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There can be no success without some failure, so why are we so resistant to or even shamed by failure. On this podcast, we are exploring our failiure feelings.  For example, when exactly does something become a failure, and when is it time to give up? It's such a tricky question, isn't it? Society often paints failure as a badge of shame, something to be hidden away. But honestly, isn't life without failure a myth? Our journeys are filled with plans that go awry, yet they shape and define us in ways we never expect. In this episode, we delve into the concept of failure and its role in our broader life goals. We've all been there - striving for something just out of reach, and feeling crushed when it slips away. But here's a different take: failure is simply a part of the process, not the end of it. Goals are just signposts on our path, guiding us toward our greater intentions. Have you ever considered that the timeframe of achieving something often dictates the notion of failure? Whether it's in the business world or personal projects, the pressure to succeed quickly can be overwhelming. But what if we reframe the failure narrative and see it as an opportunity to learn and grow? Just like SpaceX on its fearless journey, each setback is a lesson. They're breaking things and making incredible strides by learning fast. It's all about embracing the journey and having fun along the way. So, when was the last time you enjoyed your process? If you're pondering over what success really means, it's time to look at it from a new angle. Is success a defined destination, or is it the enjoyment of the steps we take along the way? Let's discuss it and see if we can discover something new together!   For more information of LB&B, check out the links below, and if you found this useful, consider buying me a coffee below.       Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life, with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/                        

No, it was not mine, but this did happen to another Paul. In a whirlwind twist of fate back in 2006, this renowned songwriter stumbled upon an unexpected moment of perplexity: his own obituary echoing through the airwaves. It turns out, a man named Paul Van Valkenburg had spun a crafty tale decades prior, claiming the catchy tune "Itsy Bitsy Teenie Weenie Yellow Polka Dot Bikini" as his youthful triumph. Fast forward to his actual passing, and an honest blunder led the newspapers to mistakenly bid farewell to Paul Vance, the still-living original composer. But wait! This story doesn't just wander down a path of misunderstanding. Instead, it blossoms into a tale of connections rekindled and love realised. From a barrage of concerned queries to heartfelt messages, this twist of events showered Paul with an unexpected gift—an outpouring of love and appreciation from those he hadn't heard from in years. While embarrassing for Van Valkenburg's family, it granted Paul's family a beautiful realisation of just how beloved he was. This anecdote unfolds into a broader reflection, encouraging you to ponder: How are you impacting those around you, and how will you be remembered? Drawing inspiration from such an unusual yet illuminating episode, the narrative nudges each of us to explore our own legacies. Engage in writing your own story—your eulogy—crafting the legacy you wish to leave behind. So join me on this introspective journey. It's a reminder that life, albeit fleeting, is our canvas. Splash it with love, generosity, and kindness. After all, the echoes of our actions today shape the memories of tomorrow. Let's embark on this journey of legacy and love together!   For more information of LB&B, check out the links below, and if you found this useful, consider buying me a coffee below.       Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life, with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/                          

Have you ever paused to think about the areas of your life that might be slipping through the cracks? It's a common journey we all go through as we navigate this world, reprioritising and adjusting as things evolve.   In the sphere of life coaching, it's often emphasised that we need to pay attention to various parts of our lives to truly thrive. From finances and relationships to health, joy, and family, each aspect contributes to crafting a well-rounded existence.      Let's face it, it's all too easy to become hyper-focused on one area, sacrificing others along the way. Decisions about what we prioritise sculpt our life journey and outcomes. But how do we achieve balance, ensuring no part of our life is left neglected? That's the personal expedition each of us must embark on, deciding where to channel our life force and energy, understanding fully that every component impacts our future success and happiness. One insightful analogy, inspired by Stephen Covey's Seven Habits of Highly Successful People, is about "sharpening the saw." It's about maintaining readiness and support networks, so we're prepared for any situation, much like keeping a saw sharp to effectively cut wood. This rings especially true for workaholics who might overlook personal relationships, only realising their importance later on when those connections have faded. Today, I'm highlighting the importance of conducting a personal review of all aspects of life. Are your relationships flourishing, is your career on track, and are your finances aligned with your professional missions? Without regular introspection and attention, change won't come. And remember, "energy flows where attention goes." Neglect breeds stagnation, while attention fosters growth. Interestingly, I've observed how crucial it is to reignite our sense of play and fun, an element sometimes forgotten in adulthood. Watching children, their capacity for joy is infectious, reminding us that fun isn't just for kids. Regularly revisiting and enhancing this aspect can add a joyful spark to daily life—ask yourself daily: "Where did I have fun today, and how can I create more of it tomorrow?" When it comes to more structured areas, such as finances or relationships, thoughtful planning is required, but each can improve significantly with dedicated focus. So, here's my simple suggestion today: take a moment to assess where you stand across life's many dimensions. If you identify areas that need improvement, provide them with the necessary attention and time to flourish. And if you need any help with that, you know who to call. Always be well on the journey.      Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life, with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/              

Have you ever stopped to really celebrate your achievements and reflect on what recognition truly means? In this podcast, we're diving into the crucial role of acknowledgement and celebration in our lives. You know, all too often, we hit a goal or reach a milestone but then just move on without soaking in the joy of what we've accomplished. Last weekend, I got to experience a truly inspiring event—a degree show at Abertay University. It was beautiful to watch students, including my own son, share their journey with family, friends, and industry insiders. The evening show was all about creative awards in fields like development, design, art, game art, and coding. It really hit me then, how rare those opportunities are to be publicly celebrated for our achievements. Our modern lives seem to lack those moments of appreciation, yet historically, festivals and celebrations have always brought communities together. Today, in our fast-paced world, we often miss out on true efforts to celebrate and recognize not just big milestones like weddings or birthdays but also little victories. The competitive business world often tries to mimic this with award events. However, these can sometimes feel like 'bought' recognitions rather than genuine celebrations. Yet, whatever the method, there's a shared joy in acknowledging success, one that's missing in many of our endeavours today, where the work seems endless and without tangible endpoints. So, what's the solution? We need to find ways to bring celebrations into our everyday lives, to break the routine and appreciate the journey. This is more than just about public adoration—it's about feeling good internally when we acknowledge ourselves and others. Why not try a little experiment? Pick a task, maybe cleaning out that cluttered drawer or tidying up your wardrobe. Once done, take a step back, appreciate the difference, and relish that sense of achievement. It'll empower you more than you might expect! Every little acknowledgement can be a powerful motivation booster, driving us to pursue even bigger goals. The creative industries know this; that's why they so elegantly celebrate success to propel people forward to achieve even greater heights. So let's tap into this powerful resource by valuing achievements more. Remember, this isn't just about work or big life events. It's about appreciating every stride we make on our life's journey. So, go ahead, try recognizing something you've achieved today, and see how uplifting it feels. If this chat has resonated with you, share it with a friend and spread the positivity. For more information of LB&B, check out the links below, and if you found this useful, consider buying me a coffee below.       Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life, with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/                  

Is there a place for ancient traditions like pilgrimage in our fast-paced modern world? This episode dives right into that fascinating question! We'll explore how these sacred journeys can still profoundly impact us today despite their roots in a long-gone era. This weekend, I had the chance to witness something truly special as my wife and her interfaith minister friends embarked on the final stretch of St. Cuthbert's Way to the Holy Island of Lindisfarne. It was a walk not just through the shifting sands but through time itself, retracing the footsteps of monks from Melrose Abbey. Their journey involved rich rituals around water, passage, and renewal, sparking insightful shifts within participants. Just goes to show, there's always something deeply transformative waiting at the heart of a pilgrimage. But the magic of pilgrimages isn't confined to religious paths alone. Whether it's the renowned Camino de Santiago or a gruelling endurance race, these experiences challenge us, pushing us toward proving our worth to ourselves. The essence lies in undertaking a task, not because it's easy, but because it's demanding. It's about breaking through personal barriers and uncovering new aspects of ourselves. So, what do you think? Could your next big endeavor be a modern-day pilgrimage that helps you discover more about yourself? Let's chat about it some more. If this episode resonated with you, feel free to share it with a friend or drop some stars our way—trust me, they brighten our day! Until next time, thank you for joining me on this journey of exploration and discovery.

Have you ever paused to think about what you truly believe in? Is it the wonders of science, the beauty of nature, or perhaps a higher power guiding you along life's path? Whatever it is, belief and faith are intricately woven into the fabric of our lives. They are the building blocks of society.  Join us on this journey as we delve deep into the realms of belief and faith, those invisible forces that shape our world and influence our actions. In this episode, we explore how belief has been at the core of human societies for centuries, from religious convictions that move mountains to the shifting sands of political ideologies. We'll even take a playful jab at those quirky Jedi beliefs some choose to tick on census forms! While this is a personal reflection, there is no doubt we are living at a time of cultural shifts, and faith is part of that story. We'll ponder over poignant questions like when a mere thought morphs into a belief and how faith bridges the gap between these ideas. With a sprinkle of humour and candid reflections, we'll consider our beliefs and whether they serve or hinder us in this complex, ever-evolving world. It is time to uncover what lies at the heart of your beliefs. It's a personal discovery, one that might just offer clarity and purpose amidst the chaos.  And hey, if our conversation resonates with you, don't keep it to yourself—share it with a friend! Let's keep the dialogue alive. Until next time, keep believing and exploring!   For more information of LB&B, check out the links below, and if you found this useful, consider buying me a coffee below.       Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life, with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/                      

Habits or Ritual? Have you ever wondered how much of your life is built on habits versus rituals, or vice versa? Well, you're in the right place! In this episode, I'm diving deep into the fascinating world of rituals and habits and how they play a role in our everyday lives. Do you remember Easter egg hunts as a kid? Even if Easter isn't your holiday, indulging in chocolate eggs is a shared ritual many of us cherish. It's these little traditions that give our lives a sprinkle of meaning. But why are rituals so crucial to us, and how can we harness their power to craft a better life? From ancient fertility rites to modern-day birthdays and weddings, rituals have always been about connecting people and creating memorable moments. They aren't just habits we mindlessly check off our to-do lists; they're meaningful ceremonies imbued with significance and emotion. Consider a wedding, filled with flowers, vows, and toasts or a birthday bash with cake and candles. These moments are ritualised to create depth and connection, contrasting with the simple habit of brushing your teeth or hitting snooze. In this lively chat, we explore the power of rituals, not as random acts, but as essential tools that get us through challenging times. Whether it's athletes getting in the zone with pre-game rituals or creating peace through meditation, these moments hold incredible power. Wondering how to embrace rituals in your life? Start by looking at your daily routines. What's a habit, and what can become a ritual with the right intention? How about adding a smile to your reflection every time you look in a mirror?   If this resonates, share it with a friend or leave us a review. Let's explore the beauty of rituals together and see how they can transform our lives. Thanks for joining me, and until next time, take care! This is a great topic of conversation to explore further. Some of the references I use include Michael Norton, a professor at Harvard Business School, and his book, The Ritual Effect.  I have not read it, but I have watched some of his videos on YouTube and he has guested on a few podcasts. Well worth checking out. .   For more information of LB&B, check out the links below, and if you found this useful, consider buying me a coffee below.       Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life, with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/                            

How does love fit into your life? Are you aware of your love or being loved? Love is fundamental to human existence; expressing love and feeling loved are key to a healthy and productive life. In reality, love is essential but is often forgotten. This episode explores how one small word—love—encompasses a vast spectrum of human experiences. While English limits us to a single term, ancient Greeks and Romans recognized nine distinct types of love that shape our relationships, creativity, and sense of self. Join us as we unpack these nine "colors" of love: from passionate Eros to playful Ludus, from the selfless Agape to the practical Pragma. Learn how these different expressions of love influence your daily life, your relationships, and your personal development. Through a simple yet powerful exercise called "The Love List," you'll discover which types of love dominate your life and which might be missing. This exploration isn't just theoretical—it's a pathway to deeper self-understanding and more meaningful connections with others. Whether you're reflecting on romantic relationships, family bonds, creative pursuits, or your relationship with yourself, this episode offers a framework to understand and express love in all its beautiful complexity. Hey there! Ever wondered how love fits into the grand scheme of your life? Join me, Paul Harvey, your midlife coach, in this bite-sized episode of the Life Passion and Business Shortcast where we dive into the essence of love. We all know love is fundamental to human existence, right? Yet, we often brush past it in our daily grind without giving it the spotlight it deserves. In this engaging episode, I explore how we can weave love into every aspect of our lives, from trivial things like our favorite foods to deeper connections we share with our families and friends. I invite you to make a 'love list'—an enlightening exercise that helps you map out the different kinds of love you experience. Have you ever thought about how your love for pizza differs from the love you feel for your partner? Or how does time spent with an old school friend evoke philia love? Together, we uncover the different faces of love as viewed through the lens of ancient Greek and Latin words—like Eros for passionate love, Philia for deep friendship, and Agape for unconditional love. It's all about recognizing these varying degrees in the everyday actions and relationships that fill our lives with meaning. We also tackle the importance of self-love, Philautia, emphasizing how acknowledging and embracing who we are can empower us to climb higher and weather the storms of life. This exploration isn't just about understanding; it's also about feeling and expressing love, which, as you'll see, is a true game-changer in your personal development journey. So, whether you wish to find more passion, build deeper relationships, or simply understand yourself better, this episode might just be the nudge you need. Don't forget to share it with a friend or leave a comment—let's spread the love and remind everyone that love truly is the better option! When you have completed your love list, mark it up as directed. Here are the different forms of love to remind you. Eros: Romantic Love, the Greek god of love, the Cupid cherub Philia: Affectionate love. This is the love between friends Agape: Unconditional; it is the love of sacrifice. Storge: Family love; it is how we feel about our parents and children Mania: Fixation and obsession are also forms of love. Ludus:  Play Pragma:  Pracicality. Meraki:  The Art of Creation. Philautia:  Self Love. For more information, check out the links below, and if you found this useful, consider buying me a coffee below.       Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life, with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/                        

Where does trust sit in your life? Who do you trust, friends, family or your spouse? Do you trust yourself?   Do you know that trust is the foundation of everything? It's the secret sauce to success, the kind of thing that holds your world together even when things get tough. Have you ever stopped to think about where trust sits in your life? Remember that gutting feeling when your trust was broken or those moments of triumph when trusting yourself led to unexpected victories? We've all been there. Personally.  In today's episode, we dive deep into this invisible force that quietly shapes every relationship. Trust. It's the foundation of everything meaningful. From the early days of human history, as detailed in the book 'Sapiens' by Yuval Noah Harari, sharing stories built trust among strangers, leading to trade, alliances, and genetic diversity. Our modern society—our cities, economies, and institutions—all rest on these principles of shared trust. Think about it. Even if you're in a completely different field, trust is your anchor. In marketing, for example, it's all about establishing trust with prospects and customers. That old mantra, "know, like, and trust" is still crucial today. And just look at companies that lose trust—they feel it where it hurts most: the bottom line. But trust goes beyond just economics. It's deeply personal. It's the bedrock of our relationships and emotional well-being. When trust is broken by those closest to us, it can feel like our world is falling apart. But here's the big question: How much do you trust yourself? This is where self-trust kicks in as the cornerstone of our confidence and resilience. In this episode, you'll discover practical ways to strengthen your self-trust, hear real stories of trust built and broken, and learn why your ability to trust wisely might be your most valuable asset in today's rapidly changing world   So, what small steps can you take today to nurture that self-trust? Start thinking, start doing, and maybe—just maybe—share this episode with a friend who needs it.    For more information, check out the links below, and if you found this useful, consider buying me a coffee below.       Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/                    

Today, we're diving into something I've been observing with growing concern—what I can only describe as a compassion crisis in our world. Have you noticed it, too? Is that increasing harshness in our media, our politics, and our everyday interactions? That subtle shift where showing toughness is valued over showing kindness? Where vulnerability is seen not as courage but as a weakness to be exploited? Last week, we explored how negative news travels faster than positive stories, creating a distorted view of reality. But today's topic goes deeper—beyond perception to a genuine shift in how we treat one another and ourselves. While researching this episode, I came across a fascinating historical example from ancient Rome demonstrating how radical compassion once changed the course of an entire civilisation. I'll share that story with you today, along with its powerful implications for our current moment. But this isn't just about society at large—it's about us, about you and me. How does living in a world that increasingly devalues compassion affect how we see ourselves? How we treat ourselves? In my coaching practice, I've witnessed the transformative power of self-compassion. I've seen how replacing that harsh inner critic with a supportive inner ally can create sustainable change that fear-based motivation never could. Today, we'll explore why compassion—both for others and for ourselves—might be the most revolutionary act in a culture that prizes toughness above all else. We'll discuss practical ways to cultivate self-compassion and how these personal practices can ripple outward to create meaningful change. So settle in, take a deep breath, and let's explore together how rekindling compassion might be exactly what we need in these challenging times.   Here is the historical link as mentioned  https://www.biblicalarchaeology.org/daily/ancient-cultures/daily-life-and-practice/the-antonine-plague-and-the-spread-of-christianity/   For more information, check out the links below, and if you found this useful, consider buying me a coffee below.   Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/                    

Hey there, it's your midlife coach, Paul Harvey. In today's shortcast, we're taking a closer look at how the stories we tell ourselves shape our lives.  How do you stay in touch with the world events? In these turbulent times, the news and social channels are often more doom and gloom than sunshine and rainbows. And while staying informed is crucial, drowning in negativity doesn't do us any favours. So, how do you stay resilient and reclaim your personal story in a world that seems to profit from keeping you anxious? We're diving deep into why the modern media is more about capturing your attention than reflecting reality. It thrives on fear, outrage, and conflict, turning minor issues into headline news while world peace gets overlooked. The solution is balance; we're not saying to bury your head in the sand. Instead, let's find that sweet spot between being informed and being overwhelmed. Humans are story machines built from what we have heard or experienced. So, that story you believe and tell yourself becomes who you are and where you're headed. A strong narrative can help you see challenges as growth opportunities and recognise that you're the protagonist of your own life, not just a spectator of global events. But beware! When negative news overloads start infiltrating your personal story, they bring narratives of helplessness and powerlessness. We're discussing those "why bother?" thoughts that lead to inaction. So, let's chat about how to spot if these negative media narratives are seeping into your life and what to do about it. We'll cover practical steps to maintain a resilient personal narrative. Be intentional about your media consumption, strengthen your story, and find your community. Whether it's creating art, helping someone, or being more present, there are many ways to fuel a positive outlook. Your story is too precious to be written by algorithms focusing on fear. So, as we wrap up, remember you have the power to craft a narrative that connects, empowers, and inspires.   Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/            

We all have this natural curiosity to search beyond ourselves, hoping to find some secret sauce or an external solution to the things we yearn for in life. But what if I told you everything you need is already within your reach? That's what we're diving into today on this bite-sized shortcast episode of 'Life, Passion, and Business.'  A recent chat with friends about a pricey retreat sparked something big — the only thing between you and your goals is action! Implementation is often our biggest stumbling block. I get it; it's a common struggle.  The point we can go to the retreat, the event the training but it will only be as effective as the time we put into implementing what we have discovered. With that knowledge we explore how you could skip the events and still take the course or training.  The point is all of these speakers have books and online content. What if you were to create or find a golden time slot — whether it's a daily routine or a pocket of quiet — to dive into these resources? Whether you're paging through Tony Robbins' latest or brushing up on books from your shelf.  Here's my friendly nudge for you: start with what you have. Revisit those nuggets of wisdom you've gathered, and give them life through action. And hey, if you ever need a companion on this journey, You'll find accessible coaching options designed to propel you forward, minus the hefty price tag. Yes, a shameless plug.. But your first chat is free, so you know where I am.  Links below.  Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/            

There is something that we all face at one time or another – anxiety, loss of equilibrium, how do we find the resilience to ride through life's rollercoasters?  It has been a tough week. How are you holding up in these wildly unpredictable times? Well, you're not alone, and that's exactly what we're chatting about right here. We've been living in what's often called "unprecedented times", and it's left many of us feeling a bit off-kilter. Whether it's global news that feels beyond our control or personal struggles closer to home, the trick is defining where our influence lies. Using Stephen Covey's principle of the "Circle of Influence and Circle of Concern", we take a closer look at focusing our energy where it counts the most. We also touch on practical, everyday techniques to maintain your cool. It could be as simple as avoiding constant news bombardment, practising mindfulness, or grounding yourself in the present.  In short, there are small, everyday actions that can make a difference. We wrap it up by discussing the potential that change – even when unwelcome – can bring new opportunities. There's a kind of peace in realizing that we're all in this soup together, sharing the journey and perhaps nudging the world a little closer to where we'd like it to be. Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/        

My guest on the show is an international career coach, but her journey was from a place of no option. Her father's words were the inspiration, “you can be the victim or be victorious.”  She did and launched herself into a job search that led to a $50k salary increase. The show you are about to hear was recorded today; I thought the content is so reliant as we touched on the subjects from the weekend podcast that I had to get to get it out now.  I am talking about blame culture and identity politics, a topic we are all too familiar with.    Wendy Alexander grew up in South Africa to mixed-race parents and was defined as coloured, which meant her life and opportunities were restricted because of the colour of their skin. Her father was a fantastic role model, he taught the children how to survive in the system. However, he and his wife bravely moved the family from South Africa to Australia. That meant starting again from the bottom; this was 1987, and apartheid South Africa restricted what you could take out of the country.  The family arriving in Australia just a month before her 21st birthday meant lots of adjustment to life and new freedoms. Fast forward a few years, Wendy was in relationship and had a home she was buying with her partner, and life was good. Until it wasn't, when the relationship broke, and she found herself 4 months pregnant, with no home and lots of debt.     She had to find a solution to generate an income that would support her and this unborn child and service the debt. It was the experience of her upbringing and the example set by her parents that gave her the tenacity to change. In this conversation, you will hear how she set about finding a role that could change her circumstances.  The process she developed put her on the path to a successful corporate career,  a role with 50K more than previous.  She used her process many times in different career sectors.  Those career development skills did not go unnoticed; she began career coaching as a side interest. That is a good lesson for all of us, we all have experiences that is are transferable skills and people will pay for that guidance.   In 2018, after years in the corporate world and battling the health challenges of diabetes and menopause, she stepped out of the business world to become a full-time career coach. She runs her business on her terms, guiding professional individuals, especially midlife and menopausal women, to the careers they've longed for.    Wendy told me before the show that she is a reluctant speaker, but I did not notice she has a fascinating story and tells it well. A quick apology: the audio on my end suffered a bit on this recording. That aside, tune in and explore the practical tips Wendy shares on refining resumes, harnessing transferable skills, and effectively navigating the modern job market, If you like what you heard,  Wendy is an international coach, so do check out the links below.     The full social links are all available at: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/wendy-alexander-the-50k-career-launch   Life Passion & Business is dedicated to exploring what it takes to be Extraordinary, to face challenges and rejoice in the opportunities they bring, and to expand our vision into new ways of thinking and living. There is a lot to gain from listening to other people's stories. However, the real work begins by taking action in your own life. For full details of Events, Resources and Services, visit: www.lifepassionandbusiness.com     Support For Podcasters: Running a podcast is fun, but it takes time and dedication. Whenever you enjoy a podcast please share your appreciation with comments, likes, shares and reviews. It helps other listeners find good content and supports the content creators and their guests. Another way you can support the Life Passion & Business podcast is with small donations: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion  

Have you ever felt weighed down by the blame game, whether from the news headlines or those everyday personal interactions? In this episode of Life, Passion, and Business, I'm diving into this very topic, challenging us to rethink how we perceive blame, responsibility, and, ultimately, our own potential for growth. You know how the world feels pretty chaotic these days, with politics seeming like a never-ending blame fest? It's not just about pointing fingers; it's become a clever tool for evading responsibility. But that's not where the story ends—in fact, it's just the beginning. I'm inviting you to take a more personal turn. Think about the stories you tell yourself and how they could be shaped by the culture of blame around us. Could there be a more empowered narrative waiting for you? By stepping back and considering our own roles in life's mishaps, we open the door to personal growth and stronger relationships. Let's chat about it: Do you find yourself sometimes on the defensive, quick to point out not my fault? Guess what—you're not alone, but understanding why we do this can lead us to a more compassionate and connected life. Join me as we unravel the nuances of blame from the playground to politics and explore how a shift in perspective not only unburdens us but also enhances creativity and trust. Together, we can step away from blaming and towards understanding, healing, and creating a life of passion and purpose. And before you go, if this hits home or you know someone who might benefit from our chat, please share this episode with them. Let's spread the positivity, my friend!

Lets talk is all about figuring out where you stand between consuming and creating in your life. On this show, we touch on how easy it is to slip into the endless consumption loop—be it binge-watching series, doom scrolling on your phone, or even consuming educational content without applying it. It's a common trap and one I've fallen into myself. But here's the thing: while consumption can often offer a much-needed release, especially in a stressful world, it shouldn't overshadow our creative endeavours. Whether it's building a business, crafting a piece of art, or even tidying up your space, creativity is what propels us forward in life. It's about making sure there's more creation in our days than mere consumption. I mean, wouldn't you agree that we often feel more fulfilled and in control after creating something, no matter how small? The conversation zeroes in on this balance and challenges us to reflect on how we're spending our time. So, my challenge for you today is to assess your own consumption-creation balance. If it's off-kilter, consider what you could shift to bring more creative actions into your life.  If you found this episode helpful, why not share it with a friend? A little bit of thought-provoking content can go a long way in sparking meaningful conversations. As always, I truly appreciate your time and attention. Catch you next time! Links to focus coaching is below.  Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/        

How do you measure your day? What does it take to craft the perfect day? Think about it—what makes a day perfect? Is it money, satisfaction, or the precious time well-spent? Perhaps it's something else entirely! I'm Paul Harvey, a midlife coach, and my opinion has long been that our stories shape everything we do, feel, or experience. Let's explore how our daily rituals and little surprises can bring us closer to those perfect moments. Let's admit it, we all have those 'blah' days where nothing seems right. But have you ever sat down to actually define what a perfect day looks like for you? For some, it's lounging in bed with a book; for others, it's a cozy café with a pot of Earl Grey. Let's question if that image holds true every single day. What if perfection isn't an everyday occurrence but an extraordinary happenstance? I've had chats with people who often realize in hindsight that a surprise or unexpected twist made their day perfect—an uplifting conversation, a random act of kindness, or just sipping a fabulous coffee paired with something sweet. We can't engineer surprises, but we can craft habits and create space for those little joys to make a day special. Morning rituals, like stretching or enjoying a leisurely coffee, set the tone. You know your perfect ingredients—a bit of workout, family time, progressing on a fun project, sound familiar? Take the time each morning to figure out what you wish to accomplish. Planning gives room for those desired elements to flourish, bringing a sense of fulfilment by day's end. Ultimately, perfect days are about capturing moments of gratitude. Reviewing the successful parts of your day and feeling thankful magnifies life's joys. It's all about valuing what you have and how you spend your time. So here's a little nudge—how do you measure your day, and why not allow a hint of perfection to bloom each day? Share these thoughts with a friend, and let's keep this uplifting conversation going! Thank you for tuning in, and here's to savouring our days with more purpose and joy. Catch you next time!   Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/        

We all have a history, a biography that we've been scripting as we move along. Some parts are new chapters written in the moment, while others are well-trodden paths we can't alter. Yet, even within this framework, we choose how we let our past influence our future. It's true life can be unpredictable and sometimes a bit daunting, like an aeroplane constantly adjusting its course to stay on target. Despite the track behind us being unchangeable, the journey forward is ours to navigate. So, why not be selective about which parts of your past take the front seat in your life's vehicle? Over the last six years, hundreds of guests have shared their life stories with me, opening up about the decisions that allowed them to take charge of their history rather than be steered by it. Their stories are a testament to the power of choice in our personal narratives. After all, everyone sees the world from their unique vantage point, and what seems like a mountain to one might be a molehill to another. Of course, some burdens are heavier to bear and may require professional guidance, but for most of us, addressing past experiences is an ongoing process. In this podcast, we explore how we choose our actions, but more than that, we look at the importance of choice despite our history.  Our minds are potent tools of transformation. They help us become who we truly aspire to be, rather than being confined by past events or inherited fears. So, let's explore and embrace this journey together.   Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/    

Have you ever wondered if joy is something you actively chase or simply stumble upon? I was with a group this morning and we were exploring how joy is felt and experienced it was wonderful to hear so many takes on the importants of finding joy and its impact of daily life.  I had the opportunity to reminisce about a heartfelt story from 2011, where an unexpected detour with my son turned into a magical memory full of laughter and love. In this episode, we will explore how to rediscover that childlike wonder and the power of surprise in sparking joy. In the hustle of adulthood, joy often seems elusive. But can we cultivate it by being present and mindful? Let's explore together how, even amidst life's chaos, simple practices like gratitude can rekindle that spark. After all, finding joy is about noticing the sensational ‘now'—whether it's a surprise encounter or enjoying a solitary cup of coffee. So, let's connect, chat, and find out how you can become the master of your own joy! Remember, life isn't just about pursuing happiness; it's about embracing the joyful surprises that come your way. Thank you for joining me on this reflective journey. Until next time, stay open, stay hopeful, and keep embracing life's wonderful ride.   Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/      

On this pod, we're tackling one of life's biggest constants—change. Have you ever felt the world spinning a bit too fast under your feet? Maybe it's the political upheaval as a new President steps into the White House tomorrow, promising shifts that have left many of us holding our breath. But beyond the headlines and politics, change is an inevitable part of our personal lives, too. Whether it's a child's rapid growth, career shifts, or even the unexpected losses we endure, change knocks on our door almost daily, challenging our desire for stability. Together, let's explore how we can build resilience to cope and thrive amidst this ever-changing landscape. I'll share personal anecdotes, like my journey with my son's growth, which taught me to embrace the beauty of life's constant evolution. It's a reminder that even as life throws us curveballs, there's always something valuable to learn and adapt to. In this episode, I also touch on the daunting task of dealing with change in conflict zones—an area beyond my coaching expertise, yet one that demands empathy and courage. While we may not have definite answers, there's a shared understanding that every upheaval, no matter how arduous, carries the potential for growth and renewal. So, let's embark on this discussion, trusting that something good is waiting on the other side of change. I invite you to share your thoughts and stories, and perhaps even discover ways to harness the power of change positively in your own life. If you enjoy this episode, please follow, subscribe, and pass it along to those who might find value in it. You can find more resources on our website, lifepassionandbusiness.com, especially if you're looking for ways to navigate life's unpredictable journey with more confidence. Thank you for joining me on this reflective journey. Until next time, stay open, stay hopeful, and keep embracing life's wonderful ride.   Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/    

Have you ever caught yourself drifting away in a conversation, waiting for your turn to speak rather than truly listening? You're not alone! We're wired to swing between past memories and future possibilities, but the real magic happens right here, right now, in the present moment. This episode is all about exploring what it means to truly be present and how powerful it can be. Imagine having all your resources at your fingertips, ready to transform every interaction and experience. Active listening plays a big part here, as well as allowing ourselves a little breather—literally. Just a few deep breaths before reacting can make all the difference, whether in a simple chat or a high-stakes meeting. We'll dive into the importance of heartful engagement, whether it's stopping to take that refreshing 'mind wash' in between meetings or recognizing triggers when your mind wanders. Think of it as hitting the reset button for clarity and focus. Being present is a game-changer—it grounds us, keeps us real, and shines a light on the here and now. I'll share tips and reflections to help you see how being present changes your day-to-day life, nurturing a deeper connection with yourself and the people around you. So, come join me on this journey of presence, and let's unlock the potential of every moment together.  Until next time—be present, be powerful!

Happy New Year!

It is the last Sunday of 2024, and we're nestled in the cosy time known as Betwixtmas - that calm lull between Christmas and New Year's Eve. But instead of the usual resolution-filled chatter, let's flip the script and focus on what you truly want in life. This is the perfect time to pause and reflect on what really makes your heart sing. Gone are the days of blindly chasing goals set during a New Year's champagne toast. Instead, consider what actually brings you joy. Was it simple moments with family or perhaps triumph at work? Let's shed the facade and focus on what matters. For 2025, it's about setting intentions, not rigid resolutions. Craft a list of what you want and why it matters to you. Use this newfound clarity to steer your year toward fulfilment and enrichment. It's about balance—balancing health, relationships, and work. Join me in ushering a calm, inspiring new year.  Let's support each other in this journey. If today's conversation resonated with you, pass it on to a friend who needs to hear it, too. I wish you a healthy, wealthy, inspiring 2025!   Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/    

This time last year, I started the Million Dollar Experiment, a program developed by Joanna Hunter with a view to creating a million dollars in one year.   So did it happen?  I am exploring the journey on the show with Jane Duncan Rogers, an old podcast friend. As we did this year together, it seems natural to explore our discoveries together.  This was a transformative year for Jane, not just for her participation in the intriguing Million Dollar Experiment but there were some profound shifts in perspective it prompted. In this candid conversation, Paul and Jane discuss the real measures of abundance and freedom that transcended beyond just monetary gains. It's not just about chasing the million dollars but exploring one's relationship with money, understanding personal freedom, and appreciating the richness in experiences and relationships. Jane shares how this experiment challenged her beliefs about money and sparked a deeper spiritual journey. Her insights into gratitude and the power of mindset are both inspiring and applicable to anyone seeking personal growth. We also touch on Jane's new venture into writing, focusing on embracing aging and the narratives that come with it. If you're interested in a heartfelt exploration of life's richness beyond financial wealth, this episode is a must-listen. If you would like to stay in touch with Jane, you can find her on Linkedin, facebook or check out her substack page. If you want to explore the work of Joanna Hunter, she can be found at Joannahunter.com.   Life Passion & Business is dedicated to exploring what it takes to be Extraordinary, to face challenges and rejoice in the opportunities they bring, and expand our vision into new ways of thinking and living. There is a lot to gain from listening to other people's stories, however the real work begins by taking action in your own life. For full details of Events, Resources and Services visit: www.lifepassionandbusiness.com    

Hello, my dear friend! Have you ever paused to think about the remarkable impact that appreciation can have on our lives? Like my experience this week, attending two community meetings highlighted this very point. The first was a vision and planning meeting by a new board looking to bring a fresh opportunity. However, it became tense and confrontational as some members were more interested in tearing plans apart than building new paths for the future, driven perhaps by a fear of change. At the second gathering, the managing team made amends for errors, acknowledging their missteps.  In both cases, it was not the challenge that was the problem it was the delivery. It made me wonder why criticising is often easier than appreciating. Appreciation is a powerful tool. It's that warm smile and acknowledgement that can turn tension into teamwork. In the world of public speaking, like Toastmasters, appreciation is the tool used to deliver feedback. It follows the 'commend, recommend, commend' approach – perfecting the art of giving constructive feedback while uplifting spirits. Yet, the greatest appreciation we can offer is to ourselves. Looking in the mirror and valuing who we are is transformative. It's a journey of self-recognition. As human beings, children or adults, we thrive on acknowledgement and respect. And when we feel valued, we rise. So, let's take a moment, shall we? Appreciate yourself today. Share gratitude, and watch your world blossom. Join me next time when Jane Duncan Rogers will join me in a special podcast about our journey exploring the 'My Millionaire Mindset.' Until then, spread some love and appreciation. You deserve it. Catch you soon!   Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/            

Every December, I craft a family newsletter that lets us peek back at the journey we've been on throughout the year. It's more than just a factual account. It's our story, filled with the highs, lows, and everything in between. Thinking back, the winter solstice plays a significant role in this reflective process for me. It symbolizes the return of the light, making December the perfect time for looking back and planning our next adventures. Can you imagine tracing the lines of your own narrative, seeing the threads that connect your past with your future? So, how about you give it a try? Even if newsletters make you yawn, taking a moment to ponder your year can be a transformative experience. What stood out for you? What were your big takeaways? And if you felt underwhelmed, what might you change moving forward? Anyway, if you ever want to chat about this or need a little nudge, you know where to find me. And don't forget to swing by lifepassionandbusiness.com; there are tons of resources there to help with your journey. Until next time, take care and keep exploring! Check out the resources and book a call; I am always happy to explore.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/          

I was listening to the Cleaning Up podcast this week, and the guest was Rory Sutherland, the Vice Chair at Ogilvy UK. I will put a link to the podcast below. The conversation was about everything I dislike about the marketing industry. It is an industry where money is more important than morals or outcomes and consequences. It reminded me of a refreshing marketing conversation I had with Sarah Santacroce some three years back. In my opinion, all marketing must be based on integrity and the desire for what is right, not just what makes money. Sarah has been on a simular journey and devised her solution. Gentle Marketing.    The Cleaning Up Podcast https://www.podbean.com/media/share/dir-vk5vy-22508372 -----------------------------------------------------------------  When I first spoke to Sarah Santacroce, she introduced herself as the Hippie turned Business Coach, which gave me visions of VW Beetles and flowers, so I was instantly hooked and intrigued to learn more. As you will hear, Sarah has a lovely European Accent with a twist of California that is charming to listen to.  She is part of a growing tide of marketing professionals (myself and several other guests included) who are questioning the dubious path that sales and marketing has taken over the last 20 years. Recognizing that it was not healthy to squeeze herself into a model that doesn't fit her values and personality, Sarah has created a new niche for herself with her business marketing approach and is here to share her story with us. I hope you enjoy this conversation and discover more about the Gentle Marketing approach with Sarah Santacroce. The Cleaning Up Podcast https://www.podbean.com/media/share/dir-vk5vy-22508372     If you are interested in discovering how Sarah can help you, a good place to start is with her free download of “The One Page Marketing Plan”. Click on the link below to access this along with her other links and social media connections.     Full Text for this post along with my Guest's website and social links are all available at: www.lifepassionandbusiness.com/sarah-santacroce-gentle-marketing-revolution     Life Passion & Business is dedicated to exploring what it takes to be Extraordinary, to face challenges and rejoice in the opportunities they bring, and expand our vision into new ways of thinking and living. There is a lot to gain from listening to other people's stories, however the real work begins by taking action in your own life. For full details of Events, Resources and Services visit: www.lifepassionandbusiness.com     Support For Podcasters: Running a podcast is fun, but it takes time and dedication. Whenever you enjoy a podcast please share your appreciation with comments, likes, shares and reviews. It helps other listeners find good content and supports the content creators and their guests. Another way you can support the Life Passion & Business podcast is with small donations: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion    

We need to talk about success. Society, politics, and the media are mesmerised by it, yet most of us never take the time to understand what it means.  From childhood achievements like learning to talk to adult milestones, how we define and measure success shapes our entire journey. Have you ever wondered whether your version of success is truly yours or merely a reflection of societal pressures? It's about moving beyond the numbers game and finding true fulfilment. Whether it's financial stability, nurturing relationships, or personal well-being, different areas of life offer varied success metrics, each tied to your true values. Join me to explore what makes you feel successful beyond what money can buy. Let's rethink success as we share this thought-provoking journey. And, take a moment to consider what success means to you—how do you measure it? Let's redefine the narrative together.   If you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend. As with all of these topics, this is a subjective exploration, and reviewing those thoughts with someone can be helpful. Check out the resources and book a call; I am always happy to explore.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/          

A reprise from this time last year on the issues of credibility. It has been a funny few weeks. What with elections and media stuff? I mean funny and peculiar, not Ha Ha! It made me reflect on the issues of credibility in politics and media.  What has changed? What is the credibility formula? It had me thinking about this recording with Mitchell Levy and his research. So let's step back and year rediscover the secrets of credibility. Is your credibility important? You certainly need to feel you are, but more importantly, Are you Credible? Because your potential clients need to believe it first. But how do we get there?  Our guest on the show this week is Mitchell Levy from Credibility Nation. As you will hear, we both discovered and learned much from this conversation. Mitchell Levy has had a long and classically successful business career, from banking to internet systems. He has several publishing companies that support business leaders in writing books and has written over 60 of his own. He has spoken at TEDx events and is an executive coach at Marshall Goldsmith's 100 Coaches—an accomplished man. In 2019, he sought a change and followed Napoleon Hill's steps. He set out to interview 500 executives on success and credibility. The findings from that research have changed his life. He has discovered that how we do business has changed forever and will never go back. Credibility is key. So join me in this conversation to explore Mittchel's journey and discover some critical tools for your credibility.      My full introduction to this recording and social links are all available at: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/mitchell-levy-are-you-credible/   Life Passion & Business is dedicated to exploring what it takes to be Extraordinary, to face challenges and rejoice in the opportunities they bring, and to expand our vision into new ways of thinking and living. There is a lot to gain from listening to other people's stories. However, the real work begins by taking action in your own life. For full details of Events, Resources and Services, visit: www.lifepassionandbusiness.com     Support For Podcasters: Running a podcast is fun, but it takes time and dedication. Whenever you enjoy a podcast please share your appreciation with comments, likes, shares and reviews. It helps other listeners find good content and supports the content creators and their guests. Another way you can support the Life Passion & Business podcast is with small donations: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion

Hey there! Have you ever paused to think about time as the one precious resource we just can't negotiate? No matter how much we talk about saving or preserving it, time keeps marching on. In this exciting shortcast, I'm Paul Harvey, your midlife coach, here to dive deep into the art and science of time management. We'll explore what makes life tick and how you can make time your ally. Interestingly, we often find ourselves either wasting time or managing it fiercely. My friends in the business world will tell you time management is critical for productivity. But today, I want to focus on personal time—the time that truly belongs to you. Whether it's nurturing relationships, earning a living, or maintaining your health, striking a balance among these pillars is crucial. We'll examine how we spend our days, weeks, and even lifetimes. With 168 hours in a week, how much time is left after sleep and the necessary daily routines? How do you allocate your time for work, relationships, and health? These are pivotal questions, as ignoring any of them can lead to regret rather than fulfillment. Join me as I reflect on my journey toward health and work-life balance and share insights on how you can achieve your goals more effectively. Whether thinking about the next year, decade, or beyond, it's all about making the right choices on what deserves your time and effort. If you're curious about optimizing your time or want a supportive nudge toward achieving your ambitions, check out more resources at LifePassionandBusiness.com. If you find our chat enlightening, please share it with friends, give us some love with reviews, and stay tuned for more discussions on living your best life. Thanks for listening and sharing your valuable time with me!   Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/      

Are you using your energy wisely?  In this episode, we're reflecting on the impact of current events, like the recent American presidential election, and how they resonate beyond borders. It's fascinating how these events stir up a whirlwind of speculation, but let's face it, most of us don't have the power to influence the decisions made in the White House. So, why do we pour our energy into these topics? Let's chat about that! Drawing inspiration from Stephen Covey's "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People," we delve into the concept of the circle of influence versus the circle of concern. Discover how focusing on what you can control can expand your influence and lead to meaningful change. Whether through local activism or gathering like-minded individuals to advocate for a cause, there are ways to make a real impact. We'll share a personal story about a community coming together to improve their neighbourhood's traffic situation—proof that collective action can lead to positive outcomes. If you're passionate about making changes, it's all about starting where you can truly make a difference and growing your circle of influence from there. As always, I'm grateful for your time and attention. If you enjoyed this episode, feel free to share it with a friend! For more episodes and resources, visit life passion and business.com. There, you'll find over 500 conversations and shortcasts filled with tools to help you progress in life. Plus, learn about focus coaching, a one-on-one process to guide you toward your goals. Thanks for tuning in! Wishing you an amazing week ahead. Until next time, all the best!

Today, we're diving into a rerun from 2023 with the incredible Steve Gamlin. Steve's story is one of transformation, self-discovery, and a whole lot of laughs. Imagine having a successful 10-year radio career, only to find yourself struggling with self-image and confidence. That's where Steve found himself, and oh boy, did he turn things around! Steve reinvented his life by managing his mindset, crafting his journey, and optimizing his daily routines to build the life he truly wanted. He's an amazing storyteller, and his journey is nothing short of inspiring. But before we dive into Steve's world, this is just a quick reminder to check out the awesome resources at Life Passion and Business. We've got over 500 interviews, short casts, and focus coaching to help you find your path. Now, back to Steve. Growing up in the Northwest US with a beautiful childhood, Steve dreamed of being a radio DJ, a comedian, and a teacher. He hit the radio waves but found it wasn't all it was cracked up to be. Despite achieving his childhood dreams, the journey was rocky, with a lot of life crashes and reinventions along the way. Steve's story is filled with moments of humour, like the time he challenged a thunderstorm on a golf course, leading to a life-changing conversation with a life coach. That conversation sparked his journey into motivational speaking and comedy. Today, Steve hosts the Motivational Firewood podcast, helping people create positivity through visualization and humour. His message? Success isn't about flashy cars or big houses; it's about being the best version of yourself and spreading positivity wherever you go whether it's through teaching others to visualize their goals or simply leaving a situation better than he found it, Steve's all about making a meaningful impact.     Further details about this podcast, along with my Guest's website and social links are all available at: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/steve-gamlin-teacher-of-people/   Life Passion & Business is dedicated to exploring what it takes to be Extraordinary, to face challenges and rejoice in the opportunities they bring, and to expand our vision into new ways of thinking and living. There is a lot to gain from listening to other people's stories, however the real work begins by taking action in your own life. For full details of Events, Resources and Services visit: www.lifepassionandbusiness.com     Support For Podcasters: Running a podcast is fun, but it takes time and dedication. Whenever you enjoy a podcast please share your appreciation with comments, likes, shares and reviews. It helps other listeners find good content and supports the content creators and their guests. Another way you can support the Life Passion & Business podcast is with small donations: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion  

Today, we will explore the stories we tell ourselves and how they shape our lives. Over the years, I've had the privilege of chatting with hundreds of amazing people, and one thing stands out: our stories are everything. They're the essence of what we feel and do, so let's explore what makes a life truly fulfilling. The Question: Are you the hero in your own story? While the hero's journey is a powerful narrative, not everyone wants to follow that path. And that's okay! Join me as we unravel the secrets to living a vibrant life, exploring the ups and downs, and finding what truly makes us tick. It's not always about being the Jedi Knight saving the universe; sometimes, it's about discovering what truly brings us joy and fulfilment. We'll chat about the magic of routines, how they can be the backbone of our daily lives, and why they might be the key to unlocking happiness. Whether it's through helping others, embracing change, or finding those little moments of pride and gratitude, there's a journey for everyone. Let's find out if the hero's path resonates with you or if there's another narrative waiting to be discovered. So, grab a cup of coffee, relax, and let's embark on this exploration together. For more insights and resources, hop over to lifepassionandbusiness.com. If you find this chat helpful, feel free to share it with a friend. After all, that's how we discover the good stuff, right? Thanks for tuning in, and I'll catch you next time. All the best!   Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.  Or you could buy me a coffee. ;-)         Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/  

Today we're diving into something we all need a little more of in our lives—authentic pride. You know, that warm feeling when you achieve something meaningful, not just for the accolades, but for the personal satisfaction it brings. It's all about exploring what makes us tick and feel alive! In this episode, I reflect on a recent experience marshalling at a local 10k race. Watching those runners push through their challenges, whether sprinting to the finish or walking with determination, got me thinking about why we put ourselves out there. What magic ingredient makes us feel good about ourselves, even when things get tough? It's that sense of pride—feeling proud of our efforts and achievements, big or small. I've been reading a fascinating book by Dr. Jessica Tracy called "Pride: The Secrets of Success." It's an eye-opener on the different types of pride and how authentic pride can propel us to be our best selves. The book shares stories like that of Dean Karnazes, who rediscovered his passion for running at 30, transforming his life. It's about finding that 'thing' that makes you feel fulfilled and proud of who you are. So, what in your life gives you that feeling of accomplishment? Whether running, solving puzzles, or simply sticking to a daily ritual, what matters is how it makes you feel. It's not about boasting or comparing; it's about personal satisfaction. And if you're unsure what that is for you, maybe it's time to explore and find out.   Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/    

In a world of polarity, it is worth remembering that the best things happen when we do them together. This conversation was back in July 2023 and is about leadership and sustainability, but more than that it is about community.  So I thought to bring is back as these talks never date.  Here is Part 2 of my conversation with Osbert Lancaster.  He is an expert in leadership and sustainability and started in the industry even before the word sustainability appeared in the business dictionary. In part 1, we explored his early life and his choices towards his current career. Now it is time to explore how the world of sustainability has changed over the last 30 years, Net Zero and small business, His biggest failure and the big success.   Part 2 Time stamp 3:00 Not all heroes wear capes 5:00 Working together, leadership and bringing people with you. 8:00 Having difficult conversation and finding common ground. 11:00 The new podcast for sustainability 12:00 Small business and the impact of Net Zero 15:00 Sustainability Goals & Narratives 19:00 What does a good life look like, and cultural shift. 23:00 Lessons learned from failure. 28:00 Biggest success 34:00 The out come from divestment 35:00 The wrap up. There is much to take away from this conversation; we all know what must be done. We need to get started and work together.   Further details about this podcast, along with my Guest's website and social links, are all available at: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/osbert-lancaster-leadership-for-sustainability   Life Passion & Business is dedicated to exploring what it takes to be Extraordinary, to face challenges and rejoice in the opportunities they bring, and expand our vision into new ways of thinking and living. There is a lot to gain from listening to other people's stories. However the real work begins by taking action in your own life. For full details of Resources and Services visit: www.lifepassionandbusiness.com     Support For Podcasters: Running a podcast is fun, but it takes time and dedication. Whenever you enjoy a podcast please share your appreciation with comments, likes, shares and reviews. It helps other listeners find good content and supports the content creators and their guests. Another way you can support the Life Passion & Business podcast is with small donations: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion

This show explores a thought-provoking topic: "If not now, then when?" We all ponder this question at different points in our lives. We have dreams and ideas that seem exciting and fulfilling, but for some reason, they always seem just out of reach. Have you ever found yourself waiting for the perfect moment to start something new? Maybe you're in a situation where things aren't quite right, hoping for a sign to make a change. Well, what if I told you that sometimes the sign doesn't come, and you are the one who decides when the time is right? In this episode, we're exploring how to recognize when to take action and make those dreams a reality. Whether it's a big adventure or a small goal like getting fit, it's all about setting an agenda and planning to achieve it. We'll also discuss the importance of writing down your goals—because, let's face it, if it's just in your head, it tends to stay there. I'll share some personal insights and stories, including my own journey with fitness and how I plan to tackle my goals for the coming year. Plus, I'll challenge you to write down ten things you'd like to achieve in the next ten years. It might surprise you what ends up on that list! So, are you ready to stop waiting and start doing? If not now, then when? Let's get inspired and make a plan to turn those dreams into reality. And hey, if you need a little extra support, check out Life Passion and Business for coaching and resources to help you along the way. If you enjoyed this episode, I'd love it if you could share it with a friend. Your support helps this community grow and brings more people into the conversation. And if you feel like showing some love, leave a comment or give us some stars—it's always appreciated! Remember if you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/      

Today, we're diving into the fascinating life of Henry Woodman, a successful entrepreneur from South Florida. Henry's journey is one of twists and turns, starting with a youthful adventure in the jungles of Honduras and ending with a thriving career in the travel industry and beyond. He comes to the podcast to share his experience and a passion project: publishing a manuscript written by his father. As a young man, Henry was encouraged by his mother to get involved. He was on the swimming team, rode horses, played tennis, and spoke several languages. It was her aim to turn him into a well-rounded adult. Well, that worked out well.  At 16, his father invited him, his brother, and three friends on an expedition to find a lost city in Honduras. It is a wonderful story, and for these lads, it was definitely character-building... the experience sparked Henry's passion for film and television, eventually leading him to a successful career in producing travel films and game shows. Join us as Henry shares his incredible journey, the fears and motivations that drove him, and how he built a global tech business from scratch. We also explore his latest passion project: the publication of a love story manuscript written by his father over 40 years ago. This touching story, titled "The Reincarnation of Marie," delves into themes of love, reincarnation, and the mysteries of life. Henry's story is a testament to the power of letting go, embracing opportunities, and the relentless pursuit of one's passions. It's a conversation filled with laughter, insights, and thought-provoking discussions on success, meaning, and contribution. So, grab your favorite beverage, sit back, and enjoy this captivating episode! Don't forget to check out Henry's book and learn more about his upcoming series by visiting MarieTheStory.com. You can also connect with Henry on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn to follow his exciting journey. As always, thank you for being part of our podcast family. Your support means the world to us. If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend or give us a five-star review. Stay tuned for more inspiring stories on Life, Passion, and Business. Until next time!

Now, I know change can be a bit of a tricky customer. We've all been there, resisting it, wishing things would stay the same. But let's be real—nothing ever does, right? Join me as we explore why we often resist change and how our personal stories shape our perceptions of it. I'll share some insights and tales that might just shift your perspective. We often think of change as this big, scary monster, but what if I told you it's where the magic happens? Yes, the best parts of life often lie just on the other side of fear. I'll talk about my own experiences with change, from my transition from marketing to coaching, to the rapid evolution of AI in content creation. It's all about embracing these shifts, even when they make us a bit uncomfortable. Plus, I'll share some inspiring stories of people who have turned their challenges into triumphs.   What about you? Where are you resisting change, and what opportunities might be hiding behind that resistance? Let's dive into this journey together.   And hey, if you enjoy this episode, why not share it with a friend? You never know who might need a little nudge to embrace the changes in their life. Thanks for tuning in, and remember, the adventure awaits on the other side of fear. Until next time, take care!       Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/        

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In this captivating episode, Paul Harvey sits down with Gavin Fernie-Jones, a man whose life journey from the urban streets of Essex to the picturesque landscapes of the French Alps is nothing short of transformative. Join us as we delve into Gavin's story, exploring his evolution from a reluctant child in the Peak District to a passionate advocate for sustainable living and community connection. Gavin's early life took an unexpected turn when his family moved to an isolated outdoor activity center in the Peak District. Initially resistant, Gavin soon found himself immersed in the beauty of nature, a shift that laid the foundation for his lifelong love of the outdoors. This connection to nature was further deepened during his college years, where he pursued art, and later, through his travels and experiences in the French Alps. Now settled in the French Alps, Gavin has spent over two decades integrating his passion for outdoor activities with a growing awareness of the environmental impact of consumerism. His journey took a pivotal turn when he launched an outdoor clothing business, revealing the staggering levels of waste in the industry. This realization sparked a personal journey, and he started a community project that emphasizes repair, reuse, and conscious consumption. Discover how Gavin's initiative, One Tree at a Time, has led to a community-driven revolution where 75% of outdoor clothing in his village is repaired and reused. Learn about the Reaction Collective, an international movement empowering local communities to make a difference while having fun. Gavin shares his insights on living a life in harmony with nature, free from the constraints of consumer culture and societal pressures. Towards the end of the episode, Gavin introduces us to Citizen Friday, a campaign encouraging individuals to share, repair, and get some fresh air as an alternative to the consumer frenzy of Black Friday. Listen in to find out how you can participate in this movement and make a meaningful impact in your own life. This episode is more than just a conversation; it's a call to action. Join Paul and Gavin as they explore the profound shifts we can make in our lives and communities by embracing simplicity, sustainability, and the true essence of being a citizen of the world.       Further details about this podcast along with my Guest's website and social links are all available at: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/gavin-fernie-jones-nature-and-community/     Life Passion & Business is dedicated to exploring what it takes to be Extraordinary, to face challenges and rejoice in the opportunities they bring, and expand our vision into new ways of thinking and living. There is a lot to gain from listening to other people's stories, however the real work begins by taking action in your own life. For full details of Events, Resources and Services visit: www.lifepassionandbusiness.com     Support For Podcasters: Running a podcast is fun, but it takes time and dedication. Whenever you enjoy a podcast please share your appreciation with comments, likes, shares and reviews. It helps other listeners find good content and supports the content creators and their guests. Another way you can support the Life Passion & Business podcast is with small donations: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion    

In this bite-sized episode, I'm diving into the world of sentiment and baggage. You know, all those things we collect over the years that start to weigh us down. Trust me, I get it – my wardrobe's got clothes I haven't worn in ages, and my garage? Let's not even go there! This conversation is all about understanding why we hold onto stuff and, more importantly, how to let it go. It's not just about clearing physical space; it's about freeing up energy and creating room for new possibilities. Remember that Marie Kondo's question, "Does it bring me joy?" It's time to really think about that. I've been helping a friend downsize recently, and wow, the things we accumulate over decades! It's been a real eye-opener, and it's made me reflect on my own habits. So, I'm sharing some tips and tricks on how to tackle your own clutter, one step at a time. Whether it's your wardrobe or that drawer full of who-knows-what, there's a sense of freedom in letting go. And hey, it's not just about the physical stuff. Next week, we're delving into the internal baggage we all carry. Because let's face it, we've got some head trash to clear out too! I'd love to hear your thoughts on this journey of decluttering. How are you doing with your stuff? Could you see yourself releasing some of it? If this episode resonates with you, share it with a friend who might need a little nudge too. Let's make space for new adventures together!     Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/        

The power of laughter and worms. A great conversation from 2021 with Cathy Nesbitt a vermiculture champion and laughter ambassador.  She is saving the earth with compost and saving people with laughter.  As with all of the conversations, they never date.    Today's guest is Cathy Nesbitt who has has been a vermiculture champion for over 20 years (that's worm composting to you and me). Being a lady of a certain age, her working life started with a few options: Teacher, Nurse or Secretary. She chose the latter and had a 20-year career as a secretary and PA working for some prestigious companies. Whilst this work was fine, it was not her passion. The shift to something more inspiring began when she volunteered at a nursing home. She became interested in Psychology and was inspired to study, so she joined a night school class whilst continuing to work full-time at her day job. After finishing her qualification, she sought an opportunity to use and explore her new skills and found a place to work with challenged adults. “This is why I was put on earth to be a social worker. Until I met management, I did not expect the politics.” Little actions can lead to big changes, and in the 1990s, most developed countries were having problems with waste. Canada was no exception. Landfills in Toronto had become full, and trash was being exported to US landfill sites. Looking to do her bit, Cathy started composting at home and encouraged others to do the same. A work injury in 2001 led Cathy to consider new options, and she decided to start her own business. That was the start of what has now been a 20-year journey with composting and worms. Throughout the years, Cathy has won over 20 awards for green business and community support composting. She has published over 300 articles and has been on TV and radio, both local and national. Not one to stand still, Cathy is also a certified Laughter Yoga Leader, Teacher, and Ambassador. So, her life has a theme of worms, bean sprouts, and laughter. Her mission is to promote simple solutions for today's challenges. The link to focus coaching is Here    Cathy's website URL & Social URLs are: http://www.cathyscomposters.com/ http://www.cathyssprouters.com/ http://www.cathysclub.com/ https://www.facebook.com/CathysCrawlyComposters https://twitter.com/Squirm https://www.linkedin.com/in/cathynesbitt/ https://www.youtube.com/user/rhgn2112

 Have you ever wondered if you're looking in the right place? This episode is all about change—about shifting your perspective and focus. As we transition from summer to autumn, I've noticed the temperature in my house dropping. At 18 degrees, it feels chilly now, but in the winter, 18 degrees feels just fine. It's all about what we're used to, right? This shift in focus is something I see often in coaching conversations. People frequently think they want something, but it's not what they actually need. Take money, for example. Sometimes, I look at my bank balance and feel secure, and other times, the same number makes me feel uneasy. It's all about perspective and how we view our resources. One of my clients recently sought support from a friend for a particular problem. It became clear that the friend couldn't provide the needed support, but within an hour, the client had a new idea that could solve the problem. By looking in a different place, they found a new opportunity and took action. It was a fantastic result, and the universe seemed to align everything perfectly. My wife had a similar experience during a meditation session. She noticed the keys on her keyboard—shift, enter, backspace—and realized that shifting our perspective allows us to re-enter situations with new capacities. Fresh thinking and new ideas often come from looking at things differently. Einstein once said you can't solve a problem with the same thinking that got you there. So, if you have a recurring problem or something you'd like to change, try looking at it from a new perspective. Sometimes, this means making difficult decisions, but freedom often comes after those tough choices. Remember, life is an adventure, and you are the principal character. Seeing yourself as the hero of your story can fundamentally change how you treat yourself and your life. So, where are you looking? Are you looking in the right place to solve your current problems?   For more resources and to start your focus coaching journey, visit lifepassionandbusiness.com. Until next time, thanks for being here with me.    Links to focus coaching are below.      Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/      

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For the Sunday reflection, a question was asked of me this morning.   Are you focusing on the light or the dark? It's a good one, right? What do you notice first in the world around you? The bad bits or the good bits? Our world is complex, full of conflict, but also overflowing with beauty and wonder. The magic lies in where we choose to place our attention. When we focus on appreciating the good, we feel better about ourselves and the world we live in. And when we feel good, we can do good, be good, and change the not-so-good around us. This episode is about mastering our thoughts instead of being slaves to them. Yes, we can see the negativity and the ugliness, but we can also open our eyes and hearts to the beauty. It's not just about seeing; it's about being and doing. When we act from a place of generosity and openness, we feel good about ourselves and positively impact the world around us. Finding joy in everything we do, even in mundane tasks like cleaning a toilet, can bring satisfaction. Knowing that someone else will appreciate what you've done can bring a sense of joy. Giving our best to the world attracts the best in return. So, how can you start this journey? It's a bit like practising gratitude. When you catch yourself finding fault, consciously look for beauty. Ask yourself, "Where is the beauty in this?" Today marks the autumn equinox in the UK, a time of equal day and night. While the nights will start drawing in, there's a unique beauty in the autumn colors and the freshness in the air. There's beauty in change, even when it means saying goodbye to summer. For our friends in the southern hemisphere, it's the first day of spring, a time to look forward to summer.  We have a choice in how we view the world. The media often highlights the dark side because it grabs our attention, playing on our innate need for security. But we need to guard against this and choose to see the light. There's always something to be joyful about, even in the greatest challenges. It could be as simple as a good cup of coffee or a stranger's smile. By expressing the best of ourselves and acknowledging the best in the world, we become role models for others. We help them see the beauty they might have missed. So, give it a try. There's no magic tool, just a conscious choice to look for the good. If you find it difficult, keep looking—it's there. Nature is a great place to find beauty and wonder; it carries on regardless of our actions.  

Hello, this is your host Paul Harvey. Today, I want to take you back to January 2022 when I had a truly fascinating conversation with Di Manuel. Trust me, this episode is one for the books! We dive into the depths of change, the struggle with addiction, and dealing with complicated feelings. Di was in a dark place until one powerful question from his wife changed everything:  This question was pivotal for Di, leading him on a path of self-discovery and transformation. This episode explores the themes of fitness, family, faith, finances, and fun  However, the journey wasn't without its pitfalls. Di became known as "Fun Guy Di," always the life of the party but dependent on alcohol and drugs to maintain his extroverted persona. The turning point came when his wife, Christy, sat him down and asked that life-altering question. From that moment, Di committed to a year without drinking, seeking support through therapy and personal development. This decision led to a complete transformation, not just in his personal life but also in his professional endeavours. Today, Di is a TEDx speaker, an author, and the creator of Mentorship Mondays, a safe space for men to connect and support each other. His story is one of rebirth, travel, writing, and more. It's a testament to the power of change and the impact of asking the right questions.       Further details about this podcast along with Dai's website and social links are all available at: http://www.lifepassionandbusiness.com/dai-manuel-breaking-habits     Life Passion & Business is dedicated to exploring what it takes to be Extraordinary, to face challenges and rejoice in the opportunities they bring, and expand our vision into new ways of thinking and living. There is a lot to gain from listening to other people's stories, however the real work begins by taking action in your own life. For full details of Events, Resources and Services visit: www.lifepassionandbusiness.com     Support For Podcasters: Running a podcast is fun, but it takes time and dedication. Whenever you enjoy a podcast please share your appreciation with comments, likes, shares and reviews. It helps other listeners find good content and supports the content creators and their guests. Another way you can support the Life Passion & Business podcast is with small donations: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion

What do you do with a missed goal?  Today's reflection is all about dealing with the moment you realize you might not hit that goal you've been aiming for. It's a tough pill to swallow, right? Whether it's disappointment, shame, or just plain frustration, we all have ways of coping. Let me share a personal story. I had big plans to run a marathon this October. I've been training hard, but it's been a year full of little setbacks, especially with my left knee. Despite my efforts, my long runs have been leaving me completely wiped out. The harsh reality hit me – running 42.8k might be a stretch too far for my current condition. So, I had to make a tough decision. I won't be running the marathon as planned. Instead, I'm looking at other races on the same day, something more manageable for my body right now. It's disappointing, especially since I've told everyone about my marathon plans. But I'm trying to see it as taking the adult path – recognizing the reality of the situation and adjusting accordingly. You see, goals are like signposts on our journey, not the end-all-be-all. The real magic is in the journey itself. Training for a marathon, or any goal, teaches us so much along the way. And sometimes, we need to reevaluate and adjust our plans to stay healthy and move forward. This got me thinking about how we handle unmet goals in life. Do we see them as failures, or as valuable information for our next steps? There's no right or wrong here – it's all about perspective. Each setback is a chance to learn and grow. I'd love to hear how you deal with goals you can't quite reach. Do you see them as failures, or just part of the journey? Reach out and let's chat about it! And don't forget to check out the resources on my website at lifepassionandbusiness.com. There's a lot there to help you on your journey, including the powerful method of focus coaching. Thanks for being here with me. Your time and attention mean the world. Catch you next time!  

Following the Shortcast at the weekend, where we explored the power of Self-Talk, we touched on the issue of shame and guilt, which reminded me of my conversation with Lois Hollis, a woman in her 70s who achieved so much, yet that early trauma came back to haunt her.    It is a story of transcending the past and moving towards the future, and well worth a review.  This show was first aired in July 2022 Where are you in life with the big emotional bricks like shame and guilt? Do you reflect on past events or experience these feelings in current relationships? For most of us, this stuff is part of our makeup; we are unaware of it. Having listened to my guest on the show today, I became conscious of my shame and guilt for past actions and how I have used shame in my family interactions.  My guest on the show has always been a pioneer. Lois Hollis is in her late 70s, deeply connected to God and her faith, and driven by a calling that started in childhood. Her early years were tough. With physical abuse at home, she received multiple head and neck injuries. One of these occasions led to a near-death experience where she received her calling.  At church, she was preached into guilt and shame to find her sins; the teachers at school punished her for dyslexia. Her solace was tap dancing. She loved tap dancing, and she tells me it was tap dancing that pulled her through. It worked because she finished high school, applied to nursing school at the University of Pennsylvania, and received a scholarship. At college, Lois earned an RN and BSN nursing degree and went on to a job at Jefferson Hospital in Philadelphia. Her creative approach to problems was recognised, and she was invited to join a programme that went on to develop the first Kidney Hemorrhage Units in the USA in 1966. She became a pioneer of the kidney dialysis foundation, stayed in the programme for ten years, leaving it behind to have a family, and was blessed with three daughters.  Then life took a turn. Now in her 40s, she experienced headaches that became migraine that developed into a range of other life-threatening problems. It reached a point where she was told she would not live beyond her 50s.   Those childhood traumas and physical abuse had a price it was discovered there were broken bones in her neck and back. Our conversation concerns physical, mental, and spiritual recovery and a wonderfully inspiring journey.   Today Lois Hollis works with shame and guilt as an independent study. She is bringing new knowledge of these misunderstood conditions. She is a filmmaker, author of 3 books, a speaker and a coach.     Further details about this podcast along with my Guest's website and social links are all available at: https://www.lifepassionandbusiness.com/lois-hollis-beyond-shame     Life Passion & Business is dedicated to exploring what it takes to be Extraordinary, to face challenges and rejoice in the opportunities they bring, and expand our vision into new ways of thinking and living. There is a lot to gain from listening to other people's stories, however the real work begins by taking action in your own life. For full details of Events, Resources and Services visit: www.lifepassionandbusiness.com     Support For Podcasters: Running a podcast is fun, but it takes time and dedication. Whenever you enjoy a podcast please share your appreciation with comments, likes, shares and reviews. It helps other listeners find good content and supports the content creators and their guests. Another way you can support the Life Passion & Business podcast is with small donations: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion

Harnessing your self-talk. Have you ever thought about that little voice in your head? You know, the one that pops up most randomly, whether you're doing something you maybe shouldn't be or just indulging yourself. Well, guess what? We all have it, and it's more influential than you might think! In this bite-sized episode, I'm diving into the world of our inner voices. Inspired by the work of Ethan Cross, a psychology professor at the University of Michigan, we'll explore how this internal chatter shapes our lives. From reminding us to pick up milk at the store to holding us back with guilt and shame, our inner voice can be both a friend and a foe. I'll share some personal stories, like how my father's inner voice replayed old regrets, and offer insights into how you can transform this voice into a positive force. We'll discuss practical tools from Ethan's book "Chatter" and techniques like distancing yourself from negative thoughts and using self-talk to boost your confidence. Join me on this reflective journey, and let's learn to make friends with our inner voice. When we do, we unlock a powerful ally who can help us achieve our goals and live a more fulfilling life. And hey, if you've got your own stories or want to chat more about this, feel free to reach out. I'd love to hear from you! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with a friend. And don't forget to check out our website, Life Passion and Business, for more fantastic resources. Thanks for tuning in, and I'll catch you next time. All the best! As always, thank you for joining me on this journey. Your comments and feedback mean the world to me. Feel free to reach out through my website at lifepassionandbusiness.com for resources, coaching, and more.| If you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/      

Hey there! Welcome to another life, passion, and business shortcast with me, Paul Harvey, your friendly midlife coach. Over the years, I've had the pleasure of chatting with hundreds of folks, and one thing has become crystal clear: our stories shape our lives. Everything we do, feel, or experience is based on the narratives we create. Today, we're reflecting on mindfulness. Have you noticed how it's everywhere these days? But what does it actually mean, and is there any real value to it? Mindfulness has seeped into my life over the past five or six years, and I find it incredibly valuable. It's often linked with Buddhism, emphasizing awareness and being present. However, I recently listened to a podcast called "People I Mostly Admire" with Steve Levitt, where he spoke with Ellen Langer, a Harvard professor known as the mother of mindfulness. She's been working on this for about 40 years! Ellen's take on mindfulness is fascinating. Unlike the meditative practices from Buddhist traditions, her version is about being present in your daily life. It's about being mindful of the moment, which is the foundation of all my coaching. Our brains naturally tend to disengage to save energy, like when we tune out during a familiar drive to work. Ellen advocates for being more mindful of our actions, which makes us more alive. She conducted a groundbreaking experiment where elderly men lived as if it were 1959, and their health improved dramatically. It's worth checking out her work, especially her new book, "The Mindful Body: Thinking Our Way to Chronic Health." This concept of mindfulness resonates deeply with me, especially when I'm running. If I focus on my goal with confidence, I achieve it with ease. Doubt, however, makes everything harder. This principle applies to all areas of life. By seeing the world with fresh eyes, we keep ourselves young and vibrant. Ellen suggests noticing new things about people and places to keep our minds engaged and alive. Her insights remind us that being mindful opens up a world of possibilities. So this week, why not give mindfulness a try? See how it changes your perspective and brings the world to life. And if you want more inspiration, check out the podcast episode with Jeannie Blasberg. Her story is full of attention to detail and rich experiences. As always, thank you for joining me on this journey. Your comments and feedback mean the world to me. Feel free to reach out through my website at lifepassionandbusiness.com for resources, coaching, and more.| If you found this shortcast helpful, please share it with a friend.          Life Passion & Business Podcast is about finding answers to life's big questions through weekly interviews with guest speakers. The Shortcast is my ongoing commitment to staying inquisitive and passionate about life with whatever is alive for me each week. Follow the links below to discover what else is on offer.     The Five Questions eBook: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/the-five-questions Focus Coaching: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/focus-coaching/ Support The Podcast:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion Midlife Survey: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/midlife-challenge/        

When I think about my guest on the show, I think of personal leadership, commitment, and making a difference. She inspires me on at least two, possibly three, counts because she is an athlete, a novelist, and a regenerative farmer. I recognise a fellow polymath. As an only child, Jeanne Blasberg spent a lot of time alone. Her parents gave her a lot of independence, and she credits this time with igniting her love for storytelling and nurturing her creativity. To this day, she can juggle and close up magic.    Heading college, she went for the humanities, with American Studies, so you would never have guessed she would end up on Wall Street as a baby banker. That means the grunt worker for the banking industry. It has served her well in writing, her work in nonprofits, and now, her work at the regenerative farm. Banking in the 1980s was volatile, so it was worth taking when a job opportunity came up in the same city as her husband's career move. Sinsinattie was a bit of a jump from New York, but her timing was good, as the bank that she left was taken over and effectively closed. The new job was a challenge, but opened opportunities.     After her first child, the family moved back to Boston. The skills she gained from that job led to writing case studies for Harvard Business School. Now a full-time Mum, she competed in athletics, Worked in non-profits, and held the Chair of US Squash. Somewhere in that list, she found the time to read and explore her creativity in writing groups, and the ideas for her first novel arrived.   That book was published in 2017 and called “Eden” and followed in 2019 by “The Nine” This is a lovely conversation with a woman who is a polymath. She can turn her attention to anything and make it happen. She is a deep thinker and has many tools for living a good life. We cover all of the usual questions, including why, when most people are looking to retire, she and her husband have effectively gone back to school to learn how to work the land. However, she is clearly passionate about wellness, the food system, and the healing aspect of nature because it inspires her writing. Just 18 months back, they bought a 420-acre regenerative farm in SW Wisconsin called Flynn Creek Farm.   In April this year, she released her third novel, DAUGHTER OF A PROMISE; she co-chairs the Boston Book Festival and serves on the Executive Committee of GrubStreet, a preeminent creative writing centre in Boston.  Of course, she is the CEO of Flynn Creek Farm.           Further details about this podcast along with my Guest's website and social links are all available at: https://lifepassionandbusiness.com/jeanne-blasberg-author-and-regenerative-farmer/     Life Passion & Business is dedicated to exploring what it takes to be Extraordinary, to face challenges and rejoice in the opportunities they bring, and expand our vision into new ways of thinking and living. There is a lot to gain from listening to other people's stories, however the real work begins by taking action in your own life. For full details of Events, Resources and Services visit: www.lifepassionandbusiness.com     Support For Podcasters: Running a podcast is fun, but it takes time and dedication. Whenever you enjoy a podcast please share your appreciation with comments, likes, shares and reviews. It helps other listeners find good content and supports the content creators and their guests. Another way you can support the Life Passion & Business podcast is with small donations: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lifeandpassion