The Caregiver Cup Podcast

Send Cathy a text:)Stepping into a hospital house is entering a world most caregivers never know exists until they're suddenly immersed in it. After 45+ days living at Kathy's House while my husband undergoes stem cell transplant treatment, I've discovered the raw, complex reality of caregiving away from home—and the unexpected community that forms in these spaces of collective vulnerability.Between the shared kitchens where caregivers exchange whispered stories over coffee, the laundry rooms where tears and laughter flow equally, and the quiet corners where we all seek momentary solitude, these medical housing communities become more than just places to sleep near the hospital. They become lifelines of support when everything familiar has been stripped away.The daily rhythm at Kathy's House constantly shifts between early morning hospital visits, meal preparation in communal spaces, finding moments for essential self-care, and navigating the practical logistics of living in an unfamiliar city. From discovering the safest grocery stores to handling car maintenance between appointments, caregiving doesn't pause for real-world responsibilities. Through it all, fellow caregivers become unexpected sources of strength—offering to wash your dishes when you're exhausted or simply sharing knowing glances across the dining room during community meals.What I've learned most profoundly is how caregiving transforms across different settings. Hospital caregiving focuses on advocacy and emotional support, while hospital house caregiving blends direct care with creating normalcy in an abnormal situation. The weight of homesickness—missing my garden, my pets, my own bed—is balanced by the deep connections formed with others walking similar paths. Through bringing small comforts from home, establishing new routines, and embracing micro-connections with fellow caregivers, I've discovered you can create a sense of belonging even in the midst of medical uncertainty.If you've experienced hospital house living or extended caregiving away from home, I'd love to hear your story. What small comforts did you bring to create a sense of home? How did you maintain your own well-being while supporting someone else's healing? Send me a text—because sharing these hidden caregiving journeys reminds us all that even in our most isolating moments, we're never truly alone.Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)Have you ever found yourself in the chaos of caregiving thinking, "I can't do this anymore"? That feeling of wanting to give up is universal among caregivers, especially during prolonged challenges and setbacks.When I hit emotional walls during  Denis' stem cell transplant journey, I discovered a powerful truth: our feelings, while real, aren't always factual. We might feel like everything is falling apart, but distinguishing between emotional reactions and objective reality can be our anchor in stormy times. I've developed a simple practice called "the what, the why, and the check-in" to navigate overwhelming moments. First, I acknowledge what I'm feeling without judgment. Then I examine the facts of the situation, separating what I know for certain from what my fears are projecting. Finally, I identify one small action I can take today to move forward - whether that's talking to a doctor, taking a reflective walk, or practicing gratitude.Think of yourself as either a sailor holding onto your compass during a storm or a farmer tending your field regardless of weather conditions. Your caregiving journey requires attention and care every day, not because it's easy but because it matters. Your "storm plan" might look different from your regular routine, but maintaining some structure helps you stay grounded when everything feels chaotic. Ask yourself: Where have your feelings been steering you lately? When have you felt tempted to abandon your plan? What does holding onto your focus during difficult times look like for you? You're stronger than you feel in your hardest moments. You don't need to feel strong to be strong - you just need to keep going one step, one breath, one moment at a time. Bookmark this episode for those days when giving up seems like the only option. Remember, we're not alone in this journey. Together, we can show up as our best selves, even through the storms.Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)Fear, worry, and uncertainty often feel like unwelcome yet permanent companions on the caregiving journey. After receiving a heartfelt message from a listener worried about her husband's upcoming bone marrow transplant, I knew this topic needed addressing – not just for her, but for all of us navigating these turbulent emotional waters.These powerful emotions aren't signs of weakness or failure. They're natural human responses that actually demonstrate how deeply you care for your loved one. The fear of medical unknowns, the worry about what recovery might look like, and the overwhelming sense that no one truly understands what you're going through – these universal caregiver experiences deserve acknowledgment and compassionate attention.Drawing from my own experiences with my husband Denis's ongoing stem cell transplant journey, I share how quickly the mind can spiral from a minor medical hiccup to worst-case scenarios. This mental pattern isn't unusual; it's your brain's misguided attempt to protect you. The key isn't eliminating these emotions (impossible!) but learning to work with them through practical techniques like mindfulness exercises, creating small pockets of routine, focusing on what you can control, journaling to externalize racing thoughts, and practicing radical self-compassion.Perhaps most critically, no caregiver should shoulder this emotional burden alone. Whether it's family members taking shifts with your loved one, friends handling practical matters at home, or connecting with fellow caregivers who truly understand your experience, building your support network isn't optional – it's essential. I've learned to be specific about what support looks like for me: not problem-solving but simply listening and asking thoughtful questions.Remember this: you're making a profound difference every single day, even when you don't feel particularly strong or capable. Your presence matters immensely to your loved one. Take each day one step at a time, fill your own cup when possible, and know that your fear doesn't diminish your strength – it simply reveals the depth of your love.Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)Ever reached that breaking point where your body simply won't let you power through anymore? That's exactly where I found myself this week as my husband Dennis faced serious complications following his stem cell transplant for cancer.This raw mini-episode takes you through the emotional rollercoaster we experienced—from the joyful bell-ringing ceremony marking Dennis's hospital discharge to the crushing setbacks that followed just hours later. You'll hear about the gut-wrenching moment when I had to choose between being at my granddaughter's graduation and staying with my struggling spouse, and the Sunday when everything came crashing down around me. I share openly about hitting my lowest point as a caregiver, when terrifying thoughts spiraled and I felt completely paralyzed by fear and exhaustion.The journey through caregiving rarely follows a straight line, and sometimes hope appears just when you need it most. I reveal the turning point that helped me finally exhale, and why my body's stress response is still on high alert days later. For anyone juggling medications, appointments, and the emotional weight of caring for a loved one through serious illness, this episode offers validation and a powerful reminder: your nervous system needs rest too. When was the last time you gave yourself permission to not be okay? To step off the hamster wheel, even for five minutes? Remember, filling your cup isn't selfish—it's essential. Join our community of caregivers who understand that we're all in this together, one breath, one step, one mindful moment at a time. Subscribe now and know you're never alone on this journey.Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)What happens when your support just isn't helping? When encouragement falls flat? When your loved one withdraws completely? These are the unspoken challenges of caregiving that leave us feeling helpless and questioning our effectiveness.Drawing from my current experience supporting my husband through his transplant journey, I share the raw reality of watching him struggle with severe physical pain and emotional withdrawal. Despite my best efforts to lift his spirits, there were moments when nothing seemed to help. But through this experience, I discovered something profound about emotional caregiving that's rarely discussed.Sometimes, the most powerful support isn't about motivating or finding silver linings – it's about presence. Your loved one may be carrying physical pain, grief for their former capabilities, fear, and overwhelming uncertainty. In these moments, they don't need cheerleading; they need someone willing to sit beside them in that darkness without trying to fix it. Your quiet presence says, "I see you, and you're not alone," which can be more meaningful than any pep talk.For caregivers accustomed to problem-solving, this shift from performance-based to presence-based support can be challenging. We often measure our effectiveness by visible results – a smile, gratitude, improvement. When those indicators are absent, we conclude we're failing. But here's the truth: You are not failing. You're facing a hard reality and still showing up.Equally important is setting boundaries without guilt. I've learned to establish a rhythm that honors both my husband's needs and my own wellbeing – being present during key medical interactions while also taking necessary breaks to recharge. These boundaries aren't selfish; they're essential for maintaining emotional capacity to provide quality support for the long haul.What emotional boundary could you establish this week to protect your energy? Whether it's a daily break, asking for help, or simply saying "not right now," honor that boundary as a gift to yourself and your loved one. Remember: Rest is not quitting. Boundaries aren't walls that shut people out; they're bridges that help sustain the care we offer.Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)Emotional support isn't just something we provide as caregivers—it's often the most exhausting yet invisible part of our role. When our loved ones are in pain, frustrated, or losing hope, we become their cheerleaders, their comforters, and their gentle push to keep going, sometimes when we barely have enough emotional energy for ourselves.This episode explores what emotional support truly looks like in caregiving relationships and how to provide it in ways that are sustainable for both you and your loved one. Drawing from my current experience supporting my husband Denis through his stem cell transplant at Froedtert Hospital, I share honest reflections on what it means to hold someone's hope while managing your own emotional wellbeing.We unpack the many unseen roles caregivers juggle—from medical assistant to financial administrator—with special focus on being an "emotional motivator." You'll discover practical approaches for offering compassionate support without trying to fix everything, creating micro-moments of motivation when big celebrations aren't possible, and establishing simple routines that anchor both of you during chaotic times.Most importantly, this episode gives you permission to acknowledge how exhausting emotional labor can be, even when you're "just sitting there" beside your loved one. Learn strategies for checking in with your emotional tank, protecting your energy, and showing up with genuine presence rather than forced cheerfulness.This is part one of a two-part series on emotional support in caregiving. Next week, we'll tackle the harder questions: what to do when your loved one doesn't want motivation, how to set healthy emotional boundaries, and when to call in reinforcements for yourself.What's one way you can offer emotional support to your loved one this week without draining your own energy? I'd love to hear your thoughts—text me and share your experience!Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)Caregiving seasons constantly shift, and finding your rhythm during these transitions can make all the difference between barely surviving and maintaining your wellbeing. This episode explores how creating meaningful routines becomes your anchor when everything else feels unpredictable.Cathy opens up about her current reality as her husband Denis undergoes a stem cell transplant, sharing how she's had to completely reimagine her daily schedule. From juggling hospital visits to maintaining her own health, she walks through the practical challenges of adapting to a new caregiving landscape. Her vulnerability about feeling emotionally overwhelmed while trying to establish normalcy offers a relatable perspective for caregivers in similar situations.The heart of this episode focuses on the five key benefits of establishing routines: creating structure amid uncertainty, reducing decision fatigue, carving out essential space for self-care, supporting physical health, and providing emotional comfort during unfamiliar circumstances. Rather than prescribing a rigid schedule, Cathy offers a framework for building personalized "anchor points" throughout your day—morning activities to start positively, midday resets, and evening wind-downs that honor your current capacity.What makes this guidance particularly valuable is its adaptability. Whether you're in a manageable season with some breathing room or completely maxed out, there are practical suggestions for incorporating small moments of self-care without adding more to your plate. From listening to calming music while washing dishes to creating "pause cards" with encouraging mantras, these accessible practices can be woven into existing activities.Ready to reclaim even five minutes of your day for yourself? This episode might just show you how those few minutes could become your most powerful tool for sustainable caregiving. Share what season you're in and what routine is helping you stay grounded—your experience might be exactly what another caregiver needs to hear.Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)Have you ever felt completely lost in a hospital, frantically searching for your loved one while juggling bags, security badges, and your own mounting anxiety? In this raw and surprisingly humorous episode, I take you through my first chaotic days at Froedtert Hospital in Milwaukee, where what should have been a straightforward procedure for my husband Dennis turned into a maze-like adventure of miscommunication, construction detours, and badge readers that simply wouldn't cooperate.The healthcare system does an admirable job caring for patients, but as caregivers, we're often left navigating the periphery with minimal guidance. From wandering parking garages in search of elusive elevators to sweating through my clothes from stress (yes, I literally could have wrung out my bra in the bathroom!), these experiences highlight a universal truth about caregiving: no matter how prepared you think you are, chaos finds a way.What saves us in these moments? Small acts of self-care—taking deep breaths in elevators, feeling the grass under our hands when overwhelm strikes, finding humor in absurdity, and connecting with fellow blue-lanyard-wearing caregivers who get it without explanation. These tiny moments of grounding become lifelines when everything feels overwhelming.Whether you're currently in the caregiving trenches or supporting someone who is, this episode offers both practical wisdom and emotional solidarity. Remember: caregiving is a marathon, not a sprint. You don't have to have it all figured out, and it's okay when things get messy. The strength is in showing up anyway—for your loved one and for yourself.Share your most chaotic caregiving story with me! Text the number in the show notes. Your experiences matter, and in sharing them, we remind each other that while this journey is challenging, we're never truly alone in navigating it.Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)When elephants sense danger, they form a protective circle with the most vulnerable in the center—a powerful metaphor for how caregivers need their own support systems. Drawing inspiration from this natural phenomenon, I explore the emotional barriers that prevent us from building our own protective circles while sharing my personal journey preparing for my husband Dennis's upcoming 90-day stem cell transplant.For many caregivers, especially those with achievement-oriented personalities, asking for help feels like failure. I've spent decades being the perfectionist who folds towels just so, organizes the dishwasher according to precise systems, and insists on cutting the lawn a specific way. These control tendencies create barriers to accepting the support we desperately need. Whether it's guilt over "burdening" others, perfectionism that whispers "no one can do it as well as you," or fear of losing control, these emotions ultimately harm both the caregiver and their loved one.Your inner circle serves multiple critical purposes—providing emotional support from people who truly understand your situation, protecting your energy for the caregiving marathon, and keeping you grounded in joy and perspective beyond your caregiving role. Building this network requires intentional steps: mapping out specific support roles, starting with small requests, mixing personal encouragement with practical assistance, scheduling regular check-ins, and celebrating wins together.Throughout this episode, I share practical strategies from my own experience—creating a private Facebook group for coordinated support, preparing for hospital celebrations from afar, and learning to express gratitude without guilt. The question isn't whether you need help, but rather: what small thing could you ask your inner circle to do for you this week, and who will you reach out to first? Remember, opening up isn't weakness; it's an act of courage and self-love that transforms caregiving from a lonely burden into a connected journey.Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)Ever catch yourself saying "I'm fine" when you're anything but? As caregivers, we often hide behind these white lies, putting on a brave face while secretly exhausted, frustrated, or on the verge of tears. This episode dives deep into the concept of toxic positivity—that harmful tendency to suppress our authentic emotions behind a mask of forced cheerfulness.Studies show over 75% of people deliberately pretend to be happy when they're not. While it might seem easier to hide behind the facade of happiness, this emotional masking comes at a significant cost. The disconnection from our true emotions can lead to isolation, deeper trauma, and eventually feeling like we've lost ourselves in the caregiving journey.One listener from Israel shared wisdom that perfectly captures the balanced approach we need: "This isn't about pretending everything's okay. It's about honoring your challenges and allowing space for joy to sneak in." This powerful perspective reminds us that acknowledging our struggles doesn't mean wallowing in negativity—it creates space for authentic healing and genuine moments of happiness.Think of emotional expression as a teeter-totter. On one end is the perpetually negative person who brings everyone down with constant complaints. On the opposite end is the toxically positive person whose eternal sunshine feels inauthentic and dismissive. True emotional health exists in the balanced middle—being honest about challenges while remaining open to joy.When we share our true feelings with someone, even when they're not positive, we foster intimacy and build deeper connections. These authentic exchanges become gifts we offer each other, creating relationships sturdy enough to weather the hardest caregiving seasons. As you go through your week, challenge yourself: What feeling have you been hiding behind "I'm fine," and who will you share it with? Are you living just to make it through, or are you living to make it count?Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)Grace might seem like a lofty concept, but for caregivers, it's the lifeline we desperately need when drowning in overwhelming responsibilities, emotional turmoil, and crushing self-expectations.Drawing wisdom from Jamie Kern Lima's book "Worthy," this episode explores how caregivers can transform their relationship with mistakes, imperfections, and regrets. That argument with your loved one where you said something hurtful? The stress-induced cookie binge? Those moments of isolation when depression takes hold? These aren't just failures to beat yourself up about – they're potential turning points in your caregiving journey."We are our mess or we can become our message," Robin Roberts wisely notes. This perspective shift allows us to see our struggles not as evidence of inadequacy but as the very experiences building our strength and resilience. The episode dives deep into how our setbacks often become setups for what we're meant to do next in life. The challenges that seem unfair or senseless today might be preparing us for something we cannot yet see.The reality is stark: no caregiver can do it all perfectly. When we hold ourselves to impossible standards, we miss the grace already present in our lives. Through vulnerable personal reflections about body image struggles and weight gain during her caregiving journey, Kathy illustrates how self-compassion creates space for healing even amid ongoing challenges.Want a practical way to invite more grace into your life? Place a sticky note with the word "grace" somewhere visible or set it as your phone's lock screen. This simple reminder can interrupt self-criticism when it arises. Consider journaling moments when you notice grace or practice forgiving yourself. Because the more you acknowledge grace, the more it appears – surrounding you, going before you, standing beside you, and lifting you when you fall.Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)Have you ever felt your body physically react to stress before your mind could even process what was happening? That moment when your skin flushes hot, your heart races, and your shoulders tighten into knots—all while your thoughts spin "like a blender on high"?When an unexpected hospital notification arrived detailing fifteen pre-transplant appointments for my husband Denis across multiple locations—followed by a massive binder of medical instructions—my body's stress response kicked into overdrive. Despite years of teaching stress management techniques, I found myself overwhelmed by the physical and emotional weight of what lay ahead. The striking contrast between my immediate planning mode and Denis's calm "one-step-at-a-time" approach highlighted something crucial about caregiving stress: we all process it differently. Neither approach is wrong, but understanding your personal stress response is the first step toward managing it effectively. When traditional techniques failed me—the walks, the breathing exercises, even meditation—I returned to what works best for me: journaling my fears and speaking honestly with my support network.This episode unpacks five evidence-based strategies for managing caregiver stress, from understanding the science behind your body's stress signals to finding your unique outlet for processing emotions. With research showing that nearly 60% of caregivers experience high levels of stress and burnout, recognizing when your body is sending warning signals becomes essential to your wellbeing. Whether you're facing a major medical event like we are or navigating the daily challenges of caregiving, these practical tools can help you transform overwhelming moments into manageable steps.Text me your thoughts or join my email community through the show notes. Together, we can navigate even the most difficult caregiving seasons with greater resilience and self-compassion.Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)Caregiving often leads to profound isolation, a reality I experienced firsthand during my husband Dennis's first stem cell transplant. With his second transplant approaching, I'm determined to transform potential loneliness into connection and community.This episode explores the hidden costs of caregiver isolation, backed by sobering statistics: 61% of family caregivers report feeling lonely, and 40-70% experience depression. Beyond emotional impacts, isolation weakens our immune system and increases risks of chronic illness. Many caregivers lose touch with friends or stop participating in social activities, creating a cycle that becomes increasingly difficult to break.During Dennis's first transplant, I retreated into my introvert tendencies, using COVID protocols as an excuse to avoid meaningful interactions at our temporary housing facility. Though surrounded by people, I felt profoundly alone. The result? Oversleeping, emotional eating, increased anxiety, and feelings of unworthiness that only deepened my isolation.Through personal reflection and support from accountability partners, I discovered that breaking free from isolation begins with small steps: brief conversations with staff, scheduled FaceTime calls with friends, and gradually expanding my comfort zone. For caregivers feeling isolated now, I offer practical suggestions from texting a friend "I miss you" to joining online support groups or community activities.As I prepare for Dennis's upcoming stem cell transplant, I'm approaching it with a new mindset: connection is my lifeline. I'll participate in communal dinners, engage with other caregivers, and maintain regular contact with my support network.Where do you fall on the loneliness scale from 1-5? Text me your number and one step you'll take to fill your social cup. Remember, while change might start with a tiny step, it can lead to transformative joy in even the hardest caregiving seasons.Support the show

Send Cathy a text:)Caregiving transforms us in ways we rarely anticipate. The journey from those first overwhelming days to developing confidence and systems is filled with valuable lessons—if we take time to recognize them.Have you ever stopped to consider everything you've learned since becoming a caregiver? From mastering nursing skills without formal training to becoming an amateur pharmacist juggling complex medication schedules, the growth is remarkable. This episode explores that learning curve through my recent experience helping my husband navigate a new cancer treatment regimen.When faced with multiple new medications—each with specific timing requirements, food interactions, and dosing schedules—the potential for confusion is enormous. After watching my mother accidentally overdose on medications because she couldn't track what she'd taken, I knew we needed a system. What emerged was a personalized approach combining visual medication mapping with digital reminders that respected my husband's need to understand what he was taking and why.The episode also tackles the delicate balance of providing care while preserving your own wellbeing. Taking a few hours for myself during my husband's treatment wasn't abandonment—it was necessary self-preservation that allowed me to return refreshed and better able to support him. These small adjustments can make an enormous difference in sustaining your caregiving journey.Whether you're new to caregiving or have been at it for years, this episode offers permission to acknowledge your growth, celebrate your adaptability, and continue asking questions when you need help. Remember, when you prioritize filling your own cup, you can show up as your best self for your loved one. What has your caregiving journey taught you about yourself?Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT

Send Cathy a text:)What happens when caregiving becomes too much? The tragic story of Gene Hackman and wife, Betsy serves as a powerful wake-up call for all of us who care for loved ones. Caregiving often appears as an act of pure love and dedication, but behind closed doors, many caregivers struggle with exhaustion, isolation, and overwhelming responsibility that can lead to crisis.This deeply personal episode explores the hidden emotional toll of caregiving and provides a framework for recognizing when you're approaching your breaking point. Through candid conversation and thoughtful questions, Cathy guides you through an emotional check-in process: How are you really feeling? Are you constantly exhausted? When was the last time you experienced joy? These simple yet profound questions can help identify burnout before it consumes you.The episode doesn't just highlight problems—it offers practical solutions for building support systems before reaching crisis. From creative ways to enlist help from neighbors and friends to exploring professional resources like respite care, Cathy shares strategies that have worked in her own challenging caregiving journey. She emphasizes that asking for help isn't a sign of weakness but rather an essential survival skill for sustainable caregiving.Whether you're caring for a spouse with a chronic illness, an aging parent, or a child with special needs, this conversation will help you recognize when "doing it all" becomes dangerous. More importantly, it reminds you that you deserve support and care too. If you're feeling overwhelmed, don't keep it inside—there are people who can and want to help. And if you know a caregiver, check in with them, offer specific assistance, and be part of their essential support network. Your small gesture might be exactly what they need to keep their cup from emptying completely.Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT

Send Cathy a text:)Caregiving is an endlessly demanding role, often leading to burnout and stress. Yet, amidst these challenges, there's a transformative practice that can change everything—the 10-10 method. This episode introduces caregivers to the concept of dedicating just 10% of their mornings and evenings to self-care. By carving out these small blocks of time, caregivers can recharge, reflect, and prepare for the day ahead. As we explore personal stories and community feedback, we highlight how incorporating simple self-care strategies can positively affect not only your well-being, but also the quality of care you provide. The 10-10 method is customizable—emphasizing the importance of adapting the practice to fit individual needs and lifestyles. We encourage caregivers to engage with one another, share their experiences, and ultimately reclaim their energy and joy in caregiving.Join us as we unpack the powerful takeaways of the 10-10 method, offering insights and practical tips to empower caregivers to thrive rather than merely survive. Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts with us—how will you make your 10 minutes count?Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: Register for the upcoming FREE WORKSHOP: Gifting Yourself Joy, Peace, and Personal Time Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat

Send Cathy a text:)After years of caregiving on high drive, I finally took a break—and it was harder than I expected. Slowing down felt foreign, and for the first time, I realized how much I had been running on stress and urgency. In this episode, I'm sharing my personal journey of stepping back, finding clarity, and learning to balance my well-being with caregiving.Can you take a break without feeling guilty? Can you live a day without being "on edge"? Let's talk about the importance of true respite time—why it's essential, how it brings clarity, and how you can integrate small, meaningful changes to prioritize both your loved one and yourself.Plus, I'm back with a fresh perspective on the podcast, my business, and what's next for this incredible community. Tune in for an honest conversation about resetting, realigning, and embracing a new rhythm in caregiving.

Send Cathy a text:)In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain and sharing some personal updates on Denis' treatment journey—including the challenges, frustrations, and lessons learned along the way. From navigating the maze of health insurance approvals to advocating for timely care, I'm diving into the reality of what it takes to ensure our loved ones get the treatment they need. If you've ever felt stuck in red tape or frustrated by delays, this episode is for you. Tune in for real talk, advocacy insights, and a reminder that persistence is our greatest tool as caregivers.

Send Cathy a text:)In this deeply personal episode of The Caregiver Cup Podcast, I share a heartfelt announcement about pausing the podcast and my services to focus on what matters most—caring for my beloved spouse, Denis, as he battles aggressive cancer. Inspired by Hoda Kotb's Where We Belong, I reflect on the challenges and emotional journey of caregiving, the importance of self-care, and setting healthy boundaries. Join me as I open up about the tough decisions and soul searching that led to this pause, and offer a message of hope and encouragement to fellow caregivers navigating their own paths. Thank you for your unwavering support and understanding during this time.

Send Cathy a text:)We've all heard the saying, “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.” But what if the lemons never stop falling? In this episode, we tackle the relentless challenges of caregiving—constant medical appointments, emotional strain, and the physical toll of caregiving. Drawing from personal stories and insights, we'll share how to build resilience and find small moments of joy, even in the face of uncertainty and exhaustion.You'll learn Practical Steps to Navigate THIS SEASON, including:Recognizing when you're overwhelmed and finding ways to recharge.Leaning into mindfulness practices to center your thoughts.Adjusting and refining coping strategies that may need updating.Finding small, meaningful moments of joy each day.Establishing a support system to help lighten your load.Caregiving may be relentless, but by building resilience and focusing on what you can control, you can find strength to keep going—and even rediscover happiness along the way.Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: Register for the upcoming FREE WORKSHOP: Gifting Yourself Joy, Peace, and Personal Time Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat

Send Cathy a text:)Ever felt like a cluttered closet could throw off your entire day? I certainly have, and in this episode, I share my journey from chaos to clarity by tackling the messes in my life—starting with that very closet. We explore how disorganization can stir up stress and guilt, especially for those of us juggling caregiving, work, and household responsibilities. By sharing personal insights, I aim to shed light on how a bit of tidying up can transform not just our spaces, but also our emotional landscape.Caregivers, this one's for you. We dive deep into the emotional whirlwind that comes with managing multiple roles without a plan. From my own experiences, I discuss practical strategies to keep everything in check, from decluttering to setting daily routines. It's all about finding simple yet effective ways to bring order to your life, enabling you to focus on what matters most—providing compassionate care without losing sight of your own well-being. The goal is to empower you with tools to reduce stress and enhance satisfaction in your caregiving journey.Technology and self-care take the spotlight as we wrap up the episode. Managing medications and appointments becomes a breeze with digital tools, while self-care routines act as a much-needed balm for the soul. I discuss how technology can streamline caregiving tasks, and why taking time for yourself is not just a luxury, but a necessity. Together, we explore how embracing organization and self-care can lead to personal growth and a more balanced, fulfilling life. Tune in to learn how you can incorporate these insights into your daily routine, making each day a little brighter and more manageable.Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: Register for the upcoming FREE WORKSHOP: Gifting Yourself Joy, Peace, and Personal Time Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat

Send Cathy a text:)Understanding the importance of self-reflection is crucial for caregivers navigating their responsibilities. In this episode, we discuss six essential questions that can help caregivers prioritize self-care, manage stress, and create effective contingency plans while fostering gratitude. • The necessity of prioritizing self-care for overall well-being • Being realistic about what responsibilities one can manage effectively • Understanding underlying challenges and addressing them • Finding effective strategies for stress management • Importance of having a backup plan for caregiving situations • Practicing gratitude as a powerful tool to stay grounded Your feedback not only helps but also inspires others who are navigating this same journey. Get all the questions in this week's blog.Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: Register for the upcoming FREE WORKSHOP: Gifting Yourself Joy, Peace, and Personal Time Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat

Send Cathy a text:)This episode focuses on the reflections and resolutions caregivers can embrace as they transition into the New Year. The host shares personal experiences, practical strategies, and the importance of self-care to cultivate energy and resilience moving into 2025. • Reflecting on personal experiences during the New Year as a caregiver • Creating new traditions and finding contentment in quiet moments • Recognizing personal victories and challenges in caregiving • Utilizing journaling as a tool for reflection and self-discovery • The significance of self-care in nourishing the caregiver's spirit • Choosing a focus word for the year to guide intentions • Developing actionable strategies for maintaining personal energy • Emphasizing community support among caregivers Prioritize self-care, set boundaries, and lean on your support systems. Reflect on your victories, no matter how small, and acknowledge the challenges you've overcome.Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: Register for the upcoming FREE WORKSHOP: Gifting Yourself Joy, Peace, and Personal Time Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat

Send Cathy a text:)Twas the night before Christmas, and all through the house, the caregivers were stirring, with duties to rouse. Join me, Cathy, on this heartwarming Christmas Eve edition of the Caregiver Cup Podcast as we celebrate the unsung heroes who give their all every day. Through a heartfelt twist on the classic "Twas the Night Before Christmas," I pay tribute to your spirit, dedication, and the warmth you bring to the world. Whether you're sipping cocoa by the fire or stealing a quiet moment amidst the holiday hustle, remember to take a little time for yourself, because you deserve it.As we reflect on the past year and look forward to 2025, I'm filled with hope and excitement for what's to come. Whether or not your loved ones show their appreciation, please know that you are deeply valued. The Caregiver Cup Podcast will continue to support you, tackling the challenges we face together in new episodes starting January. So, stay warm, stay joyful, and relish in the special bond we share. From my heart to yours, have a very Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, and a joyful New Year. Until next week, dear friend, cherish the joy and love you bring to others.Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: Register for the upcoming FREE WORKSHOP: Gifting Yourself Joy, Peace, and Personal Time Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat

Send Cathy a text:)The holiday season is a time of joy and celebration, but for caregivers, it can also bring added stress, exhaustion, and feelings of isolation. In this heartwarming episode, we unveil "Festive Self-Care for Caregivers: 12 Tips to Thrive This Holiday Season." Designed specifically for those who tirelessly support their loved ones, this episode offers practical, festive, and easy-to-implement self-care strategies to help you navigate the holidays with grace and joy.Join us as we count down 12 essential self-care tips inspired by the beloved "12 Days of Christmas," each tailored to uplift your spirit and replenish your energy. From creating peaceful moments by the Christmas tree to indulging in well-deserved treats, our tips are crafted to fit seamlessly into your busy caregiving routine. Discover how simple practices like mindful breathing, connecting with loved ones in meaningful ways, and gifting yourself special moments of relaxation can transform your holiday experience, making it not only manageable but truly enjoyable.Whether you're seeking ways to reduce stress, find moments of peace, or simply add a touch of holiday magic to your daily life, this episode is your ultimate guide to thriving as a caregiver this season. Tune in and give yourself the gift of self-care—because you deserve to feel the warmth and joy of the holidays just as much as those you care for. Don't miss out on these invaluable tips that will help you embrace the festive spirit while maintaining your well-being. Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: Register for the upcoming FREE WORKSHOP: Gifting Yourself Joy, Peace, and Personal Time Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat

Send Cathy a text:)Navigating the stormy seas of caregiving during chemotherapy can be daunting, especially when unexpected crises arise. Picture this: a routine chemotherapy session quickly spirals into an emergency room visit due to alarming symptoms like a rapid heart rate, fever, and severe headache. This episode of the Caregiver Cup podcast takes you through our whirlwind experience, shedding light on the importance of preparedness and the critical role caregivers play as advocates. Discover the essential steps to efficiently manage emergency situations and ensure your loved one receives the best possible care.Preparedness is key in high-stakes medical emergencies, and this episode arms you with invaluable tips to stay ahead. Imagine having an organized "grab and go" bag with vital documents or being equipped with both digital and physical copies of your loved one's medical history. These are just some of the strategies we explore to help you tackle emergency room visits and potential hospital admissions with confidence. The episode also delves into the vital advocacy skills required to navigate various medical settings, ensuring that you remain a strong support system for your loved one.Communication is the lifeline during such trying times, and we delve into practical advice on how to engage effectively with healthcare providers. Learn how to ask the right questions, stay informed, and manage stress through small, sustainable self-care routines. With personal anecdotes of managing hospital care during a snowstorm and insights into maintaining balance amidst chaos, this episode is your guide to becoming a resilient caregiver, ready to take on the complexities of medical emergencies with tenacity and grace.Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: Register for the upcoming FREE WORKSHOP: Gifting Yourself Joy, Peace, and Personal Time Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat

Send Cathy a text:)How are you feeling this holiday season, caregiver? The holidays can be especially challenging when you're balancing caregiving duties with festive expectations. In this heartfelt episode, I share my personal journey through eight holiday seasons as a caregiver, highlighting the top five emotions many of us experience: overwhelm, isolation, guilt, grief, and fear.Discover practical strategies for acknowledging and embracing these feelings, and learn how to create small moments of joy and self-care amidst the chaos. From personal stories of navigating Christmas with loved ones facing illness to actionable tips for managing holiday stress, this episode is your essential guide to finding peace and meaning during the most wonderful time of the year.Plus, join me on December 10th for a free workshop, “Gifting Yourself Joy, Peace, and Personal Time: Navigating Holiday Stress and Emotional Well-Being,” where we'll dive deeper into self-care practices and share more supportive strategies tailored for caregivers.You're not alone in this journey. Tune in to gain insights, connect with a community of fellow caregivers, and find the support you need to navigate the holiday season with resilience and hope. Whether you're seeking comfort, practical advice, or simply a sense of connection, this episode is here for you.Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with other caregivers who might benefit. Together, we can transform the holiday experience into a time of healing, connection, and meaningful memories. Let's make this holiday season a little brighter, one small step at a time.

Send Cathy a text:)What does it truly mean to be a caregiver? Join us in this heartfelt episode as we explore the courageous journey of Danielle, who shares her personal story of leaving her daycare and culinary career to care for her ailing mother. Danielle opens up about the emotional toll and resilience required to navigate the challenges of managing her mother's stage three ovarian cancer while coping with the grief of losing her caregiving partner, her brother. Her story reveals the profound impact of caregiving, highlighting not only the struggles but also the unexpected companionship she finds in her brother's cats and the solace of early morning meditation.As we unravel the complexities of caregiving, especially within the Canadian healthcare system, Danielle provides valuable insights into the financial and emotional challenges faced by caregivers, particularly in Ontario. Learn how self-advocacy and practical strategies, such as organizing medical appointments and using digital tools, can help manage the demanding nature of caregiving. We emphasize the critical importance of maintaining personal well-being through self-care, even as caregivers juggle numerous responsibilities, and explore alternative healing practices that can aid in managing stress and anxiety.Empowerment and personal growth are at the heart of Danielle's narrative, as she reflects on the transformative power of caregiving and the enduring bonds of love it fosters. Her experience underscores the necessity of balancing self-care with caregiving duties, offering a poignant reminder of the strength and resilience caregivers embody. Through Danielle's journey, we invite listeners to connect with their own experiences, find strength in their unique paths, and embrace the profound connections that caregiving can nurture.Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: Register for the upcoming FREE WORKSHOP: Gifting Yourself Joy, Peace, and Personal Time Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat

Send Cathy a text:)Hello, my friend! Caregiving can feel overwhelming, and finding ways to reflect, release, and recharge is essential to showing up as your best self. In this episode, we're diving into a practice that has been my personal lifesaver since my caregiving journey began—journaling.But before you think, “I don't have time for that,” let me assure you: journaling doesn't have to be a daunting task or take hours of your day. Whether it's jotting down a few gratitudes, reflecting on your emotions, or capturing a special memory, there's a journaling style that fits you.Join me as I share the transformative benefits of journaling, from reducing stress and boosting gratitude to reconnecting with yourself beyond caregiving. Plus, I'll give you practical tips for making journaling easy and even enjoyable—whether it's with pen and paper, on your phone, or even by voice!By the end of this episode, you'll see how journaling can become a simple yet powerful tool for self-care, clarity, and joy in your caregiving journey. You'll also learn why this isn't one-size-fits-all and how to find a journaling style that works for your unique season of life.Let's get started on writing your way to a more positive caregiving experience—one small step at a time.P.S. Don't miss the special FREE resource I have for you! Visit cathylvan.com/resources to grab your journaling prompts and tips to kickstart your journey today!Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)Exploring Cathie's Journey, Experiences, and Effective Self-Care TechniquesIn this episode, Cathie Gregory shares her heartfelt journey as a caregiver, offering invaluable experiences and self-care strategies that have helped her maintain her well-being while caring for her loved one. Tune in to discover practical tips and inspiring insights that can empower you on your own caregiving path.Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)Waiting room fatigue is a struggle many caregivers face but rarely discuss. Imagine sitting in a hospital waiting room for hours, filled with anxiety and anticipation, as your loved one undergoes medical procedures. This episode unpacks how these long waits can lead to emotional and physical exhaustion for caregivers, like me, waiting for Denis during his needle biopsy and chemotherapy port installation. We dive into the emotional tension and lack of control that exacerbate this fatigue and explore how recognizing these feelings is crucial for maintaining our well-being.Discover practical strategies to alleviate this caregiver fatigue with our engaging discussion on self-care routines and stress management. From deep breathing exercises to mini meditation sessions, I share personal tips that have helped conserve energy and stay present for Denis. Learn how to transform waiting room time into moments of personal growth and creativity, with activities like journaling, knitting, or even listening to enriching audiobooks and podcasts. Combatting fatigue isn't just about self-care—it's about staying productive and connected, and I provide actionable advice for doing just that.Don't miss our roundup of strategies for surviving waiting rooms, including planning relaxation rituals for after appointments and proactive communication with medical staff to manage wait time expectations. You'll hear about my personal experiments with games and creative outlets, like using dry-erase markers for artistic expression on hospital windows. Plus, look forward to our upcoming interview with Cathie, a fellow caregiver and listener, who will share her experiences and insights on maintaining resilience. Remember, our weekly caregiver newsletter is here to support you with tips, stories, and inspiration to help navigate these challenging times.Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)What happens when a devoted caregiver and mother of four decides to pursue a midlife career change into acting? Join us for an engaging conversation with Katie Prentiss, who shares her personal story of caring for her mother with frontotemporal dementia (FTD) while raising her family. Katie opens up about the emotional and practical challenges she faced, the tough decisions she had to make, and the financial strains of long-term care. She offers candid reflections and practical advice for those navigating the complexities of caregiving, emphasizing the importance of presence, touch, and remembering the person beyond the disease.Katie's journey is not just about struggle, but transformation. After her mother's passing, Katie found healing through acting, culminating in her upcoming film, "Wake Up Maggie." This creative endeavor serves as a tribute to her mother and a heartfelt homage to caregivers everywhere. We delve into the film's narrative, a mix of struggles, joy, and humor, and discuss how this project aims to raise awareness about FTD. Katie's resilience shines through as she shares her gratitude for the opportunity to tell this story and the connections she's made through storytelling and filmmaking.Throughout the episode, we explore the profound journey of caregiving and the importance of being present during moments of crisis. Katie emphasizes focusing on positive moments amidst the challenges, drawing parallels between caregiving and parenting. We reflect on the shared experiences and the beauty and laughter that can be found in difficult times. To close, Katie invites listeners to follow the progress of "Wake Up Maggie" and offers resources for those affected by FTD, reminding us all to prioritize self-care and connection.Ready to take your caregiving journey to the next level?Work with me to create a plan that brings balance and joy back into your life. Looking for a healthier coffee option? Fabula Coffee is organic, low-acid, and packed with clean ingredients to fuel your day. It's my go-to coffee every morning, and I love how it's gentle on my stomach while still delivering a rich, smooth flavor. Whether you're a busy caregiver like me or just need a better coffee solution, Fabula is a must-try!Head over to fabula.com and enter CAREGIVERCUP at checkout to get Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)In this enlightening episode of The Caregiver Cup Podcast, we explore the essential role of advocacy in the caregiving journey. Understanding how to effectively advocate for your loved one can transform both the quality of care they receive and your own well-being as a caregiver. Drawing inspiration from Barbara Corcoran's heartfelt experience in episode 233, where she emphasized the importance of education after her mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer's, we dive deep into the four key components of caregiver advocacy.This week, we focus on education—the foundational pillar of effective advocacy. Learn how educating yourself about your loved one's condition, mastering caregiving techniques, understanding legal considerations, and recognizing the emotional and environmental needs can empower you to make informed decisions and navigate the healthcare system with confidence. Through personal stories, practical tips, and expert insights, discover how continuous learning and building a supportive care team can prevent common caregiving mistakes and enhance your ability to advocate successfully.Whether you're new to caregiving or seeking to strengthen your advocacy skills, this episode offers valuable strategies to help you show up as your best self. Don't miss out on actionable advice and heartfelt stories that will inspire and support you on your caregiving journey. For a more detailed discussion and additional resources, be sure to visit our blog at www.cathylvan.com/blog/236. Tune in and empower yourself to make a meaningful difference in the lives of those you care for.Ready to take your caregiving journey to the next level?Work with me to create a plan that brings balance and joy back into your life. Looking for a healthier coffee option? Fabula Coffee is organic, low-acid, and packed with clean ingredients to fuel your day. It's my go-to coffee every morning, and I love how it's gentle on my stomach while still delivering a rich, smooth flavor. Whether you're a busy caregiver like me or just need a better coffee solution, Fabula is a must-try!Head over to fabula.com and enter CAREGIVERCUP at checkout to get Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)Discover the heartfelt journey of caregiving through the eyes of Dr. Kathryn Betts Adams, affectionately known as Katy, a distinguished gerontological social worker and author of "The Pianist's Only Daughter." As the only daughter in a family of artistic and academic brilliance, Katy shares her deeply personal experiences of supporting aging parents, intertwining her stories with professional insights. Her narrative not only highlights the challenges faced with her father's musical legacy and her mother's battle with Parkinson's but also the delicate process of mending family relationships over time.Explore the emotional and logistical maze of caregiving, especially during the COVID-19 pandemic. Katy reveals candid anecdotes about moving her mother to a memory care unit and advocating for her father's mental health needs, offering practical wisdom on navigating senior living arrangements. This episode is a reflection on balancing parental care with personal well-being, emphasizing the importance of humor and shared memories in maintaining connections with loved ones. By sharing her story, Katy provides a roadmap for listeners who are managing similar responsibilities, advocating for the importance of self-care and the courage to seek help.As we wrap up the conversation, Katy's experiences underscore the importance of gratitude and support systems in the caregiving journey. Her memoir serves as a beacon of resilience and insight for those walking a similar path, encouraging listeners to cherish their time with loved ones and embrace the support available. We express our heartfelt appreciation to Katy for her invaluable contributions and invite our listeners to subscribe to the Caregiver Cup podcast for a continued exploration of these relevant and touching narratives.Ready to take your caregiving journey to the next level?Work with me to create a plan that brings balance and joy back into your life. Looking for a healthier coffee option? Fabula Coffee is organic, low-acid, and packed with clean ingredients to fuel your day. It's my go-to coffee every morning, and I love how it's gentle on my stomach while still delivering a rich, smooth flavor. Whether you're a busy caregiver like me or just need a better coffee solution, Fabula is a must-try!Head over to fabula.com and enter CAREGIVERCUP at checkout to get Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)In this episode, I dive deep into essential mindset strategies tailored specifically for caregivers, drawing from recent insights gained in a transformative mindset training. I explore two powerful techniques—DSD (Do Something Different) and CCC (Catch, Cancel, Correct)—that can help caregivers navigate the emotional and mental challenges of their demanding roles. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck in a rut, or in need of a fresh perspective, these strategies offer practical ways to inject more joy and resilience into your daily caregiving journey.Through relatable stories and real-life examples, I share how DSD encourages caregivers to break free from monotonous routines by introducing small, meaningful changes, such as trying new activities, altering daily schedules, or reorganizing the home environment. Meanwhile, CCC provides a framework for managing negative thoughts by identifying them, acknowledging their impact, and replacing them with positive alternatives. Building these mindset muscles takes time and consistent practice, but the rewards are invaluable—enhanced well-being, reduced stress, and a more positive outlook on caregiving.Join me as we share actionable tips and inspiring client scenarios that demonstrate how these mindset practices can transform your caregiving experience. By integrating DSD and CCC into your routine, you can empower yourself to handle challenges with greater ease and find moments of joy amidst the demands of caregiving. Tune in to discover how small shifts in your mindset can lead to significant improvements in your daily life and overall resilience.Ready to take your caregiving journey to the next level?Work with me to create a plan that brings balance and joy back into your life. Looking for a healthier coffee option? Fabula Coffee is organic, low-acid, and packed with clean ingredients to fuel your day. It's my go-to coffee every morning, and I love how it's gentle on my stomach while still delivering a rich, smooth flavor. Whether you're a busy caregiver like me or just need a better coffee solution, Fabula is a must-try!Head over to fabula.com and enter CAREGIVERCUP at checkout to get Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)What happens when one of the sharpest minds in business takes on the deeply personal role of a caregiver? Barbara Corcoran, the iconic entrepreneur from Shark Tank, joins us to share her heartfelt journey of caring for her mother, Florence, who battled Alzheimer's Agitation disease. With her characteristic humor and unflinching honesty, Barbara brings a unique perspective to the emotional challenges and rewards of caregiving, offering listeners a blend of practical advice and inspiring insights.Throughout our conversation, we address the rollercoaster of emotions that caregivers often face, from frustration and guilt to moments of pure joy. Barbara candidly discusses the significance of setting boundaries, prioritizing self-care, and seeking out resources to provide the best possible care for loved ones. Her personal stories emphasize the importance of empathy, family support, and understanding the emotional landscape of both caregivers and patients. Listeners will find themselves nodding along to Barbara's relatable experiences and invaluable tips.Barbara also unveils her strategies for balancing a demanding career with the responsibilities of caregiving, showcasing the emotional returns of dedication and consistent care. She fondly recalls the "Sunday fun days" she created for her mother, highlighting the joy and hope these moments brought. Barbara's advocacy for Alzheimer's Agitation awareness and her commitment to providing resources for those affected underscore her passion for the cause. If you're looking to learn more or support Barbara's campaign, be sure to visit RecognizeAlzheimersAgitation.com. It's a valuable resource for anyone caring for someone with Alzheimer's dementia and experiencing agitation.Ready to take your caregiving journey to the next level?Work with me to create a plan that brings balance and joy back into your life. Looking for a healthier coffee option? Fabula Coffee is organic, low-acid, and packed with clean ingredients to fuel your day. It's my go-to coffee every morning, and I love how it's gentle on my stomach while still delivering a rich, smooth flavor. Whether you're a busy caregiver like me or just need a better coffee solution, Fabula is a must-try!Head over to fabula.com and enter CAREGIVERCUP at checkout to get Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)We're going to get real—deep into the truth of caregiving. Depending on where you're in your caregiving journey, you may not want to hear this, or this may be exactly what you need. This is real talk, & before we start, I want to say: I get you, I love you, & I wish someone had this hard conversation with me earlier.Caregiving isn't a solo mission. If you think you can handle everything on your own, you're setting yourself up for burnout. I know this because I lived it. I'll share one of my breaking points—a moment that found me lying in a hospital bed, overwhelmed with stress & anxiety. I was embarrassed, but that wake-up call changed my caregiving approach forever.We're exploring why so many caregivers feel the need to do it all—whether it's out of duty, guilt, or fear of judgment. But the truth is, without support, we're not only doing a disservice to ourselves, but to our loved ones as well.You'll learn 3 key areas where caregivers can seek help:Building Your Caregiving Team: Delegate tasks & involve others.Professional Support: Explore respite care, home care services & other resources.Emotional & Mental Health Support: The power of therapy, support groups & caregiver coaching to help you manage the emotional weight of caregiving.As caregivers, we need to break the myth that asking for help means we've failed. Support is not a luxury; it's a necessity.And if you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of where to start, I'm here to help. I offer 2 coaching packages designed specifically for caregivers like you:Caregiver Breakthrough Session: In this one-hour session, we'll work together to find clarity & direction in your caregiving life. If you're drowning in endless demands & struggling to find time for yourself, this session will help you identify one key area to focus on, giving you the clarity you need to move forward.Empowerment Caregiver Coaching: This three-month program is a bold step toward prioritizing your well-being & creating a balanced, joyful caregiving life. Through personalized support, we'll develop a tailored plan to help you thrive as both a caregiver. You don't have to do this alone, and you deserve to feel empowered & supported on this journey. Learn more about my coaching programs and how we can work togetherLooking for a healthier coffee option? Fabula Coffee is organic, low-acid, and packed with clean ingredients to fuel your day. It's my go-to coffee every morning, and I love how it's gentle on my stomach while still delivering a rich, smooth flavor. Whether you're a busy caregiver like me or just need a better coffee solution, Fabula is a must-try!Head over to fabula.com and enter CAREGIVERCUP at checkout to get Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)In honor of World Gratitude Day, we're diving into a topic that has the power to transform your caregiving journey—gratitude. When you're deep in the trenches of caregiving, it's easy to let the hard moments take over. But what if you could shift your focus to the small wins and positive moments? In this episode, I share how gratitude became my lifeline during some of the toughest years of caregiving. We'll explore why practicing gratitude is crucial for your mental health, well-being, and overall resilience as a caregiver.Finding the right gratitude practice can make all the difference. Whether it's journaling, taking gratitude walks, or simply pausing to reflect on what's going well, there's a method that can fit into your routine. We'll go over a variety of practices, so you can find the one that resonates with you and start incorporating it into your daily life. Because when you focus on gratitude, you're not just surviving—you're thriving, even on the most challenging days.So, grab your coffee and tune in as we explore the power of gratitude for caregivers. By the end of this episode, you'll have actionable tips to start your own gratitude practice, boost your mood, and bring more light into your caregiving journey.Subscribe to our weekly newsletter.Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)Caregiving is a demanding journey, and it often feels like there's never enough time for yourself—especially when it comes to getting a good night's sleep. But what if I told you that establishing a simple nighttime routine could transform how you show up, not just for your loved one, but for yourself?In this episode, I'm sharing why sleep is the ultimate self-care practice for caregivers and how it impacts your physical, emotional, and mental health. From personal experience, I know how easy it is to lose quality sleep while caregiving. When I started my caregiving journey in 2017, sleepless nights felt like a permanent part of the deal, but I learned that this doesn't have to be the case.I'll walk you through the three key steps to creating a nighttime routine that works—reflection, releasing stress, and focusing on sleep. You'll learn simple techniques like deep breathing, journaling, and setting boundaries with your phone that can make a world of difference. We'll talk about how starting small can lead to better sleep, more energy, and a healthier, happier caregiving experience.Are you ready to wake up feeling refreshed, patient, and in control? Tune in to discover how a few small changes to your evening routine can help you find balance, reduce burnout, and make caregiving more manageable.Join me as we dive into the power of sleep—and why it's one of the most important gifts you can give yourself as a caregiver. Let's create a routine that helps you thrive!Subscribe to our weekly newsletter.Support the showThank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)Can solitude be the key to transforming your caregiving experience? In this heartfelt episode of the Caregiver Cup podcast, we explore the profound impact of intentional alone time on preventing burnout and enhancing your caregiving abilities. Hear Cathie's inspiring story of how regular three-day breaks have rejuvenated her spirit, and gain insights from luminaries like Oprah Winfrey and JK Rowling on the crucial difference between solitude and loneliness. Discover how nurturing your soul through solitude isn't just a luxury but a vital necessity for your well-being and effectiveness as a caregiver.We challenge you to envision your own three-day retreat, drawing inspiration from Shonda Rhimes' commitment to self-care amidst a hectic schedule. Reflect on your personal barriers, set a sacred date for solitude, and learn practical tips for planning and communicating this crucial commitment. By prioritizing your well-being, you can support your loved ones more effectively. Join us as we unpack why self-care is essential and how even small steps towards solitude can lead to significant positive changes in your energy, clarity, and peace. Remember, you can't pour from an empty cup—rejuvenate yourself to better care for others.Subscribe to our weekly newsletter.Support the Show.Thank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)Are you feeling trapped in a cycle of caregiver overwhelm? In this episode, we explore practical strategies to break free from stress and reclaim your well-being. We'll dive into mindfulness practices, setting realistic goals, and making small but impactful changes in your daily routine.Ready to take control? Start by understanding the 3 Stages of Caregiver Stress and take the first step toward relief. Need personalized guidance? Schedule a 30-minute coaching chat and let's create a plan tailored just for you.Tune in and discover how you can show up as your best self every day!Subscribe to our weekly newsletter.Support the Show.Thank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)In this episode of The Caregiver Cup Podcast, we're diving deep into the power of starting your day with an intentional morning routine. As caregivers, we often wake up to a day full of responsibilities and challenges, which can leave us feeling overwhelmed before the day even begins. But what if you could transform your mornings—and your entire day—by incorporating a few mindful practices?We'll explore how a structured morning routine can provide you with a sense of control, calm, and readiness to face whatever comes your way. From simple tips like drinking a glass of water to setting daily intentions, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you create a routine that works for you.Key Takeaways:Why Intentionality Matters: Learn how starting your day with intention can set a positive tone for the entire day, helping you manage stress and approach caregiving with a clear mind.Morning Routine Ideas: Discover practical ways to build a morning routine that fits your life, even if you only have 5 minutes.Mindfulness Practices: Incorporate simple mindfulness exercises like gratitude journaling, visualization, and affirmations to boost your mood and energy levels.Energy Management: Find out how to identify your peak energy times and use them to tackle your most demanding tasks.Resources Mentioned:Apps:  Calm, Insight TimerWebsite: Dr. Kristin Neff on Self-CompassionListener Challenge: I want to hear from you! What are one or two intentions you can set tomorrow morning to make your day better? Hit the text feature and share your intentions with me. Let's inspire each other to start our days with purpose and positivity.Don't Miss Out: If you're not already on my email list, make sure to sign up at cathylvan.com for weekly newsletters filled with tips and inspiration tailored for caregivers like you.Subscribe to our weekly newsletter.Support the Show.Thank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)Ever feel like you're juggling multiple roles and struggling to keep up? In this episode of the Caregiver Cup podcast, I share my personal journey of balancing a corporate job, running a business, and caregiving for loved ones. By tracking my week, I discovered the immense demands placed on caregivers—akin to working four full-time jobs. Drawing from my experiences in the Empowerful Caregiver School and coaching sessions, we'll explore the crucial role of boundaries in managing these overwhelming responsibilities. Plus, I give a heartfelt thank you to the listeners for their support, especially during my recent battle with COVID.Dive deep into the significance of setting various types of boundaries—physical, time, energy, and abilities—to protect your well-being and provide the best care possible. We'll discuss practical strategies for establishing self-care boundaries, such as incorporating morning walks, ensuring adequate sleep, and taking personal breaks. Learn how to manage a caregiving schedule that allows for personal time and seek help from others to strike a balanced lifestyle. Listen to Angel from Florida's touching story, which underscores the challenges many face while caring for a loved one at home.Lastly, we'll emphasize the power of assertive communication in maintaining these boundaries and shifting from self-imposed guilt to a collaborative approach with family members. Explore real-life examples of how hobbies, structured schedules, and assistive technology can enhance personal fulfillment and provide more freedom. By honoring these boundaries and listening to your body, mind, and heart, you can show up as your best self and deliver the care your loved ones deserve. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review—your well-being matters, and together, we can create sustainable caregiving routines.Subscribe to our weekly newsletter.Support the Show.Thank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)How do you maintain your own well-being while caring for others? Join me as we uncover the importance of self-compassion for caregivers, even while I navigate my own journey through the Omicron COVID virus. You'll hear a heartfelt message from a listener grappling with anger and resentment in caregiving, and together, we'll learn how self-compassion can pave the way to greater emotional resilience, stability, and life satisfaction.Using the analogy of a garden, we explore how integral nurturing our body, mind, and soul is to maintaining our strength and resilience as caregivers. Discover practical tips for self-care, from pausing to acknowledge feelings of overwhelm to tracking thoughts and behaviors to identify stress triggers. We'll also discuss setting small, realistic goals and celebrating every success, no matter how minor, to ensure we don't succumb to burnout.Lastly, we delve into the importance of finding pockets of time for self-care and connecting with others for support and accountability. Hear the story of Sarah, who managed to incorporate enjoyable activities into her busy day, and learn how practicing gratitude can significantly enhance our mental health. Treat yourself with the same compassion you offer to others, and remember, nurturing yourself is fundamental to showing up with compassion and grace for both yourself and your loved ones.Subscribe to our weekly newsletter.Support the Show.Thank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)What happens when your personal battle with COVID-19 intersects with the demanding role of caregiving? Join me as I share the raw and emotional journey of navigating my husband's recent struggle with the Omicron variant, layered with my own harrowing experience of severe COVID-19 in 2021. From feelings of anger and resentment to moments of guilt and fear, this episode unpacks the complex emotional terrain faced by caregivers during such challenging times. To lighten the atmosphere, listener stories from Pam in Minnesota and Catherine offer heartwarming reminders of how finding joy and connection can provide a much-needed refuge.Caregiving isn't just a physical task; it's an emotional rollercoaster, especially when dealing with personal health crises and demanding family dynamics. Reflecting on my hospitalization and the stress induced by my mother's narcissistic behaviors, I discuss the internal conflict of balancing personal recovery with caregiving responsibilities. The societal pressures and unrealistic expectations placed on caregivers exacerbate these emotions, making it essential to practice self-compassion and set achievable goals. Learn about the significance of processing and releasing trauma to foster emotional well-being and better manage the anger and resentment that often accompany this role.Discover the PEACE framework, a five-step method designed to help caregivers navigate their emotional struggles more effectively. Through my personal stories and practical advice, we'll explore how recognizing the signs of caregiver resentment - from fatigue to stress-related health issues - is crucial for maintaining both physical and emotional health. Sharing responsibilities, communicating openly, and creating a personalized toolkit are key strategies for overcoming these challenges. Let's remember, you don't have to go through this alone; together, we can find joy, happiness, and improved well-being in the caregiving journey.Enroll now in the Conquering Resentment: 5 Steps to Peace in Caregiving Subscribe to our weekly newsletter.Support the Show.Thank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)What if you could turn those tough caregiving days around with just a few simple strategies? This episode of the Caregiver Cup podcast promises to equip you with the tools you need to combat lack of motivation and uplift your spirit. I share my own journey and coaching insights, coupled with heartwarming messages from listeners in Massachusetts and Minnesota who reveal their grounding morning routines. We'll explore how validating physical and emotional exhaustion can be a game changer, and dive into practical tips for managing feelings of being overwhelmed, unappreciated, or isolated.Join me as we build a personalized motivation toolkit that's perfect for caregivers. Learn about my go-to techniques like motivational quotes, energizing playlists, and the healing power of humor. Discover the significance of having a supportive person to lean on, the benefits of journaling, and how simple acts of self-care can make a big difference. We'll also delve into the concept of "faking it" to boost morale and the importance of understanding the root causes of your funk. With reflective questions and small joys weaved into your routine, this episode aims to transform those challenging days into manageable, even joyful, experiences.Enroll now in the Conquering Resentment: 5 Steps to Peace in Caregiving Subscribe to our weekly newsletter.Support the Show.Thank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)Could a change in your self-talk transform your caregiving journey? Today's episode promises to uncover the secrets behind the power of language and its profound impact on caregivers. Join us as we celebrate the incredible connections we've built through the Caregiver Cup podcast, featuring heartfelt listener messages and invaluable resources. Language shapes our reality, and in this segment, we explore how simple tweaks in self-talk can shift your perspective and enhance your energy. Through personal anecdotes and practical tips, we examine how positive affirmations and reframing challenges can turn your caregiving experience from overwhelming to fulfilling. Whether it's through monthly family breakfasts or daily affirmations, learn how these small but impactful changes can lead to a more optimistic outlook and reduced stress.Finally, we introduce the concept of building resilience using the analogy of an umbrella. Just as an umbrella protects you from rain, gratitude practices, mindfulness, and affirmations can shield you from life's inevitable challenges. With real-life examples and actionable advice, we guide you in developing a robust mindset to face caregiving's ups and downs. QUESTION OF THE WEEK - What is your umbrella?   What skillset or habit helps you promote your positive thoughts, helps you energy and keeps you grounded?  Share your answer here.Support the Show.Thank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)In this episode of The Caregiver Cup Podcast, we dive deep into the reasons why caregivers often feel stuck and explore how to break free from the spiral of making excuses, blaming, shaming, and settling. Caregiving is filled with challenges and cultural expectations that can cloud your view, mindset, and overall joy.Join me as I share personal stories and practical strategies to help you recognize and understand these patterns. We'll discuss how to challenge excuses, shift blame, practice self-compassion, and take small steps toward a more fulfilling caregiving experience.Remember, you may not be able to change your situation entirely, but you have the power to change how you approach it. Tune in to learn how to reclaim joy and find your strength in caregiving.If you're ready to transform your caregiving journey and find more peace and happiness, this episode is for you. Don't forget to share your thoughts and experiences, and let's support each other in this incredible journey.Support the Show.Thank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)Discover the emotional complexities of caregiving with renowned clinical psychologist and emotional intelligence expert, Dr. JJ Kelly, on our latest episode of the Caregiver Cup podcast. Dr. Kelly, who transitioned from traditional psychotherapy to founding Unorthodox Incorporated, shares invaluable insights from her bestselling "Holy Shit" book series. We'll explore the intense emotions of anger, resentment, guilt, and fear that many caregivers face, particularly women, and emphasize the necessity of understanding and validating these feelings to manage the emotional toll effectively.Through engaging discussion, we tackle the importance of self-care and addressing personal needs to prevent burnout and maintain the ability to care for others. Dr. Kelly provides practical strategies for coping with these emotional challenges, from journaling and visual representations to alternative therapies like reiki and acupuncture. We also highlight the systemic issues within traditional therapy and the benefits of learning skills to manage emotions independently, ensuring caregivers feel seen and supported.Finally, we underscore the significance of collaboration in caregiving, control issues, and the power of emotional intelligence in navigating daily caregiving demands. With Dr. Kelly's expert advice, you'll gain new tools and perspectives to better manage your caregiving journey. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to find validation, support, and practical solutions to the emotional challenges of caregiving. Share this enriching conversation with others, and join us next week for more empowering content on the Caregiver Cup podcast.Support the Show.Thank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)Ever wondered how a single quote could change your perspective on life? Discover how the timeless wisdom of Bishop Francis de Sales' words "Bloom where you are planted" could be your guiding light, especially for those navigating the challenges of caregiving. I'll share personal stories and practical insights on how to cultivate a positive mindset in any situation, from finding joy in a rainy day to dressing up to boost your spirits. Get ready to uncover five actionable tips to help you flourish wherever you find yourself planted.Gratitude and positivity are more than just buzzwords; they're essential tools for enhancing our daily lives. Join me as I revel in the simple pleasures like vibrant garden blooms and the joy of feeding ducks and birds. Learn how small acts of kindness, such as sending thank you notes or reflecting on happy memories, can uplift your spirit and create lasting connections. I'll offer practical mindfulness tips and share how these small joys can significantly elevate your mood, even on the toughest days.   Click here to to get my 30 Days of Inspiration.Relationships and personal growth are vital, especially for caregivers juggling multiple responsibilities. We'll explore the power of community and support groups, and how sharing experiences can be a lifeline. Flexibility and adaptability aren't just survival tactics—they're skills that can help you navigate the caregiving journey with grace. Plus, I'll remind you of the importance of pursuing hobbies and new skills for personal growth. Engage with us through text, Instagram, or email, and let's continue nurturing our growth and joy together!Support the Show.Thank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration

Send Cathy a text:)Discover how simple, local activities can create joy and lasting memories during the caregiving season, even when grand summer adventures feel out of reach. From intimate picnics and garden strolls to cozy movie nights at home, this episode shares heartfelt personal experiences that prove happiness and connection don't require elaborate plans. You'll also learn about a new text feature for listener engagement, and find out how you can share your own caregiving stories on the podcast. Plus, joining our newsletter will keep you in the loop for even more interactive communication.The episode also dives into the mental and emotional benefits of spending time outdoors with loved ones. Picture sipping beverages on the patio, listening to music, and attending vibrant community events like food truck rallies and church picnics. For those caring for elderly or ill loved ones, we provide practical tips for accessible outings to botanical gardens, museums, and zoos, along with the joys of gardening, crafting, and thrifting. These activities not only entertain but also strengthen familial bonds, making every moment count.Support the Show.Thank you for listening. If you know of another caregiver who could benefit from this podcast, please copy and share this episode. Follow me by clicking on the links below: ➡️ Get my free resource: 17 SHIFTS TO RECUDE CAREGIVER STRESS & SAY GOOD-BYE TO CAREGIVER BURNOUT If you're interested in 1:1 Coaching ➡️ schedule a 30 minute FREE chat CONNECT WITH CATHY ON INSTAGRAM @cathylynnvan for daily tips and inspiration