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Send us a textIn this Ask Beth & Lisa episode, the hosts tackle a common writer struggle: getting out of a creative rut. They share personal experiences, actionable strategies, and insights from working with critique partners and beta readers to reignite motivation and improve writing.Key Discussion PointsRecognizing a Writing Rut: How to identify when you're stuck in autopilot and losing creative energy.Micro Goals for Progress: Beth shares her strategy of setting small, achievable goals like 500-word daily targets to push through blocks.Shaking Up Routine: The benefits of changing writing environments, traveling, or even dictating chapters while walking to boost creativity.The Power of Beta Readers & New Critique Partners: Lisa explains how fresh eyes on her manuscript helped her identify repetitive writing habits and refine her storytelling.Finding the Right Critique Group: The importance of choosing partners whose work aligns with your writing style and elevates your craft.Using The Waiting Room for Writers: How their private Facebook group helps authors connect, find critique partners, and navigate publishing challenges.ConclusionBreaking out of a writing rut requires intentional shifts—whether through setting small goals, changing routines, or seeking new perspectives. The key is to stay engaged, experiment with different methods, and remember that creative slumps are temporary.Mentioned LinksJoin The Waiting Room (Private Facebook Group for Writers)Writers With Wrinkles Website: writerswithwrinkles.netBeth & Lisa return on March 3rd with guest Meg Gaertner, Managing Editor at Flux and Jollyfish Press, to discuss editorial insights. Don't forget to subscribe, follow, and share the podcast! The Profitable CreativeHey, Creative! Are you ready to discuss profits, the money, the ways to make it...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show Visit the WebsiteWriters with Wrinkles Link Tree for socials and more!
Know a writer or someone who wants to be a writer? Then forward this post to them and invite them to listen to our writers podcast. Thank you! We're caffeinated for Episode 207 of our lovely award-winning podcast. Seriously, we are buzzed. We changed our coffee habits for reasons, but had a big cup during this episode. We brought a lot of energy to this podcast: Happy Birthday to our kid (tomorrow), my grandmother, Dolly Parton, and Edgar Allen Poe! Many thanks to Jacci Turner for her half-book review of “From Tundra to Tiara.” Related: please check out her books. We said goodbye to TikTok which may be back this week. (Edit: it's back) Finding Salvation is still on 99¢ Presale and will be released on January 31. My books Sheriff and Downfall (books page) will be available for sale at this year's Brew HaHa. The Sierra Arts Foundation's big fundraiser of the year will feature books from local authors, plus some of the local authors themselves. Please check it out and spend a lot of money for a great cause. CC had the wonderful experience this week of completing her “VC romance” manuscript. Finishing your first draft is a heady experience. The meat of the podcast was the various stages of editing. Writers have a love/hate relationship with the process. Some of us are blessed to have excellent editors (Hi, Teri and Red Adept!) which makes our lives easier. We're also blessed to have awesome Beta Readers. But it's still a nerve-racking experience as we watch our “babies” (manuscripts) get changed at the hands of a third party. We talk about the strengths and weaknesses of self-editing versus paying someone with their fresh set of eyes. As we say: “Writing is deeply personal experience done in the bright public light.” Have a listen and let us know what you think. TIA LYL! YouTube: https://youtu.be/8geKI4TFAqc Our website is www.carsonhume.com Who We are: https://carsonhume.com/about/ Our Books: https://carsonhume.com/books-2/ Our Business: https://twomoorebooks.com/ Book Designs: https://twomoorebooks.com/two-moore-designs/ (Book designs are free for now) please buy us coffee!
This week on Excelsior Journeys: The Road to Creativity, host & producer George Sirois sits down with his friend, fellow author / speaker / writing coach Cherie Postill. As a constant presence with the St. Louis Writers Guild, Cherie has worked with young authors, with experienced authors, with aspiring authors, so many different people who have a story to tell but are unsure how to tell it. For more about Cherie and her work, please click HERE.For those who would like to get involved with the Once Upon a Podcast Network, please message onceuponapodcastnetwork@gmail.com with your contact information and the name & description of your show. And if you have an idea for any of the concepts listed below, definitely let us know! We'd like to add shows that focus on the following:Indie Comics / Cosplaying / Book Club (roundtable show with indie books & authors) / Indie Films / Conventions / Fan Fiction / Self-Help (a creative host focusing on ailments all creatives deal with such as anxiety, depression, imposter syndrome, etc)Subscribe to all shows in the Once Upon a Podcast Network by clicking HERE.The Excelsior Journeys podcast exists primarily as a platform for creatives of all kinds (authors, filmmakers, stand-up comics, musicians, voice artists, painters, podcasters, etc) to share their journeys to personal success. It is very important to celebrate those voices as much as possible to not only provide encouragement to up-and-coming talent, but to say thank you to the established men & women for inspiring the current generation of artists.If you agree that the Excelsior Journeys podcast serves a positive purpose and would like to show your appreciation, you can give back to the show by clicking HERE.
Heidi and I lead a discussion on how to get people to read or listen to your work in advance of publishing, how to source those opportunities and what to do with the feedback
Arlina Allen is a force in the recovery movement. Sober for over 30 years, she's been releasing episodes of her top 1% podcast, ODAAT Chat, for over eight.She's also been working on a book for almost that long—and now it's finally here! The 12-Step Guide for Skeptics: Clearing Up Common Misconceptions of A path to Sobriety is out now and for it, she showed her book-in-progress to people who not only didn't agree with what she was writing but who actually disagreed.In this episode, we talked about her process, how she realized that her original idea for the book was more an article than a book and the way her podcast set her up for book sucess.
The Complete Guide to Writing and Self-Publishing Your Fiction Novel: From Idea to BestsellerEmbarking on the journey of writing a fiction novel and seeing it through to self-published success can feel both exciting and daunting. Whether you're brimming with plot ideas or just exploring possibilities, this guide will walk you through every stage—from drafting and editing to designing, formatting, and finally self-publishing your work. Plus, you'll find Top Tips throughout to give you a boost at each step!Step 1: Develop Your Story IdeaEvery great novel begins with an idea. Maybe it's a character, a scene, or an intriguing “what if?” question. Here's how to take that spark and transform it into a solid story foundation:Brainstorm and Freewrite: Jot down your ideas without judgment. Allow your creativity to flow without worrying about structure or logic.Outline Your Plot: Whether you're a detailed plotter or a free-spirited “pantser,” creating a loose outline will keep you grounded. Think about the main conflict, characters, and the key moments that will move the plot forward.Develop Your Characters: Characters are the heart of any novel. Sketch out backstories, motivations, and conflicts to give your characters depth.Top Tip: Use mind maps or storyboard techniques to visually explore how your story elements connect. It can help you see plot holes or identify interesting directions!Step 2: Write Your First DraftWith your idea fleshed out, it's time to write your first draft. Don't aim for perfection—just focus on getting words on the page.Set Realistic Goals: A daily word count goal can help you stay on track. Even 500 words per day can add up quickly!Stick to a Routine: Writing a novel takes consistency. Set aside regular time for writing, whether it's early mornings or late nights.Silence Your Inner Critic: The first draft is supposed to be messy. Give yourself permission to write imperfectly.Top Tip: Try the “Pomodoro Technique” to stay focused. Write for 25 minutes, then take a 5-minute break. Repeat until you've met your word count for the day.Step 3: Edit and ReviseOnce your first draft is complete, it's time to step back and edit. This phase can involve rewriting scenes, refining character arcs, and polishing the prose.Start with a Break: Step away from your draft for at least a few days to gain fresh perspective.Big-Picture Edits: Begin by tackling structural issues, plot holes, and pacing. Are the stakes high enough? Do characters have clear motivations?Line Editing and Proofreading: Once you're happy with the story, go through and polish sentence structure, grammar, and spelling. You may want to hire a professional proofreader or use editing software for this.Top Tip: Read your manuscript aloud. Hearing your words can reveal awkward phrasing or errors you might miss on the page.Step 4: Beta Readers and FeedbackBefore publishing, it's wise to get feedback from beta readers or a critique group. These readers will give you fresh insights into how others perceive your work.Choose Diverse Readers: Look for readers with varied perspectives who are honest and supportive.Ask Specific Questions: Feedback is most useful when it's targeted. Ask your readers about character likability, plot clarity, pacing, and any confusing sections.Use Feedback Wisely: You don't need to take every piece of advice. Look for patterns in feedback and decide what resonates with your vision.Top Tip: Offer a questionnaire to your beta readers with specific questions to ensure constructive feedback.Step 5: Design and FormattingSelf-publishing requires your novel to look as professional as traditionally published books. This means taking care of cover design, formatting, and layout.Cover Design: Your cover is the first thing readers see, so consider hiring a professional cover designer if possible. A compelling cover design can make a huge difference in sales.Formatting: If you plan to publish an eBook, pay attention to formatting requirements for Amazon Kindle, Kobo, or other platforms. If you're publishing a print version, ensure the interior layout is reader-friendly.ISBN & Copyright: You'll need an ISBN (International Standard Book Number) for print versions. Some self-publishing platforms, like Amazon, provide ISBNs for free. Consider copyrighting your book for extra protection.Top Tip: A cover isn't just about aesthetics. Make sure it reflects your genre and target audience. Research top-selling covers in your genre for inspiration.Step 6: Choose a Publishing PlatformSelf-publishing means you have multiple publishing options. Here are some popular platforms to consider:Amazon Kindle Direct Publishing (KDP): A dominant player in the self-publishing market, KDP allows you to publish eBooks and print-on-demand paperbacks.IngramSpark: A good choice if you want wide distribution, including bookstores and libraries.Draft2Digital: This platform distributes to multiple retailers, making it easier to reach a broad audience.Smashwords: A popular choice for indie authors, known for its flexible distribution options.Top Tip: Check each platform's royalties, fees, and exclusivity requirements. For example, KDP Select offers higher royalties if you're willing to stay exclusive to Amazon for a certain period.Step 7: Marketing Your BookWith your novel ready for release, it's time to build an audience. Effective marketing can be the difference between obscurity and a bestseller.Social Media Presence: Create author profiles on platforms like Instagram, Twitter, or TikTok, and engage with readers through posts, updates, and book teasers.Author Website and Blog: An author website gives you a professional online presence, a place to share book news, and a way to connect with fans.Email List: Building an email list lets you reach readers directly. Offer a free sample or short story as an incentive to sign up.Book Launch and Promotion: Schedule a book launch, either in person or online, and plan promotional campaigns around it. Look into ads on social media, Amazon, or book promotion sites.Top Tip: Connect with book bloggers and bookstagrammers. Reviews and social media buzz can boost your visibility, especially during launch week.Step 8: Keep Writing and GrowingSelf-publishing is an ongoing journey. With one book under your belt, you can leverage that experience to make your next project even better.Analyze Your Sales and Feedback: Take note of what readers love about your book and any constructive criticism they provide.Expand Your Catalog: Writing more books in the same genre or a series can help build a loyal readership and increase sales.Engage with Your Readers: Continue building relationships with your readers. Loyal fans can become your best promoters.Top Tip: Join writing communities, attend workshops, and keep learning. The more you hone your craft, the more you'll grow as an author.By following these steps, you'll be well-equipped to bring your story to life and introduce it to readers worldwide. Self-publishing allows you to keep creative control while building your career as an author. So keep writing, stay inspired, and get ready to make your mark in the world of fiction!
In this episode, we explore the crucial role beta readers play in the success of your book. From refining your manuscript to building early marketing momentum, beta readers offer valuable feedback that can take your book to the next level. I'll share strategies on how to maximize your time with them, provide clear instructions, and start engaging your audience early. Plus, I'll reveal my favorite question to ask beta readers to ensure you get the most helpful feedback.BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL LEARN:How to assemble a diverse group of beta readers and set clear expectationsWhat questions to ask to get valuable feedback and enhance your manuscriptHow beta readers can kickstart your book marketing efforts before launchDon't miss this episode if you're looking to make your book the best it can be with the help of beta readers!Submit a Question. Ask a question to be featured on the podcast. Ask HereLiked this episode? Share it and tag us on Instagram @juxtabkLove the show? Leave a review and let us know!CONNECT WITH US: Website | Instagram | Facebook
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Today's top story is Oh So Beta. Question of the week is Where do your stories start? A world? A character? A situation? And why do you think that is? Join the Sell More Books Show Afterparty group on Facebook and answer the Question of the Week in the comment section. Be sure to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.
Send us a textIn episode 37 of Writers With Wrinkles, co-hosts Beth McMullen and Lisa Schmid answer listener questions about writing, with a focus on the differences between beta readers and critique partners, how to find critique partners, and advice on book comps for queries. Lisa also offers a PSA on dogs eating too many cupcakes.Key Discussion Points:Beta Readers vs. Critique Partners:Beth and Lisa explain that beta readers provide general reader feedback, focusing on how engaging a manuscript is, while critique partners offer more technical, writer-focused critiques. Beta readers are typically not writers, while critique partners should be.How to Find Critique Partners:They discuss several avenues for finding critique partners, including professional organizations like SCBWI, Facebook groups, and writing communities. They stress the importance of finding the right fit and being open to change if the partnership isn't productive.Book Comps in Queries:The hosts advise on how to select appropriate comparative titles for book pitches, emphasizing that comps should be from within the last two years to reflect current market trends. They suggest using older favorites as a starting point for finding more recent comps.Barley the Dog & the Box of Cupcakes:Lisa recounts how her dog, Barley, ate a box of chocolate cupcakes, prompting her to call a pet poison hotline, which offers critical advice to pet owners in similar situations.Conclusion:The episode provides actionable advice for aspiring writers, helping them understand the critical role beta readers and critique partners play in the manuscript development process. Beth and Lisa emphasize the importance of feedback in refining a book and navigating the publishing landscape. They also prepare listeners for the next episode, featuring literary agent Amy Nielsen.Mentioned Links:SCBWI (Society of Children's Book Writers and Illustrators)Mystery Writers of America Pet Poison Helpline Support the showSubscribe Visit the WebsiteTwitter: @BethandLisaPodInsta: @WritersWithWrinklesWriters with Wrinkles Link Tree for more!
In this episode, Matt & Lauren help you maximize your book's potential with early readers like beta readers, sensitivity readers, and industry reviewers. We take a look at how and when to engage with them, how they can help your book, and what to offer them in return. Love watching your podcasts? Publish & Prosper is now on video! Check us out on YouTube.Join us at Author Nation, November 11 - 15 at the Horseshoe in Las Vegas, Nevada!Dive Deeper
Want to become a script writer? Check out these ten top tips to help you get started on your journey to becoming a successful screenwriter or playwright. 00:00 Intro 00:37 #1 Know Your Audience 02:56 #2 Research 06:12 #3 Writers Just Want to Write 07:25 #4 Know Your Idea 09:15 #5 Planning 10:57 #6 Use the Right Tools 12:43 #7 How to Write a Song 14:25 #8 Beta Readers & Editors 16:30 #9 Revisions Will Happen 19:39 #10 You Need the Necessities 21:17 Closing thoughts
This week Erin M. Evans, B. Dave Walters, and Treavor Bettis answer questions about Beta Readers, Villain POVs, Comp Titles, and more! Starring: Erin M Evans (Empire of Exiles, Brimstone Angels) https://twitter.com/erinmevans B. Dave Walters (A Darkened Wish, Black Dice Society) https://twitter.com/BDaveWalters Treavor Bettis (Difficulty Class, Champions of Lore) https://twitter.com/TheTreavor Join the Discord! https://discord.gg/MdSVsfpTzu Buy Relics of Ruin! Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Relics-Ruin-Books-Usurper-2/dp/031644104X Barnes and Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/relics-of-ruin-erin-m-evans/1143299833?ean=9780316441049 Check out B. Dave's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/bdavewalters Enroll in B. Dave's 14 Day Writer: https://www.theundisputedacademy.com/14-day-writer-home-page
Writing a book is not a solo endeavor. Writers rely on beta readers to help them fine-tune their manuscript and ensure its success with agents, editors, and ultimately, their ideal audience.But where do you find beta readers? At what stage of the process do you bring them in? What do you look for? And how do you work with them? In this episode, we'll cover: What beta readers are, and why aspiring writers don't make the best test audienceAt what stage of the writing process to enlist beta readersHow to research and define your ideal readerWhere to find beta readers and entice them to work with youHow to get the right feedback to ensure the best outcome for your manuscriptEpisode Web PageHave a question you want me to answer on the podcast? Send me a Text Message. Want to join a community of like-minded writers? Need inspiration and support? Join us in our private Writer Unleashed Community Facebook Group. It's totally free to join.
This week Erin M. Evans, B. Dave Walters, and Treavor Bettis talk about Genre Trends in the industry and some tips on Beta Readers. Starring: Erin M Evans (Empire of Exiles, Brimstone Angels) https://twitter.com/erinmevans B. Dave Walters (A Darkened Wish, Black Dice Society) https://twitter.com/BDaveWalters Treavor Bettis (Difficulty Class, Champions of Lore) https://twitter.com/TheTreavor Join the Discord! https://discord.gg/MdSVsfpTzu Buy Relics of Ruin! Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Relics-Ruin-Books-Usurper-2/dp/031644104X Barnes and Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/relics-of-ruin-erin-m-evans/1143299833?ean=9780316441049 Check out B. Dave's Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/bdavewalters Enroll in B. Dave's 14 Day Writer: https://www.theundisputedacademy.com/14-day-writer-home-page
https://youtu.be/UGw-NV6qUMo?feature=sharedHave a question on anything writing-related? Ask Thea at www.thecharmedstudio.com/contact. I love questions and answer every one of them with a happy heart. Two irreverent, funny, F-Bomb-laden 8-minute videos on where to find Beta Readers and what to ask them:All About Beta Readers Part 1 by Jenna MoreciAll About Beta Readers Part 2 by Jenna MoreciFabulous, totally inexpensive course for writers who want to self-publish a book by Romance/Erotica Writer Alessandra Torre. Take this if you are feeling overwhelmed about what to do when if you are writing, self-publishing and self-promoting your own book.A Fearless Way to Self Publish https://youtu.be/UGw-NV6qUMo?feature=sharedA Fearless Way to Sell More Novels https://youtu.be/UGw-NV6qUMo?feature=sharedGreat, great, humble Youtube video by a British Gallerist. Watch it here:Artists-do you know how to work with galleries to sell your art, or even how to approach them?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGw-NV6qUMoKevin Doberstein ArtBrenda Doberstein Art To be charming and subscribe to the blog and get free access to my writing toolkit for artists click here.For info on one-on-one writing coaching with Thea go here. This blog is produced by The Charmed Studio Blog and Podcast™, LLC. And when you get scared about writing and want to relax, remember what Anne Lamott says."100 years, all new people."You can do this. Occasionally my show notes contain Amazon or other affiliate links. This means if you buy books or stuff via my podcast link I may receive a tiny commission and do a happy dance. There is no extra fee for you. I only link to items I personally use and love: products I feel help heart-centered artists and writers. Thank you. :)
In today's episode, we're going to dive into a hot topic in the novel writing process: Beta readers versus developmental editors. If you're a novelist looking to take your work to the next level, stay tuned, because we're about to uncover why beta readers and developmental editors are your secret weapon.Website | Instagram | Free Novel Writing Guide | Small Group Program WAITLIST
In this episode, join host Alexa Bigwarfe as she and Jenna O'Malley discuss the ways Beta Readers can grow your reading audience.
New York Literary Agent Lucinda Halpern on positioning your book, finding the big idea for your pitch and finding and getting signed with a literary agent. Also, query letter essentials and how to get feedback from beta readers.*ABOUT LUCINDA HALPERNLucinda Halpern is a New York literary agent with over 15 years' experience securing book deals with Penguin Random House, Simon & Schuster, HarperCollins, Hachette, Macmillan, and the author of Get Signed: Find an Agent, Land a Book Deal, and Become a Published Author. She represents a range of New York Times and internationally bestselling authors in the categories of business, health, lifestyle, popular science, narrative nonfiction, memoir, and upmarket fiction. Her classes and coaching programs have been taught to hundreds of writers worldwide. Learn more at lucindaliterary.com or download Lucinda's free author training. Follow Lucinda Halpern on Instagram and Twitter.*RESOURCES & LINKSGet Signed: Find an Agent, Land a Book Deal, and Become a Published Author by Lucinda HalpernLucinda LiteraryGet Signed BonusesPublishers MarketplaceFollow up question? Get in touch with Lucinda here. For show notes, transcripts and to attend our live podcasts visit: podcast.londonwriterssalon.comFor free writing sessions, join free Writers' Hours: writershour.com
Entering the world of writing and publishing sometimes feels like you need to learn a new language. Suddenly people are throwing around phrases like alpha reader and beta reader and CP...and your head is left spinning. In today's episode, I break down all things alpha, beta, and CP for you. We go over the differences, some best practices, and why alpha readers are not the best way to go. Happy writing! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/breaking-writers-block/message
Guest: Katherine Benfante Episode Name: From Hybrid Publishing to Beta Readers with Katherine Benfante [NANOWRIMO Day 29] Episode Number: 232 ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________ About the guest Katherine Benfante always felt destined to be an author, navigating various career aspirations in her youth before discovering her passion for storytelling. She holds a degree in mechanical engineering from McGill University in Montreal and worked proudly as an engineer for the Army and Navy. Despite a busy life raising two daughters and substitute teaching, Katherine continued to write, driven by a love for storytelling and a desire to inspire her children. Now based in New Jersey, she balances her roles as a mother, substitute teacher, and author, residing near a picturesque lake frequented by swans and Canadian geese. _____________________________________________________________________________________________________________ In this insightful episode, author Katherine Benfante discusses her experience with hybrid publishing, delving into the trade-offs, editing process, and collaborative cover design for her book "Scattered." She shares the positive impact of beta readers on her writing journey and reflects on post-publishing nerves, ultimately finding validation and confidence in reader feedback. Katherine also provides a glimpse into her upcoming science fiction novel set in 2180 and encourages listeners to explore her website for extras. The episode emphasizes the importance of supporting local bookshops and concludes with gratitude from both host and author for the engaging discussion on the writing and publishing process. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Additional Resources Website - www.blackheartedstudios.com Patreon Link - https://bit.ly/h2bpatreon Freebie link - https://bit.ly/h2bebook Massiel Email - massiel@blackheartedstudios.com Massiel's Coach.Me site - https://www.coach.me/massielwrites Instagram - www.instagram.com/massielwrites LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/massiel-valenzuela-castaneda/ Facebook - www.facebook.com/howtowriteabookpodcast ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Are you feeling overwhelmed by your never-ending to-do list? Check out Paula, the Ultimate VA! https://pearlzconsulting11.wixsite.com/pearlz-va-services Discover the ultimate solution for regaining control with Paula, your dedicated virtual assistant. She'll help you manage your calendar, handle email, conduct research, and even mix and stitch together your podcast episodes. Don't let your to-do list overwhelm you any longer. Get started today! ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Follow Katherine Katherine Benfante's website - https://katherinebenfante.com/ Katherine Benfante's Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/KatherineBenfanteAuthor/ _____________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Like, share, or leave a review on Apple Podcasts and subscribe to our YouTube channel (Blackhearted Studios)
Hi, Pilar here. This is a very short announcement to let you know that I'll be releasing soon a book on time management for remote workers. This is an experiment. I am co writing it with Chat GPT, but I think it's wonderful. And I can say that because I've mainly been working on this as an editor and coach, and most of the writing has come from Chat GPT. I am now looking for Beta Readers. It's a short book, it's about 20,000 words long, which means about an hour of reading. I'll be able to offer it to you as a PDF or an EPUB. I would love to hear what you think, because although I do have the distance as an author, they're not my words. I am thinking of publishing it definitely before the New Year, before January. So if you are interested in checking it out and just giving me a couple of feedback tips, like, did you like it? Did you not? Is it boring? Is it too basic?I just need to put it out there and get people's opinions on it. Please email me (email in the audio) or use the contact form over at https://www.virtualnotdistant.com/contact-us Next week, we've got a cracking episode with Valentina Thorner, talking about the two axes of distributed work: time and location.
What is a beta reader? How can I determine I'm ready to give my manuscript to them? Should I consider family for beta readers? How can I prepare them to give good feedback? What should I expect from a batch of beta-reading?Having any of these questions or just want some new ideas for your next beta reading sesh? Host Sheridan Sharp is here with some resources and ideas!ResourcesAm I Write Episode with Annalisa Summea: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2031789/13796507Am I Write Episode with Laura Pence Atencio: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2031789/13384043NEW MERCH SHOP! Be a PROUD Word Wizard.https://www.etsy.com/shop/LlamaDoodle/
Welcome to the Writing with Coach McCoach podcast episode 022! In this installment of my “WTF is a Writer Supposed to Know About…” series: WTF is the difference between a book coach, developmental editor, copy editor, and proofreader? Each one is a professional dedicated to bringing your work to fruition, from the barest idea to a polished manuscript ready to submit to agents or self-publish. Each brings value. A few, it can be argued, are absolutely necessary! But what do they do? When do you bring them into your process, and why? Listen to this episode and I'll clear up the mystery! Heard the Other WTF Episodes? Be sure to check out the previous episodes in the WTF is a Writer Supposed to Know About...: WTF is Constructive Criticism? Navigating Feedback as a Writer Navigating Feedback: 10 Rules for Not Losing Your Sh*t The Art of Filtering and Applying Feedback: What's a Writer to Do? The Lowdown on Beta Readers, Critique Partners, and Sensitivity Readers PSSST. Enjoying the Podcast? I would truly appreciate it if you could take a moment to leave a rating and review. Your feedback helps the podcast reach more writers who are eager to grow into their full potential, and I have this wild goal of reaching 10,000 writers by this time next year. You've got stories to share with the world, and I don't want you holding yourself back from being the author YOU want to be. Plus! A Bonus: Tag me on social media with your review or email me a screenshot, and I'll send you a little something fun in return. Thank you for your support! Instagram, Threads, Twitter/X, Facebook, Linkedinwww.katiemccoach.com Love Freebies? Download your mini-guide to overcoming imposter syndrome and self-doubt. Ask Katie! Have a question you'd like Katie to answer on the show? Submit it here!
Welcome to the Writing with Coach McCoach podcast episode 021! In this installment of the new “WTF is a Writer Supposed to Know About…” series: WTF is the difference between beta readers, critique partners, and sensitivity readers? Each is a valuable collaborator as you work through the early drafts of your manuscript before moving on to "official" editors (and we'll talk about those in the next episode)... and each plays a different role in helping you write your best possible work. Listen and learn the differences between beta readers, critique partners, and sensitivity readers, including why you may need or may not need each, or all three..! Heard the Other WTF Episodes? Be sure to check out the previous episodes in the WTF is a Writer Supposed to Know About...: WTF is Constructive Criticism? Navigating Feedback as a Writer Navigating Feedback: 10 Rules for Not Losing Your Sh*t The Art of Filtering and Applying Feedback: What's a Writer to Do? PSSST. Enjoying the Podcast? I would truly appreciate it if you could take a moment to leave a rating and review. Your feedback helps the podcast reach more writers who are eager to grow into their full potential, and I have this wild goal of reaching 10,000 writers by this time next year. You've got stories to share with the world, and I don't want you holding yourself back from being the author YOU want to be. Plus! A Bonus: Tag me on social media with your review or email me a screenshot, and I'll send you a little something fun in return. Thank you for your support! Instagram, Threads, Twitter/X, Facebook, Linkedinwww.katiemccoach.com Love Freebies? Download your mini-guide to overcoming imposter syndrome and self-doubt. Ask Katie! Have a question you'd like Katie to answer on the show? Submit it here!
Part of the Ask Coach series; this bite-size episode is in response to a listener's question: "What are the best ways to find beta readers in your genre?" Have a question you'd like Coach McCoach to answer on the show? Submit it here! PSSST. Enjoying the podcast?! I would truly appreciate it if you could take a moment to leave a rating and review. Your feedback helps the podcast reach more writers who are eager to grow into their full potential, and I have this wild goal of reaching 10,000 writers by this time next year. You have stories to share with the world, and I don't want you holding yourself back from being the author YOU want to be. + a Bonus: Tag me on social media with your review or email me a screenshot, and I'll send you a little something fun in return. Thank you for your support! Instagram, Threads, Twitter, Facebook, Linkedin www.katiemccoach.com Love freebies? Download your mini-guide to overcoming imposter syndrome and self-doubt.
‼️TODAY @ 1 PM EST‼️ #WriterWednesdays host Crystal @booksandsoul1 breaks down — How to Solicit and Act on Feedback from beta readers. Only on the @getcaughtuppodcast Listen via Anchor FM, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Audible, iHeartRadio, or Amazon Music Follow us IG: @getcaughtuppodcast on Twitter @gcu_podcast. Sponsorships anchor.fm/getcaughtup Donations Cash App $UP2016 ..... #podcaster #podbean #podcastmovement #spotifypodcast #anchorfm #itunespodcast #podcastsofinstagram #podcastnetwork #podcasts #blackpodcasts #podcastlife #blackminds #podcasthost #newpodcast #podcastersofinstagram #podcastcommunity #blackvlogger #castbox #googlepodcasts #applepodcast #writertips #writerwednesdays #getcaughtup #untamedpublishing #getcaughtuppodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/getcaughtup/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/getcaughtup/support
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WriterWednesdays host Crystal @booksandsoul1 breaks down — Second Opinions: The Importance of BETA Readers—Only on the @getcaughtuppodcast - LINK IN BIO Listen via Anchor FM, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Audible, iHeartRadio, or Amazon Music Follow us IG: @getcaughtuppodcast on Twitter @gcu_podcast. Sponsorships anchor.fm/getcaughtup Donations Cash App $UP2016 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/getcaughtup/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/getcaughtup/support
Creating a Workbook and the Power of Beta Readers In this episode, I dive into the process of creating a workbook and the valuable role that beta readers play in its development. I discussed the importance of personal motivation, the authenticity of the process, and the power of validation. Remember, if you have knowledge to share, transform it into a resource and consider engaging beta readers to enhance its quality. "If you know something, put it into some kind ofDIY format for people to have access to. And definitely pay some people to go through it. It doesn't have to be a lot. But make sure that they are your ideal clients. Not your best friend who loves you for everything you do, but probably complete strangers who are your ideal client." Find Your Unicorn Virtual Assistant: https://rochellesanchez.com/find-your-unicorn-virtual-assistant --- Topics: Personal motivation to create the workbook Emphasizing the authenticity of the process Combining existing concepts and personal experience Exploring the intention behind digital products The benefit of involving others in the process Highlighting the importance of beta readers Differentiating between templates and genuine experiences Detailed instructions for beta readers Reflecting on the experiential aspect of the workbook Paid Beta Readers vs. Volunteer Readers Challenges with volunteer readers and seeking alternatives The positive impact of paid beta readers The affordability of compensating beta readers Emotional response to receiving validation Recognizing the need for validation and affirmation Positive feedback and affirmations from beta readers Compiling feedback and personal refinement process Adding illustrations and finalizing the workbook Future steps: cover design, posting, and promotion Utilizing social media scheduling tools for promotion Efficiently moving on to the next project
You've just finished the first draft of your novel, memoir or short story, and now you're seeking beta readers. A beta reader is a test reader or a group of test readers of your unpublished work. Ideally, your beta reader gives feedback from the point of view of an average reader. But how do you go about finding them? What should you look for? What should you avoid? And what are some tips to get the most valuable feedback from your test audience?In this episode, I'm answering all your questions about beta readers.And I'll help you get specific feedback from your beta readers with a free, brand new checklist: Is It Done? A Must-Have Revision Checklist. Episode WebsiteWant to join a community of like-minded writers? Need inspiration and support? Join us in our private Writer Unleashed Community Facebook Group. It's totally free to join.
Hey! We had a few weeks off, but we're back and ready to answer YOUR questions! This week Erin M. Evans, B. Dave Walters, and Treavor Bettis answer questions about Character Dialogue, Beta Readers, and where to start when Building Characters! Starring: Erin M Evans (Empire of Exiles, Brimstone Angels) https://twitter.com/erinmevans B. Dave Walters (A Darkened Wish, Black Dice Society) https://twitter.com/BDaveWalters Treavor Bettis (Difficulty Class, Champions of Lore) https://twitter.com/TheTreavor Pick up Empire of Exiles out now! Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Empire-Exiles-Erin-M-Evans/dp/0316440876 Barnes and Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/empire-of-exiles-erin-m-evans/1141116256?ean=9780316440875 Enroll in B. Dave's 14 Day Writer: https://www.undisputedacademy.com/14-day-writer-home-page
If you've ever been foiled time after time but an unlikely arch nemesis, you'll understand why Kyle's victory over gravy is the highlight of 2023 thus far. Plus Meg and Kyle talk new YouTube discoveries, unconventional reading, celeb gossip, and the continuing story of hemi-sync.Honeysuckle on YTLiv Tyler's AD house tourBeyond the Blinds podcast (George Clooney episodes available on their Patreon!)r/gatewaytapes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Kelli and Zara talk about what the next step is after you've finished writing one story—write the next one!Add Kelli's debut DOWN THE WELL to your TBR: Bookhype - https://bookhype.com/book/show/9824bda1-0dc8-4934-a8ba-cd6a8733f3b0/down-the-wellGoodreads - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/87798019-down-the-wellPreorder Samantha's debut THE LEGIONNAIRE: https://inimitablebooksllc.com/the-legionnaire & don't forget to register your preorder at https://inimitablebooksllc.typeform.com/LegionnairePre to receive some exclusive character artwork! Or, get an EXTRA piece of art & skip registration by ordering from https://www.riverbendbookshop.com/legionnaireEpisodes mentioned:Finishing Your First Draft: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/4158c783/craft-chat-finishing-your-first-draftThe War on Perfectionism: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/3ec4ee9a/the-war-on-perfectionismAlso listen to:Critique Partners, Alpha & Beta Readers: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/3570f061/craft-chat-critique-partners-alpha-and-beta-readersMultiple Projects at Once: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/d20b932b/craft-chat-multiple-projects-at-onceOn Revision: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/dc630ae2/on-revisionAll About Revision: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/e8ef9ecc/after-nanowrimo-all-about-revision-https://ko-fi.com/writeish
Kelli and Zara discuss the importance of finishing your first draft as a novelist. But we…maybe forgot to talk about HOW to do this. But that's what the rest of our episodes are for!Add Kelli's debut DOWN THE WELL to your TBR: Bookhype - https://bookhype.com/book/show/9824bda1-0dc8-4934-a8ba-cd6a8733f3b0/down-the-well Goodreads - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/87798019-down-the-wellPreorder Samantha's debut THE LEGIONNAIRE: https://inimitablebooksllc.com/the-legionnaire & don't forget to register your preorder at https://inimitablebooksllc.typeform.com/LegionnairePre to receive some exclusive character artwork! Or, get an EXTRA piece of art & skip registration by ordering from https://www.riverbendbookshop.com/legionnaireMentioned in the episode:Critique Partners, Alpha and Beta Readers: https://thewriteishpodcast.podbean.com/e/critique-partners-alpha-beta-readers/Under vs Over-Writers: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/e679005f/craft-chat-under-vs-over-writersAll About Revision: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/e8ef9ecc/after-nanowrimo-all-about-revisionOn Revision: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/dc630ae2/on-revisionAll About Outlining: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/d9041fec/craft-chat-all-about-outliningepisode about imposter syndrome: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/eec11693/welcome-to-write-ish-https://ko-fi.com/writeish
Special Announcement: Beyond Intake the Book (and Call for Beta Readers!)Email csm@casefuel.com with subject line "Beta Reader Request" to be considered for our beta reader cohort>> Get the newest LFG episodes delivered to your inbox when you Sign Up for our Newsletter.Resource Links:Fast track your marketing efforts while avoiding common marketing mistakes in our new trainingEstate planning attorney? Stop guessing how to get results from online ads and grow your firm with our client-generating Seminar 3.0 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Kelli and Zara discuss an often talked about topic that is still often too vague to be much help: your writer voice.Mentioned in this episode:Add Kelli's debut DOWN THE WELL to your TBR: Bookhype - https://bookhype.com/book/show/9824bda1-0dc8-4934-a8ba-cd6a8733f3b0/down-the-well Goodreads - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/87798019-down-the-wellPreorder Samantha's debut THE LEGIONNAIRE: https://inimitablebooksllc.com/the-legionnaire & don't forget to register your preorder at https://inimitablebooksllc.typeform.com/LegionnairePre to receive some exclusive character artwork! Or, get an EXTRA piece of art & skip registration by ordering from https://www.riverbendbookshop.com/legionnaireKelli's YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/@ink_steadyRegina Duke interview: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/e670e8ff/genre-gossip-regina-dukeJessi Elliott interview: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/e64e615e/genre-gossip-jessi-elliottOther things to check out:Critique Partners, Alpha and Beta Readers: https://thewriteishpodcast.podbean.com/e/critique-partners-alpha-beta-readers/-https://ko-fi.com/writeish
Kelli and Zara talk about the all-important skill of pacing your story well!Add Kelli's debut DOWN THE WELL to your TBR: Bookhype - https://bookhype.com/book/show/9824bda1-0dc8-4934-a8ba-cd6a8733f3b0/down-the-well Goodreads - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/87798019-down-the-wellPreorder Samantha's debut THE LEGIONNAIRE: https://inimitablebooksllc.com/the-legionnaire & don't forget to register your preorder at https://inimitablebooksllc.typeform.com/LegionnairePre to receive some exclusive character artwork! Or, get an EXTRA piece of art & skip registration by ordering from https://www.riverbendbookshop.com/legionnaireEpisodes to also listen to:All About Outlining: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/d9041fec/craft-chat-all-about-outliningAll About Revision: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/e8ef9ecc/after-nanowrimo-all-about-revisionOn Revision: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/dc630ae2/on-revisionUnder- vs Over-Writers: https://thewriteishpodcast.wixsite.com/listen/listen/episode/e679005f/craft-chat-under-vs-over-writersAlpha and Beta Readers, and Critique Parters: https://thewriteishpodcast.podbean.com/e/critique-partners-alpha-beta-readers/ (on our old Podbean site because Zencastr didn't grab this—and the penultimate S3 episode—by accident, hopefully this will be fixed soon)-https://ko-fi.com/writeish
We'll be talking about beta readers. After you've finished writing your latest pieces, you might want to consider sharing them with others to get vital feedback from a sample audience. And our tool tip of the week is Zotero. Stay tuned to hear about how painless constructing a research bibliography can actually be. For real. We promise it's not that bad! Picks of the Week: A Monster Calls by Patrick Ness Dopamine Nation by Dr. Anna Lembke Mentioned in the Episode: Zotero Mendeley Papers
Exactly that! I'm releasing my FIRST NOVEL next year, and it tells a beautiful, courageous and expansive story. Each week, my beta readers are reading 1 or 2 chapters and spilling their beans, theorizing as to what will happen next! And you can join in! I will be uploading every Wed those following chapters on my substack and would LOVE your feedback as well! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/playing4people/support
In Episode 9 of Fully Booked, Craig and Roland spoke to two authors about the importance of Beta Readers. Today, we're revisiting that topic with another special guest - J. L. Delozier, author of crime, mystery, and thriller novels, who not only relies on Beta Readers to polish her own books, but also Beta Reads books written by some of her colleagues. This has given her a unique perspective on Beta Reading because she's seen both sides of it - and in this podcast, J. L. Delozier will use that experience to explain how authors can get the most out of their Beta Readers and make the whole Beta Reading process more efficient and enjoyable. There's a lot of great information in this episode, and it's a must-listen for anybody considering hiring Beta Readers of their own. J.L. Delozier https://www.jldelozier.com/ Hidden Gems Need our help publishing or marketing your book? https://www.hiddengemsbooks.com/author-services/ All episode details and links: https://www.hiddengemsbooks.com/podcast
Let's talk about how you can find your purpose, BESIDES being a mom, I have three steps for you in this week's podcast and this week I am calling for 50 moms from 50 US states to become my beta readers in exchange for your name in my book credits. Send me a DM on Instagram @melissallarena with the word BETA if you want to join me as an early reader of my non-fiction book for moms who want to say good-bye to self-neglect/old mom paradigms, figure out what lights them up, and imagine actually going for it! What follows below is the transcript to this week's solo episode... So as a stay at home mom, for the last 11 years, I have used my business, this podcast as my life force. I mean, I have too many unrealized dreams. And honestly, I've always loved a dare. But what I've noticed out there being amongst many stay at home moms, is that you might feel like you could not possibly push yourself enough to figure out what it is that you're meant to do, besides being a mom. In this solo episode, I want to give you practical, simple to explore ideas that are going to help you understand what your purpose might be. Besides being a mom. Now, I've been doing my due diligence and just looking at all the forums online. And ultimately, what I have heard from stay at home moms these days, is that you might feel a bit useless. Not as a mom, not as a caretaker. But just in the outside world, you might also feel like you don't have a purpose, you might feel like you don't have real value because you're not bringing home the bacon. And ultimately, across the board, in terms of what I've noticed from my peers stay at home moms, is that a lot of us feel lonely. And that's why this episode is so important, especially if you want to turn things around for yourself. Because ultimately, no one is going to give you permission, no one is going to tap you on the shoulder. No one is going to help you find your own source of purpose, give you energy, nor give you a blueprint to how you will find what you were meant to do. Besides being a mom that is now I know that this is like I mean, I have such audacity here, right? Shouldn't being a stay at home mom, Shouldn't that be the ultimate source of fulfillment and purpose? Are we not doing the most important, critical, urgent job on this planet? It's really interesting because I will say this. A lot of times, that's what we hear. We hear that from society, we hear how being a mom is the ultimate self sacrificial job and how there is nothing more satisfying than being a mom. But I'm here to say that personally, it wasn't enough for me. Personally, I needed to stay in tuned with the activities that gave me life that have contributed to me having orals of energy, and that have made me happy. And oftentimes, I had to do things that were just not on the menu, not available for moms, things that maybe even 12 year old dudes would be doing. For example, having a conversation with Gary Vee, not on the menu for me, or launching a podcast not on the menu for stay at home mom, or deciding to I don't know, travelled to Uluru in Australia by myself for a weekend between the pandemic's lockdowns not on the menu for a mom with three kids. But these are the things that I had to do for myself. And if you're a stay at home, mom, chances are it's been some time since you've had an opportunity to do something for yourself. And therein lies the answer to this question. How is it that you might go about finding your purpose besides being a mom, so what When I think about this idea, when I first took on the role of motherhood back in 2011, I will say that I had certain expectations and assumptions about what it is to be a mom. And in a book that I'm writing, I've called it these mom scripts. So just like an actress, just like an actor, you get a script, you have a good sense of how you're supposed to play this role. And oftentimes, this script is provided to us by our family, by peers, maybe even by society. And I will say that once I got the script, I was totally not excited about it. I mean, when I first became a mom to my first son, and I realized that I would have to be a stay at home mom, according to my own trust issues, I will fully admit, I was bawling. I was sitting in a rocking chair, I found out that my perfectly and you don't see the air quotes, but perfectly orchestrated childcare solution fell apart before it even began. And I was bawling. For me it was like, Okay, what was I doing this whole time pursuing the harder academic subjects going totally all out? I mean, gangbusters, in terms of my education, like, what was that all about? If ultimately, what I was going to become, in that moment, was a stay at home mom. And so beyond the bawling beyond the crying beyond the emotions, I gave it a go, I tried, I really, really tried to relish in being a mom. I mean, I hung out with moms, watching daytime TV, I walked alongside moms, while I had my baby on my ergo, baby thingamajig. I mean, it was really exploring the stay at home mom thing. But ultimately, I was only able to do it for six months. For six months, I did what stay at home moms do. And I found it really hard to feel grateful for being able to be a stay at home mom and be quote, unquote, limited to the certain things. Here are the things that for me, of course, I was grateful in the moment. But ultimately, they just were not enough. For example, seeing my sons take their first steps. Absolutely. I was thrilled to see their first steps. But ultimately, what about me, like you're witnessing kids who are developing in like at rapid speeds, accomplishing things that are like incredible, but then it begs the question, so what are we chicken liver? So that was a thought that passed through my mind. Another one was this idea. Okay, I have the flexibility to attend all of my son's doctor's visits, all of the immunizations, but still, ultimately, he would leave all those visits weeping. And there I was trying to figure out how to comfort him. I mean, was grateful that I could go to the doctor's visits, obviously. But still, what about me, like, I was looking at the doctors or the pediatricians and I was like, man, they have their own office, their names are on the door, they're getting major money from the healthcare institutions, like, wow, they've got a career, what about me, so I get it how being a mom has been put on a pedestal as being the most noble job. But ultimately, if you're like me, or the moms that have written extensively on these mom forums, maybe it's not enough for you. Maybe you feel like, there's got to be more to it. So this is where this concept comes into play. Let me share this idea of jet fuel. So to me, when I'm plugged into my purpose, I feel energy that's really hard to explain. When I feel like I am doing something that is just for me, even if it sounds selfish, there's just something inside of me, that makes me go and not feel drained. It makes me feel like high on life. And what I want to say in this conversation with you, my dear listener, is that you too, as a stay at home mom, you're going to need energy to find your purpose. And I know right now, it might feel totally unattainable. But I promise I'll give you a couple of steps here. That'll get you closer. You are also going to need to explore different purposes. Now, the term purpose sounds super broad, but let's just imagine that your purpose can be found by way of doing an activity. And the third point is that you're going to have to surround yourself Have around other purpose chasers. So here's where I think it's important for us to have an honest talk, mom, to Mom, if right now you are finding yourself really almost like hiding out at home, because you don't feel like you have something exciting to talk about. Or maybe you feel a bit insecure, and you just stay in the background, when you're out there with your partner, maybe because you just don't feel confident enough about who you are, as a wonderful human, then it's really, really important for you to catch this concept, achieving something for yourself, figuring out what dreams you want to pursue only for you, that's going to give you everything that you need, it's going to give you that sensation that is going to wake you up in the middle of the night, excited about an idea that bubbles up to your mind, it's gonna give you the ultimate excuse for talking to strangers, is going to help you carve out even 10 minutes a day to work on your dreams. So it's important, you need some jet fuel. And without that jet fuel or source of energy or Spark, we can call it what we may, life just feels dull. It really, really does feel dull. For me, my creative projects, my client work these podcast conversations. Usually when I'm interviewing someone, or my jet fuel, like these are the things that I was told would have to take a back seat once I pushed out my son's. But honestly, if I never explored my interests beyond being a mom, and trying to be a good one, then I would have never figured out what activities actually energized me. Which activities gave me the most life, which activities if I did them that day, would result in a happier mom. And I know that a lot of moms out there are dangerously low on jet fuel. I mean, super dangerously low. And so that's why this idea of your mom's script and the expectations that you were told, come with being a mom is really, really important. I mean, I write extensively about this idea in the book that I'm writing right now. And I think it's important because a lot of what we were told about being a mom, and namely being a stay at home mom, it really results in feeling shackled, feeling limited. I'll give you an example. Like right now, let's just say that you're thinking about things that are available to you over the course of this week for you, you might say yes, going to a PTA is available to me, that's what's expected as a mom. Now taking a break dancing class in the middle of the day, even if it's a free dance break dancing class is not available to me as a mom. So like, where did this notion come from? Right as to what is available to you, as a mom, what is not available? That is what I'm referring to as a mom scripts. So as a mom, when you gave birth, and you were welcomed into the mom club, as I was when I gave birth by my mom, she said welcome to the mom club, there were certain things that were off limits for me certain environments that I shouldn't be in. I'll give you an example. And this might be so high, I don't even know. But don't judge me on this. So let's just imagine that you no longer because now you're a stay at home mom, and you're supposed to be really busy always cleaning your house, you can no longer take a Saturday morning off, like until the kid is 18. And you are no longer invited to attend. I don't even know ComiCon let's say right, that conference in New York City with all the costumes and such. Like who's to say moms are not allowed in that environment? Right? But maybe it's something that you learned from your mom, maybe you never witnessed your mom explore things that were outside of motherhood expectations. Maybe you never saw your mom, essentially, quote, unquote, be a little selfish and try things that technically were reserved for people that didn't have kids or for our own kids. And so for me, I didn't realize that there were lots of things that all of a sudden I felt like I was closing the door on because I was a mom. It was almost like I was programmed. Right? And ultimately, a lot of us are programmed through the age of Seven in terms of how our parents would like us to behave. And this is something that goes on realize if you're just on autopilot, as so many stay at home moms and working moms tend to be. So those first six months when I tried to be a stay at home mom, and I had no goals, but to be a mom, I II make sure my kids survived. I felt like my arms and legs were like flailing. Like I had no idea, like how to be anything. But a lackluster. Regular mom. Like it just didn't give me that excitement if it was not enough jet fuel, like how was I supposed to be so excited for a cutesy, cuddly baby, if I just did not feel excited. And I'm not even talking about postpartum, we're talking about even later on, when all those hormones had subdued, I still didn't feel the thrill. I didn't feel like my kid even deserved to completely fulfill all of my hopes and dreams. I needed something more. So here we go. What are the three steps that you can take practical steps to actually figuring out what your purpose might be? Or what is it going to take for you to almost generate your own jet fuel, so that this way, you are totally, totally alive? Step 1 starts with giving yourself permission to pick items off of the kiddie menu. I did this the other day. So I went to this like Mediterranean fast food place. And they had these like Buddha bowl thingamajigs. And they had the menu for adults. And then they had the kiddie menu. And I honestly had to think to myself, Okay, are they going to let me choose from the kiddie menu? Like, is that available to me. And so I went ahead, and I got the kiddie menu item, and no one even questioned my choice. Same thing for you. Think about it this way. Again, this is step one, super practical. Right now, as a mom, as a stay at home mom, you are also a curriculum designer for your family. So let's imagine that you have children with different interests, and you're trying to figure out how to bring forth an artistic interest in one of your kids. So you go ahead and look up library events that have to do with art, or you look up art classes that are extracurriculars. What if what if you did this for yourself? What if rather than take your daughter to dance class, you went to the dance class yourself? Now I know, you're gonna say, Melissa, what's the priority that's going to cost money? You know, I've already quote unquote, lived my life. That's a mom's script, by the way. So here's what I want to say to you. Here's why this is important. Why this matters, and why your excuse is just not enough. If right now, again, back to the drawing board. If right now you feel like you don't have that enthusiasm over your life, what you're doing something exciting to talk about with anyone, not because you're trying to impress them, but because you're just so excited about what you've got going on, then take this opportunity. Just think to yourself, like the curriculum designer that all stay at home moms are, what can I pick from the kiddie menu? What can I explore? That might make me the happiest mom on the block? What can I do that might make me remember who I was before being a mom that breakdancer? Let's just imagine, like really think about this, broadly, again, let go of these moms scripts of the expectations of the things that are available for moms, what's available for your kid? What's available for your children? Go there. Get something off the kiddie menu, I promise you. No one is going to question your choice. And now we'll go into the logistics. And of course that's going to include your partner if you have one. Step 2. I want you to work out the logistics as you do for EVERYONE else. Now. You're a mom, you're a stay at home mom. If I know anything about you very specifically. It's that you're a logistics ninja for everyone. else's logistics. So let's just imagine that super last minute, your child procrastinated, they forgot that they have to be somewhere. And it was just essential. I know what you as a stay at home mom would do, you'd make it happen, somehow, you would pull out a rabbit from a hat, and figure out how to take your kid from point A to B. And the interesting part here is that you have this muscle, and it's really strong, you could use it for yourself. So let's imagine you wanted to take a break dancing class. And I want to just like, share this with you. Not everything cost money. There are some breakdancing classes that you could probably take for free. So let's just put that to the side. But let's continue with the logistics. Let's imagine you want to take a break dancing class, right? And you need to think about logistics. One big piece of the puzzle is that you need to tell your partner if you have one, or you need to figure out your childcare situation. Now, what I know about you, fellow stay at home mom, is that you know how to make stuff happen. You know, how to bring together all of your resources when it comes to everyone else. And so what I'm asking you to do right now is to use this superpower for yourself for this new interest that might actually reveal part of your purpose, and if nothing else, will make you a happier mom. Wait, what if you feel resistant in changing your schedule or asking someone else to change there's? So here's where resistance comes in. Okay. I don't want to ask my husband to take care of the kids on Saturday morning. Let's just imagine that's an excuse or resistance. Here's how you work through that. Breakout, a journal or notebook, I want you to ask yourself this question. And literally write out in bullet form your answers until your hand hurts, or you have a really honest response. Here's the question, you ready for it? Okay, now you might be driving. So just like take this in and contemplate whether this might be a point of resistance for you. I want you to ask yourself, why? Why do I not want to tell my husband about caring for the kids on Saturday morning. And the reason why it's important for you to understand the reason for your resistance to doing any of these steps in terms of the logistics, like, Why? Why do I want to ask my husband to cook breakfast on Saturday morning, whereas I usually cook breakfast on Saturday morning. The reason why you have to really be self aware around the reasons why you don't take action for yourself, is because you need to get to the crux of the matter. You need to get to the absolute truth. What is it? What are you telling yourself? What are you making it mean when you choose to take a break dancing class on a Saturday morning, instead of quote unquote, doing your mom duties? Or taking your child to jujitsu or taking your child and you know, making pancakes for them on Saturday morning? What is it that you're making this mean? What is it telling your husband when you're asking for him to step in on a Saturday morning? What are you afraid of is going to happen? Do you feel like you will no longer be needed on Saturday mornings Do you feel then that this is going to drip into Sunday mornings, and maybe your partner can handle Monday mornings, like it's so important because these logistics, if we're really, really honest with ourselves a stay at home moms, these logistics are doable for every buddy else in your house. If you are choosing not to take that break dancing class, for any reason, other than you don't want to explore break dancing, or you might break a wrist or something, then it's important for you to understand why why without that inner work, it's going to be really, really hard to implement the steps along your mom journey. Because your interests, the things that give you your jet fuel or make you feel like you have a sense of purpose. Besides being a mom. It evolves, it changes. And so you're gonna need to do this every so often. So that's how you will work out the logistics. You'll get it done, as you have before for everyone else except this time for you and the points of resistance. It's about writing out why you feel that resistance. What are you making it mean? Why are you hesitant to ask your husband to step in? Or why are you not asking your mother to help you take care of your kids? There's usually something way bigger happening Behind the scenes, and if you don't address that point, you will constantly be searching for your purpose and feel like I did early on like your arms or legs or just fail flailing aimlessly. And you need to feel plugged into life, your life. Step 3 - You have to find your tribe. So when I think about, you know, when I first got married, my husband and I did what other couples do, we went to, you know, the suburbs, and we were house hunting. And what we noticed on the commuter bus was that the passengers looked absolutely dead. They were alive, as in like reading their cell phones, but they didn't have like this life in them. And it was something that we felt being on this bus, and it scared the bejesus out of us to be honest. And so we didn't find suburbia, early on. So look around you look around at the moms that you talk to look around at your neighborhood. And you have to be honest with yourself like, is anyone around you high on life? Is anyone around you energize? Is anyone around you doing something that is plugged into their purpose? Like how often are you around that person? If it's not often enough, then you have to find your tribe. And your tribe? Might not be a mom tribe? Again, go back to the scripts as a stay at home mom in the past? like who are you supposed to be around other stay at home moms? Are you supposed to be around? You know, other people that are partnered up? Are you supposed to be around other 30 year olds, 40 year olds, 50 year olds, like we have these expectations and assumptions, or mom's scripts that really, really require almost like a reconsideration so that this way you feel on purpose, or even give yourself a shot to figure out what your purpose might be before being a mom. And at this point, what's urgent is that this season of being a mom, there's an expiration date. This was something else I read on the forums, there were some empty nesters who wish wish years before their kids left to university that they had gone on this journey of uncovering their purpose, because at this point, they felt so bored, and totally without purpose. So what I want to share with you in this podcast episode is a warning. It's a warning, this season of being a stay at home mom, unless you keep adopting children for the rest of your life, there comes a day where you will no longer have someone to stay home with. And for a lot of us this starts in kindergarten, Ever notice how like once your kids are out to school, you might struggle with figuring out what you should be doing during the course of the day. And even if you don't struggle with all the things that you give yourself to do. Have you ever felt like Hmm, what's the point of sweeping this floor again for the umpteenth time? Well imagine that as an empty nester, I can't imagine it. But according to the forums that I read, there's a lot of empty nesters who wish that they had taken the time to carve out in their stay at home mom journey to figure out what their ultimate purpose was, at least for the moment, and at least have a tool or method that they could apply throughout the life stages throughout their life stages. So here's where I'm going with this. This is so important. Like this topic of finding your purpose, besides or beyond being a mom is so important, so important that I decided to write a book about it. And now for my BIG ask of you my fellow mom I want every single mom that's listening to this, I want you personally to have the tools, resources, the support and the energy that you need to give yourself a chance to really live out your purpose. And honestly, if mental health matters to you, like really, really matters to you, then this conversation should speak to your heart whether you're a mom or not. If you believe like me, that you only get one life and you get to have happy days. And you get to get happy days, not just because of something that your kid did, but because of something that you did, then I want to invite you to help me. Yep, I want your help. I am calling for 50-moms who enjoy reading non-fiction books to become beta readers in exchange for goodies including your name in my book credits. Continue reading for the details…. Right now, as I'm writing this book, tackling moms scripts, defying motherhood expectations scrapping some of the rules that I was told and writing my own motherhood rules. I need help. I need people who will read my book in the early days. So this is pre publishing date, I need moms who are from each of the 50 states. And I also want moms who are from English speaking countries, because this is a global conversation. This is not just a conversation for you, if you're like in Boston, or Austin or Astoria, like the same sentiments, this feeling of like, not having a purpose not having value, because you're not bringing in money, feeling like there's gotta be something more like this is really common. And honestly, it's probably in your own zip code. The issue is that we're not talking about it instead, a lot of us are pretending that everything is wonderful and hunky dory, when it really isn't. And so, even I, when I've lived in different countries, I've heard the same thing from stay at home moms, you could go to any children's area of a library anywhere around the world, and you will hear the same conversations, the frustrations of motherhood, how you feel like you don't have anything interesting going on how you don't even know where to begin, when it comes to professional conversations. Like this just needs to stop. Because if we have the most noble profession, then why is it that we don't feel like it's valued? Why is it that we don't all feel high on life and in purpose might it be because there's something else besides being a mom, that would actually give you that energy, that power, that lift, to actually feel happier every day? So that's my mission. And I want you to be part of it. How to become a BETA reader? Simple DM me the word BETA on Instagram @melissallarena for details. If you want to help me by being a beta reader, let me know, send me a DM on Instagram. So just DM me the word beta BETA, go to Instagram at Melissa Llarena. I am looking for beta readers who are going to have an early copy of my book, you will have an opportunity to give me feedback. This is essentially a nonfiction book about personal growth for moms so that this way you can figure out what is going to light you up. Might it be creative endeavor? Might it be starting a business? Might it be, you know, doing a podcast, I want you to understand what you might feel like you're up against, but no one is talking about in terms of those, those moms scripts. And then I want to give you the tools and inspiration you need from even people that are not moms. So that this way you can live with more enthusiasm, have a sense of playfulness, and have something really, really exciting to talk about, with anyone who will listen. So definitely I need BETA readers. Again, this is how it all works super simple. First of all, you're gonna get stickers, you're gonna get stickers, and I don't know about you. But for me, I was a big Lisa Frank fan, I couldn't afford all those stickers. But I want to give you a sticker. And it's gonna reflect a sense of this identity, this bigger identity more than a mom, who the heck knows what I will actually say, but I want you to be excited because you're gonna be part of a beta group collective of women, we're going to have copies of my book early. So before publishing date, you will have a chance to give me feedback, you will let me know what stories really resonated with you, you will also have a chance to look at my journal prompts, and answer them if that's your heart's desire, or provide feedback so that this way, my questions really, really help you do that deep inner work necessary to pull yourself up and feel excited about what you've got going on in your life. I'll give you the whole book, I'll give you a couple of questions that will help you focus in terms of this feedback. We're also going to do a beta reader party, and you're going to have your name in my book in my credit, so I want to be sure that I help you feel special, especially as the world says that stay at home moms are now must you be a mom to be a beta reader. Yes, it is important to have that perspective. Must you be a stay at home mom to be a beta reader? Not at all. You could be a working mom, you could have a business you can work for a corporation, but you must have a mom because moms have a very different way of looking at our priorities and the products that we choose to take on or not. So go ahead, send me a DM at Instagram. This will be in the show notes. So right now if you're looking at iTunes, just look at your cell phone when you are not driving, and you will see the spelling of my instagram name. It's at Melissa Llarena definitely send me the word beta b e t So just send me that word. And then I will share with you the details pertaining to when you will get the pre release copy of my book, the questions that you will be considering. And of course, I'll let you know the details about the beta reader reader party. Now, if you are being called to a higher purpose beyond, or besides being a mom, here's the truth. The only way to know is to actually show up for yourself today, because your purpose is your fuel, like you're going to need it you're gonna need to fill up all the time, so that this way you can give more and more of you to everyone else in your family. And at the end of the day, I think this is a very worthy, very worthy cause. Because so many stay at home moms out there. Like I honestly believe that if you're plugged into your purpose, you can actually solve the real challenges in this world. And without you, like you make up a huge part of the population. Without you, we're just never going to make the progress that we can as a society. So thank you for listening to this conversation. This is a call for beta readers, I would love a mom from every state in the United States to represent their state and be a beta reader. I would love a mom from English speaking countries to also show up as a beta reader, send me a DM at Melissa Llarena with the word beta B E T A. If you're interested in becoming a beta reader, the book is going to be about 70,000 words, you'll have three weeks to read it, I'll give you guided questions to consider. You'll have your name in the book, you'll also be invited to the VIP Beta reader party, and you will also have an opportunity to have and share and show off your sticker. Like I'm really excited about this sticker. So for sure, be part of this group be part of this community. I want to show you what it feels like to be totally alive and on purpose. And yes, it's okay if you are like me and you feel like your purpose might be beyond being a mom. That doesn't say anything about you as a good mom or not. Your good mom, you have someone's life in your heart. That's all you need to feel like you're getting it right. So I would love you on my book writing journey. Come and help me my beautiful betas come and help me.
Did you ever hear your name during Romper Room? Do you remember that 80s TV show when the host would look through a mirror and say a bunch of names? Well, I may have said your name during this podcast episode. Listen for it. Also exciting about this episode is that I read a snippet of my book for moms who want their imagination, playful, and all-around fun selves back. In this podcast episode, I also shared details about where you can instantly download your very own copy of one of my favorite chapters of my upcoming book. Just visit www.melissallarena.com/waitlist for your free book chapter! In it, I share with you the value I gained and you can too from stepping outside of your comfort zone to learn how to play again. Hint: if you feel as if you have lost that cheerful, free, and fun sense of yourself since motherhood then in this chapter you will read the exact steps you can take in the next 7 days to get her back! Have feedback or want to become an early reader? Then send me a note. I am seeking 50 - mamas to become my beta readers by October 30th. Join me by sending me a note to melissa [@] melissallarena.com if you want to be part of my beta reader collective. This is a non-fiction book for moms who believe in personal growth. Imagine, incorporating the exercises and doing the reflection questions that have transformed the lives of my podcast guests and my own too for the better. What if you end up transforming how you see your potential and purpose? All of this is available as a beta reader and for free. Just email me and I'll share the details. Beta Readers also get perks beyond reading the book in advance. You'll be mentioned in the book. You'll get stickers. You'll get free meditations too designed by this mama of three boys. Don't we all need to catch our breath once in a while? Join me, ladies, this is a movement to help us all find the courage and energy to rewrite the scripts we have inherited about motherhood and make it our own. Grab the whole chapter here: www.melissallarena.com/waitlist P.S. The snippet I decided to read is transcribed below. It's a draft. Please do not copy any portion. Improvisation, puppetry, acting, all those things that I learned in my acting courses we have innately in us when we're young. And then slowly, it just is dragged out of us, and we just become who we are. And then somewhere down the line, we go, oh, man, we used to run around and play and do things for fun. So Chris Thomas Hayes (a former podcast guest who is a puppeteer for Sesame Street) is telling us, although he has a script for guidance, to create the character of Hoots he still needs to tap into a younger more playful version of himself to ensure the way he performs Hoots is relevant to his viewers. That sense of playfulness and its loss is particularly relevant for moms. We get so caught up in the stress of day-to-day life that we forget to just have fun. I'd say my personal definition of “playing” boils down to letting our kids lead the way during any activity or your inner little girl. When was the last time you let go of orchestrating a moment and lost track of time? Chances are that was the last time you played. We also don't always see the benefits of playing with our kids. Like I have to think about adding play with my children to my list. Meanwhile, my husband plays this role of fellow playmate as one he was made for. Unlike me, my husband walks in the door and doesn't scour the space for things to pick-up and clean; he looks for our chess set to play chess (and aims to beat) our eldest son. I think this is about letting ourselves get swept away in play too. It is important not to lose sight of your sense of fun. Have you ever considered enrolling in an acting class or dabbled in any performance arts as a way of thinking of yourself as a different character? When I took my client's advice about learning how to improvise and feel comfortable standing on a stage talking about myself, I enrolled in a course with Adam Wade. Adam has won The Moth's StorySlam, twenty-times; he is an expert in personal storytelling. The course was immersive and personally challenging. It was out of character for me to do anything like this and it turned out I was the only mom of young kids in class. The schlep from New Canaan, Connecticut to Korea town, NYC every Sunday afternoon was a pain, but worth it. The class culminated in each of us telling a brief story, on stage, in front of our peers, friends, and families. I wish I would have been able to hide behind a puppet like Chris. My performance involved a lot of preparation. In the same spirit of getting ready to play a puppet, I wanted to tell the story of who I was before I became a mom. To be authentic I had to go back to when I was studying and working in France during my MBA. I was living in Paris, in an icebox of an apartment, only eating Comté cheese and grilled chicken, and drinking Sancerre wine. I'm sure you can see how foreign that life felt to me at the time when I was a suburban mom with three young boys. As part of an exercise in my acting lesson we were asked to improvise a story based on a cherished personal object. Mine was an empty fragrance bottle. Towards the end of my three months in France I decided to backpack through the Côte d'Azur. I visited Grasse, the capital of the perfume industry, where I bought myself a bottle of Fragonard perfume. The empty bottle has always reminded me of that wanderlust time in France. I had to figure out how to tap into my pre-mom way of being so that the crowd could feel how free I felt back then, the bottle was my way in. My entire body changed as I told that story. I smiled. I felt as if I was back in Monaco with my heavy backpack hopping on-and-off trains during my last days in France. In that moment, I wasn't thinking about my long commute home that night or being a mom. But when I returned home I was happier and more playful. That class unlocked something in me that I had in France but had been missing in Connecticut. Imagine those moments in your life when you felt most free? What images are popping up in your mind? Might there be a way for you to act out those moments just to feel those feelings again today? You can take an acting class to be more playful or you can just go back to the time when you were. We all have those moments that light us up. When was yours? Want the full chapter for free: www.melissallarena.com/waitlist Alternatively, want to be a beta reader? Send me an email by October 30th to melissa [@]melissallarena.com HUGE NEWS My book is set to release this Winter 2022. Join me on my journey: www.melissallarena.com/waitlist FREE DOWNLOAD Want to grab your free copy of the Courage Makerspace (™) Playbook? Download the courage-building playbook for mompreneurs here: www.melissallarena.com/courage Boost your courage in 7-days using the exact courage design tools that have worked for both me and my clients. Grab your free playbook instantly so that you can discover how to: Figure out what makes you tick Be more accountable and not procrastinate Overcome imposter syndrome Stop caring about what others think Progress despite self-doubt Manage anxiety Ask for help You will have a step-by-step playbook to help you finally fulfill your life purpose! Do not miss out on this free opportunity as it will not be available for long. Want to continue the conversation? Find me on Instagram! You can read my daily mini-blogs for moms with big business dreams centered on the same three topics that my podcast features: creativity, courage, and curiosity. I believe that without all three it would be impossible to solve the challenges we were each uniquely made to solve. Wouldn't you agree? 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As a writing coach, Karena Akhavein says that the majority of her clients come to her because they were devastated by negative feedback from editors or beta readers. This is why this week's How to be an Author podcast episode is all about working with beta readers and how to keep their comments or lack thereof from driving you crazy or breaking you down. You'll learn how to choose beta readers, what to expect and not to expect from them, and how to make sure they improve your book without detsroying your mindset.
Recently we were having a discussion on the WriterDojo Facebook group and the question of these came up, so this week, Hosts/Authors Steve Diamond and Larry Correia discuss the pros & cons of writer groups; what to look for in a beta reader, and if a group is what you need. If you would like to join our supporters, you can support this podcast with a small monthly donation to help sustain future episodes at: https://anchor.fm/writerdojo *Life Support: Secret Operations* by Joseph L Kellogg is available on Amazon at https://amzn.to/3Kupp0I (affiliate link) "Word Mercenaries" (the WriterDojo theme) is by Craig Nybo https://craignybo.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/writerdojo/support
All about beta readers! A beta reader is a person who reads your edited manuscript and provides feedback based on their reader eyes in your genre. So where can we find them? How are they different to critique partners? How can we accept the feedback they give in the best way? How long should we wait for them to get back to us with feedback? And more questions!! Are you a Muslim sister who writes?? Then join our community! We do weekly prompts where our sisters share their answers. This weeks prompt is: ‘What makes you feel safe?' If your a Muslim woman writer and want to be part of a writing community, email us at info.thestrangers@gmail.com with topic: 'The Society Of Muslim Women Writers' Find out more about us here: https://linktr.ee/thestrangerspoets --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thelitmuslim/message
Not all beta readers are created equal. Just as you can learn to be a better writer, you can also learn to be a better beta reader.
Marni welcomes the best-selling author of Project Everlasting and founder of the revolutionary Manifest Your Man program, Mat Boggs into the Life Check Yourself studio. Mat has been helping millions of people around the world attract love and have fun finding fulfilling relationships. He is a sought-after dating and relationship expert. He's been featured on the Today Show, CNN, Headline News, and Oprah & Friends. Dating takeaways from this episode: Identifying a shared vision with the Magic Wand question What Mat means by Rehearse, Nurse, and Curse Overcoming your limiting beliefs Your history does not determine your destiny Rejection is just a step closer to what you want Intention Vs. Impact A human's purpose on this planet is to learn how to give and receive love. Growth comes when we make mistakes and change the actions we take in the future. One of the best ways we can grow is to ask others for feedback. In Mat's case, his goal was to write a book people absolutely loved or didn't. When he enlisted Beta Readers, the readers who didn't like his book at first, gave him better feedback about how he could make the book better. Mat says there is a difference between intention and impact. And he uses this lesson over and over again. If you know someone's heart is in the right place, but something they do creates a negative outcome for you, it is important to have a ten-minute sweaty-palmed conversation to clear the air without attacking the other person. Do not take things personally because, often, people don't do things with bad intentions. Labels & Overcoming Limitations We all use labels because they fast-track conversations and help people identify us better. Another reason is that some people want to commiserate and want attention. If we get too attached to our labels, the label can then turn into our identity. Mat reminds us that where our intention goes, energy flows. Research rooted in neuroscience shows that our brains make connections based on repetition. The more we label ourselves as “something” we will eventually start to identify with that label. If we can put more attention on where we are going and where we want to be, it is much easier to overcome the place we have been when we focus on where we want to be. Rise above the old definition of you and create something beautiful for your life. Four Questions to Manifest a Loving Relationship Now! A person's ability to manifest what they want comes down to their ability to be clear about what they want, understand what may be holding them back and the actions they need to take to get what they want, and accept their desires once they achieve them. Mat offers four high-quality questions to ask yourself once you become clear about what you want. They are: Fear — What have you been resisting about opening your heart and having a relationship? Accept — What do you need to face about the situation to make peace? Choice — What choice could I make to move in that direction? Take Action — What actions do you need to take to move you forward? Your history does not determine your destiny. To figure out if you and a guy have a common vision about relationships, there is a magic wand question you can ask during a date. The question is — If you had a magic wand, what would you create for your love life? Make a Connection: Visit Our Website Sign Up For Our Ignite Your Life October 2022 Waitlist! Learn How To Attract Your Perfect Equal… Watch Our Latest Training Here! Follow Along On Marni and Jeremy's Radical Living Challenge! Download A Complimentary Copy Of Our Book — How To Find A Quality Guy Without Going On 200 Dates Cracking the Man Code Website
Yvonne DiVita brings 20 years of experience to the field of communication and whether you need someone to help you develop and launch your book or find new ways to grow your small business, Yvonne has the skills you need to succeed.On the show today, we discuss how to do a “Book Launch” that will get you and your book off to a great start. Yvonne suggests getting at least 20 people you know to become “Beta Readers”. They will read your book and offer testimonies & reviews before the book launch date.Listen to the show today and discover many other ways to create the greatest impact on the book market so you are off to a successful and profitable start as an author.Yvonne DiVita can be reached for consultation via the following links:NurturingBigIdeas.comYvonne on LinkedInNuturing Big Ideas on LinkedIn
"Imagines that he'll clench around Hannibal's swollen knot and whisper even as he comes around him, the world will forget what I look like not swollen with your children."The Kinky Ladies return to the fanfic foray with the ABO themed Hannibal fic "Wage Your War" by Della19. Hope you're hungry. Seriously, though, you may not want to eat before this episode. Just sayin'. Be a babe and join the book club with our Facebook Group, and follow us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. Plus, if you really want to please us, we love a listener who rates & subscribes, especially on Apple Podcasts. Have a hot read? Email us at kinkyladiespodcast@gmail.com. We adore your feedback and suggestions, but please, no dick pics.
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