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Dan Lyons is a New York Times bestselling author, screenwriter and journalist. His books include Shut Up: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World and Disrupted: My Misadventure in the Startup Bubble. Dan also wrote the hit HBO sitcom, Silicon Valley, and has worked as a technology journalist at Forbes, Fortune and Newsweek.
Gary gives leadership growth tips based on Dan Lyons "The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World" and David Brooks "How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen."
It Gets Late Early: Career Tips for Tech Employees in Midlife and Beyond
Note: Due to tech issues with my headphones and microphone, my audio on this show isn't of the typical quality for It Gets Late Early. But Dan sounds great!If you love comedy and work in tech, you must have watched HBO's Silicon Valley. If you haven't…fix that immediately, but it's a show about the struggles of Richard Hendricks, a Silicon Valley founder and engineer trying to build his own company, Pied Piper. The comedic genius of that show is straight-up legendary!Today, I have Dan Lyons, a writer on HBO's Silicon Valley and author of the NYT bestseller "Disrupted: My Misadventure in the Start-Up Bubble," which the LA Times called "the best book about Silicon Valley today." He followed up this book with two more - “Lab Rats: How Silicon Valley Made Work Miserable for the Rest of Us,” and his most recent book, “STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World.” Dan also was the creator of the anonymously penned blog "The Secret Diary of Steve Jobs."Dan regales us with a story about his first day working at a promising tech startup at the age of 52. He also walks us back to a time when his then-CEO was quoted in the New York Times saying, effectively, we don't appreciate old employees. You'll hear how Dan responded…and what he wishes he had done now with the benefit of hindsight.But after all his (mis)adventures in a tech company that only wanted to hire young workers, Dan now works at a job he loves at DocuSign. In fact, Dan loves working at DocuSign so much, you might even call it his Twin Flame employer. What?! Tune in to find out what we mean.Join us as we discuss his time working in a startup as the token-old guy, his experience as a writer on HBO's Silicon Valley, the concept of Twin Flames, horoscopes, and even my childhood crushes. And we will leave you with hope that you can find a job you love - at any age.This is a kind of sillier, more entertaining episode - I hope you enjoy hearing some unfiltered banter between Dan and me. "So, having come from the journalism world, you're a little freer in that world to be kind of irreverent about your own institution or your boss. You can be a little obnoxious and get away with it."- Dan LyonsIn This Episode:-How does one transition from losing a journalism job to entering a tech startup?-What is it like walking through the door on the first day as an older employee in a tech company?-Dan recollects his days working for a company whose CEO told the New York Times that "gray hair and experience are really overrated"-What was it like working at Newsweek?-Experiencing the reality of midlife collision-The call to work at HBO's Silicon Valley and Dan's big break as a writer-How Dan wrote his bestselling book "Disrupted" and the events that led him to write two more books-The Bozo Explosion explained-It all comes down to the culture-Horoscopes, Love Language, and Twin Flames-How to find your twin flame employer-Maureen's childhood crush(es) revealedAnd much more.Resources:-Disrupted: My Misadventure in the Start-Up Bubble by Dan Lyons: https://danlyons.io/books-STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World by Dan Lyons: https://danlyons.io/books-Lab Rats: How Silicon Valley Made Work Miserable for the Rest of Us by Dan Lyons:
In this episode, we are joined by Devon, who shares her inspiring story through her new book, "In Case of My Death...: Burn The World Down". She sheds light on the hidden Femicide that takes place in Canada and the challenges women face after abduction and violation. Devon's message empowers women to find their voice and stand up against injustice. We also take a moment to reflect on how celebrity news can distract us from the real issues in the world. Devon J Hall is a Writer, Blogger, Content Creator, and Faerie Witch from BC Canada who fearlessly shares her story with the world, inspiring others to do the same. Contact Devon: Website: https://loudmouthbrowngirl.com/shop/ Instagram: OriginalLMBG Books: Shop at Amazon Chapters: 00:00:00 Intro 00:02:03 Catching Up with Devon 00:03:08 Devon's New Book 00:04:17 Inequality is Worldwide 00:05:32 Canadian Femicide 00:08:02 Curse of "Keeping Your Mouth Shut" 00:10:17 Ways S3xual Assault is Brought to Awareness 00:13:31 Will Smith & Jada Pinkett Smith, Enough! 00:16:37 Tupac Project & Legacy 00:23:25 Back to Jada 00:27:04 As Content Creators How Much Should We Share? 00:27:41 AD: Cooking With Curves 00:29:42 AD: #BETTERHELP 00:31:54 Drake, Who is Claiming Him? 00:33:43 Devon Disrespects Michael Jackson 00:35:28 Palestine & Hollywood 00:36:55 Devon Profess Last Book for Awhile 00:38:20 More things Renita and Devon don't have in Common..lol 00:40:23 The Relieve from Searching Pop Culture 00:41:18 Ethical Fail 00:42:55 Hollywood Children Exploitation 00:44:20 Men Sharing their S3xual Assault Experience 00:45:41 My gripes with Ageism 00:46:38 Is the world uncomfortable with viewing Women as Sexual Beings 00:47:52 Devon's Opinion on Lizzo 00:52:13 Devon on Usher, Geez 00:54:32 Piggybacking to Drake 00:56:54 Devon also not claiming Tory Lanez 00:58:33 Chrisean and Blueface, Reason Devon Swore Off Relationships 01:02:03 BYOK Signature Question 01:04:00 Devon's Cure for Anxiety 01:05:32 Release of Devon's Book 01:06:34 Outro Don't forget to sign up for our newsletter to stay updated on future content that will empower you to create a happier and more fulfilling lifestyle. Subscribe at www.beyourownkind.com. Take Care of that Sweet Tooth at www.cookingwithcurves.com Check out our Media Partner :https://www.thebpmediaco.com/ Support Mommy's Business: CBS3 Designs: https://www.etsy.com/shop/CBS3Designs?ref=shop_sugg_market Seeking Therapy? Get 10% off your first month at https://betterhelp.com/byok --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beyourownkind/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beyourownkind/support
"People that talk too much are insecure; people that listen too much are not." - Dan Lyons ------------------------------------------------------------------- So let's cut to the chase: Talking is easy, but real conversation? That's an entirely different animal. Whether I'm hosting "Joseph Jaffe is Not Famous," writing books, or teaching the next generation at NYU, it's clear that genuine dialogue is what we're all craving, in both our digital and real-world interactions. Fortunately, I got this from my recent conversation (watch it in full here) with Dan Lyons, as we spoke about dodging a meeting with Prince because he was too anxious, about the days he spent working in a textile mill, and about the wild, fast-changing world of Web3 —only to tie it all back to his latest book, "STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World." ------------------------------------------------------------------- Here are my show notes: How did you decide to become a dentist? (13:02) Meeting Prince in the greenroom. (17:10) Are you the stupid one or are you stupid in 2000? (23:41) The importance of being an active listener. (29:44) People who can cope with silence. (36:03) Talking too much and blowing the sale. (42:15) Tangents and vacations with no plan. (49:25) Why is it hard to be a good listener? (56:57) -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Quote of the Episode: "Me being mean: Can you shut the fu.. up? Me being nice: Can you please shut the fu.. up?" - Unknown -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you like what you see, please subscribe to the show: bit.ly/subscribetotheshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
網路霸凌 跟 失言 原來是 躁鬱 引起的?簡單測驗你是不是個 話癆仔,我們都有 解離人格《閉嘴的藝術》 丹.萊昂斯 |NeKo嗚喵.說書 閉嘴的藝術:以退為進的刻意沉默,讓你趨吉避凶,家庭與事業如沐春風 STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World 作者: 丹.萊昂斯 原文作者: Dan Lyons 譯者: 鄭煥昇 出版社:時報出版 出版日期:2023/08/01 語言:繁體中文 #閉嘴的藝術 #網路霸凌#失言#躁鬱#話癆#解離人格 --------------------------------------- NeKo嗚喵 youtube▶https://reurl.cc/4ydx3L NeKo嗚喵 IG動態▶https://goo.gl/s2zTrA NeKo嗚喵 粉絲團▶http://goo.gl/AybChp ------------ 麥克風使用:SHURE MV7 #applepodcast ▶ https://reurl.cc/N6QDR5 #spotify ▶ https://reurl.cc/VXzeR6 #soundon ▶ https://reurl.cc/Q3RDb0 #KKBOX ▶ https://reurl.cc/8nv75o #googlepodcast ▶ https://reurl.cc/KjddgM
Have you ever kept your mouth shut because you were afraid of how someone else might react? On this episode we are peeling the layers of the struggle behind saying what you mean. People-pleasing happens as a result of not having the boldness and courage to say what you mean when it needs to be said, and this is why setting healthy boundaries is important and necessary. - It is literally going to protect you! "Boundaries will protect you from putting too much on your plate. When it comes to your life goals, boundaries will be essential. When you create healthy boundaries, you are also creating space for yourself." (Dear Fearless Mujer, You Were Created for More) Stop staying quiet Amiga when you need to speak up so you can learn to be an emotionally healthy woman. Grab your cafecito and let's dive into this episode. - Make sure to share it with your Amigas because something powerful happens when we lift each other up! Hey Girl, what do boundaries look like for you? And how would this help lead you to success? I'm offering a 5-week introductory package for new clients who are ready to make space for themselves while also creating healthy boundaries in their life- If you are ready to set yourself up for success while focusing on your goals and dreams I would love to hear from you. Because in order to be successful we need support from those who have been there. Send me a message so I can tell you more about this coaching package and you can claim your 75% off scholarship - Contact on Instagram Contact Micaela Coaching Information Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This is a replay of a Leadership Story Talks podcast that originally posted on March 20th 2023What do Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Tim Cook, Barack Obama, Richard Branson, and Larry King have in common? They are great listeners and know when to stop talking.In this episode Julienne and Jerome talk to Dan Lyons, New York Times bestselling author, screenwriter and journalist, about the power of talking less and listening more. Dan recently published ‘STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World', a book he decided to write after realizing that his work to become a better listener was much bigger than himself.This episode dives deeper into how talking and listening shape not only our private relationships, but also leadership, business, social media and society at large. Dan talks about the science of how we relate to silence and why we often decide to talk rather than listen (and sometimes regret this). Although our world often encourages talking rather than silence and celebrates great talkers, Dan argues that listening more will really make your life better. And as organizations try to reconnect and rebuild post-covid and customer feedback is becoming increasingly important, learning how to listen is also more essential than ever.Dan leaves us with a couple of great ideas on becoming better at being silent and listening and shows us that some of the most successful people, both in business and public service, are humble and quiet listeners.If you ever think ‘wow I really shouldn't have said that', or if you want to find out what is going on in your company, this episode is for you.Notes:Learn more about Dan LyonsBuy ‘STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World'This is the study that shows how ‘Likes' and ‘shares' teach people to express more outrage onlineFind out more about The Narativ Storytelling Method atnarativ.comEMAIL Jerome@narativ.comLINKEDIN https://www.linkedin.com/company/narativ-incTWITTER @narativ
In this two-part interview, our guest, Dan Lyons, a New York Times bestselling author, screenwriter, and journalist, delves into the power of keeping one's mouth shut in a constantly noisy world. Drawing from his latest book, STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World, Dan shares personal stories and insights about the benefits of talking less and listening more. He explains how silence can lead to better negotiations, improved relationships, and a deeper understanding of oneself and others. Throughout the conversation, Dan emphasizes the importance of curiosity and the art of active listening to others. By harnessing the power of curiosity and becoming more comfortable with silence, individuals can enhance their personal and professional relationships and lead more meaningful lives. The Power of Silence in Relationships can strengthen bonds between people. Dan shares how spending time in silence with his wife in nature improved their relationship and understanding of each other. Website https://danlyons.io Social Media https://www.linkedin.com/in/realdanlyons https://twitter.com/realdanlyons Part 2) Silence: Lessons in Context The Strategic Power of Silence in an Attention-Seeking Culture: Silence as a Balm for increased cortisol levels, contributing to chronic stress, inflammation, and heart disease Importance of Silence and Listening: Cultivating Stillness to Understand Context and Emotions. Listening with The Intent to Understand: Deepening Connections The Power of Silent Self-Reflection: Listening through the Internal Noise How Listening Reveals the Emotional Source Code That's Driving, Decisions, and Behaviors. Context Over Content: Seek Context to Comprehend Listening to Avoid Falling for Emotional Manipulation in Politics and Marketing The Power of Curious Silence: Allowing People to Challenge Their Assumption ___________________ Discover how tapping into the Anatomy of Meaning can #actualize your #business, #culture, #Leadership, and #tribe DovBaron.com ___________________ Dov Baron's brand new course has just been released on coursifyx.com/belonging Titled: "CREATING A CULTURE OF BELONGING." The course is separated into eight sections that will take you by the hand and walk you through exactly how to create a culture of belonging. Because: CREATING A CULTURE OF BELONGING MAXIMIZES PERSONAL AND CORPORATE SUCCESS. Get Ready to strap on the tanks and Dive Deep into, What it Takes to Create a Culture of Belonging in your organization! Curious to know more, coursifyx.com/belonging "Those Who Control Meaning for The Tribe, Also Control The Movement of That Tribe" #videopodcast #leadership #leadershipdevelopment #emotionsourcecode #neuroscience #emotional #meaning #emotional #logic #culture #curiosity #humanbehavior #purpose Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this two-part interview, our guest, Dan Lyons, a New York Times bestselling author, screenwriter, and journalist, delves into the power of keeping one's mouth shut in a constantly noisy world. Drawing from his latest book, STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World, Dan shares personal stories and insights about the benefits of talking less and listening more. He explains how silence can lead to better negotiations, improved relationships, and a deeper understanding of oneself and others. Throughout the conversation, Dan emphasizes the importance of curiosity and the art of active listening to others. By harnessing the power of curiosity and becoming more comfortable with silence, individuals can enhance their personal and professional relationships and lead more meaningful lives. The Power of Silence in Relationships can strengthen bonds between people. Dan shares how spending time in silence with his wife in nature improved their relationship and understanding of each other. Website https://danlyons.io Social Media https://www.linkedin.com/in/realdanlyons https://twitter.com/realdanlyons Part 1) STFU and Strengthening the Bonds of Relationship Cultivate a Hunger for Stories The Brain's Response to Silence and Curiosity Active Listening as a Gift The Art of Silence in Negotiations: How Being Silent Allows the Other Party to Reveal Their Own Solutions. Profound Lessons on Mastery of Silence from Apple's Tim Cook's Understanding Employee Needs: Effective leadership without rushing to provide solutions. From Silence to Collaboration and Integrity. Active Listening: Why Humans often struggle with silence. Discover how tapping into the Anatomy of Meaning can #actualize your #business, #culture, #Leadership, and #tribe DovBaron.com ___________________ Dov Baron's brand new course has just been released on coursifyx.com/belonging Titled: "CREATING A CULTURE OF BELONGING." The course is separated into eight sections that will take you by the hand and walk you through exactly how to create a culture of belonging. Because: CREATING A CULTURE OF BELONGING MAXIMIZES PERSONAL AND CORPORATE SUCCESS. Get Ready to strap on the tanks and Dive Deep into, What it Takes to Create a Culture of Belonging in your organization! Curious to know more, coursifyx.com/belonging "Those Who Control Meaning for The Tribe, Also Control The Movement of That Tribe" #videopodcast #leadership #leadershipdevelopment #emotionsourcecode #neuroscience #emotional #meaning #emotional #logic #culture #curiosity #humanbehavior #purpose Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What does it take to be a more effective communicator? According to Dan Lyons, it starts with knowing when to shut your mouth.As a journalist, author, and screenwriter, Lyons knows a thing or two about wielding words. But as he reveals in his book, STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World, most of us talk too much and listen too little. “A great conversation is about listening. And it probably involves you talking less,” he says.In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Lyons and host Matt Abrahams explore how to stop over-talking, emphasizing the value of active listening, asking good questions, and giving others space to speak.For a full transcript of this episode, visit our website. More Resourceshttps://www.linkedin.com/in/realdanlyons/https://www.amazon.com/STFU-Power-Keeping-Mouth-Talking-ebook/dp/B09X427GK8See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
It's again time for another Blue Dot Book Club episode! Miriam Robertson is back with Graylin and Leah to talk about their favorites reads of 2023 so far. THINGS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: This Human Season by Louise Dean Foster by Claire Keegan STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World by Dan Lyons Let the Great World Spin by Colum McCann The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday Unraveling by Peggy Orenstein SecondHand Time: The Last of the Soviets by Svetlana Alexievich Laundry Love by Patric Richardson Bear Came Along by Richard T Morris
In episode FIVE I talk with my friend Makenzie Brian who is also an owner handler, and hopeful breeder of golden retrievers, on finding good mentors, forgetting the bad people, and keeping your mouth quiet on the internet. Emma's Socials:Instagram: @everlygoldensTik Tok: @everygoldensInquiries: everlygoldens@gmail.com Makenzie's Socials: Instagram: @epicgoldgoldens
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Kelly connects with Dan Lyons, journalist and former staff writer for the famed television series “Silicon Valley” to discuss his new book, “STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World.” “Talking is like breathing. You don't think about it; you just do it.” “Our brains suck at multitasking. Trying to do it makes us dumber […]
In this episode, Adam, Grant & Jessy talk about doing repairs & upgrades and when to call an expert. Also: DIY fails, ribbed decking boards, and rented water heaters.Want to chat about this episode? Join our Discord server!Mentions:Artigiano SerioKeith DecentCLAMPmendations:Adam - Talk to Me (Movie)Jessy - Beef (TV show)Grant - STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World (Book)Thank you to our top patrons:Tripp Southern Jarrad Jenkins Scott Oram from Dad It Yourself DIY Vincent Ferrari from Digitally Creative Greg Wallwey from Platte Valley Woodworks Justin Oeffler from Bear Maked Miguel Angel Vilela from miguev_makes Joe Hrdina The Noble Wiking David Wood from DWWoodBuilds Matthew from Artigiano Serio JZ and Daniel from Just Might DIYPresto's Timber Furniture Support the showWhere to find us: Adam - @makermackey on Youtube and Instagram and at makermackey.com Grant - @thegrantalexander on Youtube and Instagram and at thegrantalexander.com Jessy - @jessyratfink on Instagram CLAMP - @clampcast on Instagram , on YouTube and at clampcast.com Want to support CLAMP? Check out our Patreon! Also, big thanks to TFTurning for the theme music.
It's time for another Blue Dot Book Club episode and this month Graylin and Leah are joined by friend of the pod, Tom Scott. Unbelievably, all three loved nonfiction this month! Stay tuned until the end for an update from the Harrison County Public Library and of course, Leah reviews the latest picture book on the trail! THINGS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Outrun by Amy Liptrot Starry Messenger by Neil Degrasse Tyson STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noise World by Dan Lyons Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver The Madness of Crowds: Gender, Race, and Identity by Douglas Murray The Book Eaters by Sunyi Dean Chew by John Layman The Anthropocene Reviewed by John Green John Green on the Offline Podcast w/ Jon Favreau Send us an email at info@bluedothc.com or come say hi on Facebook & Instagram: @bluedotharrisoncounty BECOME A MEMBER MAKE A ONE-TIME DONATION
I've been thinking a lot about when and how to help the people around you when it comes to their health and diet - and when you should just keep your mouth shut (even for family!) I share my top 5 tips on how and where to suggest people get helpful information if they really want it. Along those same lines, I was asked for a comment to Buzzfeed in response to Ariana Grande' recent statement asking people to stop commenting on her body. Bottom line: if you haven't been asked, they don't need your two cents…because you never know how comments will impact people. All this and more - stay tuned! Resources: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/fjollaarifi/ariana-grande-dont-comment-on-peoples-bodies Music by Muzaproduction from Pixabay --- The Keri Report dissects health and nutrition with a no-nonsense approach. Nutritionist, yoga teacher, and author of The Small Change Diet Keri Gans delivers her straightforward and sometimes controversial approach to what's current in the health and nutrition world. Her fun and engaging personality will leave you with a wealth of information on need-to-know hot topics for your overall well-being. To find more information and to join Keri's mailing list, visit her website: https://kerigansny.com/ Instagram/Twitter: @kerigans Facebook Page: @KeriGansNY This episode was produced by Jess Schmidt. Visit her website at https://www.jessdoespodcasting.com
Writer Dan Lyons was a compulsive overtalker who had to change his ways to save his marriage. In the new book STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World, he writes about the many excellent reasons to listen more than you speak.
Text Hawk to 66866 to become part of "Mindful Monday." Join 10's of thousands of your fellow learning leaders and receive a carefully curated email from me each Monday morning to help you start your week off right... Full show notes at www.LearningLeader.com Twitter/IG: @RyanHawk12 https://twitter.com/RyanHawk12 Dan Lyons is the New York Times bestselling author of "Disrupted," "Lab Rats," and "STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World." Dan was a writer for HBO's hit comedy, "Silicon Valley," and before that was a journalist at Newsweek, Forbes, and Fortune. The best sales reps spend 54 percent of the call listening and 46 percent talking. The worst reps talked 72 percent of the time. They made calls feel like conversations. A company called Gong uses machine learning software that analyzes sales calls to find out what works and what doesn't. Its software vacuums up millions of hours of audio data and then analyzes it to figure out how the best sales reps operate. Gong's customers use this information to train new sales reps and help underperformers improve. In 2017 Gong analyzed more than five hundred thousand calls and found that sales calls with the best close rates were ones in which reps knew how to be quiet and ask questions instead of making a sales pitch. To be precise, the most successful reps asked eleven to fourteen questions. Fewer than that, and you're not digging deep enough. More than that, the call starts to feel like an interrogation. Eavesdropping on happiness: The research showed that people who spent more time having substantive conversations were happier than those who spent more time having small talk, and weather conversations. Always Say Less Than Necessary – "When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.” -- Robert Greene Researcher, Mehl joined a team that made a third big discovery: that people who suffer from anxiety and depression use the first-person singular pronouns I, me, and my more than other people. Go OUTSIDE – Harvard biologist Edward O. Wilson, who hypothesized that our affinity for the outdoors and love of living things have been hardwired into our DNA by evolution and exist as innate parts of our psychological and physiological makeup. Wilson calls this “biophilia,” a name derived from the ancient Greek words for “life” and “love.” It's the reason people watch birds, melt at the sight of baby bunnies, travel to Yellowstone National Park to marvel at the bison, and rush to the window when a deer wanders into their yard. It's why walking through Muir Woods among giant thousand-year-old redwood trees takes your breath away. The Talkaholic Scale Test – Prior to writing the book, Dan scored a 50 (the highest possible score)… Meaning he is a talkaholic. AFTER writing the book, he scored a 40, and Dan's wife scored him at 38. Life/Career Advice: Earn attention by doing great work, not by being loud and outlandish. It's more lasting and will help you build better relationships and a great career.
We live in a chatter-filled world. People will talk your ear off when you see them in person and everyone is constantly sharing their thoughts online. But my guest would say that all this chatter may be hurting us more than we know, and it would be better to close our pieholes and sit on our typing fingers a lot more often than we do.His name is Dan Lyons, and he's the author of STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World. Today on the show, Dan unpacks how being quiet and speaking with greater intention can improve your life. We discuss why some people tend to overtalk more than others and the six types of overtalkers out there, from the blurter to the most extreme case, the talkaholic, for whom overtalking is practically an addiction. We then discuss not getting sucked into spouting off online, avoiding conversational narcissism, the argument for spending less time working on your personal brand and more time doing quality work, how silence is power, how the best way to deal with issues in a marriage may be by not talking about them, and more. Resources Related to the PodcastAoM Article: The Virtuous Life — SilenceAoM Article: The Spiritual Disciplines — SilenceAoM Article: The Quiet Man's PowerAoM Podcast #389: What It Means to Be a Quiet ProfessionalAoM Article: How to Avoid Conversational NarcissismAoM Article: Why the Secret of a Happy, Successful Marriage Is Treating It Like a Bank AccountAoM series on becoming a better listenerJonathan Haidt on how social media is causing a mental illness epidemic in teenage girls "Millions of Followers? For Book Sales, 'It's Unreliable'"International Listening Association Connect with Dan LyonsDan's website
In this episode of the Posthoc podcast, Susan interviews Dan Lyons, a New York Times best-selling author who has also written for the HBO hit series Silicon Valley, served as senior editor at Forbes, and has been published in virtually every major outlet from The Economist, NYT and Wall Street Journal to Wired, NPR, BBC and The Guardian. Dan's latest book STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in a World That Won't Stop Talking, was featured on the cover of Time Magazine in February. This salon is supported by a grant from Templeton World Charity Foundation as part of their listening and learning in a polarized world initiative. This podcast also features a very special musical performance from jazz-soul artist Koa Ho, curated by our POSTHOC artist-in-residence, Grammy-winner Grace Weber.
Dan Lyons STFU Interview Are you a gabber? Do you often find that you have to talk over people, or blurt things out when not asked for your opinion? That might mean you are a “Talkaholic.”On this episode of the Psychology Talk Podcast, Dr. Hoye sits down with bestselling author, Dan Lyons. Dan discusses his own journey from talkaholic to listener, and how it has greatly improved the quality of his relationships and his life. Dan is the author of new book STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World (Henry Holt; March 7, 2023).Dan is the best-selling author of Disrupted (2016), he is a seasoned journalist formerly with Forbes and Newsweek, a writer for HBO's acclaimed comedy series Silicon Valley, and now a repentant yakker who almost lost his marriage, almost drove his children away and absolutely got fired from an internet startup because he could not STFU. In STFU, Lyons combines leading behavioral science with actionable advice on how to communicate with intent, think critically, and open your mind and ears to the world around you, and, at the same time, STFU.Join us for a deep dive into how he shifted gears to listen more and learned to STFU.The Psychology Talk Podcast is a unique conversation about psychology around the globe. Your host Dr. Scott Hoye discusses psychology and mental health trends with practitioners and experts to keep you informed about issues and trends in the industry. Dr. Hoye is a clinical psychologist and the director of Chicago Psychology Services, in Chicago, IL., USA.https://psych-talk.comhttps://www.instagram.com/psychtalkpodcast/https://www.facebook.com/psychtalkpodcasthttps://chicagopsychservices.com
What do Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Tim Cook, Barack Obama, Richard Branson, and Larry King have in common? They are great listeners and know when to stop talking.In this episode Julienne and Jerome talk to Dan Lyons, New York Times bestselling author, screenwriter and journalist, about the power of talking less and listening more. Dan recently published ‘STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World', a book he decided to write after realizing that his work to become a better listener was much bigger than himself. This episode dives deeper into how talking and listening shape not only our private relationships, but also leadership, business, social media and society at large. Dan talks about the science of how we relate to silence and why we often decide to talk rather than listen (and sometimes regret this). Although our world often encourages talking rather than silence and celebrates great talkers, Dan argues that listening more will really make your life better. And as organizations try to reconnect and rebuild post-covid and customer feedback is becoming increasingly important, learning how to listen is also more essential than ever.Dan leaves us with a couple of great ideas on becoming better at being silent and listening and shows us that some of the most successful people, both in business and public service, are humble and quiet listeners. If you ever think ‘wow I really shouldn't have said that', or if you want to find out what is going on in your company, this episode is for you. Notes:Learn more about Dan LyonsBuy ‘STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World'This is the study that shows how ‘Likes' and ‘shares' teach people to express more outrage onlineFind out more about The Narativ Storytelling Method atnarativ.comEMAIL Jerome@narativ.comLINKEDIN https://www.linkedin.com/company/narativ-incTWITTER @narativ
My guest for this episode is New York Times bestselling author, Dan Lyons. Dan is the man behind Disrupted, Lab Rats, and the newly released STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World.
Admitted excessive-talker Dan Lyons researches a cure for his propensity for prolixity—STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World is the result. Plus, California Governor Gavin Newsome suspends all non-existent state business with Walgreens. And Tucker Carlson's January 6th Film Festival is a bust. Big shock. Produced by Joel Patterson and Corey Wara Email us at thegist@mikepesca.com To advertise on the show, visit: https://advertisecast.com/TheGist Subscribe to The Gist Subscribe: https://subscribe.mikepesca.com/ Follow Mikes Substack at: Pesca Profundities | Mike Pesca | Substack Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Dan Lyons shows why and how silence can be your greatest superpower. — YOU'LL LEARN — 1) How conversations dramatically influence overall health and happiness. 2) How to tell if you're talking too much. 3) How pauses wield enormous power. Subscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep845 for clickable versions of the links below. — ABOUT DAN — Dan Lyons is the author of Disrupted: My Adventures in the Startup Bubble, a New York Times bestselling memoir, and Lab Rats: How Silicon Valley Made Work Miserable for the Rest of Us. He was also a writer for the hit HBO comedy series Silicon Valley. As a journalist, he spent a decade covering Silicon Valley for Forbes, ran tech coverage at Newsweek, and contributed to Fortune, the New York Times, Wired, Vanity Fair, and the New Yorker. • Book: STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World • Website: DanLyons.io — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — • Book: 1984 by George Orwell • Book: Animal Farm by George Orwell • Book: The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine • Book: The Making of the Atomic Bomb by Richard Rhodes See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Men-E-Men Stüdyo tarafından hazırlanan yüz on yedinci bölüm sizlerle. Kaydımızın başında yaptığımız dede nostaljisinin ve onu takip eden bilgilendirme notları için teşekkürün hemen ardından asıl konularımıza hızlı giriş yaptık. 95. Oscar Ödülleri için adaylar açıklandı. En çok adaylığı olan film hangisi? Oyuncu adayları arasında kim öne çıkıyor? Müzik kategorilerinde durum ne? Bugüne kadar kim en çok aday gösterilmişti? Tüm bu konuları konuştuk. Ardından da “konuşmak” üzerine konuştuk. Bir yazıdan, daha doğrusu bir kitaptan yola çıktık. Dan Lyons'ın Mart ayında çıkacak kitabının adı “The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World”, Türkçeye çevirelim: “Sonsuz Gürültülü Bir Dünyada Ağzınızı Kapalı Tutmanın Gücü“. Kitapta (ve yazıda) sorulan soru şu: Çok konuşuyorsak ve bundan fayda görmüyorsak, az konuşabilir miyiz? Az konuşursak bu bize fayda sağlar mı? Biraz manidar oldu, bu konudan salt konuşma üzerine bir format olan podcast'e atladık. Daha net olmak gerekirse Power Podcast Ödülleri'ni değerlendirdik. Adaylar kim? Çekişmeli kategoriler hangileri? Bu bölümdeki dergy.com adlı internet sitesi için “Bi de Buna Bak” dedik. Müzik, sinema, etkinlik gibi alanlarda çok kapsamlı içerik bulacağınız bu sitede yayınlanan röportajımızdan kısaca bahsettik. İpek Atcan'a teşekkürlerimizle...
About this episode: Unless a person ask you for advice don't give it. Advice given is based on our own perspectives, our own skill sets, and our own life journey, which is why unsolicited advice is usually not helpful. Together, with our guest, Producer and Editor, Walker Vreeland , we navigate the art of Keeping Your Mouth Shut!
Whether or not Jesus was a political radical in the way we think of political radicals is irrelevant; the Romans believed he was a political revolutionary. And they executed him like one. And that's the danger of not keeping your mouth shut about Jesus. Start talking about protecting the poor and the powerless, and people get twitchy. Subscribe to us on iTunes! Sermon text: web | doc
There is power in silence. So, so much. But sometimes it is so, so hard to bite your tongue. Don't worry, you're favorite stoners are about to tell you all about why it is important to sometimes...well most of the time...just choose to say nothing. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/awaken-bake/support
VATC are back with a brand new episode all about how people can learn to STFU and mind their business! We get into how African/Caribbean elders often share their unsolicited opinions, the repercussions of them and more...
Learning to be an advocate for your child means leaning into how you're created. In today's episode, Sara gives some wildly practical tips for when to engage and when not to engage with others' stares, looks of judgment, or comments. She gives us the three “C's” of advocacy along with encouragement about how Jesus is our advocate.September 21, 2021; Ep. 53Timestamps & Key Topics:0:22- Intro1:07- Not One Size Fits All3:53- What Advocacy Is & Isn't6:40- Non Confrontational Advocacy11:48- Judgmental Looks16:36- What Advocacy Should Be17:08- When You Should Walk Away19:39- Practice and Patience20:51- OutroEpisode Links & Resources:Scriptures Mentioned: Proverbs 31:8, I Cor. 14:33, Matthew 12:36, Luke 6:37Sara's business cardsSara's educational “One Sheet” If you enjoyed our podcast, please...Subscribe to our newsletter on the Take Heart WebsiteGet our free resource on finding Gratitude, Peace, and HopeReview and like us on Apple Podcasts Share us with others from wherever you listen to podcastsFollow us on Instagram @takeheartspecialmomsFind Amy at www.amyjbrown.com/ or on Instagram @amyjbrown_writerFind Carrie at www.carriemholt.com or on Instagram @carriemholtFind Sara at www.saraclime.com or on Instagram @saraclime
The reward is beyond the comprehension of even the angels
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Unless a customer asks for your opinion, you may want to avoid giving it.
From Elon Musk and Grimes naming their kid Beep Boop to the Adele controversy, it was a wild week. We try to parse as much as we can, while getting tipsy on some great local brew. *Beer of the Week* Hourglass Brewing Trancendental Murk Fantasy
The importance of knowing when to keep your mouth shut (Prov. 29:11).
Episode #116 - Avengers Movie Review, Bill Cosby Sentencing, Issa Rae's Dating Advice We opened up this episode by announcing that @JoeBossRadio is having a baby girl due this September! We then jumped into the movie review of Avengers Infinity War, which left moviegoers on a cliffhanger! Briefly, we discussed the conviction of Bill Cosby, and how it has hurt the minority community. Joe Boss' didn't even want to talk about it very long as it was painful to discuss it. Also, we discussed Issa Rae's comments out her book that sparked outrage on social media. Prophet Link gave us the #WisdomOnPurpose, entitled "Wisdom On Endurance". Joe Boss gave us the #InvestInYourself, discussing "Keeping Your Mouth Shut". Lastly, we ended the show on new music recently release by Prophet Link. Playlist I Aint Done - Andy Mineo Lit City - Joey Vantes, Zauntee Hyena - Ruslan, YourWelcome On to the Next One - Milliyon No Chains - KB KB - Not Today Satan - (DJ LostNFound Mix) Deraj - Watchin - (DJ LostNFound Mix) Chris Howland - Way Up - (DJ LostNFound Mix) Canton Jones - Wont He Do It - (DJ LostNFound Mix) Trip Lee - Manalo - (DJ LostNFound Mix) Social Club Misfits - Who Else - (DJ LostNFound Mix) Angie Rose - For the Love - (DJ LostNFound Mix) S.O. - New Wave - (DJ LostNFound Mix) Wait On Your - Deraj, Haley Hunt Tomorrow - Jor'Dan Armstrong Stay Up - Beacon Light Warriors - Bizzle, K. Allico Rise - Roy Tosh, Blake Whitley, Sky In Your Face - Prophet Link
If I was a single issue voter I would be a human rights voter, and I consider education a human right. HEY PARTY PEOPLE! This week we welcome the all-around amazing, fantastic Amanda Costello – a content strategist, speaker, and tabletop gamer who loves higher-ed. One of our favorite things about Amanda is that she […]