The Adoption Roadmap Podcast

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan sits down with Dr. Joyce Maguire Pavao—a pioneer in the world of adoption, an adoptee herself, and the author of The Family of Adoption. With over five decades of clinical experience, Dr. Pavao challenges the idea that adoption is something to be “fixed,” and instead invites us to see it as a lifelong experience that demands truth, openness, and deep emotional care.In this powerful conversation, Dr. Pavao unpacks the psychology of adoption, the concept of ambiguous loss, and the invisible grief so often overlooked. She shares practical guidance for adoptive parents—how to talk about adoption, how to recognize adoption-related trauma, and how to support their children through it without over-pathologizing them. From early separation and normative crises to adoption-competent therapy and systemic change, this episode is filled with wisdom every member of the adoption constellation needs to hear.Important LinksDr. Joyce Maguire PavaoEmail: kinnect@gmail.comThe Family of AdoptionSweet Peach Tree – Clean, natural hair + skin products for melanin-rich families.Use code ROADMAP10 for 10% off your first orderRG Adoption ConsultingTake our FREE quiz: “Am I Ready to Adopt?”Chapters00:00 Celebrating Milestones and Community Engagement03:14 Understanding Adoption: A Lifelong Journey05:48 The Child-Centric Approach in Adoption09:13 Normative Crises in Adoption12:05 The Impact of Early Adoption Experiences14:55 Creating Adoption Competent Therapists18:05 Ambiguous Loss in Adoption20:50 Supporting Children Through Invisible Loss24:01 Indirect Communication Strategies for Parents26:54 Recognizing Trauma in Adopted Children30:06 Understanding Behavioral Responses in Adoptees33:02 The Complexity of Adoption Experiences36:13 Encouraging Open Conversations in Adoption38:57 The Role of Parents in Navigating Adoption Challenges41:58 Empowering Adoptees to Share Their Stories46:31 Navigating Family Dynamics in Adoption49:41 The Vulnerability of Pre-Adoptive Parents55:29 The Need for Honest Conversations in Adoption57:40 Challenges in the Adoption System01:02:33 The Importance of Community in Healing01:10:31 Therapeutic Approaches for Adoptive Families01:12:32 Understanding Healing vs. Fixing01:16:29 Building Connections and Community01:23:59 Embracing the Truth of AdoptionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

If it feels like your adoption journey has hit a wall—you're not alone. In this honest and encouraging solo episode, Rebecca gets real about the emotional rollercoaster of waiting to adopt. From navigating guilt and doubt to understanding why things come in waves, you'll walk away feeling seen, grounded, and empowered with actionable steps you can take right now.Whether you're wondering if you're being "too choosy," struggling with silence from agencies, or just need to know that someone gets it—this one's for you.Important Links- RG Adoption Consulting- Want support on your journey? Let's chat- Tarcia Smith's EpisodeChapters00:00 Navigating the Adoption Journey03:09 Understanding Guilt in Adoption06:07 The Waves of Adoption Activity12:07 The Long Haul of Adoption16:54 The Importance of Asking Questions19:13 Building a Supportive Community

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan breaks down one of the most critical steps in your adoption journey: the home study. From must-ask questions to picking the right provider, paperwork hacks, safety requirements, and the controversial advice that could save you stress later—Rebecca shares it all. You'll walk away with clarity, confidence, and a clear plan to get through your home study faster and with fewer headaches. If you're just getting started or preparing to match, this is a can't-miss episode.Important LinksAdoptionLearningPartners.orgCreatingAFamily.orgBuy The Adoption Roadmap Book on AmazonReady to Start Your Adoption Journey? Book a Call!RG Adoption ConsultingChapters00:00 What is an Adoption Home Study?02:21 How to Find the Right Provider06:44 4 Questions to Ask When Interviewing Agencies09:03 What the Home Study Process Actually Looks Like13:51 What You Don't Need to Do for Your Home Visit16:19 Why Saying “Yes” to More Can Save You Stress Later21:06 Red Flags, Secrets, and What You Should Disclose25:32 What to Know About Education Requirements27:58 How to Involve Your Family in the Process29:58 Timelines, Renewals, and Multi-State Rules31:06 Why the Home Study is More Than a Checklist

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the current need for families in the adoption process, the importance of pre-birth visits, financial planning for adoption, the stages of the adoption journey, and the often-overlooked role of birth fathers. She emphasizes the need for openness and understanding in navigating these complex topics, providing insights and practical advice for prospective adoptive families.Important LinksYour Adoption Finance CoachReady to Start your Adoption journey? Book a Call!RG Adoption ConsultingChapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption Opportunities02:21 Navigating Pre-Birth Visits12:52 Financial Planning for Adoption13:21 Understanding the Stages of Adoption19:02 The Role of Birth Fathers in AdoptionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan introduces powerful insights from various guests, focusing on the complexities of adoption. The conversation features Cam Lee Small, a transracial adoptee, who shares his personal journey, including the emotional aspects of reunification with his birth family. The episode also addresses critical medical concerns by Dr. Sara Silvestri, MD, for adoptive families, particularly regarding prenatal exposure to substances, and emphasizes the importance of honesty and self-reflection in the adoption process. Additionally, the role of adoption consultants is discussed with RG Senior Consultant, Rachel Pattern, highlighting their support for families navigating the adoption journey. In this episode, the conversation delves into the multifaceted roles of adoption consultants, the personal journey of Katie Kinirons-Mejia as a birth mother and insights into parenting from Sara Cole. The discussion emphasizes the importance of education, support, and community in the adoption process, as well as the emotional complexities faced by birth mothers. The episode also highlights practical parenting strategies to foster connection and cooperation between parents and children.Important LinksCam Lee Small's EpisodeCam Lee SmallDr. Sara Silvestri's EpisodeDr. Sara Silvestri aka 'The Adoption Doc'Rachel Patten's EpisodeKaty Kinirons Mejia's EpisodeSara Cole's EpisodeSara ColeRG Adoption ConsultingTake our FREE Quiz 'Am I Ready to Adopt?'Chapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption Roadmap Podcast01:12 Meet Cam Lee Small: A Transracial Adoptee's Journey04:31 The Letter to Future Adoptive Parents09:57 Reunification and Identity Exploration15:45 Understanding Medical and Health Concerns in Adoption27:55 Navigating Substance Exposure Risks in Adoption33:32 The Role of Adoption Consultants39:58 Understanding the Adoption Process40:24 Katie's Personal Journey and Advocacy45:19 The Importance of Sharing Stories46:51 The Complexity of Birth Mother Experiences50:07 Parenting Insights from Sarah Cole59:09 Rediscovering Parental ConfidenceTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the complexities of adoption, focusing on prenatal substance exposure, important acronyms related to adoption, and the significance of early intervention for children. She emphasizes the need for support and resources for adoptive parents navigating these challenges, including the importance of understanding various disorders and the legal frameworks involved in adoption.Important LinksRG Adoption ConsultingJoin The Adoption Continuum WAITLISTAcademy of Adoption of Assisted Reproduction AttorneysChapters00:00 Understanding Prenatal Substance Exposure02:02 Decoding Adoption Acronyms10:06 Navigating Early Intervention and Support14:00 Resources for Adoptive ParentsTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan sits down with Aida Phillips to discuss her personal adoption journey and the cultural dynamics at play within the Hispanic community. Aida shares how language barriers and cultural taboos shaped her experience, and underscores the need for Spanish-language adoption resources. The conversation explores transracial adoption, the importance of representation, and the role of birth parents. Aida also reflects on the power of love, resilience, and identity in building a connected, multicultural family.Important linksAida Phillips Aida's Company: Born From Our Souls / Nacidos del Alma IG: @bornfromoursouls @nacidosdelalmaOur Chosen Child – Profile design and online family page service RG Adoption ConsultingTake our FREE QUIZ "Am I Ready to Adopt?"Join The Adoption Continuum WAITLISTChapters00:00 Breaking the Stigma of Multiracial Adoption02:24 Cultural Taboos in Adoption12:12 Navigating the Emotional Journey of Adoption20:16 Finding Hope Amidst Challenges29:26 The Importance of Community Support30:15 Language Barriers in Adoption Resources35:29 Transracial Adoption and Representation36:07 Navigating Multiracial Adoption42:39 Understanding Adoption Dynamics48:01 The Importance of Open Communication52:11 Cultural Perspectives on Adoption56:50 Support Systems for Adoptive FamiliesTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the complexities of adoption, emphasizing the dual emotions that adoptive parents and children may experience. She encourages parents to acknowledge and model emotional openness, creating a safe space for their children to express their feelings. Additionally, she introduces the Adoption Continuum, a community for adoptive parents to connect and support one another.Important LinksRG Adoption ConsultingJoin The Adoption Continuum WAITLISTBook a FREE CALL With us TodayChapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption Opportunities02:09 The Complex Emotions of Adoption07:37 Building a Supportive Community for Adoptive ParentsTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan and Kerry Hackett discuss the complexities of adoption, emphasizing that the journey continues well beyond placement. They explore the challenges of parenting, particularly in transracial families, and the importance of community support among adoptive parents. The conversation also highlights the necessity of addressing tough topics related to identity and mental health in the adoption process. Finally, they introduce the Adoption Continuum Membership, a new resource designed to support adoptive families throughout their journey.Important LinksKerry Hackett's 1st EpisodeIntroducing The Adoption Continuum Pt. 1 EpisodeFaith DonohueJoin The Adoption Continuum WAITLISTSweet Peach TreeRG Adoption ConsultingChapters00:00 The Journey of Adoption Begins04:20 Navigating Parenting Challenges11:31 The Importance of Community Support22:39 Addressing Tough Conversations in Adoption25:05 Introducing the Adoption Continuum MembershipTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses her journey as an adoption consultant and the importance of creating a supportive community for adoptive parents. She shares her motivations for developing the Adoption Continuum membership community, emphasizing the need for accountability, kindness, and vulnerability among members. The community aims to provide resources, expert advice, and a space for open discussions about the challenges of adoptive parenting.Important Links- RG Adoption Consulting- Join The Adoption Continuum WAITLIST- Take the "Am I Ready to Adopt?" QUIZChapters00:00 Introduction to the Adoption Roadmap Podcast01:29 The Need for a Post-Adoption Community03:51 Creating the Adoption Continuum Membership Community08:27 Navigating Resources and Expert SupportTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, hosts Rebecca Gruenspan and Kerry Hackett discuss the often-overlooked topic of post-adoption support and community. They reflect on their personal experiences as adoptive parents, the evolving nature of their relationships with birth families, and the importance of open communication about adoption with their children. The conversation highlights the emotional complexities of adoption, the significance of cultural identity, and the unique challenges faced by teenage adoptees. Through their insights, they emphasize the need for ongoing support and connection within the adoption community. In this conversation, Kerry Hackett and Rebecca Gruenspan explore the multifaceted experiences of adoptive parenting, particularly in the context of transracial adoption. They discuss the emotional challenges faced by adoptive parents, the complexities of maintaining relationships with birth families, and the importance of community support and ongoing education. The conversation also addresses common myths and assumptions about adoption, emphasizing the need for open dialogue and preparation for the realities of parenting adopted children.Important Links- Kerry's Episode- RG Adoption Consulting- Join The Adoption Continuum Waitlist- Take the "Am I Ready to Adopt?" QUIZChapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption and Podcasting02:00 The Importance of Post-Adoption Support03:15 Reflections on the Adoption Journey06:02 Surprising Relationships with Birth Families08:59 Navigating Adoption Conversations11:59 Understanding Adoption-Related Emotions14:54 Cultural Identity and Adoption18:04 Teenage Perspectives on Adoption21:59 Evolving Conversations Around Adoption28:01 Navigating the Challenges of Transracial Adoption31:30 Emotional Challenges of Adoption and Single Parenting36:41 The Complexity of Birth Family Relationships43:01 Debunking Myths and Assumptions About Adoption48:30 The Importance of Community and Ongoing EducationTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the importance of refreshing your adoption journey during the spring season. She emphasizes the need to update your adoption profile, review your preferences, and ensure that your adoption professionals are aligned with your current goals. Additionally, she encourages listeners to prepare themselves for parenthood by engaging in educational opportunities and self-improvement. The conversation also touches on the significance of resetting expectations as an adoptive parent and being mindful of personal growth throughout the adoption process.Important Links- RG Adoption Consulting- Take the "Am I Ready to Adopt?" Quiz- Join the Adoption Continuum WaitlistChapters00:00 Spring Refresh for Adoption Journey06:11 Preparing for Parenthood through Adoption09:33 Resetting Expectations as an Adoptive ParentTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this heartfelt episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan and her guests: Francine Apy, Katy Kinirons Mejia, and Allison Olson, explore the multifaceted experiences of motherhood within the adoption community. They discuss the emotional complexities surrounding Mother's Day, the importance of acknowledging birth mothers, and the unique perspectives of adoptees. The conversation emphasizes the significance of open communication, emotional support, and the shared journey of motherhood, highlighting the diverse narratives that shape the adoption experience. This conversation delves into the complexities of adoption, exploring the emotional challenges faced by birth parents, the importance of open adoption, and the need for community support. The speakers share personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the significance of education and honest discussions about adoption narratives. They also reflect on motherhood, self-care, and the evolving dynamics of family relationships in the context of adoption.Important Links- Francine Apy- SoulFilling- Francine's Episode- Allison Olson- Allison's Episode- Katy Kinirons Mejia- Katy's Episode- Sweet Peach Tree- RG Adoption Consulting- Take our FREE QuizChapters00:00 Navigating Relationships in Adoption01:48 Celebrating Motherhood in Adoption04:08 Emotions Surrounding Mother's Day10:15 The Duality of Being a Birth Mother14:08 Reflections on Motherhood and Adoption19:32 Understanding Adoptee Perspectives25:14 Supporting Children in Their Adoption Journey31:01 Advice for Expecting Birth Mothers34:51 The Heartbreak of Adoption Decisions37:56 Navigating Relationships with Birth Parents40:36 Advice for Aspiring Adoptive Parents43:28 Honest Conversations About Adoption52:21 Lessons from Open Adoption57:20 The Importance of Community Support59:45 Reflections on Motherhood and Self-CareTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the complexities of motherhood, particularly in the context of mental health and adoption. She emphasizes that struggling with mental health does not equate to being a bad parent and highlights the importance of seeking help. The conversation also touches on the mental health challenges faced by adopted children and the necessity for adoptive parents to be proactive in addressing these issues. Additionally, Rebecca introduces the Adoption Collective community, aimed at providing support and resources for adoptive parents, fostering a sense of belonging and shared experience.Important Links- Healing Begins in the Body: The Somatic Side of Adoption w/Julie Brumley- Accessing Early Intervention Support w/Maureen Dykinga- Join the Waitlist for 'The Adoption Collective Community'- RG Adoption ConsultingChapters00:00 Embracing Imperfection in Motherhood04:53 Understanding Mental Health in Adoption07:47 Introducing the Adoption Collective Community11:28 The Importance of Community Support in AdoptionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan is joined by Kelly Ellison, founder of Your Adoption Finance Coach, to demystify the financial side of adoption. Together, they break down the real costs of adoption and explore how to fund your journey using a powerful combination of cash, loans, grants, fundraising, and tax credits. Kelly shares strategies that have helped over 17,000 families raise more than $18 million, and explains why timing matters when applying for grants, what foundations are actually looking for, and how to avoid leaving money on the table.If you're wondering how you'll afford adoption—or when to start planning financially—this episode is your step-by-step guide.Mentioned in this episode:– Your Adoption Finance Coach– HelpUsAdopt.org– Gift of Adoption Fund– Lifesong for Orphans– ABBA Fund– A Child Waits Foundation– AdoptTogether– America's Christian Credit Union– My Egg Fund– Our Chosen Child– RG Adoption Consulting– Take the 'Am I Ready to Adopt?' QUIZChapters00:00 Understanding Adoption Finalization and Placement02:52 Introduction to Adoption Financing Challenges06:03 Breaking Down Adoption Financing: The Thirds Rule08:51 Exploring Cash Contributions and Family Support12:01 Navigating Loans for Adoption18:09 Understanding Grants and Financial Aid for Adoption33:20 Understanding Crowdfunding in Adoption39:19 Building a Successful Fundraising Campaign42:02 Navigating the Adoption Tax Credit46:38 Insights on Grant Applications and Funding55:07 Leveraging Social Media for Adoption FundraisingTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the unique and complex journey of adoption, highlighting common mistakes that hopeful adoptive parents often make. She emphasizes the importance of understanding individual circumstances, the pitfalls of relying on social media for information, and the need to explore various agency options beyond local choices. The conversation aims to provide clarity and support for those navigating the adoption process.Important LinksRG Adoption ConsultingTake the 'Am I Ready to Adopt?' QUIZChapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption Journey02:05 Common Mistakes in Adoption ProcessTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this powerful episode, adoptee, trauma coach, and therapist Julie Brumley joins Rebecca to explore how adoption trauma shows up in the body—and how somatic healing can help. Julie shares her personal journey from survival to self-discovery, the moment that changed everything, and how early trauma can shape physical and emotional responses. They dive into the seven phases of healing, nervous system regulation, and tools for holding space without trying to "fix." A must-listen for adoptive parents and adoptees alike.Important Links- Julie Brumley IG- Julie Brumley FB- Coming Home to Self – Julie's Coaching Platform- Processing Emotions Exercise- Saboteur assessment- Positive Intelligence by Shirzad Chamine (Amazon)- The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk (Amazon)- Brené Brown – Official Website- Sweet Peachtree Marketplace – Use code ROADMAP10 for 10% off- RG Adoption Consulting- Take the “Are You Ready to Adopt?” QuizChapters00:00 Understanding Adoption and Self-Worth02:52 Finding Worth Through Community Engagement05:49 Navigating Identity and Belonging08:51 The Impact of Open Communication in Adoption11:58 Rewriting the Narrative of Adoption15:07 The Role of Friends in Support18:02 Transforming Scars into Symbols of Hope20:59 The Journey of Self-Discovery24:12 The Importance of Sharing Stories26:57 Lessons for Adoptive Parents30:03 The Struggle with Self-Worth32:54 Finding Purpose and Passion37:29 Cultural Exposure in Adoption40:36 Understanding Identity and Culture43:42 The Complexity of Cultural Identity45:46 Finding a Voice as an Advocate49:10 Testifying for Adoption Support52:37 Creating a Supportive Community55:28 Designing a National Adoption Blueprint01:00:00 Writing for Change01:02:15 Emotional Challenges in Writing01:06:45 The Importance of Compassion and UnderstandingTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the current state of adoption, highlighting a decrease in families wanting to adopt despite the number of adoptions remaining stable. She shares insights from RG Adoption Consulting's quarterly meeting, emphasizing the company's core values and service pillars, including education, community, ethics, and collaboration. The conversation also touches on trends and challenges in the adoption landscape, including the impact of societal fears and economic uncertainty on prospective adoptive families. Finally, Rebecca celebrates the growth of the podcast and the importance of community engagement in supporting adoptive families.Important Links- Single Motherhood with Kerry Hackett- This Adoption Story Will Change How You View Birth Moms –with Katy Kinirons Mejia- The Adoption Home Study Process - Home Study: The First Step in the Process – With Amy Imber- The Shift in Adoption Practices – With Laurie Shelton- RG Adoption ConsultingChapters00:00 The Current State of Adoption07:09 Core Values and Service Pillars14:11 Trends and Challenges in Adoption21:50 Community Engagement and Podcast GrowthTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this powerful episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan sits down with 19-year-old adoptee, author, and advocate Wilson Munsterman to explore identity, self-worth, and healing through the lens of adoption. Wilson opens up about his adoption from China, the scar that shaped his early beliefs about himself, and the moment he chose to rewrite his internal narrative.Wilson shares how he went from struggling in silence to finding his voice—and using it to uplift others. Together, Rebecca and Wilson dive into the realities of transracial adoption, the unique identity challenges adoptees face, and what adoptive parents really need to know. This episode is packed with wisdom for adoptive parents raising teens, adoptees seeking healing, and anyone who's ever questioned their worth.Important Links- Wilson Munsterman on Instagram- Marked by Adoption: 10 Key Insights from an Adoptee's Perspective (Amazon)- Identity (founded by Isaac Etter)- Family Adoption Network Center- Shannon Bingham- Sweet Peachtree Marketplace (Use code ROADMAP10 for 10% off)- RG Adoption Consulting- Take the “Are You Ready to Adopt?” QuizChapters00:00 Understanding Adoption and Self-Worth02:52 Finding Worth Through Community Engagement05:49 Navigating Identity and Belonging08:51 The Impact of Open Communication in Adoption11:58 Rewriting the Narrative of Adoption15:07 The Role of Friends in Support18:02 Transforming Scars into Symbols of Hope20:59 The Journey of Self-Discovery24:12 The Importance of Sharing Stories26:57 Lessons for Adoptive Parents30:03 The Struggle with Self-Worth32:54 Finding Purpose and Passion37:29 Cultural Exposure in Adoption40:36 Understanding Identity and Culture43:42 The Complexity of Cultural Identity45:46 Finding a Voice as an Advocate49:10 Testifying for Adoption Support52:37 Creating a Supportive Community55:28 Designing a National Adoption Blueprint01:00:00 Writing for Change01:02:15 Emotional Challenges in Writing01:06:45 The Importance of Compassion and UnderstandingTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan shares her personal journey through adoption, highlighting the challenges and emotional experiences she faced. She discusses the importance of having an adoption consultant to guide hopeful parents through the complex process of adoption. Rebecca reflects on her own experiences with fertility treatments, the transition to adoption, and the support she received along the way. The episode emphasizes the need for community and guidance in the adoption journey, as well as the joy and fulfillment that comes with becoming a parent through adoption.Important Links- RG Adoption Consulting- Book A Free Call With Us TODAYChapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption Journey08:14 The Role of an Adoption Consultant12:05 Personal Adoption Experience and InsightsTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan and Dr. Sarah Silvestri discuss the complexities of health and medical concerns in adoption. They explore the definition of 'healthy' in the context of adopted children, the impact of prenatal substance exposure, the importance of prenatal care, and the challenges faced by adoptive parents. The conversation also covers the risks associated with STDs and gestational diabetes, as well as practical advice for selecting a pediatrician who understands the unique needs of adopted children.Important Links- ⁠Dr. Sara Silvestri⁠- ⁠American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP)⁠- ⁠RG Adoption Consulting⁠- ⁠Take the “Are You Ready to Adopt?” Quiz⁠Chapters00:00 Understanding Health in Adoption02:53 The Fear of the Unknown in Adoption06:09 Defining Healthy Babies in Adoption09:00 Trends in Maternal Health and Substance Use12:11 Navigating the Adoption Checklist14:53 The Importance of Prenatal Care17:53 Risks of Substance Exposure During Pregnancy21:02 Understanding Opioids and Their Risks23:48 The Impact of Alcohol on Pregnancy26:50 The Nuances of Marijuana Use During Pregnancy36:11 Understanding Hepatitis Risks in Pregnancy39:21 The Impact of Substance Use on Hepatitis Transmission42:25 Neonatal Abstinence Syndrome: Causes and Care46:48 The Long-Term Effects of Substance Exposure on Children53:11 STDs and Gestational Diabetes in Adoption Situations01:00:43 Navigating Medical Records for Adoptive Parents01:05:40 Choosing the Right Pediatrician for Adoptive FamiliesTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan shares real-time insights from her community on a topic many hopeful adoptive parents overlook: traveling home with your baby. From car seats and baby-wearing tips to what not to pack, Rebecca dives into what actually matters during this emotional and life-changing trip.She also touches on passport application quirks, gives a well-deserved shoutout to adoption social workers during Social Work Month, and reminds families that consulting is about more than just matching—it's about feeling supported every step of the way.Whether you're mid-process or preparing for placement, this episode is full of helpful gems and feel-good moments from the community.Important LinksDuna Car Seat & Stroller ComboLalabu Babywearing ShirtsRG Adoption ConsultingBook A Free Call With Us TODAYChapters00:00 Community Travel Tips for Adoption02:23 Rebecca's Affirmation & Honoring Your Body04:10 Listener Reviews & Podcast Love05:30 The Car Seat Debate: Use It on the Plane or Not?09:00 What to Actually Pack for Your Adoption Trip11:30 Passport Name Confusion: What Should You List?14:00 Why Good Social Workers Are EVERYTHING16:20 Final Thoughts & ShoutoutsTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan sits down with Jessie Mattos—a birth mother, passionate advocate, and director of birth mother programs at Abiding Love Charities. Known online as @ittakesatriad, Jessie brings raw honesty and powerful insight into what it truly means to support every member of the adoption triad.Jessie bravely shares her own adoption journey, the complex emotions that followed placement, and how her healing truly began years later—after discovering the power of community and education. She dives into the realities of informed consent, post-adoption grief, and why love is not enough when it comes to ethical adoption.Together, Rebecca and Jessie explore how hopeful adoptive parents can show up with intentionality, humility, and a willingness to listen—even when it's uncomfortable. They also unpack red flags to look for when choosing an adoption agency, the do's and don'ts of pre-placement communication, and how open adoption requires effort and honesty from both sides.This episode is a must-listen for anyone hoping to adopt—and who wants to do it ethically, compassionately, and with long-term success in mind.Important LinksAbiding Love CharitiesBraveLoveRG Adoption ConsultingFollow Jessie on Instagram: @ittakesatriadTake the “Are You Ready to Adopt?” Quiz⏰ Chapters00:00 Intro – Why Every Side of the Triad Matters02:17 Who Is a Birth Mother, Really?05:11 Informed Consent & Risks Every Mom Deserves to Know07:26 Healing Through Education & Community11:20 Post-Placement Regret: What Causes It16:44 Understanding Birth Mom “Responsibilities”21:06 Red Flags in Adoption Agencies27:50 Toxic Positivity & Manipulative Language35:30 Grief After Placement: What Hopeful Parents Need to Expect40:11 Birth Fathers, Silence, and Support43:00 Language in Profile Books: What NOT to Say48:35 Communicating Directly with Expectant Moms55:44 How Adoptive Parents Can Truly Support a Birth Mom01:03:27 Double Standards in Adoption01:06:41 What Jessie's Most Proud Of01:13:10 What Every Adoptive Parent Should KnowTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan shares her insights and experiences as an adoption consultant. She discusses the complexities of the adoption journey, including real-life scenarios that can arise, the emotional and financial aspects of adoption, and the importance of community support. Listeners are encouraged to engage with the content and seek guidance as they navigate their own adoption journeys.Important Links- Can You Really Afford to Adopt? The Truth About Grants- The Price of Parenthood: Why Adoption Costs So Damn Much- Adoption Without Financial Stress: Insider Tips to Make Your Dream Family a Reality with Kelly Ellison- Smart Money Moves for Adoption: Insights from Financial Expert, Matt Joyner- RG Adoption Consulting- Book A Free Call With Us TODAYChapters00:00 Navigating the Adoption Journey02:50 Real-Life Adoption Scenarios05:46 Understanding Adoption Costs and Expenses11:46 Final Thoughts and Community EngagementTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan sits down with an adoptee and adoptive mother who bravely shares her deeply personal journey navigating mental health within adoption. From uncovering her own biological family's history of schizophrenia to supporting her son's mental health challenges, she sheds light on the realities of genetics, environment, and early intervention.Together, they discuss why love alone isn't always enough, how genetic predispositions can manifest, and the crucial role of early mental health support. Rebecca and her guest explore practical resources like the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), early intervention programs, and neuropsychological testing, offering hopeful adoptive parents the knowledge they need to make informed decisions.Important LinksNational Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)Genomind GeneSight TestingEarly Intervention ProgramsRG Adoption ConsultingTake the “Are You Ready to Adopt?” Quiz⏰ Chapters00:00 Intro: Why Mental Health in Adoption Matters02:14 Growing Up with Parents with Mental Illness04:39 Parentification: When Kids Become Caregivers07:05 Discovering Her Birth Family's Schizophrenia Diagnosis11:18 Deciding Between Biological vs. Adopted Children16:07 Early Intervention: ADHD, Anxiety & Neuropsych Testing22:34 The Role of Genetic Predisposition in Mental Health30:01 Schizophrenia vs. Schizoaffective Disorder Explained37:00 Adolescent Marijuana Use & Mental Health Risks42:50 Balancing Parenting a Neurodiverse & Neurotypical Child49:17 How NAMI's Support Groups Help Families Thrive56:14 Advice for Hopeful Adoptive Parents Considering Mental Health DiagnosesTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday morning. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review!

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan sits down with Brian Murphy and Shaneetra Gross from the Gift of Adoption Fund to tackle one of the biggest questions hopeful adoptive parents ask: “Can we afford to adopt?”They walk us through how the nonprofit has awarded over $20 million in adoption grants since 1996—supporting over 640 families each year—and explain how these grants are making adoption more accessible for all.Together, they discuss who qualifies for financial assistance, what makes an application stand out, and how to navigate the adoption process without draining your savings or delaying your dreams. They also break down the myths surrounding adoption costs and share insider tips on what your grant application really needs to include.Whether you're adopting privately, internationally, or through foster care, this conversation is packed with practical advice and encouragement to help you move forward.Throughout the episode, Brian and Shaneetra's compassion, transparency, and decades of experience shine through, making it clear: money shouldn't be the reason a child goes without a home.

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan and Donna Pope delve into the complexities of adoption, particularly focusing on the unique landscape of adoption in Utah. They discuss the emotional journey of birth mothers, the ethical considerations in adoption practices, and the importance of providing support to both birth mothers and adoptive families. The conversation also touches on the marketing strategies used by adoption agencies, the regulatory framework governing adoption, and the innovative platform 'Our Hearts Connect' designed to foster long-term relationships between all parties involved in adoption. Throughout the discussion, the speakers emphasize the need for compassion, understanding, and ethical practices in the adoption process, highlighting that adoption is a journey filled with love, resilience, and growth.Important LinksHeart to Heart AdoptionsOur Hearts ConnectAdoption Resources (New Hampshire)Sweet Peachtree MarketplaceAct of Love AdoptionsRG Adoption Consulting⁠Chapters00:00 The Emotional Journey of Adoption01:41 Understanding Adoption in Utah03:34 Marketing and Birth Mother Support06:08 The Needs of Birth Mothers09:17 Post-Placement Support and Planning14:55 Regulations and Oversight in Adoption18:15 Financial Support vs. Coercion21:55 Our Hearts Connect: Building Relationships27:12 The Importance of Long-Term Relationships34:04 The Complexities of Adoption39:43 Navigating Criticism in AdoptionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan delves into the complex emotional landscape of adoption, discussing the rights of birth mothers, the challenges faced by hopeful adoptive parents, and the importance of community support. Through personal anecdotes and listener feedback, she highlights the heartache and beauty intertwined in the adoption journey, emphasizing the need for understanding and compassion in navigating these experiences.Important Links⁠Rachel Patten Episode⁠⁠RG Adoption Consulting⁠Chapters00:00 Understanding the Emotional Landscape of Adoption09:57 Navigating Adoption Challenges and Heartbreaks15:06 The Importance of Support in the Adoption JourneyTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan sits down with Donna Pope, Executive Director of Heart to Heart Adoptions, to tackle the controversy surrounding Utah's adoption laws and the ethics of adoption. With over 26 years of experience in adoption, Donna shares her perspective on birth mother rights, consent laws, and the scrutiny Utah agencies face.Together, they explore what truly makes an adoption ethical, the misconceptions about Utah's process, and the fine line between efficiency and exploitation. Donna also sheds light on the realities birth mothers navigate, the pressures they face, and how agencies can better support them without coercion.Important LinksHeart to Heart AdoptionsRG Adoption Consulting"Am I Ready to Adopt?" QUIZChapters00:00 Understanding Adoption in Utah03:14 The Grief Process of Birth Mothers06:11 Ethics in Adoption Practices09:07 Navigating Pressure in Adoption Decisions11:58 The Role of Agencies in Adoption15:03 Balancing Interests in Adoption17:59 Financial Pressures in Adoption20:47 The Societal Perspective on Adoption29:50 Navigating Adoption: The Role of Society and Agencies32:23 Understanding Utah's Adoption Laws and Father's Rights37:11 The Balance of Interests in Adoption40:07 Creating Safe Spaces for Birth Mothers43:17 Addressing Misunderstandings in Utah Adoption47:12 Marketing Tactics and Their Impact on Birth Mothers51:19 Supporting Birth Mothers: A Holistic Approach54:28 The Importance of Emotional Space in AdoptionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the profound themes of love, accountability, and community in the context of adoption. She reflects on personal experiences with loss and the importance of mourning, emphasizing that the journey of adoption is often intertwined with grief. Rebecca encourages listeners to dream big, take risks, and embrace the power of community, while also highlighting the need for accountability in how we treat others. The episode serves as a reminder to support one another in the adoption process and to foster unity within the adoption community.Important LinksRG Adoption Consulting'Am I Ready to Adopt?' QUIZChapters00:00 The Importance of Love and Accountability01:31 Introduction to Adoption Roadmap Podcast02:54 Personal Reflections on Loss and Mourning07:15 Navigating Grief in the Adoption Process10:40 Daring to Dream Big13:31 The Power of Community18:46 Accountability in Relationships25:27 Unity in the Adoption CommunityTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan and Rachel Patten discuss the multifaceted journey of adoption, emphasizing the importance of education, support, and empathy for both expectant mothers and adoptive families. They explore the role of adoption consultants, the characteristics of ideal clients, and the challenges faced by families during the adoption process. The conversation also touches on the complexities of navigating infertility alongside adoption and the impact of privilege within the adoption landscape. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of adoption, discussing themes such as privilege, the role of money, emotional reactions, the importance of education and community, personal experiences, navigating transracial adoption, parenting children with trauma, and the significance of open adoption. They emphasize the need for empathy, understanding, and continuous learning throughout the adoption journey.Important LinksTBRI "Trust Based Relational Intervention" Resources- Attachment & Trauma Network- National Institutes of Health- Creating a FamilySara Cole - Episode "Why Adoptive Parenting is Different"Heart to Heart AdoptionsSweet Peach Tree RG Adoption ConsultingChapters00:00 Understanding the Adoption Journey02:10 The Role of Adoption Consultants10:37 Navigating the Adoption Process17:04 Characteristics of Ideal Clients20:56 Challenges with Difficult Clients29:28 Balancing Infertility and Adoption35:27 Privilege in Adoption37:58 Understanding Privilege in Adoption43:02 The Role of Money in Adoption47:00 Navigating Emotions and Reactions51:08 The Importance of Education and Community51:53 Personal Experiences in Adoption57:57 Navigating Transracial Adoption01:03:02 Parenting Children with Trauma01:06:00 The Significance of Open AdoptionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

RG Adoption Consulting is here to hold your hand through every step of the domestic adoption process from home study to finalization, so you never feel confused, lost, or on your own. With our proven (pinky swear) 4-step Adoption Roadmap℠, my team's goal is to help you bring your baby home in less than one year, whether you're…single, gay, already have kids, or are over 40.Important LinksRG Adoption Consulting'Am I Ready to Adopt?' QUIZ The Adoption Roadmap (BOOK)Chapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption Roadmap Podcast00:59 Understanding the Adoption Process02:57 Creating Your Adoption Profile05:55 Applying to Agencies09:11 Vetting Situations and Preparing for Adoption10:00 Conclusion and Call to ActionTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan and Becky Fawcett, Founder of HelpUsAdopt and an Adoptive mom, dive into the complexities of adoption, tackling financial barriers, adoption myths, and systemic challenges. They debunk the "saving a child" narrative, highlight the need for open adoption, and discuss how HelpUsAdopt.org is making adoption more accessible. Becky shares her personal journey, the impact of adoption grants, and her advocacy through Faces of Adoption and 30 Seconds with Becky Fawcett. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the adoption process.Important LinksBecky Fawcett IGHelpUsAdopt.orgFaces of AdoptionSweet Peach TreeRG Adoption Consulting'Am I Ready to Adopt?' QuizChapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption and Financial Barriers03:11 Challenging the Narrative of 'Saving' Children05:57 The Real Cost of Adoption09:08 The Role of HelpUsAdopt.org12:11 Systemic Changes Needed in Adoption14:57 The Importance of Acknowledging Children's Stories18:10 Love is Not Enough in Adoption20:53 Evolving Adoption Practices24:07 Conclusion and Future of Adoption31:31 The Changing Landscape of Adoption34:01 The Financial Burden of Adoption37:34 The Role of Adoption Professionals42:08 Understanding Anti-Adoption Sentiments48:01 Navigating Open Adoption55:53 Empowering Families Through Financial Support01:02:11 The Journey to Motherhood01:06:16 Empowering Families Through Grants01:08:50 Faces of Adoption: Celebrating Stories01:14:46 30 Seconds with Becky Fawcett: A New Platform01:22:19 The Fawcett Report: Fashion Meets Advocacy01:30:48 Advice for Adoptive ParentsTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the intricacies of adoption consulting, reflecting on her personal journey and the importance of diverse family representation in adoption. She shares insights on the adoption process, the significance of strong profiles, and the differences between consultants and facilitators. Additionally, she provides statistics from 2024, highlighting trends and challenges in the adoption landscape, while emphasizing the supportive role of RG Adoption Consulting in helping families navigate their adoption journeys.Important Links- RG Adoption Consulting- 'Am I Ready to Adopt?' QUIZChapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption Consulting02:17 Valentine's Day and Family Day Reflection03:47 The Demand for Diverse Families in Adoption05:12 Understanding Feedback in Adoption Matches06:34 Enhancing Adoption Profiles for Better Matches09:57 Clarifying Roles: Consultant vs. Facilitator12:55 RG Adoption Consulting's Vision and Impact15:14 2024 Adoption Statistics and Trends23:35 Reflections on the Adoption Journey and Future OutlookTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan speaks with Cam Lee Small, a Korean American transracial adoptee and licensed clinical counselor. They discuss the complexities of adoption, including the importance of understanding parenting goals, the emotional journey of adoptees, and the significance of adoption literacy. Cam shares his personal experiences with reunion, identity, and belonging, emphasizing the need for empathy and support within the adoption community. Important Links:- Cam's Signature 12-Week Adoptive Parenting Consultation Group [next cohort begins Summer 2025] - Adoptee Consciousness Model - Mental Health Resources at Cam's Website - Instagram: @therapyredeemed- Cam Lee Small on LinkedIn- Cam Lee Small on Facebook- Cam's article in the Sage Family Journal // Adoption Literacy: A Practical Guide for Counselors. - BIPOC Adoptees - Sweet Peach Tree- RG Adoption ConsultingChapters00:00 Understanding Adoption: Goals and Strategies02:27 The Journey of an Adoptee: Personal Reflections06:01 The Letter to Future Adoptive Parents11:22 Reunion: The Complexities of Searching for Birth Family21:40 Belonging: Navigating Identity as an Adoptee29:12 Adoption Literacy: Empowering the Community37:17 Navigating Adoption Resources40:29 The Importance of Early Support44:24 Core Themes in Adoption48:58 Common Issues Faced by Adoptees55:14 Creating Safe Spaces for Adoptees01:00:44 Building a New Kind of Village01:02:34 Empowerment Through Understanding01:06:37 Final Thoughts and AdviceTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the complexities of adoption, including the challenges faced by families, the need for diverse families in the adoption process, and how to navigate family concerns about adoption. She emphasizes the importance of emotional resilience and support, particularly for those who have experienced fall-throughs in the adoption process. The episode encourages open communication and understanding within families and highlights the need for therapy and community support during the adoption journey.Important LinksRG Adoption ConsultingThe Adoption Roadmap (Book)Chapters00:00 Introduction to Adoption Conversations02:49 Navigating Adoption Challenges06:08 The Need for Diverse Families in Adoption08:48 Understanding the Adoption Process11:45 Emotional Resilience in Adoption15:00 Final Thoughts and Community EngagementTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan welcomes parenting coach Sara Cole to discuss the unique challenges and joys of adoptive parenting. Sara shares her personal journey as a mother to both biological and adopted children, emphasizing the importance of attachment in parenting. She reflects on her experiences with traditional parenting guides and how they often fail to address the complexities of adoption. The conversation delves into the significance of understanding attachment, especially in transracial adoption, and the need for adoptive parents to create supportive environments for their children. Sara also explains the stages of attachment and how they play a crucial role in fostering healthy relationships within families. Sara & Rebecca explore the complexities of parenting, particularly in the context of adoption. They discuss the importance of psychological intimacy, the concept of 'collecting' children to build connection, and the role of mindfulness in parenting. Sara emphasizes the need for parents to rediscover their confidence and understand their children's unique needs, especially in the face of grief and loss.Important Links⁠Sara Cole's Website⁠⁠Neufeld Institute⁠⁠Siegel's Mindsight Institute⁠⁠PACT, An Adoption Alliance⁠⁠Sweet Peach Tree⁠⁠RG Adoption Consulting⁠Chapters00:00 Celebrating Small Wins in Parenting01:53 Introduction to Adoption Roadmap Podcast03:16 Sarah Cole's Journey into Adoption Coaching05:08 Parenting Philosophy: Breaking the Cycle12:21 Understanding the Complexities of Adoptive Parenting14:04 The Impact of Attachment on Adoptive Children17:54 Navigating Transracial Adoption21:35 The Importance of Attachment in Parenting24:54 Stages of Attachment Development35:26 Transforming Parent-Child Relationships39:18 Mindfulness in Parenting43:39 Rediscovering Parental Confidence50:16 Navigating Grief and Loss in Adoption56:50 Practical Mindfulness Techniques01:02:05 Advice for Adoptive ParentsTune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses various aspects of adoption, particularly focusing on the complexities of adopting children from the foster care system. She shares insights on the adoption process, the importance of understanding the needs of adopted children, and the resources available for families. The conversation also highlights the significance of community support and the four-step adoption roadmap that guides prospective adoptive parents through their journey. Important Links BabyQuip Adoptive and foster parents: black kids haircare - FB Group Sweet Peach Tree Cam Lee Small - TEDxTalk Plus One Adoption The Adoption Roadmap Book RG Adoption Consulting "Am I Ready to Adopt?" QUIZ Chapters 00:00 Understanding Adoption in Foster Care 02:50 Navigating the Adoption Process 06:07 Caring for Adopted Children 08:49 The Adoption Roadmap Process 12:11 Community Engagement and Resources Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan engages in a heartfelt conversation with Katy Kinirons Mejia, a birth mother advocate who shares her profound journey of placing her twins for adoption after a traumatic experience. Katy discusses the stigma surrounding birth mothers, the complexities of adoption decisions, and the importance of community support for birth moms. She emphasizes the healing power of sharing stories and the need for open communication in adoption relationships. The episode also highlights the creation of Katy's initiative, 'Giving More Through Adoption,' which provides a sanctuary for birth mothers. Listeners are encouraged to consider the emotional aspects of adoption and the importance of building healthy relationships between birth families and adoptive parents. Important Links Katy Kinirons Mejia Giving More through Adoption Tied at the Heart Hudson Valley Adoption Services "The Third Choice" by Leslie Foge & Gail Mosconi Francine Apy Allison Olson RG Adoption Consulting "Am I Ready to Adopt?" QUIZ Chapters 00:00 Breaking the Stigma of Birth Mothers 05:52 Katie's Journey: From Trauma to Advocacy 11:00 The Complexity of Love and Loss in Adoption 22:00 The Importance of Sharing Stories 27:02 Navigating Open Adoption 39:01 Healing Through Community and Support 43:34 The Importance of Keeping Promises in Adoption 45:41 Sharing the Joys of Motherhood 46:10 Navigating Trauma and Counseling 49:12 The Healing Power of Sharing Stories 52:12 Identity and Transformation Through Adoption 55:29 Creating Support Networks for Birth Moms 57:22 The Evolution of Support Initiatives 01:01:42 Common Misconceptions About Birth Moms 01:10:27 Advice for Women Considering Adoption 01:12:09 Messages for Hopeful Adoptive Parents Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the emotional journey of adoption, emphasizing the importance of celebrating others' successes while navigating one's own path. She provides insights into working with adoption agencies, the significance of building relationships with birth parents, and updates on RG Adoption Consulting's services and community engagement. The conversation is filled with encouragement, practical advice, and a sense of community for those on the adoption journey. Important Links RG Adoption Consulting⁠⁠⁠  The Adoption Roadmap "Am I Ready to Adopt?" QUIZ Chapters 00:00 Celebrating Others on the Adoption Journey 06:02 Navigating Adoption Agencies and Situations 11:50 Building Relationships with Birth Parents 15:03 RG Adoption Consulting Updates and Community Engagement Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this heartfelt conversation, Helena Angela, a Canadian-Haitian adoptee and birth mother, shares her profound journey through adoption. She discusses the duality of joy and pain in her experience, the challenges of navigating her identity as a transracial adoptee, and the importance of community and support. Helena reflects on her closed adoption and how it shaped her desire to learn about her heritage, while also embracing the beauty of her open adoption with her son. The discussion highlights the emotional landscape of birth mothers, the significance of cultural identity, and offers valuable advice for adoptees, birth parents, and adoptive parents alike. Links Mentioned Helena Angela RG Adoption Consulting The Adoption Roadmap Am I Ready to Adopt? QUIZ Chapters 00:00 Balancing Joy and Pain in Adoption 03:07 Helena's Adoption Journey 06:11 Navigating Identity as a Transracial Adoptee 09:11 The Impact of Closed Adoption 11:49 Exploring Heritage and Roots 14:56 The Role of Family in Adoption 17:51 Embracing Emotions and Therapy 21:01 The Experience of Being a Birth Mother 39:16 Navigating the Adoption Decision 44:56 The Role of the Birth Father 49:12 Choosing the Right Family 54:10 Balancing Joy and Grief in Adoption 56:49 Facing Judgment and Regrets 01:01:38 The Impact of Open vs. Closed Adoption 01:04:02 Breaking Myths and Stigmas in Adoption 01:07:24 Advice for Adoptees, Birth Parents, and Adoptive Parents Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the essential aspects of choosing the right adoption agency, preparing for the arrival of a child, and navigating relationships with expectant mothers. She emphasizes the importance of personal connection with agencies, the emotional complexities of setting up a nursery before a child arrives, and the need for ongoing support post-adoption. The conversation highlights the shared experiences of the adoption community and the resources available through RG Adoption Consulting. Important Links Understanding Adoption Trauma, with Simon Benn RG Adoption Consulting⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠The Adoption Roadmap "Am I Ready to Adopt?" QUIZ Chapters 00:00 Choosing the Right Adoption Agency 06:54 Preparing for Adoption: Setting Up a Nursery 14:28 Navigating Relationships with Expectant Mothers 16:24 Post-Adoption Support and Community Building Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, host Rebecca Gruenspan speaks with Jeff Dunn, an adoptive father of four, about his family's journey through adoption. They discuss the unique bonds formed through adoption, the challenges faced during the process, and the importance of open conversations about race and identity. Jeff shares insights on navigating the adoption process, the role of consultants, and the significance of supporting children through their unique experiences. He also discusses his children's book, 'A Buffalo Out of Water,' which addresses themes of belonging and identity in adoption. The conversation emphasizes the love and resilience found in adoptive families and offers valuable advice for hopeful adoptive parents. Links Mentioned Jeff Dunn A Buffalo Out of Water Allison Olson Relative Race RG Adoption Consulting The Adoption Roadmap Am I Ready to Adopt? QUIZ Chapters 00:00 The Adoption Journey: A Unique Bond 01:50 Navigating the Decision to Adopt 04:07 Communicating Adoption to Children 11:34 Facing Uncertainty in Adoption 13:57 The Role of Consultants in Adoption 15:08 Understanding Openness in Adoption 17:09 The Importance of an Open Heart 19:31 Building Connections with Other Families 20:49 Family Dynamics: Embracing Differences 24:39 Navigating Race and Identity in Adoption 28:29 Preparing for Conversations about Race 30:22 Creating Space for Hard Conversations 31:18 Introduction to Adoption Readiness 32:08 Discussing Race and Adoption with Biological Children 34:28 Navigating Cultural Awareness in Transracial Adoption 36:55 Honoring Birth Culture in a Family 39:20 Lessons Learned in Parenting and Adoption 42:34 Understanding Treacher Collins Syndrome 44:24 Family Dynamics in Diverse Households 46:18 Creating a Children's Book on Adoption 50:33 Themes of Belonging and Identity in Adoption 54:59 Advice for Adoptive Families 57:36 Future Projects and Closing Thoughts Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses various aspects of the adoption journey, including community insights, navigating relationships with birth families, tips for flying with newborns, and the importance of setting boundaries. She also introduces a new post-adoption support community aimed at helping families navigate the complexities of adoption as their children grow. Important Links RG Adoption Consulting⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠The Adoption Roadmap "Am I Ready to Adopt?" QUIZ Chapters Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Adoption Roadmap Podcast 02:46 New Year, New Word: Adapt 06:00 Community Questions and Insights 11:49 Navigating Relationships with Birth Families 17:52 Flying with Newborns: Tips and Tricks 22:58 Setting Boundaries with Family 27:50 Post-Adoption Support and Community 30:05 Reflections and Closing Thoughts Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan engages in a profound conversation with Simon Ben, an adoptee and podcast host, about the complexities of trauma in adoption. They explore the definitions of trauma, the importance of understanding one's own emotional baggage as an adoptive parent, and the journey towards healing and thriving. Simon shares his personal experiences and insights from his podcast, Thriving Adoptees, emphasizing the need for open communication, nurturing environments, and the significance of being trauma-informed. The discussion highlights practical strategies for adoptive parents to support their children and themselves in navigating the challenges of adoption. Important Links Thriving Adoptees Simon Benn The Primal Wound by Nancy Newton Verrier The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk M.D. Unraveling Adoption Holly Ann Petree - Addy's Hope Adoption Agency Michael Neill Rupert Spira RG Adoption Consulting⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠The Adoption Roadmap Chapters 00:00 Understanding Trauma in Adoption 02:56 Navigating the Adoption Journey 05:34 The Impact of Parental Awareness 08:55 Defining Trauma and Its Effects 11:37 Coming Out of the Fog 14:52 The Role of Insights in Healing 17:46 Finding Happiness Within 20:38 The Essence Beyond Trauma 23:55 Being Trauma-Informed and Healing Obsessed 26:54 Practical Strategies for Adoptive Parents 29:56 Understanding the Layers of Trauma 32:54 The Spectrum of Primal Wounds 35:47 Creating a Nurturing Environment 39:13 Navigating Triggers in Adoption 45:45 The Importance of Open Communication 52:34 Creating a Supportive Environment for Children 55:29 The Birth of the Thriving Adoptees Podcast 01:01:37 Unpacking Emotional Baggage 01:06:07 Understanding Somatic Therapy 01:12:07 Tactical Advice for Adoptive Parents Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this week's bonus episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, we bring you a powerful compilation of profound insights and advice from Season 1's most impactful episodes. Featuring heartfelt reflections and practical guidance from our incredible guests, this episode is designed to inspire and support both hopeful and current adoptive parents on their journey. Important Links RG Adoption Consulting The Adoption Roadmap Guests & Episodes Mentioned: This Week In Adoption: “Relinquished” Beyond the Hair ~ Transforming Lives Through Cultural Connection and Transracial Adoption with Tamekia Swint A Crucial Step Most Families Who are Adopting Overlook, with Lucrece Bundy Adoption Without Financial Stress: Insider Tips to Make Your Dream Family a Reality with Kelly Ellison Open Adoption: The Importance of Authenticity, with Linda R Sexton This Week in Adoption: Understanding Fear in the Adoption Process The Adoption Home Study Process: Key Steps and Tips Single Motherhood: The Challenges and Advantages, with Kerry Hackett The Shift in Adoption Practices, with Laurie Shelton Home Study: The First Step in Adoption, with Amy Imber Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, we'd appreciate a follow and a 5-star rating & review! THANK YOU!For questions about adoption, episode suggestions, or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email:support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this week's bonus episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, we feature a powerful compilation of profound insights and advice from past guests, offering wisdom for both hopeful and current adoptive parents. Tune in to hear heartfelt reflections and practical guidance to inspire and support you on your adoption journey. Important Links RG Adoption Consulting⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠The Adoption Roadmap Guests & Episodes Mentioned: - This Week In Adoption: The Importance of Financial Planning - Lindsay Bruggeman - Laurie Shelton - Damon Davis - Kate Papkin - Tarcia Smith - Francine Apy - This Week in Adoption: Understanding Fear in The Adoption Process Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this Bonus episode of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses why she always poses guests with the question, "Can you describe adoption in 3 words?" She also gives her own take of the question! Tune in to hear how our Season 1 guests from all sides of the adoption community respond. Important Links RG Adoption Consulting⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠The Adoption Roadmap Guests Amy Imber Kerry Hackett Allison Olson Matt Joyner Kathryn Russell Kate Shanahan Whitney Michael Lucrece Bundy Maureen Dykinga Damon Davis Tamekia Swint Tarcia Smith Linda Sexton Diana C. Schimmel Francine Apy Natalie Bauman Ben Greenberg Dan Miller Kelly Ellison Kate Papkin Josie Mi Laurie Shelton Jennifer Kelly Lindsay Bruggeman Ramya Gruneisen Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In the Season 1 Finale of The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, Rebecca Gruenspan discusses the complexities of the adoption process, emphasizing the importance of education, emotional support, and the realities faced by hopeful adoptive parents. She shares insights on navigating agency roles, the emotional rollercoaster of adoption, and the significance of maintaining a positive mindset throughout the journey. The episode concludes with a call for feedback from listeners to improve future content and support for adoptive families. Important Links RG Adoption Consulting⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠The Adoption Roadmap Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Adoption Consulting 02:45 Navigating the Adoption Process 06:07 Realities of Adoption Situations 08:49 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Adoption 12:05 Understanding Agency Roles 14:56 Self-Matching vs. Agency Adoption 17:48 Mindset and Positivity in Adoption 23:52 Closing Thoughts and Future Directions Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap Podcast, host Rebecca Greenspan speaks with Ramya Gruneisen, an international transracial adoptee and advocate. They explore the complexities of adoption, focusing on mindful conversations, the dual experience of joy and grief, and the importance of education and support for adoptive parents. Ramya shares her journey from adoptee to advocate, underscoring the value of therapy and transracial adoption while urging parents to approach adoption with humility and openness to learning. Rebecca also reflects on her adoption journey, discussing identity challenges, family dynamics, and the need for transparent and responsible narratives in adoption. The conversation underscores the importance of community, support, and education for all involved in adoption. Important Links Ramya Gruneisen Website National Council For Adoption (NCFA) The Value of Adoptee Voices by Ramya Gruneisen (NCFA) Why Belonging Plays a Crucial Role in Transracial Adoption by Ramya Gruneisen (RGAC) Brené Brown RG Adoption Consulting⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠The Adoption Roadmap Chapters: 00:00 Mindful Adoption: Balancing Joy and Grief 01:52 Ramya's Journey: From Adoptee to Advocate 06:02 Navigating Adoption Conversations: The Importance of Language 09:48 Holding Space for Diverse Adoption Stories 14:03 Accountability in Adoption: Moving Beyond Shame 17:50 The Role of Therapy in Adoption Journeys 24:05 Transracial Adoption: Equipping Parents for Success 26:45 The Importance of Humility in Adoption 27:40 Navigating Adoption Stories and Transparency 29:10 The Challenge of Unknown Histories 33:14 Family Dynamics in Adoption 38:19 The Role of Community in Adoption 41:39 Triggers and Emotional Responses in Adoption 45:37 The Need for Responsible Adoption Narratives Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com

In this episode of the Adoption Roadmap podcast, Rebecca Greenspan discusses the complexities of the adoption journey, emphasizing the importance of a multi-agency approach, the challenges faced by prospective adoptive parents, and the role of fear in the process. She encourages listeners to maintain a positive mindset, seek community support, and engage in open conversations about their experiences and concerns regarding adoption. Important Links RG Adoption Consulting⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠The Adoption Roadmap Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Adoption Consulting 02:46 The Adoption Journey: Challenges and Realities 10:56 Navigating Fear in Adoption 17:42 The Importance of Community in Adoption 20:35 Final Thoughts and Listener Engagement Tune in to The Adoption Roadmap Podcast every Wednesday and Friday mornings. If you like what you hear, I'd appreciate a follow and 5-star rating & review!  THANK YOU! For questions about adoption, episode suggestions or to appear as a guest on The Adoption Roadmap Podcast, email ⁠⁠⁠⁠support@rgadoptionconsulting.com⁠⁠⁠