heartwarming episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Natalie reflect on the traditions, traits, and tender moments that make the father-daughter bond so powerful—and so needed—in today's world.  From goofy dance moves and star-gazing adventures to firm pep talks and quiet wisdom, Godly dads have a special way of reaching their daughters' hearts. Through personal stories, Biblical encouragement, and a powerful Raising Godly Girls Minute from AHG Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, we'll explore how fathers uniquely shepherd their girls toward identity, security, and a legacy of faith.  We'll also unpack the cultural narrative around fatherhood—and why the world may be getting it wrong. Instead of minimizing or mocking dads, we believe it's time to honor their God-given role. As Scripture reminds us in Matthew 19:14, children are close to the heart of Jesus—and so are the fathers who lovingly lead them.  Plus, hear about the unforgettable father-daughter moments that happen within American Heritage Girls Troops, from themed dances to cake decorating contests. Whether your girl is just learning to walk or already stepping into adulthood, this episode will encourage every mom (and dad!) to cherish the playful, prayerful ways that dads can help raise Godly girls.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org        Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com

    Ep 226 — Holding Fast to Truth: Loving Your Daughter Without Compromising God's Word with Melinda Patrick

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2025 38:02


    As conversations around sexuality and gender identity dominate today's culture, Christian parents face a daunting challenge: how do we love our daughters unconditionally while holding fast to Biblical truth? With the world telling girls that identity is self-defined and ever-changing, it's more important than ever to guide them back to the unchanging truth of God's Word.    In this powerful episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, host Patti Garibay (Founder & Executive Director Emeritus, American Heritage Girls) is joined by Melinda Patrick—Director of Parent Support for His Wonderful Works, podcast host of The Bridge Between Us, and author of The Daring Rescue. Drawing from her own family's journey, Melinda offers practical wisdom and heartfelt encouragement for parents navigating conversations around LGBTQ identity with grace, compassion, and unwavering faith.    Together, Patti and Melinda dive into the pressing issues facing Gen Z girls today—and Gen Alpha girls to follow—from cultural pressures during Pride Month to the influence of social media and shifting moral standards. They explore how to communicate Biblical values without compromising love, why intercessory prayer is vital, and how parents can overcome feelings of shame, fear, or confusion when their child's beliefs clash with their faith upbringing.    This episode also unpacks Melinda's three key principles for loving your daughter while standing firm in truth: engaging with God, embracing your God-given role as a parent, and trusting in the spiritual equipping God provides. Melinda reminds listeners that God never calls us into battle unprepared—and that victory lies in co-laboring with Him.    Whether you're a Christian parent walking through these sensitive conversations now or preparing for the future, this episode will equip you with Biblical wisdom, compassionate strategies, and the encouragement to lead your daughter in truth and love.    Learn more about Melinda's ministry, resources, and podcast at melindapatrick.org.    Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org        Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

    Ep. 225 — Raising Christ-Following Truth-Tellers: Equipping Girls to Stand Firm with Compassion During Pride Month

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2025 21:51


    In a world that equates disagreement with hate and silence with complicity, how can we help our daughters respond with both courage and compassion? During Pride Month, our girls are bombarded with bold, affirming messages about identity, love, and truth—many of which conflict with a Biblical Worldview. In this important episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Melissa guide moms through a Gospel-centered approach to helping girls navigate the cultural noise and stand firm in truth, without compromising love.  The conversation explores how Jesus modeled both radical love and unshakable truth. He didn't ignore sin, but neither did He alienate sinners—He welcomed, embraced, and transformed. That's the same kind of posture we want to equip our girls with: one that listens before speaking, responds with grace, and stands firm in God's Word. You'll hear practical guidance for how to initiate meaningful conversations, ask thoughtful questions, and lay a foundation for Biblical identity and understanding in girls of all ages.  Featuring a heartfelt Raising Godly Girls Minute from AHG Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, this episode offers wisdom for those gut-punch parenting moments—like when a daughter expresses confusion about her sexuality or hears something challenging at school. Rather than reacting with fear, we're called to respond with faith, wrapped in compassion and anchored in truth.  Whether your daughter is watching YouTube shorts filled with Pride content, engaging in classroom discussions, or hearing cultural messages about “loving without limits,” this episode will equip you to walk with her in both tenderness and truth. Learn how to teach your girl that kindness is not the same as agreement, that truth is rooted in Scripture—not feelings—and that she doesn't have to have all the answers to be a faithful witness.  Raising Godly girls isn't about winning culture wars. It's about preparing hearts to follow Jesus with clarity, courage, and compassion. And as Rachael and Melissa remind us—these conversations aren't one-and-done, but ongoing opportunities to disciple our daughters with grace and wisdom.   Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org        Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com

    Ep. 224 — Truth in Love: What it Means to Love Without Compromising God's Word

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2025 22:38


    In a world where “love” is often redefined by culture, how can Christian parents teach their daughters to love others while remaining anchored to God's unchanging truth? This week on the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Melissa tackle one of the most pressing and sensitive conversations facing families today—how to love without compromise during LGBTQ Pride Month and beyond.  Our girls are growing up in an age of loud messages about identity, sexuality, and affirmation—many of which directly contradict the Biblical Worldview. Whether they hear it in school, see it on social media, or experience it within their own friend groups, they're being asked to choose between “truth” and “love”. But what if they don't have to? What if, instead, we taught them how to walk in both—just like Jesus did?  This episode features insights from AHG Founder and Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay, who reminds us that Jesus never separated love from truth. With a Biblical lens from Matthew 5:17 and John 1:14, Rachael and Melissa reflect on the importance of helping our daughters see people first, speak the truth boldly, and love others deeply without affirming sin. They also share personal stories—from late-night questions to identity confusion in the tween years—and offer encouragement for parents navigating similar seasons.  You'll walk away with practical tools to help your girl understand that true love is not silent in the face of sin, nor is it unkind in the name of righteousness. Instead, Biblical love rejoices in the truth and points others to the hope and freedom found in Christ.  Whether you're having a conversation around the dinner table or sitting fireside at AHG camp, this episode will equip you to disciple your daughter with clarity, compassion, and confidence.  Subscribe now and join the Raising Godly Girls community as we raise daughters who reflect Christ's love—full of grace and truth.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org        Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com

    Ep. 223 — How to Support Your Daughter Through Suicide, Self-Harm, and Mental Health Struggles with Dr. Jessica Peck (Dr. Nurse Mama)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2025 26:32


    On this special Saturday episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, AHG's Incoming Executive Director Rachael Culpepper welcomes Dr. Jessica Peck—pediatric nurse practitioner, mom of four, and author of Behind Closed Doors. Known to many as Dr. Nurse Mama, Jessica brings a wealth of experience to the conversation as she shares insight into the mental health crisis affecting today's girls and what parents can do to support their daughters with Biblical wisdom and practical care.    In a culture where anxiety, self-harm, and depression have become far too common, Dr. Peck provides compassionate advice for recognizing warning signs, building trust, and creating safe spaces for difficult conversations. You'll also hear encouragement for weary moms who may feel overwhelmed, with reminders that God equips and sustains those called to shepherd young hearts through life's valleys.    If you've been following this week's series on mental health and self-harm, this conversation beautifully ties it all together—offering hope, healing, and a call to action for families to walk in truth and grace.    For more Christ-centered parenting resources:   ➡ Find an American Heritage Girls Troop at americanheritagegirls.org ➡ Download free guides and tools at raisinggodlygirls.com

    Ep. 222 — Helping a Family Navigate Self-Harm

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2025 22:21


    What do you do when your daughter—or her friend—begins hurting herself to manage emotional pain? What if the scars you see are only the surface of a much deeper spiritual and mental battle? In today's honest and hope-filled episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Melissa and Natalie open the door to a conversation that's often kept behind closed doors: adolescent self-harm. As culture and spiritual darkness continue to target the hearts and minds of young girls, we're leaning in with truth, grace, and practical support for families navigating this heartbreaking reality.  Self-harm is a behavior that has tragically become more prevalent among young girls. While many parents feel unsure of how to respond, today's episode provides biblical wisdom, tangible signs to watch for, and the spiritual insight to approach this issue with both compassion and clarity. You'll learn about the neurological patterns behind self-inflicted pain, how rumination and secrecy keep girls trapped, and why reaching out for professional help is essential. Most importantly, we'll remind you that healing is possible—through Christ, through community, and through courageous parenting.  You'll also hear from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director, Patti Garibay, in a special Raising Godly Girls Minute. She helps parents identify the warning signs of self-mutilation and shares God's heart for restoration. In addition, Melissa and Natalie walk through practical ways to love and guide a girl caught in cycles of emotional distress. Together, they challenge the stigma and encourage listeners to remember this: self-harm is not just a physical issue—it's a spiritual battle that requires intercession, professional guidance, and a whole lot of God's grace.  This episode is for the mom who is afraid to ask the hard question. It's for the dad who's noticed something's off but doesn't know what to say. And it's for the caregiver who longs to see the light return to her girl's eyes. You're not alone. You're not too late. And there is hope. AHG is here to help. We point families toward trusted resources like the Focus on the Family Christian Counselor Network and remind listeners about our Raising Godly Girls free digital guide on Fear & Anxiety.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org        Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com

    Ep. 221 — Recognizing Girls' Mental Health Signals

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2025 32:18


    In today's culture of distraction, digital overload, and constant busyness, it's easy to miss the warning signs that a girl's mental health may be suffering. This week on the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Melissa and Natalie take a thoughtful, faith-filled look at the subtle—and not-so-subtle—signals girls send when they're hurting mentally and emotionally.  With grace, honesty, and Scripture-based encouragement, this episode equips parents to tune in to their daughter's deeper needs, even when everything on the surface looks “fine.” From changes in sleep or social habits to sudden shifts in mood or isolation, the signs can be easy to miss—but this episode helps shine a light. Melissa and Natalie also speak candidly about how Christian parents can respond in love, not with fear or silence, but with presence, gentleness, and the pursuit modeled by Christ Himself.  You'll also hear from AHG Founder & Executive Director Patti Garibay in a special Raising Godly Girls Minute, addressing the heart behind a girl's angry outburst—and how it might just be a hidden plea for someone to care. Plus, practical tools to evaluate family dynamics, tech habits, and personal wellness markers in your home.  This is a sacred conversation for any mom raising a girl in today's world. Most importantly, it's filled with Biblical truth and hope—reminding listeners that God is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and His Spirit empowers us to overflow with peace and joy (Romans 15:13).  If you're navigating concerns about your daughter's emotional or mental well-being, or just want to be better prepared to support her as she grows, don't miss this vital episode.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org        Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com 

    Ep. 220 — Raising Daughters to Put Christ First in a “Me First” World with Larry Stephens

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2025 21:14


    In a culture saturated with self-promotion, curated perfection, and constant affirmation-seeking, today's girls are told to chase confidence, success, and identity through worldly means. But what happens when those shifting standards leave them feeling empty, rather than empowered? On this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, special weekend host Rachael Culpepper sits down with Larry Stephens of I Am Second to explore how fathers can help their daughters reject the “me first” messages of culture and embrace a Christ-centered identity that endures.  Larry brings a wealth of experience from his work in media, sports, and entertainment—industries that deeply shape how girls view themselves. From his global outreach with the Jesus Animation Film Project to his innovative ministry in college gaming spaces, Larry offers a unique perspective on what it takes to connect with the next generation in meaningful, transformative ways. In this heartfelt conversation, he shares how dads can be the steady, truth-speaking voices their daughters desperately need.  Whether your daughter is struggling with self-worth, identity, or the social media pressure to be “enough,” this episode is packed with practical encouragement. Larry and Rachael dive into real-world strategies for discipleship within the home, how to speak life over your daughter, and what it means to truly put Christ first as a family. Fathers may feel unequipped or like they've missed the moment—but Larry reminds us it's never too late to begin the work of intentional, faith-driven parenting.  Don't miss this inspiring and convicting conversation that speaks to the heart of every parent raising girls in today's challenging world. Subscribe to the Raising Godly Girls Podcast and share this episode with the dads and mentors in your life who are called to lead the next generation to live second—because Christ must always come first.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org       Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com

    Ep. 219 — Raising a Christ-First Girl

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2025 19:57


    What does it mean for your daughter to live a Christ-first life in a world that constantly tells her to put herself first? In this episode of the Raising Godly Girls Podcast, co-hosts Rachael and Natalie unpack the Biblical and cultural tension of raising a girl who understands that life isn't all about her—and that's a good thing.  Through honest reflection, cultural insight, and personal stories, this episode challenges the prevailing narrative of self-promotion, entitlement, and individualism. Instead, listeners are guided toward a vision of identity rooted in humility, self-sacrifice, and joyful obedience to Christ. Hear how John the Baptist's bold declaration, “He must increase, but I must decrease” (John 3:30), becomes a powerful framework for girls to understand true success—not by chasing fame or self-defined dreams, but by aligning their hearts with God's Kingdom purposes.  You'll also hear a Raising Godly Girls Minute from American Heritage Girls Founder & Executive Director, Patti Garibay, on selfish ambition and how parents can lovingly guide their daughters from a self-focused drive to a Spirit-led purpose. Rachael and Natalie reflect on the hard truths and beautiful blessings that come when girls learn to let go of personal expectations and trust God's greater plan—even when it means giving up something they love.  This episode offers practical encouragement on how to teach your girl to live a Christ-first life, including opportunities to give her time and resources in meaningful service. You'll be inspired by stories of real girls in American Heritage Girls Troops who are choosing to reflect Christ through service—from knitting hats for cancer patients to volunteering at Operation Christmas Child centers. These acts of faith in motion are beautiful snapshots of a generation learning to live less for themselves and more for Jesus.  Whether your daughter is learning the meaning of humility for the first time or wrestling with unanswered prayers and unmet expectations, this episode offers grace-filled truth to help her walk the road of Christ-first identity. Subscribe and listen as we equip you to have heart-shaping conversations that point your daughter to the One who defines her worth.  Find an American Heritage Girls Troop near you, visit americanheritagegirls.org       Add even more Biblical wisdom to your parenting quiver, visit raisinggodlygirls.com

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