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Homeschool Coffee Break
172: Best of LSLS: How to Help Your Children Navigate Gender Identity Issues in Today's Culture

Homeschool Coffee Break

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2026 39:49


Thirty years ago, we never imagined we'd be navigating conversations about gender identity and sexuality with our children, but here we are. In this powerful conversation, Dannah Gresh from Pure Freedom Ministries shares biblical wisdom and practical tools to help you confidently guide your kids through today's confusing culture.In this episode, you'll discover:✅Three key Bible passages every child needs to understand about their body and identity before the world tells them lies✅How to have age-appropriate conversations about gender and sexuality without robbing your children of their innocence✅The critical difference between accepting and affirming when someone you love is walking through gender confusion✅Why your child's maleness or femaleness is directly connected to reflecting God's image in the world✅Practical strategies for responding with both truth and compassion when your kids encounter gender ideology at school or onlineReady to equip yourself with biblical truth? Grab the resources Dannah mentions in this episode to start these important conversations with confidence.Get your FREE Basic Pass to Life Skills Leadership Summit 2026 to give you confidence that your kids will be ready for adult life: https://HowToHomeschoolMyChild.com/lsls26Resources Mentioned:It's Great to Be a GirlLies Girls BelieveLies Girls Believe Mom's GuideLies Young Women BelieveLies Women BelieveIt's Great to Be a BoyLies Boys BelieveLies Men BelieveDannah Gresh is the founder of True Girl, a ministry dedicated to providing tools to help moms and grandmas disciple their 7–12-year-old girls. She is the co-host of Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth's Revive Our Hearts podcast and Revive Our Hearts Weekend. She has authored over twenty-eight books, including a Bible study for adult women based on the book of Habakkuk. Dannah and her husband, Bob, have just released a new book and limited-series podcast called Happily Even After which tells their marriage redemption story. They live on a hobby farm in central Pennsylvania.Show Notes: Introduction: A Topic We Never Imagined FacingKerry: Well hey everyone, Kerry back here with Life Skills Leadership Summit. Today I'm excited—not because of the topic, because it's a really difficult topic on sexuality and gender—but Dannah Gresh, I've just gotten to know her from a distance through podcasts and Revive Our Hearts and reading one of her books as well. But I do know that she has got a lot to say on this issue. So Dannah, thank you so much for being here. I really appreciate it.Dannah: Oh, I am so honored and delighted. Thank you for having me.Kerry: So before we get started, let me just pray for us and we'll let God guide this conversation.Father in Heaven, thank you. Thank you for today. Thank you for Zoom. Thank you that we can have a conversation and we can share it with many, many people. We thank you that you are sovereign, that you're the King of Kings and Lord of Lords, and we can rest in that no matter what's going on around us. And there's a lot of mess going on around us, but we can have our hope in Jesus.We just thank you for Jesus and the bond that we have in Him through the blood that He shed for us. I thank you for Dannah being here. I pray that the things that you want said will be spoken through this conversation, that you will be glorified, and that the ones that are listening, you will just really touch their hearts and show them what types of practical steps or spending more time in the Word—whatever you want them to do—and just to be led by the Holy Spirit. We pray all these things in Jesus' powerful name, amen.Dannah: Amen.About Pure Freedom Ministries and PartnershipKerry: Okay, for those of you that don't know, Dannah has Pure Freedom Ministries and this has two parts: True Girl and Born to Be Brave. By the time y'all listen to this, you probably already heard one of my kickoffs because we do one on Sunday night before the whole week and I'll explain it.But they are our organization that we are supporting through this Summit. So we'll take the profits that we make on anyone that upgrades from free to VIP. If you upgrade to VIP, 5% of our profits will go to this organization. And then some of our speakers—you've probably heard about the ones that have chosen to—if they decide to donate 5% of their commissions, then I will match that 5% as well.So hopefully, you know, that will be just a little way that y'all can support what Dannah and her team are doing. So I just want to make sure everyone understands that before we get going.Dannah: What a blessing. Thank you so much.Dannah's Story: From Teenager to Ministry LeaderKerry: Well, let's before we start this topic, can you just tell people a little bit about yourself?Dannah: Sure. Well, I love Jesus first and foremost, and He is the best part of everything about my life. I came to know Him when I was a really little girl through Child Evangelism Fellowship five-day clubs. I just love Child Evangelism Fellowship to this day because I remember that moment when I surrendered my heart and my life to Jesus. So precious.But fast forward—at the age of 15, I was a teacher for Child Evangelism Fellowship. I was teaching Sunday school in my church to three-year-olds, and I loved the Lord like crazy. But I was in a Christian dating relationship and was blindsided by sexual temptation.I just thought that was not possible in my life because I loved the Lord so much. And it became this great shame and this great heartache of my life until I was about 26. I just really understood that even though it had been so long since I'd experienced that sin and chosen that sin, I hadn't really received the redemption and the freedom that Christ died to give me.When I did, my life changed. And I had to get out my megaphone—my proverbial megaphone—and tell teenage girls. And then as I was doing that, ministry just kind of exploded.I was praying, "Lord, let me graduate to college girls and adult women." And the Lord said, "What about my little women? What about my 10-year-olds and what about my 9-year-olds and what about my 8-year-olds?"I was like, "Lord, that's really great. Somebody needs to do children's ministry, but what about me graduating from high school girls to the older women?" And He was persistent. The Lord just kept opening doors.Before we knew it, we really are one of the largest ministries that takes biblical truth to 8 to 12-year-old girls. And now we have boys—we just added them in the last few years—through live events, box subscriptions, Bible studies, online Bible studies, at-home Bible studies with mom. We want to put mom in the driver's seat. We believe that's what God's Word says—that mom and dad belong in the driver's seat of a child's moral development.Now we fast forward to this year. We live in a time and a day and age when the government and a lot of different political entities believe that parents aren't equipped to make moral decisions about their children. Well, we still believe they are.And now I understand why the Lord has put us in this critical position. One of the things we've done really well through the years is take whatever the difficult issues of the day are—when we started, that was AIDS—and we look at it through a biblical lens.Today, that biblical lens that we look through, we're looking at the issue mostly of gender and identity. And when you think about how do we talk to an 8-year-old about that biblically without robbing them of their innocence, and also just the depression and anxiety these kids are at the tip of the spear...Teens have long been at the tip of the spear, but the enemy has moved the line backward. And now it's those 8 to 12-year-olds that really are having to grapple with things that their little hearts and minds aren't ready for. But we know how to do that in a way that's safe and biblical and most importantly keeps mom and dad in the driver's seat.The Trends We're Seeing in Gender IdentityKerry: That is so good. And I know I'm on y'all's True Girl mailing list, and so they have things and I have downloaded a few things just to find out exactly what they are. I'm giving my daughter some of y'all's books as well. I think it's the Lies Young Girls Believe, something like that. I'm not quite sure what it was.But I do have to tell you, all of a sudden I have one more connection with you because I grew up with Child Evangelism Fellowship and I became a believer at a Good News Club. I started, went to their CEF training as a teenager, and then we did the five-day clubs in Houston. So I was like, oh wow, that's so interesting. Small world.Dannah: They are a fruitful ministry. Look at us—we're passing, we're the fruit, we're passing on fruit. We're the fruit of their fruit.Kerry: My parents, they're in their 70s and 80s, and a while back they would lead Good News Clubs in the public school for like five years. They're still going on with it and all. So I love it. It does work.So okay, so we are in a just a strange time. And if you had asked us 30 years ago, we'd be going, "No way, we wouldn't be dealing with these issues." So what kind of trends are you seeing right now when it comes to gender identity and sexuality?Dannah: Well, you know, I would say heterosexual is definitely not in style. And what we see is a lot of teens claiming to be pansexual, where they're just willing to erase anything that has a baseline of truth to it and embrace everything. Basically, is what pansexuality is.A lot of teens in terms of gender are saying they're non-binary. That's just what's in style right now. And you might say, "Well, but there really is a problem. There are some kids that definitely struggle with gender dysphoria."Absolutely, that's true. Historically, we've known for decades that children—a very, very small percentage of them—are born with things like Klinefelter syndrome, fragile X syndrome. These are syndromes like Down syndrome where there are chromosomal abnormalities in that child's body.And the parents and the physicians have to work together to decide, how are we going to raise this child? Most cases, they can take a blood test and they can determine this child is clearly male or clearly female. But we have some issues that we're going to have to deal with because of these syndromes.But in most cases, they can really figure out what's happening there. And so that's the good news. But I think it's an important thing for us that we have to be compassionate because for some people that you meet on the street that you're not quite sure—are they male or female?—that's not a choice. It was something that they were born with. That's very difficult and painful. So we have to be careful.But on the other end of the spectrum, what we're seeing right now is—well, let me explain it this way. In about the year 2011, there was a shift from transgenderism being predominantly a male problem to now, it is today predominantly female. You see more teenage females transitioning than males.So the intellectually honest sociologists will say, "What happened to make that really dramatic shift happen?"And I think probably the person that's been bravest about it is a woman named Abigail Shrier. She's a journalist, not a believer as far as I know, conservative though, and yet very intellectually honest. Some parents kept writing to her and saying, "We need somebody to research this."And she brought together some of the bravest sociologists, some of the bravest intellectually honest ones. And what they found was clusters of girls transitioning. So in other words, a school district or a school or a city was seeing a lot of girls transitioning, and there were pops of this all over the United States.Now if this were a more intellectually honest occurrence, you would have seen it happening more evenly over the culture. But that's not the case. What's happening is cluster contagion. And that's what we're calling it now, which basically is peer pressure causing girls to say, "I don't feel comfortable in my body."Now let me remind you, there aren't very many of us that felt super comfortable in our body in seventh grade. But we weren't having somebody sit there next to us and telling us that might be because you're not really a girl.So I guess what we're seeing is a lot of confusion. Majority of what we're seeing is mass confusion that we need to prepare our children for and that we need to speak into truthfully. But we can't forget the compassion because there's a sliver of people struggling right now where this really is a deeply painful thing and not something that they chose.Why This Topic Is Critical Right NowKerry: That is something. So I mean, to me it seems pretty obvious, but why do you think this topic is so important right now?Dannah: Well, it's—let me say, take that from two angles. One reason it's important is because your children are being lied to, and we need to speak truth into their hearts and into their minds. We have to put so much truth into them that there's not room for the world's lies.When they see or hear a counterfeit, they immediately know, "That's not what I learned from God's Word. That's not what I learned from my parents whom I trust to be true." And they come to you and they say, "Hey, I just heard this." And you help—might not know the answers, but you help them figure out.But here's why I think it's really important, and this is why it's been important since the beginning of time. In Genesis 1:26 and 27-28, in that chapter we see God saying that He's made us in His image. And then He could have listed almost anything about us that would have made us like Him—our language proficiency, our ability to compose sonnets, our creativity, the fact that we would figure out how to defy gravity and fly to the moon. All these things about us are so God-like. Our even our emotions—animals are emotive, but not to the degree that we are.And yet God says one thing: "In the image of God He created them, male and female He created them."Our maleness and our femaleness is a distinct part of representing the image of God on this lost world. That's why it matters more than anything. And that's what our children need to know more than anything.How Parents Can Communicate God's TruthKerry: That is so good. I mean, it really is. We need to—and I love what y'all do is always going back to the Bible, you know. And this is a Christian conference. There's plenty of things out there for parents, but we want to make sure we're always going back to the Bible.So what are some things that parents could do? Like you want them to—one of the things that I know I've heard you say many times, we need to speak truth to our soul, but first we have to teach our kids what the truth is. How can parents communicate God's truth in regards to gender and sexuality and identity?Dannah: Well, I obviously encourage them to get them in the Word and some of these key passages that talk about our bodies. And I basically have three key passages that I think our kids need to study about this. I write about them in It's Great to Be a Girl. My husband and one of his co-authors writes about them in It's Great to Be a Guy. That's for kids aged 8 to 12, somewhere in that range.First one is in the book of 1 Corinthians. It says that our bodies exist to glorify God. That the purpose of our body is to glorify God. You know, we get really sidetracked and we think our bodies are for us to feel good, for us to feel pleasure, for us to look good and be this just vision of beauty or handsomeness, whatever it is.Our bodies were created to glorify God. That's why they exist—to showcase Him, to give honor to Him. That's why we dress carefully and tastefully and modestly. That's why we use language that's becoming and careful. That's why we don't get into the dark.I'm always concerned when we get into really dark-looking countenance and clothings and styles because Jesus is light and He is love and He is joy, and we want our countenance to reflect that. But my body doesn't exist for Dannah. My body exists for God.Then the second thing is the one I just mentioned earlier: Genesis 1:26 and 27, that the purpose of my body—how I glorify God—is as a female or male image-bearer. Because glorifying Him—I like to say that the moon glorifies the sun, okay? The moon doesn't have any light of its own, but it reflects the light of the sun, and that's why we have a full moon. They're so beautiful.Well, in the same way, we have to look like God. That's what glorifying Him means. And Genesis 1:26-27 says we do that best in the defined roles, the binary roles of maleness and femaleness. So they matter. They're important.And then the other verse that I think is really important is in Romans 12:1 and 2. It says, "I beg you brothers, by the mercy of God, that you present your body as a living sacrifice."So when my body, which was created to glorify God, doesn't feel like glorifying God as a female image-bearer of God, it becomes a sacrifice to God because I choose to live sacrificially according to the purpose of my body as a female image-bearer.Now I don't know that those are the only passages that your children need to get into, but those are three of the big ones that they need to memorize, dissect, be familiar with, understand. And that's going to give them more than studying all the counterfeits. That's going to give them the fuel they need for the conversations that are going to come up in their lives at one point or another.Age-Appropriate Conversations About TruthKerry: That's so good. Because we don't know what's going to happen in 20 years, you know, and what things they're going to need to know.When you think about even these three passages or talking about truth at different ages, because you've talked about 8 to 12 and then we've got teenagers, would you approach them differently or do you have any suggestions about that?Dannah: Well, with teens, of course, I'm going to be a lot more forthright. Although more and more—we just had a mom communicate with us that her child is attending a private school, not a Christian school but a private school. And just this year, the daughter came home and said, "Hey, we have Teacher X teaching at our school." And I'm not going to say the name. And it's not Mr. X or Mrs. X, it's Teacher X.And of course this mom said, "Well, do you know if Teacher X is male or female?" And she kind of said, "Well, this is what I think, but that's probably—they're trying not to look that way." So there's obviously some gender confusion there.What was really interesting is that when they have a student teacher, this parent had previously gotten a letter that said, "This is the teacher, this is what you need to know about them, I want to introduce them to you, they'll be starting on this date, they'll be ending on this date." In this case, that didn't happen.So that child is in about fifth grade. So we're not—and I've heard in my own school district of kindergarteners who are being told, "You get to pick your pronoun in my class. Maybe you weren't allowed that opportunity at home, but in my class you get to choose what you are, who you are."And so more and more we are having to have more of a conversation that we want, especially if we've chosen for our children not to be homeschooled or not to be in a space where their teaching is governed by truth. And that's not you, but it may be your friends, and it may be someone you're conversing with or having coffee with, you know, needs to know—hey, some crazy stuff is happening in some of these schools.And they don't believe it until it hits them. And then that's how this mom was. She's like, "I heard about it in California and I heard about it in this state and that state, but my state?" Yes, your state.So I think it's really important that we let them drive the questions though. So at high school we maybe are being, you know, we're talking about transgenderism, we're talking about all the different language that is used—the LGBTQ+, non-binary, binary, pansexuality.Mom, dad, you got to do some vocabulary work on this one. You've got to know the words, and that's going to help build your credibility. If you have a child who has been exposed, if you don't know a word, just say, "I'm not really sure what pansexuality is. Let's look it up and learn together, and then we're going to go to God's Word and figure out what He says about it."But when you're under, I would say 12 years old, I would just stick to God's truth. And what you're going to find, and what we have found as we have taken moms and daughters through It's Great to Be a Girl online Bible study or It's Great to Be a Guy online Bible study, is that studying it in the Bible and having mom and dad sitting there talking with you about it brings up the questions.They'll say, "I heard that so-and-so down the street has two dads," or "I heard that this friend at church has a brother who's becoming a sister." And you have the opportunity then to talk to them about that stuff.But I really like to let them drive that rather than us introducing things. And there's such a fine line there. And what I want to say is we don't—we have to be very careful about being afraid of the topic of sex because God isn't. He's not afraid of the topic, and we don't need to be afraid of it.But there are developmental phases where our children are more ready for some of these things than others. And if you can delay some of these conversations until they are developmentally ready, I think that's wise.The Importance of Reclaiming Biblical SexualityKerry: I think that's really good. And I appreciate you saying that we need to talk to them about sexuality more than just what sex is or how do we have kids, that type of thing. Because I know I heard on one of y'all's podcasts, you know, if we don't reclaim the sexuality and what's going on, the world is going to take over, which is what it's doing. And the church really does need to understand it. And if moms and dads don't, they need to do some research and stuff.Dannah: Well, and Ephesians 5:31 and 32 says, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." And then it's almost like the Apostle Paul has ADHD or something. Because it's like he changes the subject. He says, "I'm really talking about Christ and the church."And this verse probably more than any other in Scripture tells us that marriage is meant to be a picture of the love Christ has for His bride, the church. But you can see that taught from Genesis to Revelation. It's a very important picture in the body of Christ.And if we do not wake up to really protect and defend that picture, we're going to wake up one day to see the gospel completely marginalized—not just marriage, but the gospel.And I guess my question for all of us is: if sex and marriage really does represent the love of Christ, the gospel, how motivated is Satan to see that picture destroyed in our lives, in the lives of our children? We have to be vigilant. We have to be informed. And we have to be so full of grace for those moments when we mess up or our kids mess up.Navigating With Grace and CompassionKerry: Yeah. And I think you just said that—I was coughing—grace and patience. Because you're talking about having compassion for these people that are really dealing with issues. And I think sometimes the church gets so, "Oh my goodness, look at them, they have children that are homosexuals or whatever."And yet we—I mean, no, we don't tolerate—I mean there's a blend between tolerating, but we also need to show grace at times because the compassion of God is what draws people back. The kindness and stuff. Would you have anything to say about sort of where you draw the line? And not that we want to judge people, but we do want to come alongside.So we've got moms here that want to help with their kids, but then they may have people in their family or in their church or something. What are maybe some practical things that they could do to handle these situations?Dannah: Well, some practical things are teaching our kids grace. Teaching them a gracious response.Bob and I, my husband and I, discipled a young man for many years who is non-binary now. Young adult man. And we still will have lunch with him. He doesn't live locally, but when he's coming through, he still wants to visit with us and talk with us.I got a birthday text from him that said, "You're like my second mom," because we have blessed him with our love and our presence, which is genuine. It's not fake. We adore him. He is easy to talk to, intelligent. We had so many high hopes for how he would—and still do—influence people for Christ.But we do not—we accept, but we do not affirm. We accept, but we do not affirm.So he knows—one of the last big conversations we had about his journey into homosexuality and a non-binary lifestyle was very pointed where my husband said, "I believe you've been set apart, and I believe that you have different desires, and that you have to obey the Lord with Romans 12:1 and 2. You need to sacrifice your desires for the purpose of your body glorifying Christ."And it was a very pointed conversation. And we haven't talked about that since then, but he knows where we stand.So we're honest, you know. One of the things that's really a challenge right now is the question of pronouns, right? Do we use the pronouns or do we not use the pronouns?And with this individual, I avoid using pronouns because the pronouns he wants are "they" and "them." I will not do that because God's Word commands me not to lie, and it's not truthful. However, I'm not going to rub salt in a wound of all the struggles that he's walking through.So I do my best to navigate through just not using either his new name that he wants or the pronouns. He knows that's what I'm doing.I know another woman who—she did transition for nine years. She had her breasts cut off, she had hormones, she was bearded, she was talking like a guy, she lived as Jake for nine years. Her name was Laura.Her mom stayed on her knees, stayed in a prodigal prayer group. And when it came to the name—she wanted to be called Jake—her mom said, "I can't call you that, but I know it's going to offend you. Can I call you honey? I'll do that."And it was a compromise they made together. So you see, accepting but not affirming is a really important line we have to make.Because this is the question that Rosaria Butterfield asked in a recent book that she's written. I believe the title is Five Lies of Our Post-Christian Culture. But she says, "Is your church, is your home, is your family a safe place for someone to repent of their sin of homosexuality or gender—" I'm not going to call it confusion, but rebellion. Okay?Because gender confusion, I would say, is probably going back to some of those syndromes I'm talking about, right? You're going to feel some confusion when you're not quite sure how your body is showing up, right?But gender rebellion, I would say, is what my friend Laura went through. She knew she was a girl, but she wanted to stick it to her mom and stick it to God. And she did for nine years. And then the Lord got a hold of her heart.But partly, I think the Lord got a hold of her heart because her mom never accepted Jake, never accepted the lie, never used the pronouns. And yet she still loved and accepted the child.Kerry: Fine line.Dannah: So good.The Reality of Dealing With These IssuesKerry: Yeah, we've got to love. And I, for one, I mean, these aren't just teenagers. You know, I had friends whose kids have transitioned, and the parents, the mom and the dad don't even agree on the pronoun issue, you know. And that's a really hard thing.What I really like about what you just said is she communicated with her daughter and they talked about it instead of just doing this and then, you know, that child getting angry and then blocking them out of your life kind of thing. And so communication just seems to be vital as well, even if they're going down that path.Dannah: Yeah, so communication before and after is key. And it's not easy. It's hard. And there'll be tears on both sides and disagreements. But you want to walk through it in such a way that you maintain a place where they know what the truth is and they know where to come when they finally do understand what the truth is.Kerry: Yeah, I always tell—because I host a prodigal prayer group too—and the two things I'm always like, we can always love and we can always pray. You know, we cannot change them, but we can pray and we can never give up. You know, God's not giving up on us, so we shouldn't be giving up on our kids or other family.Dannah: Yeah. And you know, when it comes to praying, I find that people that I love that aren't walking with the Lord—they might be offended if I start asking them, "Who do you think Jesus is?" But they're never offended when I say, "How can I pray for you?"They might define it differently, but it keeps that door open of them knowing, "I care about your spirit. I care about your spiritual life. I care about you." They know that praying is important to me.And when I just say, "How can I pray for you?" their hearts often just flood open with things that they want prayer for.How Did We Get Here?Kerry: That's a really good point too. Okay, let's—how have we talked about all this? How do we get where we are today? Because, you know, like we said, 30 years ago we would have never thought—yeah, you know, there was homosexuality back then, but that was pretty much it. How do we get here?Dannah: Oh, I think that it's how we got here is, you know, we were an Augustinian worldview. The United States of America had this worldview that was predominantly established by Augustine, St. Augustine of Hippo. He believed that love was the highest good in humanity and that that love should be reflective of the truth of the Bible.And that really was the worldview of our culture. And that meant that there was one man and one woman marriage.And then when it really started to break down, honestly, was Freud, who felt that the highest good was sex. He thought that that was the highest need in a human body. And so the conversation started to change as Freud, who did bring us some decent diagnostic tools in terms of understanding and being more aware of our emotions and our mental health—but psychology doesn't do anything, really, if you look at the stats of recovery from psychological methods. Hardly anything outside of Jesus.I mean, single-digit recovery. In my mind, if I'm having some mental health problems, I don't want to go to a place that can give me a single-digit percentage chance of getting better.But then enter Alfred Kinsey. Alfred Kinsey came into the scene, and he was a very unwell man emotionally and mentally. And so he was really excited about the things that Freud taught and believed that he could prove that not only was his theory correct—that our highest need was sex—but that most of the sexual things that these prudish Americans thought were, quote-unquote, sinful were actually very normal behavior. Things like homosexuality and even pedophilia.And he said, "I'm going to prove that those are okay." So he did the Human Sexuality Volume 1 and Volume 2 reports. And his research was really horrific. He hired pedophiles who had been jailed for pedophilia to conduct experiments on children.And it was really child sexual abuse that was recorded in those volumes. But nobody talked about that. Nobody said who did the research and how did you get it done. At that time, it just became the playbook for the sexual revolution of the '60s.But they said, "Look, look, we do want sex. We do need sex." And then the sexual revolution—during that time, a virgin in college named Hugh Hefner read those volumes that Kinsey wrote and said—and this is a quote—"I'm going to be Kinsey's pamphleteer."And as you know, then he went on to create his pamphlet, which was Playboy, normalizing objectifying women. I'm not going to call it anything other than what it is.And so it was this—it was a lie we all wanted to believe. Not me, not you, but the culture wanted to believe because it justified their sin and their desires instead of controlling them. They could justify those sins and desires.And I think when we had about a 30-year climb to making gay marriage legal, but that was kind of a floodgate moment. You know, I feel like from the night that the White House was covered in rainbow colors until today, it's just been a floodgate of Sodom and Gomorrah-esque sin.And whereas it was this slow, steady climb for decades, now it's just a playground.Signs of Hope and BacklashDannah: Now, I am thankful that we're seeing some—I guess what I would call backlash against some of this. In Canada, this year—last year, rather—we saw the first case where a patient who underwent transgender gender reassignment surgery is suing the physician for what happened to her body.Because she said, "I came to you with a mental health problem, and when I was very mentally unwell, you told me the solution was to cut up my body." And she's suing that doctor.Tavistock, which is a gender assignment clinic in the UK, has been shut down because so many of the doctors and nurses are saying, "You only saw these patients two or three times before you let them self-diagnose that they were gender-confused and began treating them." And the doctors and nurses said, "That's not okay. We didn't adequately find out if they really did have gender dysphoria. We're just letting them self-assign."And that's still happening in the United States. But because Canada and the UK are ahead of us, I'm encouraged that we're going to start to see backlash very soon.So don't stop using the correct pronouns. Don't stop calling girls "she" and "her," and don't stop calling boys "him" and "his." Like, we are not crazy. We just feel crazy because the conversation happening in our culture is a little mad.But we are going to start to see a backlash in the next five to 10 years.Kerry: It sounds depressing, but it is encouraging.Dannah: And our hope is in Jesus, who we know can—always, just like I didn't think the education system could ever get fixed, and then COVID hit. And I was like, "Oh my goodness, look, God can do something when it looks like everything's falling apart."He can do the same thing with the gender and sexuality issues. And—excuse me—and even our hope isn't even in this world. I just have to say that. Like, more and more, as it gets crazier and crazier, it makes me hungrier for heaven and the new heaven and earth that we will know after Jesus' return.And for anybody, you know, who maybe you're listening to this and you're the one that cut up your body, you allowed that to happen—you know, when Jesus returns, the new heaven and the new earth, He's going to perfect you and receive you as He created you and fix everything that this world can't fix. And there is such hope in that.Kerry: That is so good. Thank you so much. And yes, He can. And He redeems ashes to beauty all the time. So amen.So I know y'all have some resources that I think would be helpful. Could you share a little bit about that?Resources to Help FamiliesDannah: Sure. Well, I mentioned It's Great to Be a Girl and It's Great to Be a Guy. Those are two books that we take parents and kids through an online study on, but you could do it at home. You can do it as part of a homeschool curriculum.Another book that I have is Lies Girls Believe and A Mom's Guide to Lies Girls Believe. Those go together because I think this extends beyond gender. It's a battle for truth.And the interesting thing about truth is that we know Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life." He was truth. So this whole conversation is an assault on Him.And so that book, and Lies Young Women Believe, introduced teen girls and tween girls to really studying: What is truth? What does it mean? And how do I figure out when I'm believing a lie? And what God's Word says about it, and what is true?So I would say those are really important books. We're working on Lies Young Men Believe, but we also—my friend Aaron Davis just wrote Lies Boys Believe. So good tools.We've had lots of friends tell us they've used them as homeschool curriculum. And I would love to see you explore them. They are great. They really are.Kerry: I have—well, I've done Lies Women Believe. And then I will say, too, for those of you—this probably doesn't pertain to a lot of you—but they have them in Spanish. I used to work in El Salvador and go down there once a month and work with a school down there. And we started with Lies Women Believe, but they had a teen girl Bible study, so then they did the Lies Young Women Believe.I don't know if they've done the girl, but when I was looking at your site, I was like, "Oh, they have Spanish books too." So if y'all are in another country, just know that there are resources for you there as well.Dannah: So wonderful.Closing EncouragementKerry: Well, as we close, is there anything you would like to say just in closing?Dannah: Just I think it's so important right now that we are just so deeply in love with Jesus. It's one thing to know all these things in our head, right? But until it gets here...The reason we have prodigals prodigalizing and the reason we have deconstructors deconstructing is because there was a lot here, but we didn't quite maybe get it here. And so what I'm learning is that I can't push it here in the kids I'm teaching, but I can do what I need to do to sit at the feet of Jesus and minister to Him in worship, in prayer, and opening the Word.I don't want to just know the facts of what I read in my Bible this morning. I want to know that I had an encounter with Jesus.So my prayer for you is not just that you would know the facts about all these hard conversations that we're having to have right now, but that more than anything else, you would be so in love with Jesus that your heart beats to reflect His image.And so I pray that for you, and I pray that for your children too.Kerry: Oh, thank you so much. I really appreciate it. Thanks for just taking a little time out of your day to be with us. I really appreciate it.Dannah: Oh, it was so good to be here, Kerry. Thank you. God bless you. I pray that you're so blessed by this conference.Kerry: Very good. Well, I am Kerry Beck with Life Skills Leadership Summit. We'll talk to you next time.

You Asked For It
E131 | Five Lies: How Not to Read the Bible

You Asked For It

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 24:50


Pastors Justin Alexander and Eric Williamson continue a series based on Rosaria Butterfield's book, Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age.This episode was recorded live during the Wednesday Night Bible Study at FBC Hendersonville, NC, on January 14, 2025.

Legacy-Dads Podcast
The Sin of Feminism

Legacy-Dads Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2026 42:02


In this episode, Dave and Dante tackle one of the most challenging and controversial cultural issues facing the Church today: feminism and its downstream effects on gender, family, and Christian discipleship. Drawing from the work of Rosaria Butterfield, Dr. Joe Rigney, and Scripture, the conversation examines how feminist ideology—once framed as liberation—has ultimately collapsed under its own contradictions and found an unexpected refuge inside evangelical Christianity. This is not a conversation about hating women. It is a conversation about loving truth, protecting families, and forming faithful sons and daughters in an anti-Christian age. For more about Legacy Dads, click here: Legacy Dads Website Legacy Dads Facebook Group: Legacy Dads Facebook Legacy Dads Instagram: Legacy Dads

Bible and Theology Matters
Is Homosexuality Normal? - A Former LGBTQ+ Advocate Responds

Bible and Theology Matters

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2026 14:01


Is Homosexuality Normal? In this episode of Bible and Theology Matters, host Paul Weaver sits down with Dr. Rosaria Butterfield to discuss the first lie addressed in her book Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age: “Homosexuality is Normal.” Drawing from her background as a former tenured professor of English and Women's Studies, a scholar of critical theory and queer theory, and a former LGBTQ activist, Dr. Butterfield explains why the concept of homosexual orientation as an immutable identity is a modern invention, not a timeless reality. She traces its roots to 19th-century thought, engaging figures such as Freud, Marx, Darwin, and Michel Foucault, and contrasts these ideas with a biblical anthropology grounded in Scripture. Dr. Butterfield shares her powerful testimony of conversion to Christ, explains how the shift from behavior to identity has reshaped cultural and ecclesiastical thinking, and warns Christians against adopting the moral language and ideological categories of the secular left—including terms like sexual orientation, cisgender, pronouns, and sexual minority—which ultimately undermine the gospel.This conversation also addresses:• Why homosexuality as an ontological category contradict biblical teaching• How language functions as ideology, not neutrality • The dangers of parachurch compromise and theological drift • Why repentance—not rebranding—is essential for faithfulness• How the church can love prodigals without surrendering biblical truth• Why real hope requires change through Christ, not affirmation without transformationThis episode is a must-watch for Christians seeking clarity, courage, and compassion in a confused cultural moment.

Columbus Baptist Church's Podcast

[Slide 1] 2025 in Review 1.) [Slide 2] The challenges of 2025 a. Sickness i. Many sicknesses throughout the year are even still floating around. ii. Bouts of hand foot and mouth, the flu, fevers, sore throats, ear infections, and even some pesky allergies. iii. You need to be made of sterner stuff to live in MI I suppose. b. Physical issues i. Cancer battles are ongoing for some. ii. We had a couple broken bones iii. Weakness for some of our aging members iv. Back issues v. Sinus pressure vi. Tooth infections vii. Poison Ivy viii. Surgeries ix. Procedures x. And many doctor visits. c. Tragic Accidents i. We know of folks who have been involved in tragic accidents where people were injured. ii. Sometimes these accidents have changed people's lives forever. iii. Sometimes these accidents have stretched the limits of what it means to forgive and to love one another. d. Wars and Rumors of Wars i. The Russia Ukraine conflict continues ii. And the middle east of course. e. House hunting i. Many have moved to new locations and even new states and have been searching for somewhere to call their own. ii. Some have found homes for themselves – others are still looking diligently. f. Long trials i. Several have heard the word cancer uttered in their diagnosis this year. ii. Many have come through radiation or chemo or both. iii. Some among us took in family members who need constant care. iv. Kathy LaForest and her ongoing battle with cancer. v. Eric Beuaman's ongoing battle with congestive heart failure. vi. Joe and Sandy Henig moving into an assisted living facility and to be closer to family. vii. Jean Evans, with pancreatic cancer back and being put on hospice. viii. The Wingate family in general has endured quite a lot. With aging sisters and saying goodbye to nephews. g. Deaths of family and friends. i. Pat Dunsmore – Tania's father, after a long battle with COPD, went home to be with the Lord. ii. Rick Ellis – Pat and Lyle's Nephew, after yet another cancer battle, also passed on in peace. iii. Terri – Jean Evans' late husband Carl's daughter – promoted to glory after a short battle with cancer. iv. John MacArthur – a highly respected preacher and teacher of the Word passed away this year. h. Some Elders' jobs i. Both CJ and Jerry have experienced work instability this year. ii. CJ is still looking for a job. Jerry had to say goodbye to some work relationships because he was changing jobs. i. Spiritual battles i. We have had some fairly large spiritual issues arise in the church this year. ii. We have had several disputes between neighbors and spouses. iii. We have seen the deceitfulness of sin draw away one of our members. iv. We have also seen others leave in dereliction of their membership covenant obligations. 2.) [Slide 3] The blessings of 2025 a. Weather i. Much closer to normal weather this year. ii. We didn't have 1 single hurricane make landfall in the US. Which is somewhat astounding. iii. Although we didn't have a white Christmas this year we have already had a couple snow storms and even had the snow stick around for quite a while. b. Numerical blessings i. Baby Jaspir Bogen ii. Baby Everett Wegner iii. Baby Leah McCue iv. Baby Loretta McCue is coming in a few short weeks. c. My Fellow American i. Chris Steary passed his test to become a US citizen this year. ii. Congrats to him. d. Audio Visual Upgrades i. We were able to upgrade our computer, projector, and soundboard for our worship services. ii. This was already in the works, and providentially the Lord saw to it that it became abundantly obvious that it was necessary after we experienced some significant technical difficulties during the service. iii. We even had to go old school with an overhead projector one week. e. Missionary blessings i. We had Eric and Cherie Daum with us at the beginning of this year for a couple months. 1. They have since gone back to Asia Pacific, purchased land, built a house, and have moved in. 2. They are still learning the local language and getting ready for a language check very soon. 3. Of course, Bernie and Sue are going back to help for an entire month. ii. We had the Lundquist's join us this year for two weeks including our Lord's Supper catered meal. iii. We also were able to help send Lucy to Senegal - which we heard about this morning. What an amazing ministry. iv. Jordan and Emily experienced heartache this year when Emilly was diagnosed with thyroid cancer. After two surgeries it appears they have gotten all of the cancer out. They will test again in a few months. The blessing here is that we have had the opportunity to provide a home for them to live in as they struggle through this time. Praise the Lord. f. Spiritual Blessings i. 4 new professions of faith this year 1. Carrigan Golab 2. Sabreana Porter 3. Waylon McLeod 4. Amanda Jansen ii. 4 baptisms this year iii. 3 New Members were added iv. We began a new Jr. Church format this year, breaking into 3 groups instead of just two. Overall, the teachers have done an amazing job and it seems as though the kids are learning a good deal. v. We began a study bible distribution project last year with a goal of insuring that every father in the church had a LSB John MacArthur study bible. We are happy to announce that only 4 of those bibles remain and most of you are benefitting from one of them. vi. As a church we have also had the opportunity to be a blessing to other organizations. 1. Classical Conversations has entered its 7th year in using our church for its campus. 2. Michigan Karate for Christ began using our building at the beginning of this year to train its students in Kenpo Karate 3. The 4h Club Rustic Ramblers began using our building this year for its meetings as well. 4. We also had two non-member weddings. 5. These have all given us opportunities to be a light to our community. g. We as a church have received the blessing of teaching – LOTS of teaching praise the Lord! i. Basics class continued this year 1. First with the financial peace university, moderated by the Stearys. 2. Then with the Basics for the Christian life study led by both Nick Galante and myself. ii. Thursday Night Prayer Group 1. We meet at 6pm via the TEAMS app. 2. Most nights we pray over our congregation and our many needs and then discuss the sermon from the previous Sunday. iii. Youth Community. 1. We have been plodding along with Youth Community this year. 2. The families who attend find great benefit to the concentrated doses of spiritual truths our children are memorizing in the Baptist Catechism and comradery around other parents struggling to teach key doctrinal truths to their kids. iv. Foundations 1. We actually made quite a good deal of progress this past year in foundations. 2. We took what was originally a 4 year goal to study the entire bible and have crammed that into a 10 year (and counting) chronological study of the scriptures. 3. We have made it to King Josiah. 4. Still this year we have finished Isaiah, began Jeremiah, almost completed 2 Kings and 2 Chronicles and will finish up Nahum in the next few weeks. v. Preaching 1. We finally finished the book of Acts this year. 2. It only took us 2 and a half years and 100 sermons – but we made it. 3. We began our study of 1 and 2 Thessalonians, of which we've made it to almost chapter 3. 4. I also preached a Puritan sermon for Thanksgiving from Thomas Manton. vi. BSF 1. Although not affiliated with our church directly, Bible Study Fellowship has a long history of being a great way for people to gather and study the bible together. 2. Many of our church members are either leading or participating in BSF this year in their study of Ezekiel, Daniel, Ezra, and Esther. vii. There were several more bible studies and gatherings – most of which are a couple or few people who gather regularly to study the scriptures. h. Church finances held i. Even though we had a slight decrease in giving – we still met budget by spending less than we brought in. ii. This is in addition to doing some minor repairs to the parking lot and replacing much of our audio-visual equipment. i. Elders have been challenged this year i. I put this in the blessing category because it is indeed a blessing to see the Lord work through the plurality of qualified leaders He has given you for this church. ii. We have wrestled with questions this year, that we did not expect. iii. We have been baffled, confused, grieved, overjoyed, and frustrated. iv. We have wept together, tears of grief and tears of joy. v. We have laughed together. vi. We have even begun laying plans for developing future Elders. vii. Although no one ever said being an Elder would be easy – this year it was abundantly clear. viii. Pray for your Elders. I would guess that about 75% of our job is held in confidence and is never presented in any way to any of you. ix. Give your Elders the benefit of the doubt too. Should they say or do something that seems egregious… it probably has another explanation. If someone comes to you suggesting that the Elders are doing something crazy – perhaps you should either dismiss what they said or call an Elder up and get it straight from them. x. This year especially – let me remind you – we have labored for your souls. xi. Even if it seems like we don't get much done… know that you only see about 25% of what is happening around here. xii. Remember… we could always go slower.

The Narrative
2025 Unfiltered: The Stories Everyone Will Remember

The Narrative

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2025 48:25


As 2025 comes to a close, Aaron, David, and Mike look back on a year that set cultural change in motion and reveal where the ground is shifting. From the shocking assassination of Charlie Kirk and the unexpected national hunger for the Gospel that followed, to a major media outlet naming CCV one of Ohio's most influential political forces, this episode explores what these stories really mean. The guys also unpack the growing backlash to gambling expansion, the integrity crisis in professional sports, historic wins for school choice, and why some cultural losses may be setting the stage for long-term renewal. It’s part year-in-review, part unfiltered conversation, and part reminder that when faith refuses to stay private, the world takes notice. If you want to understand where the culture is heading in 2026, don't miss this conversation. Listen to Aaron, David, and Mike on The Narrative. Want to Go Deeper? Early-bird ticket sales are available for the 2026 Essential Summit! On Friday, October 23, business owners, ministry leaders, educators, and families will gather to be equipped to have a faithful influence in a rapidly shifting culture. Use code FIRSTINLINE at checkout on EssentialSummit.org by December 31 to lock in $50 off—our lowest ticket price of the year. After December, prices go up and won’t return. Register today and secure your spot for the third annual Essential Summit featuring The Narrative hosts, Dr. Rosaria Butterfield, Frank Turek, and dozens more. We’ll see you on October 23!

Decision Point Podcast
055 - What Just Happened in Belfast

Decision Point Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2025 56:49


Mark is joined by Pastor Jamie Bambrick and Dr. Rosaria Butterfield to discuss the Set Free event that just took place in Belfast, Northern Ireland, and the broader state of the Church in the West. __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __ __   

The Narrative
Feminism, Gender, and the Church with Rosaria Butterfield

The Narrative

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2025 70:53


This week on The Narrative, Aaron and Mike break down two major stories making headlines: the latest developments in the case of the Toledo doctor who forced abortion pills on his girlfriend, and the new peer-reviewed HHS report that uncovers the truth about pediatric gender dysphoria. After the news, tune in for the powerful and uncompromising message from author and speaker Rosaria Butterfield, recorded live at CCV’s 2025 Essential Summit. Known for her sharp clarity and bold testimony, Rosaria shares her journey from a tenured queer-theory professor and LGBTQ activist to a follower of Christ, and how the Gospel reshaped everything she believed about womanhood, identity, and truth. With striking honesty, Rosaria opens up about the personal cost of her conversion, the pastors who discipled her with patience and Scripture, and why she believes today’s cultural pressures are discipling young women far more aggressively than the Church. She unpacks the roots of modern feminism and gender ideology, their impact on Gen Z, and why she says the Church must recover courage, conviction, and biblical clarity in this moment. If you want a message that challenges, sharpens, and calls believers to contend for the faith with strength and love, you won’t want to miss this episode. More About Rosaria Butterfield Dr. Rosaria Butterfield is a former tenured professor of English and women’s studies at Syracuse University, who came to Christ in what she describes as a “train wreck” conversion. Her journey is chronicled in her memoir, The Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert. Once an outspoken advocate for feminist philosophy and LGBTQ+ politics, Rosaria was drawn to faith through the hospitality of a local pastor and his wife. After years of conversation and Scripture study, she gave her life to Christ in 1999. Today, Rosaria is married to a Reformed Presbyterian pastor. She is also a mother and grandmother, as well as a speaker and author. Want to See Rosaria Butterfield Live? Dr. Rosaria Butterfield will return to CCV's Essential Summit in 2026! Join Rosaria, along with nationally renowned apologist Frank Turek, for an event that is sure to challenge and equip you to speak out boldly in defense of God's truth. From now until December 31, you can lock in the lowest ticket price available by using the code FIRSTINLINE at checkout. Don’t wait, this is your chance to guarantee the best rate. Register today, and we'll see you on October 23 for the third annual Essential Summit! Learn More about the Minnery Fellowship The Minnery Fellowship provides ongoing educational opportunities for pastors and church leaders to dive into the practical issues facing Christians in culture and develop, with a cohort of their peers, biblical strategies and messages to respond. Get the details and sign up at MinneryFellowship.org.

You Asked For It
E128 | Five Lies: Feminism and the Bible

You Asked For It

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2025 28:24


Pastors Justin Alexander and Eric Williamson continue a series based on Rosaria Butterfield's book, Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age.This episode was recorded live during the Wednesday Night Bible Study at FBC Hendersonville, NC, on December 3, 2025.

The Crossway Podcast
Unpacking “Love Is Love” (Rosaria Butterfield)

The Crossway Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2025 14:43


Today, we are pleased to share an audio essay written and read by Rosaria Butterfield entitled "Unpacking 'Love Is Love'." Rosaria Butterfield is an author, pastor's wife, homeschool mom, and former professor of English and women's studies at Syracuse University. She is the author of 'Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age' from Crossway. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Read the essay here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete this survey for a free audiobook by Kevin DeYoung!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to leave us a review, which helps us spread the word about the show!

You Asked For It
E127 | Five Lies: The Bible Knows Me but Do I Know the Bible

You Asked For It

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2025 24:27


Pastors Justin Alexander and Eric Williamson continue a series based on Rosaria Butterfield's book, Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age.This episode was recorded live during the Wednesday Night Bible Study at FBC Hendersonville, NC, on November 5, 2025.

You Asked For It
E126 | Five Lies: The Limits of “Spiritual but Not Religious”

You Asked For It

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2025 27:14


Pastors Justin Alexander and Eric Williamson continue a series based on Rosaria Butterfield's book, Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age.This episode was recorded live during the Wednesday Night Bible Study at FBC Hendersonville, NC, on October 22, 2025.

You Asked For It
E125 | Five Lies: Why Is Homosexuality a Sin When It Feels Normal to Some People?

You Asked For It

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2025 22:40


Pastors Justin Alexander and Eric Williamson continue a series based on Rosaria Butterfield's book, Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age.This episode was recorded live during the Wednesday Night Bible Study at FBC Hendersonville, NC, on October 15, 2025.

You Asked For It
E124 | Five Lies: Is My Identity in Christ or the Culture?

You Asked For It

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2025 28:42


Pastors Justin Alexander and Eric Williamson continue a series based on Rosaria Butterfield's book, Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age.This episode was recorded live during the Wednesday Night Bible Study at FBC Hendersonville, NC, on October 8, 2025.

The Because Fiction Podcast
Episode 475: A Chat with D. T. Powell

The Because Fiction Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2025 35:40


There aren't enough authors willing to tackle the difficult stories. There just aren't.  Many (guilty here!) feel inadequate to the task, want to escape the tough stuff rather than confront it--so many reasons. Listen in as I chat with D. T. Powell about what made her write, With Mercy's Eyes. note: links may be affiliate links that provide me with a small commission at no extra expense to you.  Loved chatting with Powell about her heart for those who often find it hard to interact with Christians--whose choices make others uncomfortable.  Powell shows love and compassion without ignoring Biblical truth, and the result is a powerful story we could all learn from. With Mercy's Eyes by D. T. Powell He turned his back on God a long time ago. But God never forgot him. Six months after struggling actor Lane Harris lost his husband in a tragic accident, he lands a movie role guaranteed to put him on the Hollywood map. But one producer holds the power to shut down his shot at stardom—and she's a Christian. If she finds out he's gay, it's over. Lane is careful not to say too much around her. When an alcohol-fueled tryst with his co-star ends in humiliation, and his landlord hands him an eviction notice, Lane looks for someone to talk to. He finds a confidant in the Christian producer. After a night of too little sleep and not enough coffee, he lets slip his sexual orientation. Instead of a verbal flogging, the woman recounts recently losing her own husband. The only Christians Lane knows condemn him upon learning he's gay. But this one is different. She doesn't embrace his sexuality, but instead of treating him with disdain, she offers compassion. Christians are supposed to hate people like him. So, why doesn't she? - - - - - - - With Mercy's Eyes by D. T. Powell is an issue-facing, contemporary novel for adult churched Christians. It addresses homosexuality and same-sex attraction from a Biblical perspective without falling into the trap of the extreme responses we too often see from modern churches. It holds similar views to Jackie Hill Perry, Becket Cook, Rosaria Butterfield, and Christopher Yuan. Learn more about on WEBSITE and follow on GoodReads and BookBub.   withmercyseyes.com Like to listen on the go? You can find Because Fiction Podcast at: Apple Castbox Google Play Libsyn RSS Spotify Amazon and more!

Speaking 4 Him
#677: Speaking The Truth in Love Part 2 [Podcast] - Audio

Speaking 4 Him

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2025 44:45


Today on the show, I continue my series on speaking the truth in love. We hear from Rosaria Butterfield about how the Word of God convicted her, and I discuss the importance of being both bold and gentle when sharing the truth of the Gospel. Additionally, I address a crucial element often missing in our presentation of the gospel: repentance. Listen in and then ask God how He would like you to engage with those around you about the importance of embracing the truth.

Priscilla Talk - A podcast by 9Marks
Christianity and the LGBTQ movement with Rosaria Butterfield (Ep. 59)

Priscilla Talk - A podcast by 9Marks

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2025 63:07


Erin, Jenny and Keri talk with Rosaria Butterfield about her story and her ministry.

Cedarville University Chapel Message
How LGBTQ+ Became the Reigning Idol of Our Day

Cedarville University Chapel Message

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2025 48:38


Today's speaker is author and speaker Dr. Rosaria Butterfield. Dr. Butterfield gives a challenging message from Genesis 1:26-28, Romans 1:21-29, and James 1:13-16. She discusses the created order for men and women made in the image of God, reveals the problem of indwelling sin in our lives, and gives guidance as to how we must kill sin.

Wisdom for the Heart
The Surprising Conversion of a Supreme Court Justice

Wisdom for the Heart

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2025 41:59


Nicodemus was the last person you'd expect to follow Jesus. A leader of Israel, a teacher of the scriptures, a Supreme Court Justice—yet he needed to be born again. Three years after meeting Jesus at night, Nicodemus stepped into the light, ready to honor the Messiah. In this episode of Wisdom for the Heart, Stephen Davey unpacks Nicodemus' journey from religion to redemption. He wasn't the first surprising convert, and he won't be the last. From John Newton to Rosaria Butterfield, people continue to find that Jesus changes everything. Maybe you're wrestling with faith. What's stopping you from trusting in Jesus? Stephen Davey's newest book, The Disciples Prayer, is available now. https://www.wisdomonline.org/store/view/the-disciples-prayer-hardback

Wisdom for the Heart on Oneplace.com
The Surprising Conversion of a Supreme Court Justice

Wisdom for the Heart on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2025 41:59


Nicodemus was the last person you'd expect to follow Jesus. A leader of Israel, a teacher of the scriptures, a Supreme Court Justice—yet he needed to be born again. Three years after meeting Jesus at night, Nicodemus stepped into the light, ready to honor the Messiah. In this episode of Wisdom for the Heart, Stephen Davey unpacks Nicodemus' journey from religion to redemption. He wasn't the first surprising convert, and he won't be the last. From John Newton to Rosaria Butterfield, people continue to find that Jesus changes everything. Maybe you're wrestling with faith. What's stopping you from trusting in Jesus? Stephen Davey's newest book, The Disciples Prayer, is available now. https://www.wisdomonline.org/store/view/the-disciples-prayer-hardback

Cedarville University Chapel Message
The 5 Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age

Cedarville University Chapel Message

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2025 51:06


Today's speaker is author and speaker Dr. Rosaria Butterfield. Dr. Butterfield shares that the only answer to the problem of lies our culture tells is the truth of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and that repentance is vital to breaking the chains of sin in our lives.

You Asked For It
E121 | Five Lies: Dissecting Intersectionality

You Asked For It

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2025 20:44


Pastors Justin Alexander and Eric Williamson continue a series based on Rosaria Butterfield's book, Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age.This episode was recorded live during the Wednesday Night Bible Study at FBC Hendersonville, NC, on September 3, 2025.

You Asked For It
E120 | Five Lies: Discussions in Disagreement

You Asked For It

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2025 22:14


Pastors Justin Alexander and Eric Williamson continue a new series based on Rosaria Butterfield's book, Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age.This episode was recorded live during the Wednesday Night Bible Study at FBC Hendersonville, NC, on August 20, 2025.

You Asked For It
E119 | Five Lies: The Bible Knows Me Better

You Asked For It

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2025 21:54


Pastors Justin Alexander and Eric Williamson continue a new series based on Rosaria Butterfield's book, Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age. This episode was recorded live during the Wednesday Night Bible Study at FBC Hendersonville, NC, on August 13, 2025.

You Asked For It
E118 | Five Things About Five Lies: An introduction to Rosaria Butterfield

You Asked For It

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2025 25:42


Pastors Justin Alexander and Eric Williamson kick off a new series based on Rosaria Butterfield's book, Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age.In this first episode, they discuss why Butterfield wrote the book, what it's about, why our church is teaching through it, and the heart behind our prayer for the series.This episode was recorded live during the Wednesday Night Bible Study at FBC Hendersonville, NC, on August 6, 2025.

Speaking 4 Him
#670: Speaking The Truth in Love Part 1 [Podcast] - Audio

Speaking 4 Him

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2025 43:19


Today on the show, I am starting a new series titled "Speaking the Truth in Love." This series is inspired by a set of short videos featuring Jim Daly, the president of Focus on the Family, and Dr. Rosaria Butterfield. In this series, I will explore what it means to stand firm on the truth of God's Word while also embodying grace, mercy, and compassion. I encourage you to listen and then strive to be the hands and feet of Jesus in your own community!

Revive Our Hearts Weekend
The Beautiful Process of Repentance

Revive Our Hearts Weekend

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2025


Repentance isn't a popular subject, but it's a beautiful one. It's a process of conviction, godly sorrow, and life transformation. Mary Kassian, Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth, and Rosaria Butterfield share more.

Standing For Freedom Podcast
Is Same-Sex Attraction (without action) Sinful? Rosaria Butterfield Explains. 

Standing For Freedom Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2025 55:20


Rosaria Butterfield is a former lesbian, feminist activist who met Jesus Christ and experienced a radical conversion to Christianity. She is now a bold advocate for Biblical truth concerning LGBT ideology and serves as a resource for those struggling with same-sex attraction. In this episode, Rosaria explains that the Gospel of Jesus Christ brings freedom from sin and makes us new. She encourages those struggling to find their identity in their Savior, not their sin. Is same-sex attraction sinful? Is Side B theology correct? Is it right to identify as a "gay Christian?" Watch to find out! 

Clearly Speaking Network
The TC Cook Show - Rosaria Butterfield

Clearly Speaking Network

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2025 36:00


On this episode, TC Cook invites the remarkable Rosaria Butterfield for a candid and compelling conversation rooted in transformation, faith, and grace.Rosaria's story is as uncommon as it is powerful. She earned her Ph.D. in English Literature from Ohio State University and became a tenured professor of English and Women's Studies at Syracuse University, where her academic focus centered on critical and queer theory. A feminist and lesbian activist in her late twenties and early thirties, Rosaria advocated for LGBTQ+ equality—even co-authoring her university's same-sex partnership policy.Everything changed in 1999. What began as critical engagement with Christian thinkers and organizations, including Promise Keepers, led her into a redemptive friendship with a pastor and his wife. Two years later, after reading the Bible intensively, Rosaria experienced what she calls a “train‑wreck” conversion—leaving academia, her identity, and everything she knew behind.Today, she's a homeowner in North Carolina, married to Reformed Presbyterian pastor Kent Butterfield, and mothering her children through homeschooling. She's also a prolific author and speaker, known for her incisive theological insight and emphasis on Christian hospitality.Rosaria's BooksThe Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert (2012) – Her riveting memoir of redemptiondesiringgod.org+8en.wikipedia.org+8haventoday.org+8desiringgod.org+14rosariabutterfield.com+14en.wikipedia.org+14Openness Unhindered (2015) – An exploration of faith, identity, and scripture in a post-Obergefell worldrosariabutterfield.com+7rosariabutterfield.com+7thegospelcoalition.org+7The Gospel Comes with a House Key (2018) – Advocates for “radically ordinary” hospitality as missionthegospelcoalition.org+4en.wikipedia.org+4christreformed.org+4Five Lies of Our Anti‑Christian Age (2023) – A timely critique of secular culture's false narrativeschristreformed.org+3en.wikipedia.org+3rosariabutterfield.com+3In this heartfelt conversation, TC and Rosaria dive into:The gut-wrenching costs and blessings of her conversionWhy “house key hospitality” matters in reaching today's worldHer reflections on repentance, identity, and the culture of belongingWisdom for churches engaging LGBTQ+ neighbors without compromising the gospel

Refining Rhetoric with Robert Bortins
Gospel Truth vs. Cultural Idols: Rosaria Butterfield Responds to Pride Month

Refining Rhetoric with Robert Bortins

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2025 51:11


Why has Pride Month become less about tolerance and more about forced celebration—and what can faithful churches do about it? In this episode of Refining Rhetoric, Dr. Rosaria Butterfield—former lesbian activist turned pastor's wife—explains how LGBTQ ideology became a cultural idol and why the evangelical church's "winsome" approach has failed. She offers biblical guidance for churches and parents on how to faithfully respond during Pride Month by boldly proclaiming gospel truth rather than negotiating with idols. Key Discussion Points: -              How the gay rights movement evolved from privatization to mandatory celebration -              Why LGBTQ ideology functions as an idol demanding worship and child sacrifice -              The evangelical church's failed strategy of compromise over truth -              Practical advice for parents of prodigals struggling with sexual sin -              What churches should do during Pride Month instead of staying silent -              Why Gen Z is hungry for bold truth over therapeutic excuses Resources: https://rosariabutterfield.com/ "The Lust of the Flesh: Thinking Biblically About Sexual Orientation" by Jared Moore "The Enemy Within" by Chris Lundgaard John Owen's works on indwelling sin "From Transgender to Transformed" by Laura Perry Smalts Decision Point (decisionpoint.org)   This episode of Refining Rhetoric is sponsored by Copper Lodge Library 2025 New Releases  Explore the exciting new 2025 additions to the Classical Conversations Bookstore! From engaging philosophy studies with Reasoning Together to timeless classics in the Copper Lodge Library and innovative math resources like the four new domains of The Math Map and two unique math flashcard sets, these tools are designed to support classical, Christian education at every level. Visit classicalconversations.com/whatsnew/ to see all the new releases and take advantage of savings of up to $30 off in April.

The Rebellion
Ep732 Should Christians Call People Gay?

The Rebellion

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2025 24:10


The sin of pride is definitely an issue to be discussed in the month of June, but beyond that we take time to look at the biblical concept of personhood and identity. Dr. Piper discusses why we as Christians should not call someone "gay". We include a brief clip of Dr. Rosaria Butterfield on this issue which she shared with Jared on his podcast The Right Stuff. Linked below is their full discussion. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f43l_lOw_T0

Reformation & Revival
Addressing LGBTQ Lies / Rosaria Butterfield

Reformation & Revival

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2025 43:38


Author Rosaria Butterfield joins Jared to discuss the way in which churches have passively enabled identity politics to destroy hierarchy, plus how we can stand faithfully against a culture that has traded truth for lies. See Rosaria's book, The Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age, here: https://www.crossway.org/books/five-lies-of-our-anti-christian-age-hcj/

The WorldView in 5 Minutes
Indonesian boy killed for his Christian faith, Abortion Kill Pill creator died at 98, Polish voters elect conservative president

The WorldView in 5 Minutes

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2025


It's Tuesday, June 3rd, A.D. 2025. This is The Worldview in 5 Minutes heard on 140 radio stations and at www.TheWorldview.com.  I'm Adam McManus. (Adam@TheWorldview.com) By Kevin Swanson Indonesian boy killed for his Christian faith An 8-year-old Indonesian boy in the Seberida district was killed for his faith in Jesus on May 19th, reports International Christian Concern.   Indonesia is an 87% Muslim country. The boy, publicly named as K.B., was beaten to death by five older Muslim boys.  Pastor Piet, of the GPDI Solagracia church where the family worshipped, remembers him as a child who was “diligent in Sunday school, often participating in Bible quizzes, and often winning.” His father said, “He was my first child. My second child is a girl. He was a good and strong child. He dreamed of becoming a soldier. I used to want to become a soldier, but I didn't. That's why I wanted him to become a soldier.” Psalm 116:15 says, “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.” Polish voters elect conservative president After a national election over the weekend, Poland will join a growing group of Western nations moving to the right of center -- more nationalistic, more supportive of traditional values, and more opposed to the internationalism of the day. A former boxer and historian, Mr. Karol Nawrocki, won the presidential election by a close vote of 50.9% to 49.1%. Nawrocki had been endorsed by President Donald Trump. Nawrocki quoted 2 Chronicles 7:14, stating that God would “heal the land” if they would “turn away from wicked ways, reports the Associated Press.”  The conservative edge in Poland has stood firm against pro-abortion policies and pro-European Union trends over the last five years. That will appear to continue with the Nawrocki administration. Poland will join the United States, Argentina, Hungary, and Italy, as nations that have moved in a conservative direction over the last few election cycles. GOP Senate fiscal hawks balking at price tag of Trump's Bill President Donald Trump's Big Beautiful Federal Spending Bill is heading to the U.S. Senate. But several Republican senators are balking at the price tag, including Senators Rand Paul of Kentucky and Josh Hawley of Missouri, reports Liberty Counsel Action. GOP Senator Ron Johnson of Wisconsin is proposing that at least $838 billion be cut from federal spending to reduce government expenditures from 23.3% to 20.6% of the gross national income. This would reduce government to the relative size of the economy in 2019 before the COVID crisis.  In other words, Senator Johnson is simply requesting that government be reduced to pre-pandemic levels.   Presently, the Congressional Budget Office is estimating that President Trump's Big Beautifull Bill will add another $22 trillion to the $37 trillion of federal debt — putting the U.S. debt at 134% of the Gross Domestic Product by 2035. Japan and United States have weak bond auctions The leading Keynesian governments in the world are having a hard time getting people to fund their debt. Japan's bond auction yielded the weakest demand since the 2010 recession. The U.S. bond auction last week was extremely weak, resulting in 30-year bond interest to bump up to 5.15% — the highest rate since 2007. Ukrainian drone attack took out one-third Russian's long-range bombers Ukraine dispatched a drone attack deep into Russia, hitting some key military sites over the weekend. The bombings have reportedly taken out more than one-third of Russia's long range bombers, crippling Russia's nuclear capabilities. Homosexual pride marches have lost up to 50% of sponsorship The licentious elements of society are celebrating their pride month in June.  Slate.com reports a reduction in corporate sponsorships of the homosexual/transgender pride marches in the U.S.  Some have lost 40-50% of the corporate monies they have received in previous years. Plus, companies like Comcast, Anheuser-Busch, and Smirnoff have dropped Pride sponsorships altogether. The firm Booz Allen Hamilton pulled sponsorships, referring to the president's executive orders -- one of which prohibits the U.S. government from contracting with companies that promote diversity, equity, and inclusion. The World Pride event is taking place in Washington D.C. this year, the first time in the United States since the New York City event in 2019.  The larger sponsors of homosexual/transgender Pride events like World Pride include Hilton, Delta Airlines, Amazon, IKEA, Verizon, Corona, Fresca, and Starbucks. Southwest Airlines, United Airlines, and Kroger are also supporting homosexual events this year. 1 John 2:16 and 17 speaks of lust and pride. It says, “All that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.” Focus on the Family targeted for affirming God's design for sexuality Focus on the Family is being targeted by the Southern Poverty Law Center for its opposition to homosexual behavior and gender transition for youths. The leftist group was particularly outraged with Jim Daly's more recent interviews of Rosaria Butterfield, and an interview of Walt Heyer and Kathy Grace Duncan. These were Christians who have repented of sins of homosexual behavior and transgenderism.   The Southern Poverty Law Center has been notorious for conflating Christian groups with Neo-Nazi and racist groups in the United States, and promoting persecution of Christians. Other ministries on their list include Family Research Council, Liberty Council, Coral Ridge Ministries, Alliance Defending Freedom, and Generations. Abortion Kill Pill creator died at 98 A French scientist, responsible for the deaths of 50 million babies, himself died last week at 98 years of age. Étienne-Émile Baulieu was instrumental in the development of the abortion kill pill, RU-486, in 1980.  About half of abortions in developed nations have been conducted by the abortion pill since the 2010s.  Today, chemical abortion accounts for 63% of all abortions in America. The BBC reports that French President Emmanuel Macron, called Dr Baulieu "a beacon of courage" and "a progressive mind who enabled women to win their freedom." 6 Worldview donors gave $730 And finally, toward this week's $30,875 goal to fund The Worldview newcast by this Friday, June 6th, six listeners stepped up to the plate. Our thanks to Daniel in San Luis Potosí, Mexico who gave $5, Kimberly in  Sacramento, California who gave $25, and Deborah in  Cosmopolis, Washington who gave $50. We're also grateful to God for Keith and Marsha in Morgan, Colorado who gave $100, Genita in Bardstown, Kentucky who gave $250, and Frances in Beacon, New York who pledged $25/month for 12 months for a gift of $300. Ready for our total? Drum roll please.  (Drum roll sound effect) $730 (People clapping sound effect)  That means by this Friday, we need to raise $30,145.  I received an intriguing text from a friend in Michigan. She suggested that I ask if someone would prayerfully consider underwriting half of our entire budget.  That would be $61,750.  Or perhaps you could cover the $30,145 that we need to raise this week. But, alas if those big dollar amounts are not remotely possible, every $25 and $50 donation gets us incrementally closer to being fully funded. Just go to TheWorldview.com and click on Give on the top right.   I would love to see 20 people make donations on this, our second day.   Consider making a monthly pledge by clicking on the recurring donation tab. Let's see what the Lord will do as The Worldview in 5 Minutes proclaims the truth in a world of pagan-biased news. Close And that's The Worldview on this Tuesday, June 3rd, in the year of our Lord 2025. Subscribe for free by Spotify, Amazon Music or by iTunes or email to our unique Christian newscast at www.TheWorldview.com. Or get the Generations app through Google Play or The App Store. I'm Adam McManus (Adam@TheWorldview.com). Seize the day for Jesus Christ.

ReFOCUS with Jim Daly
Mark Matlock: Making Meaningful Connections with the Spiritually Curious

ReFOCUS with Jim Daly

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 61:27


Mark Matlock, respected researcher and author, offers insights into creating a church culture that is accessible to people who are curious and seeking spiritual discovery. Learn to help others make meaningful connections to Jesus and bridge the gap between traditional Christianity and the modern spiritual climate. Buy your copy of Jim Daly’s book, ReFOCUS! He shares how believers can engage others in the culture with the love of Christ and reveal the heart of God. Watch our video series with Rosaria Butterfield about the art of speaking the truth with love and conviction. Support this Show! Send your feedback or questions to Jim in the Contact Form. Send Jim a voicemail! Click here.

Point of View Radio Talk Show
Point of View May 26, 2025 – Hour 1 : Five Lies of our Anti-Christian Age

Point of View Radio Talk Show

Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 44:40


Monday, May 26, 2025 Kerby Anderson hosts today's show. His first guest is Rosaria Butterfield. Dr. Butterfield will discuss theology, apologetics, and social issues as she brings us her new book, Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age. Connect with us on Facebook at facebook.com/pointofviewradio and on Twitter @PointofViewRTS with your opinions or comments. Looking for just […]

ReFOCUS with Jim Daly
Justin Brierly: Key Reasons I Believe in Jesus

ReFOCUS with Jim Daly

Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 68:51


Popular UK writer and broadcaster Justin Brierly is convinced we are witnessing a growing wave of faith, replacing secularism. A number of his friends have come to Christ in recent years after resonating with the Christian faith. Justin asks the question, are Christians ready for this new wave? Get Justin's' book, Why I'm Still a Christian, for a gift of any amount. Listen to Justin Brierly’s podcast. Listen to John Lennox's ReFOCUS episode. Listen to to Rosaria Butterfield's ReFOCUS episode. Support this Show! Send your feedback or questions to Jim in the Contact Form. Send Jim a voicemail! Click here.

Eschatology Matters
Rosaria Butterfield: Submissive Wives, Toxic Empathy, Titus 2 and Smashing Idols

Eschatology Matters

Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 32:03


Danielle Wood (wife of Eschatology Matters producer) and Rosaria Butterfield, author of books such as "The Gospel Comes with a House Key" and "Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age" discuss Titus 2, generational discipleship, hospitality, use of social media, the idols of our age and more.Watch all of our videos and subscribe to our channel for the latest content >HereHere

FLF, LLC
Rosaria Butterfield: Submissive Wives, Toxic Empathy, Titus 2 and Smashing Idols [Let's Talk Eschatology]

FLF, LLC

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 32:02


Danielle Wood (wife of Eschatology Matters producer) and Rosaria Butterfield, author of books such as "The Gospel Comes With A House Key" and "Five Lies Of Our Anti-Christian Age", discuss Titus 2, generational discipleship, hospitality,use of social media, the idols of our age and more,,,

Fight Laugh Feast USA
Rosaria Butterfield: Submissive Wives, Toxic Empathy, Titus 2 and Smashing Idols [Let's Talk Eschatology]

Fight Laugh Feast USA

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 32:02


Danielle Wood (wife of Eschatology Matters producer) and Rosaria Butterfield, author of books such as "The Gospel Comes With A House Key" and "Five Lies Of Our Anti-Christian Age", discuss Titus 2, generational discipleship, hospitality,use of social media, the idols of our age and more,,,

Steve Deace Show
If Trump Does THIS, It's Time to Put Him on Mount Rushmore | Guest: Rosaria Butterfield | 4/1/25

Steve Deace Show

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 100:41


Steve says if Trump decides to defy the courts and implement his agenda unilaterally, he should get a spot on Mount Rushmore. Then, author Rosaria Butterfield joins the show to share her testimony and illuminate those who are seeking to undermine the American church with watered-down theology on sexuality. In Hour Two, Fake News or Not is a hypothesis on Trump's relationship with Congress. Finally, Pop Culture Tuesday tries to figure out how in the world "Snow White" was beaten at the box office in only its second weekend in theaters.. TODAY'S SPONSORS: FAST GROWING TREES: https://www.fast-growing-trees.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=Steve+Deace+Show code DEACE CONSTITUTION WEALTH MANAGEMENT: https://constitutionwealth.com/Blaze BIRCH GOLD: Text STEVE to 989898 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Delighted Motherhood
Building Community Right Where You Are

Delighted Motherhood

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2025 33:25


It seems, if you want to be countercultural, throw parties and do it regularly. According to the Data from the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics only 4.1 percent of Americans attended or hosted social gatherings on a given weekend or holiday in 2023. When Christians choose to foster community –both within the church and with unbelieving neighbors –we push back the darkness. In a partyless culture, Christians have a strategic opportunity to invite our neighbors to become friends. As author Rosaria Butterfield exhorts, radically ordinary hospitality can allow “strangers to become neighbors, and, by God's power, those neighbors can become part of God's family.” But sometimes getting people through your front door can feel impossible. After all, Americans as a whole aren't accustomed to invites. Hitting roadblocks can be discouraging.Even though it is hard (like really hard), with lots of prayer and creativity, it can be done in many contexts. Listen in for five encouragements for making it happen.

ReFOCUS with Jim Daly
Philip Yancey: Rediscovering the Gospel, a Good Kind of Different

ReFOCUS with Jim Daly

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 55:14


Author Philip Yancey encourages believers to live authentic Christian lives, demonstrating acts of kindness and mercy to show the world that God cares for every soul. Citing many examples of what it means to share our faith, Yancey invites us to rediscover the Good News of the gospel and be the church that Jesus has called us to be. Get a copy of Philip Yancey's book, Vanishing Grace: What Ever Happened to the Good News? for a gift of any amount to get a deeper understanding of communicating grace and truth to the culture. Buy your copy of Jim Daly’s book, ReFOCUS! He shares how believers can engage others in the culture with the love of Christ and reveal the heart of God. There's no place like home, right? Just as home brings a sense of belonging, rest, and security, so does a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. If you don't have one, this article can show you how to find your place in God's eternal family. Listen to the ReFocus with Jim Daly episode with Rosaria Butterfield. Focus on the Family's staff of licensed, professional counselors can help you bring healing and restoration to your family with Christian perspectives you can trust. Donate Now! Send Jim a voicemail! Click here.

Conversations with a Calvinist
Rosaria & Kent Butterfield talk about Hospitality and the Gospel

Conversations with a Calvinist

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2025 43:05


This is a special episode of Your Calvinist Podcast filmed at the 2025 Dangerous Friends Conference in Monclova, Ohio which was put on by ClearTruth Media where Keith and Rosaria both contribute writings which engage the culture. In this video, Keith sits down with Kent and Rosaria Butterfield to discuss her book "The Gospel Comes With a House Key".

CROSS Podcast
Modesty: An Outdated Burden? by Rosaria Butterfield

CROSS Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 34:16


Rosaria Butterfield discusses the importance of modesty for Christian women, emphasizing that it is not an outdated burden but a virtuous and authentic expression of their God-given femininity. She explains that modesty glorifies God, reflects a woman's belief that God's covering is better than her own desire for attention, and demonstrates love for her Christian brothers by not causing them to stumble. Rosaria addresses the influence of worldviews like feminism and transgenderism that reject biblical gender distinctions, and she encourages the audience to pursue modesty through repentance, growth in their relationship with God, and developing friendships with wise, older women.

I Don't Have Enough FAITH to Be an ATHEIST
Teen with Lesbian Desires Asks What Could Be Wrong About Love?

I Don't Have Enough FAITH to Be an ATHEIST

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2025 48:17


What could possibly be wrong with "following our heart"? Isn't that what culture always tells us to do? In this week's solo podcast episode, Frank responds to a troubling email from "Jane", a self-identified lesbian teenager struggling with conflict at home since coming out to her mother. Tune in as Frank walks through a series of thought-provoking questions designed to help Jane reflect on the long-term consequences of her choices. During the episode, Frank tackles key questions, including:Why is theology the foundation of all knowledge?Why shouldn't people define themselves by their sexual desires?What should (and shouldn't) parents do if your child comes out to you as same-sex attracted?Should your attractions determine your actions?What are three reasons why homosexuality falls short of natural marriage?Do sexual desires ever change over time?If no one is harmed, why shouldn't people simply follow their hearts?How do sexual patterns among homosexuals differ from those in committed heterosexual relationships?Do you have a question for Frank? Send it to Hello@CrossExamined.org!BOOK: Correct, Not Politically Correct - https://bit.ly/3qws2ZLBOOK: Born Again This Way by Rachel Gilson - https://a.co/d/9XMdcSuBOOK: Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age by Rosaria Butterfield - https://a.co/d/7IsnzdPYOUTUBE: Should You Follow Your Heart? Presentation - https://youtu.be/8yNyvlf2zqM

The Great Exchange
Rosaria Butterfield: From Lesbian Feminist To Pastor's Wife

The Great Exchange

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2025 71:56


Episode Summary: In this episode of Calibrate Conversations, host Brady Cone is joined by author and speaker Rosaria Butterfield to discuss the importance of repentance, biblical sexuality, and the misconceptions surrounding same-sex attraction within the church. They share personal experiences, insights into biblical teaching, and the role of hospitality in discipleship. This episode challenges listeners to examine how they engage with their faith and confront cultural narratives that contradict the gospel.Key Topics Discussed:How Brady and Rosaria Met: A story of reconciliation, humility, and the importance of words in online discourse.The Journey of Repentance: Rosaria's testimony of coming to faith, leaving behind a life of activism, and embracing Christ's transformative work.Biblical View on Sin and Temptation: Understanding indwelling sin, the necessity of repentance, and addressing misconceptions about same-sex attraction.The Dangers of Side B Theology: Why accepting same-sex attraction as an identity undermines biblical sanctification and the power of the gospel.The Role of Hospitality in Evangelism: How opening our homes can create gospel-centered relationships and foster discipleship.False Teaching in the Church: Identifying wolves versus wounded sheep and why calling out false doctrine is necessary for protecting the body of Christ.Cultural Misconceptions of Sexual Orientation: How Freudian and Darwinian ideologies have influenced modern understandings of identity and why Christians should reject them.Quotes from the Episode:“Homosexuality isn't special. Every Christian is called to die to self daily and pursue sanctification.” – Rosaria Butterfield“Same-sex attraction isn't just something we accept and manage—it's something we repent of.” – Brady Cone“The evangelical church got it wrong when it told people that only acting on temptation was sin. Sin starts in the heart.” – Rosaria Butterfield“Repentance isn't condemnation—it's grace. It's a gift that keeps us close to Christ.” – Brady Cone“If you are experiencing same-sex attraction, you're not called to celibacy—you're called to repentance.” – Rosaria ButterfieldResources Mentioned:The Gospel Comes with a House Key – Rosaria ButterfieldFive Lies of the Anti-Christian Age – Rosaria ButterfieldTransforming Homosexuality – Denny BurkPrecious Remedies Against Satan's Devices – Thomas BrooksCalibrate Ministries – calibrateministries.com (for resources, speaking requests, and support groups)Action Steps:Engage in Daily Repentance: Recognize and address sinful desires as they arise, seeking God's grace for transformation.Immerse Yourself in the Word: Allow Scripture to shape your identity rather than cultural ideologies.Invest in Gospel-Centered Community: Get involved in a local church and prioritize face-to-face discipleship.Extend Hospitality: Open your home to share life and truth with others.Discern False Teaching: Be aware of unbiblical influences within Christian spaces and seek doctrinal clarity.Connect with Us:Website: calibrateministries.comRequest Brady Cone for Speaking Engagements: calibrateministries.com/contactFollow Rosaria Butterfield's Work: rosariabutterfield.comFinal Encouragement:We pray that as you go through your week, you can live a life of repentance and grace, embracing God's standard for sexuality. Thank you for tuning in to Calibrate Conversations!Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

ReFOCUS with Jim Daly
Dr. Carl Trueman: How Believers Can Respond to Critical Theory

ReFOCUS with Jim Daly

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2024 74:59


Dr. Carl Trueman, professor of biblical and religious studies at Grove City College, will help you understand Critical theory and it's impact on your world. From sexuality to social justice, Trueman explores the failed philosophies of Karl Marx and the Frankfurt School, providing historical context and describing the evolution of these ideas in our culture today. He'll discuss the consequences of Critical theory and how Christians can respond to its various movements in society. This episode features an intriguing discussion, as well as a thought-provoking Q & A with college students. Get Dr. Trueman's book, To Change All Worlds, for a gift of any amount, to learn more about Critical Theory. Check out Focus on the Family's The Daily Citizen, a website that provides a faith-based perspective to counter the mainstream media’s anti-Christian bias Listen to Jim's conversation with Rosaria Butterfield on ReFOCUS with Jim Daly. Get Heather Holleman’s book The Six Conversations: Pathways to Connecting in an Age of Isolation. Empowering Your Family to Face CRT with Dr. Carol Swain will equip you to know what CRT is and isn’t and how you can respond to what it teaches with confidence and scriptural accuracy. Read this article to learn to teach your kids about Critical Race Theory through a Christian worldview. Read this article to learn about the relationship between Socialism and Christianity Donate Send Jim a voicemail! Click here.

Focus on the Family Broadcast
Best of 2024: Loving People Through the Truth (Part 1 of 2)

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2024 27:23


Dr. Rosaria Butterfield was a college professor and former lesbian who after spending time with a pastor and his wife began to reconsider her beliefs and choices. She now helps Christians to identify several prominent lies of the culture – including homosexuality, transgenderism, and feminism – and encourages us to lovingly engage those false ideas with a strong biblical worldview. With compelling stories and eye-opening insights, Rosaria cuts through the cultural clutter to help others see God’s design for men and women. Receive the book Five Lies of Our Anti-Christian Age and the audio download of the broadcast "Loving People Through the Truth" for your donation of any amount! Your Gift DOUBLES to Give Families Hope! Save 2X the marriages and families this Christmas with your life-changing gift today! Get More Episode Resources If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

The Becket Cook Show
Progressivism Hates Repentance: Rosaria Butterfield Interview

The Becket Cook Show

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2024 57:05


Support The Becket Cook Show on Patreon! In today's episode, Becket chats with Rosaria Butterfield about an article she just wrote called, “Why Progressivism Hates Repentance.” We discuss three reasons why. This will surprise and edify you. Rosaria's Article: https://cleartruthmedia.com/s/394/why-progressivism-hates-repentance The Becket Cook Show Ep. 178 This Episode of The Becket Cook Show is available on YouTube Join the Patreon! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey
Ep 1027 | Rosaria Butterfield Calls Out Seminary for LGBTQ Dissertation

Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2024 52:26


Today, we discuss Rosaria Butterfield's recent critique of seminaries that are pushing questionable LGBTQ curriculum and Dennis Prager's comments on lust and masturbation. What is the correct response to same-sex-attracted Christians? And is masturbation a sin? Plus, is it controversial to always let your husband drive? We weigh in on the "passenger princess" trend. Get your tickets for Share the Arrows: https://www.sharethearrows.com/ --- Timecodes: (01:48) Introduction to Rosaria Butterfield (03:43) Rosaria rebukes dissertation (08:00) Nate Collins' history with  (16:50) What is Revoice? (27:21) Dennis Prager's comments on lust and masturbation (43:12) "Passenger Princess" trend --- Today's Sponsors: My Patriot Supply — prepare yourself for anything with long-term emergency food storage. Get your new, lower-price Emergency Food Kit at PrepareWithAllie.com. EveryLife — the only premium baby brand that is unapologetically pro-life. EveryLife offers high-performing, supremely soft diapers and wipes that protect and celebrate every precious life. Head to EveryLife.com and use promo code ALLIE10 to get 10% of your first order today! Freedom Project Academy — Take back your child's education at Freedom Project Academy. Right now, save 10% on tuition when you enroll at Freedom For School dot com, that's Freedom F-O-R School dot com. American Christian Credit Union — America's Christian Credit Union is Federally Insured by the National Credit Union Administration. Find America's Christian Credit Union online at AmericasChristianCU.com/SWITCH --- Relevant Episodes: Ep 1017 | Dr. Tony Evans Steps Down Over Secret Sin https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-1017-dr-tony-evans-steps-down-over-secret-sin/id1359249098?i=1000658686225 Ep 960 | Unraveling Cru's Troubling LGBTQ Curriculum https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-960-unraveling-crus-troubling-lgbtq-curriculum/id1359249098?i=1000647583878 Ep 782 | 'Pronoun Hospitality' Is Sin: Rosaria Butterfield's Confession https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-782-pronoun-hospitality-is-sin-rosaria-butterfields/id1359249098?i=1000607404995 Ep 796 | Former Lesbian Activist Calls “Soft” Christians to Repentance | Guest: Rosaria Butterfield https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-796-former-lesbian-activist-calls-soft-christians/id1359249098?i=1000610921016 Ep 1026 | The Secret to Preventing Cancer | Guest: Dr. Leigh Erin Connealy https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-1026-the-secret-to-preventing-cancer-guest-dr/id1359249098?i=1000660354483 Ep 859 | Why You Can't Be a Gay Christian | Guest: Dr. Christopher Yuan https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-859-why-you-cant-be-a-gay-christian-guest-dr/id1359249098?i=1000625169321 Ep 14 | Holy Sexuality with Dr. Christopher Yuan https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatable-with-allie-beth-stuckey/id1359249098?i=1000413686629 Ep 582 | How to Share the Gospel with LGBTQ People | Guest: Becket Cook https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-582-how-to-share-the-gospel-with-lgbtq-people/id1359249098?i=1000554125181 --- Buy Allie's book, You're Not Enough (& That's Okay): Escaping the Toxic Culture of Self-Love: https://alliebethstuckey.com/book Relatable merchandise – use promo code 'ALLIE10' for a discount: https://shop.blazemedia.com/collections/allie-stuckey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices